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Chapter 4: The Latitude <strong>of</strong> Gratitude 121<br />
The <strong>of</strong>ficer returned your papers and asked you if you knew<br />
how fast you were going. You weren’t sure, but you knew it was<br />
excessive for the speed limit. You were thinking this would be a<br />
preliminary discussion before he or she laid it on you.<br />
Of course, you were acquiescent in your guilt, and you were<br />
waiting for the other shoe to drop. In the conversation, you<br />
acknowledged you were going too fast and you expressed your<br />
remorse. The <strong>of</strong>ficer listened to what you had to say and the<br />
told you, “You have a good driving record, so I’m going to let<br />
you <strong>of</strong>f with a warning this time.<br />
Do you remember the flood <strong>of</strong> relief, the amazing sensation <strong>of</strong><br />
Gratitude that suddenly filled your entire emotional body, the<br />
ecstatic thoughts that went through your mind, the release <strong>of</strong><br />
all the physical anxiety you’d been holding until that moment?<br />
This is the level <strong>of</strong> feelingness that works for you when you<br />
commit to deeply and truly expressing your gratitude for all the<br />
amazing and magnificent people, events and things in your life.<br />
It’s ridiculous how much we accept as normal in our everyday<br />
lives. You open your refrigerator and there’s fresh food inside.<br />
That’s a miracle. You go into the bathroom and there’s a toilet,