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If you feel up to it, feel free to turn this into a laughing matter for you two. Over-Exaggerate their facial and bodily manners. If they are whining, you go ahead and whine but whine louder and sound really silly. A great piece of parenting secret is to follow the laughter. The more smiles and laughter that are known to a child, the better it will be for them and the relationship between you two! St ep 4: NOW go ahead and redirect t heir energy :) ?I see you?re so upset right now. I am going to help you calm down. Would you draw for me a picture that shows how mad you are. -or- ?I see you?re so upset right now. Together we are going to do some angry push-ups and get ourselves so strong and tough!? (this one works great for us boys, obviously) ;) (WARNING: t he previous st eps m ight fizzle out t he t ant rum so t here m ight not be any need for st ep 5) St ep 5: Reassure your child. Let t hem know your Love is NEVER on t he line. ?You get as angry as you want, sweetie, nothing you do will ever make me love you less. You have all of my love forever. You know that right? (wait for the nod) Good. Let?s take a break and since you?re such a good problem solver, you tell me what you could have done instead.? No matter what happened in Step 4, whether you are still riding out the emotion together or not, always reminding your child on where he stands with acceptance of your Love is ALWAYS a good idea. Remember, it?s just emotions and she just doesn?t understand them yet. She needs help getting guidance and she is calling to YOU for that help. Just as you were there for your best friend when she got her heart broke. It?s the same level of pain, fear, frustration, and not-knowing going on with your 24 Little one. You?ll do the right thing, I know how wonderful and great you are! :) Now , before you leave m e? ? rem em ber, one of the biggest takeaways you can have from today?s learning experience about tantrums, Mom, is that they are a result of an EMOTION. The behavioral, physical manifestation of something they are experiencing on the inside. It?s important that you pass onto them that they aren?t wrong for feeling the emotion. If they start feeling that?s wrong to be angry and they start bottling up that emotion because it has led to behavior that led to pain given to them by you? ? bottling up emotions and not letting those emotions get felt -- has negative consequences all throughout the rest of their life. So it?s great of you to establish that healthy habit of accepting the emotions as they come. Loving the emotion of laughter, because it?s a behavioral manifestation of joy and happiness, just as much as meltdowns as a
esult of anger and disappointment. You?re a magnificent Mother already, my brave one, strategies and steps like this will only make the greatness and worthiness in you shine all the more! Love you lots more next time! And remember, you're not alone in this fight for your children?s future! 7 25
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