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Issue 8 Volume 1<br />

September 2019


Quote<br />

of<br />

M onth<br />

the<br />

Everyone has talent.<br />

What’s rare is the<br />

courage to follow it to<br />

the dark places where<br />

it leads.<br />

~ Erica Jong


www.out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />

marsha@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />

Contributing Editor<br />

Jelena Borojevic<br />

editor@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />

sales@out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com<br />

www.out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com


Editor’s<br />

Welcome back to another<br />

inspiring edition of<br />

<strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>. This month has<br />

been another journey into<br />

discovering amazing new<br />

talent, being inspired by<br />

people from around the<br />

world, <strong>and</strong> collecting the<br />

best fashion <strong>and</strong> health tips<br />

available!<br />

In this issue we get a little<br />

lovey-dovey with matching<br />

his <strong>and</strong> her styles, reinstate<br />

the importance of skincare<br />

<strong>and</strong> dental hygiene,<br />

consider the importance<br />

of underst<strong>and</strong>ing diabetes,<br />

work on improving our<br />

diet <strong>and</strong> fitness, meet an<br />

extraordinary woman who<br />

is working to further the<br />

importance of education<br />

in the UAE, <strong>and</strong> an up <strong>and</strong><br />

coming rapper who wants<br />

to use his talent to benefit<br />

a new generation, explore<br />

the current state of culture<br />

<strong>and</strong> receive a beautiful<br />

travel diary of Italy.<br />

We start this issue with<br />

the fashion story of Galyna<br />

Fedyuk, a classy lady from<br />

the Ukraine who has a<br />

passion for classic pieces,<br />

easy style combinations,<br />

<strong>and</strong> the power to use<br />

fashion to bring out her<br />

own uniqueness <strong>and</strong> that of<br />

her clients.<br />

We then give you seven<br />

great ideas for swapping<br />

clothes <strong>and</strong> accessories<br />

with your partner! Denim<br />

jackets, hats <strong>and</strong> sunglasses<br />

are just a few of the<br />

many things that you can<br />

borrow from your spouse’s<br />

wardrobe to complete your<br />

own style with a bit more<br />

edge.<br />

Of course, at <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />

<strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we<br />

never forget the importance<br />

of great skincare! Health is<br />

the most beautiful addition<br />

to any style, which is why<br />

we asked an esthetician<br />

to recommend the perfect<br />

routine for healthy <strong>and</strong><br />

moisturised skin. We also<br />

have a special feature on<br />

DIY facial serums that you<br />

can use to perfect the<br />

health <strong>and</strong> glow of your skin<br />

for a fraction of the price of<br />

expensive products. We<br />

then complete this section<br />

with DIY advice on how to<br />

get the perfect brightening<br />

smile every day!


We can never talk enough about the<br />

importance of education to help us further<br />

our potential <strong>and</strong> our underst<strong>and</strong>ing of the<br />

world! Leisa Grace Wilson shares with us her<br />

journey of developing Moftah Education - a<br />

br<strong>and</strong> that has grown to include magazines,<br />

websites, <strong>and</strong> conferences to help people<br />

in the UAE <strong>and</strong> beyond to further their<br />

education, meet new people, <strong>and</strong> develop<br />

new skills.<br />

Our Talent Pool features up <strong>and</strong> coming<br />

rapper Minel Michael Fific, who describes<br />

how he managed to pursue his passion even<br />

though he has had to deal with a very difficult<br />

upbringing. Even more importantly, he is<br />

ready to use his talent <strong>and</strong> success to inspire<br />

<strong>and</strong> encourage other people to follow their<br />

dreams.<br />

And you know we always prioritise the health<br />

of our readers <strong>and</strong> their families! This is why<br />

we have made an effort to talk more openly<br />

about pre-diabetes <strong>and</strong> how it could influence<br />

your life. We discuss the possible risks, how<br />

to spot them, <strong>and</strong> how to avoid making the<br />

condition worse with wholesome advice <strong>and</strong><br />

educated tips.<br />

Thinking about trying a gluten-free diet? We<br />

have a great section about the gluten-free<br />

lifestyle, how it can benefit you, <strong>and</strong> how to<br />

properly live it. We each have unique bodies,<br />

<strong>and</strong> we should certainly have diets that make<br />

us feel <strong>and</strong> function to the best of our abilities,<br />

but there are a few mutual diet tips which we<br />

can all benefit from!<br />

Speaking of diets, we also give you some<br />

great tips on how you can help your body eat<br />

the right foods so that hunger will no longer<br />

be an issue that you will have to deal with<br />

when you are trying to live the healthiest life<br />

possible!<br />

We finish off this section with a calming cup<br />

of tea! Indeed, we discuss the health <strong>and</strong><br />

fitness benefits of tea <strong>and</strong> how including this<br />

beverage into your daily life can help you to<br />

stay hydrated, focused, <strong>and</strong> much more!<br />

Yummy Mommy is back with Jennifer<br />

Stelco, who shares her diet <strong>and</strong> fitness tips<br />

for strength, endurance, concentration <strong>and</strong><br />

family balance. We are particularly inspired<br />

by her post-pregnancy tips to help new moms<br />

get back into their ideal form <strong>and</strong> keep them<br />

strong for their new bundle of joy!<br />

We get a little w<strong>and</strong>erlust in our travel section<br />

as Kendria R. Johnson helps us to get lost in<br />

the beauty <strong>and</strong> culture of Italy through her<br />

own experience. There are some truly golden<br />

tips here for travellers to Italy! Then, we get a<br />

little wild with Juhu Reznickova’s description<br />

of a hitchhiker’s lifestyle. Phew! It’s not for<br />

everyone, but it is quite an adventure to read<br />

about!<br />

Our Culture section rounds up this issue with<br />

a serious look at personal reinvention <strong>and</strong><br />

the millennial woman by Yvonne Chiedza<br />

Mtengwa, as well as a look at contemporary<br />

culture through the eyes of Jerome Douglas.<br />

We are all trying to find our place in this world<br />

<strong>and</strong> do the best we can to help others, so I am<br />

always grateful when such important stories<br />

are told in <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />

We hope that this issue will bring you joy,<br />

knowledge, <strong>and</strong> inspiration to live the best<br />

life that you can possibly live <strong>and</strong> share this<br />

positive energy with the people you love!<br />

Stay true to yourself <strong>and</strong> stay kind!<br />

Please feel free to send us your feedback <strong>and</strong><br />

even ideas for topics that we could cover in<br />

the future!


SECTION 1<br />

FASHION<br />

• Fashion Feature<br />

• Galyna Fedyuk<br />

• 7 Fashion Items You Can Swap with Your Spouse!<br />

SECTION 2 BEAUTY<br />

• Makeup Madness with Katrina - Skincare for the Low!<br />

• DIY Teeth Whitening Hacks That Actually Work!<br />

• 5 DIY Facial Serums That Can Give Your Skin a New Life!<br />

SECTION 3<br />

BEHIND THE BRAND<br />

• Behind the Br<strong>and</strong> with Leisa Grace Wilson - Moftah Education<br />

SECTION 4<br />

TALENT POOL<br />

• Minel<br />

SECTION 5 LIFE<strong>STYLE</strong><br />

• Pre-Diabetes - Knowing Your Chances Reduces Your Risk<br />

FOOD<br />

• What You Need to Know <strong>About</strong> Gluten-Free Eating (<strong>and</strong> Recipes)<br />

• 15 Foods to Fool Hunger <strong>and</strong> How They Do It<br />

FITNESS<br />

• Can Tea Help to Improve Fitness? Here’s the Answer<br />

• Yummy Mommy - Jennifer Stelco<br />

SECTION 6 TRAVEL<br />

• How to Get Lost in Italy<br />

• A Hitchhiker’s Guide to Travelling the World.<br />

SECTION 7 FOR THE CULTURE<br />

• Of Personal Reinvention <strong>and</strong> the Millennial Woman<br />

• Sporting with Contemporary Culture


Fashion<br />

Galyna Fedyuk


My name is Galyna. I am<br />

37 years old <strong>and</strong> originally<br />

from Ukraine. I moved to<br />

Dubai almost 11 years ago<br />

to work in fashion. For the<br />

first three years, I worked in<br />

retail for Tom Ford <strong>and</strong> then<br />

for a Valentino boutique at<br />

a Dubai Mall. Apart from<br />

my love for fashion, I enjoy<br />

studying psychology <strong>and</strong><br />

energy as well as spending<br />

time with my friends <strong>and</strong><br />

family.


I believe style is a depiction of a person or a br<strong>and</strong>,<br />

something that makes you st<strong>and</strong> out from the crowd in your<br />

unique way - your signature. My style includes classic pieces,<br />

mostly because I love the more classy look. As a woman, it<br />

was natural for me to be interested in fashion <strong>and</strong> always<br />

wanting to look good. And yet, I could never live without<br />

jeans. When they are styled with a simple T-shirt <strong>and</strong> white<br />

trainers, they become my favourite go-to combination.<br />

Growing up, I always raided my mother’s wardrobe to find<br />

amazing things to wear <strong>and</strong> to an extent, I have stolen aspects<br />

of her style. My top five items that I always have on h<strong>and</strong><br />

are a white T-shirt, jeans, classy black sunglasses, pumps,<br />

<strong>and</strong> trainers. I also love to invest in beautiful jewellery <strong>and</strong><br />

vintage pieces. Instagram is my favourite place to showcase<br />

my style for the day <strong>and</strong> to find inspiration for future looks.<br />

Given the opportunity to style a woman in my favourite look,<br />

she would be wearing classic heel pumps with a little black<br />

dress, black sunglasses, an elegant watch, a classy clutch,<br />

<strong>and</strong> Chanel accessories to complete the look.<br />

My favourite beauty tip that I live by is<br />

THIS OR THAT?<br />

Lace or leather <br />

Cold shoulder or one shoulder <br />

Solid colours or prints?<br />

Flared or skinny jeans?<br />

Dresses or trousers<br />

Polka dots or stripes?<br />

Flats or heels?<br />

Metallic or pastel<br />

Hoops or studs<br />

Defined eyebrows or mascara<br />

Lipstick or foundation<br />

LEATHER<br />

ONE SHOULDER<br />

SOLID COLOURS<br />

SKINNY JEANS?<br />

DRESSES<br />

POLKA DOTS<br />

HEELS<br />

METALLIC<br />

STUDS<br />

DEFINED EYEBROWS<br />

FOUNDATION


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7 Fashion<br />

Items You Can<br />

with Your<br />

Wearing your husb<strong>and</strong>’s clothes<br />

seems like an unspoken taboo<br />

but don’t we all love to do that?<br />

Especially when nothing looks<br />

more appealing than pulling<br />

over his comfy tee, giving you<br />

all the more reason to embrace<br />

the warmth of your man, not to<br />

mention the manly-scent when<br />

he’s not around, totally guilt-free!<br />

If besties can share a wardrobe<br />

for a night out, why not swap a<br />

closet with your spouse? Not that<br />

he’s going to complain. There will<br />

probably be many hidden gems<br />

you are both unaware of. Make<br />

use of these seven clothing items<br />

we’ve put together in this post!


<strong>and</strong><br />

Seriously. Whether the two<br />

of you are off to a cricket or<br />

basketball match, you can<br />

both whip out baseball caps or<br />

bobble hats to wear on such<br />

sporty occasions. If he happens<br />

to own only one, no harm in<br />

sharing it for half the time each.<br />

To be honest, there are no rules<br />

when it comes to wearing caps.<br />

We personally find that these<br />

look very sexy on a woman.<br />

Plus, they serve as the perfect<br />

accessory for a bad hair day or<br />

for changing up your look!


He looks hot in denim? Remember, two can play this game! We<br />

believe style shouldn’t be concerned with the sex of a person:<br />

nowadays, fashion is mostly unisex anyway. As long as it looks good<br />

on you, wear it with confidence.<br />

A denim jacket is certainly great to up your game. Your man won’t<br />

question it as long as his wife’s looking swell! Denim jackets are<br />

versatile <strong>and</strong> can be worn at any time, any day with anything. Wear<br />

it with a plain, long black body-con dress or pull it off with a plain<br />

white T-shirt <strong>and</strong> denim jeans. Or, you can both go matchy-matchy<br />

as the picture shows.


The difference between sunglasses<br />

for men <strong>and</strong> women? Female<br />

sunglasses have much curvier frames.<br />

But, seriously. Nobody’s going to<br />

come that close <strong>and</strong> be able to tell<br />

if the frames are fit for a woman.<br />

Even sunglasses need to stop body<br />

shaming. Whether you’re a woman<br />

with curves or without - chin up <strong>and</strong><br />

wear your husb<strong>and</strong>’s sunnies. If he<br />

doesn’t pick holes in that, why would<br />

you, girl?<br />

If the glasses fit nicely <strong>and</strong> don’t<br />

look awkward, wear them <strong>and</strong> thank<br />

us later. Just so you know, gradientcoloured<br />

frames <strong>and</strong> aviator<br />

sunglasses are even better. Twinning<br />

them on the beach with your spouse<br />

may set you apart from the rest in a<br />

cute, smart way. Sun protection can<br />

be a couple’s thing, yeah?


Thank the Lord that Converse shoes are unisex<br />

<strong>and</strong> that your hubby is gentleman enough to<br />

lend you his pair (which he would, else the<br />

purpose of this post will be pointless.) Pray<br />

<strong>and</strong> hope you both have the same or similar<br />

shoe size. If they fit you (happy squealing),<br />

pair them with your favourite jeans, pants,<br />

or trousers. Also, they look bomb with long,<br />

flowy dresses <strong>and</strong> pleated skirts.<br />

Do your thing, <strong>and</strong> nobody will know it’s your<br />

husb<strong>and</strong>’s. Be sure not to get them dirty,<br />

since you know what a clean freak he can<br />

sometimes be.


Sweaters, Mufflers,<br />

<strong>and</strong> Socks<br />

Okay, we know we cheated<br />

a bit there ,but we’d like to<br />

clarify a few things. We’re<br />

pretty sure you both own a<br />

wardrobe brimming full of<br />

sweaters, socks, <strong>and</strong> mufflers<br />

that collect dust at the back.<br />

What do you do? Get those<br />

out, style <strong>and</strong> use them.<br />

Sweaters <strong>and</strong> mufflers aren’t<br />

the only wonderful options<br />

to protect yourself from the<br />

cold. You could still catch a<br />

cold with them on. Socks, on<br />

the other h<strong>and</strong>, are “musthaves”<br />

<strong>and</strong> nothing can go<br />

wrong with sharing a pair or<br />

two - since socks are pretty<br />

much concealed inside<br />

shoes.<br />

If you’re all about oversized<br />

sweaters, raiding your man’s<br />

wardrobe is the way to go,<br />

trust us! Pair them with<br />

pants! If you come upon a<br />

few turtlenecks, they look<br />

excellent with long skirts or<br />

loose casual maxis.


A white or striped T-shirt would do too, but a<br />

button-down is on its own level. Effortless <strong>and</strong><br />

chic as well as versatile! Plus, we’re certain there<br />

will be loads in your hubby’s wardrobe.<br />

or<br />

Button-Down Shirt<br />

You could style one with a nice pair of jeans, go<br />

white-on-white with contrasting or nude shoes, or<br />

tuck it into a skirt with a belt if it’s too loose.<br />

Also, high-waisted trousers can prove to be<br />

extremely spiffy to elegantly style the white<br />

button-down. This makes for one beautiful office<br />

look as well.


Surprise, surprise! Now, you can<br />

swap watches because the latest<br />

designs are unisex. Even if yours<br />

is not, don’t fret. Look for your<br />

partner’s leather strap watch, which<br />

makes for a perfect.... fashionable<br />

piece. Strap watches are dapperlooking<br />

<strong>and</strong> totally spruce up your<br />

wrist. I mean, there should be no<br />

restraints on swapping time, right?<br />

If there’s no leather strap, don’t<br />

let that stop you from stealing his<br />

chain wristwatch. We’d say both<br />

would go, depending on how you<br />

dress them up or dress them down<br />

- for a more feminine touch, laden<br />

your fingers with rings <strong>and</strong> steel<br />

bracelets.<br />

OUR<br />

MESSAGE<br />

There’s no wall between a husb<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> a wife! Swapping <strong>and</strong> scrambling about<br />

with fashion items will both deepen your friendship <strong>and</strong> work as a space-saving<br />

factor. Specifically, when you are travelling <strong>and</strong> have limited luggage space. You<br />

can always trust each other for certain “essentials.” No hard feelings!


M A K E U P<br />

M A D N E S S<br />

WITH<br />

Hey, girl! This month has gone by so fast, <strong>and</strong> we are now wrapping up this Hot Girl<br />

Summer <strong>and</strong> preparing to move on to Fly Girl Fall. Last month, I received so many<br />

messages from so many of you on Instagram about mapping out a diverse skincare<br />

routine in a cost-efficient way. So, this month we are focusing on my 12-step nighttime<br />

skincare routine <strong>and</strong> my quick morning skincare routine.


Did you know that if you continuously<br />

stay on point with your 12-step<br />

nighttime skincare routine <strong>and</strong> make<br />

time to see your esthetician for a<br />

facial every month, you will be able to<br />

minimise your morning routine to just<br />

3-4 steps daily? Let me explain.<br />

As an esthetician, I recommend a (1)<br />

double cleanse that lasts 60 seconds<br />

for each cleansing cycle using facial<br />

cleansing sponges. This allows you to<br />

relax <strong>and</strong> take your time to remove the<br />

makeup from your skin properly. (2)<br />

Next, you want to use an alcohol-free,<br />

oil-free, silicone <strong>and</strong> gluten-free toner<br />

to revitalise <strong>and</strong> resurface the skin.<br />

(3) Afterwards, you steam to loosen<br />

sebum, which is trapped beneath<br />

your skin’s surface. Sebum creates<br />

a breeding ground for bacteria <strong>and</strong><br />

causes acne <strong>and</strong> blackheads. Facial<br />

steaming hydrates the skin by helping<br />

to increase oil production by naturally<br />

moisturising the face. It also helps your<br />

skin to absorb skincare products better.<br />

(4) Always follow up with toner; again,<br />

to correct <strong>and</strong> balance the pH of your<br />

skin. (5) You want to remove dead skin<br />

cells <strong>and</strong> free radicals with a chemical<br />

exfoliant based on your skin type. (6)<br />

Follow up with toner yet again. (7) Next<br />

up are all of your serums. I like to use<br />

a Niacinade serum for brightening. (8)<br />

My next serum is filled with peptides or<br />

(9) Antioxidants <strong>and</strong> retinol. Feel free to<br />

switch up serums as needed. (10) Your<br />

skin always needs hydration, so use a<br />

hyaluronic serum. (11) This next step<br />

is strictly for the use of a moisturiser<br />

to restore the skin’s protective barrier.<br />

Look for moisturisers with ceramides to<br />

help replace those stripped away with<br />

dry skin, as well as humectants such as<br />

hyaluronic acid <strong>and</strong> glycerin. Finally,<br />

(12) is for eye cream because we want<br />

to defeat those puffy eyes <strong>and</strong> dark<br />

circles while we slumber, people!<br />

See! That wasn’t hard now, was it? If<br />

you complete these steps each night,<br />

you will definitely see a significunt<br />

improvement in your skin health. You<br />

will wake up every morning with a<br />

natural glow for sure. Your morning<br />

routine will be so much simpler because<br />

you took the time to pamper your<br />

skin the night before. Your morning<br />

routine should consist of (1) Rinsing<br />

your face with cool to lukewarm water<br />

for 60 seconds straight, (2) Toning, (3)<br />

Moisturising (I like to use something<br />

with hyaluronic acid <strong>and</strong>/or Papaya for<br />

enzymes), <strong>and</strong> (4) SPF! Never forget to<br />

use an SPF, especially if you are using<br />

an AHA chemical exfoliant during your<br />

nighttime skincare routine. Your skin is<br />

very much susceptible to sunburn, so<br />

protect it with SPF daily.<br />

Please remember that in doing all of this<br />

you must still keep up with your monthly<br />

facials. Also, please see an esthetician,<br />

like me, for any extractions so you<br />

won’t be left with unwanted blemishes<br />

or hyperpigmentation by attempting to<br />

remove any blackheads or whiteheads<br />

on your own. If you attempt to pop a<br />

whitehead, you can increase the risk of<br />

spreading the bacteria on your face.<br />

Monthly facials are beneficial for this<br />

specific reason. Your esthetician can<br />

assist you with modifying your at-home<br />

skincare routine if you are continuously<br />

experiencing breakouts.


Now onto the moment you’ve all<br />

been waiting for! Sixteen beautiful,<br />

cost-efficient, high-quality products<br />

you need in your skincare routine for<br />

the low! You can thank me later.<br />

Amino Acids + Hyaluronic<br />

Acid (Hydration)<br />

AHA (Chemical<br />

Exfoliation)<br />

BHA<br />

Niacinamide<br />

(Brightening)<br />

Peptides<br />

Primer with SPF<br />

(sunblock)<br />

Enzymes<br />

(Papaya)<br />

Toner<br />

Eye Cream<br />

Antioxidants<br />

+ Retinol<br />

Moisturiser<br />

Facial<br />

Cleansing<br />

Sponges<br />

Exfoliating<br />

Toner<br />

Travel Skincare<br />

Gel Peeling<br />

Mask<br />

Salicylic Acid<br />

(oily skin exfoliation)


If you want to know how to apply all of these products<br />

correctly or if you just want to know more about skincare<br />

routines hit me up on Instagram (@thekrlstyle). Maybe<br />

your questions will be covered in my next article<br />

submission.<br />

Katrina is the Creative<br />

Director at The<br />

Beauty Studio, Middle<br />

East. In this article,<br />

she shares how to<br />

achieve flawless<br />

looking skin without<br />

breaking the bank.


Model: Kiara Kardinal<br />

Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />

Makeup: Anett Hriczo <strong>and</strong> Liv Rideg<br />

Hair: Liv Rideg<br />

Location: Studio Madison, Budapest, Hungary


Model: Rea Milla, Avantage Models<br />

Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />

Makeup: Liv Rideg<br />

Location: Studio Lightroom, Budapest, Hungary


Model: Kiara Kardinal<br />

Photo <strong>and</strong> retouch: Andrea Marton<br />

Makeup: Anett Hriczo <strong>and</strong> Liv Rideg<br />

Hair: Liv Rideg<br />

Location: Studio Madison, Budapest, Hungary


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It’s not just about you but your entire<br />

personality. Moreover, it’s a dead giveaway<br />

of your health <strong>and</strong> hygiene. Teeth are affected<br />

by a lot of things: smoking, eating <strong>and</strong> drinking,<br />

etc., but if you don’t brush them frequently, the<br />

stains become long-term <strong>and</strong> unappealing.<br />

From the dreaded dentist’s appointment to<br />

various products <strong>and</strong> procedures, all have their<br />

benefits but come with high costs <strong>and</strong> sometimes<br />

pain, too.<br />

However, if you are not blessed<br />

with naturally white teeth, have abused<br />

them to a yellow appeal <strong>and</strong> wish to whiten<br />

them with something quick <strong>and</strong> easy, we’ve put<br />

together a few DIY teeth whitening hacks that<br />

actually work. These hacks serve as good runnerups<br />

for professional whitening treatments <strong>and</strong><br />

will brighten your smile with continued usage.<br />

Because as Dr Seuss says, “Teeth are always in<br />

fashion.” We agree with that 100%.


Before trying out these hacks, make sure you take proper<br />

care of your teeth <strong>and</strong> include daily brushing in order for<br />

these methods to work. Don’t try all the hacks at the same<br />

time, try one, <strong>and</strong> if it suits you, stick to it.<br />

If your teeth are in poor health or too sensitive, consult a<br />

doctor before trying out these natural treatments.<br />

We’re not talking about the blackened ashes found in barbecue<br />

pits. Activated charcoal is one of the easiest <strong>and</strong> cheapest ways<br />

to naturally whiten your teeth. It is an antioxidant that not only<br />

removes surface stains left by tea, coffee, <strong>and</strong> food consumption<br />

but scrubs away toxins as well.<br />

Dip a clean, wet toothbrush into a charcoal powder container <strong>and</strong><br />

brush your teeth as you usually do. Don’t let the sight of your<br />

now blackened teeth alarm you because the blackness helps<br />

to neutralise their yellow appearance <strong>and</strong> rinses away to reveal<br />

brighter, whiter teeth.<br />

The grainy texture of activated charcoal can corrode your tooth<br />

enamel. Make sure your toothbrush is wet enough or make a paste<br />

with charcoal, use gentle motions while brushing <strong>and</strong> limit this to<br />

only once a week. A black toothpaste is even better <strong>and</strong> less harsh.<br />

Apart from coconut oil being a miracle worker for our<br />

hair <strong>and</strong> body, it’s great for naturally whitening teeth,<br />

too. Ever heard of oil-pulling? No? Basically, it involves<br />

taking a spoonful of coconut oil in your clean mouth <strong>and</strong><br />

swishing it for five minutes or even 20! But only if you can<br />

swish around it for that long!<br />

Oil-pulling improves gum health, removes bad breath<br />

<strong>and</strong> eliminates harmful bacteria as well. In other words,<br />

it is ideal for promoting oral hygiene. Though, if you feel<br />

like oil-swishing is not for you use coconut oil with your<br />

toothbrush <strong>and</strong> brush your teeth to get whiter teeth.<br />

This procedure isn’t a threat to your tooth enamel.<br />

Instead, it prolongs its health. So, try this whenever you<br />

feel the need.


The more calcium intake, the whiter <strong>and</strong> stronger your<br />

teeth will be. Tooth enamel is made up of calcium, <strong>and</strong> you<br />

must eat more dairy products to keep it in good health.<br />

However, if you have cut dairy from your diet due to going<br />

vegan or any other health-related reasons, try milk powder<br />

to whiten teeth.<br />

Yes, you heard us! Combine your toothpaste with a little bit<br />

of milk powder (not a whitener) <strong>and</strong> brush your teeth with<br />

it to spruce up your pearly whites. Do this twice a week!<br />

Turmeric has antioxidant, anti-microbial <strong>and</strong> anti-inflammatory<br />

properties. Plus, it has scientifically proven health benefits to its<br />

name. Apart from that, it works wonders for teeth whitening as well.<br />

Use a little bit of water <strong>and</strong> turmeric powder to make a paste. Use<br />

that paste to brush your teeth for two minutes. Rinse the turmeric;<br />

it will leave a stain, so do another brush with just your toothpaste.<br />

It will effectively whiten <strong>and</strong> lighten the coffee/tea stains. Due to its<br />

anti-inflammatory qualities, it’s great for natural dental care as well.<br />

Do this three times a week to enhance the whiteness of your teeth.<br />

Baking soda is a common ingredient used for various<br />

cleaning purposes. However, we find baking soda <strong>and</strong><br />

lemon a tad too harsh for teeth whitening. To tone down<br />

the sensitivity of this formula, mix baking soda <strong>and</strong> lemon<br />

with your usual toothpaste. Use your toothbrush to form<br />

a smooth, slightly runny paste to break down the grains<br />

in baking soda.<br />

Once the paste is formed, gently brush your teeth, <strong>and</strong><br />

this mixture will zap surface stains. Limit this to only once<br />

a week.


Foods that require a lot<br />

of chewing act as teeth<br />

whiteners because they<br />

naturally clean surface<br />

stains by increasing saliva<br />

production, which serves<br />

as a natural teeth cleaning<br />

agent. These foods are<br />

called fibrous foods such<br />

as apple, celery, cabbage,<br />

carrots, etc. Apart from<br />

cleaning, they also rid the<br />

mouth of bacteria <strong>and</strong> bad<br />

breath as well.


Furthermore, eat fruits rich in citric acid (oranges, pineapples), <strong>and</strong> malic acid<br />

(strawberries) that have proven to be one of the easiest ways to achieve that white,<br />

flashing smile. Strawberries can also be mashed up, <strong>and</strong> you can rub the paste on<br />

your teeth for five minutes to give your teeth a good cleanse <strong>and</strong> reveal whiter teeth.<br />

Now, onto the teeth offenders.<br />

There’s no gain without pain!<br />

And the pain comes when you<br />

have to forbid yourself from<br />

things you love! A few of those<br />

things would be coffee, tea,<br />

wine, <strong>and</strong> fizzy drinks that have<br />

a tremendous effect on your<br />

teeth especially if you drink<br />

them frequently or a bit too<br />

excessively! If you want teeth,<br />

that are blinding, you need to<br />

keep a lid on these beverages.<br />

Instead, consume lots of water,<br />

lemonade, citrus fruit drinks,<br />

<strong>and</strong> milk! This will improve<br />

your gums, general health, <strong>and</strong><br />

rid your body of toxins.


5 DIY<br />

Facial Serums<br />

That Can Give<br />

It’s easy to scroll through Instagram <strong>and</strong> assume that to<br />

achieve better, healthier skin, you need to change your<br />

lifestyle <strong>and</strong> most probably spend every last bit of your<br />

hard-earned money. We agree with the lifestyle part - but<br />

emptying your pockets? Not so much. Even without the<br />

arsenal of expensive products at your service, achieving<br />

good skin shouldn’t be a big challenge.<br />

All it takes is a skim through our 5 best DIY facial serums,<br />

faith in yourself, <strong>and</strong> a regimen because regimen is the<br />

only way to achieve fresh, new skin. Also, the DIY facial<br />

serums included target all skin problems.


A facial serum in a traditional sense is a water-soluble<br />

product that goes on before a moisturiser. Serums are<br />

created to target a specific cause: hydration, pigmentation,<br />

anti-ageing, free radical damage, etc. Serums are made<br />

up of smaller molecules by using active high-concentrated<br />

ingredients, hence super-potent yet fast-absorbing.<br />

Then, there are oil-based serums as well, which are applied<br />

after a moisturiser. They seal the layering of products<br />

applied before a moisturiser <strong>and</strong> at the same time keep<br />

the moisturiser from drying out.<br />

Well, you are not the only one wondering what a facial<br />

serum is <strong>and</strong> verging on the brink of confusion as to how<br />

it differs from a moisturiser, face oil, <strong>and</strong> an essence.<br />

A facial serum may be packed full of moisturising<br />

ingredients; however do not confuse it for a moisturiser<br />

because it doesn’t contain the typical sealants: mineral oils<br />

or petroleum. Neither the consistency nor the thickness is<br />

in any way a match with a moisturiser.<br />

Plus, they’re not as runny as essences which are also<br />

applied after cleansing <strong>and</strong> before moisturising. Though<br />

yes, both products are very similar in terms of the functions<br />

they serve. The only difference is their texture.<br />

Facial serums <strong>and</strong> facial oils, as expected, are quite similar.<br />

However, facial oils are somewhat thicker than serums <strong>and</strong><br />

much more focused on treating the skin on a cellular level<br />

due to the plant-based oils included in them.<br />

Facial serums penetrate the skin on a deeper level, <strong>and</strong><br />

because they’re water-soluble, they last longer <strong>and</strong> do<br />

your skin a huge favour in a short amount of time.


If you’re pregnant, breastfeeding<br />

or undergoing serious health<br />

concerns, we advise you to consult<br />

a physician before trying out any<br />

of these recipes. This is because<br />

certain ingredients in these DIY<br />

serums may not be suitable for<br />

you.<br />

Or as in the case of essential oils,<br />

which are sometimes the main<br />

ingredient, can be super-potent<br />

<strong>and</strong> you must underst<strong>and</strong> the<br />

risks <strong>and</strong> benefits of what you are<br />

putting on your face.<br />

1<br />

FACIAL SERUM FOR DRY,<br />

DEHYDRATED SKIN<br />

If you are an owner of dry, dehydrated skin <strong>and</strong> get<br />

pesky, little breakouts now <strong>and</strong> then (welcome to the<br />

real world) this organic facial serum for dry, dehydrated<br />

skin will give you a nice hydration kick as well as help<br />

keep those uncertain breakouts in check.<br />

It is a blend of three botanical oils <strong>and</strong> three essentials<br />

oils chock-full of skin-nourishing ingredients like Vitamins<br />

A, E, <strong>and</strong> C, <strong>and</strong> fatty acids.<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• Organic Apricot Seed Oil<br />

• Organic Avocado Oil<br />

• Funnel<br />

• An amber bottle<br />

• Organic Jojoba Oil<br />

• Organic Orange Essential Oil<br />

• Organic Rose Geranium Essential Oil<br />

• Organic Cedarwood Atlas Essential Oil<br />

METHOD<br />

No matter the bottle size, just place three equal thirds<br />

of each oil. The base oil includes jojoba oil - next,<br />

apricot kernel oil <strong>and</strong> avocado oil as the last base oils.<br />

Once the carrier oils are done, it’s time for essential oils.<br />

If you are using a 50 ml bottle, only 20 drops of essential<br />

oil into those carrier oils is needed. Add six drops of<br />

essential oil each. Pop the lid on <strong>and</strong> slightly turn the<br />

bottle to combine it. Avoid shaking; you don’t want to<br />

create air bubbles.<br />

A dark or amber bottle is required because it keeps<br />

the serum lasting for longer <strong>and</strong> stops bacteria from<br />

collecting <strong>and</strong> light from getting to it. This serum<br />

has a shelf life of six months. In case of any allergies<br />

to any of these ingredients, you can make your own<br />

modifications.


2<br />

FACIAL SERUM FOR<br />

UNEVEN, DULL SKIN<br />

Sometimes, dull skin is our permanent makeover. It stays<br />

with us no matter how hard we try to get rid of it. To be<br />

honest, it’s not about trying hard; it’s about embracing<br />

it in a smart way. And a quick to tone down the dullness<br />

begins with our second facial serum recipe.<br />

The recipe uses non-comedogenic oils. This means that<br />

the serum is unlikely to clog your pores. Also, apart<br />

from banishing unevenness, it helps renew dull skin for<br />

brighter skin texture <strong>and</strong> minimises pigmentation, dark<br />

spots <strong>and</strong> acne scars as well.<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• Argan Oil 10 ml<br />

• Carrot Seed Oil 10ml<br />

• Vitamin E Oil 1/2 teaspoon<br />

• Rose Essential Oil 5 drops<br />

• S<strong>and</strong>alwood Essential Oil 5 drops<br />

• Lemon Essential Oil 4 drops<br />

• Frankincense Essential Oil 4 drops<br />

• Dark glass bottle with a dropper<br />

METHOD<br />

Using a sieve, add carrot seed oil, argan oil <strong>and</strong> vitamin<br />

E oil to the glass bottle. Now, take off the sieve <strong>and</strong><br />

gently <strong>and</strong> precisely, add drops of rose, lemon,<br />

frankincense, <strong>and</strong> s<strong>and</strong>alwood essential oil. Close the<br />

lid <strong>and</strong> turn the bottle side to side to mix all the oils.<br />

Avoid shaking <strong>and</strong> thus forming air bubbles.<br />

Apply this serum on the targeted areas whenever you<br />

like. Make sure your face is clean before you do so.<br />

Don’t apply sunscreen after this serum before heading<br />

out in the sun.<br />

A patch test is always recommended to check your skin<br />

reaction before facial use.<br />

3<br />

FACIAL SERUM TO<br />

FIGHT AGEING SKIN<br />

You cannot turn back the clock. Well, technically you can,<br />

but it won’t take you back to how you were when you<br />

were young (pun intended). Although, you can start now<br />

to prevent future wrinkles, age spots <strong>and</strong> sun damage<br />

from appearing on your skin. Yes, there’s a way to age<br />

beautifully, <strong>and</strong> this facial serum is the perfect opportunity.<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• Rosehip seed Oil 1/2 ounce<br />

• Lavender Essential Oil 2 drops<br />

• Geranium Essential Oil 2 drops<br />

• Cypress Essential Oil 1 drop<br />

• Rosemary Essential Oil<br />

• Dark bottle with dropper<br />

• Funnel<br />

METHOD<br />

Add rosehip seed oil to the bottle <strong>and</strong> follow with the rest of<br />

the ingredients. Turn side to side for amalgamation before<br />

use. Rosehip seed oil is one of the best carrier oils for antiageing<br />

purposes but if it does not suit you, simply replace<br />

it with any other carrier oil.<br />

Cleanse <strong>and</strong> tone your skin before layering the serum over<br />

specific areas, such as fine lines <strong>and</strong> wrinkles. It has antiinflammatory<br />

<strong>and</strong> anti-bacterial properties along with the<br />

ability to improve skin elasticity which makes this serum<br />

such a great choice for older women. Even for those who<br />

wish to prevent fine lines early.


4<br />

FACIAL SERUM FOR OILY SKIN<br />

AND ENLARGED PORES<br />

We know, the appearance of enlarged pores coupled<br />

with oily skin, does not help the case either. It can be<br />

extremely grating, especially if you have pores the size<br />

of saucers.<br />

Even though a primer that truly fills them in is appealing,<br />

it still isn’t a permanent solution. Moreover, it can clog<br />

them even further. This facial serum recipe has the ability<br />

to keep oiliness at bay <strong>and</strong> reduces the look of enlarged<br />

pores at the same time.<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• 2 ounce or larger amber glass bottle<br />

• Grapeseed Oil 1 oz.<br />

• Jojoba Oil 1 oz.<br />

• Cypress Essential Oil 10 drops<br />

• Peppermint Essential Oil 5 drops<br />

• Rosemary Essential Oil 5 drops<br />

METHOD<br />

Add all the carrier oils <strong>and</strong> essential oils, following the<br />

sequence of the ingredient list. Roll the bottle gently<br />

in your h<strong>and</strong> to combine the mixture. Wash your face<br />

<strong>and</strong> use a toner <strong>and</strong> after with gentle, upward strokes.<br />

Massage the serum to concentrated oily areas such as<br />

your forehead, cheeks, <strong>and</strong> chin - store bottle in a cool,<br />

dry place.<br />

5<br />

THE PERFECT ALL-ROUNDER<br />

FACIAL SERUM<br />

Need a facial serum that suits all skin types? Well, we’ve<br />

got just the little booster for you. Easy to apply <strong>and</strong> forget<br />

worrying over skin types. Oily, normal, sensitive, acne-prone<br />

or combination - you can use this facial serum regardless.<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• Jojoba Oil 1 Tablespoon (Base oil)<br />

• Argan Oil 1/2 Tablespoon (Premium oil)<br />

• Lavender Essential Oil 2 - 4 drops (Essential Oil)<br />

• Amber or blue-coloured liquid bottle 1 oz.<br />

METHOD<br />

Pour jojoba oil <strong>and</strong> argan oil into the amber bottle with the help<br />

of a funnel. Add drops of lavender essential oils then close the lid<br />

<strong>and</strong> roll it for 30 seconds. Once mixed, apply on clean, toned skin.<br />

Allow 10-15 minutes for the facial serum to fully absorb.<br />

It’s a great facial recipe for all skin types, but there’s no limitation<br />

to explore your options <strong>and</strong> use your favourite oils.<br />

IMPORTANT<br />

MESSAGE<br />

Please educate yourself on the uses, benefits <strong>and</strong> side<br />

effects of these oils. Once you get the hang of them,<br />

you can make your blends.


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LEISA GRACE WILSON<br />

COMPANY NAME: MOFTAH EDUCATION


1. TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF.<br />

My Name is Leisa Grace Wilson, <strong>and</strong> I am<br />

a woman of God, wife, mother, educator,<br />

entrepreneur <strong>and</strong> all-around hot mess<br />

sometimes. I say I am a hot mess because<br />

I am always doing several things at the<br />

same time, spinning several plates <strong>and</strong><br />

sometimes I might lose control, <strong>and</strong> some<br />

may fall, but I am a multi-passionate<br />

person, so I like to have my h<strong>and</strong>s full. I<br />

am just a regular girl who decided to take<br />

Philippians 4: 13 <strong>and</strong> apply it to my life.<br />

Yes, I am certainly a regular Jamaican girl<br />

living an extraordinary life.<br />

2. MOFTAH EDUCATION, HOW DID IT<br />

COME ABOUT?<br />

Moftah Education was born out of a<br />

love for education <strong>and</strong> educators. I am a<br />

teacher by profession. I started my career<br />

in education more than 20 years ago,<br />

teaching English, Spanish <strong>and</strong> English<br />

Literature. After working in Jamaica <strong>and</strong><br />

the United Kingdom as a teacher <strong>and</strong><br />

school leader, I moved with my husb<strong>and</strong><br />

to the United Arab Emirates. When I<br />

came here in 2010, I realised that there<br />

was no magazine, platform or events<br />

which united the entire education space<br />

in the UAE <strong>and</strong> indeed the region. We<br />

then decided to start something, at first<br />

it was only supposed to have been a<br />

website <strong>and</strong> possibly a couple of meetups<br />

every now <strong>and</strong> again but very soon the<br />

idea exp<strong>and</strong>ed <strong>and</strong> Teach Middle East<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> was born. Today Teach Middle<br />

East <strong>Magazine</strong> is the largest <strong>and</strong> most<br />

widely read education publication in the<br />

Middle East for educators.<br />

3. WHAT BRANDS AND EVENTS FALL<br />

UNDER THE MOFTAH PUBLISHING NAME?<br />

The Moftah br<strong>and</strong> has now grown to<br />

include, The flagship Teach Middle East<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>, Edtech Middle East, The<br />

Middle East Maths Teachers Conference,<br />

The Middle East School Leadership<br />

Conference, schoolfinder.ae <strong>and</strong> the soon<br />

to be launched Dubai Education Week.<br />

4. WHAT’S YOUR IDEA OF SUCCESS?<br />

I believe success is doing the things that<br />

bring you the most joy every day. I cannot<br />

put a monetary value on success because<br />

I genuinely believe that having a lot of<br />

money is not a true mark of success.<br />

Success is ongoing; it is a process, not<br />

a destination. If I am better than I was<br />

yesterday, then I am successful. If I wake<br />

up every morning in my right mind then I<br />

am successful, If I have my family around<br />

me <strong>and</strong> they love me, then I am successful.<br />

You get the picture. I strongly believe that<br />

if we live our lives always striving for the<br />

next thing to make us feel successful, then<br />

we might never experience success.<br />

5. WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT?<br />

I am passionate about life. Let me explain,<br />

over the years <strong>and</strong> especially in 2018, I lost<br />

a lot. I lost my mother, she was my whole<br />

life, <strong>and</strong> I also lost one of my best friends,<br />

Ricky. I watched others lose people, <strong>and</strong><br />

I have also heard of young people who I<br />

know just going to sleep <strong>and</strong> not waking up.<br />

These experiences have given me a great<br />

hunger <strong>and</strong> a drive to live my life to the<br />

fullest. I am passionate about not allowing<br />

fear or the opinions of others to stop me<br />

from doing the things that I am passionate<br />

about. I am also a strong believer in the<br />

power of educators to change the future<br />

of this world. Think of it this way; there<br />

is no other group of people in the world<br />

who have more collective influence <strong>and</strong><br />

authority over the minds <strong>and</strong> hearts of the<br />

young people; than educators. Educators<br />

are powerful, it is a shame that they<br />

often seem not to get the respect <strong>and</strong><br />

remuneration that they deserve.<br />

6. WHAT’S THE SECRET TO BEING A<br />

FEARLESS LEADER?<br />

To be a fearless leader, you need to have<br />

two things:<br />

1. An unshakable belief in yourself<br />

2. Empathy<br />

Believing in yourself may sound like a cliche,<br />

but it is of the utmost importance. The fact


is when you step out to follow your dreams, there<br />

will be many people who will tell you that it won’t<br />

work. They are not all bad people, sometimes<br />

it is the people closest to you, but you have to<br />

remember that these people are only speaking<br />

out of their own fears <strong>and</strong> insecurities. Your belief<br />

in yourself is what will give you the resolve to<br />

keep going, especially when times get tough.<br />

Empathy is needed, especially when dealing with<br />

others. You should not only be able to listen with<br />

your ears, but also with your heart. To be a fearless<br />

leader, you have to look beneath the surface <strong>and</strong><br />

try to assess people’s motives. Sometimes what<br />

appears bad might not be <strong>and</strong> vice versa.<br />

7. WHO AND/OR WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?<br />

They say you should always have a why. My “why”<br />

are my kids. I am the mother of six-year-old twin<br />

boys, <strong>and</strong> they are the reason I work so hard. My<br />

husb<strong>and</strong> (<strong>and</strong> business partner) also keeps me<br />

motivated. He is always there to support <strong>and</strong><br />

encourage me. Sometimes I think he believes in<br />

me more than I believe in myself. The educators I<br />

serve also motivate me. I have met some amazing<br />

teachers <strong>and</strong> if they can keep going in the face of<br />

difficulties then so can I.<br />

8. WHAT ARE THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES OF<br />

OWNING YOUR OWN BRAND?<br />

The lack of sleep. Owning your own br<strong>and</strong> is<br />

like having another member added to your<br />

immediate family, <strong>and</strong> like a baby, you have to<br />

take care of it 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.<br />

There is no clocking out <strong>and</strong> going home.<br />

Another challenge is access to funding <strong>and</strong> also<br />

finding quality people to work with. The region is<br />

not as business-friendly as we would like it to be,<br />

this is changing, but it will take time. As a result,<br />

running a business in this part of the world can be<br />

very expensive.<br />

When you own your own br<strong>and</strong>, you also have to<br />

remember that you are your br<strong>and</strong>’s ambassador.<br />

Your actions may affect how people perceive<br />

your br<strong>and</strong>. Don’t forget people do business<br />

with people.


9. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH FAILURE?<br />

When I fail or have a big set back, I allow myself<br />

a day or two to mull over it, to wallow, to cry<br />

<strong>and</strong> to feel down, but then when that time<br />

is up. I get up, <strong>and</strong> I look at what happened<br />

objectively, I search for the lessons <strong>and</strong> then<br />

I do my best to move on <strong>and</strong> grow from the<br />

experience. It is not easy, <strong>and</strong> I often find myself<br />

mulling long after, but I always remind myself<br />

that everything happens for a reason, <strong>and</strong> as I<br />

move on the meaning will become clear.<br />

10. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO YOUR<br />

20-YEAR-OLD SELF?<br />

Where do I begin? I have so much I would tell<br />

my 20- year-old self. The first thing I would tell<br />

her is to relax; it will all work out. I would tell<br />

her to buy real estate <strong>and</strong> lots of it. Don’t waste<br />

money on silly things, just travel <strong>and</strong> buy real<br />

estate because your 40-year-old self will thank<br />

you for the experiences <strong>and</strong> capital appreciation.<br />

I would also tell her that she is not the saviour<br />

<strong>and</strong> that she should allow some people to fail.<br />

Do not try to bail everyone out when they make<br />

bad life choices, allow them to learn from their<br />

own mistakes as you will have to learn from yours.<br />

I will also tell her that she will meet a tall, dark<br />

African guy from Zambia, who is going to marry<br />

her <strong>and</strong> make her the mother of two gorgeous<br />

twin boys. On a serious note, I would really want<br />

her to know that the opinions of others do not<br />

define her <strong>and</strong> that she is worthy of any space<br />

she st<strong>and</strong>s in.<br />

11. HOW DO YOU LOOK AFTER YOUR MENTAL<br />

HEALTH WHILE BEING A BUSY BOSS?<br />

As a busy mum <strong>and</strong> entrepreneur, it is very hard<br />

to find time to take care of yourself, especially<br />

your mental health. I try to keep a regular exercise<br />

routine which helps me to feel great. I also listen<br />

to music, <strong>and</strong> most of all, I pray. I take time to<br />

pray <strong>and</strong> meditate on God’s Word daily.<br />

12. IN TERMS OF THE STRATEGIC GROWTH OF<br />

YOUR BUSINESS, WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF<br />

IN THE NEXT TEN YEARS?<br />

It is my hope that in the next ten years the Moftah<br />

br<strong>and</strong> would have extended to Africa, <strong>and</strong> further<br />

into Asia. We have our eyes on some projects in<br />

Africa in the near future. The aim is to have a<br />

global education br<strong>and</strong> in the next ten years.


13. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO<br />

SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO GIVE UP THEIR<br />

9-5 TO START A BUSINESS?<br />

I would advise them to be patient <strong>and</strong><br />

strategic. The aim is not to have an idea<br />

<strong>and</strong> then give up your 9-5 job <strong>and</strong> struggle.<br />

Hustle on the side for as long as it takes<br />

<strong>and</strong> build your business up to the point<br />

where it can replace your 9-5 income <strong>and</strong><br />

then some. When that happens, you will<br />

be able to walk away from your 9-5 with<br />

no regret.<br />

14. NAME ONE THING YOU DO OR WILL<br />

DO DIFFERENTLY FOR YOUR CHILDREN TO<br />

WHAT YOUR PARENTS DID FOR YOU.<br />

When I was growing up, my mother was<br />

really insistent on me going to university<br />

<strong>and</strong> getting the best education that I could<br />

get. I am very grateful to her for helping<br />

me to get the education I have, but I do<br />

not think I will insist that my boys go to<br />

university. Instead, I will work with them on<br />

creating their own path to success, <strong>and</strong> if<br />

that involves going to university, then I will<br />

be there for them as much as I can be. I am<br />

also going to teach my boys about money<br />

<strong>and</strong> investing from a very early age, in<br />

fact, I have already started, <strong>and</strong> they are<br />

only six.


Name: Minel Michael Fific<br />

Stage name: Minel


TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF<br />

I was born in Bosnia in 1991. I lived there for about<br />

two weeks before my father was killed in the war.<br />

Soon after, my family fled to New York. I was the only<br />

white kid in my neighbourhood at the time, which<br />

meant that I assimilated with the culture that was<br />

around me. For example, hip hop was a huge part of<br />

my time growing up in New York.<br />

There were many discrepancies about me. People<br />

used to tell me, “You’re always acting black.” I never<br />

really understood what that meant, because I don’t<br />

see colour as a race. I feel like everyone is born equal<br />

into this world. I used to say that ‘every mother has<br />

birth pains,’ therefore everyone has a hard time<br />

arriving into this world. But I always believed that<br />

everyone is put in the same position, regardless of<br />

whether you’re born into money or into poverty.<br />

There will always be a way to reach your dreams,<br />

regardless of how much money you start out with.<br />

You see people who are rich <strong>and</strong> end up broke, <strong>and</strong><br />

people who are completely broke <strong>and</strong> end up rich.<br />

So, I feel like everyone has an opportunity.<br />

In New York, I used to go to the hustlers <strong>and</strong> rappers<br />

to try <strong>and</strong> get some exposure. I grew up in a time<br />

when people would freestyle on street corners, that<br />

was my era. Even now, if you watch the Biggie <strong>and</strong><br />

the Jay-Z movies, you’ll notice that they’re still doing<br />

the same thing to this day. I was always intrigued by<br />

that, <strong>and</strong> I always wanted to be one of those guys<br />

that girls would be impressed with.<br />

I listened to a lot of hip hop <strong>and</strong> a lot of rap at the<br />

time, whenever I could. And I’ve also been a very<br />

outspoken person, so I definitely have an opinion<br />

when it comes to other people’s raps. If I hear<br />

someone rapping <strong>and</strong> they’re not good, I’ll openly<br />

tell them – that’s the New York mentality coming out.<br />

Everyone has to be an alpha in New York; no one is<br />

subtle out there. But I guess that’s what makes us<br />

strong.<br />

I remember this one time I was listening to a<br />

group that had a rapper as the lead singer. I wasn’t<br />

impressed with what he was doing, so I thought, “I<br />

have to write my own rhymes.” And I did. And when<br />

I did, I was like a seven-year-old trying to get in <strong>and</strong><br />

have my music heard, but no one would let me in.<br />

They used to have those RCA speakers back in the<br />

day where you had to flip the tape to get to the other<br />

side <strong>and</strong>, there would be a time of silence as they<br />

did this. I saw my window of opportunity here <strong>and</strong><br />

just jumped right in <strong>and</strong> started rapping. Before I<br />

knew it, people were like, “Oh kid, you got it.” When<br />

you grow up in poverty, you don’t believe you have<br />

something even when people tell you that you do.<br />

You don’t believe it.<br />

To give you a little more of a backstory about my<br />

time in New York, I was walking home one night <strong>and</strong><br />

found myself in the middle of a shootout. – Typical<br />

New York stuff. I had one of those hoodies that have<br />

big pockets, <strong>and</strong> one of the bullets just went through<br />

the pocket <strong>and</strong> left a hole. It went by so fast I never<br />

even knew it happened until I got home because<br />

there was so much adrenalin rushing through me. My<br />

mum saw it first when she was washing my clothes<br />

<strong>and</strong> freaked out. So, we ended up moving to Virginia<br />

after that incident.<br />

I had a similar style of growing up in Virginia. High<br />

school lunches <strong>and</strong> corner rap. I rapped all the time;<br />

I did it all, freestyle - everything. I was also in <strong>and</strong><br />

out of incarceration; it was a rough period. But it<br />

wasn’t until about eight months ago when I made it<br />

to Dubai <strong>and</strong> met producer Yazeed through a friend.<br />

I think that where I am now is all God-given, everyone<br />

I met was by sheer coincidence. I met Yazeed at a<br />

basketball game (he doesn’t even play), I met my<br />

Stefan (my videographer) through a friend who I<br />

barely knew, <strong>and</strong> I met my investor through a good<br />

deed that I did with some guy in another country. I<br />

met my manager Albert through a conversation with<br />

another guy at Virgin Radio, by refusing to move.<br />

Everything that happened to me has a story behind<br />

it. Everything was somehow aligned.<br />

Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I met eight months ago <strong>and</strong> instantly<br />

said, “Let’s just do a song for the hell of it.” So, we<br />

made a song called “Big Waves.” People really loved<br />

it, <strong>and</strong> whoever hears that song likes it. But if you<br />

ask us, we think it’s horrible. It’s funny because we<br />

don’t play the song anymore, but everyone wants<br />

to hear it. We’re trying to bury it, but everyone else<br />

is trying to resurrect it. I wrote another song called<br />

“Mess* with Me” that everyone went crazy over.<br />

It’s an unreleased song, but then all my songs are<br />

unreleased. I kept writing music, <strong>and</strong> Yazeed kept<br />

saying, “Well, how are we going to make money out<br />

of this?” which came with a whole other concept.<br />

Soon after, my partner <strong>and</strong> I saw the Nicki Minaj<br />

Megatron Challenge <strong>and</strong> Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I entered. <strong>Out</strong><br />

of thous<strong>and</strong>s, maybe even millions of applicants, we<br />

came to the finals, <strong>and</strong> it was our first time releasing<br />

our music on an Instagram post.


WHAT DO YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT<br />

BEING A MUSICIAN? WHAT DO YOU<br />

HATE THE MOST?<br />

To be honest, what I hate the most<br />

is similar to what you do with your<br />

magazine. When you’re writing an article,<br />

you critique yourself so much because it<br />

has to be up to your st<strong>and</strong>ards, or even<br />

above <strong>and</strong> beyond. The same goes for<br />

me <strong>and</strong> my music. I’m not one of those<br />

people that think, “Oh this is okay. We’re<br />

going to use this for today.” I don’t do<br />

that. I could sit on one line for two or<br />

three hours, just because I know that<br />

it has to sound good. But what I love<br />

about this is that music is my career. It’s<br />

a passion that I commit to. The biggest<br />

thing I tell Yazeed is that I want to st<strong>and</strong><br />

on a stage <strong>and</strong> see the cell phones light<br />

up. I want to light up an arena <strong>and</strong> see<br />

people who are moved by my music.<br />

That’s the main goal for Yazeed <strong>and</strong> I,<br />

<strong>and</strong> it’s not that far off.<br />

As far as things I hate go, I really hate<br />

the times of constant mental distress.<br />

Making a song is only the initial<br />

part, but there is so much that goes<br />

into building it, getting it out there,<br />

<strong>and</strong> exposing it to the world. So, I<br />

sometimes hate the process, but when<br />

you finish a song, <strong>and</strong> you look back<br />

you then really appreciate it.<br />

In terms of the industry <strong>and</strong> what’s<br />

happening right now. What do you<br />

see as your biggest challenge in<br />

getting to where you want to be?<br />

To be honest, I don’t think there’s a<br />

challenge other than exposure, being<br />

seen by people. I’ve had thous<strong>and</strong>s of<br />

people come to the studio <strong>and</strong> listen to<br />

my songs, <strong>and</strong> out of all the songs we<br />

never really get any bad comments on<br />

them. Never. I think we may have gotten<br />

one or two bad comments, but those<br />

were from people who don’t like us.<br />

My mom once said to me, “If someone<br />

doesn’t like you, you’re doing the right<br />

thing.” So, we embrace all of it.


WHAT DO YOU THINK IT’S GOING TO<br />

TAKE TO GET THAT EXPOSURE?<br />

Someone taking a chance on me.<br />

Someone saying, “You know what?<br />

I believe in your music. I’ll give you<br />

a chance without going through the<br />

norm.” For example, if you look at<br />

Eminem’s story, Dr Dre heard about him<br />

through a rap battle <strong>and</strong> decided to put<br />

him in the studio. In about five seconds<br />

he made, “Hey, my name is who, my<br />

name is what, my name is Slim Shady.” It<br />

seems funny that it happened that way,<br />

but Dr Dre just took that chance, <strong>and</strong><br />

I feel that today things aren’t so much<br />

about chance. Everything is more about<br />

analytics <strong>and</strong> systems; no one actually<br />

takes an opportunity nowadays to say,<br />

“You know what, I’m gonna take a leap<br />

of faith on this person.” I feel that the<br />

person who takes a leap of faith for me,<br />

Yazeed <strong>and</strong> the team is going to think,<br />

“Wow, this paid off!”<br />

WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE BIGGER THAN<br />

IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY?<br />

I will honestly say, I don’t care about<br />

fame. I really don’t. So, I could be as big<br />

as Jay-Z, I could be as big as Lil Wayne,<br />

as big as Eminem, I could be as big as<br />

any of them. But at the end of the day,<br />

it’s more about my team <strong>and</strong> my family<br />

winning through music, opening up<br />

through music, making opportunities<br />

for people in this world who are so<br />

talented but will never get the right<br />

moment to shine. If you look at Jay-Z,<br />

Lil Wayne, Rick Ross, all those guys use<br />

their music money to open businesses<br />

<strong>and</strong> become financially rich. Jay-Z is not<br />

worth $1 billion because of his mixtapes<br />

or because of his music. These things<br />

didn’t just open doors for him to invest<br />

money in a certain company or certain<br />

paintings which made millions. For me,<br />

I want to be as big as God allows me<br />

to be.<br />

For me, it’s not really about trying to<br />

touch someone else’s label. I told my


little brother this the other day that<br />

I want to be the first mogul from my<br />

country because Bosnia is a war-torn,<br />

poverty-bound country. No one has<br />

ever seen a millionaire come out of<br />

the country to call them their own. So,<br />

for me, if I reach that status I’ve won.<br />

So, you’ve reached the status you<br />

want to be, what would you do for<br />

your country? What would you do for<br />

the people in your country? You’ve got<br />

it all, everything you’ve wanted. What<br />

would you be doing? What would you<br />

be looking at setting up?<br />

In my country, there are so many<br />

talented people when it comes to<br />

sports, but they don’t have top of<br />

the line sports equipment. They have<br />

a ball, <strong>and</strong> they’re out there in the<br />

morning in the freezing cold practising<br />

football or basketball up <strong>and</strong> down<br />

the streets. I think the situation is the<br />

same in Ukraine for Stefan. There are<br />

probably so many talented people,<br />

but they don’t have what the States<br />

have – basketball camps, football<br />

camps, they don’t have that stuff.<br />

If you look at any Bosnian child, they<br />

have to go to school for 20 years, while<br />

the average kid in the States only has<br />

to go to school for 17 years. And after<br />

those 20 years, they have four more<br />

years of university education. So, for<br />

me, becoming a mogul would shine<br />

a light on the country, for people to<br />

be like, “Wow, he came from here.<br />

What else is there?” For example, if<br />

you look at Meek Mill, he’s opened<br />

so many doors for Philadelphia. The<br />

most important thing is to open doors<br />

because people will look at certain<br />

countries <strong>and</strong> stereotype them <strong>and</strong><br />

their people. People will look at<br />

someone like Albert Einstein, crazy<br />

hair, silly moustache, yet arguably one<br />

of the smartest people the world has<br />

seen, but if no one actually took the<br />

time to discover his skills he would<br />

have been just a silly old white guy.<br />

I want people to look at people<br />

like me <strong>and</strong> think, all he has is one<br />

microphone, all he has is one football,<br />

but he’s out there every day because<br />

that’s all he has time to do.<br />

WHAT’S YOUR BACKUP PLAN, NOT<br />

JUST YOUR BACKUP BUT IT COULD BE<br />

WHAT ELSE YOU WOULD WANT TO DO?<br />

OR EVEN IF YOU’RE MAKING MUSIC,<br />

WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU WANT TO DO<br />

FOR YOURSELF?<br />

I asked a friend this question about<br />

two weeks ago. I asked her what<br />

she wanted to be in life, <strong>and</strong> she<br />

has a high prestige job here in a big<br />

company in the UAE. She makes a<br />

higher wage than most of our other<br />

friends, but she’s not always happy<br />

when she goes to work. We ask her<br />

all the time what she wants to do,<br />

<strong>and</strong> she always says, “I don’t know.”<br />

It took me 27 years to actually figure<br />

out that I’m talented in music <strong>and</strong><br />

that I have to be doing something<br />

related to music. So, even if it’s not<br />

me personally reaching the level of<br />

stardom, it will still be something to<br />

do in music. I can’t really tell you a<br />

backup plan, because all the other<br />

backup plans that I’ve done have just<br />

been jobs that pay the bills.


WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS YOU’VE DONE<br />

TO PAY THE BILLS?<br />

I’ve been in management, operations manager,<br />

a coach in little league basketball, a manager<br />

at a coffee shop. I personally trained a few<br />

people in restaurant management, really basic<br />

stuff. Nothing really extravagant.<br />

WHAT’S THE BEST PIECE OF ADVICE YOU’VE<br />

EVER BEEN GIVEN?<br />

I say this to Stefan all the time. When I was<br />

younger, I was walking down a hallway, <strong>and</strong><br />

I saw this picture of a basketball hoop <strong>and</strong> a<br />

basketball laying on the ground, <strong>and</strong> it said,<br />

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”<br />

That’s probably the best advice, <strong>and</strong> that<br />

course correlates with I guess everyone here.<br />

For example, if you watch the movie<br />

Transformers, there is a scene where Megan<br />

Fox is too scared to get into a car, <strong>and</strong> Sam<br />

Witwicky tells her, “Fifty years from now, when<br />

you’re looking back at your life, don’t you want<br />

to be able to say you had the guts to get in the<br />

car?” That really resonated with me, because<br />

I know that so many people have dreams, but<br />

they don’t have the heart to do it. Do it. Why<br />

are you so scared? Just do it, you don’t know<br />

what it will be like. If you don’t go skydiving,<br />

you won’t know how it feels. If you don’t pick<br />

up that microphone, you won’t know how it<br />

sounds. If you don’t try this thing in music, how<br />

do we know if it sounds good? For me, that’s<br />

the best advice I think I’ve ever seen in life.<br />

Just do it.<br />

DO YOU THINK YOU’RE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF?<br />

Yes.<br />

WHY IS THIS?<br />

Because if you don’t believe in yourself, then<br />

nobody else can believe in you.<br />

There is belief, <strong>and</strong> then there’s being really<br />

hard on yourself.<br />

You have to be hard on yourself to believe in<br />

yourself. For example, I read somewhere that<br />

Steve Jobs sent something like 12,000 business<br />

proposals to investors, only 1,200 called back,<br />

only 12 sat down with him for a meeting, <strong>and</strong><br />

only two invested. Now imagine how other<br />

people feel because they missed out on what<br />

Apple has become. But do you know how hard<br />

Steve Jobs worked? If you read his stuff, you will<br />

know that he put himself under constant stress,<br />

but he believed in himself, he kept going.<br />

Although the numbers might not all be exact,<br />

it’s the concept of that story that I admire. For<br />

me, the situation that I am in right now in music<br />

is just to keep going. For example, earlier in<br />

the month, we had four days off. But I didn’t<br />

want four days off I only wanted two <strong>and</strong> then<br />

to get back to work. In the end, I didn’t even<br />

have two days off; I just went straight back to<br />

the studio the same night.<br />

This is the same advice for you <strong>and</strong> for your<br />

magazine. There is someone somewhere in<br />

the world doing the exact same thing as you.<br />

Stefan sent me something on Instagram the<br />

other day, <strong>and</strong> it said, “In the Bible, sleep<br />

equals poverty to a man.” For me, it’s the<br />

same. I have to be hard on myself every single<br />

day. I have to push myself to do what I have<br />

to do.<br />

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY IS YOUR BIGGEST<br />

ACCOMPLISHMENT SO FAR?<br />

Our very first music post ever was seen by<br />

Nicki Minaj. She wrote on her page that my<br />

bar that I rapped is now her favourite rap bar<br />

of all time. For our first music post ever, this<br />

is an incredible achievement. For the Queen<br />

of Rap to say that my bar was her favourite<br />

of all time, <strong>and</strong> to say that I was one of the<br />

best contestants she’s ever seen, is a major<br />

accomplishment that no one can take away<br />

from me, Stefan, Yazeed, or the team – no one<br />

can take that away from us. So, that’s another<br />

sign of God right there.


HOW DO YOU BUILD ON FROM THAT?<br />

I think the number one thing that we are trying<br />

to do right now is media. We’re trying to get on<br />

a show. We’re trying to be the first team with<br />

unreleased music to rock out the show because<br />

the music is so strong. We want people to say,<br />

“How did this guy get into this club without<br />

having one song released?”<br />

For example, if you look at someone like Nipsy<br />

Hustle, he was selling his CD for $1,000 <strong>and</strong><br />

people bought it just to see what it was about.<br />

He made a million dollars of pure profit off of<br />

himself. Other labels would have looked at<br />

him <strong>and</strong> said he was crazy for selling a CD at<br />

$1,000, but he did it. For me, if I get a huge<br />

club with an unreleased song, people are still<br />

going to wonder how I’m doing it. We’re trying<br />

our own individual approach. I can’t follow the<br />

same route that everyone else has taken. I have<br />

to stay away from it. So, will it work? I don’t<br />

know, but if it does-<br />

If you don’t try, you never know.<br />

Exactly.<br />

WHAT DOES TALENT MEAN TO YOU? WHAT’S<br />

YOUR IDEA OF TALENT?<br />

Talent to me means that even if you don’t like<br />

me, you have to respect me. Talent for me is<br />

one of those things that you are just born with.<br />

Everyone has some kind of talent, but it’s what<br />

you do with it that counts. If you were born<br />

talented as a journalist, what would you do is<br />

to work on that. You have a full-time job <strong>and</strong><br />

a seven-year-old, that’s talent, my hat goes off<br />

to you.<br />

Let’s look at your magazine, not just the fact<br />

you write the magazine, but the fact that you<br />

have just been able to juggle those three things<br />

(a full-time job, entrepreneurship <strong>and</strong> being a<br />

mom). So, for me, talent is the ultimate measure<br />

of making a person respect you. Even if they<br />

don’t like you, they have to respect the talent.<br />

WHERE DO WE FIND YOU?<br />

You will most likely be able to find me on everything<br />

as Minelgc (Minel God’s child) or just Minel, once<br />

we have all the accounts set up.<br />

minelgc<br />

minelgc<br />

Minel<br />

coming soon<br />

coming soon<br />

coming soon


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the bloodstream. With pre-diabetes, your<br />

body isn’t making enough or not using insulin<br />

correctly; a condition called insulin resistance.<br />

If your body has insufficient insulin supply or is<br />

resistant to it (insulin), it accumulates too much<br />

glucose in your blood, leading to a higher blood<br />

glucose level that may result in pre-diabetes.<br />

The same risk factors occur with pre-diabetes<br />

<strong>and</strong> Type 2 diabetes. Here are some of them<br />

that you need to know.<br />

GESTATIONAL DIABETES<br />

Did you develop diabetes while pregnant? If<br />

yes, your risk of developing Type 2, later on, is<br />

more likely.


POLYCYSTIC OVARY SYNDROME<br />

(PCOS)<br />

This condition is related to insulin<br />

resistance. What’s happening is that<br />

you may be at a higher risk due to<br />

the many cysts, of which some may<br />

be due to insulin resistance, forming<br />

in your ovaries.<br />

LACK OF PHYSICAL ACTIVITY<br />

This issue is common among those<br />

who are obese or overweight.<br />

People who are not mindful of<br />

their current excess weight can be<br />

at high risk of diabetes, especially<br />

if they do not tend to move much<br />

due to a constant feeling of<br />

sluggishness.<br />

Apart from feeling sluggish, people<br />

with pre-diabetes may also have<br />

lack any kind of physical activity.<br />

This problem is common among<br />

those who are overweight. And<br />

if you’re less active, you can be at<br />

higher risk of pre-diabetes.<br />

AGE<br />

You’re likely to be at a higher risk of<br />

developing pre-diabetes if you’re<br />

older, say above 45 years old.<br />

FAMILY HISTORY<br />

You’re more likely to develop prediabetes<br />

if you have a close family<br />

member who has or has had it<br />

because it has a hereditary factor,<br />

too.<br />

HEALTH CONDITIONS<br />

People with high bad cholesterol<br />

levels or hypertension also have an<br />

increased risk of diabetes.<br />

OBESITY AND OVERWEIGHT<br />

Do you have at least a 25 body mass<br />

index? Your chances of developing<br />

Type 2 diabetes are higher , especially<br />

if you have excess visceral fat in your<br />

abdomen. The fat cells in that area<br />

will make you more insulin resistant if<br />

you are already at risk of developing<br />

Type 2 diabetes.<br />

There are some groups who have<br />

higher tendencies to develop<br />

this condition, <strong>and</strong> a few of them<br />

include Hispanic Americans, African<br />

Americans, Asian Americans <strong>and</strong><br />

Native Americans.<br />

HYPOTHYROIDISM<br />

If you have this condition, your body<br />

isn’t circulating enough thyroid<br />

hormones or its thyroid gl<strong>and</strong> is<br />

not functioning well; thus, you can<br />

develop Type 2 diabetes if you also<br />

have pre-diabetes.<br />

TIPS TO AVOID DEVELOPING<br />

DIABETES<br />

Making simple lifestyle changes<br />

is your best bet to prevent the<br />

condition. To begin, here are some<br />

things you can do. You can get<br />

started with them <strong>and</strong> likely notice<br />

a big difference.


MAKE TIME FOR EXERCISE. There is no<br />

excuse, no matter how busy you are. If you<br />

have pre-diabetes, you can still prevent it from<br />

becoming diabetes by incorporating moderate<br />

physical activity into your life.<br />

Even if it’s just 10 or 30 minutes a day, a few<br />

options include swimming, riding a bike or<br />

brisk walking. But if you have an underlying<br />

condition, consult your doctor about a safe<br />

exercise for you.<br />

EAT HEALTHILY. Stick with a healthy diet<br />

plan, <strong>and</strong> add foods like whole grains, fruits<br />

<strong>and</strong> vegetables to your diet. You can also<br />

think about adding lean protein sources, like<br />

chicken or fish.<br />

REDUCE YOUR CALORIE INTAKE. Try<br />

having small servings instead of splurging in<br />

calories in one sitting. You must also drink<br />

water instead of sugary drinks.<br />

ARE YOU OVERWEIGHT? Strive <strong>and</strong> work<br />

hard to lose weight. You can prevent or delay<br />

it by simply losing seven percent of your<br />

weight.<br />

Weight loss does more than make you looking<br />

fab. It also reduces your risk of developing<br />

many other conditions like a heart attack, high<br />

blood pressure <strong>and</strong> high cholesterol.<br />

PRE-DIABETES IS PREVENTABLE<br />

When diagnosed earlier, it is not likely to<br />

develop into Type 2 diabetes or make you<br />

susceptible to more issues like obesity <strong>and</strong><br />

heart attack. If you want to prevent prediabetes,<br />

you can start making simple lifestyle<br />

changes like adding exercise, planning your<br />

diet <strong>and</strong> reducing your calorie intake. Live a<br />

healthy lifestyle <strong>and</strong> prevent pre-diabetes!


What You Need to Know <strong>About</strong><br />

(<strong>and</strong> Recipes)<br />

Healthy eating is a significant part of life because<br />

it may keep us away from diseases, prolong our<br />

lifespan <strong>and</strong> give us more zest.<br />

One diet that’s been around for years <strong>and</strong> has been<br />

helping others achieve great health is the glutenfree<br />

diet.<br />

Chances are you’re also interested in glutenfree<br />

eating. That may be a good move if you<br />

cannot tolerate gluten, which leaves you feeling<br />

uncomfortable. Why might you be into<br />

gluten-free eating?<br />

DIGESTIVE RELIEF<br />

This diet can help because it may relieve digestive<br />

issues, including constipation, bloating, diarrhoea,<br />

fatigue <strong>and</strong> gas.<br />

WEIGHT LOSS<br />

And the more good news is that a gluten-free diet<br />

may also help you lose weight. The reason is<br />

that it could help eliminate junk foods <strong>and</strong> unwanted<br />

calories from your diet. Instead, they’re replaced by<br />

lean protein, vegetables <strong>and</strong> fruit.<br />

In this diet, however, you should avoid processed<br />

gluten-free stuff like pastries, cakes <strong>and</strong> snacks,<br />

because these can quickly add calories to your diet.<br />

ENERGY BOOST<br />

And if you’re always feeling bogged down by the<br />

things that life throws at you, help might just be<br />

around the corner with gluten-free recipes that we’ll<br />

discuss later. With a gluten-free diet, you’ll feel less<br />

tired <strong>and</strong> experience fewer brain fog episodes.<br />

So, how do you get started with gluten-free<br />

eating? Coming up are some easy gluten-free<br />

recipes that you should try at home.<br />

Other benefits<br />

• It may also be for you if you’re suffering from<br />

celiac disease in which your body is harming itself<br />

by mistake.<br />

• It can also help you deal with inflammation,<br />

which is a process that helps to treat <strong>and</strong> heal<br />

infection, but when it goes out of h<strong>and</strong>, it can<br />

become chronic <strong>and</strong> can lead to various problems.


GLUTEN-FREE<br />

Here is the link: Rice Bread<br />

Check it out on this link<br />

for the recipe.


Use this video for a quick<br />

<strong>and</strong> easy recipe.<br />

Check out this dairy-free <strong>and</strong><br />

gluten-free lasagna here.<br />

Here is the link for Rolls


Check out this link for the recipe.<br />

Watch this video for ways to make<br />

this honey butter chicken.<br />

TIPS FOR A GLUTEN-FREE DIET<br />

Check the label when shopping for food to determine<br />

if there is any gluten in the list of ingredients.<br />

Talk to your family <strong>and</strong> friends <strong>and</strong> tell them about<br />

your special diet. This way, they won’t be surprised<br />

if you order gluten-free food when you eat out.<br />

You should plan ahead to avoid running out of<br />

options (<strong>and</strong> gluten-free food in your fridge!). The<br />

same goes if you’re going overseas or travelling<br />

soon. You might want to check some places to shop<br />

or eat gluten-free food.<br />

Get a gluten-free cookbook for inspiration on more<br />

gluten-free recipes. They can make your new diet<br />

more exciting <strong>and</strong> interesting.<br />

Bring food when going outside. If you want to save<br />

up, you might want to make recipes ahead of time<br />

like gluten-free pasta <strong>and</strong> bread. It will also save you<br />

from the stress of finding gluten-free food choices.<br />

FINAL THOUGHTS<br />

Trying a new diet like gluten-free eating can be<br />

exciting (<strong>and</strong> rewarding if done right). For this reason,<br />

it’s best that you complete thorough research, plan<br />

ahead, <strong>and</strong> watch the foods you’re eating closely.<br />

DISCLAIMER<br />

This article is not to replace a GP’s advice but only a reference. You must consult your doctor prior to starting a gluten-free diet just<br />

like any other diet for that matter. After all, it’s your safety that should come first. Also, there is no one diet fits all rule anywhere. Thus,<br />

you should pay your doctor a visit <strong>and</strong> consult him about a gluten-free diet, <strong>and</strong> only at his green light should you start the diet plan.


15 Foods to<br />

<strong>and</strong> How They<br />

Do It<br />

When it comes to dieting, the words<br />

“moderation” <strong>and</strong> “portion control”<br />

are the ones that come into our<br />

minds <strong>and</strong> can commonly be found<br />

in articles, guides <strong>and</strong> tutorials to<br />

lose weight or stay healthy.<br />

But there’s more to them than<br />

limiting our food intake. They can<br />

also speed up weight loss <strong>and</strong> give<br />

us better results in our efforts to<br />

stay healthy.<br />

However, for those who are new to<br />

this whole fitness <strong>and</strong> dieting thing,<br />

following these two principles may<br />

be difficult. In fact, beginners often<br />

fail to cut back on their food intake<br />

due to the feeling of hunger. But<br />

there’s actually a secret.<br />

There are certain foods that can<br />

make you feel fuller for longer, but<br />

have none of the extra calories that<br />

we want to avoid in the first place!<br />

So the next time you’re reaching<br />

for that bag of chips or cake, you<br />

might want to snack on these foods<br />

instead.<br />

Foods that Can Fool Hunger


1. Eggs<br />

Starting your day with a scrambled or sunnyside-up<br />

egg will keep you satiated until lunch.<br />

The reason why? Eggs are packed with about six<br />

grams of protein in every serving. They also have<br />

amino acids <strong>and</strong> antioxidants that will keep your<br />

body energised longer.<br />

2. Avocados<br />

Avocados have healthy mono-saturated fat that<br />

keeps you feeling full for longer while keeping<br />

your blood vessels <strong>and</strong> heart in tip-top shape.<br />

They are also rich in fibre <strong>and</strong> protein. Keep in<br />

mind though that avocado packs many calories.<br />

So, you’d be better off to just snack on half of the<br />

fruit.<br />

3. Lentils <strong>and</strong> Legumes<br />

Legumes were considered as a dietary no-no back<br />

in the day since they were high in fat <strong>and</strong> calories.<br />

But like avocadoes, they provide the good kind.<br />

A mixture of lentils <strong>and</strong> legumes provides a good<br />

amount of protein, carbs <strong>and</strong> healthy fats that<br />

stabilise <strong>and</strong> maintain your blood sugar.<br />

4. Oatmeal<br />

Oatmeal is another breakfast staple for many, <strong>and</strong><br />

for good reasons! Oatmeal is packed with protein<br />

<strong>and</strong> soluble <strong>and</strong> insoluble fibre to keep you fuller<br />

for longer. This is because fibre takes a lot longer<br />

for your body to break down, keeping your blood<br />

sugar stable. However, stick to the plain ones <strong>and</strong><br />

just add your own toppings such as fruit, nuts, etc.


5. Soups<br />

Slurping the soup before a meal is actually a<br />

good choice, especially for those looking to lose<br />

weight.<br />

This is because soups have high water content<br />

<strong>and</strong> if they’re full of veggies, then they’re high<br />

in fibre as well. However, make sure to stick to<br />

broth-based ones, as creamy soups tend to be<br />

high in calories <strong>and</strong> fat.<br />

6. Vegetables<br />

Of course, along with fruits, veggies provide the<br />

backbone of every diet. In fact, adding vegetables<br />

like broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower,<br />

cabbage, kale, <strong>and</strong> the like into your diet will<br />

benefit you in the end. These greens have loads<br />

of fibre <strong>and</strong> nutrients that can keep diseases like<br />

cancer away.<br />

Moreover, they are low in calories so, there’s<br />

basically no limit on their serving. They can be<br />

used in numerous dishes or can be served as a<br />

side dish. Bonus, you can also throw them in a<br />

blender <strong>and</strong> make a smoothie!<br />

7. Greek Yoghurt<br />

Greek yoghurt is a powerhouse filled with calcium<br />

<strong>and</strong> protein while being low in calories <strong>and</strong> sugar.<br />

In fact, a typical ounce serving has 15-20 grams of<br />

protein, which is roughly the same amount found<br />

in lean meats.<br />

Yoghurt also provides the right amount of flavour<br />

for it to be hearty. I say go for the plain ones <strong>and</strong><br />

go crazy on them by adding toppings such as<br />

fruits, nuts or dark chocolate.<br />

8. Fruits<br />

Fruits are an excellent choice to add fibre <strong>and</strong><br />

other nutrients to your meal. They are packed<br />

with pectin which can especially help you with<br />

your diet as it takes longer for your body to digest<br />

<strong>and</strong> keeps you satiated longer.<br />

Fruits with high pectin <strong>and</strong> fibre content include<br />

apples, raspberries, pears, bananas, blackberries<br />

<strong>and</strong> the like.


13. Whey Protein Powder<br />

Whey protein is linked to satiety <strong>and</strong> fewer calorie<br />

intake since it is packed with protein. Use the<br />

powder to add protein to your smoothies.<br />

Whey protein can also be found in milk, cottage<br />

cheese <strong>and</strong> yoghurt.<br />

14. Dark Chocolate<br />

Some of us can’t live without chocolate. It’s a<br />

good thing there’s a healthy option too.<br />

Dark chocolate is known to increase feelings of<br />

satiety <strong>and</strong> help curb cravings. It is also chock-full<br />

of magnesium <strong>and</strong> regulates blood pressure as<br />

well as provides protection to the brain <strong>and</strong> heart.<br />

15. Water<br />

Last but not least is water! Again, the feeling<br />

of dehydration can be mistaken for hunger. So,<br />

before reaching that snack, try to drink a glass of<br />

water <strong>and</strong> wait for ten minutes to know if you’re<br />

really hungry or not.<br />

With all the food listed, you are now set to create<br />

<strong>and</strong> consume your healthy meals. Of course,<br />

adding these foods can help you with your diet<br />

<strong>and</strong> weight loss.<br />

However, aside from this, you should also<br />

remember always to practise portion control <strong>and</strong><br />

eat in moderation. These foods that fool hunger<br />

are definitely good for you, but you are unlikely to<br />

lose weight if you overeat <strong>and</strong> do not implement<br />

a plan in mind.<br />

Nevertheless, tweaking your diet here <strong>and</strong><br />

there, scheduling eating times, <strong>and</strong> consuming<br />

only healthy stuff will all help you achieve your<br />

#fitnessgoals.


CAN TEA<br />

HELP TO<br />

IMPROVE<br />

FITNESS?


Tea is the second most popular beverage in the world after<br />

water. In fact, the world’s consumption is predicted to grow<br />

15% over the period between 2016 to 2021.<br />

There is no doubt why. This super drink is not only refreshing<br />

during stressful days <strong>and</strong> warming through chilly nights but<br />

also has daily fitness improving qualities.<br />

For centuries, tea has also been a great source of comfort<br />

<strong>and</strong> medication. With a chock full of benefits, it is also a<br />

favourite among health <strong>and</strong> fitness buffs. But can it really<br />

improve fitness? Is it really good for you?<br />

TOP 10 AMAZING FITNESS BENEFITS OF TEA<br />

The underappreciated beverage has turned out to be a great<br />

sports performance drink. Here’s why. Beyond health, tea is<br />

also sports <strong>and</strong> performance-enhancing – but the natural<br />

way. Athletes who want to play better sip tea instead of any<br />

other beverage like coffee or soda. Let’s discuss more in the<br />

following.<br />

1. HYDRATION<br />

Keep your cells hydrated! It is<br />

one of the things to remember<br />

if you want to improve your<br />

workouts. Or else, dehydration<br />

knocks at the door <strong>and</strong><br />

impedes performance. It also<br />

leads to problems like fatigue<br />

<strong>and</strong> cramps.<br />

So if you don’t want to end<br />

up on the bench in sports,<br />

you should keep your cells<br />

hydrated with tea, which has<br />

the same hydrating properties<br />

as water. It can help improve<br />

performance, not to mention<br />

it has a refreshing flavour but<br />

without sugar.


2. (NOT TOO MUCH) STIMULATION<br />

Athletes <strong>and</strong> fitness seekers drink tea versus<br />

soda because the latter is loaded with sugar,<br />

additives <strong>and</strong> caffeine.<br />

Tea has mild stimulating properties, just enough<br />

to keep you going but without causing crashes<br />

– like what sugar does.<br />

Prevent crashes which also come from coffee’s<br />

caffeine, with tea instead. Even if it has caffeine,<br />

it has lower amounts versus what coffee has.<br />

Tea can help you stay stimulated for an early<br />

morning workout or sports practice, <strong>and</strong> keep<br />

you feeling energised to face the rest of the<br />

day.<br />

As a tip, you can drink green tea after practice<br />

for rehydration. So, you can raise your<br />

awareness levels, especially on days when you<br />

need to get through <strong>and</strong> overcome pressure.<br />

Get that extra push in performance! Drink tea<br />

with just the right amount of caffeine, which is<br />

one of the most proven performance enhancers<br />

in the world.<br />

3. ENDURANCE<br />

Green tea extract can stimulate lipid use <strong>and</strong><br />

improve endurance capacity. In terms of stamina<br />

<strong>and</strong> endurance, tea can help in improving fatty acid<br />

utilisation as an energy source that encourages<br />

metabolic capacity increase.<br />

And during aerobic activity, green tea, in particular,<br />

can improve your performance due to increased<br />

endurance.<br />

Contributing to this action is the increase in one’s<br />

ability to burn fat as fuel. It turns out that green tea<br />

can also help to increase body composition <strong>and</strong><br />

prioritising fat storage over glycogen.


4. HEALTH AND WELLNESS<br />

Working out <strong>and</strong> being active can<br />

make you feel exhausted <strong>and</strong> sick<br />

from time to time, especially if you<br />

don’t have a strong immune system.<br />

To prevent this from happening, you<br />

must learn how to improve fitness,<br />

<strong>and</strong> one of the best ways to do that<br />

is regular tea consumption.<br />

Tea is a potent source of antioxidants,<br />

particularly catechins. They aid in<br />

cancer prevention as well as lower<br />

the risk of cardiovascular disease<br />

<strong>and</strong> osteoporosis.<br />

In addition, tea helps in lowering bad<br />

cholesterol levels <strong>and</strong> increasing<br />

dental health. This wonder drink<br />

can also prevent diabetes, improve<br />

focus <strong>and</strong> energy <strong>and</strong> manage<br />

weight.<br />

5. MUSCLE STRENGTH<br />

Inflammation due to oxidative stress<br />

is a common concern among fitness<br />

enthusiasts because it can deteriorate<br />

bone <strong>and</strong> muscle health over time.<br />

Whenever you work out, you add more<br />

stress to your bones <strong>and</strong> muscles, which<br />

holds back your strength.<br />

Exercise causes stress to the body,<br />

which has to take on more of it as you<br />

push harder.<br />

Over time, your strength builds up due<br />

to that added stress! However, you<br />

should take care of your body, which<br />

accumulates stress <strong>and</strong> suffers from<br />

inflammation while you’re in progress.<br />

For this reason, learn to add healthy<br />

habits like drinking tea known for its<br />

polyphenols compounds that aid in<br />

productive workouts <strong>and</strong> improved<br />

body shape.


7. FOCUS<br />

Improve <strong>and</strong> sharpen your focus with<br />

tea, such as sage tea, which can also<br />

support the nervous <strong>and</strong> neural system<br />

function as well as improve blood<br />

circulation to the brain. To keep track of<br />

your reps <strong>and</strong> sets, drink rosemary tea<br />

for improved memory.<br />

6. RECOVERY<br />

Post-workout soreness is a challenge<br />

among athletes, powerlifters, runners<br />

<strong>and</strong> fitness seekers, so they need<br />

recovery.<br />

If you want to reduce recovery time,<br />

you should drink tea that can do that<br />

for you. Otherwise, you might not<br />

achieve faster gains, which are only<br />

possible with a faster recovery.<br />

Green tea, in smaller doses, can<br />

help reduce chronic fatigue. Both<br />

green <strong>and</strong> white teas neutralise free<br />

radicals, which exercise can produce,<br />

<strong>and</strong> enhance the immune system.


8. BONE HEALTH<br />

You don’t just achieve strong bones<br />

by drinking milk but also tea, which<br />

can help to prevent bone loss<br />

related to ageing.<br />

Certain studies have shown that it<br />

could support osteoblastic activities<br />

<strong>and</strong> bone mineral density. It could<br />

also reduce bone fracture risk <strong>and</strong><br />

help in bone formation.<br />

9. WEIGHT LOSS<br />

Reach your workout goals faster by<br />

incorporating tea, which can help you<br />

manage or lose weight in your fitness<br />

regimen! As a result, you’ll lose weight<br />

faster because tea can aid in metabolism<br />

<strong>and</strong> burn more calories.


FINAL THOUGHTS<br />

Tea can help improve fitness, health <strong>and</strong> wellness.<br />

Adding it to your fitness routine, workouts <strong>and</strong> sports<br />

practices can up your performance, improve motivation,<br />

<strong>and</strong> enhance overall results. It can also calm you down,<br />

improve bone <strong>and</strong> oral health, <strong>and</strong> strengthen the<br />

immune system. Start reaping all these benefits by<br />

incorporating tea in your diet today!<br />

10. RELAXATION<br />

Sip your tea <strong>and</strong> calm down after<br />

a tiring fitness regimen. It can help<br />

you relax, boost brain dopamine<br />

levels, <strong>and</strong> increase motivation.<br />

Tea boosts dopamine supply in<br />

brain areas that need it the most.<br />

It’s beneficial for your creativity,<br />

performance <strong>and</strong> mood.<br />

Dopamine aids in transmitting<br />

motivation <strong>and</strong> reward signals<br />

aside from relaxing the muscles <strong>and</strong><br />

aiding them to move smoothly.


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recurring feature in the<br />

wellness section of <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />

<strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> that<br />

serves to shine a spotlight<br />

on the supermoms who<br />

combine raising a family with<br />

their own career <strong>and</strong> life<br />

goals – <strong>and</strong> look FABULOUS<br />

while doing it.<br />

Balancing it All<br />

Name: Jennifer Stelco<br />

Age: 32<br />

Marital Status: Married<br />

Number of children:<br />

3 kids ( 3 months, 2 <strong>and</strong> 3.5)


1. TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF<br />

I’m an Australian artist <strong>and</strong> have been<br />

living in Dubai for nine years. I was once a<br />

full-time painter, churning out a painting<br />

almost every day. Now that I have three<br />

small kids, I paint in the evenings <strong>and</strong><br />

during nap time as commissions come<br />

up. I love sports (mainly netball <strong>and</strong> horse<br />

riding), walking my dogs, gardening,<br />

sketching, going to bed early, eating<br />

breakfast out, <strong>and</strong> reading. My idea of a<br />

wild night out is a book club with wine or<br />

catching a show at the Dubai opera.<br />

2. HAVE YOU ALWAYS BEEN FIT?<br />

WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO LIVE A<br />

HEALTHIER LIFE<strong>STYLE</strong>?<br />

I haven’t always been fit. I was briefly fit<br />

in high school when I was in the rowing<br />

team, then stopped all forms of exercise<br />

from the age of 16 <strong>and</strong> didn’t start up<br />

again until I got involved in the netball<br />

community when I first came to Dubai<br />

in 2010, initially just to meet people. I<br />

then signed up for women’s’ rugby for a<br />

season which came with a lot of fitness<br />

training. One day a netball friend asked<br />

me to join a team of runners in the Wadi<br />

Bih race, <strong>and</strong> from there I’ve always done<br />

some form of running or working out,<br />

aside from when I’ve been pregnant.<br />

3. DESCRIBE WHAT YOU’RE DOING<br />

TO STAY OR GET IN SHAPE? HOW<br />

OFTEN ARE YOU WORKING OUT<br />

AND FOR WHAT DURATION?<br />

I work out a lot. I walk my dogs for 30<br />

minutes every night after my kids go to<br />

bed. I also try to go for a short run on<br />

weekends, do one postnatal fitness class<br />

a week, <strong>and</strong> I see a personal trainer twice<br />

a week. I’m only managing a 3 km run<br />

at the moment as I’m only 3.5 months<br />

postnatal, but ultimately I would like to<br />

be able to run 10 km within an hour. It<br />

takes a long time to get back to that<br />

point after having a baby!<br />

4. WHAT IS YOUR DIET LIKE?<br />

My diet is pretty st<strong>and</strong>ard; I eat three<br />

or four meals a day. For dinner, I have<br />

been using Hello Chef, which is great,<br />

selecting mostly low carb meals that I<br />

think my kids will eat. I avoid sugar <strong>and</strong><br />

carbs whenever possible but not always.<br />

I try to remember to drink loads of water,<br />

<strong>and</strong> aside from water, only drink sugarless<br />

tea or americanos. Having said that, on<br />

special occasions or after a hard week, I<br />

love a few wines. My major weakness is<br />

Cheetos. The rule that I live by is always<br />

having a huge glass of water before I eat<br />

anything, even if it’s just a light snack.


5. HOW DO YOU STAY MOTIVATED?<br />

I stay motivated by using a fitness tracking<br />

watch <strong>and</strong> attempting to reach a certain<br />

amount of calories burned every day. Also,<br />

by having a training buddy who shares my<br />

PT sessions.<br />

6. DO YOU HAVE ANY MENTAL TRICKS<br />

THAT YOU USE WHEN YOU JUST DON’T<br />

FEEL LIKE WORKING OUT?<br />

No. If I really just don’t feel like it that much<br />

- I don’t. Skipping a workout every so often<br />

is fine. Sometimes it’s more important to<br />

rest.<br />

7. WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR<br />

MOMS WHO SAY THEY DON’T HAVE<br />

TIME FOR EXERCISE?<br />

Get a Fitbit or Apple watch or something<br />

similar <strong>and</strong> turn it into a game, making sure<br />

you get X amount of points per day or week.<br />

You’ll start looking for exercise where you<br />

didn’t before. Parking further away, taking<br />

the stairs, carrying heavy loads, playing<br />

more actively with the kids, etc.<br />

8. THINGS YOU’VE YOU TRIED AND<br />

HATED—DIETS AND WORKING OUT?<br />

I hate any form of dieting that makes me<br />

hungry, like calorie counting or fasting.<br />

Also, working out alone doesn’t work for<br />

me. I like to be with a friend or in a class;<br />

otherwise I slack off.<br />

9. WHAT ARE YOUR TOP THREE TIPS<br />

TO HELP WOMEN GET INTO SHAPE<br />

POST-PREGNANCY?<br />

• Get a fitness tracking watch.<br />

• Work out with a buddy so that it’s more<br />

fun <strong>and</strong> seems like a better use of your rare<br />

“me time.” Also, you’re less likely to cancel<br />

if you’re letting a friend down.<br />

• Set achievable goals, like losing 2-3 kg<br />

per month. It doesn’t seem like much at the<br />

time but then six months pass, <strong>and</strong> you’ve<br />

lost 12 kg, which is amazing. Also, it leaves<br />

room for relaxing <strong>and</strong> indulging a bit.


-Kendria R. Johnson<br />

Step one: Research all the cities you want to see in<br />

Italy.<br />

Step two: Make an impossible list of ALL the things<br />

you want to do in Italy.<br />

Step three: Arrive in Italy <strong>and</strong> throw away your list.


ROMA, ITALIA (ROME, ITALY)<br />

I wanted to explore Italy on my own terms. I wanted<br />

to get lost in this country. I wanted my visit to be<br />

intentional but sporadic at the same time. I had 21 days<br />

to make this experience authentic <strong>and</strong> meaningful, so<br />

when I arrived in Rome, I discarded my list <strong>and</strong> went<br />

with my gut. I had to discard the preconceived order<br />

of things that I wanted in order to enjoy the journey<br />

instead of being fixated on checking things off on a list.<br />

I prepaid for my hotels in Rome, but I cancelled other<br />

hotels in certain areas <strong>and</strong> literally booked hotels based<br />

on places I wanted to go. With my new itinerary, I could<br />

trust the travel gods to lead me in the right direction.<br />

My list included Sorrento, Capri, Naples, Positano, <strong>and</strong><br />

the entire Amalfi Coast. However, on my second day in<br />

Rome, I knew I could only do one part of Italy, so I chose<br />

the North; Florence, Pisa, Venice, Siena, Milan <strong>and</strong> Lake<br />

Como.<br />

The best advice I have for virgin travellers to this country<br />

is to listen to local people or, if you have friends who<br />

have been to the country before, take any <strong>and</strong> all advice<br />

seriously. While purchasing your first train ticket in the<br />

heart of Rome, as soon as you choose the language to<br />

make the purchase, the kiosk recording actually says,<br />

“Beware of pickpockets.” I think that being aware<br />

makes it easier to avoid unpleasant situations. I was very<br />

careful where I placed my bags <strong>and</strong> even more careful<br />

about what was in my peripheral vision. Another good<br />

piece of advice is to not pay for private transportation<br />

to populated areas when trains <strong>and</strong> buses can take you<br />

there for a fraction of the price. For instance, taxis are<br />

convenient but not cheap. I paid 48 euros for my ride<br />

from the airport. Trains to <strong>and</strong> from the airport are 14<br />

euros. I paid 13-18 euros for each trip to central Florence<br />

before I learned how to ride the local transportation<br />

for two euros. Local buses <strong>and</strong> light rail trains are the<br />

cheapest <strong>and</strong> day passes are the best value. You can<br />

travel within the country to almost any major city in Italy<br />

for less than 99 euros by train. I can attest that the coach<br />

seats on the train feel exactly the same as first-class <strong>and</strong><br />

business seats.<br />

Surprisingly, you can be your own travel agent for Italy.<br />

You just need a good sense of who you are <strong>and</strong> a general<br />

idea of things you want to do. For example, if you are<br />

a wine connoisseur, a history buff, or a lover of art <strong>and</strong><br />

architecture, Italy has everything you could desire. Use<br />

third-party hotel booking websites that provide free<br />

cancellations <strong>and</strong> NO deposit to book hotel rooms.<br />

Befriend a local merchant. In a few of the older boutique<br />

hotels I stayed in, you have to return your hotel keys<br />

when you leave for the day. While exchanging my keys,<br />

I rambled excessively what I wanted to see while in<br />

Rome. For instance, I knew that the Colosseum in Rome


was the first thing on my agenda. The locals<br />

were quick to advise me to stay clear of scams,<br />

tourist traps, fake leather shops <strong>and</strong> inflated<br />

local restaurant prices. They told me where the<br />

best cafes are <strong>and</strong> the less expensive ways to<br />

“taste” local wines without paying for a glass.<br />

There are multiple tour companies that provide<br />

you with any type of tour you desire; walking<br />

tours, skip-the-line tours <strong>and</strong> exploration to<br />

parts unknown tours. Rome was not built in a<br />

day, but you can definitely see most of it in<br />

a van with air conditioning if you so choose.<br />

If you are a planner, there are many websites<br />

where you can book tours ahead of your trip.<br />

Or if you’re a last-minute Betty like me, you can<br />

walk up to any kiosk <strong>and</strong> book a tour. If your<br />

list includes the Vatican, the Sistine Chapel,<br />

Pompei, or Naples, there are specific tours or<br />

bulk tours that can get your boxes checked. Be<br />

prepared for long lines, the wait <strong>and</strong> vagrants<br />

that want to sell you everything! For foodies,<br />

you will love the idea of cooking classes which<br />

are like pop-up shops, so check the web or ask<br />

a local for the best ones in the area.<br />

Nightlife in Italian culture all depends on what<br />

you desire. I passed several nightclubs where<br />

you could hear music from a mile away, but I<br />

prefer drinking wine in cafes <strong>and</strong> bars after a<br />

night at the theatre. at St. Mark’s Church hosts<br />

La Boheme, Madame Butterfly, Carmen, <strong>and</strong><br />

other favourites playing May through October.<br />

Prices vary <strong>and</strong> can run up to 100 euros<br />

depending on the seats. I attended a ballet in<br />

the city for 25 euros. The following evening,<br />

I was serenaded by the Three Tenors in the<br />

Auditorium of Santo Stefano al Ponte Vecchio,<br />

an old church converted into a theatre east<br />

of Florence. I splurged on front row VIP seats<br />

for 55 euros <strong>and</strong> was actually selected for an<br />

impromptu waltz by one of the lead opera<br />

stars! It was the highlight of my weekend.<br />

To sum up my 21 days of exploring Italy, I got<br />

everything I wanted even if it was not on ‘the<br />

list.’ I enjoyed the impromptu experiences the<br />

most. I ate the best food Italy has to offer, rode<br />

trains through Bologna, Padova, San Giovanni<br />

<strong>and</strong> collected more sunsets from my hotel<br />

balcony in Florence. I cancelled my hotel in<br />

Milan because the Italians said that, “Milan is<br />

for shopping, not for a visit.” My last lesson<br />

to share is to come to Italy with a plan but be<br />

prepared to deviate from that plan. I was glad<br />

I discarded my list because just like my friend


said, “You have to visit Italy in parts, <strong>and</strong> you have to<br />

go more than once! Because there is so much to see,<br />

you will get lost.” I was glad I made the trip <strong>and</strong> can’t<br />

wait to get lost in Italy again sometime in the future.<br />

FLORENCE (FIRENZE)<br />

Firenze, in Italian, is the place where you get the best<br />

of both worlds. You see an immaculate city sprawled<br />

between amazing hilltops, while the rolling countryside<br />

is half an hour away. In one bus ride, you find the best<br />

vineyards, hiking trails, ancient ruins, church cathedrals,<br />

or seascapes this country inhabits. I judge the life of a<br />

city by the heartbeat<br />

of its city centre.<br />

The busier <strong>and</strong> more<br />

crowded the centre,<br />

the stronger the<br />

heartbeat. Once you<br />

arrive, you will quickly<br />

feel the vibration<br />

beating in Pienza!<br />

TUSCANY VIA<br />

SIENA, SAN<br />

GIMIGNANO, PISA<br />

Tuscany is a must for<br />

any traveller simply<br />

because it represents<br />

what locals call “Old<br />

Italy” while new cities<br />

like Milan are more<br />

modern <strong>and</strong> upbeat.<br />

If you are a “lazy”<br />

traveller like me, I<br />

enjoy long walks <strong>and</strong><br />

bike tours that engage<br />

me in the best view<br />

of the mountains,<br />

green trees <strong>and</strong><br />

vineyards. Travelling<br />

with an asthma pump,<br />

antihistamines <strong>and</strong><br />

nasal spray is what<br />

kept me stable enough to enjoy trees stoked inside<br />

the mountains. Living in the desert for four years,<br />

you forget what green looks like. The vistas of the<br />

mountains that backdropped the clouds <strong>and</strong> a pristine<br />

blue sky were worth the risk of an allergy flare-up for<br />

me.<br />

Siena is a small village in Tuscany, <strong>and</strong> I was drawn<br />

there by befriending a local cook at my hotel. She<br />

described it as an old town with fewer people. She<br />

almost made me think it was a secret village when she<br />

whispered it to me over breakfast. I spent less than<br />

six euros on a bus tour <strong>and</strong> was glad I listened that<br />

morning. The greenery literally takes your breath away.<br />

Pisa is not as elaborate as Florence or Rome, but if<br />

the Leaning Tower of Pisa is on your list, then, by all<br />

means, get your obligatory picture holding up the<br />

tower. It costs extra to go into the tower but again it’s<br />

up to you <strong>and</strong> what you want from the experience. I<br />

wasn’t at all interested in getting the picture that 1.3<br />

million tourists get every year. Instead, I opted to get<br />

the best gelato <strong>and</strong> buy a new bag.<br />

The village of San Gimignano is a Medieval town tucked<br />

quietly in the heart of Tuscany. If you love history <strong>and</strong><br />

antiques, this will be a good place to shop. Most of<br />

your tour guides are<br />

multilingual but check<br />

the fine print to make<br />

sure before you book.<br />

VENICE (VENEZIA)<br />

Venezia in Italian<br />

was an optional<br />

excursion before I<br />

arrived in Italy. Due to<br />

preconceived images<br />

in my head, I thought<br />

I already knew what<br />

was there because of<br />

television <strong>and</strong> movies<br />

I decided to take the<br />

train for a day trip <strong>and</strong><br />

confirm what I already<br />

thought I knew. I’m<br />

proud to confirm that<br />

my suspected images<br />

were correct. Venice<br />

is magical! When I<br />

first arrived, I saw<br />

the most beautiful<br />

cathedral right next<br />

to the train station,<br />

the Church of Saint<br />

Maria (La Iglesias<br />

de Santa Maria de<br />

Nazaret.) I went<br />

inside to underst<strong>and</strong> what the lines were for <strong>and</strong> the<br />

architecture, the paintings, the crisp spiritual statues of<br />

the Arch Angels made me gasps <strong>and</strong> swoon. Although<br />

it could have been the heat, I still say it was the beauty<br />

of the building that gave me life.<br />

The city on water is epically breathtaking! Transportation<br />

around the city varies, but it is the best way to get a<br />

complete visual of Venice. The gondolas are private<br />

tours, water taxis take you to specific places, while<br />

water buses take large groups to general locations<br />

around the city. Do what fits your budget <strong>and</strong> tastes. I<br />

l<strong>and</strong>ed inside a café by the centre, where I had the best


lasagne of my entire life. Most<br />

times, we are underwhelmed<br />

when reality meets anticipation,<br />

but for this city in the sea, I was<br />

not disappointed.<br />

LAKE COMO<br />

The best scenery I was enamoured<br />

within northern Italy was a city<br />

along a lake, Lake Como. I was<br />

lost in the mountains by the lake.<br />

You would find yourself distracted<br />

in this city, not knowing where<br />

your time went. For example, I<br />

went to Bellagio for a quick lunch<br />

<strong>and</strong> day trip. The ferry ran every<br />

hour; some ran every half an hour.<br />

I squ<strong>and</strong>ered the day before<br />

I realised that I only had two<br />

ferries left to catch before it was<br />

dinner time. I missed one trying<br />

to purchase souvenirs, so I sat by<br />

the water in a hook around the<br />

hill from the ferry stop. I gazed<br />

a long while before realizing that<br />

45 minutes had passed, <strong>and</strong> my<br />

ferry was about to depart. It’s that<br />

easy to get lost in the cinematic<br />

beauty of the lake. Visiting is a<br />

must for travellers who want a<br />

break from the big, fast city.<br />

MILAN<br />

I was not excited to leave Lake<br />

Como. Maybe it was the sadness<br />

of it being my last three days in<br />

Italy that broke me or maybe it<br />

was just getting lost in downtown<br />

Milan. I spent my last day in Italy<br />

crying in a metro station because<br />

I wasn’t on the right train. The<br />

lost in translation conversation<br />

steered me towards the wrong<br />

stop in the wrong direction, so I<br />

went one hour trying to find my<br />

way back to Central Station. I am<br />

usually very confident <strong>and</strong> travel<br />

savvy, but it was hot, I was tired,<br />

<strong>and</strong> I didn’t eat breakfast that<br />

day. I don’t think my neurons<br />

were firing correctly. I cried for<br />

almost fifteen minutes before a<br />

bus driver gave me the “correct”<br />

route to get back to the middle<br />

of the city. The moral of this<br />

encounter is that you have to<br />

pay close attention to details<br />

before you leave your comfort<br />

zone. Research your maps, train<br />

schedules <strong>and</strong> bus routes options<br />

before checking out of your<br />

hotel. Get all your train tickets<br />

<strong>and</strong> flight info before you pack<br />

<strong>and</strong> have to drag your luggage<br />

<strong>and</strong> hour <strong>and</strong> a half in the wrong<br />

direction in the middle of a hot<br />

Italian summer.<br />

I love Italy.<br />

Ciao<br />

ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />

Kendria R. Johnson is a<br />

teacher, traveller, public<br />

speaker, author, mother <strong>and</strong><br />

life coach.<br />

Her mission in life is to<br />

motivate, to inspire, teach,<br />

<strong>and</strong> to leave this as a legacy.<br />

A recently self-published<br />

author, her memoir, “Fat<br />

Meat Ain’t Greasy,” tells the<br />

story of her strength, struggle<br />

<strong>and</strong> strives for achievement.<br />

“I want my life to mean<br />

something <strong>and</strong> to let anyone<br />

who knew me underst<strong>and</strong><br />

God <strong>and</strong> the power of His<br />

love through my time here on<br />

Earth.


A Hitchhiker’s Guide<br />

TO TRAVELLING THE WORLD.<br />

BY: JUHU REZNICKOVA


I started my travel adventure about four-<strong>and</strong>-ahalf<br />

years ago when a friend asked me if I wanted<br />

to go to a hitchhiking championship. Until then, I<br />

had given hitchhiking a try once in Spain, without<br />

success. I have always enjoyed doing weird<br />

<strong>and</strong> funny things like riding the subway with no<br />

pants on, giving out free hugs or dancing with<br />

r<strong>and</strong>om people. Me saying yes to a hitchhiking<br />

championship was a start of something marvellous<br />

in my life. We were supposed to hitchhike from<br />

Prague, The Czech Republic to Athens, Greece<br />

<strong>and</strong> complete some challenges on the way such<br />

as cooking a local meal or milking a sheep. My<br />

friend <strong>and</strong> I have hitchhiked from Prague to<br />

Athens <strong>and</strong> back (4.500km) in five-<strong>and</strong>-a-half<br />

days, which made us the winners. Since then, I<br />

knew this would become my passion <strong>and</strong> later<br />

my lifestyle. I took part in nine travel competitions<br />

since then <strong>and</strong> won four of them such as Swiss<br />

hitchhiking championship, Low-Cost race or<br />

Hungarian championship in hitchhiking. It<br />

created the most amazing memories I could have<br />

ever hoped for. That’s why I decided to go on a<br />

trip around the world. I have been travelling for<br />

eight months now without a break <strong>and</strong> in total<br />

have visited about 63 countries.<br />

It took me on a journey of hitchhiking planes,<br />

boats, police cars, trains, soldiers, firefighters,<br />

even piloting a plane or a subway. The journey<br />

of hitchhiking through 14 countries with a 2kg<br />

bag in 10 just days, made me a yes woman -<br />

saying yes to any question <strong>and</strong> doing all sorts<br />

of adventures even when I didn’t feel like it at<br />

first. I ended up dying my hair, attending over<br />

20 foreign weddings, christenings, seeing<br />

awesome festivals all over the world, fishing,<br />

dancing on stage with famous b<strong>and</strong>s or dancing<br />

on top of trucks, cooking at a Michelin star<br />

restaurant, tracking gorillas in Africa, hitchhiking<br />

an armoured transport vehicle, <strong>and</strong> even a<br />

freaking hot air balloon in Malaysia! I have also<br />

survived a boat catastrophe when the engine<br />

stopped working as well as the boat’s helmet in<br />

the middle of the sea.<br />

I slept in the most amazing places you could<br />

imagine, countless rooftops, police stations, in<br />

prison, on farms, at the houses of locals, in cars,<br />

by the road, in tents. I woke up at gas stations,<br />

near river banks, on boats, planes, or to a llama<br />

looking straight into my face. I have been to<br />

luxury villas as well as the houses of the poorest<br />

people. I have slept at a bakery in Georgia or<br />

different beaches around the world.


I volunteered in various parts of<br />

Africa <strong>and</strong> helped to establish sex<br />

education as a curriculum subject<br />

in a school in Tanzania. I have<br />

volunteered at an elephant shelter<br />

in Sri Lanka, constructed buildings<br />

in Malaysia, taught English to adults<br />

in Thail<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> helped with social<br />

media in Laos. At the moment I am<br />

volunteering at a hostel in Osaka,<br />

Japan, with the most amazing<br />

people from all around the world.<br />

I still have many dreams to fulfil<br />

ahead of me. Such as riding<br />

an ostrich, hitchhiking a NASA<br />

spacecraft or a submarine.<br />

The reason I blog about everything<br />

is to show people the possibilities<br />

they have. To demonstrate that they<br />

themselves can go out there <strong>and</strong><br />

live their lives to the fullest. That<br />

they can also be living their dreams.<br />

I try to motivate my followers to<br />

step out of their comfort zones,<br />

show them that travelling does not<br />

necessarily require tons of money<br />

<strong>and</strong> help them take the first steps in<br />

their hitchhiking stories.<br />

I believe that anything is possible as<br />

long as you just go after it <strong>and</strong> don’t<br />

give up at the first signs of failure.<br />

Even after failing for the 20th time,<br />

you still keep on trying, <strong>and</strong> it just<br />

WILL work out the way you want.<br />

<strong>About</strong> the Author<br />

Juhu Reznickova is a 28-year-old teacher<br />

who earned a Bachelor’s degree in English<br />

Language, Literature <strong>and</strong> Pedagogy <strong>and</strong><br />

a Masters in Pedagogy from Charles<br />

University.<br />

She enjoys travelling, making videos,<br />

taking pics <strong>and</strong> motivating others. She is<br />

also a big cat lover. Jahu speaks English,<br />

Czech <strong>and</strong> Spanish.<br />

Follow Jahu’s journey around the world<br />

Instagram: @gingerthunder_kolemsveta<br />

Website: www.gingerthunder.cz<br />

Facebook: Ginger Thunder Travels


OF PERSONAL<br />

REINVENTION<br />

AND THE<br />

MILLENNIAL<br />

WOMAN


Reinvention – aptly described by a quick Google search<br />

as “the action or process through which something is<br />

changed so much that it appears to be entirely new.”<br />

Today’s millennial woman is seemingly always looking<br />

for something to change about herself as prompted by<br />

key learnings from what I like to call “adulting.” Our<br />

microwave generation wants what it wants now, <strong>and</strong><br />

all that we want must come sprinkled with all forms of<br />

glitter <strong>and</strong> the promise of emancipation from whatever’s<br />

plaguing us.<br />

Who doesn’t want the high that comes with experiencing<br />

new things, new beginnings <strong>and</strong> momentous<br />

celebrations that have us snapping our fingers <strong>and</strong><br />

screaming “Yaaas!!!” every which way we turn!? Let’s<br />

face it; the utopian woman is currently basking in the<br />

endless euphoria of being hugely exposed to more<br />

opportunities to redesign our lives than ever before – if<br />

only we believe this to be true for us!<br />

A few years ago, I made the intentional decision to<br />

change my life – completely – because quite frankly, I<br />

was done doing life on the mediocre train. My career,<br />

my social capital (the friendship circle), the endless<br />

ideas milling through my mind waiting on me to make<br />

decisions for when to execute them, the country I was<br />

going to live in – all of it. I wanted a change, <strong>and</strong> I<br />

wanted it as early as I could get it – legally.<br />

You know how it goes; we want to get rid of stretch<br />

marks after rapid weight loss or post-delivery, <strong>and</strong><br />

so we find ourselves in the skincare aisle at the<br />

neighbourhood supermarket, trying to figure out<br />

whether the concentrated cocoa butter or aloe vera will<br />

do.<br />

For someone else, maybe it’s a quest for global<br />

exploration <strong>and</strong> holidaying at exotic destinations<br />

because these travel blogs <strong>and</strong> influencer Instagram<br />

pages really have a way of making us wish we could<br />

pack a bag <strong>and</strong> venture out to places uncharted at<br />

the blink of an eye <strong>and</strong> the swipe of a credit card.<br />

Nevermind the “10 tips to getting him to fall in love<br />

with you” blogs that populate our feeds the minute<br />

we hit “sign-in” to whichever platform tickles our<br />

fancy. Someone is always feeding us images that<br />

capture the imagination <strong>and</strong> peddling our ideas<br />

of how we should look, feel, what we should<br />

eat <strong>and</strong> what’s the coolest fad to absorb in our<br />

current season. But what do we want? What<br />

do we really want, <strong>and</strong> how do we get it?<br />

We want to love <strong>and</strong> be loved, to enjoy<br />

doors swinging wide open in every<br />

building we dare enter, to catch<br />

flights <strong>and</strong> not feelings, to be able<br />

to pursue whatever endeavour<br />

<strong>and</strong> the why. But we also know that life is one of those<br />

funny things that we don’t always have control over.<br />

Situations get complicated. People can be weird. The<br />

coins don’t stretch longer than the month runs… <strong>and</strong><br />

so on. When all is said, <strong>and</strong> done <strong>and</strong> the pages have<br />

been turned, we are still to ask ourselves how positive<br />

change can happen for us for the better.<br />

Why is it important to actively pursue reward <strong>and</strong><br />

comprehension of our needs so that we can be<br />

better? How much grind will it take before we can truly<br />

experience a fast-evolving yet exciting life characterised<br />

by authentic, transformational experiences that have us<br />

smiling at ourselves because well… life is good.<br />

As a Publicist <strong>and</strong> Communications Strategist, beyond<br />

helping corporates raise their br<strong>and</strong> equity, I get to<br />

work with many aspiring female entrepreneurs who<br />

carry numerous ideas but aren’t sure about how getting<br />

started will impact them. Mentoring young women<br />

challenges me to draw from the mistakes I made in<br />

my younger years of thinking that if I dreamed a thing<br />

without particularly fighting for it, it would eventually<br />

come to pass. In our sessions, I provoke them to think<br />

through a host of questions that should help them<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> their motives for wanting to redesign their<br />

lives – or br<strong>and</strong>s.<br />

“How do I reinvent myself?”<br />

“What does a do-over mean for me?”<br />

“Who’s staying behind <strong>and</strong> who’s joining me on the<br />

transitional road ahead?”<br />

How long will this process take <strong>and</strong> what are the<br />

outcomes for such drastic changes?”<br />

So many questions. Allow me to share my five<br />

overtly basic tips for getting it together <strong>and</strong> pursuing<br />

reinvention in your life <strong>and</strong>/or your hustle.


1. Changing oneself requires a great deal of introspection<br />

<strong>and</strong> acceptance of the things that you aren’t particularly chuffed<br />

about.<br />

You can’t change what you don’t confront. Losing that weight won’t<br />

happen for you until you accept that you no longer fit in those size<br />

six jeans you wore all through your 20s. If you’re going at your 8-5<br />

with minimal enthusiasm, perhaps it may be a good time to think<br />

about whether you really enjoy your job, <strong>and</strong> if not, asking yourself<br />

the reasons for staying. Is the money worth the misery? Could it be<br />

an outlook thing or a departmental transfer that may get you back<br />

on track to actually liking where you are spending 8-10 hours a day?<br />

You get where I’m going with this.<br />

2. Your life’s reinvention will involve sacrifice. No boxer ever<br />

won a fight without hours <strong>and</strong> hours of training. Any CEO will tell<br />

you about the tens of thous<strong>and</strong>s of hours it took them to reach the<br />

top. This is before they get into how, after reaching the top, they<br />

realise that it’s quite lonely up there <strong>and</strong> carries a great deal of<br />

responsibility. Eeek! Getting out of debt will require you to cut the<br />

brunches <strong>and</strong> get off the online stores. Change requires sacrifice;<br />

sacrifice breeds victory! Are you willing to suffer for a little while to<br />

reach your finish line?


3. Own your mess; rewrite your narrative. I struggled to get<br />

myself together because I blamed everything <strong>and</strong> everyone for the<br />

stuff I wasn’t happy about. If it wasn’t the economy it was the political<br />

situation in my country which affected the economy, which resulted in<br />

my being out here as a Zimbabwean living far away from my family <strong>and</strong><br />

missing birthdays <strong>and</strong> so on. Yeah…eventually, excuses should run out.<br />

That’s what being a grown-up means. It means owning the mess we<br />

find ourselves in <strong>and</strong> rewriting our story through the actions we take<br />

to get out from under our excuses <strong>and</strong> self-pity. Own your mess <strong>and</strong><br />

consider the points I made in my first point. Accept <strong>and</strong> introspect.<br />

4. Of social capital <strong>and</strong> choosing your connections wisely. There<br />

are a bunch of people milling around <strong>and</strong> doing life with no plan. Don’t<br />

be found among them. Social audits are critical for ascertaining who<br />

in your life are dead weight, mooches, motivators <strong>and</strong> cultivators of<br />

your gifts. As the adage goes, if you catch yourself the smartest one<br />

in a group – #EVERY.SINGLE.TIME – it may be time cut <strong>and</strong> replace.<br />

Nurture relationships that allow your brightest light to shine while you<br />

too make a difference in the lives of the people you are connected to.<br />

If it is to do with your business, be clear about who you will take on<br />

as clients <strong>and</strong> what business is good to walk away from. Yes, we need<br />

people, but we can’t serve everyone effectively all the time. There is<br />

also such a thing as bad business, <strong>and</strong> it usually has sketchy people<br />

behind it.


5. Lights, camera, action! My profession has me<br />

enjoying the arduous task of putting together plans for<br />

the br<strong>and</strong>s we present, listing our set of objectives before<br />

formulating our strategy. Basically, the “what” <strong>and</strong> the<br />

“how” are quintessential elements for any campaign to<br />

be a success. As I mentor women, I ask them what they<br />

are doing or what they want to do, <strong>and</strong> how they intend<br />

on getting the things they’ve listed done. Then we create<br />

an action plan. Without execution, a goal can be likened<br />

to a wish.<br />

For your life to change, put together a plan of the things<br />

you desire to see manifest then draft your action plan<br />

which can be as basic as: “To save $500 dollars a month<br />

for the next 3 months, I will eat out once a week <strong>and</strong> make<br />

home-cooked meals; I will go out only once a month, <strong>and</strong><br />

I will have my hair braided as opposed to buying a new<br />

wig.” Sounds basic I know, but those are literally the most<br />

rudimentary strategies I’ve employed for getting out of<br />

debt, authoring books, building on my skillset so I could<br />

pursue better growth opportunities, getting into better<br />

shape – <strong>and</strong> so on.<br />

Reinvention – “the action or process through which<br />

something is changed so much that it appears to be<br />

entirely new.” It won’t come without the decision to<br />

pursue it, or subsequent actions that will constitute your<br />

do-over. What bit do you need to be reflecting upon,<br />

revisiting <strong>and</strong> realigning for a better <strong>and</strong> more wellbalanced<br />

you?<br />

Yvonne Chiedza Mtengwa is an international speaker,<br />

Amazon best-selling author <strong>and</strong> the Co-founder of<br />

Quintessential F, a testimonial-based blog <strong>and</strong> movement that<br />

seeks to inspire <strong>and</strong> empower women to find their authentic<br />

selves through spiritual growth <strong>and</strong> affirmation. Passionate<br />

about the issues that affect young women, she has in recent<br />

years taken to chronicling her experiences when mentoring<br />

women, also hosting inspired meet-up collaborative events<br />

for women under the #QFCoffeebreaks <strong>and</strong> Quintessential F<br />

Power Brunch banners across Southern Africa.<br />

Yvonne recently launched the Reinvented series of events,<br />

inspired by her desire to connect <strong>and</strong> empower readers<br />

of her book “Reinvented: Challenging insecurity to live<br />

authentically through faith,” <strong>and</strong> is actively developing her<br />

Reinvented Today br<strong>and</strong> which seeks to empower women<br />

to transition into their next level best across all areas of their<br />

lives.<br />

Yvonne is also the Founder <strong>and</strong> Managing Consultant<br />

for Narratives Inc., a boutique Br<strong>and</strong> Development &<br />

Communications Consultancy offering a host of social media<br />

<strong>and</strong> conventional media related services for women-owned<br />

<strong>and</strong> led initiatives, SMEs <strong>and</strong> br<strong>and</strong>s across multiple sectors.<br />

Narratives Inc.’s formation was inspired by Yvonne’s vast<br />

experience as a Marketing & Communications strategist,<br />

with a professional career spanning 15 years across the<br />

U.S.A., Southern Africa, UAE <strong>and</strong> greater GCC markets. She<br />

hopes to one day run a media firm that services Africa’s fastevolving<br />

entrepreneurial scene.<br />

A lover of all things travel, lifestyle <strong>and</strong> immersive experiences,<br />

in her spare time, Yvonne enjoys spending some quality time<br />

with her husb<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> two children. Yvonne currently resides<br />

in Abu Dhabi.


SPORTING<br />

WITH<br />

CONTEMPORARY<br />

CULTURE


The public drama of contemporary life <strong>and</strong> organised sports<br />

are hallmarks for a mysteriously grinding routine. These<br />

two entities of modern life <strong>and</strong> culture are saturated with<br />

unfathomable emotion, relentless mental shrewdness, <strong>and</strong><br />

tied in with an enormous level of physical exertion. Sports are<br />

played <strong>and</strong> watched with eagle-eyed precision all over the<br />

world with unwavering partisanship <strong>and</strong> passion. The obvious<br />

charm for sports in the modern era is laced with enormous<br />

avenues for revenue, personal gains <strong>and</strong> patriotism.<br />

Additionally, the advent of technology has also made<br />

sporting competitions more alluring in the public domain<br />

with unprompted moments of pure action <strong>and</strong> instinctual<br />

performances; sports are always entrenched in long chains<br />

of storylines <strong>and</strong> mouth-dropping statistics. Sports are at<br />

every turn <strong>and</strong> connected in structures of power, both on<br />

personal <strong>and</strong> collective levels. Athletes, such as footballers<br />

or swimmers have this capricious ability to coerce their<br />

bodies to intertwine with their spirit to produce out of this<br />

world performances; <strong>and</strong> owners of teams use their resolve<br />

of financial clout to overpower their opponents; armies of<br />

fans use their vociferous vocal chords <strong>and</strong> lusty pride to drive<br />

their favourite individual athlete or dauntless team to victory<br />

with a swarm of cheers. For any intellectual concerned with<br />

how modern life works, sports offers a splendidly unusual<br />

platform for the embodiment of pop culture <strong>and</strong> institutional<br />

forces which blankets how sports has changed our lives as a<br />

modern society.<br />

Sports, such as athletics <strong>and</strong> football (soccer)<br />

have both brought the world together <strong>and</strong><br />

picked it apart; we see super athletes compete<br />

for the coveted awards of being considered the<br />

G.O.A.T. (Greatest of All Times). Sure enough,<br />

sports has a dark side to it, with the pressures<br />

of maintaining high levels of performance <strong>and</strong><br />

more often than not sweeping expectations,<br />

athletes <strong>and</strong> fans alike engage in the dark arts of<br />

uncouth <strong>and</strong> uncivilised behaviours. Advanced<br />

drug testing has the capability to sieve out the<br />

most microscopic <strong>and</strong> hard to trace performance<br />

enhancers more than at any other time in the<br />

history of mankind; of course, fans <strong>and</strong> insatiably<br />

hypnotic gamblers may put their future on the<br />

proverbial line to reign in the major odds on<br />

betting extravaganzas. Hence, why are sports<br />

different in the postmodern world from the<br />

generations that existed before us? How can<br />

such a set of routines be so divisive, entertaining<br />

<strong>and</strong> unifying in the same instance? Have sports<br />

evolved for the betterment of society, or is it the<br />

gateway to the modern era’s greatest curse?<br />

Ever since the Athens Olympics in 1896, the<br />

world has immersed itself in its attention to<br />

sports. It has transcended the world’s affairs<br />

even in times of political <strong>and</strong> social upheavals,<br />

most notably the World Wars <strong>and</strong> countless<br />

global recessions <strong>and</strong> depressions. Beyond all<br />

the problems that have been thrown up over<br />

the existing periods, the global audience was<br />

always satisfied with the routines that “human<br />

gods” were able to perform under sometimes<br />

strenuous circumstances. Take for instance<br />

Donald Bradman averaging an unimaginable<br />

99.94 runs per innings in test cricket on playing<br />

surfaces reminiscent of l<strong>and</strong>mines which in of<br />

itself robbed the greatest batsman of all times.<br />

Likewise, people were given a break from<br />

the hardships <strong>and</strong> turmoil, when tuned in to<br />

boxing greats like Muhammad Ali <strong>and</strong> George<br />

Foreman. They used their immaculate technical<br />

fighting skills to create one of the greatest<br />

boxing renditions of all times; “The rumble in<br />

the jungle” in Zaire which was later renamed the<br />

Democratic Republic of Congo. These sporting<br />

greats did what others couldn’t <strong>and</strong> dared to<br />

reach heights mere mortals wouldn’t. Sports<br />

then was the opium of the people, releasing<br />

chemicals like serotonin in the bloodstream of<br />

the pre-modern society as a series of events to<br />

take minds <strong>and</strong> hearts out of the mayhem which


was all around them.<br />

Fast-forward a couple of decades down, <strong>and</strong><br />

we will see how sports took another turn in<br />

the morality <strong>and</strong> social consciousness of the<br />

society. Sports as always were still seen as the<br />

heights of entertainment, but there was a real<br />

sense that these series of events should not<br />

only be about patronage <strong>and</strong> pride; they should<br />

be the launching pad for the new world order<br />

which was capitalism. Just like the days of the<br />

Roman Empire where the currency of a gladiator<br />

was in his very right to keep oxygen whistling<br />

through his lungs, so were sports in the late<br />

1970s transforming the culture of the world<br />

from athletes being more patriotic to athletes<br />

being more economically sustainable. Hence,<br />

sports became one of the main driving forces<br />

for the concept of corporate life <strong>and</strong> capitalism.<br />

Athletes became br<strong>and</strong> ambassadors, crossed<br />

over into movies, music <strong>and</strong> art. Athletes like<br />

Michael Jordan, Bruce Jenner, Michel Platini,<br />

<strong>and</strong> Larry Bird among others became cult heroes<br />

<strong>and</strong> celebrities for their mercurial talents, <strong>and</strong><br />

the envy of the common man because of their<br />

serial wealth.<br />

Consequently, like any faculty of life, you<br />

can think of, once there is an influx of money,<br />

there will be unparalleled levels of corruption<br />

<strong>and</strong> deceit. Athletes, in many cases, used<br />

cunningness to prolong their ability to perform<br />

at a high level long after their expiry dates <strong>and</strong><br />

shelf life. Take, for instance, Marion Jones, Lance<br />

Armstrong, <strong>and</strong> Diego Maradona among others<br />

who had prodigious talent, but felt the need<br />

to explore other ways to stay competitive <strong>and</strong><br />

relevant as long as the stimulants could not be<br />

detected. Similarly, fans <strong>and</strong> gamblers took it<br />

upon themselves to create wealth through risky<br />

<strong>and</strong> sometimes unceremonious deeds. These<br />

individuals, along with gambling outlets, placed<br />

families in dire straps as some people put their<br />

houses on the line in an attempt to gain another.<br />

The story of the greedy dog that lost his own<br />

bone to steal from his own image is water under<br />

the bridge. This very act is a testimony to the<br />

dark side to life that sports exposed. So has<br />

sports been a blessing or a curse to modern pop<br />

culture?<br />

Today, the money that is being offered to athletes<br />

is astronomical <strong>and</strong> to be quite fair in judgment<br />

borderline ludicrous! Floyd Mayweather for a<br />

15-minute fight made more money against a<br />

Japanese opponent than half the budget to pay teachers in<br />

Jamaica. It was borderline obscene that a basketball player<br />

such as Stephan Curry signed a 200 million-plus max contract<br />

for five years just to shoot balls beyond the arc. For football<br />

players such as Mesut Ozil to be raking in approximately 350<br />

thous<strong>and</strong> pounds per week just to make cute passes with a<br />

football. All this is happening while people are dying with<br />

preexisting conditions that these sums of money paid out to<br />

athletes could easily have been the catalyst for some of the<br />

worlds most needed health expeditions.<br />

Similarly, in all of the pontifications of the world’s loudest<br />

voices in sports <strong>and</strong> accompanying sectors, sports for what<br />

it is worth has lost its zest to marketing <strong>and</strong> promotions.<br />

Agents are in constant battles to find the next big player;<br />

fewer resources <strong>and</strong> attention are placed on quality <strong>and</strong><br />

more efficacies are placed on stars flooding the world’s<br />

consciousness. The broad view is that athletes are more alert<br />

to setting a firm foundation for their future <strong>and</strong> family rather<br />

than focusing on the true value <strong>and</strong> purpose of entertainment.<br />

Gone are the days when a team lost a match, <strong>and</strong> there was<br />

a fire in the belly of the losing team to make right what went<br />

wrong in defeat. Nowadays, the losing teams more times


than we can think of are making more financial gains from<br />

losing than winning; illuminating the dark arts that prevail in<br />

the glossy eyes of sports.<br />

Even though sports have changed our cultural consciousness<br />

across the test of time, it is important to note that the<br />

underground sightings of misgivings <strong>and</strong> misdemeanours<br />

have waltzed their way into the dilapidation of the morals<br />

that were once the deep roots holding our global society<br />

together. The public <strong>and</strong> private deviance that are associated<br />

with sports have catapulted us out of the realm of morality<br />

among other aspects of our social life, such as music <strong>and</strong><br />

art. These aspects of our lives have sent us as far back into<br />

the reality of how backwards we are as modern people<br />

even if we are wealthier than any other time in the human<br />

life index. Sports have evolved tremendously throughout<br />

the generations, but, it is quite evident that it has also been<br />

complicit in the erosion of the social fabric of postmodern<br />

life. It has opened the eyes to the animal nature of human<br />

beings to sort quick fixes, short cuts <strong>and</strong> backstabs.<br />

To sum up, with every ten steps forward, know that we are<br />

moving backwards morally as a society. When there is an<br />

absence of money, there is an everlasting note that there is a<br />

platform for morality <strong>and</strong> positive purpose. Gone are the days<br />

when sporting activities were done for solely the love, the<br />

patronage <strong>and</strong> the pride for one’s craft, self, family, country<br />

<strong>and</strong> the world. In the era of advancements in technology<br />

<strong>and</strong> gargantuan salaries for a variety of sports stars, these<br />

historically practised routines are locked into capitalist points<br />

of view littered with the magical ambience of marketing <strong>and</strong><br />

promotions. Anybody can sell a dream, but not everybody<br />

has the capacity to make a dream a reality. Sports has tapped<br />

into every emotion humanly possible, but with vastly little to<br />

no inquest, modern culture sports the ideas that the current<br />

pop culture has disintegrated morally but has exploded<br />

financially. Therefore if pop culture has evolved; around<br />

which alluring set of circumstances has it revolved?<br />

JEROME<br />

DOUGLAS<br />

ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />

Jerome Douglas is a 26-year old trained<br />

teacher, poet <strong>and</strong> writer from the beautiful<br />

isl<strong>and</strong> of Jamaica. His personal philosophy is<br />

“If it is for me to be, then it is up to me.” He<br />

attended the Catholic College of M<strong>and</strong>eville<br />

in Jamaica. Additionally, he is a community<br />

builder <strong>and</strong> humanitarian who volunteers his<br />

time to help with the academic <strong>and</strong> social<br />

well-being of people in his Central Jamaica<br />

community <strong>and</strong> surrounding areas.


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