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(G.D.D. = Guilt y Drained Disease ? a<br />
downward cycled condition where tiredness<br />
leads to more stress?<br />
? .which leads to more tiredness, which leads<br />
to more stress... and so on.<br />
? . Before long, poor Mom is turning into an<br />
hulked monster, can barely get through the<br />
day, and missing out on her loved ones? all<br />
leading to feeling guilty.<br />
--> Which leads to MORE Stress! Which leads to<br />
more TIREDNESS? and on and on, you get the<br />
picture. Not a fun disease to have!)<br />
? but stress also takes away the BEST part of<br />
you. The loving, understanding, appreciative<br />
YOU.<br />
Just like it did for m y Fat her. Who is t he<br />
great est Man I know.<br />
Who I owe just as much of my success to as my<br />
Mother. Stress made his life rough raising us<br />
and led me to not see the amazing Father he is.<br />
All he did for his kids he loved more than<br />
anything.<br />
If you read our article from the first issue, The<br />
Misbehavior & Discipline Cure, you might recall<br />
that ?Contribution?is one of the 6 internal tanks<br />
that?s in kids.<br />
Focus on feeding those 6 internal tanks and<br />
generally most of the misbehaviors and<br />
"<br />
acting outs will get taken care of. (there?s<br />
actually 7 now, as I found another in my<br />
quest to becoming the world?s<br />
awesome-est Stress & Tiredness Expert!<br />
I?ll tell you about it some other time, Mom!<br />
"<br />
Quit distracting me, I?ve got a lesson to<br />
pass onto you about how wonderful you<br />
are first!) :)<br />
That Little girl was wanting to feed her<br />
Contribution internal tank in that story. I?ve<br />
had a pretty high need in that internal tank<br />
too. Although not exactly like that story, I<br />
have been through similar situations.<br />
As your child is becoming their own person<br />
and interacting with the world and finding<br />
their place in it? They are learning it<br />
through their parents.<br />
How a parent interacts with their child<br />
either increases the chances of that<br />
behavior happening again,<br />
Or that child looks to avoid doing that<br />
behavior if it led to pain.<br />
There was an action that Little Girl felt<br />
compelled to do. Nobody had to tell her to<br />
do that. She did it on her own because,<br />
well,<br />
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