Counsels for the Church - Ellen G. White

light of genius and truth and holiness owe the principles that were the
mainspring of their influence and success to a praying, Christian mother.
The Mother's Power for Good
The sphere of the mother may be humble; but her influence, united with
the father's, is as abiding as eternity. Next to God, the mother's power for
good is the strongest known on earth.
A Christian mother will ever be wide-awake to discern the dangers that
surround her children. She will keep her own soul in a pure, holy
atmosphere; she will regulate her temper and principles by the word of God
and will faithfully do her duty, living above the petty temptations which will
always assail her.
The perception of children is quick, and they discern patient, loving
tones from the impatient, passionate command, which dries up the moisture
of love and affection in the hearts of children. The true Christian mother will
not drive her children from her presence by her fretfulness and lack of
sympathizing love.
Mothers, awake to the fact that your influence and example are affecting
the character and destiny of your children; and in view of your responsibility,
develop a well-balanced mind and a pure character, reflecting only the true,
the good, and the beautiful.
Very many husbands and children who find nothing attractive at home,
who are continually greeted by scolding and murmuring, seek comfort and
amusement away from home, in the dramshop or in other forbidden scenes
of pleasure. The wife and mother, occupied with her household cares,
frequently becomes thoughtless of the little courtesies that make home
pleasant to the husband and children, even if she avoids dwelling upon her
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