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In this issue of Out and About STYLE Magazine, we get up close and personal with the third-place winner of the Nicki Minaj Megatron Challenge - Minel.
In this issue of Out and About STYLE Magazine, we get up close and personal with the third-place winner of the Nicki Minaj Megatron Challenge - Minel.
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Issue 8 Volume 1<br />
September 2019
Quote<br />
of<br />
M onth<br />
the<br />
Everyone has talent.<br />
What’s rare is the<br />
courage to follow it to<br />
the dark places where<br />
it leads.<br />
~ Erica Jong
www.out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />
marsha@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />
Contributing Editor<br />
Jelena Borojevic<br />
editor@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />
sales@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />
www.out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com
Editor’s<br />
Welcome back to another<br />
inspiring edition of<br />
<strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>. This month has<br />
been another journey into<br />
discovering amazing new<br />
talent, being inspired by<br />
people from around the<br />
world, <strong>and</strong> collecting the<br />
best fashion <strong>and</strong> health tips<br />
available!<br />
In this issue we get a little<br />
lovey-dovey with matching<br />
his <strong>and</strong> her styles, reinstate<br />
the importance of skincare<br />
<strong>and</strong> dental hygiene,<br />
consider the importance<br />
of underst<strong>and</strong>ing diabetes,<br />
work on improving our<br />
diet <strong>and</strong> fitness, meet an<br />
extraordinary woman who<br />
is working to further the<br />
importance of education<br />
in the UAE, <strong>and</strong> an up <strong>and</strong><br />
coming rapper who wants<br />
to use his talent to benefit<br />
a new generation, explore<br />
the current state of culture<br />
<strong>and</strong> receive a beautiful<br />
travel diary of Italy.<br />
We start this issue with<br />
the fashion story of Galyna<br />
Fedyuk, a classy lady from<br />
the Ukraine who has a<br />
passion for classic pieces,<br />
easy style combinations,<br />
<strong>and</strong> the power to use<br />
fashion to bring out her<br />
own uniqueness <strong>and</strong> that of<br />
her clients.<br />
We then give you seven<br />
great ideas for swapping<br />
clothes <strong>and</strong> accessories<br />
with your partner! Denim<br />
jackets, hats <strong>and</strong> sunglasses<br />
are just a few of the<br />
many things that you can<br />
borrow from your spouse’s<br />
wardrobe to complete your<br />
own style with a bit more<br />
edge.<br />
Of course, at <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />
<strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we<br />
never forget the importance<br />
of great skincare! Health is<br />
the most beautiful addition<br />
to any style, which is why<br />
we asked an esthetician<br />
to recommend the perfect<br />
routine for healthy <strong>and</strong><br />
moisturised skin. We also<br />
have a special feature on<br />
DIY facial serums that you<br />
can use to perfect the<br />
health <strong>and</strong> glow of your skin<br />
for a fraction of the price of<br />
expensive products. We<br />
then complete this section<br />
with DIY advice on how to<br />
get the perfect brightening<br />
smile every day!
We can never talk enough about the<br />
importance of education to help us further<br />
our potential <strong>and</strong> our underst<strong>and</strong>ing of the<br />
world! Leisa Grace Wilson shares with us her<br />
journey of developing Moftah Education - a<br />
br<strong>and</strong> that has grown to include magazines,<br />
websites, <strong>and</strong> conferences to help people<br />
in the UAE <strong>and</strong> beyond to further their<br />
education, meet new people, <strong>and</strong> develop<br />
new skills.<br />
Our Talent Pool features up <strong>and</strong> coming<br />
rapper Minel Michael Fific, who describes<br />
how he managed to pursue his passion even<br />
though he has had to deal with a very difficult<br />
upbringing. Even more importantly, he is<br />
ready to use his talent <strong>and</strong> success to inspire<br />
<strong>and</strong> encourage other people to follow their<br />
dreams.<br />
And you know we always prioritise the health<br />
of our readers <strong>and</strong> their families! This is why<br />
we have made an effort to talk more openly<br />
about pre-diabetes <strong>and</strong> how it could influence<br />
your life. We discuss the possible risks, how<br />
to spot them, <strong>and</strong> how to avoid making the<br />
condition worse with wholesome advice <strong>and</strong><br />
educated tips.<br />
Thinking about trying a gluten-free diet? We<br />
have a great section about the gluten-free<br />
lifestyle, how it can benefit you, <strong>and</strong> how to<br />
properly live it. We each have unique bodies,<br />
<strong>and</strong> we should certainly have diets that make<br />
us feel <strong>and</strong> function to the best of our abilities,<br />
but there are a few mutual diet tips which we<br />
can all benefit from!<br />
Speaking of diets, we also give you some<br />
great tips on how you can help your body eat<br />
the right foods so that hunger will no longer<br />
be an issue that you will have to deal with<br />
when you are trying to live the healthiest life<br />
possible!<br />
We finish off this section with a calming cup<br />
of tea! Indeed, we discuss the health <strong>and</strong><br />
fitness benefits of tea <strong>and</strong> how including this<br />
beverage into your daily life can help you to<br />
stay hydrated, focused, <strong>and</strong> much more!<br />
Yummy Mommy is back with Jennifer<br />
Stelco, who shares her diet <strong>and</strong> fitness tips<br />
for strength, endurance, concentration <strong>and</strong><br />
family balance. We are particularly inspired<br />
by her post-pregnancy tips to help new moms<br />
get back into their ideal form <strong>and</strong> keep them<br />
strong for their new bundle of joy!<br />
We get a little w<strong>and</strong>erlust in our travel section<br />
as Kendria R. Johnson helps us to get lost in<br />
the beauty <strong>and</strong> culture of Italy through her<br />
own experience. There are some truly golden<br />
tips here for travellers to Italy! Then, we get a<br />
little wild with Juhu Reznickova’s description<br />
of a hitchhiker’s lifestyle. Phew! It’s not for<br />
everyone, but it is quite an adventure to read<br />
about!<br />
Our Culture section rounds up this issue with<br />
a serious look at personal reinvention <strong>and</strong><br />
the millennial woman by Yvonne Chiedza<br />
Mtengwa, as well as a look at contemporary<br />
culture through the eyes of Jerome Douglas.<br />
We are all trying to find our place in this world<br />
<strong>and</strong> do the best we can to help others, so I am<br />
always grateful when such important stories<br />
are told in <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />
We hope that this issue will bring you joy,<br />
knowledge, <strong>and</strong> inspiration to live the best<br />
life that you can possibly live <strong>and</strong> share this<br />
positive energy with the people you love!<br />
Stay true to yourself <strong>and</strong> stay kind!<br />
Please feel free to send us your feedback <strong>and</strong><br />
even ideas for topics that we could cover in<br />
the future!
SECTION 1<br />
FASHION<br />
• Fashion Feature<br />
• Galyna Fedyuk<br />
• 7 Fashion Items You Can Swap with Your Spouse!<br />
SECTION 2 BEAUTY<br />
• Makeup Madness with Katrina - Skincare for the Low!<br />
• DIY Teeth Whitening Hacks That Actually Work!<br />
• 5 DIY Facial Serums That Can Give Your Skin a New Life!<br />
SECTION 3<br />
BEHIND THE BRAND<br />
• Behind the Br<strong>and</strong> with Leisa Grace Wilson - Moftah Education<br />
SECTION 4<br />
TALENT POOL<br />
• Minel<br />
SECTION 5 LIFE<strong>STYLE</strong><br />
• Pre-Diabetes - Knowing Your Chances Reduces Your Risk<br />
FOOD<br />
• What You Need to Know <strong>About</strong> Gluten-Free Eating (<strong>and</strong> Recipes)<br />
• 15 Foods to Fool Hunger <strong>and</strong> How They Do It<br />
FITNESS<br />
• Can Tea Help to Improve Fitness? Here’s the Answer<br />
• Yummy Mommy - Jennifer Stelco<br />
SECTION 6 TRAVEL<br />
• How to Get Lost in Italy<br />
• A Hitchhiker’s Guide to Travelling the World.<br />
SECTION 7 FOR THE CULTURE<br />
• Of Personal Reinvention <strong>and</strong> the Millennial Woman<br />
• Sporting with Contemporary Culture
Fashion<br />
Galyna Fedyuk
My name is Galyna. I am<br />
37 years old <strong>and</strong> originally<br />
from Ukraine. I moved to<br />
Dubai almost 11 years ago<br />
to work in fashion. For the<br />
first three years, I worked in<br />
retail for Tom Ford <strong>and</strong> then<br />
for a Valentino boutique at<br />
a Dubai Mall. Apart from<br />
my love for fashion, I enjoy<br />
studying psychology <strong>and</strong><br />
energy as well as spending<br />
time with my friends <strong>and</strong><br />
family.
I believe style is a depiction of a person or a br<strong>and</strong>,<br />
something that makes you st<strong>and</strong> out from the crowd in your<br />
unique way - your signature. My style includes classic pieces,<br />
mostly because I love the more classy look. As a woman, it<br />
was natural for me to be interested in fashion <strong>and</strong> always<br />
wanting to look good. And yet, I could never live without<br />
jeans. When they are styled with a simple T-shirt <strong>and</strong> white<br />
trainers, they become my favourite go-to combination.<br />
Growing up, I always raided my mother’s wardrobe to find<br />
amazing things to wear <strong>and</strong> to an extent, I have stolen aspects<br />
of her style. My top five items that I always have on h<strong>and</strong><br />
are a white T-shirt, jeans, classy black sunglasses, pumps,<br />
<strong>and</strong> trainers. I also love to invest in beautiful jewellery <strong>and</strong><br />
vintage pieces. Instagram is my favourite place to showcase<br />
my style for the day <strong>and</strong> to find inspiration for future looks.<br />
Given the opportunity to style a woman in my favourite look,<br />
she would be wearing classic heel pumps with a little black<br />
dress, black sunglasses, an elegant watch, a classy clutch,<br />
<strong>and</strong> Chanel accessories to complete the look.<br />
My favourite beauty tip that I live by is<br />
THIS OR THAT?<br />
Lace or leather <br />
Cold shoulder or one shoulder <br />
Solid colours or prints?<br />
Flared or skinny jeans?<br />
Dresses or trousers<br />
Polka dots or stripes?<br />
Flats or heels?<br />
Metallic or pastel<br />
Hoops or studs<br />
Defined eyebrows or mascara<br />
Lipstick or foundation<br />
LEATHER<br />
ONE SHOULDER<br />
SOLID COLOURS<br />
SKINNY JEANS?<br />
DRESSES<br />
POLKA DOTS<br />
HEELS<br />
METALLIC<br />
STUDS<br />
DEFINED EYEBROWS<br />
FOUNDATION
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7 Fashion<br />
Items You Can<br />
with Your<br />
Wearing your husb<strong>and</strong>’s clothes<br />
seems like an unspoken taboo<br />
but don’t we all love to do that?<br />
Especially when nothing looks<br />
more appealing than pulling<br />
over his comfy tee, giving you<br />
all the more reason to embrace<br />
the warmth of your man, not to<br />
mention the manly-scent when<br />
he’s not around, totally guilt-free!<br />
If besties can share a wardrobe<br />
for a night out, why not swap a<br />
closet with your spouse? Not that<br />
he’s going to complain. There will<br />
probably be many hidden gems<br />
you are both unaware of. Make<br />
use of these seven clothing items<br />
we’ve put together in this post!
<strong>and</strong><br />
Seriously. Whether the two<br />
of you are off to a cricket or<br />
basketball match, you can<br />
both whip out baseball caps or<br />
bobble hats to wear on such<br />
sporty occasions. If he happens<br />
to own only one, no harm in<br />
sharing it for half the time each.<br />
To be honest, there are no rules<br />
when it comes to wearing caps.<br />
We personally find that these<br />
look very sexy on a woman.<br />
Plus, they serve as the perfect<br />
accessory for a bad hair day or<br />
for changing up your look!
He looks hot in denim? Remember, two can play this game! We<br />
believe style shouldn’t be concerned with the sex of a person:<br />
nowadays, fashion is mostly unisex anyway. As long as it looks good<br />
on you, wear it with confidence.<br />
A denim jacket is certainly great to up your game. Your man won’t<br />
question it as long as his wife’s looking swell! Denim jackets are<br />
versatile <strong>and</strong> can be worn at any time, any day with anything. Wear<br />
it with a plain, long black body-con dress or pull it off with a plain<br />
white T-shirt <strong>and</strong> denim jeans. Or, you can both go matchy-matchy<br />
as the picture shows.
The difference between sunglasses<br />
for men <strong>and</strong> women? Female<br />
sunglasses have much curvier frames.<br />
But, seriously. Nobody’s going to<br />
come that close <strong>and</strong> be able to tell<br />
if the frames are fit for a woman.<br />
Even sunglasses need to stop body<br />
shaming. Whether you’re a woman<br />
with curves or without - chin up <strong>and</strong><br />
wear your husb<strong>and</strong>’s sunnies. If he<br />
doesn’t pick holes in that, why would<br />
you, girl?<br />
If the glasses fit nicely <strong>and</strong> don’t<br />
look awkward, wear them <strong>and</strong> thank<br />
us later. Just so you know, gradientcoloured<br />
frames <strong>and</strong> aviator<br />
sunglasses are even better. Twinning<br />
them on the beach with your spouse<br />
may set you apart from the rest in a<br />
cute, smart way. Sun protection can<br />
be a couple’s thing, yeah?
Thank the Lord that Converse shoes are unisex<br />
<strong>and</strong> that your hubby is gentleman enough to<br />
lend you his pair (which he would, else the<br />
purpose of this post will be pointless.) Pray<br />
<strong>and</strong> hope you both have the same or similar<br />
shoe size. If they fit you (happy squealing),<br />
pair them with your favourite jeans, pants,<br />
or trousers. Also, they look bomb with long,<br />
flowy dresses <strong>and</strong> pleated skirts.<br />
Do your thing, <strong>and</strong> nobody will know it’s your<br />
husb<strong>and</strong>’s. Be sure not to get them dirty,<br />
since you know what a clean freak he can<br />
sometimes be.
Sweaters, Mufflers,<br />
<strong>and</strong> Socks<br />
Okay, we know we cheated<br />
a bit there ,but we’d like to<br />
clarify a few things. We’re<br />
pretty sure you both own a<br />
wardrobe brimming full of<br />
sweaters, socks, <strong>and</strong> mufflers<br />
that collect dust at the back.<br />
What do you do? Get those<br />
out, style <strong>and</strong> use them.<br />
Sweaters <strong>and</strong> mufflers aren’t<br />
the only wonderful options<br />
to protect yourself from the<br />
cold. You could still catch a<br />
cold with them on. Socks, on<br />
the other h<strong>and</strong>, are “musthaves”<br />
<strong>and</strong> nothing can go<br />
wrong with sharing a pair or<br />
two - since socks are pretty<br />
much concealed inside<br />
shoes.<br />
If you’re all about oversized<br />
sweaters, raiding your man’s<br />
wardrobe is the way to go,<br />
trust us! Pair them with<br />
pants! If you come upon a<br />
few turtlenecks, they look<br />
excellent with long skirts or<br />
loose casual maxis.
A white or striped T-shirt would do too, but a<br />
button-down is on its own level. Effortless <strong>and</strong><br />
chic as well as versatile! Plus, we’re certain there<br />
will be loads in your hubby’s wardrobe.<br />
or<br />
Button-Down Shirt<br />
You could style one with a nice pair of jeans, go<br />
white-on-white with contrasting or nude shoes, or<br />
tuck it into a skirt with a belt if it’s too loose.<br />
Also, high-waisted trousers can prove to be<br />
extremely spiffy to elegantly style the white<br />
button-down. This makes for one beautiful office<br />
look as well.
Surprise, surprise! Now, you can<br />
swap watches because the latest<br />
designs are unisex. Even if yours<br />
is not, don’t fret. Look for your<br />
partner’s leather strap watch, which<br />
makes for a perfect.... fashionable<br />
piece. Strap watches are dapperlooking<br />
<strong>and</strong> totally spruce up your<br />
wrist. I mean, there should be no<br />
restraints on swapping time, right?<br />
If there’s no leather strap, don’t<br />
let that stop you from stealing his<br />
chain wristwatch. We’d say both<br />
would go, depending on how you<br />
dress them up or dress them down<br />
- for a more feminine touch, laden<br />
your fingers with rings <strong>and</strong> steel<br />
bracelets.<br />
OUR<br />
MESSAGE<br />
There’s no wall between a husb<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> a wife! Swapping <strong>and</strong> scrambling about<br />
with fashion items will both deepen your friendship <strong>and</strong> work as a space-saving<br />
factor. Specifically, when you are travelling <strong>and</strong> have limited luggage space. You<br />
can always trust each other for certain “essentials.” No hard feelings!
M A K E U P<br />
M A D N E S S<br />
WITH<br />
Hey, girl! This month has gone by so fast, <strong>and</strong> we are now wrapping up this Hot Girl<br />
Summer <strong>and</strong> preparing to move on to Fly Girl Fall. Last month, I received so many<br />
messages from so many of you on Instagram about mapping out a diverse skincare<br />
routine in a cost-efficient way. So, this month we are focusing on my 12-step nighttime<br />
skincare routine <strong>and</strong> my quick morning skincare routine.
Did you know that if you continuously<br />
stay on point with your 12-step<br />
nighttime skincare routine <strong>and</strong> make<br />
time to see your esthetician for a<br />
facial every month, you will be able to<br />
minimise your morning routine to just<br />
3-4 steps daily? Let me explain.<br />
As an esthetician, I recommend a (1)<br />
double cleanse that lasts 60 seconds<br />
for each cleansing cycle using facial<br />
cleansing sponges. This allows you to<br />
relax <strong>and</strong> take your time to remove the<br />
makeup from your skin properly. (2)<br />
Next, you want to use an alcohol-free,<br />
oil-free, silicone <strong>and</strong> gluten-free toner<br />
to revitalise <strong>and</strong> resurface the skin.<br />
(3) Afterwards, you steam to loosen<br />
sebum, which is trapped beneath<br />
your skin’s surface. Sebum creates<br />
a breeding ground for bacteria <strong>and</strong><br />
causes acne <strong>and</strong> blackheads. Facial<br />
steaming hydrates the skin by helping<br />
to increase oil production by naturally<br />
moisturising the face. It also helps your<br />
skin to absorb skincare products better.<br />
(4) Always follow up with toner; again,<br />
to correct <strong>and</strong> balance the pH of your<br />
skin. (5) You want to remove dead skin<br />
cells <strong>and</strong> free radicals with a chemical<br />
exfoliant based on your skin type. (6)<br />
Follow up with toner yet again. (7) Next<br />
up are all of your serums. I like to use<br />
a Niacinade serum for brightening. (8)<br />
My next serum is filled with peptides or<br />
(9) Antioxidants <strong>and</strong> retinol. Feel free to<br />
switch up serums as needed. (10) Your<br />
skin always needs hydration, so use a<br />
hyaluronic serum. (11) This next step<br />
is strictly for the use of a moisturiser<br />
to restore the skin’s protective barrier.<br />
Look for moisturisers with ceramides to<br />
help replace those stripped away with<br />
dry skin, as well as humectants such as<br />
hyaluronic acid <strong>and</strong> glycerin. Finally,<br />
(12) is for eye cream because we want<br />
to defeat those puffy eyes <strong>and</strong> dark<br />
circles while we slumber, people!<br />
See! That wasn’t hard now, was it? If<br />
you complete these steps each night,<br />
you will definitely see a significunt<br />
improvement in your skin health. You<br />
will wake up every morning with a<br />
natural glow for sure. Your morning<br />
routine will be so much simpler because<br />
you took the time to pamper your<br />
skin the night before. Your morning<br />
routine should consist of (1) Rinsing<br />
your face with cool to lukewarm water<br />
for 60 seconds straight, (2) Toning, (3)<br />
Moisturising (I like to use something<br />
with hyaluronic acid <strong>and</strong>/or Papaya for<br />
enzymes), <strong>and</strong> (4) SPF! Never forget to<br />
use an SPF, especially if you are using<br />
an AHA chemical exfoliant during your<br />
nighttime skincare routine. Your skin is<br />
very much susceptible to sunburn, so<br />
protect it with SPF daily.<br />
Please remember that in doing all of this<br />
you must still keep up with your monthly<br />
facials. Also, please see an esthetician,<br />
like me, for any extractions so you<br />
won’t be left with unwanted blemishes<br />
or hyperpigmentation by attempting to<br />
remove any blackheads or whiteheads<br />
on your own. If you attempt to pop a<br />
whitehead, you can increase the risk of<br />
spreading the bacteria on your face.<br />
Monthly facials are beneficial for this<br />
specific reason. Your esthetician can<br />
assist you with modifying your at-home<br />
skincare routine if you are continuously<br />
experiencing breakouts.
Now onto the moment you’ve all<br />
been waiting for! Sixteen beautiful,<br />
cost-efficient, high-quality products<br />
you need in your skincare routine for<br />
the low! You can thank me later.<br />
Amino Acids + Hyaluronic<br />
Acid (Hydration)<br />
AHA (Chemical<br />
Exfoliation)<br />
BHA<br />
Niacinamide<br />
(Brightening)<br />
Peptides<br />
Primer with SPF<br />
(sunblock)<br />
Enzymes<br />
(Papaya)<br />
Toner<br />
Eye Cream<br />
Antioxidants<br />
+ Retinol<br />
Moisturiser<br />
Facial<br />
Cleansing<br />
Sponges<br />
Exfoliating<br />
Toner<br />
Travel Skincare<br />
Gel Peeling<br />
Mask<br />
Salicylic Acid<br />
(oily skin exfoliation)
If you want to know how to apply all of these products<br />
correctly or if you just want to know more about skincare<br />
routines hit me up on Instagram (@thekrlstyle). Maybe<br />
your questions will be covered in my next article<br />
submission.<br />
Katrina is the Creative<br />
Director at The<br />
Beauty Studio, Middle<br />
East. In this article,<br />
she shares how to<br />
achieve flawless<br />
looking skin without<br />
breaking the bank.
Model: Kiara Kardinal<br />
Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />
Makeup: Anett Hriczo <strong>and</strong> Liv Rideg<br />
Hair: Liv Rideg<br />
Location: Studio Madison, Budapest, Hungary
Model: Rea Milla, Avantage Models<br />
Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />
Makeup: Liv Rideg<br />
Location: Studio Lightroom, Budapest, Hungary
Model: Kiara Kardinal<br />
Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />
Makeup: Anett Hriczo <strong>and</strong> Liv Rideg<br />
Hair: Liv Rideg<br />
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personality. Moreover, it’s a dead giveaway<br />
of your health <strong>and</strong> hygiene. Teeth are affected<br />
by a lot of things: smoking, eating <strong>and</strong> drinking,<br />
etc., but if you don’t brush them frequently, the<br />
stains become long-term <strong>and</strong> unappealing.<br />
From the dreaded dentist’s appointment to<br />
various products <strong>and</strong> procedures, all have their<br />
benefits but come with high costs <strong>and</strong> sometimes<br />
pain, too.<br />
However, if you are not blessed<br />
with naturally white teeth, have abused<br />
them to a yellow appeal <strong>and</strong> wish to whiten<br />
them with something quick <strong>and</strong> easy, we’ve put<br />
together a few DIY teeth whitening hacks that<br />
actually work. These hacks serve as good runnerups<br />
for professional whitening treatments <strong>and</strong><br />
will brighten your smile with continued usage.<br />
Because as Dr Seuss says, “Teeth are always in<br />
fashion.” We agree with that 100%.
Before trying out these hacks, make sure you take proper<br />
care of your teeth <strong>and</strong> include daily brushing in order for<br />
these methods to work. Don’t try all the hacks at the same<br />
time, try one, <strong>and</strong> if it suits you, stick to it.<br />
If your teeth are in poor health or too sensitive, consult a<br />
doctor before trying out these natural treatments.<br />
We’re not talking about the blackened ashes found in barbecue<br />
pits. Activated charcoal is one of the easiest <strong>and</strong> cheapest ways<br />
to naturally whiten your teeth. It is an antioxidant that not only<br />
removes surface stains left by tea, coffee, <strong>and</strong> food consumption<br />
but scrubs away toxins as well.<br />
Dip a clean, wet toothbrush into a charcoal powder container <strong>and</strong><br />
brush your teeth as you usually do. Don’t let the sight of your<br />
now blackened teeth alarm you because the blackness helps<br />
to neutralise their yellow appearance <strong>and</strong> rinses away to reveal<br />
brighter, whiter teeth.<br />
The grainy texture of activated charcoal can corrode your tooth<br />
enamel. Make sure your toothbrush is wet enough or make a paste<br />
with charcoal, use gentle motions while brushing <strong>and</strong> limit this to<br />
only once a week. A black toothpaste is even better <strong>and</strong> less harsh.<br />
Apart from coconut oil being a miracle worker for our<br />
hair <strong>and</strong> body, it’s great for naturally whitening teeth,<br />
too. Ever heard of oil-pulling? No? Basically, it involves<br />
taking a spoonful of coconut oil in your clean mouth <strong>and</strong><br />
swishing it for five minutes or even 20! But only if you can<br />
swish around it for that long!<br />
Oil-pulling improves gum health, removes bad breath<br />
<strong>and</strong> eliminates harmful bacteria as well. In other words,<br />
it is ideal for promoting oral hygiene. Though, if you feel<br />
like oil-swishing is not for you use coconut oil with your<br />
toothbrush <strong>and</strong> brush your teeth to get whiter teeth.<br />
This procedure isn’t a threat to your tooth enamel.<br />
Instead, it prolongs its health. So, try this whenever you<br />
feel the need.
The more calcium intake, the whiter <strong>and</strong> stronger your<br />
teeth will be. Tooth enamel is made up of calcium, <strong>and</strong> you<br />
must eat more dairy products to keep it in good health.<br />
However, if you have cut dairy from your diet due to going<br />
vegan or any other health-related reasons, try milk powder<br />
to whiten teeth.<br />
Yes, you heard us! Combine your toothpaste with a little bit<br />
of milk powder (not a whitener) <strong>and</strong> brush your teeth with<br />
it to spruce up your pearly whites. Do this twice a week!<br />
Turmeric has antioxidant, anti-microbial <strong>and</strong> anti-inflammatory<br />
properties. Plus, it has scientifically proven health benefits to its<br />
name. Apart from that, it works wonders for teeth whitening as well.<br />
Use a little bit of water <strong>and</strong> turmeric powder to make a paste. Use<br />
that paste to brush your teeth for two minutes. Rinse the turmeric;<br />
it will leave a stain, so do another brush with just your toothpaste.<br />
It will effectively whiten <strong>and</strong> lighten the coffee/tea stains. Due to its<br />
anti-inflammatory qualities, it’s great for natural dental care as well.<br />
Do this three times a week to enhance the whiteness of your teeth.<br />
Baking soda is a common ingredient used for various<br />
cleaning purposes. However, we find baking soda <strong>and</strong><br />
lemon a tad too harsh for teeth whitening. To tone down<br />
the sensitivity of this formula, mix baking soda <strong>and</strong> lemon<br />
with your usual toothpaste. Use your toothbrush to form<br />
a smooth, slightly runny paste to break down the grains<br />
in baking soda.<br />
Once the paste is formed, gently brush your teeth, <strong>and</strong><br />
this mixture will zap surface stains. Limit this to only once<br />
a week.
Foods that require a lot<br />
of chewing act as teeth<br />
whiteners because they<br />
naturally clean surface<br />
stains by increasing saliva<br />
production, which serves<br />
as a natural teeth cleaning<br />
agent. These foods are<br />
called fibrous foods such<br />
as apple, celery, cabbage,<br />
carrots, etc. Apart from<br />
cleaning, they also rid the<br />
mouth of bacteria <strong>and</strong> bad<br />
breath as well.
Furthermore, eat fruits rich in citric acid (oranges, pineapples), <strong>and</strong> malic acid<br />
(strawberries) that have proven to be one of the easiest ways to achieve that white,<br />
flashing smile. Strawberries can also be mashed up, <strong>and</strong> you can rub the paste on<br />
your teeth for five minutes to give your teeth a good cleanse <strong>and</strong> reveal whiter teeth.<br />
Now, onto the teeth offenders.<br />
There’s no gain without pain!<br />
And the pain comes when you<br />
have to forbid yourself from<br />
things you love! A few of those<br />
things would be coffee, tea,<br />
wine, <strong>and</strong> fizzy drinks that have<br />
a tremendous effect on your<br />
teeth especially if you drink<br />
them frequently or a bit too<br />
excessively! If you want teeth,<br />
that are blinding, you need to<br />
keep a lid on these beverages.<br />
Instead, consume lots of water,<br />
lemonade, citrus fruit drinks,<br />
<strong>and</strong> milk! This will improve<br />
your gums, general health, <strong>and</strong><br />
rid your body of toxins.
5 DIY<br />
Facial Serums<br />
That Can Give<br />
It’s easy to scroll through Instagram <strong>and</strong> assume that to<br />
achieve better, healthier skin, you need to change your<br />
lifestyle <strong>and</strong> most probably spend every last bit of your<br />
hard-earned money. We agree with the lifestyle part - but<br />
emptying your pockets? Not so much. Even without the<br />
arsenal of expensive products at your service, achieving<br />
good skin shouldn’t be a big challenge.<br />
All it takes is a skim through our 5 best DIY facial serums,<br />
faith in yourself, <strong>and</strong> a regimen because regimen is the<br />
only way to achieve fresh, new skin. Also, the DIY facial<br />
serums included target all skin problems.
A facial serum in a traditional sense is a water-soluble<br />
product that goes on before a moisturiser. Serums are<br />
created to target a specific cause: hydration, pigmentation,<br />
anti-ageing, free radical damage, etc. Serums are made<br />
up of smaller molecules by using active high-concentrated<br />
ingredients, hence super-potent yet fast-absorbing.<br />
Then, there are oil-based serums as well, which are applied<br />
after a moisturiser. They seal the layering of products<br />
applied before a moisturiser <strong>and</strong> at the same time keep<br />
the moisturiser from drying out.<br />
Well, you are not the only one wondering what a facial<br />
serum is <strong>and</strong> verging on the brink of confusion as to how<br />
it differs from a moisturiser, face oil, <strong>and</strong> an essence.<br />
A facial serum may be packed full of moisturising<br />
ingredients; however do not confuse it for a moisturiser<br />
because it doesn’t contain the typical sealants: mineral oils<br />
or petroleum. Neither the consistency nor the thickness is<br />
in any way a match with a moisturiser.<br />
Plus, they’re not as runny as essences which are also<br />
applied after cleansing <strong>and</strong> before moisturising. Though<br />
yes, both products are very similar in terms of the functions<br />
they serve. The only difference is their texture.<br />
Facial serums <strong>and</strong> facial oils, as expected, are quite similar.<br />
However, facial oils are somewhat thicker than serums <strong>and</strong><br />
much more focused on treating the skin on a cellular level<br />
due to the plant-based oils included in them.<br />
Facial serums penetrate the skin on a deeper level, <strong>and</strong><br />
because they’re water-soluble, they last longer <strong>and</strong> do<br />
your skin a huge favour in a short amount of time.
If you’re pregnant, breastfeeding<br />
or undergoing serious health<br />
concerns, we advise you to consult<br />
a physician before trying out any<br />
of these recipes. This is because<br />
certain ingredients in these DIY<br />
serums may not be suitable for<br />
you.<br />
Or as in the case of essential oils,<br />
which are sometimes the main<br />
ingredient, can be super-potent<br />
<strong>and</strong> you must underst<strong>and</strong> the<br />
risks <strong>and</strong> benefits of what you are<br />
putting on your face.<br />
1<br />
FACIAL SERUM FOR DRY,<br />
DEHYDRATED SKIN<br />
If you are an owner of dry, dehydrated skin <strong>and</strong> get<br />
pesky, little breakouts now <strong>and</strong> then (welcome to the<br />
real world) this organic facial serum for dry, dehydrated<br />
skin will give you a nice hydration kick as well as help<br />
keep those uncertain breakouts in check.<br />
It is a blend of three botanical oils <strong>and</strong> three essentials<br />
oils chock-full of skin-nourishing ingredients like Vitamins<br />
A, E, <strong>and</strong> C, <strong>and</strong> fatty acids.<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• Organic Apricot Seed Oil<br />
• Organic Avocado Oil<br />
• Funnel<br />
• An amber bottle<br />
• Organic Jojoba Oil<br />
• Organic Orange Essential Oil<br />
• Organic Rose Geranium Essential Oil<br />
• Organic Cedarwood Atlas Essential Oil<br />
METHOD<br />
No matter the bottle size, just place three equal thirds<br />
of each oil. The base oil includes jojoba oil - next,<br />
apricot kernel oil <strong>and</strong> avocado oil as the last base oils.<br />
Once the carrier oils are done, it’s time for essential oils.<br />
If you are using a 50 ml bottle, only 20 drops of essential<br />
oil into those carrier oils is needed. Add six drops of<br />
essential oil each. Pop the lid on <strong>and</strong> slightly turn the<br />
bottle to combine it. Avoid shaking; you don’t want to<br />
create air bubbles.<br />
A dark or amber bottle is required because it keeps<br />
the serum lasting for longer <strong>and</strong> stops bacteria from<br />
collecting <strong>and</strong> light from getting to it. This serum<br />
has a shelf life of six months. In case of any allergies<br />
to any of these ingredients, you can make your own<br />
modifications.
2<br />
FACIAL SERUM FOR<br />
UNEVEN, DULL SKIN<br />
Sometimes, dull skin is our permanent makeover. It stays<br />
with us no matter how hard we try to get rid of it. To be<br />
honest, it’s not about trying hard; it’s about embracing<br />
it in a smart way. And a quick to tone down the dullness<br />
begins with our second facial serum recipe.<br />
The recipe uses non-comedogenic oils. This means that<br />
the serum is unlikely to clog your pores. Also, apart<br />
from banishing unevenness, it helps renew dull skin for<br />
brighter skin texture <strong>and</strong> minimises pigmentation, dark<br />
spots <strong>and</strong> acne scars as well.<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• Argan Oil 10 ml<br />
• Carrot Seed Oil 10ml<br />
• Vitamin E Oil 1/2 teaspoon<br />
• Rose Essential Oil 5 drops<br />
• S<strong>and</strong>alwood Essential Oil 5 drops<br />
• Lemon Essential Oil 4 drops<br />
• Frankincense Essential Oil 4 drops<br />
• Dark glass bottle with a dropper<br />
METHOD<br />
Using a sieve, add carrot seed oil, argan oil <strong>and</strong> vitamin<br />
E oil to the glass bottle. Now, take off the sieve <strong>and</strong><br />
gently <strong>and</strong> precisely, add drops of rose, lemon,<br />
frankincense, <strong>and</strong> s<strong>and</strong>alwood essential oil. Close the<br />
lid <strong>and</strong> turn the bottle side to side to mix all the oils.<br />
Avoid shaking <strong>and</strong> thus forming air bubbles.<br />
Apply this serum on the targeted areas whenever you<br />
like. Make sure your face is clean before you do so.<br />
Don’t apply sunscreen after this serum before heading<br />
out in the sun.<br />
A patch test is always recommended to check your skin<br />
reaction before facial use.<br />
3<br />
FACIAL SERUM TO<br />
FIGHT AGEING SKIN<br />
You cannot turn back the clock. Well, technically you can,<br />
but it won’t take you back to how you were when you<br />
were young (pun intended). Although, you can start now<br />
to prevent future wrinkles, age spots <strong>and</strong> sun damage<br />
from appearing on your skin. Yes, there’s a way to age<br />
beautifully, <strong>and</strong> this facial serum is the perfect opportunity.<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• Rosehip seed Oil 1/2 ounce<br />
• Lavender Essential Oil 2 drops<br />
• Geranium Essential Oil 2 drops<br />
• Cypress Essential Oil 1 drop<br />
• Rosemary Essential Oil<br />
• Dark bottle with dropper<br />
• Funnel<br />
METHOD<br />
Add rosehip seed oil to the bottle <strong>and</strong> follow with the rest of<br />
the ingredients. Turn side to side for amalgamation before<br />
use. Rosehip seed oil is one of the best carrier oils for antiageing<br />
purposes but if it does not suit you, simply replace<br />
it with any other carrier oil.<br />
Cleanse <strong>and</strong> tone your skin before layering the serum over<br />
specific areas, such as fine lines <strong>and</strong> wrinkles. It has antiinflammatory<br />
<strong>and</strong> anti-bacterial properties along with the<br />
ability to improve skin elasticity which makes this serum<br />
such a great choice for older women. Even for those who<br />
wish to prevent fine lines early.
4<br />
FACIAL SERUM FOR OILY SKIN<br />
AND ENLARGED PORES<br />
We know, the appearance of enlarged pores coupled<br />
with oily skin, does not help the case either. It can be<br />
extremely grating, especially if you have pores the size<br />
of saucers.<br />
Even though a primer that truly fills them in is appealing,<br />
it still isn’t a permanent solution. Moreover, it can clog<br />
them even further. This facial serum recipe has the ability<br />
to keep oiliness at bay <strong>and</strong> reduces the look of enlarged<br />
pores at the same time.<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• 2 ounce or larger amber glass bottle<br />
• Grapeseed Oil 1 oz.<br />
• Jojoba Oil 1 oz.<br />
• Cypress Essential Oil 10 drops<br />
• Peppermint Essential Oil 5 drops<br />
• Rosemary Essential Oil 5 drops<br />
METHOD<br />
Add all the carrier oils <strong>and</strong> essential oils, following the<br />
sequence of the ingredient list. Roll the bottle gently<br />
in your h<strong>and</strong> to combine the mixture. Wash your face<br />
<strong>and</strong> use a toner <strong>and</strong> after with gentle, upward strokes.<br />
Massage the serum to concentrated oily areas such as<br />
your forehead, cheeks, <strong>and</strong> chin - store bottle in a cool,<br />
dry place.<br />
5<br />
THE PERFECT ALL-ROUNDER<br />
FACIAL SERUM<br />
Need a facial serum that suits all skin types? Well, we’ve<br />
got just the little booster for you. Easy to apply <strong>and</strong> forget<br />
worrying over skin types. Oily, normal, sensitive, acne-prone<br />
or combination - you can use this facial serum regardless.<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• Jojoba Oil 1 Tablespoon (Base oil)<br />
• Argan Oil 1/2 Tablespoon (Premium oil)<br />
• Lavender Essential Oil 2 - 4 drops (Essential Oil)<br />
• Amber or blue-coloured liquid bottle 1 oz.<br />
METHOD<br />
Pour jojoba oil <strong>and</strong> argan oil into the amber bottle with the help<br />
of a funnel. Add drops of lavender essential oils then close the lid<br />
<strong>and</strong> roll it for 30 seconds. Once mixed, apply on clean, toned skin.<br />
Allow 10-15 minutes for the facial serum to fully absorb.<br />
It’s a great facial recipe for all skin types, but there’s no limitation<br />
to explore your options <strong>and</strong> use your favourite oils.<br />
IMPORTANT<br />
MESSAGE<br />
Please educate yourself on the uses, benefits <strong>and</strong> side<br />
effects of these oils. Once you get the hang of them,<br />
you can make your blends.
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LEISA GRACE WILSON<br />
COMPANY NAME: MOFTAH EDUCATION
1. TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF.<br />
My Name is Leisa Grace Wilson, <strong>and</strong> I am<br />
a woman of God, wife, mother, educator,<br />
entrepreneur <strong>and</strong> all-around hot mess<br />
sometimes. I say I am a hot mess because<br />
I am always doing several things at the<br />
same time, spinning several plates <strong>and</strong><br />
sometimes I might lose control, <strong>and</strong> some<br />
may fall, but I am a multi-passionate<br />
person, so I like to have my h<strong>and</strong>s full. I<br />
am just a regular girl who decided to take<br />
Philippians 4: 13 <strong>and</strong> apply it to my life.<br />
Yes, I am certainly a regular Jamaican girl<br />
living an extraordinary life.<br />
2. MOFTAH EDUCATION, HOW DID IT<br />
COME ABOUT?<br />
Moftah Education was born out of a<br />
love for education <strong>and</strong> educators. I am a<br />
teacher by profession. I started my career<br />
in education more than 20 years ago,<br />
teaching English, Spanish <strong>and</strong> English<br />
Literature. After working in Jamaica <strong>and</strong><br />
the United Kingdom as a teacher <strong>and</strong><br />
school leader, I moved with my husb<strong>and</strong><br />
to the United Arab Emirates. When I<br />
came here in 2010, I realised that there<br />
was no magazine, platform or events<br />
which united the entire education space<br />
in the UAE <strong>and</strong> indeed the region. We<br />
then decided to start something, at first<br />
it was only supposed to have been a<br />
website <strong>and</strong> possibly a couple of meetups<br />
every now <strong>and</strong> again but very soon the<br />
idea exp<strong>and</strong>ed <strong>and</strong> Teach Middle East<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> was born. Today Teach Middle<br />
East <strong>Magazine</strong> is the largest <strong>and</strong> most<br />
widely read education publication in the<br />
Middle East for educators.<br />
3. WHAT BRANDS AND EVENTS FALL<br />
UNDER THE MOFTAH PUBLISHING NAME?<br />
The Moftah br<strong>and</strong> has now grown to<br />
include, The flagship Teach Middle East<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>, Edtech Middle East, The<br />
Middle East Maths Teachers Conference,<br />
The Middle East School Leadership<br />
Conference, schoolfinder.ae <strong>and</strong> the soon<br />
to be launched Dubai Education Week.<br />
4. WHAT’S YOUR IDEA OF SUCCESS?<br />
I believe success is doing the things that<br />
bring you the most joy every day. I cannot<br />
put a monetary value on success because<br />
I genuinely believe that having a lot of<br />
money is not a true mark of success.<br />
Success is ongoing; it is a process, not<br />
a destination. If I am better than I was<br />
yesterday, then I am successful. If I wake<br />
up every morning in my right mind then I<br />
am successful, If I have my family around<br />
me <strong>and</strong> they love me, then I am successful.<br />
You get the picture. I strongly believe that<br />
if we live our lives always striving for the<br />
next thing to make us feel successful, then<br />
we might never experience success.<br />
5. WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT?<br />
I am passionate about life. Let me explain,<br />
over the years <strong>and</strong> especially in 2018, I lost<br />
a lot. I lost my mother, she was my whole<br />
life, <strong>and</strong> I also lost one of my best friends,<br />
Ricky. I watched others lose people, <strong>and</strong><br />
I have also heard of young people who I<br />
know just going to sleep <strong>and</strong> not waking up.<br />
These experiences have given me a great<br />
hunger <strong>and</strong> a drive to live my life to the<br />
fullest. I am passionate about not allowing<br />
fear or the opinions of others to stop me<br />
from doing the things that I am passionate<br />
about. I am also a strong believer in the<br />
power of educators to change the future<br />
of this world. Think of it this way; there<br />
is no other group of people in the world<br />
who have more collective influence <strong>and</strong><br />
authority over the minds <strong>and</strong> hearts of the<br />
young people; than educators. Educators<br />
are powerful, it is a shame that they<br />
often seem not to get the respect <strong>and</strong><br />
remuneration that they deserve.<br />
6. WHAT’S THE SECRET TO BEING A<br />
FEARLESS LEADER?<br />
To be a fearless leader, you need to have<br />
two things:<br />
1. An unshakable belief in yourself<br />
2. Empathy<br />
Believing in yourself may sound like a cliche,<br />
but it is of the utmost importance. The fact
is when you step out to follow your dreams, there<br />
will be many people who will tell you that it won’t<br />
work. They are not all bad people, sometimes<br />
it is the people closest to you, but you have to<br />
remember that these people are only speaking<br />
out of their own fears <strong>and</strong> insecurities. Your belief<br />
in yourself is what will give you the resolve to<br />
keep going, especially when times get tough.<br />
Empathy is needed, especially when dealing with<br />
others. You should not only be able to listen with<br />
your ears, but also with your heart. To be a fearless<br />
leader, you have to look beneath the surface <strong>and</strong><br />
try to assess people’s motives. Sometimes what<br />
appears bad might not be <strong>and</strong> vice versa.<br />
7. WHO AND/OR WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?<br />
They say you should always have a why. My “why”<br />
are my kids. I am the mother of six-year-old twin<br />
boys, <strong>and</strong> they are the reason I work so hard. My<br />
husb<strong>and</strong> (<strong>and</strong> business partner) also keeps me<br />
motivated. He is always there to support <strong>and</strong><br />
encourage me. Sometimes I think he believes in<br />
me more than I believe in myself. The educators I<br />
serve also motivate me. I have met some amazing<br />
teachers <strong>and</strong> if they can keep going in the face of<br />
difficulties then so can I.<br />
8. WHAT ARE THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES OF<br />
OWNING YOUR OWN BRAND?<br />
The lack of sleep. Owning your own br<strong>and</strong> is<br />
like having another member added to your<br />
immediate family, <strong>and</strong> like a baby, you have to<br />
take care of it 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.<br />
There is no clocking out <strong>and</strong> going home.<br />
Another challenge is access to funding <strong>and</strong> also<br />
finding quality people to work with. The region is<br />
not as business-friendly as we would like it to be,<br />
this is changing, but it will take time. As a result,<br />
running a business in this part of the world can be<br />
very expensive.<br />
When you own your own br<strong>and</strong>, you also have to<br />
remember that you are your br<strong>and</strong>’s ambassador.<br />
Your actions may affect how people perceive<br />
your br<strong>and</strong>. Don’t forget people do business<br />
with people.
9. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH FAILURE?<br />
When I fail or have a big set back, I allow myself<br />
a day or two to mull over it, to wallow, to cry<br />
<strong>and</strong> to feel down, but then when that time<br />
is up. I get up, <strong>and</strong> I look at what happened<br />
objectively, I search for the lessons <strong>and</strong> then<br />
I do my best to move on <strong>and</strong> grow from the<br />
experience. It is not easy, <strong>and</strong> I often find myself<br />
mulling long after, but I always remind myself<br />
that everything happens for a reason, <strong>and</strong> as I<br />
move on the meaning will become clear.<br />
10. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO YOUR<br />
20-YEAR-OLD SELF?<br />
Where do I begin? I have so much I would tell<br />
my 20- year-old self. The first thing I would tell<br />
her is to relax; it will all work out. I would tell<br />
her to buy real estate <strong>and</strong> lots of it. Don’t waste<br />
money on silly things, just travel <strong>and</strong> buy real<br />
estate because your 40-year-old self will thank<br />
you for the experiences <strong>and</strong> capital appreciation.<br />
I would also tell her that she is not the saviour<br />
<strong>and</strong> that she should allow some people to fail.<br />
Do not try to bail everyone out when they make<br />
bad life choices, allow them to learn from their<br />
own mistakes as you will have to learn from yours.<br />
I will also tell her that she will meet a tall, dark<br />
African guy from Zambia, who is going to marry<br />
her <strong>and</strong> make her the mother of two gorgeous<br />
twin boys. On a serious note, I would really want<br />
her to know that the opinions of others do not<br />
define her <strong>and</strong> that she is worthy of any space<br />
she st<strong>and</strong>s in.<br />
11. HOW DO YOU LOOK AFTER YOUR MENTAL<br />
HEALTH WHILE BEING A BUSY BOSS?<br />
As a busy mum <strong>and</strong> entrepreneur, it is very hard<br />
to find time to take care of yourself, especially<br />
your mental health. I try to keep a regular exercise<br />
routine which helps me to feel great. I also listen<br />
to music, <strong>and</strong> most of all, I pray. I take time to<br />
pray <strong>and</strong> meditate on God’s Word daily.<br />
12. IN TERMS OF THE STRATEGIC GROWTH OF<br />
YOUR BUSINESS, WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF<br />
IN THE NEXT TEN YEARS?<br />
It is my hope that in the next ten years the Moftah<br />
br<strong>and</strong> would have extended to Africa, <strong>and</strong> further<br />
into Asia. We have our eyes on some projects in<br />
Africa in the near future. The aim is to have a<br />
global education br<strong>and</strong> in the next ten years.
13. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO<br />
SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO GIVE UP THEIR<br />
9-5 TO START A BUSINESS?<br />
I would advise them to be patient <strong>and</strong><br />
strategic. The aim is not to have an idea<br />
<strong>and</strong> then give up your 9-5 job <strong>and</strong> struggle.<br />
Hustle on the side for as long as it takes<br />
<strong>and</strong> build your business up to the point<br />
where it can replace your 9-5 income <strong>and</strong><br />
then some. When that happens, you will<br />
be able to walk away from your 9-5 with<br />
no regret.<br />
14. NAME ONE THING YOU DO OR WILL<br />
DO DIFFERENTLY FOR YOUR CHILDREN TO<br />
WHAT YOUR PARENTS DID FOR YOU.<br />
When I was growing up, my mother was<br />
really insistent on me going to university<br />
<strong>and</strong> getting the best education that I could<br />
get. I am very grateful to her for helping<br />
me to get the education I have, but I do<br />
not think I will insist that my boys go to<br />
university. Instead, I will work with them on<br />
creating their own path to success, <strong>and</strong> if<br />
that involves going to university, then I will<br />
be there for them as much as I can be. I am<br />
also going to teach my boys about money<br />
<strong>and</strong> investing from a very early age, in<br />
fact, I have already started, <strong>and</strong> they are<br />
only six.
Name: Minel Michael Fific<br />
Stage name: Minel
TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF<br />
I was born in Bosnia in 1991. I lived there for about<br />
two weeks before my father was killed in the war.<br />
Soon after, my family fled to New York. I was the only<br />
white kid in my neighbourhood at the time, which<br />
meant that I assimilated with the culture that was<br />
around me. For example, hip hop was a huge part of<br />
my time growing up in New York.<br />
There were many discrepancies about me. People<br />
used to tell me, “You’re always acting black.” I never<br />
really understood what that meant, because I don’t<br />
see colour as a race. I feel like everyone is born equal<br />
into this world. I used to say that ‘every mother has<br />
birth pains,’ therefore everyone has a hard time<br />
arriving into this world. But I always believed that<br />
everyone is put in the same position, regardless of<br />
whether you’re born into money or into poverty.<br />
There will always be a way to reach your dreams,<br />
regardless of how much money you start out with.<br />
You see people who are rich <strong>and</strong> end up broke, <strong>and</strong><br />
people who are completely broke <strong>and</strong> end up rich.<br />
So, I feel like everyone has an opportunity.<br />
In New York, I used to go to the hustlers <strong>and</strong> rappers<br />
to try <strong>and</strong> get some exposure. I grew up in a time<br />
when people would freestyle on street corners, that<br />
was my era. Even now, if you watch the Biggie <strong>and</strong><br />
the Jay-Z movies, you’ll notice that they’re still doing<br />
the same thing to this day. I was always intrigued by<br />
that, <strong>and</strong> I always wanted to be one of those guys<br />
that girls would be impressed with.<br />
I listened to a lot of hip hop <strong>and</strong> a lot of rap at the<br />
time, whenever I could. And I’ve also been a very<br />
outspoken person, so I definitely have an opinion<br />
when it comes to other people’s raps. If I hear<br />
someone rapping <strong>and</strong> they’re not good, I’ll openly<br />
tell them – that’s the New York mentality coming out.<br />
Everyone has to be an alpha in New York; no one is<br />
subtle out there. But I guess that’s what makes us<br />
strong.<br />
I remember this one time I was listening to a<br />
group that had a rapper as the lead singer. I wasn’t<br />
impressed with what he was doing, so I thought, “I<br />
have to write my own rhymes.” And I did. And when<br />
I did, I was like a seven-year-old trying to get in <strong>and</strong><br />
have my music heard, but no one would let me in.<br />
They used to have those RCA speakers back in the<br />
day where you had to flip the tape to get to the other<br />
side <strong>and</strong>, there would be a time of silence as they<br />
did this. I saw my window of opportunity here <strong>and</strong><br />
just jumped right in <strong>and</strong> started rapping. Before I<br />
knew it, people were like, “Oh kid, you got it.” When<br />
you grow up in poverty, you don’t believe you have<br />
something even when people tell you that you do.<br />
You don’t believe it.<br />
To give you a little more of a backstory about my<br />
time in New York, I was walking home one night <strong>and</strong><br />
found myself in the middle of a shootout. – Typical<br />
New York stuff. I had one of those hoodies that have<br />
big pockets, <strong>and</strong> one of the bullets just went through<br />
the pocket <strong>and</strong> left a hole. It went by so fast I never<br />
even knew it happened until I got home because<br />
there was so much adrenalin rushing through me. My<br />
mum saw it first when she was washing my clothes<br />
<strong>and</strong> freaked out. So, we ended up moving to Virginia<br />
after that incident.<br />
I had a similar style of growing up in Virginia. High<br />
school lunches <strong>and</strong> corner rap. I rapped all the time;<br />
I did it all, freestyle - everything. I was also in <strong>and</strong><br />
out of incarceration; it was a rough period. But it<br />
wasn’t until about eight months ago when I made it<br />
to Dubai <strong>and</strong> met producer Yazeed through a friend.<br />
I think that where I am now is all God-given, everyone<br />
I met was by sheer coincidence. I met Yazeed at a<br />
basketball game (he doesn’t even play), I met my<br />
Stefan (my videographer) through a friend who I<br />
barely knew, <strong>and</strong> I met my investor through a good<br />
deed that I did with some guy in another country. I<br />
met my manager Albert through a conversation with<br />
another guy at Virgin Radio, by refusing to move.<br />
Everything that happened to me has a story behind<br />
it. Everything was somehow aligned.<br />
Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I met eight months ago <strong>and</strong> instantly<br />
said, “Let’s just do a song for the hell of it.” So, we<br />
made a song called “Big Waves.” People really loved<br />
it, <strong>and</strong> whoever hears that song likes it. But if you<br />
ask us, we think it’s horrible. It’s funny because we<br />
don’t play the song anymore, but everyone wants<br />
to hear it. We’re trying to bury it, but everyone else<br />
is trying to resurrect it. I wrote another song called<br />
“Mess* with Me” that everyone went crazy over.<br />
It’s an unreleased song, but then all my songs are<br />
unreleased. I kept writing music, <strong>and</strong> Yazeed kept<br />
saying, “Well, how are we going to make money out<br />
of this?” which came with a whole other concept.<br />
Soon after, my partner <strong>and</strong> I saw the Nicki Minaj<br />
Megatron Challenge <strong>and</strong> Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I entered. <strong>Out</strong><br />
of thous<strong>and</strong>s, maybe even millions of applicants, we<br />
came to the finals, <strong>and</strong> it was our first time releasing<br />
our music on an Instagram post.
WHAT DO YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT<br />
BEING A MUSICIAN? WHAT DO YOU<br />
HATE THE MOST?<br />
To be honest, what I hate the most<br />
is similar to what you do with your<br />
magazine. When you’re writing an article,<br />
you critique yourself so much because it<br />
has to be up to your st<strong>and</strong>ards, or even<br />
above <strong>and</strong> beyond. The same goes for<br />
me <strong>and</strong> my music. I’m not one of those<br />
people that think, “Oh this is okay. We’re<br />
going to use this for today.” I don’t do<br />
that. I could sit on one line for two or<br />
three hours, just because I know that<br />
it has to sound good. But what I love<br />
about this is that music is my career. It’s<br />
a passion that I commit to. The biggest<br />
thing I tell Yazeed is that I want to st<strong>and</strong><br />
on a stage <strong>and</strong> see the cell phones light<br />
up. I want to light up an arena <strong>and</strong> see<br />
people who are moved by my music.<br />
That’s the main goal for Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I,<br />
<strong>and</strong> it’s not that far off.<br />
As far as things I hate go, I really hate<br />
the times of constant mental distress.<br />
Making a song is only the initial<br />
part, but there is so much that goes<br />
into building it, getting it out there,<br />
<strong>and</strong> exposing it to the world. So, I<br />
sometimes hate the process, but when<br />
you finish a song, <strong>and</strong> you look back<br />
you then really appreciate it.<br />
In terms of the industry <strong>and</strong> what’s<br />
happening right now. What do you<br />
see as your biggest challenge in<br />
getting to where you want to be?<br />
To be honest, I don’t think there’s a<br />
challenge other than exposure, being<br />
seen by people. I’ve had thous<strong>and</strong>s of<br />
people come to the studio <strong>and</strong> listen to<br />
my songs, <strong>and</strong> out of all the songs we<br />
never really get any bad comments on<br />
them. Never. I think we may have gotten<br />
one or two bad comments, but those<br />
were from people who don’t like us.<br />
My mom once said to me, “If someone<br />
doesn’t like you, you’re doing the right<br />
thing.” So, we embrace all of it.
WHAT DO YOU THINK IT’S GOING TO<br />
TAKE TO GET THAT EXPOSURE?<br />
Someone taking a chance on me.<br />
Someone saying, “You know what?<br />
I believe in your music. I’ll give you<br />
a chance without going through the<br />
norm.” For example, if you look at<br />
Eminem’s story, Dr Dre heard about him<br />
through a rap battle <strong>and</strong> decided to put<br />
him in the studio. In about five seconds<br />
he made, “Hey, my name is who, my<br />
name is what, my name is Slim Shady.” It<br />
seems funny that it happened that way,<br />
but Dr Dre just took that chance, <strong>and</strong><br />
I feel that today things aren’t so much<br />
about chance. Everything is more about<br />
analytics <strong>and</strong> systems; no one actually<br />
takes an opportunity nowadays to say,<br />
“You know what, I’m gonna take a leap<br />
of faith on this person.” I feel that the<br />
person who takes a leap of faith for me,<br />
Yazeed <strong>and</strong> the team is going to think,<br />
“Wow, this paid off!”<br />
WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE BIGGER THAN<br />
IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY?<br />
I will honestly say, I don’t care about<br />
fame. I really don’t. So, I could be as big<br />
as Jay-Z, I could be as big as Lil Wayne,<br />
as big as Eminem, I could be as big as<br />
any of them. But at the end of the day,<br />
it’s more about my team <strong>and</strong> my family<br />
winning through music, opening up<br />
through music, making opportunities<br />
for people in this world who are so<br />
talented but will never get the right<br />
moment to shine. If you look at Jay-Z,<br />
Lil Wayne, Rick Ross, all those guys use<br />
their music money to open businesses<br />
<strong>and</strong> become financially rich. Jay-Z is not<br />
worth $1 billion because of his mixtapes<br />
or because of his music. These things<br />
didn’t just open doors for him to invest<br />
money in a certain company or certain<br />
paintings which made millions. For me,<br />
I want to be as big as God allows me<br />
to be.<br />
For me, it’s not really about trying to<br />
touch someone else’s label. I told my
little brother this the other day that<br />
I want to be the first mogul from my<br />
country because Bosnia is a war-torn,<br />
poverty-bound country. No one has<br />
ever seen a millionaire come out of<br />
the country to call them their own. So,<br />
for me, if I reach that status I’ve won.<br />
So, you’ve reached the status you<br />
want to be, what would you do for<br />
your country? What would you do for<br />
the people in your country? You’ve got<br />
it all, everything you’ve wanted. What<br />
would you be doing? What would you<br />
be looking at setting up?<br />
In my country, there are so many<br />
talented people when it comes to<br />
sports, but they don’t have top of<br />
the line sports equipment. They have<br />
a ball, <strong>and</strong> they’re out there in the<br />
morning in the freezing cold practising<br />
football or basketball up <strong>and</strong> down<br />
the streets. I think the situation is the<br />
same in Ukraine for Stefan. There are<br />
probably so many talented people,<br />
but they don’t have what the States<br />
have – basketball camps, football<br />
camps, they don’t have that stuff.<br />
If you look at any Bosnian child, they<br />
have to go to school for 20 years, while<br />
the average kid in the States only has<br />
to go to school for 17 years. And after<br />
those 20 years, they have four more<br />
years of university education. So, for<br />
me, becoming a mogul would shine<br />
a light on the country, for people to<br />
be like, “Wow, he came from here.<br />
What else is there?” For example, if<br />
you look at Meek Mill, he’s opened<br />
so many doors for Philadelphia. The<br />
most important thing is to open doors<br />
because people will look at certain<br />
countries <strong>and</strong> stereotype them <strong>and</strong><br />
their people. People will look at<br />
someone like Albert Einstein, crazy<br />
hair, silly moustache, yet arguably one<br />
of the smartest people the world has<br />
seen, but if no one actually took the<br />
time to discover his skills he would<br />
have been just a silly old white guy.<br />
I want people to look at people<br />
like me <strong>and</strong> think, all he has is one<br />
microphone, all he has is one football,<br />
but he’s out there every day because<br />
that’s all he has time to do.<br />
WHAT’S YOUR BACKUP PLAN, NOT<br />
JUST YOUR BACKUP BUT IT COULD BE<br />
WHAT ELSE YOU WOULD WANT TO DO?<br />
OR EVEN IF YOU’RE MAKING MUSIC,<br />
WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU WANT TO DO<br />
FOR YOURSELF?<br />
I asked a friend this question about<br />
two weeks ago. I asked her what<br />
she wanted to be in life, <strong>and</strong> she<br />
has a high prestige job here in a big<br />
company in the UAE. She makes a<br />
higher wage than most of our other<br />
friends, but she’s not always happy<br />
when she goes to work. We ask her<br />
all the time what she wants to do,<br />
<strong>and</strong> she always says, “I don’t know.”<br />
It took me 27 years to actually figure<br />
out that I’m talented in music <strong>and</strong><br />
that I have to be doing something<br />
related to music. So, even if it’s not<br />
me personally reaching the level of<br />
stardom, it will still be something to<br />
do in music. I can’t really tell you a<br />
backup plan, because all the other<br />
backup plans that I’ve done have just<br />
been jobs that pay the bills.
WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS YOU’VE DONE<br />
TO PAY THE BILLS?<br />
I’ve been in management, operations manager,<br />
a coach in little league basketball, a manager<br />
at a coffee shop. I personally trained a few<br />
people in restaurant management, really basic<br />
stuff. Nothing really extravagant.<br />
WHAT’S THE BEST PIECE OF ADVICE YOU’VE<br />
EVER BEEN GIVEN?<br />
I say this to Stefan all the time. When I was<br />
younger, I was walking down a hallway, <strong>and</strong><br />
I saw this picture of a basketball hoop <strong>and</strong> a<br />
basketball laying on the ground, <strong>and</strong> it said,<br />
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”<br />
That’s probably the best advice, <strong>and</strong> that<br />
course correlates with I guess everyone here.<br />
For example, if you watch the movie<br />
Transformers, there is a scene where Megan<br />
Fox is too scared to get into a car, <strong>and</strong> Sam<br />
Witwicky tells her, “Fifty years from now, when<br />
you’re looking back at your life, don’t you want<br />
to be able to say you had the guts to get in the<br />
car?” That really resonated with me, because<br />
I know that so many people have dreams, but<br />
they don’t have the heart to do it. Do it. Why<br />
are you so scared? Just do it, you don’t know<br />
what it will be like. If you don’t go skydiving,<br />
you won’t know how it feels. If you don’t pick<br />
up that microphone, you won’t know how it<br />
sounds. If you don’t try this thing in music, how<br />
do we know if it sounds good? For me, that’s<br />
the best advice I think I’ve ever seen in life.<br />
Just do it.<br />
DO YOU THINK YOU’RE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF?<br />
Yes.<br />
WHY IS THIS?<br />
Because if you don’t believe in yourself, then<br />
nobody else can believe in you.<br />
There is belief, <strong>and</strong> then there’s being really<br />
hard on yourself.<br />
You have to be hard on yourself to believe in<br />
yourself. For example, I read somewhere that<br />
Steve Jobs sent something like 12,000 business<br />
proposals to investors, only 1,200 called back,<br />
only 12 sat down with him for a meeting, <strong>and</strong><br />
only two invested. Now imagine how other<br />
people feel because they missed out on what<br />
Apple has become. But do you know how hard<br />
Steve Jobs worked? If you read his stuff, you will<br />
know that he put himself under constant stress,<br />
but he believed in himself, he kept going.<br />
Although the numbers might not all be exact,<br />
it’s the concept of that story that I admire. For<br />
me, the situation that I am in right now in music<br />
is just to keep going. For example, earlier in<br />
the month, we had four days off. But I didn’t<br />
want four days off I only wanted two <strong>and</strong> then<br />
to get back to work. In the end, I didn’t even<br />
have two days off; I just went straight back to<br />
the studio the same night.<br />
This is the same advice for you <strong>and</strong> for your<br />
magazine. There is someone somewhere in<br />
the world doing the exact same thing as you.<br />
Stefan sent me something on Instagram the<br />
other day, <strong>and</strong> it said, “In the Bible, sleep<br />
equals poverty to a man.” For me, it’s the<br />
same. I have to be hard on myself every single<br />
day. I have to push myself to do what I have<br />
to do.<br />
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY IS YOUR BIGGEST<br />
ACCOMPLISHMENT SO FAR?<br />
Our very first music post ever was seen by<br />
Nicki Minaj. She wrote on her page that my<br />
bar that I rapped is now her favourite rap bar<br />
of all time. For our first music post ever, this<br />
is an incredible achievement. For the Queen<br />
of Rap to say that my bar was her favourite<br />
of all time, <strong>and</strong> to say that I was one of the<br />
best contestants she’s ever seen, is a major<br />
accomplishment that no one can take away<br />
from me, Stefan, Yazeed, or the team – no one<br />
can take that away from us. So, that’s another<br />
sign of God right there.
HOW DO YOU BUILD ON FROM THAT?<br />
I think the number one thing that we are trying<br />
to do right now is media. We’re trying to get on<br />
a show. We’re trying to be the first team with<br />
unreleased music to rock out the show because<br />
the music is so strong. We want people to say,<br />
“How did this guy get into this club without<br />
having one song released?”<br />
For example, if you look at someone like Nipsy<br />
Hustle, he was selling his CD for $1,000 <strong>and</strong><br />
people bought it just to see what it was about.<br />
He made a million dollars of pure profit off of<br />
himself. Other labels would have looked at<br />
him <strong>and</strong> said he was crazy for selling a CD at<br />
$1,000, but he did it. For me, if I get a huge<br />
club with an unreleased song, people are still<br />
going to wonder how I’m doing it. We’re trying<br />
our own individual approach. I can’t follow the<br />
same route that everyone else has taken. I have<br />
to stay away from it. So, will it work? I don’t<br />
know, but if it does-<br />
If you don’t try, you never know.<br />
Exactly.<br />
WHAT DOES TALENT MEAN TO YOU? WHAT’S<br />
YOUR IDEA OF TALENT?<br />
Talent to me means that even if you don’t like<br />
me, you have to respect me. Talent for me is<br />
one of those things that you are just born with.<br />
Everyone has some kind of talent, but it’s what<br />
you do with it that counts. If you were born<br />
talented as a journalist, what would you do is<br />
to work on that. You have a full-time job <strong>and</strong><br />
a seven-year-old, that’s talent, my hat goes off<br />
to you.<br />
Let’s look at your magazine, not just the fact<br />
you write the magazine, but the fact that you<br />
have just been able to juggle those three things<br />
(a full-time job, entrepreneurship <strong>and</strong> being a<br />
mom). So, for me, talent is the ultimate measure<br />
of making a person respect you. Even if they<br />
don’t like you, they have to respect the talent.<br />
WHERE DO WE FIND YOU?<br />
You will most likely be able to find me on everything<br />
as Minelgc (Minel God’s child) or just Minel, once<br />
we have all the accounts set up.<br />
minelgc<br />
minelgc<br />
Minel<br />
coming soon<br />
coming soon<br />
coming soon
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body isn’t making enough or not using insulin<br />
correctly; a condition called insulin resistance.<br />
If your body has insufficient insulin supply or is<br />
resistant to it (insulin), it accumulates too much<br />
glucose in your blood, leading to a higher blood<br />
glucose level that may result in pre-diabetes.<br />
The same risk factors occur with pre-diabetes<br />
<strong>and</strong> Type 2 diabetes. Here are some of them<br />
that you need to know.<br />
GESTATIONAL DIABETES<br />
Did you develop diabetes while pregnant? If<br />
yes, your risk of developing Type 2, later on, is<br />
more likely.
POLYCYSTIC OVARY SYNDROME<br />
(PCOS)<br />
This condition is related to insulin<br />
resistance. What’s happening is that<br />
you may be at a higher risk due to<br />
the many cysts, of which some may<br />
be due to insulin resistance, forming<br />
in your ovaries.<br />
LACK OF PHYSICAL ACTIVITY<br />
This issue is common among those<br />
who are obese or overweight.<br />
People who are not mindful of<br />
their current excess weight can be<br />
at high risk of diabetes, especially<br />
if they do not tend to move much<br />
due to a constant feeling of<br />
sluggishness.<br />
Apart from feeling sluggish, people<br />
with pre-diabetes may also have<br />
lack any kind of physical activity.<br />
This problem is common among<br />
those who are overweight. And<br />
if you’re less active, you can be at<br />
higher risk of pre-diabetes.<br />
AGE<br />
You’re likely to be at a higher risk of<br />
developing pre-diabetes if you’re<br />
older, say above 45 years old.<br />
FAMILY HISTORY<br />
You’re more likely to develop prediabetes<br />
if you have a close family<br />
member who has or has had it<br />
because it has a hereditary factor,<br />
too.<br />
HEALTH CONDITIONS<br />
People with high bad cholesterol<br />
levels or hypertension also have an<br />
increased risk of diabetes.<br />
OBESITY AND OVERWEIGHT<br />
Do you have at least a 25 body mass<br />
index? Your chances of developing<br />
Type 2 diabetes are higher , especially<br />
if you have excess visceral fat in your<br />
abdomen. The fat cells in that area<br />
will make you more insulin resistant if<br />
you are already at risk of developing<br />
Type 2 diabetes.<br />
There are some groups who have<br />
higher tendencies to develop<br />
this condition, <strong>and</strong> a few of them<br />
include Hispanic Americans, African<br />
Americans, Asian Americans <strong>and</strong><br />
Native Americans.<br />
HYPOTHYROIDISM<br />
If you have this condition, your body<br />
isn’t circulating enough thyroid<br />
hormones or its thyroid gl<strong>and</strong> is<br />
not functioning well; thus, you can<br />
develop Type 2 diabetes if you also<br />
have pre-diabetes.<br />
TIPS TO AVOID DEVELOPING<br />
DIABETES<br />
Making simple lifestyle changes<br />
is your best bet to prevent the<br />
condition. To begin, here are some<br />
things you can do. You can get<br />
started with them <strong>and</strong> likely notice<br />
a big difference.
MAKE TIME FOR EXERCISE. There is no<br />
excuse, no matter how busy you are. If you<br />
have pre-diabetes, you can still prevent it from<br />
becoming diabetes by incorporating moderate<br />
physical activity into your life.<br />
Even if it’s just 10 or 30 minutes a day, a few<br />
options include swimming, riding a bike or<br />
brisk walking. But if you have an underlying<br />
condition, consult your doctor about a safe<br />
exercise for you.<br />
EAT HEALTHILY. Stick with a healthy diet<br />
plan, <strong>and</strong> add foods like whole grains, fruits<br />
<strong>and</strong> vegetables to your diet. You can also<br />
think about adding lean protein sources, like<br />
chicken or fish.<br />
REDUCE YOUR CALORIE INTAKE. Try<br />
having small servings instead of splurging in<br />
calories in one sitting. You must also drink<br />
water instead of sugary drinks.<br />
ARE YOU OVERWEIGHT? Strive <strong>and</strong> work<br />
hard to lose weight. You can prevent or delay<br />
it by simply losing seven percent of your<br />
weight.<br />
Weight loss does more than make you looking<br />
fab. It also reduces your risk of developing<br />
many other conditions like a heart attack, high<br />
blood pressure <strong>and</strong> high cholesterol.<br />
PRE-DIABETES IS PREVENTABLE<br />
When diagnosed earlier, it is not likely to<br />
develop into Type 2 diabetes or make you<br />
susceptible to more issues like obesity <strong>and</strong><br />
heart attack. If you want to prevent prediabetes,<br />
you can start making simple lifestyle<br />
changes like adding exercise, planning your<br />
diet <strong>and</strong> reducing your calorie intake. Live a<br />
healthy lifestyle <strong>and</strong> prevent pre-diabetes!
What You Need to Know <strong>About</strong><br />
(<strong>and</strong> Recipes)<br />
Healthy eating is a significant part of life because<br />
it may keep us away from diseases, prolong our<br />
lifespan <strong>and</strong> give us more zest.<br />
One diet that’s been around for years <strong>and</strong> has been<br />
helping others achieve great health is the glutenfree<br />
diet.<br />
Chances are you’re also interested in glutenfree<br />
eating. That may be a good move if you<br />
cannot tolerate gluten, which leaves you feeling<br />
uncomfortable. Why might you be into<br />
gluten-free eating?<br />
DIGESTIVE RELIEF<br />
This diet can help because it may relieve digestive<br />
issues, including constipation, bloating, diarrhoea,<br />
fatigue <strong>and</strong> gas.<br />
WEIGHT LOSS<br />
And the more good news is that a gluten-free diet<br />
may also help you lose weight. The reason is<br />
that it could help eliminate junk foods <strong>and</strong> unwanted<br />
calories from your diet. Instead, they’re replaced by<br />
lean protein, vegetables <strong>and</strong> fruit.<br />
In this diet, however, you should avoid processed<br />
gluten-free stuff like pastries, cakes <strong>and</strong> snacks,<br />
because these can quickly add calories to your diet.<br />
ENERGY BOOST<br />
And if you’re always feeling bogged down by the<br />
things that life throws at you, help might just be<br />
around the corner with gluten-free recipes that we’ll<br />
discuss later. With a gluten-free diet, you’ll feel less<br />
tired <strong>and</strong> experience fewer brain fog episodes.<br />
So, how do you get started with gluten-free<br />
eating? Coming up are some easy gluten-free<br />
recipes that you should try at home.<br />
Other benefits<br />
• It may also be for you if you’re suffering from<br />
celiac disease in which your body is harming itself<br />
by mistake.<br />
• It can also help you deal with inflammation,<br />
which is a process that helps to treat <strong>and</strong> heal<br />
infection, but when it goes out of h<strong>and</strong>, it can<br />
become chronic <strong>and</strong> can lead to various problems.
GLUTEN-FREE<br />
Here is the link: Rice Bread<br />
Check it out on this link<br />
for the recipe.
Use this video for a quick<br />
<strong>and</strong> easy recipe.<br />
Check out this dairy-free <strong>and</strong><br />
gluten-free lasagna here.<br />
Here is the link for Rolls
Check out this link for the recipe.<br />
Watch this video for ways to make<br />
this honey butter chicken.<br />
TIPS FOR A GLUTEN-FREE DIET<br />
Check the label when shopping for food to determine<br />
if there is any gluten in the list of ingredients.<br />
Talk to your family <strong>and</strong> friends <strong>and</strong> tell them about<br />
your special diet. This way, they won’t be surprised<br />
if you order gluten-free food when you eat out.<br />
You should plan ahead to avoid running out of<br />
options (<strong>and</strong> gluten-free food in your fridge!). The<br />
same goes if you’re going overseas or travelling<br />
soon. You might want to check some places to shop<br />
or eat gluten-free food.<br />
Get a gluten-free cookbook for inspiration on more<br />
gluten-free recipes. They can make your new diet<br />
more exciting <strong>and</strong> interesting.<br />
Bring food when going outside. If you want to save<br />
up, you might want to make recipes ahead of time<br />
like gluten-free pasta <strong>and</strong> bread. It will also save you<br />
from the stress of finding gluten-free food choices.<br />
FINAL THOUGHTS<br />
Trying a new diet like gluten-free eating can be<br />
exciting (<strong>and</strong> rewarding if done right). For this reason,<br />
it’s best that you complete thorough research, plan<br />
ahead, <strong>and</strong> watch the foods you’re eating closely.<br />
DISCLAIMER<br />
This article is not to replace a GP’s advice but only a reference. You must consult your doctor prior to starting a gluten-free diet just<br />
like any other diet for that matter. After all, it’s your safety that should come first. Also, there is no one diet fits all rule anywhere. Thus,<br />
you should pay your doctor a visit <strong>and</strong> consult him about a gluten-free diet, <strong>and</strong> only at his green light should you start the diet plan.
15 Foods to<br />
<strong>and</strong> How They<br />
Do It<br />
When it comes to dieting, the words<br />
“moderation” <strong>and</strong> “portion control”<br />
are the ones that come into our<br />
minds <strong>and</strong> can commonly be found<br />
in articles, guides <strong>and</strong> tutorials to<br />
lose weight or stay healthy.<br />
But there’s more to them than<br />
limiting our food intake. They can<br />
also speed up weight loss <strong>and</strong> give<br />
us better results in our efforts to<br />
stay healthy.<br />
However, for those who are new to<br />
this whole fitness <strong>and</strong> dieting thing,<br />
following these two principles may<br />
be difficult. In fact, beginners often<br />
fail to cut back on their food intake<br />
due to the feeling of hunger. But<br />
there’s actually a secret.<br />
There are certain foods that can<br />
make you feel fuller for longer, but<br />
have none of the extra calories that<br />
we want to avoid in the first place!<br />
So the next time you’re reaching<br />
for that bag of chips or cake, you<br />
might want to snack on these foods<br />
instead.<br />
Foods that Can Fool Hunger
1. Eggs<br />
Starting your day with a scrambled or sunnyside-up<br />
egg will keep you satiated until lunch.<br />
The reason why? Eggs are packed with about six<br />
grams of protein in every serving. They also have<br />
amino acids <strong>and</strong> antioxidants that will keep your<br />
body energised longer.<br />
2. Avocados<br />
Avocados have healthy mono-saturated fat that<br />
keeps you feeling full for longer while keeping<br />
your blood vessels <strong>and</strong> heart in tip-top shape.<br />
They are also rich in fibre <strong>and</strong> protein. Keep in<br />
mind though that avocado packs many calories.<br />
So, you’d be better off to just snack on half of the<br />
fruit.<br />
3. Lentils <strong>and</strong> Legumes<br />
Legumes were considered as a dietary no-no back<br />
in the day since they were high in fat <strong>and</strong> calories.<br />
But like avocadoes, they provide the good kind.<br />
A mixture of lentils <strong>and</strong> legumes provides a good<br />
amount of protein, carbs <strong>and</strong> healthy fats that<br />
stabilise <strong>and</strong> maintain your blood sugar.<br />
4. Oatmeal<br />
Oatmeal is another breakfast staple for many, <strong>and</strong><br />
for good reasons! Oatmeal is packed with protein<br />
<strong>and</strong> soluble <strong>and</strong> insoluble fibre to keep you fuller<br />
for longer. This is because fibre takes a lot longer<br />
for your body to break down, keeping your blood<br />
sugar stable. However, stick to the plain ones <strong>and</strong><br />
just add your own toppings such as fruit, nuts, etc.
5. Soups<br />
Slurping the soup before a meal is actually a<br />
good choice, especially for those looking to lose<br />
weight.<br />
This is because soups have high water content<br />
<strong>and</strong> if they’re full of veggies, then they’re high<br />
in fibre as well. However, make sure to stick to<br />
broth-based ones, as creamy soups tend to be<br />
high in calories <strong>and</strong> fat.<br />
6. Vegetables<br />
Of course, along with fruits, veggies provide the<br />
backbone of every diet. In fact, adding vegetables<br />
like broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower,<br />
cabbage, kale, <strong>and</strong> the like into your diet will<br />
benefit you in the end. These greens have loads<br />
of fibre <strong>and</strong> nutrients that can keep diseases like<br />
cancer away.<br />
Moreover, they are low in calories so, there’s<br />
basically no limit on their serving. They can be<br />
used in numerous dishes or can be served as a<br />
side dish. Bonus, you can also throw them in a<br />
blender <strong>and</strong> make a smoothie!<br />
7. Greek Yoghurt<br />
Greek yoghurt is a powerhouse filled with calcium<br />
<strong>and</strong> protein while being low in calories <strong>and</strong> sugar.<br />
In fact, a typical ounce serving has 15-20 grams of<br />
protein, which is roughly the same amount found<br />
in lean meats.<br />
Yoghurt also provides the right amount of flavour<br />
for it to be hearty. I say go for the plain ones <strong>and</strong><br />
go crazy on them by adding toppings such as<br />
fruits, nuts or dark chocolate.<br />
8. Fruits<br />
Fruits are an excellent choice to add fibre <strong>and</strong><br />
other nutrients to your meal. They are packed<br />
with pectin which can especially help you with<br />
your diet as it takes longer for your body to digest<br />
<strong>and</strong> keeps you satiated longer.<br />
Fruits with high pectin <strong>and</strong> fibre content include<br />
apples, raspberries, pears, bananas, blackberries<br />
<strong>and</strong> the like.
13. Whey Protein Powder<br />
Whey protein is linked to satiety <strong>and</strong> fewer calorie<br />
intake since it is packed with protein. Use the<br />
powder to add protein to your smoothies.<br />
Whey protein can also be found in milk, cottage<br />
cheese <strong>and</strong> yoghurt.<br />
14. Dark Chocolate<br />
Some of us can’t live without chocolate. It’s a<br />
good thing there’s a healthy option too.<br />
Dark chocolate is known to increase feelings of<br />
satiety <strong>and</strong> help curb cravings. It is also chock-full<br />
of magnesium <strong>and</strong> regulates blood pressure as<br />
well as provides protection to the brain <strong>and</strong> heart.<br />
15. Water<br />
Last but not least is water! Again, the feeling<br />
of dehydration can be mistaken for hunger. So,<br />
before reaching that snack, try to drink a glass of<br />
water <strong>and</strong> wait for ten minutes to know if you’re<br />
really hungry or not.<br />
With all the food listed, you are now set to create<br />
<strong>and</strong> consume your healthy meals. Of course,<br />
adding these foods can help you with your diet<br />
<strong>and</strong> weight loss.<br />
However, aside from this, you should also<br />
remember always to practise portion control <strong>and</strong><br />
eat in moderation. These foods that fool hunger<br />
are definitely good for you, but you are unlikely to<br />
lose weight if you overeat <strong>and</strong> do not implement<br />
a plan in mind.<br />
Nevertheless, tweaking your diet here <strong>and</strong><br />
there, scheduling eating times, <strong>and</strong> consuming<br />
only healthy stuff will all help you achieve your<br />
#fitnessgoals.
CAN TEA<br />
HELP TO<br />
IMPROVE<br />
FITNESS?
Tea is the second most popular beverage in the world after<br />
water. In fact, the world’s consumption is predicted to grow<br />
15% over the period between 2016 to 2021.<br />
There is no doubt why. This super drink is not only refreshing<br />
during stressful days <strong>and</strong> warming through chilly nights but<br />
also has daily fitness improving qualities.<br />
For centuries, tea has also been a great source of comfort<br />
<strong>and</strong> medication. With a chock full of benefits, it is also a<br />
favourite among health <strong>and</strong> fitness buffs. But can it really<br />
improve fitness? Is it really good for you?<br />
TOP 10 AMAZING FITNESS BENEFITS OF TEA<br />
The underappreciated beverage has turned out to be a great<br />
sports performance drink. Here’s why. Beyond health, tea is<br />
also sports <strong>and</strong> performance-enhancing – but the natural<br />
way. Athletes who want to play better sip tea instead of any<br />
other beverage like coffee or soda. Let’s discuss more in the<br />
following.<br />
1. HYDRATION<br />
Keep your cells hydrated! It is<br />
one of the things to remember<br />
if you want to improve your<br />
workouts. Or else, dehydration<br />
knocks at the door <strong>and</strong><br />
impedes performance. It also<br />
leads to problems like fatigue<br />
<strong>and</strong> cramps.<br />
So if you don’t want to end<br />
up on the bench in sports,<br />
you should keep your cells<br />
hydrated with tea, which has<br />
the same hydrating properties<br />
as water. It can help improve<br />
performance, not to mention<br />
it has a refreshing flavour but<br />
without sugar.
2. (NOT TOO MUCH) STIMULATION<br />
Athletes <strong>and</strong> fitness seekers drink tea versus<br />
soda because the latter is loaded with sugar,<br />
additives <strong>and</strong> caffeine.<br />
Tea has mild stimulating properties, just enough<br />
to keep you going but without causing crashes<br />
– like what sugar does.<br />
Prevent crashes which also come from coffee’s<br />
caffeine, with tea instead. Even if it has caffeine,<br />
it has lower amounts versus what coffee has.<br />
Tea can help you stay stimulated for an early<br />
morning workout or sports practice, <strong>and</strong> keep<br />
you feeling energised to face the rest of the<br />
day.<br />
As a tip, you can drink green tea after practice<br />
for rehydration. So, you can raise your<br />
awareness levels, especially on days when you<br />
need to get through <strong>and</strong> overcome pressure.<br />
Get that extra push in performance! Drink tea<br />
with just the right amount of caffeine, which is<br />
one of the most proven performance enhancers<br />
in the world.<br />
3. ENDURANCE<br />
Green tea extract can stimulate lipid use <strong>and</strong><br />
improve endurance capacity. In terms of stamina<br />
<strong>and</strong> endurance, tea can help in improving fatty acid<br />
utilisation as an energy source that encourages<br />
metabolic capacity increase.<br />
And during aerobic activity, green tea, in particular,<br />
can improve your performance due to increased<br />
endurance.<br />
Contributing to this action is the increase in one’s<br />
ability to burn fat as fuel. It turns out that green tea<br />
can also help to increase body composition <strong>and</strong><br />
prioritising fat storage over glycogen.
4. HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />
Working out <strong>and</strong> being active can<br />
make you feel exhausted <strong>and</strong> sick<br />
from time to time, especially if you<br />
don’t have a strong immune system.<br />
To prevent this from happening, you<br />
must learn how to improve fitness,<br />
<strong>and</strong> one of the best ways to do that<br />
is regular tea consumption.<br />
Tea is a potent source of antioxidants,<br />
particularly catechins. They aid in<br />
cancer prevention as well as lower<br />
the risk of cardiovascular disease<br />
<strong>and</strong> osteoporosis.<br />
In addition, tea helps in lowering bad<br />
cholesterol levels <strong>and</strong> increasing<br />
dental health. This wonder drink<br />
can also prevent diabetes, improve<br />
focus <strong>and</strong> energy <strong>and</strong> manage<br />
weight.<br />
5. MUSCLE STRENGTH<br />
Inflammation due to oxidative stress<br />
is a common concern among fitness<br />
enthusiasts because it can deteriorate<br />
bone <strong>and</strong> muscle health over time.<br />
Whenever you work out, you add more<br />
stress to your bones <strong>and</strong> muscles, which<br />
holds back your strength.<br />
Exercise causes stress to the body,<br />
which has to take on more of it as you<br />
push harder.<br />
Over time, your strength builds up due<br />
to that added stress! However, you<br />
should take care of your body, which<br />
accumulates stress <strong>and</strong> suffers from<br />
inflammation while you’re in progress.<br />
For this reason, learn to add healthy<br />
habits like drinking tea known for its<br />
polyphenols compounds that aid in<br />
productive workouts <strong>and</strong> improved<br />
body shape.
7. FOCUS<br />
Improve <strong>and</strong> sharpen your focus with<br />
tea, such as sage tea, which can also<br />
support the nervous <strong>and</strong> neural system<br />
function as well as improve blood<br />
circulation to the brain. To keep track of<br />
your reps <strong>and</strong> sets, drink rosemary tea<br />
for improved memory.<br />
6. RECOVERY<br />
Post-workout soreness is a challenge<br />
among athletes, powerlifters, runners<br />
<strong>and</strong> fitness seekers, so they need<br />
recovery.<br />
If you want to reduce recovery time,<br />
you should drink tea that can do that<br />
for you. Otherwise, you might not<br />
achieve faster gains, which are only<br />
possible with a faster recovery.<br />
Green tea, in smaller doses, can<br />
help reduce chronic fatigue. Both<br />
green <strong>and</strong> white teas neutralise free<br />
radicals, which exercise can produce,<br />
<strong>and</strong> enhance the immune system.
8. BONE HEALTH<br />
You don’t just achieve strong bones<br />
by drinking milk but also tea, which<br />
can help to prevent bone loss<br />
related to ageing.<br />
Certain studies have shown that it<br />
could support osteoblastic activities<br />
<strong>and</strong> bone mineral density. It could<br />
also reduce bone fracture risk <strong>and</strong><br />
help in bone formation.<br />
9. WEIGHT LOSS<br />
Reach your workout goals faster by<br />
incorporating tea, which can help you<br />
manage or lose weight in your fitness<br />
regimen! As a result, you’ll lose weight<br />
faster because tea can aid in metabolism<br />
<strong>and</strong> burn more calories.
FINAL THOUGHTS<br />
Tea can help improve fitness, health <strong>and</strong> wellness.<br />
Adding it to your fitness routine, workouts <strong>and</strong> sports<br />
practices can up your performance, improve motivation,<br />
<strong>and</strong> enhance overall results. It can also calm you down,<br />
improve bone <strong>and</strong> oral health, <strong>and</strong> strengthen the<br />
immune system. Start reaping all these benefits by<br />
incorporating tea in your diet today!<br />
10. RELAXATION<br />
Sip your tea <strong>and</strong> calm down after<br />
a tiring fitness regimen. It can help<br />
you relax, boost brain dopamine<br />
levels, <strong>and</strong> increase motivation.<br />
Tea boosts dopamine supply in<br />
brain areas that need it the most.<br />
It’s beneficial for your creativity,<br />
performance <strong>and</strong> mood.<br />
Dopamine aids in transmitting<br />
motivation <strong>and</strong> reward signals<br />
aside from relaxing the muscles <strong>and</strong><br />
aiding them to move smoothly.
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Yummy Mommy is a<br />
recurring feature in the<br />
wellness section of <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />
<strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> that<br />
serves to shine a spotlight<br />
on the supermoms who<br />
combine raising a family with<br />
their own career <strong>and</strong> life<br />
goals – <strong>and</strong> look FABULOUS<br />
while doing it.<br />
Balancing it All<br />
Name: Jennifer Stelco<br />
Age: 32<br />
Marital Status: Married<br />
Number of children:<br />
3 kids ( 3 months, 2 <strong>and</strong> 3.5)
1. TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF<br />
I’m an Australian artist <strong>and</strong> have been<br />
living in Dubai for nine years. I was once a<br />
full-time painter, churning out a painting<br />
almost every day. Now that I have three<br />
small kids, I paint in the evenings <strong>and</strong><br />
during nap time as commissions come<br />
up. I love sports (mainly netball <strong>and</strong> horse<br />
riding), walking my dogs, gardening,<br />
sketching, going to bed early, eating<br />
breakfast out, <strong>and</strong> reading. My idea of a<br />
wild night out is a book club with wine or<br />
catching a show at the Dubai opera.<br />
2. HAVE YOU ALWAYS BEEN FIT?<br />
WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO LIVE A<br />
HEALTHIER LIFE<strong>STYLE</strong>?<br />
I haven’t always been fit. I was briefly fit<br />
in high school when I was in the rowing<br />
team, then stopped all forms of exercise<br />
from the age of 16 <strong>and</strong> didn’t start up<br />
again until I got involved in the netball<br />
community when I first came to Dubai<br />
in 2010, initially just to meet people. I<br />
then signed up for women’s’ rugby for a<br />
season which came with a lot of fitness<br />
training. One day a netball friend asked<br />
me to join a team of runners in the Wadi<br />
Bih race, <strong>and</strong> from there I’ve always done<br />
some form of running or working out,<br />
aside from when I’ve been pregnant.<br />
3. DESCRIBE WHAT YOU’RE DOING<br />
TO STAY OR GET IN SHAPE? HOW<br />
OFTEN ARE YOU WORKING OUT<br />
AND FOR WHAT DURATION?<br />
I work out a lot. I walk my dogs for 30<br />
minutes every night after my kids go to<br />
bed. I also try to go for a short run on<br />
weekends, do one postnatal fitness class<br />
a week, <strong>and</strong> I see a personal trainer twice<br />
a week. I’m only managing a 3 km run<br />
at the moment as I’m only 3.5 months<br />
postnatal, but ultimately I would like to<br />
be able to run 10 km within an hour. It<br />
takes a long time to get back to that<br />
point after having a baby!<br />
4. WHAT IS YOUR DIET LIKE?<br />
My diet is pretty st<strong>and</strong>ard; I eat three<br />
or four meals a day. For dinner, I have<br />
been using Hello Chef, which is great,<br />
selecting mostly low carb meals that I<br />
think my kids will eat. I avoid sugar <strong>and</strong><br />
carbs whenever possible but not always.<br />
I try to remember to drink loads of water,<br />
<strong>and</strong> aside from water, only drink sugarless<br />
tea or americanos. Having said that, on<br />
special occasions or after a hard week, I<br />
love a few wines. My major weakness is<br />
Cheetos. The rule that I live by is always<br />
having a huge glass of water before I eat<br />
anything, even if it’s just a light snack.
5. HOW DO YOU STAY MOTIVATED?<br />
I stay motivated by using a fitness tracking<br />
watch <strong>and</strong> attempting to reach a certain<br />
amount of calories burned every day. Also,<br />
by having a training buddy who shares my<br />
PT sessions.<br />
6. DO YOU HAVE ANY MENTAL TRICKS<br />
THAT YOU USE WHEN YOU JUST DON’T<br />
FEEL LIKE WORKING OUT?<br />
No. If I really just don’t feel like it that much<br />
- I don’t. Skipping a workout every so often<br />
is fine. Sometimes it’s more important to<br />
rest.<br />
7. WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR<br />
MOMS WHO SAY THEY DON’T HAVE<br />
TIME FOR EXERCISE?<br />
Get a Fitbit or Apple watch or something<br />
similar <strong>and</strong> turn it into a game, making sure<br />
you get X amount of points per day or week.<br />
You’ll start looking for exercise where you<br />
didn’t before. Parking further away, taking<br />
the stairs, carrying heavy loads, playing<br />
more actively with the kids, etc.<br />
8. THINGS YOU’VE YOU TRIED AND<br />
HATED—DIETS AND WORKING OUT?<br />
I hate any form of dieting that makes me<br />
hungry, like calorie counting or fasting.<br />
Also, working out alone doesn’t work for<br />
me. I like to be with a friend or in a class;<br />
otherwise I slack off.<br />
9. WHAT ARE YOUR TOP THREE TIPS<br />
TO HELP WOMEN GET INTO SHAPE<br />
POST-PREGNANCY?<br />
• Get a fitness tracking watch.<br />
• Work out with a buddy so that it’s more<br />
fun <strong>and</strong> seems like a better use of your rare<br />
“me time.” Also, you’re less likely to cancel<br />
if you’re letting a friend down.<br />
• Set achievable goals, like losing 2-3 kg<br />
per month. It doesn’t seem like much at the<br />
time but then six months pass, <strong>and</strong> you’ve<br />
lost 12 kg, which is amazing. Also, it leaves<br />
room for relaxing <strong>and</strong> indulging a bit.
-Kendria R. Johnson<br />
Step one: Research all the cities you want to see in<br />
Italy.<br />
Step two: Make an impossible list of ALL the things<br />
you want to do in Italy.<br />
Step three: Arrive in Italy <strong>and</strong> throw away your list.
ROMA, ITALIA (ROME, ITALY)<br />
I wanted to explore Italy on my own terms. I wanted<br />
to get lost in this country. I wanted my visit to be<br />
intentional but sporadic at the same time. I had 21 days<br />
to make this experience authentic <strong>and</strong> meaningful, so<br />
when I arrived in Rome, I discarded my list <strong>and</strong> went<br />
with my gut. I had to discard the preconceived order<br />
of things that I wanted in order to enjoy the journey<br />
instead of being fixated on checking things off on a list.<br />
I prepaid for my hotels in Rome, but I cancelled other<br />
hotels in certain areas <strong>and</strong> literally booked hotels based<br />
on places I wanted to go. With my new itinerary, I could<br />
trust the travel gods to lead me in the right direction.<br />
My list included Sorrento, Capri, Naples, Positano, <strong>and</strong><br />
the entire Amalfi Coast. However, on my second day in<br />
Rome, I knew I could only do one part of Italy, so I chose<br />
the North; Florence, Pisa, Venice, Siena, Milan <strong>and</strong> Lake<br />
Como.<br />
The best advice I have for virgin travellers to this country<br />
is to listen to local people or, if you have friends who<br />
have been to the country before, take any <strong>and</strong> all advice<br />
seriously. While purchasing your first train ticket in the<br />
heart of Rome, as soon as you choose the language to<br />
make the purchase, the kiosk recording actually says,<br />
“Beware of pickpockets.” I think that being aware<br />
makes it easier to avoid unpleasant situations. I was very<br />
careful where I placed my bags <strong>and</strong> even more careful<br />
about what was in my peripheral vision. Another good<br />
piece of advice is to not pay for private transportation<br />
to populated areas when trains <strong>and</strong> buses can take you<br />
there for a fraction of the price. For instance, taxis are<br />
convenient but not cheap. I paid 48 euros for my ride<br />
from the airport. Trains to <strong>and</strong> from the airport are 14<br />
euros. I paid 13-18 euros for each trip to central Florence<br />
before I learned how to ride the local transportation<br />
for two euros. Local buses <strong>and</strong> light rail trains are the<br />
cheapest <strong>and</strong> day passes are the best value. You can<br />
travel within the country to almost any major city in Italy<br />
for less than 99 euros by train. I can attest that the coach<br />
seats on the train feel exactly the same as first-class <strong>and</strong><br />
business seats.<br />
Surprisingly, you can be your own travel agent for Italy.<br />
You just need a good sense of who you are <strong>and</strong> a general<br />
idea of things you want to do. For example, if you are<br />
a wine connoisseur, a history buff, or a lover of art <strong>and</strong><br />
architecture, Italy has everything you could desire. Use<br />
third-party hotel booking websites that provide free<br />
cancellations <strong>and</strong> NO deposit to book hotel rooms.<br />
Befriend a local merchant. In a few of the older boutique<br />
hotels I stayed in, you have to return your hotel keys<br />
when you leave for the day. While exchanging my keys,<br />
I rambled excessively what I wanted to see while in<br />
Rome. For instance, I knew that the Colosseum in Rome
was the first thing on my agenda. The locals<br />
were quick to advise me to stay clear of scams,<br />
tourist traps, fake leather shops <strong>and</strong> inflated<br />
local restaurant prices. They told me where the<br />
best cafes are <strong>and</strong> the less expensive ways to<br />
“taste” local wines without paying for a glass.<br />
There are multiple tour companies that provide<br />
you with any type of tour you desire; walking<br />
tours, skip-the-line tours <strong>and</strong> exploration to<br />
parts unknown tours. Rome was not built in a<br />
day, but you can definitely see most of it in<br />
a van with air conditioning if you so choose.<br />
If you are a planner, there are many websites<br />
where you can book tours ahead of your trip.<br />
Or if you’re a last-minute Betty like me, you can<br />
walk up to any kiosk <strong>and</strong> book a tour. If your<br />
list includes the Vatican, the Sistine Chapel,<br />
Pompei, or Naples, there are specific tours or<br />
bulk tours that can get your boxes checked. Be<br />
prepared for long lines, the wait <strong>and</strong> vagrants<br />
that want to sell you everything! For foodies,<br />
you will love the idea of cooking classes which<br />
are like pop-up shops, so check the web or ask<br />
a local for the best ones in the area.<br />
Nightlife in Italian culture all depends on what<br />
you desire. I passed several nightclubs where<br />
you could hear music from a mile away, but I<br />
prefer drinking wine in cafes <strong>and</strong> bars after a<br />
night at the theatre. at St. Mark’s Church hosts<br />
La Boheme, Madame Butterfly, Carmen, <strong>and</strong><br />
other favourites playing May through October.<br />
Prices vary <strong>and</strong> can run up to 100 euros<br />
depending on the seats. I attended a ballet in<br />
the city for 25 euros. The following evening,<br />
I was serenaded by the Three Tenors in the<br />
Auditorium of Santo Stefano al Ponte Vecchio,<br />
an old church converted into a theatre east<br />
of Florence. I splurged on front row VIP seats<br />
for 55 euros <strong>and</strong> was actually selected for an<br />
impromptu waltz by one of the lead opera<br />
stars! It was the highlight of my weekend.<br />
To sum up my 21 days of exploring Italy, I got<br />
everything I wanted even if it was not on ‘the<br />
list.’ I enjoyed the impromptu experiences the<br />
most. I ate the best food Italy has to offer, rode<br />
trains through Bologna, Padova, San Giovanni<br />
<strong>and</strong> collected more sunsets from my hotel<br />
balcony in Florence. I cancelled my hotel in<br />
Milan because the Italians said that, “Milan is<br />
for shopping, not for a visit.” My last lesson<br />
to share is to come to Italy with a plan but be<br />
prepared to deviate from that plan. I was glad<br />
I discarded my list because just like my friend
said, “You have to visit Italy in parts, <strong>and</strong> you have to<br />
go more than once! Because there is so much to see,<br />
you will get lost.” I was glad I made the trip <strong>and</strong> can’t<br />
wait to get lost in Italy again sometime in the future.<br />
FLORENCE (FIRENZE)<br />
Firenze, in Italian, is the place where you get the best<br />
of both worlds. You see an immaculate city sprawled<br />
between amazing hilltops, while the rolling countryside<br />
is half an hour away. In one bus ride, you find the best<br />
vineyards, hiking trails, ancient ruins, church cathedrals,<br />
or seascapes this country inhabits. I judge the life of a<br />
city by the heartbeat<br />
of its city centre.<br />
The busier <strong>and</strong> more<br />
crowded the centre,<br />
the stronger the<br />
heartbeat. Once you<br />
arrive, you will quickly<br />
feel the vibration<br />
beating in Pienza!<br />
TUSCANY VIA<br />
SIENA, SAN<br />
GIMIGNANO, PISA<br />
Tuscany is a must for<br />
any traveller simply<br />
because it represents<br />
what locals call “Old<br />
Italy” while new cities<br />
like Milan are more<br />
modern <strong>and</strong> upbeat.<br />
If you are a “lazy”<br />
traveller like me, I<br />
enjoy long walks <strong>and</strong><br />
bike tours that engage<br />
me in the best view<br />
of the mountains,<br />
green trees <strong>and</strong><br />
vineyards. Travelling<br />
with an asthma pump,<br />
antihistamines <strong>and</strong><br />
nasal spray is what<br />
kept me stable enough to enjoy trees stoked inside<br />
the mountains. Living in the desert for four years,<br />
you forget what green looks like. The vistas of the<br />
mountains that backdropped the clouds <strong>and</strong> a pristine<br />
blue sky were worth the risk of an allergy flare-up for<br />
me.<br />
Siena is a small village in Tuscany, <strong>and</strong> I was drawn<br />
there by befriending a local cook at my hotel. She<br />
described it as an old town with fewer people. She<br />
almost made me think it was a secret village when she<br />
whispered it to me over breakfast. I spent less than<br />
six euros on a bus tour <strong>and</strong> was glad I listened that<br />
morning. The greenery literally takes your breath away.<br />
Pisa is not as elaborate as Florence or Rome, but if<br />
the Leaning Tower of Pisa is on your list, then, by all<br />
means, get your obligatory picture holding up the<br />
tower. It costs extra to go into the tower but again it’s<br />
up to you <strong>and</strong> what you want from the experience. I<br />
wasn’t at all interested in getting the picture that 1.3<br />
million tourists get every year. Instead, I opted to get<br />
the best gelato <strong>and</strong> buy a new bag.<br />
The village of San Gimignano is a Medieval town tucked<br />
quietly in the heart of Tuscany. If you love history <strong>and</strong><br />
antiques, this will be a good place to shop. Most of<br />
your tour guides are<br />
multilingual but check<br />
the fine print to make<br />
sure before you book.<br />
VENICE (VENEZIA)<br />
Venezia in Italian<br />
was an optional<br />
excursion before I<br />
arrived in Italy. Due to<br />
preconceived images<br />
in my head, I thought<br />
I already knew what<br />
was there because of<br />
television <strong>and</strong> movies<br />
I decided to take the<br />
train for a day trip <strong>and</strong><br />
confirm what I already<br />
thought I knew. I’m<br />
proud to confirm that<br />
my suspected images<br />
were correct. Venice<br />
is magical! When I<br />
first arrived, I saw<br />
the most beautiful<br />
cathedral right next<br />
to the train station,<br />
the Church of Saint<br />
Maria (La Iglesias<br />
de Santa Maria de<br />
Nazaret.) I went<br />
inside to underst<strong>and</strong> what the lines were for <strong>and</strong> the<br />
architecture, the paintings, the crisp spiritual statues of<br />
the Arch Angels made me gasps <strong>and</strong> swoon. Although<br />
it could have been the heat, I still say it was the beauty<br />
of the building that gave me life.<br />
The city on water is epically breathtaking! Transportation<br />
around the city varies, but it is the best way to get a<br />
complete visual of Venice. The gondolas are private<br />
tours, water taxis take you to specific places, while<br />
water buses take large groups to general locations<br />
around the city. Do what fits your budget <strong>and</strong> tastes. I<br />
l<strong>and</strong>ed inside a café by the centre, where I had the best
lasagne of my entire life. Most<br />
times, we are underwhelmed<br />
when reality meets anticipation,<br />
but for this city in the sea, I was<br />
not disappointed.<br />
LAKE COMO<br />
The best scenery I was enamoured<br />
within northern Italy was a city<br />
along a lake, Lake Como. I was<br />
lost in the mountains by the lake.<br />
You would find yourself distracted<br />
in this city, not knowing where<br />
your time went. For example, I<br />
went to Bellagio for a quick lunch<br />
<strong>and</strong> day trip. The ferry ran every<br />
hour; some ran every half an hour.<br />
I squ<strong>and</strong>ered the day before<br />
I realised that I only had two<br />
ferries left to catch before it was<br />
dinner time. I missed one trying<br />
to purchase souvenirs, so I sat by<br />
the water in a hook around the<br />
hill from the ferry stop. I gazed<br />
a long while before realizing that<br />
45 minutes had passed, <strong>and</strong> my<br />
ferry was about to depart. It’s that<br />
easy to get lost in the cinematic<br />
beauty of the lake. Visiting is a<br />
must for travellers who want a<br />
break from the big, fast city.<br />
MILAN<br />
I was not excited to leave Lake<br />
Como. Maybe it was the sadness<br />
of it being my last three days in<br />
Italy that broke me or maybe it<br />
was just getting lost in downtown<br />
Milan. I spent my last day in Italy<br />
crying in a metro station because<br />
I wasn’t on the right train. The<br />
lost in translation conversation<br />
steered me towards the wrong<br />
stop in the wrong direction, so I<br />
went one hour trying to find my<br />
way back to Central Station. I am<br />
usually very confident <strong>and</strong> travel<br />
savvy, but it was hot, I was tired,<br />
<strong>and</strong> I didn’t eat breakfast that<br />
day. I don’t think my neurons<br />
were firing correctly. I cried for<br />
almost fifteen minutes before a<br />
bus driver gave me the “correct”<br />
route to get back to the middle<br />
of the city. The moral of this<br />
encounter is that you have to<br />
pay close attention to details<br />
before you leave your comfort<br />
zone. Research your maps, train<br />
schedules <strong>and</strong> bus routes options<br />
before checking out of your<br />
hotel. Get all your train tickets<br />
<strong>and</strong> flight info before you pack<br />
<strong>and</strong> have to drag your luggage<br />
<strong>and</strong> hour <strong>and</strong> a half in the wrong<br />
direction in the middle of a hot<br />
Italian summer.<br />
I love Italy.<br />
Ciao<br />
ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />
Kendria R. Johnson is a<br />
teacher, traveller, public<br />
speaker, author, mother <strong>and</strong><br />
life coach.<br />
Her mission in life is to<br />
motivate, to inspire, teach,<br />
<strong>and</strong> to leave this as a legacy.<br />
A recently self-published<br />
author, her memoir, “Fat<br />
Meat Ain’t Greasy,” tells the<br />
story of her strength, struggle<br />
<strong>and</strong> strives for achievement.<br />
“I want my life to mean<br />
something <strong>and</strong> to let anyone<br />
who knew me underst<strong>and</strong><br />
God <strong>and</strong> the power of His<br />
love through my time here on<br />
Earth.
A Hitchhiker’s Guide<br />
TO TRAVELLING THE WORLD.<br />
BY: JUHU REZNICKOVA
I started my travel adventure about four-<strong>and</strong>-ahalf<br />
years ago when a friend asked me if I wanted<br />
to go to a hitchhiking championship. Until then, I<br />
had given hitchhiking a try once in Spain, without<br />
success. I have always enjoyed doing weird<br />
<strong>and</strong> funny things like riding the subway with no<br />
pants on, giving out free hugs or dancing with<br />
r<strong>and</strong>om people. Me saying yes to a hitchhiking<br />
championship was a start of something marvellous<br />
in my life. We were supposed to hitchhike from<br />
Prague, The Czech Republic to Athens, Greece<br />
<strong>and</strong> complete some challenges on the way such<br />
as cooking a local meal or milking a sheep. My<br />
friend <strong>and</strong> I have hitchhiked from Prague to<br />
Athens <strong>and</strong> back (4.500km) in five-<strong>and</strong>-a-half<br />
days, which made us the winners. Since then, I<br />
knew this would become my passion <strong>and</strong> later<br />
my lifestyle. I took part in nine travel competitions<br />
since then <strong>and</strong> won four of them such as Swiss<br />
hitchhiking championship, Low-Cost race or<br />
Hungarian championship in hitchhiking. It<br />
created the most amazing memories I could have<br />
ever hoped for. That’s why I decided to go on a<br />
trip around the world. I have been travelling for<br />
eight months now without a break <strong>and</strong> in total<br />
have visited about 63 countries.<br />
It took me on a journey of hitchhiking planes,<br />
boats, police cars, trains, soldiers, firefighters,<br />
even piloting a plane or a subway. The journey<br />
of hitchhiking through 14 countries with a 2kg<br />
bag in 10 just days, made me a yes woman -<br />
saying yes to any question <strong>and</strong> doing all sorts<br />
of adventures even when I didn’t feel like it at<br />
first. I ended up dying my hair, attending over<br />
20 foreign weddings, christenings, seeing<br />
awesome festivals all over the world, fishing,<br />
dancing on stage with famous b<strong>and</strong>s or dancing<br />
on top of trucks, cooking at a Michelin star<br />
restaurant, tracking gorillas in Africa, hitchhiking<br />
an armoured transport vehicle, <strong>and</strong> even a<br />
freaking hot air balloon in Malaysia! I have also<br />
survived a boat catastrophe when the engine<br />
stopped working as well as the boat’s helmet in<br />
the middle of the sea.<br />
I slept in the most amazing places you could<br />
imagine, countless rooftops, police stations, in<br />
prison, on farms, at the houses of locals, in cars,<br />
by the road, in tents. I woke up at gas stations,<br />
near river banks, on boats, planes, or to a llama<br />
looking straight into my face. I have been to<br />
luxury villas as well as the houses of the poorest<br />
people. I have slept at a bakery in Georgia or<br />
different beaches around the world.
I volunteered in various parts of<br />
Africa <strong>and</strong> helped to establish sex<br />
education as a curriculum subject<br />
in a school in Tanzania. I have<br />
volunteered at an elephant shelter<br />
in Sri Lanka, constructed buildings<br />
in Malaysia, taught English to adults<br />
in Thail<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> helped with social<br />
media in Laos. At the moment I am<br />
volunteering at a hostel in Osaka,<br />
Japan, with the most amazing<br />
people from all around the world.<br />
I still have many dreams to fulfil<br />
ahead of me. Such as riding<br />
an ostrich, hitchhiking a NASA<br />
spacecraft or a submarine.<br />
The reason I blog about everything<br />
is to show people the possibilities<br />
they have. To demonstrate that they<br />
themselves can go out there <strong>and</strong><br />
live their lives to the fullest. That<br />
they can also be living their dreams.<br />
I try to motivate my followers to<br />
step out of their comfort zones,<br />
show them that travelling does not<br />
necessarily require tons of money<br />
<strong>and</strong> help them take the first steps in<br />
their hitchhiking stories.<br />
I believe that anything is possible as<br />
long as you just go after it <strong>and</strong> don’t<br />
give up at the first signs of failure.<br />
Even after failing for the 20th time,<br />
you still keep on trying, <strong>and</strong> it just<br />
WILL work out the way you want.<br />
<strong>About</strong> the Author<br />
Juhu Reznickova is a 28-year-old teacher<br />
who earned a Bachelor’s degree in English<br />
Language, Literature <strong>and</strong> Pedagogy <strong>and</strong><br />
a Masters in Pedagogy from Charles<br />
University.<br />
She enjoys travelling, making videos,<br />
taking pics <strong>and</strong> motivating others. She is<br />
also a big cat lover. Jahu speaks English,<br />
Czech <strong>and</strong> Spanish.<br />
Follow Jahu’s journey around the world<br />
Instagram: @gingerthunder_kolemsveta<br />
Website: www.gingerthunder.cz<br />
Facebook: Ginger Thunder Travels
OF PERSONAL<br />
REINVENTION<br />
AND THE<br />
MILLENNIAL<br />
WOMAN
Reinvention – aptly described by a quick Google search<br />
as “the action or process through which something is<br />
changed so much that it appears to be entirely new.”<br />
Today’s millennial woman is seemingly always looking<br />
for something to change about herself as prompted by<br />
key learnings from what I like to call “adulting.” Our<br />
microwave generation wants what it wants now, <strong>and</strong><br />
all that we want must come sprinkled with all forms of<br />
glitter <strong>and</strong> the promise of emancipation from whatever’s<br />
plaguing us.<br />
Who doesn’t want the high that comes with experiencing<br />
new things, new beginnings <strong>and</strong> momentous<br />
celebrations that have us snapping our fingers <strong>and</strong><br />
screaming “Yaaas!!!” every which way we turn!? Let’s<br />
face it; the utopian woman is currently basking in the<br />
endless euphoria of being hugely exposed to more<br />
opportunities to redesign our lives than ever before – if<br />
only we believe this to be true for us!<br />
A few years ago, I made the intentional decision to<br />
change my life – completely – because quite frankly, I<br />
was done doing life on the mediocre train. My career,<br />
my social capital (the friendship circle), the endless<br />
ideas milling through my mind waiting on me to make<br />
decisions for when to execute them, the country I was<br />
going to live in – all of it. I wanted a change, <strong>and</strong> I<br />
wanted it as early as I could get it – legally.<br />
You know how it goes; we want to get rid of stretch<br />
marks after rapid weight loss or post-delivery, <strong>and</strong><br />
so we find ourselves in the skincare aisle at the<br />
neighbourhood supermarket, trying to figure out<br />
whether the concentrated cocoa butter or aloe vera will<br />
do.<br />
For someone else, maybe it’s a quest for global<br />
exploration <strong>and</strong> holidaying at exotic destinations<br />
because these travel blogs <strong>and</strong> influencer Instagram<br />
pages really have a way of making us wish we could<br />
pack a bag <strong>and</strong> venture out to places uncharted at<br />
the blink of an eye <strong>and</strong> the swipe of a credit card.<br />
Nevermind the “10 tips to getting him to fall in love<br />
with you” blogs that populate our feeds the minute<br />
we hit “sign-in” to whichever platform tickles our<br />
fancy. Someone is always feeding us images that<br />
capture the imagination <strong>and</strong> peddling our ideas<br />
of how we should look, feel, what we should<br />
eat <strong>and</strong> what’s the coolest fad to absorb in our<br />
current season. But what do we want? What<br />
do we really want, <strong>and</strong> how do we get it?<br />
We want to love <strong>and</strong> be loved, to enjoy<br />
doors swinging wide open in every<br />
building we dare enter, to catch<br />
flights <strong>and</strong> not feelings, to be able<br />
to pursue whatever endeavour<br />
<strong>and</strong> the why. But we also know that life is one of those<br />
funny things that we don’t always have control over.<br />
Situations get complicated. People can be weird. The<br />
coins don’t stretch longer than the month runs… <strong>and</strong><br />
so on. When all is said, <strong>and</strong> done <strong>and</strong> the pages have<br />
been turned, we are still to ask ourselves how positive<br />
change can happen for us for the better.<br />
Why is it important to actively pursue reward <strong>and</strong><br />
comprehension of our needs so that we can be<br />
better? How much grind will it take before we can truly<br />
experience a fast-evolving yet exciting life characterised<br />
by authentic, transformational experiences that have us<br />
smiling at ourselves because well… life is good.<br />
As a Publicist <strong>and</strong> Communications Strategist, beyond<br />
helping corporates raise their br<strong>and</strong> equity, I get to<br />
work with many aspiring female entrepreneurs who<br />
carry numerous ideas but aren’t sure about how getting<br />
started will impact them. Mentoring young women<br />
challenges me to draw from the mistakes I made in<br />
my younger years of thinking that if I dreamed a thing<br />
without particularly fighting for it, it would eventually<br />
come to pass. In our sessions, I provoke them to think<br />
through a host of questions that should help them<br />
underst<strong>and</strong> their motives for wanting to redesign their<br />
lives – or br<strong>and</strong>s.<br />
“How do I reinvent myself?”<br />
“What does a do-over mean for me?”<br />
“Who’s staying behind <strong>and</strong> who’s joining me on the<br />
transitional road ahead?”<br />
How long will this process take <strong>and</strong> what are the<br />
outcomes for such drastic changes?”<br />
So many questions. Allow me to share my five<br />
overtly basic tips for getting it together <strong>and</strong> pursuing<br />
reinvention in your life <strong>and</strong>/or your hustle.
1. Changing oneself requires a great deal of introspection<br />
<strong>and</strong> acceptance of the things that you aren’t particularly chuffed<br />
about.<br />
You can’t change what you don’t confront. Losing that weight won’t<br />
happen for you until you accept that you no longer fit in those size<br />
six jeans you wore all through your 20s. If you’re going at your 8-5<br />
with minimal enthusiasm, perhaps it may be a good time to think<br />
about whether you really enjoy your job, <strong>and</strong> if not, asking yourself<br />
the reasons for staying. Is the money worth the misery? Could it be<br />
an outlook thing or a departmental transfer that may get you back<br />
on track to actually liking where you are spending 8-10 hours a day?<br />
You get where I’m going with this.<br />
2. Your life’s reinvention will involve sacrifice. No boxer ever<br />
won a fight without hours <strong>and</strong> hours of training. Any CEO will tell<br />
you about the tens of thous<strong>and</strong>s of hours it took them to reach the<br />
top. This is before they get into how, after reaching the top, they<br />
realise that it’s quite lonely up there <strong>and</strong> carries a great deal of<br />
responsibility. Eeek! Getting out of debt will require you to cut the<br />
brunches <strong>and</strong> get off the online stores. Change requires sacrifice;<br />
sacrifice breeds victory! Are you willing to suffer for a little while to<br />
reach your finish line?
3. Own your mess; rewrite your narrative. I struggled to get<br />
myself together because I blamed everything <strong>and</strong> everyone for the<br />
stuff I wasn’t happy about. If it wasn’t the economy it was the political<br />
situation in my country which affected the economy, which resulted in<br />
my being out here as a Zimbabwean living far away from my family <strong>and</strong><br />
missing birthdays <strong>and</strong> so on. Yeah…eventually, excuses should run out.<br />
That’s what being a grown-up means. It means owning the mess we<br />
find ourselves in <strong>and</strong> rewriting our story through the actions we take<br />
to get out from under our excuses <strong>and</strong> self-pity. Own your mess <strong>and</strong><br />
consider the points I made in my first point. Accept <strong>and</strong> introspect.<br />
4. Of social capital <strong>and</strong> choosing your connections wisely. There<br />
are a bunch of people milling around <strong>and</strong> doing life with no plan. Don’t<br />
be found among them. Social audits are critical for ascertaining who<br />
in your life are dead weight, mooches, motivators <strong>and</strong> cultivators of<br />
your gifts. As the adage goes, if you catch yourself the smartest one<br />
in a group – #EVERY.SINGLE.TIME – it may be time cut <strong>and</strong> replace.<br />
Nurture relationships that allow your brightest light to shine while you<br />
too make a difference in the lives of the people you are connected to.<br />
If it is to do with your business, be clear about who you will take on<br />
as clients <strong>and</strong> what business is good to walk away from. Yes, we need<br />
people, but we can’t serve everyone effectively all the time. There is<br />
also such a thing as bad business, <strong>and</strong> it usually has sketchy people<br />
behind it.
5. Lights, camera, action! My profession has me<br />
enjoying the arduous task of putting together plans for<br />
the br<strong>and</strong>s we present, listing our set of objectives before<br />
formulating our strategy. Basically, the “what” <strong>and</strong> the<br />
“how” are quintessential elements for any campaign to<br />
be a success. As I mentor women, I ask them what they<br />
are doing or what they want to do, <strong>and</strong> how they intend<br />
on getting the things they’ve listed done. Then we create<br />
an action plan. Without execution, a goal can be likened<br />
to a wish.<br />
For your life to change, put together a plan of the things<br />
you desire to see manifest then draft your action plan<br />
which can be as basic as: “To save $500 dollars a month<br />
for the next 3 months, I will eat out once a week <strong>and</strong> make<br />
home-cooked meals; I will go out only once a month, <strong>and</strong><br />
I will have my hair braided as opposed to buying a new<br />
wig.” Sounds basic I know, but those are literally the most<br />
rudimentary strategies I’ve employed for getting out of<br />
debt, authoring books, building on my skillset so I could<br />
pursue better growth opportunities, getting into better<br />
shape – <strong>and</strong> so on.<br />
Reinvention – “the action or process through which<br />
something is changed so much that it appears to be<br />
entirely new.” It won’t come without the decision to<br />
pursue it, or subsequent actions that will constitute your<br />
do-over. What bit do you need to be reflecting upon,<br />
revisiting <strong>and</strong> realigning for a better <strong>and</strong> more wellbalanced<br />
you?<br />
Yvonne Chiedza Mtengwa is an international speaker,<br />
Amazon best-selling author <strong>and</strong> the Co-founder of<br />
Quintessential F, a testimonial-based blog <strong>and</strong> movement that<br />
seeks to inspire <strong>and</strong> empower women to find their authentic<br />
selves through spiritual growth <strong>and</strong> affirmation. Passionate<br />
about the issues that affect young women, she has in recent<br />
years taken to chronicling her experiences when mentoring<br />
women, also hosting inspired meet-up collaborative events<br />
for women under the #QFCoffeebreaks <strong>and</strong> Quintessential F<br />
Power Brunch banners across Southern Africa.<br />
Yvonne recently launched the Reinvented series of events,<br />
inspired by her desire to connect <strong>and</strong> empower readers<br />
of her book “Reinvented: Challenging insecurity to live<br />
authentically through faith,” <strong>and</strong> is actively developing her<br />
Reinvented Today br<strong>and</strong> which seeks to empower women<br />
to transition into their next level best across all areas of their<br />
lives.<br />
Yvonne is also the Founder <strong>and</strong> Managing Consultant<br />
for Narratives Inc., a boutique Br<strong>and</strong> Development &<br />
Communications Consultancy offering a host of social media<br />
<strong>and</strong> conventional media related services for women-owned<br />
<strong>and</strong> led initiatives, SMEs <strong>and</strong> br<strong>and</strong>s across multiple sectors.<br />
Narratives Inc.’s formation was inspired by Yvonne’s vast<br />
experience as a Marketing & Communications strategist,<br />
with a professional career spanning 15 years across the<br />
U.S.A., Southern Africa, UAE <strong>and</strong> greater GCC markets. She<br />
hopes to one day run a media firm that services Africa’s fastevolving<br />
entrepreneurial scene.<br />
A lover of all things travel, lifestyle <strong>and</strong> immersive experiences,<br />
in her spare time, Yvonne enjoys spending some quality time<br />
with her husb<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> two children. Yvonne currently resides<br />
in Abu Dhabi.
SPORTING<br />
WITH<br />
CONTEMPORARY<br />
CULTURE
The public drama of contemporary life <strong>and</strong> organised sports<br />
are hallmarks for a mysteriously grinding routine. These<br />
two entities of modern life <strong>and</strong> culture are saturated with<br />
unfathomable emotion, relentless mental shrewdness, <strong>and</strong><br />
tied in with an enormous level of physical exertion. Sports are<br />
played <strong>and</strong> watched with eagle-eyed precision all over the<br />
world with unwavering partisanship <strong>and</strong> passion. The obvious<br />
charm for sports in the modern era is laced with enormous<br />
avenues for revenue, personal gains <strong>and</strong> patriotism.<br />
Additionally, the advent of technology has also made<br />
sporting competitions more alluring in the public domain<br />
with unprompted moments of pure action <strong>and</strong> instinctual<br />
performances; sports are always entrenched in long chains<br />
of storylines <strong>and</strong> mouth-dropping statistics. Sports are at<br />
every turn <strong>and</strong> connected in structures of power, both on<br />
personal <strong>and</strong> collective levels. Athletes, such as footballers<br />
or swimmers have this capricious ability to coerce their<br />
bodies to intertwine with their spirit to produce out of this<br />
world performances; <strong>and</strong> owners of teams use their resolve<br />
of financial clout to overpower their opponents; armies of<br />
fans use their vociferous vocal chords <strong>and</strong> lusty pride to drive<br />
their favourite individual athlete or dauntless team to victory<br />
with a swarm of cheers. For any intellectual concerned with<br />
how modern life works, sports offers a splendidly unusual<br />
platform for the embodiment of pop culture <strong>and</strong> institutional<br />
forces which blankets how sports has changed our lives as a<br />
modern society.<br />
Sports, such as athletics <strong>and</strong> football (soccer)<br />
have both brought the world together <strong>and</strong><br />
picked it apart; we see super athletes compete<br />
for the coveted awards of being considered the<br />
G.O.A.T. (Greatest of All Times). Sure enough,<br />
sports has a dark side to it, with the pressures<br />
of maintaining high levels of performance <strong>and</strong><br />
more often than not sweeping expectations,<br />
athletes <strong>and</strong> fans alike engage in the dark arts of<br />
uncouth <strong>and</strong> uncivilised behaviours. Advanced<br />
drug testing has the capability to sieve out the<br />
most microscopic <strong>and</strong> hard to trace performance<br />
enhancers more than at any other time in the<br />
history of mankind; of course, fans <strong>and</strong> insatiably<br />
hypnotic gamblers may put their future on the<br />
proverbial line to reign in the major odds on<br />
betting extravaganzas. Hence, why are sports<br />
different in the postmodern world from the<br />
generations that existed before us? How can<br />
such a set of routines be so divisive, entertaining<br />
<strong>and</strong> unifying in the same instance? Have sports<br />
evolved for the betterment of society, or is it the<br />
gateway to the modern era’s greatest curse?<br />
Ever since the Athens Olympics in 1896, the<br />
world has immersed itself in its attention to<br />
sports. It has transcended the world’s affairs<br />
even in times of political <strong>and</strong> social upheavals,<br />
most notably the World Wars <strong>and</strong> countless<br />
global recessions <strong>and</strong> depressions. Beyond all<br />
the problems that have been thrown up over<br />
the existing periods, the global audience was<br />
always satisfied with the routines that “human<br />
gods” were able to perform under sometimes<br />
strenuous circumstances. Take for instance<br />
Donald Bradman averaging an unimaginable<br />
99.94 runs per innings in test cricket on playing<br />
surfaces reminiscent of l<strong>and</strong>mines which in of<br />
itself robbed the greatest batsman of all times.<br />
Likewise, people were given a break from<br />
the hardships <strong>and</strong> turmoil, when tuned in to<br />
boxing greats like Muhammad Ali <strong>and</strong> George<br />
Foreman. They used their immaculate technical<br />
fighting skills to create one of the greatest<br />
boxing renditions of all times; “The rumble in<br />
the jungle” in Zaire which was later renamed the<br />
Democratic Republic of Congo. These sporting<br />
greats did what others couldn’t <strong>and</strong> dared to<br />
reach heights mere mortals wouldn’t. Sports<br />
then was the opium of the people, releasing<br />
chemicals like serotonin in the bloodstream of<br />
the pre-modern society as a series of events to<br />
take minds <strong>and</strong> hearts out of the mayhem which
was all around them.<br />
Fast-forward a couple of decades down, <strong>and</strong><br />
we will see how sports took another turn in<br />
the morality <strong>and</strong> social consciousness of the<br />
society. Sports as always were still seen as the<br />
heights of entertainment, but there was a real<br />
sense that these series of events should not<br />
only be about patronage <strong>and</strong> pride; they should<br />
be the launching pad for the new world order<br />
which was capitalism. Just like the days of the<br />
Roman Empire where the currency of a gladiator<br />
was in his very right to keep oxygen whistling<br />
through his lungs, so were sports in the late<br />
1970s transforming the culture of the world<br />
from athletes being more patriotic to athletes<br />
being more economically sustainable. Hence,<br />
sports became one of the main driving forces<br />
for the concept of corporate life <strong>and</strong> capitalism.<br />
Athletes became br<strong>and</strong> ambassadors, crossed<br />
over into movies, music <strong>and</strong> art. Athletes like<br />
Michael Jordan, Bruce Jenner, Michel Platini,<br />
<strong>and</strong> Larry Bird among others became cult heroes<br />
<strong>and</strong> celebrities for their mercurial talents, <strong>and</strong><br />
the envy of the common man because of their<br />
serial wealth.<br />
Consequently, like any faculty of life, you<br />
can think of, once there is an influx of money,<br />
there will be unparalleled levels of corruption<br />
<strong>and</strong> deceit. Athletes, in many cases, used<br />
cunningness to prolong their ability to perform<br />
at a high level long after their expiry dates <strong>and</strong><br />
shelf life. Take, for instance, Marion Jones, Lance<br />
Armstrong, <strong>and</strong> Diego Maradona among others<br />
who had prodigious talent, but felt the need<br />
to explore other ways to stay competitive <strong>and</strong><br />
relevant as long as the stimulants could not be<br />
detected. Similarly, fans <strong>and</strong> gamblers took it<br />
upon themselves to create wealth through risky<br />
<strong>and</strong> sometimes unceremonious deeds. These<br />
individuals, along with gambling outlets, placed<br />
families in dire straps as some people put their<br />
houses on the line in an attempt to gain another.<br />
The story of the greedy dog that lost his own<br />
bone to steal from his own image is water under<br />
the bridge. This very act is a testimony to the<br />
dark side to life that sports exposed. So has<br />
sports been a blessing or a curse to modern pop<br />
culture?<br />
Today, the money that is being offered to athletes<br />
is astronomical <strong>and</strong> to be quite fair in judgment<br />
borderline ludicrous! Floyd Mayweather for a<br />
15-minute fight made more money against a<br />
Japanese opponent than half the budget to pay teachers in<br />
Jamaica. It was borderline obscene that a basketball player<br />
such as Stephan Curry signed a 200 million-plus max contract<br />
for five years just to shoot balls beyond the arc. For football<br />
players such as Mesut Ozil to be raking in approximately 350<br />
thous<strong>and</strong> pounds per week just to make cute passes with a<br />
football. All this is happening while people are dying with<br />
preexisting conditions that these sums of money paid out to<br />
athletes could easily have been the catalyst for some of the<br />
worlds most needed health expeditions.<br />
Similarly, in all of the pontifications of the world’s loudest<br />
voices in sports <strong>and</strong> accompanying sectors, sports for what<br />
it is worth has lost its zest to marketing <strong>and</strong> promotions.<br />
Agents are in constant battles to find the next big player;<br />
fewer resources <strong>and</strong> attention are placed on quality <strong>and</strong><br />
more efficacies are placed on stars flooding the world’s<br />
consciousness. The broad view is that athletes are more alert<br />
to setting a firm foundation for their future <strong>and</strong> family rather<br />
than focusing on the true value <strong>and</strong> purpose of entertainment.<br />
Gone are the days when a team lost a match, <strong>and</strong> there was<br />
a fire in the belly of the losing team to make right what went<br />
wrong in defeat. Nowadays, the losing teams more times
than we can think of are making more financial gains from<br />
losing than winning; illuminating the dark arts that prevail in<br />
the glossy eyes of sports.<br />
Even though sports have changed our cultural consciousness<br />
across the test of time, it is important to note that the<br />
underground sightings of misgivings <strong>and</strong> misdemeanours<br />
have waltzed their way into the dilapidation of the morals<br />
that were once the deep roots holding our global society<br />
together. The public <strong>and</strong> private deviance that are associated<br />
with sports have catapulted us out of the realm of morality<br />
among other aspects of our social life, such as music <strong>and</strong><br />
art. These aspects of our lives have sent us as far back into<br />
the reality of how backwards we are as modern people<br />
even if we are wealthier than any other time in the human<br />
life index. Sports have evolved tremendously throughout<br />
the generations, but, it is quite evident that it has also been<br />
complicit in the erosion of the social fabric of postmodern<br />
life. It has opened the eyes to the animal nature of human<br />
beings to sort quick fixes, short cuts <strong>and</strong> backstabs.<br />
To sum up, with every ten steps forward, know that we are<br />
moving backwards morally as a society. When there is an<br />
absence of money, there is an everlasting note that there is a<br />
platform for morality <strong>and</strong> positive purpose. Gone are the days<br />
when sporting activities were done for solely the love, the<br />
patronage <strong>and</strong> the pride for one’s craft, self, family, country<br />
<strong>and</strong> the world. In the era of advancements in technology<br />
<strong>and</strong> gargantuan salaries for a variety of sports stars, these<br />
historically practised routines are locked into capitalist points<br />
of view littered with the magical ambience of marketing <strong>and</strong><br />
promotions. Anybody can sell a dream, but not everybody<br />
has the capacity to make a dream a reality. Sports has tapped<br />
into every emotion humanly possible, but with vastly little to<br />
no inquest, modern culture sports the ideas that the current<br />
pop culture has disintegrated morally but has exploded<br />
financially. Therefore if pop culture has evolved; around<br />
which alluring set of circumstances has it revolved?<br />
JEROME<br />
DOUGLAS<br />
ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />
Jerome Douglas is a 26-year old trained<br />
teacher, poet <strong>and</strong> writer from the beautiful<br />
isl<strong>and</strong> of Jamaica. His personal philosophy is<br />
“If it is for me to be, then it is up to me.” He<br />
attended the Catholic College of M<strong>and</strong>eville<br />
in Jamaica. Additionally, he is a community<br />
builder <strong>and</strong> humanitarian who volunteers his<br />
time to help with the academic <strong>and</strong> social<br />
well-being of people in his Central Jamaica<br />
community <strong>and</strong> surrounding areas.
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