Counsels for the Church - Ellen G. White

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unto life or of death unto death. Be very careful not to spoil her life. My sister, you are now to learn your first practical lessons in regard to the responsibilities of married life. Be sure to learn these lessons faithfully day by day. Do not give way to discontent or moodiness. Do not long for a life of ease and inactivity. Guard constantly against giving way to selfishness. In your life union your affections are to be tributary to each other's happiness. Each is to minister to the happiness of the other. This is the will of God concerning you. But while you are to blend as one, neither of you is to lose his or her individuality in the other. God is the owner of your individuality. Of Him you are to ask: What is right? What is wrong? How may I best fulfill the purpose of my creation? Ye are not your own; for ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20. Your love for that which is human is to be secondary to your love for God. The wealth of your affection is to flow forth to Him who gave His life for you. Living for God, the soul sends forth to Him its best and highest affections. Is the greatest outflow of your love toward Him who died for you? If it is, your love for each other will be after heaven's order. Affection may be as clear as crystal and beauteous in its purity, yet it may be shallow because it has not been tested and tried. Make Christ first and last and best in everything. Constantly behold Him, and your love for Him will daily become deeper and stronger as it is submitted to the test of trial. And as your love for Him increases, your love for each other will grow deeper and stronger. "We all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory." 2 Corinthians 3:18. You now have duties to perform that before your marriage you did not have. "Put on therefore, ... kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, long-suffering." Walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us." Give 143
careful study to the following instruction: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.... Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it." Colossians 3:12; Ephesians 5:2, 22-25. Marriage, a union for life, is a symbol of the union between Christ and His church. The spirit that Christ manifests toward the church is the spirit that husband and wife are to manifest toward each other. Neither husband nor wife is to make a plea for rulership. The Lord has laid down the principle that is to guide in this matter. The husband is to cherish his wife as Christ cherishes the church. And the wife is to respect and love her husband. Both are to cultivate the spirit of kindness, being determined never to grieve or injure the other. My brother and sister, both of you have strong will power. You may make this power a great blessing or a great curse to yourselves and to those with whom you come in contact. Do not try to compel each other to do as you wish. You cannot do this and retain each other's love. Manifestations of self-will destroy the peace and happiness of the home. Let not your married life be one of contention. If you do you will both be unhappy. Be kind in speech and gentle in action, giving up your own wishes. Watch well your words, for they have a powerful influence for good or for ill. Allow no sharpness to come into your voices. Bring into your united life the fragrance of Christ-likeness. Before a man enters a union as close as the marriage relation, he should learn how to control himself and how to deal with others. My brother, be kind, patient, forbearing. Remember that your wife 144
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COUNSELS FOR THE CHURCH Ellen G. Wh
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those who have waited so long for i
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people, “the children of light”
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Chapter 1 A Vision of the Reward of
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shouted, "Alleluia!" as they recogn
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the glories of the place. I noticed
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Chapter 2 The Time of The End We ar
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There are not many, even among educ
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persecutions of the past are blende
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Chapter 3 Prepare to Meet the Lord
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their lives with the lives of other
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sweetness of the communion with sai
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fellowship. Let us not allow the en
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character, yet fails of realizing t
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elieving that Jesus is a living Sav
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Repentance, as well as forgiveness,
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which is altogether unlike Christ,
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enevolence. The Jews did not admire
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example of Christian boldness and f
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earnestness, then, should we seek G
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ascended to heaven, there to interc
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By faith look upon the crowns laid
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Israel, these are a sacred trust to
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Every believer should be wholeheart
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Witnessing by Moving Into New Local
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Practical Manifestation of Religion
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Chapter 8 "Here Am I, Lord, Send Me
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We see large churches gathered in d
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of God were coming upon the earth,
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cheerful, grateful Christians, led
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een lost because of this. In every
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sent a special message from heaven
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God has ordained the canvassing wor
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Chapter 10 Belief in a Personal God
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God at any time except as He is rev
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God's Individual Interests in His C
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Chapter 11 Christians to Represent
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today; watch and pray for today; ob
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In heaven none will think of self,
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Chapter 12 In the World but Not of
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are dealing with false weights and
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his agents, and works through them
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government for the control of the s
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children in the nurture and admonit
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mothers to bring their own minds up
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lived then were not without teacher
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I shrink always from the almost sur
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een led step by step from the path
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The young generally conduct themsel
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Chapter 30 The Avenues to the Mind
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Chapter 31 Choice of Reading Educat
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strength to the mental powers. The
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for those who indulge in such readi
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Chapter 32 Music The art of sacred
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Chapter 33 Criticism and Its Effect
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own salvation. If I co-operate with
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All have defects of character, and
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spiritual eyesight, they would at o
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throne of God. The Lord is testing
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interesting, is simplicity in dress
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suit, to be worn when attending ser
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wear lace, and gold, and artificial
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There are some around you who have
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Reach out for Higher Spiritual Atta
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Isaac by his side. He sees before h
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and ornaments for display. The mind
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Chapter 36 The Proper Discipline an
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children to right habits from their
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The Danger of Too Severe Training T
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will and temper of her child, and b
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and fretting because everything doe
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Do Not Neglect the Wants of the Min
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cared. And think you that God takes
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every person is the architect of hi
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Parents' Need of More Divine Guidan
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command to "rise up before the hoar
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conforming to customs, practices, a
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established in different countries
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estraint. Here the children learn l
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ability; for their efforts will ten
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And even greater is the power of th
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provided, that they may have a comp
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after healthful labor, and they wil
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fullest extent. The precepts and pr
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guard the youth from Satan's device
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so prominent that it is like a city
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violated law. We must answer to God
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eform has its place in the work of
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sluggishly. The waste, poisonous ma
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Unclean, neglected corners in the h
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each person should choose from it t
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Far too much sugar is ordinarily us
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day. After disposing of one meal, t
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God is not honored when the body is
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might have done had they not debase
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Upon their settlement in Canaan, th
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intended to serve. Never, under any
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vigorous health can be enjoyed, wit
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Chapter 42 Faithfulness in Health R
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premature death. Let the individual
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It is reported by some that I have
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Teach the people that it is better
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into connection with the masses. Sh
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Chapter 43 The Church on Earth God
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your heartfelt response testify tha
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when he asks, "What wilt Thou have
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Chapter 44 Church Organization Some
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should win converts to the gospel.
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churches. Not all, however, were pl
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their part to place the business of
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Chapter 45 The House of God To the
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should be no waiting. If there are
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The delicate and susceptible minds
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Dress So That God Is the Subject of
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Romans 15:1. Mild measures, soft an
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Human beings are Christ's property,
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appeals of his brethren. As he sees
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emain upon the books of heaven, unc
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an offense this sin is. 338
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loyal subjects and transgressors. F
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about, and gathered it [the manna],
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God's presence through the cares of
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devote a portion of time to appropr
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invigorated by the truth of God, be
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is drawn between him and the world.
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if it is convenient for him to do s
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are observing the Sabbath. Angels w
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just the work that man needs, for i
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cursed. God's claim is first; every
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of God, He has purposely arranged f
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equired in addition to the tenth of
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Paul lays down a rule for giving to
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cause of God are the most prosperou
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should labor with him kindly but pl
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The Spirit of Self-denial and Sacri
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Chapter 49 The Christian Attitude T
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There is no question in regard to t
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than they did before. God suffers H
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Chapter 50 Christians in All the Wo
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salvation of our fellow men. Will y
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"Get up, Brother Howland," he said.
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Never was he more determined than n
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manifestations of the power of God.
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How intensely earnest, then, would
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Chapter 52 Baptism The ordinances o
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seeking to ensnare, entice, and dec
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you." Matthew 7:7. 394
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who can read the heart? Who can dis
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which strengthens by self-serving,
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A Reminder of Christ's Second Comin
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the death of Christ could make His
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Conditions of Answered Prayer But o
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In prayer for the sick it should be
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utter words of encouragement or cou
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Chapter 55 The Medical Work Medical
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message of soul healing. The Pionee
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The Lord has declared that the educ
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Chapter 56 Relations With Those Not
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the results we shall see if we ente
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The government under which Jesus li
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Excitement Concerning Politics Thos
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We should remember that the world w
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given His people the work of making
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his host fall back, well knowing th
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plainly presented the fact that it
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enlightened by the Holy Spirit may
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employ the power of mind over mind
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y day the wonderful works of God, t
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against him. We must put on the who
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the truth read the testimony given
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They rely upon their own merits, ex
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the civilization of the twentieth c
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Chapter 61 The Coming Crisis As the
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God covers His glory when He comes
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movement is now making its way in d
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not cease until Jesus comes. As nev
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They seemed indifferent and careles
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18:7, 8; Revelation 14:14, 15.] I h
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ground. Men have confederated to op
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and be regarded as a Christian, and
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professed to be waiting for Christ.
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hold fast our faith, not allowing d
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Chapter 64 Christ Our Great High Pr
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services of the Day of Atonement--t
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Chapter 65 Joshua and the Angel If
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Even their best and most acceptable
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garments, their defective character
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Chapter 66 "Behold, I Come Quickly"
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is before us. Let ministers and lay
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desire that ye faint not" because o
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great recompense of reward. For ye
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