2018 Highlights-Inspiring Women
Highlights of the 4 issues from 2018 in one issue
Highlights of the 4 issues from 2018 in one issue
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Spring <strong>2018</strong>,<br />
Volume 2, Issue 1<br />
Summer <strong>2018</strong>,<br />
Volume 2, Issue 2<br />
Fall <strong>2018</strong>,<br />
Volume 2, Issue 3<br />
Winter <strong>2018</strong>,<br />
Volume 2, Issue 4<br />
September February <strong>2018</strong>, 2017, Volume 2, 1, Issue 13<br />
CELEBRATING LIVES ACROSS THE FAWCO WORLD
INSIDE THIS ISSUE:<br />
Reflections on Our Second Year, from the Editor 3<br />
Inspired to be Inspired 4<br />
<strong>Women</strong> in Sport & Fitness : Spring <strong>2018</strong> 5<br />
<strong>Women</strong> of Words & Language : Summer <strong>2018</strong> 8<br />
<strong>Women</strong> Who Persist Part 1 : Fall <strong>2018</strong> 12<br />
<strong>Women</strong> in Music : Winter <strong>2018</strong> 17<br />
A Club Inspires: AWC Central Scotland 21<br />
A President Inspires 24<br />
How Can You Get Involved 30<br />
Advertising in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> 30<br />
<strong>Inspiring</strong> You 31<br />
The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong><br />
Team New Year Drinks<br />
Party, January 2019 (via<br />
Skype)<br />
The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> Team:<br />
Editor: Liz MacNiven, at-large member of AIWC Cologne, Germany<br />
Advertising: Elsie Bose, at-large member of AWG Paris, France<br />
Cover Photo Coordinator: Marie-Bénédicte Luxem, AWC Zurich, Switzerland<br />
Distribution Coordinator: Karen Boeker, AWC Denmark, Denmark<br />
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FAWCO would like to thank Esquire Group for underwriting <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> as our<br />
Premier Sponsor.
Reflections on Our Second Year, from the Editor<br />
<strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> was launched at the FAWCO Biennial<br />
Conference in Mumbai in 2017 as a global, digital magazine. As<br />
you may know, each issue of the magazine is based round the<br />
wonderful stories of the lives of women from our FAWCO clubs<br />
across the world, based round a particular theme.<br />
FAWCO women are an intrepid bunch! They have “upped sticks,”<br />
sometimes multiple times and with children in tow, and moved to<br />
all corners of the globe where, after a period of adjustment, they<br />
have found their niche and a role for themselves. Most of the<br />
women I have met in my involvement with FAWCO don’t even<br />
seem to realise how impressive this is; they’ve just been getting on<br />
with their lives.<br />
Usually when we approach someone to be featured in the<br />
magazine, they don’t think their story is worth telling; it’s nothing<br />
special. But as you will see from the four women we have<br />
selected from the 63 that have been featured in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> in <strong>2018</strong> (boy was that selection<br />
tough!), they are all doing wonderful things in their fields and making a difference in the lives of<br />
those around them and sometimes in the world. They are putting one foot in front of the other<br />
and getting on with life in a different country, sometimes dealing with a different language and<br />
often a different culture. The <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> team salutes each and every one of them, and<br />
you; you are impressive in your own way, too!<br />
Moving into 2019 the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> team has set three big goals for ourselves:<br />
1. To feature someone from the remaining eight FAWCO clubs that have not yet had anyone in<br />
the magazine. Anyone can recommend someone to be featured (even themselves). All we<br />
need is the person’s name and email address plus details of why they should be featured.<br />
You email that to me, Liz MacNiven, and I will do the rest if they are selected. You will find<br />
the list of upcoming magazine themes here:<br />
www.fawco.org/about/publications/inspiring-women<br />
1. To increase our readership by 25% as part of spreading the word about FAWCO and the<br />
wonderful work the organisation does. Did you know you can subscribe for free with just a<br />
couple of clicks to get the magazine sent directly to your inbox? Also did you know that<br />
anyone can subscribe, even those who are not members of a FAWCO club? So that means<br />
any of your friends and family can get a copy. Wouldn’t that be a nice extra present you<br />
could give them in 2019! SIGN UP HERE:<br />
www.fawco.org/about/publications/inspiring-women<br />
1. To encourage more businesses, especially those small businesses run by women of FAWCO,<br />
to advertise in the pages of the magazine. The rates are incredibly reasonable especially<br />
when you consider how many parts of the world it reaches. Please contact Elsie Bose at<br />
advertising@fawco.org for more information.<br />
That’s all from me. I hope you enjoy this issue and I encourage you to get in touch with any ideas<br />
you may have for future issues. I would like to take this opportunity to personally thank all<br />
proofreaders who do an incredible job of making the magazine the best it can be, and my coworkers,<br />
Elsie, Marie–Bénédicte and Karen, for being such great people to work with. Thanks very<br />
much indeed ladies!<br />
Best wishes, Liz x<br />
Liz MacNiven, inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />
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Inspired to be Inspired…<br />
There is something magical about each one of the around 10,000 members of FAWCO.<br />
They are not who they appear to be!<br />
How many times have you sat next to someone at a club meeting or coffee, struck up a<br />
conversation with them, only to find through a bit of probing, that they have achieved<br />
something that makes your jaw drop? Remember the woman who laughed about<br />
picking up all the kids for the school carpool but forgot her own? Then she tells you<br />
about the project she founded for women at risk in your city? Or the new member who<br />
volunteers to organize the club’s holiday choir and lists in her qualifications, her<br />
experience as a former executive producer for a TV series?<br />
And here is the best part…these women exist in all our clubs, from all walks of life, whose<br />
accomplishments are stellar, significant and deserving of recognition. They are you.<br />
The mission of FAWCO’s online magazine <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> is to reveal these gems that<br />
exist within our clubs and share their brilliance with our readers.<br />
Our four issues this year illustrated the breadth of accomplishments FAWCO members<br />
have achieved in their lives. The number of profilees nominated and featured in each<br />
issue also proves that the “bench of talent” is deep.<br />
This year, <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong>’s merry band of word warriors increased again. In addition to<br />
our leader, Liz MacNiven, and our thoughtful photo coordinator, Marie-Bénédicte<br />
Luxem, we welcomed Karen Boeker as our Distribution Coordinator. The new addition to<br />
our team makes so much sense because we want to share <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong>, and the<br />
wonderful stories it contains, with an ever increasing number of our members and their<br />
friends and families.<br />
At the end of our second year, we are thrilled with the discoveries that we have made<br />
and excited about the journey the magazine will take in the future. We hope that you<br />
will continue the ride with us in 2019 and, perhaps, reveal the magic in you!<br />
Elsie Bose<br />
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<strong>Women</strong> in Sport & Fitness: Spring <strong>2018</strong><br />
As we began our second year, we thought it was a good idea to use a theme that<br />
would re-energize our collective batteries. <strong>Women</strong> in Sport seemed like the perfect way<br />
to get us moving. There is something unbelievably surreal when one is able to stretch<br />
one’s physical capabilities beyond expectations. It is powerful, it is satisfying and makes<br />
us want to push ourselves to the next level of success. We asked:<br />
Is there a member of your club who accomplished success as a champion, a<br />
participant, a coach or an organizer? Or, perhaps going for the gold was more<br />
significant than winning the gold?<br />
The women in the spring issue had a number of unique reasons for participating and<br />
excelling in their sport of choice. They ran faster, jumped higher and as a result<br />
achieved their “personal bests” both in and out of sport. Their stories described winning<br />
in their own personal way.<br />
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LAURA TRIDICO<br />
American <strong>Women</strong> of Berkshire & Surrey, England<br />
From: Arlington VA, USA<br />
Lives: Virginia Water, Surrey, England<br />
I married my husband, Anthony, in 1997, and we<br />
have three children – John (17), Anthony (14) and<br />
Nicole (11). Prior to expat life, I was a corporate<br />
lawyer in Washington, DC. In 2001, we had our first<br />
child and immediately moved overseas – a<br />
massive lifestyle change all at once! We lived in<br />
Brussels, Belgium from 2001 to 2004 and again<br />
starting in 2009. We then moved to London in 2013<br />
and have lived here ever since. Career-wise, I<br />
taught French in the USA for several years between<br />
expat assignments and now work part-time as a<br />
freelance translator.<br />
Over the years, I’ve been involved in track and<br />
field (discus and shot put in high school; high school coach when teaching in Virginia), fencing<br />
(University of Michigan), recreational running, general fitness and, most recently, golf.<br />
I was a late bloomer when it came to sports, until I discovered the shot put and discus in high<br />
school. I competed at the state level, but did not pursue it in college. Instead, I joined the<br />
fencing club at the University of Michigan, and enjoyed three years of representing my school in<br />
the Big Ten. At that time, Michigan did not have a varsity fencing team, so we were the only<br />
game in town!<br />
I drifted away from organized sports during law school, and my fitness level took a nose dive.<br />
Approaching 30 and massively out of shape, I started running. I was not fast, and could never<br />
have won a race, but had the satisfaction of completing two marathons, including New York<br />
City in 2005.
As I approached 40, my interest in running<br />
started to wane (in inverse proportion to my<br />
enjoyment of Belgian beer and chocolate). A<br />
couple of years later, I realized that I’d let my<br />
fitness go yet again. Surprisingly, it was an<br />
infomercial for a workout program (Insanity)<br />
that got me back off the couch. I bought the<br />
DVDs, and over the next six months lost 20<br />
pounds and got my body back.<br />
Upon moving to the UK, I started to take up<br />
golfing, which I had played a little bit when I<br />
was younger. That is my focus right now: since<br />
starting, I’ve lowered my handicap from 36 to<br />
a somewhat respectable 22. I’ve gotten<br />
involved in a match play team at a local club,<br />
which is a great way to get to make friends in<br />
the local community.<br />
That said, my focus on golf came at the<br />
expense of regular fitness workouts. That was a<br />
mistake that I’m now rectifying. No matter your<br />
sport, it’s essential to maintain your basic fitness<br />
level, especially your core muscles. Failing to<br />
do that can lead to injury. I’m happy to say<br />
that I’ve been back on my fitness program for<br />
a couple of months; I feel much stronger and I’m seeing a huge difference in my golf game.<br />
When I was younger, sport was about training<br />
to win for the team. Now that I’m approaching<br />
50, the most important thing is to stay fit and<br />
use my involvement in sports to make<br />
connections and friendships.<br />
I’ve learned that at whatever level you<br />
participate in a sport, you can get a lot of<br />
satisfaction from working hard and improving.<br />
Competition can be a real motivating force at<br />
any level – you don’t have to be an incredible<br />
athlete to enjoy your chosen sport and jump<br />
into competitions. For the most part, the sports<br />
I’ve been involved in are accessible wherever<br />
you live. Whatever interests you, just give it a<br />
go! The first step is always the hardest – whether<br />
starting a workout program or joining a sports<br />
club. Just get up and move!<br />
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GETTING TO KNOW LAURA<br />
Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />
big difference and why it did. Our initial<br />
decision to accept an expat assignment way<br />
back in 2001 was life-changing. Growing up,<br />
my idea of international travel involved driving<br />
across the border into Canada, so it was a<br />
massive leap of faith to decide to move to<br />
Belgium, with minimal experience abroad.<br />
Tell us something interesting about yourself that<br />
not many people know. A lot of people know<br />
that I’m a translator (French to English), but<br />
don’t know that I didn’t start seriously learning<br />
French until I was nearly 30, when I lived in<br />
Belgium. Proof that it’s never too late to start<br />
something new!<br />
If you could meet one famous or<br />
influential woman, alive or dead, who<br />
would it be and why? I would love to<br />
meet Ruth Bader Ginsburg. She has a<br />
stunning intellect, true compassion<br />
and a powerful sense of justice. She’s<br />
also a role model in the way she’s<br />
stayed at the top of her profession at<br />
the age of 84. I think it’s due in part to<br />
her dedication to fitness – in fact, her<br />
personal trainer, Bryant Johnson, just<br />
published a book called The RBG<br />
Workout: How She Stays Strong … and<br />
You Can Too! I’d love to talk with her<br />
about her fitness regime – in addition<br />
to her career on the US Supreme Court.<br />
Want to be sure you see the<br />
next issue of <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> as<br />
soon as it comes out? Click<br />
here to have it sent directly to<br />
your mailbox!<br />
Go to www.fawco.org/about/<br />
publications/inspiring-women<br />
Or scan the QR code.<br />
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<strong>Women</strong> in Words & Language: Summer <strong>2018</strong><br />
The Word Is… illuminating. Fascinating. Funny. Frustrating! We were interested in finding<br />
out what makes people pick up their pens and articulate their thoughts and visions in a<br />
way that makes an impact on others. We asked:<br />
How does one become successful in the world of words? Written or spoken? Poetry or<br />
prose? Novelist or journalist? Do you have the passion that runs wild as an author or<br />
possess the steely Zen of one who edits? Do you express yourself in your mother tongue<br />
or a second language?<br />
Our profilees worked in a variety of genres - fiction, non-fiction, writers of columns,<br />
curricula and haikus. We explored the beauty of the spoken word as well as how to<br />
effectively use the “best” words online via social media.<br />
Margaret Atwood says, ”A word after a word after a word is power.” Their stories told us<br />
about harnessing this power and becoming successful in the world of words.<br />
VICTORIA KELLAWAY<br />
American <strong>Women</strong>’s Club of Bogotá,<br />
Colombia<br />
From: Kent, England<br />
Lives: Bogotá, Colombia<br />
I became a newspaper reporter at the age<br />
of twenty-one. Most of my work involved<br />
despair. I was the journalist who appeared<br />
in the aftermath of horror, be it a single<br />
death or thousands, asking those involved<br />
to share their suffering. I believe that work is<br />
important, it gives people a voice and it<br />
holds others accountable, but it did take its<br />
toll. At twenty-seven I was ready to escape<br />
and I chose the Galapagos Islands. It was<br />
the most remote, fascinating place I could<br />
imagine and an inspired decision. Three<br />
months later, I was refreshed and keen to explore more of South America. I arrived in Bogotá,<br />
Colombia, and found it irresistible. I decided to stay a while to study Spanish, dance salsa and<br />
figure out what I wanted to do with my life. A few months became a year, and a freelance<br />
writing career, and my first book was published four years later. I met my husband, Carlos, the<br />
year the book came out. Sometimes I don’t know whether I chose Bogotá, or it chose me.<br />
I was lucky enough to have a mother who read to me as a child and I still remember how proud<br />
I felt when my parents first let me choose a book to read alone. But my relationship with reading<br />
was not idyllic. A teacher confiscated one novel when I was ten, and my mother was called<br />
into the school to explain. “She must have taken it from the bookshelf,” she said. “What are we<br />
supposed to do, tell a child not to read?” I developed some antisocial tendencies, and often<br />
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had books confiscated<br />
so I would participate in<br />
family gatherings. And<br />
yet, I never understood<br />
t h e r e l a t i o n s h i p<br />
between writers and<br />
books. The only job I<br />
could imagine that<br />
allowed a person to<br />
write was newspaper<br />
reporting and that’s why<br />
I chose it. It wasn’t until I<br />
was nearly thirty that I<br />
realised I could write<br />
books too.<br />
Since then I have cowritten<br />
a satire on<br />
Colombian culture,<br />
called Colombia a Comedy of Errors and I have co-edited two essay collections, Was Gabo an<br />
Irishman? (Tales from Gabriel García Márquez’s Colombia) and Alone Together (Tales of<br />
Sisterhood and Solitude in Latin America). Besides writing and lecturing, I participate in panels,<br />
interviews and signings. Writing and reading are solitary activities and I think it’s important we<br />
writers play our part in inspiring others, helping them to discover new books and genres, maybe<br />
even start writing themselves.<br />
I’ve learned to walk the line between protecting my treasured ‘writing time’ and accepting that<br />
life is a tough beast to tame. Learning to say ‘no’ as a freelance writer is challenging, but I am<br />
improving. Every time I refuse to write something for someone else, I grab that time to write for<br />
myself and I’m now happier with the balance. I’m learning all the time too. I’ve noticed that my<br />
relationship with other people’s books is evolving. Sometimes I find I’m studying books more than<br />
reading them (How did the author do that? How were we brought here?) and then every now<br />
and again a book will knock me sideways and I’ll think, “Yep. That’s why words matter.”<br />
Working with words is easier than many of us are taught to believe. Towering walls are built<br />
around the literary world, including the myth that writing is a difficult job, that you need to type<br />
through the night fuelled by cocaine and whiskey, leaving relationships in your wake as you<br />
surge towards a tragic<br />
end – a tragic end<br />
that was foretold since<br />
the day you emerged<br />
from your tragic<br />
childhood, which is<br />
the only reason<br />
anyone allows you to<br />
write in the first place.<br />
Can we set that one<br />
to rest please? There<br />
are difficult jobs out<br />
there and sitting in our<br />
pajamas, re-arranging<br />
sentences is not one<br />
o f t h e m . T h e<br />
knowledge that being<br />
a w r i t e r w a s<br />
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something I could do, an ordinary human being, was the biggest surprise to me. If I can do it, so<br />
can you.<br />
Authors are not deities. Readers will always have the final say and potentially, there are seven<br />
billion of them, with diverse experiences and attitudes to our writing. I’ve had readers remark,<br />
“Yours was the worst book I have ever purchased and I only made it to page two!” and another,<br />
on the same day, “I love your book. I’ve read it three times and bought copies for all my friends.<br />
How did you do it?” and I<br />
enjoyed meeting them both.<br />
Our writing will not touch<br />
everyone. It will not<br />
convince everyone and it<br />
will not be deemed<br />
worthwhile by everyone.<br />
And therein lies our freedom.<br />
Providing our work is as<br />
touching, convincing and<br />
worthwhile as we can make<br />
it; we are the only reader<br />
that matters. The rest are far<br />
too unpredictable.<br />
I’ve been involved in writing<br />
and editing three books so<br />
far and they have had their<br />
share of success, from<br />
becoming bestsellers in<br />
various countries to being stocked by entities such as the Nobel Peace Center and the Harvard<br />
Library. And yet my most important achievement in the literary world has been seeing each<br />
book completed. I say this to anyone considering being involved with a book, whether as a<br />
writer or an editor: “A book doesn’t have to be good. But it does have to be finished.” (There are<br />
exceptions, of course, but we’re not all Kafka.) Just finish the thing. Dot the final ‘i’ and cross the<br />
final ‘t’ and you’ll have achieved the most important part.<br />
If you want to become a writer start now. Not tomorrow, not next weekend. Now. You need a<br />
computer, or a pen and paper, or a pencil stub and the back of an old envelope. You don’t<br />
need to write a book in one day. You just need to write something now, and something else<br />
tomorrow and keep writing, and editing, and re-writing. Read the best, study the craft, take a<br />
course either in person or online. Our world is open to everyone, you’ll soon get sucked in, find a<br />
tribe and progress from there. But whatever you do, whatever you learn, whatever rejection you<br />
encounter, just keep writing. You cannot find your readers if you have nothing for them to read.<br />
GETTING TO KNOW VICTORIA<br />
Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />
big difference and why it did. I covered the<br />
Boxing Day tsunami in south-east Asia when I<br />
was twenty-two, reporting from refugee<br />
camps in the north of Sri Lanka where the aid<br />
wasn’t getting through. I remain haunted by<br />
the people I met there and the stories I heard<br />
and witnessed. I’m sure it made me more<br />
empathetic, more easily moved and affected<br />
by other people’s experiences. I swore I<br />
wouldn’t cry there, and I didn’t, but when a<br />
woman who had lost her only daughter<br />
hugged me and told me, “I can’t believe<br />
you’ve travelled all the way around the world<br />
just to talk to people like us,” my throat and<br />
lungs burned in a way they never have since.<br />
What personal motto do you live by and how<br />
does it affect what you do/don’t do? I like<br />
Martin Luther King’s advice, “If you<br />
can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if<br />
you can't walk then crawl, but<br />
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whatever you do you have to keep moving<br />
forward.” It helps to remember that<br />
achievement is not always instant. Let’s just<br />
do one thing today that will bring us closer<br />
tomorrow. Let’s keep crawling.<br />
If you could only save a copy of one book/<br />
play/poem from the flames, what would it be<br />
and why? A Woman in Berlin, an anonymous<br />
diary kept by a journalist in her early thirties<br />
when the city of Berlin fell in 1945, and more<br />
than two million women were raped by<br />
incoming soldiers. The writer is funny, honest,<br />
smart, angry and thoughtful, and this is a vital<br />
historical document. It’s a brave, hopeful, lifeaffirming<br />
book and I’d save it so every<br />
woman has the chance to read it.<br />
If you could meet one writer, dead or alive,<br />
what question would you ask them and why?<br />
Perhaps he wouldn’t count as a writer as<br />
much as a character in his own biography,<br />
but Jesus Christ would be the most fascinating<br />
interview. I would ask him “Jesus, your book is<br />
one of the biggest sellers of all time, it is one<br />
of the most debated and fought over books<br />
in human history. Do you have any regrets?”<br />
“Power is not given<br />
to you. You have to<br />
take it.” - Beyoncé<br />
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<strong>Women</strong> Who Persist: Fall <strong>2018</strong><br />
This issue profiled women from our clubs who are walking the walk. Through their<br />
insistence and their persistence, they have set out to right a wrong, elevate justice, and<br />
make the case for a better human condition. We asked:<br />
Big problems or small, what is it about these women that motivates them to step out on<br />
the ledge of a troubled world and join the journey to make it a better place? <strong>Women</strong>’s<br />
rights, children’s rights, poverty, hunger, health or the environment - there are challenges<br />
everywhere we look. What made these women different that they did not look away?<br />
Their stories were so outstanding that the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> staff made the decision to<br />
carry over this theme to the Spring 2019 issue so all the profiles can be included. The<br />
work of these women takes FAWCO to a higher place. We are proud to know them,<br />
honored to praise them and hope, in some way, to be like them.<br />
ELIZABETH (LIZ) VALLEJO<br />
American <strong>Women</strong> of the Eastern Province, Saudi Arabia<br />
From: Chicago, Illinois<br />
Lives: Dhahran, Saudi Arabia<br />
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I have been a chemistry teacher and school<br />
administrator for over 20 years. I grew up in suburban<br />
Chicago, and after university settled back in the<br />
Chicago area with my husband, Eric. In 1999 we were so<br />
excited to have twins, Ian and Annika. After 13 years<br />
working in a fantastic suburban high school and when<br />
the twins turned eight years old, Eric and I decided to<br />
embark on a two year adventure to teach in an overseas<br />
school in Saudi Arabia. The expat life fit us so well that<br />
we made it more permanent, returning to Chicago for<br />
each summer but living and working in Saudi Arabia.<br />
Three and a half years ago our lives changed forever<br />
when our 16-year-old son was diagnosed with an<br />
aggressive form of bone cancer called osteosarcoma.<br />
My son and I moved back to the States for his medical treatment, shuttling between Chicago<br />
and Saudi Arabia as his health allowed. Ian’s diagnosis, combined with my step-mother’s death<br />
from colon cancer about 15 years ago and my second step-mother’s battle with breast cancer<br />
six years ago, compelled me to help those with cancer. I am currently involved in cancer<br />
activism in two main ways.<br />
First, I volunteered to lead the AWEP’s breast cancer heart pillow project. AWEP does a large<br />
fundraiser each year for breast cancer, and the money goes to making heart pillows that help<br />
breast cancer surgical patients keep their arms away from their surgical sites. The fundraising has<br />
been so successful that the group has allowed me to expand the project to also include<br />
childhood cancer patients this year. We hope that we can make IV pole lily pads for those
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children in hospital having<br />
chemotherapy.<br />
My second form of<br />
activism is through the MIB<br />
Family Agents. MIB stands<br />
for Make It Better for<br />
c h i l d r e n w i t h<br />
osteosarcoma. In May<br />
2016 MIB concluded that<br />
due to a lack of focus and<br />
funding, osteosarcoma<br />
research was stagnant<br />
and needed to be pushed<br />
forward. An initiative to<br />
hold the first and only<br />
annual osteosarcoma<br />
conference was brought<br />
forward, and I immediately<br />
volunteered to help. In January 2017 we held the first conference named FACTOR (Funding,<br />
Awareness, Collaboration, Trials, Osteosarcoma Research), and I was the patient advocate<br />
coordinator and the conference floor coordinator. FACTOR was a huge success, bringing<br />
together over 100 doctors, patients, researchers and families to discuss the current state of<br />
osteosarcoma, while looking at and funding the most promising research. In January <strong>2018</strong>, when<br />
the second conference was held, I began the planning for a “Family Agent” group, which would<br />
help families new to osteosarcoma or new to a relapse, find a patient and family to support them<br />
in their journey. Since then, I have worked on developing a book for osteosarcoma families to<br />
help them through this time, which will be available free of charge on the MIB website in late fall<br />
<strong>2018</strong>, as well as a set of training modules for patients and families serving as Family Agents,<br />
available beginning in winter <strong>2018</strong>/19. My son and I first met another osteosarcoma patient and<br />
family more than a year after his diagnosis – feeling alone during this period makes the journey<br />
through this horrible cancer so isolating and scary. Osteosarcoma requires some of the most<br />
b r u t a l t r e a t m e n t s :<br />
amputation, bones being<br />
replaced by feet of metal<br />
and brutal chemotherapy,<br />
followed by a life-long set of<br />
side effects from the<br />
attempt to cure the<br />
cancer… and too often the<br />
cancer cannot be cured.<br />
My life has been impacted<br />
dramatically by cancer, and<br />
m y o n e c o m m o n<br />
experience through my<br />
mother’s, my step-mother’s<br />
and son’s illnesses is the<br />
feeling of helplessness,<br />
isolation and fear. While I<br />
am not a cancer researcher<br />
to help change the prognosis or improve treatments, I do have the power to help others feel less<br />
hopeless, isolated and alone; and I also have the power to help bring researchers together, so<br />
they can put their brilliant minds together to help change the prognosis and treatments with the<br />
research dollars that I can help to raise. This work has helped me take power back when cancer<br />
stole my hope and power. It also helps me to memorialize my stepmother, who passed away
14<br />
from colon cancer in April 2005, and<br />
my son who passed away from<br />
treatment-induced leukemia in July<br />
<strong>2018</strong> from the chemotherapy<br />
treatments he received to treat his<br />
osteosarcoma.<br />
My father has always been an<br />
amazing role model in my life and<br />
inspired my activism. He became a<br />
single parent of my brother and me<br />
when we were only 2 and 3 years old<br />
when my birth mom died. He worked<br />
hard to be positive and involved at a<br />
time when he was grieving and<br />
when fathers weren’t traditionally<br />
single parents. He’s always had a<br />
strong moral compass of right and<br />
wrong, while maintaining a great sense of adventure, optimism and humor. He has always been<br />
a steady, consistent source of courage and strength in my life.<br />
I have met some of the most awesome people through my activism work. Truly, you can’t find a<br />
more giving, compassionate and active set of people anywhere else. My activism work has also<br />
solidified what really matters in my life - family, friends and helping others. Many people are<br />
willing to be involved in activism but don’t know how to begin. Opening that door of asking for<br />
volunteers and giving ideas of easy ways to get involved is often what hooks people into the<br />
cause. Activism is working to help others, but through giving of my time, energy and resources, I<br />
have been given so much more strength and peace.<br />
I’ve been so surprised at how strengthening<br />
privacy in the medical field (a great idea) has<br />
dramatically effected the way people can get<br />
support. Although it is an unintended<br />
consequence of these measures, people have<br />
had to become more intentional and organized<br />
to get the support structures to people in need.<br />
As a result of my efforts, in <strong>2018</strong> over 3.5 million<br />
dollars of research money has been given to<br />
osteosarcoma research specifically; just a few<br />
years ago there was almost no research money<br />
given to the disease specifically. The awareness<br />
of the disease is spreading, and funding is<br />
following. My son, in 2015, received the same<br />
chemotherapy regimen as Senator Edward<br />
(Ted) Kennedy did in 1973 and Canadian<br />
runner Terry Fox did in 1980. The disease<br />
prognosis and treatments haven’t changed in<br />
over 40 years; finally, time and effort are being<br />
put into combatting this disease.<br />
This is our world, our nations, our families and our<br />
people - we must work together to make it a<br />
better place for everyone. Find your niche and<br />
your passion - follow that and you will get back<br />
so much more than you give.
GETTING TO KNOW LIZ<br />
What personal motto do you live by and how<br />
does it affect what you do/don’t do? “Live with<br />
Purpose” is the motto I try to live by. I try to<br />
determine what is important in life and use<br />
that to guide my time and energy.<br />
If you were stranded on a desert island, which<br />
would you rather have with you: The Bible, the<br />
complete works of Shakespeare or the history<br />
of civilization? Probably the history of<br />
civilization, as it is something that I find I know<br />
far too little about and the lessons that can be<br />
learned by prior people’s choices can help to<br />
inform future thoughts and choices.<br />
What one thing would you change about<br />
yourself if you magically could? My need for<br />
lots of sleep. I regularly need 8-9 hours of<br />
sleep, and I often envy my husband who only<br />
needs 5-6 hours. An extra few hours a day<br />
would be great!<br />
What’s your favorite indulgence? Travel, I<br />
absolutely love it. Seeing new places,<br />
wandering new streets, eating new food and<br />
talking to people are such a joy.<br />
My mother always<br />
told me, “hide your<br />
face, people are<br />
looking at you.” I<br />
would reply, “it does<br />
not matter; I am<br />
also looking at<br />
them.” - Malala<br />
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<strong>Women</strong> in Music: Winter <strong>2018</strong><br />
This issue was so much fun! It contained two innovations to the <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> online<br />
experience. We profiled a person for whom the “<strong>Inspiring</strong>” in our magazine’s title could<br />
be considered a verb and not an adjective. We also embedded musical performances<br />
from the profilees so readers could listen while they read - a great holiday present that<br />
included great people. We asked:<br />
Who are those that dare to create the language, the sound, the movement that enters<br />
the most private parts of an individual’s soul? Is music their passion or salvation? They<br />
say those with musical talent have a gift - how did they receive it?<br />
The people profiled in this issue have astonishing talent. They shared their stories of how<br />
they came to music (or how it came to them). Some of our profilees have chosen to<br />
guide others in maximizing their musical abilities. All told us what musical success means<br />
to them. The year couldn’t have ended on a higher note if we were Maria Callas!<br />
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BEVERLY MINOR<br />
American <strong>Women</strong>’s Association of Vienna, Austria<br />
From: Mississippi, USA<br />
Lives: Vienna, Austria<br />
I grew up in Woodville, Mississippi, on a farm, one of<br />
eleven children. My family had horses, cows, hogs, goats,<br />
dogs and cats. I had a pet pig called Tiny. My father had<br />
a large garden and he raised potatoes, corn and sugar<br />
cane. He also worked in a factory.<br />
My church did not have a piano so the old people used<br />
to pat their feet and clap their hands. We did not have a<br />
choir and kids in the church were never given the<br />
opportunity to sing. I joined the high school marching<br />
band where I played the saxophone.<br />
Growing up I loved to listen to music, but never<br />
envisioned myself as a singer because I was very shy and<br />
did not believe I was musically inclined. My family did not<br />
have a TV so I often listened to Motown music on the<br />
radio; my favorite singers were Aretha Franklin, Natalie Cole and the Staple Singers. I still listen to<br />
the same people today with the addition of the Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir.<br />
I left home at 18 to attend Alcorn State University where I studied office administration. I also<br />
joined the Zeta Phi Beta Sorority. One of the girls said that I sang as though I had a frog in my<br />
throat and she hated it when I even sang background. Not an easy thing to hear!<br />
After graduating from the University, I moved to New Orleans, Louisiana, to live with my brothers.<br />
Two of them sang in a gospel singing group along with a cousin and asked me to join them. I<br />
loved gospel music but didn't think I was gifted enough to sing. Eventually, I joined them and my<br />
voice begin to develop. After my early experience it surprised me when people said they liked
my singing. I eventually<br />
joined a church in New<br />
Orleans and began to<br />
sing solos with them.<br />
While living in New<br />
Orleans, I started to<br />
participate with church<br />
groups traveling abroad<br />
on short-term mission<br />
journeys. My first trip was<br />
to Ryazan, Russia,<br />
where I evangelized,<br />
s a n g s o l o s a n d<br />
accompanied a praise<br />
and worship team.<br />
Some years later, I<br />
relocated to Georgia<br />
and attended First<br />
Baptist Church of<br />
Atlanta. I joined the choir and sometimes sang on In Touch Ministries, which was broadcast<br />
nationally and internationally. I became quite popular and began to sing at weddings, funerals<br />
and Christmas parties, etc. During this period, I continued to travel abroad singing with a group.<br />
After taking an early retirement from Delta Air Lines, I went on to work as a banker for Wells Fargo<br />
and Fidelity National Bank. Then in 2013, a Polish choir (Gospel Joy), asked me to join them in<br />
Poland for a year as one of their lead singers. I had often considered moving to Europe but did<br />
not know how it could happen. I was able to get monetary support from my church, family and<br />
friends and so by the end of that year, I felt secure enough to resign from my place of<br />
employment, put my furniture in storage, rent my house and say goodbye to my family. In<br />
January 2014, I was off to Poznan, Poland.<br />
When the year ended, I moved to Vienna, Austria and now I work as a Ministry Assistant at the<br />
Christian International Church, which is located in the 10 th District. I am a song leader in my<br />
church and I also formed a small group which is called Soundz of Joy.<br />
When I got to Vienna I had googled “choirs in Vienna” and lo and behold, there was the<br />
Longfield Gospel Choir.<br />
So, I joined two of the<br />
Longfield choirs and<br />
have since traveled with<br />
t h e m s i n g i n g i n<br />
Denmark, Germany and<br />
all over Austria. It is<br />
always special to me<br />
when the AWA Vienna<br />
ladies attend our<br />
concerts, especially the<br />
time when we sang at<br />
St. Stephen's Cathedral.<br />
The Longfield Choirs (a<br />
total of four choirs under<br />
the same director) just<br />
completed a CD and I<br />
am a song leader on<br />
three of the songs.<br />
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I enjoy living in Vienna and think that<br />
singing is the best job in the world.<br />
Singing gospel songs is right in my<br />
element and I hope, in the future, to<br />
get trained so I could add some<br />
Christian jazz to my genre. My dream<br />
would be to travel round the world<br />
singing with a small band. Over the<br />
years I have had the opportunity to<br />
travel around the world and sing: from<br />
the streets of Hong Kong to Argentina<br />
and Chile, to Costa Rica and many<br />
places in the USA, to Canada to Egypt<br />
and many countries around Europe.<br />
It feels good when someone in one of<br />
these countries remembers me and<br />
some still extend an invitation to come<br />
back to see them.<br />
I would also like to learn to play my saxophone better and include it when I sing. When I sing, I<br />
put my whole being into what I am singing because I want the audience to believe and feel the<br />
message in the music.<br />
Pieces of music I recommend/love<br />
The Easter version of Leonard Cohen's song “Hallelujah.” It is a classic, many people love<br />
this song and they sing it all over the world.<br />
The same for “O Happy Day” and “Amazing Grace.”<br />
I recently recorded “Sometimes I Feel Live A Motherless Child” and I would love to share it<br />
with the world.<br />
The song “He's An On Time God” brings out the tiger in me and I love it when the audience<br />
goes wild when I sing it. I love a lot of the old classics.<br />
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GETTING TO KNOW BEVERLY<br />
Tell us something interesting about yourself<br />
that not many people know. When I am done<br />
singing, I just want to run off the stage and<br />
hide. I actually sometimes get a bit shy when<br />
people applaud.<br />
If you could perform with, or meet, one<br />
musician, who would it be? I would have<br />
loved to meet Whitney Houston. She was a<br />
great singer and it would have been an honor<br />
to sing with her. Mariah Carey is also one of<br />
my all time favorite singers. I would love to sing<br />
a duet with her but I would have to sing lower<br />
notes. Her voice is outstanding.<br />
The most unusual place I have listened to<br />
music was… I traveled to Santiago, Chile, on<br />
a medical mission trip and a popular singer<br />
was doing a concert at the tennis stadium. I<br />
knew one of the sponsors. When I arrived at<br />
the stadium, I was asked to<br />
also sing before over 5000<br />
people and it was<br />
impromptu. I did quite well.<br />
What are some of the things<br />
you would love to get better<br />
at and things you would like<br />
to stop doing? I would love<br />
to get better at doing runs<br />
and remembering song<br />
lyrics. I would love to stop<br />
getting nervous when<br />
performing a new song<br />
because I sometimes think<br />
that I will forget the lyrics.<br />
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A Club Inspires: AWC Central Scotland<br />
There are 62 FAWCO clubs of all sizes and shapes in 31 different countries across the<br />
world. “A Club Inspires” is a feature in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> where one club tells readers<br />
more about themselves. In this, the <strong>Highlights</strong> issue, we have asked the hosts of the 2019<br />
Conference to tell us about their club.<br />
The origins of the American<br />
<strong>Women</strong>’s Club of Central<br />
Scotland go back to the<br />
early 1970s, when the wives<br />
of employees at Santa Fe, a<br />
supply company for the offshore<br />
oil industry, began to<br />
hold informal lunchtime<br />
gatherings. Other American<br />
women in Edinburgh were<br />
soon attracted to their<br />
meetings and in 1974, the<br />
American <strong>Women</strong>'s Club of<br />
Edinburgh was formally<br />
established and by-laws<br />
drawn up.<br />
In May 1998, the American<br />
<strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Edinburgh<br />
became the American<br />
<strong>Women</strong>'s Club of Central Scotland, comprising Edinburgh, Central Region of Scotland and<br />
Glasgow. There is also a sister club in northern Scotland: the Association of American <strong>Women</strong> of<br />
Aberdeen (AAWA).<br />
AWCCS has always had a close relationship with the U.S. Consulate-General in Edinburgh. In<br />
recent years, the Principal Officers being female, they have served as our Honorary President.<br />
Today AWCCS has 76 mainly American members, many of whom have married Scots and<br />
moved with them, so are long term residents in Scotland.<br />
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The club has a board which is elected each year at our AGM, although in reality there is seldom<br />
more than one candidate per position and we normally have to ask people to do the jobs. But<br />
that seems to be a common issue across the globe!<br />
We have both regular and annual events<br />
such as coffee outings, museum tours,<br />
book club, happy hours, pot luck dinners,<br />
a Fourth of July picnic and a Thanksgiving<br />
dinner, which is always a fun event. Our<br />
recent coffee outing to the National<br />
Library of Scotland to visit the Strike for<br />
Freedom exhibit about Frederick Douglass<br />
was very popular with members. His life<br />
and struggles to abolish slavery is a<br />
powerful and inspirational story and<br />
learning about his work in Scotland and<br />
throughout the United Kingdom was very<br />
interesting. We also had a lot of fun doing<br />
silk screen printing for the welcome bags<br />
given out at the 2019 Conference. It was<br />
an interesting activity which many of us<br />
hadn’t done before, in a facility (the<br />
Edinburgh Printmakers Workshop) which<br />
we had always wanted to visit and use.<br />
As a club, we also raise money for charitable causes each year, for example, by having a<br />
silent/live auction at our Thanksgiving Dinner. We change our club charity every year or two by<br />
vote at the AGM or through an online vote.<br />
Edinburgh, where many of us live, is a lovely city, easy to get around, full of lots of cultural and<br />
historical places. It is very walkable. You learn something new on every outing. The walking<br />
paths along the Water of Leith are a<br />
special highlight where you find yourself<br />
surrounded by nature right in the middle<br />
of the city.<br />
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It’s truly amazing how many Scots have<br />
influenced world history, from John Knox<br />
in religion to various scientific discoveries<br />
during the enlightenment period and<br />
important inventions during the industrial<br />
revolution, such as the steam engine.<br />
The torch light procession for Hogmanay<br />
(the Scottish word for New Year’s Eve) is<br />
a special highlight here. On the 30 th of<br />
December each year, thousands of<br />
people walk through the streets of the old town carrying burning torches. These days it is a<br />
ticketed event with torches purchased from the event organizers only. The Scots love the New<br />
Year and celebrate it over several days. The 1 st and 2 nd of January are public holidays and<br />
have been for generations. Did you know that both days were public holidays in Scotland<br />
before Christmas was even acknowledged as a public holiday here?!<br />
There has been talk of having an annual conference in Scotland for some years. We are<br />
delighted to finally welcome you all this year. The organizing team for the conference has<br />
been a committee made up of a small band of dedicated club members and the AWCCS
oard, all working together.<br />
Involvement in planning the<br />
conference has given us the<br />
best first-hand experience of<br />
FAWCO and its many facets.<br />
Through this involvement we<br />
have gotten to know the<br />
FAWCO board and several<br />
of the other very involved<br />
members of FAWCO. It has<br />
given us a strong base for<br />
establishing new friendships.<br />
Having our club host the<br />
conference, although a big<br />
responsibility for us all, has<br />
been a good experience<br />
and we hope all of those<br />
attending the conference<br />
will have an excellent time<br />
here in Scotland.<br />
“Success is only<br />
meaningful and<br />
enjoyable if it feels<br />
like your own.” -<br />
Michelle Obama<br />
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A President Inspires<br />
As you may know, the President of FAWCO usually serves a two-year term of office.<br />
While preparing to hand over the reins in Edinburgh, our current President found time to<br />
tell us some more about her back story and her plans for the future...<br />
SALLIE CHABALIER<br />
Association of American <strong>Women</strong> in<br />
Europe, Paris<br />
From: Mansfield, Ohio<br />
Lives: Paris, France<br />
I grew up in Mansfield, Ohio, a mediumsized<br />
city in north central Ohio, which<br />
was thriving when I was a child but has<br />
since become part of the “Rust Belt”<br />
and today is rather sad.<br />
I was the cherished only child of older<br />
(for the 1950s) parents who had been<br />
told they were too old to adopt—and<br />
then I came along after 10 years. My<br />
mother was from North Carolina but<br />
moved north when she married my<br />
father, so I joke that I was bicultural from<br />
birth. I had a sheltered but happy childhood and was a bookish little girl..<br />
I went to university and graduate school in New England, which I loved. After getting my<br />
Masters, I worked as a researcher in a university research center, so I was in an academic<br />
bubble until my late 20s. I was then lucky enough to get a job as an analyst of Soviet politics in<br />
Munich, so I moved to Germany and have been in Europe for over 35 of the last 37 years.<br />
I loved my work in Munich but felt my Sandhurst-educated boss did not appreciate me, so when<br />
I was offered a job with a Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty research office in Paris after three<br />
years in Munich, I jumped at the chance. I was thrilled to be in my favorite city in the world, and<br />
still am! At the time (mid-to late 1980s), I soaked up all Paris had to offer: cinema, museums,<br />
wine-tasting courses, stylish shoes, wonderful restaurants. The dollar was high and I was single<br />
and gainfully employed, so I got a lot out of my system—if only I hadn't spent so much money<br />
on shoes... After three years or so, I started wondering again if I should try my hand at finding a<br />
job in Washington, DC, since I always had illusions about public service. I also wanted to be<br />
closer to my aging parents and to get back in touch with my country and culture. After looking<br />
at various options, I negotiated a transfer to RFE/RL's Washington office where I worked for not<br />
quite two years. My illusions about Washington evaporated by Day 2.<br />
As fate would have it, six months before I left Paris, I met a very charming Frenchman, François-<br />
Marc Chaballier, who had gone to business school in the US with a friend and neighbor of mine<br />
in Paris—we met at her going-away party. We went out for six months until I left for Washington,<br />
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and I had no idea what would follow. We visited back and forth ("commuting" is not quite the<br />
word) and this being before the Internet, I tease FM that the phone bills got out of control. My<br />
heart was literally no longer in trying to make a life back in the US, so once again, a serendipitous<br />
job offer to return to RFE/RL Research in Munich led me to leave the US for the second time. I had<br />
an incredibly fascinating job as editor of a daily newsletter sent out by fax (remember those?)<br />
from early 1991 till early1992, as the Soviet Union disintegrated. One of the highlights was sending<br />
out two issues a day during the crisis in August 1991, when Gorbachev was under house arrest—<br />
our "brief" was to scoop CNN and we did.<br />
To my surprise and delight, when I was in Paris over New Year's shortly before leaving Washington,<br />
François-Marc proposed, I accepted, and we blithely planned an actual commute between<br />
Munich and Paris until I could find another job in Paris.<br />
Life accelerated and<br />
took some unexpected<br />
turns, however, as my<br />
father was diagnosed<br />
with cancer 10 days<br />
before our wedding<br />
(which I had organized<br />
by fax). We went<br />
a h ead wi t h the<br />
wedding, and my<br />
darling father walked<br />
me down the aisle. He<br />
died of postoperative<br />
complications 7 weeks<br />
later, leaving my<br />
m o ther a nd me<br />
absolutely devastated. I<br />
took unpaid leave, then<br />
brought my mother<br />
back to Munich with<br />
me to keep an eye on her. It was then that I realized that I was expecting our first child. I worked<br />
through my first three months of pregnancy but decided that starting a marriage, caring for my<br />
grieving mother, and having a baby in my late thirties was a bit much to juggle with my job, so I<br />
shelved the career I loved and moved back to Paris to live with my new husband. Twenty-seven<br />
years and another child later, I am still here.<br />
When I first moved back to Paris, I already knew the city and had friends—plus I was newly<br />
married and newly pregnant. Both my sisters-in-law were pregnant at the same time, so I had a<br />
lot of support from family. I didn't feel the need for any additional community, plus I was too busy<br />
to want activities.<br />
I didn't join the Association of American <strong>Women</strong> in Europe (AAWE) until we needed to register our<br />
older son for preschool at age 2 1/2 and I called to order the AAWE Guide to Education in<br />
France, which is one of the club's flagship publications. The person running the office at the time<br />
was so nice on the phone that I ended up joining as well as ordering the book (a subsequent<br />
edition of which I co-edited). I was not very involved for several years, being more active in a<br />
parents' support network, though I took my kids to children's parties and volunteered at the<br />
annual Holiday Bazaar.<br />
I happened to sit at the same table as the Education and Bilingualism Chair at the club's 40th<br />
anniversary luncheon in 2001 and rashly volunteered to help out with a biennial school fair that is<br />
one of AAWE's major community services. When she moved away unexpectedly the following<br />
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year, she "volunteered" me to take over<br />
for her (I think I was her only volunteer),<br />
and I found myself parachuted onto the<br />
Board in 2003.<br />
Once I joined the Board I got to know a<br />
lot more people, and having to organize<br />
events myself (I am NOT an events<br />
person), had to get more involved. After<br />
serving as Education and Bilingualism<br />
Chair, I spent three years as Membership<br />
Chair, which was a lot of fun—it allowed<br />
me to get to know many new members<br />
and help them get settled in Paris or<br />
figure out where to send their kids to<br />
school, for example. I served as President<br />
from 2008 to 2010, which was very<br />
gratifying, and then spent a great three years as FAWCO Rep—so I've had some of the best jobs<br />
in the club. Since then, I've co-chaired a couple of Strategic Planning Committees and served on<br />
the Rebranding Committee, but now I'm taking a bit of a break.<br />
It's a cliché that the more you give, the more you get, but it's still absolutely true. I really came to<br />
admire the women who had founded the club as well as the younger members, and have made<br />
some wonderful friends. AAWE is largely an association of "lifers" and is truly-multigenerational; it<br />
has come to be a sort of extended family for me, especially since I have so little family in the US.<br />
As an international affairs junkie, I had been intrigued by FAWCO and the global perspective it<br />
seemed to offer beyond my own club but was not able to attend conferences while my children<br />
were still young. My dear friend Nan de Laubadère (FAWCO Rep at the time) very reasonably<br />
pointed out that the 2007 FAWCO Biennial Conference in Lyon was only a two-hour train ride<br />
from Paris, so I went to Lyon and was simply blown away by all that FAWCO does as well as by<br />
the dynamic and accomplished women whom I met. I was hooked from then on and<br />
volunteered to be on what was at the time the Educational Support Committee.<br />
I found FAWCO to<br />
be an indispensable<br />
source of ideas<br />
when I attended my<br />
second conference<br />
in Seoul in 2008 as<br />
incoming AAWE<br />
club President. I also<br />
loved the stimulation<br />
and information at<br />
conferences and<br />
soaked up all that I<br />
could. Nan and I<br />
organized a Region<br />
3 meeting in the fall<br />
of 2008. When the<br />
first Target Program<br />
was getting off the<br />
g r o u n d , I<br />
volunteered to be<br />
on the selection<br />
c o m m i t t e e t o
choose the first topic for what<br />
was then called the "Bull's Eye<br />
Program." When the 3rd VP on<br />
Kathleen Simon's Board resigned<br />
for personal reasons, Kathleen<br />
asked me to step in and serve<br />
the second year of that term,<br />
2010—2011. I subsequently<br />
served as 2nd VP — Member<br />
Clubs on the 2013—2015 Board<br />
and 1st VP — Communications<br />
on the 2015--2017 Board before<br />
being elected President in 2017.<br />
I’ve been asked to describe a<br />
typical day as president.<br />
"Typical??!!” There is no typical.<br />
OK, I guess on a "typical" day, I<br />
open my FAWCO email account and start answering messages, then check the FAWCO<br />
Facebook page and closed groups (I am de facto Facebook manager at the moment) and<br />
then look at my to-do list, which seems to expand faster than I can cross things off. Since FAWCO<br />
is mostly a virtual organization, email communication is our lifeline, supplemented with WhatsApp<br />
messages and Skype calls.<br />
In a "typical" week, I have several Skype meetings, sometimes two or three in a day. Being<br />
President—indeed, any Board position—is very operational and very reactive, so it's hard to find<br />
time for reflection or for long-term projects. Since the FAWCO year is cyclical, some times are<br />
busier than others. The period from January to March goes by in a blur of annual reports and<br />
conference preparations; summer is much calmer, although FAWCO never grinds to a halt.<br />
I chair monthly Board meetings, usually by Skype, and represent FAWCO at all meetings of The<br />
FAWCO Foundation. The Presidents of TFF and FAUSA and I have a quarterly Skype call as well.<br />
Face-to-face Board meetings are where we have a chance to brainstorm and really grapple<br />
with thorny issues, and I enjoy being around a table with the Board members in person.<br />
One thing I did not quite realize is how involved the President is in planning Interim Meetings and<br />
Biennial Conferences—putting together the agenda for these meetings is like trying to assemble<br />
a 3-D jigsaw puzzle! Other Board<br />
members and key volunteers see<br />
FAWCO through their particular<br />
lens, whereas the President has to<br />
have a 360-degree view of the<br />
organization at all times.<br />
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When I step down, I will miss being<br />
in regular contact with so many<br />
amazing women, quite a few of<br />
whom have become good<br />
friends. For me, FAWCO is all<br />
about the people: there truly is a<br />
special bond among the "usual<br />
suspects," and I hope to stay in<br />
close touch with as many people<br />
as possible. Also, FAWCO has<br />
given me the opportunity to travel<br />
to places I might never have
gone: Lithuania, Morocco, India,<br />
Jordan and, soon, Lebanon, so I<br />
hope to keep going to Regional<br />
Meetings and Conferences<br />
wherever they may be.<br />
I will not miss the feeling of 24/7<br />
responsibility, but that may stem<br />
from my lack of organization—it<br />
doesn't have to be 24/7!<br />
There have been a few surprises<br />
left becoming President, even<br />
after serving in all three Vice<br />
President positions. I guess being<br />
more closely involved with<br />
FAWCO's finances has been eyeopening.<br />
We operate on a<br />
shoestring, and it's amazing how<br />
much we accomplish with so little! I'd like to see FAWCO expand and diversify its revenue streams<br />
so we are not so dependent on membership dues and advertising.<br />
FAWCO may be low on funding, but we are rich in volunteer talent and commitment (though I<br />
knew that long before I became President). Whatever the challenges we face, there usually will<br />
be someone or several someones who find a solution or an alternative. FAWCO women are<br />
resourceful, and the organization is exceptionally resilient!<br />
I was fortunate to have served as AAWE President, which taught me a lot about volunteer<br />
management as well as assuming responsibility. I have discovered that I can be hard-nosed<br />
when I have to be, though I really don't enjoy it. I have also learned how to be more patient than<br />
I normally am inclined to be and how to keep a lid on my annoyance (at least I hope so!).<br />
Anyone who has worked with me knows that I am a pathological proofreader—I simply can't<br />
help myself and am compelled to copy-edit everything—so I'll stay involved in FAWCO<br />
publications in some way. I also am staying on as an advisor to the new PR and Media<br />
Committee, which I find very exciting, and will probably keep on managing the Facebook page<br />
and groups. I look forward to being a Counselor and will of course be available for the next<br />
Board anytime they need<br />
feedback or would like my<br />
input.<br />
As for unfinished business,<br />
my vision for the future is to<br />
see the Advancement<br />
Committee, PR and Media<br />
C o m m i t t e e , t h e<br />
Advertising/Sponsorship<br />
Manager and Membership<br />
Committee all work<br />
together in concert to<br />
secure FAWCO's future and<br />
its financial sustainability.<br />
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GETTING TO KNOW SALLIE<br />
If we looked in your purse/wallet/pocket, what<br />
three things would we find that would tell us<br />
something about you? You would find that I<br />
have a messy purse! I have photos of my<br />
husband and children; a tiny pewter rabbit<br />
that I keep as a talisman; and (this is weird) a<br />
knitted cotton dishcloth. My mother used to<br />
knit these for charity—they're useful and<br />
ecological—and I keep one at the bottom of<br />
my purse to keep her with me wherever I go.<br />
What are some of the things you would love to<br />
get better at and things you would like to stop<br />
doing? I would like to learn how to cook fish<br />
properly: getting a whole daurade from the<br />
fishmonger instead of just roasting salmon filets,<br />
for example. I'd also like to do something<br />
manual and creative—I used to knit and do<br />
needlepoint in my youth but stopped decades<br />
ago. I would like to have a creative aspect to<br />
my life again.<br />
I would also like to stop fretting about things<br />
beyond my control, but that’s a tough one.<br />
Then I'd like to spend more time walking and<br />
less time on my computer—which I hope to do<br />
in "retirement."<br />
Tell us about an event in your life that made a<br />
big difference and why it did. Being offered a<br />
job with Radio Free Europe/ Radio Liberty<br />
Research in Munich—completely out of the<br />
blue—when I was 27 literally changed the<br />
course of my life. I thought I would end up as a<br />
bureaucrat in Washington, DC, but instead I<br />
got to observe the last decade of the USSR<br />
and write about it from a perspective midway<br />
between academic research and journalism<br />
(a perfect niche for me), which was a gift. I<br />
only had a year of German in university and<br />
knew next to no one when I moved to Munich,<br />
and I had always been very Francophile, so<br />
accepting the position was really jumping off<br />
into the deep end. That initial job led me to<br />
Paris and the rest, as they say, is history.<br />
What is your favorite word? "Lovely"—I overuse<br />
it but I often find myself saying "She's a lovely<br />
person" as a stamp of approval. I think it's kind<br />
of an in-joke in the FAWCO world that I also like<br />
the word "gravitas," as in "FAWCO's ECOSOC<br />
status gives us gravitas."<br />
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How Can You Get Involved?<br />
We feature profiles of some of the wonderful women across the FAWCO world. If you know<br />
anyone who has done something of particular interest and would make a good profile, please<br />
contact the editor for more details<br />
We would also like to feature cover photos taken by or of FAWCO members. There are various<br />
photo themes, please get in touch for details.<br />
Photos must be :<br />
PORTRAIT orientation (landscape photos cannot be accepted);<br />
Digital and Color, 150-300 dpi quality and 5-10 MB max.;<br />
Taken by a FAWCO member with details of where and when the photo was taken.<br />
Please send to Marie-Bénédicte at inspiringwomen.cover@fawco.org.<br />
N.B. Accreditation will be given for photos used but no payment is possible.<br />
Advertising in <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong><br />
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We believe that <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> creates a wonderful opportunity for<br />
companies to access a worldwide audience of women who are leaders in<br />
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Advertising with FAWCO offers these benefits:<br />
1. Worldwide distribution.<br />
2. A target audience of around 10,000 highly educated and successful women,<br />
predominantly in the key 25-55 age bracket.<br />
3. Brand association with an organization of highly supportive and loyal members.<br />
4. Numerous advertising platforms allowing members to immediately interact with advertisers<br />
for products and services.<br />
If you have a business or service, consider advertising with FAWCO. Never advertised before?<br />
We can help you with your ad design, plan your marketing program or try to answer any<br />
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We’re waiting to help you take your first step to making your business global!<br />
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<strong>Inspiring</strong> You<br />
Founded in 1931, FAWCO is a global women’s NGO (Non-Governmental Organization), an<br />
international network of independent volunteer clubs and associations comprising 62 member<br />
clubs in 31 countries worldwide, with a total membership of around 10,000. FAWCO serves as a<br />
resource and a voice for its members; seeks to improve the lives of women and girls worldwide,<br />
especially in the areas of human rights, health, education and the environment; advocates<br />
for the rights of US citizens overseas; and contributes to the global community through its Global<br />
Issues Teams and The FAWCO Foundation, which provides development grants and education<br />
awards. Since 1997, FAWCO has held special consultative status with the UN Economic and<br />
Social Council.<br />
OUR MISSION STATEMENT<br />
FAWCO is an international federation of independent organizations whose mission is<br />
• to build strong support networks for its American and international membership;<br />
• to improve the lives of women and girls worldwide;<br />
• to advocate for the rights of US citizens overseas; and<br />
• to mobilize the skills of its membership in support of global initiatives for education, the<br />
environment, health and human rights.<br />
For more information about this magazine, please contact <strong>Inspiring</strong> <strong>Women</strong> Editor in Chief Liz<br />
MacNiven at inspiringwomen.editor@fawco.org<br />
For more information on how to advertise in this magazine, please contact FAWCO Advertising<br />
and Sponsorship Manager Elsie Bose at advertising@fawco.org<br />
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS:<br />
Thanks to all of our <strong>2018</strong> profile candidates: Agnes, Alicia, Anita, both Annas, Arnita, Beverly,<br />
Carol, Catherine, both Celestes, Christine, Cindy, Danielle, Deborah, Deirdre, Diana, Dottie,<br />
Eleanor, Elinor, Elizabeth, Gwen, Gwendolyn, Jen, Jennie, Jennifer, Jenny, Jill, Karen, Katelyn,<br />
Katrin, Kay, Krishna, Krissy, Laura, Laurie, Libby, Lillian, Lisette, Lucy, Lyn, Magda, Margaret,<br />
Marianne, Mieke, Pat, Paulette, Priscilla, Renuka, Rick, both Robins, Samantha, Sarah, Sheila,<br />
Shelley, Teresa, Therese, Urte, Victoria and Yolanda. Also to the ladies of AWC Amsterdam,<br />
AWC The Philippines, FAUSA, IWC Heidelberg, AWC Gothenburg and AWC Central Scotland.<br />
Thanks also go to our writers, Robin and Jane, and our President, Sallie, for their contributions.<br />
Special thanks to the IW proofreading team without whom the magazine would not be so<br />
“pretty:” Karen Boeker (AWC Denmark), Sallie Chaballier (AAWE Paris), Laurie Brooks (AWC<br />
Amsterdam and AWC The Hague), Janet Davis (AIWC Cologne), Mary Dobrian (AIWC<br />
Cologne), Janis Kaas (AAWE Paris/FAUSA), Cynthia Lehman (AIWC Cologne), Carol-Lyn<br />
McKelvey (AIWC Cologne/FAUSA), Mary Stewart Burgher (AWC Denmark) and Jenny Taylor<br />
(AIWC Cologne and Düsseldorf). We are always on the lookout for extra proofers. Please get in<br />
touch if you can help.<br />
Thanks also to our 4 cover photo artists: Kirsten Kummert (IWC Munich), Julia Goldsby (AIWC<br />
Cologne), Therese Hartwell (FAUSA) and Christine Federspiel (AWC Zürich).<br />
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