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save damsels in distress. You?re that damsel that<br />
we want to save.<br />
Point #2<br />
Us men need jobs to do, but we tend to not like<br />
getting help from you in getting it done. As silly<br />
as that sounds it?s so true. You, in your loving<br />
nature, see that helping as showing your love?<br />
It?s how you show that you care, by helping.<br />
This is one of the more frustrating things about<br />
us men, I admit.<br />
ESPECIALLY when YOU know that you?re right!<br />
(which 99% of the time you are because you<br />
ARE the smarter species, just so you know) ;)<br />
"<br />
THAT KNIGHT IN<br />
THAT STORY WAS<br />
VERY<br />
SELF-CENTERED<br />
"<br />
That?s when complaints start coming in of you<br />
being a nag, when in reality you?re just trying to<br />
help!<br />
Sir Lancelot over in Camelot slayed HIS dragon<br />
without any help. Which means he?s so much<br />
better than me! Uh-oh, is my princess going to<br />
leave me for him!<br />
Then doubts and insecurities come rolling in.<br />
One last point ?<br />
This is the 21st century? a man?s ego needs to<br />
lighten up a bit.<br />
Know that the world doesn?t revolve around him<br />
and ?feeling like a man? all the time.<br />
You give us a job to do, a dragon to slay, and by<br />
slaying that dragon in your honor WITHOUT<br />
help, its what makes us feel capable and our life<br />
now has meaning.<br />
By getting your help, (especially help from a<br />
GIRL) it means that we aren?t worthy of your<br />
love. We are worthless. That you don?t trust us<br />
to get the job done.<br />
Our confidence is shot.<br />
That knight in that story was very self-centered.<br />
Even though it?s a good representation of what?s<br />
going on in a dude?s brain half the time, that story<br />
spoke more to the MAN?S shortcomings than the<br />
woman?s.<br />
The Princess was RIGHT! If she wasn?t given good<br />
instruction, he probably would have died! Instead<br />
of being a jerk and wishing she would just leave<br />
him alone and let him doing his slaying thing, he<br />
could have appreciated her!<br />
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