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Your weapon to fighting Stress & Tiredness for Moms! -Freedom from tiredness -3 tips to getting your child out of bed in the morning without a battle -how to KO stress with a romance flick like "Pride & Prejudice" -is 10 minutes all you need for a better "Romantic Connection" between you and Hubz?
Your weapon to fighting Stress & Tiredness for Moms!
-Freedom from tiredness
-3 tips to getting your child out of bed in the morning without a battle
-how to KO stress with a romance flick like "Pride & Prejudice"
-is 10 minutes all you need for a better "Romantic Connection" between you and Hubz?
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Issue 5 | <strong>Feb</strong>uary 2019<br />
M om Warrior<br />
An EMPOWERING Magazine For The Tired, Stressed But Loving Mom<br />
FREEDOM FROM TIREDNESS!<br />
A sluggish liver is leaking t he<br />
energy of 80% of Mom s. The easy<br />
fix? It ?s already in your kit chen!<br />
3 Fun Tips<br />
t o Get t ing<br />
Your Child<br />
Out of Bed<br />
In The<br />
Morning<br />
Wit hout a<br />
Bat t le<br />
STRESSED!? How<br />
To KO St ress Wit h<br />
A Rom ance Flick<br />
Like "Pride &<br />
Prejudice"<br />
Is 10 minutes all<br />
you need for a<br />
better "Romantic<br />
Communication"<br />
between you and<br />
Hubz?<br />
Who Else Wants To<br />
Raise A wesome<br />
A dults?!...<br />
Busy <strong>Sandy</strong> Shares a<br />
"Secret" From The Bible To<br />
Raising Responsible,<br />
Respectful, AWESOME Kids<br />
1
CONTENTS<br />
Our Cover Model Mom Hero...<br />
M om Warrior<br />
13<br />
Your Featured Presentations...<br />
33<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>! Coach's amazing sister-in-law! If you were concerned about<br />
making sure your kiddos get to adulthood in one piece, and ready to<br />
rock... then this is the interview for you! She's busy, she's devoted, she's<br />
wonderful and sharing God's love with her children without being all<br />
"pushy" about it!<br />
Your Weapon To Fight Tiredness...<br />
TIREDNESS FIX: A sluggish liver is leaking t he energy of 80% of Mom s.<br />
The easy fix? It ?s already in your kit chen!<br />
Coach Spiegel, BTSM<br />
Your Weapons To Stresss<br />
19<br />
PARENTING STRESS FIX: 3 Tips t o Get t ing Your Child Out of<br />
Bed In The Morning Wit hout a Bat t le :)<br />
Coach Spiegel, BTSM<br />
36<br />
23<br />
7<br />
SPOUSE-INDUCED STRESS FIX: Is 10 m i n u tes al l i t r eal l y<br />
tak es to m ak e a 500% str on ger ?r om an ti c com m u n i cati on ?<br />
betw een you an d you r hubz?<br />
Coach Spiegel, BTSM<br />
Stressed? How To KO Stress With A Romantic Movie<br />
Like Pride & Prejudice<br />
Coach Spiegel, BTSM<br />
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Founder's Note!<br />
Happy "Love's I n The Air" Month!<br />
By Coach Spiegel,<br />
Moms' Most Trusted<br />
Stress & Tiredness<br />
Expert<br />
Oh, Mom Warrior,<br />
how great are thee?<br />
? forever from this<br />
day, your Family will<br />
know of your<br />
awesomeness and<br />
love.<br />
They will be okay.<br />
Your kids will grow up<br />
to be special and<br />
contribute to the<br />
world in their own<br />
unique way.<br />
They will be<br />
successful. They will<br />
be happy.<br />
They will be<br />
responsible.<br />
They will meet<br />
someone special.<br />
They will fall in love.<br />
(if they haven?t<br />
Click Here If You'd<br />
Rat her List en To This...<br />
already) ;)<br />
They will have babies<br />
of their own.<br />
You will become a<br />
grandma (again, if<br />
you haven?t already)<br />
That ?s w hen it<br />
w ill happen? .<br />
They will look back on<br />
this time of their life<br />
and thank you.<br />
Thank you for caring<br />
for them.<br />
Thank you for loving<br />
them.<br />
Thank you for always<br />
being there.<br />
Thank you for being<br />
their rock.<br />
Sometime randomly<br />
in the future, you?ll<br />
get that call, or text,<br />
or VR simulation,<br />
(because it will be the<br />
future!) ;)<br />
...and they?ll be<br />
raining appreciations<br />
down upon you for all<br />
that you did for them<br />
growing up.<br />
They?ll see that then.<br />
When they are<br />
experiencing it with<br />
their own children.<br />
and they?ll wonder?<br />
...They?ll wonder to<br />
themselves ?how did<br />
Mom do it!? She<br />
made it look so easy!?<br />
:)<br />
As for right now...<br />
They don?t see it now,<br />
because it is only<br />
their eyes they are<br />
seeing the world with<br />
today. They don?t<br />
know all that you do.<br />
They are still figuring<br />
out themselves.<br />
Where they fit in your<br />
Family. Where they fit<br />
in the world. Their<br />
reason for existence.<br />
They don?t know that<br />
7<br />
3<br />
you yourself, see the<br />
world HUGELY<br />
through your<br />
children?s influence.<br />
Everything you are<br />
about is for them.<br />
Your life revolves<br />
around them. You<br />
plan your days<br />
around making sure<br />
they are cared for?<br />
...safe?<br />
? . And prepared.<br />
Unt il t hat t im e<br />
com es, know<br />
t hat I see it in<br />
you.<br />
I hear you.<br />
And I can?t help but<br />
Love you.<br />
I see you doing your<br />
thing, and it reminds<br />
me of my own<br />
Mother. It reminds<br />
me of the Love she<br />
unconditionally<br />
bestowed upon her<br />
Littles.
Know that I am your #1 fan. Know that I see<br />
what you do.<br />
I see you, and I am proud. I am thanking you<br />
on behalf of your children for now.<br />
So until that day comes? .<br />
>>>>>> Know how w onderful you are.<br />
>>>>>Know how special you are.<br />
>>>>Know how im port ant you are.<br />
>>>Know that you are glue that will hold the<br />
pieces of your children?s happy future<br />
together.<br />
>>Know how thankful I am to be here on this<br />
planet at the same time as you.<br />
You deserve to hear that everyday from your<br />
spouse. I don?t know if he tells you that each<br />
day or if you wished he would say it more.<br />
Whichever it is, you deserve to know.<br />
Your children have a crap-storm of a future<br />
waiting for them. It won?t be easy for them.<br />
Just as each generation that came before<br />
them? mine, yours, your parents?<br />
...they had their own unique set of issues to<br />
face.<br />
Your children will have theirs.<br />
And t hey w ill be okay.<br />
They will be okay because they had you to see<br />
them through.<br />
You put off being ?liked? and their best friend<br />
for today, so that you could teach them a life<br />
lesson that will last them forever.<br />
You might be like in my sister-in-law?s shoes in<br />
this issue?s Mom Hero?s Spotlight, when I asked<br />
4<br />
her what it means to be a Mother,<br />
"<br />
and she says it?s about telling her Little<br />
One...<br />
?It ?s m y job t o basically m ake you a good<br />
adult .?<br />
(which I am so OBSESSED for you<br />
"<br />
to hear that<br />
interview, there?s so much goodness in there to<br />
being an awesome parent!)<br />
You handled the being disrespected for a<br />
spell because it meant that they would<br />
learn responsibilit y and confidence.<br />
Skills that will continue to pay dividends<br />
towards their successful future.<br />
Their futures will be okay because you<br />
showed them how to Love.<br />
They will know what Love is.<br />
Love will be their finest weapon in the<br />
darkest of hours. Just as my Mother?s Love<br />
saved me in mine.<br />
Love is our greatest shield to this devouring<br />
of an enemy that is Stress & Tiredness.<br />
Lack of Love leads to our most misguided<br />
mistakes.<br />
This Mom Warrior brand exists to<br />
unburden you, free you from Stress &<br />
Tiredness, so that you can share more of<br />
that righteous Love with your Littles &<br />
Hubz. (if he is worthy) ;)<br />
All I ask of you for this month?s Valentine?s<br />
Day is to remember to give some of that<br />
love to yourself.<br />
You likely have no shortage of giving it to
your Littles.<br />
Giving it to your spouse. Each year you likely<br />
recognize Valentine?s Day a bit more than<br />
he?<br />
... so it?s your turn.<br />
Give that Love to yourself. Stuff that you<br />
wish he would say?<br />
? you go on and say it to yourself, my Mom<br />
Warrior.<br />
You wish he would say: ?Oh, Honey, you are<br />
so good-looking! So beautiful! I am so lucky<br />
and blessed to have you!?<br />
"<br />
LOVE IS OUR<br />
GREATEST SHIELD<br />
AGAINST STRESS &<br />
TIREDNESS<br />
"<br />
Magazine help that enormous job of being a<br />
Mom fighting Stress & Tiredness a bit easier?<br />
And never forget?<br />
? you?re not alone in this fight for your<br />
family?s future against Stress & Tiredness<br />
1. You take those words you long to hear<br />
from him<br />
2. Walk up to a mirror and look at<br />
yourself in those pretty eyes and<br />
3. ...say ?Oh, you! You are so<br />
good-looking! So beautiful! I am so<br />
lucky!<br />
You can say it out loud or to yourself,<br />
doesn?t matter. As long as it?s directed at<br />
YOURSELF!<br />
You?re already hard enough on yourself. You<br />
already have the fears and worries that you<br />
aren?t doing enough.<br />
You have probably said very mean things to<br />
yourself that if you caught someone saying<br />
to your Loved Little One, the fierce Mama<br />
Bear would come out!...<br />
? so what?s the harm in actually saying<br />
something NICE and GOOD to yourself for a<br />
change, hmmm?<br />
May this month?s issue of the Mom Warrior<br />
7<br />
5
You're experiencing t he LIVING PROOF of t hat st at em ent above...<br />
.........as we build up this Mom Warrior brand to change the world...<br />
.......have 1% the positive impact that the great Oprah has had,<br />
....and eventually free millions of Moms from St ress & Tiredness<br />
...which is the enem y that wants to rob you and your Family of your energy,<br />
happiness, confidence and joy... and ruin your children's future.<br />
Waging this war in honor of my Mom Warrior-ing Mother, who showed me how. :)<br />
Thank you for Loving your Family like you do and being there for them.<br />
Thank you for fighting off this Stress & Tiredness to keep your eye on the Mission.<br />
I'll never st op believing in you, Mom Warrior<br />
Allow this month?s magazine be another of your weapons to win that battle!<br />
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St ressed? How To KO St ress Wit h A Rom ance<br />
Flick Like "Pride & Prejudice"<br />
By Coach Spiegel<br />
"You have bewitched<br />
me body and soul,<br />
and I love, I love, I<br />
love you"<br />
-Mr. Darcy<br />
You know what that?s<br />
from, don?t you,<br />
Mom?<br />
Click To Play Here If You'd<br />
Rat her Have This Art icle Read To<br />
You Like You Do For Your<br />
Adorable Kiddos :)<br />
The classic 1813 Jane<br />
Austen novel of the<br />
same name, Pride &<br />
Prejudice.<br />
What a great movie!<br />
Any other wonderful,<br />
romantic tear-jerkers<br />
come to mind for<br />
you?<br />
-Sleepless In Seattle<br />
-Titanic<br />
-The Notebook<br />
(personal favorite of<br />
mine? shhhhh, don?t<br />
tell)<br />
C?mon? don?t stop<br />
now, you?re smiling<br />
just thinking about<br />
these happy<br />
tearjerkers?<br />
Let?s see what other<br />
ones come to mind.<br />
We?ve also got:<br />
Jerry Maguire (you<br />
complete me, Mom<br />
Warrior)<br />
A couple of old<br />
classics in John<br />
Cusack?s boombox<br />
7<br />
7<br />
powerlifting ?Say<br />
Anything?<br />
Or that Audrey<br />
Hepburn?s ?Breakfast<br />
at Tiffani?s?<br />
These aren?t just<br />
classic love, comedy,<br />
and romantic<br />
imaginings...<br />
? they are now<br />
another of your go-to
weapons you can harness<br />
when feeling those feelings of<br />
stress and anxiety.<br />
A Secret About Your Coach<br />
Here...<br />
There my wife and I were at<br />
her family?s Christmas party?<br />
? our 5th one that holiday<br />
season (you know what I?m<br />
talking about )<br />
We were going through the<br />
line of food and scooping up<br />
some potatoes. Just then,<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>, my sister in law, lets<br />
loose a perfect,<br />
word-for-word line from Pride<br />
& Prejudice?<br />
Oh that Mr. Collins and his<br />
potatoes!<br />
My wife and I were confused<br />
because we hadn't seen the<br />
movie, so that gorgeous<br />
souled sister in law of mine<br />
had to explain the movie to<br />
us.<br />
In just TALKING about the<br />
movie, her entire demeanor<br />
changed! She was smiling and<br />
giggling and all happy-like!<br />
Just thinking about that movie,<br />
she was lin all sorts of feel<br />
goods.<br />
She asked if we wanted to<br />
watch it? If so, she would<br />
borrow the movies to us! Just<br />
asking us that, she was so<br />
excited for us to experience it<br />
for ourselves!<br />
So we did!<br />
We watched it, my wifey and I.<br />
And I LOVED it! It was chock<br />
FULL of killer romantic<br />
one-liners I can use on my<br />
wife to make her like me more<br />
Such as:<br />
?You may only call me "Mrs.<br />
Darcy"... when you are<br />
completely, and perfectly, and<br />
incandescently happy.?<br />
? and then he goes on to call<br />
her ?Mrs. Darcy? a whole<br />
8<br />
bunch of times! Brilliant!<br />
Want to know WHY watching a<br />
movie works MARVELOUSLY at<br />
KO-ing stress if and when that<br />
bad guy hits?<br />
Because...<br />
...Having a good cry while<br />
watching these emotional love<br />
stories sends your mood<br />
soaring by washing away<br />
those harmful stress<br />
chemicals.<br />
The thing you need to know<br />
about our emotions is that?<br />
YOU CAN ONLY FEEL ONE<br />
EMOTION AT A TIME!<br />
It?s a one-way street, baby!<br />
Just like you get mad at your<br />
significant other because they<br />
are playing on their phone<br />
when you?re trying to talk to<br />
them?<br />
? and NOT paying attention to<br />
you....<br />
...The same is with your<br />
emotions. They are a<br />
one-t rack beast , My dear.<br />
Your brain, body, and being<br />
can only attend to ONE<br />
emotion at a time.<br />
And you get to choose what<br />
that emotion is!<br />
What determines your
emotions, such as stress?<br />
Obviously, it is outside<br />
forces, like the stuff going<br />
on in the world.<br />
But once you are aware that<br />
you are experiencing an<br />
emotion that you would<br />
rather not have?<br />
? like stress?<br />
? YOU CAN CHOOSE TO<br />
CHANGE THAT EMOTION!<br />
As soon as you become<br />
AWARE of that? you now<br />
have the power to change it!<br />
By making the conscious<br />
choice to switch to a NEW<br />
EMOTION!...<br />
CHOOSE to go from a<br />
negative emotion like stress<br />
to a positive one, like those<br />
ROMANCE feelings!<br />
So next time life and to-do?s<br />
and overwhelm and<br />
pressures and feels like the<br />
weight of the world is on<br />
your shoulders?<br />
? pop in your favorite go to<br />
Romance and choose to feel<br />
a new EMOTION.<br />
?But Coach, I Don?t Have<br />
TIME To Sit & Watch My<br />
Favorite Rom Com!?<br />
I hear ya, and I?ve got you<br />
covered, my dear?<br />
Speaking of ?my dear??<br />
Elizabeth had this to say?<br />
Mr. Darcy: How are you this<br />
evening, my dear?<br />
Elizabet h Bennet : Very well.<br />
Only I wish you would not call<br />
me "my dear".<br />
Mr. Darcy: Why?<br />
Elizabet h: Because it's what<br />
my father always calls my<br />
mother when he's cross about<br />
something.<br />
7<br />
9<br />
Did that get you smiling?<br />
See what I mean!? You?re<br />
feeling those emotions<br />
already, my dear!<br />
So just like my sister-in-law<br />
did when we were at that<br />
Christmas party... and her<br />
just thinking about one of her<br />
favorite movies changed her<br />
emotional state?<br />
? she was onto a hack that<br />
you can use when stress<br />
starts getting to you.<br />
It?s a super-simple<br />
psychological trick that<br />
WORKS like MAGIC?<br />
? called Romance Olfactory<br />
Anchoring. (ROA for short)<br />
It?s a long story to explain it?s<br />
origins, so I?ll just get right to<br />
how to do it.<br />
Have you heard of Pavlov?s<br />
dog? Pavlov rang the bell and<br />
gave his hungry puppy a juicy<br />
steak.<br />
Of course, the puppy started<br />
salivating because what dog<br />
doesn?t love a juicy steak?<br />
Before long, the dog linked<br />
up, or associated in his mind,<br />
the connection between the<br />
ringing of the bell? and the<br />
steak, that just the ringing of<br />
the bell was all that was
needed to make the dog start drooling.<br />
In fun psychological terms, that is called a<br />
conditioned response.<br />
(now I expect you to go and use that term<br />
when talking with your friends so you sound<br />
really smart and stuff)<br />
Your conditioned response you want is<br />
those romantic feel-good feelings you would<br />
rather have than that dumb STRESS.<br />
So you just make your own ?bell? to elicit<br />
that response. And it?s so simple to do!<br />
And with your smart brain, it happens about<br />
100x faster than it would a hungry dog!<br />
Here?s what you do?<br />
St ep1:<br />
put in your calendar this week to watch your<br />
favorite romantic flick!<br />
The one that REALLY gets those happy tears<br />
a-flowing.<br />
You know the one! You?re getting excited<br />
right now just thinking about it now, aren?t<br />
you!?<br />
St ep 2:<br />
Grab a favorable SMELL that is fairly strong<br />
to you. This will serve as your ?bell?<br />
Make sure it is unique, and something that<br />
wouldn?t be too much of hassle to grab<br />
when you are feeling stressed.<br />
A couple of good examples would be<br />
perfumes, cologne, air fresheners, <strong>Feb</strong>reeze,<br />
and Essential Oils (was that supposed to be<br />
capitalized?).<br />
"<br />
YOU J UST MADE A<br />
SHORT C UT ! GOOD<br />
FOR YOU!...<br />
"<br />
Candles work amazing too if you are able to<br />
set up it up in places where you get stressed,<br />
i.e. the HOME!<br />
St ep 3: WATCH that movie!<br />
(husband/significant other there with you<br />
optional) ;)<br />
St ep 4: When you are at the peak of your<br />
emotions with that movie.... Happiness, and<br />
glee and relief and maybe those happy tears<br />
are flowing like rain drops?<br />
? grab your smell and take in as nice and deep<br />
of an inhale as you can.<br />
BAM! Your anchor is all SET! That smell is now<br />
all linked up with those happy, romance<br />
feelings that wash away stress.<br />
You just made a SHORTCUT! Good for you!<br />
Just like Pavlov?s dog started drooling when he<br />
heard the bell? .<br />
? you?re going to start feeling those ?HAPPY<br />
ROMANCE? feelings whenever you smell that<br />
one smell.<br />
Only you are going to use it when the need<br />
best arises?<br />
? Like REPLACING those feelings of stress!<br />
This is a psychological phenomenon called<br />
?anchoring? and your smart brain has been<br />
10
smell that ?takes you<br />
watch them grow and<br />
to<br />
"<br />
that place?!<br />
Isn?t this stuff so cool?<br />
And it?s free to do!<br />
So whatever life<br />
throws at you.<br />
Whenever those<br />
feelings of<br />
you?re going to die an<br />
old lady, warm in your<br />
bed. Not here...Not this<br />
night. Do you<br />
understand me?<br />
"<br />
ROSE: I can?t feel my<br />
body.<br />
doing it since birth<br />
without you even<br />
realizing it!<br />
A prime example is a<br />
powerful song that<br />
you love that<br />
whenever you hear it,<br />
it takes you back to<br />
the place where that<br />
?anchor? was set.<br />
Look no further than<br />
your WEDDING<br />
SONG! Whenever you<br />
hear it, you probably<br />
think of your wedding<br />
day, don?t you?<br />
Or remember that<br />
Seinfeld episode<br />
where Elaine was<br />
dating a guy that just<br />
got lost in the song<br />
?Desperado?.<br />
That song would<br />
come on and it just<br />
enchanted him and<br />
he couldn?t do<br />
anything else. Like he<br />
was hypnotized by it<br />
or something.<br />
It?s something like<br />
that you are doing<br />
here with this ROA,<br />
only you are doing it<br />
with a smell instead<br />
of a song.<br />
But a song works just<br />
as good too if you<br />
want! Next time that<br />
stress has got a hold<br />
of you and you would<br />
rather NOT have it,<br />
load up a song or<br />
freak-outness, stress,<br />
overwhelm, and<br />
wishing there were<br />
more hours in a day?<br />
? stressing about<br />
anything..<br />
? go grab your smell,<br />
whatever it is...<br />
Take a HUUUUGE<br />
whiff, and all of a<br />
sudden those feelings<br />
of HAPPINESS &<br />
ROMANCE?<br />
? ? Mr. Darcy finally<br />
confessing his love to<br />
Ms. Bennett...<br />
? .. to bearded-up<br />
Ryan Gosling making<br />
out with<br />
?what?s-her-face? in<br />
the rain?<br />
? to Leo telling Rose:<br />
You?re going to get out<br />
of this...you?re going to<br />
go on and you?re going<br />
7 to make babies and<br />
11<br />
JACK: Rose, listen to<br />
me. Winning that ticket<br />
was the best thing that<br />
ever happened to me.<br />
It brought me to you.<br />
And I?m thankful, Rose.<br />
I?m thankful. You must<br />
do me this<br />
honor...promise me<br />
you will survive....that<br />
you will never give<br />
up...not matter what<br />
happens...no matter<br />
how hopeless...promise<br />
me now, and never let<br />
go of that promise.<br />
ROSE: I promise.<br />
JACK: Never let go.<br />
ROSE: I promise. I will<br />
never let go, Jack. I?ll<br />
never let go.?<br />
Oooo, your Coach is<br />
getting those<br />
?romancy tinglies? just<br />
writing that to you<br />
and thinking back to<br />
that scene in that
"<br />
"<br />
movie.<br />
See? this stuff works!<br />
You got it from here, my brave Mom!<br />
And you now have a BRILLIANT foundation to build upon!<br />
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<strong>Sandy</strong>!<br />
The Busy, Gr ounded,<br />
Kind-Hear ted and<br />
Tr ue Believer In The<br />
Name of Our Lor d<br />
What She Has Discovered From<br />
The Bible That Has Helped M ak e<br />
Her A n A w esome M om...<br />
Oh, & Let's Not Forget... Having Her<br />
K iddos Turn Out VERY Ok ay &<br />
Prepared For Life!<br />
7<br />
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L isten To The<br />
I nterview H ere!<br />
PART?<br />
? it is an example of the fierceness of LOVE<br />
that you Mom Warriors are about. What<br />
makes you so special...<br />
...So amazing<br />
And such FIGHTERS! It?s why I have been a fan<br />
of yours for so long!<br />
We begin today?s talk with <strong>Sandy</strong> making<br />
some bread! As you read through these<br />
show notes here, just imagine smelling that<br />
fresh baked bread and smelling so delish!<br />
Here's your show not es,<br />
im port ant quot es,<br />
checklist , and cheat sheet s?<br />
?Hannah graduating high school, oh<br />
my gosh! Then Rebecca is a freshman in<br />
college, and then 9 years later, had our tag<br />
along boy, Caleb?<br />
?that gets his way a lot of the times?<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> shares, ?Bethany turned out<br />
great!?<br />
This is one of those such moments in <strong>Sandy</strong>?s<br />
time on this earth being a Mom. May it give<br />
you inspiration in your down times and when<br />
what you do sometimes doesn?t feel like<br />
enough.<br />
?There WILL BE 2 kids in this room in<br />
October!... there is Scripture and Psalms?<br />
? I will not die but LIVE and declare the<br />
glorious works of the Lord. This baby will not<br />
DIE but will LIVE! I declare the glorious works<br />
of the Lord.?<br />
?I was about 4 when I first remember<br />
praying?...and she hasn?t stopped since!<br />
?He?s always had a hook on me,? when<br />
talking about her relationship with God.<br />
(And I would have to VERY agree with that!)<br />
I asked this Mom Hero, ?When that<br />
Hannah was born into this world, what was<br />
that like??<br />
Her answer is heartwarming, you've got to<br />
listen to it!<br />
?We?re going to have our 20th<br />
wedding anniversary this June!?<br />
IF YOU ONLY LISTEN FOR A FEW<br />
MINUTES, DEAR READER, LISTEN TO THIS<br />
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"<br />
H e's A lways H ad<br />
A H ook On M e... "<br />
How she met Mark: ?I<br />
invited Mark to a<br />
concert where I had a<br />
solo?,<br />
here?s some<br />
of the best parenting<br />
advice I?ve ever<br />
received to pass onto<br />
you from <strong>Sandy</strong> here.<br />
I believe it is what has<br />
contributed to her 3<br />
kiddos turning out so<br />
good and beginning<br />
to live responsible,<br />
happy, successful<br />
lives of their own?<br />
?I try to find so many<br />
teachable moments,?<br />
says <strong>Sandy</strong>.<br />
?Everything is a<br />
teachable moment.?<br />
She gets it from the<br />
book of Deuteronomy<br />
in the Bible. This<br />
Mom Hero states,<br />
?that whatever you<br />
are doing, you have<br />
them with you, you<br />
teach them while you<br />
are doing stuff.<br />
While you are walking<br />
down the road. While<br />
you are driving in the<br />
car, while you are<br />
feeding them food? .<br />
? . You are teaching<br />
them. Teaching them.<br />
Teaching them.?<br />
Isn?t that so good!?<br />
Aw esom e Parent ing<br />
Principle Com ing At<br />
You From This<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>...<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>?s great<br />
quote? ?There can<br />
really brilliant people<br />
that have so much<br />
potential but if they<br />
aren?t getting off the<br />
couch to go do it?<br />
...then what?<br />
I just build him up (To<br />
7<br />
15<br />
Caleb). You?re going to<br />
"<br />
be an amazing, great<br />
Man, and this is the<br />
way you?re going to<br />
get there.?<br />
Isn?t that SO good?<br />
Won?t you apply that<br />
to your Parenting,<br />
dear Mom? Kids need<br />
all the building up<br />
they can get, these<br />
days, wouldn?t you<br />
agree?<br />
At ?I?m not<br />
threatened by his<br />
disrespect, but I will<br />
teach him respect,<br />
and this is a safe<br />
place for him to learn<br />
it.<br />
This is a safe place for<br />
them to learn, not a<br />
place to be beaten<br />
down. Because they<br />
are going to get<br />
enough of that in life?<br />
-she says.<br />
Boy, is she right!<br />
That?s such awesome<br />
advice and the best<br />
part, it?s working! Her<br />
"<br />
kids are turning out<br />
great!<br />
?Love, lots of love,<br />
translates to? I love<br />
you, and that?s why<br />
I?m training you?<br />
-boy, this Mom Hero<br />
is so full of wisdoms<br />
and good quotes!<br />
At we begin<br />
talking about<br />
teenagers! You?ll love<br />
her stance on dating!<br />
And turning those<br />
into teachable<br />
moments!<br />
Sammy, their<br />
dog, barks it up and<br />
says hello!<br />
At Her<br />
second daughter,<br />
Rebekah, comes on in<br />
and shares her love<br />
of horses!<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> in<br />
regards to Bekah's<br />
future and horses?<br />
?So Becca is going to<br />
do something with
"<br />
I t's M y Job To<br />
B asically M ake You A<br />
Good A dult<br />
"<br />
that in her life.? from taking the<br />
teachings that?s in the<br />
Right around 27<br />
Bible and transfering<br />
minutes, don?t miss<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> talking about<br />
that into her<br />
Parenting?<br />
what makes her<br />
proud when it comes ?Galatians or<br />
to her girls!<br />
Ephesians 5, not so<br />
At She says<br />
much instruction<br />
that Caleb is a little<br />
towards women and<br />
go-getter! That he has<br />
parenting, because it<br />
is supposed to be<br />
NO FEAR! And I ask?<br />
innate, but there is to<br />
? ?do you think that<br />
men?<br />
will help or hurt him??<br />
?Fathers do not<br />
And <strong>Sandy</strong>?s response<br />
exacerbate their<br />
was spoken like a<br />
children, but train<br />
TRUE Mom Warrior?<br />
them up in Love?.<br />
?I?m going to try and<br />
So I totally looked this<br />
bend it to HELP him!?<br />
one up after our little<br />
Yes! THAT?S why you chat, and <strong>Sandy</strong> was<br />
Moms are the best right! it was in the<br />
and you deserve all book of Ephesians<br />
the appreciation and 6:4, and the exact<br />
recognition in the wording goes like<br />
world!<br />
this?<br />
exacerbate them to<br />
"<br />
the point of<br />
resentment with<br />
demands that are<br />
trivial or<br />
unreasonable or<br />
humiliating or<br />
abusive, nor by<br />
showing favoritism or<br />
indifference to any of<br />
them,<br />
...but bring them up<br />
with loving kindness<br />
in the discipline and<br />
instruction of the<br />
Lord.<br />
According to <strong>Sandy</strong>,<br />
that line is basically a<br />
?how-to? for discipling<br />
your child, not to<br />
?Lord? over them.<br />
Words to live by right<br />
here as a Parent...<br />
?It ?s m y job t o<br />
basically m ake you<br />
a good adult .?<br />
At , <strong>Sandy</strong><br />
shares her go-to<br />
?secret? to handling<br />
her Stress<br />
"<br />
?It was like a burden?<br />
say the great <strong>Sandy</strong> in<br />
regards to her work<br />
stress.<br />
This is a form of<br />
stress that I am<br />
seeing more and<br />
more, the stress that<br />
happens from<br />
transitioning from<br />
work to home.<br />
Leaving the stress<br />
that weighs on you<br />
from work and have it<br />
not ?infect? you when<br />
you?re away from<br />
work.<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> shares<br />
Here<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> shares what?s<br />
been most helpful<br />
?Father, do not<br />
provoke your children<br />
to anger. Do not<br />
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"<br />
DID I DO GOOD<br />
WITH THE POWERS<br />
& GIFTS OUR<br />
MAKER ENTRUSTED<br />
ME WITH?<br />
"<br />
how she likes to ?read? the Bible! An awesome tip you can do yourself!<br />
At w e begin t he Mom Warrior 7!<br />
7 questions that when answered leave a Legacy for your Family and kiddos!<br />
1. <strong>Sandy</strong>?s most recommended book:<br />
Guess what it is? take a wild guess, Dear Reader? you nailed it, the Bible!<br />
Okay, her second one is ?Chronicles Of Narnia?<br />
?If you read a Proverb a day, you can gain so much wisdom?<br />
#2. quest ion) This m ovie com es on and you HAVE t o w at ch it , w hat is t hat m ovie?<br />
...let me give you a clue here, gentle Reader? it the subject of that other article in this issue of<br />
the Mom Warrior magazine, the one having to do with Emotional Eating and stopping Stress!<br />
Pride and Prejudice!<br />
But she also was kind enough to share with love of the movie, Les Miserable<br />
#3:) This song com es on and you have t o sing along t o. You could hear it a 1000 t im es at<br />
you could st ill hear it again.<br />
Then we go ahead and listen to it! Enjoy!<br />
You can find it at <br />
#4) You?re on a bench overlooking the ocean with someone sitting next to you, living<br />
or dead, who is that person and what would you like to ask them?<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>: ?I would love to talk to Aunt Cindy again.<br />
Or my Mom! Shout-out to my Mom-in-love Ruthann!<br />
?He won?t lay stuff on you that you aren?t meant to carry? - <strong>Sandy</strong> when speaking about how<br />
Jesus was a carpenter that made yolks for oxen.<br />
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?His yolk is easy and the burden is light.?<br />
<strong>#5</strong>) you can go back in t im e and give your<br />
younger self som e advice, w hen w ould<br />
you go and w hat w ould you say?<br />
?Your value is not wrapped up in who you<br />
think loves you or not.<br />
Your value is not wrapped in what others<br />
think of you? ?<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong> mentions a fabulous book by<br />
Susie Larson called Your Sacred Yes<br />
THE #1<br />
THING...JUST GET " THERE!<br />
"<br />
Be sure to skip ahead to because<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>?s answer is PRICELESS!<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>?s advice if you want to crack open the<br />
Bible for some Parenting advice?<br />
?Begin with Proverbs and just read an entry a<br />
day?<br />
There you have it, what a fantastic interview<br />
with a fantastic Mother!<br />
Thank you for sharing your awesomeness not<br />
only with your Family and raising them to be<br />
all sorts of wonderfulness!<br />
May the Lord continue to bless you and your<br />
Mothering adventures!<br />
#6) The Time Capsule Question!<br />
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without<br />
your permission.<br />
To her children:<br />
?I want this to be a safe place you can come<br />
home to?<br />
The number one thing: Just get there.<br />
(and by "get there", she means Heaven!)<br />
Don?t ever turn away from the Faith. Not<br />
religion but Jesus.<br />
#7) If you had 3 days off t o do w hat ever,<br />
w hat w ould you do?<br />
Baby <strong>Sandy</strong>! :)<br />
? -or- you were give a bag of money with a<br />
note that says ?enjoy?, what would you do!...<br />
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3 Tips t o Get t ing Your<br />
Child Out of Bed In The<br />
Morning Wit hout a Bat t le<br />
By Coach Spiegel, World's Unlik eliest<br />
Parenting Stress Ex pert ;)<br />
Click To Play Here If You'd<br />
Rat her Have This Art icle Read To<br />
You Like a Bedt im e St ory You Do<br />
For Your Adorable Kiddos :)<br />
?NOOOOOO! I just want<br />
sleeeeeeep! Leave me<br />
alone!?<br />
Said the tired little girl to our<br />
Mom Hero....<br />
Some days were better than<br />
most and this morning here was<br />
somewhere in the middle.<br />
It didn?t help that our Mom Hero<br />
wanted sleep just as much, and<br />
if it wasn?t for her Mom Warrior<br />
Coffee already coursing through<br />
her veins, she would have been<br />
really screwed.<br />
She was about to let her rising<br />
frustration loose and do some<br />
screaming but then she<br />
remembered the tips that she<br />
got from her friend, Jeni, the<br />
other day, namely tip #3.<br />
Her friend Jeni is awesome and<br />
stays up to date on all the stuff<br />
that we here at Mom Warrior<br />
kick out in regards to fighting<br />
stress & tiredness so that she<br />
can show up stronger for her<br />
family.<br />
Our Mom Hero was<br />
complaining a bit to Jeni<br />
about having trouble getting<br />
her daughter out of bed in<br />
the morning.<br />
So Jeni shared with her some<br />
cool stuff she learned.<br />
Her first tip to our Mom<br />
Hero?...<br />
1. Put a Priorit y on Sleep!<br />
?Make sure she is getting<br />
enough! (and you too, my<br />
dear!)? said the joyful Jeni.<br />
?After numerous studies and<br />
thousands of ?logged? sleep<br />
hours?<br />
? Jeni paused to see if her<br />
friend got it? . She smiled a<br />
bit and just rolled her eyes.<br />
?you get it?? she<br />
7<br />
asked.<br />
19<br />
?You know, sleeping like a log?<br />
:)<br />
Not funny?<br />
Okay, I?ll work on it." :) she said.<br />
After all these studies, kiddos<br />
that get too little UN-Quality<br />
sleep show an increase in<br />
anxiety, depression and physical<br />
pain.<br />
Not good, right?<br />
? And 5 billion percents<br />
increase in BATTLES trying to get<br />
them out of bed in the<br />
mornings!? :)<br />
They both laughed together<br />
about that.<br />
?So here?s a general guideline I<br />
just happen to have<br />
memorized?, she said?<br />
>> 1-3 years old: 11-14 hours<br />
of quality sleep at night<br />
>>3-5 years:<br />
10-13 quality hours
6-13 years:<br />
9-11 quality hours<br />
>> 14-17 years:<br />
8-10 quality hours<br />
?You?re no stranger to<br />
routines, my friend,<br />
and there?s so many<br />
fun things for them to<br />
do before bed, but you<br />
putting an emphasis on<br />
consistency with this is<br />
important? -Jeni said to<br />
her<br />
?One of the biggest<br />
keys to making sure<br />
the sleep is of high<br />
quality is to get rid of<br />
the BLUE LIGHT from<br />
electronic devices an<br />
hour before bed and<br />
have it no where near<br />
them while sleeping.<br />
The brain mistakes that<br />
blue light as daylight<br />
and so doesn?t go all<br />
the way into deep<br />
sleep. Negating all the<br />
many benefits of it.<br />
I found that I have to<br />
be the example for my<br />
children on this, my<br />
dear,? she said.<br />
?It?s hard, but I noticed<br />
that I have more<br />
energy from getting<br />
better sleep myself.<br />
Here?s another tip? ?<br />
2.) Get Au-nat uralw<br />
it h t he w ake-ups!<br />
?Now, friend,? said Jeni<br />
as she was giving her a<br />
real easy tip to do?<br />
?In the history of us<br />
human-kind, we?re<br />
talking millions of years<br />
here,<br />
? this artificial light<br />
stuff has only been<br />
around a few hundred<br />
of them. Our bodies<br />
are still tied to the<br />
cycles of the earth.<br />
So make sure when the<br />
kids go to bed that you<br />
pull open the curtains<br />
and let all sorts of light<br />
in during the wake-up<br />
dawn hours.<br />
Speaking of which, one<br />
day I couldn?t<br />
remember if the sun<br />
rose in the west or<br />
then east? then<br />
suddenly it dawned on<br />
me.? :)<br />
Now THIS one, our<br />
Mom Hero did laugh a<br />
bit at!<br />
(Jeni was a bit of kidder<br />
like that, isn't she, my<br />
good Reader?)<br />
?You?re going to LOVE<br />
this next one, my<br />
friend? ?<br />
3.) The ?FROZEN?<br />
secret : Rebranding<br />
t he alarm clock<br />
?We are going to get<br />
psychological a bit with<br />
this tip, sweetie,? she<br />
said.<br />
20<br />
?What is your child?s<br />
mindset towards the<br />
day? What are their<br />
general feelings?<br />
Excited? Drudgery?<br />
Sometimes its hard to<br />
get out of bed because<br />
it doesn?t feel like<br />
there?s much point to<br />
it.<br />
The extreme of this is<br />
Depression and that?s<br />
why people with<br />
Depression are very<br />
immobile.<br />
I learned this from<br />
Coach Spiegel.<br />
And he learned it from<br />
Zig Ziglar who instead<br />
of calling that annoying<br />
set of wake-up noises<br />
an "alarm clock"?<br />
? call it instead, an<br />
?OPPORTUNITY? clock!<br />
Calling it an ?ALARM<br />
clock?, there?s no<br />
meaning behind it.<br />
Doesn?t give any<br />
blessings to the GIFT of<br />
what has been given to<br />
us in the form of a DAY.<br />
What is a ?day?, my<br />
dear? Ever thought<br />
about that? Here?s a<br />
cool way to look at it?<br />
? It?s an OPPORTUNITY<br />
for something! You<br />
decide what that<br />
something is! You let<br />
your child decide!<br />
The opportunity can be<br />
the chance to step<br />
forward towards<br />
something that is<br />
worthwhile to them?<br />
like becoming a better<br />
dancer, that?s what?s<br />
important for my<br />
daughter.<br />
It can be the<br />
OPPORTUNITY to play<br />
and have fun.<br />
It can be the<br />
OPPORTUNITY to make<br />
someone she loves<br />
proud.<br />
Instead of drifting<br />
about each day and<br />
treading water, what is<br />
the day the<br />
OPPORTUNITY for?<br />
Nothing sums it up<br />
better than that scene
at the beginning of<br />
FROZEN where Anna<br />
bursts into Elsa?s room<br />
all like?<br />
?The Sky Is Awake! We<br />
Must Play!? :)<br />
BONUS t ip!<br />
And one of the most<br />
helpful things, my<br />
friend,?<br />
Said the beautiful,<br />
always smiling, always<br />
high-energy Jeni?<br />
? ?was knowing both<br />
my and my child?s sleep<br />
animal type! Turns out<br />
that I am a bear!<br />
Here?s the site you can<br />
go to and take the free<br />
quiz to find out what<br />
your sleep type is too!?<br />
she scribbled down on<br />
a piece of paper and<br />
handed it to her.<br />
she had a plan...<br />
Especially for when she<br />
was getting frustrated.<br />
As for you, my good<br />
Reader, head on over<br />
to that website there<br />
and discover what your<br />
animal sleep type is!<br />
Keep on with the<br />
awesomeness,<br />
good-lookingness,<br />
loving-ness that you<br />
are...<br />
... keep fighting that<br />
Stress & Tiredness and<br />
passing on your<br />
greatness to your<br />
kiddos.<br />
Never forget, you are<br />
worthy, you are<br />
enough and your<br />
kiddos will be okay<br />
because they had you.<br />
We are with you in this<br />
fight till the end!<br />
www.thepowerofwhenquiz.com<br />
"Wow! thank you so<br />
much,," said our Mom<br />
Hero to her.<br />
And with that, off she<br />
went to apply those<br />
tips!<br />
Within days, it was still<br />
a bit challenging<br />
getting her kiddo out of<br />
bed, but at least now<br />
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21
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Is 10 m inutes all it r eally tak es<br />
to m ak e a 500% str onger<br />
?r om antic com m unication?<br />
between you and your hubz?<br />
By The Piano Playing<br />
"Husband Whisperer"...<br />
Coach Spiegel!<br />
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23
Click Here To Have This St ory<br />
Read To You Like You've<br />
Done Do So Adorably For<br />
Your Kiddos :)<br />
My amazing Mother<br />
figured that being in<br />
music would make us<br />
better humans and<br />
have a smart brain.<br />
Something about the<br />
connections between<br />
the right and left<br />
hemispheres of our<br />
brain or something<br />
like that. I?m not<br />
entirely sure, I?ll have<br />
to ask my darling<br />
Momma Dearest next<br />
time I see her on why<br />
she was so adamant<br />
about having us learn<br />
how to play a musical<br />
instrument.<br />
Piano ended up being<br />
our instrument of<br />
choice and once a<br />
week, Mom drove me<br />
and typically one of<br />
my siblings out to the<br />
country to do our She was so good at<br />
weekly check-ins with being a teacher that<br />
our Piano Teacher. she would know within<br />
Her name escapes me,<br />
about 2 minutes of<br />
but she was awesome.<br />
playing our song that<br />
The wife of a Farmer,<br />
we were supposed to<br />
(her husband was<br />
practice, whether we<br />
always out minding the<br />
practiced it or not!<br />
farm outside while she She charged around<br />
taught us)...<br />
$25/hour.<br />
? a wonderful lady, a And that was per kid. I<br />
mother, a<br />
remember because<br />
grandmother, and Mom always gave the<br />
world-class talent when check over to me to<br />
it came to playing the give to her.<br />
piano. Not to mention,<br />
$50 a week, 4 weeks a<br />
a wonderful teacher for<br />
month, added up to<br />
her students too!<br />
$200 a month. $200 a<br />
We were typically sent month to be good at<br />
home after the lesson something with no<br />
with some sort of immediate<br />
variation of ?practice, gratification.<br />
practice, practice!?<br />
* (actually LOWERED<br />
24<br />
gratification because our<br />
Parents would have to<br />
listen to our AWFUL<br />
music while we were<br />
struggling and<br />
practicing!...<br />
? and sometimes fudge<br />
the truth about what to<br />
say whenever we got<br />
done playing and<br />
asked? ?How Did That<br />
Sound, Mom?? :)<br />
>> as if I needed another<br />
reason to love you<br />
Moms....there?s another<br />
for you!) :)<br />
For 2 kids, at $200 a<br />
month, in the 90?s, that<br />
was no chump change.<br />
Especially for our<br />
family when money<br />
seemed to always be<br />
tight and it was
typically what my parents always fought about.<br />
$200/month the investments Mom and Daddio<br />
made into the brains of us kiddos.<br />
$200 a month investments into our future<br />
happiness and success.<br />
$200 a month to acquire a skill that they felt was<br />
important, the skill of playing an instrument.<br />
I?ll talk to you later specifically about music and<br />
whether your child should learn to play an<br />
instrument or not?<br />
? today I wish to impart upon you a Moral. A<br />
Moral about life using my story of learning to play<br />
the piano.<br />
That was some serious time commitment, and<br />
monetary commitment (although thankfully, I<br />
didn?t have to front the bill!) to learn to play the<br />
piano.<br />
In my beginning days of an entrepreneur, I<br />
started off as a Personal Trainer. There serving<br />
as a guide, or Coach, towards people wanting<br />
to live a healthier life and losing weight.<br />
In fact, people straight up REFUSED to try and<br />
go at it on their own. Those that did, typically<br />
ended up failing.<br />
Then a cool t hing happens w hen w e<br />
becom e adult s..<br />
- ? ? ? ? We grow up<br />
- ? ? ? . Meet that special someone we<br />
can?t stop thinking about<br />
- ? ? . We ride the roller coaster of<br />
romance and love<br />
- ? . Sometimes it leads to marriage<br />
And that?s when something particular<br />
happens.<br />
It was just sort of expected, that if we wanted to<br />
be good at something that we felt it was valuable<br />
TO BE GOOD AT IT? (like playing the piano) we<br />
hired a ?guide? of some sorts to show us the way.<br />
In fact, this is so rooted in our DNA, that if<br />
somebody learned something WITHOUT a guide<br />
in music, we called that ?Self-Taught.?...<br />
? and lauded that fellow with higher esteem and<br />
?Boy, he must be REALLY smart to learn on his<br />
own how to do that!?<br />
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We just sort of expect<br />
marriage happiness to<br />
happen.<br />
There?s little prep on either<br />
side to making things work.<br />
No searching out a ?guide? to<br />
show us the way.<br />
Just like there I was practicing<br />
to play the piano, I circled the<br />
big recital day on the<br />
calendar?<br />
? each practice session with<br />
my chosen song compelled<br />
me to get good at playing it,<br />
so I didn?t sound like a fool in<br />
front of everybody.<br />
Investing my time, energy,<br />
effort, and Mom & Dad?s<br />
money into acquiring this<br />
skill!<br />
I had a guide showing me the<br />
...WE J UST SORT<br />
OF EXPEC T<br />
MARRI AGE<br />
HAPPI NESS T O<br />
HAPPEN...<br />
"<br />
"<br />
way.<br />
Yet, as adults and getting married,<br />
99% of us don?t do a thing to get<br />
better at this ?skill? that could be<br />
called ?happily married?.<br />
In fact? .<br />
? seeking out help is shown as a<br />
sign of WEAKNESS. Typically when<br />
it is so bad that the couple has to<br />
seek out ?marriage counseling.?<br />
Then t hey keep it a secret , out<br />
of sham e and guilt .<br />
And it is usually at the behest of<br />
one side of this partnership<br />
getting ?dragged along? and<br />
feeling forced to comply.<br />
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Is having a happy, working,<br />
successful marriage important<br />
to you? Is it important for your<br />
kiddos?<br />
Do you want your partner to be<br />
happy? Do you care about their<br />
future?<br />
Do you love him and feel that<br />
he still loves you?<br />
What about you? Be selfish<br />
now, Mom, what do you want?<br />
What would make you thrilled?<br />
Where are your expectations<br />
at?<br />
If you?re like most couples,<br />
having a successful, happy<br />
marriage is important to both<br />
parties (at least I hope so!) but<br />
there is:<br />
...little thought,<br />
? .little patience,<br />
? ..little practice and<br />
preparedness that goes into it.<br />
...little seeking out a<br />
?guide?/teacher/Coach to learn<br />
it from.<br />
? in fact, not much beyond<br />
Hope. Hope that we ?chose
ight.?<br />
Like m arriage, and successful<br />
relat ionship-ing is som e sort of lot t ery or<br />
som et hing.<br />
Is that baffling to you too? Why do you think<br />
there?s this big disconnect?<br />
Many of us just simply revert to habits and<br />
practices that we?re modeling after our own<br />
Parents, whether good or bad.<br />
This is why this life you are leading now is so<br />
important.<br />
Why YOU?RE so im port ant , Mom<br />
Warrior, and I just absolut ely t hink<br />
t he w orld of you!...<br />
? because by showing up in your life the ?Mom<br />
Warrior Way?, it is acting like one big blueprint<br />
for your Littles to follow, to one day be<br />
awesome just like you!<br />
Thank you for being great and all that you do!<br />
We?re changing that right now and right here,<br />
Mom Warrior! There is not a bigger contributor<br />
to YOUR overall happiness and success than<br />
the condition of your relationships.<br />
Whether that is with your husband, your Littles,<br />
your parents, or your friends... I will be serving<br />
as your Guide to increasing the success of your<br />
relationships.<br />
"<br />
T HANK YOU FOR<br />
BEI NG GREAT AND<br />
AL L T HAT YOU<br />
DO!<br />
If Stress & Tiredness is our enemy we are waging<br />
war on, the ?bad guys? that are CRAPPING on<br />
your Children?s future, if you will?<br />
? then think of Happiness, Peace, Energy and<br />
Success as your allies.<br />
The ?good guys.?<br />
You are well aware of me declaring war on Stress<br />
& Tiredness on your behalf, and in your honor...<br />
? and since relationships are such huge<br />
contributors towards Stress & Tiredness, I?ll be<br />
showing you the secrets and the all important<br />
skills needed to better your relationships.<br />
With each WON?D battled against this monster,<br />
you are saving your children?s future! (that?s a<br />
word now) ;)<br />
I?m so proud of you for continuing to put one foot<br />
in front of the other? .<br />
...Stringing one punch after another to the face of<br />
this new, ugly threat to your Family?s survival.<br />
Doing it on their behalf, in their honor, because<br />
you?re great like that.<br />
Now , allow m e t o play m y part in your new<br />
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REVOLUTION and rise, and show you how t hat<br />
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is done.<br />
Just like playing the piano, or any instrument for that matter, discovering how t o bet t er<br />
COMMUNICATE is like an all-im port ant skill that makes up successful relationship-ing.<br />
Kinda like Lord of the Rings and it?s ?One Ring That Rules Them All.?<br />
Communication is ?One Skill That Rules Them All? in the land of successful relationship-ing.<br />
So allow me to serve as your gracious, grateful guide towards being a ROCKSTAR at<br />
communicating! I get asked all the time how Me and my beautiful bride Bethany always get<br />
along, always seem in love, and are currently ROCKING this thing called "happy relationship-ing".<br />
So here is your first lesson:<br />
..... to come back to me next time after your PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE! :)<br />
1.) you are to take 10 minutes this week and pull away the blinders on the LIES and misjustices<br />
that you have been fed by the bad guys of STRESS & TIREDNESS that keep you & your noble<br />
family down and suffering.<br />
Here?s how:<br />
Just like my Piano Teacher did all those years ago, she sent me on my merry way with some<br />
action steps to do before meeting the next week? (and I won?t even charge you $25!)<br />
St ep 1: ?You have eyes, but nobody has show n you how t o see!? (som e sort of version of<br />
t hat quot e is in t he bible, som ew here isn?t it ? That <strong>Sandy</strong> int erview from earlier has m e all<br />
obsessed about w hat ELSE could be in t he bible t o help us out w it h t his st uff!) :)<br />
You have a notebook somewhere? A piece of paper and a pen/pencil? Do you have the skill of<br />
knowing how to WRITE?<br />
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Awesome. Because that?s all you?re going to do.<br />
Once a day, one sentence, less than 10 seconds.<br />
No telling your hubz about this. No sharing it with<br />
him.<br />
It?s just for you and your eyes.<br />
For the next 3 days, you are to just watch and<br />
observe your spouse. Pay attention to him and all<br />
that he does.<br />
You are to LOOK for something that he has<br />
done...<br />
- Something he is currently doing<br />
- Something that?s in his character<br />
- Something that you appreciate<br />
- you?re glad he does<br />
- you?re thankful for<br />
- you appreciate<br />
- He does right<br />
- Doesn?t screw up too much ;)<br />
"<br />
DO T HI S FOR 3<br />
DAYS...<br />
"<br />
Do this for 3 days. After 3 days, do it for a few<br />
more days. Then a week. Then each day for a<br />
month.<br />
Ideally, I would like you to do this for an entire<br />
year. Remember, you?re not telling him you are<br />
doing this. A year goes by and let's say you give<br />
him this notebook as a present... he'll be so<br />
moved that he might just do the dishes for you<br />
for a whole month! :)<br />
You?re not sharing your writings with anyone. It?s<br />
just between you and me.<br />
You know when you don?t know something?<br />
let?s say, you don?t know how to boil an egg?<br />
? so you hop onto ol?Google and type in ?How<br />
To Boil An Egg.?<br />
- ? or that you think is pretty cool.<br />
It can be his actions. It can be a characteristic of<br />
his.<br />
It can be a body part. ;)<br />
It can be something he DOESN?T do.<br />
Something that you hear other women<br />
complaining about all the time, but your man<br />
doesn?t do that.<br />
Then you w rit e it dow n.<br />
Then Google is like your servant and goes and<br />
searches the ENTIRE internet land for the best<br />
piece of content to help solve your problem of<br />
not knowing how to boil an egg.<br />
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"<br />
"<br />
"<br />
Then serves that up to<br />
? did people all of a<br />
AWESOMENESS they<br />
complaint, and what is<br />
you.<br />
sudden copy you and<br />
are about?<br />
WRONG.<br />
Your brain is a lot like<br />
Google in that regard.<br />
You are putting it on<br />
?search? mode by doing<br />
this, and what you<br />
write is the ?search<br />
results.?<br />
But the true value is<br />
not in the search<br />
results, the true value<br />
is in the SEARCHING.<br />
go out and buy that<br />
same car too? No. They<br />
were already there.<br />
You just didn?t see<br />
them. The curtain was<br />
over your eyes.<br />
That?s what this step<br />
here does for you and<br />
your hubz? .<br />
Only it?s the GOOD they<br />
do that is getting<br />
... instead of the bad,<br />
?complaint-worthy?<br />
stuff that today?s<br />
negative, corrosive<br />
environment teaches<br />
us to pay attention to.<br />
This can?t help but<br />
change HOW YOU SEE<br />
YOUR SIGNIFICANT<br />
OTHER.<br />
Lifting the curtain of<br />
Nail that step and then<br />
it is onto?<br />
STEP 2: ?Explain<br />
yourself!?<br />
I was having a rather<br />
difficult time being a<br />
Personal Trainer and<br />
trying to teach classes<br />
with a workout that<br />
one of the other<br />
Personal Trainers<br />
Because like that day<br />
highlighted and paid<br />
lies and deceit that<br />
wrote up.<br />
you bought your new<br />
vehicle and suddenly<br />
that vehicle started<br />
showing up<br />
everywhere?<br />
attention to.<br />
Given not ice and<br />
recognit ion.<br />
You are seeing all the<br />
RIGHT and<br />
have been planted<br />
there by today?s<br />
corrosive environment<br />
that teaches us to see<br />
nothing but lack,<br />
He had exercises on<br />
there that could have<br />
been completed about<br />
18 different ways.<br />
For example:<br />
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- Exercise 1: Deadlift s<br />
?Okay,? I would say to myself? ?is that<br />
Romanian deadlifts? To the floor deadlifts?<br />
Heavy Deadlifts? Straight Back Deadlifts?<br />
Olympian Deadlifts??...<br />
...And so on?<br />
So much of our communication problems are<br />
from not being on the same page as far as<br />
what the other meant by ?deadlifts?.<br />
Too much open to interpretation. Not clear.<br />
Not specific.<br />
It?s like that for you and your hubz. Only it is<br />
both of yours?definition of what a ?Happy<br />
Successful Marriage/Relationship? is.<br />
You both sit down together for 10 minutes and<br />
get clear on what YOUR definition of a happy,<br />
successful m arriage is.<br />
You think on it? then go first. Then you invite<br />
him to respond.<br />
If he can?t nail it down there, just give him time<br />
to think on it.<br />
This isn?t deep, controversial, difficult<br />
"<br />
WHAT 'S YOUR<br />
DEFI NT I ON OF A<br />
HAPPY,<br />
SUC C ESSFUL<br />
MARRI AGE?...<br />
"<br />
what your definition is.<br />
For example, when me and my beautiful wifey did<br />
this, part of my definition was:<br />
- Grow old together.<br />
I brought up examples of couples that were<br />
together for 50+ years, and how they were still<br />
getting along so sweet. That's what I envisioned<br />
for me and her as well.<br />
Speaking of getting along, that was part of my<br />
definition too? I don?t like fighting and conflict, so<br />
what goes into my definition was not much of<br />
that going on.<br />
There are couples that feed off of that, like<br />
Raymond?s parents from Everybody Loves<br />
Raymond.<br />
Or George?s parents from Seinfeld.<br />
conversation territory stuff here. So don?t toss<br />
out the ?We Need To Talk? phrase.<br />
It?s just getting clear on what each other?s<br />
definition is.<br />
Bring up other couples and their examples of<br />
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But that?s not me, and I so I lett her know that!<br />
Here?s a couple of ot her t hings?<br />
- In my definition, it?s no cheating going on.<br />
"<br />
- To constantly be speaking each other?s ?love language?<br />
- To be able to talk openly about stuff and not ?sweep it under the rug? and wait for things to<br />
boil over and explode. If I am doing wrong, to let me know if it?s in my power to change.<br />
Your turn, Mom Warrior dearest!<br />
Think you can handle those 2 simple steps/ They are profound and will go a long ways towards<br />
improving the romantic communication between you two.<br />
Because it practices you to SEE the good in them.<br />
Have fun with that and let me know how it goes!<br />
Remember, you?re not alone in this fight for your Family?s future against Stress & Tiredness!<br />
Coach and his t rue love! Who is m ost<br />
cert ainly his bet t er half!<br />
p.s. w e'll be having kiddos soon! We're going for it ! ;)<br />
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?Years of t iredness - GONE! Just like t hat !?<br />
Click Here To Have This St ory Read To You<br />
Like You Do So Cut ely For Your Kiddos<br />
(t hank you for doing t hat for t hem ) ;)<br />
Exhaustion, confusing weight issues and brain fog kept this Mom Hero from<br />
living her best life for her Family- until she discovered the sneaky ?healthy?<br />
culprit and easy remedy that restored her lost energy in days<br />
?You should go<br />
ahead without me and<br />
have a good time,<br />
dear. I?m too tired to<br />
barely move, much less<br />
tackle the trail? .<br />
...I?ll be here when you<br />
get back,? -our Mom<br />
Hero told her<br />
husband.<br />
Together they were<br />
supposed to be on<br />
their anniversary date<br />
at their local National<br />
park enjoying a<br />
romantic hike<br />
together.<br />
But just a few<br />
minutes out, she was<br />
stricken with<br />
overwhelming<br />
fatigue. So much so<br />
that she knew she They should have<br />
couldn?t do it.<br />
been having fun<br />
And not just any<br />
together but instead<br />
fatigue, mind you<br />
she was letting him<br />
Dear Reader.<br />
down.<br />
Afflicted with? both<br />
As if this fatigue<br />
physical AND<br />
hadn?t taken enough<br />
emotional fatigue.<br />
from her? here it was<br />
again letting not only<br />
Double whammy!<br />
herself down, but her<br />
She looked at her cherished loved ones<br />
loving husband?s face too.<br />
after she told him the<br />
She felt absolutely<br />
bad news. She saw<br />
terrible, which only<br />
the hurt in his eyes.<br />
added to her<br />
She knew that he was<br />
emotional fatigue.<br />
disappointed. He<br />
She never wanted<br />
missed her. Longed<br />
him to feel that way<br />
to have her to<br />
again.<br />
himself.<br />
?It Was So Hard To<br />
He had planned this<br />
whole thing, and<br />
Be The Mom She<br />
there she was, Wanted To Be? ?<br />
screwing it all up.<br />
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For over a decade,<br />
our Mom Hero lived<br />
in a constant state of<br />
exhaustion, and her<br />
marriage to her<br />
husband wasn?t the<br />
only thing that<br />
suffered.<br />
When her 2 kids were<br />
young, she thought of<br />
the relationship she<br />
had to her own<br />
Mother, a wonderful<br />
Mom that was always<br />
there for her, played<br />
with her and made<br />
her laugh...<br />
? and she wanted to<br />
give that same<br />
childhood experience<br />
to her 2 kiddos.<br />
But because of her<br />
tiredness and
exhaustion, following<br />
through on that wish<br />
made it hard. Very<br />
hard.<br />
"<br />
All but impossible.<br />
It speaks to her<br />
amazing character<br />
that she put up with it<br />
as long as she did.<br />
It was so hard to be<br />
the mom she wanted<br />
to be for them. To<br />
give them happy<br />
memories of their<br />
childhood growing<br />
up. Happy, joyful<br />
memories of their<br />
Mother and the<br />
compassion and love<br />
in her heart for them.<br />
She couldn?t play in<br />
their backyard with<br />
them, couldn?t go bike<br />
WANT ED DONE<br />
WI T H T HE<br />
M.O.M.F.... (MI SSI NG<br />
OUT MOM FAT I GUE)<br />
riding with them,<br />
? ? ? never bounced<br />
on their trampoline<br />
and let loose happy,<br />
heartfelt laughter.<br />
She loved her girls so<br />
much, and here she<br />
was, missing out.<br />
? ? . When they went<br />
to their grandma?s<br />
house out in the<br />
country? She never<br />
could run with them<br />
in the open field with<br />
the smells of fresh<br />
flowers and Spring<br />
blessing her nose.<br />
? ? She never could<br />
chase after her<br />
adorable Little One<br />
with playful<br />
?monster-like voiced?<br />
threats of...<br />
"<br />
"<br />
"<br />
"<br />
? .?I?m gonna get you,<br />
I?m gonna get you,<br />
HA! I got you? -then<br />
gather her up in her<br />
arms and swing her<br />
around...<br />
...enjoying her<br />
daughters?sweet<br />
laughter as it filled<br />
our Mom Hero?s soul.<br />
Nope. No energy.<br />
She was always too<br />
tired.<br />
Both her girls were<br />
active in sports 5 days<br />
"<br />
a week, and she<br />
struggled to keep up<br />
with the<br />
commitments.<br />
When they had their<br />
soccer games, she<br />
wanted them to know<br />
that their Mom was<br />
proud of them and<br />
supported them in<br />
their passions. It took<br />
every bit of strength<br />
and effort just to<br />
carry her chair,<br />
walk to the field,<br />
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and watch them play. And was sure to save<br />
just a little bit of energy in reserves to shout<br />
and cheer her girls on.<br />
Even there at their games, she couldn?t be<br />
fully present and soak in her daughters?<br />
performances because the exhaustion was<br />
just so daunting and draining.<br />
She felt like she was missing out on their<br />
childhood.<br />
There wasn?t a name for it at the time, when<br />
this Mom Hero was facing it? but she was<br />
actually suffering from the WORST form of<br />
exhaustion?<br />
what we call,<br />
Missing-Out Mom Fat igue? (MOMF)<br />
(Missing-Out Mom Fatigue? - A form of<br />
tiredness that is so ruining that you feel like<br />
you?re missing out on your kids?childhood.<br />
Made worse by the fact that your usual<br />
crutches of coffee and energy drinks are no<br />
longer enough.)<br />
If you, gentle Reader, ever wonder why this<br />
Mom Warrior brand and magazine exists?<br />
? it is for t hat reason right here!<br />
It has become my MISSION to become the<br />
leading M.O.M.F. Expert!<br />
You are the best and your children deserve<br />
the best. You have no idea how important<br />
you are.<br />
And this stupid Stress & Tiredness is robbing<br />
the best of you from them!<br />
The only reason, I, your Coach Spiegel, didn?t<br />
screw up my life more than what I did?<br />
Here's m y "forever young",<br />
Mom m a Dearest !<br />
...was because my Mother HAD energy to be<br />
the Mother she wanted to be for us kids<br />
growing up. I owe just about everything to my<br />
great Mother.<br />
And now...<br />
...it is God?s calling of me to do my small part<br />
to help free you from this burden of Stress &<br />
Tiredness...<br />
... so that you can share your Love with your<br />
Littles and let them become a happy success<br />
too.<br />
I ignored this Call for much of my life because<br />
I was scared. I was a coward. I wasn?t brave<br />
like you.<br />
I am sorry to you for that. I truly am. But I<br />
won?t make that mistake again! Not when it is<br />
your energy and your children?s futures on the<br />
line!<br />
Thank you for all that you do for them in the<br />
name of Love!<br />
Now, that?s enough about me?<br />
? back t o our st ory of t his am azing<br />
Mom Hero?<br />
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Mom Hero?s SOUL hadn?t been hurt enough?<br />
? the fatigue kept her from having friends<br />
over and do the things that SHE wanted to<br />
do. She felt ashamed of her dirty house. All<br />
the housework that never seemed to end.<br />
She wanted to have friends over, and she<br />
could barely muster the energy to clean the<br />
house for her family, let alone for company!<br />
Although she attended church regularly, she<br />
really wanted to serve others in need. She<br />
felt those twinges of The Call, like your Coach<br />
here did.<br />
But because of that stupid fatigue, she didn?t<br />
even attempt volunteering for anything<br />
because she was always too tired.<br />
Then came the brain fog. Brain fog that made<br />
it impossible to focus at work.<br />
There was also the sleep issues. It was so<br />
frustrating to be so tired all day, finally<br />
resting her head on her pillow at night ...and<br />
not being able to fall asleep.<br />
Unable to take it any longer, our Mom Hero<br />
began the search for answers.<br />
She went to her doctors for help.<br />
A doctor suggested some prescriptions for<br />
sleeping, but our Mom Hero knew it wasn?t<br />
pills that she needed.<br />
She did some digging on her own. She talked<br />
to friends of her about it. Opened up on<br />
Facebook about her struggles, asking if<br />
anybody else faced things similar.<br />
She did numerous Google searches and with<br />
what little energy and time she had, began<br />
reading articles and watching videos<br />
pertaining to her symptoms. Suddenly a friend<br />
of hers reached out...<br />
...shared that she used to face something<br />
similar a while ago. Asked our Mom Hero if she<br />
heard of what?s called...<br />
Clogged Liver Condit ion<br />
?No... I?m afraid not,? asked our curious Mom<br />
Hero,<br />
?What?s that all about??<br />
?I learned about this from my Stress &<br />
Tiredness Coach when I was in search of<br />
answers myself,? replied her friend...<br />
?You see, it?s our Liver?s job to clean out toxins,<br />
garbage and energy thieves from our body and<br />
blood? .<br />
It acts like one big filter like that.<br />
It?s kinda like a vacuum cleaner?s filter. My<br />
friend was vacuuming her floor one day and<br />
while vacuuming she was noticing that the<br />
carpet was still dirty!<br />
She thought that the vacuum must have been<br />
broke! Turned out that the filter on it was just<br />
clogged! As soon as she fixed that, the vacuum<br />
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Looks Like This!
"<br />
worked good as new!<br />
It?s like that for our<br />
Liver. Thanks to<br />
today?s Standard<br />
Modern Diet and<br />
lifestyle, the majority<br />
of us have clogged<br />
livers. (around 80%)<br />
That's not all..<br />
...Another important<br />
function of our Liver<br />
is to take in the food<br />
and drink we<br />
consume, and turn it<br />
into energy.<br />
But with your Liver<br />
overworked, clogged<br />
up, bogged down and<br />
STUCK? it has trouble<br />
doing that! On top of<br />
all that, she was told<br />
that there is a sneaky<br />
chemical in many<br />
processed ?healthy? A condition where fat<br />
carbs that PREVENT accumulates in the<br />
liver enzymes from liver so it can?t do its<br />
breaking down and job of flushing toxins<br />
metabolizing (ie: turn from our body.<br />
into energy) fat.<br />
If THIS goes<br />
...This causes you to untreated, it leads to<br />
be tired all the time. permanent damage<br />
Which in turn makes in the form of<br />
you stress, irritable cirrhosis of the Liver.?<br />
and cranky.<br />
<br />
...Not to mention<br />
IS A SNEAKY<br />
brain fog, and trouble<br />
CHEMICAL PLAGUING<br />
sleeping.? Our Mom<br />
YOUR LIVER &<br />
Hero?s friend was<br />
DRAINING YOUR<br />
listening with all ears.<br />
ENERGY?<br />
Her friend<br />
continued...<br />
If you are struggling<br />
with that nasty<br />
?If this Clogged Liver<br />
fatigue and have 2<br />
Condit ion is left<br />
more of the<br />
untreated?<br />
symptoms below...<br />
? it could lead to the answer could be<br />
Fat t y Liver Disease. 7 "yes":<br />
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- brain fog<br />
- weakness<br />
- loss of appetite<br />
- weight gain or<br />
weight plateau<br />
- blue moods<br />
- nausea<br />
- trouble<br />
sleeping<br />
- accused of<br />
being ?lazy?<br />
- certain food<br />
sensitivies<br />
- diarrhea<br />
- eye/skin<br />
irritations<br />
?I had no idea about<br />
all of that! Wow,<br />
thank you so much,?<br />
Our Mom Hero said<br />
to her friend.<br />
It was like an<br />
awakening. It was like<br />
her friend was
describing her to a T. This<br />
revelation lit a fire under<br />
her and she was hopeful for<br />
the first time in YEARS. She<br />
knew she needed to find<br />
out how to reverse her<br />
Clogged Liver Condition--<br />
and FAST!<br />
She had already suffered<br />
enough and missed out on<br />
her children?s childhood!<br />
Feeling Like A Loving<br />
Mom Again!<br />
With the resources that her<br />
friend mentioned, and<br />
information from her Stress<br />
& Tiredness Coach that<br />
helped her out?<br />
? our Mom Hero began<br />
researching and testing<br />
things out on herself.<br />
Namely the free book her<br />
friend passed onto her that<br />
her Coach wrote.<br />
Titled, The Anti-Tiredness<br />
?Diet?? : The ?Money? Secret To<br />
Energy All Day That Just Won?t<br />
Quit In 17 Days Without Feeling<br />
Deprived? Even If You?re Busy<br />
From it she learned how to give<br />
her Liver lots of LOVE.<br />
* (is it a coincidence that ?liver?<br />
and ?love?is practically spelled<br />
the same?... :)<br />
...It?s enough of a clue the fact<br />
that ?Liver?is one letter<br />
removed from LIVE, right!?)<br />
She followed the guidelines and<br />
protocol outlined for her in that<br />
book?<br />
...which focused on helping her<br />
liver and other<br />
?energy-production? organs do<br />
their job so that she could have<br />
the energy her body was<br />
SUPPOSED to feel!<br />
Doing things like choosing<br />
sources of healthy fats and<br />
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clean sources of protein?<br />
over processed sugars and<br />
damaged fats.<br />
She even discovered how to<br />
break her emotional<br />
connection to sugar and<br />
late-night sugar cravings from<br />
that book when before she<br />
failed regularly. :)<br />
When she felt she had no<br />
willpower.<br />
She even learned some easy<br />
stress-relieving secrets to<br />
speed up her healing!<br />
On her Mission to getting her<br />
energy and life back, she<br />
uncovered a sneaky culprit?<br />
? something that shocked<br />
her and had no idea about:<br />
many processed carbs are<br />
tainted with glyphosate, an<br />
herbicide that businesses<br />
spray on their crops that...<br />
...may prevent liver enzymes<br />
from metabolizing fats, carbs,<br />
and proteins.<br />
She had never heard of this<br />
energy-stealing glyphosate<br />
before, but was quite<br />
surprised to learn about all<br />
the problems it?s linked to.<br />
Problems she was FINALLY<br />
becoming free of, like
daylight at the end of a very long, very dark,<br />
very dreary tunnel.<br />
So she stopped buying packaged processed<br />
foods and breads. Even whole wheat. She<br />
limited grains of all forms to lower her<br />
exposure to glyphosate, as well as many of<br />
its other energy-stealing chemicals in it.<br />
She started doing the majority of her<br />
grocery shopping around the perimeter of<br />
the store, where the healthy whole foods<br />
that healed her liver and reversed her<br />
Clogged Liver Condit ion w as.<br />
Before t he m ont h w as up:<br />
? ? .. her energy SOARED...<br />
? ? the mental fog lifted<br />
? . her foul moods vanished<br />
? and was sleeping better.<br />
For the first time in what felt like forever,<br />
she had energy to play with her kids.<br />
She no longer had the crushing guilt<br />
weighing on her loving soul that came from<br />
feeling that she wasn?t the Mom she wanted<br />
to be for her 2 angels.<br />
In fact, she made it a point to take them to<br />
Grandma?s house in the Spring, so she could<br />
run around with her Littles and soak in the<br />
sunshine, smell of fresh flowers and country<br />
air?<br />
and make some good times, and loving<br />
memories.<br />
"<br />
Within 6 months of following the the<br />
Anti-Tiredness "Diet"? , the insomnia and<br />
sleep apnea was gone!<br />
And within a year, she lost a bunch of weight.<br />
Her husband certainly noticed the changes<br />
and was more romantic...<br />
? ... affectionate and<br />
? . attracted to her more than ever!<br />
It was hard for her to believe that such simple<br />
changes helped her completely turn her<br />
health...<br />
? her life...<br />
? . and lives of her family...<br />
? ..completely around.<br />
She admitted that the Anti-Tiredness "Diet"?<br />
was the easiest ?diet? she?s ever done and<br />
today, it?s her lifestyle -- one that she wish she<br />
had discovered years ago!<br />
But was thankful she discovered it when she<br />
did before it was too late.<br />
Now that tiredness and her M.O.M.F<br />
(Missing-Out Mom Fatigue) is no longer<br />
running, and ruining her life?<br />
? she feels UNSTOPPABLE!<br />
She serves in her church, and has followed her<br />
own heart and taken up the Call of the Lord to<br />
help other fatigue-ridden Moms become more<br />
aware of the answers to their Clogged Liver<br />
Condition.<br />
Instead of missing out on all the fun?<br />
7 ? .. she hoots and hollers and jumps for joy in<br />
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celebration at her<br />
daughters?soccer games.<br />
She takes special trips<br />
with her husband and<br />
dares him to keep up<br />
with!<br />
?Our Marriage has never<br />
been better!? she sings<br />
joyously!<br />
And they all lived happily,<br />
energized ever after.<br />
The End.<br />
Now for your m orals<br />
of t he st ory, m y<br />
dear Reader...<br />
First let's talk about that<br />
sneaky chemical...<br />
Glyphosate?<br />
...it's a common,<br />
energy-stealing chemical<br />
that can cause Clogged<br />
Liver Condition and<br />
increase the risk of Fatty<br />
Liver Disease.<br />
? ?There?s an<br />
epidemic of<br />
fatty liver<br />
disease in the<br />
U.S.,?...<br />
...says Ken D. Berry, M.D.<br />
author of Lies My Doctor<br />
Told Me. (how AWESOME is<br />
"<br />
that title?) :)<br />
Indeed he is righter than ever,<br />
my awakened Mom Warrior<br />
Reader. Remember, prior to it<br />
being Fatty Liver Disease?<br />
? it is Clogged Liver<br />
Condit ion that is messing up<br />
all your energy pathways. The<br />
first warning signs of it is that<br />
pesky, no fun tiredness.<br />
The good Doctor there states<br />
that more than 80% of women<br />
have this condition, where fat<br />
clogs up the organ so it can?t<br />
perform its metabolic and<br />
detox functions.<br />
This surplus of fat is from all<br />
that extra wheat, sugar, and<br />
flour that is VERY easy and<br />
addicting to consume in<br />
today?s St andard Modern<br />
Diet .<br />
It is your body?s most<br />
underappreciated organ?<br />
? your ?unsung hero? Liver<br />
? .it?s her job (I?m going to<br />
assume your liver?s gender is<br />
female because well, you?re a<br />
female, and the work you do<br />
"...yo u r bo d y's<br />
mo s t<br />
u nd er - a ppr ec ia t ed<br />
o r g a n<br />
"<br />
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tends to go unappreciated too,<br />
just like your Liver?s :) )<br />
? .. her job to convert that food<br />
you eat into fat and put into<br />
storage for use later?<br />
? it?s like if your checking<br />
"<br />
account<br />
was overflowing with money? so<br />
you just went and put it in your<br />
savings account for a rainy day.<br />
Only your liver is overworked and<br />
wearing down so the fat gets<br />
?STUCK? in the liver? leading to<br />
further not-so-cool problems. :)<br />
Such as: easy weight gain?<br />
? weight plateau - where the<br />
scale doesn?t budge no matter<br />
what you do!<br />
? . fatigue and<br />
...brain fog and<br />
confusion.<br />
While the high sugar content in<br />
the standard American diet (SAD)<br />
is a major factor,<br />
? new research points to another<br />
culprit in our food supply<br />
contributing to our Clogged Liver<br />
Condition and Fatty Liver<br />
Disease?<br />
...glyphosate<br />
It?s a chemical sprayed on crops<br />
to kill weeds and bugs and<br />
preserve the crops longer.<br />
A new animal study links
glyphosate exposure to a 3-fold increase in<br />
risk of fatty liver disease.<br />
This revealed in a peer-reviewed study led<br />
by Dr. Michael Antoniou at King?s College<br />
London.<br />
According to a University of California at San<br />
Diego study?<br />
...70% of people have glyphosat e in t heir<br />
syst em --<br />
? which is a 500% rise in the past 23 years.<br />
? A urine t est can check<br />
glyphosat e levels w hile an<br />
ult rasound can diagnose<br />
fat t y liver?<br />
healthy fats like avocado.<br />
Them are all Anti-Tiredness friendly foods that<br />
help your liver eliminate fat and<br />
energy-stealing toxins.<br />
And go organic and non-GMO whenever<br />
possible -- this alone cuts other<br />
"<br />
energy-stealing pesticide exposures by 90% in<br />
just 7 days.<br />
>> Aim for 425 m g. of choline daily.<br />
It?s like a wrecking ball towards fat stuck in the<br />
liver clogging it up?<br />
? helping the liver break-up and breakdown<br />
fat?<br />
(but not the wrecking ball that Miley Cyrus<br />
rides)<br />
...Although, if its ongoing fatigue and<br />
on-edge Stress & Tiredness you?re facing, my<br />
worried Reader?<br />
? . it?s likely a very strong bet that you?re<br />
suffering from Clogged Liver Condit ion.<br />
And to help you feel better, I recommend<br />
you consider the following?<br />
The Ant i-Tiredness ?Diet ??<br />
elim inat es m ajor sources of<br />
glyphosat e AND reverses Clogged<br />
Liver Condit ion, and fat t y liver.<br />
According to Dr. Berry, as well as this Coach<br />
Spiegel BTSM, here agrees...<br />
- Avoid grains and sugar<br />
- limit carb intake to 50 grams a day<br />
- and opt for green veggies, grass-fed<br />
meat, plant-based proteins and<br />
This has been shown to help 80% of moms<br />
reverse Clogged Liver Condit ion and fatty<br />
liver.<br />
Want to know the top sources of this<br />
wrecking-ball choline?<br />
Just a single serving of eggs has 147mg.<br />
So that serves as an eggs-cellent go to option<br />
for you there (is that still funny?) :)<br />
Otherwise, sometimes if the CLC (Clogged<br />
Liver Condition) or Fatty Liver Disease is<br />
getting too bad?<br />
? a sensitivity to eggs is another of the first<br />
7 signs (that was one of the first clues that my<br />
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wife was suffering from this CLC, which of<br />
course, we reversed following that<br />
Anti-Tiredness Diet? ).<br />
If that?s the case, go on and consider a<br />
supplement.<br />
Got one more tip to help you out, my brave<br />
Mom Warrior!<br />
! Aw esom e New s: !<br />
Sip t his everyday drink t o<br />
slash risk of CLC and fat t y<br />
liver by 65%<br />
?The health benefits from drinking coffee<br />
are mind-boggling -- and the more you<br />
drink, the bigger the benefits,? shares liver<br />
specialist Sanjiv Chopra, M.D.<br />
Studies show the risk of liver conditions<br />
drops 44% among those who sip 2 cups<br />
daily -- and up to 65% with four cups.<br />
What?s even better, says Dr. Chopra, people<br />
with CLC and fatty liver disease who drink<br />
coffee regularly experience less fibrosis, a<br />
hardening of liver tissue that worsens it?s<br />
performance.<br />
Experts aren?t sure how coffee protects the<br />
liver, but Dr. Chopra points to compounds<br />
in the beans that repair liver cells and cut<br />
levels of damaging enzymes found in the<br />
Standard Modern Diet.<br />
Yay for coffee!<br />
The coffee?s perks add up no matter how it?s<br />
brewed or served, says the Doctor! (just be<br />
sure to skip the sugar -- that would defeat<br />
the whole point as that causes the liver to<br />
store fat)<br />
"<br />
Here is a recipe for what we call our Mom<br />
Warrior Coffee that?s in that Anti-Tiredness<br />
Diet? book?<br />
Into a blender add:<br />
"<br />
- About 1 tablespoon of unsalted, organic<br />
- Your Coffee<br />
butter<br />
- .5 - 1 tablespoon MCT oil<br />
For added sweetness:<br />
- Cinnamon<br />
- Cocoa powder<br />
- Stevia drops or a couple drops of honey<br />
For some saltiness:<br />
- A pinch of Himalayan Salt. - great way to<br />
get in some added sodium and trace<br />
minerals.<br />
For boosted Hair/Skin/Nails improvement:<br />
- Add some Collagen Peptides<br />
Lots more recipes and Anti-Tiredness fighting<br />
prowess awaits you in that book you can get<br />
for free.<br />
My gift to you so that you can share more of<br />
your Love with your Family. (and because it?s<br />
my Calling the good Lord above has<br />
?purposed? with my life.<br />
Simply click below to claim your free book of<br />
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The Anti-Tiredness Diet? now before it?s too late.<br />
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Stress & Tiredness wants to ruin!<br />
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M om Warrior<br />
Magazine<br />
Producer<br />
Coach Spiegel<br />
Editor<br />
Coach Spiegel<br />
Creative Design<br />
Coach Spiegel (which is why it isn't that good...yet! Not<br />
to worry, Mom Warrior, help is on its way! :)<br />
Letters To The Editor<br />
hi@momwarriorshow.com<br />
Heartfelt Thanks & Special Place In<br />
Our Hearts To:<br />
<strong>Sandy</strong>!<br />
...For loving your Family like you do!<br />
.... being a model for them to follow towards rocking at<br />
life! For being a true Mom Warrior and fighting the good<br />
fight against STRESS & TIREDNESS!<br />
..... for being brave and courageous in standing up to<br />
wrongness, injustice, and the bad guy businesses that<br />
want to STEAL your kids' joy and happiness<br />
....... and making all those lucky to know you! May you<br />
continue to channel your Greatness so that you're kids'<br />
futures will be okay!<br />
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