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Featured Stories<br />
10 | A SWEET LEGACY<br />
H & R Bakery<br />
16 | FOOD TRAIL<br />
Southern Indiana Coffee Trail Beckons<br />
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21 | EMPOWERING A COMMUNITY<br />
502 Power Yoga in Jeffersonville<br />
26 | GRACEFUL & INSPIRED<br />
Glass artist Paige Kissinger’s creations honor father<br />
32 | PRESERVING HISTORY<br />
Proctor House, Marengo, Indiana<br />
42 | SINGING HOOSIERS<br />
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Southern Indiana Living<br />
JANUARY / FEBRUARY <strong>2020</strong><br />
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In Every Issue<br />
7 | FLASHBACK PHOTO<br />
Snow Day, 1968<br />
8 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />
Go West, Old Man. At Least Go Somewhere.<br />
36 | COMMUNITY PAGES<br />
Choices Life Resource Center, Jasper Flower & Gifts,<br />
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Local Business Spotlight<br />
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42 | GRAND IN GRANDPARENTING<br />
That First Smile<br />
46 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />
For the Love of Dogs<br />
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According to library records, this snapshot was taken in <strong>Jan</strong>uary of 1968 by Ed<br />
Moss. The view shows a snow-covered Spring Street in New Albany, Indiana,<br />
looking east. Part of the Elsby building is seen on the left, and Singer’s is just<br />
beyond it on the NE corner. The St. Marks United Church of Christ tower is in the<br />
center of the picture. Holiday decorations are still up. According to a handwritten<br />
note on the back of the photo, 16 inches of snow covered the streets.<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 7
A Note to Baby Boomers<br />
Go West, Old Man. At Least Go Somewhere.<br />
Iknow Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et.<br />
I do not know if they attend<br />
church or dye their hair or watch<br />
“Dancing with the Stars.” I do not<br />
know if they pay their parking tickets<br />
or have sworn off red meat. To be<br />
honest, maybe they are not Tammy<br />
and <strong>Jan</strong>et at all.<br />
They could be Phyllis and Bertha,<br />
in witness protection.<br />
Still, I know them. I know them<br />
because we met in Seattle and reunited<br />
in Baltimore. I know mostly that<br />
they, like me, love the San Francisco<br />
Giants and that they, like me, go to<br />
crazy lengths to watch Giants games.<br />
That is enough for now.<br />
I look forward to knowing more,<br />
though, if or when we get together in<br />
Cleveland or San Diego or Toronto or<br />
Miami or wherever else the Giants<br />
show up. Our beloved, beleaguered<br />
team is our common denominator.<br />
But there is also another.<br />
They, like me, have suitcases and<br />
know how to use them.<br />
It is work to not work. I fumble<br />
through retirement. I win some and<br />
lose some in my stare-down of senior<br />
citizenship. Am I saving enough? Am<br />
I eating right? Should I see doctors<br />
more? Do all old guys spend half the<br />
night in the bathroom?<br />
Why, all of a sudden, am I ready<br />
for lunch by 11?<br />
Then there is travel. Some old<br />
people know flight attendants as well<br />
as I know my cousins. They head<br />
off to Africa and to Alaska – and all<br />
points in between – like I head off to<br />
Aldi.<br />
One friend, a decade my senior,<br />
actually visited Timbuktu. He<br />
showed me pictures. I guess there really<br />
is a Timbuktu.<br />
These wrinkly vagabonds are on<br />
cruise ships and airplanes and tour<br />
buses. They bike, they hike. Meanwhile,<br />
I check Facebook for updates<br />
of their adventures. I more often look<br />
forward to doing nothing rather than<br />
doing anything. Sure, I occasionally<br />
convince myself to blow the budget<br />
on ballgame tickets and beach sunburns.<br />
Then I occasionally opt instead<br />
to play it safe, to be ready for new<br />
hips and the nursing home. I envy<br />
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these whirlwinds. Yet somehow I do<br />
not join them.<br />
I think longingly of far-out ZIP<br />
codes. Then I think of staying close to<br />
kids and grandkids and pets, in some<br />
order. Predictability is here, after all.<br />
Predictability and I get along<br />
great.<br />
The thing is, unpredictability is<br />
where the fun is, where the sights are,<br />
where the other Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et<br />
types are. Millions of strangers, ready<br />
not to be strangers, are out there.<br />
And too few of them are here.<br />
A trip to Jeffersonville is not on their<br />
bucket list, believe it or not.<br />
I shared a recent afternoon trading<br />
lies and chugging beers with an<br />
ox-sized, tattoo-plastered, missingfingered<br />
butcher. I had to go to Florida<br />
to do it.<br />
Here is home and family. But<br />
most incredible museums are not<br />
here. Most top-shelf history is not<br />
here. Most of the greatest hits of nature<br />
are not here.<br />
Plus, of course, the Giants are<br />
not here.<br />
So why am I here almost all<br />
the time? Why, as I write this, do my<br />
wife and I have absolutely no trips<br />
firmed up? We debate the options like<br />
we debate flavors of potato chips. We<br />
list the maybes and then, a week later,<br />
list them again. We rule in, then out,<br />
the usual places as well as the unusual<br />
ones.<br />
We have made reservations but<br />
sent in no deposits. So no new memories<br />
are around the corner.<br />
Good reasons to go lose out to<br />
bad reasons to stay. We somehow say<br />
no to cruises and no to Vegas. Canada?<br />
Mexico? Europe? If only they<br />
sold passports at Sam’s Club.<br />
We say yes to too little, that’s<br />
clear. These strangers and their stories<br />
are out there. They must be fetched<br />
like yogurt and orange juice. To go, to<br />
stay, it goes back to the guts to live in<br />
the moment, to do what’s best with<br />
one’s best-left years.<br />
Why worry so much today about<br />
tomorrow? Why not join those who<br />
never will see enough, do enough,<br />
take enough pictures or go through<br />
enough airport pat-downs?<br />
Are these wanderlust people to<br />
be envied or committed? Are vacations<br />
worth the expense or the time?<br />
How many stolen little hotel shampoo<br />
bottles are too many?<br />
The value of getaways is in the<br />
These wrinkly vagabonds are on cruise<br />
ships and airplanes and tour buses.<br />
They bike, they hike. Meanwhile, I check<br />
Facebook for updates of their adventures.<br />
anticipation, of course. It’s a treat to<br />
look forward. Here I am, nonetheless,<br />
with absolutely no pressing reason to<br />
hit up AAA for maps and tour books.<br />
Here I am, another winter without<br />
joining the snowbirds in Florida. Another<br />
Christmas will come and go<br />
without me checking out the New<br />
York lights.<br />
Not everyone is worth meeting,<br />
I assume. But why just assume? Why<br />
don’t I go find out, make my own<br />
Facebook news? Instead, while others<br />
wander, I leave people to wonder.<br />
Is that Moss guy on house arrest or<br />
something? Why is he not in Timbuktu<br />
or at least in Tuscaloosa?<br />
Why should Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et<br />
have all the fun? •<br />
After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />
retired as Indiana columnist for<br />
The Courier-Journal. He now<br />
writes weekly for the News and<br />
Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />
live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />
that has been in his family<br />
since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />
mail is dale.moss@twc.com
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Cover Story<br />
A Sweet Legacy<br />
A favorite Southern Indiana bakery moves to Salem Square<br />
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Story by Darian Eswine<br />
Photos by Michelle Hockman
When Duane and Juanita<br />
Daugherty bought H&R<br />
Bakery in 2000, they acquired<br />
a Salem landmark.<br />
Now, they’re adding their own bit of history<br />
by moving the bakery to town square.<br />
Duane said he always wanted to<br />
run his own business — his mother and<br />
grandmother were bakers for a living for<br />
a combined total of about 60 years. Funnily<br />
enough, baking was not Duane’s specialty.<br />
“Peanut butter and jelly, I can do.”<br />
Juanita was the one who threw the<br />
idea out as they often stopped by the<br />
bakery before going to work. She asked<br />
Duane if he’d ever be interested in it if it<br />
ever went up for sale. Not more than a<br />
year later, the question became relevant.<br />
“We were looking for a business and<br />
wanted to work for ourselves and have<br />
that challenge,” Juanita said.<br />
Duane said the bakery didn’t start<br />
out with much in terms of equipment, and<br />
the building wasn’t in the best shape.<br />
“Really what we bought was the<br />
name and the recipes, to be perfectly honest<br />
about it,” Duane said. “There were<br />
nights that we would sleep in front of the<br />
oven; we wouldn’t make it home.”<br />
Duane and Juanita have been married<br />
for 24 years.<br />
“It was a blind date and I tried to<br />
back out. My boss had set it up and he<br />
said, ‘I’ll kill you if you back out,’ so I said,<br />
‘OK, I’ll go,’ ” Duane said.<br />
“We went to Burger King,” Juanita<br />
said.<br />
Their dynamic makes them great<br />
business partners.<br />
“You’ll find he’s our talker. I sit quietly<br />
back and do all the work,” Juanita<br />
said, laughing.<br />
“Juanita is the brains of the operation,”<br />
Duane said. “Without her, it would<br />
not fly. We’re really a team; even though<br />
I have the bigger mouth, we’re a team.<br />
We’re hard on each other when someone<br />
has an idea and we’ll bat it back and forth<br />
until the tennis ball is about beat to death.”<br />
“ ’Til it concedes that I’m right,”<br />
Juanita interjected.<br />
“That’s usually what happens, that’s<br />
true,” Duane said, laughing. “We’re brutally<br />
honest with each other and we have<br />
to be before we put something out there.”<br />
They’ve been especially thoughtful<br />
with every decision they’ve made related<br />
to the bakery’s move to the square. One of<br />
the things they love about the new space<br />
is that it’s just around the corner from<br />
their current location.<br />
One thing they didn’t anticipate was<br />
the challenge of self-employment, including<br />
paying for insurance and finding good<br />
employees.<br />
“We’re very fortunate we’ve got a<br />
When Duane and Juanita Daugherty<br />
bought H&R Bakery in 2000, they<br />
acquired a Salem landmark. Now,<br />
they’re adding their own bit of history<br />
by moving the bakery to town square.<br />
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They had 15 full-time<br />
employees at their<br />
Walnut Street location,<br />
and when fully staffed,<br />
they plan to double<br />
that number at their<br />
new location. Their<br />
new location was a<br />
department store and<br />
then a fabric shop for<br />
several years.<br />
Pictured: (this page, from top) a wide selection of baked goods is available daily; Neill Phelps, training<br />
staff on coffee beans and knowledge.<br />
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good crew now,” Duane said. He added<br />
that it’s hard to keep staff with the quick<br />
turnaround of today’s society. “Knock on<br />
wood, I’ve got some really good people<br />
and we couldn’t do it without them.”<br />
Juanita said they had 15 full-time<br />
employees at their Walnut Street location,<br />
and when fully staffed, they plan to<br />
double that number at their new location.<br />
Their new location was a department store<br />
and then a fabric shop for several years.<br />
“When they vacated it, we knew this<br />
property had been built very structurally<br />
sound,” Duane said. “That’s perfect for us<br />
because the machinery we’re bringing in<br />
weighs up to 1,200 pounds apiece.”<br />
The Daughertys also happen to have<br />
a love and appreciation for older buildings.<br />
“The biggest thing is we did a lot<br />
of the work ourselves,” Duane said. “We<br />
gutted the building, we had 17 dump<br />
truck loads of the stuff that went out of<br />
here and we did all the framing, hung all<br />
the drywall and then we started bringing<br />
in contractors to put the finishing touches<br />
on.”<br />
Doing a lot of it yourself may make<br />
the project last longer, but Duane said it<br />
adds to the satisfaction.<br />
“There’s limited space (at the Walnut<br />
Street location); here, we’ll be able to do<br />
everything simultaneously,” Juanita said.<br />
The unique stamp the Daughertys<br />
are putting on the bakery involves model<br />
trains — a lot of them — displayed on<br />
shelves covering an entire wall of the new<br />
space.<br />
“I grew up in New Albany and the<br />
trains of course come right through town,<br />
right down 15th Street, and that was my<br />
old neighborhood, so I would start watching<br />
trains as a young child and I just continued<br />
to have that interest,” Duane said.<br />
He had his first train set at birth because<br />
his dad saved one for him from his<br />
childhood. He said the hobby kept him focused<br />
throughout his life. Growing up in a<br />
poor family, it gave Duane the goal to one<br />
day be able to have the trains he didn’t<br />
have, and that inspired his work ethic.<br />
“I remember one of the first train<br />
cars I got, it was like $4.50 and I made a<br />
quarter a week in allowance, so you can<br />
calculate how many weeks it took to save<br />
up to buy this little car,” Duane said. “But<br />
I still have it and it’s one of the cars that<br />
means the most to me.”<br />
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Pictured: (this page, top) teacher Lisa Nice (back, right) with the Salem middle school Cubs news staff (clockwise from Lisa) Brooklyn Davisson, Macye Crane,<br />
Josh Burton, Jada Cooley, and Noah Risen. (this page, bottom) the new storefront on the Salem square.
The H&R Bakery has been in Salem<br />
since 1946 and has always been a big part<br />
of the town. Duane and Juanita look at it<br />
as not only a big commitment, but also as<br />
something they can weave into their own<br />
legacy as well.<br />
“We’re the owners, but really we’re<br />
the caretakers,” Duane said. “We’re all<br />
only on this Earth for a certain amount of<br />
time — we all move on, and you want to<br />
leave something behind that’s positive. •<br />
For more information, check out the webstie<br />
at hrbakery.food73.com<br />
“I grew up in New Albany and the trains of course come right through town, right down<br />
15th Street, and that was my old neighborhood, so I would start watching trains as a<br />
young child and I just continued to have that interest.”<br />
- Duane Daugherty, Co-Owner, H & R Bakery<br />
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Southern Indiana Food Trail<br />
Southern<br />
Indiana<br />
Coffee Trail<br />
Beckons<br />
If you love coffee and tasting unique coffee brews with amazing flavors — or if you just like yours straight — this is the perfect time to indulge.<br />
Blustery winter weather is upon us, and Southern Indiana offers several places to get in from the cold and enjoy tasty food and hot drinks in a cozy<br />
atmosphere. Enjoy other delectable delights as well as gourmet coffees and teas. You can find a new favorite at each stop. The following are some of<br />
the most popular in the area.<br />
KentJava Bar<br />
kentjavabar.com<br />
227 E. Chestnut St.<br />
Corydon<br />
812-736-0032<br />
Coffee Crossing<br />
coffeecrossing.com<br />
4212 Charlestown Road<br />
New Albany<br />
812-981-2633<br />
Story by Sara Combs<br />
Photo by Michelle Hockman<br />
Located in historic downtown Corydon, KentJava Bar is a local<br />
coffee shop serving gourmet coffee and espresso, teas, smoothies<br />
and pastries. The shop is known for quality espresso, roasted<br />
by Quills Coffee in Louisville, fresh scones and biscotti baked<br />
in-house, friendly service and a pleasant atmosphere. Regular<br />
events include a monthly open mic night, euchre tournaments<br />
and trivia. Free wi-fi is available. The hours are Monday through<br />
Thursday, 7 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Friday, 7 a.m. to 8 p.m.; Saturday, 8<br />
a.m. to 8 p.m.; and Sunday 8 a.m. to 2 p.m.<br />
Quills Coffee<br />
quillscoffee.com<br />
137 E. Market St.<br />
New Albany<br />
812-221-1778<br />
Quills is an attractive coffee spot and cafe in downtown New<br />
Albany featuring its own specialty brew. Breakfast is served and<br />
wheelchair seating is available. The hours are Monday through<br />
Friday, 6:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Saturday, 7 a.m. to 5 p.m.; and Sunday,<br />
8 a.m. to 5 p.m.<br />
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Coffee Crossing is about more than just coffee; it’s about a community<br />
of people who love their job and bring that to all who<br />
walk through the doors. Along with numerous gourmet coffee<br />
selections, Coffee Crossing offers a complete menu of tea and<br />
fruit smoothie alternatives. The hours at this location are Monday<br />
through Thursday, 6:30 a.m. to 10 p.m.; Friday, 6:30 a.m. to<br />
11 p.m.; Saturday, 7 a.m. to 11 p.m.; and Sunday, 8 a.m. to 10 p.m.<br />
For hours and information about other Coffee Crossing locations,<br />
call 888-465-6067.<br />
Kolkin Coffee<br />
www.kolkincoffee.net<br />
2736 Charlestown Road<br />
New Albany<br />
502-526-8576<br />
Kolkin is a great place for conversation and amazing drinks, such<br />
as Sunergos coffee, as well as smoothies, Italian sodas and more.<br />
Seasonal items are available. The hours are Monday through Friday,<br />
6:30 a.m. to 8 p.m.; Saturday, 7:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.; and Sunday,<br />
9 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Village House Coffee<br />
villagehousecoffee.com<br />
8251 State Road 64<br />
Georgetown<br />
812-501-5042<br />
Village House Coffee serves breakfast, is vegetarian-friendly and<br />
offers gluten-free options. Takeout is available, and so is wi-fi.<br />
Village House offers a wide selection of drinks in a friendly, homey,<br />
relaxed atmosphere. It is a good place to meet friends or come<br />
to study. The hours are Monday through Friday, 6 a.m. to 7 p.m.;<br />
Saturday, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m.; and closed Sunday.<br />
“The powers of a man’s<br />
mind are directly<br />
proportioned to the<br />
quantity of coffee he<br />
drinks.”<br />
- Sir James McIntosh<br />
Bean Street Cafe<br />
starlightcoffeecoandbeanstreetcafe.com<br />
3131 Grant Line Road<br />
New Albany<br />
812-542-1522<br />
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Enjoy a 20-mile panoramic view of the Ohio.<br />
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Dining with a Romantic Ohio River View!<br />
The Overlook Restaurant sits on SR<br />
62 in Leavenworth, and is located<br />
only 3 miles from I-64, off Exit 92.<br />
It is uniquely positioned high above<br />
the Ohio River. The view only rivals<br />
the delicious food and friendly<br />
service.<br />
We feature weekend specials that<br />
can be viewed on Facebook and our<br />
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Call ahead seating, simply call<br />
ahead an hour prior to your arrival.<br />
We welcome large parties and<br />
set up buffets for parties of 25 or<br />
more.<br />
With Valentines Day just around the<br />
corner, call us to make reservations<br />
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today! Reservations for 13 or more<br />
only except on Holidays.<br />
We open daily at 11:00 and close at<br />
7:00 Sunday-Thursday and 8:00 on<br />
Friday and Saturday. You can reach<br />
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Facebook, or check out our website<br />
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Call us to reserve your next Party,<br />
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Overlook Restaurant | 812-739-4264 | www.theoverlook.com<br />
18 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living
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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 19
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Cat Crawford, owner of 502 Power<br />
Yoga, has built a community<br />
of self-development and mental<br />
health in Kentuckiana.<br />
Crawford became interested in yoga<br />
when she lived in California around 2006.<br />
“I was a runner at the time and had<br />
heard yoga was a good thing to incorporate<br />
into our fitness routine,” she said. “A<br />
coworker invited me to go with her once.”<br />
Eventually, she moved back to Louisville<br />
and tried to search for classes similar<br />
to those she had attended in California.<br />
“I didn’t find anything, which led<br />
me to dive into yoga as a whole,” she said.<br />
Crawford immediately recognized<br />
the physical benefits and then grew to understand<br />
all of the other bonuses accompanying<br />
the practice of yoga.<br />
“I carry a lot of anxiety and stress,”<br />
she said. “The physicality of the practice<br />
works to relieve that tension.”<br />
In 2011, she received her teacher’s<br />
certification at Yoga East.<br />
Crawford, an art major focused on<br />
graphic design and illustration, worked<br />
in marketing at a small business and began<br />
to get an inside look at what it takes<br />
to keep a business going.<br />
“I felt like I had yoga know-how<br />
and I had business know-how,” Crawford<br />
said. “I thought it’d be great to open<br />
something like what I had been to in LA.”<br />
She met someone with a like-mind,<br />
Sarah Smith, and they began working together.<br />
“I was 7 months pregnant and Sarah<br />
had a daughter that was 3 months old,”<br />
Crawford said. “Two new mommies<br />
equals one full person.”<br />
Smith had been introduced to a<br />
practice called Baptiste Power Vinyasa.<br />
This practice is a type of hot power yoga<br />
that focuses on poses, self-reflection and<br />
meditation. It is meant to be easily adaptable<br />
to any level of physical ability.<br />
“The room is heated to 90 degrees,”<br />
Crawford said. “It focuses on flow and<br />
linking movement to breath. It’s very<br />
rhythmic.”<br />
Crawford and Smith opened a location<br />
in the Highlands neighborhood in<br />
Louisville in <strong>Feb</strong>ruary 2014. The studio is<br />
Baptiste-specific.<br />
“It focuses more on self-development,”<br />
Crawford said. “There are messages<br />
tied in with the class — ‘if you can<br />
stay through the pose when it’s hard, you<br />
can stay through it when it’s hard off the<br />
mat.’”<br />
The Highlands location, which<br />
Crawford said is the perfect neighborhood,<br />
was the first studio to have been<br />
dedicated to power vinyasa.<br />
“If I’ve had a rough morning or I’m<br />
distracted, I’ll go to a 70-minute class and<br />
Health & Fitness<br />
Instructor Stephanie Kersting,, teaching a class<br />
Empowering a Community<br />
Yoga classes provide outlet for anxiety and stress<br />
Story by Darian Eswine<br />
Photos by Michelle Hockman<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 21
“If I’ve had a rough morning or I’m distracted, I’ll go to a 70 minute class<br />
and it’s basically a moving meditation. The benefits are far too many.”<br />
- Cat Crawford<br />
Owner, 502 Power Yoga<br />
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it’s basically a moving meditation,” she<br />
said. “The benefits are far too many.”<br />
After Smith moved to South Carolina<br />
in 2017, Crawford became the full<br />
owner of the studio. She opened a second<br />
location in Jeffersonville in 2017.<br />
One side effect of this studio has<br />
been the network of community and support<br />
that has been built. Crawford said she<br />
loves the connection that’s been fostered.<br />
“It happened organically,” she said.<br />
“Our teachers are vulnerable and raw in<br />
their teaching and their hands-on assisting.<br />
It’s just naturally breaking down barriers<br />
and building this community.”<br />
She said friendships and partnerships<br />
have evolved from people who<br />
have met in the studio. “The teacher demonstrates<br />
messy,” Crawford said. “It gives<br />
permission to the students to be themselves.”<br />
Crawford herself said she’s not sure<br />
what she would do without yoga. She<br />
hears that from others who come in and<br />
out of the studio as well. “I can feel when<br />
stress is physically stuck in my body. It<br />
works it out.”<br />
Each location also has a shop for<br />
merchandise that has been specifically<br />
created for the students. They sell yoga<br />
mats, sweatshirts, towels and more.<br />
On top of all of that, they also offer<br />
yoga instructor certification. Crawford<br />
said those trainings usually begin in November,<br />
with students graduating in May.<br />
If you’re new to yoga, Crawford<br />
suggests you consider the Introduction to<br />
Power Yoga series. This series will be held<br />
at the Jeffersonville location in <strong>Jan</strong>uary.<br />
The series takes place on four Mondays<br />
and it covers the absolute basics of yoga,<br />
from poses to proper attire and breathing.<br />
“It’s great if you’re brand new or<br />
if you’re coming from a different type of<br />
yoga practice,” Crawford said.<br />
The studio encourages feedback as it<br />
regularly gives students opportunities to<br />
rate their classes and provide suggestions.<br />
The students also are the ones who really<br />
connect and create the community piece.<br />
Crawford said two students who met in a<br />
class are getting married this year.<br />
“I would love to develop more little<br />
community studios,” she said. “But there<br />
are limited resources and staff right now.”<br />
Regardless, Crawford opened a third<br />
location in October at the corner of Rudy<br />
Lane and Brownsboro Road in Louisville.<br />
All locations offer an Intro to Power<br />
Yoga package, for new students only. It<br />
includes 40 days of unlimited classes for<br />
$40, and it allows students to get a feel<br />
for what they’re doing and what kind of<br />
classes they like.<br />
“Yoga just makes me a happy person,”<br />
Crawford said. “It’s a great release<br />
for all the things we as humans like to<br />
hold onto.”<br />
Crawford likes to say “the issues are<br />
in your tissues.” These words to live by<br />
align perfectly with the business’ goal to<br />
“empower people to transform their bodies,<br />
minds, lives, and communities one<br />
breath and one pose at a time.” •<br />
Visit 502poweryoga.com to register for the<br />
<strong>Jan</strong>uary Introduction to Power Yoga series or<br />
any other classes.<br />
Pictured: (left to right) Baely Talley, Cat Crawford, Stephanie Kirsting, and Kristina Gerard.<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 23
Smith had been introduced<br />
to a practice called<br />
Baptiste Power Vinyasa.<br />
This practice is a type<br />
of hot power yoga that<br />
focuses on poses, selfreflection<br />
and meditation.<br />
It is meant to be easily<br />
adaptable to any level of<br />
physical ability.<br />
Pictured: (left) Cat Crawford, owner of 502 Power Yoga, participating in one of the classes at<br />
the Jeffersonville location. (bottom) A power vinyasa class at the studio.<br />
24 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living
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Pictured: (top and bottom) merchandise available for purchase at 502 Power Yoga; (middle)<br />
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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 25
Artist Spotlight<br />
Graceful and inspired<br />
Pictured: Detail of sculpture, titled Titian<br />
Glass artist Paige Kissinger honors father with her creations<br />
26 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />
Story by Judy Cato<br />
Photos provided by Lorraine Hughes
Overflowing with bright energy<br />
and flair, Paige Kissinger<br />
welcomes visitors into her<br />
Sellersburg “villa” in Clark<br />
County with stories about her home’s<br />
unique history. This graceful and inspired<br />
space — with some of the earmarks of an<br />
art gallery — “was once a chicken coop,”<br />
Kissinger said gleefully. “My late father,<br />
Robert Allen Kissinger, an architect,<br />
purchased the property in the late 1950s<br />
and refashioned it, using skills that would<br />
later win him acclaim as a local architect.<br />
This house was his first project.”<br />
As an architectural glass artist with<br />
a broad range of skills, Kissinger later<br />
added to the home’s pizzazz by designing<br />
all of its art glass windows. She also created<br />
many individual artworks arranged<br />
through the home.<br />
This house is not the only project that<br />
eventually developed into a collaboration<br />
between father and daughter. The Jeffersonville<br />
Township Public Library was<br />
designed by the firm of Kissinger’s father,<br />
Kissinger and Associates Architects. All of<br />
the art glass windows and panels in the<br />
library were designed by Kissinger when<br />
she worked for VitraMax, an architectural<br />
glass company.<br />
These windows depict the Ohio River<br />
with fossils, riverbed and sky. A touch<br />
of bronze gilding in the design adds just<br />
enough contrast to make the images pop.<br />
“Because of the importance of the river<br />
and fossils to the area,” Kissinger said,<br />
“every window I designed here has this<br />
theme.”<br />
Kissinger also designed the imposing<br />
sculpture titled “On Holy Ground”<br />
that hangs over the library elevator. Made<br />
of kiln-formed bronze glass with luster,<br />
Kissinger created it, as captioned on a<br />
nearby plaque, “In Honor and Adoration<br />
of her Father.”<br />
“My father was my greatest mentor,”<br />
Kissinger said. Robert Kissinger<br />
studied architecture at the Illinois Institute<br />
of Technology under the late Ludwig Mies<br />
van der Rohe, who had been the last director<br />
of the Bauhaus in Germany before it<br />
was closed by the Nazis. “The Bauhaus<br />
style was founded on the idea of bringing<br />
all the arts together, combining the fine<br />
arts with the utilitarian. This synthesis<br />
principle characterizes most of my work.<br />
I grew up immersed in painting, music,<br />
crafts, dance and design,” Kissinger said,<br />
then laughed: “I started dance lessons at<br />
the age of 3, and my father never missed<br />
a recital.”<br />
Kissinger’s work titled “The Azure<br />
Flame” (a 14-inch-by-27-inch piece) demonstrates<br />
this merging of the arts. The<br />
front of the work is kiln-formed cast glass<br />
created in part with the artist’s fingers<br />
“The Bauhaus style was founded on the idea of<br />
bringing all the arts together, combining the fine<br />
arts with the utilitarian. This synthesis principle<br />
characterizes most of my work. I grew up immersed<br />
in painting, music, crafts, dance, and design.”<br />
- Paige Kissinger<br />
“The Azure Flame”<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 27
Paige also designed the<br />
imposing sculpture titled<br />
“On Holy Ground” that<br />
hangs over the library<br />
elevator. Made of kiln<br />
formed bronze glass with<br />
luster, Paige created it,<br />
as captioned on a nearby<br />
plaque, “In Honor and<br />
Adoration of her Father.”<br />
Pictured: (this page, top) the sculpture above the elevators at the Jeffersonville Public Library is titled<br />
“On Holy Ground”; (this page, bottom) the view through the art glass window that Paige designed in the<br />
Jeffersonville Public Library; (right hand page, top) Paige, pictured in front of the art glass she designed at<br />
the library; (right hand page, bottom) the art glass depicts the Ohio River, fossils, and the sky.<br />
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swirling — or “dancing” — through the<br />
pliable cast. Behind this is her painting in<br />
shades of turquoise, teal, aqua, navy and<br />
lime green, showing the influence of abstract<br />
expressionism. There is an impression<br />
of spontaneity in each gestural brushstroke.<br />
Many of Kissinger’s glass sculptures<br />
were influenced by her travels to arts<br />
destinations. Her bowl-shaped sculpture<br />
titled “Water Lily” is her take on Monet’s<br />
famous series painted in Giverny, France.<br />
A brilliant orange and red glass sculpture,<br />
titled “Titian,” alludes to the Venetian artist’s<br />
bold use of color.<br />
Glass held a fascination for Kissinger<br />
even when she was a little girl. “I would<br />
pick up any piece of glass I found and<br />
hold it up to watch the light sparkle and<br />
dance through ripples of color,” she said.<br />
When she went to work for VitraMax, she<br />
said she “felt like Charlie in the chocolate<br />
factory of glass.”<br />
Although glass artists use many different<br />
methods and techniques to create<br />
their work, glass art is usually divided<br />
into three broad categories: hot glass, cold<br />
glass and warm glass. Hot glass involves<br />
working with glass that has been melted<br />
in a furnace. This hot viscous glass can be<br />
used in glass blowing, sculpting and casting<br />
into molds. Examples of cold glass<br />
work include etching, carving and engraving.<br />
Warm glass is glass heated in an<br />
oven or kiln to a temperature high enough<br />
to be bent, fused with other glass shards<br />
or cast into a mold.<br />
Kissinger’s work is kiln-formed,<br />
although she has done some work in all<br />
glass mediums. She has four kilns in her<br />
garage, which she uses for smaller pieces.<br />
For bigger projects, she uses kilns made<br />
available to her through the courtesy<br />
of others. She also has a small studio in<br />
Clarksville, but dreams of a studio big<br />
enough to accommodate all of her projects.<br />
Kissinger graduated from the University<br />
of Louisville with a concentration<br />
in interior design and began her career in<br />
Indianapolis at Rowland Design. Since<br />
moving back “home” to Clark County,<br />
she has become known for her extensive<br />
creative outreach. She has permanent art<br />
installations on exhibit at Humana, St.<br />
Francis Hospital and Technidyne Corp.<br />
She has established a worship arts ministry,<br />
paints at live events, consults and<br />
teaches. •<br />
“I would pick up any piece of glass I found<br />
and hold it up to watch the light sparkle<br />
and dance through ripples of color.”<br />
- Paige Kissinger<br />
For more information on the artist, visit<br />
paigekissinger.com.<br />
<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 29
812-936-3418 • vflwb.com • #MyFrenchLick<br />
30 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living
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West Baden Springs Hotel<br />
Mixology Class<br />
West Baden Springs Hotel<br />
Wine and Dessert Soiree<br />
West Baden Springs Hotel<br />
Air Supply Concert<br />
French Lick Springs Hotel<br />
Visit French Lick<br />
West Baden Upcoming Events<br />
Pioneer Park Slopestyle Event<br />
Paoli Peaks<br />
<strong>Jan</strong>uary 25,<br />
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<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 7<br />
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Wine and Canvas<br />
West Baden Springs Hotel<br />
Ohh La Love: A Valentine’s Soiree<br />
French Lick Springs Hotel<br />
12th Annual Chocolate Fest<br />
French Lick Springs Hotel<br />
<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 8, 9 Chocolate Lovers Weekend<br />
<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 15, 16 French Lick Winery<br />
<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 14<br />
<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 15<br />
Chocolate Tasting Train<br />
French Lick Scenic Railway<br />
Dinner Train<br />
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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 31
History of SoIN<br />
Preserving History<br />
Community fights to preserve a pre-civil war home in Marengo that<br />
served as a post office where mail was delivered by stagecoach<br />
32 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />
Story by Sara Combs<br />
Photos by Mark Flanigan
History seemed to come alive<br />
when guests toured Marengo’s<br />
Proctor House during its grand<br />
opening this past fall. And<br />
that is just what the Crawford County<br />
Historical and Genealogical Society<br />
wanted to happen. The project – some<br />
15 years in the making – came to fruition<br />
with the event.<br />
“It is all about what a little band of<br />
people can do when they stick to their<br />
goals and stay dedicated,” said Carol<br />
Tomlinson, secretary of the society. The<br />
cast has changed some during the years,<br />
but the dedication has remained steadfast,<br />
she said.<br />
Proctor House, built with clay bricks<br />
made on the site just before the Civil War,<br />
was gifted to the society on June 14, 2004,<br />
by the town of Marengo, along with a<br />
pioneer cemetery and several acres. Since<br />
that time a lot of blood, sweat, tears and<br />
money have gone into its restoration.<br />
The house had been vacant for some<br />
time and was in serious disrepair when<br />
the society took ownership. “It took several<br />
years to clean up the property,” said<br />
Tomlinson. “That included hauling off<br />
many loads of debris.” The residence also<br />
needed lot of cleanup and repair.<br />
There were many hours of labor and<br />
some donations. The organization held<br />
yard sales and other fundraisers. However,<br />
more money was needed to further<br />
the project.<br />
“After I joined the historical society,<br />
it wasn’t long before I was elected secretary<br />
and all I heard was ‘Proctor House,’<br />
‘Proctor House,’” said Tomlinson, a retired<br />
teacher. “They were all saying what a historic<br />
treasure it was and how it should be<br />
preserved.” She soon caught the enthusiasm,<br />
was excited about the work already<br />
done and became interested in helping to<br />
secure funds to continue the restoration.<br />
“I looked to the Community Foundation<br />
of Crawford County for the possibility<br />
of a grant and found out they<br />
weren’t accepting applications. Then the<br />
foundation underwent some changes and<br />
began accepting them. So I attended a<br />
CFCC grant-writing workshop and wrote<br />
an application. We were awarded $10,000<br />
— our first grant. Wyatt Jackson, who was<br />
with the foundation then, suggested we<br />
use that as seed to obtain other grants.”<br />
That, along with funds the society<br />
raised, allowed leverage on further grants,<br />
she said, and resulted in the organization<br />
getting $324,000 for the restoration, which<br />
was done by Myers White Inc., a Louisville<br />
company.<br />
Then it was time to furnish the house,<br />
Tomlinson said. “It was quite a journey to<br />
find things,” she said. Because the society<br />
wants the Proctor House to be a county<br />
museum as well as a tribute to the Proctor<br />
history, they wanted donations of household<br />
goods to come from throughout the<br />
county. “That has been pretty successful,”<br />
she said. Items have come from most of<br />
the county’s towns and rural areas. Tomlinson<br />
donated her grandfather’s antique<br />
tools. Mark Flanigan of Bloomington<br />
donated a feather bed from the home of<br />
his grandparents, the late A.H. and Nell<br />
Flanigan, purchased when they were<br />
married just after the turn of the century.<br />
(Ironically, Tomlinson said, A.H. was instrumental<br />
in forming the first Crawford<br />
County Historical Society in 1923. “With<br />
World War II, the society went into a sleep<br />
mode until it was revived in the early<br />
1970s,” she said.)<br />
“Besides private donations, we<br />
scoured local antique shops, then went to<br />
surrounding counties looking for authentic<br />
pieces,” Tomlinson said. Using money<br />
wisely is an ongoing consideration of the<br />
society, so when a professional designer<br />
suggested Austrian shades for the window<br />
treatment, they were rejected as being<br />
too expensive. So Tomlinson made<br />
By 1835, Proctor was postmaster; mail arrived by stagecoach. His<br />
house was known as Proctorville until the post office was moved to<br />
Marengo in 1852. Also, Proctor operated a store at the site.<br />
Pictured: (left-hand page) Visitors got to step back in historywhen<br />
they toured Marengo’s Proctor House opening last fall,<br />
thanks to the Crawford County Historical and Genealogical<br />
Society and its 15-year restoration work; (this page) a glimpse<br />
inside the living room in the Proctor House.<br />
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curtains from vintage tablecloths for the<br />
downstairs and used antique lace for the<br />
upstairs windows.<br />
“It has been a labor of love,” she<br />
said.<br />
Proctor House History<br />
The original property was a grant<br />
from the U.S. government to Malachi<br />
Monk in 1818 – just two years after Indiana<br />
became a state, according to research<br />
by Evelyn Harper Jackson of Corydon,<br />
who originally co-chaired the Proctor<br />
House project.<br />
A recorded deed to the land, dated<br />
March 21, 1826, shows that two Clark<br />
County men, William Proctor and Absalom<br />
Wood, bought the property from<br />
Monk. Proctor had married Mary Ann<br />
Watson in May 1825, and Absalom had<br />
married her sister, Anna Watson, two<br />
years earlier. The 1830 census shows both<br />
families occupying the house.<br />
By 1835, Proctor was postmaster,<br />
and mail arrived by stagecoach. His house<br />
was known as Proctorville until the post<br />
office was moved to Marengo in 1852.<br />
Proctor also operated a store at the site.<br />
Eventually, William and Lula Byrd<br />
became owners. They sold the property to<br />
George and Anna Dean in 1919. Their son,<br />
Hershel Dean, took possession when they<br />
died. The Dean heirs sold the farm and<br />
buildings to the town of Marengo when<br />
the municipality developed its industrial<br />
park.<br />
Both the house and the Proctor-<br />
Wood pioneer cemetery on the grounds<br />
are on the Indiana State and the National<br />
Register of Historic Places.<br />
Proctor House’s Future<br />
“When the history bug bites you,<br />
you want to learn all you can,” Tomlinson<br />
said. “The more you learn, the more you<br />
want to know.”<br />
That is what she is hoping happens<br />
with students who participate in the interactive<br />
events planned for spring. “Children<br />
will have an opportunity to do laundry<br />
in an antique tub using a washboard,<br />
press clothes with an iron from the 1800s,<br />
roll out dough with an antique rolling pin<br />
and numerous other activities,” she said.<br />
“Several retired teachers have agreed<br />
to host stations. We want to include arts<br />
and crafts, music and games from the culture<br />
of that earlier era,” Tomlinson said.<br />
Group tours can be scheduled, said<br />
William Piper, president of the Crawford<br />
County Historical and Genealogical Society.<br />
Piper said he also would meet individuals<br />
who are interested in seeing<br />
the house. He can be reached by email<br />
at billgpiper@hotmail.com. The society’s<br />
headquarters are at 310 Oak Hill Circle<br />
in English. The office is open 11 a.m. to 2<br />
p.m. Tuesdays.<br />
The Proctor House is a work in progress,<br />
Piper said, “and likely will be for a<br />
while.” Volunteers and financial help are<br />
welcome.<br />
Officers besides Piper and Tomlinson<br />
are Roscoe Hooten, vice president;<br />
and Sharon Morris, treasurer. Directors<br />
are Louie Mitchell, Robin Piper, Dan<br />
Crecelius and Angela Thompson. Roberta<br />
Toby is a state-appointed county historian.<br />
•<br />
For more information about CCHGS, visit its<br />
web site at www.cchgs.org.<br />
Pictured: (this page) Among vintage furnishings displayed<br />
is an antique feather bed, purchased by Nell Tower Flanigan<br />
from the Sears catalog, just before her marriage to A. H. Flanigan<br />
in 1902; (right hand page) Period items were gathered<br />
from private collections and local antique shops.<br />
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“Children will have an opportunity to do laundry in an antique tub using<br />
a washboard, press clothes with an iron from the 1800s, roll out<br />
dough with an antique rolling pin and numerous other activities. Several<br />
retired teachers have agreed to host stations. We want to include arts<br />
and crafts, music and games from the culture of that earlier era.”<br />
- Carol Tomlinson,<br />
Secretary of the Crawford County Historical and Genealogical Society<br />
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Glitz and sparkling personalities<br />
with celebrated voices will enliven<br />
the stage at Floyd Central<br />
High School when the famed<br />
Indiana University Singing Hoosiers<br />
from Bloomington will present a concert<br />
for the public. (See details in box.)<br />
The Grammy-nominated ensemble<br />
of 85 students and instrumentalists<br />
promise a toe-tapping evening of music<br />
from The Great American Songbook,<br />
jazz, Broadway, and contemporary hits.<br />
Its members also will conduct workshops<br />
earlier that day for Floyd Central’s choirs,<br />
directed by Angela Hampton.<br />
Singing Hoosiers<br />
Acclaimed group coming here<br />
Former Singing Hoosiers in the<br />
audience will be recognized that night,<br />
including two founding members, Kent<br />
McCaffrey and Bill Lohmeyer of New<br />
Albany. They both continued to sing in<br />
church choirs for years after performing<br />
with the group in the early 1950s.<br />
IU alumna and retired FCHS principal<br />
<strong>Jan</strong>ie Whaley orchestrated the concert<br />
efforts, wanting people to see firsthand<br />
that their love of music and opportunities<br />
to sing can last a lifetime.<br />
Proceeds will support the school’s<br />
music and theatre arts programs. •<br />
Pictured: Singing Hoosiers alumni<br />
Kent McCaffrey and FCHS Theatre<br />
Arts Director Rob Steiner; current<br />
member Marielle Hug, student<br />
teacher in vocal music at FCHS; and<br />
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42 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living
Grand in Grandparenting<br />
That First Smile<br />
I<br />
have one child, Jeff, and although I<br />
love our nieces and nephew who live<br />
far away, I never had the opportunity<br />
to share this mother’s love with more<br />
than one child as he grew and experienced<br />
life in Southern Indiana. I wondered how<br />
anyone could love another child equal to<br />
what I felt for Jeff.<br />
Then my first grandchild, Davis<br />
James “DJ” was born. DJ came earlier<br />
than his due date and spent several weeks<br />
in the NICU. I instantly felt a motherly<br />
love for DJ, but it was different. This love<br />
didn’t come attached to the usual responsibility<br />
that comes with raising a child –<br />
the stresses – the fears – the long sleepless<br />
nights. This love felt light and easy, and<br />
strangely even more intense than as a parent.<br />
As DJ’s personality developed, my<br />
love for him has grown even stronger.<br />
Fast forward to Christmas 2018, when DJ’s<br />
t-shirt joyfully spelled out, “big brother.”<br />
While thrilled with the news, I secretly<br />
wondered if I could love another human<br />
being as intensely as my first grandchild.<br />
I prayed it would come naturally.<br />
Thirty-three weeks seem to pass<br />
quickly (maybe not so fast for my daughter-in-law).<br />
Grandbaby number two, Case<br />
Thomas Dawson, like his brother, arrived<br />
early. Case needed some time in the Neonatal<br />
Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to grow.<br />
Although tiny, Case was perfect.<br />
My husband and I visited Case in<br />
the NICU multiple times after he was born<br />
the first day of summer. He was always<br />
sleeping quietly, seemingly content with<br />
his surroundings, working to outgrow<br />
the tubes and monitors. I knew the NICU<br />
routine and felt surprisingly comfortable.<br />
All we could do was watch him wiggle in<br />
the incubator, sleep, and breath.<br />
One evening I came by myself to<br />
visit Case in the NICU. He had escaped<br />
the incubator, but was sleeping, as he had<br />
been on each previous visit. I spoke to<br />
him in a whispered voice, “Case Thomas,<br />
I am your Mimi and I can’t wait to hold,<br />
comfort, cuddle, and love you. I promise<br />
to read to you and play for hours. We<br />
will jump into puddles of rainwater and<br />
I’ll catch you when you fall. We will<br />
swim, snuggle, and dance together. I<br />
will sing to you…a lot; oftentimes weird<br />
songs that I make up. I will pamper and<br />
spoil you. We will eat popsicles and blueberries<br />
together with your brother; I’ll<br />
teach you about colors and shapes…and<br />
the alphabet. I will demonstrate love, respect,<br />
and joy every time I am with you,<br />
and will explain about the importance of<br />
faith.”<br />
I felt the tears welling up and<br />
stopped for a moment to take in Case’s<br />
tiny features. Who does he look like...<br />
his hair is nearly black, and his brother’s<br />
is blonde. Case is smaller than DJ was<br />
when he was born and likes to curl up as<br />
if still in the womb, while DJ was all about<br />
stretching out. Case has his mother’s nose<br />
and his father’s eyes. He is part of them;<br />
he is part of me. Case is magnificent…he<br />
is perfect.<br />
I continued whispering to him, “<br />
Case, as long as I live, I will always be involved<br />
in your life. I will look out for you<br />
and be available when you want me near.<br />
I’ll work with your parents to teach you<br />
the importance of laughter; to laugh hard<br />
and long; the kind of laughter that brings<br />
tears and hurts your tummy.” Then, almost<br />
as if he was on cue, Case momentarily<br />
fluttered open his eyes and smiled.<br />
There it was; the same explosion of love<br />
I felt when first connecting to DJ in the<br />
NICU!<br />
Case Thomas is now 6 months old<br />
now. He already knows how much he is<br />
loved by family and friends, and he has<br />
This love didn’t come<br />
attached to the usual<br />
responsibility that<br />
comes with raising a<br />
child – the stresses<br />
– the fears – the long<br />
sleepless nights. This<br />
love felt light and<br />
easy, and strangely<br />
even more intense<br />
than as a parent.<br />
a bonus relationship in DJ, who makes<br />
it a point to kiss his baby brother’s head<br />
throughout the day while telling him he<br />
is “cute.” These two are going to be best<br />
friends.<br />
Having this second grandchild to<br />
love doesn’t mean I have less love to give<br />
DJ – it means my heart spontaneously exploded<br />
to embrace and hold all the emotions<br />
that make me a grandparent.<br />
Love for a child is embedded deep<br />
inside the heart; however, love for a<br />
grandchild gushes from the heart to consume<br />
the entire body. Love simply no longer<br />
is an adequate word to describe these<br />
deep grandparent feelings, and I’m not<br />
alone in this thought. But, for now, “love”<br />
will have to suffice. Case Thomas Dawson,<br />
I dearly love you. •<br />
Carol Baker Dawson, CCDP/<br />
AP, is President of EEO<br />
GUIDANCE, Inc. She also<br />
volunteers as the Communication<br />
Director, Center for Lay<br />
Ministries, and is the owner of<br />
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Joni’s Heart.<br />
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threatened me with a rabbit. If I<br />
didn’t cave on the dog, we would<br />
have a long-eared carrot chomper stinking<br />
up a cage in my daughter’s bedroom.<br />
I wasn’t about to let that happen.<br />
Don’t get me wrong, I love to see<br />
a cute bunny hopping around the yard<br />
as much as the next person. I just didn’t<br />
want one as a roommate. If we had a big<br />
house or a basement or a barn, it would<br />
be a different story, but we don’t. When<br />
it came to Peter Cottontail, our house just<br />
wasn’t big enough for the both of us.<br />
But a dog? I love dogs. I love them<br />
so much I’ve had my heart broken more<br />
times than I care to remember when I’ve<br />
had to say goodbye. Honestly, I didn’t<br />
want to go through that again, especially<br />
with kids. Not only would I be an emotional<br />
wreck, but I’d have a house full of<br />
heartbreak on my hands.<br />
Besides that fact, I knew who<br />
changed the litter box. I had a pretty good<br />
hunch that the same guy would end up<br />
doing most of the walking, pooper scooping<br />
and cleaning up messes left behind<br />
this furry tornado. As much fun as all of<br />
that sounded, I just didn’t think I could<br />
take on any more pet butler responsibilities.<br />
But then my six-year-old, the baby<br />
of the family, really went to work on me,<br />
and I knew I couldn’t hold out for long.<br />
Owning a dog was the greatest dream of<br />
her life, and Bring Your Pet to School day<br />
was just around the corner. I just couldn’t<br />
see us hauling our fat, white cat into her<br />
classroom where he’d either scratch someone<br />
or pee in the corner. Probably both.<br />
Then my wife played the trump<br />
card. The bunny. If we couldn’t handle<br />
a dog, we would just have to get a rabbit.<br />
The next thing I knew we were looking at<br />
a litter of puppies.<br />
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My daughter picked a tiny fuzzball<br />
named Panda, and I was determined not<br />
to get too attached. That lasted about five<br />
seconds. Now she sleeps between my feet<br />
every night.<br />
All of my gloom-and-doom prophecies<br />
came true. She had accidents all over<br />
the house, raided the trash, barked all<br />
hours of the night and made the cat such a<br />
nervous wreck he started marking his territory,<br />
all of which meant more work for<br />
me.<br />
But now, five years later, no one<br />
loves that dog more than I do. My family<br />
might argue that point, but Panda and<br />
I both know the truth. I’m the one who<br />
hung out with her in the backyard at 3:00<br />
in the morning when she got into a bag<br />
of chocolate. I’m the one who rushed<br />
her to the vet when she got a fishhook in<br />
her paw. And someday, hopefully many,<br />
many years from now, I will probably be<br />
the one who will walk with her in the very<br />
end.<br />
Yes, I know she’s just a dog, but over<br />
the past five years she’s taught me a lot<br />
about love. Love isn’t a feeling. It’s a<br />
commitment. It’s being willing to do the<br />
hard stuff, the messy stuff and even the<br />
painful stuff that comes from sacrificing<br />
for the good of someone else.<br />
That’s what God did for us, not because<br />
we’re his pets but because we’re his<br />
creation. No one coerced him to love us.<br />
It was all his idea. Knowing the messes<br />
we would cause, knowing the trouble<br />
we would make and even knowing how<br />
much he would have to sacrifice for us, he<br />
chose to love us anyway.<br />
Of course the love we have for our<br />
pets or even the greater love we demonstrate<br />
for family and friends doesn’t even<br />
come close to comparing to the love God<br />
Don’t get me wrong, I love to see a cute bunny<br />
hopping around the yard as much as the next<br />
person. I just didn’t want one as a roommate.<br />
has for us. But it does remind us that love<br />
costs something. It’s inconvenient. It’s<br />
messy. It’s painful.<br />
Yet, for whatever reason, God<br />
thought you and I were worth it. Not because<br />
of anything we do for him, but because<br />
his love makes us worthy. •<br />
Pictured: Panda, playing keep away with her new found<br />
toy - a wet paint stirring stick.<br />
Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />
dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />
his way every day. You can read more from<br />
Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile and<br />
Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason on<br />
his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.
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