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Celebrating 25 years!<br />

MASSAGE |MAPS<br />

BUSINESS<br />

DIRECTORY<br />

BARS | HOTELS<br />

Your Desert Daily Guide Since 1994<br />

<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>31</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>Nov</strong> 6, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Congratulations<br />

Mr Palm Springs Leather 2019!<br />

Mr Tool Shed Leather 2019,<br />

<strong>to</strong> Mr. Richard Passmore<br />

PLUS Events, Schedules & Maps<br />

TRICK behind the shed<br />

DILF at the Barracks<br />

Cher-Javier @ Pride


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COVER<br />

HALLOWEEN OCT <strong>31</strong> P.21<br />

PALM SPRINGS <strong>PRIDE</strong> NOV 1-4 P.26<br />

THIS <strong>WEEK</strong><br />

We chose the next Mr. Palm Springs<br />

Leather. (Pho<strong>to</strong> by Adrian) Richard<br />

Passmore, also Mr. Tool Shed received<br />

the PSLOD's highest honor. But it's also<br />

important <strong>to</strong> congratulate the many,<br />

many community members that helped<br />

established this event and continue its grand<br />

tradition. The leather community has alway<br />

been the loving but stern big brother of our<br />

queer lives. They protest us when we need it<br />

and are there for the long run. We have met<br />

Mr. Passmore and we approve. He seems<br />

<strong>to</strong> embody the fine traditions of the leather<br />

and reminds us <strong>to</strong> show our better Angels.<br />

He is passionate about our community and<br />

interested in bringing more folks discover<br />

the leather pride.<br />

The liberals guide <strong>to</strong> voting! Is back on<br />

page 22.<br />

Halloween Palm Springs on Arenas Road<br />

is an annual event of the Arenas Road<br />

businesses and those that support them.<br />

All are welcome. Some age restrictions<br />

apply. This event supports local health and<br />

wellness organizations that depend on your<br />

support. Greater Palm Springs Pride, Palm<br />

Springs Gay Men's Chorus, Desert AIDS<br />

Project, & LGBT Community Center of the<br />

Desert.<br />

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EDITORIAL<br />

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will@desertdailyguide.com<br />

Volume 24, Issue 18<br />

<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>31</strong> - <strong>Nov</strong> 6, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Inside This Week’s Issue<br />

Page 12<br />

“Daily What’s Happening”<br />

Page 14<br />

“DDG BUSINESS DIRECTORY”<br />

Page 39<br />

13 10 Questions with Vic<br />

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20 Word of the week<br />

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Best known for her iconic roles in<br />

films and television series spanning<br />

over generations, EG Daily<br />

is a Los Angeles native and started<br />

her career at an early age with<br />

roles on shows including “Laverne<br />

and Shirley,” “Chips,” and “Fame.”<br />

In the ‘80s, she had three Top<br />

10 hits, including “Say It, Say It”<br />

by Benitez, which went #1 on the<br />

Billboard dance charts. EG also<br />

stunned judges on NBC’s “The<br />

Voice” once they realized that she<br />

had starred in the ‘80’s cult classic<br />

movie PEE WEE’S BIG ADVENTURE<br />

as Dottie, had voiced Tommy<br />

Pickles on Nickelodeon’s hit car<strong>to</strong>on<br />

“Rugrats” and had gueststarred<br />

on NBC’s “Friends” as Leslie,<br />

Phoebe’s“Smelly Cat” songwriting<br />

partner.<br />

been writing, I hadn’t put out<br />

a “song-song” for a while, and I<br />

wasn’t even actually trying. I always<br />

write for different projects, once<br />

So Pretty was finished, I felt very<br />

strongly about it and thought I<br />

want this <strong>to</strong> be a me song. I wanted <strong>to</strong><br />

tackle it since the message was so important,<br />

so the next you know, I put <strong>to</strong>gether the<br />

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When the video was done, it became very<br />

clear <strong>to</strong> me that the message doesn’t just<br />

affect women, but also children, younger<br />

boys, and men— it affects everyone. True<br />

beauty is an inside job.<br />

You recently said, “We can be<br />

our harshest critics and I want<br />

this song <strong>to</strong> be an anthem for<br />

everyone <strong>to</strong> say <strong>to</strong> themselves ‘I<br />

am more than enough.” Do you<br />

have any personal experiences <strong>to</strong><br />

share?<br />

Yeah, at my age, I’m still at a<br />

point where I want <strong>to</strong> look beauti-<br />

Tell me about your new song, “So<br />

Pretty.”<br />

So what happened<br />

For over<br />

was<br />

23<br />

that<br />

years<br />

I<br />

Online<br />

had ful and feel pretty like everybody<br />

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<strong>PRIDE</strong> GUIDE<br />

Disco Dance-Off<br />

Hosted by Sunny 103.1 FM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober, <strong>31</strong> <strong>2018</strong> 5:00-6:00 p.m.<br />

CONTEST RULES: Verify all info n the web<br />

at halloweenpalmsprings.com.<br />

15 qualifed contestants will select song 90<br />

second performance from start of song Must<br />

be 21+ and reside in the Coachella Valley<br />

Must check-in with valid I.D. No Later than<br />

4:30 p.m. at the Sunny 103.1 booth<br />

Halloween Costume Contest<br />

Now the next contest is held on arenas road,<br />

Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober <strong>31</strong>, <strong>2018</strong><br />

​WIN Over $1,000 Cash/Prizes<br />

(1st, 2nd, 3rd Prizes) 6:00 p.m.<br />

7:45 p.m. Costume Contest Registration<br />

Opens<br />

8:00 p.m. Registration Cu<strong>to</strong>ff — No<br />

Exceptions<br />

Must be in Contest Line at Stage.<br />

<strong>PRIDE</strong> Insider<br />

Two-Day Pride Festival – FREE<br />

ADMISSION subject <strong>to</strong> change. Please verify<br />

all dates times and admissions at pspride.org<br />

Donations will be accepted at entry points <strong>to</strong><br />

keep Pride free.<br />

Springs has a lot of elderly gay folks, be<br />

aware of them and any difficulties that the<br />

may be having. DON'T WAIT ASK!<br />

Saturday and Sunday <strong>Nov</strong>ember 3 and 4<br />

(times vary by stage)<br />

Down<strong>to</strong>wn Park (between Palm Canyon Dr<br />

and Museum Dr) 11:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. on<br />

Sat & 11:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. on Sun<br />

Pride Stage 11:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. on Sat &<br />

12:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. on Sun<br />

Arenas Stage 11:00 a.m. – 11:00 p.m. on Sat &<br />

11:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m. on Sun<br />

The new down<strong>to</strong>wn park area will be closed<br />

<strong>to</strong> traffic and transformed in<strong>to</strong> a vibrant,<br />

pedestrian friendly Pride Festival unique <strong>to</strong><br />

Southern California. Enjoy a diverse array<br />

of artists, entertainers, multiple beverage<br />

gardens, and purveyors of a variety of items<br />

including, jewelry, snacks, and sweets. Add all<br />

that <strong>to</strong> great shopping restaurants, clubs, and<br />

entertainment venues located along worldfamous<br />

Palm Canyon Dr. The result is like<br />

no place else – Palm Springs Pride.<br />

Features include a Children’s Headquarters<br />

(CHQ) space for games and crafts, the Youth<br />

Zone by Safe Schools Desert Cities, and HIV/<br />

AIDS testing by Get Tested Coachella Valley.<br />

Over 150 exhibi<strong>to</strong>rs,non-profit organizations,<br />

food, and beverage vendors will be on hand.<br />

The Festival is a free community event held in<br />

three venues:<br />

On Arenas Road between Indian Canyon and<br />

Drink plenty of water. Check the weather S. Calle Encilia<br />

it may get hotter in the day. Locate the In the new Down<strong>to</strong>wn Park area between<br />

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DAILY WHAT’S HAPPENING<br />

Bars & Restaurants<br />

Featured<br />

Bongo Johnny’s Patio Bar<br />

& Grille<br />

214 East Arenas Road, PS<br />

(760) 866-1905<br />

Mon & Tue 8:00am -10pm<br />

Wed & Thu 8:00am -11pm<br />

Fri 8:00am -3:00am<br />

Sat 8:00am -3:00am<br />

Sun 8:00am -11 :00pm<br />

Azul<br />

369 N Palm Canyon Dr ,<br />

PS CA (760) 325-5533<br />

Pinocchio In the Desert<br />

134 East Tahquitz Canyon<br />

Way, PS 7:30am-2pm<br />

(760) 322-3776<br />

Rio Azul - Mexican Style<br />

Rest. & Bar<br />

(760) 992-5641 350 South<br />

Indian Cyn, PS,<br />

Sunshine Cafe<br />

36815 Cathedral Canyon<br />

Drive, CC<br />

(760) 328-1415 6:00 am<br />

QUADZ (760) 778-4326<br />

200 S Indian Canyon Dr ,<br />

PS, CA<br />

The Barracks - Leather<br />

Bar 67625 E. Palm Canyon<br />

Dr. , CC<br />

2:00 pm – 2:00 am<br />

Tool Shed - Leather Bar<br />

600 E Sunny Dunes Rd ,<br />

PS (760) 320-3299<br />

10:00 am – 2:00 am<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge<br />

188 S Indian Canyon Dr<br />

Palm Springs, CA<br />

Toucan’s Palm Canyon<br />

Streetbar Arenas rd<br />

Chill bar Arenas rd<br />

Hunters Arenas rd<br />

Stacy’s Arenas rd<br />

BlackBook Arenas rd<br />

HAPPY HOUR<br />

Tryst Everyday-2p -5p<br />

Score - Everyday 6a-8p<br />

Tool Shed - 10a-8p Every<br />

Day.<br />

Pinocchio - Everyday<br />

7:30a-2p<br />

Rio Azul Wed-Sun 4p-7p<br />

Barracks Happy Hour 2p<br />

<strong>to</strong> 8PM<br />

Bongo Johnny’s Patio Bar<br />

& Grille 5$ Bot<strong>to</strong>mless<br />

Mimosas All Day<br />

Score - The Game bar<br />

301 E Arenas Rd , PS<br />

Trunks Cat City<br />

(760) 327-0753 6:00 am<br />

Oscar’s Indian/Taqz.<br />

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DAILY WHAT’S HAPPENING<br />

Continued from page 14<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open - Score Happy Hour til 8 PM<br />

WEDNESDAYS Happy Hour 2p <strong>to</strong> 8PM $4 Budweiser 25 ounce cans<br />

3:00 PM<br />

all day<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Sunshine Cafe Dinner Special Sunshine Cafe All day<br />

Score Happy Hour til 8 PM<br />

Chicken Enchiladas $12.95 everyday $6.95 breakfast,<br />

6:00 AM Score $2 Rolling<br />

4:00pm<br />

coffee included. Breakfast<br />

Rock Bottles all day<br />

Azul until 7pm 2-4-1<br />

Special Carne Asada<br />

Sunshine Cafe All day<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s and Eggs $10.25, Lunch<br />

everyday $6.95 breakfast,<br />

Dinner Special Chicken Special Meatloaf or Meatloaf<br />

coffee included, Lunch<br />

Parmesan 16.95<br />

Sandwich $9.75<br />

Special Bacon Guacamole<br />

5:00 PM<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Cheeseburger $10.95<br />

Rio Azul Open Happy Pinocchio Everyday<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Hour 5-7 PM $5 House Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Champagne!<br />

Pinocchio Everyday<br />

Margarita’s all day<br />

$4.95 Well Drinks &<br />

Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Champagne!<br />

8:00 PM<br />

Martinis<br />

$4.95 Well Drinks & Martinis<br />

Tool Shed Bear Chest Night -<br />

8:00 AM<br />

8:00 AM<br />

Happy Hour For Bear Chests TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

TMP closed. TMP closed.<br />

all night<br />

Everyday Bot<strong>to</strong>mless<br />

Bongo Johnny’s Everyday<br />

QUADZ Country & Western Mimosas $5 and $6 Handcrafted<br />

Bacon Bloody Mary’s<br />

Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Mimosas $5<br />

Video Night<br />

and $6 Hand-crafted Bacon<br />

Chill AJ Karaoke<br />

10:00 AM<br />

Bloody Mary’s<br />

9:00 PM<br />

Tool Shed Open - Happy<br />

10:00 AM<br />

Barracks Underwear Night Hour 10am-8pm<br />

Tool Shed Open - Happy<br />

with DJ<br />

2:00 PM<br />

Hour 10am-8pm $3.75 Well<br />

11:00 PM<br />

Barracks Open Happy Hour<br />

drinks<br />

Hunters underwear contest 2p <strong>to</strong> 8PM<br />

12:00 PM<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open<br />

Tool Shed Bingo<br />

2:00pm Happy hour til 8pm<br />

(2 drink minimum)<br />

THURSDAYS<br />

4:00 PM<br />

2:00 PM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Barracks Open Happy Hour<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Dinner Special NY Strip<br />

2p <strong>to</strong> 8PM 2:00 PM<br />

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DAILY WHAT’S HAPPENING<br />

Word for the week<br />

Continued from page 18<br />

Onerous<br />

Steak with a fully loaded baked<br />

pota<strong>to</strong> and veggies $17.95<br />

Alibi Azul until 7pm 2-4-1<br />

5:00 PM<br />

Rio Azul Open Happy Hour<br />

5-7 PM $5 House Margarita’s<br />

all day 2 for 1 Rio Margaritas<br />

with the $2 Crispy Tacos<br />

6:00 PM<br />

Palm Springs VillageFest Palm<br />

Canyon Drive Street fair<br />

Chill Bar Deserts only M4M<br />

Strip Club<br />

9:00 PM<br />

Barracks The Underground<br />

Drink specials for those in<br />

Jockstraps, underwear, Fetish<br />

gear or leather 9pm till closing.<br />

QUADZ Karaoke<br />

Tool Shed Underwear Night<br />

Happy Hour prices for those<br />

in underwear Clothes Check &<br />

DJ till 2am<br />

FRIDAYS<br />

Onerous adj. Involving heavy obligations.<br />

Involving a burdensome amount of effort and<br />

difficulty. “The President's stipulations were<br />

onerous.”<br />

<strong>to</strong> close<br />

Sunshine Cafe Breakfast<br />

Special California<br />

Chipotle Benedict $10.50,<br />

Lunch Special Fish and Chips<br />

$10.25. All day everyday $6.95<br />

breakfast, coffee included<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Pinocchio Everyday<br />

Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Champagne! $4.95<br />

Well Drinks & Martinis<br />

8:00 AM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Everyday Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Mimosas<br />

$5 and $6 Hand-crafted Bacon<br />

Bloody Mary’s<br />

11:00 AM<br />

Rio Azul Open Happy<br />

Hour 5-7 PM $5 House<br />

Margarita’s all day<br />

2:00 PM<br />

Barracks Open Happy Hour<br />

2p <strong>to</strong> 8PM<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open<br />

2:00pm Happy hour til 8pm<br />

4:00 PM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Dinner Special BBQ Spare<br />

Ribs Half Rack for 16.95; Full<br />

Rack for 19.95<br />

4:00pm<br />

Azul until 7pm 2-4-1 !!<br />

5:00 PM<br />

Hunters fur Night<br />

8:00 PM<br />

Tool Shed Smoking Fridays<br />

(Or check Tool Shed Facebook<br />

Page for special events on<br />

Friday)<br />

Quadz Showtunes<br />

SATURDAYS<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Score Happy Hour until 8 PM<br />

Sunshine Cafe All day<br />

everyday $6.95 breakfast,<br />

coffee included<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Pinocchio Everyday<br />

Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Champagne! $4.95<br />

Well Drinks & Martinis<br />

8:00 AM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Everyday Bot<strong>to</strong>mless Mimosas<br />

$5 & $6 Hand-crafted Bacon<br />

Bloody Mary’s (continued<br />

from pg 20)<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Score Happy Hour til 8 PM<br />

11:00 AM<br />

6:00 AM Score $3 wells 8pm<br />

Rio Azul Continued Open Happy on Hour page 20<br />

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Insider Guide<br />

Signature Event Calendar<br />

Daylight Savings Time ends <strong>Nov</strong>ember 4,<br />

<strong>2018</strong><br />

Family YMCA of the Desert Hoedown at<br />

Sundown at Agua Caliente <strong>Nov</strong> 3, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Cancer Partners 2nd Annual Passions Ball<br />

6PM Westin Mission Hills <strong>Nov</strong>ember 3,<br />

<strong>2018</strong><br />

Palm Springs Pride Weekend (Parade:<br />

Sunday, <strong>Nov</strong>. 4, <strong>2018</strong>) <strong>Nov</strong>ember 2 – 4, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Veteran’s Day <strong>Nov</strong>ember 12, <strong>2018</strong><br />

LGBT Community Center of the Desert,<br />

Center Stage PS Convention Center, 5:30<br />

PM <strong>Nov</strong>ember 17, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Thanksgiving Day <strong>Nov</strong>ember 22, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Festival of Lights Parade Palm Canyon,<br />

starts 5:45 PM December 1, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Chanukah/Hanukkah December 2-10, <strong>2018</strong><br />

Walk of the Inns (Palm Springs) December<br />

6, <strong>2018</strong><br />

The Center<br />

LGBTQ CENTER<br />

OF THE DESERT<br />

(760-416-7790)<br />

SCOTT HINES<br />

MENTAL HEALTH<br />

CLINIC at the<br />

CENTER (760-416-<br />

7899)<br />

1301 North Palm<br />

Canyon Drive, Suite<br />

301, Palm Springs,<br />

CA 92262<br />

TheCenterPS.org<br />

Daily programing is<br />

available online at<br />

the above website or<br />

by calling the Center.<br />

SAVE THE DATE:<br />

<strong>Oct</strong>ober 24th – HIV<br />

and Aging<br />

<strong>Oct</strong>ober 24th –<br />

CENTER SOCIAL at<br />

the Riviera Hotel<br />

The CENTER<br />

STAGE GALA<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 9th<br />

Fridays at 3PM –<br />

Caregiver Support<br />

Group<br />

2nd and 4th<br />

Tuesdays– Prostate<br />

Cancer Support<br />

Group<br />

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(BEHIND TOUCAN’S TIKI LOUNGE)<br />

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WORKOUT GYM HOURS:<br />

MON-FRI: 5:00AM - 8:00PM<br />

SAT-SUN: 8:00AM - 6:00PM<br />

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The liberals guide <strong>to</strong> voting!<br />

Straight white Democrats<br />

also might find themselves<br />

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Americans died killing 2 million others. No<br />

one needs <strong>to</strong> tell us how important it is.<br />

Trump supporters are like a drunk driver<br />

in your lane. They will not change their<br />

minds. They are certain they are in the<br />

correct lane. Our only hope is <strong>to</strong> out vote<br />

them. Then we can begin <strong>to</strong> help them<br />

see both sides of the issue. As a gay man I<br />

Vote Democrat, because I have read both<br />

platforms and the Democratic platform<br />

supports more representation of the peoples<br />

of this land. Now it is true we have a rich<br />

and colorful his<strong>to</strong>ry of oppression, cruelty<br />

and indifference. Democrats are<br />

also <strong>to</strong> blame for that and<br />

is matched by the evildoers<br />

all over the word. We exist. We struggle,<br />

we all help each other up in a disaster. We<br />

have joyful births and sad passing of those<br />

we love. That's what it's all about, because<br />

we exist, it proves that love always wins in<br />

the end and love will always be first in our<br />

hearts. Vote then with your heart, move the<br />

thermometer back <strong>to</strong> the middle. If the only<br />

energy you have is <strong>to</strong> vote for your state<br />

congress person and our federal legislatures<br />

with the “D” next <strong>to</strong> their name. Because<br />

what ever Trump does, he votes republican.<br />

A good start <strong>to</strong> discover this election is YES<br />

on all the propositions Yes on all the D's<br />

vote411.org<br />

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day<br />

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Tool Shed Bingo! Noon <strong>to</strong> 2 PM<br />

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2:00 PM<br />

Barracks Open Happy Hour 2p<br />

<strong>to</strong> 8PM<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open<br />

2:00pm Happy hour til 8pm<br />

4:00 PM<br />

TMP closed. Bongo Johnny’s<br />

Tool Shed Lights Out<br />

Saturdays (Or check Tool<br />

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9:00 PM<br />

Barracks Fetish Patio<br />

Party: Cruise night on the<br />

Patio w/DJ Mixie<br />

SUNDAYS<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Score Happy Hour til 8 PM<br />

$4 Cucumber or Southern<br />

Mary all day<br />

7:00 AM<br />

Sunshine Cafe Breakfast<br />

Special Eggs Benedict<br />

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WORLD PHOTO OP!<br />

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The Cathedral City memorial, included<br />

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Mimosas $5 and $6 Handcrafted<br />

Bacon Bloody Mary’s<br />

10:00 AM<br />

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Rio Azul Open Happy<br />

Hour 5-7 PM $5 House<br />

Margarita’s all day<br />

Rio Azul Drag Brunch every<br />

Sunday – doors open at 11<br />

12:00 PM<br />

Azul Disco Drag Brunch<br />

Every Sunday til 3.<br />

2:00 PM<br />

Barrack’s World Famous<br />

Sunday Beer Bust and<br />

Sunday Night Social<br />

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Booth from 3 - 9<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open<br />

2:00pm Happy hour til 8pm<br />

4:00 PM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Dinner Special Chicken<br />

Carbonara $15.95<br />

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Tool Shed - Buzz Cuts,<br />

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8:00 PM<br />

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shows<br />

10:00 PM<br />

Barracks Jockstrap Pool<br />

MONDAYS<br />

6:00 AM<br />

Score Happy Hour til 8 PM<br />

$3 wells 8pm <strong>to</strong> close<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Pinocchio Bot<strong>to</strong>mless<br />

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SPECTACULAR<br />

LAKE COMO, ITALY<br />

By Vic Gerami<br />

I went <strong>to</strong> Lake Como, Italy in June,<br />

imagining it as a small and sleepy<br />

luxury resort <strong>to</strong>wn. I was pleasantly<br />

surprised <strong>to</strong> learn that Como is<br />

everything but small and offers the<br />

best of Italy’s beauty, culture, his<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

and much more.<br />

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north of Milan, close <strong>to</strong> the Swiss<br />

border. At fifty-six square miles, the<br />

lake is shaped like an inverted letter<br />

“Y”, surrounded by dozens of ancient<br />

villages along its shores. Each quaint<br />

village has its own rich his<strong>to</strong>ry,<br />

distinct characteristics and offers<br />

unique sites <strong>to</strong> visit.<br />

Since Roman times, Lake Como has<br />

been a popular retreat for nobility,<br />

aris<strong>to</strong>crats and wealthy people, and<br />

a very popular <strong>to</strong>urist attraction with<br />

many artistic and cultural gems. But<br />

despite its popularity with celebrities<br />

and elite travelers, Como is affordable<br />

for all visi<strong>to</strong>rs despite their budget.<br />

Mid-range and budget hotels and<br />

other lodging options make Como<br />

accessible <strong>to</strong> everyone.<br />

Como appeals <strong>to</strong> all types of travelers,<br />

his<strong>to</strong>ry and architecture buffs, who<br />

want <strong>to</strong> see Roman, middle-ages and<br />

renaissance buildings, majestic gothic<br />

cathedrals and churches, hike in the<br />

mountains surrounding the lake, visit<br />

world-class museums and foodies who<br />

want <strong>to</strong> try local cuisines and the best<br />

Michelin 3-Star restaurants in the<br />

world. Although not one of the biggest<br />

wine regions in Italy, there are several<br />

wineries around Como and local wines<br />

are served at most restaurants there.<br />

The region is perfect for LGBT<br />

travelers as your sexual orientation<br />

is a non-issue there. I asked a local<br />

about the community’s attitude <strong>to</strong>ward<br />

queers and his response was, “Why<br />

does it matter? Everyone is the same.”<br />

My personal experience in Como was<br />

that it is a welcoming city <strong>to</strong> everyone<br />

as I had discussions with several<br />

local residents about the community’s<br />

acceptance of its LGBT residents and<br />

<strong>to</strong>urists. The locals are some of the<br />

friendliest, warmest and hospitable<br />

people I have ever encountered,<br />

welcoming LGBT travelers with open<br />

arms.<br />

I had my first dinner at the exquisite<br />

Raimondi restaurant at Hotel Villa<br />

Flori. The lakeside restaurant’s uberfriendly<br />

master-chef was the icing on<br />

The lake is located in northern Italy’s the cake. Although the restaurant<br />

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came out <strong>to</strong> greet me when he found<br />

out that I was vegetarian and made me<br />

a special meal. A welcome change in<br />

Italy is that loud music is not blasted at<br />

restaurants and coffee shops, so you are<br />

able <strong>to</strong> have a conversation and enjoy<br />

the ambience without competing with<br />

the music. www.hotelvillaflori.com<br />

Even a month in Como is not enough <strong>to</strong><br />

see its <strong>to</strong>p attractions, so I had a tight<br />

schedule. You must take a boat ride<br />

on the lake <strong>to</strong> experience its grandness<br />

and beauty. Budget travelers can take<br />

a half-day ferry from the <strong>to</strong>wn center.<br />

Ferries s<strong>to</strong>p at various villages so you<br />

can get a bite, visit its attractions, shop<br />

or simply sit at a café and enjoy the<br />

view. It does not take much money <strong>to</strong><br />

enjoy the lakeside. You can also rent a<br />

private boat with a <strong>to</strong>ur-guide, who will<br />

take you <strong>to</strong> villages of your choice and<br />

tell you their his<strong>to</strong>ry, significance and<br />

major landmarks. I <strong>to</strong>ok a private boatride<br />

with a guide, who <strong>to</strong>ok me <strong>to</strong> see<br />

one of the lake’s most popular villages,<br />

Bellagio, with lots of local shops,<br />

restaurants and cafes. We also visited<br />

Villa La Gaeta in San Siro where James<br />

Bond: Casino Royale was filmed, as well<br />

as Star Wars: Episode II Attack of the<br />

Clones. I recommend TASELL Boat Tour<br />

Company www.tasell.com.<br />

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Roman origins. It is a great place <strong>to</strong><br />

stay if you are visiting, want <strong>to</strong> be in<br />

the center of <strong>to</strong>wn and have easy access<br />

<strong>to</strong> everything. The ideal hotel <strong>to</strong> stay<br />

at if you want <strong>to</strong> be in the <strong>to</strong>wn-center<br />

is Vista Hotel. It is a small but elegant<br />

boutique hotel with breathtaking views<br />

of the lake and stunningly beautiful<br />

rooms. Its bathrooms are works of art,<br />

lavishly designed with Italian marble<br />

and the finest materials. Vista has an<br />

“infinity” roof<strong>to</strong>p restaurant, bar and<br />

café that would take your breath away.<br />

Being on the property makes you feel<br />

that you are staying in a luxurious<br />

private villa. www.vistalagodicomo.com<br />

If you want <strong>to</strong> stay at the grand-dame<br />

of Lake Como, then 5-Star Villa D’Este<br />

in Cernobbio is your resort. It is a<br />

magnificent hotel and twenty-five acre<br />

park surrounding it, commissioned by<br />

Cardinal Ippoli<strong>to</strong> II d’Este, in 1550 the<br />

governor of Tivoli. Villa D’Este is the<br />

most luxurious and exquisite hotel in<br />

Como with a spectacular park with rare<br />

flowers with a jaw-dropping Mosaic<br />

House.<br />

I<br />

If able, it’s worth every penny <strong>to</strong> book<br />

a seaplane and see the region from<br />

the sky while the pilot points out<br />

major landmarks and his<strong>to</strong>rical sites. I had my last dinner there and my meal<br />

recommend Sea-Plane Company AERO was especially prepared by Executive<br />

CLUB COMO www.aeroclubcomo. Chef Michele Zambanini as he knew<br />

com. You can contact them at info@ that I am vegetarian. My mouthwatering<br />

aeroclubcomo.com.<br />

meal was served by multiple servers in<br />

military precision. www.villadeste.com<br />

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Continued from page 27<br />

Como has not been spoiled by major<br />

international corporate brands.<br />

You won’t see a Starbucks there,<br />

Uber is illegal and most resorts are<br />

privately owned and family operated.<br />

Exceptionally, Hil<strong>to</strong>n has managed <strong>to</strong><br />

build a very tastefully beautiful and<br />

under-stated but luxurious hotel a year<br />

ago, which blends very well with the<br />

city’s aesthetic. The building used <strong>to</strong> be<br />

a silk fac<strong>to</strong>ry but transformed <strong>to</strong> a sleek<br />

and modern property with an infinity<br />

roof<strong>to</strong>p pool, sky bar and comprehensive<br />

health, fitness and spa facilities. The<br />

continental breakfast is a jaw-dropping<br />

feast and the hotel is very conveniently<br />

located close <strong>to</strong> the <strong>to</strong>wn-center. www.<br />

lakecomo.hil<strong>to</strong>n.com<br />

If sleek and sexy is what you are<br />

looking for, then you il sereno is your<br />

hotel. The all-suite hotel is a minimalist<br />

masterpiece, built on centuries-old<br />

arches, with a warm and welcoming<br />

flair. The architect used s<strong>to</strong>ne, wood<br />

and copper as the main elements and<br />

seamlessly weaved the building in<strong>to</strong><br />

Como’s architectural aesthetic.<br />

il sereno has a panoramic view from<br />

every inch of the property, including<br />

its 60-foot freshwater infinity pool<br />

suspended over the lake and a luscious<br />

sundeck that screams pool-party.<br />

The hotel is modern and chic but still<br />

authentically Italian. You only need<br />

a basic driver’s license <strong>to</strong> drive the<br />

boat. www.serenohotels.com/property/<br />

il-sereno<br />

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The Grand Hotel Tremezzo, familyowned<br />

since 1910, is absolutely<br />

incredible. The property is stunningly<br />

beautiful and had a warm welcoming<br />

feel the minute I stepped out of the boat<br />

and on<strong>to</strong> its magnificent deck. Adjacent<br />

<strong>to</strong> the deck is a floating pool; one of the<br />

hotel’s three pools, it is suspended over<br />

the lake and moves a bit as you swim in<br />

it. A very large bar is the centerpiece of<br />

the veranda, serving the guests as they<br />

sunbathe, swim and take a boat ride.<br />

Many of the rooms feature breathtaking<br />

views of Lake Como, Bellagio, and the<br />

surrounding Alps. The roof<strong>to</strong>p suites are<br />

known <strong>to</strong> attract a-list stars and include<br />

butler service, terraces, and outdoor hot<br />

tubs. Take a short stroll <strong>to</strong> the famed<br />

gardens of Villa Carlotta, hit the wine<br />

cellar for intimate tastings or enjoy<br />

wood-fired pizzas in the hotel’s lush<br />

gardens.<br />

Grand Hotel Tremezzo is a member<br />

of Preferred Hotel & Resorts, which<br />

represents the finest and most diverse<br />

global portfolio of independent hotels.<br />

The hotel is part of “Preferred Pride”<br />

which donates a percentage of its<br />

bookings <strong>to</strong> an LGBT Association in<br />

the USA. Although the Lake Como<br />

The last hotel I visited <strong>to</strong>ok my breath<br />

away as it had the look and feel of a<br />

magical fairytale palace.<br />

community is extremely LGBT-friendly,<br />

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Tremezzo welcomes LGBT travelers<br />

with special treatment as its General<br />

Manager, Silvio Vet<strong>to</strong>rello, is a proud<br />

gay man and very active in the queer<br />

community. You can book the hotel<br />

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about a trip <strong>to</strong> Lake Como, the city’s<br />

official Tourism Office is very helpful<br />

and can be reached at www.LakeComo.<br />

com.<br />

through www.preferredhotels.com or<br />

directly at www.grandhoteltremezzo.<br />

com<br />

BIO: VIC GERAMI<br />

Vic Gerami is journalist, media<br />

contribu<strong>to</strong>r and the Edi<strong>to</strong>r & Publisher<br />

of The Blunt Post. He spent six years<br />

at Frontiers Magazine, followed by LA<br />

Weekly and Voice Media Group. His<br />

syndicated celebrity Q&A column,<br />

10 Questions with Vic, was a finalist<br />

for LA Press Club’s National Arts &<br />

Entertainment Journalism Award in<br />

2017. Vic is a contribu<strong>to</strong>r for WeHo<br />

Times, Los Angeles Blade, GoWeHo,<br />

Asbarez, California Courier, Desert<br />

Daily Guide, Armenian Weekly, GED,<br />

The Pride LA and OUT Traveler.<br />

Abovementioned are just a few<br />

highlights of what Como offers. There<br />

are several annual celebrations with<br />

fireworks on the lake, fashion shows,<br />

music and food festivals, street<br />

markets and much more. Everyone<br />

can fall in love with Como and the<br />

community but its comprehensive<br />

offerings have special appeal for LGBT<br />

travelers and should be on the <strong>to</strong>p of<br />

your list. The fashion house, Dolce &<br />

Gabbana, was preparing a weekendlong<br />

fashion event around the lake<br />

when I was there. I would have been<br />

vic@thebluntpost.com | facebook.com/<br />

able <strong>to</strong> attend had I stayed a few days<br />

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Palm Canyon Dr. and Museum Dr between<br />

Andreas and Tahquitz Way<br />

Frances Stevens Park<br />

Schedule At a Glance...<br />

01 <strong>Nov</strong> George Zander Candlelight Vigil and<br />

March Down<strong>to</strong>wn Palm Springs 06:00 pm -<br />

07:00 pm Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Dip In<strong>to</strong> Pride Pool Party hotel Zoso<br />

Noon - 06:00 pm Buy Tickets<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Official Press Event Infusion Beach<br />

Club 04:30 pm - 6:00 pm Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Kiehl’s Pride Celebration Kiehl’s<br />

Palm Springs 05:00 pm - 07:00 pm Free<br />

Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Shower of S<strong>to</strong>les Project Temple<br />

Isaiah's Lobby 06:00 pm Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Trina Turk Pride Kick Off Trina<br />

Turk 6:00 - 8:00 pm Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Interfaith Shabbat Service Bochner<br />

Sanctuary at Temple Isaiah 06:30 pm- 08:00<br />

pm Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> Spirit of S<strong>to</strong>newall Street Party<br />

Arenas Rd 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Free Entry<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> “Double Time” musical revue Pearl<br />

McManus Theatre at the Palm Springs<br />

Woman's Club 6pm (reception), 7pm-8:30<br />

(performance) Buy Tickets<br />

02 <strong>Nov</strong> CCBC Meet & Greet Party CCBC<br />

Resort 05:00 pm - 4:00 am Buy Tickets<br />

<strong>PRIDE</strong> GUIDE<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> CCBC Pool Party CCBC Resort<br />

10:00 am - 10:00 pm Buy Tickets<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Pride Festival Down<strong>to</strong>wn Palm<br />

Springs 11:00 am - 10:00 pm Free Entry<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Dyke March Picnic, Rally, March<br />

Frances Stevens Park 12:00 pm - 4:00 pm<br />

Free Entry<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> GED Pride Pool Party V Palm<br />

Springs Noon - 06:00 pm Buy Tickets<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Shower of S<strong>to</strong>les Project – Sat<br />

Temple Isaiah's Lobby 12:00 pm - 4:00 pm<br />

Free Entry<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Want To Get Married in Palm<br />

Springs? Down<strong>to</strong>wn Palm Springs 12:00 pm<br />

- 06:00 pm Buy Tickets<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Arenas Rd. Block Party Arenas Rd.<br />

06:00 pm - 11:00 pm Free Entry<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> ENCORE: A Celebration of<br />

American Idols Zelda’s 06:30 pm - 09:00 pm<br />

Buy Tickets<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> L-Fund Women’s Pride Dance Hotel<br />

Zoso 7:00 pm <strong>to</strong> Midnight Buy Tickets<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> “Double Time” musical revue Pearl<br />

McManus Theatre at the Palm Springs<br />

Woman's Club 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm Buy<br />

Tickets<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> VIP Pre-Parade Breakfast El<br />

Mirador Tower at Desert Regional Medical<br />

Center 8:00 am - 9:45 am Buy Tickets<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> Transgender Equality March During<br />

Pride Parade 10:00 am - 11:30 am Free Entry<br />

03 <strong>Nov</strong> Pride Run and Walk 5K Old Las<br />

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04 <strong>Nov</strong> Pride Parade Palm<br />

Canyon Dr 10:00 am - Noon Free<br />

Entry<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> Truly Presents The Hyatt<br />

Palm Springs Official Pride<br />

Parade After Party HooDoo<br />

Lounge & Cocktail Garden 12:00<br />

pm - 3:00 pm Buy Tickets<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> Shower of S<strong>to</strong>les Project<br />

– Sun Temple Isaiah's Lobby<br />

12:00 pm - 4:00 pm Free Entry<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> Lesbo Expo Launch Party<br />

Alibi Azul 12:00 pm - 4:00 pm<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> Want To Get Married in<br />

Palm Springs? Down<strong>to</strong>wn Palm<br />

Springs 12:00 pm - 06:00 pm Buy<br />

Ticket<br />

04 <strong>Nov</strong> CCBC Pool Party CCBC<br />

Resort 10:00 am - 10:00 pm Buy<br />

Tickets<br />

1 – Parade Route – The parade<br />

steps off in the Up<strong>to</strong>wn Design<br />

District at Tachevah Dr. and Palm<br />

Canyon Dr. and travels south <strong>to</strong><br />

end at the entrance <strong>to</strong> the Festival<br />

at Amado and Palm Canyon Dr.<br />

2 – Staging Area Will be closed<br />

<strong>to</strong> local traffic at 7am Sunday,<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 5 on N. Palm Canyon<br />

Dr. from Vista Chino <strong>to</strong> Amado.<br />

Enter the parade staging area<br />

driving east on Vista Chino <strong>to</strong> N.<br />

Palm Canyon Dr.<br />

<strong>PRIDE</strong> GUIDE<br />

3 – Step Off – Tachevah Dr.4-<br />

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Fabeyonce<br />

"My Turn"<br />

not in your home city but go out elsewhere and<br />

the crowd knows you. I become overwhelmed<br />

I love my life and everybody who's been part with joy and it amazes me how much support is<br />

of it. I wouldn't change a thing about it. I feel out there.<br />

everything I've done and been through has I say <strong>to</strong> all the new and past queens etc... I am<br />

happened for a reason.<br />

here for you. I'm not the best at what I do, but<br />

People get brought in<strong>to</strong> your lives for a reason. I try my best every time for you and if anyone<br />

I can honestly say I've had many negative things ever needs tips, etc, I'm a open book. I won't<br />

or people come my way, but it doesn't s<strong>to</strong>p me judge, nor will I think differently of anyone<br />

from being who I am nor will it change the who wants <strong>to</strong> better themselves. This is the<br />

person I'm meant <strong>to</strong> be.<br />

point of having each other's back and showing<br />

The moving on part is what tends <strong>to</strong> be the our families that we can work <strong>to</strong>gether and<br />

hardest but day by day, it gets better and continue <strong>to</strong> respect each other.<br />

you look back and say "What the heck was I My life isn't easy nor will it ever be but I work<br />

thinking keeping myself in these situations?". my ass off <strong>to</strong> be where I am <strong>to</strong>day and I'm<br />

I look at the people I used <strong>to</strong> look up <strong>to</strong> and grateful for all of you for making me who I am<br />

wonder why I wanted <strong>to</strong> be like them or wished <strong>to</strong>day.<br />

one day I'll be like them, but then realization Please follow me on social media! Instagram<br />

kicked in (Fabeyonce) "No, No, No, you don't under Fabeyonce and write me if you have<br />

want <strong>to</strong> be like these people". I'm not the type anything you'd like me <strong>to</strong> cover til next week<br />

of person <strong>to</strong> be mean, hateful, or just nasty. my loves ..........<br />

But now it's MY TURN <strong>to</strong> make sure I work<br />

my hardest and push my way through certain Fabeyonce McMichaels<br />

obstacles and overcome what people think or<br />

say about me. I've learned that if people are<br />

talking about you good or bad, you must be<br />

doing something right.<br />

As I work hard and better myself inside and<br />

out, I will always help out others in need and<br />

not speak bad of them or treat them in a way<br />

that they feel they aren't worth anything.<br />

These type of things happen in every<br />

community, big or small, no matter where you<br />

are at, so it's up <strong>to</strong> you <strong>to</strong> make sure you are<br />

doing your part and be a inspiration <strong>to</strong> others<br />

as you once found in someone else. Be the one<br />

that others can actually say "I know her and<br />

I love her" and let them be able <strong>to</strong> call you a<br />

friend.<br />

I've met many people and thanks <strong>to</strong> all the<br />

opportunities I've had, I met many more and<br />

everyone so far has been so loving, caring, and<br />

Inspiring <strong>to</strong> me. The best feeling is when you're<br />

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DAILY WHAT’S HAPPENING Continued from page 25<br />

Drinks & Martinis. Get a<br />

Martini BURGER!<br />

7:30 AM<br />

Sunshine Cafe All day<br />

everyday $6.95 breakfast,<br />

coffee included<br />

8:00 AM<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Everyday Bot<strong>to</strong>mless<br />

Mimosas $5 and $6 Handcrafted<br />

Bacon Bloody Mary’s<br />

2:00 PM<br />

Barracks Open Happy Hour<br />

2p <strong>to</strong> 8PM<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge Open<br />

Happy hour til 8pm<br />

4:00 pm<br />

Azul until 7pm 2-4-1<br />

TMP closed. bongo Johnny’s<br />

Daily Special Blackened<br />

Salmon or Prime Rib Caesar<br />

Salad $18.95<br />

7:00 PM<br />

Barracks Pool Tournament<br />

at the followed by free pizza<br />

at 9pm<br />

9:00 PM<br />

Tool Shed Monday Massage<br />

and Martini Night - Relax<br />

those muscles and melt<br />

tension away with a licensed<br />

massage therapist and $2<br />

off all Martinis with nightly<br />

specials<br />

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THE LAST WORD by Greg Pettis<br />

WOW! I <strong>to</strong>ok last week off due <strong>to</strong> some surgery. Sena<strong>to</strong>r Silver could do, I will be voting for Joy<br />

What I thought should be relatively simple <strong>to</strong>ok 3 STATE ASSEMBLY, DISTRICT 56 –<br />

hours on the table and 1 in recovery. Now I feel like a<br />

EDUARDO GARCIA There is no question<br />

61-year-old man who got ran over by a truck.<br />

that Eduardo is one of the <strong>to</strong>p 10 legisla<strong>to</strong>rs in<br />

I’m skipping national politics again this week and will the Assembly. He works constantly on issues that<br />

focus on the upcoming state and federal races. Vote affect us, most notably on the environment but<br />

my mail ballots are out now so now is the time give on so many others. He is easily accessible, willing<br />

you my thoughts and suggestions. I am not listing <strong>to</strong> meet constituents in Sacramen<strong>to</strong> or here in<br />

all the candidates, just those I am supporting. I have the valley. He has embraced his district that runs<br />

respect for anyone who stands up and says I am ready through the Coachella, Palo Verde and Imperial<br />

<strong>to</strong> serve. Thank you <strong>to</strong> all.<br />

Valleys. We should all be thankful <strong>to</strong> have him as<br />

Part 2 from last wee.<br />

our Assemblyman. I vote yes on returning Garcia <strong>to</strong><br />

STATE SENATE –<br />

Sacramen<strong>to</strong>.<br />

JEFF STONE In full disclosure I worked for STATE ASSEMBLY, DISTRICT 42 -<br />

the Sena<strong>to</strong>r for one year at the beginning of his first<br />

CHAD MAYES One of the nicest guys in<br />

term in Sacramen<strong>to</strong>. I was the field rep <strong>to</strong> the LGBT, Sacramen<strong>to</strong>. A conservative but one who is willing<br />

labor and Democratic constituents and during that <strong>to</strong> work across lines <strong>to</strong> get things done – it is that<br />

time I worked hard <strong>to</strong> educate Jeff on our differences philosophy that cost him the Minority Leader’s<br />

of opinion on policy matters. I have known<br />

position. I have known Chad from his time as<br />

him since he was a councilman, Mayor, County councilman and Mayor of Yucca Valley, <strong>to</strong> his work<br />

Supervisor and now Sena<strong>to</strong>r. He has always been a with San Bernardino County Supervisor Rutherford<br />

conservative but in his roles at the City of Temecula and now in Sacramen<strong>to</strong>. He is much more <strong>to</strong> my<br />

and with the County, he was always able <strong>to</strong> put aside right on issues, but he has integrity, opening <strong>to</strong> learn<br />

the partisan BS and help forge a compromise that new things (I recall a lunch I put <strong>to</strong>gether with him<br />

works. That Jeff left us in Riverside as I am afraid and the late George Zander, Andy Liinsky and a<br />

it hasn’t shown up in Sacramen<strong>to</strong>. He has become local transgendered advocate. He <strong>to</strong>ok the lunch,<br />

one of the more partisan voices in the Senate. It is a spoke <strong>to</strong> us for over two hours and I believe walked<br />

shame as I wish everyone could see my friend Jeff as I not convinced but had his mind opened some.<br />

did. I still believe he is one of the smarter legisla<strong>to</strong>rs Ultimately, he has the experience, passion and love of<br />

but he needs <strong>to</strong> bring back his bipartisanship and lose his district. He deserves reelection.<br />

the baggage of gets <strong>to</strong> be more “right”.<br />

DENI ANTOINETTE MAZINGO Chad<br />

JOY SILVER Joy has been a whirlwind of activity Mayes’ opponent is a bright articulate woman who<br />

since she announced her candidacy for the Senate. surprised everyone by coming in first in the primary,<br />

She has lined up significant support from people I but with Republicans unifying around Mayes and the<br />

respect like Barbara Boxer and Senate President Pro Democrats focused on Joy Silver, Deni’s job was made<br />

Tem, Toni Atkins (D-San Diego). She generated very difficult, maybe impossible. She has a future in<br />

enough cash <strong>to</strong> put the race on the radar. However, the Party and politics. She held herself with dignity<br />

she suffers from a continual staff turnover, a leaning throughout the campaign and applaud her. Her time<br />

<strong>to</strong>wards micromanaging the campaign, has not will come.<br />

developed fully options for the problems the district ASSOCIATE JUSTICE, CA SUPREME<br />

has, nor left the east side of the valley enough and COURT – I won’t go in<strong>to</strong> detail about these two<br />

venture out <strong>to</strong> the western end – Temecula, Idyllwild, recommendations. They are incumbents on the<br />

etc. I do believe she can learn and her choices for CA Supreme Court and are up on a retention vote.<br />

chief of staff and Legislative Direc<strong>to</strong>r will be critical. Governor Brown appointed both <strong>to</strong> the bench and<br />

The leadership in Sacramen<strong>to</strong> will also be helpful in have judged aporically and fairly. I vote <strong>to</strong> retain<br />

helping find her way. Due <strong>to</strong> Jeff S<strong>to</strong>ne’s bombastic these fine jurists<br />

Continued on page 54<br />

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AdamsArtExpose’ ART<br />

<strong>GAY</strong> <strong>PRIDE</strong> PALM SPRINGS - HISTORY<br />

AND SYMBOLS<br />

The LGBTQ community has been<br />

persecuted and ostracized throughout<br />

his<strong>to</strong>ry. The struggle for recognition <strong>to</strong> be<br />

accepted by the broader society as legitimate<br />

in their various sexuality has been a<br />

continuous political conflict . Reminders<br />

of recent conflicts throughout the past<br />

several decades include the S<strong>to</strong>newall Riots<br />

in 1969, New York City. This spectacle of<br />

discrimination and police brutality brought<br />

major attention <strong>to</strong> the plight of the gay<br />

community.and the need for understanding<br />

of our rights as individuals. In the years<br />

following the struggle continued, including<br />

the Anita Bryant campaign <strong>to</strong> repeal gay<br />

rights, the "don't ask, don't tell" fiasco with<br />

the U.S. military, the violence and murder of<br />

Mathew Sheppard, the Orlando night club<br />

terrorist attack, etc...etc.<br />

AdamsArtExpose’<br />

Why is <strong>PRIDE</strong> important? Obviously the<br />

need for recognition of LGBTQ people as<br />

members, in equality, within the society<br />

has not been achieved. The most recent<br />

indication is the Trump administration<br />

attempting <strong>to</strong> removed transgender from<br />

the U.N. Human Rights, and <strong>to</strong> prevent<br />

transgender people from participating in<br />

the U.S. military. <strong>PRIDE</strong> brings about the<br />

possibility <strong>to</strong> create a sense of belonging<br />

and expression for people who need that<br />

recognition.<br />

It may not be necessary for all LGBTQ<br />

people but for those who are newly<br />

emerging and dealing with the mental and<br />

emotional stages of coming out <strong>PRIDE</strong><br />

provides them the opportunity <strong>to</strong> march,<br />

<strong>to</strong> celebrate and <strong>to</strong> find the acceptance of<br />

others and the society.<br />

Included in this article is a compilation of<br />

symbols that have been associated with the<br />

his<strong>to</strong>ry of the LBGTQ recognition.<br />

Throughout the conflicts and challenges<br />

of the decades since 1969, Palm Springs<br />

has been involved in recognizing <strong>PRIDE</strong><br />

beginning with the first Pride parade in<br />

1986, <strong>to</strong> the current Palm Springs Pride<br />

celebration which last year attracted over<br />

125,000 people from Southern California<br />

and around the world.<br />

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OFF MY CHEST Review<br />

have enough understanding <strong>to</strong> know what<br />

they don't know. Or at least that is what it<br />

was screaming <strong>to</strong> me. Here Levik lays out<br />

some guidelines <strong>to</strong> help you understand<br />

if the writer has authority <strong>to</strong> defend his<br />

opinion.<br />

get (something) off (one's) chest<br />

To reveal or discuss something that has<br />

caused one emotional discomfort and<br />

that one has repressed, kept hidden, or<br />

neglected <strong>to</strong> discuss earlier. I'm sorry but<br />

I just have <strong>to</strong> get something off my chest.<br />

How could you treat me like...<br />

Often writers others and have little regard<br />

for other people’s feelings. Still behind this<br />

mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile selfesteem,<br />

vulnerable <strong>to</strong> the slightest criticism.<br />

We struggle <strong>to</strong> discuss complex ideas and<br />

thoughts. One interesting example starts<br />

on page 119 Richard provides a basis for<br />

determining how we scn select our experts.<br />

In religion for example, often people who<br />

are considered experts really don't even<br />

Levik has opinions in response <strong>to</strong><br />

articles, s<strong>to</strong>ries, or other issues affecting<br />

Jews. Levik's criticism also <strong>to</strong>uches on<br />

Christianity and Muslim vs, Islam and the<br />

required critical thinking skills. He also<br />

exposed some bullies, what I call "wrong<br />

headed thinking". Next he debated Ze'ev<br />

Maghen, the Chair of The Department<br />

of Middle Eastern His<strong>to</strong>ry at Bar-Ilan<br />

University in Israel and a research associate<br />

at the Begin-Sadat Center for Strategic<br />

Studies on the concept of hell differentiated<br />

only <strong>to</strong> contrast Judaism from Christianity.<br />

If you agree that people are inherently<br />

neither negative or positive, but pushing<br />

for people <strong>to</strong> appear positive all the time<br />

can do as much damage as indifference.<br />

But the underlining theme in the book is<br />

<strong>to</strong> demonstrate a way <strong>to</strong> present counter<br />

arguments so that even the casual observer<br />

won't get lost in the argument.<br />

Off My Chest: Letters <strong>to</strong> the Edi<strong>to</strong>r<br />

by Richard Levik (Author)<br />

Available on Amazon<br />

ISBN-13: 978-1477259528<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

NEWLY REMODELED M J Cus<strong>to</strong>m Furniture 72-162 CA-111, Rancho Mirage, CA 92270<br />

BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

LGBT AND LGBT FRIENDLY<br />

RESORTS PALM SPRINGS STYLE<br />

CCBC Resort 760 324-1350 See page 2<br />

CCBC is the largest clothing optional Gay<br />

men’s resort in Southern California.<br />

Located just a few minutes from down<strong>to</strong>wn<br />

Palm Springs, Our 3.5 acre fantasy<br />

playground is perfect for weekend getaways<br />

and extended stays.<br />

Chaps Inn 760 327-8222 See page 18<br />

Don’t stay where the boys are ….. stay<br />

where the men are! Swim in or laze by<br />

the heated salt water pool, enjoy the spa,<br />

cool misting system and steam room! Play<br />

in the outdoor sling or Saint Andrew’s<br />

cross. Chaps Inn is a clothing optional 10<br />

room resort owned and operated by two<br />

British transplants and life partners, Stuart<br />

and Ian.<br />

TRIANGLE INN 760-322-7993<br />

555 E. San Lorenzo Rd<br />

92264 Palm Springs CA<br />

Romantic and relaxing or fun and frisky. At<br />

the Triangle Inn Palm Springs, the choice<br />

is yours. This award-winning, and his<strong>to</strong>ric<br />

Palm Springs Resort is a feast for all your<br />

senses, with a special flair for Southern<br />

(California) hospitality.<br />

Did you know we have over 15 LGBT<br />

resorts in the Palm Springs area and<br />

a strong representation on the city<br />

management staff and leadership? We are<br />

gay friendly!!!!!!!<br />

Many resort are clothing optional and ccbc<br />

even has a restaurant on site for you gay<br />

visit. Remember most restaurant here are<br />

gay friendly as well.<br />

To help you find the best resort for you we<br />

suggest asking people you may know in the<br />

valley or drop us a n email<br />

Also check trip advisor and Yelp .<br />

will@desertdailyguide. com<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

BUSINESS SERVICES<br />

ATTRACTIONS/ENTERTAINMENT<br />

Computer Service<br />

Cabot’s Pueblo Museum 760-329-7610 CONCIERGE-STYLE COMPUTER SUP-<br />

McCallum Adobe 760-323-8297<br />

PORT I AM NOT MAC-PHOBIC!<br />

Ruddy’s General S<strong>to</strong>re Museum 760-327- Desk<strong>to</strong>ps, lap<strong>to</strong>ps, Internet/wireless<br />

2156<br />

connectivity, virus remediation. Catering<br />

<strong>to</strong> locals & resort/out-of-<strong>to</strong>wn<br />

Indian Canyons 760-323-6018<br />

Palm Springs Aerial Tram 760-325-1449 guests. Reasonable rates Call Ed Lefkowitz<br />

sunnyDconsulting (760) 483-<strong>31</strong>15.<br />

Palm Springs Air Museum 760-778-6262<br />

Palm Springs Art Museum 760-325-7186 sunnydconsulting.com<br />

Sunnylands 760-328-2829<br />

CONCRETE<br />

Pat<strong>to</strong>n Memorial Museum 760-227-3483<br />

Joshua Tree National park 760-367-5500<br />

ADULT BOOK STORE<br />

*Hidden Joy 760 328-1694<br />

ADULT FETISH AND TOYS<br />

*Gear Leather & Fetish 760 322-3363<br />

*Hidden Joy 760 328-1694<br />

*Q Trading 760 416-7150<br />

ART GALLERY<br />

Sebastian’s Gallery Appraisals - Antiques<br />

Fine Art - Estate sales and liquidation<br />

FURNITURE<br />

69930 Hwy 111 Rancho Mirage . Nudes | *MJ Cus<strong>to</strong>m Furniture 760 779-0303<br />

Art 760-202-0582<br />

ATTORNEYS<br />

GYMS<br />

*Joseph Rhea legal criminal law human *WorkOUT Gym 760 325-4600<br />

rights 760 322-3001<br />

Matthew J Hunter Estate planning business GENERAL SERVICES<br />

BARBER SHOPS<br />

Patriot Services<br />

Tim Piper 760 218 0806 LIC General Contac<strong>to</strong>r<br />

180 E. Andreas at North Palm cyn. Handyman | Flooring | SHOWERS<br />

BAR/PUBS<br />

PLUMBING | ELECTICAL<br />

*Georgie’s Alibi (760) 325-5533<br />

760-327-9617<br />

*Rio Azul 760-992-5641<br />

*Score 760-327-0753<br />

*Tool Shed 760-320-3299<br />

*The Barracks 760-321-9688<br />

*Tryst Bar 760-832-6046<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

SHOPPING<br />

LEATHER GEAR TOYS<br />

*Gear Leather and Fetish 760-322-3363<br />

gearleather.com 650 E. Sunny Dunes<br />

Leather Repair<br />

Off Ramp Leathers 760-778-2798<br />

www.offrampleathers.com New and used<br />

leather and fetish/BSDM gear. Alterations<br />

and repairs from saddle-patching<br />

your well-loved Levis <strong>to</strong> refurbishing your<br />

prized leathers. Or get measured for a new<br />

cus<strong>to</strong>m leather outfit handmade by Paul.<br />

Great selection of consignment items.<br />

650 E. Sunny Dunes Rd., Unit 3, Palm<br />

Springs, CA 92264<br />

Notary Service<br />

McFarland Mobile Notary Service<br />

Full service Notary Public/Signing Agent<br />

I come <strong>to</strong> you wherever you are! Available<br />

5 a.m. – 11 p.m. E Docs accepted. Dependable,<br />

professional, and friendly.<br />

(760)-641-6400 call or text -<br />

PAINTERS<br />

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MATRIMONY SPIRITUALITY<br />

Bloom In the Desert Ministries<br />

760 327-3802<br />

POSTAL SERVICES<br />

*UPS S<strong>to</strong>re 760 324-8184<br />

RESTAURANTS<br />

*Sunshine Cafe 760-328-1415<br />

*Bongo Johnny’s 760-866-1905<br />

*Pinocchio’s 760-322-3776<br />

* Rio Azul 760 992-5641<br />

*Georgie’s Alibi 760 325-5533<br />

*Crazy Mels 760 832-7110<br />

Nina’s traditional Greek cuisine<br />

and pizzeria. Chef Nina’s gourmet<br />

pizza is prepared with fresh<br />

<strong>to</strong>ma<strong>to</strong> sauce and buffalo milk<br />

mozzarella. Enjoy Chef Nina’s<br />

45 years of cooking passion with<br />

100-year-old plus family recipes.<br />

The healthiest, freshest, cleanest,<br />

Hellenic cuisine ever! All day<br />

Monday is Chef Nina’s Pizza<br />

Day. Get a complementary beer,<br />

wine, or soda with every order<br />

over $20. Located on the South<br />

West corner of Ramon Rd &<br />

South Sunrise Way at “Plaza At<br />

Sunrise.” 555 South Sunrise Way<br />

Palm Springs 760-323-8552<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

REAL ESTATE<br />

*Berring<strong>to</strong>n Properties 760 408-4102<br />

Theatre/Playhouse<br />

*Desert Rose Play House 760-202-3000<br />

Palm Canyon Theater 760 323-5123<br />

Annenberg Theater 760 325-4490<br />

McCallum Theatre 760)340-2787<br />

TRAVEL<br />

MOVING? Utilities<br />

Gas 800-427-2200<br />

Water 760-323-4971<br />

Electric 800-990=7788<br />

Trash 800-973-3873<br />

Recycling 760-327-1351<br />

Free Trolley Buzz<br />

Continued from page 44<br />

Coachella Valley Sexual Assault Services<br />

Rape Crisis Center (760) 568-9071<br />

DEMOCRATS OF THE DESERT<br />

desertdemocrats.org<br />

democratsofthedesert@gmail.com<br />

DESERT AIDS PROJECT: 760 323-2118<br />

DESERT LEGAL AID: 760-832-9770<br />

DESERT OUTREACH FOUNDATION<br />

760 864-1234<br />

DESERT STONEWALL DEMOCRATS:<br />

760 260-8104<br />

DESERT WINDS 760 776-2700<br />

FRONTRUNNERS psfr.org<br />

<strong>GAY</strong> ARTISTS - 760 835-0727<br />

Gay Book Club of PS—write <strong>to</strong> bookclubofps@yahoo.com<br />

PALM SPRINGS ART MUSEUM<br />

psmuseum.org 760 322-4800<br />

Transgender community transcc.org<br />

PALM SPRINGS AIR MUSEUM<br />

psairmuseum.org 760 778-6262<br />

PALM SPRINGS <strong>GAY</strong> MEN’S CHORUS<br />

760-219-2077<br />

PALM SPRINGS LEATHER ORDER OF<br />

THE DESERT 760 272-5553<br />

PALM SPRINGS <strong>PRIDE</strong> pspride.org<br />

NATURIST DAY PASSES<br />

Gay Men CCBC Resort,<br />

Family DeAnza Springs Resort Jacumba,<br />

CA, Living Waters, Desert Sun Resort<br />

Call <strong>to</strong>day <strong>to</strong><br />

add yours<br />

GROUPS/ORG/HELP<br />

LGBT COMMUNITY CENTER OF THE<br />

DESERT 1301 North Palm Canyon, 3rd<br />

Floor PALM SPRINGS, CA 92262<br />

760-416-7790/www.thecenterps.org<br />

AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY 800-<br />

227-2345<br />

AMVETS: 760-323-9085<br />

BLOOM IN THE DESERT MINISTRIES:<br />

760-327-3802<br />

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Full body massage combining deep tissue<br />

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Full body massage <strong>to</strong> release your stress!<br />

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continued from page 13<br />

else. There were times when I’ve had<br />

make-up artists, hairstylists, wardrobe<br />

people, stylists—but if you’re<br />

not joyful in the inside, it doesn’t<br />

matter what you look like on the<br />

outside you won’t feel your beauty.<br />

I know from my personal experience<br />

that I have <strong>to</strong> ground myself<br />

and that I have <strong>to</strong> have self-love<br />

and self-compassion. I think people<br />

are most beautiful when they’re not<br />

trying <strong>to</strong> be beautiful.<br />

What made you decide <strong>to</strong> include<br />

your two daughters in the video<br />

for “So Pretty”?<br />

Well, because we all struggle with<br />

the issue of beauty and obsess<br />

about it. Especially with filtered<br />

selfies becoming the norm, thats a<br />

lot of pressure. In our household,<br />

we are all trying <strong>to</strong> encourage each<br />

other and <strong>to</strong> nurture each other<br />

from the inside out. Like I said, I<br />

like <strong>to</strong> do things with my tribe: I run<br />

with a pack, and my pack includes<br />

my daughters and a handful of my<br />

friends. And, of course, I wanted my<br />

daughters in it because they represent<br />

the millennials.<br />

You know, it so varies—I could be<br />

at a market and the check-out girl<br />

would say, “You are EG Daily, I love<br />

your voice, I love your music,” and<br />

then in the same check-out line,<br />

the person next <strong>to</strong> me in line will be<br />

like, “OMG you’re Tommy Pickles.” I<br />

gotta tell you–it’s so vast and it<br />

changes from person <strong>to</strong> person.<br />

Tell me about your young fans,<br />

especially LGBT.<br />

The gay community has been<br />

incredible. For decades, I’ve performed<br />

at Pride festivals and LGBT<br />

events all across the country. They<br />

are my tribe.<br />

You Kickstarter campaign is an<br />

opportunity for everyone <strong>to</strong> help<br />

and join this movement. Tell me<br />

a little about that.<br />

First of all, there are some great<br />

perks we offer for pledging this<br />

Kickstarter- like joining us for an<br />

intimate dinner and my team…<br />

or joining us at a special concert<br />

with a private Q & A for the backers<br />

only! Funds raised with this<br />

Kickstarter will also go <strong>to</strong>wards creating<br />

and growing this movement,<br />

and <strong>to</strong> the proper marketing and<br />

promotion channels <strong>to</strong> get the song<br />

and its message out there globally.<br />

Also a portion will go <strong>to</strong>ward a<br />

cause that mirrors our movement.<br />

Although you are an actress and<br />

a Pop Star with a prolific music,<br />

film and TV career, you have also<br />

been the voice of a few iconic animated<br />

characters. Do more people<br />

associate you as a singer/actress/<br />

recording artist or the voice You project donates <strong>to</strong> several<br />

of Tommy Pickles in Rugrats, charities. What are a few of your<br />

Buttercup in The Powerpuff Girls<br />

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We are actually working on it right<br />

now, we are actually going <strong>to</strong> bring<br />

people in and ask them what their<br />

favorite ones are, there are so<br />

many, we are asking around, especially<br />

organizations that encourage<br />

self-love.<br />

What other projects do you have<br />

coming up?<br />

I have a brand new animated<br />

series that I’m very excited about<br />

called, “Maddie and Friends”. We<br />

are celebrating “Rugrats” new<br />

re-boot of 26 new episodes as<br />

well as celebrating the 20th anniversary<br />

of “The Powerpuff Girls”.<br />

The Blu-ray release for “Valley<br />

Girl” 30 th anniversary. <strong>Nov</strong>ember 2nd<br />

“So Pretty” drops!<br />

Which living person do you most<br />

admire?<br />

I most admire those who<br />

don’t bow down or people-please,<br />

but rather stay true <strong>to</strong> themselves.<br />

I love Oprah Winfrey, Gigi<br />

Gorgeous, Lady Gaga, Meryl<br />

Streep, Barack Obama <strong>to</strong> name<br />

few. I have a lot of friends who are<br />

transgender and I admire anyone<br />

who stays true <strong>to</strong> themselves.<br />

Tell me a secret-a good one!<br />

I like shiny balloons and cozy faux<br />

fur blankets.<br />

The song, “So Pretty” can be<br />

pre-ordered on iTunes now.<br />

The video launches on Friday,<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 2 nd and you can join<br />

EG’s movement and contribute <strong>to</strong><br />

her Kickstarter campaign here:<br />

https://www.kickstarter.com/<br />

projects/egdailysopretty/hollywood-star-challenges-beauty-ideals-and-inspir?ref=nav_search&result=project&term=EG%20Daily<br />

For more information about EG<br />

Daily, please visit www.egdaily.com<br />

Vic Gerami is journalist, media contribu<strong>to</strong>r and<br />

the Edi<strong>to</strong>r & Publisher of The Blunt Post. He<br />

spent six years at Frontiers Magazine, followed by<br />

LA Weekly and Voice Media Group. His syndicated<br />

celebrity Q&A column, 10 Questions with Vic,<br />

was a finalist for LA Press Club’s National Arts &<br />

Entertainment Journalism Award in 2017. Vic is a<br />

contribu<strong>to</strong>r for WeHo Times, Los Angeles Blade,<br />

GoWeHo, Asbarez, California Courier, Desert<br />

Daily Guide, Armenian Weekly, GED, The Pride<br />

LA and OUT Traveler. facebook.com/TheBlunt-<br />

Post<br />

vic@thebluntpost.com | facebook.comluntPost | @TheBluntPost<br />

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THE LAST WORD by Greg Pettis<br />

Continued from page 37<br />

LEONDRA KRUGER<br />

SUPERINTENDENT OF SCHOOLS -<br />

TONY THURMOND Tony is a strong<br />

proponent for public schools, believing that a free<br />

public education only strengthens California. He will<br />

continue a fine his<strong>to</strong>ry of strong Superintendents who<br />

work <strong>to</strong> educate and protect our children. I am vote for<br />

Tony<br />

MARSHALL TUCK Marshall is a smart<br />

wealthy man who believes 100% in charter schools.<br />

While this may help some, they have proven <strong>to</strong> be a<br />

disaster <strong>to</strong> more. The rich get better schools while those<br />

poorer get less. This is exactly the cycle that must be<br />

broken and Marshall is not up <strong>to</strong> the job.<br />

COUNTY SHERIFF –<br />

STAN SNIFF/ CHAD BIANCO By far<br />

the most contentious race in the county, pitting the<br />

incumbent Sheriff against one of his underlings. Sheriff<br />

Sniff has worked his entire career for this position and is<br />

finishing his second term. He has done much <strong>to</strong> bring<br />

financial order <strong>to</strong> the department and <strong>to</strong> work with<br />

the Board of Supervisors. He has appointed a strong<br />

body of diverse officials <strong>to</strong> his leadership team; women,<br />

LGBT, Hispanic, Asian and African American. This<br />

alone will be his legacy when he does leave office. He<br />

has developed new policies on handling trans people<br />

should they get in the law enforcement arena for<br />

whatever reason. It’s been an honor working with him<br />

the last eight years and hope <strong>to</strong> do so for another four.<br />

Chad on the other hand, has no his<strong>to</strong>ry of support<br />

for minorities, in fact he was called <strong>to</strong> speak at a<br />

recent Palm Springs City Council meeting <strong>to</strong> answer<br />

accusations that he is homophobic that were leveled<br />

at him by a gay deputy. We have no need <strong>to</strong> go back.<br />

Law enforcement throughout the state and nation is<br />

changing and Stan Sniff will help us in our transition. I<br />

do not believe Chad Bianco can do that.<br />

DESERT HEALTH CARE DISTRICT, DISTRICT 4<br />

SHELLEY KAPLAN No doubt Shelley Kaplan<br />

has been the smartest councilman I have been able<br />

<strong>to</strong> serve with and it will be a HUGE loss <strong>to</strong> the city<br />

<strong>to</strong> have him go <strong>to</strong> the District, I am excited that he is<br />

in the race for what might be possible for Cathedral<br />

City having him on the board. We have many health<br />

needs, physical and mental) here in the valley and he<br />

will be able <strong>to</strong> get resources <strong>to</strong> us for badly needed<br />

programs. As a higher education professional on the<br />

building and development side he will be strong voice<br />

in the renegotiation with Tenant Healthcare and their<br />

operation of Desert Hospital and JFK Memorial in<br />

Indio. Shelley is a real public servant and back his<br />

election 1000%<br />

EVETT PEREZGIL Evett has been a<br />

strong neighborhood activist in the Dream Homes<br />

Neighborhood and currently serves on the city’s Sister<br />

City Task Force. She wants <strong>to</strong> help her neighbors and<br />

her city and I applaud her. I just do not believe she is<br />

ready for such a critical valley position as Health Care<br />

District Board member.<br />

PROPOSITIONS –<br />

I’m happy <strong>to</strong> go over in detail with anyone on details but<br />

I am already over limit in my word count and probably<br />

put many <strong>to</strong> sleep.<br />

1) Housing Assistance Bonds - YES<br />

2) Existing Housing Bonds use expanded <strong>to</strong> use for<br />

mental health programs - YES<br />

3) Authorizes Bonds <strong>to</strong> fund water supply & quality -<br />

YES<br />

4) Authorizes bond funding construction for children’s<br />

hospitals - YES<br />

5) Changes requirements for certain property owners <strong>to</strong><br />

transfer their property tax base <strong>to</strong> replacement property<br />

- NO<br />

6) Eliminates certain road repair & transportation<br />

funding – NO<br />

7) Conforms CA daylight savings time <strong>to</strong> federal law -<br />

NO<br />

8) Regulates amounts outpatient kidney dialysis clinics<br />

charge for treatment - NO<br />

9) Removed from ballot<br />

10) Expands local government authority <strong>to</strong> enact rent<br />

control on residential property - NO<br />

11) Requires private sec<strong>to</strong>r emergency ambulance<br />

employees <strong>to</strong> remain on-call during work breaks - YES<br />

12) Establishes new standards for confinement of<br />

specified farm animals - NO<br />

I can be reached at 760-770-0340 or via email at<br />

greg@gregpettis.com<br />

Register, Vote and fight back!!<br />

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