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Spring <strong>2018</strong>,<br />

Volume 2, Issue 1<br />

Summer <strong>2018</strong>,<br />

Volume 2, Issue 2<br />

Fall <strong>2018</strong>,<br />

Volume 2, Issue 3<br />

Winter <strong>2018</strong>,<br />

Volume 2, Issue 4<br />

September February <strong>2018</strong>, 2017, Volume 2, 1, Issue 13<br />

CELEBRATING LIVES ACROSS THE FAWCO WORLD


INSIDE THIS ISSUE:<br />

Reflections on Our Second Year, from the Editor 3<br />

Inspired to be Inspired 4<br />

<strong>Women</strong> in Sport & Fitness : Spring <strong>2018</strong> 5<br />

<strong>Women</strong> of Words & Language : Summer <strong>2018</strong> 8<br />

<strong>Women</strong> Who Persist Part 1 : Fall <strong>2018</strong> 12<br />

<strong>Women</strong> in Music : Winter <strong>2018</strong> 17<br />

A Club Inspires: AWC Central Scotland 21<br />

A President Inspires 24<br />

How Can You Get Involved 30<br />

Advertising in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> 30<br />

<strong>Inspiring</strong> You 31<br />

The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong><br />

Team New Year Drinks<br />

Party, January 2019 (via<br />

Skype)<br />

The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> Team:<br />

Editor: Liz MacNiven, at-large member of AIWC Cologne, Germany<br />

Advertising: Elsie Bose, at-large member of AWG Paris, France<br />

Cover Photo Coordinator: Marie-Bénédicte Luxem, AWC Zurich, Switzerland<br />

Distribution Coordinator: Karen Boeker, AWC Denmark, Denmark<br />

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FAWCO would like to thank Esquire Group for underwriting <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> as our<br />

Premier Sponsor.


Reflections on Our Second Year, from the Editor<br />

<strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> was launched at the FAWCO Biennial<br />

Conference in Mumbai in 2017 as a global, digital magazine. As<br />

you may know, each issue of the magazine is based round the<br />

wonderful stories of the lives of women from our FAWCO clubs<br />

across the world, based round a particular theme.<br />

FAWCO women are an intrepid bunch! They have “upped sticks,”<br />

sometimes multiple times and with children in tow, and moved to<br />

all corners of the globe where, after a period of adjustment, they<br />

have found their niche and a role for themselves. Most of the<br />

women I have met in my involvement with FAWCO don’t even<br />

seem to realise how impressive this is; they’ve just been getting on<br />

with their lives.<br />

Usually when we approach someone to be featured in the<br />

magazine, they don’t think their story is worth telling; it’s nothing<br />

special. But as you will see from the four women we have<br />

selected from the 63 that have been featured in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> in <strong>2018</strong> (boy was that selection<br />

tough!), they are all doing wonderful things in their fields and making a difference in the lives of<br />

those around them and sometimes in the world. They are putting one foot in front of the other<br />

and getting on with life in a different country, sometimes dealing with a different language and<br />

often a different culture. The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> team salutes each and every one of them, and<br />

you; you are impressive in your own way, too!<br />

Moving into 2019 the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> team has set three big goals for ourselves:<br />

1. To feature someone from the remaining eight FAWCO clubs that have not yet had anyone in<br />

the magazine. Anyone can recommend someone to be featured (even themselves). All we<br />

need is the person’s name and email address plus details of why they should be featured.<br />

You email that to me, Liz MacNiven, and I will do the rest if they are selected. You will find<br />

the list of upcoming magazine themes here:<br />

www.fawco.org/about/publications/inspiring-women<br />

1. To increase our readership by 25% as part of spreading the word about FAWCO and the<br />

wonderful work the organisation does. Did you know you can subscribe for free with just a<br />

couple of clicks to get the magazine sent directly to your inbox? Also did you know that<br />

anyone can subscribe, even those who are not members of a FAWCO club? So that means<br />

any of your friends and family can get a copy. Wouldn’t that be a nice extra present you<br />

could give them in 2019! SIGN UP HERE:<br />

www.fawco.org/about/publications/inspiring-women<br />

1. To encourage more businesses, especially those small businesses run by women of FAWCO,<br />

to advertise in the pages of the magazine. The rates are incredibly reasonable especially<br />

when you consider how many parts of the world it reaches. Please contact Elsie Bose at<br />

advertising@fawco.org for more information.<br />

That’s all from me. I hope you enjoy this issue and I encourage you to get in touch with any ideas<br />

you may have for future issues. I would like to take this opportunity to personally thank all<br />

proofreaders who do an incredible job of making the magazine the best it can be, and my coworkers,<br />

Elsie, Marie–Bénédicte and Karen, for being such great people to work with. Thanks very<br />

much indeed ladies!<br />

Best wishes, Liz x<br />

Liz MacNiven, inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />

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Inspired to be Inspired…<br />

There is something magical about each one of the around 10,000 members of FAWCO.<br />

They are not who they appear to be!<br />

How many times have you sat next to someone at a club meeting or coffee, struck up a<br />

conversation with them, only to find through a bit of probing, that they have achieved<br />

something that makes your jaw drop? Remember the woman who laughed about<br />

picking up all the kids for the school carpool but forgot her own? Then she tells you<br />

about the project she founded for women at risk in your city? Or the new member who<br />

volunteers to organize the club’s holiday choir and lists in her qualifications, her<br />

experience as a former executive producer for a TV series?<br />

And here is the best part…these women exist in all our clubs, from all walks of life, whose<br />

accomplishments are stellar, significant and deserving of recognition. They are you.<br />

The mission of FAWCO’s online magazine <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> is to reveal these gems that<br />

exist within our clubs and share their brilliance with our readers.<br />

Our four issues this year illustrated the breadth of accomplishments FAWCO members<br />

have achieved in their lives. The number of profilees nominated and featured in each<br />

issue also proves that the “bench of talent” is deep.<br />

This year, <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong>’s merry band of word warriors increased again. In addition to<br />

our leader, Liz MacNiven, and our thoughtful photo coordinator, Marie-Bénédicte<br />

Luxem, we welcomed Karen Boeker as our Distribution Coordinator. The new addition to<br />

our team makes so much sense because we want to share <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong>, and the<br />

wonderful stories it contains, with an ever increasing number of our members and their<br />

friends and families.<br />

At the end of our second year, we are thrilled with the discoveries that we have made<br />

and excited about the journey the magazine will take in the future. We hope that you<br />

will continue the ride with us in 2019 and, perhaps, reveal the magic in you!<br />

Elsie Bose<br />

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<strong>Women</strong> in Sport & Fitness: Spring <strong>2018</strong><br />

As we began our second year, we thought it was a good idea to use a theme that<br />

would re-energize our collective batteries. <strong>Women</strong> in Sport seemed like the perfect way<br />

to get us moving. There is something unbelievably surreal when one is able to stretch<br />

one’s physical capabilities beyond expectations. It is powerful, it is satisfying and makes<br />

us want to push ourselves to the next level of success. We asked:<br />

Is there a member of your club who accomplished success as a champion, a<br />

participant, a coach or an organizer? Or, perhaps going for the gold was more<br />

significant than winning the gold?<br />

The women in the spring issue had a number of unique reasons for participating and<br />

excelling in their sport of choice. They ran faster, jumped higher and as a result<br />

achieved their “personal bests” both in and out of sport. Their stories described winning<br />

in their own personal way.<br />

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LAURA TRIDICO<br />

American <strong>Women</strong> of Berkshire & Surrey, England<br />

From: Arlington VA, USA<br />

Lives: Virginia Water, Surrey, England<br />

I married my husband, Anthony, in 1997, and we<br />

have three children – John (17), Anthony (14) and<br />

Nicole (11). Prior to expat life, I was a corporate<br />

lawyer in Washington, DC. In 2001, we had our first<br />

child and immediately moved overseas – a<br />

massive lifestyle change all at once! We lived in<br />

Brussels, Belgium from 2001 to 2004 and again<br />

starting in 2009. We then moved to London in 2013<br />

and have lived here ever since. Career-wise, I<br />

taught French in the USA for several years between<br />

expat assignments and now work part-time as a<br />

freelance translator.<br />

Over the years, I’ve been involved in track and<br />

field (discus and shot put in high school; high school coach when teaching in Virginia), fencing<br />

(University of Michigan), recreational running, general fitness and, most recently, golf.<br />

I was a late bloomer when it came to sports, until I discovered the shot put and discus in high<br />

school. I competed at the state level, but did not pursue it in college. Instead, I joined the<br />

fencing club at the University of Michigan, and enjoyed three years of representing my school in<br />

the Big Ten. At that time, Michigan did not have a varsity fencing team, so we were the only<br />

game in town!<br />

I drifted away from organized sports during law school, and my fitness level took a nose dive.<br />

Approaching 30 and massively out of shape, I started running. I was not fast, and could never<br />

have won a race, but had the satisfaction of completing two marathons, including New York<br />

City in 2005.


As I approached 40, my interest in running<br />

started to wane (in inverse proportion to my<br />

enjoyment of Belgian beer and chocolate). A<br />

couple of years later, I realized that I’d let my<br />

fitness go yet again. Surprisingly, it was an<br />

infomercial for a workout program (Insanity)<br />

that got me back off the couch. I bought the<br />

DVDs, and over the next six months lost 20<br />

pounds and got my body back.<br />

Upon moving to the UK, I started to take up<br />

golfing, which I had played a little bit when I<br />

was younger. That is my focus right now: since<br />

starting, I’ve lowered my handicap from 36 to<br />

a somewhat respectable 22. I’ve gotten<br />

involved in a match play team at a local club,<br />

which is a great way to get to make friends in<br />

the local community.<br />

That said, my focus on golf came at the<br />

expense of regular fitness workouts. That was a<br />

mistake that I’m now rectifying. No matter your<br />

sport, it’s essential to maintain your basic fitness<br />

level, especially your core muscles. Failing to<br />

do that can lead to injury. I’m happy to say<br />

that I’ve been back on my fitness program for<br />

a couple of months; I feel much stronger and I’m seeing a huge difference in my golf game.<br />

When I was younger, sport was about training<br />

to win for the team. Now that I’m approaching<br />

50, the most important thing is to stay fit and<br />

use my involvement in sports to make<br />

connections and friendships.<br />

I’ve learned that at whatever level you<br />

participate in a sport, you can get a lot of<br />

satisfaction from working hard and improving.<br />

Competition can be a real motivating force at<br />

any level – you don’t have to be an incredible<br />

athlete to enjoy your chosen sport and jump<br />

into competitions. For the most part, the sports<br />

I’ve been involved in are accessible wherever<br />

you live. Whatever interests you, just give it a<br />

go! The first step is always the hardest – whether<br />

starting a workout program or joining a sports<br />

club. Just get up and move!<br />

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GETTING TO KNOW LAURA<br />

Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />

big difference and why it did. Our initial<br />

decision to accept an expat assignment way<br />

back in 2001 was life-changing. Growing up,<br />

my idea of international travel involved driving<br />

across the border into Canada, so it was a<br />

massive leap of faith to decide to move to<br />

Belgium, with minimal experience abroad.<br />

Tell us something interesting about yourself that<br />

not many people know. A lot of people know<br />

that I’m a translator (French to English), but<br />

don’t know that I didn’t start seriously learning<br />

French until I was nearly 30, when I lived in<br />

Belgium. Proof that it’s never too late to start<br />

something new!<br />

If you could meet one famous or<br />

influential woman, alive or dead, who<br />

would it be and why? I would love to<br />

meet Ruth Bader Ginsburg. She has a<br />

stunning intellect, true compassion<br />

and a powerful sense of justice. She’s<br />

also a role model in the way she’s<br />

stayed at the top of her profession at<br />

the age of 84. I think it’s due in part to<br />

her dedication to fitness – in fact, her<br />

personal trainer, Bryant Johnson, just<br />

published a book called The RBG<br />

Workout: How She Stays Strong … and<br />

You Can Too! I’d love to talk with her<br />

about her fitness regime – in addition<br />

to her career on the US Supreme Court.<br />

Want to be sure you see the<br />

next issue of <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> as<br />

soon as it comes out? Click<br />

here to have it sent directly to<br />

your mailbox!<br />

Go to www.fawco.org/about/<br />

publications/inspiring-women<br />

Or scan the QR code.<br />

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<strong>Women</strong> in Words & Language: Summer <strong>2018</strong><br />

The Word Is… illuminating. Fascinating. Funny. Frustrating! We were interested in finding<br />

out what makes people pick up their pens and articulate their thoughts and visions in a<br />

way that makes an impact on others. We asked:<br />

How does one become successful in the world of words? Written or spoken? Poetry or<br />

prose? Novelist or journalist? Do you have the passion that runs wild as an author or<br />

possess the steely Zen of one who edits? Do you express yourself in your mother tongue<br />

or a second language?<br />

Our profilees worked in a variety of genres - fiction, non-fiction, writers of columns,<br />

curricula and haikus. We explored the beauty of the spoken word as well as how to<br />

effectively use the “best” words online via social media.<br />

Margaret Atwood says, ”A word after a word after a word is power.” Their stories told us<br />

about harnessing this power and becoming successful in the world of words.<br />

VICTORIA KELLAWAY<br />

American <strong>Women</strong>’s Club of Bogotá,<br />

Colombia<br />

From: Kent, England<br />

Lives: Bogotá, Colombia<br />

I became a newspaper reporter at the age<br />

of twenty-one. Most of my work involved<br />

despair. I was the journalist who appeared<br />

in the aftermath of horror, be it a single<br />

death or thousands, asking those involved<br />

to share their suffering. I believe that work is<br />

important, it gives people a voice and it<br />

holds others accountable, but it did take its<br />

toll. At twenty-seven I was ready to escape<br />

and I chose the Galapagos Islands. It was<br />

the most remote, fascinating place I could<br />

imagine and an inspired decision. Three<br />

months later, I was refreshed and keen to explore more of South America. I arrived in Bogotá,<br />

Colombia, and found it irresistible. I decided to stay a while to study Spanish, dance salsa and<br />

figure out what I wanted to do with my life. A few months became a year, and a freelance<br />

writing career, and my first book was published four years later. I met my husband, Carlos, the<br />

year the book came out. Sometimes I don’t know whether I chose Bogotá, or it chose me.<br />

I was lucky enough to have a mother who read to me as a child and I still remember how proud<br />

I felt when my parents first let me choose a book to read alone. But my relationship with reading<br />

was not idyllic. A teacher confiscated one novel when I was ten, and my mother was called<br />

into the school to explain. “She must have taken it from the bookshelf,” she said. “What are we<br />

supposed to do, tell a child not to read?” I developed some antisocial tendencies, and often<br />

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had books confiscated<br />

so I would participate in<br />

family gatherings. And<br />

yet, I never understood<br />

t h e r e l a t i o n s h i p<br />

between writers and<br />

books. The only job I<br />

could imagine that<br />

allowed a person to<br />

write was newspaper<br />

reporting and that’s why<br />

I chose it. It wasn’t until I<br />

was nearly thirty that I<br />

realised I could write<br />

books too.<br />

Since then I have cowritten<br />

a satire on<br />

Colombian culture,<br />

called Colombia a Comedy of Errors and I have co-edited two essay collections, Was Gabo an<br />

Irishman? (Tales from Gabriel García Márquez’s Colombia) and Alone Together (Tales of<br />

Sisterhood and Solitude in Latin America). Besides writing and lecturing, I participate in panels,<br />

interviews and signings. Writing and reading are solitary activities and I think it’s important we<br />

writers play our part in inspiring others, helping them to discover new books and genres, maybe<br />

even start writing themselves.<br />

I’ve learned to walk the line between protecting my treasured ‘writing time’ and accepting that<br />

life is a tough beast to tame. Learning to say ‘no’ as a freelance writer is challenging, but I am<br />

improving. Every time I refuse to write something for someone else, I grab that time to write for<br />

myself and I’m now happier with the balance. I’m learning all the time too. I’ve noticed that my<br />

relationship with other people’s books is evolving. Sometimes I find I’m studying books more than<br />

reading them (How did the author do that? How were we brought here?) and then every now<br />

and again a book will knock me sideways and I’ll think, “Yep. That’s why words matter.”<br />

Working with words is easier than many of us are taught to believe. Towering walls are built<br />

around the literary world, including the myth that writing is a difficult job, that you need to type<br />

through the night fuelled by cocaine and whiskey, leaving relationships in your wake as you<br />

surge towards a tragic<br />

end – a tragic end<br />

that was foretold since<br />

the day you emerged<br />

from your tragic<br />

childhood, which is<br />

the only reason<br />

anyone allows you to<br />

write in the first place.<br />

Can we set that one<br />

to rest please? There<br />

are difficult jobs out<br />

there and sitting in our<br />

pajamas, re-arranging<br />

sentences is not one<br />

o f t h e m . T h e<br />

knowledge that being<br />

a w r i t e r w a s<br />

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something I could do, an ordinary human being, was the biggest surprise to me. If I can do it, so<br />

can you.<br />

Authors are not deities. Readers will always have the final say and potentially, there are seven<br />

billion of them, with diverse experiences and attitudes to our writing. I’ve had readers remark,<br />

“Yours was the worst book I have ever purchased and I only made it to page two!” and another,<br />

on the same day, “I love your book. I’ve read it three times and bought copies for all my friends.<br />

How did you do it?” and I<br />

enjoyed meeting them both.<br />

Our writing will not touch<br />

everyone. It will not<br />

convince everyone and it<br />

will not be deemed<br />

worthwhile by everyone.<br />

And therein lies our freedom.<br />

Providing our work is as<br />

touching, convincing and<br />

worthwhile as we can make<br />

it; we are the only reader<br />

that matters. The rest are far<br />

too unpredictable.<br />

I’ve been involved in writing<br />

and editing three books so<br />

far and they have had their<br />

share of success, from<br />

becoming bestsellers in<br />

various countries to being stocked by entities such as the Nobel Peace Center and the Harvard<br />

Library. And yet my most important achievement in the literary world has been seeing each<br />

book completed. I say this to anyone considering being involved with a book, whether as a<br />

writer or an editor: “A book doesn’t have to be good. But it does have to be finished.” (There are<br />

exceptions, of course, but we’re not all Kafka.) Just finish the thing. Dot the final ‘i’ and cross the<br />

final ‘t’ and you’ll have achieved the most important part.<br />

If you want to become a writer start now. Not tomorrow, not next weekend. Now. You need a<br />

computer, or a pen and paper, or a pencil stub and the back of an old envelope. You don’t<br />

need to write a book in one day. You just need to write something now, and something else<br />

tomorrow and keep writing, and editing, and re-writing. Read the best, study the craft, take a<br />

course either in person or online. Our world is open to everyone, you’ll soon get sucked in, find a<br />

tribe and progress from there. But whatever you do, whatever you learn, whatever rejection you<br />

encounter, just keep writing. You cannot find your readers if you have nothing for them to read.<br />

GETTING TO KNOW VICTORIA<br />

Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />

big difference and why it did. I covered the<br />

Boxing Day tsunami in south-east Asia when I<br />

was twenty-two, reporting from refugee<br />

camps in the north of Sri Lanka where the aid<br />

wasn’t getting through. I remain haunted by<br />

the people I met there and the stories I heard<br />

and witnessed. I’m sure it made me more<br />

empathetic, more easily moved and affected<br />

by other people’s experiences. I swore I<br />

wouldn’t cry there, and I didn’t, but when a<br />

woman who had lost her only daughter<br />

hugged me and told me, “I can’t believe<br />

you’ve travelled all the way around the world<br />

just to talk to people like us,” my throat and<br />

lungs burned in a way they never have since.<br />

What personal motto do you live by and how<br />

does it affect what you do/don’t do? I like<br />

Martin Luther King’s advice, “If you<br />

can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if<br />

you can't walk then crawl, but<br />

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whatever you do you have to keep moving<br />

forward.” It helps to remember that<br />

achievement is not always instant. Let’s just<br />

do one thing today that will bring us closer<br />

tomorrow. Let’s keep crawling.<br />

If you could only save a copy of one book/<br />

play/poem from the flames, what would it be<br />

and why? A Woman in Berlin, an anonymous<br />

diary kept by a journalist in her early thirties<br />

when the city of Berlin fell in 1945, and more<br />

than two million women were raped by<br />

incoming soldiers. The writer is funny, honest,<br />

smart, angry and thoughtful, and this is a vital<br />

historical document. It’s a brave, hopeful, lifeaffirming<br />

book and I’d save it so every<br />

woman has the chance to read it.<br />

If you could meet one writer, dead or alive,<br />

what question would you ask them and why?<br />

Perhaps he wouldn’t count as a writer as<br />

much as a character in his own biography,<br />

but Jesus Christ would be the most fascinating<br />

interview. I would ask him “Jesus, your book is<br />

one of the biggest sellers of all time, it is one<br />

of the most debated and fought over books<br />

in human history. Do you have any regrets?”<br />

“Power is not given<br />

to you. You have to<br />

take it.” - Beyoncé<br />

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<strong>Women</strong> Who Persist: Fall <strong>2018</strong><br />

This issue profiled women from our clubs who are walking the walk. Through their<br />

insistence and their persistence, they have set out to right a wrong, elevate justice, and<br />

make the case for a better human condition. We asked:<br />

Big problems or small, what is it about these women that motivates them to step out on<br />

the ledge of a troubled world and join the journey to make it a better place? <strong>Women</strong>’s<br />

rights, children’s rights, poverty, hunger, health or the environment - there are challenges<br />

everywhere we look. What made these women different that they did not look away?<br />

Their stories were so outstanding that the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> staff made the decision to<br />

carry over this theme to the Spring 2019 issue so all the profiles can be included. The<br />

work of these women takes FAWCO to a higher place. We are proud to know them,<br />

honored to praise them and hope, in some way, to be like them.<br />

ELIZABETH (LIZ) VALLEJO<br />

American <strong>Women</strong> of the Eastern Province, Saudi Arabia<br />

From: Chicago, Illinois<br />

Lives: Dhahran, Saudi Arabia<br />

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I have been a chemistry teacher and school<br />

administrator for over 20 years. I grew up in suburban<br />

Chicago, and after university settled back in the<br />

Chicago area with my husband, Eric. In 1999 we were so<br />

excited to have twins, Ian and Annika. After 13 years<br />

working in a fantastic suburban high school and when<br />

the twins turned eight years old, Eric and I decided to<br />

embark on a two year adventure to teach in an overseas<br />

school in Saudi Arabia. The expat life fit us so well that<br />

we made it more permanent, returning to Chicago for<br />

each summer but living and working in Saudi Arabia.<br />

Three and a half years ago our lives changed forever<br />

when our 16-year-old son was diagnosed with an<br />

aggressive form of bone cancer called osteosarcoma.<br />

My son and I moved back to the States for his medical treatment, shuttling between Chicago<br />

and Saudi Arabia as his health allowed. Ian’s diagnosis, combined with my step-mother’s death<br />

from colon cancer about 15 years ago and my second step-mother’s battle with breast cancer<br />

six years ago, compelled me to help those with cancer. I am currently involved in cancer<br />

activism in two main ways.<br />

First, I volunteered to lead the AWEP’s breast cancer heart pillow project. AWEP does a large<br />

fundraiser each year for breast cancer, and the money goes to making heart pillows that help<br />

breast cancer surgical patients keep their arms away from their surgical sites. The fundraising has<br />

been so successful that the group has allowed me to expand the project to also include<br />

childhood cancer patients this year. We hope that we can make IV pole lily pads for those


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children in hospital having<br />

chemotherapy.<br />

My second form of<br />

activism is through the MIB<br />

Family Agents. MIB stands<br />

for Make It Better for<br />

c h i l d r e n w i t h<br />

osteosarcoma. In May<br />

2016 MIB concluded that<br />

due to a lack of focus and<br />

funding, osteosarcoma<br />

research was stagnant<br />

and needed to be pushed<br />

forward. An initiative to<br />

hold the first and only<br />

annual osteosarcoma<br />

conference was brought<br />

forward, and I immediately<br />

volunteered to help. In January 2017 we held the first conference named FACTOR (Funding,<br />

Awareness, Collaboration, Trials, Osteosarcoma Research), and I was the patient advocate<br />

coordinator and the conference floor coordinator. FACTOR was a huge success, bringing<br />

together over 100 doctors, patients, researchers and families to discuss the current state of<br />

osteosarcoma, while looking at and funding the most promising research. In January <strong>2018</strong>, when<br />

the second conference was held, I began the planning for a “Family Agent” group, which would<br />

help families new to osteosarcoma or new to a relapse, find a patient and family to support them<br />

in their journey. Since then, I have worked on developing a book for osteosarcoma families to<br />

help them through this time, which will be available free of charge on the MIB website in late fall<br />

<strong>2018</strong>, as well as a set of training modules for patients and families serving as Family Agents,<br />

available beginning in winter <strong>2018</strong>/19. My son and I first met another osteosarcoma patient and<br />

family more than a year after his diagnosis – feeling alone during this period makes the journey<br />

through this horrible cancer so isolating and scary. Osteosarcoma requires some of the most<br />

b r u t a l t r e a t m e n t s :<br />

amputation, bones being<br />

replaced by feet of metal<br />

and brutal chemotherapy,<br />

followed by a life-long set of<br />

side effects from the<br />

attempt to cure the<br />

cancer… and too often the<br />

cancer cannot be cured.<br />

My life has been impacted<br />

dramatically by cancer, and<br />

m y o n e c o m m o n<br />

experience through my<br />

mother’s, my step-mother’s<br />

and son’s illnesses is the<br />

feeling of helplessness,<br />

isolation and fear. While I<br />

am not a cancer researcher<br />

to help change the prognosis or improve treatments, I do have the power to help others feel less<br />

hopeless, isolated and alone; and I also have the power to help bring researchers together, so<br />

they can put their brilliant minds together to help change the prognosis and treatments with the<br />

research dollars that I can help to raise. This work has helped me take power back when cancer<br />

stole my hope and power. It also helps me to memorialize my stepmother, who passed away


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from colon cancer in April 2005, and<br />

my son who passed away from<br />

treatment-induced leukemia in July<br />

<strong>2018</strong> from the chemotherapy<br />

treatments he received to treat his<br />

osteosarcoma.<br />

My father has always been an<br />

amazing role model in my life and<br />

inspired my activism. He became a<br />

single parent of my brother and me<br />

when we were only 2 and 3 years old<br />

when my birth mom died. He worked<br />

hard to be positive and involved at a<br />

time when he was grieving and<br />

when fathers weren’t traditionally<br />

single parents. He’s always had a<br />

strong moral compass of right and<br />

wrong, while maintaining a great sense of adventure, optimism and humor. He has always been<br />

a steady, consistent source of courage and strength in my life.<br />

I have met some of the most awesome people through my activism work. Truly, you can’t find a<br />

more giving, compassionate and active set of people anywhere else. My activism work has also<br />

solidified what really matters in my life - family, friends and helping others. Many people are<br />

willing to be involved in activism but don’t know how to begin. Opening that door of asking for<br />

volunteers and giving ideas of easy ways to get involved is often what hooks people into the<br />

cause. Activism is working to help others, but through giving of my time, energy and resources, I<br />

have been given so much more strength and peace.<br />

I’ve been so surprised at how strengthening<br />

privacy in the medical field (a great idea) has<br />

dramatically effected the way people can get<br />

support. Although it is an unintended<br />

consequence of these measures, people have<br />

had to become more intentional and organized<br />

to get the support structures to people in need.<br />

As a result of my efforts, in <strong>2018</strong> over 3.5 million<br />

dollars of research money has been given to<br />

osteosarcoma research specifically; just a few<br />

years ago there was almost no research money<br />

given to the disease specifically. The awareness<br />

of the disease is spreading, and funding is<br />

following. My son, in 2015, received the same<br />

chemotherapy regimen as Senator Edward<br />

(Ted) Kennedy did in 1973 and Canadian<br />

runner Terry Fox did in 1980. The disease<br />

prognosis and treatments haven’t changed in<br />

over 40 years; finally, time and effort are being<br />

put into combatting this disease.<br />

This is our world, our nations, our families and our<br />

people - we must work together to make it a<br />

better place for everyone. Find your niche and<br />

your passion - follow that and you will get back<br />

so much more than you give.


GETTING TO KNOW LIZ<br />

What personal motto do you live by and how<br />

does it affect what you do/don’t do? “Live with<br />

Purpose” is the motto I try to live by. I try to<br />

determine what is important in life and use<br />

that to guide my time and energy.<br />

If you were stranded on a desert island, which<br />

would you rather have with you: The Bible, the<br />

complete works of Shakespeare or the history<br />

of civilization? Probably the history of<br />

civilization, as it is something that I find I know<br />

far too little about and the lessons that can be<br />

learned by prior people’s choices can help to<br />

inform future thoughts and choices.<br />

What one thing would you change about<br />

yourself if you magically could? My need for<br />

lots of sleep. I regularly need 8-9 hours of<br />

sleep, and I often envy my husband who only<br />

needs 5-6 hours. An extra few hours a day<br />

would be great!<br />

What’s your favorite indulgence? Travel, I<br />

absolutely love it. Seeing new places,<br />

wandering new streets, eating new food and<br />

talking to people are such a joy.<br />

My mother always<br />

told me, “hide your<br />

face, people are<br />

looking at you.” I<br />

would reply, “it does<br />

not matter; I am<br />

also looking at<br />

them.” - Malala<br />

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<strong>Women</strong> in Music: Winter <strong>2018</strong><br />

This issue was so much fun! It contained two innovations to the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> online<br />

experience. We profiled a person for whom the “<strong>Inspiring</strong>” in our magazine’s title could<br />

be considered a verb and not an adjective. We also embedded musical performances<br />

from the profilees so readers could listen while they read - a great holiday present that<br />

included great people. We asked:<br />

Who are those that dare to create the language, the sound, the movement that enters<br />

the most private parts of an individual’s soul? Is music their passion or salvation? They<br />

say those with musical talent have a gift - how did they receive it?<br />

The people profiled in this issue have astonishing talent. They shared their stories of how<br />

they came to music (or how it came to them). Some of our profilees have chosen to<br />

guide others in maximizing their musical abilities. All told us what musical success means<br />

to them. The year couldn’t have ended on a higher note if we were Maria Callas!<br />

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BEVERLY MINOR<br />

American <strong>Women</strong>’s Association of Vienna, Austria<br />

From: Mississippi, USA<br />

Lives: Vienna, Austria<br />

I grew up in Woodville, Mississippi, on a farm, one of<br />

eleven children. My family had horses, cows, hogs, goats,<br />

dogs and cats. I had a pet pig called Tiny. My father had<br />

a large garden and he raised potatoes, corn and sugar<br />

cane. He also worked in a factory.<br />

My church did not have a piano so the old people used<br />

to pat their feet and clap their hands. We did not have a<br />

choir and kids in the church were never given the<br />

opportunity to sing. I joined the high school marching<br />

band where I played the saxophone.<br />

Growing up I loved to listen to music, but never<br />

envisioned myself as a singer because I was very shy and<br />

did not believe I was musically inclined. My family did not<br />

have a TV so I often listened to Motown music on the<br />

radio; my favorite singers were Aretha Franklin, Natalie Cole and the Staple Singers. I still listen to<br />

the same people today with the addition of the Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir.<br />

I left home at 18 to attend Alcorn State University where I studied office administration. I also<br />

joined the Zeta Phi Beta Sorority. One of the girls said that I sang as though I had a frog in my<br />

throat and she hated it when I even sang background. Not an easy thing to hear!<br />

After graduating from the University, I moved to New Orleans, Louisiana, to live with my brothers.<br />

Two of them sang in a gospel singing group along with a cousin and asked me to join them. I<br />

loved gospel music but didn't think I was gifted enough to sing. Eventually, I joined them and my<br />

voice begin to develop. After my early experience it surprised me when people said they liked


my singing. I eventually<br />

joined a church in New<br />

Orleans and began to<br />

sing solos with them.<br />

While living in New<br />

Orleans, I started to<br />

participate with church<br />

groups traveling abroad<br />

on short-term mission<br />

journeys. My first trip was<br />

to Ryazan, Russia,<br />

where I evangelized,<br />

s a n g s o l o s a n d<br />

accompanied a praise<br />

and worship team.<br />

Some years later, I<br />

relocated to Georgia<br />

and attended First<br />

Baptist Church of<br />

Atlanta. I joined the choir and sometimes sang on In Touch Ministries, which was broadcast<br />

nationally and internationally. I became quite popular and began to sing at weddings, funerals<br />

and Christmas parties, etc. During this period, I continued to travel abroad singing with a group.<br />

After taking an early retirement from Delta Air Lines, I went on to work as a banker for Wells Fargo<br />

and Fidelity National Bank. Then in 2013, a Polish choir (Gospel Joy), asked me to join them in<br />

Poland for a year as one of their lead singers. I had often considered moving to Europe but did<br />

not know how it could happen. I was able to get monetary support from my church, family and<br />

friends and so by the end of that year, I felt secure enough to resign from my place of<br />

employment, put my furniture in storage, rent my house and say goodbye to my family. In<br />

January 2014, I was off to Poznan, Poland.<br />

When the year ended, I moved to Vienna, Austria and now I work as a Ministry Assistant at the<br />

Christian International Church, which is located in the 10 th District. I am a song leader in my<br />

church and I also formed a small group which is called Soundz of Joy.<br />

When I got to Vienna I had googled “choirs in Vienna” and lo and behold, there was the<br />

Longfield Gospel Choir.<br />

So, I joined two of the<br />

Longfield choirs and<br />

have since traveled with<br />

t h e m s i n g i n g i n<br />

Denmark, Germany and<br />

all over Austria. It is<br />

always special to me<br />

when the AWA Vienna<br />

ladies attend our<br />

concerts, especially the<br />

time when we sang at<br />

St. Stephen's Cathedral.<br />

The Longfield Choirs (a<br />

total of four choirs under<br />

the same director) just<br />

completed a CD and I<br />

am a song leader on<br />

three of the songs.<br />

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I enjoy living in Vienna and think that<br />

singing is the best job in the world.<br />

Singing gospel songs is right in my<br />

element and I hope, in the future, to<br />

get trained so I could add some<br />

Christian jazz to my genre. My dream<br />

would be to travel round the world<br />

singing with a small band. Over the<br />

years I have had the opportunity to<br />

travel around the world and sing: from<br />

the streets of Hong Kong to Argentina<br />

and Chile, to Costa Rica and many<br />

places in the USA, to Canada to Egypt<br />

and many countries around Europe.<br />

It feels good when someone in one of<br />

these countries remembers me and<br />

some still extend an invitation to come<br />

back to see them.<br />

I would also like to learn to play my saxophone better and include it when I sing. When I sing, I<br />

put my whole being into what I am singing because I want the audience to believe and feel the<br />

message in the music.<br />

Pieces of music I recommend/love<br />

The Easter version of Leonard Cohen's song “Hallelujah.” It is a classic, many people love<br />

this song and they sing it all over the world.<br />

The same for “O Happy Day” and “Amazing Grace.”<br />

I recently recorded “Sometimes I Feel Live A Motherless Child” and I would love to share it<br />

with the world.<br />

The song “He's An On Time God” brings out the tiger in me and I love it when the audience<br />

goes wild when I sing it. I love a lot of the old classics.<br />

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GETTING TO KNOW BEVERLY<br />

Tell us something interesting about yourself<br />

that not many people know. When I am done<br />

singing, I just want to run off the stage and<br />

hide. I actually sometimes get a bit shy when<br />

people applaud.<br />

If you could perform with, or meet, one<br />

musician, who would it be? I would have<br />

loved to meet Whitney Houston. She was a<br />

great singer and it would have been an honor<br />

to sing with her. Mariah Carey is also one of<br />

my all time favorite singers. I would love to sing<br />

a duet with her but I would have to sing lower<br />

notes. Her voice is outstanding.<br />

The most unusual place I have listened to<br />

music was… I traveled to Santiago, Chile, on<br />

a medical mission trip and a popular singer<br />

was doing a concert at the tennis stadium. I<br />

knew one of the sponsors. When I arrived at<br />

the stadium, I was asked to<br />

also sing before over 5000<br />

people and it was<br />

impromptu. I did quite well.<br />

What are some of the things<br />

you would love to get better<br />

at and things you would like<br />

to stop doing? I would love<br />

to get better at doing runs<br />

and remembering song<br />

lyrics. I would love to stop<br />

getting nervous when<br />

performing a new song<br />

because I sometimes think<br />

that I will forget the lyrics.<br />

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A Club Inspires: AWC Central Scotland<br />

There are 62 FAWCO clubs of all sizes and shapes in 31 different countries across the<br />

world. “A Club Inspires” is a feature in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> where one club tells readers<br />

more about themselves. In this, the <strong>Highlights</strong> issue, we have asked the hosts of the 2019<br />

Conference to tell us about their club.<br />

The origins of the American<br />

<strong>Women</strong>’s Club of Central<br />

Scotland go back to the<br />

early 1970s, when the wives<br />

of employees at Santa Fe, a<br />

supply company for the offshore<br />

oil industry, began to<br />

hold informal lunchtime<br />

gatherings. Other American<br />

women in Edinburgh were<br />

soon attracted to their<br />

meetings and in 1974, the<br />

American <strong>Women</strong>'s Club of<br />

Edinburgh was formally<br />

established and by-laws<br />

drawn up.<br />

In May 1998, the American<br />

<strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Edinburgh<br />

became the American<br />

<strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Central Scotland, comprising Edinburgh, Central Region of Scotland and<br />

Glasgow. There is also a sister club in northern Scotland: the Association of American <strong>Women</strong> of<br />

Aberdeen (AAWA).<br />

AWCCS has always had a close relationship with the U.S. Consulate-General in Edinburgh. In<br />

recent years, the Principal Officers being female, they have served as our Honorary President.<br />

Today AWCCS has 76 mainly American members, many of whom have married Scots and<br />

moved with them, so are long term residents in Scotland.<br />

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The club has a board which is elected each year at our AGM, although in reality there is seldom<br />

more than one candidate per position and we normally have to ask people to do the jobs. But<br />

that seems to be a common issue across the globe!<br />

We have both regular and annual events<br />

such as coffee outings, museum tours,<br />

book club, happy hours, pot luck dinners,<br />

a Fourth of July picnic and a Thanksgiving<br />

dinner, which is always a fun event. Our<br />

recent coffee outing to the National<br />

Library of Scotland to visit the Strike for<br />

Freedom exhibit about Frederick Douglass<br />

was very popular with members. His life<br />

and struggles to abolish slavery is a<br />

powerful and inspirational story and<br />

learning about his work in Scotland and<br />

throughout the United Kingdom was very<br />

interesting. We also had a lot of fun doing<br />

silk screen printing for the welcome bags<br />

given out at the 2019 Conference. It was<br />

an interesting activity which many of us<br />

hadn’t done before, in a facility (the<br />

Edinburgh Printmakers Workshop) which<br />

we had always wanted to visit and use.<br />

As a club, we also raise money for charitable causes each year, for example, by having a<br />

silent/live auction at our Thanksgiving Dinner. We change our club charity every year or two by<br />

vote at the AGM or through an online vote.<br />

Edinburgh, where many of us live, is a lovely city, easy to get around, full of lots of cultural and<br />

historical places. It is very walkable. You learn something new on every outing. The walking<br />

paths along the Water of Leith are a<br />

special highlight where you find yourself<br />

surrounded by nature right in the middle<br />

of the city.<br />

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It’s truly amazing how many Scots have<br />

influenced world history, from John Knox<br />

in religion to various scientific discoveries<br />

during the enlightenment period and<br />

important inventions during the industrial<br />

revolution, such as the steam engine.<br />

The torch light procession for Hogmanay<br />

(the Scottish word for New Year’s Eve) is<br />

a special highlight here. On the 30 th of<br />

December each year, thousands of<br />

people walk through the streets of the old town carrying burning torches. These days it is a<br />

ticketed event with torches purchased from the event organizers only. The Scots love the New<br />

Year and celebrate it over several days. The 1 st and 2 nd of January are public holidays and<br />

have been for generations. Did you know that both days were public holidays in Scotland<br />

before Christmas was even acknowledged as a public holiday here?!<br />

There has been talk of having an annual conference in Scotland for some years. We are<br />

delighted to finally welcome you all this year. The organizing team for the conference has<br />

been a committee made up of a small band of dedicated club members and the AWCCS


oard, all working together.<br />

Involvement in planning the<br />

conference has given us the<br />

best first-hand experience of<br />

FAWCO and its many facets.<br />

Through this involvement we<br />

have gotten to know the<br />

FAWCO board and several<br />

of the other very involved<br />

members of FAWCO. It has<br />

given us a strong base for<br />

establishing new friendships.<br />

Having our club host the<br />

conference, although a big<br />

responsibility for us all, has<br />

been a good experience<br />

and we hope all of those<br />

attending the conference<br />

will have an excellent time<br />

here in Scotland.<br />

“Success is only<br />

meaningful and<br />

enjoyable if it feels<br />

like your own.” -<br />

Michelle Obama<br />

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A President Inspires<br />

As you may know, the President of FAWCO usually serves a two-year term of office.<br />

While preparing to hand over the reins in Edinburgh, our current President found time to<br />

tell us some more about her back story and her plans for the future...<br />

SALLIE CHABALIER<br />

Association of American <strong>Women</strong> in<br />

Europe, Paris<br />

From: Mansfield, Ohio<br />

Lives: Paris, France<br />

I grew up in Mansfield, Ohio, a mediumsized<br />

city in north central Ohio, which<br />

was thriving when I was a child but has<br />

since become part of the “Rust Belt”<br />

and today is rather sad.<br />

I was the cherished only child of older<br />

(for the 1950s) parents who had been<br />

told they were too old to adopt—and<br />

then I came along after 10 years. My<br />

mother was from North Carolina but<br />

moved north when she married my<br />

father, so I joke that I was bicultural from<br />

birth. I had a sheltered but happy childhood and was a bookish little girl..<br />

I went to university and graduate school in New England, which I loved. After getting my<br />

Masters, I worked as a researcher in a university research center, so I was in an academic<br />

bubble until my late 20s. I was then lucky enough to get a job as an analyst of Soviet politics in<br />

Munich, so I moved to Germany and have been in Europe for over 35 of the last 37 years.<br />

I loved my work in Munich but felt my Sandhurst-educated boss did not appreciate me, so when<br />

I was offered a job with a Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty research office in Paris after three<br />

years in Munich, I jumped at the chance. I was thrilled to be in my favorite city in the world, and<br />

still am! At the time (mid-to late 1980s), I soaked up all Paris had to offer: cinema, museums,<br />

wine-tasting courses, stylish shoes, wonderful restaurants. The dollar was high and I was single<br />

and gainfully employed, so I got a lot out of my system—if only I hadn't spent so much money<br />

on shoes... After three years or so, I started wondering again if I should try my hand at finding a<br />

job in Washington, DC, since I always had illusions about public service. I also wanted to be<br />

closer to my aging parents and to get back in touch with my country and culture. After looking<br />

at various options, I negotiated a transfer to RFE/RL's Washington office where I worked for not<br />

quite two years. My illusions about Washington evaporated by Day 2.<br />

As fate would have it, six months before I left Paris, I met a very charming Frenchman, François-<br />

Marc Chaballier, who had gone to business school in the US with a friend and neighbor of mine<br />

in Paris—we met at her going-away party. We went out for six months until I left for Washington,<br />

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and I had no idea what would follow. We visited back and forth ("commuting" is not quite the<br />

word) and this being before the Internet, I tease FM that the phone bills got out of control. My<br />

heart was literally no longer in trying to make a life back in the US, so once again, a serendipitous<br />

job offer to return to RFE/RL Research in Munich led me to leave the US for the second time. I had<br />

an incredibly fascinating job as editor of a daily newsletter sent out by fax (remember those?)<br />

from early 1991 till early1992, as the Soviet Union disintegrated. One of the highlights was sending<br />

out two issues a day during the crisis in August 1991, when Gorbachev was under house arrest—<br />

our "brief" was to scoop CNN and we did.<br />

To my surprise and delight, when I was in Paris over New Year's shortly before leaving Washington,<br />

François-Marc proposed, I accepted, and we blithely planned an actual commute between<br />

Munich and Paris until I could find another job in Paris.<br />

Life accelerated and<br />

took some unexpected<br />

turns, however, as my<br />

father was diagnosed<br />

with cancer 10 days<br />

before our wedding<br />

(which I had organized<br />

by fax). We went<br />

a h ead wi t h the<br />

wedding, and my<br />

darling father walked<br />

me down the aisle. He<br />

died of postoperative<br />

complications 7 weeks<br />

later, leaving my<br />

m o ther a nd me<br />

absolutely devastated. I<br />

took unpaid leave, then<br />

brought my mother<br />

back to Munich with<br />

me to keep an eye on her. It was then that I realized that I was expecting our first child. I worked<br />

through my first three months of pregnancy but decided that starting a marriage, caring for my<br />

grieving mother, and having a baby in my late thirties was a bit much to juggle with my job, so I<br />

shelved the career I loved and moved back to Paris to live with my new husband. Twenty-seven<br />

years and another child later, I am still here.<br />

When I first moved back to Paris, I already knew the city and had friends—plus I was newly<br />

married and newly pregnant. Both my sisters-in-law were pregnant at the same time, so I had a<br />

lot of support from family. I didn't feel the need for any additional community, plus I was too busy<br />

to want activities.<br />

I didn't join the Association of American <strong>Women</strong> in Europe (AAWE) until we needed to register our<br />

older son for preschool at age 2 1/2 and I called to order the AAWE Guide to Education in<br />

France, which is one of the club's flagship publications. The person running the office at the time<br />

was so nice on the phone that I ended up joining as well as ordering the book (a subsequent<br />

edition of which I co-edited). I was not very involved for several years, being more active in a<br />

parents' support network, though I took my kids to children's parties and volunteered at the<br />

annual Holiday Bazaar.<br />

I happened to sit at the same table as the Education and Bilingualism Chair at the club's 40th<br />

anniversary luncheon in 2001 and rashly volunteered to help out with a biennial school fair that is<br />

one of AAWE's major community services. When she moved away unexpectedly the following<br />

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year, she "volunteered" me to take over<br />

for her (I think I was her only volunteer),<br />

and I found myself parachuted onto the<br />

Board in 2003.<br />

Once I joined the Board I got to know a<br />

lot more people, and having to organize<br />

events myself (I am NOT an events<br />

person), had to get more involved. After<br />

serving as Education and Bilingualism<br />

Chair, I spent three years as Membership<br />

Chair, which was a lot of fun—it allowed<br />

me to get to know many new members<br />

and help them get settled in Paris or<br />

figure out where to send their kids to<br />

school, for example. I served as President<br />

from 2008 to 2010, which was very<br />

gratifying, and then spent a great three years as FAWCO Rep—so I've had some of the best jobs<br />

in the club. Since then, I've co-chaired a couple of Strategic Planning Committees and served on<br />

the Rebranding Committee, but now I'm taking a bit of a break.<br />

It's a cliché that the more you give, the more you get, but it's still absolutely true. I really came to<br />

admire the women who had founded the club as well as the younger members, and have made<br />

some wonderful friends. AAWE is largely an association of "lifers" and is truly-multigenerational; it<br />

has come to be a sort of extended family for me, especially since I have so little family in the US.<br />

As an international affairs junkie, I had been intrigued by FAWCO and the global perspective it<br />

seemed to offer beyond my own club but was not able to attend conferences while my children<br />

were still young. My dear friend Nan de Laubadère (FAWCO Rep at the time) very reasonably<br />

pointed out that the 2007 FAWCO Biennial Conference in Lyon was only a two-hour train ride<br />

from Paris, so I went to Lyon and was simply blown away by all that FAWCO does as well as by<br />

the dynamic and accomplished women whom I met. I was hooked from then on and<br />

volunteered to be on what was at the time the Educational Support Committee.<br />

I found FAWCO to<br />

be an indispensable<br />

source of ideas<br />

when I attended my<br />

second conference<br />

in Seoul in 2008 as<br />

incoming AAWE<br />

club President. I also<br />

loved the stimulation<br />

and information at<br />

conferences and<br />

soaked up all that I<br />

could. Nan and I<br />

organized a Region<br />

3 meeting in the fall<br />

of 2008. When the<br />

first Target Program<br />

was getting off the<br />

g r o u n d , I<br />

volunteered to be<br />

on the selection<br />

c o m m i t t e e t o


choose the first topic for what<br />

was then called the "Bull's Eye<br />

Program." When the 3rd VP on<br />

Kathleen Simon's Board resigned<br />

for personal reasons, Kathleen<br />

asked me to step in and serve<br />

the second year of that term,<br />

2010—2011. I subsequently<br />

served as 2nd VP — Member<br />

Clubs on the 2013—2015 Board<br />

and 1st VP — Communications<br />

on the 2015--2017 Board before<br />

being elected President in 2017.<br />

I’ve been asked to describe a<br />

typical day as president.<br />

"Typical??!!” There is no typical.<br />

OK, I guess on a "typical" day, I<br />

open my FAWCO email account and start answering messages, then check the FAWCO<br />

Facebook page and closed groups (I am de facto Facebook manager at the moment) and<br />

then look at my to-do list, which seems to expand faster than I can cross things off. Since FAWCO<br />

is mostly a virtual organization, email communication is our lifeline, supplemented with WhatsApp<br />

messages and Skype calls.<br />

In a "typical" week, I have several Skype meetings, sometimes two or three in a day. Being<br />

President—indeed, any Board position—is very operational and very reactive, so it's hard to find<br />

time for reflection or for long-term projects. Since the FAWCO year is cyclical, some times are<br />

busier than others. The period from January to March goes by in a blur of annual reports and<br />

conference preparations; summer is much calmer, although FAWCO never grinds to a halt.<br />

I chair monthly Board meetings, usually by Skype, and represent FAWCO at all meetings of The<br />

FAWCO Foundation. The Presidents of TFF and FAUSA and I have a quarterly Skype call as well.<br />

Face-to-face Board meetings are where we have a chance to brainstorm and really grapple<br />

with thorny issues, and I enjoy being around a table with the Board members in person.<br />

One thing I did not quite realize is how involved the President is in planning Interim Meetings and<br />

Biennial Conferences—putting together the agenda for these meetings is like trying to assemble<br />

a 3-D jigsaw puzzle! Other Board<br />

members and key volunteers see<br />

FAWCO through their particular<br />

lens, whereas the President has to<br />

have a 360-degree view of the<br />

organization at all times.<br />

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When I step down, I will miss being<br />

in regular contact with so many<br />

amazing women, quite a few of<br />

whom have become good<br />

friends. For me, FAWCO is all<br />

about the people: there truly is a<br />

special bond among the "usual<br />

suspects," and I hope to stay in<br />

close touch with as many people<br />

as possible. Also, FAWCO has<br />

given me the opportunity to travel<br />

to places I might never have


gone: Lithuania, Morocco, India,<br />

Jordan and, soon, Lebanon, so I<br />

hope to keep going to Regional<br />

Meetings and Conferences<br />

wherever they may be.<br />

I will not miss the feeling of 24/7<br />

responsibility, but that may stem<br />

from my lack of organization—it<br />

doesn't have to be 24/7!<br />

There have been a few surprises<br />

left becoming President, even<br />

after serving in all three Vice<br />

President positions. I guess being<br />

more closely involved with<br />

FAWCO's finances has been eyeopening.<br />

We operate on a<br />

shoestring, and it's amazing how<br />

much we accomplish with so little! I'd like to see FAWCO expand and diversify its revenue streams<br />

so we are not so dependent on membership dues and advertising.<br />

FAWCO may be low on funding, but we are rich in volunteer talent and commitment (though I<br />

knew that long before I became President). Whatever the challenges we face, there usually will<br />

be someone or several someones who find a solution or an alternative. FAWCO women are<br />

resourceful, and the organization is exceptionally resilient!<br />

I was fortunate to have served as AAWE President, which taught me a lot about volunteer<br />

management as well as assuming responsibility. I have discovered that I can be hard-nosed<br />

when I have to be, though I really don't enjoy it. I have also learned how to be more patient than<br />

I normally am inclined to be and how to keep a lid on my annoyance (at least I hope so!).<br />

Anyone who has worked with me knows that I am a pathological proofreader—I simply can't<br />

help myself and am compelled to copy-edit everything—so I'll stay involved in FAWCO<br />

publications in some way. I also am staying on as an advisor to the new PR and Media<br />

Committee, which I find very exciting, and will probably keep on managing the Facebook page<br />

and groups. I look forward to being a Counselor and will of course be available for the next<br />

Board anytime they need<br />

feedback or would like my<br />

input.<br />

As for unfinished business,<br />

my vision for the future is to<br />

see the Advancement<br />

Committee, PR and Media<br />

C o m m i t t e e , t h e<br />

Advertising/Sponsorship<br />

Manager and Membership<br />

Committee all work<br />

together in concert to<br />

secure FAWCO's future and<br />

its financial sustainability.<br />

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GETTING TO KNOW SALLIE<br />

If we looked in your purse/wallet/pocket, what<br />

three things would we find that would tell us<br />

something about you? You would find that I<br />

have a messy purse! I have photos of my<br />

husband and children; a tiny pewter rabbit<br />

that I keep as a talisman; and (this is weird) a<br />

knitted cotton dishcloth. My mother used to<br />

knit these for charity—they're useful and<br />

ecological—and I keep one at the bottom of<br />

my purse to keep her with me wherever I go.<br />

What are some of the things you would love to<br />

get better at and things you would like to stop<br />

doing? I would like to learn how to cook fish<br />

properly: getting a whole daurade from the<br />

fishmonger instead of just roasting salmon filets,<br />

for example. I'd also like to do something<br />

manual and creative—I used to knit and do<br />

needlepoint in my youth but stopped decades<br />

ago. I would like to have a creative aspect to<br />

my life again.<br />

I would also like to stop fretting about things<br />

beyond my control, but that’s a tough one.<br />

Then I'd like to spend more time walking and<br />

less time on my computer—which I hope to do<br />

in "retirement."<br />

Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />

big difference and why it did. Being offered a<br />

job with Radio Free Europe/ Radio Liberty<br />

Research in Munich—completely out of the<br />

blue—when I was 27 literally changed the<br />

course of my life. I thought I would end up as a<br />

bureaucrat in Washington, DC, but instead I<br />

got to observe the last decade of the USSR<br />

and write about it from a perspective midway<br />

between academic research and journalism<br />

(a perfect niche for me), which was a gift. I<br />

only had a year of German in university and<br />

knew next to no one when I moved to Munich,<br />

and I had always been very Francophile, so<br />

accepting the position was really jumping off<br />

into the deep end. That initial job led me to<br />

Paris and the rest, as they say, is history.<br />

What is your favorite word? "Lovely"—I overuse<br />

it but I often find myself saying "She's a lovely<br />

person" as a stamp of approval. I think it's kind<br />

of an in-joke in the FAWCO world that I also like<br />

the word "gravitas," as in "FAWCO's ECOSOC<br />

status gives us gravitas."<br />

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How Can You Get Involved?<br />

We feature profiles of some of the wonderful women across the FAWCO world. If you know<br />

anyone who has done something of particular interest and would make a good profile, please<br />

contact the editor for more details<br />

We would also like to feature cover photos taken by or of FAWCO members. There are various<br />

photo themes, please get in touch for details.<br />

Photos must be :<br />

PORTRAIT orientation (landscape photos cannot be accepted);<br />

Digital and Color, 150-300 dpi quality and 5-10 MB max.;<br />

Taken by a FAWCO member with details of where and when the photo was taken.<br />

Please send to Marie-Bénédicte at inspiringwomen.cover@fawco.org.<br />

N.B. Accreditation will be given for photos used but no payment is possible.<br />

Advertising in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong><br />

Want to Take Your Business to a Global Audience?<br />

Advertise in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong>!<br />

As an online magazine, <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> includes interactive features that<br />

allow immediate reader feedback to our advertisers. Businesses can<br />

promote products and services that our members can access through a<br />

simple “click” from the magazine reader to the advertiser.<br />

We believe that <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> creates a wonderful opportunity for<br />

companies to access a worldwide audience of women who are leaders in<br />

their communities.<br />

Advertising with FAWCO offers these benefits:<br />

1. Worldwide distribution.<br />

2. A target audience of around 10,000 highly educated and successful women,<br />

predominantly in the key 25-55 age bracket.<br />

3. Brand association with an organization of highly supportive and loyal members.<br />

4. Numerous advertising platforms allowing members to immediately interact with advertisers<br />

for products and services.<br />

If you have a business or service, consider advertising with FAWCO. Never advertised before?<br />

We can help you with your ad design, plan your marketing program or try to answer any<br />

questions you might have. And FAWCO members receive special rates made to fit every<br />

budget. Contact our Advertising and Sponsorship Manager, Elsie Bose. Her email is<br />

advertising@fawco.org<br />

We’re waiting to help you take your first step to making your business global!<br />

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<strong>Inspiring</strong> You<br />

Founded in 1931, FAWCO is a global women’s NGO (Non-Governmental Organization), an<br />

international network of independent volunteer clubs and associations comprising 62 member<br />

clubs in 31 countries worldwide, with a total membership of around 10,000. FAWCO serves as a<br />

resource and a voice for its members; seeks to improve the lives of women and girls worldwide,<br />

especially in the areas of human rights, health, education and the environment; advocates<br />

for the rights of US citizens overseas; and contributes to the global community through its Global<br />

Issues Teams and The FAWCO Foundation, which provides development grants and education<br />

awards. Since 1997, FAWCO has held special consultative status with the UN Economic and<br />

Social Council.<br />

OUR MISSION STATEMENT<br />

FAWCO is an international federation of independent organizations whose mission is<br />

• to build strong support networks for its American and international membership;<br />

• to improve the lives of women and girls worldwide;<br />

• to advocate for the rights of US citizens overseas; and<br />

• to mobilize the skills of its membership in support of global initiatives for education, the<br />

environment, health and human rights.<br />

For more information about this magazine, please contact <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> Editor in Chief Liz<br />

MacNiven at inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />

For more information on how to advertise in this magazine, please contact FAWCO Advertising<br />

and Sponsorship Manager Elsie Bose at advertising@fawco.org<br />

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS:<br />

Thanks to all of our <strong>2018</strong> profile candidates: Agnes, Alicia, Anita, both Annas, Arnita, Beverly,<br />

Carol, Catherine, both Celestes, Christine, Cindy, Danielle, Deborah, Deirdre, Diana, Dottie,<br />

Eleanor, Elinor, Elizabeth, Gwen, Gwendolyn, Jen, Jennie, Jennifer, Jenny, Jill, Karen, Katelyn,<br />

Katrin, Kay, Krishna, Krissy, Laura, Laurie, Libby, Lillian, Lisette, Lucy, Lyn, Magda, Margaret,<br />

Marianne, Mieke, Pat, Paulette, Priscilla, Renuka, Rick, both Robins, Samantha, Sarah, Sheila,<br />

Shelley, Teresa, Therese, Urte, Victoria and Yolanda. Also to the ladies of AWC Amsterdam,<br />

AWC The Philippines, FAUSA, IWC Heidelberg, AWC Gothenburg and AWC Central Scotland.<br />

Thanks also go to our writers, Robin and Jane, and our President, Sallie, for their contributions.<br />

Special thanks to the IW proofreading team without whom the magazine would not be so<br />

“pretty:” Karen Boeker (AWC Denmark), Sallie Chaballier (AAWE Paris), Laurie Brooks (AWC<br />

Amsterdam and AWC The Hague), Janet Davis (AIWC Cologne), Mary Dobrian (AIWC<br />

Cologne), Janis Kaas (AAWE Paris/FAUSA), Cynthia Lehman (AIWC Cologne), Carol-Lyn<br />

McKelvey (AIWC Cologne/FAUSA), Mary Stewart Burgher (AWC Denmark) and Jenny Taylor<br />

(AIWC Cologne and Düsseldorf). We are always on the lookout for extra proofers. Please get in<br />

touch if you can help.<br />

Thanks also to our 4 cover photo artists: Kirsten Kummert (IWC Munich), Julia Goldsby (AIWC<br />

Cologne), Therese Hartwell (FAUSA) and Christine Federspiel (AWC Zürich).<br />

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