Whitchurch and Llandaff Living Issue 56
Winter 2019/20 issue of the award-winning Whitchurch and Llandaff Living. Winter 2019/20 issue of the award-winning Whitchurch and Llandaff Living.
News | People | Features | Competitions | Lifestyle Whitchurch & Llandaff Living At the heart of the community Issue 56 Winter 19/20
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News | People | Features | Competitions | Lifestyle<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> &<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong><br />
At the heart of the community<br />
<strong>Issue</strong> <strong>56</strong> Winter 19/20
2<br />
Inside this issue<br />
Bethan Elfyn<br />
talks about her<br />
time at BBC<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> how<br />
Welsh music<br />
took over the<br />
world<br />
Tasker Watkins<br />
Discover the<br />
incredible life<br />
story of one of<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's most<br />
remarkable men<br />
Winter<br />
Wonderl<strong>and</strong><br />
Head outdoors<br />
this winter <strong>and</strong><br />
discover the real<br />
beauty of this<br />
season<br />
The Joy of Giving<br />
10 ways to make<br />
alternative<br />
giving a joy this<br />
Christmas<br />
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Welcome / Croeso<br />
The excitement of the winter<br />
season is upon us <strong>and</strong> our<br />
villages, homes <strong>and</strong> shops are<br />
glowing with warm colour. This<br />
issue is packed with festive<br />
treats, but as the Winter issue, it<br />
will take us through until Spring.<br />
We have therefore themed many<br />
of our features around winter <strong>and</strong><br />
the uniqueness of this beautiful<br />
season, with a sub-theme<br />
around sustainability <strong>and</strong> the<br />
planet.<br />
The magazine has always<br />
celebrated the characters <strong>and</strong><br />
stories from our villages. One<br />
such character is Major Sir Tasker<br />
Watkins VC. A blue plaque was<br />
recently unveiled in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff to<br />
honour him, so we present a<br />
brief glimpse into the life of this<br />
remarkable man.<br />
Radio producer Bethan Elfyn<br />
has recently made the move<br />
from the BBC Ll<strong>and</strong>aff studios to<br />
the new city centre building. She<br />
speaks of her career in radio <strong>and</strong><br />
what the future holds for both<br />
the corporation <strong>and</strong> her work.<br />
We often look to hunker down<br />
at this time of year but we've<br />
put together a great feature that<br />
will entice you to wrap up warm<br />
<strong>and</strong> step outside your front door<br />
to the Winter Wonderl<strong>and</strong> that<br />
awaits you.<br />
With the focus on the<br />
sustainability theme, if you're<br />
looking to reduce your own<br />
negative impact on the<br />
environment, we present several<br />
ways you can achieve this -<br />
including over Christmas when<br />
traditionally we create a lot of<br />
waste.<br />
With this in mind <strong>and</strong> for<br />
those who want to give a gift<br />
a little differently, we highlight<br />
alternative ways to show your<br />
appreciation for loved ones.<br />
What’s on<br />
Wreath Making<br />
Thursday 12th December 10am<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library<br />
Book at the Library. £8 for wreaths, £4<br />
for table decorations. Instructions <strong>and</strong><br />
materials provided.<br />
Cardiff Viva! Vegan Festival<br />
Saturday 22nd February 10.30am<br />
Cardiff City Hall<br />
A huge variety of stalls, plus outdoor<br />
hot food vans <strong>and</strong> gazebos selling all<br />
Food is an important part of<br />
the season but it can also be a<br />
time of excess <strong>and</strong> waste. We've<br />
got some recipes that will help<br />
reduce that waste by making the<br />
most of your leftovers.<br />
There is a heart-warming short<br />
story, kindly written by Alice<br />
Morgan. The story won the<br />
South Wales Echo Christmas<br />
Short Story competition a few<br />
years ago <strong>and</strong> reminds us to be<br />
grateful for everything we have<br />
this Christmas.<br />
As we turn to welcome in<br />
not only a new year, but a<br />
new decade, we highlight a<br />
psychological model that can<br />
help you effect change.<br />
So, as we say goodbye to<br />
what's gone, let's think about<br />
where we want to be.<br />
Happy new decade.<br />
Danielle <strong>and</strong> Patric<br />
Editors<br />
@<strong>Whitchurch</strong><strong>and</strong>Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<strong>Living</strong><br />
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manner of tasty treats.<br />
Carol Singing<br />
Saturday 21st December 4-5pm<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library<br />
Carol Singing <strong>and</strong> mince pies,<br />
accompanied by M10 b<strong>and</strong>.<br />
Six Nations 2020<br />
Saturday 1st February<br />
Principality Stadium<br />
Wales start the defence of their title<br />
against Italy.
Blue plaque unveiled in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff to<br />
honour Ll<strong>and</strong>aff war hero<br />
Photo: Alun Salisbury<br />
A blue plaque has been unveiled in<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff to honour one of its most<br />
revered citizens.<br />
The plaque to Major Sir Tasker<br />
Watkins VC was unveiled by Geoffrey<br />
Barton-Greenwood, Chairman of the<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Society.<br />
Geoffrey delivered a speech to<br />
those present, honouring Sir Tasker<br />
Watkins, who was both a war hero<br />
<strong>and</strong> a luminary in the legal system:<br />
"After war service, he set up his<br />
family’s home here at ‘St Andrew’s<br />
in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff, whilst studying for<br />
the Bar. It was a field in which he<br />
excelled <strong>and</strong> during an impressive<br />
legal career, he rose to become<br />
Deputy Lord Chief Justice. He was<br />
also an accomplished sportsman,<br />
especially on the rugby field, playing<br />
for the Army, Cardiff <strong>and</strong> Glamorgan<br />
W<strong>and</strong>erers, finally becoming the<br />
Residents of both <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North have raised concerns<br />
about groups of 'hoodies', who are<br />
terrorising the areas.<br />
One woman from <strong>Whitchurch</strong>, who<br />
wanted to remain anonymous, told<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong>.<br />
"It seems to have been getting<br />
worse over the last few months. The<br />
gangs usually consist of a group of<br />
teenage boys, sometimes on bikes,<br />
<strong>and</strong> always wearing hoodies to<br />
protect their identity.<br />
"I was passing through the Philog in<br />
my car last night quite late at night.<br />
I was sat at a junction <strong>and</strong> heard an<br />
almighty crash, like a window had<br />
been broken. A few seconds later,<br />
four teenage boys went running past<br />
my car <strong>and</strong> down a side street."<br />
Other residents have complained<br />
on social media that groups are<br />
first Life President of the WRU.<br />
An imposing statue of Sir Tasker<br />
already st<strong>and</strong>s at the entrance to the<br />
Principality Stadium in Cardiff but<br />
we now honour him here in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff,<br />
where he was resident at other<br />
addresses for the rest of his life, until<br />
he died in 2007 aged 88 years."<br />
Geoffrey also introduced Tasker's<br />
daughter, Lady Mair Griffith Williams,<br />
who was present at the unveiling.<br />
"As a babe in arms, together with<br />
her late mother Eirwen, Lady Mair<br />
was taken to Buckingham Palace<br />
where Sir Tasker was decorated with<br />
the VC by King George VI, on 8th<br />
March 1945. I was delighted to invite<br />
her to unveil the Blue plaque as a<br />
lasting memorial to her late father;<br />
a great Welshman, who loved this<br />
place!" added Geoffrey.<br />
'Hoodies' terrorising local villages<br />
making the areas unpleasant to live<br />
in.<br />
"I posted photos of one group to<br />
social media a few days ago but<br />
was told that I had to take it down<br />
to protect their identities," said one<br />
man, who also wanted to remain<br />
anonymous. "Where are the parents<br />
of these kids? Surely they must<br />
know that their teenage sons are out<br />
late at night? It's not fair that we have<br />
to put up with this," she added.<br />
news<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
roadworks put<br />
on hold for<br />
Christmas<br />
Plans to upgrade gas pipes in<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> have been put on<br />
hold until after the Christmas<br />
period.<br />
Traders were concerned that<br />
the planned works on Merthyr<br />
Road would affect one of their<br />
busiest times of year. MP Anna<br />
McMorrin raised the concerns<br />
with Wales & West Utilities, who<br />
are due to carry out the essential<br />
upgrade.<br />
The company responded by<br />
revising their plans for the works<br />
on Merthyr Road, which will now<br />
take place in January instead.<br />
Wales <strong>and</strong> West Utilities'<br />
programme controller for Cardiff,<br />
Adam Smith told the media:<br />
“We will be working in the<br />
Merthyr Road area of <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
to upgrade the gas network. We<br />
know working on roads like these<br />
is not ideal, but this £725,000<br />
investment is essential to keep<br />
the gas flowing to heat homes<br />
<strong>and</strong> power businesses in the<br />
area. It will also ensure that the<br />
gas network is fit for the future<br />
<strong>and</strong> can play its part in delivering<br />
reliable <strong>and</strong> affordable green<br />
energy.<br />
"After feedback from the local<br />
community, we have re-planned<br />
our work to keep disruption to<br />
local people <strong>and</strong> businesses<br />
to a minimum. Between now<br />
<strong>and</strong> Christmas, we will be<br />
working on residential streets<br />
in the area, <strong>and</strong> work on The<br />
Philog <strong>and</strong> Merthyr Road will be<br />
rescheduled after Christmas."<br />
The work is due to take around<br />
five months to complete. Traders<br />
felt the impact of roadworks last<br />
year when the new pedestrian<br />
crossings were installed at<br />
the crossroads near St Mary's<br />
Church.<br />
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news<br />
Plasdŵr traffic<br />
Areas of North Cardiff are likely<br />
to feel the effects of construction<br />
work on the Plasdŵr development<br />
until the summer of 2020.<br />
Danescourt, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff, Fairwater<br />
<strong>and</strong> Radyr have all been affected<br />
by the work around Heol Isaf.<br />
Construction workers are working<br />
to widen the road for a bus lane<br />
<strong>and</strong> a cycleway. Drainage work is<br />
also taking place <strong>and</strong> permanent<br />
traffic lights have been installed.<br />
Resident Marie Charles told<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong>:<br />
"It's been going on so long now. It<br />
feels like it's never going to end."<br />
New speed limit<br />
A new speed limit <strong>and</strong> a pedestrian<br />
crossing are being planned by<br />
Cardiff Council for Caewal Road.<br />
The plans include a toucan<br />
crossing <strong>and</strong> 30mph speed limit at<br />
the western end of Caewal Road<br />
by March 2020. It will be sited at the<br />
junction on Western Avenue.<br />
It is hoped that the new plans<br />
will prevent accidents <strong>and</strong> make<br />
the route safer, especially for<br />
vulnerable residents. The current<br />
speed limit is 40mph.<br />
Parking plans<br />
Cardiff Council are currently<br />
proposing new parking plans<br />
to help ease parking issues in<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North.<br />
Draft proposals put forward would<br />
see residents paying for a parking<br />
permit while yellow lines <strong>and</strong> pay<br />
<strong>and</strong> display parking facilities would<br />
be installed on streets in the areas.<br />
Residents have been up in arms<br />
at some motorists' parking, which<br />
have been blocking pavements<br />
<strong>and</strong> even emergency vehicles.<br />
The proposals for the controlled<br />
parking are still in their early stages.<br />
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Medieval building<br />
found under<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff toilets<br />
Archaeologists have discovered what<br />
they consider a 'high status' medieval<br />
building under former public toilets<br />
in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff. The location of the site<br />
next to the 13th century Old Bishop's<br />
Castle suggests that an important<br />
person would have lived there.<br />
The discovery was made during<br />
a community dig which started in<br />
September. A fireplace, chequered<br />
ceramic floor tiles, animal bones <strong>and</strong><br />
old horse shoes were also uncovered<br />
during the dig. Archaeologists have<br />
dated the medieval building to about<br />
1450.<br />
The dig involved more than<br />
200 schoolchildren <strong>and</strong> 35 other<br />
volunteers. They were supervised<br />
by archaeologists Dr Tim Young<br />
of GeoArch <strong>and</strong> Louise Mumford,<br />
Archivist of The Cathedral School.<br />
Conservatives c<strong>and</strong>idate Mia Rees<br />
was recently elected to Cardiff<br />
Council after winning the <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
<strong>and</strong> Tongwynlais by-election with<br />
36% of the vote.<br />
The result means the Conservatives<br />
have held onto the seat, with 1,544<br />
votes. The by-election was triggered<br />
following the death of Timothy Davies.<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Society<br />
volunteers also worked throughout<br />
the event.<br />
Lead archaeologist Dr Tim Young<br />
told the media:<br />
"This was a surprise to find a high<br />
status building. It includes a Bath<br />
Stone fire surround which was<br />
imported from the Bath area <strong>and</strong><br />
it is not really known as a stone in<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff.<br />
"It had always been assumed that<br />
the area was the pound before that so<br />
the discovery of a medieval dwelling<br />
on the site was quite unexpected," he<br />
added.<br />
BBC Wales staff begin their move from<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff to Cardiff city centre<br />
Staff at BBC Wales have begun<br />
moving to their new home in Cardiff<br />
city centre.<br />
Around 1,000 members of staff are<br />
due to migrate to the new city centre<br />
building over the next few months.<br />
The move will bring an end to more<br />
than 50 years of broadcasting from<br />
the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff site.<br />
The new 150,000 sq ft building,<br />
which is around half the size of its<br />
current site, was first announced<br />
in 2015. It's designed to reduce<br />
operating costs <strong>and</strong> provide<br />
BBC Wales with a future-proof,<br />
contemporary environment equipped<br />
with cutting-edge technology.<br />
The new headquarters is spread over<br />
five floors, with a rooftop garden that<br />
can double up as a shooting location.<br />
On the ground floor, there are three<br />
TV studios <strong>and</strong> an additional flexible<br />
space, which is adjacent to the<br />
studios <strong>and</strong> next to an open atrium<br />
area. The public will be invited into<br />
the centre for a range of tours, <strong>and</strong><br />
community <strong>and</strong> learning activities.<br />
The Ll<strong>and</strong>aff site is set to be<br />
converted into housing after the staff<br />
have completed the move. In 2014,<br />
it was confirmed that Broadcasting<br />
House <strong>and</strong> Ty Oldfield would be<br />
demolished <strong>and</strong> turned into 400<br />
residential units. Broadcasting House<br />
was officially opened by Princess<br />
Margaret on St David's Day in 1967.<br />
Conservatives win local by-election<br />
Mia said:<br />
"I love where I live <strong>and</strong> I want to be<br />
part of making it even better. Most of<br />
the issues which frustrate residents<br />
can be improved <strong>and</strong> I'm determined<br />
to make that happen.<br />
"The main areas I will focus on<br />
include tackling parking issues <strong>and</strong><br />
traffic concerns."
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Police history<br />
I formerly served in both Cardiff<br />
City Police <strong>and</strong> South Wales<br />
Constabulary. Whilst the City<br />
Police had responsibility for most<br />
of the city, this did not extend<br />
to <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> other areas<br />
in north-west Cardiff. That same<br />
area was provided with cover by<br />
the Glamorganshire Fire Brigade<br />
with a station near Velindre<br />
Hospital.<br />
At some point, the City Police<br />
took over those areas before<br />
all forces in South Wales were<br />
amalgamated to form the South<br />
Wales Police, which occurred<br />
during 1969.<br />
I made a plaque some years<br />
ago, showing badges of the<br />
Glamorgan Force. These are:<br />
1. Officer's cap badge<br />
2. Helmet plate<br />
3. Belt buckle insignia<br />
4. Dragon collar badges<br />
The Fox<br />
I glance out of my window<br />
view a fox scurrying down the<br />
street<br />
setting off my outside light<br />
under neon <strong>and</strong> an orange-grey<br />
sky<br />
Cats will retreat under cars<br />
<strong>and</strong> wise birds will rise in the early<br />
morn<br />
in order to survive the chorus at<br />
dawn.<br />
I admire the creature's golden<br />
beauty<br />
far more awe-inspiring to me<br />
than the fireworks on New Year's<br />
Eve.<br />
It roams alone, untamed, raw, free,<br />
as transient as a dream<br />
but its appearance a pleasant<br />
surprise<br />
yet never again to be seen by my<br />
eyes<br />
Guy Fletcher<br />
Rhiwbina<br />
Your readers may find this of<br />
interest. I also have a similar<br />
plaque showing the badges<br />
of the four forces involved<br />
in that amalgamation, from<br />
Cardiff, Glamorgan, Merthyr <strong>and</strong><br />
Swansea.<br />
David Prichard<br />
Rumney<br />
Cardiff<br />
Why is our park<br />
neglected?<br />
Through the medium of your<br />
magazine, I would like to complain<br />
about the state that one of our<br />
local parks has been left in.<br />
Over the last few years, Gabalfa<br />
Park, situated between College<br />
Road <strong>and</strong> Aberporth Road, has<br />
been very much neglected by<br />
the local Council. Your readers<br />
may remember that the park<br />
was featured in Crimewatch five<br />
years ago, following the sexual<br />
assault on a teenager by a group<br />
of boys. Since then, the park has<br />
deteriorated rapidly. Its equipment<br />
has been either v<strong>and</strong>alised or<br />
taken away yet despite concerns<br />
put forward to the Council, the<br />
state of the park seems to get<br />
worse by the month.<br />
When I passed through there last<br />
month, there was shattered glass,<br />
lots of litter strewn around the<br />
place <strong>and</strong> the place looks as if it's<br />
in a state of permanent disrepair.<br />
I feel sorry both for the children<br />
who are now unable to use it <strong>and</strong><br />
the parents of little ones who have<br />
one less place to take them.<br />
Added to all of this, the lighting is<br />
almost non-existent which renders<br />
the park essentially unusable as<br />
soon as it gets dark.<br />
I underst<strong>and</strong> that there are more<br />
important things in the world that<br />
need attending to right now but<br />
it does sadden me to see a local<br />
facility like this disappear before<br />
our eyes.<br />
Lucy Wheeler<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North<br />
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kids<br />
Dear<br />
Santa<br />
Santa Claus<br />
Lapl<strong>and</strong><br />
North Pole<br />
Dear Santa<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I’m looking<br />
forward to<br />
Christmas Day<br />
this year. I hope<br />
it snows!<br />
I think I'm on the Good List<br />
because I’ve been helping<br />
out at school <strong>and</strong> at home<br />
throughout the year.<br />
Please can you bring me Our<br />
Generation School set?<br />
Have my elves, Charlie <strong>and</strong><br />
Cheeky, been good helpers<br />
this year?<br />
Jenna aged 8<br />
This year, I'm looking forward<br />
to the presents I will get.<br />
I think that I'm on the Good List,<br />
because I have been good at laying<br />
the table.<br />
Please can you<br />
bring me fancy<br />
dress costumes,<br />
Captain America,<br />
Hulk <strong>and</strong> Black Panther<br />
as well as more<br />
Transformers.<br />
Have a safe travel <strong>and</strong><br />
I hope you are ready.<br />
Giacomo<br />
aged 6<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I look forward to my elf Timmy coming<br />
back in December <strong>and</strong> also seeing my<br />
family <strong>and</strong> opening my presents.<br />
I think I'm on your Good List because<br />
I've been playing with my sister.<br />
I would like an LOL doll, Hatchimals,<br />
Descendants dolls, a doll of Mary<br />
Poppins, a sewing kit, a Harry Potter<br />
colouring <strong>and</strong> activity book, <strong>and</strong> a<br />
Harry Potter <strong>and</strong> the Half Blood Prince<br />
book.<br />
Please put me on the Good List!<br />
Rosie aged 8<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I am looking forward to meeting all<br />
of my family <strong>and</strong> opening all of my<br />
presents this Christmas.<br />
I think that I am on the Good List<br />
because I always try my hardest, look<br />
out for others <strong>and</strong> care for people.<br />
Please can you bring me LOLs <strong>and</strong><br />
a tablet.<br />
Thank you for the presents I have<br />
had in previous years.<br />
Holly aged 8
Dear Santa<br />
I am looking forward to opening presents<br />
<strong>and</strong> seeing my family this Christmas. I'm<br />
also excited about Chippy my elf coming<br />
back to stay because I love finding her in<br />
funny places <strong>and</strong> talking to her.<br />
My Mummy thinks that I'm on the Good<br />
List as I look after my little brother <strong>and</strong><br />
make him laugh, <strong>and</strong> I am kind to my<br />
friends.<br />
I really want an iPod for Christmas because<br />
you can chat to friends <strong>and</strong> play games<br />
on it. I would also like the<br />
Descendants dolls.<br />
I hope you <strong>and</strong> all the<br />
elves are having fun<br />
getting ready<br />
for Christmas.<br />
Evie<br />
aged 8<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I am looking forward to spending time<br />
with my family this Christmas.<br />
I'd like to think that I'm on the<br />
Good List because I am kind <strong>and</strong><br />
helpful.<br />
For Christmas, I'd like a litter<br />
picker, a chin-up bar <strong>and</strong> a<br />
skateboard.<br />
Thank you for my Christmas<br />
presents.<br />
Molly aged 9<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I am looking forward to opening<br />
my presents, seeing my family <strong>and</strong><br />
going to the fun house at Winter<br />
Wonderl<strong>and</strong>.<br />
I think I'm on your Good List as<br />
I have been good <strong>and</strong> I am kind to<br />
everybody but sometimes I have<br />
been naughty.<br />
For Christmas, I'd like Hot Wheels<br />
<strong>and</strong> Space Lego.<br />
I love you Santa.<br />
I hope you have a<br />
great day. I wish I<br />
could see you in<br />
Lapl<strong>and</strong> again.<br />
Eddie aged 5<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I'm looking forward<br />
to Christmas because<br />
you bring me<br />
presents.<br />
I think I am on the<br />
Good List because<br />
sometimes I’m a<br />
good boy. I’ve been good today!<br />
I’d like a planet calendar for<br />
Christmas please.<br />
You're the best because you<br />
give presents to all of us.<br />
Charlie aged 6<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I'm looking forward to seeing the<br />
presents under the Christmas tree.<br />
I think I'm on the Good List<br />
because I like giving Mummy<br />
cuddles <strong>and</strong> being a good friend to<br />
my friends.<br />
For Christmas, I'd like a new kitten,<br />
<strong>and</strong> a Robux card.<br />
Thank you for<br />
bringing our<br />
presents every year<br />
<strong>and</strong> your beard is<br />
beautiful .<br />
Dear Santa<br />
I'm looking forward to visiting<br />
Uncle Ed in London this Christmas.<br />
I think I'm on the Good List<br />
because I like helping people. For<br />
Christmas, I'd like a new kitten <strong>and</strong><br />
a glowpad.<br />
Please can you keep me on the<br />
Good List Santa<br />
<strong>and</strong> I like your beard.<br />
Ava aged 8<br />
Dear Santa<br />
Sophia aged 8<br />
I’m looking forward to Christmas dinner with<br />
my family.<br />
I think I’m just on the Good List because I’m<br />
better at rugby <strong>and</strong> listening.<br />
This year, I’d like Minecraft LEGO <strong>and</strong> Nerf<br />
guns.<br />
Watch out for our new<br />
puppy when you come<br />
down the chimney- she<br />
likes to chew things!<br />
Seb aged 9
How can you help your teen manage their stress?<br />
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Having to cope with some level of<br />
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Teenagers need 9 ¼ hours sleep<br />
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So, our teens are trying to function<br />
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Lead the way yourself<br />
Children look to the adults in<br />
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Don’t leave it too late to get them<br />
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Radio DJ <strong>and</strong> producer Bethan Elfyn talks about her career to date -<br />
<strong>and</strong> how the BBC's move from Ll<strong>and</strong>aff has reinvigorated her work<br />
If there's one person who knows<br />
what's what <strong>and</strong> who's who in<br />
Welsh music, it's Bethan Elfyn. She's<br />
just made the move from the BBC's<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff studios to their new city<br />
centre building - <strong>and</strong> she's loving<br />
her new home:<br />
"Look at this!" she says, offering<br />
the view from the floor-to-ceiling<br />
windows. "You can see all over the<br />
city <strong>and</strong> down to Penarth! Isn't it<br />
great?"<br />
Bethan is excited with her new<br />
working home <strong>and</strong> the possibilities<br />
of collaboration <strong>and</strong> opportunities<br />
it can bring. Her reputation for<br />
championing new Welsh music<br />
goes before her, but it all could<br />
have been so very different, had<br />
it not been for a trip across the<br />
English Channel back in the 1990s.<br />
"I grew up in Newtown in mid<br />
Wales. It was a rural upbringing <strong>and</strong><br />
it was quite late in life that I fell in<br />
love with the music scene."<br />
During her time in Sixth Form,<br />
Bethan had gone to France to work.<br />
"I went there to learn French but<br />
I had to do a cleaning job while I<br />
was there to pay my way. None of<br />
the people there spoke English<br />
so it was a really excellent way<br />
of learning the language. I had<br />
to communicate through sign<br />
language for the first few weeks<br />
until I was able to start talking about<br />
bed sheets in French!” she says.<br />
12<br />
"While I was there, I met two guys<br />
from Belfast <strong>and</strong> they introduced<br />
me to punk music. Whereas my pop<br />
compilation from Woolworths in<br />
Newtown had been Lenny Kravitz<br />
<strong>and</strong> all the chart hits of the time, I<br />
remember hearing this punk music<br />
<strong>and</strong> it transformed everything for<br />
me. It was a real revelation."<br />
The moment would be the start of<br />
a love relationship with music that<br />
would change her life.<br />
"These two guys were from an<br />
urban background on the streets<br />
of Belfast <strong>and</strong> it was such an<br />
awakening. I remember coming<br />
back to Sixth Form a different<br />
person."<br />
For a girl that had grown up around<br />
farmer's discos <strong>and</strong> barn dances,<br />
her new found passion was to divert<br />
Bethan's life trajectory forever.<br />
"I still wanted to explore academia<br />
but my reasons were now different.<br />
Suddenly I wanted to experience<br />
music <strong>and</strong> concerts."<br />
Before she even arrived in<br />
Cardiff to start a degree in English<br />
Literature, Bethan was writing <strong>and</strong><br />
blogging for music publications.<br />
"I wrote to Spillers record shop<br />
to try <strong>and</strong> get a Saturday job there<br />
<strong>and</strong> everything about moving to<br />
Cardiff was suddenly all about<br />
the music scene. It just coincided<br />
with everything that was going on<br />
with the Welsh music scene too.<br />
I remember going to Eisteddfods<br />
<strong>and</strong> seeing early incarnations of<br />
people like Gorky's Zygotic Mynci<br />
- I was watching them in Clwb Ifor<br />
Bach before any of us were even<br />
old enough to be there."<br />
Bethan's arrival in Cardiff was<br />
perfectly synchronised with what<br />
became known as Cool Cymru,<br />
the Welsh cultural movement that<br />
centred around music, independent<br />
film <strong>and</strong> other artistic endeavours<br />
by young Welsh figures prior to, <strong>and</strong><br />
during the new millennium. The<br />
movement was highlighted in 1999<br />
when the BBC announced that year<br />
as the 'Year of Cool Cymru'.<br />
During the 1990s, Wales enjoyed<br />
a period of prominence from some<br />
of its sports stars like Joe Calzaghe<br />
<strong>and</strong> Ryan Giggs on the world stage.<br />
In Wales itself, the construction of<br />
the Millennium Stadium <strong>and</strong> the<br />
regeneration of Cardiff Bay added to<br />
the country's reputation. But it was<br />
music that perhaps had the greatest<br />
impact on Welsh fortunes, with<br />
the likes of Super Furry Animals<br />
<strong>and</strong> Catatonia incorporating Welsh<br />
language into their repertoire.<br />
For Bethan, it was like arriving at a<br />
gold rush.<br />
"Moving to university here when<br />
all the b<strong>and</strong>s were doing well was<br />
incredible. There was a concert<br />
down at Cardiff Bay called the Big<br />
Noise Festival, headlined by Paul<br />
Photo © Hannah Tottle
Weller. The stage was floating on<br />
the water <strong>and</strong> all the big Welsh<br />
b<strong>and</strong>s at that time were on the<br />
line up. Being in Cardiff around<br />
that time, being at the heart of it<br />
<strong>and</strong> going out to all the clubs, my<br />
studies probably suffered. But it was<br />
so exciting to be part of it."<br />
Bethan spent her university years<br />
interviewing b<strong>and</strong>s, writing for<br />
music publications <strong>and</strong> helping<br />
behind the scenes at festivals.<br />
"I recognised that I wanted to go<br />
into music journalism <strong>and</strong> I got a<br />
job at Radio Cymru as a general<br />
reporter. I had to move up to Bangor<br />
for that so I suddenly had to uproot<br />
from Cardiff. It was a great time for<br />
me though because I learnt my<br />
trade producing radio shows tucked<br />
away in a small room. I organised<br />
loads of sessions <strong>and</strong> I got to know<br />
the music scene up there. I also<br />
received a lot of training in news<br />
<strong>and</strong> documentary making.<br />
"I was a day-to-day reporter<br />
but also worked as a late-night<br />
producer. I was there for two years."<br />
It was while Bethan was at Bangor<br />
in 1999 that she got the gig of her<br />
life. Along with <strong>Whitchurch</strong>'s Huw<br />
Stephens, she was chosen to front<br />
BBC Radio One's exclusive new<br />
music show for Wales, the Session<br />
in Wales, presenting the late-night<br />
show on BBC Radio One.<br />
"Huw was in Cardiff then <strong>and</strong> we’d<br />
only met twice at gigs. He was still<br />
at school at this point <strong>and</strong> he was<br />
also piloting for Radio One. Up until<br />
then, he used to create these mini<br />
reports for me at Radio Cymru but<br />
then we l<strong>and</strong>ed the Radio One job<br />
together."<br />
Broadcasting from the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
studio, Huw <strong>and</strong> Bethan's show<br />
lasted until 2010.<br />
"The world opened up for us<br />
both by working for such a big<br />
br<strong>and</strong>. I travelled the world making<br />
documentaries <strong>and</strong> hosting <strong>and</strong><br />
DJing at festivals. Huw <strong>and</strong> I would<br />
find ourselves compèring huge<br />
festivals like the Reading Festival -<br />
<strong>and</strong> none of this came naturally to<br />
us.<br />
"Being Welsh, we were always a<br />
little bit shy, especially at the live<br />
shows. When we first started, we<br />
suddenly found ourselves in front<br />
of 20,000 heavy metal fans. You can<br />
imagine the things that were going<br />
through our heads. There was one<br />
occasion when I was introducing<br />
the Reading Festival headliner<br />
– while facing the crazy crowd,<br />
someone came on stage <strong>and</strong> tried<br />
to wrestle the microphone from<br />
me. I was still mid-sentence when I<br />
realised it was the headliner, eager<br />
to start - It was Ian Brown!<br />
"We hosted the very first Radio<br />
One Big Weekend in Swansea.<br />
There were 60,000 people there.<br />
Being new to it all, we did that thing<br />
where you think the microphone<br />
is never going to be loud enough<br />
<strong>and</strong> we shouted a lot! It was surreal<br />
walking around the portacabins<br />
backstage <strong>and</strong> working with people<br />
like Beyoncé <strong>and</strong> Will Young <strong>and</strong><br />
I kept asking myself the question<br />
'Erm. And I'm here because?..."<br />
Despite her contemporaries<br />
including the likes of Sarah Cox,<br />
Zoe Ball, Jamie Theakston <strong>and</strong> Chris<br />
Moyles, Bethan was never fully<br />
convinced that she was there on<br />
merit.<br />
"I look back at the photos of some<br />
of the Christmas parties we had<br />
<strong>and</strong> I still wonder how I ended up<br />
there. I think they call it Imposter<br />
Syndrome. There was one time I<br />
was at Buckingham Palace talking<br />
to Tony Blair who was the Prime<br />
Minister at the time <strong>and</strong> wondering<br />
how a girl from mid Wales had<br />
ended up here. Thankfully there<br />
were a few Celts from other nations<br />
working in similar roles to me at the<br />
station <strong>and</strong> that helped."<br />
Bethan's deep-rooted Welsh<br />
heritage has helped forge a unique<br />
place within the broadcasting<br />
sphere.<br />
"As Welsh people, most of us are<br />
not born into privilege. We're often<br />
told to get a job <strong>and</strong> get on with life.<br />
In the past, our role models have<br />
been mainly sports people. And<br />
when you have a country that’s so<br />
small, you become a lot fiercer on<br />
identity.<br />
"I think there’s more going on in the<br />
Cardiff music scene now than there<br />
was 20 years ago though. We don’t<br />
see it as much now but it’s more<br />
prolific than it was back then. That<br />
can only be a good thing."<br />
Bethan still hosts her own show<br />
on BBC Radio Wales while juggling<br />
a producer <strong>and</strong> project manager<br />
role in production, both in radio <strong>and</strong><br />
outside the studio.<br />
"For the last five years, I've been<br />
running the music project Horizons,<br />
which is a joint initiative between<br />
BBC Cymru Wales <strong>and</strong> the Arts<br />
Council for Wales to promote new<br />
Welsh music. We mentor artists <strong>and</strong><br />
arrange festivals.<br />
"I've also recently been nominated<br />
to the Cardiff Music Board, which<br />
is the new Council strategy to<br />
instigate more musical discussion<br />
around the city. It’s all very exciting."<br />
The move from the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
studios to the city centre has also<br />
given Bethan a fresh outlook on her<br />
interview<br />
work.<br />
"It’s an incredible new lease of life<br />
to be working in the centre of town.<br />
Saying that, I did enjoy Ll<strong>and</strong>aff - it's<br />
a beautiful village. I'd sometimes<br />
head into the High Street <strong>and</strong> the<br />
parks around the area are so lovely."<br />
But Bethan is keen to look at the<br />
positive side of the move:<br />
"Some have found it hard to leave<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff; there’s a lot of history in<br />
those corridors <strong>and</strong> studios <strong>and</strong> a<br />
lot of fond memories. But I’m not<br />
nostalgic about moving because<br />
it’s about the work you do <strong>and</strong> the<br />
people you represent."<br />
With BBC Wales starting its new<br />
chapter in the city centre, Bethan's<br />
future is still up for grabs.<br />
"For the last few years, I’ve been<br />
bringing up two little ones <strong>and</strong> any<br />
level of ambition has been put on<br />
hold while I deal with kids' parties<br />
<strong>and</strong> gymnastics. If I didn’t have kids,<br />
I’d probably have said that my next<br />
step would be to travel the world<br />
or write a book or something. But<br />
having two kids, my main ambition<br />
in life is now to get to Friday,” she<br />
laughs.<br />
"I have achieved some memorable<br />
things in the last 20 years though.<br />
From making documentaries<br />
around the world to meeting<br />
musical heroes <strong>and</strong> household<br />
radio names, it’s been an incredible<br />
era. Perhaps the one memory that<br />
st<strong>and</strong>s out was a DJ set I did in a<br />
deserted skiing resort in Australia.<br />
And yes, you heard that correctly -<br />
in Australia – on Mount Buller. Nick<br />
Cave had curated a festival <strong>and</strong> he’d<br />
just finished his set. A friend <strong>and</strong> I<br />
were DJing in the village square <strong>and</strong><br />
we saw a crowd of people coming<br />
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playing. We had a tiny little stage<br />
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65 1. BAKE FOR A<br />
NEIGHBOUR<br />
Maintaining neighbourly relationships can be<br />
helped with kind <strong>and</strong> unexpected touches. Baking<br />
a cake is an ideal way to bestow the festive spirit on<br />
your neighbours.<br />
6 2. GIFT A STRANGER<br />
Happiness is often found in selfless acts. Prepare a<br />
parcel for a stranger <strong>and</strong> leave it on their doorstep<br />
on Christmas Eve. Alternatively, there are websites<br />
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across the world.<br />
5 3. DONATE TO A FOODBANK<br />
Amid all the excess of Christmas, there are those who<br />
struggle to even obtain the basics. There are plenty of<br />
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points can be found towards the exits of supermarkets.<br />
Foodbanks often need tinned fruit, long-life fruit juice, UHT<br />
milk, rice pudding <strong>and</strong> tinned vegetables.<br />
6 4. SPEND TIME WITH<br />
LONELY NEIGHBOURS<br />
Loneliness can be difficult to cope with at any time<br />
of the year, but for some, the added expectation of<br />
festive cheer <strong>and</strong> togetherness can be too much.<br />
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neighbours - you may be the only person they see<br />
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5 5. SHOP WORKERS<br />
Retail can be a difficult time for its workers <strong>and</strong><br />
customers can often be difficult <strong>and</strong> dem<strong>and</strong>ing.<br />
You can make all the difference to a workers' day<br />
with the simple act of smiling. If a worker provides<br />
great service, seek out a manager or a comments<br />
card <strong>and</strong> pass on some good feedback.<br />
8 6. BUY A HOT DRINK FOR<br />
A HOMELESS PERSON<br />
Winter can be very unforgiving for those on the<br />
streets <strong>and</strong> a hot drink will warm them both<br />
physically <strong>and</strong> emotionally.<br />
65 7. STICK POST-IT NOTES IN<br />
PUBLIC PLACES<br />
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words or when they're having a rough day. You can easily<br />
get a message of hope across to strangers at Christmas by<br />
leaving inspirational messages on post-it notes in public<br />
places. Keep them short <strong>and</strong> simple <strong>and</strong> very positive. It is<br />
the season of goodwill after all!<br />
65 8. DONATE TO ANIMAL<br />
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animal shelters, it can often be a lonely time. Even if you<br />
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5 9. DONATE TOYS TO A<br />
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Winter<br />
Traditions<br />
The Winter is a time of tradition <strong>and</strong><br />
familiarity yet we rarely often stop to<br />
ask about their origins. Here are the<br />
backgrounds to a few of our known<br />
<strong>and</strong> less well-known customs<br />
Hogmanay<br />
Hogmanay is the Scots word<br />
for the last day of the year<br />
<strong>and</strong> is synonymous with the<br />
celebration of the New Year<br />
(Gregorian calendar) in the<br />
Scottish manner.<br />
There are many customs<br />
<strong>and</strong> traditions, both national<br />
<strong>and</strong> local, associated with<br />
Hogmanay. The most common<br />
national custom is the practice<br />
of first-footing, which starts<br />
immediately after midnight.<br />
This involves being the first<br />
person to cross the threshold<br />
of a friend or neighbour's house<br />
<strong>and</strong> often involves the giving<br />
of symbolic gifts such as coal,<br />
shortbread, whisky <strong>and</strong> fruit<br />
cake, which is supposed to bring<br />
different kinds of luck to the<br />
householder.<br />
It is tradition that a dark-haired<br />
man should be the first-foot <strong>and</strong><br />
it can go on for many hours after<br />
midnight.<br />
There are also<br />
many local<br />
customs in<br />
Scotl<strong>and</strong> such as<br />
fireball swinging -<br />
balls of fire swung<br />
around on chains.<br />
Twelfth Night<br />
Wassailing in an orchard<br />
Also known as Epiphany Eve,<br />
<strong>and</strong> celebrated on January 5th,<br />
Twelfth Night celebrates the last<br />
night of the Christmas period.<br />
Food <strong>and</strong> drink were<br />
traditionally a main feature of<br />
Twelfth Night <strong>and</strong> in some areas<br />
of the UK, people would go out<br />
to orchards <strong>and</strong> 'wassail'. This<br />
ancient custom involved singing<br />
to the trees to encourage a good<br />
harvest for the forthcoming year.<br />
A popular Twelfth Night tradition<br />
was to have a bean <strong>and</strong> pea<br />
hidden inside a Twelfth Night<br />
cake; the man who found the<br />
bean in his slice of cake became<br />
King for the night while the lady<br />
who found a pea in her slice<br />
of cake became Queen for the<br />
night.<br />
Mari Lwyd<br />
The Mari Lwyd is an ancient<br />
Welsh custom which used to be<br />
widespread but now survives<br />
only in a few places, whereas<br />
in other locations it is usually a<br />
revival of a dormant custom.<br />
Mari Lwyd means 'grey mare',<br />
<strong>and</strong> she takes the form of a<br />
decorated horse-skull on a<br />
pole operated by a man in a<br />
white sheet. The Mari would<br />
be paraded around the district<br />
in return for refreshment as a<br />
house-visiting custom. A feature<br />
of the event was the singing<br />
battle between the visiting party<br />
<strong>and</strong> householders, followed by<br />
the visitors being invited in for<br />
cake.<br />
The custom was first recorded<br />
in 1800.<br />
A contemporary Mari Lwyd
Burns Night<br />
Burns Night is annually<br />
celebrated in Scotl<strong>and</strong> on<br />
or around January 25th. It<br />
commemorates the life of the<br />
poet Robert Burns, who was<br />
born on January 25th 1759.<br />
The day also celebrates Burns'<br />
contribution to Scottish culture.<br />
His best known work is Auld Lang<br />
Syne.<br />
Many people <strong>and</strong> organisations<br />
hold a Burns Supper on or<br />
around Burns Night. Everyone<br />
enjoys a hearty feast (which<br />
includes haggis, neeps <strong>and</strong><br />
tatties, rounded off with drams of<br />
whisky). Some of Burns’ poems<br />
<strong>and</strong> songs are recited, <strong>and</strong><br />
tributes are made to the great<br />
Bard.<br />
St Dwynwen’s Day<br />
St Dwynwen’s Day is celebrated in<br />
Wales on 25th January.<br />
St Dwynwen is the Welsh patron saint<br />
of lovers, which makes her the Welsh<br />
equivalent of St Valentine. Dwynwen<br />
is believed to have been a daughter of<br />
King Brychan Brycheiniog, who lived in<br />
the 5th century.<br />
People exchange cards <strong>and</strong> gifts, take<br />
time out <strong>and</strong> have special meals with<br />
loved ones.<br />
Shrove Tuesday<br />
Shrove Tuesday is the<br />
day before Lent starts on<br />
Ash Wednesday.<br />
The name Shrove<br />
comes from the old<br />
middle English word<br />
'Shriven' meaning to<br />
go to confession to say<br />
sorry for the wrong<br />
things you've done.<br />
Lent always starts on a<br />
Wednesday, so people<br />
went to confessions<br />
on the day before. This<br />
became known as Shriven Tuesday <strong>and</strong> then Shrove Tuesday.<br />
The other name for this day, Pancake Day, comes from the old English<br />
custom of using up all the fattening ingredients in the house before Lent,<br />
so that people were ready to fast. The fattening ingredients that most<br />
people had in their houses in those days were eggs <strong>and</strong> milk.<br />
Kissing Friday<br />
Kissing Friday is no longer a popular<br />
tradition in the UK but until the mid-<br />
20th century, on this day a schoolboy<br />
could kiss a girl without fear of a slap<br />
or a telling off.<br />
If the boys wanted to the kiss the<br />
girls, they had to catch them. Some<br />
boys would tie ropes across the<br />
street <strong>and</strong> the girls would have to<br />
pay for passage past the rope with a<br />
kiss. Others would simply chase the<br />
girls until they caught them.<br />
Boxing Day<br />
Ash Wednesday<br />
Ash Wednesday is the Christian<br />
holy day of prayer <strong>and</strong> fasting.<br />
As it is the first day of Lent,<br />
Christians begin Ash Wednesday by<br />
marking a Lenten calendar, praying<br />
a Lenten daily devotional, <strong>and</strong><br />
abstaining from a luxury that they<br />
will not partake of until Eastertide<br />
arrives.<br />
Ashes are ceremonially placed<br />
on the heads of Christians on<br />
Ash Wednesday, either by being<br />
sprinkled over their heads or more<br />
often, by being marked on their<br />
foreheads as a visible cross.<br />
Leap Year<br />
In the Gregorian calendar, the<br />
st<strong>and</strong>ard calendar in most of<br />
the world, most years that are<br />
multiples of four are leap years.<br />
In each leap year, such as 2020,<br />
the month of February has 29<br />
days instead of 28. Adding one<br />
extra day in the calendar every<br />
four years compensates for the<br />
fact that a period of 365 days is<br />
shorter than a tropical year by<br />
almost 6 hours.<br />
In Irel<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> Britain, it is<br />
a tradition that women may<br />
propose marriage only in leap<br />
years. A person born on February<br />
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The planet may not be at the top of<br />
your Christmas list but it does need<br />
your help. Here are a few ways to make<br />
your Christmas more eco-friendly<br />
Christmas cards<br />
Around 1.5 billion Christmas cards<br />
are thrown away by UK households<br />
each year. Bearing in mind that<br />
Christmas cards were first sent in<br />
1840, that's a lot of trees that have<br />
been sacrificed over those 150<br />
years!<br />
If you still want to send traditional<br />
greetings, choose cards that are<br />
sustainably resourced or made<br />
from recycled card. Many large<br />
retailers have stopped using glitter<br />
on their cards because it's so hard<br />
to recycle - making the conscious<br />
choice to avoid glitter will help.<br />
Try <strong>and</strong> deliver your cards in<br />
person <strong>and</strong> if you'd like to cut down<br />
on your carbon footprint further,<br />
you may want to consider sending<br />
e-cards instead. Seeded cards are<br />
also available. Plant your cards after<br />
they are used <strong>and</strong> watch plants<br />
grow from them months later!<br />
Brown parcel<br />
paper<br />
Lots of gift wrappings contain<br />
varying degrees of plastic,<br />
rendering it unrecyclable. This of<br />
course, all goes straight in the bin<br />
once it's discarded. Opt for the<br />
more eco-friendly (<strong>and</strong> elegant!)<br />
alternative of wrapping your gifts in<br />
recycled brown paper <strong>and</strong> string.<br />
Not only does it look more stylish,<br />
but it can be recycled once finished<br />
with.<br />
Use your own trees<br />
Up to 8 million Christmas trees are<br />
bought every December in the UK<br />
<strong>and</strong> that's potentially a lot of waste<br />
once Christmas has gone.<br />
If you usually buy real trees for<br />
outside displays, consider using<br />
any trees that are already there.<br />
Indoors, you can either purchase<br />
large plants (like yucca for instance)<br />
if you don't already have them <strong>and</strong><br />
decorate those. It'll help with your<br />
impact on the environment.<br />
Recycle your tree<br />
'Real' Christmas trees are<br />
recyclable <strong>and</strong> can be shredded<br />
into chippings which are then<br />
used locally in parks or woodl<strong>and</strong><br />
areas.<br />
You can often get your tree<br />
recycled by the local Council, who<br />
can let you know where <strong>and</strong> when<br />
to take your tree. Some Councils<br />
also offer collections. Check your<br />
local authority website or give<br />
them a call for more information.
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Go rustic<br />
With the current drive to ditch the plastic, it's a great<br />
excuse to bring a more Nordic, rustic Christmas into<br />
your home. Creating a woodl<strong>and</strong> theme can be done<br />
by adding forest finds, h<strong>and</strong>made decorations <strong>and</strong><br />
soft, cosy fabrics.<br />
Your living room is likely to be the place where<br />
you hibernate for most of Christmas <strong>and</strong> this can be<br />
adorned with pine cone garl<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> twigs from<br />
the garden. Adding foliage <strong>and</strong> holly boughs around<br />
the room can also add to the festive feel. Add cosy<br />
cushions <strong>and</strong> throws to keep you warm. By creating a<br />
woodl<strong>and</strong> indoors, not only are you making your very<br />
own Winter Wonderl<strong>and</strong>, you're reducing the amount<br />
of plastic <strong>and</strong> waste.<br />
Vegan food choices<br />
Veganism has really taken off in the last few years. There are several<br />
reasons why people have turned vegan <strong>and</strong> saving the environment is<br />
one of the main ones. The meat industry's environmental impact is huge.<br />
It contributes to l<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> water degradation, biodiversity loss, acid rain,<br />
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There is now a wealth of vegan food options available, meaning that you<br />
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entirely plant-based Christmas dinner has never been easier. As well as<br />
your traditional nut roasts, there are countless meat alternatives for those<br />
who can't bear to go without their meaty dishes. And for desserts, there'll<br />
be no need to serve up fruit salad as many supermarket shelves are full of<br />
luxurious <strong>and</strong> ethically-sound yumminess.<br />
Let's face it - it'll save you going through the traditional Christmas<br />
discussion about how boring <strong>and</strong> tasteless turkey is this year.<br />
Share transport<br />
We often think of Christmas as a<br />
busy time <strong>and</strong> this is often best<br />
illustrated when our roads are<br />
clogged up with traffic.<br />
Ask if your neighbours need a<br />
lift to do their shopping or even<br />
arrange a lift rota with friends over<br />
the Christmas period.<br />
You can make Christmas travel<br />
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where possible <strong>and</strong> if you are<br />
shopping online, try <strong>and</strong> arrange<br />
for bulk deliveries to cut down on<br />
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Gift sustainably<br />
There are plenty of outlets where<br />
you can source sustainable<br />
gifts. From ethical <strong>and</strong> fair trade<br />
to organic <strong>and</strong> recycled goods,<br />
every little really does help the<br />
environment.<br />
You may even want to go down<br />
the route of buying alternative gifts<br />
such as adopting an endangered<br />
animal or donating to ethical<br />
charities. These are the type of gifts<br />
that keep on giving <strong>and</strong> benefit<br />
those in need.<br />
Use up leftover<br />
food<br />
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Carpet Castle in<br />
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45 years in South Wales<br />
Carpet Castle in Caerphilly<br />
have become one of the<br />
region’s biggest success<br />
stories by selling br<strong>and</strong> name<br />
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bargainbasement<br />
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As this family<br />
business<br />
continues<br />
to grow, we<br />
caught up<br />
with director<br />
Andrew<br />
Graham to talk about the<br />
secret of their success.<br />
So how are you able to sell the<br />
same carpets as the big national<br />
chains at these incredible prices?<br />
People in South Wales love a<br />
bargain <strong>and</strong> by keeping our costs<br />
low <strong>and</strong> being really selective with<br />
our buying, we’re able to beat the<br />
competition virtually every time.<br />
We buy only in full truck loads,<br />
direct from the best manufacturers<br />
across the UK <strong>and</strong> Europe, <strong>and</strong> we<br />
have a very large storage facility<br />
in Caerphilly, so when we find<br />
a bargain, we can buy massive<br />
quantities. When we do a deal, it’s<br />
quite common that we’ll clear out<br />
an entire factory. Just last week, a<br />
manufacturer contacted us about<br />
an oversupply issue, so we took 400<br />
room-size pieces off their h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong><br />
these were top br<strong>and</strong>s - the sort of<br />
stuff that would fetch £30 a square<br />
metre normally <strong>and</strong> we’ll be selling<br />
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them at about £10 a square metre.<br />
How have you exp<strong>and</strong>ed the<br />
business?<br />
Honestly, when you get the prices<br />
<strong>and</strong> the service levels right, the<br />
customers just seem to find you.<br />
Word of mouth is the best form of<br />
advertising. Like I said, we don’t like<br />
to waste money on anything <strong>and</strong><br />
that includes expensive advertising<br />
campaigns!<br />
How have things changed in the<br />
industry over the last few years?<br />
We’ve noticed that our customers<br />
have responded really well to the<br />
improvements we’ve made to our<br />
service levels. We have an amazing<br />
team in-store, a really lovely group<br />
<strong>and</strong> they go out of their way to help<br />
people. We deliver within 24 hours,<br />
measure up free of charge <strong>and</strong><br />
even dispose of the customers’ old<br />
carpets. The team will always do<br />
their best to help every customer<br />
save money. We’ve also worked<br />
really hard to ensure 100% stock<br />
availability on all our best-sellers.<br />
How has the internet impacted the<br />
business?<br />
The transactional side of things<br />
hasn’t been affected at all, but the<br />
visibility stuff has, so we’ve built<br />
up our online presence in terms of<br />
SEO <strong>and</strong> PPC. However, the biggest<br />
factor has been the online customer<br />
reviews. Many of our customers<br />
leave reviews on Facebook, Google,<br />
Trustpilot <strong>and</strong> other portals <strong>and</strong><br />
we’re really lucky to have received<br />
hundreds of five star ratings <strong>and</strong><br />
lovely reviews. These days it’s really<br />
important to engage with social<br />
media <strong>and</strong> I think the transparency is<br />
appreciated by potential customers.<br />
The business is entering its 50th<br />
year. How did it begin?<br />
It actually began as a DIY discount<br />
centre in the 1970s. My Dad started<br />
it with his own savings <strong>and</strong> an<br />
incredible work ethic. He really<br />
built it up from nothing. Today it has<br />
obviously grown into something<br />
a lot bigger but the central ethos<br />
of incredible value for money <strong>and</strong><br />
down-to-earth service is just as<br />
present now as it was when he<br />
began all those years ago. We<br />
actually still have customers who<br />
remember it opening. They have<br />
trusted us for almost half a century<br />
<strong>and</strong> that’s something we’re really<br />
proud of.<br />
What do you think the future holds<br />
for Carpet Castle?<br />
Hopefully we’ll keep growing. Every<br />
year we take on more staff, exp<strong>and</strong><br />
our product ranges <strong>and</strong> look for<br />
new growth areas - like our amazing<br />
artificial grass business. We will<br />
always look at new ways that we<br />
can disrupt the marketplace <strong>and</strong><br />
offer better value for money for the<br />
customer.<br />
Andrew Graham is a director at<br />
Carpet Castle<br />
Nantgarw Road, Caerphilly<br />
029 20884951<br />
www.carpetcastlecaerphilly.co.uk<br />
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On a rainy November day in 2009, a bronze<br />
statue was unveiled in Cardiff.<br />
Among the umbrellas <strong>and</strong> dignitaries that<br />
were present on that day was Lady Mair<br />
Griffith-Williams.<br />
She was there to honour her father, who had once<br />
been described as the Greatest <strong>Living</strong> Welshman - <strong>and</strong><br />
with good reason.<br />
The statue was that of Major Sir Tasker Watkins VC<br />
GBE DL. He was a war hero, a Lord Justice of Appeal<br />
<strong>and</strong> Deputy Lord Chief Justice. And if that wasn't<br />
enough, he would go on to become a household<br />
name throughout Welsh rugby when he took over the<br />
presidency of the Welsh Rugby Union.<br />
Many thous<strong>and</strong>s who pass this statue on their way to<br />
watch Wales play will be unaware of the incredible<br />
life story of the man who spent a large part of his<br />
life living in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff. Born in Nelson in November<br />
1918, Tasker won a scholarship to Pontypridd<br />
Boys' Grammar School. In 1931 he moved with<br />
his parents to Dagenham <strong>and</strong> attended school in<br />
Romford. Here, he would captain the cricket <strong>and</strong><br />
football teams <strong>and</strong> also play rugby.<br />
After the outbreak of war, he served in the ranks<br />
from October 1939 until May 1941, when he was<br />
granted an emergency commission as a second<br />
lieutenant, the Welch Regiment, which formed<br />
part of the 53rd (Welsh) Infantry Division.<br />
By 1944, Tasker had risen to the position of<br />
lieutenant, <strong>and</strong> in June of that year, he, along<br />
with the rest of his division, was posted to France.<br />
They arrived a few weeks after the famous D Day<br />
L<strong>and</strong>ings, <strong>and</strong> saw action throughout the summer<br />
months.<br />
By mid-August, Tasker was comm<strong>and</strong>ing a<br />
battalion <strong>and</strong> was ordered to attack objectives<br />
near the railway at Barfour. Their first task was to<br />
cross open cornfields which were full of booby<br />
traps. As dusk fell, the company came under<br />
heavy fire. Tasker immediately led his group on<br />
an assault against a German machine gun post.<br />
Not only did they clear the machine gun post, but<br />
went on to clear a second. Tasker was suddenly<br />
faced with a German who was armed with an antitank<br />
gun. Tasker attempted to fire on the German with<br />
his Sten gun but the gun jammed. As the German took
aim at the Welshman, Tasker threw his Sten gun in the<br />
German's face, took out his pistol <strong>and</strong> shot him before<br />
the German had time to respond.<br />
By now, Tasker's group had been reduced to just<br />
30 men <strong>and</strong> were coming under fire from a German<br />
counter-attack that was 50 men strong. Undeterred,<br />
Tasker led a bayonet charge against the Germans,<br />
which resulted in the almost complete annihilation of<br />
the German group.<br />
But the group was far from safe. In almost total<br />
darkness, Tasker led his group around the enemy's<br />
flank position upon which they had advanced. They<br />
were spotted <strong>and</strong> Tasker was challenged by a German.<br />
Tasker ordered his men to scatter <strong>and</strong> then charged the<br />
German post <strong>and</strong> wiped them out. He was then able to<br />
lead his men silently back to headquarters.<br />
Tasker rarely spoke of the incident, save for one<br />
comment he made about it years later, when he said<br />
that 'I just got so totally bloody angry.'<br />
He was awarded the Victoria Cross for his actions that<br />
day. His citation read:<br />
"On 16 August 1944 at Barfour, Norm<strong>and</strong>y, France,<br />
Lieutenant Watkins' company came under murderous<br />
machine-gun fire while advancing through corn fields<br />
set with booby traps. The only officer left, Lieutenant<br />
Watkins led a bayonet charge with his 30 remaining<br />
men against 50 enemy infantry, practically wiping<br />
them out. Finally, at dusk, separated from the rest of<br />
the battalion, he ordered his men to scatter <strong>and</strong> after<br />
he had personally charged <strong>and</strong> silenced an enemy<br />
machine-gun post, he brought them back to safety.<br />
His superb leadership not only saved his men, but<br />
decisively influenced the course of the battle."<br />
In a 2001 Telegraph interview, Tasker said:<br />
"You must believe me when I say it was just another<br />
day in the life of a soldier. I did what needed doing to<br />
help colleagues <strong>and</strong> friends, just as others looked out<br />
for me during the fighting that summer... I didn't wake<br />
up the next day a better or braver person, just different.<br />
I'd seen more killing <strong>and</strong> death in 24 hours − indeed<br />
been part of that terrible process − than is right for<br />
anybody. From that point onwards, I have tried to take a<br />
more caring view of my fellow human beings, <strong>and</strong> that,<br />
of course, always includes your opponent, whether it<br />
be in war, sport, or just life generally."<br />
Tasker was only one of two Welsh soldiers to earn a<br />
Victoria Cross during the Second World War.<br />
As life began to return to normal following the war,<br />
Tasker was called to the bar to become a member<br />
of Middle Temple in 1948. He became a Queen's<br />
Counsel in 1965, <strong>and</strong> in 1966, served as Counsel to the<br />
Tribunal on the inquiry into the Aberfan disaster, which<br />
happened a few miles from his birthplace.<br />
He prosecuted in a number of cases involving Welsh<br />
extremists, including the Free Wales Army trial in 1969.<br />
The group had plotted to attack Caernarfon Castle<br />
<strong>and</strong> assassinate Prince Charles during his investiture.<br />
He also led the inquiry into Farleigh Mental Hospital,<br />
Somerset, making recommendations over the h<strong>and</strong>ling<br />
of violent patients by nurses.<br />
In 1971 he was appointed a Judge of the High Court<br />
in Family Division, <strong>and</strong> became regarded as one of the<br />
most widely respected on the circuit. In 1988, he was<br />
appointed Deputy Chief Justice of Engl<strong>and</strong> by Lord<br />
Lane, Lord Chief Justice at the time.<br />
Tasker sat with Lord Lane on the case that removed<br />
the 'offensive <strong>and</strong> anachronistic' idea that a man living<br />
with his wife could not be convicted of her rape. He<br />
recommended a posthumous pardon for Derek Bentley<br />
of the infamous 'let him have it' murder case. Bentley<br />
history<br />
was wrongfully convicted of murdering a policeman<br />
<strong>and</strong> was hanged in 1953, aged 19.<br />
Tasker's work didn't go unnoticed. He became an<br />
honorary fellow of the Royal College of Surgeons in<br />
1992 <strong>and</strong> was made a freeman of the City of Cardiff<br />
in 2004. He had also been made a privy counsellor in<br />
1980 <strong>and</strong> awarded the Knight Gr<strong>and</strong> Cross of the Order<br />
of the British Empire in 1990.<br />
But he wasn't done yet. In 1993, Tasker took on the<br />
role of the 46th president of the Welsh Rugby Union. At<br />
that time, Welsh rugby was in turmoil <strong>and</strong> renowned for<br />
its infighting <strong>and</strong> fractious nature.<br />
As a former outside-half for Glamorgan W<strong>and</strong>erers<br />
<strong>and</strong> Cardiff RFC, Tasker oversaw the transition of the<br />
game from its amateur status to its professional one.<br />
His presidency also ushered in the regional clubs that<br />
exist today. By the time he stepped down in 2004, he<br />
had become the second longest running president in<br />
the WRU's history.<br />
Admired by the players <strong>and</strong> management alike, the<br />
Welsh team coach Graham Henry often pinned a<br />
copy of Tasker's Victoria Cross citation in the players'<br />
changing room before Six Nations matches.<br />
Tasker was also President of Glamorgan W<strong>and</strong>erers,<br />
<strong>and</strong> patron from 1968 until his death. He could often be<br />
found enjoying half a pint in the club's bar,<br />
Tasker fell at his home in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff in August 2007 <strong>and</strong><br />
was taken to the University Hospital Wales, Heath. He<br />
died there on 9th September 2007. He was 88. The<br />
Welsh national team wore black armb<strong>and</strong>s in tribute to<br />
him for their opening game in the Rugby World Cup.<br />
His funeral was held at Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Cathedral on 15th<br />
September, <strong>and</strong> he was later cremated at Thornhill<br />
Crematorium.<br />
It was in 2009 that a statue of Tasker was unveiled<br />
outside what was then known as the Millennium<br />
Stadium.<br />
Lord Judge, head of the judiciary in Engl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />
Wales, told onlookers that he had learned a great deal<br />
from Sir Tasker, paying tribute to his underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong><br />
sensitivity.<br />
“When I first met Sir Tasker, he was already a man of<br />
gargantuan achievement,” he said.<br />
“He had a sensitivity, an underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> a depth<br />
of insight into human beings <strong>and</strong> how they worked. It’s<br />
humbling for us all to be here beneath his statue.”<br />
Tasker's humility <strong>and</strong> humanity, is perhaps, a lesson to<br />
us all.<br />
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Glamorgan Canal near the Melingriffith, now Ty Mawr Road, <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Construction of the canal started in 1790<br />
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<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Police Station The station on Bishop's Road was built in 1908 <strong>and</strong> demolished in 2003. Housing<br />
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history<br />
Bishops Road, <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Bishops Road stretches all the way from the main shopping area on Merthyr Road,<br />
down to the top of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North. The scene pictured is opposite where the old Police Station used to be <strong>and</strong> is<br />
now home to several small businesses. The site is also now home to the Bishops Road Medical Centre.<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library shops The roundabout continues to host shops <strong>and</strong> is also home to <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library. The<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Serviceman Statue st<strong>and</strong>s outside the library, overlooking the shops. <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Methodist Church is<br />
also located here <strong>and</strong> has been exp<strong>and</strong>ed several times in the last century.<br />
The Melingriffith Tinplate Works <strong>and</strong> Glamorganshire<br />
Canal on Ty Mawr Road, <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Founded<br />
sometime before 1750, it was the largest tin-plate<br />
works in the world by the end of the 18th century. The<br />
eleven rolling mills were situated at a lower level than<br />
the other parts of the works in order to take advantage<br />
of the fall of the water.<br />
The Melingriffith Brass B<strong>and</strong> of the works was one of<br />
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Steve Nicholas was born in<br />
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He also runs a website which is<br />
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I underst<strong>and</strong> that poinsettias<br />
are harmful to pets at Christmas<br />
but I was recently told that<br />
cyclamen are also toxic. Is this<br />
true <strong>and</strong> are there any other<br />
festive plants that I should look<br />
out for?<br />
Poinsettias <strong>and</strong> cyclamen are<br />
indeed toxic to dogs, usually<br />
causing mild stomach upsets.<br />
However, they are not the only<br />
risks <strong>and</strong> many of the seasonal<br />
plants we bring indoors at<br />
Christmas are also toxic to<br />
varying degrees. This includes<br />
mistletoe, holly, cotoneaster,<br />
pyracantha <strong>and</strong> solanum<br />
('Christmas cherry') berries,<br />
hellebores ('Christmas rose') <strong>and</strong><br />
daffodils. Lilies are very toxic<br />
to cats, causing kidney failure.<br />
There are many other toxic<br />
plants you might bring into the<br />
house but they aren’t common<br />
at Christmas. In addition to the<br />
plants mentioned, you should<br />
be aware that the pips <strong>and</strong><br />
seeds from fruit (eg. apples,<br />
apricots) contain small amounts<br />
of cyanide <strong>and</strong> ingestion of<br />
sufficient quantities can cause<br />
poisoning.<br />
While discussing Christmas<br />
poisoning, please do remember<br />
that raisins, sultanas <strong>and</strong> grapes<br />
can also be very toxic, so be<br />
careful that your dog gets no<br />
mince pies or Christmas cake.<br />
My dog has been suffering from<br />
arthritis for the last two years<br />
<strong>and</strong> after reading about how<br />
CBD oil has helped humans, is<br />
there any research for similar<br />
use of CBD oil in relieving pain<br />
in dogs?<br />
CBD oil seems to be the latest<br />
‘fad’! It is touted as a panacea for<br />
all the ills of man (<strong>and</strong> woman)<br />
<strong>and</strong> now is being picked up<br />
by the pet industry. However,<br />
there is precious little scientific<br />
evidence for the claims made for<br />
it in people, <strong>and</strong> absolutely none<br />
for its use in animals. Therefore,<br />
my advice would be to keep<br />
clear of it for the present. If it<br />
truly does have good effects,<br />
there will be clinical trials<br />
published in due course <strong>and</strong> we<br />
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While out on a walk a few<br />
weeks back, we met a dog<br />
walker who told me that her<br />
dog was recovering from a<br />
bout of mange. My dog came<br />
into very minimal contact with<br />
her dog. Whenever my dog<br />
starts scratching, I can’t tell if<br />
I’m over-thinking the fact that<br />
my dog has caught mange. Is it<br />
contagious <strong>and</strong> what do I need<br />
to know about it?<br />
The mange that you are referring<br />
to is a very itchy condition which<br />
is caused by a parasitic mite that<br />
burrows in the skin. People can<br />
get a similar problem (scabies)<br />
but the human version does<br />
not infect dogs, <strong>and</strong> vice versa -<br />
though dogs <strong>and</strong> foxes do share<br />
the same infection. It is highly<br />
contagious but most dogs are<br />
infected by contact with objects<br />
that infected foxes have rubbed<br />
against – they are itchy too.<br />
Spread between dogs requires<br />
some close contact for the mites<br />
to move to the new host.<br />
I think it’s unlikely that your<br />
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from the brief meeting you had,<br />
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We all love our gardens but with the current climate crisis dominating the<br />
headlines, Kevin Revell looks at the choices we face in our own homes<br />
Concern has been raised in the<br />
last few months regarding the<br />
impact of garden centres on the<br />
environment in relation to plastics<br />
in the environment, the destruction<br />
of peat bogs for the manufacture of<br />
compost, <strong>and</strong> biosecurity.<br />
Of course there are two sides<br />
to every story <strong>and</strong> although the<br />
garden retail sector is not perfect,<br />
great strides have been made in<br />
the last few years to address these<br />
issues. Even if the environmentally<br />
friendly alternatives are not always<br />
taken up by the general public with<br />
any great enthusiasm, the choice is<br />
there.<br />
Before the rise of garden centres in<br />
the 1960s, plants could only be sold<br />
bare root or as hessian wrapped<br />
root balls in autumn to early spring.<br />
The invention of the plastic pot<br />
enabled plants to be grown <strong>and</strong><br />
sold on the large scale we see<br />
today. However, these pots cannot<br />
be returned to the growers because<br />
of the fear of spreading disease <strong>and</strong><br />
also because of cost effectiveness<br />
<strong>and</strong> transport issues. A few keen<br />
gardeners reuse them for growing<br />
their own plants or hoard them in<br />
the shed but overall, they end up in<br />
l<strong>and</strong>fill having been thrown out with<br />
the rubbish. As the current debate<br />
about plastic has shown, it will take<br />
many centuries for this material<br />
to break down <strong>and</strong> even then, it is<br />
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still a hazard in the form of microplastics<br />
which enter the food chain.<br />
We are all familiar with green bags<br />
<strong>and</strong> recycling; Cardiff Council has a<br />
good record for recovering a high<br />
percentage of recyclable waste<br />
from our refuse so why can’t plant<br />
pots go out in the green bags? After<br />
all, they usually bear the familiar<br />
three arrowed recycling symbol<br />
imprinted on their base.<br />
The fact that most of the pots<br />
are black means that they are not<br />
recognised by the mechanised<br />
process to separate out<br />
the various recycling<br />
streams <strong>and</strong> so are not<br />
collected. They can<br />
always be donated<br />
to schools <strong>and</strong> clubs,<br />
while it is perfectly<br />
possible for us to take<br />
our own waste to the<br />
Council depot at Lamby<br />
Way where a large skip<br />
is filled with plastic bread crates,<br />
patio furniture <strong>and</strong> guttering. It is<br />
only the home collection service<br />
that seems to be affected. All in<br />
all, this is not a very satisfactory<br />
situation.<br />
The British garden retail industry<br />
has come together on this issue<br />
however <strong>and</strong> you may have noticed<br />
that the black pots are now being<br />
replaced by taupe ones which<br />
can be washed <strong>and</strong> put out with<br />
By next year,<br />
black pots will<br />
largely be a<br />
thing of the<br />
past<br />
the recycling along with cans <strong>and</strong><br />
bottles. By next year, black pots<br />
will largely be a thing of the past.<br />
Mission accomplished? Well not<br />
quite because it seems that all the<br />
plastic that we are dutifully sending<br />
for recycling far exceeds our<br />
capacity to recycle it.<br />
It was formally sent to China<br />
<strong>and</strong> the Far East where it was<br />
often burned or dumped so not<br />
surprisingly, this arrangement has<br />
come to an end. It now accumulates<br />
on former airfields awaiting political<br />
decisions on investment<br />
in recycling processes.<br />
Peat bogs are sites<br />
of scientific interest<br />
<strong>and</strong> support a wide<br />
range of wildlife.<br />
They take centuries<br />
to build up but are<br />
destroyed by peat<br />
extraction in decades.<br />
Peat-free alternatives<br />
have long been available, are<br />
more sustainable, are increasingly<br />
recommended by TV gardeners<br />
<strong>and</strong> the gardening press, but public<br />
uptake has been relatively poor.<br />
There is currently nothing available<br />
to substitute the thick plastic bag<br />
in which we buy our compost. They<br />
can at least be reused; I use them<br />
to bag up rubble <strong>and</strong><br />
garden waste<br />
before taking
en is<br />
rden?<br />
it to the tip <strong>and</strong> they are often used<br />
on allotments to smother weeds<br />
under a layer of bark or gravel.<br />
They can also be used to contain<br />
homemade garden compost when<br />
the bin is emptied. Eventually that<br />
plastic ends up in the environment,<br />
however.<br />
There was once an initiative to<br />
supply dry compost which could be<br />
re-hydrated at home. This type of<br />
material might work in a paper bag,<br />
but consumer interest was low at<br />
the time; perhaps its time will come.<br />
Compostable plastic would seem<br />
to be the future, but this material<br />
is fraught with difficulties <strong>and</strong> may<br />
only decompose at temperatures<br />
available in an industrial-sized heap<br />
or may not be robust enough to<br />
contain the compost for any length<br />
of time. Clearly more research in<br />
this area is needed.<br />
Another stick with which to beat<br />
the garden retail industry has been<br />
the movement of plants around<br />
the world with the high likelihood<br />
of inadvertently importing pests<br />
<strong>and</strong> diseases with the plants.<br />
Government agencies such as<br />
DEFRA, the department for food<br />
<strong>and</strong> rural affairs <strong>and</strong> border control<br />
customs checks, have robust<br />
systems in place but it is only a<br />
matter of time<br />
before something<br />
unwanted<br />
comes through, in<br />
addition to the<br />
occasional foreign snail<br />
or earthworm. It could be<br />
argued that the UK has plenty of<br />
successful plant nurseries so why<br />
bother importing plants at all?<br />
Traditionally garden centres<br />
were reliant on Dutch suppliers to<br />
provide relatively cheap plants but<br />
with increased transport costs <strong>and</strong><br />
the current Euro/Pound exchange<br />
rate, the differentials have become<br />
eroded. The ongoing possibility<br />
of Brexit has further muddied the<br />
waters but the plant passport<br />
system in place should enable<br />
traceability <strong>and</strong> drive out the cheap<br />
plants of unknown origin being sold.<br />
There is also an established trade<br />
in specimen plants from Spain<br />
<strong>and</strong> Italy but with diseases such<br />
as Xylella spreading up through<br />
Europe, olive trees are no longer<br />
being imported by reputable<br />
companies for fear of this disease<br />
entering the UK, where it is likely to<br />
affect several native trees.<br />
Of course, this then creates<br />
a dem<strong>and</strong> that will be met by<br />
disreputable operators <strong>and</strong> sold<br />
off in cheap shops <strong>and</strong> from the<br />
backs of lorries. Perhaps we should<br />
leave such plants growing in the<br />
Mediterranean as they seldom do<br />
less well in rainy Wales.<br />
Discerning customers are advised<br />
to ask about the origin of their<br />
plants <strong>and</strong> favour home grown<br />
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Winter Wonderl<strong>and</strong><br />
Winter doesn't have to be a time of staying indoors. Nature offers a<br />
wealth of experiences that can shake off the winter blues. Here are a<br />
few creative ideas that the whole family can enjoy together<br />
Collect items for a<br />
Christmas wreath<br />
Creating your own Christmas<br />
wreath will have so much more<br />
meaning if you've collected all<br />
the items yourself. Collect some<br />
evergreen clippings, <strong>and</strong> some<br />
fresh moss or grass that you can<br />
add if necessary.<br />
You may also want to collect<br />
pine cones <strong>and</strong> berries that will<br />
add colour to your wreath.<br />
Add all of these to a wire frame<br />
once you get home. There are<br />
online tutorials <strong>and</strong> local classes<br />
that can help you create your<br />
own Christmas wreath.<br />
Go on a scavenger hunt<br />
We often associate winter with quiet<br />
times in the forest but they are still full of<br />
wonderful things to discover.<br />
Create a list of things that you'd like<br />
to come across on your walk - frozen<br />
cobwebs, an evergreen tree, pine cones<br />
perhaps. You may want to add certain<br />
birds or animals to your hunt. If there are<br />
things that you can take home with you,<br />
put them into a scrap book when you get<br />
back.<br />
Track the animals<br />
If you want to turn detective<br />
when it's snowed, you can find<br />
out who's been out <strong>and</strong> about<br />
in the forest by tracking the<br />
animals' footprints.<br />
Do some research online before<br />
heading out to find out what the<br />
different footprints look like. You<br />
can then take a printout with you<br />
so you can identify any that you<br />
come across straight away.<br />
Footprints will come in all<br />
shapes <strong>and</strong> sizes <strong>and</strong> also at<br />
different parts of the day. Fresh<br />
footprints will be more defined,<br />
especially if snow is still falling<br />
when footprints could be<br />
covered back up.<br />
If you haven't been lucky<br />
enough to have snow, seek out<br />
muddy areas at a riverside where<br />
animals may have been taking a<br />
drink.<br />
Make animal dens<br />
Animals are often left to the mercy of the elements at this time of year <strong>and</strong><br />
are often looking for cosy places in which to snuggle.<br />
Have a think about what kind of animal you'd like to build a shelter for <strong>and</strong><br />
make a plan about how you'll create it. Choose a place that's out of the<br />
wind so that it won't get blown over. You can create a small shelter using<br />
sticks or stones. Other pieces that you can find in the forest can also be<br />
used but remember not to go disturbing any shelters that already exist.<br />
It may be worth popping back a few weeks later to see if any of the forest<br />
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Make yourself a den<br />
If a den's good enough for the animals, it's good<br />
enough for you.<br />
The first thing you'll need to do is find a solid<br />
foundation to work with. Ideally, you're looking<br />
for a strong-looking tree with lots of lumps <strong>and</strong><br />
bumps that you can utilise.<br />
Find some large branches <strong>and</strong> wedge them<br />
up against your tree. Aim to give yourself a<br />
horizontal branch that you can then rest smaller<br />
branches on to form your walls. Pack them<br />
tightly to give them strength <strong>and</strong> then fill the<br />
gaps with smaller branches <strong>and</strong> leaves.<br />
Blow frozen bubbles<br />
Blowing bubbles doesn't have<br />
to be just a summer activity. In<br />
fact, blowing bubbles in very<br />
cold weather can be much more<br />
interesting.<br />
The temperature will need to be<br />
below freezing <strong>and</strong> it also helps if<br />
your bubble solution is very cold<br />
to begin with. Blow the bubbles as<br />
high as you can to give them the<br />
best chance of freezing before they<br />
hit the ground.<br />
Listen to nature's orchestra<br />
Taking the family out into the forest isn't just about what you will see. The<br />
sounds of the forest are just as impressive but these are often missed<br />
because we aren't listening for them.<br />
Anyone who walks in the countryside will know the skylark’s song. Often<br />
inconspicuous on the ground, it is easy to see when in its distinctive song<br />
flight. Winter is also the best time to listen out for the sound of foxes due<br />
to their three to six day mating period which takes place during winter. If<br />
you head out on an early morning walk, it's possible that you may hear a<br />
tawny owl. Despite them being nocturnal birds, they are at their noisiest in<br />
December. The chances of them being heard in daylight on a Christmas<br />
family countryside outing are particularly high, most especially near dawn<br />
<strong>and</strong> dusk.<br />
Grey squirrels can often be heard on winter walks too. Chattering, rasping<br />
<strong>and</strong> barking are all examples from the grey squirrel's vocabulary who<br />
become particularly noisy when alarmed or angry.<br />
Go on a Christmas hunt<br />
Forests can be magical in winter,<br />
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Before you head out into the<br />
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If the weather is snowy, look out<br />
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Make<br />
The<br />
Change<br />
As a new decade dawns, we present a psychological model that<br />
can help you make positive changes in your life - <strong>and</strong> keep them<br />
Precontemplation<br />
This is the first stage of the model. In this stage, people do<br />
not intend to take action in the foreseeable future (defined<br />
as within the next six months). People are often unaware<br />
that their behaviour is problematic or produces negative<br />
consequences. They also often underestimate the benefits<br />
of changing behaviour <strong>and</strong> place too much emphasis on<br />
the cons of changing behaviour. They are often not aware<br />
of these processes.<br />
If you are in this stage, begin by asking yourself some<br />
questions. Have you ever tried to change this behaviour in<br />
the past? How do you recognise that you want to change?<br />
What would have to happen for you to consider changing<br />
your behaviour?<br />
Contemplation<br />
During this stage, you will start to become aware<br />
of the benefits of making a positive change. Bear in<br />
mind that many people never make it past this stage.<br />
Generally, if you are considering making the change<br />
within the next six months, you are at this stage. Ask<br />
yourself some important questions:<br />
Why do you want to change? Is there anything<br />
preventing you from changing? What are some of<br />
the things that could help you make this change?<br />
You may still feel ambivalent towards making the<br />
change but the fact that you are contemplating is a<br />
step in the right direction.<br />
Others can help you at this stage by encouraging<br />
you to work at reducing the cons of changing your<br />
behaviour <strong>and</strong> emphasising the pros. Learn from<br />
those who have already made changes.<br />
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feature<br />
Preparation<br />
If you are ready to start taking action within the next<br />
30 days, you are at the preparation stage. You may<br />
have even started making small changes to your life.<br />
Gather as much information about ways to help<br />
you change. Look at various techniques <strong>and</strong> seek<br />
outside resources <strong>and</strong> help. Don't be tempted to<br />
start making the big change yet as you may be<br />
under-prepared <strong>and</strong> this is where others often<br />
fail. The first week of the New Year is where many<br />
people start <strong>and</strong> fail their resolutions because<br />
they haven't given their aims enough thought or<br />
preparation.<br />
Take time to refresh your reasons <strong>and</strong> motivations<br />
for wanting to make the change.<br />
Action<br />
During this stage, you will take direct action towards<br />
your change. If you are looking to lose weight, you will<br />
start your new diet or cut back on snacks. If you are<br />
looking to quit smoking, you will start cutting down<br />
your daily intake. These steps are, of course, integral<br />
to making the change but skipping the previous steps<br />
could end up with your attempts to change being<br />
ab<strong>and</strong>oned.<br />
Set yourself mini goals to achieve <strong>and</strong> reward<br />
yourself when you reach them. Keep the bigger<br />
picture in mind but remember that you can't reach<br />
your ultimate goal without hard work <strong>and</strong> dedication.<br />
Positive reinforcement from outside sources is helpful<br />
<strong>and</strong> if you have prepared thoroughly, you will have<br />
those to help you in place already.<br />
Maintenance<br />
The maintenance stage involves awareness of<br />
successfully avoiding former bad habits <strong>and</strong> keeping<br />
up new ones.<br />
There will naturally be times when you feel like you<br />
are doing well <strong>and</strong> equally, there will be times when<br />
you feel that you are making no progress at all. What's<br />
important to remember is that one mistake doesn't<br />
mean that you are back to square one. Start a new day<br />
with new vigour. Relapses, as you will discover, are<br />
part <strong>and</strong> parcel of the maintenance stage. But they are<br />
not fatal - you simply start again.<br />
Relapse<br />
In any behaviour change, relapses are a common<br />
occurrence. Feelings of failure, disappointment <strong>and</strong><br />
frustration all occur when experiencing a relapse - <strong>and</strong> these<br />
are normal feelings. It doesn't mean that you have failed.<br />
To overcome a relapse, it's worth taking another look at<br />
your motivations <strong>and</strong> identifying what triggers led to the<br />
relapse in the first place. Try <strong>and</strong> figure out what barriers<br />
are stopping you from achieving your goal <strong>and</strong> make<br />
adjustments to remove them from your life, or strategies to<br />
deal with, or overcome them. Resolutions fail when there<br />
aren't proper preparations or actions. Underst<strong>and</strong>ing all of<br />
the stages will give you the best chance of succeeding.<br />
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Lovely<br />
Leftovers<br />
Christmas is often a time of excess but there's no need to let all that lovely food<br />
go to waste. Use up your leftovers with these delicious recipes<br />
Turkey <strong>and</strong><br />
ham pie<br />
400g plain flour, plus extra for<br />
dusting<br />
pinch of salt<br />
65g chilled butter<br />
160g frozen butter<br />
45g butter<br />
2 large leeks, washed <strong>and</strong> sliced<br />
1 orange, juiced <strong>and</strong> finely grated<br />
zest only<br />
50ml medium sherry<br />
3 tbsp plain flour<br />
500ml chicken stock<br />
1 heaped tsp wholegrain<br />
mustard<br />
600g leftover turkey meat, cut<br />
into bite-sized pieces<br />
250g cooked ham, cut into bitesized<br />
pieces<br />
2 tbsp chopped tarragon<br />
200ml single cream<br />
1 free-range egg, beaten for egg<br />
wash<br />
salt <strong>and</strong> white pepper<br />
☐ To make the pastry, mix the flour<br />
<strong>and</strong> salt together in a bowl. Using<br />
your fingertips, rub in the chilled<br />
butter <strong>and</strong> add enough cold water<br />
to form a dough (about 150-180ml).<br />
☐ Dust your work surface with flour<br />
<strong>and</strong> roll your dough into a rectangle.<br />
Grate 60g of the frozen butter over<br />
50<br />
the bottom two<br />
thirds of the dough.<br />
Fold down the top<br />
third <strong>and</strong> then fold<br />
up the top third as<br />
if folding a letter.<br />
Turn by 90 degrees<br />
<strong>and</strong> roll out<br />
again. Repeat this<br />
process, adding<br />
the remaining<br />
frozen butter <strong>and</strong><br />
fold as before. Rest<br />
in the fridge for<br />
30 minutes before<br />
using.<br />
☐ For your filling,<br />
melt the butter in<br />
a large frying pan<br />
over a medium heat <strong>and</strong> add the<br />
leeks to the pan, along with the<br />
orange juice, zest <strong>and</strong> sherry. Cover<br />
<strong>and</strong> cook gently for 6 minutes,<br />
stirring occasionally until the leeks<br />
are just tender. Remove the lid<br />
<strong>and</strong> increase the heat, until the<br />
liquid has nearly all gone. Sprinkle<br />
the flour over the leeks <strong>and</strong> stir to<br />
mix. Gradually stir in the stock <strong>and</strong><br />
simmer for about 5 minutes until<br />
the sauce has thickened slightly.<br />
Add the mustard, the turkey <strong>and</strong><br />
the ham <strong>and</strong> stir. Finally add the<br />
tarragon <strong>and</strong> cream. Season to taste<br />
with a little white pepper <strong>and</strong> salt.<br />
☐ Preheat your oven to 200C/180C<br />
Fan/Gas 6. Pour the pie filling <strong>and</strong><br />
sauce into a 1.2-1.5 litre/2-2½ pint<br />
pie dish <strong>and</strong> allow to cool. .<br />
☐ Roll out the pastry on a lightly<br />
floured work surface to about 5mm<br />
thick. Cut a 2cm/¾in strip of pastry.<br />
Brush the rim of the pie dish with<br />
egg, then place the pastry strip<br />
onto the rim <strong>and</strong> brush it with more<br />
egg.<br />
☐ To make the pie lid, cut the<br />
remaining pastry a little larger than<br />
the dish <strong>and</strong> lift it into place (use<br />
the rolling pin to help you). Make a<br />
steam hole to expose the funnel (if<br />
using). Press the edges to seal then<br />
trim away any excess. Re-roll any<br />
trimmings <strong>and</strong> use them to make<br />
decorations. Brush the pastry with<br />
egg wash, arrange any decorations<br />
on top of the pie <strong>and</strong> brush these<br />
with egg too.<br />
☐ Bake for 35-40 minutes until the<br />
pastry is risen <strong>and</strong> golden-brown.<br />
Allow to cool slightly before serving.
Boxing Day Soup<br />
food<br />
1 tbsp sunflower oil<br />
1 medium onion, chopped<br />
2 celery sticks, chopped<br />
2 medium potatoes, about 350g, peeled <strong>and</strong> chunked<br />
1 tbsp curry paste<br />
1.2l vegetable stock<br />
550g leftover roasted or boiled vegetables, such as Brussels<br />
sprouts, carrots, parsnips <strong>and</strong> squash, roughly chopped<br />
natural yogurt or crème fraîche, to serve<br />
Sprout<br />
colcannon<br />
1kg floury potatoes (King Edwards<br />
or Maris Piper)<br />
8 smoked streaky bacon rashers,<br />
chopped<br />
50g butter<br />
6 spring onions, finely sliced<br />
5 tbsp milk<br />
250g Brussels sprouts, trimmed or<br />
cooked<br />
☐ Cut the potatoes <strong>and</strong> boil in<br />
salted water. Simmer for 15-20<br />
minutes until the potatoes are<br />
completely tender. Drain <strong>and</strong> set<br />
aside, covered.<br />
☐ Heat a large non-stick<br />
frying pan until hot <strong>and</strong> add<br />
the chopped bacon. Fry over<br />
a medium heat for about 5<br />
minutes until crispy <strong>and</strong> golden.<br />
☐ Remove with a slotted spoon<br />
<strong>and</strong> drain on kitchen paper.<br />
☐ Finely slice the sprouts. Return<br />
the frying pan to the heat, add<br />
a little of the butter, then add<br />
the sprouts <strong>and</strong> stir-fry for 5-6<br />
minutes until they are tender<br />
<strong>and</strong> just beginning to crisp up at<br />
the edges. Add the spring onions<br />
<strong>and</strong> stir-fry for 1 minute.<br />
☐ Return the bacon to the pan<br />
<strong>and</strong> stir well. Remove the pan<br />
from the heat.<br />
☐ Add the remaining butter<br />
<strong>and</strong> the milk to the potatoes<br />
<strong>and</strong> mash until smooth. Season<br />
well. Fold in the bacon, sprout<br />
<strong>and</strong> spring onion mixture. Serve<br />
immediately.<br />
☐ Fry the onion in a large saucepan for 5 minutes until<br />
browned. Stir in the celery <strong>and</strong> fry for 5 minutes, then tip in<br />
the potatoes <strong>and</strong> fry for a further 1-2 minutes, stirring often.<br />
☐ Stir in the curry paste, cooking for a minute or so, then pour<br />
in the stock. Bring to the boil <strong>and</strong> stir well. Lower the heat,<br />
cover <strong>and</strong> simmer for 15-20 minutes until the potatoes are<br />
tender.<br />
☐ Tip the leftover veg into the pan <strong>and</strong> warm through for a<br />
few minutes <strong>and</strong> then blend in a food blender. Add water if<br />
you need to think it needs it <strong>and</strong> season well.<br />
☐ Serve in bowls with spoonfuls of yogurt or crème fraîche<br />
on top.<br />
Christmas<br />
pudding<br />
brownies<br />
150g unsalted butter at room<br />
temperature, plus extra for greasing<br />
250g dark chocolate (70% cocoa<br />
solids), broken into small chunks<br />
3 medium eggs<br />
150g granulated sugar<br />
1 tsp flaky sea salt<br />
4 tbsp cocoa powder<br />
2 tbsp plain flour<br />
300g leftover cooked Christmas<br />
pudding, crumbled<br />
☐ Preheat oven to 180C/Gas Mark<br />
4. Grease <strong>and</strong> line a 30cm x 20cm<br />
baking tin with baking parchment.<br />
☐ Melt the chocolate <strong>and</strong> butter<br />
in a large heatproof bowl set over<br />
a pan of barely simmering water.<br />
Remove from the heat <strong>and</strong> set<br />
aside.<br />
☐ Whisk the eggs, sugar <strong>and</strong> salt<br />
in another bowl, before beating<br />
into the chocolate mixture. Sift<br />
over the cocoa <strong>and</strong> flour, folding<br />
through with all but a h<strong>and</strong>ful of<br />
the Christmas pudding, until just<br />
combined.<br />
☐ Pour the brownie mix into the<br />
prepared tin, spread out <strong>and</strong> scatter<br />
the rest of the Christmas pudding<br />
on top, pressing it in gently.<br />
☐ Bake for 35-40 minutes, or until<br />
a crust has formed on top. Cool<br />
completely in the tin before slicing<br />
<strong>and</strong> serve while still warm.<br />
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Starlight<br />
A short Christmas story<br />
by Alice Morgan<br />
If you were stood outside a<br />
particular church in the early hours<br />
of Christmas morning, when the<br />
black sky was interwoven with stars<br />
<strong>and</strong> the winter wind was breathing<br />
down the back of your scarf, you<br />
may have heard the triumphant<br />
sound of an organ emitting through<br />
the old, stone walls. You may have<br />
heard the voices of a choir as they<br />
harmonised those beautiful notes<br />
of the traditional Christmas hymns<br />
written so long ago; the light from<br />
the huge arched windows casting a<br />
glow over where you stood on the<br />
cold pavement. And saints of times<br />
past watching over you from the<br />
stained glass.<br />
The final hymn was sung <strong>and</strong> the<br />
people were leaving Midnight Mass,<br />
exchanging Christmas greetings.<br />
Peter, a tall man with black hair<br />
brushing over his eyes, carried his<br />
little girl on his shoulders, her red<br />
coat buttoned up to the top <strong>and</strong><br />
a bobble hat bouncing along with<br />
every step her father took. Walking<br />
a few paces behind them were his<br />
wife Iris, a slim lady with long dark<br />
hair that fell around her shoulders<br />
<strong>and</strong> draped over the head of their<br />
sleeping baby boy in her arms.<br />
‘I’m going to have a really big car<br />
for Christmas, Daddy,’ the little girl<br />
said as she held onto her father’s<br />
hair.<br />
‘Are you, love?’<br />
‘Yep. Father Christmas is bringing<br />
me one.’<br />
‘Wish he’d bring me one.’<br />
‘I’ll ask for one for you, Dad. He<br />
won’t mind.’<br />
Peter smiled to himself as he lifted<br />
little Molly from his shoulders <strong>and</strong><br />
put her into her car seat. Iris was<br />
shifting baby Leo uncomfortably<br />
from arm to arm as she attempted<br />
to place him in his car seat next to<br />
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Molly until Peter took him from her<br />
<strong>and</strong> tucked him in safely. Iris smiled<br />
gratefully <strong>and</strong> slipped into the<br />
passenger seat.<br />
‘Pete, can we put the heating<br />
on? It’s freezing!’ she said as<br />
she toggled with the buttons.<br />
In approval of her mother’s<br />
suggestion, Molly shivered<br />
overdramatically <strong>and</strong> Iris turned<br />
<strong>and</strong> winked at her. Peter climbed<br />
into the driver’s seat, adjusting<br />
the heating so that warm air blew<br />
onto their faces <strong>and</strong> demisted the<br />
windscreen. He rubbed his h<strong>and</strong>s<br />
together quickly to try <strong>and</strong> thaw<br />
out the icicles that felt as though<br />
they were attached to his fingers.<br />
Iris wrapped her h<strong>and</strong>s up in her<br />
scarf while Molly pretended to be a<br />
dragon, watching her breath float in<br />
front of her before it disappeared.<br />
‘Do you know where I think we<br />
should go? Where no one else at all<br />
will be on Christmas morning?’ Iris<br />
asked Molly.<br />
Molly shook her head while Peter<br />
looked on curiously.<br />
‘The beach,’ Iris whispered<br />
excitedly. ‘We can have the whole<br />
place to ourselves <strong>and</strong> see the<br />
stars.’<br />
‘Yeah!’ Molly replied.<br />
Peter sighed to himself as he knew<br />
this was an argument he would not<br />
win. Turning the keys in the ignition,<br />
he put the car into gear <strong>and</strong> pulled<br />
away.<br />
‘You’re crazy,’ he told his wife,<br />
smiling as he remembered this was<br />
the reason he had fallen in love with<br />
her.<br />
And so they drove to Barry Isl<strong>and</strong>,<br />
ab<strong>and</strong>oned as everyone else was<br />
either awaiting Santa or playing<br />
him. Peter took Molly out of the car<br />
while Iris stayed behind so as not<br />
to disturb ‘her sleeping lump of<br />
Leo.’ Molly held her father’s h<strong>and</strong><br />
as they walked to the east end of<br />
the promenade <strong>and</strong> ran down onto<br />
the s<strong>and</strong> together. The only light<br />
upon the beach was thrown upon<br />
them from the stars above <strong>and</strong> the<br />
moonlight that shone on the sea.<br />
Molly ran away squealing while her<br />
father chased her <strong>and</strong> suddenly<br />
stopped when she came to the<br />
edge of the water, the tide trying<br />
to catch her little black shoes with<br />
its liquid fingers. Peter scooped her<br />
up, adamant that he wouldn’t let<br />
the crafty sea steal his little girl <strong>and</strong><br />
ran around with her as she laughed<br />
uncontrollably <strong>and</strong> threw her head<br />
backwards.<br />
‘Daddy?’<br />
‘Yes, precious?’<br />
‘Where do the stars live?’<br />
‘In the sky. They look after you in<br />
the dark.’<br />
‘Do they look after me when I’m<br />
sleeping then?’<br />
‘Yep. So one day, if I’m not here,<br />
you won’t have to be scared ‘cos<br />
they’ll be watching you, see? And if<br />
you have nightmares, the stars will<br />
rummage through your head <strong>and</strong><br />
pull all the bad dreams out, just like<br />
I do.’<br />
Molly found this an extremely<br />
funny thing for a star to do <strong>and</strong><br />
she wriggled out of her father’s<br />
arms <strong>and</strong> ran ahead of him, all the<br />
way to the west end, laughing <strong>and</strong><br />
screaming. Suddenly she stopped<br />
<strong>and</strong> turned to him. Her face was<br />
very serious.<br />
‘Dad? When are you not gonna be<br />
here?’<br />
‘Never. Never, ever. I’m always<br />
going to be here.’<br />
Molly grinned <strong>and</strong> ran back to her<br />
father’s open arms.<br />
‘Good,’ she said, ‘I’d miss you very<br />
much if you weren’t here.’ She<br />
squeezed his face between her<br />
chubby little h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> put her<br />
face against his; her big blue eyes<br />
staring at him without blinking.<br />
Peter smiled <strong>and</strong> gave her a kiss.<br />
‘Come on you, it’s too cold to<br />
stay out here. Let’s get you home<br />
<strong>and</strong> cosy, shall we?’ he said as she<br />
nodded <strong>and</strong> nuzzled her head into<br />
his neck.<br />
He carried her back to the car<br />
<strong>and</strong> drove his little family home to<br />
their small terraced house. They<br />
had left the hallway light on <strong>and</strong><br />
the warm glow invited them inside.<br />
From Molly’s bedroom window,<br />
she could see a small star shining<br />
in, looking after her. After Iris <strong>and</strong><br />
Peter had changed the children into<br />
their pyjamas, they arranged their<br />
Christmas presents around the tree,<br />
sneaking some up to the bedroom<br />
to put in the children’s stockings.<br />
Safe in the knowledge the children<br />
would be truly happy to receive just<br />
what they wanted in the morning,<br />
they cuddled up next to their small<br />
coal fire.<br />
Unlike the children, they would be<br />
not truly happy because of what<br />
they received. But because of what<br />
they already had.<br />
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