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Welcome To Ali Fowler's Personal Magazine. Ali is the Founder & Editor-In-Chief of SomethingGoodMagazines.Com and is inviting you to co-create a magazine with her. Ali works with purpose rich business owners, life changer coaches and bigger game entrepreneurs, with magazines packages to match. As a social entrepreneur herself, Ali has an extraordinary passion for helping people get their message and their something good out into the world. Visit SomethingGoodMagazines.Com/Join

Welcome To Ali Fowler's Personal Magazine.

Ali is the Founder & Editor-In-Chief of SomethingGoodMagazines.Com and is inviting you to co-create a magazine with her. Ali works with purpose rich business owners, life changer coaches and bigger game entrepreneurs, with magazines packages to match.

As a social entrepreneur herself, Ali has an extraordinary passion for helping people get their message and their something good out into the world.

Visit SomethingGoodMagazines.Com/Join

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DREAM-DRIVEN. CO-CREATOR. PROJECTEUR.<br />

IN SERVICE OF<br />

SOMETHING GOOD<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>s are in my heart, projects<br />

are in my DNA<br />

<strong>An</strong> <strong>Invitation</strong> to <strong>Magazine</strong> with me<br />

A look at life legacy<br />

10 pivotal realisations that helped me<br />

get my dreams off the back burner<br />

and into play<br />

Photo Credit: <strong>Ali</strong>se Black Studios<br />

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I believe legacy is life’s<br />

great joint venture (JV) -<br />

where Joy meets Value. Find<br />

out what brings you Joy and<br />

add Value by sharing it with<br />

the world.” - <strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong><br />

SomethingGood<strong>Magazine</strong>s.com


Photo Credit: <strong>Ali</strong>se Black Studios<br />

Welcome<br />

to my <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

It was never my intention to<br />

be in the public eye, but here<br />

I am with my own magazine<br />

and with me on the cover!<br />

Yikes!<br />

It’s time to unhide me,<br />

unhide my business.<br />

#unhideyoursomethinggood<br />

I produced my first magazine<br />

in 2016 as a solution for a client, fast forward to<br />

publicly publishing my first Something Good<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> in April 2019, receiving over 1.6 million<br />

views, I knew I was onto something good.<br />

My life’s work has been around leading, managing<br />

and supporting 100’s of projects in retail, education,<br />

sport, entertainment in 14 countries - I have<br />

projects in my DNA for sure.<br />

So I have combined my two great loves - magazines<br />

and projects and created Something Good, working<br />

with business owners, thought leaders, social<br />

entrepreneurs and coaches to get their dreams<br />

off the back burner and into play - by getting their<br />

something good out into the world.<br />

My clients have shared that making their magazine<br />

has been a catalyst for action, like no other project<br />

they could have taken on. I’d love to co-create your<br />

magazine with you.<br />

Please Share This <strong>Magazine</strong> <strong>With</strong> <strong>An</strong>y<br />

Coaches Or Business Owners That<br />

Might Be Interested. Thank You!<br />

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WHAT’S INSIDE<br />

P04<br />

P14<br />

P16<br />

P35<br />

ABOUT ME<br />

A Look At Life Legacy<br />

<strong>An</strong> <strong>Invitation</strong> to <strong>Magazine</strong> with me<br />

10 PIVOTAL REALISATIONS THAT HELPED ME<br />

GET MY DREAMS OFF THE BACK BURNER AND<br />

INTO PLAY<br />

WE CO-CREATE SHAREWORTHY MAGAZINES.<br />

Having your own business magazine (print, digital<br />

or both) is becoming a must-have business asset<br />

for any business owner, organisation, coach,<br />

speaker, eCommerce store or social entrepreneur<br />

with an impact to make in the world.<br />

When a 3 second read on social media, won’t make<br />

the cut - having your own magazine can step up<br />

and take the stage for you and tell your story in a<br />

way that engages, inspires, informs and ultimately<br />

attracts new audiences.<br />

IT’S YOUR BUSINESS. IT’S YOUR MAGAZINE.<br />

IT’S YOUR SOMETHING GOOD.<br />

We are a Business For Good and every time a<br />

magazine is completed, we make a gift on your<br />

behalf to a project we like, supporting the United<br />

Nations Sustainable Development Goals and<br />

B1G1 - a global giving movement. Check out -<br />

somethinggoodmagazines.com/ProjectsWeLike<br />

alifowler11<br />

ali@somethinggoodmagazines.com<br />

somethinggoodmagazines.com<br />

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I AM...<br />

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DREAM-DRIVEN<br />

Co-creator<br />

Projecteur<br />

Freedom Seeker<br />

Life Changer COACH<br />

Entrepreneur’s project manager<br />

Author<br />

Rose Gardener<br />

Good Friend<br />

Epic Listener<br />

Woman who is Not done yet<br />

Trailblazer<br />

Indie magazine publisher<br />

Sometimes planner<br />

Leader<br />

Explorer<br />

Friendly expert<br />

Elephant Ambassador<br />

3<br />

…Something Good


I AM MOST<br />

PASSIONATE ABOUT…<br />

WORKING WITH DREAM<br />

DRIVEN PEOPLE ON A<br />

MISSION TO CHANGE<br />

THE WORLD AND CO-<br />

CREATING PROJECTS<br />

THAT HELP MOVE<br />

HUMANITY FORWARD.<br />

MAGAZINES<br />

ARE IN MY HEART, PROJECTS ARE IN MY DNA.<br />

I<br />

would sum up my career so far as...I am one of<br />

those people who has the ‘multi-career thing’<br />

going on.<br />

I took advantage of lots of opportunities which led<br />

me to some amazing roles.<br />

about a 7 year period. I became known<br />

as “the woman having projects in her<br />

DNA.” I acquired formal qualifications<br />

from the Australian Institute of Project<br />

Management, Project Management<br />

Institute (PMI) and Deakin University.<br />

I started out teaching at physical education and health at<br />

Footscray Secondary College for a couple of years I then<br />

moved into a sports administration role with the Australian<br />

Institute of Sport where I assisted athletes transitioning<br />

out of their competitive sporting life into their next<br />

careers.<br />

Fast forward through sport and event roles - Formula One,<br />

Motor Racing, Commonwealth Games Bids, Executive<br />

Producer of Walt Disney Special Events Group for<br />

Asia-Pacific, to name a few.<br />

Wanting to expand my skills and experience, I made a<br />

pivot into retail and business. Business Improvement<br />

Manager for Bunnings (Home Improvement) afforded me<br />

the opportunity to see over 18,000 improvement ideas over<br />

Then after a cosmic re-arrangement<br />

of career goals, I made the decision<br />

to head into the wild as a solopreneur<br />

and build a coaching and project<br />

consulting business. Creating<br />

magazines for my clients as business<br />

assets to help them get their message<br />

out into the world flowed easily from<br />

my new energy. <strong>With</strong> excitement, I<br />

jumped and became an indie magazine<br />

publisher under my brand, Something<br />

Good <strong>Magazine</strong>s. This has become a<br />

true life passion.<br />

Who says you can’t have more than<br />

one career?<br />

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Know your next steps<br />

I know how important it is to know your<br />

next few steps - here’s mine…<br />

was<br />

now<br />

Teacher, Sport Manager,<br />

Live Event Producer,<br />

Business Improvement<br />

Manager.<br />

Lead, managed,<br />

supported and delivered<br />

100s of projects in<br />

<strong>Me</strong>lbourne, Sydney,<br />

Brisbane, New Zealand,<br />

China, Japan, Singapore,<br />

Hong Kong, South Korea,<br />

US and India.<br />

soon<br />

Author & Founder:<br />

Business Project<br />

Consultant, Coach,<br />

<strong>Me</strong>ntor and Trainer for<br />

coaches, small business<br />

owners and non-profits<br />

to improve their business<br />

through faster and better<br />

project delivery, so they<br />

can grow their impact in<br />

their world.<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> Publisher<br />

Something Good<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>s<br />

later<br />

Woman on a mission to<br />

do something big and<br />

audacious and bring<br />

creative people/teams<br />

together globally on<br />

epic projects to take<br />

on projects that move<br />

humanity forward.<br />

SIGNS YOU ARE<br />

READY TO CHASE<br />

YOUR DREAMS<br />

1 COURAGE<br />

You show up to START<br />

2 CLARITY<br />

It’s out of your HEAD<br />

3 CERTAINTY<br />

You intend to FIND A WAY<br />

4 FOCUS<br />

You own your TIME<br />

5 PURPOSE<br />

You know your WHY<br />

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1. What Do I Dream Of?<br />

sitting on my beachfront property, with a glass of<br />

Prosecco in hand, surrounded by great friends and<br />

everyone’s phones are turned off.<br />

2. The ‘Rule’ Most Recently<br />

I Have Broken Is...<br />

thinking that getting older means slowing down.<br />

I’m a bit of a late bloomer. The best is yet to come<br />

for me. I’m just getting started.<br />

3. The Biggest Life Lesson I<br />

Have Learned So Far Is…<br />

to not ignore the whispers inside my head about<br />

my life’s direction. They don’t go away, they just<br />

get louder until you pay attention to them<br />

7. My ‘Why’ is…<br />

I believe the world I live in is up to me, so anything I<br />

can do to help move humanity forward, I’m up for that.<br />

8. When I Am Not Working,<br />

I Am…<br />

writing books, because I find it a challenge and I’d<br />

like to get better at it.<br />

9. My Legacy Will Hopefully<br />

Be...<br />

that I helped others get their dreams off the back<br />

burner and into play.<br />

10. My Something Good Is...<br />

being dream driven and believing anything in life is<br />

possible - so daydream like nobody is watching!.<br />

4. How I Find Myself In This<br />

Place Right Now Is Because I…<br />

have taken a leap into living a purposeful life. I<br />

can’t say its been easy or convenient, but it has<br />

become not negotiable for me.<br />

5. My Leadership Style Is <strong>To</strong>…<br />

inspire the solution and then get out of the way.<br />

6. This Chapter Of My Life Is<br />

All About...<br />

creating my life legacy. I know I am here to help<br />

people make their projects simple and do-able so<br />

they can go and play their bigger game.<br />

unlimitedbeautifulquestions.com<br />

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Why I Want <strong>To</strong><br />

Create <strong>Magazine</strong>s<br />

For People<br />

It’s pretty simple really. It makes me happy. It<br />

makes them happy!<br />

I love the co-creating on a magazine<br />

I love the collaboration.<br />

I love I get to use my strengths of thought<br />

organising and simplifying<br />

I love that I can materially help a business move<br />

forward by presenting their work, products,<br />

services and most importantly their story in<br />

such a unique way.<br />

I love the way a personal magazine makes a<br />

great introduction - it’s the ultimate business<br />

card.<br />

I love the process and I love the outcome.<br />

Often times in a coaching situation it’s hard to<br />

pinpoint to an outcome, but here, after all the<br />

writing, cajoling, cheerleading and pushing (yes<br />

sometimes), then we end up with something<br />

physical, a digital and print magazine - you can<br />

hold in your hand, post it online, go lumpy mail<br />

or simply hand it to them.<br />

I love the shareworthiness of a magazine<br />

I love the creativity.<br />

I love my design team<br />

I love the deep dive into who a person really is.<br />

I love the’ aha’ moments as people see<br />

themselves in print and realise they really are<br />

something good.<br />

I love the random thoughts of a business owner<br />

with a vision.<br />

I love the slow natural unfolding of ideas<br />

I love the bragging - more of it I say!<br />

I love the shifts that happen<br />

I love the smile when people see their life’s<br />

work or life purpose designed so beautifully on<br />

the page in front of them.<br />

I love the comments, the challenges and the<br />

feedback<br />

I love the uncomfortableness that comes with<br />

making it all about you.<br />

I love seeing where the line is with people<br />

- making a video talking about themselves,<br />

handing over photos (reluctantly) or putting a<br />

$ value of the services they are offering - that<br />

is so interesting to watch. I love the hesitation<br />

and then that moment, they decide to step into<br />

their own greatness and tell us all like it is!<br />

I love the impact a humble magazine can make.<br />

I love it when we hit ‘Publish!’<br />

I love every day I get to do this and I am truly<br />

grateful<br />

When I can help others get their life and<br />

business dreams off the back burner and<br />

into play, all the while, living my own dream<br />

of building a profit-with-purpose business<br />

that helps 100s of people build and live their<br />

legacies and change lives - I love that.<br />

7


WORK WORTH<br />

DOING<br />

I have had a crazy career of different<br />

moments that have got me to where I am<br />

today for which I am truly grateful.<br />

“Your Services Are No<br />

Longer Needed” Was My<br />

Liberation Twice!<br />

There are questions we don’t ask<br />

ourselves that can doom our dreams,<br />

sabotage our best intentions and<br />

leave us drifting in failure and<br />

purposelessness. <strong>Ali</strong>son <strong>Fowler</strong> has<br />

asked herself some tough questions.<br />

In the process, she has come up with<br />

a way to inspire and help individuals<br />

and organizations cut through some of<br />

their self-limiting attitudes and make<br />

remarkable things happen.<br />

Originally published in GIFT Global MMW <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

August 2018. Editor - Joel Brokaw. giftglobal.org<br />

Three times a day, an alarm goes off on my<br />

smartphone. Along with the buzzer, a three-word<br />

reminder appears on the screen: “Work Worth<br />

Doing”<br />

It is based on a Franklin Delano Roosevelt quote —<br />

“Far and away, the best prize that life offers is the<br />

chance to work hard at work worth doing.”<br />

This alarm is a very small and pragmatic but<br />

ultimately powerful mindfulness practice for me.<br />

It is a moment I can check in and ask if what I’m<br />

doing right now, in that minute, is truly “work<br />

worth doing.” <strong>An</strong>d to be honest, I often catch myself<br />

saying, “Well, maybe not, and maybe I should stop<br />

doing this particular thing?” Or perhaps I had<br />

become distracted worrying about something that<br />

may never happen. I realize I am not being present,<br />

and this comforting message brings me back to<br />

that space of being present. It is also a simple but<br />

instrumental doorway to cultivating a sense of<br />

fulfillment and happiness—making sure my head<br />

and my heart are aligned in the same place and<br />

with a heightened sense of focus and purpose.<br />

8


From the beginning, I set out with high<br />

intentions. I was first a teacher, and for the<br />

first couple of years, I really enjoyed it.<br />

But at that time in Australia, we had a lot<br />

of displaced families arriving by boats from<br />

Vietnam with very little English. As young<br />

inexperienced teachers, we were all very<br />

unprepared for supporting these new<br />

Australians. It was an incredibly challenging<br />

time, more crowd control and soccer<br />

games than advancing any meaningful<br />

education.<br />

First off, I am an achiever. I like to make things<br />

happen. I am somebody who has from a very<br />

early age needed a challenge. My grandmother<br />

told my mother back then that as long as I’ve got<br />

a challenge in front of me, I will be fine. “Make<br />

sure she keeps finding that,” she would say as she<br />

feverishly knitted our family mohair jumpers for<br />

our birthdays.<br />

So I have spent most of my time enjoying doing<br />

really diverse things, following many different<br />

paths in my life and career. It has been a good<br />

thing, even when the pill of human experience<br />

tasted bitter when first swallowed.<br />

Funnily enough, I have gone full circle<br />

decades later, finding myself back in<br />

education working on a global project<br />

which incorporates mindfulness<br />

technologies into classrooms to develop<br />

more focused students and teachers and<br />

more productive learning environments.<br />

Next up was a stint as a career advisor for<br />

the Australian Institute of Sport, helping<br />

athletes who didn’t get selected for the<br />

Olympic team to chart out what they would<br />

be doing afterward. I don’t know if you can<br />

plan life, but it kind of opened my eyes to<br />

the reality.<br />

“Here’s somebody who has<br />

reached the peak of what<br />

they wanted to achieve<br />

and now what?”<br />

9


It is a real issue that almost all of us have to<br />

face some time or another: what to do when<br />

something you love doing is taken away from<br />

you. Little did I know that it would soon be a big<br />

issue for me as well.<br />

Headhunted for my next challenge, I became an<br />

executive producer for live events for the Walt<br />

Disney Company Asia-Pacific overseeing events<br />

in many countries. I learned so much about the<br />

power of storytelling and all the creative genius<br />

that Disney is renowned for. I got to the top of<br />

my field and was thoroughly enjoying my time<br />

when I came back from a three-city show tour<br />

in India only to be told that my job no longer<br />

existed, along with some of my amazing team. It<br />

was a shock, to say the least.<br />

I remember feeling humiliated and embarrassed.<br />

“What are people saying? What will people think<br />

“<br />

Heads<br />

-IT’S LIBERATING.<br />

TAILS<br />

-IT’S DEVASTATING.”<br />

of me? Now, I’m an epic failure. No one will employ<br />

me!” All these feelings came up because my identity<br />

was all wrapped up in this job title. I soon came<br />

to the realization that my reaction boiled down<br />

to a coin toss — ‘heads’ it’s liberating or ‘tails’ it’s<br />

devastating!<br />

In that moment I had to choose that it was going<br />

to be liberating to move on. I realized I needed<br />

another challenge. I regrouped myself and came<br />

into the world of business, working myself up to a<br />

senior management level at a multi-billion dollar<br />

company in Australia. I loved my job so much and<br />

was doing well. It was a great challenge, great<br />

people, and a great culture— a perfect place to be in<br />

my early 40s. Then something started to shift.<br />

I had this whisper inside of me saying, “This is<br />

great but this isn’t it. Even though you’ve had<br />

great success, you’re not done yet.”<br />

I embarked on a search on what I was supposed<br />

to be doing but I spent two years getting very<br />

confused and stuck and as a result, started to<br />

resent my job. It didn’t help that I was not willing to<br />

make a leap to leave the job without having the next<br />

10


“I took a<br />

ap year<br />

at 50”<br />

challenge all set up. It was three months before<br />

my 50th birthday, and I remember sitting in my<br />

lounge at home thinking,<br />

I decided I would write my resignation letter<br />

and leave this big, well sought after job and walk<br />

away without a plan. I went to work the next<br />

day pulsing with adrenalin and nervously walked<br />

into my manager’s office. Before I could get my<br />

resignation letter out, she turned around and<br />

said to me,<br />

“I’ve got some really bad news for you. Your job<br />

no longer exists, but we are going to take care<br />

of you – here’s your payout.”<br />

Sometimes, we have to learn the lesson twice.<br />

This second time was the happiest moment of<br />

my life. Twenty-four hours prior, I felt fear about<br />

what I was supposed to do and how I was going<br />

to fund my dream—and the only thing I decided<br />

to do was to trust and show up! Needless to say,<br />

I’m very grateful for both of those moments of<br />

being told I was no longer required. They were<br />

quite profound.<br />

I decided to take a gap year at 50, setting the<br />

intention to explore and discover truly what I<br />

was supposed to be doing for the next 20 years.<br />

I made a promise to myself that I would not<br />

make any decisions during the 12 months and it<br />

turned out to be the most freeing 12 months I<br />

had ever had. Nothing was off limits. I traveled<br />

a lot, dived into learning, attended some pretty<br />

cool entrepreneurial experiences in Costa Rica<br />

with Mindvalley, read books and talked to many<br />

people.<br />

“I know there is something bigger for me. I’ve been<br />

waiting for conditions to be right, for money to appear<br />

in my bank account to fund my dreams, waiting for all<br />

of that to show up before I made the leap. But the thing<br />

that is missing is I’m not showing up. I wasn’t owning it.”<br />

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I Found Myself Having<br />

“Purpose Envy”<br />

Photo Source: unsplash.com/@peter_forster<br />

About 9 months in, I sought out old friends and<br />

colleagues to interview, asking them to tell me<br />

what they thought I was good at. What they<br />

played back to me, to be honest, was not at first<br />

what I wanted to hear.<br />

“You’re the project chick, the girl that has<br />

projects in her DNA”<br />

I didn’t want that to be my superpower because<br />

it didn’t sound very sexy. I found myself having a<br />

bit of ‘purpose envy.’<br />

I had been hanging out with people who were<br />

building orphanages in Africa, campaigning for<br />

a change in elephant tourism, building schools,<br />

writing books, etc. These things sounded more<br />

exciting and purposeful than my humble talents.<br />

But then the light bulb went on.<br />

I ended up deciding in one day—if that is my<br />

purpose, if that is what I am on the planet to<br />

do, then let’s go make that happen. My mission<br />

became to make people’s projects simple and<br />

doable so they can play their bigger game and<br />

make an impact. I realized I knew that project<br />

planning and delivery was no longer a specialist<br />

domain of people wearing zippered cardigans<br />

and beards. We’ve all got projects going on,<br />

whether they are personal, business, service,<br />

community or even legacy-building.<br />

But why is it that some people either can start<br />

things and then not finish them or can’t<br />

get started in the first place? They have<br />

ideas in their heads and see other people<br />

execute their ideas, but they just can’t get<br />

off the couch. Why do they get stuck?<br />

I found that the big motivators are the<br />

human needs of More, Better and Easier.<br />

How can I do more with what I’ve got in a<br />

shorter amount of time? How can I get a<br />

better result? <strong>An</strong>d how can I do it easier?<br />

My work soon evolved to helping combat<br />

these three things. First and foremost,<br />

it was about helping people create a<br />

compelling reason and then a structure.<br />

This applies both for those who want<br />

to wing it and figure it out as they go (a<br />

legitimate project strategy), as well as<br />

those who want a concrete step-by-step<br />

process.<br />

I’ve watched people change the way they<br />

approach life when they look at things<br />

through the lens of a project. If we make<br />

something a project, it gives it focus for<br />

a defined time. Projects have a start, a<br />

finish and a reason to live. Projects don’t<br />

go forever. That’s the anti-overwhelm<br />

strategy and the good news. If the project<br />

is going to the gym and getting in shape,<br />

then all of a sudden their attendance goes<br />

up because they are focused.<br />

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Side projects are seeds for bigger ideas. They are the<br />

things that keep the juices flowing, fueling spontaneity<br />

and creativity.<br />

Not everyone feels they can give up their day job and<br />

live a life of purpose straight up or maybe ever. There<br />

are bills and commitments to figure out first. So I<br />

suggest,<br />

<strong>An</strong>d there’s more than one speed on any<br />

project – sometimes we need to be more<br />

patient with ourselves.<br />

Thich Nhat Hanh,<br />

Zen Master, Buddhist Monk & Author of<br />

“The Art of Living” famously quoted<br />

“don’t JUST<br />

do something<br />

– sit there.”<br />

We need to give ourselves the freedom<br />

to sit, ponder and do nothing, to let our<br />

ideas incubate. We can get more clear,<br />

centered and mindful about the choices<br />

we’re making, and where we need to put<br />

our attention.<br />

In fact, I encourage people to have a<br />

mindfulness project in their lives and<br />

businesses, one that encourages the<br />

practice of being present and tap into that<br />

part of us that recognises we are more than<br />

our current environment.<br />

That, in turn, helps us to become better<br />

connected to something bigger than<br />

ourselves. Sometimes it shows up as a side<br />

project – a passion or an interest.<br />

“Start something on the side and see<br />

where it takes you.”<br />

I often find it way more interesting to find out about<br />

what someone is ‘doing on the side,’ rather than often<br />

their full-time gig.<br />

We can learn a lot about humans when they are not<br />

under pressure to perform according to a job title, but<br />

rather are free to be a true expression of themselves.<br />

If finding your purpose arrives later in life, like it did<br />

for me, then it’s never too late to dust off those dreams<br />

and get them off the back burner and into play.<br />

“There are no rules about<br />

how many chapters we can<br />

have in our life and the<br />

wonderful ways to serve.<br />

Always give yourself a<br />

second chance at living<br />

the life you desire. Your<br />

purpose plus the right<br />

project can change lives.”<br />

<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong> felt very privileged to be serving GIFT by<br />

running the engine room for this global campaign from her<br />

home in <strong>Me</strong>lbourne, Australia.<br />

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FEATURED STORY<br />

Photo Source: unsplash.com/@wegenerb<br />

A Look At Life<br />

Legacy<br />

Have you ever had<br />

that experience<br />

at a funeral where<br />

a friend of the<br />

deceased gets up<br />

to talk about their<br />

most loved memories of their friend<br />

and that person’s family is surprised<br />

to hear all about the impact their<br />

loved one has had on others and<br />

they were completely unaware?<br />

We don’t often talk<br />

or reflect on what<br />

our life’s legacy<br />

might be until we<br />

are sitting a funeral.<br />

For most of us, our thoughts about legacy<br />

have not been something we have been<br />

consciously talking about in school, even<br />

growing up or in our workplaces. But it’s<br />

something we might ponder when we are<br />

in a quiet space or on holidays or at rest,<br />

when the day to day is far away and we<br />

forget about our current reality and think<br />

about what we thought our lives would be,<br />

the dreams we have had and things that are<br />

really important to us.<br />

We might be jolted to think about it if we<br />

experience a sudden life event of illness,<br />

the death of a loved one or something that<br />

all of sudden brings unexpected change<br />

into our lives.<br />

<strong>An</strong>d whilst some of us are have not yet<br />

engaged with the concept of legacy or perhaps<br />

don’t feel like it’s important to us right now,<br />

perhaps we’ll think about when we are older,<br />

In January 2016, I had the pleasure of meeting a<br />

fellow coach Dr. Ray Charles, CEO Leading From<br />

<strong>With</strong>in and author of ‘What’s In Your S.H.O.E?’ and<br />

we instantly connected on the subject on ‘what is<br />

your legacy?’ On a regular basis, we continued to<br />

deep dive and foster our curiosity on what it means<br />

to<br />

‘live your legacy, rather<br />

than just leave one’.<br />

We felt like we have just scratched the surface and I<br />

honor Ray and our conversations and enjoyed them<br />

immensely.<br />

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Thought Starters<br />

Here are some thoughts and opinions about what it might<br />

mean for something you are about to or have done already,<br />

to become part of your life’s legacy - you can substitute the<br />

word ‘legacy’ for a term that connects with you, where it be<br />

life assignment, passion, purpose, calling, contribution or<br />

soul’s divine assignment etc.<br />

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2<br />

Your legacy could be about how you paid it<br />

forward or in fact, gave it back with gratitude<br />

on all that you had received in your lifetime<br />

Your legacy could be about creating<br />

something of wealth and leaving a financial<br />

inheritance for future generations, along<br />

with the wisdom that you have over your<br />

lifetime.<br />

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10<br />

11<br />

Your legacy could be your total life’s<br />

work or it may be just one thing you<br />

did in your lifetime.<br />

Your legacy could be having been<br />

a good parent and raising healthy<br />

and happy children in a loving<br />

environment.<br />

Your legacy has nothing to with your<br />

age, wealth, experience or scale.<br />

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4<br />

5<br />

Your legacy could be about doing something<br />

in this lifetime, that will make it easier<br />

for future generations, solving an issue,<br />

campaigning for a cause.<br />

Your legacy could be about living responsibly<br />

and doing your bit to look after our planet<br />

and leave your corner in good shape.<br />

Your legacy could be to inspire others,<br />

people you may never get to meet face to<br />

face, but putting your mark out into the<br />

world, whether that be by music, art, words,<br />

speech, video and sharing what you know.<br />

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14<br />

Your legacy could be played as a<br />

comparison game with others, or it<br />

could be your own inner journeys<br />

to find your unique path and<br />

contribution.<br />

A legacy project can be local or global,<br />

personal or business.<br />

Your legacy could start at a young age<br />

or kick in later in life. It will never be<br />

too late to start living a life of purpose<br />

and contribution.<br />

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7<br />

8<br />

Your legacy could be living the most<br />

authentic life that you can and being a role<br />

model for those around you.<br />

Your legacy could be celebrating your<br />

uniqueness and your diversity and being<br />

a pillar of acceptance and tolerance of<br />

everyone.<br />

Your legacy could be about giving a voice to<br />

your DNA - only you can be you. <strong>An</strong>other to<br />

consider it may be as your ‘soul’s purpose’.<br />

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Your legacy could be individual<br />

or it may be part of collective -<br />

communities, projects and businesses<br />

create legacies too.<br />

So What Will Your<br />

Legacy Be?<br />

As seen on <strong>Me</strong>dium @alifowler<br />

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<strong>To</strong> read more on Tina<br />

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11 August 2016<br />

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I work with...<br />

Purpose-rich business<br />

owners & THOUGHT LEADERS<br />

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Woman Who Aren’t Done Yet<br />

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from ‘here to there’ in a way that’s right for you<br />

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MAGAZINES ARE<br />

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<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong><br />

SomethingGood<strong>Magazine</strong>s.Com<br />

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CLIENT<br />

EXPERIENCE<br />

We have been working on climate change<br />

solutions for nearly two decades and have a<br />

big story to share and inspire the world. We<br />

needed a trusted, supremely professional<br />

and awe-inspiring individual who “got it” and<br />

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It was daunting; she made it do-able. It was<br />

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so easy and the result?<br />

Couldn’t be happier.<br />

She is a saint. The whole process is wrapped<br />

up in the arms of someone you just KNOW is<br />

going to nail it, and she did not disappoint!<br />

We love the magazine. Our clients love it<br />

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are being inspired to make changes to their<br />

homes and become part of the solution, not<br />

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Ash Manuel<br />

FOUNDER & CEO, Growing <strong>With</strong><br />

Gratitude Program - Adelaide, AU<br />

growingwithgratitude.com<br />

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ecoMasterStore.com.au<br />

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“It was great working with Something Good<br />

on the Be Intent magazine. We needed a<br />

digital one and we needed a hard copy<br />

one and as you can see, it looks great.<br />

What we were trying to solve is that we have<br />

a business that does a whole lot of different<br />

things and it was really hard to explain it<br />

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more than a brochure - it needed to be a<br />

conversation about what we doing and <strong>Ali</strong><br />

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work with.<br />

It was an amazing price and it just looks so<br />

much better than we anticipated. One of the<br />

things that we didn’t expect from it, because<br />

we are a software company - it really helped<br />

people understand that we are a tangible<br />

business and it added real credibility to what<br />

we were doing.<br />

Despite there was nothing in the magazine<br />

that we don’t already say, but it just changed<br />

it and the staff and the team and everybody<br />

has really enjoyed it.<br />

So I think it’s one of the best value things<br />

we’ve ever done in the business in terms of<br />

promotion and we will be doing one quarterly<br />

and with all our other businesses as well.”<br />

“It was such an incredible experience to work<br />

with <strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong>, putting together the Love Is<br />

The True Black story for her Something Good<br />

magazine. <strong>Ali</strong> truly is a visionary and she has<br />

an incredible eye for putting content together<br />

in a really really engaging way.<br />

The magazine that we created as part of<br />

her Something Good project has really<br />

effortlessly become such a tremendous<br />

business asset to me.<br />

There’s something truly engaging I think<br />

about having this content in a magazine<br />

format that seems to speak to people in a way<br />

that a static web page doesn’t and the level<br />

of engagement that has happened with this<br />

content which I’m really passionate about<br />

and the number of enquiries I’ve had since<br />

publishing the magazine has really been<br />

surprising and wonderful.<br />

If you are thinking about working with <strong>Ali</strong>,<br />

absolutely don’t hesitate because she is a joy<br />

and a light to work with and I’m so excited<br />

to see what happens as she moves forward<br />

with Something Good and all of the other<br />

incredible magazines that she has been<br />

creating. Thank you <strong>Ali</strong>.”<br />

Natalie Alexia<br />

Suzanne Hall<br />

Founder - Be Intent<br />

beintent.com<br />

Creator - Love Is The True Black<br />

nataliealexia.com<br />

**At the time of publication, this issue of SG magazine had had over<br />

1.6 million views on Yumpu and counting.<br />

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SECRETS HOW A MAGAZINE CAN<br />

HELP YOUR BUSINESS<br />

1. Ability to embed video & promote your<br />

Youtube channel<br />

2. Customers hear your message in your own<br />

voice (audio) and you can or showcase<br />

podcasts or interviews you’ve done<br />

3. Teach/educate on your content right from the<br />

page - a simple alternative to online courses<br />

4. Unlock special content/pricing via Opt-ins<br />

15. Add to your email signature to reach more<br />

people<br />

16. Add to your content planner for seasonal,<br />

quarterly, launches and special events<br />

17. Appear anywhere in the path to purchase<br />

- pre or post-purchase - wherever your<br />

customer needs your information<br />

18. Cross-promote your blog<br />

5. Showcase your live speeches/performances to<br />

get more gigs<br />

6. Easily shareable on all socials<br />

7. Monetise via subscriptions, membership or<br />

advertising<br />

8. Leverage a print / digital format combo for<br />

“back of the room” sites, giveaways and eye<br />

catching lead magnets<br />

9. Links to anywhere you want<br />

10. Sell off the page / scan codes / direct links to<br />

your eCommerce store<br />

11. <strong>An</strong>swer your customer’s most common<br />

questions in an engaging format - create a<br />

learning centre<br />

12. Publish local or global - wherever your<br />

audience is<br />

13. Unlimited page formats for your bespoke<br />

content<br />

14. Ideal for how to guides, business updates,<br />

customer deals and coaching programs<br />

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19. Combine branded native content plus curated<br />

content from industry sources to build trusted<br />

advisor / expert status - all in one great read<br />

20. Inspire your customers with powerful imagery<br />

21. Share your own business story in an<br />

engaging way<br />

22. Present your work portfolio and credentials in<br />

a professional format<br />

23. Prominent Call <strong>To</strong> Actions (CTAs) to get<br />

conversions<br />

24. Bragging rights by telling people you have<br />

your own magazine!<br />

25. <strong>An</strong>d we can do all of this for you! Book<br />

a free call with the Something Good<br />

Team today and get started.<br />

BOOK A CALL<br />

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1. <strong>Magazine</strong>s are customer magnets<br />

You can give it away for free. One of our clients relayed to<br />

us a beautiful story about how she landed a contract by<br />

placing her issue of Something Good <strong>Magazine</strong>s on each<br />

chair in the room where she was pitching. Immediately, she<br />

was taken seriously and given clout.<br />

Your high-value content, blog posts, articles, videos,<br />

audios, etc. are in one place.<br />

Your powerful and compelling story is told in a relatable<br />

way. Clients connect with it.<br />

In addition to being in print form, you can send your<br />

magazine digitally. It can arrive to your client’s letterbox,<br />

email address, and be shared on all social media. We all love<br />

a digital share, don’t we?<br />

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Your call to action is simple and clear; they can immediately<br />

take the next step to work with you.<br />

<strong>An</strong>d let’s not be shy about it...you can sell your products<br />

and services, right there from your magazine page. We<br />

can link back to your website, landing page or eCommerce<br />

store. KaChing!<br />

2. We Care As Much About Your<br />

Brand As You Do<br />

At Something Good, you can trust our group of professionals. We pledge to treat your<br />

brand with our utmost care and respect. As we become part of your team, co-creating your<br />

magazine, you will feel joy in witnessing the level of excitement raise surrounding your<br />

brand.<br />

Our first step is to create your brand identity guide if you do not already have one. We can<br />

also improve the one you have. Your brand identity is a really good insight into you. Colours,<br />

logos, fonts, styling - represent you. It reflects your ‘look and feel’. Note: we don’t create logos<br />

& branding from scratch. You must have an existing logo<br />

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3. Content <strong>To</strong> Publish In<br />

Under 4 Weeks<br />

We have been known to create a magazine from<br />

start to finish in 7 days, but most magazine<br />

projects take around 4-5 weeks from ‘content<br />

to publish’. Length of time depends on how far<br />

down the track you are with your content and<br />

your priorities at the time.<br />

But as busy business owners ourselves, we<br />

understand how to balance and prioritise project<br />

lists as project management is one of our<br />

core skills.<br />

“<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong> is the ‘Marie Kondo<br />

of the project world - she will<br />

get out you of overwhelm and<br />

into calm in no time”<br />

- Cindy Mitchell, Swimparkas.com.au<br />

4. It All Starts <strong>With</strong> A Great<br />

Strategy & Knowing Your<br />

Next Steps<br />

As seasoned strategists, we have our process<br />

in place to ensure that your magazine is<br />

professional, eye-pleasing, customer focussed,<br />

monetisable and share-worthy. <strong>An</strong>d we help<br />

tame your random thoughts and intentions into<br />

a clear and simple strategy that supports and<br />

integrates into your business. We become part of<br />

your team for the project talking brand, content,<br />

publishing and marketing, meeting you where<br />

you are. You will love our one page magazine<br />

plan too!<br />

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5. Get Out Of The “Content<br />

Coma” <strong>An</strong>d Organise Your<br />

Content By What Your<br />

Customers Want <strong>To</strong> Know<br />

Even if you think you have too much or not<br />

enough content, when you join us, we’ll<br />

send you our ‘Get Content Ready For Your<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>’ Guide - it’s the same guide our team<br />

uses to create our own magazines and our<br />

clients love using this resource.<br />

Know that you arrive with a team waiting<br />

to welcome you on board. <strong>To</strong>gether we go<br />

content treasure hunting and find the content<br />

you may not realize you have, identify the<br />

content that solves your customer’s problems,<br />

re-purpose your winning content in a different<br />

way and bring it all to life on the page.<br />

Our experienced Editing team has a great<br />

eye for details. We are great at composing<br />

‘stand out’ statements that make your story<br />

pop off the page. We will help identify some<br />

great content pieces for you to include in<br />

your magazine to produce an amazing reading<br />

experience for your audience.<br />

Did we mention videos, podcast episodes,<br />

audio interviews, online storytelling, speeches,<br />

stage presentations are all welcome content<br />

for your digital magazine?<br />

6. Let’s Get Your<br />

<strong>Me</strong>ssage Right <strong>To</strong> Where<br />

Your Customers Live<br />

You are in control of where and how<br />

your magazine is published. Some clients<br />

choose to publish privately and some<br />

prefer to publish it to the world We will<br />

advise on your publishing options (and<br />

there are many).<br />

7. Unhide You. Unhide<br />

Your Business<br />

Will I be on the cover of my magazine?<br />

Yes, you can be on the cover of your very<br />

own magazine. It’s your call. Bucket list.<br />

Tick!<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>s are a visual game, so<br />

photography and imagery are super<br />

important. We will look at the photos you<br />

have and advise on the best ones to use.<br />

As a bonus, you will receive our ‘Photo<br />

Shoot For <strong>Magazine</strong>s Guide’ that you<br />

can give to your local photographer to<br />

ensure you get the best and most repurposesable<br />

photos for use on the cover<br />

and throughout your magazine.<br />

How long do the people you<br />

can help have to wait for you?<br />

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TO SUMMARISE...<br />

We co-create personalized magazines for your<br />

brand and message.<br />

You provide the content. We strategize with<br />

you what your best content will be and how it<br />

will best work in a magazine format. Remember<br />

that you can add video and audio to your digital<br />

magazine!<br />

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You retain the rights to your copy, images, video<br />

and audio in your magazine product. In other<br />

words, it’s all yours baby!<br />

We design the layout and organize the publishing.<br />

We advise on the best publishing options.<br />

We support you throughout the entire process<br />

and celebrate wildly with you as we hit Publish!<br />

on your very own magazine!<br />

YOUR NEXT STEP<br />

Let’s set up a call with The Something Good Team<br />

to answer any of your Qs and get started<br />

YES I AM INTERESTED<br />

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What I’ve<br />

Discovered<br />

So Far About<br />

Life, Legacy<br />

& Purpose<br />

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Follow me on<br />

<strong>Me</strong>dium @<strong>Ali</strong><strong>Fowler</strong><br />

medium.com/@alifowler<br />

PURPOSE<br />

PROJECT<br />

BIGGER<br />

GAME<br />

A LOOK<br />

AT LIFE<br />

LEGACY<br />

10 PIVOTAL<br />

REALISATIONS<br />

THAT HELPED ME<br />

GET MY DREAMS<br />

OFF THE BACK<br />

BURNER AND<br />

INTO PLAY<br />

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FEATURED STORY<br />

“The better question<br />

to ask myself was - why<br />

was I taking so long?<br />

What was I pretending<br />

not to know?”<br />

I uncovered these ten realisations<br />

I uncovered in my learning to be<br />

comforting and to this day, remain<br />

a guide for me, when I hit those<br />

inevitable moments of craziness<br />

and wonder what on earth I am<br />

doing.<br />

PIVOTAL REALISATIONS<br />

THAT HELPED ME GET MY<br />

DREAMS OFF THE BACK<br />

BURNER AND INTO PLAY<br />

It wasn’t that long ago, that I, like many, had put<br />

my dreams on the back burner and could not see<br />

a way I could get them happening.<br />

I had a full-time gig, responsibilities, bills to<br />

pay and well...daily life just kept showing up and<br />

inexplicably soaking up my time. It was like I was<br />

scrambling on all fours up a hill, out of flow and relying<br />

on pure grit.<br />

I knew I’d get there eventually, but seriously how many<br />

roads did I need to take, was it supposed to be this hard?<br />

Was it me? Why was it taking so long? “Who’s in charge<br />

here, I need to see the manager!”<br />

I knew that one day I would get around to it, the<br />

conditions would be right. I’d have the spare time, the<br />

finances and the extra bandwidth. How far away was that<br />

‘one day’ because it felt like my time was ticking past<br />

pretty quick.<br />

1<br />

SEE THE CONTRAST FOR WHAT IT IS<br />

AND START ANYWAY<br />

2 EMBRACE THE ‘PRE-SUCCESS’ STATE<br />

3<br />

4 DISENTANGLE OURSELVES<br />

5 PERCEPTIONS DON’T MATTER<br />

6<br />

7<br />

10<br />

DON’T JUST DO SOMETHING…<br />

SIT THERE<br />

AVOID PURPOSE ENVY AND THE<br />

COMPARISON GAME<br />

8 DECISION MADE. NOW ENJOY IT.<br />

9<br />

SELF-COMPASSION AND<br />

ACCEPTANCE ARE OUR BEST FIRST<br />

RESPONDERS<br />

DON’T IGNORE THE WHISPERS, THEY<br />

DON’T GO AWAY. THEY WILL JUST<br />

GET LOUDER<br />

FIND SOLUTIONS IN WHAT YOU<br />

ALREADY KNOW<br />

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1See the contrast for<br />

what it is and start<br />

anyway<br />

Many people write about... it’s the<br />

contrasts in life that teach us<br />

the most.<br />

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I too belong to that collective idea. We<br />

need the lows, to recognise the highs.<br />

Thich Naht Hahn, the father of<br />

mindfulness and a Buddhist monk in the<br />

Art Of Living, one of the books that has<br />

influenced me the most, talks about the<br />

‘lotus can’t grow without mud’.<br />

“The beautiful lotus is<br />

reliant on the presence<br />

of mud. We need mud in<br />

our lives for our beauty<br />

to grow.”<br />

Our lives can be rich in purpose and rich<br />

in experience. They can also be rich in<br />

failure and rich in hurt. Sometimes it’s<br />

hard to recognise that both is occurring<br />

and that we must stay in gratitude for<br />

all that we have, not what we don’t have,<br />

This is the embracing of the contrasts.<br />

But when you want to pursue a dream or a goal, it brings<br />

up the contrast in high definition colour. What I want to<br />

do or have, where I am right now. Two different places,<br />

two different feelings.<br />

So that very realization of how big the contrasts is – the<br />

contrast gap if you like, can stop us in our tracks from<br />

pursuing anything different from what we already have.<br />

Our ability to handle the contrast from where we are<br />

starting from to where we want to get to, and being<br />

grateful for all that we have right now, is the secret to our<br />

success.<br />

Theodore Roosevelt says “do<br />

what you can, with what you have,<br />

where you are”<br />

In my own life, there have been many instances where<br />

the ‘contrasts’ in my life stopped me from pursuing my<br />

dreams, and all I could take was tiny itty bitty steps<br />

forward one at a time and learn to love the mud.<br />

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There’s a moment that anyone who is stepping<br />

out and doing something different will recognise<br />

the feeling and that is the feeling of<br />

‘pre-success’.<br />

2Embrace the ‘presuccess’<br />

state<br />

I’m a freedom seeker, author and project<br />

queen...which loosely translates into I<br />

have one of those multi-life purpose<br />

things going on or I can’t make up my<br />

mind. One or the other!<br />

I am a woman on a mission to make my<br />

corner of the world good, because if I<br />

make my corner good, and you make<br />

your corner good, then all the corners of<br />

the world will be good.<br />

That feeling of ‘pre-success’ means before the<br />

evidence shows up. Before the results appear,<br />

before you can point to that story or moment in<br />

time, where your internal feelings match your<br />

external environment.<br />

You know what I mean now;<br />

You’ve built that business<br />

You’ve published that book<br />

You’ve changed your job<br />

You’ve learnt a new language and can now<br />

speak it.<br />

The ‘pre-success’ state is a tricky one to navigate<br />

- so redefine it. My success happened because<br />

I started.<br />

But I wasn’t always this focused and<br />

energized about my life. In fact, for a<br />

long long time, I floundered around,<br />

chose to be invisible and let my dreams<br />

stay right on the back burner, just in<br />

case I got hurt or challenged ‘who was I<br />

to do this’<br />

The contrasts in my life showed up big<br />

time. The things I wanted to do,<br />

I had never done before.<br />

I had never written a book<br />

I had never run my own business<br />

I had never built a platform or invited<br />

people to follow my work<br />

I had never thought I could really help<br />

another life<br />

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3<br />

Self<br />

compassion and<br />

acceptance are our<br />

best first responders<br />

In good moments of selfcompassion<br />

and awareness, I saw<br />

things a little differently.<br />

We want the first people on a scene in a disaster, to be the most<br />

helpful. The ones that can apply life-saving treatments, make<br />

profound and wise choices about how to deal with the situation<br />

at hand and have the focus on saving lives. Our lives.<br />

Imagine if the first responders who showed up to your<br />

disaster were preoccupied about how everything looked to<br />

others, focused on assigning blame, telling people off for<br />

getting into trouble and standing around arguing over what to<br />

do next. Lives would be lost.<br />

In bad moments of deep reflection, as the doubt creeps in and<br />

we wonder what on earth is the problem, why our dreams and<br />

goals are so elusive,<br />

it is of zero help to beat up on oneself.<br />

Self-compassion and acceptance are the first responders we<br />

need to call. Not the other usual suspects of disappointment,<br />

anger, frustration – they are not welcome here. We need to take<br />

them off speed dial, so Siri can’t even call them if we ever<br />

ask her to.<br />

I could see myself simply as<br />

someone who ‘was not done yet’.<br />

That’s all. There was more to come<br />

and I was figuring it out. Some<br />

things might just take a while to<br />

happen, but where I was, is exactly<br />

where I needed to be in this<br />

moment.<br />

It didn’t matter what I had done<br />

already or not done, none of that<br />

defined me. It was what I was<br />

doing right now, the choices I was<br />

making right now, the way I was<br />

showing up right now that was<br />

the only thing I could control.<br />

My job was to always find more<br />

compassion, more acceptance<br />

as to where I was, and make that<br />

more than okay. Because it is.<br />

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4<br />

Disentangle Ourselves<br />

In The Art Of Living 1 , Thich Nhat Hanh says we need<br />

to ‘disentangle ourselves and that it takes courage<br />

and determination’. We can get so caught up in<br />

‘dream chasing’ whatever that is – more money,<br />

profile, success, and the projects we take on, that<br />

we lose sight of the very things that can bring us<br />

happiness, peace and freedom – all the things that<br />

help us feel better in the moment.<br />

It doesn’t matter if for a time, we chased a life that<br />

was not aligned to who we really are.<br />

What matters, is that we pull over to the side of<br />

the road for a second, and rethink we are heading.<br />

Sometimes we need to keep going until we find<br />

a place to rest and recharge and then decide and<br />

other times, we can do a U turn on the spot and<br />

head off in another direction.<br />

The main thing is we constantly disentangle<br />

ourselves from ideas, projects, pursuits, beliefs<br />

that are not serving us anymore. They might have<br />

been right at some point, but we change and we<br />

need to reload our thinking with new information<br />

all the time.<br />

Let’s get caught up in the stuff that is helpful and<br />

disentangle from the rest.<br />

1<br />

The Art of Living, Thich Nhat Hanh, Page 165<br />

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The crux of this concept is that adolescents may<br />

develop an anticipation that they are under the<br />

scrutiny of others all the time due to a belief that<br />

they are the focus of attention and that people are<br />

as admiring or as critical of them as they are of<br />

themselves.<br />

Basically, they create an imaginary audience of<br />

themselves and think people are watching all the time<br />

when in reality, the focus on public attention is not<br />

always on them. As a result, however, teens can be<br />

reluctant to reveal themselves and prefer to remain<br />

private.<br />

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5<br />

Perceptions don’t<br />

matter<br />

I read recently some of the early work<br />

of psychologist David Elkind² with teen<br />

mental health on the enigma of the<br />

‘imaginary audience”. This phrase was<br />

coined in the late 1960’s and remains a<br />

talking point amongst those working in the<br />

mental health fields today.<br />

When we have a perception of being judged by others,<br />

it can halt us in our tracks<br />

One of the thoughts that stops me in my tracks is<br />

when I care, or worse still, l worry about people’s<br />

perceptions of me. I have done this all my life. It is a<br />

deal breaker to pursuing your dreams.<br />

I have heard ‘perceptions about me in the workplace,<br />

in my private life and that couldn’t be further from the<br />

truth. When I hear them, I am often astounded that<br />

that is the way other people see me. I don’t see myself<br />

that way, but they do. So who is right? I am sure I have<br />

perceptions about others that they will dispute and say<br />

are not true for them as well<br />

The thing is perceptions are not real. They are just<br />

judgements. Ignore them.<br />

2<br />

David Elkind, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adolescent_<br />

egocentrism#Imaginary_Audience<br />

The imaginary audience refers to an egocentric state where an<br />

individual imagines and believes that multitudes of people are<br />

enthusiastically listening to or watching him or her. Though this state<br />

is often exhibited in young adolescence, people of any age may harbor<br />

a fantasy of an imaginary audience” - Wikipedia<br />

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6<br />

“Don’t<br />

just do<br />

something…sit there”<br />

- Thich Naht Hahn<br />

I have always been a day dreamer. Often<br />

letting my mind wander into imagining<br />

things in a different way than they were<br />

showing up in reality. I would find comfort<br />

in that from a young age, when things were<br />

maybe not working out Always thinking<br />

about other things than my current reality.<br />

I guess I had been a natural meditator<br />

from a young age, finding calmness in<br />

being the observer in my life, rather than<br />

wanting to be<br />

in it.<br />

I have had a consistent daily meditation<br />

practice for the past 6 years and regularly<br />

sought out neuroscientists work and the<br />

study of epigenetics to understand what<br />

actually happens in our brains during<br />

meditation and how we create new neural<br />

pathways as we let go of beliefs and<br />

perceptions that are proven to be untrue.<br />

I just need to do nothing more often.<br />

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7<br />

Avoid Purpose Envy and<br />

the Comparison Game<br />

I’m not sure if this is a real psychological<br />

phenomenon, but I have seen it enough in my<br />

lifetime to know that it is real for some people and it<br />

was real for me– purpose envy that is. My purpose<br />

is not as good as your purpose!<br />

This is where people think their purpose in life isn’t<br />

good enough, big enough, sexy enough, bold enough<br />

compared to what others are doing. We think our<br />

purpose is insignificant and in a way, that’s why we<br />

don’t bother pursuing it.<br />

There’s no comparison to be had about<br />

purpose. It’s incomparable.<br />

We are bombarded with stories of people<br />

achieving great things and knowing that their<br />

gifts and value to the world is to do epic stuff<br />

like ‘find a cure for something’ or ‘rebuild war<br />

torn countries’ or ‘lead a movement’. It’s hard<br />

not to be caught up in a little ‘purpose envy or<br />

comparison”.<br />

But if we find ourselves there, we have<br />

completely missed the point. Purpose isn’t<br />

about what we achieve, its about who we are.<br />

Our unique DNA is our unique gift and our<br />

job is to amplify what we have and share that<br />

with the world for the highest good.<br />

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I know my purpose. It is to help people<br />

make their projects simple and do-able<br />

so that saves them time, so they can go<br />

on and play their bigger game. I inspire<br />

the solutions and then get out of<br />

the way.<br />

It doesn’t sound very sexy! <strong>To</strong> be honest,<br />

I wanted it to sound sexier. Projects are<br />

not very sexy…although I’m trying my<br />

best to “bring the sexy back” to the world<br />

of projects<br />

Some people might think projects are still<br />

kind of nerdy, but I’m down with that!<br />

So when your purpose shows up, get<br />

excited about the road ahead.<br />

One of my favourite authors and<br />

inspirational coaches, Tara Mohr, an<br />

expert on women’s leadership and<br />

well-being, wrote in her best selling<br />

book, Playing Big , about her eight ways<br />

to recognise whether what you are<br />

experiencing is your calling and I wanted<br />

to share three of the ways with you:<br />

1<br />

You feel huge resistance. A part<br />

of you wants to run in the other<br />

direction<br />

3<br />

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There are challenges, fears and doubts, but when<br />

you are actually doing the calling, you feel a rare<br />

sense of meaning and rightness. When you do it, you<br />

tap into an immense well of energy.<br />

When you purpose shows up first, its going to<br />

challenging, but roll with it. It’s yours and we all know,<br />

that nobody can do it, the way you can do it.<br />

When it comes to ‘finding your purpose’ some of us<br />

get there quicker and easier than others. You know<br />

who I am talking about. Those people that have found<br />

their secret and everything they do, shows up as in<br />

alignment with who they are. Their life’s path is not<br />

negotiable. They are doing it and just couldn’t see it<br />

any other way.<br />

I didn’t really find my purpose until I turned 50. Bit of<br />

a late bloomer I know!<br />

2<br />

You feel a sense of ‘this work is<br />

mine to do.’ Or of having received<br />

an assignment to do a particular<br />

piece of work in the world<br />

I spent time wondering what I was here for and<br />

questioning whether the dreams I had came from a<br />

deep sense of purpose or I thought maybe they would<br />

just be fun to do. My answer is it’s a bit of both.<br />

3<br />

Tara Mohr, Playing Big, Random House, 2016, Page 208<br />

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8<br />

Decision Made. Now<br />

Enjoy It.<br />

About a decade ago I was at a cross roads in my<br />

career. You know how I knew that? I had two<br />

equally appealing paths in front of me. Both<br />

were great, exciting and challenging. I could<br />

see myself doing either.<br />

are in that place of ‘creating doubt and second<br />

guessing’ we can’t be truly present, can we?<br />

So I decided to own my decision and enjoy it.<br />

<strong>An</strong>d felt better immediately.<br />

There is always more than one path that is right<br />

for us at any time.<br />

PATH 1 was to immerse myself in business<br />

and learn as much as I could about leadership,<br />

teams, culture, communication, strategy and<br />

execution<br />

PATH 2 was to immerse myself in community<br />

and international development, go back to<br />

study, work for a major non profit that was<br />

doing good in the world.<br />

I took awhile to work it out. Which was more<br />

aligned to where I was at? Which one took me<br />

closer to my goals, my dreams?<br />

Should I go ahead and ‘do well’ (take the<br />

lucrative option) or ‘do good’ (take the<br />

purposeful option)?<br />

I knew ‘income poor, purpose rich’ was not the<br />

ideal approach for me at the time in my life, so<br />

I chose Path 1 and embarked on my business<br />

journey.<br />

Did this help my dream chasing? It sure did.<br />

It was the right decision at the time for sure.<br />

But at times I felt a pang of doubt, maybe guilt<br />

even?<br />

That happens when you need to make a<br />

decision you are not sure of, but whilst we<br />

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9<br />

Don’t ignore the whispers,<br />

they don’t go away. They<br />

will just get louder<br />

There was one thing I was kind of good at and that was<br />

helping people and businesses get their projects off the<br />

ground. As I climbed the corporate ladder doing this,<br />

I realised that was all great, but that something was<br />

missing.<br />

Achievement was one thing, but when I found myself<br />

“backsolving the purpose” of what I was doing to<br />

justify it, I realised how off track I had become. By this<br />

I mean, I liked what I was doing, but it missed any sense<br />

of deep purpose for me. I was a senior manager, heading<br />

up a company department for a multi-billion dollar<br />

Australian company and was responsible for a small<br />

team, looking at ways we could improve<br />

the business.<br />

At one point, I loved this role. It was<br />

challenging, exciting and had a degree<br />

of freedom around it, that I needed and<br />

I really enjoyed the learning and the<br />

contribution I could make. I learnt my<br />

leadership style from that role and had the<br />

opportunity to work and learn alongside<br />

some of the smartest business minds<br />

going around in Australia and globally.<br />

But as businesses grow, needs change and<br />

the role I had was restructured out.<br />

At least that was why, I thought it<br />

happened.<br />

Haha! The universe had to give me a<br />

big push forward to get me out of my<br />

comfort zone and into following my<br />

dreams, because I was not listening to the<br />

whispers in my head. “it’s time to chase<br />

your dreams, <strong>Ali</strong>...go on, you can do it...<br />

everything will work out for you.” Isn’t that<br />

funny how things work out for us!!<br />

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10<br />

Find the solution in<br />

what you already<br />

know<br />

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I have some great friends who give me<br />

that look every now and then, when I say<br />

triumphantly ‘ hey I’ve worked that thing<br />

out. I just did this blah blah blah’. <strong>An</strong>d<br />

they look at me knowingly, “Sure, <strong>Ali</strong>, we<br />

could have told you that. You do that all<br />

the time”.<br />

I guess what I am trying to say here<br />

is that often times we already have<br />

the answers, we just don’t know or<br />

recognise them yet.<br />

There’s a saying that goes along the lines<br />

of ‘nothing is really new. It’s just the<br />

same stuff, rehashed”<br />

Then as I was trying to figure why my<br />

dreams had stayed on the back burner,<br />

maybe I could apply what I already knew.<br />

Hang on a sec! I might be a bit slow on<br />

the uptake, but what if I could take what<br />

I knew in ‘project land’ and apply it to the<br />

projects in my own life. It could work!<br />

This could be fun!<br />

So I did and whooska! Things started<br />

to move. It was like all the birds (my<br />

dreams) started to fly in formation.<br />

Job changes happen, house moves<br />

out of nowhere happened, financial windfalls were<br />

created, book projects were started, a new international<br />

business was born, overseas travel happened to exotic<br />

locations, new global friends made and wait for it… I<br />

got a bit excited about all of this.<br />

I started to coach a few people around the world<br />

on their dream projects, their legacy projects, their<br />

projects that had been with them for a long time and<br />

hadn’t yet made it the surface. I watched in awe as<br />

these brave and courageous true selves were revealed<br />

as they finally gave themselves permission to pursue<br />

their dreams. Their ‘one day’ had come.<br />

Or at least that’s what we both thought…but apparently<br />

it wasn’t going to be that easy!<br />

Then the questions and doubts started. People were<br />

asking me everything from ‘I have an idea what I want<br />

to do but no idea where to start’ to ‘’I’m not a planner,<br />

plans never work for me’, ‘I’ve tried to do this before<br />

but it just took too long so I gave up’ to public enemy<br />

# 1 – “I’m not the right person to do this, someone<br />

else will be better than me at it’.<br />

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I thought about my own journey and<br />

realised that at some point, I did<br />

manage to organise my thoughts into<br />

a roughly coherently plan or approach<br />

using my project experience. I had<br />

an end goal in mind and then simply<br />

starting taking one step at a time, until<br />

I started to build some momentum.<br />

Then it got a bit easier, took some<br />

more steps, hits some rocks, stubbed<br />

my toes, rested for a bit, got back up<br />

again, changed direction and took the<br />

next few steps.<br />

I watched in horror as people gradually started to<br />

talk themselves out of doing what they were born to<br />

do.<br />

What I could see from my vantage view was that these<br />

amazing people were more than capable of doing<br />

what they had to do, but just like me previously, they<br />

couldn’t get their heart and head in the same place at<br />

the same time to make it happen.<br />

Brendon Burchards in his new bestseller ‘High<br />

Performance Habits’ says it is “never about<br />

achievement, it will always be about alignment”.<br />

I realised if I could take what I knew worked in ‘project<br />

land’, break it down into a simple process that was<br />

going to help, I could help people (and me☺) and apply<br />

it to their personal dreams.<br />

What a privilege it became to start to help other<br />

people get unstuck from their current reality and see a<br />

way forward to start chasing their dreams , before the<br />

conditions were right. We were all learning together<br />

to ‘start before things were ready’<br />

Even when the steps seemed so<br />

random and not going anywhere, as<br />

I look back, they were all part of a<br />

collection of threads that lead me to<br />

today. Like birds flying in formation.<br />

What will it<br />

take for you<br />

to get your<br />

dreams off the<br />

backburner and<br />

into play?<br />

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