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The momentum of Powerful Choices, This month's issue features Howard Lim, Dr. Marissa Pei, Dr. Anissa McNiel and many others including the top 7 restaurants in New York during the Holidays.
The momentum of Powerful Choices, This month's issue features Howard Lim, Dr. Marissa Pei, Dr. Anissa McNiel and many others including the top 7 restaurants in New York during the Holidays.
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I am the one that<br />
makes the bread, weaves the fabric,<br />
creates the peace, negotiates the smiles,<br />
shuts it down and wakes it all back up.<br />
I am the Swiss Army Knife of mankind.<br />
I am the one that gives birth<br />
and keeps life goingwhether<br />
I have to nudge it with my heart,<br />
my mind, my blood or my foot!<br />
I keep the bass rhythm of life moving.<br />
I am that female that executes<br />
the needed, the necessary<br />
and the fantastic.<br />
I am THAT female executive.<br />
-Althea Ledford<br />
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From the Editor’s Desk<br />
Welcome to this issue of E The <strong>Magazine</strong> for Today’s Female Executive.<br />
This month’s theme is: “The Power of GO!”<br />
Have you ever come to a complete stop? Stopped going to school, stopped working on<br />
your business, stopped taking care of yourself, stopped exercising or any series of<br />
stops?<br />
If you've ever stopped something with the intention of getting back to it, did you? The<br />
odds of picking back up where you left off are never in your favor. The trick is to keep going.<br />
Momentum is a powerful force when mixed with the right ingredients.<br />
Every great accomplishment is riddled with challenge, opposition, preparation and a<br />
number of obstacles “average” mindsets would succumb to. But YOU are not average so<br />
we don’t expect YOU to quit or trick yourself into a soft quit aka “on hold” or suspension”.<br />
Fortune favors the bold”.<br />
Everyone has a busy schedule, so here are some other options to help you avoid stopping:<br />
1) slow down, 2) recalculate you priorities, 3) stream line your processes or 4) call<br />
in the troops for help. I'm going to circle that last option of calling in the troops. That can<br />
be everything ranging from, passing out chores to the family, shared responsibilities,<br />
carving out time for you just as if you were going into the office. And most importantly,<br />
setting up boundaries.<br />
Voids have a funny way of being filled. If you release yourself from something you wanted<br />
to finish, that extra time will be filled up with something else-thus pushing you even<br />
further from your goals. Don’t give space to anything that will delay, detour or distract<br />
you. These little foxes kill, steal and destroy the birthing process of a vision.<br />
Stay on point, keep focus and press towards the mark of excellence. The power of<br />
momentum is in your favor.<br />
I hope you enjoy this issue.<br />
-Althea Ledford<br />
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Living Fearlessly with Lisa<br />
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WHY<br />
DR. MARISSA?<br />
Ph.D. credentialed<br />
expertise<br />
but supremely<br />
down to earth and<br />
relatable, with a<br />
broad reach<br />
across topics and<br />
fields, from Leadership<br />
Effectiveness<br />
to Hope and<br />
Happiness, from<br />
Diversity and<br />
Teamwork (Why<br />
Can’t we JUST<br />
GET ALONG?!) to 8 Ways to Happiness from<br />
Wherever You Are, from Branding and Marketing<br />
to Self-Development (Be the Best that<br />
You can Be and Broadcast it!) and for special<br />
groups including Women, People of Color and<br />
Entrepreneurs (Calling the BS Belief Systems<br />
that Help and Hurt the Entrepreneur/Leader/<br />
Women/PoC in Business). Thanks to her decades<br />
of experiential experience with public,<br />
private, government and international organizations,<br />
Dr. Marissa also has the ability to tailor<br />
any talk/program to ensure that the takeaways<br />
are relevant and translatable from theory/concepts<br />
to positive changes in the individual<br />
and organization.<br />
Diverse, woman of color so your speaker lineup<br />
can reflect your valuing of diversity, Dr.<br />
Marissa balances out young and old, black<br />
and white, professional and personal, work<br />
and play, real and optimistic, because it’s all<br />
about BALANCE for Hope and Happiness.<br />
She is recognizable with her honorable moniker<br />
as the ‘Asian Oprah’, and Dr. Marissa was<br />
actually introduced to Oprah as such by Dr.<br />
Michael Bernard Beckwith who is gave her<br />
the nickname.<br />
Seasoned sought-after speaker on<br />
large and small stages, Dr. Marissa has<br />
motivated people all over the US Europe<br />
and Asia, including at the LA Convention<br />
Center Small Business Vendor<br />
Fair (Frank Mottek from KFI who MC’d<br />
the event said “I’ve never seen a gathering<br />
of 5000 people quiet down so<br />
quickly and listen with so much attention<br />
as soon as Dr. Pei started speaking!”),<br />
Amgen Pharmaceutical National<br />
Conference in Seattle, Toyota National<br />
HR conference in New Orleans, Wells<br />
Fargo National Event at the Kodak<br />
Theater with fellow speaker William<br />
Shatner/Captain James T. Kirk, Women’s<br />
Economic Forum New Delhi India,<br />
and the University of Shanghai, China<br />
to name a few.<br />
Consulting Organizational Psychologist<br />
for past 25+ years with Fortune 100+<br />
companies like Johnson & Johnson,<br />
Mastercard, Wells Fargo, Cedars-Sinai,<br />
AT&T, Mattel, LA County, Toyota &<br />
Bank of America for with More Joy and<br />
less Stress at work…through strategic<br />
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planning, teamwork, valuing diversity,<br />
managing change, improving<br />
communication, appreciation, conflict<br />
resolution and executive coaching<br />
for the technically brilliant interpersonally<br />
challenged leaders in the<br />
organization. Former professor at<br />
UCLA Anderson School of Management,<br />
Boston University and the<br />
European Business School, Dr.<br />
Marissa taught Organization Development,<br />
Managerial Interpersonal<br />
Communication, Conflict Management<br />
and HR graduate level courses<br />
and co-authored a bestselling<br />
business text with Dr. Fred Massarik<br />
UCLA Professor Emeritus<br />
“Organization Development<br />
and Consulting: Perspectives and<br />
Foundations” Pfeiffer.<br />
Celebrity Host/On-Air Personality<br />
with an impressive track record interviewing<br />
A-Level Celebrities on<br />
the Carpet and on her show like<br />
John Travolta, Halle Berry, Quincy<br />
Jones, bestselling authors Dr. John<br />
Gray, Marianne Williamson, Neale<br />
Donald Walsch, Geneen Roth, Don<br />
Miguel Ruiz, TV icons Potsie and<br />
Mrs. C. from Happy Days Anson Williams<br />
and Marion Ross, Fran Drescher, Corey<br />
Feldman and Music greats Supremes<br />
Scherrie Payne, Toni Tennille, ShaNaNa,<br />
Jefferson Starship Cathy Richardson,<br />
Santana Andy Vargas, Keiko Matsui and<br />
Dave Koz, Olympic Gold Medalists Shannon<br />
Miller and Laurie Hernandez, famous<br />
fathers Laila Ali and Kerri Kasem,<br />
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Humanitarians and Activists Ric O’Berry (The<br />
Cove) and CNN Hero Bruno Serato to name a<br />
very small portion of the 318 unique consecutive<br />
weeks of show and Red Carpet guests<br />
over the past 5 years. Can watch their podcasts<br />
and interviews on Dr. Marissa’s YouTube<br />
Channel. Her shy nature allows her to not only<br />
be your Keynote Speaker but can also easily<br />
be an MC and/or Panel Moderator.<br />
Producer and Host of an award-winning<br />
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positive talk radio/tv show “Take My<br />
Advice, I’m Not Using It: Get Balanced<br />
with Dr. Marissa” for 6 years<br />
broadcasting LIVE out of the Sunset<br />
Gower Studios in Hollywood<br />
California and syndicated on<br />
IHeartRADIO, CNBC/NBC News<br />
Radio KCAA AM FM, UBNRadioTV<br />
and winner of the 2016 Podcast of<br />
the Year Top 10 in Health Award<br />
from a field of <strong>44</strong>0 thousand shows<br />
and 100 million downloads, If your<br />
product/book/service would like<br />
high level exposure Dr. Marissa<br />
can help craft a show/podcast<br />
around you to use for unique PR/<br />
Marketing.<br />
Life Balance Coach, Dr. Marissa’s<br />
newest book ‘8 Ways to Happiness<br />
from Wherever You Are outlines the<br />
comprehensive Life Balance<br />
Coaching Process that helps individuals<br />
who are on antidepressant<br />
and anti anxiety medication and<br />
STILL anxious and depressed with<br />
SIDE EFFECTS on top of it find their way<br />
into a Happy Life 88% of the time. Turning<br />
mid-life crises into a mid-life opportunity,<br />
Dr. Marissa uses a variety of Balance<br />
tools including meditation, tai chi and chi<br />
qong to move individuals from past pain<br />
and future fear into the time of their life!<br />
Internationally recognized with multiple<br />
awards and write ups:<br />
A 3-page spread in the 2014 Remarkable<br />
Women Anniversary Marie Claire China<br />
Hearst magazine, Inc. magazine, Forbes<br />
magazine, Orange County Register, Sun<br />
Newspaper monthly column andmore.<br />
Winner of the 2005 Role Model of<br />
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Media Award, 2007 Remarkable Woman of<br />
the Year Award, 2012 Asian Entrepreneur of<br />
the Year Award, 2014 Asian Heritage Award,<br />
Business Person of the Year 2014 Lotus<br />
Award, 2016 Top 10 in Health Podcast of the<br />
Year Award, 2016 OC500 List of the most Influential<br />
People from a field of 3.5 million in<br />
Orange County California and 2017 Iconic<br />
Woman of the Year Award at the Women’s<br />
Economic Forum in India.<br />
So there you have it…more about me on the<br />
rest of the site that gives you a little more detail<br />
and direction on how I can help you and<br />
where you can find me! Because It’s All About<br />
Balance…Peace In and Peace Out…World<br />
Peace through Inner Peace!!<br />
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Build Their<br />
Personal<br />
Brand<br />
Part 1<br />
Lori Ruff: Branding Expert & Chief Branding Offic<br />
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er at ETM Media. #SuiteBranding<br />
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Since the early<br />
days of social<br />
media, the question<br />
most often<br />
asked has been,<br />
“What do I post?”<br />
Today, as you’re looking<br />
at your LinkedIn<br />
profile (trying to dress it<br />
up as you navigate<br />
your career upstream)<br />
or your Facebook or<br />
Instagram feed (trying<br />
to tone it down as you<br />
decide to take your career<br />
more seriously),<br />
the core of that question<br />
has not changed.<br />
“What do I post that will<br />
portray the image of<br />
the me I want to be?” is<br />
perhaps the mostasked<br />
version from<br />
people ready to take<br />
their career seriously,<br />
or seriously to the next<br />
level. And that typically happens when your<br />
Why does not align with what you thought<br />
your passion was, or when your Passion<br />
does not seem to align with the work you do,<br />
and you are ready to make the effort required<br />
to make a change.<br />
Ok here’s the thing. It all starts with<br />
you. Who you are. What you believe. What<br />
you believe in. What you will always<br />
choose. Because that’s how people come to<br />
know you.<br />
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People and life will test you and everyone<br />
will take notice of how you respond. How<br />
do you respond? Think about it because<br />
your response is based on what you believe.<br />
Your core values are the internal<br />
compass that guides you through any decision.<br />
You cannot waiver far from your own<br />
true North and stay happy and sane. So,<br />
you need to understand and be clear about<br />
your own personal, unique guiding values.<br />
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this far, you know the first step<br />
is to be clear about who you are<br />
and your intention. Regardless<br />
of the channel, Facebook,<br />
LinkedIn or Twitter, stick to you<br />
and your authentic self. Share<br />
content (either yours or someone<br />
else’s) that demonstrate<br />
the principles that you hold<br />
dear. Help your readers and<br />
viewers make the connection by<br />
highlighting what attracted you.<br />
Karé Anderson sums it up like<br />
this and I haven’t heard a more<br />
clear or articulate statement of<br />
what I believe is our collective<br />
strength:<br />
Start building trust right now. People feel a<br />
natural connection to the authentic. It’s not<br />
hard to create what’s already there… you<br />
just need to stay plugged in once you find it.<br />
That’s how communities of followers are<br />
built. Just as sure as the traveler looks for<br />
firm ground, those you meet will feel more<br />
secure when they feel you are consistently<br />
real and authentic. In person, look folks in<br />
the eye and make your handshake<br />
firm. Online, you must do the same thing.<br />
How do you accomplish it? If you’ve read<br />
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“The stronger the signal we<br />
send to ourselves of our specific,<br />
highest purpose, the greater<br />
the clarity we have about it, and<br />
attention we instinctively give to<br />
it. We are better able to describe<br />
it, to recognize individuals,<br />
situations, insights and other<br />
resources that can support<br />
us in serving it – and to be more<br />
astute, caring supporters of others<br />
in serving their higher purpose.”<br />
‒ A Mutual Matters Credo<br />
Preparation Principles<br />
Be Vulnerable<br />
Do other people see the real me or am I<br />
wearing a mask obscuring who I really<br />
am? What is holding me back from<br />
portraying my authentic self in public?<br />
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Be real. Show your authentic self<br />
to the world. Clarify your “specific,<br />
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share it as wildly as the cybersphere<br />
will let you. Seek out<br />
others who support and grow your<br />
message. Use your powers for<br />
good.<br />
John Wayne famously said,<br />
“Courage is being afraid but saddling<br />
up anyway”. Let’s be<br />
clear. Everybody is afraid of<br />
something. We are all vulnerable<br />
on some level. We create convoluted<br />
techniques to hide the places<br />
we are uncomfortable showing.<br />
No matter how much we<br />
“trust”, there are somethings we<br />
are willing to reveal. But here’s<br />
the thing – are we afraid of our<br />
weaknesses or afraid of asking for<br />
help? Is that simple action of revealing<br />
ourselves the same as admitting<br />
that we are less than perfect?<br />
Nobody can do it all. Nowhere<br />
in history has one person<br />
done it alone. Everyone has a<br />
story of a mentor or of someone who<br />
helped and made a difference in their<br />
life. That gift remains with each of us<br />
for all of our lives regardless of the<br />
success or failure we experience.<br />
strip away the camouflage, the patches, all the<br />
subterfuge and ask for help. Delegate the activities<br />
that you don’t do well, provide clear direction<br />
on what you need and stand back and<br />
trust someone else to amaze you.<br />
Th<br />
Go<br />
Stu<br />
And it is a gift. What if we can find a<br />
way to share that gift with people who<br />
we meet and who are important to us?<br />
The very giving frees you from the fear<br />
that keep you from saddling up. The<br />
giving builds trust with your team. And<br />
the best part is the result is almost always<br />
better than any individual on the<br />
team could have provided. So<br />
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Now is the time to be Accountable to yourself<br />
You have to die. Everything else is a<br />
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your parents, your enemies, your circumstances<br />
or whatever monsters you have created to<br />
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e<br />
od<br />
ff<br />
Be real.<br />
Show your<br />
authentic<br />
self to the<br />
world.<br />
Clarify your<br />
“specific,<br />
highest<br />
purpose”<br />
and live it.<br />
always an action verb… what is it<br />
that you DO? “I [Your Verb], therefore<br />
I am.”What you do is driven<br />
by your why. Your WHY drives you<br />
to seek excellence in everything<br />
you do, even when no one is<br />
watching. What things seem to<br />
pull at you even as your life<br />
moves through all the highs and<br />
lows, noisy and quiets moments?<br />
Marketing expert, Alex Mandossian<br />
gets his audience to answer<br />
their core Why and it’s always<br />
an action verb… what is it<br />
that you DO? “I [Your Verb], therefore<br />
I am.”<br />
My personal Why is “I love, therefore<br />
I am”. I want people I meet to<br />
feel my heart. I want to make people<br />
feel valued. In the spirit of poet<br />
Maya Angelou, I want people to<br />
remember not what I said or did,<br />
but how I made them feel, even if<br />
they experience my work without<br />
my being in the room. Everything I<br />
do stems from my love for God’s<br />
most precious creation.<br />
Here’s the truth with a capital T. If you don’t<br />
try, nothing will change.<br />
Find Your Why (Who are you at your core?)<br />
What motivates me, gives me my "why" for getting<br />
up in the morning and facing the world?<br />
What you do is driven by your why. Your WHY<br />
drives you to seek excellence in everything you<br />
do, even when no one is watching. What things<br />
seem to pull at you even as your life moves<br />
through all the highs and lows, noisy and quiets<br />
moments?<br />
Marketing expert, Alex Mandossian gets his<br />
audience to answer their core Why and it’s<br />
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What fuels your desire to seek excellence,<br />
not because it’s a competition,<br />
but because you truly enjoy it?<br />
What do you do when no one is watching?<br />
What things seem to pull at you<br />
even as your life moves through all the<br />
highs and lows, noisy and quiets moments?<br />
Some people teach, some people<br />
are care-givers, others seek to refine<br />
processes or relationships. As sure<br />
and as subtle as magnetism, we are<br />
naturally drawn to certain experiences<br />
and people. Often, we aren’t even<br />
aware of it, but we strive to use our talents<br />
in certain ways that make us<br />
unique. Let’s be clear –what do you<br />
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Think back to<br />
the times you<br />
felt things<br />
strongly.<br />
Are there<br />
common<br />
elements of<br />
these multiple<br />
moments<br />
that you<br />
remember?<br />
have to do; what can you not avoid expressing?<br />
To clarify your Why, try a twopronged<br />
approach. First, create a list of<br />
the things that you enjoy doing. Focus on<br />
things that you enjoy so much that time<br />
seems to slip away without you realizing<br />
it. As you review, modify and add to this<br />
list, look out for things that you do without<br />
thinking, that just seem to speak to something<br />
inside you. I use the following questions<br />
to ignite the process:<br />
Think back to your happiest moments.<br />
What were you doing? Who were<br />
you with? What made it pleasurable?<br />
• Play your life like a movie. Think back<br />
to school events, summer camp,<br />
church, activities and play in your<br />
neighborhood. Think back to the times<br />
you felt<br />
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things strongly. Are there common elements<br />
of these multiple moments that you remember?<br />
Think in reverse. What are the things that<br />
you find most hateful and disturbing. What<br />
makes you mad and leaves you frustrated.<br />
Now think about the opposite of those<br />
things. You may find that your Why crystalizes<br />
in front of your eyes.<br />
• What do you do when you have free time?<br />
What do you do when you are bored?<br />
• What is exciting? What relaxes you? Why?<br />
• When you don’t have any pressing obligations<br />
or when the most pressing obligation<br />
is to do something for yourself, what do you<br />
choose?<br />
• Do you like to solve problems? Do you go<br />
outside and what do you do?<br />
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•Is it more about the event or the fact<br />
that you have to concentrate and think<br />
about something other than your<br />
day? Do you do it alone or with people?<br />
•<br />
How do you feel after? Why? Do you<br />
have new energy or do you just burn off<br />
the stress?<br />
What are your hobbies? What about<br />
these activities do you like? What about<br />
them make you the most comfortable/at<br />
ease?<br />
Remember the last time you “lost track of<br />
time”. What were you doing? Who were<br />
you with? What do you remember that<br />
was enjoyable or that made you feel that<br />
the time flew by?<br />
Trigger the second prong while you work<br />
on your list. Ask your friends and others<br />
who know you well to describe what talents<br />
they think about when they think of<br />
you.<br />
Try to get them to express what they<br />
think of as your unique capabilities.<br />
Think of your own friends – who do you<br />
call on to help you get organized, who is<br />
helpful when you need to brainstorm,<br />
who is good at simplifying a problem, so<br />
you can implement actions? It is often<br />
easier to see qualities in others than in<br />
ourselves and you can use your friends<br />
perspectives to help clarify your own<br />
thinking. If you include family, friends,<br />
work colleagues and/or team mates you<br />
will get a broad perspective that may<br />
help you hone in on the Why that drives<br />
you.<br />
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Laura Faye interviews Lisa S. Fine .Esq<br />
On Divorce Mediation<br />
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Laura: Hi Lisa. Thank you so much<br />
for speaking with me about Divorce<br />
Mediation today. So your Website,<br />
Mediationisbest.com, is that more<br />
than just a URL?<br />
Lisa: Yes Laura. It is my philosophy<br />
after practicing law for over 21<br />
years, that alternative dispute resolution,<br />
which is really mediation and<br />
arbitration, is more cost efficient,<br />
faster, and can even be less stressful<br />
for participants than litigation. I<br />
represent clients in divorce actions<br />
in court and conduct divorce mediations<br />
on a daily basis so I can say<br />
this first hand. So, yes, I do believe<br />
Mediation is Best! In fact, I always<br />
try to explain the option of mediation<br />
to people who contact my office for<br />
representation in a divorce action<br />
because I honestly believe that it is<br />
the best process for most people.<br />
Laura: When you say “most people”,<br />
are there some couples for whom Divorce<br />
Mediation is not an option? Or maybe not<br />
the right option?<br />
Lisa: Absolutely. When I first speak with<br />
potential mediation participants, I do ask if<br />
there has been any allegations by either<br />
side of domestic violence, which can be<br />
physical, verbal or financial, or substance<br />
abuse by either party. This is because if<br />
there is an imbalance of power, which is<br />
true in the case of domestic violence, mediation<br />
is not the correct process. Additionally,<br />
if there is substance abuse, I have<br />
concerns about the person being able to<br />
participate in the process in a constructive<br />
fashion, and, in the end, I cannot have<br />
someone sign an agreement if they are<br />
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under the influence of a substance that<br />
makes them unable to understand what they<br />
are signing. In those limited circumstances, I<br />
do believe that the adversarial system potentially<br />
offers people more protection.<br />
Laura: How is Mediation different?<br />
Lisa: The easiest way to explain the mediation<br />
process is to compare and contrast it,<br />
with the more well-known adversarial or “two<br />
lawyer” system. With the adversarial process,<br />
the parties each hire their own attorneys,<br />
and those attorneys will counsel their<br />
respective client and discuss heir client’s position<br />
with each other outside of the presence<br />
of the clients. Often times, the conflict can<br />
become influenced by the posturing of the<br />
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way more “emotional heat” than the Husband<br />
ever intended. In mediation, all the<br />
parties are in the same room, talking to<br />
each other with the mediator present to<br />
assist them in having constructive, meaningful<br />
conversations that can lead to a settlement.<br />
There is no filtering of the message<br />
from one party to the other. And, as<br />
Mediator, I can actually assist the parties<br />
in removing the emotional components of<br />
the discussion and keep them focused on<br />
the facts at hand. Of course, the other factor<br />
is cost. It is probably five times less<br />
than protracted litigation. Plus the “fees”<br />
are much more predictable and the parties<br />
have more control over the costs and<br />
when they pay them as compared to litigation.<br />
Laura: So what exactly is Divorce Mediation<br />
and how does it work?<br />
attorneys, and can even become blown<br />
out of proportion. I liken this to the game<br />
of telephone I used to play as a childwhere<br />
one person starts a message by<br />
whispering into the next person’s ear. By<br />
the time the message gets to the last<br />
person, it has completely mutated into a<br />
different statement. The change can occur<br />
subtly as it passes from one person<br />
to the other. So if Husband tells his attorney<br />
he wans his baseball card collection<br />
as soon as possible, then his attorney<br />
is in a heated conflict about another<br />
issue of the case with Wife’s attorney<br />
and drops in the information about the<br />
baseball cards, the Wife’s attorney may<br />
the relay the message to his client with<br />
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Lisa: We typically meet in my conference<br />
room once a week for one to two hours,<br />
until we have covered all of the pertinent<br />
issues, including custody and parenting time<br />
(visitation), child support, spousal support<br />
(maintenance) and equitable distribution. At<br />
that point, I draft a “Proposed Settlement<br />
Agreement” based on all of the discussions<br />
had by the parties. We go over the Agreement<br />
in a follow up meeting so that the parties understand<br />
it, and then the parties are given the<br />
opportunity to take the Settlement Agreement<br />
to have it reviewed by independent counsel of<br />
their choice. This is not required, but I always<br />
give participants the option of doing so. Once<br />
the Proposed Settlement Agreement is finalized<br />
on consent of the parties, I draft and file<br />
the papers for the parties to obtain an Uncontested<br />
Divorce.<br />
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Laura: What about people<br />
with young children. Do you<br />
resolve custody and visitation<br />
issues?<br />
Lisa: When I meet with participants<br />
with children for the<br />
first time at a consultation, I<br />
always tell them that their<br />
children are actually “the<br />
most important people not in<br />
the room”. This resonates<br />
throughout the entire process<br />
and sometimes I have to remind<br />
them once things are<br />
underway. During the mediation<br />
process, before the<br />
participants have filled out<br />
any financial forms, or provided<br />
any documents, we<br />
discuss custody and parenting<br />
time, which is the terminology<br />
I prefer to use. I<br />
mean, a parent should not be<br />
“visiting” with his/her child,<br />
right? They are parenting<br />
the child. So we assign parenting<br />
time. First I will explain<br />
the principals of residential and legal<br />
custody to the participants so they understand<br />
the terms. And then the parties<br />
have a conversation, that I help lead if necessary,<br />
discussing, quite simply, where the<br />
children should live (residential custody)<br />
and how important, non “day-to-day” decisions<br />
should be made for the children by<br />
the parents (legal custody). I have, quite<br />
fortunately, found that most of the time, this<br />
decision comes quite quickly to the participants.<br />
Then we hammer out a detailed<br />
parenting time schedule involving weekday<br />
and weekend parenting time, as well as<br />
holidays. It is here that I<br />
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find mediation so wonderful as we have the<br />
ability to really craft a schedule that is tailored<br />
for the parties and the children’s specific<br />
circumstances. This is especially true<br />
for individuals who may not have a typical 9-<br />
5 job situation.<br />
Laura: Do your Mediation clients ever end<br />
up in Court?<br />
Lisa: As I tell participants in the initial consultation<br />
in my office, my goal is to keep the<br />
parties out of Court today and every tomorrow<br />
after. The parties are made aware that<br />
nothing, no issue, is too big or small to<br />
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discuss during a meeting. Often times the<br />
parties are unable to get to the bigger issues<br />
because they become hung up in the<br />
smaller, day to day conflicts that arise, especially<br />
if the parties are still living in the<br />
same home. But this is true in litigation as<br />
well. In Mediation, I encourage the parties,<br />
when they first walk in for a meeting,<br />
to let me know if there are any urgent matters<br />
or conflicts to discuss before we get to<br />
what I may have on my list as the next issue<br />
to discuss and resolve. Things can<br />
get petty. I have had couples who are hiding<br />
each other’s toiletries<br />
and turning off the power when the<br />
other is trying to cook dinner. That<br />
type of “War of the Roses” (one of<br />
my favorite movies, by the way) behavior<br />
does not lend itself to mediation.<br />
I have lost a few along the<br />
way in those types of situations.<br />
But those are few and far between.<br />
Fortunately, most of the time the<br />
participants I work with are committed<br />
to the Mediation process, and<br />
understand that this means they<br />
have to be civil to each other. Of<br />
course I do have parties get emotional<br />
during meetings, but I have<br />
methods of assisting them through<br />
that. In every Mediated Settlement<br />
Agreement, I include language that<br />
the parties are committed to returning<br />
to Mediation if they need to<br />
modify the Agreement or if a conflict<br />
arises. This, as I explain to them, is<br />
because none of us have a crystal<br />
ball, and circumstances can change<br />
in the future. And I have had people<br />
return to make adjustments<br />
“Post Judgment” (after the Divorce<br />
Judgment is signed and entered)-<br />
often years later. The process then is the<br />
same as before. We discuss, I draft, they<br />
sign and file the Modification to Settlement<br />
Agreement as pro se litigants.<br />
Laura: But what if the issue that comes up<br />
in Post Judgment is urgent-like a party isn’t<br />
paying Child Support? Are they prevented<br />
from going to Court if it is absolutely necessary?<br />
Lisa: Not at all. The participants in my Mediations<br />
are well aware that Mediation is a<br />
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voluntary process. During the initial Divorce<br />
Mediation, people are free to stop if they<br />
want. If they stop the process because of<br />
reconciliation, I wish them luck and send<br />
them on their way, hopeful for their success<br />
at a second chance-it has happened, though<br />
it is rare. If they are heading in the direction<br />
of litigiation, I may try one last meeting to see<br />
if we can resolve the conflict without Court, if<br />
they are willing, because I know what is in<br />
store for them. But the choice is theirs and I<br />
cannot and will not stop them from going to<br />
Court if that is what they feel they need to do.<br />
In the Settlement Agreements I draft as Mediator,<br />
I make it clear that Mediation is not a<br />
“precondition” to litigation and if an emergency,<br />
such as non-payment of support arises, a<br />
party is not precluded from going to Court on<br />
an emergency basis, or otherwise. Mediation<br />
is never a precondition to litigation. But I do<br />
want the parties to think twice before turning<br />
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to litigation if that is possible, and to return<br />
to the Mediation process to address any<br />
changes or conflicts that develop. And I<br />
have been pleasantly surprised to see that<br />
happen, for example, in cases where circumstances<br />
for custody and parenting time<br />
change because a party wants to move. I<br />
am happy to say I have been able to assist<br />
people in resolving these types of issues<br />
which would cost them tens of thousands<br />
of dollars to litigate in Court for a fraction of<br />
the cost and, more importantly, minimal adverse<br />
impact on the lives of the parties and<br />
the children because of the parties’ willingness<br />
to work together in the Mediation process.<br />
Laura: Do you ever do a Separation Agreement<br />
for people rather than going forwardto<br />
Divorce? And why would someone do a<br />
Separation Agreement rather than go forward<br />
with getting the actual Divorce?<br />
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Lisa: Yes. One of the things we discuss<br />
during the Mediation is whether the parties<br />
want a Separation or to go all the way<br />
through with a Divorce. The two most common<br />
reasons given for Separation vs. Divorce<br />
are: (1) the concern of one party losing<br />
health insurance benefits upon divorce,<br />
and (2) the parties are not sure they want<br />
the divorce, but they need something in<br />
place to secure finances and, often, custody<br />
and visitation. We discuss the pros and<br />
cons, and the parties make an informed decision<br />
together, as they do with every other<br />
issue.<br />
Laura: Any crazy stories to share?<br />
Lisa: Actually, when I was first doing Divorce<br />
Mediation, I worked for a firm that had<br />
me travel to different offices he rented<br />
around Long Island to meet with the clients.<br />
I remember one office had all of these baseball<br />
bats in glass boxes hanging on the<br />
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walls everywhere, including the conference<br />
room. All I could think was that if things got<br />
heated, this was an invitation for disaster! I<br />
never really understood that. But now it’s<br />
kind of funny and fortunately, they were a<br />
nice calm couple.<br />
Laura: Lisa, thank you so much for that overview.<br />
Hopefully people will see that Mediation<br />
is an option for their Divorce.<br />
Lisa: Thank you Laura. Its always a pleasure<br />
to talk with you! And hopefully your readers<br />
will see why I believe Mediationisbest is more<br />
than just a URL!<br />
Laura: And finally Lisa, would you say that<br />
the process of Divorce is black and white or<br />
50 Shades of Grey?<br />
Lisa: 50 Shades, definitely. Every situation is<br />
different. Every personality. But that’s what<br />
keeps it interesting, right Laura?<br />
Laura: Absolutely.<br />
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Lisa s fine Esquire is a general<br />
practitioner with over a<br />
decade of experience in various<br />
areas of law. After obtaining<br />
a Bachelor of Science<br />
in communication from<br />
Boston University she went<br />
to a foster at University<br />
School of Law where she<br />
received her Juris doctorate<br />
may of 1996 please see previously<br />
worked as a senior<br />
trial attorney for a law firm<br />
and not so County prior to<br />
that Lisa was associate rate<br />
general practice firm in Nassau<br />
County where she gathered<br />
the general practice<br />
experience and litigation<br />
skills necessary to run her<br />
own general practice firm<br />
Lisa has successfully litigated cases representing both plaintiffs<br />
and defendants in the state courts of New York, as well as the<br />
eastern and southern district federal courts of New York. She<br />
became her own practice she began her own practice and<br />
Western Suffolk to be able to service your clients in many different<br />
areas.<br />
On her own since 2003, Lisa developed to confirm conform to<br />
the needs of her local clients clientele. With a focus on divorce<br />
and family law mediation and arbitration and personal injury as<br />
well as commercial and business transactions, Lisa offers a<br />
wide range of services to our clients. This is general practice<br />
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client has a unique situation that requires "outside of the box<br />
thinking", Lisa utilizes her knowledge and experience in different<br />
areas of law to come up with a solution that conforms to the<br />
client's distinct needs.<br />
As immediate Past President of the Suffolk Women's Bar Association,<br />
a chapter of the Women's Bar Association of the<br />
State of New York and a former director of the suffolk County<br />
Women's Business Enterprise Coalition (SCWBEC), Lisa is a<br />
strong advocate for women in and out of the workplace.<br />
Lisa is admitted to the New York State Bar,Eastern District of<br />
New York and Southern District of New York as well as being<br />
paneled on the American Arbitration Association commercial<br />
expedited panel.<br />
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Lise is married with two young daughters and enjoys spending<br />
time with them hiking, painting, reading and watching silly movies<br />
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Orphans” www.Edworks4U.org<br />
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“I tell the Stories of Foster Youth &<br />
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When I asked our 51 orphaned girls in<br />
Port Au Prince Haiti, why is it important<br />
that you study and get an education?<br />
A 9 year old girl responded,<br />
“To have a life”. She so easy and<br />
clearly articulated the drive and passion<br />
of my work.<br />
If a 9 year old baby girl knows that education<br />
is the key than truly we adults<br />
understand and should make provisions<br />
for every child to be educated.<br />
My girls in Port Au Prince are near<br />
and dear to my heart because of their<br />
tenacity, strength, and relentless ability<br />
to create joy!<br />
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Several of the girls are survivors of<br />
sex trafficking and participate in<br />
counseling. We are all working to<br />
help them heal.<br />
The horror of sex trafficking caused<br />
several of the girls to miss school and<br />
they are behind and feel embarrassed<br />
and afraid to pick up pen and<br />
paper to begin learning again. Understandably<br />
so, and thus we take<br />
baby steps to help them through the<br />
process. Later this month,<br />
I will provide trauma informed training<br />
to the staff so that we will provide<br />
care and services in the best way.<br />
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the market place and purchase clothing an the essential<br />
items needed. I also began to purchase<br />
school supplies, repair school uniforms, and purchase<br />
school uniforms. The look of joy and hope on<br />
their faces was and is priceless!<br />
After days of replacing items and preparing the girls<br />
for school, I asked them again why should we work<br />
so that you go to school? Several replied, “So that<br />
we can live!” That’s enough for me.<br />
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As we began to prepare for the<br />
<strong>2018</strong>/2019 school year, we were<br />
surprised and faced senseless<br />
violence from bandits in the area.<br />
The senseless violence cause a<br />
delay in the start of the school<br />
year until Oct. 1 st . Some of the<br />
girls thought that maybe they<br />
would not go to school and needed<br />
personal items.<br />
The market place in Port Au<br />
Prince is vast and dynamic. I<br />
was able to trek through<br />
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Andy<br />
Bales<br />
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A Summary of<br />
Retirement Options<br />
Part of a series by Caitlin Chin: Speaker,<br />
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You’ve probably thought to<br />
yourself in a not too distant<br />
past, of how young you<br />
were and that you didn’t<br />
have to worry about, save<br />
or plan for retirement. So<br />
how is that working out for<br />
you?<br />
Just as the days fly by,<br />
years and decades fly by<br />
just as fast and before you<br />
know it, you’re wallowing in<br />
a sea of regret of why you<br />
didn’t start saving for retirement<br />
sooner. Not only did<br />
you not save any money for<br />
retirement, but you’ve<br />
racked up an insurmountable<br />
load of debt, essentially<br />
taking many steps backwards<br />
towards achieving<br />
your retirement goals. Of<br />
course, I’m guilty of this<br />
myself, but many times we<br />
try to sustain a lifestyle we<br />
cannot afford by making<br />
purchases on credit knowing<br />
we are not able to pay it<br />
off at the end of the month.<br />
Once this type of spending<br />
pattern begins, it will continue<br />
to snowball, building up ever larger<br />
debts for many years to come.<br />
Don’t worry: Regardless of what stage in<br />
life you’re in, the good news is, it’s never<br />
too late to begin the journey towards a<br />
comfortable retirement. Don’t dwell on the<br />
past. However, you must not procrastinate<br />
for another day as I will discuss some of<br />
the most important concepts to understand<br />
Don’t worry:<br />
Regardless of<br />
what stage in<br />
life you’re in, the<br />
good news is,<br />
it’s never too<br />
late to begin the<br />
journey towards<br />
a comfortable<br />
retirement.<br />
and apply, when it comes to retirement planning.<br />
Multiply by 25 Rule – This rule is a tool to<br />
give you an idea of how much to save up depending<br />
on how much you need for annual<br />
spending during your retirement years. For<br />
example, if you want to withdraw $60,000 per<br />
year, you will need to save up $1,500,000<br />
($60,000 X 25). However, if you can live<br />
comfortably withdrawing just $48,000 per<br />
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Take advantage of retirement<br />
savings vehicles<br />
that have tax benefits<br />
such as employer<br />
sponsored 401K, Roth<br />
IRA and Traditional IRA<br />
Accounts.<br />
year ($12,000 less per year), you will only<br />
need to save up $1,200,000 ($48,000 X 25).<br />
What this means is that you need to save<br />
$300,000 for every $12,000 in annual withdrawal<br />
during retirement. In other words, if<br />
you can reduce your spending by $1000 per<br />
month during retirement ($12,000 annually), it<br />
can help you avoid lots of stress of having to<br />
save significantly more during your working<br />
years. After all, it’s always easier to spend<br />
less money than to have to save up more.<br />
Employer 401K<br />
Match – If you work for<br />
an employer that offers<br />
a 401K Match, always<br />
take advantage of it. If<br />
your employer will<br />
match up to 3%, then<br />
you must first contribute<br />
at least 3% of your income<br />
in order to benefit<br />
from your employer’s<br />
contribution. However, if<br />
you only contribute 2%,<br />
then your employer will<br />
only contribute 2%<br />
which means you’re<br />
leaving some free money<br />
on the table. Abandoning<br />
any amount of<br />
free money over the<br />
course of your career<br />
can mean tens of thousands<br />
of dollars in lost<br />
savings over the long<br />
term. In addition to contributing up to<br />
the amount your employer will match,<br />
you should, if possible, contribute as<br />
much more as you can afford to.<br />
Roth IRA - Contributions to Roth IRA<br />
are not tax deductible. However, any<br />
interest, dividends or distributions<br />
earned are tax free, as long as nothing<br />
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is withdrawn before the age<br />
of 59 ½ at which time it may<br />
be taxed at the federal and<br />
state level, as well as an<br />
early withdrawal penalty assessed<br />
by the IRS. There<br />
are certain situations when<br />
you can withdraw before<br />
age 59 ½ without the penalty,<br />
such as; if you are a firsttime<br />
home buyer and you<br />
need some of the funds for<br />
a down payment, or, if used<br />
for higher education. The<br />
Roth IRA also has income<br />
requirements which must be<br />
met before you’re allowed to<br />
contribute.<br />
For 2017, in order for you to<br />
qualify to contribute to a<br />
Roth IRA, your modified adjusted<br />
gross income should<br />
be < $186,000 if you are<br />
married filing jointly. However,<br />
you can contribute a<br />
reduced amount if your income<br />
is ≥ $186,000 but <<br />
$196,000. Once your modified<br />
adjusted gross income<br />
is ≥ $196,000, then you will not be able to<br />
contribute to the Roth IRA.<br />
For single filers, your modified adjusted<br />
gross income should be
effect of compounding interest<br />
for the amount that was<br />
cashed out for the life of the<br />
investment. For example,<br />
cashing out a $50,000<br />
401K savings will only<br />
leave you with $32,500 if<br />
taxed at 25% plus a 10%<br />
penalty. It is advisable that<br />
once you leave an employer,<br />
to roll over your 401K to<br />
a traditional IRA account so<br />
you have the ability to keep<br />
track of how it’s doing as<br />
well as the benefit of not<br />
having all of your investments<br />
scattered which<br />
makes it difficult to track.<br />
Compound Interest – Compound interest<br />
occurs when interest is initially added<br />
to the principal, and any future interest is<br />
then earned on principal and any previously<br />
accumulated interest. Once you understand<br />
theavoid the temptations to cash out<br />
your 401K every time you leave an employer.<br />
benefits of compounding interest, you<br />
will Any amount you cash out before the<br />
age of 59 ½ will be assessed a federal and<br />
state tax and a 10% IRS penalty which can<br />
quickly add up to a significant amount of<br />
savings considering it will also lose the<br />
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Rule of 72 – You may<br />
have heard of this term, but<br />
just in case you’re not familiar<br />
with it, it is a way to<br />
determine what length of<br />
time it will take your investment<br />
to double depending<br />
on the rate of return. For<br />
example, you invest $100<br />
at 4%, it will take 18 years for your $100 to<br />
double into $200 (72 = 4 X 18). However, if<br />
you invest $100 at 9% interest, then it will<br />
only take 8 years to double to $200 (72 = 9 X<br />
8). I’m not encouraging you to invest your<br />
hard-earned money on risky investments that<br />
promise high returns, but to encourage you<br />
to start your savings early as most safe investments<br />
have lower returns but takes a<br />
longer period of time to double.<br />
Pay off all debts and credit cards - The<br />
correct way to use credit cards is to pay off<br />
the entire balance at the end of the month.<br />
Of course, there might be emergency .<br />
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cut your<br />
spending<br />
such as<br />
reducing<br />
your<br />
visits to<br />
the nearest<br />
coffee shop<br />
from 3<br />
times a day<br />
to only<br />
once in the<br />
morning.<br />
situations where you may not be able to, but<br />
try to pay it off as early as possible. Getting<br />
in perpetual debt will only set you back on<br />
your retirement goals because the interest<br />
you’re paying every month for years and<br />
years, could be compounding your retirement<br />
savings.<br />
Reduce Spending - This advice may<br />
sound a bit redundant but I cannot emphasize<br />
how important it is, as our monthly income<br />
is usually limited and the only way to<br />
increase your savings is to decrease your<br />
spending. There are many simple ways to<br />
gradually cut your spending such as reducing<br />
your visits to the nearest coffee<br />
shop from 3 times a day to only once in<br />
the morning. Once you’ve got that habit<br />
in control, reduce those visits from 7 times<br />
a week to only 3 or 4. It may sound like<br />
an enormous feat to conquer but if you<br />
make those changes one small step at a<br />
time, you’ll thank yourself later in retirement.<br />
Once you’ve put these concepts to practice,<br />
you will be well on your way to retiring<br />
comfortably<br />
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Caitlin Chen<br />
Having worked in the financial services industry<br />
since 1999, Caitlin has served<br />
countless clients, giving them guidance to<br />
achieve their financial goals throughout<br />
different stages of their life. She is a graduate<br />
of UCLA with a BA in Philosophy and<br />
an MBA in Finance from Argosy University.<br />
Caitlin believes that although we all do our<br />
best to keep our finances in check, there<br />
are always life challenges or simply situations<br />
we’ve never experienced and not<br />
sure how to deal with, which can set us<br />
back financially for many years. Caitlin<br />
has experienced this major life challenge<br />
herself during the economic recession of<br />
2008. However, with courage, determination<br />
and patience, she has rebuilt what<br />
was lost.<br />
Today, Caitlin continues to inspire others<br />
to empower, engage and execute to their<br />
own financial wellness, ONE MINUTE at a<br />
time.<br />
Title of series: Millennial Money Minute<br />
(Empowerment through financial wellness)<br />
Caitlin’s blog<br />
www.millennialmoneyminute.com<br />
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Elite French restaurant offers chef Eric<br />
Ripert's refined seafood, expert service & luxurious<br />
decor.<br />
155 W 51st St, New York, NY 10019<br />
Menu: le-bernardin.com<br />
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The Craft Steak<br />
Tom Colicchio<br />
Owner<br />
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The Craft Restaurant<br />
Chef Tom Colicchio's refined, farm-fresh<br />
American fare served in an elegantly understated<br />
space.<br />
43 E 19th St, New York, NY 10003<br />
Menu: craftrestaurant.com<br />
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Roasted Porkling<br />
The Steak<br />
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The Breslin<br />
Contemporary, high-end British gastropub<br />
in a hip, vintage-inspired space at the Ace<br />
Hotel.<br />
16 W 29th St, New York, NY 10001<br />
MENU https://www.thebreslin.com/<br />
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even Madison Park<br />
scale American tasting menus from chef<br />
niel Humm served in a high-ceilinged art<br />
co space.<br />
Madison Ave, New York, NY 10010<br />
nu: elevenmadisonpark.com<br />
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Hardin<br />
Upscale<br />
in sophis<br />
32 E 21s<br />
Menu: h<br />
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gs Restaurant<br />
American fare & classic cocktails served<br />
ticated environs with shabby-chic flair.<br />
t St, New York, NY 10010<br />
ttp://www.hardingsnyc.com/menus/<br />
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One Dine R<br />
Upscale eater<br />
seasonal men<br />
One World Tra<br />
285 Fulton St,<br />
Menu:<br />
https://oneworl<br />
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estaurant<br />
y atop One World Trade Center with a<br />
u, cocktails & sweeping city views.<br />
de Center,<br />
New York, NY 10007<br />
dobservatory.com/en-US/bar-restaurant<br />
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Narcissa Re<br />
Inviting spac<br />
turning out r<br />
can cuisine.<br />
The Standard,<br />
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efined, farm-to-table New Ameri-<br />
25 Cooper Sq, New York, NY 10003<br />
http://www.narcissarestaurant.com/<br />
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Chocolate Pairings<br />
By Laurie Forster, The Wine Coach®<br />
Chances are you are going to be indulging in<br />
some chocolate this Cupid’s Day, whether from<br />
your Valentine or that you bought to treat yourself.<br />
This might lead you to the question, “What<br />
wine should I pair with my chocolate hearts and<br />
truffles?<br />
It’s important to note that a good pairing will depend<br />
on the type of chocolate you’re savoring.<br />
Overall, you want to match bolder, darker chocolates<br />
with bigger wines and lighter, sweeter chocolates,<br />
like white or milk, with lighter wines. In my<br />
opinion, sweet and fortified wines work better with<br />
chocolate than dry wines. Before you start writing<br />
letters to disagree with me—I do acknowledge<br />
that there are some dry red wines, like Cabernet<br />
or Zinfandel that can work wonderfully.<br />
Here are my suggested pairings for dark, milk<br />
and white chocolate. All you need to do is invite<br />
the right person and add some love.<br />
Dark<br />
There are actually several great<br />
choices when choosing a perfect<br />
partner for dark chocolate. One of<br />
my favorites is Brachetto d’Acqui<br />
from the Piedmont region of<br />
northwestern Italy. Made<br />
primarily from the<br />
Brachetto grape, this red<br />
sparkling dessert wine<br />
has intense raspberry flavors<br />
with the perfect<br />
amount of sweetness for<br />
dark chocolate. Think of it<br />
as a raspberry sauce for<br />
your chocolate. The bubbles<br />
also act to cleanse your palate before<br />
each new bite of dark chocolate.<br />
The traditional favorite of chocolate<br />
lovers is Port and I especially like<br />
Tawny Port with chocolate.<br />
Tawny Ports are known for<br />
their dark rich flavors of raisins,<br />
toffee, caramel and nuts,<br />
which happen to all be great<br />
toppings for chocolate. These<br />
ports are named after their tawny<br />
color, which is obtained by aging<br />
the wine in oak. True Port wines<br />
are fortified wines from Portugal<br />
(called Porto), but great Tawny Port-style wines are<br />
made in Australia, the United States and South Africa.<br />
Another fortified wine that is a great partner with dark<br />
chocolate is Banyuls. This dessert wine is made<br />
from the red grape, Grenache, in the Roussillon<br />
region of southern France. Like port, this wine is fortified<br />
with a distilled spirit made from grapes. This<br />
fortification takes place before fermentation is complete<br />
which leaves residual sugar (i.e. sweetness)<br />
in the wine. With a rich texture and flavors of raisins,<br />
plums, mocha and black cherries, this is<br />
the perfect partner to dark<br />
chocolate or, to enjoy all<br />
by itself!<br />
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Milk & White<br />
White and milk chocolate require more<br />
delicate pairings. These are sweeter<br />
chocolates and don’t work with dry<br />
wines like dark chocolate does. One<br />
of my favorite pairings for these types<br />
of chocolates is Moscato d’Asti.<br />
Semi-sparkling or frizzante,<br />
this sweet white bubbly is<br />
made from the Moscato Bianco<br />
grape in Piedmont Italy,<br />
just like its red relative<br />
Brachetto. Perfumed floral aromas<br />
mix with flavors of ripe<br />
peach and pear. Moscato’s acidity<br />
keeps it from seeming too<br />
sweet and is a nice contrast to<br />
the creaminess of these chocolates.<br />
Also, due to its having a<br />
lower alcohol content than most<br />
wines (5-7%), it’s a great choice<br />
for the end of a meal.<br />
Another great partner for white or milk chocolate<br />
is a fortified Muscat wine. There are some great<br />
French examples such as Beaumes de Venise<br />
and Muscat de Riveslates which are the<br />
classic standards. New world countries make<br />
their own versions of these Muscat based dessert<br />
wines, including South Africa, California and Australia.<br />
In Australia, they call dessert wines, like<br />
Muscats, “stickies” referring to their full, rich<br />
consistency. I especially like the Australian<br />
Muscats coming from the Rutherglen region<br />
because they are not only<br />
delicious but also a good<br />
value. Muscats<br />
are sweet and full bodied with the aromas of<br />
rose petal, ginger and orange as well as raisins.<br />
This Valentine’s Day, no matter whether you<br />
are going out or staying in, there is a wine to<br />
sip with your favorite chocolate indulgence.<br />
Just take into consideration the type of chocolate<br />
when choosing the right partner in<br />
order to ensure that the two complement<br />
each other. Just like for every person<br />
there is a soul mate; for every chocolate<br />
there is the right wine.<br />
Try this pairing for<br />
White Chocolate…<br />
Ceretto Santo Stefano<br />
Moscato d’Asti (Piedmont,<br />
Italy)<br />
Capitalize on the Moscato craze! Fruity,<br />
Fizzy and aromatic, this Moscato will<br />
make them as giddy as their first crush.<br />
Delicious with every sip and only 5.5%<br />
alcohol, this is a great lunch or<br />
brunch wine, too. Pair with<br />
your white chocolate<br />
treats for a heavenly<br />
combination.<br />
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Try these pairings for<br />
Dark Chocolate…<br />
Banfi Rosa Regale Brachetto<br />
d’Acqui (Piedmont, Italy)<br />
One whiff of the Banfi Brachetto brings<br />
images of roses and raspberries to<br />
mind. This sweet sparkler has a clean<br />
finish that is perfect for chocolate.<br />
The acidity of this wine also makes it<br />
a good paring for spicy<br />
Asian dishes or salads<br />
with berry vinaigrettes.<br />
Warre’s<br />
“Otima” 20<br />
year Tawny<br />
Port (Portugal)<br />
Try this pairing for<br />
Milk Chocolate…<br />
Yalumba Museum Muscat<br />
(Australia)<br />
Made from the red and pink varieties<br />
of Muscat, this “sticky” from<br />
Yalumba is the perfect sip with<br />
milk chocolate. Yalumba is one<br />
of the oldest family run wineries<br />
in Australia and delivers great<br />
value across all its wines. This<br />
sweet Muscat is amber in color<br />
with ginger and orange aromas<br />
and a touch of rose petal.<br />
Aged for 20 years<br />
in seasoned oak<br />
barrels, this tawny<br />
port has perfectly<br />
balanced tannins and acids<br />
making each sip bright and elegant.<br />
Flavors of nuts and raisins<br />
make it a great<br />
match for chocolate<br />
mousse or chocolate<br />
Domaine de la Rectorie<br />
Banyuls (Roussillon, France)<br />
Made from slightly raisinated Grenache<br />
grapes, this is a definite<br />
soul mate for chocolate! This fortified<br />
wine is a great crossover for<br />
people who already know and love<br />
ruby Port. The Domaine de la Rectorie<br />
Banyuls is full and smooth<br />
with flavors of red berries and a<br />
touch of spice.<br />
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Ingrid here, your chocolate eating,<br />
wine drinking health coach, to help<br />
you create a more balanced lifestyle<br />
so that you can shine, not just<br />
in one area of your life, but in all areas<br />
of your life!<br />
But first, why am I talking about living<br />
a more balanced lifestyle?<br />
We as women spend a lot of time<br />
compartmentalizing the various areas<br />
of our lives: relationships, career,<br />
money, health… but we all<br />
know that if one area is out of<br />
whack, our WHOLE life is affected.<br />
There’s a saying I have, “How you<br />
do one thing, is how you do everything”.<br />
Imagine making tons of money and<br />
being in a loving, happy marriage or<br />
relationship BUT you have no time<br />
to exercise. Pretty soon your appreciation<br />
for your flow of money and<br />
love is diminished because your<br />
body is not getting the exercise it<br />
needs to feel alive and energized.<br />
That’s why it’s so important to think<br />
of your life as one holistic pie, and<br />
make the decision to put your energy<br />
into making every piece of that<br />
pie as yummy as possible.<br />
So, what would create a more balanced<br />
lifestyle look like?<br />
Creating a more balanced lifestyle<br />
would mean taking a really good<br />
look at All areas of your life: relationships,<br />
career, money, exercise,<br />
health…making decisions<br />
about what is and what isn’t working<br />
in each area.<br />
Sometimes the reason we stay<br />
stuck in unhealthy or unhappy areas<br />
of our lives is because it’s<br />
easier in a way, to stay stuck in<br />
what’s familiar, rather than find<br />
the creativity and energy to make<br />
the changes needed to improve<br />
our quality of life and move into<br />
the unknown.<br />
In my coaching practice, I cover<br />
all of the areas mentioned above,<br />
but today I’m going to share with<br />
you a couple of my favorite things<br />
that will contribute to having a<br />
more balanced lifestyle in the areas<br />
of creating more energy,(which<br />
we all could use) and calming the<br />
mind to create more focus<br />
throughout your day.<br />
Let’s start with first thing in the<br />
morning.<br />
So, not everyone has 15-30 extra<br />
minutes every morning to do yoga<br />
poses or some sort of exercise to<br />
get the juices flowing, but I bet we<br />
could all squeeze in 3 minutes<br />
first thing, even before we get out<br />
of bed.<br />
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what I call the 3 minute, energy<br />
osting body stretch.<br />
all know that waking up on<br />
wrong side of the bed<br />
getting a rushed start<br />
he day where you’re<br />
ing out of the house<br />
un-brushed<br />
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Step 1* First set a happy alarm 5<br />
minutes earlier than usual. Your body responds<br />
to messages that you give<br />
it, so give it a happy ring to wake<br />
up to!<br />
Download your favorite tune or<br />
nature sound and use that as your<br />
happy alarm sound. Set it for just<br />
5 minutes earlier than usual, that<br />
all. Your body will thank you!<br />
Step 2* Start your body stretch<br />
as soon as you open your eyes.<br />
Often times in the morning, once<br />
we’re up we get distracted by<br />
emails, text messages, or racing<br />
to get that first cup of coffee. So,<br />
carpe diem, seize the day by starting<br />
your stretch even before you<br />
get out of bed!<br />
Lying down, simply stretch your<br />
legs out and reach your arms<br />
overhead and REALLY stretch<br />
your body, or sit up in bed and do<br />
the same, this time stretching your<br />
arms to the ceiling.<br />
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body stretch right next to your<br />
bed. The key is to honor these 3<br />
minutes you have set aside to<br />
stretch your body.<br />
The trick is to FOCUS your attention inward,<br />
breathe DEEP inhales and exhales, and<br />
reach up for the sky. You can clasp your fingers<br />
overhead to keep them together to<br />
deepen the stretch.<br />
How does this stretching boost energy you<br />
ask?<br />
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ll, you know how sometimes on a chilly<br />
rning when you start your car, you let it run<br />
a couple of minutes to warm up and get<br />
gas circulating?<br />
e same is true for our bodies. All they really<br />
ed to get going is a little kick start for the<br />
y, and a simple stretch as soon as you<br />
ke up will do it.<br />
et you will feel different immediately, and<br />
t the boost of energy that you need to start<br />
r day off right!<br />
other area that is essential to living a balanced<br />
lifestyle is calming your body<br />
and mind.<br />
Here are 2 super ways to calm<br />
your body and mind throughout the<br />
day. They will help keep you focused<br />
and energized as you go<br />
through your day.<br />
Step 1 can be done right in your<br />
office, or if you live in the LA area<br />
like myself, it can be REALLY<br />
helpful if you’re stuck in our<br />
wonderful traffic! Lol<br />
Step 1* Put both feet firmly<br />
on the ground, sit up straight<br />
with your shoulders pulled<br />
back to open up your heart,<br />
close your eyes, (obviously<br />
not while driving) and take<br />
full, DEEP breaths, in and<br />
out, in and out, in and<br />
out. Shoot for 10 times.<br />
When you open your<br />
eyes, notice how different<br />
your body feels.<br />
Do you feel calmer,<br />
clearer, more<br />
relaxed?<br />
Now that you’ve calmed your body, are you<br />
ready for step 2? Don’t worry, it’s just as easy.<br />
So, you’ve heard of positive affirmations right?<br />
Well, I believe they actually work. I use them<br />
every day!<br />
Why? Because your body is not going to do<br />
what you tell it to do unless your mind believes<br />
it first!<br />
Think of a short, sweet sentence that I like to<br />
call your MOTIVATIONAL MANTRA.<br />
Here are a few examples to get you started:<br />
I choose to be energized.<br />
I breathe in calm, and exhale stress<br />
I am committed to having a wonderful day<br />
Choose one that resonates with you or change<br />
up the words to create your own. Write it on<br />
sticky notes and stick them on the top of your<br />
computer or bathroom mirror. Then read it or<br />
memorize it and say it out loud to yourself at<br />
least 6 times a day, every day, and see what<br />
happens.<br />
How will this contribute to living a<br />
more balanced life?<br />
Well, put it this way, water will not flow<br />
through a blocked pipe. Similarly, your energy<br />
or life force is not going to flow well if<br />
you’re all tensed up, agitated or on guard.<br />
So with step one, you’re learning to quiet<br />
your mind, calm your nervous system and<br />
save energy for you to use later when you<br />
really need it.<br />
And with step 2, you’ll be amazed at the results<br />
over time if you say your mantra over<br />
& over again. You’ll find that your mind will<br />
start to believe it and your body will follow.<br />
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Why? Because that’s the<br />
way our minds work.<br />
They start to believe what we tell<br />
them to believe. It really is that<br />
simple.<br />
In my coaching practice, I<br />
use what’s called the<br />
wheel of life. It<br />
helps my clients<br />
identify which<br />
areas of their<br />
lives are out<br />
of balance.<br />
I’ve included<br />
a diagram<br />
of the<br />
wheel so<br />
that you can<br />
try it for<br />
yourself.<br />
Look at each<br />
section and<br />
place a dot on the<br />
line marking how satisfied<br />
you are with each<br />
area of your life.<br />
A dot nearer the center of the circle indicates<br />
dissatisfaction, while a dot placed<br />
towards the outside of the circle indicates<br />
ultimate happiness. When you have<br />
placed a dot on each of the lines,<br />
connect the dots to see your wheel<br />
of life.<br />
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to yourself?<br />
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Step<br />
into<br />
Great<br />
Health -<br />
Back to the Basics<br />
Part of a new series by Rennae Brewer: W<br />
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ellness Coach and Educator<br />
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As a wellness coach<br />
and educator for<br />
over 15 years, I see people<br />
every day who are on a quest to maintain<br />
a healthy weight, improve their<br />
overall health and well-being and prevent<br />
and slow down the progression of<br />
degenerative diseases like heart disease,<br />
diabetes and cancer. The question<br />
is “where do you start”? We want<br />
to educate and empower our clients so<br />
that they will be able to heal themselves<br />
using complementary therapies<br />
and mind-body integration.<br />
We like to start with the basics… internal<br />
cleansing (detoxification) and nutrition.<br />
Detoxing involves reducing the<br />
intake of toxins and improving elimination<br />
through diet and body therapies<br />
such as colon hydrotherapy, infrared<br />
bodywraps, skin brushing, massages,<br />
saunas and when needed, detox supplements<br />
designed for specific organs.<br />
Chemicals, refined foods, sugar, caffeine,<br />
alcohol, tobacco, and many<br />
drugs should be avoided to reduce the<br />
toxic load. Everyone can benefit from<br />
internal cleansing. Every day our bodies<br />
are exposed to toxins and pollutants<br />
in the air we breathe, the water<br />
we drink, and the food we eat. When<br />
waste and toxins can be eliminated<br />
from the body, there is no problem. But<br />
when toxins build up faster than they<br />
can be eliminated or when the elimination<br />
systems are not performing, these toxins<br />
can accumulate and create dis-ease all<br />
over the body.<br />
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(Lungs). So the first step is to improve every<br />
elimination channel in the body to help<br />
with detoxification. The body will produce<br />
energetic and metabolic waste that translates<br />
into physical levels of detoxification<br />
that need to move through the elimination<br />
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have the least resistance to the toxic waste<br />
material. It is also very important to listen<br />
to your body. We often ignore signs and<br />
symptoms when the body is giving us an<br />
indication that something is not quite right.<br />
For instance, feeling bloated is often a sign<br />
of a digestive issue. Chronic gas can be a<br />
symptom of an underlying digestive condition,<br />
like irritable bowel syndrome or lactose<br />
intolerance or it could be as simple as<br />
drinking with meals, or not chewing your<br />
foods thoroughly. There are a lot of ways<br />
to describe excessive gas: burping, belching,<br />
flatulence, and bloating. Bloating is<br />
used to describe the sensation of excess<br />
stomach gas that has not yet been released.<br />
A great majoritiy of our clients<br />
come to BodyClenz initially because of gas<br />
and bloating.<br />
channels. When the elimination channels<br />
are overloaded, they become inefficient<br />
and congested. The toxins are forced into<br />
the bloodstream and settle into those organs<br />
and tissues which<br />
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Colon hydrotherapy (aka colonics) is not a<br />
cure, but is a valuable therapy for a variety<br />
of colon issues, including reducing the<br />
buildup of gas in the colon. Naturopaths<br />
believe that 90% of<br />
all illnesses are directly or<br />
indirectly related to toxicity<br />
in the bowel. By stripping down<br />
the old toxic mucus lining from the colon<br />
and flushing out excessive gas and waste,<br />
the number one source of disease in the<br />
body could be reduced. A more efficient<br />
means of waste elimination and nutrient absorption,<br />
both of which are essential to any<br />
lasting healing process, can be aided by<br />
colon hydrotherapy. Then the friendly bacteria<br />
will be produced to keep the colon<br />
safe from putrefaction and further autointoxication.<br />
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Some possible<br />
signs of a toxic colon<br />
are: constipation,<br />
gas and bloating,<br />
coated tongue,<br />
bad breath, allergies,<br />
indigestion,<br />
backache, abnormal<br />
body odor, low<br />
energy dark circles<br />
under the eyes,<br />
cold hands and<br />
feet, blood pressure<br />
up and down,<br />
low sex drive, disturbed<br />
and restless<br />
sleep, menstrual<br />
problems, or swelling<br />
of legs.<br />
Many surgeons and<br />
physicians are beginning<br />
to understand<br />
the importance<br />
of bowel<br />
care in the prevention<br />
of disease.<br />
THE NEXT<br />
STEP<br />
The most important way of strengthening<br />
your body’s natural defenses is to<br />
improve your diet and drink a sufficient<br />
amount of water. Eating a diet with<br />
plenty of fruits and vegetables has<br />
been linked to improved health, and for<br />
good reason. Veggies and fruits are<br />
loaded with vitamins, minerals, fiber,<br />
and antioxidants, which have been<br />
shown to protect against chronic diseases.<br />
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Medical science has proven beyond a shadow of<br />
doubt that a diet rich in fruit and vegetables can<br />
improve your odds of avoiding diseases like that.<br />
There are at least nine different families of fruits<br />
and vegetables, each with potentially hundreds<br />
of different plant compounds that are beneficial<br />
to health. Eat a variety of types and colors of<br />
produce in order to give your body the mix of nutrients<br />
it needs. This not only ensures a greater<br />
diversity of beneficial plant chemicals but also<br />
creates eye-appealing meals.<br />
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The most<br />
important<br />
way of<br />
strengthening<br />
your<br />
body’s natural<br />
defenses<br />
is to improve<br />
your diet and<br />
drink a<br />
sufficient<br />
amount of<br />
water.<br />
A diet rich in vegetables and fruits can lower<br />
blood pressure, reduce the risk of heart disease<br />
and stroke, prevent some types of cancer,<br />
lower risk of eye and digestive problems,<br />
and have a positive effect upon blood<br />
sugar, which can help keep appetite in<br />
check. Eating non-starchy vegetables and<br />
fruits like apples, pears, and green leafy vegetables<br />
may even promote weight loss.<br />
Their low glycemic loads prevent blood sugar<br />
spikes that can increase hunger.<br />
Leading health advocacy organizations<br />
like the National<br />
Cancer Institute and the<br />
American Heart Association<br />
all recommend eating 7 to 13<br />
servings of fresh raw fruits<br />
and vegetables every day.<br />
Lately, I have been focusing<br />
more on my own diet and realized<br />
that my diet was not<br />
meeting that recommendation.<br />
A friend introduced me<br />
to a product called<br />
JuicePlus+. Juice Plus+<br />
products are made from the<br />
juice powder concentrates<br />
and oils from more than 40<br />
different fruits, vegetables<br />
and grains and comes in capsule,<br />
gummy or a powder<br />
form. While Juice Plus+ isn’t<br />
a substitute for eating fruits<br />
and vegetables, our whole<br />
food-based products support<br />
a healthy diet by offering a<br />
much wider variety of naturally<br />
occurring vitamins, along<br />
with antioxidants and phytonutrients<br />
found in fruits and<br />
vegetables. Every Juice<br />
Plus+ product is made from<br />
quality ingredients grown<br />
farm fresh, providing the natural nutrients<br />
your body needs.<br />
I recommend JuicePlus+ to anyone who will<br />
listen because it's such an easy way to make<br />
sure that they get more nutrition from fresh<br />
fruits and veggies into the diet every single<br />
day. Good health is the result of lots of<br />
things including a good diet, exercise and<br />
even getting a proper amount of sleep but<br />
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one of the simplest things anyone<br />
can do is take 2 capsules in<br />
the morning and 2 capsules at<br />
night. You are improving your<br />
odds every time you do!<br />
For more information on internal<br />
cleansing and/or to purchase<br />
JuicePlus+, please contact<br />
me at (310) 595-5390 or<br />
via email at rennae@bodyclenz.com<br />
OR visit<br />
www.bodyclenz.com or<br />
www.rennae.juiceplus.com.<br />
Rennae is the<br />
owner of<br />
BodyClenz<br />
Holistic<br />
Health Center<br />
in Lawndale,<br />
California<br />
(South Bay<br />
area of Los<br />
Angeles).<br />
BodyClenz<br />
was opened in 2003 with one<br />
purpose in mind….to assist<br />
clients in achieving optimum<br />
health naturally. Rennae believes<br />
in the body’s ability to<br />
heal itself and utilizes her expertise<br />
to assist in this process.<br />
The main focus is internal<br />
cleansing via detoxification,<br />
nutrition, and weight<br />
loss. With a sense of humor,<br />
she strives to make each clients<br />
encounter meaningful<br />
by guiding and motivating<br />
them to make the best<br />
choice for their lives… one<br />
step and one day at a time.<br />
Rennae personalizes each<br />
treatment to the individual’s<br />
needs and goals and strives<br />
to facilitate an opportunity for<br />
positive results.<br />
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“Find a group of people<br />
who challenge<br />
and inspire you,<br />
spend a lot of time<br />
with them, and it will<br />
change your life.”<br />
– Amy Poehler<br />
"None of us, including<br />
me, ever do great<br />
things. But we can all<br />
do small things, with<br />
great love, and together<br />
we can do<br />
something wonderful."<br />
– Mother Teresa<br />
The term “collaboration”<br />
has been bandied about<br />
in recent years. We<br />
know and have enough<br />
evidence to show that<br />
being a collaborative leader is a tremendous<br />
asset in balance. Women, who can<br />
retain this core ability while acting decisively<br />
to make things happen, have the skills<br />
and demeanor to thrive in the future. Are<br />
you one of them? Do you have the skills<br />
and demeanor to thrive as a collaborative<br />
leader?<br />
Numerous research studies show women<br />
are natural collaborators. We see it all the<br />
time: people helping each other to achieve<br />
what they seek to enrich their lives and of<br />
those around them.<br />
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or value as collaborative. Collaboration<br />
means working together to create something.<br />
The operative words are “create<br />
something together.”<br />
A number of years ago, Flynn Heath Holt<br />
Leadership (FHHL) hosted a seminar for 150<br />
businesswomen. Many of the attendees already<br />
held senior leadership positions in<br />
large companies, while others had been<br />
come to terms with their ambition. These<br />
women cited their indecisive perspective primarily<br />
on their strong preference to collaborate<br />
and cooperate rather than brazenly be<br />
in charge.<br />
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Do Not Wait for<br />
Leaders;<br />
do it alone,<br />
person to person”<br />
-Mother Teresa<br />
The research from the seminar noted that<br />
exceptional collaborative women, have a<br />
talent for establishing buy-in.<br />
Collaborative leadership is the wave of the<br />
future. However, the problem is there can<br />
be an overemphasis on consensus, which<br />
can be viewed as weak, thus creating scenarios<br />
when collaboration has been ineffective.<br />
Examples include asking for permission,<br />
appearing indecisive and failing to assert<br />
a strong point of view.<br />
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According to an article<br />
written by Laura Henderson<br />
and Sharon Hadary,<br />
founder and former executive<br />
director of the Center<br />
for Women's Business<br />
Research, “How Women<br />
Lead: It’s All About Creating<br />
A Culture Of Collaboration,”<br />
women have a terrific<br />
advantage for team<br />
building because women’s<br />
leadership styles are collaborative,<br />
inclusive, and<br />
consultative. They further<br />
explain that women gain<br />
commitment by enrolling<br />
team members in achieving<br />
a common vision, actively<br />
soliciting and listening<br />
to employees’ ideas,<br />
and creating a culture focused<br />
on ethics, quality<br />
and concern for the individual.<br />
“Women leaders recognize that people<br />
want to be intellectually stimulated and energized<br />
by their environment, to know they<br />
are making a valuable contribution, and to<br />
be recognized for their performance, so<br />
they operate with collaboration, not command.<br />
The leader’s job is to get everyone enrolled<br />
in their vision so that it becomes a<br />
shared driving force. Every team member<br />
has to be committed to the overall organizational<br />
goals rather than to departmental<br />
or individual group goals.”<br />
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The leader’s<br />
job is to get<br />
everyone<br />
enrolled in<br />
their vision so<br />
that it becomes<br />
a shared<br />
driving force.<br />
Judy Robinson says, “Outsiders have the<br />
perception that since there is a clear chain<br />
of command in the Army, you can just give<br />
orders and people will obey you. Command<br />
has given way to collaboration in<br />
every modern organization.”<br />
Judy Robinson goes on to say, “that while<br />
you may get action by giving orders, you<br />
are getting obedience, not a sense of<br />
achieving goals that make a difference. If<br />
that’s how you try to lead, you don’t get anybody<br />
anywhere. You need to explain to<br />
your team why the goal is important. You<br />
have to make it a team effort and value<br />
what everyone does.”<br />
“Having shared vision and goals really<br />
helps create a culture of success,” says<br />
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Maria Coyne, Executive Vice President,<br />
Consumer and Small Business Segment<br />
Head, KeyBank, member Executive Council,<br />
KeyCorp. “Part of a culture of success is<br />
that you all want to achieve the mission,<br />
and working together, you have fun in the<br />
process. It doesn’t imply that you are just<br />
working insane hours — although that happens<br />
sometimes — but that you are balanced<br />
and having fun and focusing on the<br />
right things. Success creates success.”<br />
“Making the work meaningful to them is one<br />
of the most important ways to engage people<br />
in their work. Take the time to ensure<br />
that your team members understand the importance<br />
of the work they are doing, how it<br />
will be used, and how it will contribute to the<br />
success of the company and the client. .”<br />
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When your team<br />
has done a good<br />
job, let them<br />
know. Take the<br />
time to celebrate<br />
the team’s progress<br />
and success<br />
and to recognize<br />
individual<br />
performance.<br />
Teams that believe their work will make a<br />
difference are more enthusiastic about<br />
their work and work harder to achieve the<br />
goal.<br />
Making sure employees know they are appreciated<br />
is a necessary and rewarding<br />
business strategy. Recognize and reward<br />
success. When your team has done a<br />
good job, let them know. Take the time to<br />
celebrate the team’s progress and success<br />
and to recognize individual performance.”<br />
Anne Stevens, Chairman, CEO, and Principal<br />
at SA IT Services, characterizes her<br />
leadership style as “push, push, hug.” She<br />
says you must set goals that stretch people<br />
and be explicit about your<br />
expectations. However, “you can’t push<br />
without a hug,” says Anne. There has to be<br />
a balance. If you do either one without the<br />
other, you will be ineffective. “It’s setting<br />
objectives, and then at the end of the day,<br />
recognizing the humanity in all of us.”<br />
“In addition to believing that the organizational<br />
vision is worth pursuing, employees<br />
must perceive that in achieving the organization’s<br />
goals, they also will be successful<br />
in achieving their own personal and professional<br />
goals. Take the time to understand<br />
what success means to your team members<br />
and how you can help them achieve<br />
it.<br />
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The most successful<br />
leaders help people recognize<br />
their individual<br />
strengths. Give them opportunities<br />
to use those<br />
strengths and build new<br />
ones. Employees want to<br />
feel they are making progress,<br />
doing work that is<br />
meaningful both to them<br />
and to the organization.<br />
Reinforce employees’<br />
confidence in their skills<br />
by putting them in situations<br />
where they can perform<br />
successfully and be<br />
recognized.”<br />
Gina O’Reilly, COO at<br />
Nitro, in her article,<br />
“United We Stand: Why<br />
Women And Men Need<br />
To Collaborate For Success,”<br />
for Fast Company<br />
shares, “we need to stop<br />
taking sides in the gender<br />
debate if we want to<br />
work together equally.”<br />
She goes on to say,<br />
“Rather than engage in divisive tactics,<br />
isolate ourselves at female-only events,<br />
or openly complain about an issue that<br />
needs to be addressed, we can all practice<br />
what I call complementary collaboration:<br />
simply recognizing, respecting, and<br />
embracing the fact that men and women<br />
bring different but often hugely complementary<br />
skills to the table that, if nurtured<br />
and developed, can be a very powerful<br />
and highly successful combination for<br />
any business.<br />
It’s worth emphasizing this isn’t just a<br />
“feel good” thing. Businesses should<br />
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It’s important for women to ha<br />
examine the issue pragmatically to fully recognize<br />
the significant impact women can<br />
have on a company’s bottom line.<br />
Not only do women bring unique talents and<br />
complementary skills to the boardroom (and<br />
every other position for that matter), we hold<br />
tremendous purchasing power. Today, women<br />
make or influence a staggering 85% of all<br />
consumer purchases across all categories.<br />
Considering the influence and importance<br />
women have in the purchasing process, their<br />
perspective should be more than just nice to<br />
have for companies that want to tap into a<br />
market’s full potential. Business leaders<br />
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ve each other’s backs<br />
who recognize the power of understanding<br />
their entire customer base and work diligently<br />
to listen and make women’s voices<br />
heard, come out on top.<br />
So, what can we all do to help correct the<br />
gender imbalance for current and future<br />
generations? Here are a few simple tips to<br />
help drive complementary collaboration:<br />
1. Be Authentic<br />
Women and men often feel they have to<br />
act a certain way in the workplace in order<br />
to be successful. This is particularly common<br />
in female leadership roles where<br />
people wrongly assume<br />
you need a tough-as-nails<br />
attitude to succeed, especially<br />
in male-dominated<br />
environments. However, a<br />
lack of sincerity can be felt<br />
a mile away and only perpetuates<br />
the problem, so<br />
it’s best to choose the authentic<br />
route and just be<br />
yourself. You’ll be surprised<br />
how much more receptive<br />
others are as a result.<br />
2. Embrace and Play To<br />
Your Strengths<br />
According to Google,<br />
women-led tech companies<br />
achieve 35% higher<br />
return on investment, and<br />
when backed by venture<br />
capital, deliver 12% more<br />
revenue than their male<br />
counterparts. Most women,<br />
irrespective of their position,<br />
bring a high level of<br />
perceptiveness and emotional<br />
IQ that’s critical for<br />
leading teams and growing a business. So,<br />
rather than worrying about the skills they<br />
lack, women should recognize their talents<br />
and double down on them, while men can<br />
help ensure more women are part of the mix<br />
from the onset for optimal business success.<br />
3. Support One Another<br />
It’s important for women to have each other’s<br />
backs and foster a supportive, positive work<br />
environment. Try to make an effort to connect<br />
with other women in your company and industry<br />
by attending networking and skill<br />
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development events or<br />
by organizing casual<br />
meet-ups. Include men<br />
in some of these activities<br />
as well.<br />
4. Introduce and<br />
Lead Change<br />
Merely complaining<br />
about something you<br />
could absolutely play a<br />
hand in changing, or at<br />
least improving, isn’t<br />
helpful. Instead, take<br />
the bull by the horns<br />
and pave the way for<br />
change. Women are<br />
natural born leaders,<br />
and the “matriarch<br />
mentality” can be a<br />
strong positive force<br />
within any business.<br />
The key is to have both<br />
men and women align<br />
behind this mindset<br />
and drive change collectively.<br />
In this vein,<br />
let’s move past all the<br />
talk about whether<br />
Sheryl Sandberg, an<br />
American technology<br />
executive, activist, and<br />
author who serves as<br />
the chief operating officer (COO) of Facebook<br />
and founder of Leanin.org (also known as the<br />
Lean In Foundation), is in touch with the realities<br />
of average women and instead celebrate<br />
her efforts to raise awareness for the issues<br />
we face. Collectively, we can make a difference.<br />
We can do so much more to lead by example<br />
and help foster complementary collaboration<br />
and a greater balance between men and<br />
women in the workplace. As women, we have<br />
As women,<br />
we have a<br />
responsibility<br />
to help other<br />
women<br />
succeed so we<br />
can all play<br />
our part, no<br />
matter how<br />
small.<br />
a responsibility to help other women succeed<br />
so we can all play our part, no matter<br />
how small.<br />
4. Introduce and Lead Change<br />
Merely complaining about something you<br />
could absolutely play a hand in changing,<br />
or at least improving, isn’t helpful. Instead,<br />
take the bull by the horns and<br />
pave the way for change. Women are<br />
natural born leaders, and the “matriarch<br />
mentality” can be a strong positive force<br />
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to raise awareness for the issues<br />
we face. Collectively, we<br />
can make a difference.<br />
We can do so much more to<br />
lead by example and help foster<br />
complementary collaboration<br />
and a greater balance between<br />
men and women in the<br />
workplace. As women, we have<br />
a responsibility to help other<br />
women succeed so we can all<br />
play our part, no matter how<br />
small.<br />
within any business.<br />
The key is to have both men and women<br />
align behind this mindset and drive change<br />
collectively. In this vein, let’s move past all<br />
the talk about whether Sheryl Sandberg, an<br />
American technology executive, activist, and<br />
author who serves as the chief operating officer<br />
(COO) of Facebook and founder of<br />
Leanin.org (also known as the Lean In Foundation),<br />
is in touch with the realities of average<br />
women and instead celebrate her efforts<br />
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Men share the same responsibility.<br />
To those men who have<br />
worked with great women and<br />
recognized firsthand what we<br />
bring to the table, spread the<br />
word!”<br />
While these steps can help<br />
women battle the discrimination<br />
they encounter in the workplace,<br />
fixing this problem relies<br />
on all men and women. We all<br />
want to believe in a world<br />
where hard work pays off. However,<br />
as long as women fail to<br />
receive full credit for their contributions,<br />
they’ll remain stuck<br />
on the sidelines while men continue to<br />
reap the benefits of collaborative success.<br />
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At an event last night two like-minded retired senior Navy Officers - one<br />
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that they are powerful messages. Instead<br />
of running away you run towards them, incorporate<br />
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Leaders throughout history refer to<br />
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A MESSAGE FROM:<br />
Founder/CEO of The Women of Global Change<br />
Female Executives joining together to lead the new economy. The Year of the Woman is<br />
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Last year, Elle was acknowledged by Jane Seymour and the Open Hearts<br />
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Elle serves as a Contract Adviser for the National Writers Union and was<br />
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About NAFE<br />
Nafe is the largest global network<br />
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recently celebrated their 42nd anniversary, headquartered<br />
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Would a group of women sharing their dreams…<br />
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you can purchase your ticket<br />
on<br />
thewww.wrnafe.com website<br />
if you are using a check<br />
make it payable to Robbie<br />
Motter dba SuccessUp Conferences<br />
and mail to Robbie<br />
Motter 27701 Murrieta Road<br />
#216 Menifee, CA 92586 that<br />
wrnafe.com website has all<br />
the speakers and entertainers<br />
bios for you to view as<br />
well they are all amazing.<br />
We also have a nafe facebook<br />
page where nafe members<br />
can go and introduce<br />
themselves as well as tell us<br />
what you do and if you have<br />
some specials to share let us<br />
know that as well here is<br />
that link https://<br />
www.facebook.com/<br />
groups/197601170355640/<br />
Congratulations to Tiffany Tremont<br />
the Director of nafe San Antonio,<br />
Texas and her company, check this<br />
out Governor Abbott's State of the<br />
State address<br />
Please visit the link 85th Session<br />
Chamber Archived Broadcast for<br />
January 31, 2017 @10am, Duration<br />
02h 31min below.<br />
http://tlchouse.granicus.com/<br />
MediaPlayer.php?<br />
view_id=39&clip_id=12511<br />
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If you advance to mark 1:23 of the Governor’s<br />
State of the State Address, you will<br />
see that Governor Abbott honored Silotech<br />
and Tiffany Tremont on the House<br />
floor. As a Service Disabled Veteran,<br />
Woman, Minority Owned Small Business,<br />
she was honored and humbled to represent<br />
San Antonio (Military City) in Advanced<br />
Cyber, Enterprise IT, and most importantly<br />
job growth in Texas.<br />
These are some of the other awards she<br />
and her company Silotech have received<br />
2016 Inc. 5000 Ranked #1065 2015 Inc.<br />
5000 Ranked #2178<br />
2016 San Antonio Business Journal Best<br />
Places to Work – Small Business<br />
2016 AFCEA International Women in<br />
AFCEA Appreciation Award<br />
2015 San Antonio Business Journal –<br />
Tech Flash Titans Award – Cybersecurity<br />
2015 San Antonio Business Journal<br />
CEO - C-Suite Award – Small/Medium<br />
Business<br />
2015 San Antonio MED Week – IT Firm of<br />
the Year<br />
2015 San Antonio Business Journal Best<br />
Places to Work – Small Business<br />
2014 San Antonio Business Opportunity<br />
Council’s (SABOC) MED Week Award for<br />
Excellence in Contract Support<br />
2014 San Antonio Business Journal Women’s<br />
Leadership - Business Leader of the<br />
Year & Entrepreneurial Leader<br />
TO contach Tiffany<br />
Tremont<br />
Silotech Group,<br />
Inc. 10100 Reunion<br />
Place, Ste 250 San Antonio,<br />
TX 78216 O<br />
210.569.0950 M<br />
210.748.0707 ttremont@SilotechGroup.co<br />
m<br />
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Congratulations to Murrieta nafe member<br />
Reatha Reedus who with her daughter Dr. Desiree<br />
Reedus recently help to put together with<br />
the GFWC Riverside Women’s Club a very<br />
successful GO RED Event at the Riverside<br />
Women’s Club.<br />
Also congratulations to NAFE/Women In Networking<br />
in Indiana who has become partner<br />
with the National Women’s History Project<br />
(NWHP), which recognizes and celebrates<br />
the diverse and historic accomplishments<br />
of women by providing informational<br />
services and educational and promotional materials.<br />
The network President said “One of the benefits<br />
of being a partner with the NWHP is we<br />
can post our events with them, and they have<br />
the capability to publish them on a broader<br />
scale for us, e.g., in Indy and other<br />
states! NAFE/WIN is currently in their Women’s<br />
History Newspaper “The Gazette”. We<br />
are looking for different avenues to expand<br />
knowledge about our 501 ( c ) (3) organization<br />
and to grow. This along with other venues<br />
hopefully will put us further on the “map”. Our<br />
website is currently under construction<br />
and being updated by NAFE/WIN’s Webmaster<br />
Jay Fitzsimonds”<br />
Robbie Motter, nafe global coordinator is putting<br />
together a quote book and is looking for<br />
your favorite quote, here is the information that<br />
is needed and who to send it too, you can<br />
send up to three quotes, the quotes should<br />
cover Business, Fun or Health. Here is where<br />
you send them and you have until March 1at<br />
to get them in.This book is a nafe Western Region<br />
Conference Fundraiser As a nafe member<br />
I would like you to be a part of “Heartfelt<br />
Sayings” a spiral-bound book that includes<br />
your favorite quote about business, health or<br />
just plain fun. Simply submit your quote (it can<br />
be your own or someone else’s) in 50 words or<br />
less by March 1 st . Also include your name,<br />
business name, e-mail and Website.<br />
E-mail the info to JoLynn Vensel<br />
at jmv9465@gmail.com.<br />
The book will be available for purchase at the<br />
April 22, 2017, Success Up nafe Women’s Conference.<br />
Please take this free opportunity to share your tidbits<br />
of wisdom with like-minded professional women!<br />
Don't delay get them to JoLynn today and in subject<br />
of the email add Quotes for nafe book. The<br />
deadline is firm so take time today and get your<br />
quote in. You may send two or three quotes. If<br />
you have any questions on this please don;t hesitate<br />
to give me a call 951-255-9200<br />
You know what my two quotes will be: It's All<br />
About "SHOWING UP" as showing up is like a<br />
treasure map, you never know what treasure you<br />
will find. My second one is "The POWER IS IN<br />
THE ASKING" Magichappens when you ask and<br />
opens doors you never even imagined.<br />
So Members SHOWING UP in this book is a great<br />
opportunity for YOU! So don't delay do it today.<br />
A large group of nafe members are off to Catalina<br />
and Mexico on a cruise so watch for photos in<br />
next months From the Desk of Article and March<br />
8 th I am on the way to Hawaii to celebrate my<br />
81 st birthday and also to meet our Hawaii active<br />
and inactive nafe members. My birthday also falls<br />
on International Women’s Day and I always knew<br />
I was an International Women.<br />
Until next issue I wish you Health, Happiness and<br />
continued success. And please know you can call<br />
me anytime at 951-255-9200 or<br />
email rmotter@aol.com, as I am always here for<br />
our nafe members across the globe.<br />
Robbie Motter, nafe Global Coordinator<br />
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of<br />
Angel Toussant<br />
I first met Angel through my Riverside nafe<br />
director Joan E. Wakeland and was very<br />
impressed as to what a dynamic women<br />
she is. She also recently joined our Riverside<br />
nafe network. I also had the opportunity<br />
to hear her speak at several locations<br />
and she is amazing. I asked her to speak<br />
for some upcoming nafe meetings, which<br />
are in Menifee, Murrieta and Temecula and<br />
I am looking forward to those presentations.<br />
Angel Toussant was born and raised in Anchorage,<br />
Alaska and at age 37 moved from<br />
Anchorage to Northern California. She remained<br />
in Northern California until April,<br />
2016 at which time she found her new<br />
home in Murrieta,California.<br />
She said “my proudest life accomplishment<br />
is raising two phenomenal daughters.<br />
I love to say I can die a happy person if I<br />
accomplish nothing else in life because of<br />
the relationship I have with my girls. I am<br />
confident my relationship with my daughters<br />
is well above average and I am confident<br />
they feel the same way, despite the<br />
many parenting mistakes I made along the<br />
way”.<br />
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Angel believes we should never stop educating<br />
ourselves. For her first leg of education at<br />
the beginning of college she chose psychology<br />
once she had satisfied that education she<br />
pursued business and law. Currently she is in<br />
pursuit of a marketing education when that<br />
education is satisfied she is sure she will find<br />
a new education interest to pursue.<br />
Her career choices are as varied as<br />
her education choices She has held positions<br />
from teachers aid to police officer and<br />
many careers in between. Currently, she is<br />
providing monitoring services for parents who<br />
are required by the courts to have supervised<br />
visits. She consider myself a serial entrepreneur,<br />
because she continually invests in endeavors<br />
that provide her the opportunity<br />
for her to grow a healthy income while doing<br />
what she loves to do, which is to always find<br />
new ways to help others around her, be it<br />
family, friend, or stranger.<br />
She has written and published two journal<br />
books. The first was for recovering addicts<br />
(out of print) and the second one is for<br />
goal‐setting. She is currently writing a personal<br />
growth book which she plans to publish<br />
by year end. She owns an online store<br />
(LifesPowerStore.Com) thttp://<br />
lifespowerstore.com/ hat sells, educational/<br />
personal growth books,<br />
and other educational, inspirational, motivational<br />
tools and products.<br />
Her hobbies, like her education and careers<br />
are varied. She enjoys golf, horseback riding,<br />
photography (nature and wildlife), snow<br />
skiing, boating, jet skiing, jewelry making,<br />
hiking, bike riding, and graphic design.<br />
Angel can be reached by<br />
email angel@atsmartdecisions.com<br />
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ttremont@silotechgroup.com<br />
VP of Events: Jacqueline Jackson,<br />
Jacqueline.jackson@utsa.org<br />
210-458-2483<br />
VP of Communications: Chris<br />
Slowey, sloweyrcpoa@yahoo.com,<br />
210-569-0953<br />
VP of Finance: Natasha Robles,<br />
nrobles@silotechgroup.com, 210-569-<br />
0959<br />
Our website address is<br />
www.nafesa.org.<br />
TEXAS<br />
Dallas<br />
P-31 Women Inc, Contact Connie Mitchell<br />
214-404-6462<br />
Midland<br />
Successful Women’s Alliance, Diector<br />
Mary Elena Duron 432-978-2009<br />
San Antonio<br />
NAFE San Antonio Network<br />
(Formerly We Lead)<br />
Meets at Norris Conference Center @<br />
North Park 618 NW Loop 410, San Antonio<br />
TX 78216 2nd Wednesday of every<br />
month 11:30 AM to 1:30 PM<br />
President: Tiffany Tremont, ttremont@silotechgroup.com,<br />
210-569-0953<br />
Waco<br />
Women’s Information Network, Max Nolen<br />
Director<br />
254-717-5188 max_nolan@us.aflac.com<br />
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We are always looking for more individuals<br />
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