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<strong>Fertility</strong><strong>Road</strong> ISSUE <strong>45</strong> fertilityroad fertilityroadmag<br />

Contents<br />

BODY<br />

10 THE SUPPLEMENT WAR<br />

at to loo for i fertilityased<br />

sulemets tat will otimie<br />

your ealt<br />

14 FOOD TO OPTIMISE YOUR<br />

FERTILITY<br />

y maig sure you ae a<br />

ealty alaed diet you a<br />

otimise te uality of your eggs<br />

or serm<br />

18 SKIP THE SUMMER BBQ<br />

ummer is a great time to loo<br />

at your oortuities to oost<br />

utritio ad fertility<br />

22 WHAT IS POLYCYSTIC OVARY<br />

SYNDROME?<br />

is a ormoal imalae<br />

tat affets to eret of<br />

wome of rerodutie age aross<br />

te world<br />

MIND<br />

26 THE OBSTACLE IS THE PATH<br />

o you feel tat you eig it<br />

wit ostale after ostale<br />

derstadig wat is stadig<br />

i your way a el you moe<br />

forward<br />

30 THE NEW NORMAL<br />

eter tat was ust a few<br />

mots ago or seeral years<br />

your ormal way of liig te<br />

is liely to e ae ee ery<br />

differet to ow it is ow sie<br />

you emared o roet ay<br />

FERTILITY<br />

JOURNEYS<br />

36 HERTS AND ESSEX FERTILITY<br />

our ae to reeie free <br />

treatmet ad free fertility<br />

osultatios at teir state of te<br />

art lii<br />

38 IVF SPAIN<br />

e team from ai ae a<br />

udate o te oules rogress<br />

FERTILITY<br />

360<br />

44 The risks and rewards of<br />

egg donation<br />

eeiig eggs from a door<br />

is sometimes te oly otio<br />

for wome were te asee<br />

of teir ow eggs or oor egg<br />

uality reets regay from<br />

atural oetio<br />

56 ICE, ICE BABY<br />

e is a good time to freee<br />

your eggs<br />

60 BACK TO FRONT AND<br />

INSIDE OUT<br />

urig eodary fertility o<br />

its ead ad looig at it i a<br />

differet way<br />

MEN ONLY<br />

64 LOSE THE BEER GUT<br />

ess weigt is a growig<br />

rolem for me o wat a you<br />

do to get i sae<br />

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Contributors<br />

The people who made this issue happen…<br />

Michelle Mulliss BSc (Hons)<br />

MBAcC<br />

Michelle specialises in natural and<br />

assisted fertility and provides a unique<br />

approach of integrated medicine.<br />

Liz Bottrill<br />

Liz Bottrill is a Partner in the Family<br />

Law Team at Laytons Solicitors with<br />

over 25 years’ experience in the<br />

field. She has a particular interest<br />

and expertise in the law relating to<br />

children and fertility.<br />

Dr Marilyn Glenville PhD<br />

Marilyn is the UK’s leading<br />

nutritionist specialising in<br />

women’s health.<br />

Jessica Hepburn<br />

Founder of <strong>Fertility</strong> Fest and<br />

author of her new book 21 Miles:<br />

Swimming in search of the meaning<br />

of motherhood.<br />

Dr Caroline Phillips PhD<br />

Caroline was senior embryologist at<br />

the Chelsea and Westminster Hospital<br />

in the 90’s. She now runs an online<br />

hub - <strong>Fertility</strong> Clinics Abroadwhich<br />

offers resources and information to<br />

people seeking IVF abroad.<br />

A’ndrea Reiter<br />

A’ndrea is a Reiki Master and<br />

Holistic <strong>Fertility</strong> Specialist.<br />

Sarah Holland<br />

Sarah is a <strong>Fertility</strong> EFT Coach and<br />

Mentor and supports women<br />

and couples.<br />

Dr Jodie Peacock ND<br />

Jodie is a Naturopathic doctor<br />

in Canada who runs the online<br />

program, Enhance <strong>Fertility</strong><br />

Bootcamp.<br />

Craig Reisser<br />

Craig is a father through donor egg<br />

surrogacy and IVF. Craig works with<br />

Oregon Reproductive Medicine,<br />

the clinic that helped him become a<br />

father, to help other intended parents<br />

building their families.<br />

Kathy Payne<br />

Kathy is a women’s health coach<br />

online and in Norwich UK, offering<br />

bespoke programmes for women<br />

and couples, as well as online classes<br />

and courses.<br />

Juliana Kassianos<br />

Juliana is a Natural <strong>Fertility</strong><br />

Therapist and founder of The<br />

School of <strong>Fertility</strong>.<br />

Helen Davies<br />

Helen is the Author of ‘More Love<br />

To Give’ and runs website and<br />

Facebook support group dedicated<br />

to Secondary Infertility.<br />

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FR News & Views<br />

Lifestyle changes can help OBESE<br />

women improve their fertility<br />

Although obesity can significantly decrease a<br />

woman's ability to get pregnant, losing weight<br />

through diet and exercise can improve her<br />

odds, according to a research review.<br />

Programs that promote weight loss through<br />

lifestyle change, rather than bariatric surgery<br />

or medications, are preferred and can increase<br />

the chance of spontaneous pregnancy, the study<br />

authors conclude in the Canadian Medical<br />

Association Journal.<br />

“It is important that women are aware that they may<br />

jeopardize their reproductive health if they are obese<br />

and should consider improving their lifestyle,” said<br />

senior author Dr. Jean-Patrice Baillargeon of the<br />

University of Sherbrooke in Canada.<br />

Infertility, which is defined as the inability to<br />

become pregnant after 12 months of trying,<br />

affects about 15 percent of couples in Canada, the<br />

review authors note. Infertility affects 12 percent<br />

of women in the United States, according to the<br />

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.<br />

Given that 25 percent of Canadian women of<br />

reproductive age are overweight and another<br />

19 percent are obese, the authors write, it’s<br />

“prudent” to determine the best ways to reduce<br />

the potential impact on fertility.<br />

“Evidence also shows that if a mother is obese<br />

during pregnancy, it increases the risk of obesity and<br />

diabetes in her kids as well,” Baillargeon, who is also<br />

president of the Canadian Society of Endocrinology<br />

and Metabolism, said in a phone interview.<br />

Baillargeon and colleagues reviewed research<br />

published in the last 10 years on the links between<br />

obesity, fertility, lifestyle modifications and<br />

other obesity treatment options. They focused on<br />

analyzing data from the 20 most relevant review<br />

articles and original research papers.<br />

This prior research finds that the risk of<br />

infertility increases 27 percent in women who are<br />

overweight, and 78 percent in women who are<br />

obese. Obesity is defined as having a body mass<br />

index (BMI), a ratio of weight to height, of 30 or<br />

higher. BMI between 25 and 29.9 is considered<br />

overweight, and between 18.5 and 24.9 is<br />

considered a healthy weight.<br />

Obesity most commonly harms women’s fertility<br />

through menstrual and ovulation disorders,<br />

which include polycystic ovary syndrome, the<br />

authors write. Overall, the chance of pregnancy<br />

drops 4 percent with each one-point increase in<br />

BMI. Obesity also decreases the effectiveness of<br />

fertility treatments, they note.<br />

“Women who are obese usually need more<br />

expensive fertility treatments as well, which can<br />

be a barrier for them,” Baillargeon said. “We want<br />

women to be aware of these factors.”<br />

Obesity can affect the pregnancy itself, the<br />

authors point out. It’s associated with higher odds<br />

of gestational diabetes, postpartum depression<br />

and cesarean delivery. Newborns are also more<br />

likely to be born early and have health problems<br />

such as neural tube defects or heart anomalies.<br />

Several international health organizations<br />

recommend a 5 percent decrease in body weight<br />

for obese women who want to become pregnant<br />

or pursue fertility treatments. Past studies<br />

have found that women with polycystic ovary<br />

syndrome, in particular, benefit from weight<br />

loss programs because they tend to have higher<br />

central obesity and insulin resistance that could<br />

hinder pregnancy.<br />

“These few studies don’t give solutions to all<br />

of the unanswered questions here, but on<br />

the whole, we should take notice that obesity<br />

actively interferes with reproduction,” said Dr.<br />

Annemieke Hoek of the University of Groningen<br />

Medical Center in the Netherlands, who wasn’t<br />

involved in the review.<br />

“Parents, future parents, government officials<br />

and policymakers should be aware that if<br />

the population grows fatter and fatter, we’re<br />

increasing our chances of infertility,” Hoek said<br />

in a phone interview.<br />

Although losing weight is beneficial, women<br />

should avoid extreme dieting immediately before<br />

and during pregnancy, said Dr. Richard Legro, a<br />

reproductive endocrinologist at the Penn State<br />

Health Milton S. Hershey Medical Center in<br />

Pennsylvania, who wasn’t involved in the review.<br />

“There should be a divide between getting ready<br />

for pregnancy and actively being pregnant,” he<br />

said in a phone interview. “Women shouldn’t be<br />

dieting when their bodies need to be an energy<br />

store. It sends mixed messages to the brain.”<br />

These mixed messages, in turn, “lead to yo-yo<br />

dieting that we want to avoid,” Legro said. “We<br />

need to focus on appropriate weight maintenance<br />

across the pregnancy cycle.”<br />

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BODY<br />

EXPERT:<br />

Dr Jodie Peacock BSc, ND<br />

THE SUPPLEMENT WAR<br />

WHAT TO LOOK FOR<br />

IN FERTILITY-BASED<br />

SUPPLEMENTS<br />

• Delivery method - Vegetarian capsules or liquid<br />

are generally easier than tablets for your digestive<br />

system to dissolve and absorb nutrients.<br />

Supplements should be free of<br />

• Dyes - for example FD&C Red #40 aluminum<br />

lake, Yellow #6, Blue #1<br />

•Talc<br />

• Shellac glaze<br />

Company should stand behind the product<br />

• You want to be confident that the product you<br />

are purchasing contains what it says on the label<br />

and nothing more<br />

Optimizing your health before trying to<br />

conceive will help improve the overall health of<br />

your baby. The development of both egg and<br />

sperm take approximately 3 months, so this<br />

is a particularly critical time to improve your<br />

health. There are several different nutrients<br />

that are important to look at before trying<br />

to conceive, as they are directly related to<br />

improved pregnancy rates and health outcomes<br />

for babies. We are able to acquire nutrients<br />

from our diet but in some cases, to optimize<br />

levels, it is necessary to use a supplement.<br />

Basics that should be observed when choosing<br />

supplements are:<br />

• Some companies will do independent lab testing on<br />

their raw materials and finished products to ensure<br />

the product meets the label claim and doesn’t contain<br />

other impurities such as heavy metals or pesticides<br />

• I recommend calling the company to ask if they<br />

can provide this data to ensure the quality of<br />

the product<br />

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BODY<br />

Most women, before they start trying to conceive,<br />

will begin taking a prenatal vitamin. I think a<br />

prenatal is essential during the time you are<br />

trying to conceive, and continued once you know<br />

you are pregnant. All prenatals are not created<br />

equal. There are some really great prenatals on the<br />

market and some of less desirable quality.<br />

When choosing a prenatal you need to be aware<br />

that there are more and less desirable forms of<br />

vitamins. Here are some key things to look for:<br />

Folate<br />

Taking either folate or 5-methyltetrahydofolate<br />

(5-MTHFR), not Folic acid which is synthetic and<br />

not as easily converted to its active form in the<br />

body, are the active forms that your body more<br />

readily absorbs and uses efficiently. You have a<br />

gene that codes your ability to convert folate into<br />

its active form 5-MTHFR. Approximately 15%<br />

of the population can’t do this at all, while about<br />

50% has a reduced ability to convert sufficiently.<br />

Without the ability to convert, and if you aren’t<br />

consuming activated folate, there can be higher<br />

rates of miscarriage, neural tube defects, as well as<br />

conditions such as depression, ADHD and autism in<br />

your future children. For this reason, if I don’t know<br />

the genetic status of a woman I always recommend<br />

taking a supplement with the active form of folate.<br />

You want to ensure that the dose is<br />

between 2-4 capsules per day. A<br />

one a day will not be sufficient to<br />

provide the essential nutrients<br />

that you require. In addition,<br />

you also want to ensure that the<br />

B vitamins are higher, as this will<br />

help with energy production!<br />

Iron<br />

Making sure your iron is at an optimal level before<br />

trying to conceive is extremely important to ensure<br />

the body has the nutrients and oxygen available to<br />

not only aid conception but also to aid in the increase<br />

in blood volume that is necessary to sustain a healthy<br />

pregnancy. Heme iron, iron that comes from eating<br />

animal products, is the best absorbed form of iron.<br />

If your iron is deficient, heme iron is a great form<br />

to use to improve levels. For women who are vegan<br />

or vegetarian one of the best forms of iron to use is<br />

an iron glycinate. This form is vegan friendly and<br />

very gentle on the digestive system, so causes very<br />

little constipation while seeing good improvements<br />

in iron levels. This form also won’t compete<br />

with calcium for absorption. Finding a<br />

prenatal with iron glycinate in it works<br />

very well to optimize the absorption<br />

of both of these important minerals.<br />

B12 –<br />

Methylcobalamin<br />

B12 is a nutrient extremely important for<br />

neurological development as well as for an<br />

important detoxification process in your body<br />

called methylation. If you are deficient in B12 this<br />

can cause symptoms related to nerve regulation,<br />

fatigue, difficulty with concentration and<br />

sleep concerns. Ensuring optimal levels is both<br />

important for the development of sperm and egg<br />

as well as overall health for the baby.<br />

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BODY<br />

Vitamin D<br />

Sunlight is a vital nutrient. Sunlight triggers a<br />

cascade of reactions within your body. When your<br />

skin and eyes are directly exposed to sunlight, the<br />

sunlight itself triggers your body to manufacture<br />

vitamin D3. Without sunlight, you can suffer from<br />

bone loss, depression, sleep disorders, immune<br />

deficiencies, and hormonal imbalances. There are<br />

also multiple studies that have shown deficient<br />

vitamin D can impair the body’s ability to achieve,<br />

as well as maintain, a pregnancy.<br />

A simple blood test can be run to assess your vitamin<br />

D status. We will be covering laboratory testing in<br />

a future module. However, in the UK, Canada and<br />

other countries of northern latitude, it is rare to<br />

find someone who isn’t supplementing to achieve<br />

adequate vitamin D levels in the winter months. It is<br />

generally recommended to supplement with at least<br />

2,000 IUs of vitamin D3 per day.<br />

Omega 3 Fatty Acids<br />

Essential fatty acids are fats that we must consume<br />

in our diets as our bodies don’t have the ability to<br />

make them. Being that they are deemed “essential”<br />

fatty acids, this means we cannot live without<br />

them. Both omega 3 and omega 6 fatty acids<br />

are considered essential. In the standard North<br />

American diet, we generally eat enough omega 6<br />

fatty acids and are inadequate in our omega 3s.<br />

Having optimal omega 3 levels have been shown<br />

to improve sperm production and increase your<br />

chances of successful conception. For women,<br />

it can also help regulate hormones, increase<br />

the blood flow to the uterus, increase egg white<br />

cervical mucus, which is needed to help the sperm<br />

reach the egg and helps your cycle to become<br />

normalized. The best dietary source of omega 3<br />

fatty acids is fish. There is some in flax seeds but<br />

the conversion of the omega 3 found in flax to<br />

EPA and DHA is quite low.<br />

When choosing a fish oil supplement it is<br />

essential to know the quality of the oil and to<br />

ensure it has been tested for things like heavy<br />

metals such as mercury as well as for other<br />

pollutants like dioxins and PCBs. Because these<br />

toxins can contaminate our water supplies they<br />

concentrate as they move up the food chain. It is<br />

imperative that companies manufacturing fish<br />

oils molecularly distil the oils and have them<br />

tested for impurities. Any company that will<br />

provide an independent lab test showing the<br />

quality of their oil would be a good option. If the<br />

company doesn’t test or won’t provide the results<br />

I would avoid using their products.<br />

For dosing, you want to be getting approximately<br />

2 grams of combined EPA/DHA per day. In capsule<br />

form this will be between 2-4 capsules or generally<br />

around ½ tsp of a high potency liquid.<br />

CoQ10<br />

CoQ10 is an enzyme made in the liver that works<br />

as an antioxidant and supports the powerhouse<br />

cells called mitochondria, important in both<br />

sperm and egg quality. After the age of 30,<br />

the mitochondrial function begins to decline.<br />

This is especially relevant to fertility because<br />

your oocytes or eggs have a high quantity of<br />

mitochondria to produce energy to aid in the<br />

development of the egg. In a study looking at<br />

oocyte quality, researchers explored the link<br />

between impaired mitochondrial performance<br />

and oocyte deficits. They concluded that<br />

impaired mitochondrial performance created<br />

by suboptimal CoQ10 availability can drive ageassociated<br />

oocyte deficits resulting in infertility.<br />

A general recommendation for couples over the<br />

age of 30 is to take 100mg of CoQ10 twice per<br />

day for both partners.<br />

There is an important amino acid called<br />

L-carnitine that works alongside CoQ10 to allow<br />

it to enter the cell. If you are deficient in carnitine<br />

then even if you take extra CoQ10 it doesn’t<br />

enter the cell and help with energy production.<br />

L-carnitine only comes from animal sources of<br />

protein, so if you are vegetarian or vegan you are<br />

very likely deficient. If you have any concern with<br />

conditions such as fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue<br />

or poor egg quality I would add at least 1g of<br />

carnitine into your daily regime.<br />

There are several other supplements that<br />

may be helpful depending on your individual<br />

situation. For example, there are some<br />

important nutrients that can help to optimize<br />

hormonal regulation and egg and sperm quality<br />

and can be added to a supplement regime based<br />

on your individual requirements.<br />

However, starting with these supplements will<br />

provide your body with an improved base level<br />

health and ensure basic deficiencies are avoided<br />

that can prevent healthy fetal development.<br />

Dr. Jodie Peacock is a Naturopathic doctor<br />

in Canada who runs the online program,<br />

Enhance <strong>Fertility</strong> Bootcamp. For other tips on<br />

regulating your menstrual cycle please visit<br />

enhancefertilitybootcamp.com or email me<br />

at info@enhancefertilitybootcamp.com<br />

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The food you eat plays an important role in<br />

your fertile health. By making sure you have<br />

a healthy balanced diet, you can optimise the<br />

quality of your eggs or sperm, enhance your<br />

body's ability to get rid of toxins and provide<br />

a nourishing environment for a baby to grow.<br />

EXPERT: Juliana Kassianos<br />

FOOD TO<br />

OPTIMISE<br />

YOUR<br />

FERTILITY<br />

Optimise your chances of conceiving by<br />

eating fertility friendly foods<br />

If time’s on your side, ideally you want to<br />

start becoming more conscious of your food<br />

choices three months before you start trying to<br />

conceive. This is because it tends to take around<br />

90 days for eggs and sperm to mature, and in<br />

this time the quality of them can be affected by<br />

nutritional factors. Furthermore, you want to<br />

develop optimum conditions for conception to<br />

take place and, thereafter, an embryo to thrive.<br />

It’s always best to have a varied diet so you<br />

get the nutrients your body needs from the<br />

food you eat, but when it comes to trying to<br />

conceive, it’s good to also take a pre-pregnancy<br />

supplement. These tend to vary in price and<br />

ingredients, whichever you choose, just make<br />

sure it has 400 micrograms of folic acid.<br />

Animal protein<br />

Proteins aren’t used as they are found in food, but<br />

are broken down into amino acids. These amino<br />

acids are vital for manufacturing reproductive<br />

hormones, as well as for healthy egg and sperm<br />

production. Therefore, it’s important to have a diet<br />

high in protein when trying to conceive.<br />

Animal proteins, such as eggs, meat and fish<br />

are ‘complete proteins’ as they contain all the<br />

essential amino acids your body needs. Eggs<br />

also happen to be a very good source of vitamin<br />

B12, of which deficiencies have been linked to<br />

infertility and miscarriage. If you’re from the<br />

UK, choose those with a British Lion Quality<br />

Mark. This is a symbol on the eggshells and packs<br />

that show the eggs have been produced to high<br />

food safety standards, so your risk of contracting<br />

salmonella poisoning for example is low.<br />

Red meat can trigger inflammation in the<br />

body and has been linked with increased risk<br />

of endometriosis. For men, however, it’s a good<br />

source of L-carnitine and L-acetyl-carnitine.<br />

One study showed administration of L-carnitine<br />

and L-acetyl-carnitine to sperm samples led to<br />

improved sperm quality and chromatin quality. If<br />

you choose to eat red meat, quality is important,<br />

try to make sure it’s grass-fed and lean cut.<br />

Eat fish that are high in healthy omega-3 fatty<br />

acids: Salmon, Mackerel (not King Mackerel),<br />

Anchovies, Sardines and Herring. Make sure<br />

they’re wild caught, as farmed fish may contain<br />

residues of antibiotics. Try to avoid or restrict<br />

consumption of deep-sea dwelling fish such as<br />

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tuna, swordfish and Marlin as they tend to contain<br />

high concentrations of mercury; a toxic heavy<br />

metal linked to infertility.<br />

Non-animal protein<br />

Many non-animal protein sources such as<br />

vegetables, beans, legumes, nuts and seeds are<br />

‘incomplete proteins’, as they don’t contain all the<br />

essential amino acids your body needs.<br />

You may not eat animal protein because of health<br />

concerns or environmental and ethical factors, in<br />

which case plant proteins are a good alternative.<br />

Beans, legumes and whole grains are the richest<br />

vegetable sources of protein, but can lack in one<br />

or two essential amino acids. But those lacking in<br />

beans and legumes are normally supplied in whole<br />

grains. Therefore, having a combination in your<br />

diet can ensure you get all the essential amino<br />

acids your body needs.<br />

There are a whole variety of beans<br />

and legumes you can choose<br />

from, but be aware that<br />

chickpeas and soybeans<br />

contain high amounts<br />

of phyto-oestrogens;<br />

plant compounds that<br />

have an oestrogen-like<br />

effect in the body. Peas<br />

are a great source of<br />

protein and can be added<br />

to smoothies in the form of<br />

pea protein powder.<br />

Healthy whole grains include oats,<br />

buckwheat and quinoa. Not only do they<br />

contain protein, but also complex carbohydrates,<br />

providing you with a steady stream of energy.<br />

Think Bircher muesli, buckwheat pancakes and<br />

quinoa salads. Take note that rice may contain low<br />

levels of arsenic; it’s naturally found in water and<br />

soil, and can be absorbed by rice crops as they grow,<br />

so as always, eat in moderation.<br />

Nuts and seeds are not only a good source of<br />

protein, but also healthy fat, vitamins and<br />

minerals. For women, almonds are rich in<br />

riboflavin (vitamin B2) of which deficiencies<br />

have been linked to sterility, miscarriage and low<br />

birth weight. Brazil nuts are rich in selenium,<br />

which help with the development of healthy<br />

ovarian follicles. Sunflower seeds are rich in<br />

folate (vitamin B9), which can help to increase<br />

progesterone levels, as well as reduce the risk of<br />

anovulation and birth defects. For men, walnuts<br />

are rich in Omega-3 fatty acids, which help to<br />

improve sperm quality and pumpkin seeds are<br />

rich in zinc, which help to improve sperm motility<br />

and quality.<br />

Ideally you want to<br />

start becoming more<br />

conscious of your food<br />

choices three months<br />

before you start trying<br />

to conceive<br />

Carbohydrates<br />

Carbohydrates are divided<br />

into two types: simple and<br />

complex. Simple carbohydrates<br />

such as sucrose (table sugar), fructose<br />

(fruit sugar) and lactose (milk sugar) are digested<br />

and absorbed quickly, which means you get a burst<br />

of energy, normally followed by a slump.<br />

Excess refined sugar can contribute to<br />

inflammation and insulin resistance, which can<br />

impact your fertile health. Try sweet natural<br />

alternatives like: dates, which are a rich source<br />

of fibre and vitamin B6; Lucuma powder,<br />

a caramel-flavoured Peruvian fruit rich in<br />

potassium, iron, zinc and fibre, which back in<br />

the Inca Empire was viewed as the symbol of<br />

fertility; and raw natural honey, which can help<br />

to boost your immune system.<br />

Complex carbohydrates found in whole grains,<br />

beans, legumes, vegetables and fruit, are digested<br />

and absorbed much more slowly, providing you<br />

with a steady stream of energy, keeping your<br />

batteries running throughout the day. These are<br />

the type of carbohydrates you want to make sure<br />

you have in your diet. Take note that vegetables<br />

and fruit containing vitamin C are particularly<br />

good for men, as it assists in the prevention of<br />

sperm agglutination (clumping together) and<br />

absorption of iron.<br />

Fibre is a complex carbohydrate found in plant<br />

foods like whole grains, vegetables and fruit.<br />

It can’t be digested by the body, so it doesn’t<br />

provide us with energy. This is because the body<br />

doesn’t have enzymes that are able to break it<br />

down. However, fibre has many health benefits,<br />

including helping the body to get rid of excess<br />

oestrogen and controlling blood sugar levels, as<br />

it slows the absorption of sugar. Oatmeal, sweet<br />

potato (with the skins) and bananas are packed<br />

full of fibre.<br />

Fats<br />

Fats are important to have in your diet as they<br />

provide the necessary precursors for healthy<br />

hormone levels needed for optimal fertility. There<br />

are four types of fats: trans fats, saturated fats,<br />

monounsaturated fats, and polyunsaturated fats.<br />

Not all fats are the same; some are healthier than<br />

others. The trick is to learn to separate the ‘good’<br />

from the ‘bad’ and mindfully moderate intake.<br />

Trans fats are the lowest in quality as they’re<br />

produced artificially in a process known as<br />

hydrogenation. The food industry loves them<br />

as they increase the shelf-life of produce, but<br />

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Sea Vegetables<br />

Sea vegetables are rich in antioxidants, vitamins<br />

and minerals, providing a natural nutritional<br />

source of iodine, which is important for healthy<br />

thyroid function. An underactive thyroid<br />

can affect ovulation and increase the risk of<br />

pregnancy complications. Edible seaweeds<br />

include: wakame, nori, kombu (kelp), arame,<br />

hijiki and dulse.<br />

Spices<br />

unfortunately so<br />

do we as they give<br />

taste and texture to<br />

processed, fried and<br />

baked foods. Read<br />

the ingredients list<br />

before purchasing and<br />

check for hydrogenated<br />

and partially hydrogenated<br />

vegetable oils, which you want<br />

to avoid.<br />

Saturated fats are found in butter, cheese and<br />

biscuits and are also ones to avoid. There is one<br />

exception though and that’s coconut oil. Coconut<br />

oil actually contains lauric acid, which converts in<br />

the body to monolaurin, which has antiviral and<br />

antibacterial properties, and so helps to strengthen<br />

the immune system.<br />

Monounsaturated fats are ‘good’ fats found in<br />

avocado, oils such as olive oil, as well as some nuts<br />

like almonds. These are the healthy fats we want<br />

to make sure we’re getting in our diet. Just be<br />

mindful of portion control.<br />

Polyunsaturated fats include Omega-3 fatty acids<br />

found in oils such as linseed and oily fish, and<br />

Omega-6 fatty acids found in nuts and seeds.<br />

They’re both ‘essential’, which means we need to<br />

Red meat can trigger<br />

inflammation in the<br />

body and has been linked<br />

with increased risk of<br />

endometriosis<br />

get them from the food<br />

we eat or in supplement<br />

form as our body can’t<br />

make them. Whilst<br />

Omega-3 is antiinflammatory,<br />

Omega-6<br />

is pro-inflammatory.<br />

For this reason, we need<br />

to make sure we try to have a<br />

balance of the two in our diet.<br />

Researchers believe walnuts, comprised of<br />

predominantly polyunsaturated fatty acids reduce<br />

peroxidation; a process that damages sperm cells.<br />

Omega-3 has also been shown to enhance sperm<br />

count, motility, and morphology.<br />

Fermented Food<br />

Fermented foods are rich in ‘good’ bacteria,<br />

which fortify the gut microbiome and help<br />

to support your immune system. A healthy<br />

balanced gut bacterium is necessary for lowering<br />

inflammation, processing toxins and reducing<br />

toxin exposure to a developing foetus. Some<br />

examples of fermented food include: Sauerkraut<br />

(fermented cabbage), Kimchi (fermented<br />

vegetables), Kefir (fermented milk drink) and<br />

yoghurt (fermented milk product).<br />

Cinnamon and ginger both<br />

help to regulate blood<br />

sugar levels, increase<br />

blood circulation in<br />

the uterus and have<br />

anti-inflammatory<br />

properties. Turmeric,<br />

otherwise known as<br />

the ‘golden spice’ has<br />

anti-inflammatory,<br />

antioxidant and<br />

antibacterial properties. It’s<br />

also been shown to inhibit the<br />

growth of endometriosis endothelial<br />

cells by reducing the production of estradiol (a<br />

form of oestrogen).<br />

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Fermented foods are<br />

rich in ‘good’ bacteria,<br />

which fortify the gut<br />

microbiome and help to<br />

support your immune<br />

system<br />

Powders<br />

Maca is a small Peruvian root vegetable rich in<br />

riboflavin, iron, calcium, zinc, fibre, thiamine<br />

and vitamin B6. There is evidence that it has<br />

fertility-enhancing properties and in men and<br />

women. Spirulina is a blue-green algae, which is<br />

65% protein and rich in calcium, iron, vitamin<br />

B12, magnesium and fibre. In one study, rats that<br />

were fed a diet containing spirulina produced<br />

significantly higher litter size than those that<br />

weren’t. They’re both great to add to smoothies.<br />

Caffeine<br />

Try to limit caffeine intake to 200 milligrams a<br />

day. Research shows women who consume four<br />

to five cups of coffee daily (500 milligrams of<br />

caffeine) produce 70% more oestrogen in the early<br />

follicular phase of their menstrual cycle. Caffeine<br />

is not just in coffee, but also tea, fizzy drinks,<br />

energy drinks, painkillers, sweets and chocolate.<br />

Alcohol<br />

For both men and women, try to restrict alcohol<br />

consumption. Alcohol intake by women having<br />

five or fewer drinks a week is associated with a<br />

decreased chance of conceiving. One study showed<br />

that having as few as four alcoholic drinks per<br />

week before undergoing IVF was associated with a<br />

decrease in IVF live birth rate.<br />

In men, one study found that heavy alcohol<br />

consumption (more than seven drinks per day)<br />

caused reduced testosterone levels, impaired cells<br />

involved in sperm maturation and interference<br />

with the production of hormones. Another study<br />

suggested that even modest habitual alcohol<br />

consumption (five units per week) had adverse<br />

effects on semen quality.<br />

Inflammatory foods<br />

Increased inflammation can be a huge source<br />

of chemical stress in the body and you want<br />

to protect eggs and sperm from free-radical<br />

damage. Polycystic Ovary Syndrome<br />

(PCOS) is associated with low grade<br />

chronic inflammation. Try to<br />

avoid or restrict the following<br />

foods, which can trigger<br />

inflammation: dairy, gluten,<br />

caffeine, alcohol, sugar, red<br />

meat, trans fats, processed<br />

food, artificial additives,<br />

barbeque food and fried food.<br />

Whatever you do, make sure you<br />

eat for your unique body type. If you<br />

know a food is good for your fertile health, but it<br />

just doesn’t seem to agree with you, then don’t eat<br />

it. Remember, you are the ultimate authority on<br />

your body. For further nutritional guidance, visit<br />

theschooloffertility.com/nutrition.<br />

Juliana is a Natural <strong>Fertility</strong> Therapist and<br />

founder of The School of <strong>Fertility</strong>. A free<br />

website that provides individuals with the<br />

information, tools and techniques they<br />

need to understand their reproductive<br />

health, know how to optimise their chances<br />

of conceiving and make more informed<br />

decisions should they choose to embark on<br />

fertility investigation or treatment. Juliana’s<br />

focus is on nutrition, lifestyle and mindset,<br />

whilst her co-founder Professor Charles<br />

Kingsland, Consultant Gynaecologist and<br />

Specialist in Reproductive Medicine, covers<br />

the medical side. Using a combined natural<br />

and medical approach, they hope to help<br />

individuals feel more empowered to take<br />

control of their fertility journeys. Juliana<br />

has an MA in Medical Anthropology from<br />

Goldsmiths University of London, a BSc<br />

(Hons) in Human Sciences from King’s<br />

College London, over 10 diplomas in holistic<br />

health practices, is a certified health coach<br />

and registered holistic fertility therapist<br />

practitioner. theschooloffertility.com/<br />

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Skip the Summer<br />

BBQ to Boost <strong>Fertility</strong><br />

(And Other Summer Food Tips)<br />

EXPERT: Kathy Payne<br />

Summer's here in the UK. Yay. Lots of lovely<br />

produce is in season. So, it's a great time to<br />

look at our opportunities to boost nutrition<br />

and fertility and the potential pitfalls of<br />

summer eating.<br />

Let’s start with the fertility and pregnancy<br />

risks of that summer social – the barbeque.<br />

We have a saying in our family about cooking<br />

“when it’s brown, it’s done and when it’s black,<br />

it’s bobbins”. Or words to that effect, anyway.<br />

Meaning that when it’s burned, it’s not good to<br />

eat. I’m sure most of us avoid eating food that<br />

is burned or we send it back as overdone in<br />

restaurants. But hey in summer, we LOVE to eat<br />

charred foods from the barbeque.<br />

So what, you might think.<br />

Well, there’s evidence to say that charred food<br />

isn’t healthy generally and - according to a new<br />

study - blackened food might be contributing to<br />

infertility in women.<br />

Now I think that’s worth talking about, given I<br />

can smell barbecued food every weekend in my<br />

little slice of the suburbs.<br />

A team at the Hudson Research Institute of<br />

Medical Research in Melbourne, conducted<br />

a small study of 17 thinner women and 16<br />

women diagnosed with obesity. They studied<br />

the uterus cavity of each woman and concluded<br />

that the group with obesity had significantly<br />

higher levels of AGES – that is “advanced<br />

glycation end products”; basically, by-products<br />

of sugar. AGES are produced in the body, but<br />

also arise from eating processed, sugary and<br />

blackened foods.<br />

According to reports on the study, this affects<br />

fertility because the AGES lead to inflammation<br />

in the body, which in turn affects the lining of the<br />

womb and makes implantation more difficult.<br />

Now, the thing about scientific studies is that<br />

you have to look more closely. How big was the<br />

sample? Who conducted the research? How was<br />

it done? On whom was it trialled? Why was it<br />

completed? All these are clues to how relevant<br />

and reliable it is.<br />

Here, the sample size is small, so you could<br />

say that results might be different over a<br />

larger sample. There are, however, lots of other<br />

credible scientific studies concluding that<br />

AGES are bad news for health. Just do your own<br />

internet search. They are implicated in ageing,<br />

diabetes and other chronic diseases. And now<br />

there’s a potential link with female fertility.<br />

I teach women and couples pre-conception<br />

care a.k.a. how to boost health to boost fertility<br />

whether you’re trying to conceive naturally or<br />

via IVF. And I think it’s well worth making all<br />

these small changes to maximise your chances of<br />

pregnancy and a happy, healthy baby.<br />

Charred food isn’t the only fertility or<br />

pregnancy risk at a barbeque. Oh no.<br />

Beware the risk of bacteria in foods. Some foods<br />

can contain bacteria that are risky in pregnancy<br />

and you may not always know you’re pregnant<br />

very early on. So be very careful of undercooked<br />

meats, including poultry and pork. Be equally<br />

careful of seafood, salads and processed meat that<br />

has been hanging around too long in the heat.<br />

Listeria, for example, is bacteria that can cause a<br />

dangerous – but thankfully rare – infection linked to<br />

miscarriage, stillbirth and birth defects. That’s why<br />

pregnant women are advised not to eat unpasteurised<br />

dairy foods and ready-to-eat chilled foods too.<br />

And be wary of drinking alcohol<br />

Alcohol is one of the things to avoid if you want<br />

to fuel fertility.<br />

I’m not being a buzzkill, but it robs us of<br />

nutrition. In particular, minerals and B vitamins,<br />

which are key to fertility. And depleting good<br />

bacteria in the gut.<br />

It’s not great for the liver and us girls need tip<br />

top livers for processing any old hormones out of<br />

the body. We don’t want them recirculating and<br />

causing imbalances, do we?<br />

Its best to give it up as part of preconception care<br />

or, at least, limit it to the very occasional glass of<br />

red wine.<br />

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So, what are my top tips for summer eating?<br />

There are some great, fertility-friendly foods<br />

in season in summer:-<br />

Berries<br />

I usually suggest eating 7 portions of<br />

veggies and fruits daily, where<br />

only 1-2 portions are fruits.<br />

It’s sugar, after all.<br />

Strawberries are a good<br />

choice, as they are less<br />

sugary AND have<br />

Vitamin C. Vitamin<br />

C is great for sperm<br />

health and some<br />

studies show it plays<br />

role in ovulation. Who<br />

knew?<br />

Other Vitamin C foods for<br />

fertility are blueberries, kiwi fruit,<br />

mangoes, citrus fruits, red peppers, watercress,<br />

parsley and Brussels Sprouts.<br />

Leafy green veggies<br />

I know I always say healthy eating is not all<br />

about the kale and it ISN’T! BUT green leafy<br />

veggies are packed with goodness. Real fab foods<br />

for fertility.<br />

They have folate and Vitamin B6. Vitamin B6 is<br />

needed for women’s hormones production and<br />

balance and for a healthy pregnancy.<br />

Your Mum was right, you should eat your greens!<br />

Buy organic to avoid pesticides and other nasties<br />

that are potentially hormone harming.<br />

Oily fish<br />

As well as containing protein, oily fish – salmon,<br />

mackerel, sardines – are an excellent source of<br />

good fats. I buy my salmon organic or wild if I can.<br />

Oily fish also has good levels of<br />

Vitamin B6, Vitamin B12,<br />

Vitamin E, zinc. Real<br />

powerhouses!<br />

Eat yours for breakfast as<br />

well as lunch or dinner.<br />

Legumes<br />

The humble legume is<br />

not so humble. Beans, peas,<br />

chickpeas and lentils are a great<br />

source of folate or folic acid. It’s best known for<br />

its role in preventing spina bifida but we now<br />

know it’s really key for fertility. Get yours from<br />

legumes and also leafy greens, nuts and whole<br />

grains. AND women should supplement when<br />

trying to fall pregnant.<br />

Beans, peas and lentils are also protein<br />

packed.<br />

And eating good quality<br />

protein with each meal<br />

and snack balances<br />

blood, sugar, energy,<br />

mood and hormones.<br />

Gotta be good, right?<br />

And once again,<br />

suitable for vegetarians<br />

and vegans. Love those<br />

lentils!<br />

Nuts and seeds<br />

I’m talking almonds, walnuts, pecans,<br />

hazelnuts, cashews. And their nut “butters”.<br />

And the oils for drizzling on summer salads and<br />

veggies.<br />

Fab sources of good fats which we need for a<br />

healthy body and mind. AND as part of our<br />

stash of foods for fertility. Almonds are a good<br />

source of zinc and the all-important FOLATE<br />

(folic acid) too which women and men need for<br />

baby-making. Nuts also have Vitamin E which<br />

is helpful for women’s fertility and for sperm<br />

function.<br />

And what about seeds? Also top foods. Pumpkin,<br />

sunflower, sesame. flax. Great for healthy fats<br />

and Vitamin E. Sunflower seeds have lots of<br />

magnesium. And that’s important for female<br />

fertility and in pregnancy.<br />

What are some other things to reduce or avoid<br />

to fuel fertility?<br />

A fertility friendly diet is low/devoid in<br />

processed, packaged, junk or takeaway foods.<br />

So, it’s a good idea to skip the fish<br />

and chip suppers at the seaside.<br />

And the heavily processed<br />

ice cream that has no<br />

cream in it anyway! Read<br />

the labels on packets,<br />

please people.<br />

Talking of ice cream,<br />

did you know that food<br />

allergies can impact<br />

fertility, pregnancy and the<br />

health of your child, potentially?<br />

Your immune response can affect your fertility.<br />

One cause of immune response is food allergies.<br />

Over half our immune system is in our gut, so<br />

food affects our health and fertility in more ways<br />

than just plain nutrition.<br />

At conception, a woman’s body has a type of<br />

immune response. That’s because, at first, her<br />

body “thinks” the embryo is a foreign body.<br />

It follows that if that immune response is strong,<br />

it may be targeted at the developing embryo.<br />

Some scientists believe that inflammation<br />

in the gut PLUS the immune response to the<br />

embryo, can lead to miscarriage or damage to<br />

the embryo.<br />

It can also be that allergic parents pass on<br />

allergies to their children.<br />

If allergies are not addressed, the body may<br />

turn against itself, leading to autoimmune<br />

conditions that affect fertility.<br />

The most common foods to cause<br />

sensitivity and inflammation<br />

are wheat, gluten grains,<br />

dairy, eggs, soy, citrus<br />

fruits, nightshades<br />

(including potatoes,<br />

tomatoes, chillies,<br />

peppers,<br />

aubergine),<br />

nuts, peanuts<br />

(not actually<br />

nuts),<br />

shellfish.<br />

Now you know. You<br />

can enjoy summer eating if<br />

you’re savvy and avoid processed,<br />

packaged, junk, takeaway and charred<br />

foods and alcohol. Instead stock up on<br />

yummy, healthy alternatives that fuel health<br />

and fire-up fertility.<br />

Love, Kathy x<br />

Kathy Payne is a Booster of <strong>Fertility</strong>, Balancer<br />

of Hormones and Soother of Modern Life<br />

Madness, naturally. She is a women’s health<br />

coach online and in Norwich UK, offering<br />

bespoke programmes for women and couples,<br />

as well as online classes and courses.<br />

If you’d like to protect, nurture and boost<br />

your fertility naturally, sign up for her<br />

weekly newsletter and occasional offers with<br />

this link. As a FREE GIFT you will receive<br />

the popular, online course 7 Steps to Boost<br />

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EXPERT: Dr Marilyn Glenville<br />

WHAT IS<br />

POLYCYSTIC<br />

OVARY<br />

SYNDROME<br />

(PCOS)?<br />

PCOS is a hormonal imbalance that affects 5 to 10 percent of women of reproductive<br />

age across the world, and results in irregular or absent periods, acne, excess body<br />

hair and weight gain. It is also a major cause of infertility and yet is frequently<br />

misdiagnosed and often missed completely.<br />

PCOS gets its name because under an ultrasound scan, the ovaries can look like a<br />

bunch of grapes, each one covered in what look like multiple cysts. In fact, these<br />

aren’t cysts at all, but are small, undeveloped follicles.<br />

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simultaneously so that you get the maximum<br />

effect in the minimum amount of time.<br />

Here’s how:<br />

1. Switch to unrefined carbohydrates (eaten with<br />

protein) and never go more than 3 hours without<br />

food to keep your blood sugar levels balanced<br />

GOOD NUTRITION IS THE<br />

FOUNDATION OF YOUR HEALTH AND<br />

YOU SHOULD NEVER UNDERESTIMATE<br />

HOW POWERFUL IT CAN BE.<br />

2. Eat oily fish and foods rich in Omega 3s to help<br />

your body to become more sensitive to insulin<br />

so it can overcome insulin resistance<br />

3. Cut out all dairy products for 3 months to bring<br />

levels of male hormones under control<br />

4. Eat more vegetables and pulses which helps<br />

control male hormones<br />

5. Cut right back on or cut out alcohol for 12 weeks<br />

to allow your liver function to improve<br />

6. Cut down on caffeine to give your adrenal<br />

glands a rest<br />

Symptoms<br />

Not every woman with PCOS will get the same<br />

symptoms, but common signs to look out for<br />

include:<br />

• Few or no periods<br />

• Excess hair on the face or breasts or inside of the<br />

legs or around the nipples<br />

• Acne<br />

• Oily skin<br />

• Scalp hair thinning or loss (male pattern<br />

baldness)<br />

• Skin tags (known as acrochordons)<br />

• Skin discolouration (known as acanthosis<br />

nigricans) where the skin looks ‘dirty’ on the<br />

arms, around the neck and under the breasts<br />

• Mood swings<br />

• Depression<br />

• Lack of sex drive<br />

• Weight gain especially around the middle of the body<br />

• Difficulty in losing weight<br />

• Cravings and binges<br />

• Irregular or no ovulation<br />

• Difficulty in becoming pregnant<br />

• Recurrent miscarriages<br />

PCOS creates a vicious cycle of hormone imbalances,<br />

which has huge knock-on effects throughout the<br />

rest of your body. With PCOS, the problem often<br />

starts with the ovaries, which are unable to produce<br />

the hormones they should, and in the correct<br />

proportions. But linked to this is the very common<br />

problem of insulin resistance. Women with PCOS<br />

very often have difficulties with blood sugar levels<br />

which can cause weight gain and the excess insulin<br />

can stimulate your ovaries to produce yet more<br />

testosterone. Half of all women with PCOS do not<br />

have any problems with their weight, yet they can<br />

still have higher insulin levels than normal.<br />

How is PCOS diagnosed?<br />

The most widely accepted criteria for the diagnosis<br />

of PCOS says that you should have two out of these<br />

three problems:<br />

• Infrequent or no ovulation<br />

• Signs (either physical appearance – hirsutism or acne<br />

– or blood tests) of high levels of male hormones<br />

• Polycystic ovaries as seen on an ultrasound scan<br />

The Seven Nutritional Steps to<br />

beat PCOS<br />

Good nutrition is the foundation of your health and<br />

you should never underestimate how powerful it can<br />

be. It is the fuel that provides you with the energy<br />

to live your life and it gives your body the nutrients<br />

it needs to produce your hormones in the correct<br />

balance. The better the supply of those nutrients, the<br />

more healthily your body will function.<br />

The fundamental aim of my nutritional<br />

approach to PCOS is to target a number of areas<br />

7. Cut down on saturated fats and eliminate trans<br />

fats to help control the potentially damaging<br />

inflammatory processes PCOS causes in the body<br />

Best Supplements for PCOS<br />

The use of certain vitamins and minerals can be<br />

extremely useful in helping to correct PCOS, along<br />

with a good diet.<br />

Chromium<br />

Chromium helps to encourage the formation of<br />

glucose tolerance factor (GTF), which is required<br />

to make insulin more efficient. A deficiency of<br />

chromium can lead to insulin resistance. It also helps<br />

to control cravings and reduces hunger. Can help to<br />

reduce insulin resistance associated with PCOS.<br />

B vitamins<br />

The B vitamins are very important in helping to<br />

control the symptoms of PCOS. Vitamin B2 helps<br />

to turn fat, sugar and protein into energy. B3 is a<br />

component of GTF which is released every time<br />

blood sugar rises, and vitamin B3 helps to keep the<br />

levels in balance. Vitamin B5 has been shown to<br />

helps with weight loss and B6 is also important for<br />

maintaining hormone balance and, together with<br />

B2 and B3, is necessary for normal thyroid function.<br />

Zinc<br />

Zinc helps with PCOS as it plays a crucial role in<br />

the production of your reproductive hormones<br />

and also regulates your blood sugar.<br />

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Magnesium<br />

Magnesium is an important mineral for dealing<br />

with PCOS because there is a strong link between<br />

magnesium levels and insulin resistance – the<br />

higher your magnesium levels the more sensitive<br />

you are likely to be to insulin.<br />

Co-Enzyme Q10<br />

Co-Q10 is a substance that your body produces in<br />

nearly every cell. It helps to balance your blood<br />

sugar and lowering both glucose and insulin.<br />

Alpha lipoic acid<br />

This powerful antioxidant helps to regulate your<br />

blood sugar levels because it releases energy by<br />

burning glucose and it also helps to make you more<br />

insulin sensitive. It also has an effect on weight loss<br />

because if the glucose is being used for energy, your<br />

body releases less insulin and you then store less fat.<br />

Omega 3 fatty acids<br />

Omega 3 fatty acids taken in supplement form<br />

have been found to reduce testosterone levels in<br />

women with PCOS.<br />

Amino Acids<br />

Certain amino acids can be very helpful for PCOS<br />

as they can improve your insulin sensitivity and<br />

also can have an effect on weight loss.<br />

N-Acetyl cysteine<br />

In women with PCOS this amino acid helps<br />

reduce insulin levels and makes your body<br />

more sensitive to insulin. Study using NAC in<br />

women who were clomiphene resistant and<br />

had ovarian drilling. After ovarian drilling,<br />

the women given NAC compared to a placebo<br />

showed a significantly higher increase in both<br />

ovulation and pregnancy rates and lower<br />

incidence of miscarriage.<br />

Arginine<br />

Arginine can be helpful in reversing insulin<br />

resistance. In one study, a combination of both<br />

arginine and N-acetyl cysteine were given to<br />

women with PCOS. The two amino acids help to<br />

improve blood sugar and insulin control and also<br />

increased the number of menstrual cycles and<br />

ovulation with one women becoming pregnant<br />

on the second month.<br />

Carnitine<br />

Carnitine helps your body break down fat to<br />

release energy and can help improve insulin<br />

sensitivity.<br />

Tyrosine<br />

Tyrosine is helpful for women with PCOS who are<br />

overweight as it helps to suppress the appetite and<br />

burn off fat.<br />

Glutamine<br />

This amino acid is useful for helping with sugar<br />

cravings as it can be converted to sugar for energy<br />

and so takes away the need to eat something sweet.<br />

It also helps to build and maintain muscle which is<br />

important for fat burning.<br />

Branched Chain Amino Acids<br />

(BCAAs)<br />

BCAAs include three amino acids leucine,<br />

isoleucine and valine. They are important in<br />

PCOS because they help to balance blood sugar<br />

and having good levels of these BCAAs can have a<br />

beneficial effect on your body weight<br />

(To save you taking all of these nutrients<br />

separately, there are two I use in the clinic<br />

NHP’s Nutri Support and Amino Support from<br />

naturalhealthpractice.com)<br />

Inositol<br />

A study used inositol (2,000mg) in combination<br />

with NAC (600mg), significant increase in<br />

ovulation rates.<br />

Having a good diet, regular exercise, controlling<br />

stress and taking key nutrients will help in getting<br />

your hormones back in balance and reducing the<br />

negative symptoms associated with PCOS.<br />

Dr Marilyn Glenville PhD is the UK’s leading<br />

nutritionist specialising in women’s health.<br />

She is the Former President of the Food<br />

and Health Forum at the Royal Society of<br />

Medicine and the author of a number of<br />

internationally best selling books including<br />

‘Getting Pregnant Faster, ‘Natural Solutions<br />

to PCOS’ and ‘The Natural Health Bible for<br />

Women’ see marilynglenville.com. Dr<br />

Glenville runs a number of women’s health<br />

clinics in Harley Street, London, Tunbridge<br />

Wells and Ireland. If you are interested in a<br />

consultation, you can contact Dr Glenville’s<br />

clinic on 01892 515905 or by email: health@<br />

marilynglenville.com<br />

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EXPERT: A’ndrea Reiter<br />

The Obstacle<br />

is the Path<br />

Many times on this journey we feel we are hit<br />

with obstacle after obstacle. It can feel like we<br />

are trying to climb Mt. Everest in flip-flops. It<br />

can feel unfair, unrelenting and we can't help<br />

but wonder, "Why me?"<br />

I see this all the time in my holistic fertility<br />

practice. We are on such a mission to get this baby<br />

but we keep hitting roadblocks; and most of us<br />

being of the Type-A persuasion, push through it<br />

and keep fighting to get the outcome that we want.<br />

On the surface that seems like a good thing - and<br />

when it comes to our careers etc., it’s served us<br />

well. But when it comes to manifesting a baby, it<br />

can be a problem.<br />

Here’s why - energy.<br />

According to the Law of Attraction, like energy<br />

attracts like energy, so whatever energy we are<br />

putting out, the Universe has to bring a match to<br />

that energy. It’s really hard to catch sometimes<br />

when we are in a negative pattern because we<br />

think we are focusing on what we want, but really<br />

we are focusing on the lack of the thing we want—<br />

which brings more lack.<br />

So when we’ve been through a lot of obstacles, we<br />

expect more obstacles- so we get more obstacles.<br />

We are taught that you have to “try hard and<br />

push to get what you want,” but from a Law of<br />

Attraction trying brings more trying, pushing<br />

brings more things for you to push against.<br />

It’s difficult to see because we want the baby so<br />

much we will try to leap over these roadblocks<br />

no matter what. The problem is that patterns will<br />

repeat in your life until we learn the lessons we’ve<br />

signed up for in our lives. If we keep ignoring the<br />

lessons, they will keep showing up. The Universe<br />

is a faithful friend that way. It’s annoying- but the<br />

sooner we can deal with the pattern, the sooner we<br />

can move through it. If we ignore it, we are missing<br />

a great opportunity for growth, which is really why<br />

we’re all here on the planet.<br />

See if you can shift to why this obstacle is<br />

happening FOR you instead of TO you - because<br />

it is. All energy, “good,” “bad,” and otherwise is<br />

happening for our growth and evolution as a<br />

person. The more we can embrace it, the faster we<br />

move through it.<br />

So what can you do about it? Here are some simple<br />

things you can do to shift your energy:<br />

1) When we are fighting “what-is” happening, we<br />

bring more fighting energy, more lack, more<br />

fear, more “this is hard.” We get caught in this<br />

energetic loop of negativity and stagnancy. It’s<br />

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hard to get out of that momentum, but one of<br />

the simplest things you can do is to play some<br />

calming music or burn some sage or incense<br />

to get your mind quieted down; and with your<br />

eyes closed ask the question: What is this<br />

roadblock trying to show me? Take some deep<br />

breaths and repeat the question. Write down<br />

your findings and then take an action from<br />

there. For example: One of my clients did this<br />

and wrote down that her relationship with her<br />

husband was suffering because she was obsessed<br />

with having sex at the exact right moment,<br />

him taking supplements, canceling vacations,<br />

planning things around ovulation etc - and it<br />

was taking a toll on him, which wasn’t helping<br />

her. So her roadblock of him going on a business<br />

trip while she was ovulating wasn’t something<br />

meant to happen TO her but to show her she<br />

can’t force this to happen and that she needed<br />

to reconnect with her husband in an organic<br />

way. She took action by having a heart to heart<br />

with her husband and they agreed to take a<br />

couple of months off to go on the trip they<br />

originally planned and poof! She was pregnant.<br />

The obstacle was a gift to get her to step back,<br />

reassess and make a different choice instead of<br />

keep forcing something that wasn’t working.<br />

We just have to move<br />

from forcing to<br />

choosing. It will be a<br />

work in progress and<br />

you must be<br />

compassionate with<br />

yourself, but know<br />

that you can do this.<br />

2) Take a look at all of the things you are doing for<br />

your fertility journey and take stock of why you’re<br />

doing what you’re doing. Many times we are doing<br />

things like specific supplements, ovulation sticks,<br />

reproductive intervention or even things like<br />

acupuncture because we feel like we “should.” We<br />

can make decisions out of fear, obligation or because<br />

others expect us to; and not because we truly feel it’s<br />

the best move for us. So take each individual thing<br />

that you’re doing separately - close your eyes, take a<br />

deep breath and ask, “ Does __________ FEEL good<br />

for me to do, or do I feel like I SHOULD do it?” If it’s<br />

a “should” consider omitting it for a month. You<br />

can always reassess next month. But the important<br />

thing is that you do not keep doing things the same<br />

way and expect different results. We must begin<br />

to choose things that feel good versus making<br />

decisions out of fear or distrust.<br />

3) Take a break between marathons. Many of you<br />

have been on this journey for a while - some of<br />

you for many years. Many of my clients come<br />

to me after multiple rounds of IUI or IVF that<br />

they did back to back, or they keep trying a new<br />

modality every month. They keep pushing,<br />

pushing, pushing - mainly because they feel every<br />

second counts and that they can’t waste any time<br />

or they could miss their opportunity. I totally<br />

understand why it feels like you’re running out<br />

of time, but if you keep focusing on that, the<br />

Universe has to bring a match to that. And your<br />

body can’t handle the constant stress forever. You<br />

would never run consecutive marathons, because<br />

your body needs to have a break in between.<br />

You must honor that on the fertility journey as<br />

well. In the grand scheme of things, a month or<br />

two is nothing. It’s a blip on your timeline. You<br />

must honor where you are and spend that time<br />

recharging yourself with things that are for YOU<br />

(not to get the baby). Do things that light you<br />

up, knowing that is also the work of getting the<br />

baby here even though it doesn’t seem like it. I<br />

know it’s scary to back off of trying to control the<br />

outcome and to not push through it, but that can<br />

be the very thing that allows your energy to shift<br />

and actually change the outcome.<br />

When multiple obstacles come up, or patterns<br />

perpetuate it’s because there’s something we are<br />

supposed to learn/grow from. If we keep ignoring<br />

it, it will keep repeating. The obstacle IS the path. I<br />

promise. I know it’s frustrating and annoying, but<br />

when we can embrace it—we can move through it.<br />

When we fight it, we stay stuck.<br />

This journey can feel powerless sometimes, but<br />

we do have choice in whether or not we move<br />

forward. We just have to move from forcing to<br />

choosing. It will be a work in progress and you<br />

must be compassionate with yourself, but know<br />

that you can do this. Making incremental changes<br />

like this can shift your energy and your outcome--<br />

and you have the power to do that.<br />

Use the situation you’re given as if you’d chosen<br />

it and ask yourself, “If I wasn’t in fear, what would<br />

feel like a good next move for me?”<br />

All the best on your journeys, mamas.<br />

A’ndrea is a Reiki Master and Holistic<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> Specialist. She uses a combination<br />

of reiki, intuition and mindset coaching to<br />

move women through the emotional and<br />

physical blocks that are impeding them<br />

from conceiving naturally. Her book, How<br />

to Get Pregnant, Even When You’ve Tried<br />

Everything: A Mind-Body Guide to <strong>Fertility</strong><br />

will be available in stores & on Amazon, <strong>July</strong><br />

8th. Though based in New York City, she<br />

helps clients all over the world achieve their<br />

dream of motherhood.<br />

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Can you remember what life was like before<br />

you started trying for a baby? Whether that<br />

was just a few months ago or several years,<br />

your normal way of living then is likely to<br />

be have been very different to how it is now<br />

since you embarked on Project Baby.<br />

Your new normal life revolves around eating<br />

well, cutting out caffeine and alcohol, making<br />

sure you exercise regularly (but not too<br />

much!), checking your apps for peak fertility,<br />

making sure you have sex at the right time and<br />

counting down the days until you can finally<br />

take a pregnancy test. This cycle of checking,<br />

waiting and testing continues month after<br />

month until your life is taken over by babymaking.<br />

Every thought, feeling and action is<br />

influenced by your fertility situation and it can<br />

be utterly exhausting!<br />

You also find that making any decision<br />

includes second guessing your pregnancy status.<br />

From the post-ovulation pondering: “Is it okay<br />

to drink this glass of wine/take this painkiller/<br />

go to a pilates class if I could be pregnant?” to<br />

the future planning: “Can I book a holiday for<br />

next summer if I might be pregnant by then?”<br />

It feels as if you’re on a monotonous hamster<br />

wheel that you don’t know how to stop.<br />

The only sane option right now may seem to be<br />

to take a period of time off from “trying”. But<br />

whilst taking a break from all things fertility<br />

is tempting, you might also be concerned that<br />

letting a few months pass by will leave you<br />

further away from your dream of having a baby.<br />

Melissa and her husband had been trying for a<br />

baby for 3 years and she found she was feeling<br />

increasingly depressed with each negative test. She<br />

said: “My desperation for a baby had taken its toll on<br />

my mental state and I had to stop focusing my entire<br />

life and purpose on being a mum. My identity<br />

isn’t based on who I may become, but<br />

rather who I am now. We are<br />

currently taking a break from<br />

trying for a baby, and I’m<br />

using the time to focus on<br />

my mind and also my<br />

relationship to be the<br />

best parents we can be.<br />

I can truly say I’m more<br />

content and patient<br />

now than I have ever<br />

been. At first I was terrified<br />

that I would be wasting<br />

months by not trying, but in<br />

reality, I feel like I’ve got time back<br />

for my fertility because I’m more healthy<br />

physically and mentally now.”<br />

You may feel under pressure to carry on trying<br />

each month or to move ahead to fertility<br />

treatment. The length of the time you have<br />

been trying, your age, or statistics given to you<br />

by your clinic may make taking a break feel<br />

impossible. But ultimately how you plan out<br />

your fertility journey is your choice.<br />

The length of<br />

the time you have<br />

been trying, your<br />

age, or statistics<br />

given to you by your<br />

clinic may make<br />

taking a break feel<br />

impossible.<br />

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If you feel as if your fertility situation is<br />

pushing you and your relationship to their<br />

limits, then it could be time to take<br />

a step back. Giving yourself<br />

time and space to take an<br />

impartial look at your<br />

fertility journey thus<br />

far, and make good<br />

clear decisions about<br />

your next steps, is<br />

invaluable. And yes,<br />

this may mean taking<br />

a break from trying<br />

for a month or two, or<br />

even longer, but it could<br />

be time well spent.<br />

Lorraine is sure that their<br />

fertility struggles contributed to her<br />

anxiety, and her doctor advised to try and get<br />

it under control before moving further ahead<br />

with fertility investigations. She said: “I’m<br />

taking a break and not actively focusing on<br />

trying to conceive this month. The ovulation<br />

sticks have been set aside, I’m drinking some<br />

alcohol and coffee without beating myself up,<br />

and trying to get back to the mental state I had<br />

in my 20’s before this journey ever began. In<br />

the back of my mind I’m hoping this month’s<br />

somewhat reckless behaviour leads me to my<br />

positive test, but if it doesn’t then I can at<br />

least smile and think it has been an enjoyable<br />

month. I do think it helps having a break every<br />

now and again. I see it as a kind of mental and<br />

emotional holiday. I’ve even booked a trip away<br />

with friends in December, which the old me<br />

wouldn’t have done, just in case I got pregnant<br />

before. I’ve put my life on hold many times<br />

in anticipation of a pregnancy that hasn’t<br />

happened. I think I’ve worried too much about<br />

the future and I’m making a conscious effort to<br />

live in the moment more.”<br />

If you do decide to take some time off, consider<br />

how you can best use that time, so it could also<br />

become a valuable but enjoyable part of your<br />

fertility plan. You will then feel no guilt about<br />

taking time off or feel impatient to get back to<br />

trying. Your time away from all things fertility<br />

can be a natural, and much needed, space for<br />

healing and reflection.<br />

You may want to include:<br />

• A stress-free holiday to an adults only location<br />

where your only focus is on sunbathing, the<br />

cocktail menu and making special memories.<br />

Enjoy this time knowing that holidays with a<br />

baby will be very different!<br />

• Taking up an old hobby or interest again. Dust<br />

off those hiking boots, get the motorbike out<br />

If you do<br />

decide to take<br />

some time off,<br />

consider how you<br />

can best use that<br />

time, so it could also<br />

become a valuable<br />

but enjoyable part<br />

of your fertility<br />

plan.<br />

of the garage, or open your paint box. What<br />

did you use to love to do before everything<br />

became focused on fertility?<br />

• Tackling a project that you<br />

haven’t had the time, energy<br />

or money to do while<br />

you’ve been on the<br />

fertility rollercoaster.<br />

Do you want to<br />

decorate your house?<br />

Change your job? Get<br />

married?!<br />

Using the time to<br />

prioritise YOU will<br />

reduce stress, strengthen<br />

your relationship and bring<br />

balance back into your life; building<br />

a wonderful, supportive foundation for the next<br />

stage of your fertility journey.<br />

After 5 unsuccessful IVF cycles, Jo found<br />

she needed to re-prioritise. “When I had my<br />

last miscarriage, we decided to take a break<br />

both physically and financially. We had put<br />

off getting married before as the money was<br />

needed for fertility treatment. By taking a<br />

break for almost a year it meant we could pay<br />

for our wedding and honeymoon, and instead<br />

of planning scan dates, blood tests,<br />

egg collections and injections, I<br />

planned our wedding! It was<br />

so uplifting and I felt as<br />

though a weight had<br />

been lifted from my<br />

shoulders. During our<br />

break we got a puppy<br />

and I started working<br />

from home more for<br />

a work/life balance.<br />

We are now doing our<br />

6th IVF cycle so fingers<br />

crossed the break was the<br />

tonic we needed!”<br />

You could also use the time off as<br />

an opportunity to further boost your fertility<br />

before you try again. You may incorporate<br />

a mind or body detox, do research into<br />

your fertility challenges, or consult fertility<br />

specialists. Having this positive focus on your<br />

fertility during a break from actually trying<br />

for a baby will mean that you do not feel<br />

under pressure and can focus in a relaxed and<br />

unhurried way.<br />

After multiple miscarriages Sarah knew that she<br />

needed to take some time out. “I’d had enough<br />

and it had taken such a toll on my mind, body<br />

and relationship. I needed time out to make sure<br />

I was healthy and happy. In my break I found<br />

There is<br />

no doubt<br />

that getting<br />

off the fertility<br />

rollercoaster for a<br />

few months can be<br />

a positive and, for<br />

some, essential<br />

step to take.<br />

a less stressful job, got back to exercising, and<br />

researched how to prevent miscarriages. I waited<br />

8 months and felt in such a great space to try<br />

again. So, we did but unfortunately, it was not<br />

successful. It’s hard for me to say whether a break<br />

is worthwhile because I don’t have my miracle<br />

baby yet. I believe the most important priority in<br />

all of this is looking after you. It’s important to<br />

step back, take time out, focus on you and your<br />

relationship with your partner because if one day<br />

you are faced with the reality that motherhood is<br />

not going to be something you will do naturally,<br />

or at all, then you need to know that you, your<br />

mind and your relationship can get through this.<br />

Yes, a baby is the highest of your priorities, but<br />

you need to be able to take time out and reflect,<br />

appreciate, prepare and build strength for any<br />

outcome that comes your way.”<br />

There is no doubt that getting off the fertility<br />

rollercoaster for a few months can be a positive<br />

and, for some, essential step to take. However,<br />

before you make plans for your own break from<br />

trying, I encourage you to explore the emotions<br />

and motivation behind it.<br />

As a <strong>Fertility</strong> Coach, I talk to many people who<br />

have made decisions on their fertility journey<br />

from a place of fear or desperation. As well as<br />

deciding to take a break, this could also<br />

be going ahead with fertility<br />

treatment such as IVF more<br />

quickly than they wanted<br />

to, or even needed to. It’s<br />

understandable because<br />

when we feel under<br />

pressure we feel we<br />

need to act quickly.<br />

But we don’t usually<br />

make our best choices<br />

when under pressure,<br />

so it’s advisable to take<br />

time to consciously make<br />

decisions that you can feel<br />

good about.<br />

Emotional support throughout your whole<br />

fertility journey is vital, especially at the point<br />

of making important decisions. There are many<br />

tools and techniques to help you find emotional<br />

clarity and wellbeing, and you may enjoy<br />

finding a combination that works for you.<br />

Some ideas that I have seen work for my clients are:<br />

Journaling<br />

Keep a journal and using it as a space to empty<br />

your mind on to paper can be very cathartic and<br />

help you discover what your main emotional<br />

challenges are. Once you are clear where you are<br />

struggling, it will be easier to ask for support.<br />

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BODY<br />

Meditation<br />

It is believed that we have up to 70,000<br />

thoughts a day, and a busy mind does not make<br />

decisions easily! A daily meditation practice can<br />

help train your mind to be calm and still, and<br />

make space for good decision making.<br />

EFT<br />

When you feel totally overwhelmed and<br />

stressed out, a technique like EFT (Emotional<br />

Freedom Techniques) can be invaluable. By<br />

rebalancing your inner reaction to stressful<br />

situations, it can help you become calm and<br />

think clearly.<br />

Support<br />

Having a support network and safe space to<br />

share your thoughts is essential. You may find<br />

support in online fertility groups, from an<br />

empathic friend, or with a <strong>Fertility</strong> Coach.<br />

I’m so pleased that you have taken the<br />

time to read this article today, as you are<br />

prioritising you and your emotional<br />

wellbeing. This doesn’t mean you are<br />

any less focussed on achieving your<br />

dream of having your baby, but that<br />

you will be so much more prepared<br />

for the next stages of your<br />

fertility journey and for the new<br />

adventure of parenthood.<br />

To learn about EFT and start using this<br />

technique to support you and your fertility<br />

you can receive my free <strong>Fertility</strong> EFT Starter<br />

Kit here: fertilemindset.com/starter-kit/<br />

Sarah Holland is a <strong>Fertility</strong> EFT Coach and<br />

Mentor at FertileMindset.com and supports<br />

women and couples throughout the world<br />

via Skype consultations and online fertility<br />

support programs.<br />

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JOURNEYS <strong>2018</strong><br />

Welcome back to the <strong>Fertility</strong> Journeys.<br />

Where do we start? This year our fertility journeys have taken off with 4 clinics<br />

already offering free fertility treatments to our readers.<br />

We are pleased to announce that Herts and Essex <strong>Fertility</strong> Centre are the latest<br />

fertility clinic to offer one couple the chance for free IVF treatment and a further 40<br />

couples free consultations.<br />

Unfortunately, the couple that Klinikk Hausken had chosen to work with have<br />

for personal reasons have not been able to start treatment. Therefore, we will be<br />

re-launching their fertility journey shortly.<br />

IVF Spain has been busy selecting two couples to work with this year and we check<br />

in with last years couples to see how they are doing.<br />

Redia IVF and Mediterranean <strong>Fertility</strong> Institute really struggled to choose one<br />

couple so they’ve selected two. In the next issue we’ll be meeting their couples and<br />

finding out more about their journey so far.<br />

And last, by no means least, Heather and Brandon who are working with our US<br />

partners Oregon Reproductive Medicine are expecting TWINS and they are over<br />

obviously the moon.<br />

We will be announcing more journey partners who will be joining us later in the<br />

year but for now, let’s see what our couples are up to.<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS <strong>2018</strong><br />

FERTILITY JOURNEYS:<br />

A FREE IVF & 40 FREE CONSULTATIONS<br />

WITH HERTS & ESSEX FERTILITY CENTRE<br />

Herts & Essex <strong>Fertility</strong> Centre is one of the UK’s most reputable and best-performing IVF clinics with<br />

29 years history. The clinic was founded in 1989 by our CEO Mr Michael Ah-Moye who has been<br />

building his impressive experience and expertise in Assisted Conception since 1984. Our dedicated<br />

team has helped to create thousands of happy new families by delivering over 5,900 babies.<br />

Our IVF treatment success rates are among<br />

the highest in the country according to the<br />

Human Fertilisation & Embryology Authority<br />

(HFEA) database.<br />

We are experts in the assessment of fertility<br />

problems, and we identify the safest, surest and<br />

most cost-effective route to a successful pregnancy.<br />

We take immense pride in providing a medical<br />

service of the highest calibre, tailored to suit the<br />

individual needs of each patient, in a friendly,<br />

supportive and caring environment.<br />

We believe that any individual willing to<br />

make a lifelong commitment to providing<br />

a loving, nurturing, caring and supportive<br />

environment for a child deserves the chance<br />

to become a parent. Therefore, we provide a<br />

number of different fertility treatments to help<br />

heterosexual couples, same-sex couples and<br />

single parents to start their family.<br />

IUI, IVF, ICSI & PICSI<br />

At our clinic, we offer a number of fertility<br />

treatments such as IUI, IVF, ICSI & PICSI.<br />

IUI is a fertility treatment in which high-quality<br />

sperm are separated from slow-moving or nonmoving<br />

sperm. This sperm is then inseminated<br />

directly into the womb and can either be performed<br />

with the partner’s sperm or donor sperm.<br />

IUI allows the body to do more on its own than<br />

on an IVF cycle, so it’s a more natural but also less<br />

successful form of treatment.<br />

IVF and ICSI are laboratory techniques by which<br />

a single sperm fertilises a single mature egg. In<br />

Vitro Fertilisation (IVF) the eggs are removed<br />

from the ovaries and fertilised by sperm in a<br />

glass dish in the laboratory whereas in ICSI a<br />

single sperm is chosen and injected into a mature<br />

egg using a very fine needle under microscopic<br />

control. ICSI assists the sperm to achieve<br />

fertilisation and is the recommended treatment<br />

for Male Factor Infertility.<br />

PICSI is an additional sperm selection technique<br />

used to select mature sperm for use within ICSI.<br />

Sperm are selected based on the sperm’s ability to<br />

interact with a naturally occurring protein that is<br />

found on the cumulus complex on the membrane<br />

surrounding the egg.<br />

PICSI is an excellent choice for couples where the<br />

male partner has documented issues with sperm<br />

concentration, motility, morphology and/or<br />

functionality on HBA sperm analysis.<br />

The decision as to which treatment is the most<br />

suitable for our patients will depend on the quality<br />

of the sperm sample provided on the day of the egg<br />

collection as the sperm quality can fluctuate on a<br />

regular basis.<br />

EGG SHARING<br />

There are various reasons why some women<br />

require treatment with donor eggs. It may be a<br />

result of their age seriously affecting egg quality, an<br />

early menopause, chemotherapy or radiotherapy<br />

treatment permanently damaging the ovaries,<br />

unexplained infertility or that some women are<br />

born without ovaries.<br />

Egg sharing anonymously brings together two<br />

women needing IVF treatment but for very<br />

different reasons. Many women will have the<br />

potential to produce plenty of eggs during their IVF<br />

treatment while the other cannot have treatment at<br />

all without the precious gift of donated eggs to fulfil<br />

her dream of a baby.<br />

It gives women, who generously wish to donate<br />

eggs, the opportunity to help another woman and<br />

in return helps towards funding her own muchneeded<br />

IVF treatment.<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS <strong>2018</strong><br />

Our egg share programme, rewards the donors’ with<br />

a fully funded IVF treatment which includes saline<br />

infusion sonogram (SIS), endometrial scratch, male<br />

and female screening tests, and fertility drugs.<br />

EGG FREEZING<br />

Egg freezing enables healthy, young women the<br />

opportunity to preserve their fertility. We know that<br />

frozen eggs can be stored safely in liquid nitrogen<br />

for many years and our regulatory body, the HFEA,<br />

allows UK clinics to store frozen eggs for up to<br />

10 years, enabling patients to use them for their<br />

treatment in the future. This may be when they have<br />

met the right partner or when they are financially or<br />

emotionally ready to start their family.<br />

Egg freezing is an option to consider for fertility<br />

preservation if you are at risk of premature ovarian<br />

failure, premature menopause or if you are having<br />

surgery to remove your ovaries.<br />

Egg freezing can also help preserve your fertility if<br />

you are undergoing radiotherapy or chemotherapy<br />

treatment for illnesses such as cancer or in cases of<br />

transgender reassignment.<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> is, unfortunately, age-dependent and<br />

your chance of a successful pregnancy with frozen<br />

eggs is higher if your eggs are frozen at a very early<br />

reproductive age. Success rates for treatment using<br />

frozen eggs depend upon many different factors<br />

so, when faced with a patient enquiring about egg<br />

freezing, we will always be honest and realistic.<br />

We will provide an accurate account of what egg<br />

freezing treatment involves its advantages and<br />

disadvantages, and the potential success rates. As<br />

long as the decision is an informed and balanced<br />

one, we would never discourage a woman from<br />

choosing to freeze her eggs.<br />

SPERM FREEZING<br />

We offer fertility preservation in the form of sperm<br />

freezing and banking for men who wish to store their<br />

sperm to use for fertility treatment in the future<br />

including transgender reassignment.<br />

Treatment with chemotherapy or radiotherapy<br />

or surgery for conditions that may damage your<br />

fertility is the most common reason for freezing<br />

sperm. It may be that you are about to undergo a<br />

vasectomy, or are undergoing treatment for cancer,<br />

or have a sperm count or sperm quality that is<br />

deteriorating prematurely.<br />

We also freeze donated sperm for six months<br />

before it can be used in sperm donation treatment.<br />

This allows for the sample to be routinely<br />

quarantined and undergo the required screening.<br />

SURROGACY<br />

We are one of the most experienced clinics in the<br />

UK in surrogacy; our experts have been successfully<br />

supporting intended parents and their surrogates for<br />

more than 100 cycles of surrogacy in the last 5 years.<br />

Surrogacy describes the arrangement made when a<br />

woman agrees to become pregnant and have a baby for<br />

another couple. The woman having the baby is called<br />

the surrogate and she will be the legal mother at birth,<br />

if she is married her husband will be the legal father.<br />

If she is unmarried she can nominate either one<br />

of the intended parents to be the 2nd legal parent.<br />

The intended parents will then need to apply for a<br />

parental order to become the legal parents, this needs<br />

to occur within 6 months of the baby being born<br />

There are two forms of surrogacy: Full/host<br />

surrogacy and Partial/straight surrogacy.<br />

FULL/HOST SURROGACY<br />

In this scenario, the intended parents use IVF<br />

treatment to create embryos which are then<br />

placed in the uterus of the surrogate . the embryos<br />

must be created using at least one of the intended<br />

parents own eggs or sperm. The embryos are then<br />

placed in the uterus of the surrogate. .<br />

PARTIAL/STRAIGHT SURROGACY<br />

Partial surrogacy involves the surrogate becoming<br />

pregnant by artificial insemination or IVF, using<br />

the sperm from the intended father together with<br />

the surrogates eggs.<br />

It’s illegal to become a surrogate for commercial<br />

reasons. Therefore the only payments that can<br />

be exchanged between the Intended Parents and<br />

their surrogate are those that can be classed as<br />

reasonable expenses.<br />

IN-HOUSE SPERM BANK<br />

Our clinic has been helping both heterosexual<br />

couples, same-sex couples and single women<br />

conceive using sperm donation for many years<br />

and to this end, we have established our very own<br />

in-house bank of sperm donors, who satisfy UK<br />

medical and legal guidelines to provide safe and<br />

regulated treatment for those requiring treatment<br />

using a sperm donor.<br />

IVF TREATMENT OFFER<br />

Herts & Essex <strong>Fertility</strong> Centre are delighted to<br />

announce that they will be taking part in the<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> Journeys project in collaboration with<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> <strong>Road</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. Our fertility experts<br />

are coming on board to support this remarkable<br />

inventiveness and give hope and support to<br />

couples who are trying for a dream baby.<br />

WHAT'S ON OFFER?<br />

A FREE IVF & 40 FREE CONSULTATIONS<br />

This year our clinic is celebrating the 40 years<br />

of IVF and will be offering a free fertility<br />

treatment (IVF/ICSI) including the medication<br />

to a lucky couple. In addition to this celebratory<br />

year, we will select 40 lucky couples for a free<br />

fertility consultation with one of our fertility<br />

doctors. The free consultation package consists<br />

of a full consultation, an Anti-Mullerian<br />

Hormone (AMH) blood test and a semen<br />

analysis with Hyaluronan Binding Assay (HBA)<br />

assessment. Same-sex couples will either have<br />

two AMH tests or two semen assessments.<br />

TO APPLY<br />

To enter the draw for the incredible free round<br />

of IVF/ICSI or a chance to have one of the 40<br />

fully funded consultation appointment, visit<br />

our website fertilityroad.com/HEFC<br />

The fertility treatment prize includes initial<br />

consultation, pre-treatment tests (ultrasound scan,<br />

AMH blood test, semen assessment etc), 1 cycle of<br />

IVF treatment, plus ICSI if required (below is what<br />

is included with our IVF treatment package).<br />

See website for full terms and conditions.<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS <strong>2018</strong><br />

FERTILITY JOURNEYS:<br />

EGG DONATION WITH IVF SPAIN<br />

Exclusive<br />

Spanish<br />

Partner<br />

A lot has happened since our last <strong>Fertility</strong> Journey post. Claire and David, winners of<br />

the <strong>Fertility</strong> Journey <strong>2018</strong>, had their first medical consultation; the list of this year’s<br />

runner-ups will be posted soon; the recent birth of a beautiful baby and the upcoming<br />

birth of one of our previous winners.<br />

Claire and David<br />

‘The testing process has been very thorough, there<br />

are things that we´ve never been offered in the UK<br />

and we didn’t know these were an option really.<br />

This was quite important for us. The first thing<br />

that we were shown when we arrived, was a timelapse<br />

film of the embryo and, believe it or not,<br />

considering where we’ve come from and we´ve<br />

been through, we’ve never got to see that before<br />

and that is quite good for us, so that give a bit of<br />

confidence and that’s just very interesting to see<br />

what actually happens; the process when it gets to<br />

blastocyst stage’ said Claire and David.<br />

Claire (42) and David's (35) first time at IVF Spain...<br />

After 7 years trying to form a family, and thanks<br />

to the <strong>Fertility</strong> Journey Project, Claire and David<br />

decided to travel to Spain to be a little closer to<br />

their dream of becoming parents. On 14 May,<br />

the couple from Bristol visited the clinic and met<br />

their treating doctor, Natalia Szlarb, gynaecologist<br />

and Medical Director of IVF Spain.<br />

The couple had already been through 3 failed IVF<br />

cycles. Both suffer from medical conditions that make<br />

it impossible for them to conceive a child by natural<br />

means such as sperm morphology and motility<br />

defects, a genetic condition in the family history that<br />

increases implantation failure and miscarriage. As a<br />

result the couple decided to approach egg donation to<br />

achieve the long lasted pregnancy.<br />

Spain has one of the most advanced and liberal<br />

laws on assisted reproduction in Europe, allowing<br />

the donation of gametes without disclosing the<br />

identity of the donors. This encourages many<br />

women to become donors and furthermore<br />

it allows reproduction clinics to have bigger<br />

donor pools compared to other European<br />

countries. Having large donor pools allows<br />

assisted reproduction clinics to meet the legal<br />

requirements set in Spanish Law: “donors and<br />

patients must be similar on a phenotypic level and<br />

be genetically compatible to ensure the health of<br />

future generations”<br />

We asked Claire and David on their thoughts and<br />

impressions about IVF Spain during their visit.<br />

They were really impressed with the state-of-theart<br />

technology and techniques that patients have<br />

at their disposal.<br />

At IVF Spain we are constantly striving to be at<br />

the forefront of medical advance. As such, we are<br />

able to offer our patients pregnancy rates well<br />

above the Spanish average (according to data<br />

submitted by the Spanish <strong>Fertility</strong> Association).<br />

In the case of Claire and David we decided to<br />

perform specific tests that could provide us with<br />

additional information on why the embryos failed<br />

to implant. Among all tests that were carried<br />

out, the endometrial receptivity test proved to be<br />

decisive. This specific test determines the precise<br />

moment to carry out the embryo transfer, thus<br />

increasing the success rate.<br />

The test results confirmed a “displaced window of<br />

implantation”. In other words, the best moment<br />

for transferring the embryo did not match with<br />

a woman’s normal cycle. As a result, Claire was<br />

prescribed a treatment to find out the best date to<br />

carry out the embryo transfer.<br />

Both were very grateful with the received<br />

treatment; never before did they get that many<br />

information. They knew exactly what was going<br />

to happen during every phase of the treatment.<br />

“To feel to be taken care of gave us the assurance<br />

we needed”<br />

We will be carrying out a second endometrial<br />

receptivity test during their upcoming visit to set<br />

the exact date for the embryo transfer.<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS <strong>2018</strong><br />

Laura and Ian<br />

Alka<br />

And the runner-up is…<br />

We also chose a runner-up couple for this year’s<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> Journey: Laura (41) and Ian (44), from<br />

Kirklees, West Yorkshire. After five years trying to<br />

form a family they decided to put their trust in Dr.<br />

Szlarb’s broad experience and in our IVF Spain team.<br />

Laura: ‘On our journey so far we’ve had 7 different<br />

rounds of IVF including frozen and fresh<br />

transfers and we sadly had 4 miscarriages. We’ve<br />

had a very difficult journey over the past few years<br />

to try and get pregnant and stay pregnant’.<br />

The couple highlighted the dedication, empathetic<br />

approach and detailed information they received<br />

throughout their first medical consultation. They<br />

were able to clarify all their doubts with the doctor<br />

and received a much more professional treatment<br />

than in any other clinic.<br />

Laura: Today we had a really thorough consultation<br />

with the doctor, much more thorough than we ever<br />

experienced in our seven previous attempts in the UK.<br />

We uncovered and discussed things we didn’t even<br />

understood or didn’t know that were a potential issue<br />

for us, which is quite surprising given that we are very<br />

experienced going through this.<br />

It has also been a totally different experience for<br />

Ian. This time he did not feel like a number, but<br />

like a future dad.<br />

Ian: In the UK it felt like we were being treated<br />

like a number rather than people. It was just one<br />

more case, pay the money and move on without<br />

getting a proper explanation. It has been a total<br />

different experience with IVF Spain.<br />

Laura suffers from endometriosis and polycystic<br />

ovarian syndrome, but also suffered from<br />

immunological problems in previous treatments.<br />

At IVF Spain we wanted to be sure about what was<br />

causing Laura not to get pregnant, and decided to<br />

carry out an endometrial biopsy to check her immune<br />

system. The test results showed high levels of NK<br />

cells (Natural Killers) which required medication to<br />

regulate her bodies’ immunological response to the<br />

transferred embryo and prevent the miscarriage<br />

(several studies have linked high levels of NK cells to<br />

repeated implantation failure and miscarriage).<br />

Laura and Ian will visit us again in September for<br />

their embryo transfer. We, of course, wish them<br />

the best of luck.<br />

Updates…<br />

We are very happy to announce that our last year’s<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> Journey winners, Kathryn and Richard,<br />

recently became parents of a beautiful baby girl<br />

named Efa Marie.<br />

Kathryn: Efa is a dream. She’s tiny and was only<br />

6lb 3.5oz born. She is a sleeper by day but awake<br />

all of most nights.<br />

Kathryn<br />

I can’t believe we actually have our miracle here.<br />

She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to us and<br />

I am so grateful to you all. Richard loves being a<br />

daddy. Very hands on and he was very sad going<br />

back to work, as will I too.<br />

We also would like to remind you all that Alka and<br />

Rhod will be giving birth in <strong>August</strong>. They wanted<br />

to share with us how they got the news of being<br />

pregnant and what has been going on since then.<br />

Alka: ‘We discovered that I was pregnant when we<br />

were back in the U.K, 2 weeks after our treatment<br />

cycle at IVF Spain. The treatment had gone<br />

brilliantly. Three great quality blastocysts had<br />

developed, my uterine lining had been optimised,<br />

and one blastocyst was successfully transferred<br />

back into my uterus….It was Christmas Eve when<br />

we found out that the cycle had been successful,<br />

and we were ecstatic to hear the news! Oh my<br />

gosh!... It had worked… and first time too! It was<br />

the most amazing Christmas present we could<br />

ever have wished for! It was so hard keeping<br />

the news to ourselves... but after experiencing<br />

pregnancy losses before, we wanted to be sure that<br />

the first few months were going to be okay.<br />

IVF Spain were delighted to hear the news and<br />

even though we were now in another country, they<br />

were very actively involved in our care. They kept<br />

a close eye on our blood test results and altered our<br />

medication accordingly to help support the pregnancy.<br />

I experienced some bleeding at 6 weeks and with my<br />

history, I was terribly worried. IVF Spain were amazing<br />

in their support. I was in touch with them by phone<br />

and by email, and they guided me on what actions<br />

I should be taking and what investigations would<br />

be needed. They were on hand whenever I needed<br />

advice, and they truly helped me to stay positive.<br />

We went to our local hospital for a scan to check the<br />

viability of the pregnancy and were overjoyed to see<br />

the baby’s heartbeat. Everything was looking great!<br />

We were so relieved. Luckily the bleeding settled,<br />

and the next few months of pregnancy have gone<br />

well. Words cannot describe how it has felt to see the<br />

baby moving on the ultrasound scans, hear the baby’s<br />

heartbeat...and to feel the baby kicking… Wow!’<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS:<br />

FREE IVF TREATMENT WITH IVF TRAVEL AND<br />

MEDITERRANEAN FERTILITY INSTITUTE<br />

Dimitris Kavakas<br />

While the doctors are busy assessing the couples<br />

that have applied for this truly wonderful offer<br />

of free treatment at their clinic in Crete we<br />

sat down with Dimitrius founder of Redia IVF<br />

Travel for a bit of Q&A.<br />

Q: Redia Ltd has been a business consultancy<br />

for <strong>Fertility</strong> Clinics. What made you develop<br />

the IVF Travel Portal?<br />

A: It was during my years of experience of<br />

trying to communicate with patients on behalf<br />

of fertility clinics that I realized what patients<br />

really look for. This is not just a treatment but<br />

the drive to make their dream come true. So<br />

the three main elements that concern patients,<br />

particularly in the UK, became our concerns in<br />

order to try to bring out solutions for them.<br />

Q: Which are those elements you are talking about?<br />

A: The main element is success. They get in to<br />

a process that is not easy nor pleasant with the<br />

goal of becoming parents. The second element<br />

is affordability since they do not know how<br />

much they will keep on spending until they<br />

reach their goal. This unknown cost is really<br />

scary for many fertility patients. Finally, the<br />

third element is time. <strong>Fertility</strong> has a clock and is<br />

ticking fast. Being in an NHS waiting time may<br />

be detrimental to the patient’s fertility levels.<br />

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between clinics and between countries. In addition,<br />

the success rates of each clinic determine their prices.<br />

There is also a risk element that affects prices, so<br />

female patient’s age group is also one of the factors.<br />

Overall, I would say that on average, the cost of a 3<br />

cycle IVF programme with all medication included<br />

as well as methods such as blastocyst culture, ICSI,<br />

IMSI, Macs, assisted hatching and embryoscope time<br />

lapse, including embryo freezing costs, would be<br />

similar or slightly more expensive than a single cycle<br />

of IVF at a UK private clinic.<br />

Q: Are there conditions of eligibility to enter<br />

the programme?<br />

Q: So what does IVF Travel offer in response to<br />

these three elements?<br />

A: What we do is offer multi-cycle refund guarantee<br />

IVF programmes so that we can either offer success,<br />

in which case the main goal of the patient is achieved<br />

at a set price that they know from the beginning,<br />

or we refund the cost of the programme up to<br />

100% so as to take away the financial uncertainty<br />

from patients. In addition, we do that by offering<br />

affordable prices by having our patients travel<br />

to other countries where they can have low cost<br />

treatment without any waiting time.<br />

Q: By offering lower cost than UK clinics do<br />

you not discount on quality also?<br />

A: No, in actual fact, our partner clinics offer an<br />

equal and sometime much better quality than<br />

UK clinics. What you find in countries such as<br />

Spain, Greece and Czech Republic, for example,<br />

is that clinics focus more on the individual and<br />

each patient feels that they are really taken care<br />

of. In addition, most of our partner clinics have<br />

lab infrastructures that can only be found in the<br />

most expensive UK private clinics.<br />

Q: Do you have a way to screen clinics and<br />

ensure quality?<br />

A: It is in our vested interest to do so. You see, we<br />

are risking paying refunds back to patients since<br />

our business model is like an insurance. We earn<br />

more when our patients have quick success. So that<br />

is why we make sure that we only work with clinics<br />

that deliver high quality of services and results.<br />

Q: You talk about affordability; can you give<br />

us an idea of the cost?<br />

A: The cost of the programmes would depend<br />

on many factors. One is the individual clinic and<br />

country of choice since prices of treatment fluctuate<br />

A: Yes, there are conditions, however, in practice<br />

we accept almost 90% of interested patients. There<br />

are age conditions regarding the type of treatment<br />

and the refund percentage. Women up to 37 years<br />

of age can have a 100% refund guarantee. Women<br />

between 38 to 39 years old can become eligible but<br />

only with 50% refund. From 40 years and over,<br />

patients can only get into a 100% refund programme<br />

if they enroll in one of our Egg Donation or Embryo<br />

Donation programme, which have no age limit.<br />

In addition to the age criteria, there are a few basic<br />

medical conditions that patients should meet to<br />

enter into the programme. We ask for specific<br />

screening test which are assessed by our medical<br />

experts to evaluate eligibility. If everything is OK,<br />

they sign a contract and start treatment.<br />

Q: What if there is a discomfort of patients at<br />

a particularly clinic they did the first cycle?<br />

Do they have to stick with that clinic for all<br />

the cycles of the programme?<br />

A: No, patients have every right to change the clinic<br />

they have treatment at between cycles. If the cost of<br />

the programme at a clinic they wish to transfer is<br />

higher, they would just pay the difference.<br />

Q: Do you offer any payment schedule to help<br />

patients with their payments for the treatment?<br />

A: At the moment what we can do is spread the<br />

cost of the 50% of the payment over 6 equal<br />

monthly installments without any interest. We<br />

do ask however for a 50% deposit.<br />

Q: Do you only work with UK patients and where<br />

are the most popular country destinations?<br />

A: We work with patients globally, so no, we are not<br />

limiting our services to UK patients. Currently we<br />

work with clinics in Spain, Greece, Czech Republic,<br />

Cyprus, Turkey, India, Malaysia and Mexico. The<br />

popularity of a destination depends on the patient<br />

origin. UK patients prefer Spain, Greece and Czech<br />

Republic mainly, Australian patients prefer Malaysia<br />

and North American patients prefer Mexico.<br />

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FERTILITY JOURNEYS:<br />

DONOR EGG IVF WITH GENOMIC SCREENING...<br />

WITH OREGON REPRODUCTIVE MEDICINE<br />

After nearly ten years trying to build their family, Heather and Brandon are in<br />

their second trimester of Heather’s twin pregnancy. Heather has had to endure<br />

an extended period of severe morning sickness, but importantly their twins are<br />

developing well and their family and friends are overjoyed for them.<br />

Heather writes…<br />

I will never forget Monday, March 19th. During<br />

our 6 week ultrasound to listen for a fetal hearbeat,<br />

we got the news. We are having fraternal twins!<br />

We cannot begin to explain what a miracle we are<br />

experiencing! ORM has changed our lives and for<br />

that we are extremely thankful!<br />

For this journey, we had partnered with our local<br />

fertility clinic for the blood work and check-ups<br />

requested by ORM. To ensure I would be able<br />

to arrive at work by 8:30 a.m. I visited our local<br />

clinic on Monday, March 19th at 7:00 a.m. for my<br />

scheduled 6 week ultrasound.<br />

I was fortunate that during my visit the woman<br />

conducting my ultrasound has been doing<br />

ultrasounds with me for the last four years. She is<br />

very personable and always provides encouraging<br />

words every time I have the pleasure of working<br />

with her.<br />

She left me to get changed and then returned to the<br />

room for my ultrasound. Luckily, their petroleum<br />

jelly used for ultrasounds is warm so I was able to<br />

stay calm and not be jumpy through the process.<br />

I was so worried about the heartbeat. Brandon and I<br />

had been told it is critical that the heartbeat is over<br />

the 100 rate. We started the ultrasound process and<br />

low and behold there were two heartbeats! I cried<br />

uncontrollably. The nurse provided me with some<br />

tissues and I became completely overwhelmed.<br />

What?!?!? Twins?!?!??<br />

After my appointment, I immediately called<br />

Brandon who was headed to work after taking care<br />

of our dog Duke at home. He was beyond shocked.<br />

I then sent an email to Christina our coordinator<br />

at ORM and she was ecstatic. We were all some<br />

happy campers.<br />

We shared the news with my mom, dad and<br />

mother-in-law and they were all overjoyed! My<br />

father said, “I knew it!” when he heard the news. He<br />

explained our hGC levels were too high for us not to<br />

be having a multiple pregnancy.<br />

On Monday, April 9th, we had our second<br />

ultrasound. I was 9 weeks pregnant. Brandon<br />

attended and once again we listened. We both<br />

heard two heartbeats! I cannot begin to express<br />

after such a long journey of hearing ‘No’ how<br />

much this news means to us.<br />

We have helped to raise cousins. We have heard<br />

some of our closest friends talk about parenthood,<br />

the good and the bad, sometimes unintentionally<br />

without regard for our journey. Now we knew it<br />

was going to be our turn.<br />

We were informed by ORM that as my pregnancy<br />

was now established we would soon graduate to<br />

the care of a local OB/GYN who would follow my<br />

pregnancy till delivery. Our local fertility clinic also<br />

informed us that after our 9 week ultrasound they<br />

would need to transfer our care to a local OB/GYN<br />

who specialized in pregnancy care.<br />

I consulted with my local fertility doctor and was<br />

clear about the type of doctor we were looking for. I<br />

wanted to be extra cautious. Through the early years<br />

of our journey we feel that we encountered a number<br />

of physicians who did not correctly diagnose our<br />

situation. We wanted to work with someone who<br />

would listen to us and empathize with us. In our<br />

experience, that has not always been the case.<br />

My local fertility doctor provided me with three<br />

physicians who were a good fit based on our criteria.<br />

I went through the process of talking to people and<br />

reviewing public knowledge and reviews of their<br />

bedside manner. We selected a doctor and were<br />

thrilled to find out after meeting with her for the first<br />

time that she is the mother of three-year-old twins. We<br />

could not be more thrilled with our selection!<br />

Unfortunately, morning sickness has been a<br />

significant challenge during these last couple of<br />

months. I have experienced something more than<br />

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We wore t-shirts to share<br />

our news with our loved ones:<br />

“I can’t keep calm I’m having<br />

twins” and “I can’t keep calm<br />

I’m going to be a daddy”.<br />

down and the lingering aftertaste of some of my<br />

favorite foods was a nuisance. We encourage any<br />

expecting parent to consider getting some extra<br />

help to help with chores and a food delivery service<br />

for meals if it is within your budget. Unfortunately,<br />

that was not our reality.<br />

On Saturday, May 26th, at 16 weeks pregnant,<br />

we shared the news with our extended family!<br />

We sent texts to our aunts, uncles, cousins and<br />

friends asking them to join us for a barbecue in<br />

the backyard as a part of the Memorial holiday<br />

weekend. On the menu was a Cleveland specialty<br />

which requires minimal effort, the “Polish Boy”. It’s<br />

a Cleveland classic.<br />

Brandon took the lead on cutting<br />

the grass and barbecuing the<br />

beef kielbasa. I managed<br />

the condiments and<br />

sprucing up our house to<br />

accommodate our guests.<br />

We wore t-shirts to<br />

share our news with our<br />

loved ones: “I can’t keep<br />

calm I’m having twins”<br />

and “I can’t keep calm I’m<br />

going to be a daddy”. Once<br />

our family members read our<br />

t-shirts they were shocked by our<br />

announcement and filled with joy and<br />

lots and lots of tears.<br />

I know we have expressed this sentiment before<br />

but after ten years of trying to conceive, we are<br />

experiencing a fantastic and exceptional miracle<br />

and we are optimistic.<br />

This journey has been a true testament of faith,<br />

persistence and the determination to never give<br />

up. For those who are still trying, your miracle is<br />

coming too!<br />

just morning sickness. I have experienced all day<br />

sickness. Luckily, I was prescribed some medication<br />

to help with nausea and vomiting.<br />

I cannot attest that this medication had me back to<br />

normal but it did allow me to keep fluids and some<br />

food down. I was so dehydrated at one point that I<br />

was close to being admitted to hospital.<br />

The major side effect of the medication has<br />

been sleepiness. To be honest, I have spent a few<br />

months going to work, sleeping as soon as I got<br />

home, waking up to eat, and then going back to<br />

sleep through the rest of the night.<br />

My best friends became yogurt, fruit, smoothies<br />

and french fries. I had trouble keeping a lot of foods<br />

Dr Barbieri comments on Heather and Brandon's journey<br />

The entire ORM team is truly overjoyed that Heather’s twin pregnancy has<br />

continued to progress well and that she has now graduated to the care of her<br />

local OB/GYN for the next stage of their journey.<br />

Morning sickness impacts every woman’s pregnancy differently. Heather has<br />

certainly had to endure an extra difficult case, but thankfully this has now<br />

abated and she is able to enjoy this special time of her pregnancy.<br />

I am delighted that Heather feels confident in her selection of her OB/GYN. It’s reassuring that her<br />

OB/GYN is also a mother to twins as she will have first-hand insight into Heather’s experience. A twin<br />

pregnancy carries higher risks, so expertise with twin pregnancies and enhanced monitoring is called-for.<br />

We are honoured to have been able to help Heather and Brandon and will be continuing to follow their<br />

journey closely in the coming months ahead.<br />

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Some women also suffer from what is commonly<br />

known as Diminished Ovarian Reserve or DOR.<br />

This occurs when a woman’s ovaries lose their<br />

reproductive potential, both affecting the quantity<br />

and quality of eggs produced. A woman’s ovarian<br />

reserve refers to the quality and quantity of her eggs,<br />

and diminished ovarian reserve means those factors<br />

are decreasing. Aging is the primary cause of DOR,<br />

but it can also be caused by genetic abnormalities,<br />

some medical treatments and even injury.<br />

There are many good reasons to choose egg<br />

donation, but choosing to undergo the treatment<br />

here in the UK isn’t as quick or accessible as it<br />

should be. Long waiting lists are plaguing the<br />

NHS for all manner of procedures and treatments,<br />

and egg donation is no exception. If you are 40 or<br />

over, being stuck in a lengthy waiting list for egg<br />

donation IVF is not ideal. Often the only other<br />

option is to go private, but as we found in our recent<br />

survey looking at fertility tourism trends, the cost<br />

of private treatment in the UK is disproportionately<br />

expensive when compared to other European<br />

countries - up to 50% in some cases.<br />

In the UK, we are also not protected by anonymity<br />

laws, meaning the donor’s name and details are<br />

readily available to the recipient and their offspring<br />

– this can cause issues further down the line when<br />

children born from egg donation want to know more<br />

about their ‘biological’ mother.<br />

The best option for some mothers in the UK may<br />

be to seek egg donation treatment abroad. Most<br />

European clinics offer cheaper egg donation<br />

services that their UK equivalents and many<br />

offer anonymous egg donation. Anonymity is<br />

something that many couples are looking for as<br />

highlighted in our research. In addition, private<br />

clinics abroad are not plagued by lengthy waiting<br />

list, which is particular importance to women over<br />

40 who are looking for a quick turnaround.<br />

Of course, having to go abroad for egg donation<br />

will not be to everyone’s taste. Being away from<br />

the support network of home can be a daunting<br />

prospect, coupled with the stresses and strains of<br />

travelling to and from the clinics. Many countries<br />

protect donors with anonymity law which means<br />

the children will never know their genetic parents.<br />

A blessing for some, a curse for others.<br />

…..for the donor<br />

Of course, there are two sides the story when it<br />

comes to egg donation. There are many reasons<br />

why a woman would choose to donate their<br />

eggs. Some for purely altruist reasons, to give<br />

the gift of life to someone who cannot conceive<br />

naturally. Others may be purely financial.<br />

Although it’s illegal to pay for egg donation in<br />

the UK, egg donors can receive compensation<br />

of up to £750 per donation ‘cycle’ to cover their<br />

costs. A donation cycle is one complete round<br />

of treatment, at the end of which the eggs are<br />

collected and donated. There is the option to<br />

claim more to cover higher costs such as travel,<br />

accommodation and childcare.<br />

Usually women need to be between the ages of 18<br />

and 35 to donate their eggs to someone’s treatment.<br />

Clinics may only allow eggs from an older woman<br />

to be used in exceptional circumstances, such as<br />

donating to a family member.<br />

Before a donation is made, the donor will<br />

undergo a series of health tests to ensure<br />

they don’t pass on any serious diseases or<br />

medical conditions to the baby or mother. A<br />

donor should always tell the clinic about any<br />

inheritable diseases in the family.<br />

Some clinics also set additional eligibility<br />

criteria, including minimum and maximum<br />

Body Mass Indexes (BMIs).<br />

Although the process of egg donation<br />

is relatively simple and pain free, the<br />

psychological impact of donating eggs should<br />

not be underestimated. A commonly-reported<br />

psychological difficulty that donors face is<br />

the thought of contributing to the birth of<br />

a child without any involvement in its life<br />

or upbringing. This can be balanced by the<br />

consideration that few prospective parents<br />

engage in the effort and expense of undergoing<br />

fertility treatment using an egg donor, if they<br />

are likely to be neglectful, disinterested parents.<br />

Typically, patients come from stable financial<br />

backgrounds within loving homes.<br />

In addition, it is possible to donate eggs to a<br />

friend or someone who is known, or to meet and<br />

maintain contact with the recipients if they agree<br />

to this ahead of time. This is called a ‘directed’ egg<br />

donation, which enables the donor to have limited<br />

involvement throughout the child’s life.<br />

There are also some health risks that need<br />

to be taken into account. The retrieval of<br />

eggs is a minor surgical procedure that takes<br />

approximately 10-15 minutes and requires<br />

sedation and monitoring, with a full day’s rest<br />

afterwards. Patient’s may feel disoriented and<br />

have impaired reflexes immediately following<br />

the procedure. While the complications are rare,<br />

there have been reported cases of individuals<br />

developing blood clots, bleeding or infection<br />

after egg retrieval<br />

It is possible to conceive with multiples<br />

during the donation cycle, because the clinic<br />

may not be able to retrieve every one of the<br />

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eggs. Donor’s need to take precautions for<br />

the duration of the preparation time to avoid<br />

conceiving, and it’s advisable to abstain from<br />

sex for up to a week after the retrieval.<br />

In rare cases, women who donate eggs may<br />

develop ovarian hyper stimulation, which results<br />

in swollen ovaries, abdominal pains and the<br />

retention of fluid until the next menstrual period.<br />

Conclusion<br />

Before a donation<br />

is made, the donor will<br />

undergo a series of health<br />

tests to ensure they don’t pass<br />

on any serious diseases or<br />

medical conditions to the<br />

baby or mother.<br />

Donating eggs or receiving an egg donation is<br />

a major decision that should never be taken<br />

lightly. For some women, it is the only prospect<br />

of conceiving children and offers hope and<br />

reassurance to those beyond the natural age<br />

of conception. For donors, it represents a life<br />

changing gift that can transform the lives of<br />

couples desperate to have their own children.<br />

However, there are both physical and<br />

psychological challenges that must be taken<br />

into consideration, some that are far reaching<br />

and can affect couples and their children way<br />

into the future.<br />

As with any decision of this<br />

magnitude, it is always<br />

advisable to first consult<br />

with a GP or fertility<br />

health advisor. Couples<br />

should do their homework<br />

and ensure they<br />

are well informed<br />

before making the<br />

decision. Organisations<br />

such as <strong>Fertility</strong><br />

Network UK are there to<br />

support and advise couples<br />

considering the treatment, and<br />

can provide access to other couples<br />

who have been there and done it.<br />

With more and more couples choosing the<br />

go abroad for egg donation and other IVF<br />

treatments, having a good understanding of<br />

what is on offer beyond the UK is becoming<br />

increasingly important. At <strong>Fertility</strong> Clinics<br />

Abroad, we provide impartial advice on what<br />

to expect, recommend the best clinics and<br />

advice on all aspects of the trip from booking<br />

accommodation to treatment planning.<br />

Dr Caroline Phillips PhD was senior<br />

embryologist at the Chelsea and<br />

Westminster Hospital in the 90’s. She now<br />

runs an online hub -<strong>Fertility</strong> Clinics Abroadwhich<br />

offers resources and information to<br />

people seeking IVF abroad.<br />

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BOOK REVIEW:<br />

21 Miles – swimming in search<br />

of the meaning of motherhood<br />

by Jessica Hepburn<br />

REVIEWED BY KATE BRIAN<br />

It was this year's most keenly awaited<br />

fertility book, and Jessica Hepburn's 21<br />

Miles – swimming in search of the meaning<br />

of motherhood doesn't disappoint. Jessica has<br />

become one of the country's leading patient<br />

voices on the experience of fertility treatment<br />

after going through eleven unsuccessful cycles<br />

of IVF, and 21 Miles is her second book. It's<br />

the story of her decision to try to swim the<br />

English Channel but it's also about fertility,<br />

about relationships and about what motivates<br />

us to want to be mothers.<br />

Jessica was Executive Director of<br />

the Lyric Theatre when she<br />

and her partner decided<br />

they would try to have<br />

a baby, and her first<br />

book, ‘The Pursuit of<br />

Motherhood’, tells<br />

her story of fertility<br />

tests and unsuccessful<br />

treatment. Most of us<br />

might have taken some<br />

time out to lick our wounds<br />

if we’d been through the ups and<br />

downs of eleven rounds of IVF, several<br />

miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy, but Jessica,<br />

who is not most of us, decided to take a more<br />

radical route out of the sadness, and ’21 Miles’ is<br />

about what happens next.<br />

It was her New Year’s Resolution to “Give up<br />

IVF and do something big instead” which<br />

directly led to Jessica’s decision to attempt<br />

to swim the Channel. Despite having no<br />

“Never being<br />

able to feel happy<br />

for someone when<br />

they announce they’re<br />

pregnant without feeling<br />

sad for yourself at the<br />

same time”<br />

experience of swimming beyond school lessons<br />

and occasional lengths of the pool, she sets<br />

herself the challenge of the 21 mile swim from<br />

the Kent Coast to France. She also decides to<br />

interview 20 women, inviting them to have a<br />

meal with her to help her to “get fat to swim the<br />

English Channel and answer the question: Does<br />

motherhood make you happy?”.<br />

The book intersperses chapters about her<br />

preparations for the swim with her meetings<br />

with the women she has invited to to address her<br />

question, some of whom are familiar<br />

figures in the public eye. There<br />

is no particular theme to the<br />

interviewees, some have<br />

children and others don’t,<br />

and they come from very<br />

different walks of life,<br />

but they are all women<br />

whose stories around<br />

motherhood or living<br />

without children have<br />

sparked Jessica’s interest.<br />

The meals she had envisaged<br />

often turn into cups of coffee,<br />

one a ten minute phone call and<br />

another an extremely brief email, but each<br />

of the women brings a different perspective to the<br />

question of motherhood and what it means. She<br />

also asks each of the women to give her a word<br />

to motivate her for the swim, a talisman for the<br />

challenge ahead.<br />

The juxtaposition of these two very different parts<br />

of the book, the swimming and the interviews, is<br />

a structure that ought to feel disjointed, and yet<br />

Jessica makes it work effortlessly as we follow her<br />

through her training and her discussions about<br />

motherhood. Perhaps it works because these<br />

are in essence the two parts of her story and the<br />

interviews help to give context to the experience<br />

that has driven her to the swim.<br />

Jessica calls that driver “the pain of never”, and if<br />

you have ever experienced fertility problems, her<br />

list of symptoms will be all too familiar (such as<br />

“Never being able to feel happy for someone when<br />

they announce they’re pregnant without feeling<br />

sad for yourself at the same time” followed by<br />

“Never being able to admit that you’ve been in the<br />

loo crying about it because you don’t want people<br />

to pity you”). She describes it as a hole in her life,<br />

the pain of losing something you never had, a pain<br />

no one can entirely understand unless they’ve<br />

been there themselves.<br />

Meanwhile, we learn that swimming the Channel is<br />

a complex business; you don’t just get into the sea<br />

and set off. There are training camps, hours in the<br />

water that have to be ticked off, the strict regimes<br />

of the weekends swimming off Dover beach, the<br />

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TV Presenter Janet Ellis interviews<br />

Jessica and some of the women from<br />

her book at the 21 Miles book launch.<br />

pilots and boats to be booked to accompany you,<br />

the tides and weather which dictate whether you<br />

can swim and the cold of the water and the jellyfish<br />

to contend with. It is a huge commitment and you<br />

need patience, grit and determination. Jessica had<br />

certainly found her “something big” to do instead.<br />

The interspersed interviews raise all kinds of<br />

questions around motherhood and our attitudes<br />

towards having children. There’s Justine Roberts,<br />

the founder of the website Mumsnet, who despite<br />

her day job and four children, is adamant that<br />

you don’t need children to live a happy life,<br />

there’s Jody Day, founder of Gateway Women,<br />

whose own experiences of coming to terms with<br />

childlessness led her to set up her support network,<br />

there’s politician Fiona Mactaggart who had six<br />

unsuccessful rounds of IVF before being diagnosed<br />

with multiple sclerosis and former Chief Constable<br />

Julie Spence who illustrates how full life can be<br />

without children. These are just some of the women<br />

Jessica meets on her quest to discover more about<br />

women’s relationships to motherhood.<br />

partner, and the toll that<br />

the infertility and the<br />

treatment seem to have<br />

taken there.<br />

‘21 Miles – swimming<br />

in search of the meaning<br />

of motherhood’ is a thoughtprovoking<br />

read. If you’ve had personal<br />

experience of fertility problems, there is a lot that<br />

will resonate, but this is not just a book about<br />

infertility, or about swimming the Channel.<br />

It’s a book which aims to make us think about<br />

If you’ve had<br />

personal experience<br />

of fertility problems,<br />

there is a lot that will<br />

resonate, but this is not just<br />

a book about infertility, or<br />

about swimming the<br />

Channel.<br />

motherhood and<br />

society’s attitudes to<br />

mothers, about our own<br />

thoughts on the subject<br />

and about what lies behind<br />

them. Jessica has an engaging<br />

style and a light touch, making<br />

’21 Miles’ an enjoyable read. Of<br />

course, the question you really want<br />

answered is whether Jessica ever completed her<br />

swim across the Channel, and finding out is just<br />

one of the many reasons you should go and buy<br />

this highly recommended book right away!<br />

There are some interesting insights in these<br />

vignettes about being a mother or living without<br />

children and what that means to different<br />

women, but it’s Jessica’s own story that is at the<br />

heart of the narrative as she recognises that<br />

she is “swimming my way out of grief”. She has<br />

moments of enlightenment along the way as<br />

she questions her own desire to be a mother,<br />

and there’s also a subtext in the shadows of the<br />

story which is Jessica’s own relationship with her<br />

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Emily Mounts, MS, CGC, genetic<br />

counselor and Director of Genomic<br />

Services at Oregon Reproductive<br />

Medicine (ORM), leads the largest<br />

clinical genomics program of any US<br />

IVF clinic and helps dispel some of the<br />

most common misconceptions about<br />

preimplantation genetic screening.<br />

MYTHS ABOUT PREIMPLANTATION<br />

GENETIC SCREENING<br />

reimplantation genetic screening S, or also referred to as Comprehensive Chromosome Screening, CCS is now widely<br />

used in the in vitro fertilization F field to identify and transfer embryos free from maor chromosome abnormalities. s<br />

a genetic counselor, one of the most important aspects of my role is arming patients and providers with accurate information<br />

about the risks, benefits, and limitations of S. ere are five of the most common myths about S, dispelled.<br />

Myth1<br />

I have a healthy family<br />

history and normal genetic<br />

carrier screening, so PGS is<br />

not necessary for me<br />

tests for te umer of romosomes reset<br />

i te ells of te emryo similar to looig at<br />

te umer of oos o te self of te uma<br />

geome e romosome aormalities deteted<br />

y su as etra or missig romosomes<br />

our radomly e ast maority of te time<br />

tese ages are ot ierited from te serm<br />

or egg roider wi is wy a ealty family<br />

istory ufortuately does ot redue te ris for<br />

romosome rolems i emryos toug family<br />

istory is imortat for may oter reasos<br />

additio romosome ages differ from gee<br />

mutatios ages i te letters or words of te<br />

su as tose deteted y arrier sreeig<br />

ysti firosis or ayas disease for eamle<br />

e if you are at low ris for aig a ild wit a<br />

reessie geeti disease ased o your geeti arrier<br />

sreeig results tere is still a relatiely ig ae<br />

for romosome rolems to our i your emryos<br />

is is te ase eause romosome aormalities<br />

are surrisigly ommo i early emryo<br />

deelomet as a matter of uma rerodutie<br />

iology weter tat ours troug atural<br />

oetio or i itro fertiliatio i te laoratory<br />

e oly sigifiat ris fator tat aears to<br />

ifluee te rate of romosome aormalities<br />

i emryos is materal age ut ee for wome<br />

i teir s a aerage of of emryos ae<br />

aormal romosome results we tey are<br />

tested wit te ast maority of ases<br />

tese emryos wit aormal romosome<br />

results would ot deelo ito a regay ad a<br />

ealty ay if trasferred<br />

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2Myth<br />

Embryo biopsy is harmful<br />

to the embryo or baby<br />

order for your emryos to udergo tey<br />

must first ae a small umer of ells remoed<br />

y a emryologist te most udated form<br />

of o te t or t day of te emryos<br />

deelomet te emryologist uses a laser<br />

to iosy etwee ells from te future<br />

laetal ells of te emryo eerieed<br />

ads te oerwelmig maority of emryos<br />

surie te iosy<br />

t we ae iosied oer emryos<br />

sie ad fewer ta of tese did<br />

ot surie te iosy roedure fortuately<br />

to date o omreesie studies ae ee<br />

omleted o te ealt of te regaies or<br />

aies tat ae resulted from iosied emryos<br />

terefore we ousel our atiets tat tere is a<br />

ossiility tat tis data ould eetually reeal<br />

some id of oer<br />

t te urret time oweer tere are o studies<br />

suggestig tat tere is a detrimetal effet of day<br />

iosy o te aility of emryos to imlat<br />

o te deelomet of te fetus or te laeta or<br />

o te ealt of te ay tat results<br />

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3Myth<br />

PGS will make sure that my<br />

baby is genetically healthy<br />

e a emryo is deemed ormal y <br />

it meas tat te laoratory as oluded<br />

tat te iosied ells from te emryo most<br />

liely ae romosomes erefore tese<br />

emryos are elieed to ae te igest<br />

ae of deeloig ito a ealty regay<br />

urtermore te aies tat result are ery<br />

uliely to ae a maor romosome age<br />

su tose assoiated wit ow sydrome or<br />

oter romosomal sydromes aused y etra<br />

missig wole romosomes<br />

e fat is oweer tat te maority of geeti<br />

diseases ogeital irt defets ad learig<br />

issues tat a our i aies are ot uoered<br />

y routie ere are a umer of reasos<br />

for tis tese disorders may e aused y geeti<br />

ages tat are too small or sutle for to<br />

idetify we may eed to ae rior owledge of<br />

a ris fator i order to offer aroriate emryo<br />

testig for a disease or we may ot ee ae a<br />

uderstadig of te ause of tese oditios<br />

our geeti arrier sreeig ad family istory<br />

ealuatio are imortat aduts to tese<br />

tools a el geeti ouselors idetify ay<br />

additioal seifi fators tat irease your<br />

ae to ae a ild wit a disorder tat is ot<br />

detetale y routie <br />

or eamle if you ae a family istory<br />

of a oditio tat is ossily ierited<br />

or if you ad your arter are disoered<br />

to ae a iger ris for a reessie disease<br />

troug arrier sreeig your otios for<br />

reduig tese riss i your ildre a e<br />

elaied e otio for reetig geeti<br />

disorders from eig assed o to offsrig<br />

is to use ustomied reimlatatio geeti<br />

diagosis testig<br />

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Myth4<br />

PGS is not helpful if there is<br />

a low number of embryos<br />

5Myth<br />

PGS<br />

negates the need for<br />

prenatal screening<br />

e ast maority of emryos tat test ormal<br />

wit ad imlat will go o to mae aies<br />

tat ae a ormal umer of romosomes <br />

ery rare ases oweer gies false<br />

egatie results ad te ay as a etra or<br />

missig romosome desite te results<br />

aig ee ormal<br />

is a ae due to teial limitatios of<br />

te testig or due to iologial differees witi<br />

te ells of te emryo su as we te ells<br />

from te laeta test ormal ee toug te<br />

ells tat go o to mae te ay may ae a<br />

aormal umer of romosomes mosaiism<br />

eause of tese limitatios you may wis<br />

to ae a reatal sreeig test su as<br />

oiasie reatal sreeig or ultrasoud or<br />

a reatal diagosti test su as orioi illus<br />

samlig or amioetesis for fetal romosome<br />

aormalities i te regay<br />

f youe ad you sould tal wit your<br />

dotor ador a reatal geeti ouselor to<br />

determie wi reatal test if ay is rigt for<br />

you e sure your roider uderstads tat you<br />

ad o your emryos te auray of te test<br />

ad te seifi teology tat was used so tey<br />

a ousel you aroriately o your otios<br />

f your yle results i a low umer of emryos you may woder weter<br />

is elful fter all if tere are oly oe or two emryos tere may e o<br />

oie to e made regardig wi emryos to trasfer t is imortat to<br />

uderstad toug tat erformig rior to emryo trasfer may still<br />

roide useful iformatio for you<br />

irstly it a el aoid trasferrig a emryo tat will ot imlat due<br />

to ertai aormal romosome rolems ie ea trasfer a ae a<br />

ysial ad emotioal imat as well as a fiaial ost you may areiate<br />

te oortuity to reogie tese emryos<br />

eodly a reet some ases of misarriage out of all<br />

misarriages regardless of age ad ow a woma oeied are aused y<br />

radomlyourrig romosome aormalities ie idetifies most of<br />

tese emryos it will derease te ris of misarriage for some atiets<br />

astly some atiets areiate tat a e used to reogie emryos<br />

tat if trasferred ould ae resulted i te irt of a ay wit a<br />

romosomal sydrome oidig trasfer of su emryos dereases te<br />

ae of oeiig a regay wit ertai ysial ador metal<br />

alleges tat may or may ot ae ee reogied y reatal sreeig<br />

Learn ore<br />

rego erodutie ediie as te largest liial geomis<br />

rogram of ay lii wit fie fulltime iouse oard<br />

ertified geeti ouselors e itegratio of te latest adaes i<br />

geomi are is a distiguisig feature of eery yle at <br />

or more iformatio isit te ad eomis wesites<br />

oregonreproductivemedicine.com ad ormgenomics.com s<br />

geeti ouselors a e reaed at geneticcounselor@portlandivf.net<br />

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EXPERT: Michelle Mulliss<br />

ICE ICE BABY<br />

Our Harley Street clinic is seeing an increased<br />

number of professional women wanting to<br />

do as much as they can in the race to help<br />

preserve and improve their egg quality or<br />

postpone their chances of having a family at<br />

a later stage in life, especially those who have<br />

yet to find the right partner to settle down.<br />

It’s a fact that women’s eggs naturally decline<br />

with age. Although it can be said that lifestyle<br />

can help promote and maintain the health of our<br />

reproductive health cells, we can’t get away from<br />

the fact that eggs continue to decline in women.<br />

23 is considered the optimal<br />

age to start a family<br />

Experts continue to highlight the optimal<br />

reproductive age for women and the optimal<br />

fertility health to start a family is just 23 with<br />

an average age for the first-time mom being 30.<br />

For most professional women this is an age when<br />

their careers are taking hold and starting a family<br />

is not a consideration.<br />

<strong>Fertility</strong> issues rise with age and the likelihood<br />

of chromosomal abnormalities climbs. The risk<br />

of miscarriage, birth defects or disorders makes<br />

conceiving even more difficult when postponing<br />

a family to later in life.<br />

What options are out there?<br />

Women who have started on the fertility road in<br />

their thirties are finding their options with low<br />

egg numbers or poor egg quality very limited.<br />

Choices include egg donor or adoption which for<br />

some is not an option as most want to use their<br />

own eggs when they have a family.<br />

Egg Freezing has become an<br />

increasingly attractive option<br />

to many<br />

Egg freezing has become an increasingly attractive<br />

option and considered by some as a way to pause<br />

the biological clock, preserve the younger or<br />

possibly healthier eggs, and for some women<br />

looking to extend their childbearing years.<br />

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The need to preserve and postpone our fertility<br />

options is becoming popular with many<br />

celebrities being open with their own fertility<br />

stories. Egg freezing has recently been seen in the<br />

media with celebrities like Rita Ora announcing<br />

she had her eggs frozen in her twenties on the<br />

back of her doctor’s recommendation. This<br />

media coverage saw a flock of young women<br />

wanting to explore how to have their eggs frozen.<br />

What is Egg Freezing?<br />

Egg freezing or oocyte cryopreservation<br />

is a relatively new assisted process. Once<br />

considered to be an option for those suffering<br />

from cancer, or for the rich and famous as<br />

their way to bank and preserve eggs like an<br />

insurance policy. It is now becoming an option<br />

to many career and professional women as<br />

their awareness increases of the time limits of<br />

reproductive health for women.<br />

Egg Freeze is an option for<br />

those on a career path and not<br />

just those with serious medical<br />

conditions<br />

Egg freezing is a relatively a new concept for<br />

women to enhance their egg preservation,<br />

and in 2013 the American Society<br />

of Reproductive Medicine<br />

(ASRM) announced that egg<br />

freezing was no longer an<br />

experiment due to medical<br />

advances overcoming the<br />

thawing issues which<br />

previously resulted in<br />

lower success rates than<br />

that of fertilised embryos.<br />

Science is moving in ways<br />

that make it possible to<br />

address the growing fertility<br />

issues for many who put the<br />

family on hold in pursuit of careers<br />

and economic growth.<br />

It is no surprise with such media and science<br />

reports that there is an increased fear in women<br />

of being 'too old' at 35 and above trying to<br />

conceive. This is supported with the research<br />

evidence of the increase in single women who<br />

are thinking about their future fertility and<br />

looking into the possibilities of freezing their<br />

eggs whilst they wait for the right partner or<br />

saving to get onto the housing ladder.<br />

But where do you start and what is<br />

the process?<br />

The process of egg freezing, or in medical terms,<br />

oocyte cryopreservation, involves stimulating<br />

The average age<br />

at which a woman<br />

freezes her eggs is now<br />

considered to be at 35 but this<br />

age is reducing as more and<br />

more women are freezing<br />

their eggs younger and<br />

younger.<br />

the ovaries with hormones<br />

to produce multiple eggs.<br />

The eggs are retrieved<br />

from the ovaries and<br />

sent to the lab. They are<br />

preserved at sub-zero<br />

temperatures to be<br />

thawed at a later date to<br />

undergo IVF treatment.<br />

Why should a woman<br />

consider freezing their<br />

eggs?<br />

Some women choose to freeze their eggs for medical<br />

reasons. Cancer treatment, for example, can be toxic<br />

to the ovaries and cause premature menopause.<br />

There is an increase in women opting to freeze<br />

their eggs who are not in a relationship or not in a<br />

position to think about starting a family.<br />

Average age for egg freeze is 35<br />

The average age at which a woman freezes her<br />

eggs is now considered to be at 35 but this age is<br />

reducing as more and more women are freezing<br />

their eggs younger and younger. Women are now<br />

freezing their eggs for their career, which is very<br />

different from the initial reasons for freezing.<br />

Is the procedure invasive?<br />

The process of retrieving eggs is identical to the<br />

first phase of in vitro fertilization, or IVF.<br />

Anaesthetic is used to carry out the procedure<br />

of collecting your eggs which is invasive and<br />

has a risk for infection, but as far as surgical<br />

procedures go this risk is low, which is why<br />

antibiotics can be prescribed by some clinics<br />

during this stage.<br />

During the procedure, a woman receives a round<br />

of hormone injections that stimulate the ovaries<br />

to produce multiple eggs. This stage usually<br />

involves frequent visits to the fertility clinic, to<br />

monitor the ovaries by vaginal ultrasound. Your<br />

drug prescriptions can be altered during this<br />

depending on your response to the hormones.<br />

After about a week or two of hormone<br />

treatments, the eggs are retrieved.<br />

The egg retrieval process takes about 15 -30<br />

minutes and is done under mild anaesthesia<br />

or sedation. Using an ultrasound, the clinician<br />

guides a needle through the vagina to the ovarian<br />

follicle that hopefully contains a mature egg. A<br />

suction device at the end of the needle removes<br />

the eggs from the follicles.<br />

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Retrieving eggs is technically like getting blood<br />

drawn or any other type of medical aspirating<br />

procedures, however clinical expertise, training<br />

and knowledge are important like any other<br />

medical procedure carried out. However, in the<br />

case of egg retrieval, a needle goes into the ovary<br />

and the eggs get gently aspirated out and exactly<br />

the same as a routine IVF retrieval.<br />

While the egg retrieval surgical<br />

procedure is mostly safe,<br />

the hormones can<br />

carry a risk of ovarian<br />

hyperstimulation<br />

syndrome or OHSS,<br />

which can make some<br />

women unwell and on<br />

the rare occasion very ill.<br />

OHSS occurs when<br />

a woman responds too<br />

aggressively to the hormones<br />

and the ovaries become swollen and<br />

painful. It can be accompanied by nausea,<br />

vomiting and abdominal pain.<br />

When over or hyperstimulated, the ovaries produce<br />

a lot of fluid, which has to be drained from the<br />

abdomen. OHSS tends to happen in younger<br />

The egg retrieval<br />

process takes about<br />

15 -30 minutes and<br />

is done under mild<br />

anaesthesia or<br />

sedation.<br />

women in their twenties and thirties, or those with<br />

a high number of eggs which can be indicated<br />

with the Anti-Mullerian Hormone (AMH) blood<br />

screening. However, it must be said that in most<br />

cases it is a small percentage of women who<br />

suffer. It is also true that on occasions OHSS can<br />

increase the risk of kidney failure and blood clots<br />

and on very rare instances, can be fatal.<br />

Usually, OHSS is managed and<br />

most times prevented which<br />

is why it is important to be<br />

monitored throughout your<br />

stimulation. However,<br />

OHSS can present itself<br />

after egg retrieval<br />

which is why aftercare<br />

observations from<br />

yourself are important too.<br />

How will the<br />

hormones affect me?<br />

Women have different experiences<br />

with a majority experiencing moodiness and<br />

bloating, but some have noticed headaches,<br />

nausea and tiredness.<br />

The hormones make the ovaries swell a little,<br />

mainly because they have to create space<br />

to accommodate the multiple expanding<br />

follicles that contain the maturing eggs that<br />

are developing within your abdomen, so it’s no<br />

wonder your tummy feels swollen and bloated.<br />

What are my chances of having a<br />

baby later if I freeze my eggs now?<br />

According to the American Society for<br />

Reproductive Medicine, the chance that a<br />

single frozen egg will lead to a live birth is<br />

about 2 to 12 percent. This would appear to be<br />

a low figure, but in the wider scheme, it could<br />

be higher than your natural ability especially<br />

as women are leaving planning a family later<br />

in life. That’s why it is often recommended<br />

having as many eggs frozen as possible and in<br />

multiple numbers to maximize the success.<br />

Here in the UK, you can only have your<br />

frozen eggs stored for a maximum of 10 years,<br />

which should be considered at the time when<br />

freezing, although there are no time limits in<br />

some other countries.<br />

How much does it cost?<br />

The cost varies from clinic to clinic and is a<br />

similar cost to the stimulation phase of an IVF<br />

procedure. You will need to take into account the<br />

ongoing costs of storing your eggs on constant<br />

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freeze until you are ready to go ahead and go<br />

through the next stage to thaw and fertilize your<br />

eggs and then transfer.<br />

As a scientist and currently the only doctor of<br />

Chinese medicine in the UK to have studied<br />

reproductive medicine to Masters level, I embrace<br />

the developments of reproductive health which<br />

are forward thinking that makes the impossible<br />

possible, but even with the latest egg preservation<br />

techniques, it doesn’t guarantee egg quality for<br />

those preserving eggs.<br />

Research shows that as women get older<br />

their egg numbers (ovarian reserve) decline,<br />

coupled with the naturally led infertility<br />

process in the form of menopause. However,<br />

I do believe that we need to do more in the<br />

way of awareness and promoting reproductive<br />

health as science has come a long way over<br />

the last 40 years from the first IVF baby, but<br />

I am certainly seeing more and more women<br />

in their mid-twenties and early thirties with<br />

fewer eggs with poor quality eggs and embryos<br />

during an IVF process.<br />

Anti-Mullerian Hormone (AMH) is present<br />

in the body and through blood tests gives an<br />

idea of how many eggs a woman has in reserve.<br />

Low egg numbers along with egg quality issues<br />

become dominant reasons for infertility for<br />

older women but can happen at any age and not<br />

just those over the age of 35.<br />

What is the cause for low egg numbers?<br />

Is having low egg numbers and poor-quality<br />

down to genetics, living in the fast lane, poor<br />

lifestyle or age? Perhaps it’s all of these or maybe<br />

an evolution shift is fast taking place, but there<br />

is still much we have to learn about the life of an<br />

egg cell as research is limited.<br />

What can be done to help egg<br />

numbers and quality?<br />

There is little research out there that shows<br />

concrete evidence that promotes egg quality.<br />

There is a growing trend of research being<br />

conducted identifying the benefits of nutrition<br />

and therapies that reduce the stress effects on<br />

the body and reproductive cells such as eggs in<br />

women and sperm in men.<br />

Many treated in our clinic have seen<br />

improvements of AMH and sperm levels, even<br />

with repeated blood screening which in turn<br />

have led to successful results of pregnancies and<br />

live births.<br />

This program is currently being used for<br />

research purposes to understand the life<br />

of a woman's egg and how an integrated<br />

approach using science and the knowledge of<br />

natural treatments that appear to influence<br />

reproductive cellular function.<br />

When you are faced with the prospect that egg<br />

numbers are on the decline it makes sense for<br />

you to consider all options available.<br />

After all, when eggs are frozen for a long period<br />

of time, it makes sense to help prepare your egg<br />

quality to aid egg freezing.<br />

Should you wish to contact Michelle or<br />

further discuss how she can help, view her<br />

website michellemulliss.com or contact her<br />

at 10 Harley Street, London 0207 467 8467,<br />

email info@michellemulliss.com<br />

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BACK<br />

FERTILITY 360<br />

EXPERT: Helen Davies<br />

TO<br />

FRONT AND<br />

INSIDE OUT<br />

Turning Secondary Infertility on it’s<br />

head and looking at it in a different way<br />

Those who are struggling to conceive will recognise that unique pain of<br />

preparing a place in your home and heart for a child that is yet to come.<br />

The incredibly sad thing about infertility is the invisible pain, the<br />

misunderstood triggers that bring immense hurt and the fact that we could<br />

all be standing next to someone who is completely broken by the frustration<br />

of it all, but we wouldn’t even know it.<br />

If you are in this position you too will recognise the pain that person feels;<br />

the emptiness in their heart that they feel all around them; the anger<br />

they can’t contain, the jealousy they hate themselves for having, the bitter<br />

thoughts they can’t shake off and the hope they hold onto everyday that<br />

someday soon, their pain will be a distant memory.<br />

All of this will no doubt resonate with any couple struggling to conceive, or<br />

who is unable to conceive. They will feel empathy, want to reach out and<br />

want to comfort anyone in a similar situation.<br />

How many times could you say to someone in a similar situation? “I can’t<br />

do anything to help you but I do understand how you feel. You are not<br />

alone, it’s OK to cry and you are allowed to grieve the time you have lost to<br />

infertility and be angry at your situation.”<br />

But, what if the person saying they felt this way already had a child? What if<br />

they already had a family but were struggling to have another baby, would<br />

you still feel that understanding and empathy?<br />

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tem as mu suort if you ew tey were<br />

strugglig wit eodary fertility<br />

eodary fertility is we a oule is strugglig<br />

to oeie we togeter or eiter oe of tem<br />

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my so te roter or<br />

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