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2018 August PASO Magazine

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Stephanie Rothbauer Seeks Stem Cell Donor<br />

<strong>2018</strong> Big Sister of the Year Battles Life-Threatening Cancer<br />

Publisher’s Note: In May, we recognized<br />

Stephanie Rothbauer for her<br />

selection as the Big Sister of the Year<br />

for <strong>2018</strong>. She was recognized for an<br />

outpouring of her mind, body and<br />

spirit upon others, and it is our honor<br />

to publish a call for help for Stephanie<br />

as she faces an internal battle of<br />

mind, body and spirit for her life.<br />

By Tracey Earl<br />

Here on the Central Coast<br />

we have many hero’s disguised<br />

as ordinary people<br />

and one that is special to me and<br />

many others is Stephanie Rothbauer.<br />

Her story is like other ordinary<br />

people dealt circumstances<br />

beyond their control — circumstances<br />

in which you have the<br />

choice to fight or be defeated.<br />

Stephanie is a warrior and a Hero<br />

and being defeated is not in her<br />

vocabulary.<br />

Stephanie, Our Warrior Queen,<br />

recently entered the ring for the<br />

fight of her life and she needs the<br />

an army of support to get through<br />

this. She was diagnosed with<br />

Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML.<br />

FLT3), and on May 17 she was<br />

sent to Stanford Medical Center<br />

after results from a local blood test<br />

came back with dangerous levels of<br />

white blood cells.<br />

The tests were a result of Stephanie<br />

seeking medical attention<br />

after experiencing a recent series<br />

of issues that she had believed to<br />

be related to her Multiple Sclerosis.<br />

Severe, headaches, debilitating<br />

in nature, a terrible ulcer on her<br />

tongue that made it impossible for<br />

her to eat and she even blacked out<br />

at one point. It was then that she<br />

realized this was beyond the challenges<br />

that she already dealt with<br />

and considered part of her “normal”<br />

with MS.<br />

Upon her arrival at Stanford<br />

they immediately began chemo<br />

treatment and told her that she<br />

had cancer. It took a couple of<br />

days and a very painful bone marrow<br />

biopsy to reveal exactly what<br />

form of leukemia she would be<br />

battling. Given the seriousness of<br />

Stephanie’s already highly-compromised<br />

immunity the treatment<br />

plan for her is very individualized<br />

and she is being taken care of with<br />

extra care and attention.<br />

Tad, Stephanie’s husband, has<br />

only left her side to come home<br />

for their son’s promotion from the<br />

eighth grade. It was a heartwarming<br />

surprise that left few dry eyes<br />

as young TJ was surprised by his<br />

father’s appearance. Stephanie is<br />

currently undergoing her second<br />

four-week induction chemotherapy<br />

with hopes of putting the cancer<br />

into remission before a bone<br />

marrow transplant. When her<br />

marrow test come back clean of<br />

the cancer cells she will undergo<br />

stem cell therapy, with a 100-day<br />

stay in Palo Alto for 24-hour care<br />

and treatment.<br />

The previous induction chemotherapy<br />

brought her close to the<br />

edge multiple times, but her body<br />

fought back against insurmountable<br />

odds — well enough for her<br />

to get a one-week break at home at<br />

the end of June before beginning<br />

this second round. As of mid-July,<br />

we are waiting for results of her<br />

most recent biopsy to determine<br />

whether or not her numbers are<br />

within the parameters of remission.<br />

If they are, and the stem cell<br />

donor is found, she can begin the<br />

process of rebuilding her immune<br />

system. There is a chance that not<br />

only would she be cancer free, but<br />

that her MS would be eliminated as<br />

well — truly, a second chance at life.<br />

We recently found out that her<br />

siblings are not matches for stem<br />

cell, and they are currently searching<br />

the national database for a match.<br />

Are you between the ages 18-<br />

44* and want to help Stephanie?<br />

Join Be The Match’s National<br />

Marrow Registry. Bone Marrow<br />

and Stem Cells have the ability to<br />

cure life threatening diseases. Joining<br />

the registry is easy.<br />

You can go to join.bethematch.<br />

org/SRothbauer for a free swab kit<br />

to complete at home. The process<br />

is similar to blood donations, and<br />

donors say it is pain free and easy<br />

— a couple hours of their time<br />

for the rest of a patient’s life. If<br />

you have any questions or would<br />

like to host a Be The Match drive<br />

at your place of worship, work,<br />

school, or community center,<br />

please reach out to Claire Bendig,<br />

cbendig@coh.org. Learn more at<br />

bethematch.org.<br />

ABOUT STEPHANIE<br />

To know Steph is too love<br />

her. Her vibrancy and genuine<br />

love of life is present in everything<br />

she does, even during<br />

these difficult times.<br />

What would cripple many<br />

only displayed her strengths<br />

more. Her passion is displayed<br />

in everything she is a<br />

part of, and a supporter of the<br />

national and local MS Foundation.<br />

She’s also a well-recognized<br />

interior designer.<br />

She was recently honored<br />

as Big Sister of the Year for<br />

<strong>2018</strong>, because of her commitment<br />

to her Little Sister, which<br />

she plans to see through the<br />

young lady’s time in school<br />

and beyond.<br />

Steph’s family is her biggest<br />

passion and her focus is and<br />

always has been to ensure<br />

that TJ (14), Brayden (12), and<br />

Mia (8) are happy, loved and<br />

know their place in her heart.<br />

Our number one priority is<br />

securing a donor so Stephanie<br />

can be home and cancer<br />

free and return to be a mother,<br />

wife and friend to so many.<br />

Signing up to be a donor is<br />

such a worthy cause that will<br />

help someone to live a better<br />

life, whether it is Stephanie’s<br />

or someone like her fighting<br />

for their chance to be a part<br />

of the everyday little things so<br />

many of us take for granted.<br />

Facebook: Steph’s Army: Going<br />

to Battle Against AML<br />

gofundme.com/stephanie-rothbauer<br />

join.bethematch.org/SRothbauer<br />

28 | pasomagazine.com <strong>PASO</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, <strong>August</strong> <strong>2018</strong>

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