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October

2019

Free Copy

Sure ka

Advice,

tips and

tricks

Inside

SKY Guys

Fashion hacks

Nandi’s study tips

Body essentials

Real life stories

the

Shapo

ka

being

clueless,

smoking,

failure

How to…

Pass your

exams

Stay cool

this summer

Survive

at varsity

issue


What

Is SKY?

SKY is a sisterhood of teenage

girls all across Botswana.

Becoming a SKY girl means taking

the pledge to define your Sures

- things you love)- and Shapos -

(things you don't need in your

life. It's super simple. –

just send a message

to our Facebook inbox

@skygirlsbw and we will get

right back to you.)

What sets SKY girls apart is that

we stay true to ourselves, and we

are not swayed by peer pressure.

Whatever our Sures and Shapos

are, we stand by them, because

those choices define us, and make each

one of us unique.

SKY

Pledge

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I pledge to be true to myself and what

I believe in. To be who I am, not who

someone else thinks I should be.

I will say Sure Ka Yone to the things that

I am all about – like standing up for my

friends and following my dreams.

I will say Shapo Ka Yone to the things

I am good without – like smoking and

backstabbing.

I will make choices that are true to me.

I will follow my skyline.

I pledge to find my SKY.


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Fashion:

Basics & Hacks

One Thing

I Know

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Maxine’s

Letter

How to... Beat

the Heat!

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What to Expect

at Varsity

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Cover Story!

Study Tips

True Life

Story

Comic Strip

Your Questions

Answered


Heyyyyy!

Myself (Bukasa) and my fellow SKY Live presenter

Kgomotso are super excited about this issue of

SKY Magazine! From the theme itself, “How To”,

y’all can tell that the content will be fun and

informative.

We talk all things fashion and trends in an article

dedicated to keeping us popping and true to our

individual style. The ‘Body Beautiful’ segment

offers us tips and advice on how to take care of our

bodies as we reach for our other goals. Not only do

we have those ‘how to’ tips, we also have tricks on

how to prepare for summer… interesting right?

And yes, we all know it’s exam season, so guess

what bo babes?? We got that covered too. In this

issue we feature SKY girl Nandi, who won the

cover girl competition - she’ll be giving us tips on

how to prepare for our examinations!

We also have advice and answers to all the inbox

questions we receive from SKY girls out there.

EDI-

TOR’S

note

And last but not least, the SKYscopes segment!

Keep reading to get to know what your star says

about you…

Enjoyyyyyyyyy!

xoxo

Bukasa and Kgomotso

SKY Live presenters

Listen to SKY Live every Saturday on

RB2, 12.30 – 1pm.

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It seems bucket hats are back

and we are loving it! Botswana

is a really hot country and

why not protect yourself from

the heat in a super stylish and

classic way? You can style them

in a way that suits you, so you

keep it authentic but super fun!

Whether with a pair of jeans or

a long summer dress, you can

always find the perfect bucket

hat to complete your look.

Summer is back and re sure ka

dishades tsa rona. Whichever shape

or colour you prefer, sunglasses are

a must-have this summer. The best

part is that trends evolve so whether

you are using your mother’s old

sunglasses or buy a new pair, re sure

ka tsone!

Re sure ka lona lotlhe, because

you have made this sisterhood

what it is today. For always

engaging with us on Facebook,

the magazine and even at events.

It is amazing to be a part of this

sisterhood and know that you can

always count on your SKY sisters!

RE SURE KA SKY NATION!

It is almost time for exams,

and it’s important to plan

but to also stick to what

we have planned to do.

You want to start that

hobby? Then you should

get to it. You set up a

study timetable? Then you

should follow it and study.

We know that sometimes an

outfit feels complete with

high-heeled shoes but this is

not always the case. Re shapo

ka trying too hard to rock high

heels because at the end of the

day we are all about comfort

and feeling confident in our own

skin. If we are wearing heels,

let’s do it but if not, wear flats!

Re shapo ka shoes that can’t

decide if they are high heels or

not.

We are all unique and worthy

and that is what we celebrate

as SKY girls. Re shapo ka

comparing ourselves to people

on the internet because of their

likes or followers, and just other

people in general. We are all

beautiful and intelligent. This

is what makes us a SKY Nation

because we embrace who we

are as individuals :)


FASHION

Basics

Taking lessons or breaking the bank

in order to look chic and stylish

are a thing of the past. There are

so many ways to dress on a budget

and still turn heads. Fashion is

ever evolving, with new trends

coming and going as the seasons

do, celebrities influencing the way

we dress and see different types of

clothing, and even styles we come

up with on our own. But at the same

time, there are classic basic tips we

can all follow for a great foundation,

before we put our own twist on an

outfit. These ‘fashion basics’ will

help you look your best at all times.

Firstly, if you can’t seem to

find anything to wear, go

black! This color will go with

anything else you have in

your closet and is also very

flattering, no matter what your

colouring or body shape is.

It is also one of the simplest

colours to wear and still look

very chic. A black outfit paired

with a little jewellery makes a

statement with minimal effort

required.

Secondly, it is essential to dress for your

body shape as each item of clothing is

cut and designed in a different way, and

is not meant to fit everyone in the same

way. There are four main body shapes that

women fall into: hourglass, rectangle, pear

and apple. Finding items of clothing that

flatter your body shape will not only look

good, but will also give you a great boost of

confidence.

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The third fashion tip we have for

you is introducing a bright color to

an outfit you feel looks too bland,

as this will switch the whole look

up and add more life to it. The

added pop of color could be in any

form, be it shoes, a T-shirt, a blazer

or even a scarf. Remember that it’s

all about balance when it comes

to adding a little highlight to your

outfit.

Another great tip we have for you is to find vintage, high quality

clothes that can become your closet classics. A lot of the clothes

found in shops today are cheap ‘fast fashion’ which means they

are low quality – they might rip, the zips might break and most

likely they won’t fit nicely either. Clothes from the 1970s, 1980s

and 1990s are generally higher quality, so raid your parents’ or

grandparents’ wardrobes to see if they have any classic pieces

you can wear today! Not only will you stand out from the crowd,

you will also have something you can rely on to make you look

great time and time again.

Lastly, less is more when it comes to

achieving the perfect look. As cliché as

the phrase may sound, it is very true

and can be extremely useful when

putting an outfit together, especially

your go-to, daily outfits. Instead of

piling on the layers and accessories,

instead ask yourself ‘how minimal can

I make this outfit?’ When put together

correctly, not only does this style look

amazing, it is also very comfortable

and affordable since you don’t need to

fill a large wardrobe with clothes!


FASHION

Hacks

It may still feel a little chilly in the night,

but summer is here and we are feeling the

heat! It’s nice to follow trends, shop for

the latest brands and all, but what’s more

exciting is DIY styles that also belong on

the runway while staying true to yourself.

No need to spend so much money on

15 minute trends when you can mix up

your style with what you already have.

Remember, any outfit you pull off should

make you feel good about yourself. Here

are a few tips on how to shake up your

outfits.

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Statement Tees:

1.

Simple but still loud. Get your old tees

and design a statement on them. It can

be something as simple as your name, or

something intense and long to express your

thoughts. Maybe your Sures and Shapos or a

funny memory you have with your friends. This

could be a fun way to gather your friends and

DIY your tees together. Get some supplies from

Pep stores and set up shop in your backyard.

You can use a pen, paints, or even use spray

paint and a home-made stencil. Some of these

DIY tips are on Pinterest and YouTube, just

search for ‘DIY statement T-shirt’.

Biker shorts plus your

brother’s old oversized

sweater.

Your outfit doesn’t always have to be your

own clothes, borrow a couple of items from

your siblings or cousins. Oversized sweaters

and biker shorts were a fashion phenomenon

set by Princess Diana, and today, we see

trendsetting models such as Kendall Jenner

rock them. Style that with a pair of trainers

and ankle socks.


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3.

Cut your old jeans

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This will never get old. It’s getting warmer

again and we can’t be out in this heat with

full on jeans, it’s time for the big chop. You

can cut them and turn up the bottoms,

or leave them with the ripped look. Just

remember you can always cut more off, but

you can’t put it back, so measure, measure,

measure, before you cut! Make sure to

find DIY YouTube videos or Google some

tutorials so that you can make pretty cool

designs.

4.

5.

Halter tops

Now this is a DIY we are daring you to try out. We

believe in you. If you wanna go to a chill event,

hang out with your friends, or just lay at home,

this is your simple go-to top you can pair with

jeans, or even some tights/ biker shorts. Get a

T-shirt, a pair of scissors, and go ahead girl. You

can even use a bandana for this, or decorate it

with a simple tie & dye.

Mix and match clothes you already

have, that you wouldn’t have

thought to wear together!

Some of these clothes are in your closet and you just don’t pay

much attention to them, but it’s all about how you style yourself.

Here’s one idea: a school blazer, plain white tee/sweater, old

denim jeans, and a cap. This is another iconic outfit by Princess D,

and seen more recently on Hailey Beiber. It’s pretty edgy if we do

say so ourselves, and so does Vogue Magazine.


The Basic

Essentials!

The best way to feel beautiful is to believe

it hunny! Walk the talk. Here are some tips

on how to feel like the beautiful queen that

you are! Dipata di phunyegile, so we can’t

always rely on those Kylie lip balms and Kim’s

contour to feel beautiful. You can choose to

use reasonably priced products or even none

at all, no judgement. Actress Yara Shahidi said

it so well “Use make-up to express yourself

rather than to cover yourself”. You just gotta

be comfortable and feel good about yourself.

Also, make sure to make others feel good

about themselves too. Use your social media

platforms to empower and spread kindness.

Love that for us.

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Love Yourself

First and foremost, one important beauty essential is loving

yourself. Loving your skin, your face, your legs, your lips,

your smile, just everything because that’s you! Look in

the mirror and tell yourself you are the baddest, you are

beautiful. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not. Sometimes

people who are insecure about their own selves tend to try

to bring others down, don’t let them get to you hunny. This

includes body positivity. As musician Lizzo told us, to feel

good as hell with ourselves “do your hair flip, check your

nails”.

This is the only body you will have, so love it. Take care of

it. Your body is growing and it will constantly change. Your

body will look different at 14 and at 21, even at 36. You will

always be changing and growing and you gotta love every

minute of it. Loving yourself also means taking care of

you. Eating well, drinking lots of water, exercising, reading,

laughing, no smoking, having me-time, getting enough rest,

limiting your social media, and just staying true.


Hair

Whether natural, braids, retouched, short, or permed, you

gotta take care of your hair. Healthy hair also helps to keep

a glowing face. Gatwe moriri wa dia, mara if it’s well taken care

of you avoid having skin breakouts. Wash your hair, you can use heat but

not too much. Use a silk bonnet when sleeping to protect those edges boo.

Detangle your hair with your hands and not a comb. Hair day is self-care

day. Lupita is the epitome of representation who’s a proud advocate of

natural hair. We have no choice but to love her. Don’t feel the pressure to

look a certain way, keeping natural hair can be costly and time consuming.

But you can always wear protective styles like cornrows. Do what makes

you happy instead of trying to impress anyone.

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Menstrual Hygiene

Our favourite quote is from our girl Sho Madjozi “You don’t have to

hide just because you’re on your period.” We know periods treat

us all different. Sometimes we feel weak, nauseous, tired, and the

stigma around periods has made us feel unclean. Your period is not

going anywhere babes, right now you gotta learn how to be healthy

and stay fresh when the girls arrive every month. Do some simple

stretches daily. Drink less coffee. Shower daily, make sure to only

use clean water without any products. The best girl friend to have

is the one who always have an extra pad in their bag. Be that friend.

We love to see it.

Face

Yes, wash your face every day with clean water, don’t scrub

it, and wash off any make-up before going to bed. But, what

would we never leave the house without? Zendaya says

“Lipgloss” and we agree. Nobody wants to walk around

with some ashy lips. At least get yourself a Vaseline kana

Zambuk tsala. Having some glowing lips is back now and we

love to see it. Wear that lipgloss with confidence and don’t

look back. Zendaya also shared some other amazing advice

about self-care: “continue to be fearless in your activism and

individuality” which we just love. Working on confidence is

another great way to shine from the inside out.


Dear Maxine,

School is probably irritating you

right now, except art. You love

art class. Your friends, especially

Laura, make art class fun, and you

look forward to them. But you

pretty much want to grow up!

You probably can’t wait to be an

adult, so that you can do anything

you want, whenever you want,

buy yourself as many shoes and

chocolate as your heart desires.

Hahaha. Well, it doesn’t work that

way. Adulting doesn’t work that

way.

12

year-

Old-Self

Maxine is a beauty

creative who specializes

in makeup artistry, based

in Gaborone, Botswana.

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maxine_makeup_and_hair_studio

Maxine

Makeup & Hair

Don’t. Please don’t grow up.

Stay young, and curious. Keep a

positive mind, in a negative world.

Stay excited. Adventurous in

spirit, but guarding of your body

and your heart. Many will try and

steal both, but you are your main

protector.

Love. Dance when no-one is

looking. Dance, even when

everyone is looking. Be different.

A burning light, which cannot

be put out because it is fuelled by

uniqueness no-one can replicate.

Don’t let anyone tell you your body

size, complexion, hair, and the

clothes you can afford dictate who

you are.

Again, love. Everyone.

And don’t grow up.

Love, Maxine

xxx


#SKY

SKY is by girls, for girls, but

we never forget our SKY

brothers! We appreciate them

and we always love hearing

from them when they get in

touch. This issue we wanted

to bring you 3 SKY Guys who

we’ve been talking to recently.

Re sure ka bone!

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This SKY brother wrote an

awesome poem for the SKY

Nation, enjoy!

SKY VIBE

We know we got the fly vibe like

eagles,

The one that always keep us

high!

With emotion and trust in us.

We strive to keep loyal to

ourselves,

We never try to be someone else!

We are hard rock, we never

crack for pressure even if

temptations say it’s leisure!

Our vibe makes us help our

fallen mates

To stand out and say no to losing

again!

We don’t flow with hypocriticism

who is cold and full of criticism.

Our pledge helps us keep our

style firm, and fine

Sure with what we admire

Shapo with what we detest!

It’s all about choices,

To raise our voices!

And be heard distinctly.

World know this!

That’s our SKY way

We aim forth for our reign!

Prince Radipati

Gérard K Radipati

Laletsang

Reuben Sento

Laletsang is from Ramotswa but lives in

Hukuntsi. He dreams of becoming a presenter

of SKY Live in future!

“I am a boy who never gave up in life, always

working hard to achieve his goals. I am also

sure ka fashion”

This SKYGuy is doing

Form 5 at Naledi SSS in

Gaborone. He says “Well

I’m an aspiring person, and

wherever I am I make sure

people smile and laugh

each and every moment.”

Ke sure ka:

Self-respect

Education

Discipline

Ke shapo ka:

Smoking

Bad company

Negativity

Thuo T. Mabuza


One Thing

Since this is the ‘How

To’ issue, what better

content than some

GREAT life lessons

from some local,

young inspirations?

We asked Katlego

Ntirang, Tumi

Nthutang, Jordan

MoOzy, Poloko

Mosarwa and Phenyo

Oaitse to tell us one

thing they know…

about stress, school,

relationships and

more!

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I Know…


STUDY TIPS

Special

Ke sure ka:

Music

Positivity

Academic excellence

Ke shapo ka:

Negativity

Self-centredness

Smoking

Well, this is the ‘How To’ issue,

and it’s exam season, so what

could be better than some

amazing study tips? First up

we have this issue’s covergirl,

16-year-old Nandi Maphanyane,

bringing you her TOP TIPS.

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Here are my 5 study

tips which are very

effective and quite

interesting... I hope

they could also work

out for other girls.

Label

everything

around you with

a topic that

challenges you

the most.

Well... I thought of having charts in my room and around

the house too, but due to having a strict rule of ‘do not stick

anything on the wall,’ I developed a new habit of giving almost

everything around me a name. Take an outfit for example, I

call my school uniform “The Mole Concept”. Someone would

think that’s pretty crazy right? But look at it this way, the three

buttons on my dress represent the principles we use for

calculations, the jersey is the Avogadro’s constant and so on....

Trust me, it actually works if you struggle with remembering

everything you read from a book.

Play with the

information from

your notebook

and textbooks.

When I actually say this to my friends, they probably think, “O tshameka

eng a le motona tota,” which is the same thing I said when my mom

taught me the technique.

I usually use a jump rope to recite everything I learnt and keep it in

my brain, or I could try to shoot a ball into a bucket while repeating

definitions and formulas until I finally get a goal for each of them, although

go kgona go lapisa as I could repeat one definition 12 times without a

goal but it’s worth it.

Make songs out of

different concepts or

simply listen to readymade

songs if you

aren’t really creative.

I listen to songs on different topics in all subjects on

YouTube on Mr Parr’s channel and others. They usually

substitute the lyrics of hit songs with explanations in those

concepts which can really stick into your brain if you’re a

music person. If you find any of the songs boring or ‘not

your taste’, it’s okay, just use the alphabet tune to make it

easier for you to remember.

Make crazy videos with

your friends using terms

from a certain subject or

create memes that your

friends could share using

educational stuff.

Ke gore go nne top tlerere hela go nne monate.

I created a study group last year where I once

shared a video about cell specialization by just

having different characters (the mini actors in the

hood) with names related to the topic and realised

that they understood better this way. Just have fun

when doing this and it’ll totally pay off.

Utilise the time

you have at

school if you’re

not a night

crawler.

Tbh it’s really hard for me to study during the night...

instead of pushing myself and trying to study nonstop

through the night, I make sure I get enough sleep

so that I can be highly active during school hours.

This actually prevents you from feeling sleepy during

lessons and it helps me make the most of the time that

I can study. I guess you should know yourself because

not everyone will be like me, but if you think about your

sleep patterns and the best time for you to study, you

can work around it.

That’s all I had in

mind. Good luck to

all the SKY Sisters

out there in your

exams and I hope

these tips were

helpful for you!


Nandi gave you her top 5 tips, and

now we have another 5 amazing

‘how to’ lessons from 16-year-old

Leinah. With all these great tips,

we are sure to slay our exams!

It is with great pleasure that I share my

top 5 tips with my fellow SKY sisters and

brothers. I use these tips every day and they

have given me excellent grades that I want

to see other students having and excelling

academically. Thank you, with all love!

Mind Mapping

This is a creative study tool that can be used for any

subject at any level, be it PSLE, JC, or BGCSE. When I

use a mind map to study, it takes me a much shorter

time yet covers a lot of material, and this enables

me to remember and understand more. A good mind

map should have a main heading in the centre with

arrows connecting all the subtopics, and sub sub

topics. Note that the further you move away from the

main topic is an indication of how well you understand

the main topic. All you need is some bright

highlighters & pens, a notepad, notebook and textbook

to get your facts right and you are ready to kick

start.

Laws of Memory

These are 3 easy-to-learn laws that will help you

remember whatever you have been studying.

Law of frequency

• I often recite the short notes that I make time and

again and this is helpful as l am able to remember

them and helps me to perform much better.

Law of distributed practice

• It is more effective to space out your study material or

times of study than sitting for long hours trying to

cover everything in one set. I tend to have short breaks,

and listen to music but it’s best to think about what

works for you and take time to get it right.

Law of multiplicity of senses

• The greater the number of senses involved in study,

the more effective the memory will function. Anything

heard, seen, and written down will be remembered

more than when you use only one of the senses.

Exam Question Analysis

Most of us students don’t know what the questions want

from us, but understanding the question is key to getting

good marks. Learn how to analyse the question like this:

• Identify the subject by asking yourself ‘what is this

question about?’

• Identify the instruction (this is the word that tells you

how the examiner expects you to present your answer,

like for example ‘explain’ or ‘describe’ or ‘calculate’)

• Identify which aspects; in other words specifically

which areas of the subject the question is directed to.

This means that when you know which chapter the

question is asking about, you will have almost

answered the question.

• Identify any other significant words you need to take

into account

• Are there any terms which need definition (do you

need to show you understand what the words mean?)

Spreadsheet Technique

This technique actually enables me to know my

strengths and weaknesses when it comes to various

subjects. All I do is make a table with 4 columns which

have the headings: subject, easy, easy but hard, hard.

Under the subject column list all the subjects then indicate

whether I find them easy, easy but hard or hard for

me. Then I get into each subject and list all the topics

and classify them. This analysis has given me a chance

to be able to improve in the bad grades I had for subjects

I saw as ‘easy but hard’ or ‘hard’ as I pull up my socks on

those subjects.


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Maths Chart

Design a table with five columns and

in each column have the following

headings:

Topic

• Where you write down the maths

topic you wish to study e.g. simple

algebra

Formula

• Where you write down the formula

to the topic you are studying; if there

is a formula. If none then put a dash.

Sum/problem

• Where you write down a sum/

problem you are studying which you

could have done with the teacher or

picked from the text book.

Application:

• Where you write down the working

shown in your note book or in the

text book. However this time you

should number the various working

steps shown as in 1,2,3 etc.

Notes:

• Now look at everything in the

application column then using your

own words, explain that which you

see happening. Explain every single

step. If you get stuck somewhere ask

a teacher or another student for

help. If you can explain this topic

in full then you will always be able

to work out any sum :)

MORE

STUDY

Tips


Beat

the heat!

How to stay

cool this

Summer

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Summertime is one of the most exciting times of the year because

it’s when we have fun in the sun with our friends and family.

Us teens get to enjoy all the free time we get during the summer

holidays, try out new smoothies and go swimming, too! Re sure

ka summertime, but there are also precautions that we should take

before going out into the sun, to stay cool and comfortable!

1. 2.

Stay cool with a smoothie!

It is crucial to keep your body as cool as

possible to avoid falling sick, and what

better way to do so than make homemade

smoothies? A very simple one to make is

the peach-mango-banana blend, and all

you need to do is blend a cup each of those

fruits, add 1 cup of plain yogurt and ice,

a little sugar to taste, and voila! You have

yourself a delicious smoothie to keep you

cool during the summer heat.

3. 4.

Use lighter makeup

Not a lot of makeup is needed in summer as

there are less chances of getting any cracks

in it, and more chance of it running if you

sweat. So go lighter on it, and keep a little

tissue with you when you go out to keep your

face dry in case it gets sweaty. Remember that

excess makeup during hot seasons may also

clog your pores, which is even more reason

to keep it light, or just not wear any at all.

5.

Stay hydrated

Water is a miracle liquid. It keeps us healthy,

re-energises us and also helps to give us glowing

skin. In this heat we should be carrying water

wherever we go, and drinking lots of it – at least

2 litres per day but a little more is even better. If

you feel like having juice instead, mix it 50/50

with water – more to enjoy, and much healthier.

Re-evaluate your skincare routine

Summer skin is different to winter skin and

you won’t be needing the heavy oils and

creams you used in winter to fight dry skin.

Consider something lighter during summer,

and increase the amount of high SPF creams

that you will be using, to protect your skin

from sunburn. Whatever your complexion,

every shade of skin needs to be protected

from the sun’s damaging rays with shade

and sunblock.

Light-coloured clothing is

your best friend

Clothing items in lighter hues will be very

helpful in hot weather as they will help you

stay cool. Loose fitting shirts and trousers

will also help you combat the heat whilst

looking stylish. Pair white skinny jeans with

a loose pink or blue shirt, black shades and

sandals together for a chic look that is also

perfect for summer conditions.

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Real Life Story

By Ame Mokubung

What is PCOS? Most people ask.

It’s Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and it’s a

condition of the female reproductive system

which I discovered I had 3 years ago


Wordsearch

Q U C Q Y O U G O T T H I S E C S Z

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A K A X T E F K K E T R I C K S B O

Z O P V A V X U G F S Q A X Z W R D

I K R P D Q T C L J Y U N A Y Z B R

Z H G J V P H I E L B V C F N K F D

O O W N I H A X P L M L H C K L P Z

O W E U C Q C S K S L A B V E S C T

L T T G E V S X S E B E R U U S U M

V O C Q V M M G J I M J N K H I S R

O S M R U L H D A A N F Q C S W T F

J L B I Z H A T W C E G J N E P L J

H K Z V Z O I T K N O W L E D G E R

I U T J C O A Z I W H R U F I I S R

E S S T G W T G E D C Z W N T V T F

E G N A R O S S G F W W B E E E L J

L N N F D J A V W U I N F J U E E R

Can you find all

10 words in the

wordsearch?

ADVICE

EXCELLENCE

FULLMARKS

HOWTO

KNOWLEDGE

PASSING

SUCCESS

TIPS

TRICKS

YOUGOTTHIS

Re-arrange the letters to find the

names of different places in Botswana!

TOWNS

1. Liipebsekhew

2. Aakens

3. Sontabhg

4. Ahmeaaply

5. Oblaste

AREAS OF NATURAL

BEAUTY

6. Goetaonakdvla

7. Moggeireorm

8. Gaakipagmdnaidks

9. Holliidolsst

10. Keglaarilnactadg

ANSWERS

1. Selibe Phikwe

2. Kasane

3. Tshabong

4. Mahalapye

5. Lobatse

6. Okavango Delta

7. Moremi Gorge

8. Makgadikgadi Pans

9. Tsodilo Hills

10. Central Kgalagadi


MATSWAKA BAE

ONE YEAR LATER’

As much as ke rata go

nna mo America, it’s

always so good to catch

up with my girls!

You guys look so GOOD! Wow

Mimi, beauty business ya

gago is obviously booming

It’s going so amazingly well. Just

think one year ago today, ne re

stress-a over our exams. But look

at us now, wow. Chedza’s is even

trending

I am NOT trending Mimi,

haha. But my music has

been going well. It was the

right choice go tsaya gap

year.


Just think, soon you

could even be joining

me this side Chedza!

Yes, girl! Ke ntse ke

dira research ya the

live music scene that

side and I have so many

ideas…

Well as much as I can’t

WAIT go re le ntlogele

all alone, aren’t we

supposed to be having a

vlog meeting?

Oh, yes! We are

launching our new

project, an online

vlog ko re kgonang

go dira scrapbook

and share our songs

and poems with the

world, and keep in

touch forever

@hashtagdima

After 3 years and 6 seasons, Matswaka Bae has finally come

to an end. Every episode is available to listen to on the

skygirlsbw Facebook page, in the videos section. For the

final episode ever, Lerato, Mimi and Chedza made a real life

video too - if you haven’t seen it yet, check it out also on the

skygirlsbw Facebook page!


What to

expect at

26

Graduating from high school is one of the biggest milestones in

your life, and a lot of responsibility and challenges come along

with the next adventure many people take on, university.

Here is some advice from final year students at the University of

Botswana on what they experienced, as well as their advice to you.


THEO OFETOTSE

“When I came to university as a 19-year-old who

hadn’t had much exposure to the Gabs life, I was

excited at the prospect of having so much freedom,

and one thing I did not expect was the pressure that

came with juggling and maintaining my social and

academic life. I had to learn how to balance school,

social life and sleep. Very few people will care about

you, your school work or personal growth, so take

care of yourself, because no one else will.”

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INEELENG GABA

“College life paves a way to society life. For a girl, one has to be

emotionally ready for being played by boys pretending to love

them. Peer pressure exists and you need to be able to stand

your ground or you might find yourself living a life out of your

character. To those just starting out and those that dream of

being in uni, be ready to work hard, spend sleepless nights

studying and growing at large.”

VICTORIA MARUMO

“When you are in high school, you have this fantasy idea of varsity,

mostly influenced by what you see on TV, however, it’s not really

as colourful as you are made to believe it is. The one thing I didn’t

expect in varsity was depression. It is a serious condition that

can build up over the years, and it is important to see someone

if you must, don’t let it destroy you. Expect self-realization and

growth. The environment will force you to grow because you

shoot straight from being a baby into a serious world of adulting.

Friendships will surely end and you must let them, don’t hold onto

people just because you were a squad in high school.”

OBONOLO BENN

“You will find yourself wanting to belong to a particular group

but this should not be the case because it often leads to one

straying away from the sole reason as to why they’re in varsity. I

did not expect to have all this freedom to make major decisions,

but it comes with huge responsibility. My advice for those

about to start or who just started is to get information on what

you are studying, ask for help and network. Lastly, enjoy your

stay in the university.”


Every day SKY receives messages

asking for advice on lots of

different problems. In this issue

of the Magazine, we feature 4

questions that we get asked a lot,

we hope it will help those of you

out there going through the

same problems!

SKY Girl Tshepi:

SKY HEELLLPP!

SKY: Hey babes,

wassup?

SKY: Mmhh,I know it hurts and you feel like you

can never love or be loved again. Just know that

boys come and go, le rona re hitile hoo. You can’t

change people. You’re gonna grow up, change,

meet new people, and realize gore mole e ne

e le matshamekwane. Someone that loves and

cares for you should not purposefully hurt you

and disrespect you. They shouldn’t make you feel

uncomfortable. You have your whole life ahead of

you. One thing you should try your best not to do

ke go lelela ngwana wa mosimane. Tu! Not today

sweetie. Oska letelela mfana hela a go ira matho

mahibidu! *rolls eyes*. And another thing, don’t

even approach the girl. This is between you and

him.

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SKY Girl Tshepi: I’ve talked to him

and he says he’s sorry. But I saw

gore he was still texting her. A re I’m

not giving him what he wants.

SKY Girl Tshepi: My bf

cheated on me with a girl

in my school, waitse I’m

embarrassed. I’ve been

crying I’m so hurt the

bathong.

SKY Girl Tshepi:

I really love him

mme kana.

SKY Girl Tshepi: Thanks

SKY. I’m just glad I have

my friends to cheer me up.

SKY: Eish, basimane baa tena

waitse sometimes, *annoyed

emoji*. I’m so sorry this

happened babe. We got you.

It’s not nice to be cheated on

and your feelings are valid.

It’s ok to feel sad about this.

Just know that the pain will go

away with time.

SKY: Haebo! Yah neh. You gotta set boundaries babes.

His ‘love’ for you should not be a transaction. Ha go

na ka mphe se to show me your love. Ha go na ka

bo “or else”. So if your boyfriend cheated, it’s time to

re-evaluate your relationship. Is it worth staying with

someone who hurt you in that way? I don’t think so.

You’re too young to stay in relationships that only bring

you stress. 2019 is almost over, exams are approaching,

It’s time to focus on yourself for a healthy you. Be selfish

with your happiness. Your happiness should not revolve

around a boy, it is in your hands. Find activities that make

you happy and do more of that. Arts, sports, writing,

going for walks, school clubs, cooking, talking to friends,

reading, learning a new DIY project. Cheating boyfriends

must go! Stay true to yourself. xx

SKY: Anytime girl. We’re

also here for you.


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Zendayasbabe

Fam, waitse I don’t know how to be

a confident person. I’ve tried tota

it’s really tough to stand in front of

people and believe in myself.

Zendayasbabe

Do you have any tips

nebathong that I can try?

SKY

To be honest, this one e tricky because e

personale, some people are shy to even speak

to other people. Mara there are so many things

you can do to boost your confidence. Some

people take public speaking classes, while

others join sports or clubs to improve their selfesteem.

Remember, this is all within you and

only YOU can change that.

SKY

Fo sho. Here are 5 tips you can try, to believe in yourself, to gain self-esteem and self-confidence.

1. Improve your posture

This might be small and unrecognizable but goes

a long way. Try not to hunch your back when you

sit or as you walk. Push your shoulders back,

chest out, and raise your chin. This helps make

you feel in charge and in control. It can also help

you to speak up. There’s nothing wrong with

voicing your opinion.

2. Create your own affirmations

I am beautiful. I am strong. I am smart. I can do

this. I am confident. Ke sure ka myself. Ke shapo

ka negative vibes. I am me. Write these down and

stick them on your bedroom wall, locker, or

notebook. Read them all the time and believe

them. Find quotes from SKY magazines and read

them for motivation. Remember, never give up.

3. Accept yourself

Sometimes we lack confidence because we

believe other people are better than us. You can’t

let the world dictate your worth. You are the only

you in this world. Do not beat yourself down,

accept your mistakes, get back up and do better.

Do not focus on what you can’t do and can’t

control, recognize your achievements and be

happy about them. Love yourself fully, you

deserve it. Have some me time.

4. Avoid negative people

Some of the people you have in your life might

be toxic and that’s not good. It might be tough to

stand up to them but you can always remove

yourself from that group. Remember, this is one

stage in life. You won’t have all those people

as your friends forever. One day you’ll be in a

different place and you don’t need people that

drain your energy and make you feel small. Find

friends that make you smile, and they don’t have

to be popular. It’s fun to have genuine friends that

make us laugh. If it’s at home, you might not be

able to call a family meeting to address your

problem, so try talking to your favorite aunt/uncle,

cousin, or grandparent to help you.

5. Face your fears

Join a sport, chess, dance crew, painting crew,

book club, any club you feel you either belong to

or you might be anxious about. It doesn’t hurt to

try something new that may add value to your life.

Learning a new skill can boost your confidence.

Facing your fears can help you feel good about

yourself and you can create new friends that have

similar interests.


Poet_Rati: Hi SKY Girls, I’m trying to

improve my grades go thata. I don’t

wanna disappoint my parents with my

results. Please help.

Poet_Rati: I just don’t know where to start,

it’s like when I study I forget gore ke badile

eng. Gape some of my friends are enjoying

themselves and I feel some pressure to join them

sometimes.

SKY: Diacha! Where will we go without school tota?

This is the time and place you are allowed to actually

fall down many times and get back up. Try, try, and

try again till you get it right. It has always been here

and it will always be around. If you’re an A student,

keep up the good work. If you’re a B/C student,

know that there is so much room for improvement.

You have a chance to bump your grades up. Don’t

believe the category you’ve been put in determines

who you are forever. If you are below these grades,

it’s time to wake up babe. We have study tips

featured in this mag, make sure to give yourself the

time to read them and put them in practice. Talk to

your teachers, tell them about what you’re struggling

with and ask them for help. Stay disciplined. Go

monate go pasa and you deserve that.

SKY: One of the best strategies is to listen in class and take down notes. Something you’ve heard first hand makes

it easier to remember when you study. One other thing, you know when they always say “Basimane ga ba ye gope”

kana, “Monate ga o fele”? That’s sooooo true shem. All this excitement and fun will always be here whether you’re in

primary school, junior school, UB, or wherever. Find friends that can help you do better, not those who only bring you

down. Gape, don’t believe banyana ba re they didn’t study, o tlaa sala gonehoo! Ipalele. Lastly, as much as you work

hard and study, you also need balance. So sleep and wake up early, get enough rest, eat well, exercise, read some

fiction, drink lots of water, go for a walk, get a hobbynyana. To be honest, the main thing here is to stay disciplined.

Reward yourself after completing a task, a reading, or finishing an assignment. That will motivate you even more.

Prettygirl_Tsotso:

Hey SKY *smile

emoji*

SKY: Hi Tsotso

Prettygirl_Tsotso: I

have a crush *blush

emoji*

SKY: Yes?

Prettygirl_Tsotso:

What should I do?

SKY:

What do you wanna do?

Prettygirl_Tsotso: I don’t

know, I just like him

mara I’m scared gore he

doesn’t like me.

SKY: Well, you can like someone but it doesn’t mean you

have to do anything about it. You probably like their style,

or how they play a sport, or that they’re a nice person. But

that doesn’t mean you have to do anything. He probably

likes you for who you are too and nothing else. It could

just be a crush that might go away after a few days/weeks.

Prettygirl_Tsotso: I reeeaally like

him. Should I tell him?

SKY: I mean it’s up to you babes. Ask yourself a few

questions: why do you wanna tell him? What do you want

from this? Are you guys friends? Would this affect your

friendship? Does he seem interested?

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Prettygirl_Tsotso: OK, I’ve asked his friend and he says

he’s shy. I’m just gonna talk to him. He’s not really my

friend but I know his friends, they are in my class.

SKY: Good luck babes. However this

goes, know that you are so brave and

super dope. Self-care comes first.

Stay true xx


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Call_Me_Kago

Friends, waitse there are people just

always talking about me. I really don’t

even like going to school cos I’ve

heard RUMOURS ABOUT ME. Please

help!! *crying face*

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SKY: Kana batho ba bangwe ba tsaa gore they live in reality shows kana mo Scandal! Ha go

monate hela mo go bone when there is peace and everyone is getting along! Anyways hun,

the best way to have a good experience at school is to be more mature about these things.

Sometimes it’s fun to gossip and be a part of conspiracies tsa batho. Mara it stops being fun

when lies escalate and hurt people. Try not to focus too much on these things. It’s best not

to comment and stick to being true to yourself till a rumour dies. Some people like to start

unnecessary drama for entertainment purposes.

Call_Me_Kago

Kana it’s not easy to just let things go.

This girl a re I started talking about her

I don’t know gore when! Ah!

SKY: Well sometimes you might just be chatting with your girls and yo mongwe might take it the

wrong way. Gongwe someone told them something that wasn’t intended to be hurtful. If you are

confident enough, call them out on it to stop. They wouldn’t like it if that’s done to them. If it’s you,

you know that you wouldn’t like it if there was a nasty rumour spread about you, and it’s not worth it.

When someone comes to you ka maaka, mmotse gore o a tsaa kae, if s/he doesn’t have anything to

say they can move along. Sometimes it’s good to be the bigger person and apologize since something

was said and you didn’t have any intentions to start anything. It’s better to let it all rest.

Call_Me_Kago

Guys, kana this is serious. Now some guys are sending

me DMs talking about a rumour that’s not true and I

don’t like it.

SKY: Shem. This might also get on social media. The best way to not keep the rumour alive is to

ignore it and mind your own business. Don’t feed the trolls. You will look back and realize gore some

fights were not worth your time. If you wanna throw shade and be petty about things, it will come back

and bite you in the back. It’s better to let things go. Mara you can bring an adult into this if you feel like

it’s getting out of hand. Sometimes these things follow us way too long. Bring in the people involved

and resolve the matter with each other face to face. It’s probably a silly misunderstanding. We hope it

all works out hun. Stay true to yaself boo. xoxo


Are you ready

for your exams?

Exams are right around the corner. There is

stress in the air, you’re sleeping less, eating

more and it just feels like everything is

crumbling down! Well, if you’ve ever searched

for a fun escape, we have just the quiz you

need to cross-check if you’re ready for exams

or if you need to revisit those books again.

Which one of

best sums up

with m

A penny saved is

a penny earned

Enjoy the quiz and good luck

with your exam season!

How do you

prepare for your

exams?

Study group

with friends

Do you listen to

music when you

study?

Mind- Map

How long do

you study for?

YEs

No

I take

3-4 hours

I study for

1-2 hrs

Do you analyze

your failures?

Do you exercise

during your breaks?

Yes

No

Sometimes

I don’t

You are definitely sure

about your studying.

You take your time in

planning how to go

about your studies

and if your exam was

tomorrow, you would

rightfully be ready to

write.

You have not done a

lot wrong. You’ve put

in all your effort and

time in getting ready

for exams. Maybe

look at asking for

help once in a while

and you’ll be ready.

Just a few more

tweaks to your study

plan. You have the

right frame of mind

and with a little

more determination,

you will be ready for

your exams.

Think about getting

assistance with your

studying. There are a

few distractions in your

studying routine and

maybe getting a study

buddy will get you

focused and ready.


these sayings

your attitude

oney?

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Money is the root

of all evil

How well in advance

do you prepare for

your exams?

A month in

advance

How long are your

study breaks?

Last minute,

usually a week

before

Do you panic

before exams?

30-35

minutes

1h30-

2hrs

No, always

in control

Yes!

How many hours

do you sleep?

Do you ask for

help when stuck?

Between

4-5

Around

6-8

No, I hate

asking for help

Yes

Discipline, Discipline,

Discipline.

If you are looking for

motivation to study, let

this test be it. Spend a

little less time on your

breaks and more on

your studies.

More sleep doesn’t

always mean you’re

ready for your exams.

Sometimes making

sacrifices for your

studies will pay off.

But don’t completely

disregard your

sleeping. Rest is

important.

Work on studying

well in advance before

your exam and there’s

no shame in asking

for help when stuck.

Ask your teacher or

parent for extra help

and you will be ready

for your exams.

There isn’t a lot of time

left before your exams.

Immediately after this

quiz, make a studying

schedule and prioritize

the topics you struggle

the most with. Exams

are right around the

corner.


Check out all the

awesome people we

spotted rocking

SKY gear :D

If you spot yourself

on this page, you

WIN a SKY

T-shirt!

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TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)

You may be facing a bit of fear as exams approach, but

believe in yourself. Continue to put in the hard work you

have been putting in. You will reap great rewards!

SCOPES

CAPRICORN (Dec 22 - Jan 19)

You may be feeling a bit nervous as the new season

approaches, but this is your body telling you to prepare

yourself. Organize your study space or even schoolwork

so that you can tackle your studies. Remember that your

SKY sisters are here to help you out so fear not! :)

AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18)

As you try something new, you should do so without fear

and take that leap of faith. Know that everything you are

working towards will pay off! Trust your process babes,

YOU GOT THIS!

PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20)

You are changing gears in this new season and you are

being your best self! This will translate even into your

studies and your work ethic. Keep it up, you are doing

amazing sweetie.

ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)

Stick to your usual standards and ethics, do not let other

people try to control or change you. Focus on yourself,

your studies and your goals. This will help you become

who you are meant to be.

GEMINI (May 21 - Jun 20)

Trust your instincts at all times, even if it means

confronting yourself or your friends. Always ensure that

the people around you have your best interests at heart.

You know what is best for you :)

CANCER (Jun 21 - Jul 22)

Babes, you have been working really hard so don’t worry

or stress about what may happen in the future. The

exams coming up? You got this! Anything else worrying

you? You got it! Remind yourself that YOU GOT IT!

LEO (Jul 23 - Aug 22)

Feed your mind with positivity because it is needed. You

need a constant supply of refreshing and fresh news and

activities. This will be helpful as you deal with pressure

from family and friends during this upcoming exam

season.

VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sept 21)

You naturally get along with everyone and people

gravitate towards you. This is a blessing as you can get

help from the people around you, especially at school.

You are a people’s person and it will pay off!

LIBRA (Sept 22 - Oct 23)

Trust yourself and consider putting your problemsolving

skills to use. As exams approach, put to action

what you know deep down you are capable of. All the

best!

SCORPIO (Oct 24 - Nov 21)

You tend to care for other people and as much as this

is a good quality, remember to put yourself first. You

MATTER and your goals and dreams are valid.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 21)

You might get caught up in some excitement or a hobby.

As fun as this is, you need to prioritize what is important.

After exams, you will have the festive season to focus on

other things, it is important for you to focus on school

right now.


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