This or Better!

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This…or Better! 

Wenty 

Your Fairy Godmother 

www.secretsofafairygodmother.com 

info@secretsofafairygodmother.com 

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Why This Book Is Important! 

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Hello! 

I’m Wenty, the Fairy Godmother. 

I wrote this short ebook as a special gift for you. We haven’t 

been introduced yet, so I felt this would be a good way for us to 

meet, and you could get to know me a bit better. 

And that’s the theme of this little book … Better. 

I’m going to tell you what I think and feel … you know how 

Fairy Godmothers are … and I’m going to do this straight from 

my heart and in my own style. You will see words capitalized 

in funny places, and other little oddities here and there … 

it’s because some words have more power and meaning, so I 

emphasize them. (I don’t want you to think I’m a bad speller or 

punctuationist … Yes, I also invent words now and then … this 

comes with my territory!) 

I believe in having Fun! 

Fairy Godmother Magic. 

I bet you do, too, and that’s Great, because we’re going to have 

a Lot of Fun!


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So, let’s get started. 

This ebook is about a topic that’s very Special to me, and I call it 

“This or Better”. 

“This or Better” is a very interesting topic because whenever we 

think we’ve made a decision about having things “my way” or 

“our way” or “your way”, we’re limiting our results. 

Because we have such a relatively small point of view when 

compared to Infinity, or, say, compared to God’s or the 

Universe’s plan, what we do when we insist on having things 

“our way” is limit the Limitless. 

Not a good idea, wouldn’t you agree? 

This reminds me of a quote you probably know: 

“If you want to make God laugh (or the Universe laugh, or 

whatever you call The Divine and the Infinite), tell Him Your 

plans.” 

A special place.


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I love that quote! I use it all the time and I think it’s fabulous. 

Before I became a Fairy Godmother, I admit I used to think 

with a very small perspective, relative to the potentiality of the 

Universe’s possibilities and the amazing dynamics that can 

happen when we Will our desires. 

On top of that, I had many old belief systems from the past 

that were negative filters that blocked my personal power, so 

I was really struggling to work with the Universe and have my 

Dreams and Desires realized. Wow, did I ever have a lot of work 

to do! 

It took me awhile, but I finally figured it out. Fairy Godmother 

School was a great help, and that’s where I learned a lot of the 

concepts (and secrets) that I can now offer you. Oh, it’s not so 

secret really, but that sounds Good, doesn’t it? The Truth is 

that I’ve been taking courses and studying this Stuff for a Long, 

Longg, Longgg Time, and you can do that, too, or you could 

get everything from my series of courses, “Secrets of a Fairy 

Godmother” and save yourself a lot of time and money. 

Light through morning fog. 

Slowly the mists began to part 

However, back to the main point. I had a lot of blocks working 

against my Maximum Potentiality, so I learned that instead of 

only wanting what I wanted, I could want what I wanted and 

And Light began to touch my heart…


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add some Secret Sauce to let the Universe know it was okay to 

surprise me! 

“This or Better.” 

“The thing always happens 

that you really believe in; 

Every time I want something and I ask for it, humbly and with 

Gratitude of course, I end my request with “This or Better”. 

and the belief in a thing 

makes it happen.” 

~ Frank Lloyd Wright ~ 

Here’s a good example. Let’s say I want a car. I think of all 

the types of cars there are, and I think, “Oh…I like VW Bugs. 

Ummmm… I want a VW Bug. Yes, I’d like a yellow VW Bug!” 

And then, like you’re supposed to do, I would think of all the 

details I want. I would start to imagine what the inside of the 

car looked like, and the outside of the car, and then I would see 

myself cruising in my VW Bug along a winding country road 

with the top down, enjoying the fresh air, and all the special 

visual and emotional cues I could dream up. 

You’ve done this before, right? If you’re reading this book right 

now, the chances are terrific that you have worked before with 

affirmations.


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Anyway, affirmations don’t always work so well, and in the 

second place, I limited the Universe to a single choice for me. 

I’ve asked the Universe for a cute little yellow VW Bug. Can the 

Universe do that? Yes, it can, but I’m also making the Universe 

work too hard. 

Am I not part of This? 

The Universe is thinking, “A cute little yellow VW Bug? Well, 

okay, but what I Really wanted to give you was a Mercedes.” 

Was I brought up 

Or maybe it was going to be a green VW, or maybe a sky-blue 

Jeep, or how about a red Thunderbird? Do you see? Did I make 

my point? 

By saying “This or Better”, I’m allowing extended possibilities. 

Whenever I’m writing goals, or making plans, I always finish 

by saying “This or Better” because I’m open to have something 

Better than merely the way I see things, which is small and 

limited. 

Bird over the sea. 

believing myself 

s e p a r a t e 

from this Majesty? 

I am Stardust and the Light 

“This or Better” opens the door to endless potentiality and 

allows “magnetic attraction” to occur. 

of a billion trillion Suns 

Spiral Galaxy.


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It literally blows open the hatches and allows the highest 

vibration to correspond with me and my desires. “This or 

Better” is a hugely effective device for liberating our limited 

perspective and allowing the abundance of the Universe to pour 

through. 

Make sense? 

Yes, this is pretty easy stuff, like everything. It’s all easy if you 

know how. 

Frozen waterdrops. 

A gift of sweet fruit 

From the arms of the tree… 

How fortunate! These blessings 

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

are given to me… 

Plums. 

Here’s another good example. When you wake up in the 

morning and you begin to plan your day, I bet you say that 

first you’re going to do this, and then that, and then something 

else…and that’s fine. To have optimal success during your day, 

be sure to add the words “This or Better”, because this way your 

day will be a lot easier than you could ever plan it to be. 

Take me, for instance. I want my day to be set up in the way 

that’s going to be best for me, and best for my life, and best for 

my soul. I’m ready and willing to make space in my day to work 

with more alignment to the Flow of the Universe. I’m willing 

to free myself from situations that would otherwise block my 

progress, and block me from situations that I’m not even aware


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would be blocking me! “This or Better” is such a powerful 

expression. 

When you can step back a moment and take a look at what’s 

going on in most people’s lives, you’ll see that the underlying 

flaw is the intention of “I want it my way”. 

It won’t take you long to see the extent of this attitude in 

advertising, for example, or anywhere…because it’s everywhere. 

I’d like you to take a moment to look at this dynamic, “I want it 

MY way.” Humor me a little bit, Dear, and cross your arms in 

front of your chest. I want you to say the words “I want it MY 

way” as if you were a little stubborn child. 

“I want it MY way! It’s gotta be MY way!” Say it with a whiney 

voice… Let’s do it again. “I want things MY way! I want it my 

way! It’s gotta be my way or the highway!” Do it one more time 

“I want it MY Way”! 

Now I want you to see the little child within you, that part of 

you that wants it THAT way or NO way at all. That’s a part of 

you that’s sabotaging your success and your life. 

A path through the fog. 

Though beautiful as any other 

I’d rather walk another… 

The sun will burn my fog away 

For I now choose a Better way


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These days, as a Fairy Godmother, I have to laugh at the 

concept of having anything my way! It’s Such a joke because 

I’m seeing that “my way” doesn’t work most of the time, nor 

does it help with attracting the good things you want in your 

life. It sure doesn’t make your life easy. It’s a form of resisting 

life and attracting more garbage into your life. 

Having things “my Way” or thinking “it’s gotta be this way” is 

actually a Control issue. The thought is, “I want control of my 

life and I want things my way,” and what you’re really doing 

is manipulating your own life with negative and diminished 

Energy. 

Why would anybody want to do that to themselves? You 

wouldn’t want anyone to do that to you! You’d be fighting that 

with a white-knuckle grip! 

Change is now blowing through your life... 

Having things your way is very disrespectful to yourself, your 

soul, and your very wonderful Being-ness. This false belief or 

inappropriate attitude is keeping you from having your dreams, 

and keeping you from having what you want. 

When you try to Control something, you throw everything 

sideways. I think you know this, and I think you have lots of


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examples either in your own life, or in the lives of the people 

around you to know that this is True. 

I want you to know that, in my past, I was a Control Freak. 

I was a go-getter “fast-tracker” in Corporate America, and I 

made a lot of enemies along the way with my Control Issues. I 

moved quickly up the corporate ladder and I was very unhappy 

with my life, and I looked 20 years older than my age. Been 

there, done that…and I now know the COST of needing to 

Control everything. It’s just not worth it! 

You deserve Better… You deserve The Life Of Your Dreams. 

Rocky trail. 

The Way is up 

And hot and long; 

I wish that I could sing 

A different song… 

“My way” and control will not get you there. It clogs the 

flow. It blocks wonderful things from coming to you. Oh, it 

brings things alright, but those things are full of resistance, 

manipulation, and control. Working at this energy level, you’ll 

find that other people start controlling you and your situations, 

and that forces you to want to control even more, which is 

something you would never do intentionally. This whole 

mess descends into a negative downward spiral, leaving you 

miserable. 

Well, that’s a dark and dreary place, isn’t it?


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I’m your Fairy Godmother, and it gives me the shivers! 

On the other hand, when we realize that Freedom comes with a 

phrase like “This or Better”, oh, my Goodness, you’re set free! 

Life becomes more Fun, life becomes Easier, and you are more 

in The Flow. 

This is the attitude adjustment that’s needed so you can have a 

life that’s more Free and that contributes to creating The Life 

Of Your Dreams. 

Now, I’m not saying that what you’re doing is not working, 

but please ask yourself this question. Look at your life. Are 

you now living The Life Of Your Dreams? Are you making the 

kind of money you want? Are you having The Relationships Of 

Your Dreams, relationships that are easy and wonderful? Are 

you living The Career Of Your Dreams? Did you jump out of 

bed this morning and say, “I gotta get to work! I love what I’m 

doing!”? 

The Light and your Power is vast!


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My Goodness, that’s the way we all deserve to be living, and 

I believe that’s why we’re here…to do the work and have the 

career and the purpose and the relationships of Our Dreams. 

This or Better! 

When you’re looking for a new job, think “This or Better”. This 

may take a 180-degree perspective shift for you because you’ve 

been so well-trained to think “I want THIS job”. I mention this 

because I was working with one of my “clients” recently. 

He wanted to find the exact same job but make more money. 

I asked him if he loved his job and he didn’t, and he had never 

even considered the possibility that he could have a job he loved 

that also paid him better. Can you imagine? 

Light at the end of the tunnel. 

Then, he began using “This or Better” and, yes, you guessed it, 

he now has a job he loves, which pays him more than the last 

job, and he now feels he is living his Purpose on the planet. 

Now he feels fulfilled, and that’s the True feeling of success. 

This or Better! 

Let’s take this back to you now. When you’re looking at every 

single facet of your life… your career, your abundance, your


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personal life, your health, your spiritual life…every one of these 

facets could become what you truly desire when you say the 

magic words. 

This or Better sets you free by creating the space to receive 

the really best, most optimal flow of Better Than Your Wildest 

Dreams, which is truly what I want you to have. 

I believe there is a Force larger than us that is connected to 

our soul’s growth, and that Source is capable of creating Better 

than you desire. Remember to use this phrase every day with 

everything you’re creating or wanting to attract. 

“This or Better!” 

The Dance of Abundance Series is the first in my set of 

many series designed to shift people’s perceptions on the topics 

of prosperity, health, relationships, Attracting and Keeping 

Your Soul Mate, and much more. An abundance of material will 

be available to you and everyone seeking a more developed and 

fulfilling life experience. 

This or Better!


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These several sets of series, focused on multiple topics, contain 

essential information based on Quantum Physics and the 

rational, analytical mind. 

I have synthesized this logical, scientific material with 

metaphysical theory and out-of-the-box thinking learned 

through my experiences, studies, and training of over 35 years 

on How the World Really Works. 

What you get is Me, your Fairy Godmother! 

Lightning Storm. 

In most people’s lives, there are a lot of elements that are not 

working well for them, and the unfortunate thing is, in many 

cases, they’re not conscious of exactly what’s not working and 

how to resolve the situation. 

I light the sky with lightning bursts 

and send the rains for Earth’s great thirsts 

My books and videos, and the Fairy Godmother Network, are 

intended to expand people’s consciousness and clear their 

direct connection to a Higher Guidance. 

This is a time of Growth, new opportunities, service to others 

and to Self, a time for learning new skills and discovering new 

tools, and it’s about having The Life Of Your Dreams.


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It’s time. It’s time for you to have Financial Freedom! It means 

you’re going to have to expand your thinking and you’re going 

to have to do things differently. You’ve heard the quote, “You 

can’t solve the problem with the same thinking that created the 

problem.” 

Most people don’t realize that if they are going to make big 

changes, they are going to require other resources than their 

mind. The mind will only take you so far, and as I mentioned 

earlier, there are a lot of blocking filters that prevent the mind 

alone from being a useful tool. 

We all have so much more potential than we are using. The 

mind is just one part of your entire Being’s system. To use only 

your mind for a solution, or assume you will find a way, by 

yourself, to make the changes you need to achieve The Life Of 

Your Dreams is likely to cause you to continue living the Same 

life you’re living now - over and over, eating up years. 

The mind doesn’t have all the answers, and even if it did, it has 

a lot of filters diminishing its ability to perform well. I mention 

these filters in depth in the first book of my series, The Dance of 

Abundance, Volumes 1 and 2. 

Sunny sky.


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When you use only your mind, you are missing 98% of 

your potential as a soul on Earth. 

The mind is really too small a resource to have any real 

value for the work you want it to do. It’s like going to the 

Internet with only 2% accessibility when you’re searching for 

information. You simply are not going to find what you want. 

You won’t be able to find the information you desire because 

you’re only using a tiny amount of the resources you need. 

The mind is very powerful when programmed the right way, 

only after it’s been cleared of all the debris and clutter that’s 

in the way of your receiving 100% of its potential. I will show 

you what’s blocking you, and I will clear it away so you can be a 

Clear Channel. 

Everything in this series of books and videos is focused on 

getting you what you want because I believe “You CAN Have It 

All”. 

How am I going to do this for you? How are you going to have 

it All? As your Fairy Godmother, everything I’ve thought about 

for the last 35 years has been about developing my program so 

Though without Light of my own, 

I dispel the Illusion of Darkness 

Night sky.


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you can have what you want, and now it’s ready and waiting for 

you. 

You sooo deserve this! 

“Your vision will become clear 

You chose to read this ebook because you believe in a new 

possibility for your life and the lives of your loved ones. You 

chose this e-book because you know there is a different point of 

view than how you’re thinking now. This program is completely 

different from any program you’ve ever seen or taken. 

only when you can look 

into your own heart. 

Yes, some of the things you’ll already know, which will be very 

validating. But a lot of the topics I’ll be talking about are going 

to be brand-new. We’re going to be going out on the skinny 

branches. I’m going to bring you knowledge and practices that 

are very different from the way most people think and behave. 

Who looks outside, dreams; 

who looks inside, awakes.” 

~ Carl Gustav Jung ~ 

Fairy Godmothers are meant to help their people get what they 

want, and we can do it because we do things very differently. 

Information comes through us and we work with it, and we 

shift the Energy. I’ll be showing you how you can do this in your 

own life.


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I want you to get what you want but you can’t do it the way 

you’re doing it now because the way you’re doing it is not 

working for you. 

Look at us! 

We’re going to try some new dances, and I’ll show you new 

ways to make things easier, more fun, more fulfilling, and have 

your life attract all the things you deserve. 

Look closely… 

What do you see? 

Our bits of calcium 

And salt from the sea 

Mirror the flight 

Of the stars and galaxies 

Messengers of the Galax-sea. 

Besides, I’m a Fairy Godmother and I don’t do anything unless 

it’s Fun! 

I mentioned the topic of “control” a moment ago. I’d like to 

also mention another key word, “Trust”. I find that most people 

don’t trust, and this has a HUGE influence on the outcome 

of your potential. If you’re not trusting, you can’t receive. If 

you’re not trusting, you’re blocking The Flow. If you’re not 

trusting, how can you be in a relationship? How can you trust 

yourself? 

We’re going to talk a lot about Trust; how to have it, and how 

to allow Trust to work in your life. This will also be part of 

our dance. “This or Better” comes from trusting. When you’re 

controlling, you’re not trusting, right? You either trust, or 

you control and manipulate. They’re on opposite ends of the


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spectrum, and you have to choose the kind of person you wish 

to be. 

Getting where you want to go is going to take a lot of 

Trust. We’re going to make it fun instead of doing heavy, 

burdensome, therapy stuff. I’m not going to do that! 

No way! 

I’m your Fairy Godmother and we’re going to play, we’re going 

to have fun, we’re going to do exercises, and we’re going to do a 

lot of things that are very different with a very remarkable style. 

This is a new way of learning, and it will teach you to trust 

yourself more and more…which is another way that will open 

the pathway to your prosperity and happiness. 

Because of who you are, and because you’ve proved who you 

are by reading this ebook, I know you are open to the further 

development of your knowledge and the resulting enrichment 

of your life. 

Fairy Godmother fun!


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As I said, you will know some of the things I mention, but you 

will also have insights to new information that I believe will 

change the way you see your life, and discover a new way of 

living your life in prosperity and happiness. 

Something else that’s for sure: 

I’m going to tell you how great you are and then I’m going to 

tell you how great you are, and then I’m going to tell you how 

Great You Are! 

You Are More 

Magnificent 

People aren’t used to this kind of communication. People aren’t 

used to someone bragging on them! I want you to see what I 

call your Magnificence. I want you to see what I see: how Great 

you are! I want you to live The Life Of Your Dreams knowing 

YOU are the best thing since sliced bread! You are Awesome! 

Awesome and Beyond! 

Than You Realize! 

So, when we get started, know that you’re going to start trusting 

yourself at a new level, and this is going to start making 

everything immediately Better and Better. We’re going to 

move into the work about Trust, the opposite of control and 

manipulation, which only creates a very small life and world.


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Instead, we’re going to expand your consciousness, your 

knowledge, your abilities, and your capacity to create The Life 

Of Your Dreams! 

We’re going to have fun! 

YOU DESERVE IT! 

Man-made brick wall. 

Celebration!


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info@secretsofafairygodmother.com 

For Passion Publishing, LLC 

P.O. Box 28312 

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