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ISSUE NO.52 OCTOBER 2018<br />
villagelivingmagazine.ca<br />
MIDTOWN<br />
MIDTOWN’S<br />
ELI BROWN SHINES<br />
THE LIGHT ON<br />
“MENTAL HEALTH<br />
AWARENESS”<br />
p14<br />
LIVING<br />
Changing Lanes – Tapping into the<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
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MIDTOWN<br />
CONTENTS<br />
LIVING<br />
STYLING<br />
EATING<br />
WELL-BEING<br />
PARENTING<br />
First Home<br />
Halloween<br />
How-To<br />
8<br />
What the<br />
Tech!?!?<br />
10<br />
HomeworX<br />
12<br />
Changing<br />
Lanes<br />
13<br />
‘Shine The Light<br />
On’ Continues<br />
to Successfully<br />
Create<br />
Mental Health<br />
Awareness<br />
14<br />
We All Need a<br />
Little Quartz in<br />
Our Lives!<br />
18<br />
Fall for These<br />
Handbags<br />
20<br />
Meating Chefs:<br />
Shaping<br />
Culinary Minds<br />
At Centennial<br />
College<br />
22<br />
Healing Help<br />
from Man’s<br />
Best Friend<br />
24<br />
DNA<br />
Distinctions<br />
26<br />
Narcissism<br />
Unmasked P1<br />
28<br />
Thirty Years<br />
Before<br />
Mindfulness<br />
30<br />
The York<br />
School<br />
32<br />
Empower Your<br />
Distracted Child<br />
34<br />
Diary of a<br />
New Mama<br />
36<br />
Hooked on<br />
Books<br />
38<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
CONTACT<br />
PUBLISHER<br />
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CO-PUBLISHER<br />
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ART DIRECTION & DESIGN<br />
POWER BY DESIGN<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
ANDREW FISHMAN<br />
COPY EDITOR<br />
ANASTASIA SILVA<br />
ANDREA FREEDMAN<br />
DR. DEBRA TREVISAN<br />
DIANA AZIZ<br />
ELDEN FREEMAN<br />
JAIME SLAVIN<br />
JENNIFER GREENBERG<br />
JOANNE SALLAY<br />
JOEL SOLISH<br />
JON COHEN<br />
MARK WEXLER<br />
PETER BROOKS<br />
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Gripping: Overcoming obstacles, led by a riveting<br />
cover story about Shine the Light On’s Eli Brown,<br />
whose tragedy-to-triumph tale continues to shine an<br />
indelible light on the mental health industry.<br />
Parenting: The York School’s noteworthy system, a<br />
first-time mom’s inner struggle over breastfeeding<br />
vs. weaning her son, and celebrating your child’s<br />
smallest achievements, rounded out by some<br />
spooky Halloween BOO!ks, will help kids of any age<br />
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Well-Being: Identifying healthy vs. unhealthy<br />
narcissistic behaviour provokes contemplation over<br />
isolation. Also, there’s nothing more personalitydefining<br />
than DNA. Discover DNA Labs’ latest in<br />
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Yoga’s Dhāraṇā and Drishti help the mind focus on<br />
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beyond the home.<br />
Living: So, what kind of personality is more inclined<br />
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other questions, answered in What the Tech!?!?<br />
Whatever your personality, a healthy haunt is a<br />
wonderful welcome to the new neighbourhood! With<br />
our Halloween how-to, you’ll fit right in! Speaking<br />
of home, our burgeoning landscape is about to get a<br />
serious makeover as the City unlocks its laneways’<br />
potential. And, The Art of Demolition finds potential<br />
in salvaged products by upcycling and reselling them<br />
(HomeworX).<br />
Eating: Our beloved food writer divulges his plans<br />
to teach at Centennial College.<br />
Styling: Revealing the wondrous uses of quartz...<br />
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LIVING<br />
FIRST HOME<br />
HALLOWEEN<br />
HOW-TO<br />
THE DEBUTANT BALL<br />
OF NEIGHBOURING<br />
Too excited to stay home on the big night?<br />
Think about who you want to be. Plans to<br />
attend a fabulous costume party dressed<br />
as a sexy kitten or a teenaged Tom Cruise<br />
(sunglasses and tighty-whities - check!!)?<br />
You fall into the friendly category of ‘Big<br />
bowl of treats with a ‘Take one, please’<br />
message.’<br />
Make sure your pumpkins are carved, but<br />
use an electronic tea light instead of candles.<br />
You don’t want to come home to a charred<br />
front porch, due to a pumpkin fire. Turn on<br />
the porch lights, make a big, friendly sign,<br />
and let conscience be every candy takers’<br />
guide.<br />
Have you been dreaming about this since<br />
you donned your first Halloween costume? Did<br />
your parents pull in the reins on Halloween<br />
decorations and candy consumption? Well,<br />
you’re the adult now, and it’s your time to<br />
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REAL ESTATE WRITER<br />
ith moving day in the rear-view<br />
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lifestyle?<br />
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or hang with pint-sized family members at<br />
the local parks. Still not enough? Ready for<br />
the big night?? Halloween is the season’s<br />
debutant ball of the neighbourhood. The way<br />
you handle your first Halloween will be your<br />
defining moment.<br />
JENNIFER GREENBERG is a Broker with Royal<br />
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Is spending money on loads of candy and<br />
dollar store decorations a complete waste of<br />
time and money? Tread lightly. You don’t<br />
want to be known as the neighbourhood<br />
curmudgeon, and you might have a change<br />
of heart if some little people enter your<br />
lives in the future. Drop hints with the<br />
neighbours about a busy workload and<br />
some disappointment about having to<br />
work late on the big night. Make a couple<br />
of baggie-sized care packages for the<br />
neighbouring ghosts/goblins/ninja warrior<br />
princesses. A little candy can go along way<br />
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night. Ask the neighbours how many kids to<br />
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LIVING<br />
DEAR JON…<br />
BY JON COHEN TECH COLUMNIST<br />
Every day, I am asked all sorts of tech questions. Some arrive in our email, others are in person, at my shop. I have picked a few of my<br />
favourite questions to share in this month’s WHAT THE TECH!?!?<br />
RACHEL S. ASKS:<br />
WHAT IS SSD ALL ABOUT?<br />
SSD stands for ‘Solid State Drive,’<br />
the memory chip technology that<br />
you find in your smartphone, or a<br />
digital camera card.<br />
Most recently, SSD has been<br />
introduced into notebook computers,<br />
and it is a game changer, offering<br />
you a huge speed boost, allowing<br />
the computer to be thinner, and<br />
providing better battery life.<br />
SSD drives also allow portable<br />
machines to be moved while<br />
running with no risk of damage to<br />
the drive.<br />
So, if you have an option for SSD,<br />
and it is within your budget, it<br />
is a great choice for either a new<br />
computer or an upgrade to your<br />
current machine.<br />
STEPHEN P. ASKS:<br />
DO I REALLY NEED MICROSOFT OFFICE?<br />
This is a tricky one to answer because it is not just<br />
a yes or no answer, it is more like a maybe. I say this<br />
because, in the last few years, a number of other<br />
solutions have arrived on the market, and can easily<br />
replace Office. One very popular choice is Google<br />
Docs, which can replace Word, Excel, Outlook, and<br />
PowerPoint, and which also offers both an online and<br />
offline mode that syncs between different devices.<br />
Similar to Google Docs, if you have an Apple ID, then<br />
you can use iWork in the cloud. Just login to iCloud.com,<br />
and you have access to Pages, Numbers, and Keynote.<br />
Again, syncs to different devices, and can be used on a<br />
Windows PC, as well as a Mac.<br />
The other suggestion I often share is OpenOffice. This<br />
is also a free program. Once installed on your computer,<br />
you have access to a word processor, a spreadsheet<br />
program, and a few other built-in programs. If these<br />
solutions don’t meet your needs, I would suggest Office<br />
365 30-day trial, so you can try before you buy.<br />
DAVE F. ASKS:<br />
WHAT’S BETTER TO HAVE<br />
- A BACKUP HARD DRIVE OR<br />
A CLOUD BACKUP?<br />
You would really want to have<br />
both. When your computer hard<br />
drive dies (and it will), you want to<br />
restore it as fast as possible, and<br />
with a local backup hard drive (like<br />
in your house or office), you can plug<br />
it into the computer and get back up<br />
and running in a short time frame. A<br />
cloud backup (considered a fail-safe)<br />
is used in case your local backup hard<br />
drive breaks, gets stolen, is damaged,<br />
or burns down in a fire. Cloud restore<br />
is not fast, but at least your data will<br />
still be accessible, and in time, it will<br />
all be back on the computer, however,<br />
restoring a cloud backup will highly<br />
depend on internet download speeds.<br />
IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR ANSWERS, FEEL FREE TO SUBMIT QUESTIONS TO INFO@ALLABOUTTECH.CA.<br />
JON COHEN is the owner of All About Tech and a certified Apple Mac & iOS Technician; just your local, friendly tech superhero! ALLABOUTTECH.CA<br />
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LIVING<br />
Why Trash When You Can<br />
UPCYCLE?<br />
BY MARK WEXLER<br />
BUILDING COLUMNIST<br />
W<br />
hen it comes to<br />
homebuilding or<br />
renovating, the process often<br />
begins with demolition. So, when I<br />
hear the word ‘demolition,’ I have<br />
visions of Ty Pennington, a team<br />
of volunteers, and an excavator,<br />
smashing through the roof of<br />
a house, bringing with it, total<br />
destruction. But, as a builder who<br />
must demolish properties time<br />
and time again, I choose to work<br />
with Matthew Cromwell, owner<br />
of M3C Demolition and The Art of<br />
Demolition, a retail brick & mortar<br />
store, located at 390 Keele Street,<br />
in The Junction, that sells not only<br />
vintage products, but artefacts<br />
retrieved from demolitions, and<br />
upcycled and repurposed items<br />
from his demolition adventures.<br />
That’s right, from salvage to the<br />
shop floor! Matthew’s team, in<br />
their own woodworking shop, will<br />
repurpose wood beams, floors, even<br />
lath from in the wall, into just about<br />
anything that can be envisioned<br />
from their foraged materials. I<br />
agree with Matthew about how<br />
great it feels to give back to the<br />
homeowner, a beautiful wood table,<br />
coffee table, or some other upcycled<br />
product that we can deliver to them.<br />
“Each item has a history and a<br />
story” that’s worth preserving, says<br />
Cromwell.<br />
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As a builder, I like going that extra<br />
mile by having Cromwell carefully<br />
demolish my projects, especially<br />
as it allows me to ‘give back’ to the<br />
new homeowners. As we sat and<br />
talked shop, I had to ask him, “Why<br />
do you do what you do?” Cromwell<br />
replied, “it all started with my<br />
mother, we’d be driving along the<br />
road, and she’d stop and direct my<br />
brother and I to get out and grab<br />
that street-side dresser; it used to be<br />
so embarrassing.” Today, Cromwell<br />
states, “I wake up each day,<br />
wondering what I’m going to find,<br />
every day is an exciting adventure.”<br />
Amongst all the great objects<br />
found, I asked, “Is there one that<br />
stands out from the rest?” He replied,<br />
“We recently found a 14K gold<br />
pocket watch, wedged behind an old<br />
coat rack that must have been there<br />
for a long time.” What a great rush<br />
the homeowners must have felt, and<br />
a great story for them to tell.<br />
As a local builder, its not just<br />
hammers and nails. Sometimes, we<br />
have the opportunity to truly play a<br />
role in preservation instead of just<br />
replacement. Recycling, upcycling<br />
and repurposing has never been<br />
more exciting. Plus, you just never<br />
know what you might find in them<br />
walls.<br />
MARK WEXLER is the founder of<br />
Wexmark Homes, a one-stop Build-<br />
Renovate-Design firm that brings<br />
custom homes & renovations to fruition.<br />
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CHANGING<br />
// LANES<br />
TAPPING INTO THE POTENTIAL<br />
OF TORONTO’S LANEWAYS<br />
BY ELDEN FREEMAN<br />
Toronto is finally poised to embrace laneway housing. In late June,<br />
planning amendments to permit laneway housing in certain zones<br />
in Toronto and East York was approved, a move which has been<br />
hard-fought and a long-time coming.<br />
A laneway house is a small dwelling, at the back of a residential<br />
lot, which is detached from the main house. Its services, such as<br />
water, electricity, garbage, and mail come from the front street that<br />
the primary house sits on, not from the laneway. Used as residences<br />
for family members, or as rental units, these dwellings cannot be<br />
severed and sold separately from the main house, however, and<br />
only a handful of examples of these secondary suites exist in the<br />
city now.<br />
In 2006, the city rejected laneway housing, imposing strict<br />
conditions and making it virtually impossible for most homeowners<br />
to build a separate dwelling in their back alleys. But the bull real<br />
estate market of recent years, which resulted in a housing crisis, in<br />
terms of affordability, is credited with transforming the thinking on<br />
laneway housing, and finally opening city planners’ eyes to creative<br />
housing alternatives.<br />
On June 28, Toronto East York Community Council approved the<br />
vote to amend the city’s Official Plan and Zoning By-law to allow<br />
such laneway suites. The directive means about 250 km of Toronto<br />
laneways, currently lined mostly with garages, could be used as<br />
possible housing projects for houses of up to two storeys high.<br />
The advantages to laneway housing are numerous, and include<br />
increases to the quality of affordable rental housing, allowing<br />
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FOUNDER &<br />
CEO OF ‘SHINE<br />
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HEALTH<br />
AWARENESS<br />
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ONGOING EFFORTS TO<br />
BRING HIS MESSAGE OF<br />
SUPPORT TO AN EVEN<br />
WIDER AUDIENCE<br />
BY STACIA CARLTON<br />
Sift through your back issues of Village Living Magazine and you will find an<br />
article from April 2017 about a remarkable young man. What made his story<br />
so compelling was the sheer volume of trauma he sustained and heroism he<br />
displayed. While awaiting his arrival, I ran through my memory of the facts of this<br />
man’s exceptional and noteworthy life. Eli Brown, founder and CEO of Shine The<br />
Light On, shinethelighton.com suffered more by age 20 than anyone should ever<br />
have to endure - sexual abuse, depression, the resulting and ineffective coping<br />
mechanism known as alcoholism, two suicide attempts and ultimately, selfrecognition,<br />
outward admission and recovery.<br />
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The first and most pressing question I asked<br />
of Eli was what had changed for him since<br />
we last met. “I spoke at WE day in Winnipeg<br />
since then to about 18,000 people! What<br />
the Kielburgers (brothers Craig and Marc,<br />
founders of the WE movement) are doing is<br />
fantastic.” Besides the day to day running of<br />
a clothing business, which includes a 5:30am<br />
start and often runs until midnight, it’s the<br />
speaking engagements that Eli thrives upon.<br />
“The clothing line is simply the vehicle to get<br />
our message out there.”<br />
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I asked if he could see himself following<br />
the Kielburgers’ path. “Yes, but smaller. I like<br />
to hear everyone who wants to speak to me<br />
after. I want to hear their stories.” Eli chooses<br />
to hang around for another 4 or 5 hours to<br />
make that happen. “It’s emotionally draining,<br />
much harder than a 12-hour workday, but in<br />
a good way.”<br />
Although Eli finds these peak decibellevel-and-bright-lights’<br />
talks to thousands<br />
of people exhilarating, he shares with raw<br />
honesty that it can be tough to sustain.<br />
“Imagine, people sharing their stories, they’re<br />
all so open, which is the goal, it’s just that<br />
it’s a lot to digest sometimes, I’m learning<br />
those skills now… or trying to.” Eli bore his<br />
pain alone for a long time. “I was only able to<br />
get help when I finally opened up.” You may<br />
wonder, as I did, how he copes with this. “I<br />
take naps!” he answers with a slightly weary<br />
but entirely genuine laugh.<br />
Beyond the deluge of those waiting to<br />
share their own struggles, Eli and his team<br />
also manage a steady stream of daily emails.<br />
“Sometimes people just write in saying they<br />
‘don’t know if anyone is going to read this<br />
but…’. We reply to absolutely everybody. If<br />
they ask to speak to somebody, we put them<br />
in touch with whoever they need to help get<br />
that process started.”<br />
It cannot be ignored that the business itself<br />
is growing exponentially. When I first met<br />
Eli, his T-shirts with messages of support,<br />
acceptance and inclusion, were in a mere<br />
220 stores. Now they’re in over 1,000 stores<br />
across North America, around the GTA, at;<br />
Honey, Canopy Blue, Cashmere Blue, Rocket<br />
Cycle, Denise & Co, a kind heart and SpinCo.<br />
“It’s been a lot, I didn’t come into this with<br />
a business or marketing degree, but I’m<br />
learning.”<br />
Evidently, he’s a fast learner as he was<br />
recently featured in O, The Oprah Magazine<br />
on one of Oprah’s product recommendation<br />
lists. He’s been featured in a number of<br />
magazines, podcasts and news programs,<br />
but beyond all the celebrity endorsements,<br />
it’s the creation of community that matters<br />
to Eli; it’s the whole point of this project.<br />
He understands first-hand and all too well,<br />
that community is the answer. The stores at<br />
which Shine The Light On hosts events and<br />
sells his clothing confirm this notion. Eli is<br />
told regularly by store owners that the people<br />
who buy STLO clothing share their stories,<br />
and that breaking the stigma by sharing is<br />
perpetuated by refusing silence.<br />
On a personal level, I questioned how he<br />
dealt with this change. “Honestly, I’m slightly<br />
tired right now. It’s exhausting but I’m<br />
interested in what I’m doing, so that helps.<br />
There’s always fun stuff going on; events<br />
with stores where we take a celebrity to sign<br />
autographs, maybe musicians and a food<br />
truck, and we’re creating new products every<br />
month.” Eli went on to explain that he doesn’t<br />
feel that he is running a clothing company.<br />
“The clothing simply shares the message, it’s<br />
what connects them to our mission.<br />
We’re building a community that encourages<br />
people to share their stories.”<br />
The next project which is taking up a lot<br />
of space in his already jam-packed daily<br />
schedule is to find a solution to the housing<br />
situation in Toronto for those in recovery. His<br />
excitement on the matter is palpable. “It’s a<br />
big issue. We’re working with the city, CAMH,<br />
and developers to create affordable housing.<br />
We want to make an impact in the mental<br />
health community. My goal is to spend more<br />
time resolving this issue.”<br />
Impact is something that Eli Brown is<br />
becoming rather adept at creating. Each time<br />
I’ve had the chance to speak with him, he has<br />
left a huge impact both with his matter of fact<br />
attitude and his willingness to speak with<br />
truth regardless of the pain it causes him.<br />
As I turned off my audio recorder and<br />
thanked him for taking the time out of his<br />
packed schedule, he surprised me by asking<br />
something that no other interviewee has ever<br />
asked…what the rest of MY day looked like.<br />
His interest was genuine. Predictably, it led<br />
to talk of restaurants, cooking and food, but<br />
the simple act of asking provided me with a<br />
subtle sense of importance, of mattering in<br />
my small corner of the world.<br />
Here’s a man who actually talks the talk.<br />
Here’s a man who is going to change the<br />
pattern for those suffering in silence. A man<br />
who asks a simple question and creates a<br />
profound moment of caring.<br />
STACIA CARLTON shares thoughts and ideas. Visit her at BESTILLANDEAT.COM where she shares her love of delicious food done simply.<br />
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WINDOWSILLS, SHOWER FRAMES &<br />
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EATING<br />
MEATING CHEFS<br />
Shaping Culinary Minds at Centennial College<br />
A departure<br />
from writing<br />
about the chefs<br />
who feed us,<br />
this month,<br />
I share time<br />
spent with<br />
future leaders<br />
of hospitality.<br />
In his daily life, Joel connects<br />
farmers to mouths, selling<br />
the most #sustainable and<br />
delicious #meat to the best<br />
#restaurants in Toronto.<br />
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“How do you feel about shaping young<br />
minds?” she blurted out. “I’m sorry? Me?” was<br />
my knee-jerk reaction. And so, the conversation<br />
began, on a sunny afternoon in June, when I<br />
was presented with an intriguing and daunting<br />
proposition: “Seriously, I want you to consider<br />
coming to teach here, I think you would be good<br />
at it, and really enjoy the experience.” Picture me,<br />
half-shocked, and kind of smirking, pondering<br />
the possibility of being considered by someone,<br />
as a potential candidate to teach, and that<br />
someone is now one of my three bosses (yes, I<br />
have three jobs), the always smiling and positive<br />
Suzanne Caskie, Chair, Food and Tourism<br />
Studies, Centennial College, School of Hospitality,<br />
Tourism and Culinary Arts.<br />
After the shock and awe, once my jaw shut and<br />
everything sunk in, I was pretty excited. Sam<br />
Glass, a friend, and most-revered and tenured<br />
professor at the department, was going on<br />
vacation, and I was offered to take over two of his<br />
classes for seven weeks. You don’t say?<br />
I know a bunch of the Chef/Instructors at<br />
Centennial’s,Progress Campus, where the<br />
program is run out of a state-of-the-art facility,<br />
which features classrooms and labs, a studentrun<br />
eatery, The Local Café and Restaurant,<br />
residence/hotel rooms, and a conference centre.<br />
Walking through the spacious hall, saying hello,<br />
and getting hugs from old friends (some of whom<br />
I hadn’t seen in a while), felt like home to me, so I was<br />
most of the way to making my decision. Over coffee<br />
with Matt Duffy, who had been at the college for two<br />
semesters, I was convinced. A brilliant baker, Chef Matt is<br />
one of this fall’s newest, full-time Chef/Instructors.<br />
Not the biggest fan of school, I was marginally hesitant.<br />
My main worry: How would I be at teaching? With his<br />
own, somewhat limited amount of teaching experience,<br />
Matt said, “Like me, you will be so great at this.” In his<br />
excited way - which he is about lots of things (man, I am<br />
surrounded by some amazing and inspiring people) - he<br />
elaborated, “We didn’t love school and were troublesome<br />
as kids; this is one of the things that will make us the<br />
best teachers.” He paused, took a sip of his coffee, then,<br />
”You will really get through to them, and make them as<br />
prepared as possible for this tough industry, knowing<br />
all of their possible tricks.” Having so much in common<br />
with Matt, that certainly resonated. “It all comes down<br />
to that passion that we have about food and hospitality,”<br />
he concluded, “the knowledge and [sic] that we have<br />
amassed and must share.” Sold!<br />
I was asked to teach two classes, Food Theory and<br />
Cuisine and Culture, the latter about the history of food.<br />
Super fascinating topics that a food geek like me could<br />
sink my teeth into. Now, how to impart my knowledge<br />
to students in an engaging and effective way, since I<br />
was joining, mid-semester. What an opportunity! And,<br />
as I regard a lot of things in my life, I downplayed its<br />
significance until those around me expressed their own<br />
excitement.
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themselves. Many I have described as “hav[ing] the light behind their<br />
eyes” (thanks to my friend, Elyse, for that gem phrase) - they are<br />
engaged, and you can see their future laid out in front of them and of<br />
those who need encouragement and hand holding. Thankfully, the<br />
support network is strong for the self-exercise in how to be the best<br />
guide, leader and teacher on their journey. Over time, I will improve;<br />
the first seven weeks in this role taught me a lot about myself, and<br />
about my own journey.<br />
Teaching is in my family. My eldest sister taught for many years,<br />
and helped to shape me early on. Retired this past school year, she<br />
encouraged me in ways that have honed the many relationshipfocused<br />
roles I have held, experiences which I impart, beyond<br />
curriculum-based objectives, to my students. Blessed with many great<br />
mentors, there are as many life lessons that I smile back on with<br />
admiration. Some lessons were learned immediately, others, in time,<br />
even from those who seemed hard on me, yet rightfully so; things like<br />
tenacity and perseverance, being able to read people, and what they<br />
want or need, and mostly, listening and learning.<br />
My passion for local and sustainable food is what I believe will have<br />
the greatest impact on my students, who will surely teach me as<br />
much, in return.<br />
My lessons began last semester, when some students engaged in<br />
the excitement of fermentation and preservation, after I brought in<br />
a friend’s book, Batch by Joel MacCharles and Dana Harrison. Asking<br />
questions, taking photos of processes and recipes, they crowded<br />
around it, some even purchasing the book for their collections. That<br />
made me proud.<br />
I’m going into this eyes wide open: We’ll talk about how the very<br />
first restaurants and haute cuisine were formed in France, the<br />
societal impact of refrigeration, the Green Revolution, charcuterie and<br />
fermentation, cheese, the world garden, oceans, the good and bad of<br />
GMOs, and more.<br />
Deep into this process, I will check back with you on this, soon.<br />
As always, thanks for reading, and for the opportunity to invite you<br />
behind the scenes for a glimpse of my extended family of people and<br />
personalities of this great industry that I call home.<br />
Inspire, and be inspired.<br />
Sabina Mexis<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
HEALING HELP<br />
FROM MAN’S<br />
BEST FRIEND<br />
Dogs at Work do<br />
Wonders for Health<br />
BY SARAH KELSEY<br />
C<br />
orporate Canine Therapy, corporatecaninetherapy.ca, is the culmination of<br />
Rodney Kaufman’s lifelong dream to give back to his community. It started with<br />
the purchase of his now five-and-a-half-year-old dog, Harlow. “My idea with getting a<br />
Great Dane was always to have a therapy dog,” he says. “I went to Woofstock and St. John<br />
Ambulance had a stand about them, so I asked the team about training Harlow.”<br />
One of the pup’s first official jobs, after being certified, was for Kaufman’s mom<br />
when she was being treated for lung cancer. Because of Harlow’s training, she was<br />
able to identify that his mom was having a massive heart attack - even when medical<br />
professionals didn’t know that’s what was happening - and then, comforted her through<br />
the pain.<br />
After several similar experiences, in particular, seeing how Harlow helped kids and<br />
babies at a local children’s hospital, Kaufman started to think about how she and other<br />
therapy dogs could ease the suffering of an often overlooked and distressed group of<br />
individuals: employees of big business.<br />
“I noticed there was a niche and a need for this kind of therapy on a wider scale,<br />
especially for people who feel they never get a break.”<br />
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He notes that the intense pressures that<br />
accompany the daily grind not only impact<br />
a person’s mental and physical well-being,<br />
they can lead to a loss in productivity for<br />
corporations. The antidote, according to<br />
research Kaufman cites, is puppy playtime.<br />
Studies show that people who receive visits<br />
from therapy dogs heal 30 per cent faster<br />
than those who don’t. Even brief hangouts<br />
with pets can release calming endorphins,<br />
lower blood pressure, improve cardiovascular<br />
health, reduce stress, and increase happiness.<br />
To make accessing his company’s services<br />
easy, Kaufman says he’s created a sort of<br />
Uber for pet therapy. With a quick phone<br />
call, bosses and managers can set up a visit<br />
with one of his team’s 50 trained handlers.<br />
Animals who are part of the program have to<br />
meet a certain set of criteria, and naturally,<br />
they must be good with people.<br />
Though it just launched, the company has<br />
already worked with a major hotel chain to<br />
inspire its team members during a planning<br />
session. “The event was so successful<br />
we’re now in the corporate retreat package<br />
and offer employees a chance to play with<br />
dogs in-between meetings.” His team has<br />
also worked with a minister who wanted<br />
a therapy dog’s presence to ease tensions<br />
during counselling sessions. “These dogs can<br />
do just about anything,” Kaufman notes.<br />
And while the initial inspiration for this<br />
company is set to retire in a couple years<br />
(thanks to Harlow’s life expectancy), Kaufman<br />
says he’ll continue to grow the business.<br />
“We’re looking for another family pet to<br />
continue Harlow’s work,” he says, adding,<br />
“I know what these dogs do makes a huge<br />
difference to a person’s life, so it’s a fun way<br />
to give back.”
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where researchers from all over the<br />
world would send samples in for genetic<br />
analysis.”<br />
Staff ran the samples through extensive<br />
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In 2007, with the invention of Next-<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
Narcissism<br />
Unmasked P1<br />
WHAT IS PATHOLOGICAL NARCISSISM?<br />
BY DR. DEBRA TREVISAN<br />
PH.D., C.PSYCH.<br />
Narcissist…we hear the term<br />
quite often these days, at work,<br />
in the media, maybe even among<br />
friends and family. In fact, many<br />
of you have likely encountered one<br />
or more narcissists in your lifetime<br />
and perhaps even live, work, or are<br />
in some kind of relationship with<br />
one. Some of you are familiar with<br />
the general definition of a narcissist,<br />
and perhaps, casually label friends,<br />
acquaintances, colleagues, or some<br />
of your relatives as such. But how<br />
many of you actually know the<br />
clinical definition of a pathological<br />
narcissist?<br />
Narcissistic personality traits<br />
can be very complicated and are<br />
sometimes difficult to understand.<br />
Decades of psychological research<br />
have shown that there is a difference<br />
between healthy narcissism and<br />
unhealthy narcissism. An individual<br />
who has healthy narcissistic traits<br />
tends to have a high level of selfesteem<br />
and/or sense of self-worth<br />
and usually takes pleasure in his/<br />
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her appearance, intellect, and<br />
achievements. They are normal<br />
individuals, with healthy egos, who<br />
may also happen to indulge in a<br />
few selfies, and brag about their<br />
accomplishments.<br />
An individual who has unhealthy<br />
narcissistic traits generally has a<br />
distorted sense of self-importance or<br />
ability. In clinical terms, narcissistic<br />
individuals tend to have grandiose<br />
thoughts about their social value,<br />
particularly in relation to other<br />
people. For instance, a person<br />
with an unhealthy narcissist truly<br />
believes that they are more valuable<br />
and important than other people,<br />
that they deserve to be praised and<br />
admired, and that they deserve to<br />
be treated better than others. These<br />
beliefs are often accompanied by<br />
a lack of empathy for others (the<br />
hallmark of narcissism), whom<br />
they believe to be insignificant. An<br />
individual with these narcissistic<br />
traits (among others) has<br />
pathological narcissism, clinically<br />
defined as Narcissistic Personality<br />
Disorder (NPD).<br />
A personality disorder, by<br />
definition, is a pervasive pattern of<br />
disturbance in a person’s ability to<br />
manage his or her emotions, hold<br />
onto a stable sense of self and identity, and maintain healthy<br />
relationships in work, friendship, and love.<br />
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders,<br />
5th <strong>Edition</strong> (DSM-V), wherein the clinical criteria for the<br />
classification/diagnosis of psychological disorders are outlined,<br />
requires an individual to meet the following criteria for the<br />
diagnosis of NPD:<br />
1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance.<br />
2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power,<br />
brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.<br />
3. Believes that he or she is ‘special’ and unique, and can only<br />
be understood by, or should associate with, other special or<br />
high-status people (or institutions).<br />
4. Requires excessive admiration (regularly fishes for<br />
compliments, and is highly susceptible to flattery).<br />
5. Has a sense of entitlement.<br />
6. Is interpersonally exploitative.<br />
7. Lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognise or identify with<br />
the feelings and needs of others (or, I would argue, is actually<br />
incapable).<br />
8. Is often envious of others, or believes that others are envious<br />
of him or her.<br />
9. Shows arrogant, haughty (rude and abusive) behaviours or<br />
attitudes.<br />
Pathological narcissism has always been rare, affecting an<br />
estimated one per cent of the population. True pathological<br />
narcissists may actually be evading detection because most<br />
of us don’t understand the many different forms that the<br />
condition may take. Join me next month, when we explore how<br />
to identify the many faces of narcissism.<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
Thirty Years Before<br />
Mindfulness…<br />
Finding Focus through Tactile Sensations<br />
BY SAMANTHA BEDERMAN WELLNESS CONTRIBUTOR<br />
F<br />
rom the time I was very little, my uncle used to always applaud<br />
how tactile I was. Everything, for me, was about how it felt, or<br />
how it made me feel. Every little thing…from the tags in my clothes<br />
to the finest seeds in my foods, these sensations had the power to<br />
ignite feelings of lightning bolts shooting through my nervous system.<br />
When my son was born, I noticed this infant seemed hypersensitive<br />
to every kind of stimulus around him - from puppy murmurs to the<br />
hum of the lights. This complex and overactive ‘sensitive’ gene had<br />
been duplicated, and it was at that moment that I knew why this child<br />
found me.<br />
Being perceptible to touch is really about a communication signal.<br />
Animals communicate using signals, which can include stimuli<br />
that are visual, auditory, chemical, and tactile. Communication<br />
behaviours can help animals find mates, establish dominance,<br />
defend territory, coordinate group behaviour, and care for young.<br />
As humans, if we can tap into this kind of awareness, we are more<br />
capable of making transformative change occur. Eugene Gendlin, a<br />
well-known psychotherapist during the ‘50s, called this “felt sense”:<br />
When your body knows more about situations than you are explicitly<br />
aware of, and the body picks up more about another person than you<br />
consciously know. The sensations, and all the ‘feels’ you have, are part<br />
of an internal dialogue that your body and mind are having.<br />
So, from a yogic perspective, how do we train our ‘monkey minds’<br />
to stay focused long enough to identify a felt sense, so ultimately, we<br />
can create a felt shift? On average, people experience about 70,000<br />
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thoughts a day. Practising Dhāraṇā, might just be the key...the practice<br />
of Concentration (Dhāraṇā) teaches us to ‘zoom in,’ so we’re able to<br />
focus on one thing alone. Much like any network, Dhāraṇā needs its<br />
sidekick, Drishti, to be successful. Your (Drishti) Gaze is one point<br />
of focus, a non-moving point in front of you that is your sole focus<br />
when practising your yoga poses. This Drishti will not only aid in your<br />
postural alignment, but will support your mind’s ability to concentrate.<br />
Drishti is the yin to Dhāraṇā’s yang, for both asana and meditation.<br />
Simply put, Dhāraṇā means to concentrate without interruption from<br />
internal or external disruptions. This is helpful in an asana practice<br />
because without Drishti and Dhāraṇā, the mind chatter runs wild<br />
(What did she just say? My muscles are starting to shake. When can we<br />
release? Boy, it’s getting hot in here! Remember to pick up milk on the way<br />
home. Hmm, wonder when I will be able to walk the dog. Did I fold the clothes<br />
in the dryer?). Seriously, I’ve been there!<br />
Finding your Drishti in each pose will guide you towards deepening<br />
your posture by virtue of your focus and concentration. This will allow<br />
you to zero in on the meditation in action, and the transformative<br />
changes will be on your horizon. Your deepened sensations will now<br />
guide your journey to a place where more focus is attainable, and your<br />
yoga becomes the medicine for the unsettling and restlessness of the<br />
mind. Namaste<br />
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BY ANDREA FREEDMAN<br />
THE YORK SCHOOL<br />
An Independent<br />
School in the<br />
Heart of Toronto<br />
Right in the heart of the city, on Yonge<br />
St. near St. Clair Ave., sits The York<br />
School, a coed, independent school for<br />
students of Kindergarten to Grade 12.<br />
Praveen Muruganandan, Director of<br />
Admission and Advancement at The York<br />
School, said that what makes the school<br />
special “is our ability to be viewed as<br />
being a progressive school.”<br />
The central locations of the junior and<br />
middle/senior campuses at 1639 and 1320<br />
Yonge St., respectively, make it easy for<br />
students to get to, and, Muruganandan<br />
said, being so close to Yonge St. and<br />
St. Clair Ave., and the proximity to the<br />
subway, ensures that “the city does<br />
become our playground.”<br />
“If you spend a day in our classrooms,<br />
you’ll quickly realise that The York School<br />
defines what education and modern<br />
schools need to be.”<br />
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The York School is an International Baccalaureate (IB) World School, where Muruganandan<br />
said students are “given a unique education,” and are specially recognised as IB graduates<br />
when applying to universities. The program, founded in Geneva, Switzerland in 1968,<br />
addresses students’ intellectual, emotional, and social well-being, while teaching them to be<br />
socially responsible.<br />
Those who go through the IB Program are groomed to be independent thinkers, and to be<br />
more culturally aware, in part, by learning a second language, and are given “the skills to<br />
engage with others in a global world.”<br />
IB students can “participate in service trips” to such destinations as Tanzania, however,<br />
many opt out of the travel option, choosing instead to “participate in community building<br />
events to raise awareness for local issues close to their heart[s].”<br />
The York School prides itself on its culture, which Muruganandan said “is one where our<br />
community cares!” Diversity is encouraged, with students represented from 35 different<br />
countries.<br />
Teachers encourage students’ “questioning and trying to find solutions to real world<br />
issues,” while teaching them to be tolerant of others, regardless of their religious<br />
backgrounds or sexual orientation.<br />
Faculty members make every effort to “ensure that students have a supportive learning<br />
environment.” A social worker is on hand, as well as a citizen team “to ensure that students<br />
are supported throughout their time at York.”<br />
Students of The York School are groomed for post-secondary school, from as early as grade<br />
6. Once they get to grades 11 and 12, they are connected with a member of the school’s<br />
university counselling team, which spends the next six to 12 months helping them with<br />
university applications and teaching them how to prepare for school interviews.<br />
Besides the importance it places on academics, over the past few years, the school has also<br />
begun to put more emphasis on athletics and wellness, realising that “student wellness is<br />
also a key piece in ensuring that our children are successful and happy.” Student athletes<br />
have access to dedicated coaches, many of them professional, which Muruganandan<br />
stressed is very rare at a school.<br />
Parents should consider The York School if they have children “who are curious, want to<br />
learn,” and most importantly, “can be a good friend,” said Muruganandan. Don’t wait too<br />
long to decide, though, as the admission process begins nearly one year in advance.<br />
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arents are frequently frustrated, and often at a loss, when faced<br />
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PARENTING<br />
Diary of a New Mama<br />
BREASTFEEDING<br />
ENVY<br />
BY JAIME SLAVIN AN OVERJOYED, BUT EXHAUSTED, NEW MAMA<br />
Breastfeeding envy. I didn’t know this<br />
was a feeling until I was consumed with it.<br />
It started off as a dull ache, as I would<br />
watch other moms easily breastfeed<br />
their babies, and it gradually grew to<br />
an overwhelming emotion as my son<br />
weaned himself at two-and-a-half<br />
months.<br />
As a Dietitian, with a Masters in<br />
Public Health, there was also a feeling<br />
of embarrassment. My studies and my<br />
profession constantly touted the ample<br />
benefits of breast milk. And here I<br />
wasm at two-and-a-half months, barely<br />
being able to sustain this nutrition for<br />
my baby. The ‘mom guilt’ was in full<br />
force by now, and I started racking my<br />
brain as to how this happened. My first<br />
thought was I had introduced a bottle<br />
too soon. My next thought was that I<br />
hadn’t breastfed in public enough (I had<br />
only breastfed at the hospital, when our<br />
son was born, and at doctors’ offices).<br />
I hadn’t built up the confidence yet to<br />
breastfeed outside of my home, and<br />
suddenly felt that if only I had been<br />
more comfortable, things would have<br />
been different.<br />
We met with a lactation consultant<br />
to see if our son would be able to<br />
get back on the breast. I spent three<br />
weeks trying to get him to breastfeed<br />
again. Sometimes he would, for a very<br />
short amount of time. The first time<br />
he latched again, I cried as he fed.<br />
Tears poured down my face, as I felt<br />
that indescribable bond with my baby.<br />
However, this wasn’t sustainable, as it<br />
became evident he was happier with the<br />
bottle. Ultimately, I realised the fact that<br />
our son chose to feed the way that he<br />
wanted.<br />
I can tell you, it’s taken me some time to<br />
mourn the loss of his feeds. It’s also taken<br />
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PARENTING<br />
BY JOANNE SALLAY<br />
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<strong>October</strong> is always eagerly anticipated – who could forget Halloween? Students love to dress-up in<br />
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reading material with magic, mystery and make-believe! Students can unleash their creativity with so<br />
much rich imagery. Tap into the fun and find some books that bring Halloween to life.<br />
Here are a few picks to delight students of all ages:<br />
AGES<br />
2-4<br />
HERBERT’S FIRST HALLOWEEN<br />
Written by Cynthia Rylant, Illustrated by Steven Henry<br />
Are you looking for an intro to Halloween story? This is a great picture book for first-time little trick-ortreaters.<br />
Young readers will follow Herbert on his very first Halloween. While Herbert’s not sure how he<br />
feels about it, his father is ready to show him how fun it can be with a tiger costume, pumpkin carving,<br />
and candy, of course!<br />
AGES<br />
4-8<br />
GRIMELDA AND THE SPOOKTACULAR PET SHOW<br />
Written by Diana Murray, Illustrated by Heather Ross<br />
Fans of magic and witchcraft will want to check out this picture book, which is also the sequel to<br />
Grimelda: The Very Messy Witch. It follows Grimelda from Cobweb town who wants her cat Wizzlewarts to<br />
win the Spooktacular Pet Show. When she can’t find her spell book she goes out on a quest to find a new<br />
pet. The rhyming verses and bright illustrations will be a hit with students. They may also learn a new<br />
spell or two!<br />
AGES<br />
4-8<br />
HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH A GHOST<br />
Written and Illustrated by Rebecca Green<br />
Not your typical ghost story, this charming picture book will open your eyes to the joy of befriending one.<br />
If you have no clue how to do this, do not fear. This guide book helps with tips and tricks on how to build<br />
a friendship with an apparition. This includes instructions on ghost basics, dos and don’ts, ghost care,<br />
and growing together. It’s a very funny book that adults will enjoy, just as much as the kids (if not more)!<br />
AGES<br />
8-12<br />
CONNECT THE SCOTTS: THE DEAD KID DETECTIVE AGENCY #4<br />
Written by Evan Munday<br />
For students who like to sink their teeth into a good series, the fourth title in the Dead Kid Detective Agency<br />
comes out this month. This chain of chapter books follows heroine, <strong>October</strong> Schwartz, who likes to hang<br />
out in the Sticksville Cemetery and solve crimes with her ghost friends. This round finds <strong>October</strong> with<br />
more detective work to investigate the past death of Tabetha Scott, and a current robbery at a school<br />
concert. As an added bonus, author Evan Munday lives in Toronto!<br />
AGES<br />
12+<br />
THE WINNOWING<br />
Written by Vikki VanSickle<br />
Vikki VanSickle, a known Canadian author and resident of Toronto, has come out with an awardwinning<br />
thriller for students. Not surprisingly, she was also a huge fan of The X-Files while growing up.<br />
This adventure follows Marivic Stone as she tries to uncover the truth about a secret procedure called the<br />
winnowing; a rite of passage for all adolescents that no one who experiences it actually remembers. A<br />
must-read for fans of mystery.<br />
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