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Church of <strong>St</strong>. Mary the Virgin<br />

Finedon<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

1<br />

Digital Edition


Vicar:<br />

Finedon <strong>Parish</strong> Church: <strong>St</strong> Mary The Virgin<br />

The Revd Richard Coles,<br />

<strong>St</strong> Mary the Virgin Finedon, The Vicarage,<br />

Church Hill, Finedon, Northants, NN9 5NR<br />

01933 681 786, Mobile 07885 967 960<br />

email: revdrichardcoles@yahoo.co.uk<br />

Curate Revd Jane Burns, 01536 524936<br />

Email:janeburns2211@gmail.com<br />

Assistant Honorary Priest Fr Peter Baden,01832 733186<br />

email: p.baden36@btinternet.com<br />

Reader Mr Michael Duncombe, 01536 483935<br />

email: mikeduncombe61@gmail.com<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Clerk<br />

Mrs Gill Foster Tel: 680364 (To whom first<br />

contact for Baptisms and weddings must be<br />

made).<br />

Churchwardens: Mrs Jane Read Tel: 680522<br />

Mr Neil Forster Tel: 682177<br />

PCC Secretary: Mrs Gill Foster Tel: 680364<br />

Treasurer: Mr Andrew Weatherill Tel: 682212<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> Editor: Mrs Janet Millington, Tel: 681161.<br />

email: millingtonjanet@aol.com<br />

(to whom all copy should addressed by<br />

the 15 th of the month prior to publication)<br />

Director of Music Mr Jonathan Harris Tel: 01933 779059,<br />

Mobile 07791 664507<br />

Email: Hjonathan83@aol.com<br />

Deputy Organists<br />

Mrs. Kathy Roberts<br />

Mr Oliver Grigg<br />

Choirmaster: Mr. Bryan Chapman Tel: 398818<br />

Tower Captain Mr Bryan Chapman, Tel 398818<br />

Web Site<br />

www.finedonphotographs.org.uk/<br />

bellringers.html<br />

Archivist<br />

<strong>St</strong> Michael’s Mission Room:<br />

Dr Kaye McClelland, kayemclelland@gmail.com<br />

Bryan & Christine Chapman<br />

Tel: 01933 398818<br />

Times Of Services:<br />

Sundays<br />

8.00 am Holy Eucharist<br />

9.30 am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist.<br />

6.00 pm Evensong (1st Sunday of the Month)


From The Vicarage <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

Another year out, another year in; a turbulent one has passed, and while I<br />

hope a calmer one has arrived, it may be more turbulent still. At the time<br />

of writing I cannot even be sure who the Prime Minister will be, or even<br />

which party, or parties, will be in power, or even if Brexit is happening,<br />

delayed, or avoided. What I can do, however, is state with certainty that I<br />

don’t remember a time when more people felt more uncertain than now.<br />

There are all sorts of reasons or this, not least Brexit, which whatever the<br />

outcome means profound change; but it reflects too, I believe, deep<br />

divisions already there before the Referendum. The result, which surprised<br />

so many at the time, does not seem so surprising now we understand<br />

better how many were left behind by the growing prosperity of the past<br />

twenty years or so, but so unevenly divided between those in the south<br />

east and those in, say, the post industrial north east, or the Cinderella<br />

counties of the midlands, and the south west. The price of that<br />

scandalous neglect is now being paid. When will our sad divisions, to<br />

paraphrase the hymn, cease?<br />

I don’t know; but I do know we have been here before, and we are still<br />

here now, having endured though conflict, and famines, and plague<br />

and impoverishment; and not least in the English Civil War, which tore<br />

through these parts dividing nations, and communities, and families, and<br />

Finedon, who lost its the vicar for his Royalist sympathies to a triumphant<br />

Parliament after the battle of Naseby in 1645.<br />

But we endured, and today the parish church offers, as it has always<br />

offered, the worship due to God, for we know that whatever divides us is<br />

as nothing to the love of Jesus Christ, which heals all wounds, and makes<br />

the divided whole again. <strong>St</strong> Paul, who knew what trouble looked like,<br />

wrote this nearly two thousand years ago:<br />

“Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or<br />

persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? No, in all these<br />

things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am<br />

convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things<br />

present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor<br />

anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of<br />

God in Christ Jesus our Lord”.<br />

Yours in Christ,<br />

Fr Richard.<br />

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Our Worship in <strong>January</strong><br />

Year C<br />

6th Epiphany<br />

Isaiah 60. 1 – 6<br />

Psalm 72<br />

Ephesians 3. 1 – 12<br />

Matthew 2. 1 -1 2<br />

Hymns<br />

83 As with gladness men of old<br />

85 Earth has many a noble city<br />

86 From the eastern mountains<br />

Anthem: Lo, how a Rose e’er<br />

blooming arr. M Praetorius; How<br />

brightly shines the morning star! (88)<br />

90 (Tune <strong>St</strong> Edmund) Songs of<br />

thankfulness and praise<br />

13th Baptism of Christ<br />

Isaiah 43. 1 – 17<br />

Psalm 29<br />

Acts 8. 14- 17<br />

Luke 3. 15 – 17, 21 -22<br />

Hymns<br />

175 Come down, O Love divine<br />

34 On Jordan’s banks the Baptist’s<br />

cry<br />

308 Just as I am, without one plea<br />

93 When Jesus came to Jordan<br />

Anthem: Psalms 98 & 100; Holy Spirit,<br />

come, confirm us (183)<br />

84 Brightest and best of the sons of<br />

the morning<br />

20th 3rd Sunday of Epiphany<br />

Isaiah 62. 1 -5<br />

Psalm 36 5 – 10<br />

1 Corinthians 12. 1 -11<br />

John 2. 1 – 11<br />

Hymns<br />

89 O worship the Lord in the beauty of<br />

holiness<br />

305 I come with joy, a child of God<br />

591 The kingdom of God is justice<br />

and joy<br />

Anthem: Benedictus by Philip Moore;<br />

Give me justice by James Macmillan<br />

87 Hail to the Lord's anointed<br />

27th 4th Sunday of Epiphany<br />

Nehemiah 8.1–3, 5–6, 8–10<br />

Psalm 19<br />

1 Corinthians 12. 12 -31a<br />

Luke 4. 14 – 21<br />

Hymns<br />

516 (Tune Blaenwern) Love divine,<br />

all loves excelling<br />

260 Morning has broken, like the<br />

first morning<br />

369 All people that on earth do dwell<br />

(arr. Vaughan Williams)<br />

Anthem: Ascribe unto the Lord by<br />

S.S.Wesley (opening section); For the<br />

beauty of the earth (253)<br />

353 And did those feet in ancient<br />

time<br />

Organ Voluntaries following the<br />

9.30am services<br />

6th <strong>January</strong><br />

J.S. Bach: Chorale Prelude In dir ist<br />

Freude BWV 615<br />

13th <strong>January</strong><br />

Vincent Lübeck: Praeambulum in G<br />

20th <strong>January</strong><br />

Philip Moore: Paean<br />

27th <strong>January</strong><br />

J.S. Bach: Chorale Prelude Alle<br />

Menschen müssen sterben BWV 643<br />

Epiphany Carol Service<br />

Sunday 6th <strong>January</strong> – 6.00 pm


Floodlight Sponsorship<br />

Correction from the December<br />

magazine with sincere apologies:<br />

18th November<br />

Lorna & John Mears - in memory of<br />

Liam Colin Mears.<br />

2nd December<br />

Sponsored by Mick & Monica Webb.<br />

9th December<br />

Sheira Gee - in memory of her mother<br />

Rene Higham.<br />

16th December<br />

Sponsored by Mick & Monica Webb.<br />

23rd December<br />

Maureen Gorney & Dianne<br />

Desborough - in memory of May<br />

Parker.<br />

Richard Minney & family - in memory<br />

of Lesley Minney (on what would<br />

have been their 34th wedding<br />

anniversary).<br />

Sheila & Paul Harris - to celebrate<br />

their grandchildren Felix, Summer,<br />

Finlay, Magnus & Rowan.<br />

Carole Mitchell - to celebrate Paul’s<br />

special birthday.<br />

Ian, Sue, Irene & Susan - in memory<br />

of a dear mum Evelyn Collis.<br />

The grandchildren & great<br />

grandchildren - in memory of a dear<br />

Nan Evelyn Collis.<br />

30th December<br />

Carole & Paul Mitchell - in memory of<br />

all deceased family members as we<br />

go forward into another new year.<br />

Dianne & David Desborough & family<br />

- in memory of Doris Emerton.<br />

£40.00 for the Church and the rest of<br />

the raffle money went to the<br />

Children’s society.<br />

Finedon Senior Citizens<br />

Friendship Committee<br />

Thank you for all the donations to the<br />

Finedon Christmas parcel fund<br />

(Finedon Senior Citizens friendship<br />

Committee). 384 parcels were<br />

gratefully received of which 8 were<br />

deferred to the local food bank.<br />

Next year the parcels contents will be<br />

changed, we will have a more<br />

organised collection and an option to<br />

send parcels direct to food bank, if<br />

requested.<br />

Heartfelt thanks, Neil Forster ,on<br />

behalf of FSCFC committee<br />

Epiphany Evensong<br />

There will be an Epiphany Evensong<br />

in <strong>St</strong> Mary’s Church on Sunday 6th<br />

<strong>January</strong> at 6.00 pm.<br />

The service will be followed by light<br />

refreshments.<br />

Irish Blessing for the<br />

New Year<br />

May your troubles be less<br />

May your blessings be more.<br />

And nothing but happiness<br />

Come through your Door.<br />

Christmas Tree Festival<br />

Thank you to those who organised,<br />

acted as <strong>St</strong>ewards, donated and<br />

helped with the Christmas Tree<br />

Festival and Band Concert.<br />

The weekend raised £588.69.<br />

Velma’s Teddy Bear raffle raised<br />

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Wishing everyone a<br />

very happy and<br />

peaceful new year


Mothers Union<br />

We will start the New Year with a<br />

service followed by our AGM when a<br />

committee will take over the running of<br />

the branch from the retiring Branch<br />

Leader.<br />

This meeting will be held in the<br />

Mission Room on Tuesday 8th<br />

<strong>January</strong> at 2.00pm.<br />

Anyone wishing to come along will be<br />

made most welcome.<br />

For my part I would like to thank all the<br />

members for the tremendous support<br />

I’ve received from them during my<br />

many years as Branch Leader.<br />

A huge thank you also for the most<br />

generous gift they presented me with<br />

at our Christmas lunch, which came as<br />

a great surprise.<br />

I now wish the branch and its new<br />

committee every success for the<br />

future, as I look forward to sitting on<br />

the back row!<br />

God bless Mary<br />

Mary Shipton<br />

Thank you and well done Mary for the<br />

18 years that you have led the<br />

Mother’s Union here in Finedon as the<br />

Enrolling Member.<br />

Thank you Mary for all the hard work<br />

that has gone into making the<br />

Mother’s Union a vibrant and<br />

enjoyable organisation in Finedon with<br />

an interesting and varied programme<br />

every month.<br />

Thank you Mary for your long<br />

commitment to the Mother’s Union.<br />

We wish you a Happy Retirement and<br />

may the new committee spend many<br />

happy and fruitful years in the<br />

future. Mother’s Union meets the first<br />

Tuesday afternoon in the month in the<br />

Mission Room. All are welcome.<br />

Jane Read<br />

Wassail and Christmas<br />

Draw<br />

Congratulations to all those involved in<br />

the Wassail Evening and Christmas<br />

Draw. The Draw raised £700.00 A<br />

beautiful display of prizes and so<br />

many of them too - very well done.<br />

Thank you to all who worked together<br />

to make the evening a success - too<br />

many to name here.<br />

The Wassail evening raised £265.00<br />

Thank you to all who supported and to<br />

John and Colin from the Bowls Club<br />

who were most helpful.<br />

Finedon Scout Group<br />

A huge thank you to all the Finedon<br />

residents who kindly donated to the<br />

Finedon Scout Groups Santa float.<br />

We had a fantastic response of just<br />

over £1,300 which will go towards<br />

supporting our 6 to 18 year old young<br />

people.<br />

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year<br />

National Gardens<br />

Scheme<br />

The garden will be open at 67-69 High<br />

<strong>St</strong>reet on:<br />

Sunday 24th February - Snowdrops<br />

and Helebores.<br />

11.00 am - 3.00 pm, £3.50 entrance<br />

which includes homemade soup and<br />

a roll.<br />

Sundays 2nd & 30th June<br />

2.00 - 6.00 pm. Cream Teas available<br />

combined with The Vicarage on<br />

30th June only.<br />

Mary and <strong>St</strong>uart Hendry


Finedon Local History<br />

Society<br />

We start <strong>2019</strong> with a talk by Peter<br />

Austin on the “History and Founding<br />

of the Northamptonshire Film Archive<br />

Trust (with some film footage from<br />

their collection).<br />

The evening will be held in the<br />

Mission Room, Well <strong>St</strong>reet, Finedon<br />

on Monday 28th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong> at<br />

7.30pm.<br />

Admission to the evening will be<br />

£2.50 for members and £3.50 for<br />

non-members.<br />

Afterwards light refreshments will be<br />

served. All are welcome to attend.<br />

Church Monthly Draw<br />

The results of the December church<br />

monthly draw are as follows:<br />

Total receipts of £242.00 are divided<br />

equally between the winners and the<br />

church funds<br />

Winning numbers for the December<br />

monthly draw are:<br />

1st prize 89 £60.50<br />

2nd prize 37 £36.30<br />

3rd prize 31 £24.20<br />

If you would like to join the monthly<br />

draw (£1.00 per share per month)<br />

which takes place in the church on<br />

the first Sunday of the month, please<br />

contact Kathy Hobbs on 01933<br />

398794.<br />

entertainment from Colin Hill who will<br />

talk about 'Dancing with Diana', and a<br />

Grand Raffle.<br />

A charge of £5.00 for the evening will<br />

include raffle tickets.<br />

This is a members only event, but if<br />

you would like information about the<br />

Guild, please call 01933 680209.<br />

<strong>St</strong> Marys Thursday Club<br />

The committee would like to wish all<br />

its members a Very Happy New Year.<br />

Our next meeting will be held on<br />

Thursday 24th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong>.<br />

We will be having a Surprise Bingo<br />

and will meet at the Band Club at<br />

7.45 pm for a 8.00 pm start.<br />

Anyone wishing to join us will be<br />

made very welcome. We hope to see<br />

you all at our <strong>January</strong>'s meeting.<br />

Townswomen’s Guild<br />

Finedon Townswomen's Guild will be<br />

celebrating the New Year with a party<br />

in the Town Hall at 7.30 on<br />

3rd <strong>January</strong>.<br />

There will be soup and a sweet<br />

provided by the committee,<br />

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<strong>St</strong>ar Coffee House,<br />

Institute and Hall<br />

(continued)<br />

With the building of the Institute the<br />

Trustees had to look for income<br />

streams, in addition to the<br />

membership fees, in order to service<br />

the loan that had been taken out to<br />

build the Institute and also to cover<br />

running costs and repairs of the two<br />

buildings.<br />

John Bailey, in his book “Finedon<br />

otherwise Thingdon” said that the<br />

Coffee House had been built and<br />

paid for by Mr Mackworth Dolben and<br />

then a trust was set up to run the<br />

building. Sources indicate that the<br />

Institute building was built by the<br />

Trustees using a loan to finance it. If<br />

this building was financed in the<br />

same way as the later brick building<br />

then it was financed with a bank loan<br />

that was arranged through either Mrs<br />

or Miss Mackworth Dolben, who both<br />

had great interest in the <strong>St</strong>ar complex<br />

and in the temperance movement.<br />

These ladies opened the gardens at<br />

Finedon Hall, as a fund raiser to start<br />

the repayment of the loan, even<br />

before the Institute had been officially<br />

open in 1884.<br />

Along with the anticipated increased<br />

membership and the accompanying<br />

extra fees the Trustees looked for<br />

ways of using the space in the<br />

Institute building to generate a<br />

regular income. Within the Institute<br />

building there was a large downstairs<br />

room that is often referred to as the<br />

<strong>St</strong>ar Hall, the name that was later<br />

transferred to the newer brick built<br />

hall. This earlier <strong>St</strong>ar Hall became a<br />

regular venue for a number of<br />

different functions and meetings, but<br />

it is one particular usage that I will<br />

concentrate on now. It was the use<br />

of, or requests to use, this room that<br />

caused the Trustees to have conflict<br />

with the principles of temperance,<br />

and also the beliefs of their main<br />

benefactors the ladies Mackworth<br />

Dolben.<br />

In October 1886 Mrs Bland, of<br />

Wellingborough, had been allowed to<br />

rent the hall for dancing classes.<br />

The Northampton Mercury of 18 th<br />

December 1886 reported that an<br />

Invitation Ball had been held in the<br />

<strong>St</strong>ar Hall on the previous Monday<br />

evening in connection with the<br />

dancing classes, and a portion of the<br />

Dolben Brass Band had also been in<br />

attendance. Unfortunately nothing<br />

further of the dancing classes was<br />

reported in the newspapers, and by<br />

the time the Resolutions Book picks<br />

up the story of the Institute in<br />

October 1887 there is no mention of<br />

dancing classes being available.<br />

What happened to them? It is<br />

possible that interest just faded, or<br />

there may be an indication of what<br />

happened when attempts were made<br />

in the 1890s to re-introduce this<br />

attraction.<br />

The Trustees rejected a request from<br />

Mr Wallington and company in<br />

November 1891 to hire a room for<br />

dancing classes. There was<br />

obviously some conflict between the


principles of temperance and dancing<br />

classes as on 4 th May 1894 the<br />

Northants Temperance and Band of<br />

Hope Union met at Burton Latimer,<br />

and the Revd. T. <strong>St</strong>ephens spoke at<br />

length about the perils of drink and<br />

entertainment that often accompanied<br />

it. On dancing classes he had the<br />

following to say “These classes did<br />

more harm than good. In many of<br />

them very late hours were kept, and<br />

he knew of cases where young<br />

women owed their downfall to them.<br />

There were many loose dancing<br />

classes, with low moral tone about<br />

them, and from these nothing but evil<br />

could arise.”<br />

There must have been some<br />

indication that dancing classes were<br />

going to be considered in the Hall<br />

later in the decade as Mr McAllister<br />

and Mr Wilford, both Trustees, had an<br />

interview with Miss Mackworth Dolben<br />

and her cousin Miss Mackworth in<br />

February 1897 about public dances at<br />

the <strong>St</strong>ar. The ladies opinions were<br />

recorded as follows “that Miss M-D,<br />

whilst not being at all favourable to<br />

public dances feels that under the<br />

present circumstances it would be<br />

wise for the Trustees to allow<br />

occasional dances. Miss M-D at the<br />

same time expressed great objection<br />

to the <strong>St</strong>ar being utilised for dancing<br />

classes, she also expressed a desire<br />

that the Trustees should prohibit<br />

smoking in the large room whenever<br />

ladies are present.”<br />

It was in this light that in October<br />

1898 Miss Paul applied to use the<br />

facilities for her dancing classes, after<br />

a short discussion it was decided not<br />

to let the room for this purpose. The<br />

Miss Paul concerned was either the<br />

daughter or the sister of the Vicar<br />

who was also Chairman of the<br />

Trustees, and the following reply to<br />

her request was sent on behalf of the<br />

Trustees. “The Trustees of the <strong>St</strong>ar<br />

Hall regret very much that they<br />

cannot grant you the use of the new<br />

room for your class, but have recently<br />

refused the application of Messrs<br />

York and Ellson they feel that for the<br />

present it would not be wise to open<br />

the room for the above named<br />

purpose.”<br />

Although there is evidence of the Hall<br />

being used for dances, there is no<br />

record of any further requests for<br />

dancing classes to be held there.<br />

Next time hear about those men and<br />

women who had the day to day<br />

running of the <strong>St</strong>ar complex.<br />

VALENTINE BARN DANCE<br />

Saturday 16th February <strong>2019</strong><br />

doors 7.00 pm for 7.30pm<br />

at<br />

Finedon Community Centre,<br />

Wellingborough Rd. NN9 5LG<br />

Dancing to KELLY’S EYE<br />

live band with caller<br />

Tickets £10 including Chicken<br />

or Veggie burger & chips<br />

from<br />

Pam: 01933 398377 or email:<br />

finedoncommunitycetre@gmail.com<br />

Licensed Bar and great raffle.<br />

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Finedon Town Council<br />

Clerk: Mrs Julia Tufnail<br />

Office Hours: Monday-Friday Mornings<br />

51 Market Road, Thrapston, Northants<br />

NN14 4JT<br />

Telephone 07410 633544<br />

Email:<br />

clerk@finedontowncouncil.gov.uk<br />

Website:<br />

www.finedontowncouncil.gov.uk<br />

Your Councillors:<br />

Laurence Harper Chairman<br />

Terry Kendall-Torry, Vice Chair &<br />

Planning<br />

Malcolm Ward, also WBC<br />

Barbara Bailey, also WBC<br />

Sally Farrell, Gill Spencer,<br />

Gordon Swann, <strong>St</strong>uart Cooper,<br />

Andrew Weatherill, Mike Bentley,<br />

Dennis Willmott, Ray Ogle, Louise<br />

Lawrence<br />

Proposed Health Centre Closure<br />

As you know, Finedon’s petition was<br />

delivered to Parliament by Peter Bone<br />

MP who is keeping a close eye on<br />

developments having been in contact<br />

with both the practice and the<br />

Department of Health about the<br />

matter.<br />

The Council will keep you informed as<br />

more information becomes available.<br />

Pocket Park<br />

The Council has approached<br />

Wellingborough Borough Council<br />

asking that they transfer ownership of<br />

the Pocket Park to them. The Council<br />

has managed the Pocket Park since<br />

1985 and feels that it is more than<br />

capable of continuing to look after it<br />

should WBC see their way to<br />

transferring ownership.<br />

A recent fallen tree has been<br />

removed as it was blocking the<br />

pathway.<br />

The meeting dates for <strong>2019</strong> have<br />

been set as follows<br />

16th <strong>January</strong><br />

20th February<br />

27th March<br />

8th May (AGM & Annual <strong>Parish</strong><br />

Meeting)<br />

19th June<br />

24th July<br />

4th September<br />

16th October<br />

27th November<br />

The meeting on 16th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

will set the budget and precept<br />

request for the next year and you are<br />

more than welcome to attend.<br />

As usual, please feel free to contact<br />

the Council should you have anything<br />

you wish to bring to their attention.<br />

Providing it is within the Council’s<br />

remit, we will try our best to make<br />

Finedon a better place to live.<br />

With best wishes for the New Year.<br />

Julia Tufnail<br />

Clerk, Finedon Town Council<br />

<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

Finedon Over 60s<br />

We meet every Wednesday at the<br />

Bowls Club, Wellingborough Road at<br />

1.45 pm until 3.30 pm. We have tea/<br />

coffee and biscuits with<br />

entertainment, bingo and speakers.<br />

Admission is £1.00 plus 20p raffle .<br />

<strong>January</strong> Programme<br />

9th Bingo<br />

16th Jane Osbourne, Poetry and<br />

Magic<br />

23rd Games afternoon<br />

30th Nick Oram, keyboard<br />

entertainment<br />

We look forward to seeing you there.


In My Day<br />

the ramblings of Hubert James<br />

In my day it was about this time of<br />

year that after the excesses of last<br />

month things calmed down. We’d look<br />

for gentler entertainment to fill in until<br />

pantomime at the end of the month.<br />

Course, in those days entertainment<br />

was limited especially when the<br />

weather turned bad and days were<br />

shorter than the attention span of a<br />

teenager.<br />

What we did have was Board Games.<br />

They were called that because you<br />

played them when you were bored.<br />

We had all the traditional ones like<br />

Snakes and Ladders, Ludo and<br />

Draughts. Then there were card<br />

games like Whist, Pontoon, Beat Your<br />

Neighbour and Old Maid. Not<br />

surprisingly Happy Families wasn’t so<br />

popular straight after Christmas<br />

locked in a room with your nearest<br />

and dearest.<br />

But head and shoulders above all<br />

these stood Monopoly. Well I say<br />

Monopoly, but buying the actual game<br />

was a bit expensive. Ironically, if you<br />

were good at the game you were<br />

probably careful with your money so<br />

might not buy your own board<br />

anyway.<br />

This was where the Parker Brothers<br />

came in. Karl and Reg used to get<br />

frustrated in winter because they were<br />

keen walkers, ramblers really and<br />

they couldn’t get out. So to give<br />

themselves something to do at home<br />

they invented ‘Finedopoly’.<br />

Yes, remember? It was a bit different.<br />

The board was a flattened cardboard<br />

box and the pieces were made of<br />

Plasticene. We had; a boot, flat cap,<br />

thimble, Austin 7, rowing boat.<br />

There were all the local streets but<br />

instead of railway stations you had<br />

pubs; The Mulso, The Prince, The<br />

Dolben and The Bell. And rather than<br />

building houses and hotels it was<br />

houses and shoe factories. Water<br />

Works became Water Tower<br />

You got £200 for passing Finedon<br />

Hall. Now because there was no jail if<br />

you picked the wrong Chance card<br />

you had to “go to Burton”, go directly<br />

to Burton do not pass Finedon Hall.<br />

Do not collect £200”. We had hours of<br />

fun until Betty Mangle who invented<br />

Monopoly threatened to sue the<br />

brothers and they had to pack up.<br />

She sent them a letter full of strange<br />

words they’d never heard of. It sent<br />

them scrabbling for a big dictionary. It<br />

did give them an idea for a new game<br />

called ‘Wordable’ where you had a<br />

half a dozen letters and you had to<br />

make up words with 2 or 3 letters that<br />

nobody had heard of. It wasn’t a<br />

success, although, a chap called Alf<br />

Butts tweaked the idea and made a<br />

fortune.<br />

What was rather lovely was that to<br />

recognise the Parker’s contribution to<br />

Finedon history the <strong>Parish</strong> Council<br />

named a new road after them;<br />

Walkers Way. We already had<br />

Parkers Terrace named after a<br />

famous chauffeur.<br />

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Mental health in the diocese, the Church and beyond<br />

W<br />

ith one in four of the<br />

population likely to<br />

experience a mental health<br />

condition at some point in<br />

their lives, work in this field has never<br />

been more important. One of those<br />

working within this diocese in mental<br />

health support is Revd Philip Evans,<br />

the Lead Chaplain at <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s<br />

Healthcare, a specialist mental<br />

healthcare charity based in<br />

Northampton.<br />

“I work alongside colleagues,<br />

chaplains and volunteers, from a<br />

variety of faiths and traditions, and our<br />

role is to serve patients, staff and<br />

visitors – of all faiths and of no faith –<br />

offering spiritual and pastoral care,”<br />

explains Philip. “We work with many<br />

people who are vulnerable, unwell and<br />

who have been through traumatic or<br />

painful experiences, and our hope is to<br />

bring care, compassion and healing.”<br />

“At <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s I look after our<br />

CAMHS (child and adolescent mental<br />

health services) for young people at<br />

FitzRoy House in Northampton, our<br />

adult Autistic Spectrum Disorder wards<br />

in Northampton and our hospital in<br />

Mansfield, which cares for adult men<br />

with autism or learning disabilities –<br />

some 200 patients<br />

in all.”<br />

FitzRoy House is the largest mental<br />

health charity for young people in<br />

Europe, and there are other initiatives<br />

across the diocese which have<br />

emerged over the last few years.<br />

These include Renew Wellbeing cafés,<br />

where churches partner with with<br />

mental health professionals and<br />

provide spaces for people to chat and<br />

reflect.<br />

“The Renew Wellbeing cafés are a<br />

wonderful concept – places of<br />

friendship and belonging, where it is ok<br />

to be not ok, rooted in a framework and<br />

pattern of prayer,” says Philip. “There<br />

are local cafés now in Northampton<br />

town centre, Kingsthorpe, Earls Barton<br />

and Towcester, with others in prospect.<br />

But every single parish or other ministry<br />

in the diocese will be addressing mental<br />

health and wellbeing needs in some<br />

way.”<br />

One of the ways in which this is<br />

happening is training events. The<br />

Diocesan Evangelical Fellowship<br />

invited Philip and Dr David Smart to<br />

speak at <strong>St</strong> Giles Church, Northampton<br />

in November on ‘Christian ministry to<br />

those with mental health issues’, which<br />

proved to be a helpful exercise.<br />

“We were very pleased to be invited to<br />

the DEF, encouraged by the wish to<br />

reflect biblically and theologically on this<br />

area of ministry, but with an emphasis<br />

on practical issues. The good numbers<br />

attending showed that these are matters<br />

of concern to many who wish to be –<br />

and for the Church to be – caring and of<br />

effective help in ministry.”


Training events are also planned for the<br />

coming year, courtesy of the Diocesan<br />

Healing Ministry Group, which Philip is<br />

part of.<br />

“We are going to be running a training<br />

day for clergy at <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s on Tuesday<br />

19th March, giving practical help for<br />

churches in responding to mental health<br />

concerns. There will also be a day-long<br />

conference at Christ the King, Kettering<br />

on Saturday 19th October, with main<br />

speaker Becky Harcourt (from New Wine),<br />

addressing emotional pain and hurts. I am<br />

especially keen that we help churches<br />

develop good healing ministry practice in<br />

these areas.”<br />

These diocesan initiatives in the area of<br />

mental health is a reflection of the work<br />

taking place nationally in the Church.<br />

Mind and Soul is a Christian organisation<br />

specialising in the area of mental health,<br />

with a range of articles, videos and advice<br />

on its website<br />

(www.mindandsoulfoundation.org/). There<br />

is also the FaithAction ‘Friendly Places’<br />

scheme where churches can sign up to<br />

commit to being places which support<br />

people with mental health issues<br />

(www.faithaction.net/) . Philip is keen,<br />

though, that the Church doesn’t just limit<br />

this work to Christians.<br />

“I’m keen that the Church always sees<br />

its mission and ministry as being ‘out<br />

there’, giving special attention to the one<br />

who is lost, perhaps above the 99 who are<br />

safe,” he says. “GPs and the Church need<br />

to help and be<br />

helped by each<br />

other. Schools too<br />

are in the front line,<br />

with designated<br />

mental health<br />

leads being<br />

appointed: there is<br />

huge scope for the<br />

Church’s children’s<br />

and youth<br />

ministries to<br />

engage with<br />

wellbeing issues.”<br />

This bridging of<br />

the gap between<br />

helping those who<br />

attend or do not<br />

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attend church has been helped by the fact<br />

that Bishop Donald speaks for the Church<br />

of England on mental health issues in the<br />

House of Lords.<br />

“Bishop Donald has challenged the<br />

Government to take direct responsibility<br />

for delivering on and being accountable<br />

for its promises in the mental health area,”<br />

explains Philip. “He has also spoken<br />

about mental health chaplaincy, citing in<br />

particular what the Royal College of<br />

Psychiatrists has done in highlighting the<br />

importance of spiritual care, and<br />

essentially saying that chaplaincy<br />

resources need to match the great needs<br />

in society.”<br />

So there is still work to be done, but<br />

important inroads have been made in the<br />

area of mental health, which Philip hopes<br />

will continue<br />

to grow.<br />

“My hope is that mental healthcare<br />

professionals will recognise the<br />

demonstrated value and place of faith and<br />

spirituality in securing healthcare<br />

outcomes for patients. Similarly, I hope<br />

and am sure that the Church will grow<br />

more alert and responsive to mental<br />

health needs – being accessible,<br />

sensitive, caring and giving ‘parity of<br />

esteem’ in its ministry and mission to all.”


What does the New Year hold for us?<br />

2018 was a fabulous year at<br />

the Cathedral. We marked our<br />

900th anniversary in some<br />

style, with the high point<br />

undoubtedly coming with the visit of<br />

the Soyuz space capsule, which<br />

attracted almost 180,000 visitors<br />

during its three month stay – many<br />

more visitors than we normally get in<br />

a whole year! Those who came were<br />

attracted by a piece of modern<br />

technology but discovered in the<br />

process our extraordinary building –<br />

in its own day, a magnificent example<br />

of contemporary engineering and a<br />

triumph of the human imagination.<br />

They also encountered a living<br />

building and a house of prayer, and it<br />

was striking just how many people lit<br />

candles, left prayers or engaged in<br />

conversation with our clergy and<br />

voluntary chaplains. In hosting the<br />

capsule, there were many striking<br />

juxtapositions – ancient and modern;<br />

monumental architecture and a<br />

surprisingly fragile piece of high tech;<br />

science and religion. We found<br />

ourselves looking back over our<br />

history and asking questions about<br />

our future and what values will<br />

sustain humanity in the generations<br />

to come.<br />

As a Cathedral community, we have<br />

also been reflecting on our vision and<br />

values. What is our core purpose and<br />

how will we shape our future mission<br />

and ministry in a way that does<br />

justice to our context, as well as<br />

reflecting the universal truths of God’s<br />

love that our Cathedral was built to<br />

celebrate and witness to? Like all<br />

Christian churches, we exist to share<br />

the love of God in Jesus Christ, affirm<br />

life in all its fullness and draw others<br />

into a relationship with him. But we<br />

have a particular history, a distinctive<br />

calling and unique opportunities to<br />

make that purpose<br />

a reality.<br />

We are, for example, exploring<br />

how our spiritual roots in<br />

Benedictine monasticism – with its<br />

emphasis on a rhythm of prayer, a<br />

high sense of welcome and<br />

Christian hospitality, and a<br />

commitment to learning and<br />

service – might shape our ministry<br />

today. And what values might<br />

underpin such priorities –<br />

generosity perhaps, inclusivity,<br />

integrity, joy? How do these play<br />

out in our very diverse city and our<br />

sprawling complex diocese?<br />

We are not in the business of<br />

making glib New Year’s<br />

resolutions, but we are committing<br />

ourselves to think, pray and<br />

explore; to share with and listen to<br />

our congregations, partners,<br />

visitors and neighbours as we work<br />

out where we might be in the years<br />

to come (always allowing for God<br />

to surprise us, of course). This time<br />

last year, we had made all kinds of<br />

plans...and then came the Soyuz,<br />

so who knows what God has in<br />

store for us? What we do know is<br />

that Christ is faithful, the Alpha and<br />

the Omega, the one who was and<br />

is and is to come, and at the<br />

beginning of <strong>2019</strong> it is into his<br />

hands that we commit ourselves –<br />

all that we are and all that we shall<br />

be.<br />

The Very Revd Chris Dalliston,<br />

Dean of Peterborough


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

3rd<br />

6th<br />

8th<br />

15th<br />

24th<br />

26th/<br />

31st<br />

28th<br />

29th<br />

February<br />

1st/<br />

2nd<br />

4th<br />

7th<br />

16th<br />

25th<br />

March<br />

4th<br />

TG Town Hall, New Year Party with Soup &<br />

Sweet<br />

6pm Epiphany Carol Service, <strong>St</strong> Mary’s<br />

Church.<br />

2pm Mothers Union, AGM, Mission Room<br />

9.45 Coffee Morning,, Bowls Club<br />

11-3pm Nation Garden Scheme 67-69 High<br />

<strong>St</strong>reet<br />

Finedon, Pantomime week, <strong>St</strong>ar Hall<br />

7.30 History Society, Mission Room, History<br />

& founding of the Northamptonshire Film<br />

Archive Trust.<br />

9.45 Coffee Morning, Bowls Club<br />

Last day of Finedon Pantomime<br />

RBL Branch quiz night, Bowls Club<br />

7.30 TG, Town Hall, Roy Smart<br />

‘Amy Wonderful Amy’<br />

Valentine Barn Dance, Community Centre<br />

7.30 History Society, Mission Room,<br />

Michael Brown, Death in the Garden<br />

RBL Blood Couriers & Other emergencies Mr<br />

Kamran Irani, Bowls Club<br />

April<br />

1st<br />

4th<br />

15th<br />

29th<br />

May<br />

June<br />

RBL Away with the fairies, Kevin Varty,<br />

Bowls Club<br />

7.30 TG, Town Hall, James Burton, An<br />

Antiques Valuation evening<br />

7.30 History Society, Mission Room,<br />

Douglas Goddard, The history of the postcard<br />

RBL Bowls Club, Quiz Night<br />

RBL Bingo & Supper night (tbc)<br />

2nd 2-6pm National Garden Scheme 67-69<br />

High <strong>St</strong>reet<br />

3rd<br />

RBL, Bowls Club, History of the Music Hall,<br />

Colin Ray<br />

30th 2-6pm National Garden Scheme 67-69<br />

High <strong>St</strong>reet & the Vicarage.<br />

July<br />

1st<br />

August<br />

5th<br />

September<br />

2nd<br />

October<br />

7th<br />

November<br />

RBL Bowls Club, Battlefields, Terry<br />

Whenham<br />

RBL, Bowls Club, Quiz night<br />

RBL, Bowls Club, Fish & Chip Supper<br />

RBL Bowls Club, My Life, Jason de-Vaux<br />

7th<br />

25th<br />

7.30 TG, AGM, Adrian Cale ‘Nostalgia’, The<br />

ramblings of Hubert James<br />

7,30 History Society, Mission Room, Tom<br />

Watts, The history of Finedon<br />

Cinemas and the Watts family<br />

4th RBL, Bowls Club, AGM<br />

December<br />

2nd RBL, Bowls Club, Quiz<br />

6th RBL, Bowls Club, Christmas Party<br />

<strong>St</strong> Michael’s Mission Room, Well <strong>St</strong>reet, Finedon<br />

Available for hire weekdays, Saturdays & Sundays.<br />

Suitable for most social functions, charitable events, children's parties (no late<br />

discos)<br />

For all enquiries and information contact<br />

Bryan & Christine Chapman Tel: 01933 398818<br />

Email: bryanchapman2@aol.com<br />

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