Angelus News | May 17, 2019 | Vol. 4 No. 18

sexuality, reducing his involvement to
“producing a sample.”
To go down that route was to make
their child a “project to be realized”
by any means necessary, instead of a
gift arising from their bodily union.
In vitro fertilization, they understood,
was exponentially worse. Creating
sons and daughters in a petri dish,
to be inserted, discarded, frozen for
later? Impossible.
In their decision to preserve the
connection between the conjugal act
and conception, they were swimming
against a strong cultural current. In
the last few decades, the idea has
grown that everyone “deserves” to
bear a child, if they want to.
Women as old as 69 have given birth
using donated eggs fertilized in a
laboratory, their bodies pumped full
of hormones their ovaries long ago
stopped producing. Women on career
paths regularly freeze their eggs so
they can artificially conceive when it’s
convenient.
And men sell their sperm to banks
and become the “fathers” of thousands
of children. And with new
DNA-tracing technology, their offspring
have embarked on soul-rending
searches for their “real dads,” sometimes
with grim consequences.
But Adriana and her husband chose
a better path. First they tried NaPro
Technology, an approach to infertility
that supports a woman’s complicated
and delicate hormonal cycle, seeking
to fix underlying abnormalities. Most
distinctively, it “assists the couple in
achieving pregnancy while maintaining
the natural acts of procreation.”
Though it works for many, it didn’t
help Adriana.
This was a great disappointment, but
she and her husband decided to embrace
God’s plan — even if that plan
was nonparental spiritual fruitfulness.
Last week she called me breathless
with happiness. “I’ve spoken with the
agency and they say that we can expect
to welcome our little one within
the year.”
I cried a little. I remembered vividly
when I spoke to my agency and
started the process that would bring
me my little miracle-daughter. There
were so many luminous moments on
that path, all of them pure and good,
all of them resting on our family like
a benediction. They are all ahead of
my dear sister-in-law and her husband,
and once again ahead of me, for I
mean to live them all vicariously.
Personally, I believe that God’s plan
is always good, and blessed are those
who follow it.
Dr. Grazie Pozo Christie grew up in
Guadalajara, Mexico, coming to the
U.S. at the age of 11. She has written
for USA TODAY, National Review,
The Washington Post, and The New
York Times, and has appeared on
CNN, Telemundo, Fox News and
EWTN. She practices radiology in the
Miami area, where she lives with her
husband and five children.
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