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Why you MUST read this book!<br />
When you were young, didn’t you wish for your very own Fairy<br />
Godmother?<br />
A happy magical spirit who could make ALL your dreams come<br />
true? Someone who cared deeply about you, and had your best<br />
interests at heart?<br />
You KNOW you did!<br />
And now you really CAN have your very own Fairy Godmother.<br />
Meet Wenty!<br />
For the last 35 years, people have been asking Wenty, whom<br />
they have come to know as their Fairy Godmother, “When can<br />
I have your book?” The time has finally come for your Fairy<br />
Godmother to share her secrets with You.<br />
The information in this book is about connecting with the<br />
<strong>Abundance</strong> <strong>of</strong> the Universe, and is based on the Teachings <strong>of</strong><br />
many Masters throughout the millennia, brought together for<br />
you in one place.<br />
Written so they are easy to understand, these secrets give you<br />
a new depth <strong>of</strong> insight to the Truth, with activities that move<br />
you toward the joys and fulfillment you desire and so absolutely<br />
deserve.<br />
Now is the time to declare what you want … and find out how to<br />
get it!<br />
“Everything is Magical!”
<strong>Dance</strong><br />
<strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>Abundance</strong><br />
Volume 2<br />
Wenty<br />
Your Fairy Godmother<br />
Secrets <strong>of</strong> a Fairy Godmother<br />
For Passion Publishing Company, LLC<br />
Bellingham, WA
Fairy Godmother Programs<br />
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Note to Readers<br />
The information presented within this book neither<br />
endorses nor disputes any religion. This is not a book<br />
about religious belief or religious practice. This book is<br />
about awakening the essence <strong>of</strong> the Inner Wisdom that<br />
is within all <strong>of</strong> us, and connecting with the Divine that<br />
permeates all Life. Above all, this material subscribes to<br />
kindness and compassion for all Beings.<br />
The use <strong>of</strong> the word God, the Divine, Spirit, Source, and<br />
references to any spiritual master, saint, guru…all are<br />
mentioned with deep respect. Each person references the<br />
Divine in his or her individual way, and the use <strong>of</strong> all these<br />
words are available for interpretation the way the reader<br />
most prefers. My wish is to engage the reader and <strong>of</strong>fer the<br />
gift <strong>of</strong> personal fulfillment.<br />
This material may be controversial and counter-cultural.<br />
By purchasing and reading this book, you have expressed<br />
a degree <strong>of</strong> interest, and I am grateful for your curiosity at<br />
the least, and for embracing the information at the most.<br />
The Intelligence within may be surprising, or it may be<br />
somewhat familiar; it is within this Knowingness that the<br />
Fairy Godmother resides because this is where the Magic<br />
is, and I want You to have every bit <strong>of</strong> the Magic!<br />
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This is Volume 1, and it does not contain all the secrets<br />
about abundance I wish to share…but Volumes 2 and 3<br />
are forthcoming and before long you will be able to live<br />
your life in the Zone, in the Magic, all the time.<br />
You will notice that certain words have been capitalized,<br />
and this is intentional to emphasize the word’s greater<br />
meaning and value. A word is a word until you capitalize<br />
it. Then it’s a different word.<br />
Also, the word “judgement” is spelled as you see it; this is<br />
also deliberate, to make the reading more agreeable.<br />
Thank you for your imagination, courage, kindness and<br />
Love. You are an Amazing Being, and I am grateful for this<br />
Moment, allowing us to share our Selves with each other.<br />
The material you are about to read will bless and change<br />
your Life, and all that is Great and Good will be revealed<br />
and restored within You!<br />
Now go have some Fun out there!<br />
Love you! ‘Bye!<br />
~ Wenty, your Fairy Godmother<br />
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About the Author<br />
Wenty Hill<br />
Wenty is an internationally recognized intuitive coach, with 30+ years<br />
experience on TV, radio, and news media.<br />
She has given hundreds <strong>of</strong> workshops on a wide variety<br />
<strong>of</strong> subjects: Quantum Physics, The Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction, Healing ,<br />
Marketing, Financial Management, Success Positioning, Career<br />
Transitioning – How to Monetize People into “Their Mission”/<br />
Right Livelihood, Attracting a Mate, Keeping a Mate, Valuing the<br />
Differences Between Men and Women (Mentally, Emotionally,<br />
Physically and Spiritually), etc.<br />
Wenty’s work has been successful with thousands <strong>of</strong> people <strong>of</strong> many<br />
nationalities, races, and ages. Most <strong>of</strong> her new clients are referred by<br />
happy, satisfied clients.<br />
Through her desire to provide very personal service, Wenty accepts<br />
only five new clients per month. In this way, Wenty can <strong>of</strong>fer<br />
customized quality service to each client, whom she feels honored to<br />
serve.<br />
Formerly from Sedona, Arizona, Wenty now lives in the Pacific<br />
Northwest, close to the snow-capped Cascade Mountains overlooking<br />
Puget Sound. Wenty is available through her website,<br />
www.onewithyou.com<br />
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Dedication<br />
To Heather Dalberg, a true friend<br />
and<br />
Barbara Checksfield, my sister;<br />
I’m so-o grateful for all <strong>of</strong> your love and support
Contents<br />
Chapter 1:<br />
Inside the Vibe<br />
Chapter 2:<br />
Delete the LLE<br />
Chapter 3:<br />
Myth Defied<br />
Chapter 4:<br />
The Latitude <strong>of</strong> Gratitude<br />
Chapter 5:<br />
Step It Up<br />
Reflection<br />
Glossary<br />
Resources<br />
Fairy Godmother Treasures
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Chapter 1: Inside the Vibe<br />
Here are two critically important concepts to understand:<br />
1. Everything is energy flow.<br />
2. Energy does not have a good or bad judgement attached<br />
to it, a right or wrong…it is just a powerful essence that<br />
flows – Energy. Energy is neutral.<br />
You may wish to take a little time now to think about the<br />
concept <strong>of</strong> flowing energy. It’s really important to understand<br />
there are no judgement attachments to ANY energy. We, as<br />
humans, need to learn not to make judgements or attach labels<br />
to everything we see, feel, think or touch! Sheesh!<br />
As seen from your perspective, with you being a receiver <strong>of</strong><br />
energy, this flowing energy is totally dependent on how much<br />
you’ve closed your intake valve through judgements, what your<br />
filters are, and how you’ve gone to great lengths to block the<br />
energy flow, preventing the energy from getting through To You<br />
at its highest levels, at its highest frequencies!<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the many reasons this is so significant is because <strong>of</strong><br />
the way quantum physics and the universe work… Everything<br />
in our universe has an energy vibration. Rocks, trees, clouds,
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animals, human beings…every item in your life has an energy<br />
vibration. Some items vibrate at a low level, like common<br />
rocks, and some items vibrate at a higher level, like crystals or<br />
gemstones.<br />
Some animals vibrate at higher levels than other animals. Some<br />
planets and stars vibrate at higher levels than other planets and<br />
stars. Everything in our universe is composed <strong>of</strong> energy, and<br />
that energy is always vibrating at a vibrational level specific to<br />
itself.<br />
According to the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction, all vibrations seek their<br />
vibrational match. Whatever energy level you’re vibrating,<br />
which includes your self-imposed filters, the blocks you’ve<br />
embedded into your energy field – you will receive exactly the<br />
same energy manifestations, or frequency-match because like<br />
attracts like.<br />
You’ve heard that before, right? Yes, I know opposites attract,<br />
but when it comes to the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction, what you put out is<br />
what you’re gonna get back!<br />
For example, vibrational matching, or energy matching if you<br />
prefer, is like a radio… Your energy is tuned into a particular
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vibrational level or frequency on the dial <strong>of</strong> the radio. You can<br />
only pick up certain stations depending on your openness.<br />
Your frequency could range from the infinite to just the basest<br />
<strong>of</strong> channels. Whatever level <strong>of</strong> receptivity you possess will<br />
determine the frequency match <strong>of</strong> what you will receive.<br />
So is it any wonder, then, that you have exactly what you have<br />
in your life right now?<br />
Take a step back and do a quick inventory. How much love have<br />
you had in your life? How much health? How much monetary<br />
value? All <strong>of</strong> these situations are the direct result <strong>of</strong> the energy<br />
vibration you’re sending out right now. That’s either great news<br />
for you, or maybe you’re noticing some insufficiencies.<br />
Your current situation, in any category, is a direct result <strong>of</strong><br />
the energy vibration you are now transmitting. The quality <strong>of</strong><br />
your transmission is based on the number <strong>of</strong> judgements, or<br />
filters, you’ve placed in the energy flow that’s available from the<br />
universe. You have only yourself to congratulate!<br />
If you are wide open and have no filters, no limiting beliefs,<br />
and you are just allowing the energy to flow through you, and<br />
you are a great receiver, you are going to receive instant and
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“In awakening the heart-felt<br />
energies, you can’t help but discover<br />
your own self-worth,<br />
your own magnificence.”<br />
~ Anonymous ~
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consistent manifestations. It’s so exciting! In essence, this is<br />
how quantum physics works… Your beliefs either open the<br />
gateways to abundance, or each belief slowly closes the door.<br />
As you walk through your day, beliefs will happen, and what<br />
you receive will adjust based on the filters you’ve imposed on<br />
the Flow. If you want more flow, you must eliminate the blocks<br />
that you’ve either accepted from others or the blocks you’ve<br />
created for yourself.<br />
Energy and Vibration<br />
Energy is flowing throughout the entire universe. This energy<br />
comes to you, into your small human body, from the Universe,<br />
and it goes to your eyesight, your hearing, through your<br />
intuitive sense, through your kinesthetic sense, goes through<br />
your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual bodies, and<br />
these filters allow OR don’t allow the quality <strong>of</strong> the message<br />
you’ve sent out to return to you.<br />
Whatever vibration you send out determines the frequency with<br />
which you receive, and limits the level <strong>of</strong> your Receiving.
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Flower on Hurricane Ridge.<br />
The wings <strong>of</strong> a moth<br />
with the gold <strong>of</strong> the sun…<br />
I am both <strong>of</strong> these, and yet I am none.
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Is this now becoming more clear?<br />
At some point in time you may have said, “I know how to<br />
receive because this time last year I received all this money in<br />
this way…” and I hear the stories all the time from people who<br />
have received really great things, but the issue is how to be a<br />
consistent receiver and stay on an open receptive frequency<br />
most <strong>of</strong> the time.<br />
Sometimes your channels are wide open because for some<br />
reason you drop your filters. Everything says “YES!”, and<br />
your body just has a huge “YES!” in it…it’s like you’re open to<br />
everything, and that’s when your frequency match is high and<br />
the Universe will match that higher level <strong>of</strong> vibration enabling<br />
better receptivity <strong>of</strong> amazing things Flowing toward you.<br />
That’s when you’re going to be receptive to receiving the things<br />
you’ve been wishing for. The challenge I’ve found with most<br />
people is that their physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and<br />
belief filters are blocking each level more and more, allowing<br />
less and less receiving by the time it comes through all the<br />
barriers to you.
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Change<br />
can be very,<br />
very quick.
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The Flow is diminished and the filters are constricting what<br />
could otherwise have been received immediately.<br />
Quantum physics states you attract exactly at the vibrational<br />
level where you are. Of course, this can go both ways! Just<br />
as you can restrict the Flow and diminish the quality <strong>of</strong> the<br />
manifestations you desire, so, also, can you remove the filters,<br />
erase the judgements, eliminate the beliefs, and open the<br />
floodgates to what the Universe, and you, would delight in your<br />
having!<br />
Whatever vibration you’re transmitting, you are tuned in to the<br />
exact radio station that you are. You can only receive what you<br />
send. You can only receive at the vibrational match that exactly<br />
corresponds with the same level <strong>of</strong> vibration that represents<br />
your energy frequency. You can notice your circumstances<br />
dramatically!<br />
Right now, look at the things you have and have been receiving<br />
in your life. Look at your car, look at your house, look at your<br />
income, look how much money there is in your checking<br />
account, look at your relationships, look at your friends, look at<br />
your family, and whatever you are seeing is the precise station<br />
on the radio dial to which your frequency match is tuned.
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This is really important, right? You can only receive the<br />
frequency match you’re allowing yourself to receive. This is<br />
why we did the clearing a few moments ago. I’m always giving<br />
ongoing clearings with people, intertwined with coaching,<br />
releasing the things <strong>of</strong> which they may or may not be aware.<br />
Sometimes people have fears that block the Flow; sometimes<br />
people have anger; sometimes people have a belief such as their<br />
parents had… All <strong>of</strong> these things are limiting beliefs which will<br />
block the Flow and leave you with a lower frequency vibrational<br />
match. Ideally the goal is to have instantaneous and consistent<br />
total open flow for receiving abundance every second. That’s<br />
the goal.<br />
Like life, this can be a process; you can drag around with these<br />
blocks for a long time. But with your Fairy Godmother handy, it<br />
isn’t necessary for the transformation to process in days, weeks,<br />
months, or years.<br />
Change can be very, very quick.<br />
You don’t have to spend 20 years in therapy and thousands <strong>of</strong><br />
dollars! In my work, releasing a belief takes less than a minute.<br />
At another time we’ll talk about how to shift this instantly. For
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Bright summer sky.<br />
Praise falls easily from my lips…<br />
I see Beauty in all things<br />
and so Beauty is seen in me.
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now, just be aware you are receiving exactly what you’re putting<br />
out. It’s the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction. You are attracting your own<br />
vibrational match. It’s the law!<br />
Accepting praise:<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the blocks many people seem to have that is not working<br />
at all well is being able to accept praise and acknowledgement<br />
from other people. Is this you?<br />
This is because people have been trained by their parents or by<br />
society to turn praise aside. It’s thought <strong>of</strong> as a cultural way <strong>of</strong><br />
being humble or self-critical, <strong>of</strong> dismissing ourselves as being<br />
less important, less egotistical, more appropriate so we fit in<br />
without being judged as a know-it-all, or selfish, or too smart,<br />
or too clever, or too something.<br />
It is very common for my clients to defect my praising them.<br />
I <strong>of</strong>ten have this challenge with clients in the beginning, for<br />
they think that when I am acknowledging the good things I see<br />
in them, I am in some way trying to manipulate them, or I’m<br />
lying.
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What I’m really wanting to do, though, is acknowledge the<br />
wonderful things, sometimes the small things, that I see and<br />
appreciate in them. In that moment, that is my only agenda.<br />
How can people possibly acknowledge their own Magnificence<br />
(self-appreciation) if someone isn’t appreciating the Good in<br />
them?<br />
Of course, it’s obvious that deflecting a compliment is a<br />
block that impedes the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong>. When somebody<br />
sincerely compliments you and gives you that gift, that’s the<br />
Universe recognizing your value, recognizing your contribution,<br />
and this positive energy flowing toward you should be accepted,<br />
not deflected. When you deflect the Good coming your way, you<br />
are closing the door…<br />
I realize this makes good sense logically, yet emotionally most<br />
people turn aside the compliments and the praise they receive<br />
from others, unwittingly blocking the energy flow the Universe<br />
has directed toward them.<br />
So, I ask you, wouldn’t you love to be vibrating at a higher<br />
level? Wouldn’t you love to have your flow-channels open and<br />
unclogged? Wouldn’t you be excited to know that you are 100%<br />
in the Flow? Wouldn’t you be thrilled to see all the magnificent
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“A man sees in the world<br />
what he carries in his heart.”<br />
~ Goethe ~
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gifts you request <strong>of</strong> the Universe delivered right to your front<br />
door?<br />
I bet you would, or this book wouldn’t be sitting in your hands<br />
right now! Since this is the case, you are going to have to get<br />
better at accepting praise, which is a form <strong>of</strong> abundance.<br />
Do you know what works for me? I’m not Wenty. I happen to<br />
be living in the body that people call Wenty but I’m more than<br />
Wenty. I’m not even sure who I am because all I can know<br />
is that I am Wenty, but I’m beyond Wenty. So when you or<br />
anybody gives me praise and admiration, I’ve learned to accept<br />
it as the who I am that’s more than Wenty, I accept the praise<br />
as an element <strong>of</strong> God receiving that blessing from people who<br />
are recognizing the Divine in me.<br />
So I accept it as God accepting it, not as Wenty, because<br />
Wenty … You know? But the God-Substance inside me, I can<br />
understand that better, I can receive it better because it’s more<br />
than who I am, it’s the Who that I’m a part <strong>of</strong>. A part, not apart!<br />
You know, Fairy Godmothers are not supposed to reveal<br />
certain secrets about themselves, but I am no ordinary Fairy<br />
Godmother. This one secret about myself, that I wish to reveal
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Mountain peaks across the valley.<br />
Shrouded in cloudy silk,<br />
You are not so far<br />
That I cannot reach you;<br />
I will come closer still.
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Within my grasp,<br />
the fields and peaks once so distant…<br />
I was far away and now I am closer.
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to you, will show you my vulnerability, and it will also show you<br />
the strength I drew from my vulnerability. I’m sharing this with<br />
you because I have a pretty good idea that you’re on the same<br />
path I was on, which means you’re coming up along the same<br />
path I’m on now.<br />
It’s not a secret so much as it’s a confidence I’m sharing with<br />
you. There was a time, before I earned my Fairy Godmother<br />
credentials, when I was under tremendous emotional stress. It<br />
was one <strong>of</strong> those experiences that bring you to your knees.<br />
You know what I mean? Have you had one <strong>of</strong> these experiences,<br />
too? I bet you have. My heart goes out to you if you’re having<br />
one <strong>of</strong> those experiences right now. Well, let me tell you,<br />
without question, what you’re experiencing now will pass,<br />
absolutely. This, too, shall pass…<br />
Here is what I wish you to know. One <strong>of</strong> the dearest books in<br />
my library is a book called The <strong>Abundance</strong> Book. The author <strong>of</strong><br />
the book is John Randolph Price. It’s not a very big book, rather<br />
slender in fact, but it’s one <strong>of</strong> those books that hold the key to<br />
unlimited success.
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When I first ran into The <strong>Abundance</strong> Book, I was under intense<br />
stress. I didn’t know what I was going to do, but I had reached<br />
the end <strong>of</strong> my limits. I really had reached my end. I could tell<br />
you the details, but they are nonsensical. The details don’t<br />
even matter. The point is, energy-wise, and living-wise, I was<br />
finished.<br />
And then I ran into this book. It was a book I’d had in my<br />
library for years; actually, I had three copies <strong>of</strong> this book. I<br />
hadn’t looked at this book in a long time, and I certainly had<br />
never really understood its message the way it’s supposed to be<br />
understood, and somehow this book just showed up in my life,<br />
as books <strong>of</strong>ten do, at the perfect time.<br />
(Don’t you just love it when a book just jumps <strong>of</strong>f the shelf and<br />
it’s the perfect book for you at that time in your life?)<br />
I was in a place <strong>of</strong> such intense pain that I was able to suddenly<br />
“Get it” with a capital G! I read the material and it captured<br />
me, and I began memorizing and reciting it. Everywhere I<br />
went, the words were rehearsed over and over again into my<br />
Spirit, or from my Spirit to myself, my little self, and it saved<br />
me, it absolutely saved my life. I practiced the material and the<br />
essence <strong>of</strong> the words and their effect on my thinking, feeling
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“In the magical universe<br />
there are no accidents.<br />
Nothing happens unless someone<br />
wills it to happen.”<br />
~ William S. Burroughs ~
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and behavior became so engrained in the heart <strong>of</strong> me that my<br />
life changed forever.<br />
I’ve never been the same since, and I’ve been able to appreciate<br />
on a much deeper and clearer level my relationship to the<br />
Divine and to the Divine in everybody I meet.<br />
It re-created my perceptions <strong>of</strong> what life is about and how I<br />
need to live my life for the most full and complete experience I<br />
could ever desire. It totally altered everything. And I don’t know<br />
when I’ve had that much quantity <strong>of</strong> growth at one time like I<br />
did in that exact moment when everything suddenly switched<br />
and I understood my purpose, and I understood the Wisdom<br />
that I’d read.<br />
That Wisdom is contained within the material you’re reading<br />
now. I know the power <strong>of</strong> the book you’re reading, and it is<br />
absolutely the best.
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Chapter 2: Delete the LLE<br />
Most people really dislike the idea <strong>of</strong> change. And most people<br />
intensely dislike having to change!<br />
Undergoing change, to most, means having to let go <strong>of</strong> life as<br />
you know it. Change means entering a new land which is totally<br />
unknown, unfamiliar, and uncomfortable. Where you are right<br />
now is your Comfort Zone and it’s very safe.<br />
You feel secure with your surroundings because they are so<br />
familiar, they’re what you’re used to, you know what to do and<br />
you know what to expect. You may not like everything about<br />
the way things are, but they are a whole heck <strong>of</strong> a lot better<br />
than crossing the border and trespassing on new unchartered<br />
territory, right?<br />
The truth is that without impetus, most people could stay<br />
in the safety and convenience <strong>of</strong> their Comfort Zone for the<br />
rest <strong>of</strong> their lives without ever changing, theoretically being<br />
comfortable and in somnambulistic sameness. To paraphrase<br />
Alfred E. Newman’s Mad Magazine motto: “What, me change?”<br />
This always makes Fairy Godmothers chuckle…
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Familiar path.<br />
The puddles lie here<br />
every year when it rains;<br />
and this crack’s growing bigger<br />
each season;<br />
the grass is encroaching the corner<br />
right there,<br />
As I wander this path<br />
For no reason.
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What people don’t realize is that the Comfort Zone is actually<br />
really UNcomfortable.<br />
The Comfort Zone actually keeps all the past locked in,<br />
including all the angst and resistances that were created, and all<br />
those Non-Life Enhancing feelings supported by other people’s<br />
resistance to change.<br />
Sometimes you can be in your Comfort Zone for way too<br />
long, and all those cozy patterns can actually be chains that<br />
keep you from further growth and freedom. Then, suddenly,<br />
when it comes time to move past your Comfort Zone, due to<br />
the constant change in the world around you…the people,<br />
relationships, work situation, neighborhood, and all the<br />
thousands <strong>of</strong> other things that are part <strong>of</strong> a person’s daily life…<br />
it’s hard to let go <strong>of</strong> the patterns that have settled on you like<br />
sand dunes over an archaeological dig site.<br />
When you become mired in your comfortability, your flexibility,<br />
your curiosity, your interests, your diet, your passions…all<br />
become static and hold you in place. You begin to lose track<br />
<strong>of</strong> who you Really are and instead become held by the tar pits<br />
you’ve made for yourself.
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In that space, change will be harder because your resistance to<br />
change is so strong. Your Comfort Zone has become a prison, a<br />
gilded cage that now restricts your song.<br />
Fairy Godmothers will always advise you to try something new<br />
every day!<br />
We don’t want you getting stale, or old before your time. One<br />
pattern we heartily recommend is the pattern <strong>of</strong> getting out<br />
<strong>of</strong> your Comfort Zone and trying a new food, or making a new<br />
friend, or going for a walk in a new area…you get the idea.<br />
Staying fresh and being flexible will sharpen your senses and<br />
increase the Flow in your life, right? Right!<br />
The surprise is when you move out <strong>of</strong> your Comfort Zone and<br />
begin to go with the Flow, everything actually becomes very<br />
comfortable because your brakes, which are the resistances in<br />
your life, are not on.<br />
Imagine driving the car and putting the gas and the brakes on<br />
at the same time!
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“Embrace the unexpected.”<br />
~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~
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That’s a metaphor for the way life is in the Comfort Zone. The<br />
brakes are on because you’re transmitting “I don’t wanna!”<br />
to the Universe…and at the same time you’re pressing the<br />
accelerator which tells the Universe, “I want to move forward<br />
in my life!” Living in your Comfort Zone is in essence like<br />
accelerating at the same time you’re braking.<br />
It’s very uncomfortable, but for some reason it’s called the<br />
Comfort Zone. Inside your gut, you know something is wrong.<br />
Inside your body, your resistance is like having the brakes on,<br />
or not having oil in your car while you’re revving the engine.<br />
Resistance is wearing down the vehicle <strong>of</strong> your body, in essence<br />
aging you. Going with the Flow (not placing judgement, which<br />
is resistance) is optimal for your body. Then you can press the<br />
accelerator and you can drive your vehicle, your body, easily<br />
through its life.<br />
Resistances are actually judgements. Most <strong>of</strong> these resistances<br />
or judgements were planted in you before you were six years<br />
old. You have totally unconscious limiting beliefs you’re not<br />
even aware exist within your subconscious. How’s that for a<br />
kicker?
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What you resist<br />
persists.
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Every time there’s a judgement, you can know this inside your<br />
gut. You’ll feel some angst, a feeling (an emotion!) that tells you<br />
something isn’t right, and that’s the way to measure if you’re<br />
having judgements. You’ll feel a yucky feeling or a resistance in<br />
your solar plexus, above your stomach and below your ribs.<br />
This is the exact location, just above your waist, what we<br />
normally call the ‘Gut-Check” area. This area is the location<br />
that most executives use to test an instant “Yes” or “No” to any<br />
question they have about a project or anything else that’s going<br />
on. A light feeling to a question is a “yes” and a heavy feeling is<br />
a “no”. A butterfly feeling is an excitement feeling, also a “yes”.<br />
Now you can check-in with your solar plexus yourself, and<br />
physically and emotionally determine if You have a resistance.<br />
Because you’re not using the dysfunctional processes <strong>of</strong><br />
the mind’s programming with its negative conditioning or<br />
judgements, you’ll receive a True Yes or a True No to any<br />
question. Always trust your “Gut”!<br />
Judgements are resistances, and they wear down your body.<br />
In most cases they are incorrect. That’s because the original<br />
premise on which these judgements are based were most<br />
likely received before you were six years old, before you were<br />
conscious <strong>of</strong> the false information that was being planted in
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What you resist<br />
is controlling you.
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your mind and aura. These judgements are invalid because they<br />
are based on false premises that are not part <strong>of</strong> the Real You.<br />
Remember, you are a Child <strong>of</strong> God, and many <strong>of</strong> the things you<br />
think or feel were probably transferred to you by your parents<br />
or by your families, your elders, or by what was imprinted<br />
on you from the media (“Oh, boy! Lucky Charms! Little<br />
leprechauns! They’re good for me!”) before you could defend<br />
yourself with your own reasoning and mature choices.<br />
For example, you could’ve heard from your mother that<br />
money is “bad” because it is “the root <strong>of</strong> all evil”. With that<br />
false premise, you’ve lived your whole life, consciously and<br />
subconsciously, believing this and collecting evidence to prove<br />
that money is bad because it is the root <strong>of</strong> all evil. (Gosh! What<br />
an idea THAT is!)<br />
So, you’ve continued to prove it to yourself over and over again<br />
–that money IS “bad” and “the root <strong>of</strong> all evil”. You keep telling<br />
yourself you’re right because, “See? This is what happened to<br />
me that proved this belief is true!” What really happened was<br />
that you were programmed, and then you collected evidence<br />
for that belief so strongly that you’ve repeatedly programmed it<br />
over and over.
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Flowers.<br />
“Laughter is the sun<br />
that drives winter<br />
from the human face.”<br />
~ Victor Hugo ~
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Your judgements about money are the real issue, not the virtues<br />
<strong>of</strong> money; money is money, after all. The real issue is about<br />
your determination to keep judging things around money as<br />
being “bad” or “the root <strong>of</strong> all evil”. As long as you do this, you’ll<br />
be, again, slamming on the brakes, preventing money from<br />
flowing into your life.<br />
Each judgement is a resistance and it wears down the brakes in<br />
your car, and this resistance also wears down the Flow and the<br />
health <strong>of</strong> your life. The resistance is keeping you closed.<br />
As these judgements repeatedly occur, and they begin to get<br />
a glimmer <strong>of</strong> what they are doing, people <strong>of</strong>ten resist the<br />
resistance or judge the judgement. “Oh, I shouldn’t say that!<br />
I shouldn’t think money is bad…” That’s the judgement, and<br />
then comes the judgement <strong>of</strong> the judgement. That’s a double<br />
resistance, and it blocks the money doubly! Fairy Godmothers<br />
have a real issue around this! Jeez, Louise!<br />
Most people don’t even realize they think money is bad!<br />
How’s that for a complicated state <strong>of</strong> affairs? Subconsciously,<br />
these people keep adding more evidence like condemning<br />
wealthy people as evil. “Oh, money is the root <strong>of</strong> all evil. It even
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Colorful fish.<br />
You think me unique<br />
But I am no more that<br />
Than any <strong>of</strong> God’s creations<br />
When you see with fresh eyes<br />
And a loving heart.
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says so in the Bible!” What the Bible really says, <strong>of</strong> course, is<br />
that the “Love <strong>of</strong> money is the root <strong>of</strong> all evil” (which means that<br />
Selfish Greed is the root <strong>of</strong> all evil).<br />
So let’s discuss change as it relates to money, about changing<br />
from Scarcity to <strong>Abundance</strong> Consciousness. Most people are<br />
Unconscious <strong>of</strong> the Massive, Massive amount <strong>of</strong> Resistances<br />
they have around money. They are totally unaware <strong>of</strong> how<br />
firmly they’ve jammed on the brakes, innocent to the incredible<br />
extent <strong>of</strong> their preconditioning, and are quietly content with the<br />
Subconscious prison their Comfort Zone has become.<br />
People don’t want to change because they’re afraid <strong>of</strong> what<br />
the changes could be, afraid <strong>of</strong> the Unknown. As you’ve heard<br />
before, the only way to get where you want to go is to “stop<br />
doing the same thing over and over and expecting different<br />
results”, which has become a common definition for insanity.<br />
In order to create the powerful abundance you want in your life,<br />
there has to be Change. A No-Brainer !
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Let’s reflect for a moment on the title <strong>of</strong> this chapter. You may<br />
have wondered what was going on. The chapter is called “Delete<br />
the LLE”. Look at the title, and then look at this word:<br />
Challenge<br />
When you delete the LLE, what’s left? (A not-so subtle hint –<br />
Change!)<br />
My point is that <strong>of</strong>ten change comes from being challenged,<br />
and because change is integral to your life’s situation, creating<br />
a new way for you to be in the flow and receive an opulence<br />
<strong>of</strong> abundance from the Universe, you will have to face the<br />
challenge <strong>of</strong> moving out <strong>of</strong> your Comfort Zone.<br />
Change will actually make your life easier than it is right now.<br />
You’re not as happy as you want to be about the abundance<br />
in your life because you chose to read this book, learn and<br />
grow, and change. You knew, on some level, that change<br />
was necessary when you picked up this book, so you were<br />
unconsciously or consciously looking for and found a new way<br />
to change.
A former ugly duckling.<br />
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Path to the beach.<br />
I have found the bridge to my new life!
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The absolutely amazing and wonderful thing is that Change Is<br />
Here Now.<br />
Creating change in your life is available Right Now, and it can<br />
be done easily. This doesn’t have to be Mission Impossible!<br />
For example, you could be saying to yourself, “I am totally<br />
Willing to live an easier life.” This creates a nice bridge between<br />
the way your life has been up until now, in your Comfort Zone,<br />
and to the new life situation where you’re in the Flow and<br />
abundance occurs regularly and consistently. “I am loving<br />
having a life that’s easier and easier every day and in every way”<br />
is a super new mantra or belief to assist this transition.<br />
This doesn’t just happen because you say it. You have to believe<br />
it. You have to apply your emotions. You have to really have fun<br />
with it. Change can be fun! (Wow, what a concept!)<br />
Remember, too, that this adjustment in perception isn’t about<br />
going from where you are at this moment, and then becoming<br />
an amazing person with pockets full <strong>of</strong> money, though it could<br />
be if you are Committed enough.
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It’s about coming home to who you Really are and allowing<br />
Your Magnificence without all the fog <strong>of</strong> everybody else’s<br />
limiting beliefs that you bought from them and chose to take<br />
on. Change is really about coming home to Your True Authentic<br />
Self. In essence, this isn’t about change at all! It’s about coming<br />
home to who you Really are…and this is an easy and gentle<br />
bridge to cross.<br />
Many people choose to sit in front <strong>of</strong> the TV feeling bad, eating<br />
whatever they’re eating, feeling uncomfortable, gaining weight,<br />
knowing they’re doing something wrong…this has become<br />
comfortable, they are in their Comfort Zone, on the s<strong>of</strong>a, in<br />
familiar territory; this is what they know.<br />
This is what you may know, the dynamic <strong>of</strong> the Comfort Zone…<br />
but the possibility now exists for you to feel genuine bliss,<br />
heart-felt gratitude and love for every moment for the rest<br />
<strong>of</strong> your life, knowing you are in total synchronicity with the<br />
Essence <strong>of</strong> who you truly are.<br />
The process <strong>of</strong> change is coming home to your Authentic Self,<br />
not the nightmare <strong>of</strong> unfamiliar circumstances and experiences<br />
most people believe and fear. It’s actually the source <strong>of</strong> more<br />
comfort than most people are currently experiencing in their<br />
lives.
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Flight in gold light.<br />
You deserve genuine bliss<br />
for every moment<br />
for the rest <strong>of</strong> your life.<br />
It’s about coming home to YOU.
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Aurora Borealis through the trees.<br />
I have made so much beauty<br />
for you to enjoy,<br />
And gave you eyes to see it<br />
So I may see My beauty<br />
through your eyes.
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Creating Change<br />
How do you create the change that brings you home to your<br />
Self?<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the ways is through Creative Visualization. There are<br />
many steps to the creative visualization process, so we’re going<br />
to discuss them right now. There are eight steps.<br />
1. Do creative visualizations (visualizing your desires or your<br />
dream life) in the first five minutes <strong>of</strong> the morning. As soon a<br />
you wake up, you want to set the energy <strong>of</strong> your day. By doing<br />
this, you will plant the pattern <strong>of</strong> interacting with the events <strong>of</strong><br />
your day before you are subject to distractions.<br />
2. Seat yourself in a comfortable position, feeling peace and<br />
contentment with what you have. In order to activate the Law<br />
<strong>of</strong> Attraction, you first have to be grateful for what exists in<br />
your life right now. Maybe things aren’t so great, but give<br />
thanks for what you Do have.
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Since we’re talking about money, be grateful that you have<br />
however many dollars in your wallet or purse; be grateful for all<br />
the money that you have ever received in your life, be grateful<br />
for whatever dollars there are in your checking or savings<br />
accounts; no matter how small your abundance may currently<br />
be, the only way you’re going to attract more is by being<br />
grateful for whatever it is that you now have.<br />
By focusing on what you’re grateful for having, you will<br />
magnetize more <strong>of</strong> it by placing positive energetic feeling<br />
around what you have.<br />
Like attracts like. When you like that which you like having, you<br />
will like having more to like! First…you have to like what you<br />
have, with emotion.<br />
3. Start with Gratitude.<br />
Visualize a huge Silver Screen in front <strong>of</strong> you; this is the screen<br />
<strong>of</strong> all your desires and dreams. It’s important to engage all your<br />
senses; your sense <strong>of</strong> sight, hearing, smell, touch, and a sense<br />
<strong>of</strong> excitement inside your gut. For example, I like the scent <strong>of</strong><br />
peppermint, so I have the scent <strong>of</strong> peppermint wafting through<br />
my room and into my nose. This makes me feel uplifted.
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“Acknowledging the good<br />
you already have in your life<br />
is the foundation for all abundance.”<br />
~ Eckhart Tolle ~
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Sunrise.
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4. Next, hear applause in your mind; people are acknowledging<br />
you for what you’ve done; so now you must hear applause for<br />
all the things you’ve done in your life, and for what you have.<br />
On your Silver Screen, see all the incredible projects and work<br />
you’ve done or are now doing, and see yourself being massively<br />
successful, and abundant with everything you do, see people<br />
clapping and acknowledging you.<br />
Really get into it! Remember, the Universe responds to energy,<br />
so the more energy you can put into this visualizing, the more<br />
energy you send out into the Universe, the more complete your<br />
vision is <strong>of</strong> that which you are transmitting, you will receive<br />
equal portion based on the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction and the Law <strong>of</strong><br />
Energy Matching.<br />
As your Fairy Godmother, I want to reinforce this very<br />
important truth: be grateful for what you have before you EVER<br />
Receive the next level <strong>of</strong> what you are desiring. If you’re not<br />
grateful for what you have, the bottom is out and you won’t<br />
Receive what you desire in the future, and this process won’t<br />
work.<br />
You must be grateful for what you have FIRST.
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For example, if you want to lose weight you must be grateful for<br />
your body the way it is now. If you have a vision <strong>of</strong> your home<br />
for the future, you must be grateful for the place you’re living in<br />
now. You must spend time developing your gratitude-muscles,<br />
focusing on specific things you’re grateful for.<br />
It doesn’t matter what you’re grateful for; most things we’re<br />
grateful for are mundane. Give some thought to what your life<br />
would be like if you didn’t have these items. Where would you<br />
sit? Where would you eat? What would you do if you didn’t<br />
have a refrigerator to keep your food fresh? What would your<br />
life be like without a washer or dryer?<br />
“Thank God for what does not need healing.”<br />
~Joan Borysenko<br />
Express gratitude for everything in your life that IS working!<br />
When was the last time you counted your blessings? How many<br />
blessings are there in your life? Some blessings are huge, like<br />
feeling love, or being healthy. Others are simple, but everything<br />
in your life is a gift and deserves your gratitude.
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“We have thousands <strong>of</strong> opportunities every day to<br />
be grateful:<br />
for having good weather,<br />
to have slept well last night,<br />
to be able to get up,<br />
to be healthy,<br />
to have enough to eat....<br />
There’s opportunity upon opportunity to be<br />
grateful;<br />
that’s what life is.”<br />
~ David Steindl-Rast ~
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Drying clay.
Drying wood.<br />
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Remember what Einstein said: “There are two ways to live<br />
your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as<br />
though everything is a miracle.” Given the topic <strong>of</strong> our present<br />
conversation, which way do you think works best for your life?<br />
Well, okay then! I’m grateful for the s<strong>of</strong>a, I’m grateful for my<br />
comfortable bed, I’m grateful for the privacy I have, I’m grateful<br />
that I’m warm, I’m grateful I have a house in which to live and<br />
food to eat!<br />
Start with expressing gratitude for all you now have. Then<br />
bring in the senses, every sense you can imagine. Using your<br />
tactile sense is important. Feel the smoothness <strong>of</strong> the desk,<br />
feel how solid it is, enjoy the working space that you are<br />
fortunate enough to have, be grateful for the opportunity to<br />
work on a flat surface that’s big enough, etc. “My desk is a place<br />
<strong>of</strong> productivity for me and I’m grateful I have a place to be<br />
creative and do my work.”<br />
5. Bring in your emotions. This is one <strong>of</strong> the most important<br />
pieces, right? Feel joyful! Feel grateful! Feel happy! Feel like<br />
1,000,000 bucks! Maybe you’re jumping up and down saying,<br />
“YES! YES! YES!” Whatever it is that’s so incredible in your<br />
life, you’re bringing in your emotions and you are really<br />
maximizing.
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those emotions! Remember the expression: “Go big (or go<br />
home)!”<br />
6. This is one <strong>of</strong> the first things they teach you in Fairy<br />
Godmother school, and it’s critically important. Here it<br />
is: totally let go and release the visualization with<br />
positive expectancy that it has already happened.<br />
As we said before, Neville Goddard advises us to<br />
“Assume the Feeling <strong>of</strong> the Wish Fulfilled.”<br />
This means you must FEEL that the wish is already<br />
achieved, it has already materialized and it’s here, Now, in<br />
the present tense. FEEL how excited you are about this!<br />
Your wish came true! You HAVE what you DESIRED!<br />
FEEL the joy <strong>of</strong> it already having happened. You HAVE to<br />
use this powerfully positive FEELING.<br />
In clearer terms: You placed the order. The order is in! The<br />
order is on its way! “YES!”
Wish fulfilled.<br />
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Did you see us when we were green?<br />
We said the magic words<br />
“This or Better”…<br />
And look what we became!<br />
Autumn leaves.
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And now you must add to this sentence: “This or something<br />
better.”<br />
This is a very important phrase when you’re working on<br />
manifesting. The reason you want to use this phrase is because<br />
if what you’re manifesting manipulates or involves another<br />
person, or somehow has any degree <strong>of</strong> negative energy attached<br />
to it, it will mess you up. So always specify “This or something<br />
better.”<br />
And that reminds me! When we say “this or something better”,<br />
you and I can’t think BIG enough to create what that “better”<br />
would be! It could be something amazing, something MORE<br />
than we ever imagined!<br />
For example, Imagine you have decided you want a new<br />
Volkswagen. You decide which model you want, what color,<br />
what additional benefits, add-ons.<br />
You have it all picked out and you say to the Universe,<br />
“Universe, I want a new Volkswagen with these features”, and<br />
you read your list to the Universe. The Universe says back<br />
to you, “A Volkswagen?” You say, “Yes, and the Volkswagen<br />
also has heated seats and is yellow.” The Universe says, “A
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Volkswagen?”, and you say, “Yes, and the Volkswagen also has<br />
a GPS in it.” The Universe says to you, “A Volkswagen?” and<br />
you say, “Yes, and I want black leather upholstery, too.”<br />
The Universe finally says to you, “Okay, I’ll send you a<br />
Volkswagen if you want, but I really wanted to send you a<br />
Mercedes!”<br />
You could be asking for a Volkswagen and are being “set up” by<br />
the Universe for a Mercedes. So, in no way limit your potential<br />
for the Universe’s magnanimous gifts!<br />
7. The next step is to say to yourself, “My life is getting better<br />
and better every day in every way.” You want to plant the<br />
seed in your mind, <strong>of</strong>ten, through your emotional body, and<br />
in your spiritual aura that your life is getting better and<br />
better all the time. When someone says, “How are you?”,<br />
instead <strong>of</strong> giving the stock answer, “Good,” you might want to<br />
say, “Life is great, and getting better every day!”<br />
Your friend may look at you in a funny way, but you must<br />
remember that you are now an Ambassador <strong>of</strong> Positive Energy,<br />
and your good vibrations will elevate you and everyone with<br />
whom you come in contact.
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Mariposa butterfly.<br />
“There is nothing in a caterpillar<br />
that tells you it’s going to be a butterfly.”<br />
~ Margaret Fuller ~
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Here’s another Fairy Godmother secret. The Universe always<br />
says, “Yes!” So make sure that whatever requests you give<br />
the Universe are worded so you will have an outcome that’s<br />
positive. Here’s an example. “Gosh, today is a beautiful day!”,<br />
and the Universe will affirm your feeling and say, “Yes!”<br />
Because you have a positive attitude, many wonderful things<br />
will happen to you since you’re open to experiencing the<br />
positive.<br />
But, if you should say, “Gosh, today is a crummy day!”, the<br />
Universe will still affirm your feeling and say, “Yes!”, and yo<br />
can probably expect to notice all the crummy things you would<br />
not have otherwise noticed.<br />
So, Dear One, remember to seed your energy with the<br />
expectation that everything is Getting Better All the Time!<br />
(Gee…that reminds me <strong>of</strong> a Beatles song…!)<br />
Summary<br />
Now that you have this information, the next thing to consider<br />
is that you have to take action. As generous as the Universe is,<br />
you still have to do something; you still have to take Action!
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Yes, the Universe moves in mysterious ways, but it all starts<br />
with You; you have to put forth both your intentions and your<br />
energy toward a goal, and the Universe will open the doors for<br />
you…but You have to start the energy moving.<br />
Once you have set your intention and know your goal, the next<br />
step is to work backwards from the outcome you expect. Make<br />
a list <strong>of</strong> all the steps that need to be completed so your goal<br />
is achieved. Once you have your list and you can see all the<br />
individual steps in sequence that will result in your success, you<br />
affirm that every day you will advance your progress by at least<br />
one baby step.<br />
What action can you take today<br />
toward attaining the outcome you desire?<br />
The Universe loves a “Demonstration” <strong>of</strong> your Commitment to<br />
your goals and desires. Your action, taking steps toward that<br />
goal, represents a Demonstration <strong>of</strong> your Commitment. You<br />
will sense inspiring hunches on actions to take. Follow your<br />
hunches if they come from your Inner Voice.<br />
It’s quite likely that your goal is substantial, and this process<br />
isn’t about achieving your goal in a day or two. However, what I
Do your eyes focus on the clouds or the sun?<br />
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want you to know is this process is about KNOWING (knowing<br />
is a type <strong>of</strong> “Assuming”) that you are going to achieve your goal,<br />
you are going to receive the gifts you desire from the Universe<br />
and you know that what you desire, or better, is coming.<br />
Remember, “Assume the Feeling <strong>of</strong> the Wish Fulfilled”, and<br />
then take the necessary steps, one at a time, that lead your life<br />
toward receiving the satisfaction <strong>of</strong> your intentions. Let your<br />
wish and intention go into the Universe, and then take the steps<br />
you need to assure its certain arrival.<br />
When you take these baby steps, continual small steps, every<br />
day towards what you desire, the Universe sees the power<br />
<strong>of</strong> your action toward your intention and FEELS the powerful<br />
positive emotion you’re using to achieve your intention<br />
every day. This is how you supercharge your energy and the<br />
Universe’s response toward achieving what you desire and<br />
attaining your dreams.<br />
This is how you will make your wishes materialize<br />
and come true.<br />
I’d like you to read the following information from Lisa Nichols,<br />
a transformational coach and a creative visualization expert.<br />
She’s written several excellent books that are listed in the<br />
resources section at the back <strong>of</strong> this book. Lisa developed a very
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concise tool that I believe you will find helpful. Here are her<br />
eight steps for creative visualization:<br />
Eight Steps for Creative Visualization 1 :<br />
1. Do Creative Visualization in the first five minutes <strong>of</strong><br />
the morning<br />
2. Visualize a giant Silver Screen<br />
3. Start with Gratitude for what you have<br />
4. Use all your senses<br />
5. Use your emotions<br />
6. Let go, and release the visualization with positive<br />
expectancy<br />
7. This or something Better is caused<br />
8. Take small steps, baby steps, toward your intention<br />
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Lisa Nichols, www.creativevisualization.com<br />
Remember, practice makes perpetual!<br />
A new habit takes about three weeks to become established, so<br />
think about how much better your life will feel in such a short<br />
time! (Start now, my Dear…)
Reflection on the lake.<br />
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We’ve already discussed that Filters are blocking you from<br />
knowing the truth, your truth.<br />
Did you experience an ideal childhood? Did your parents<br />
love you unconditionally? Did they support all the things you<br />
wanted to do? Did they provide their support even though you<br />
wanted to do very challenging things?<br />
Were you <strong>of</strong>ten sustained by your parents’ ability to listen<br />
deeply to what you wanted to do, and were they perceptive<br />
enough to understand who you truly were? If so, you’re part <strong>of</strong><br />
the 2% in the country. Hurray for you!<br />
Most people did not experience this type <strong>of</strong> childhood. Most<br />
people were raised and trained by parents or grandparents with<br />
strong judgements and biases on how life should be, and these<br />
adults wanted to raise a child to be a cookie-cutter version <strong>of</strong><br />
the parent, a chip <strong>of</strong>f the old block.<br />
As you know, the fruit does not fall far from the tree, and the<br />
fruit is imprinted with the expectations and limiting beliefs <strong>of</strong>
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the parents. To add insult to injury, many parents actually have<br />
the ancient parenting concept that “children should be seen and<br />
not heard” on top <strong>of</strong> this. It’s so much easier and comfortable to<br />
have their children be quiet and not get in the way.<br />
This attitude is still quite alive and well in our society…as<br />
amazing as it seems, and it is incredibly damaging.<br />
So few people are raised with the ideal childhood <strong>of</strong><br />
unconditional non-judgmental love. These lucky individuals<br />
received proactive parental listening, so, just for the sake <strong>of</strong><br />
conversation, let’s assume you’re not part <strong>of</strong> the 2% experience.<br />
Let’s further assume your parents loved you and did what they<br />
thought was best for you which was <strong>of</strong>ten best for them. Let’s<br />
also assume that what they knew about their child-raising was<br />
based on the way they had been raised, which is likely to have<br />
been dysfunctional.<br />
When you look at the way you were raised, and you think about<br />
how your parents must have been raised, I’ll bet you can see a<br />
clear connection between the generations that extend as far up<br />
the family tree you can go.
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The truth <strong>of</strong> the matter is that when they were raising you, they<br />
“don’t know what they don’t know”.<br />
We’re not going to judge your parents or society. Everyone<br />
does the very best they can. For our purposes, there’s very little<br />
reason to analyze the reasons why. Let’s accept it just is. This<br />
is the experience most people have, so it’s quite common and<br />
you’re in good company. We’re also not going to go back and lay<br />
a guilt trip on somebody because they weren’t the ideal way you<br />
would’ve liked them to be. This would only hurt them and you,<br />
and besides, forgiveness is one <strong>of</strong> the keys to success in your<br />
life. Forgiveness is emotional maturity!<br />
Rather, let’s look at this childhood upbringing <strong>of</strong> consistent and<br />
persistent judgement. It goes something like this: “Don’t do<br />
this, do that, you’re good, you’re bad, you can’t, you can, yes to<br />
what I say, no to what you want.” If any <strong>of</strong> this resonates at all,<br />
it’s valuable for you to observe, but not to judge. Remember,<br />
judgements only slow down the Flow.<br />
Basically, judgement is really only going to hurt you.<br />
Judgement blocks the Flow. It blocks the flow <strong>of</strong> everything,<br />
including the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> in your life. It clogs the<br />
Flow! Judgement only blocks the flow <strong>of</strong> what you desire and<br />
obstructs your receiving ability.
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Sandstone erosion.<br />
A fragile labyrinth <strong>of</strong> sand from<br />
the weavings <strong>of</strong> water and wind.
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Here’s a terrible example, because it’s such a good one: there<br />
are a lot <strong>of</strong> people who say they don’t want to be wealthy. I hear<br />
this all the time! “I don’t want to be wealthy.” And the people<br />
who say this say it like this is noble and honorable.<br />
Our culture has developed an attitude that it’s really a great<br />
thing to not want to be wealthy because being wealthy,<br />
according to a highly prevalent limiting belief, is that people<br />
who are wealthy are on an “Ego Trip”, like the celebrities you<br />
see in the news. People who say they don’t want wealth typically<br />
believe that wealthy people are greedy, lack compassion, are<br />
wasteful, etc.<br />
Because there is a predominant belief that wealthy people are<br />
like this, many non-wealthy people have a limiting belief like<br />
this: “I don’t want to be like the wealthy people I see; I don’t<br />
want to be that kind <strong>of</strong> person. This is what it means to be<br />
wealthy, so I don’t want to be.”<br />
Confusing the Universe<br />
Have we talked about the Inner Planes? Gosh, so silly <strong>of</strong> me!<br />
These are the Universe’s zones <strong>of</strong> manifestation, composed <strong>of</strong><br />
energy waves…like everything else. In Fairy Godmother school,<br />
we’re taught how to move energy to manifest what we wish…
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Lily pads.<br />
You have seen us by the thousands<br />
But never once from down below,<br />
So we remain as unfamiliar to you<br />
As the far side <strong>of</strong> the moon…
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Rocks smoothed by the sea.<br />
Polished by the sea,<br />
the rocks lie smooth upon the shore;<br />
Polished by the rocks,<br />
the sea explores for more…
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with it, we can transform a pumpkin into a princess’s carriage<br />
(“Bippity boppity boo!”)…and help you create material magic<br />
in your life, too. The word “magic” generally means having wise<br />
power. That’s what you are now learning here!<br />
So, get this: when people state this limiting belief to themselves,<br />
“I don’t want to be wealthy because…”, it looks like this on the<br />
Inner Planes:<br />
Right now, put your hands up in the air in front <strong>of</strong> you; one<br />
hand to the right and the other to the left <strong>of</strong> your head and<br />
about a foot in front <strong>of</strong> you. Now, push both <strong>of</strong> your hands<br />
forward about a foot and bring them back to where you had<br />
them. Do this again and again (it looks like you are doing pushups<br />
in front <strong>of</strong> you in the air); push your hands forward and<br />
bring them back…and do it once more.<br />
This is what you’re doing when you say, “I don’t want to be<br />
wealthy because…” You may not even be aware <strong>of</strong> what the<br />
“because” is…but for some reason, being wealthy has become<br />
a judgement with you. This limiting belief is metaphorically<br />
pushing away all the money you deserve because your<br />
subconscious and conscious messages are telling you that being<br />
wealthy is bad.
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This bias prevents you from being wealthy. You’re saying,<br />
“No”, “No”, “No”. I don’t want money (while metaphorically<br />
pushing away your money).” Yet, since you’re reading this<br />
book, it’s evident that you do want financial freedom, which,<br />
by definition, indicates a desire for wealth or some new<br />
<strong>Abundance</strong>.<br />
Until you work through this dilemma between what you say<br />
you want, and what you say you don’t want, you’re going to get<br />
nowhere with this! (Fairy Godmothers don’t get migraines…but<br />
you can see why we might!)<br />
You may be unconscious <strong>of</strong> having this limiting belief, but<br />
that’s okay because the information you’re reading will help you<br />
eliminate these restraining thoughts and beliefs.<br />
Here is the dynamic you’re experiencing: On the one hand,<br />
you’re saying, “No, no, no, it’s not okay to have money.” On the<br />
other hand you’re saying, “I want to have all my bills paid, and<br />
like to be out <strong>of</strong> debt, I’d like to be financially free, I DO want<br />
money.” These two ideas are, obviously, Mutually Exclusive<br />
Beliefs; and these two beliefs are competing with each other.
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“We are here to awaken<br />
from our illusion<br />
<strong>of</strong> separateness.”<br />
~ Thich Nhat Hanh ~
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Find Me in the Sky <strong>of</strong> Your Heart…<br />
Sun among the branches.
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When this happens, you confuse the Universe. Remember,<br />
the Universe always says “Yes!” In this situation, you have the<br />
Universe saying “Yes!” to both your accelerator and your brake!<br />
You’re revving the engine but your car is motionless.<br />
When you have mutually exclusive thoughts, they cancel each<br />
other out and nothing happens. No movement, or only spurts <strong>of</strong><br />
movement but no consistent movement. This kind <strong>of</strong> dynamic<br />
is running in most people’s heads, usually because as a child the<br />
seed was put in their mind that people with money are greedy,<br />
people who are wealthy are bad, and it’s okay not to have<br />
money.<br />
No abundance can ever come to you with<br />
this pair <strong>of</strong> Mutually Exclusive Beliefs.<br />
Then there’s that statement, “What do you think, we’re made<br />
<strong>of</strong> money?” I love that one! It’s one <strong>of</strong> my favorites. Isn’t this<br />
the most amazing judgement when a child asks if he or she can<br />
have money for a bike, or some toy?<br />
One option among the 2% <strong>of</strong> the nurturing, unconditionally<br />
loving parents would be “How can I support you to have that?”
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Purple water lilies.<br />
Like you, we seek the Light…
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Let’s take a little diversion here. Many wealthy people teach<br />
their children, in a supportive way, how to work toward a goal<br />
such as buying a bicycle. The parent could easily afford the<br />
bike, but the parent is making a decision to teach their child<br />
a lesson that will be useful in life. “Let’s teach our child a life<br />
skill!”<br />
The parent proposes something like this, “When you clean your<br />
room every day, you get $1.00. When you clean your room<br />
every day for 60 days, you’ll have $60 and can buy the bike!”<br />
The parent will match the $60 and the child can purchase a<br />
$100 bike. (Remember the tax!)<br />
This way the child realizes the value <strong>of</strong> working for something,<br />
and the child also learns that he or she can have everything<br />
he or she dreams <strong>of</strong> having if they save, for example, or find a<br />
supported method to achieve their desires. All it takes is being<br />
willing to become creative and find ways to make a situation<br />
work. The child also learns how to negotiate, in this case with<br />
the parent.<br />
In a healthy family, the child comes to the parent with their<br />
dream, and the parent <strong>of</strong>fers support and possibilities, and<br />
fosters the child’s creativity to learn how it would be possible<br />
to have the dream materialize. These are wealthy people,
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Take your inspiration from the sky,<br />
From the clouds and the dawn…<br />
Hear your news from the birds,<br />
And warm your heart<br />
from the Light within.<br />
Sky at dawn.
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and there is no ego or greed at play; I see their mental and<br />
emotional openness, creating possibilities through nurturing<br />
and support.<br />
What, Me Worry?<br />
Many people also have a limiting belief that people who are<br />
poor or middle class are noble because supposedly “they don’t<br />
focus on money”, and are better people because supposedly<br />
money is a lesser interest. Actually, the reverse is true. People<br />
who are struggling with a lack <strong>of</strong> abundance are the ones who<br />
think about money a lot more than wealthy people!<br />
Are you surprised?<br />
People who are not wealthy are usually thinking about how they<br />
are going to eat, how they’re going to pay their rent, how they<br />
are going to make their car payment and buy enough gas until<br />
the next paycheck comes. A monstrous amount <strong>of</strong> time is spent<br />
on thinking about lack, focusing on what they do NOT have,<br />
and how they can pay their credit card debt.<br />
These people worry about the lack <strong>of</strong> money all the time, which<br />
is a block on their consciousness around money. They spend
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much <strong>of</strong> their waking hours thinking about money and the lack<br />
<strong>of</strong> it.<br />
Wealthy people have a whole different attitude about<br />
abundance. This is a big generalization, but most wealthy<br />
people will tell you, if you ask them, that they go out to make<br />
their money doing whatever they do, and then they go out and<br />
play.<br />
When you think about it, it makes sense.<br />
Remember how the Universe works. The more you think about<br />
lack, the more lack you will attract. Lack attracts lack. (That’s<br />
a new turn on “like attracts like”!) When you’re not focused<br />
on lack, you can have fun and go out and play. A lot <strong>of</strong> good<br />
deals are made on the golf course because everyone is out there<br />
playing and having a great time; the creative juices are flowing<br />
and the mind is free to flow with creative ideas.<br />
Your other choice is to spend an incredible amount <strong>of</strong> time<br />
worrying about money, worrying about eating, worrying<br />
about paying your rent or mortgage and the seemingly endless<br />
number <strong>of</strong> bills… Though you now know that this constant<br />
worrying is a perfect way to block the Flow.
Mountain bird.<br />
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Midnight moon.<br />
I am always full<br />
Even when I appear to be less.
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So there are two different points <strong>of</strong> view. Wealthy people are<br />
actually healthier with their attitudes toward money because<br />
they are not blocking the Flow with incessant thoughts <strong>of</strong> lack<br />
and what’s not working financially. They are going to have more<br />
because their connection to the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> is open.<br />
However, when you’re worrying about money, you’re blocking<br />
the Flow.<br />
If you’re worrying about income, you’re blocking the Flow.<br />
If you’re not having a lot <strong>of</strong> fun, you’re probably blocking<br />
the Flow, too. Your non-life enhancing thoughts <strong>of</strong> lack are<br />
creating a huge clog in the flow <strong>of</strong> your money. This filter<br />
has to be removed. I can do that for you because I’m your<br />
Fairy Godmother, and we can do this quickly and not have<br />
to delay your abundance for 10 or 20 years.<br />
How True for You?<br />
Here is another secret I can share with you as your Fairy<br />
Godmother. This is a major concept most people don’t realize is<br />
part <strong>of</strong> their core makeup, and it’s surprising because once you<br />
recognize it consciously, you may see how integral it is to the<br />
way you have been living your life.
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“Be humble<br />
for you are made <strong>of</strong> Earth.<br />
Be noble<br />
for you are made <strong>of</strong> stars.”<br />
~ Serbian Proverb ~
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A few moments ago I was talking about the normal childhood<br />
most people experience. There is a constant flow <strong>of</strong>, “No, no,<br />
no, don’t, do it my way,” and in your early childhood, under the<br />
age <strong>of</strong> six, you cannot know what your parents are thinking, so<br />
you have to guess and sometimes walk on eggshells to peopleplease.<br />
As a child, you try to please your parents because it’s the only<br />
life you know, even if it’s totally dysfunctional and violent.<br />
Because you, as a child, are dependent on your parents, and<br />
this is all you know; you love them even if you don’t like them.<br />
Meanwhile all these limiting beliefs are being indoctrinated into<br />
your subconscious, and all these blocks and plugs and obstacles<br />
to the Universal Flow are building and separating you from the<br />
flow <strong>of</strong> energy to which you are divinely entitled.<br />
Obviously, this is especially devastating because a lot <strong>of</strong> thought<br />
patterns and values were imposed on you that were not organic<br />
to who you Really are. Again, we don’t want to judge your<br />
parents because they were doing the best they knew how to do,<br />
and at the time, their abilities were limited because “they don’t<br />
know what they don’t know”.<br />
So, when you were a child and constantly heard the many no,<br />
no, no’s, how can you know what “yes” is? You don’t know how
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to stay open to the Flow, so the flow becomes blocked and you<br />
become dysfunctional. Children grow up and become adults<br />
and we don’t even realize we are being obedient to patterns<br />
installed by our parents we don’t even remember we have.<br />
We don’t even know what these patterns are because they’re<br />
so unconscious. We don’t know what the no-s were, and we’re<br />
not even sure what the yes-es would be…so it’s a very confusing<br />
situation when you’ve grown up in a dysfunctional situation<br />
with limiting beliefs. With this kind <strong>of</strong> childhood background,<br />
which is common to millions <strong>of</strong> people, the adult assumes the<br />
following limiting core belief:<br />
“I’m Not Worthy.”<br />
This core belief is a giant block for anyone attempting to attain<br />
a successful and financially free lifestyle.<br />
If someone hears “No! No! No!” all the time, they will be<br />
second-guessing themselves all the time trying to find the “Yes”.<br />
Another problem here is that in their subconscious, there is<br />
a predominant “no” thought-pattern running in their mind<br />
all the time. They may or may not be aware <strong>of</strong> it, and yet it’s<br />
constantly there, as an umbrella comment over the person’s
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A fish with wings.<br />
If a fish can have wings,<br />
I am open to all sorts<br />
<strong>of</strong> magical things!
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Calm summer night.<br />
Why choose only half the sky,<br />
half the beauty?<br />
Why choose less than you deserve,<br />
less than you truly are?
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entire life, “I’m not worthy, I’m not worthy, I’m not worthy, I’m<br />
not worthy, I’m not worthy…” You can see how much harm this<br />
can do.<br />
When someone is running this program, and I think most<br />
people are, the belief system inside them is constantly telling<br />
them it’s impossible to live a life believing they are deserving<br />
to receive. Once again, this is a situation where two mutually<br />
exclusive ideas are in competition and neutralizing each other.<br />
Accelerator and brake…<br />
When you consciously desire to Receive and say to yourself,<br />
“Gee, this would be great! I’d be happy to have all these<br />
wonderful things, and be a joyful and open channel receiving<br />
the Flow <strong>of</strong> the Universe!” but you are also subconsciously<br />
programmed to expect lack and scarcity along with the message<br />
that “I’m NOT Worthy”, the stronger belief really is that you<br />
are not worthy. It’s programmed so deeply that you need to<br />
exorcise it with the assistance <strong>of</strong> a competent Fairy Godmother,<br />
like me!<br />
These two Mutually Exclusive and conflicting thought patterns<br />
are fighting each other and they cancel each other out, but the<br />
one which is dominant is the one that was programmed before<br />
the age <strong>of</strong> six. “I’m not worthy” wins the day (ugh). This is most
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My winter flow is cold and stiff,<br />
My summer flow is warm and swift…<br />
Winter river.
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people’s primary core belief, and it’s the main reason why most<br />
people never attain Financial Freedom. They believe they are<br />
not worthy to receive, and if they believe unconsciously that<br />
they are unworthy to receive, they will not receive any <strong>of</strong> the<br />
things they want except, possibly, sporadically, but not any <strong>of</strong><br />
the things they deeply and richly desire and deserve.<br />
This is really big news for a lot <strong>of</strong> people. Is this big news for<br />
you?<br />
“I’m not worthy” is running most people on the planet. Because<br />
it may be true for you, just notice it, just observe it. It’s really<br />
important you don’t move into judgement here, or you’ll<br />
continue to embed “I’m not worthy” into the future.<br />
Look at this situation as an observer. “Oh, I see. This is what I<br />
believe; I feel that I’m not worthy.”<br />
Don’t make it good or bad, right or wrong, and stay out <strong>of</strong> the<br />
judgement.
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Check your solar plexus, and make sure the “I’m not worthy”<br />
statement has no charge there, no yucky angst, no feelings <strong>of</strong><br />
lack. You are DONE with it.<br />
Just “Oh, I see (use the past tense), I’ve been run by “I’m not<br />
worthy.” Good information! (You are now “just observing”, not<br />
judging that you think this is so.)<br />
Remember that it isn’t important to spend time and energy<br />
trying to understand anything. This is critically important! Do<br />
not spend time thinking about “WHY” or “HOW” this happened<br />
or “WHERE it came from” or question anything about this<br />
belief. Thinking isn’t always all it’s cracked up to be, and could<br />
keep you tied up in a therapist’s chair for years.<br />
Although I’m giving you “brain candy” so you can know, it’s not<br />
really important at all. Understanding is never part <strong>of</strong> what is<br />
needed to transcend a pattern because it keeps your mind tied<br />
up. This is how therapy works; many types <strong>of</strong> existential selfreflective<br />
methods include having to understand.<br />
That is not a part <strong>of</strong> my Fairy Godmother process. I do things<br />
much more rapidly and with a whole different toolkit. I’ll<br />
explain this in more detail at a later time, maybe in the next<br />
book.
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“In the depth <strong>of</strong> winter,<br />
I finally learned<br />
that within me there lay<br />
an invincible summer.”<br />
~ Albert Camus ~
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Sailing into the light.<br />
Set your sails to catch the nearest winds,<br />
Then set your course for the farthest stars.
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For now, what really is important is to realize the great Aha!<br />
“Ah! I’m run by “I’m not worthy”. How interesting!”<br />
As I mentioned before, most people will consume 10 or 20 years<br />
thrashing around in their victimhood, thinking, “Oh, so I think<br />
I’m not worthy!” Then the ego-brain will kick in and there will<br />
be further reflections, such as, “Why do I think I’m not worthy?<br />
What’s going on?”, thinking that’s how they’re going to change<br />
their situation. But they are not going to get very far.<br />
Einstein was correct when he said, “We can’t solve problems<br />
by using the same kind <strong>of</strong> thinking we used when we created<br />
them.” Exploring your mind for the answer is not going to help<br />
you get the answer because “you can’t get there from here”.<br />
The answers you seek come from seeing the issue, seeing the<br />
dance that was created in the past and that is still being danced<br />
today, and then having a Commitment to have that dance<br />
transcend.<br />
This next part is really important. The main message is that<br />
nothing happens without Commitment. Here is one <strong>of</strong> my most<br />
favorite quotes; I read it all the time and I carry it around with<br />
me so I can read it whenever I wish, to others.
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“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw<br />
back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts <strong>of</strong> initiative<br />
(and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance<br />
<strong>of</strong> which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the<br />
moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves<br />
too. All sorts <strong>of</strong> things occur to help one that would never<br />
otherwise have occurred. A whole stream <strong>of</strong> events issue from<br />
the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner <strong>of</strong> unforeseen<br />
incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man<br />
could have dreamed would have come his way. I have learned a<br />
deep respect for one <strong>of</strong> Goethe’s couplets: Whatever you can do,<br />
or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and<br />
magic in it.”<br />
~ William Hutchison Murray,<br />
the Scottish Himalayan Expedition.<br />
This says that Commitment is where change truly begins. The<br />
first step is Realization; the second step is your Commitment<br />
to making the shift. I want you to know that Commitment is<br />
everything. Without commitment to having your belief system<br />
<strong>of</strong> “I’m not worthy” change, it will never change. It must be
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Hills in the morning mist.<br />
The world slumbers in its cozy dawn<br />
Awaiting the Will <strong>of</strong> your Commitment.
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a total Commitment, a total letting go…there is no half-way<br />
Commitment to success.<br />
To manifest the level <strong>of</strong> change you want in your life, your<br />
complete and total Surrender (the word that most people love<br />
to hate) to the Commitment <strong>of</strong> releasing “I’m not worthy” from<br />
your Being is absolutely necessary to having that happen.<br />
I want you to ask yourself if you are really comfortable with<br />
the way your life is now. Are you ready and willing to have the<br />
change it takes? If so, you must make the Huge Commitment<br />
required to have “I am not worthy” shift to “I am worthy!”<br />
To have this shift, You must live in that frequency, live with<br />
that vibration…or would you rather stay in your drama, in your<br />
Comfort Zone? Are you now willing to have the “Great Aha!”<br />
by making the Commitment and allowing the transformation<br />
to take over your life so you’re finally set free to move into<br />
financial freedom.<br />
What’s your choice going to be?<br />
Comfort Zone or Financial Freedom?
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If your answer is Financial Freedom, then you must be totally<br />
committed, 100%, to the release <strong>of</strong> “I’m not worthy” forever. If<br />
you are, let’s do it NOW. Notice I didn’t say let’s talk about it for<br />
20 years or let’s go see a therapist… Let’s do it NOW.<br />
Let’s release this right NOW.<br />
What this is going to take, and please don’t do this yet, is a fully<br />
committed, emphatic, and powerful, “YES!” Your verbalization<br />
<strong>of</strong> your commitment doesn’t have to be loud, but it has to have<br />
strong emotional feeling. You have to put your heart into this!<br />
Coincidentally, as I’m writing these words, the sun just started<br />
shining outside my window, and there is a beautiful rainbow!<br />
This is a possibility <strong>of</strong> what a committed “YES!” looks like! The<br />
sun <strong>of</strong> your Faith and Magnificent Being breaks through the<br />
darkness <strong>of</strong> the belief <strong>of</strong> “I’m not worthy” and all <strong>of</strong> a sudden<br />
everything is changed! This is the New Now, and this is what<br />
we’re moving toward.<br />
So, at this point, I’m going to create a clearing for you that will<br />
go through to you by your reading the words on this page… I<br />
am now going to create the energetics involved and have this<br />
transform right now. Are you ready? If you’re not Committed to
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I Am Ready Now!
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having this change, don’t do this exercise. Wait until you ARE<br />
ready.<br />
Don’t tell yourself you’re going to do it and you’re ready and<br />
you’re not. Make sure you’re ready, because there will be an<br />
immediate change here.<br />
I’m going to say some words. I need, from you, an emphatic<br />
“Yes!” and then the shift will happen, and we’ll need the<br />
Silence; you’ll need to stay in silence for 2 – 3 minutes. Do<br />
not break the silence, do not engage your brain, just allow the<br />
silence…allow the magic to happen.<br />
So here comes the big question, and we are moving into the<br />
process now:<br />
Remember, skip this section if you’re not ready… You can come<br />
back to it another time when you think you’re ready.<br />
Here goes:<br />
“Are you willing to complete/be done with the belief system <strong>of</strong><br />
“I’m not worthy” on all levels and dimensions and move this to<br />
“I am worthy!”, and I’m going to need an emphatic Committed
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“YES!” from you, NOW!<br />
(Say YES!)<br />
(Silence…)<br />
(After two minutes, you can bring<br />
your Self back to this Moment.)<br />
Thank you.<br />
How do you feel?<br />
The sun is out and shining and the clouds are going away.<br />
You have just set your Self Free. Go out and celebrate!<br />
When the sun broke through and the rainbow appeared…<br />
I’m telling you, that was phenomenal. That was really God<br />
speaking.
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You can call this a purple amethyst or a thermodynamic<br />
crystalline form with a 400-424 wavelength.
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“Laughter is the sun<br />
that drives winter<br />
from the human face.”<br />
~Victor Hugo~
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This chapter <strong>of</strong>fers you another significant Fairy Godmother<br />
secret. This secret may seem rather benign at first, but don’t let<br />
something so simple escape your serious attention.<br />
Another one <strong>of</strong> the secrets about the way the Universe operates<br />
is knowing how important it is to express gratitude. Not just<br />
an occasional “thank you” about an occasional this or that, but<br />
Gratitude all the time for everything that’s in your life right<br />
now.<br />
Often, when I introduce this subject with clients, they say to<br />
me, “I’m always giving gratitude, I Know about that.” However,<br />
what I want to address here is a deeper moment-by-moment<br />
use and acknowledgement <strong>of</strong> Gratitude for everything.<br />
Do you remember that time when you were driving your car<br />
on the highway, and all <strong>of</strong> a sudden you saw the flashing red<br />
and blue lights in your rearview mirror? A policeman on a<br />
motorcycle, or perhaps it was an <strong>of</strong>ficer in a squad car, pulled<br />
you over and you sat there on the shoulder <strong>of</strong> the road waiting<br />
for the inevitable.
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Yes, you were going too fast. You had been lost in thought and<br />
not paying attention, and the traffic cop has verifiable pro<strong>of</strong><br />
with his radar gun that you were speeding. Do you also<br />
remember the hundreds <strong>of</strong> thoughts that flooded your mind at<br />
that moment?<br />
Guilt for wrongdoing, fear about the cost <strong>of</strong> the fine, some<br />
anger for being so unconscious, relief that nobody was hurt,<br />
concern about telling your husband or your wife, reflection on<br />
how your insurance rates were probably going to go up…<br />
Then the <strong>of</strong>ficer appeared at your car window and asked for<br />
your papers in a very perfunctory and <strong>of</strong>ficial manner. Yo knew,<br />
and he knew, that you were caught red-handed. You watched<br />
the <strong>of</strong>ficer go back to his or her vehicle, call in you license plate<br />
and check on your background, and then after a few moments<br />
you saw the <strong>of</strong>ficer returning to speak to you.<br />
You sat there, waiting for the bad news. What does a speeding<br />
ticket cost these days? $300? $350? That was money you<br />
wanted to use for something else, and now it was going to be<br />
wasted on paying for a needless speeding ticket, and you would<br />
also have a black mark on your driving record!
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Ocean storm.<br />
Life’s storms will come,<br />
and come again…<br />
Shelter within the Strength<br />
and Goodness that is You.
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Flood <strong>of</strong> light.<br />
“May the sun bring you new energy by day;<br />
may the moon s<strong>of</strong>tly restore you by night;<br />
may the rain wash away your worries;<br />
may the breeze blow new strength<br />
into your being.”<br />
~ Apache Blessing ~
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The <strong>of</strong>ficer returned your papers and asked you if you knew<br />
how fast you were going. You weren’t sure, but you knew it was<br />
excessive for the speed limit. You were thinking this would be a<br />
preliminary discussion before he or she laid it on you.<br />
Of course, you were acquiescent in your guilt, and you were<br />
waiting for the other shoe to drop. In the conversation, you<br />
acknowledged you were going too fast and you expressed your<br />
remorse. The <strong>of</strong>ficer listened to what you had to say and the<br />
told you, “You have a good driving record, so I’m going to let<br />
you <strong>of</strong>f with a warning this time.<br />
Do you remember the flood <strong>of</strong> relief, the amazing sensation <strong>of</strong><br />
Gratitude that suddenly filled your entire emotional body, the<br />
ecstatic thoughts that went through your mind, the release <strong>of</strong><br />
all the physical anxiety you’d been holding until that moment?<br />
This is the level <strong>of</strong> feelingness that works for you when you<br />
commit to deeply and truly expressing your gratitude for all the<br />
amazing and magnificent people, events and things in your life.<br />
It’s ridiculous how much we accept as normal in our everyday<br />
lives. You open your refrigerator and there’s fresh food inside.<br />
That’s a miracle. You go into the bathroom and there’s a toilet,
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a shower, and flowing water in the sink. That’s a miracle. You<br />
go into your bedroom and there’s a closet full <strong>of</strong> clothes, a warm<br />
bed with blankets and a pillow. That’s a miracle. You sit on your<br />
couch and watch TV, which is a composite <strong>of</strong> colorful electrons<br />
moving on a screen. That’s a miracle.<br />
Have you ever actually and consciously made a list <strong>of</strong> all the<br />
things in your life you’re grateful for having? Probably not, and<br />
it would be a wonderful thing to do…today! How many things<br />
would you be grateful for if you counted them up? 100? 200? An<br />
infinite number <strong>of</strong> things.<br />
Are you grateful for your teeth so you can chew your food?<br />
Are you grateful for the blood in your veins carrying oxygen<br />
and nutrients? Are you grateful for a pen and paper? Are<br />
you grateful for the ability to write words, use vocabulary,<br />
communicate with others? How about the miracle <strong>of</strong> electricity?<br />
And, moving away from the mundane, are you grateful for the<br />
love in your life, for the friends that are here for you, for the<br />
love you feel inside you and the love you’re able to give others?<br />
Once you start making this list, and you should, you’ll be<br />
amazed at all the things you take for granted that currently fill<br />
your life with tremendous abundance.
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“We would give anything<br />
for what we have.”<br />
~ Tony Hoagland ~
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Remember the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction…that like attracts like and<br />
lack attracts lack. The best way to acquire more money and<br />
more abundance is by being grateful for the money and the<br />
abundance that you now have and have ever received.<br />
Even if all you have is a little, being grateful for it sends the<br />
message to the Universe that you like it, and through the<br />
magnetizing effect <strong>of</strong> empowering your feelings and emotions,<br />
liking what you have will bring more <strong>of</strong> what you have.<br />
Remember also that the Universe always says “Yes!” The<br />
Universe likes to send you more <strong>of</strong> what you tell the Universe<br />
you like.<br />
Being grateful for the money you have will generate more<br />
<strong>of</strong> it. You have to genuinely be grateful for the money you<br />
have; it doesn’t matter how much or little you have, because<br />
the Universe responds to gratefulness. Remember also, that<br />
the most powerful message is “I love you,” and “Thank you”.<br />
Earnestly saying thank you for what you have and want more <strong>of</strong><br />
WILL generate more <strong>of</strong> the same.<br />
When you think about what you want and not what you have,<br />
the Universe will not fulfill your request because you are not<br />
properly using the Law <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong>. The Universe does not
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By the sea.<br />
“In ordinary life<br />
we hardly realize that we receive<br />
a great deal more than we give,<br />
and that it is only with gratitude<br />
that life becomes rich.”<br />
~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer ~
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respond to wants, but it does respond to Gratitude. The proper<br />
pathway is being grateful for what you have.<br />
Getting It Right<br />
First, people are not typically grateful for the money they’ve<br />
received. When money comes in, people are seldom grateful<br />
and don’t celebrate the event.<br />
Second, when money arrives, people usually think it’s not<br />
enough for what they need.<br />
Third, people usually don’t create a conscious enthusiastic<br />
feeling, and pair it with a visualization <strong>of</strong> more money coming<br />
in the future.<br />
Fourth, there is the ongoing worry about money, which is<br />
the opposite <strong>of</strong> gratitude; this is the fear that there won’t be<br />
enough, which sends out victimization messages, or “Please<br />
send me more to complain about” messages...<br />
Another essential piece to this manifestation <strong>of</strong> abundance is<br />
letting the Universe know exactly what you want. It’s like your
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Sunlight sparkling among the trees.
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A pearl <strong>of</strong> crystal dew.<br />
This crystal ball reveals to you<br />
The changes you are now<br />
going through.
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child coming to you and saying, “I want a toy, please.” As the<br />
parent, you probably want to satisfy your child’s request…but<br />
what kind <strong>of</strong> toy? A doll or truck? Okay, what color, what size,<br />
what is it made <strong>of</strong>, are there accessories? Telling the Universe<br />
that you want money isn’t sufficient. If you haven’t made<br />
decision about what you want or where you’re going, how can<br />
you ever get there?<br />
Making a list <strong>of</strong> what you want, no matter how extravagant<br />
or extraordinary, is an important step in materializing your<br />
request.<br />
When it comes to money, how much do you want annually?<br />
Remember to add, “this or better”. Visualize receiving this<br />
amount <strong>of</strong> money. Invent the circumstances such as holding<br />
and seeing the money in your hands, feeling the texture <strong>of</strong> the<br />
bills or the check, hearing the excitement <strong>of</strong> your family and<br />
friends, etc. Engage all your senses.<br />
Remember to also feel that deep gratitude, the kind <strong>of</strong> gratitude<br />
you felt when the police <strong>of</strong>ficer declined to give you a speeding<br />
ticket, and say “Thank you!” You must be grateful for this gift<br />
being true right now. It’s imperative that you follow Neville<br />
Goddard’s wise advice <strong>of</strong> “Assume the Feeling <strong>of</strong> the Wish<br />
Fulfilled.” This is massively powerful.
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“Whoever gives thanks<br />
for all circumstances<br />
receives new eyes and discovers<br />
things never seen before.”<br />
~ Otto Betz ~
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Extend your gratefulness by being grateful every moment for<br />
everything! Be grateful for all the money you’ve ever received in<br />
your whole life…<br />
When you do this, you’re acknowledging the gifts that have<br />
been given to you and creating a strong vibration for everything<br />
that has happened in the past which you’ve neglected to<br />
acknowledge. The frequency <strong>of</strong> ungratefulness is embedded in<br />
the past, and you can change that energy by now being grateful<br />
for all the money you’ve received in your life.<br />
By being grateful for all the money you’ve received in the past,<br />
and now being grateful in the Present, you can also be grateful<br />
for money you’re receiving in the future which already exists.<br />
You’ve already received the money; now you are being grateful<br />
for that which is already on its way to you.<br />
You are in the Present being grateful for what you are receiving<br />
in the future…which you are feeling you have already received.<br />
Here’s how that looks: “I am grateful for my Financial Freedom.<br />
I am grateful for making $100,000 a year. This or better.”
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In The Flow.
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Remember that when you visualize, let go <strong>of</strong> it. Set it free.<br />
There is no need to hold onto it. That’s part <strong>of</strong> the let go, let<br />
God energy. This is very important as the last step with every<br />
creation. My Fairy Godmother pr<strong>of</strong>essor told me so!<br />
You are a creator. You are manifesting the feeling-energy that<br />
materializes molecules in the shape in which you want them.<br />
You are, and all <strong>of</strong> us are, Masters <strong>of</strong> space and time. The thing<br />
is, most people have forgotten who they Really are, and have<br />
chosen to live lives based on limiting beliefs because they do<br />
not know what they do not know in this incarnation. But you<br />
can thank your lucky stars that you have a Fairy Godmother to<br />
remind you and help you!<br />
Another important reminder is that money is energy flow.<br />
When you have a good relationship with money and feel happy<br />
and excited about money, money will work for you. If your<br />
relationship with money is based on fear and worry, or the<br />
unconscious limiting beliefs we discussed, money will not flow<br />
with you or to you.<br />
For most people, money is the biggest “Game”. People spend<br />
more time thinking and dreaming about money than they do<br />
about sex! Know though, that Money is simply the Result or<br />
Byproduct or Effect <strong>of</strong> your attitude about it. When you send
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out a supportive, joyful energy stream about money, and you’re<br />
expressing gratitude, you will not be able to keep money away.<br />
It will come running up to you like a happy puppy dog!<br />
Once your limiting beliefs have been discarded, the key to<br />
abundance is Energized Gratefulness.<br />
Visualize the amount you’re desiring to receive, thinking in<br />
your head “This or better”, and then let go <strong>of</strong> the amount. Do<br />
this three times a day. See it, know it, feel it, visualize it in your<br />
hand, close your eyes and see yourself receiving it, Hear people<br />
saying, “Oh! Look at that check for $100,000!” Bring in all your<br />
senses while you’re expressing your gratitude.<br />
Be open to where the money comes from, and don’t expect it<br />
to come from any specific person, place or situation. Money<br />
is not your supply; it’s the energy behind money that is your<br />
True Supply. It’s not your husband, or your family… It’s not the<br />
lottery, or finding $1 million in a suitcase. It’s the Energy.<br />
By putting a person, place or a situation into your thoughts<br />
as the Supply or Cause <strong>of</strong> Money, you are denying the True<br />
Source <strong>of</strong> your <strong>Abundance</strong>…your Higher Power/God/Universe<br />
(whatever you call It).
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An abundant dawn.<br />
A golden glow<br />
upon the happy lips <strong>of</strong> dawn<br />
Warms my heart<br />
and stretches my love<br />
for this new day.
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Lush heart-shaped leaves.<br />
“It is only with the heart<br />
that one can see rightly;<br />
what is essential<br />
is invisible to the eye.”<br />
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery ~
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You are limiting the very flow <strong>of</strong> where the money CAN come<br />
from. Nor does the amount need to be as small as the amount<br />
you’re thinking. You’d be closing the valve <strong>of</strong> receiving when<br />
you say that the money must come from this or that person,<br />
place or situation.<br />
When you say it has to come from my spouse or from the lottery<br />
or some other illusory source, you’re limiting the opportunity<br />
for the Flow to happen at all, and actually blocking the Flow!<br />
Having the faulty belief that everything will be Wonderful and<br />
“fixed” if I Win the Lottery is a focus on the Lottery and Money<br />
as the Cause that will make your life Better, which it isn’t.<br />
This becomes another limiting belief, you see. You are limiting<br />
the flow <strong>of</strong> Where your <strong>Abundance</strong> comes from and your ability<br />
to receive. This is why you say “this or better” and let go, let<br />
God, so the energy you’ve created can work through its own<br />
devices and means.<br />
This way, more can come, and from places you could never<br />
imagine, sources beyond your wildest dreams, and as a total<br />
surprise to you. Checks in the mail. Unexpected refunds. New<br />
business from an unconsidered source. We’re talking about the
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Magical Universe here! Anything can happen! Anything will if<br />
you let it!<br />
“ There are more things in Heaven and Earth,<br />
Horatio, than are dreamt <strong>of</strong> in your philosophy.”<br />
~ Hamlet, Shakespeare.<br />
A great exercise you should do is write down, every day, the list<br />
<strong>of</strong> things that you desire, starting with, “I am now receiving…”,<br />
or “I am now having…” This directs your energy and maintains<br />
the strength <strong>of</strong> the desire.<br />
“I am now gratefully and deservedly receiving…” This is really<br />
important because you have to sincerely feel those feelings;<br />
energy is based on emotion, so while you are writing the list,<br />
feel the excitement, the passion, the desire…magnetize the wish<br />
fulfilled! Write this list every day, and energize it! This is how<br />
you, as a creator, will manifest all your desires.<br />
Also remember it’s very important to always be in the present<br />
tense and start with the words “I am” at the beginning <strong>of</strong> each<br />
desire’s sentence.
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We live in a life too hurried to know<br />
There is bounty and joy wherever we go<br />
How easy to stop for a moment and see<br />
The sun on the land, the Sun within me<br />
A Land <strong>of</strong> Peace and Plenty.
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“In our daily lives, we must see<br />
it is not happiness that makes us grateful,<br />
but the gratefulness that makes us happy.”<br />
~ Albert Clarke ~
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“I am now gratefully receiving $100,000 a year, this or better.”<br />
This could be an item on your list.<br />
“I am now gratefully having surplus cash in my checking<br />
account.”<br />
“I am now gratefully living happily in Financial Freedom.”<br />
Gratitude is the supercharger <strong>of</strong> all good coming to you.<br />
How to Feel Gratitude<br />
Expressing your Gratitude is intensely important, we know.<br />
Sometimes it’s hard to know if you are truly expressing your<br />
gratitude with the intensity that’s needed.<br />
Since I’m your Fairy Godmother, I thought I’d take just<br />
a moment to explain how to feel gratitude and transmit<br />
that energy out into the Universe with more than a simple,<br />
superficial and largely ineffective “Thank you."
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The question is how to emote more intensely when giving<br />
Gratitude to the Universe for the gifts you either have already<br />
received or have already received in the future.<br />
Let’s do a simple exercise.<br />
I’d like you to think <strong>of</strong> something for which you are grateful.<br />
Once you have this item in mind, beam gratitude the way you<br />
know how to do it.<br />
Now I want you to double the gratitude. Double that feeling.<br />
Now I want you to double it again.<br />
Can you now feel the strength <strong>of</strong> that?<br />
Now, I want you to double it again. Your mind may think it’s a<br />
problem but it’s not.<br />
Feel that?
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!<br />
Morning gold.<br />
“Gratitude is happiness<br />
doubled by wonder.”<br />
~ G.K. Chesterton ~
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That’s very powerful, what you just did.<br />
Now what I want you to do is bring the God-Source Energy into<br />
your body. Open every chakra, open everything, to let this God-<br />
Source Energy in. Open everything you don’t even know you<br />
can open. The pores in your body, everything. Now bring this<br />
God-Source Energy into your body. Can you feel that? It feels<br />
like power, like a force field, like a fulfilling energy.<br />
Does this energy feel different than the gratitude energy? By<br />
placing yourself in the God-Source Energy, you have elevated<br />
your consciousness.<br />
Now say how grateful you are and double it a few times. This<br />
way, the energy you are transmitting is much more powerful.<br />
It’s like a one-two punch! This is a tool you can use to accelerate<br />
the magnitude <strong>of</strong> your gratitude!<br />
Express your gratitude a minimum <strong>of</strong> three times per day for no<br />
less than five minutes each. Five to 15 minutes per occasion is<br />
in the range. A good schedule is in the morning when you first<br />
wake up, mid-day, and before you go to bed at night.
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Light and clouds at play above the warm mountains.<br />
<strong>Dance</strong> with me and<br />
swirl me upon your imagination,<br />
I am light and swift<br />
and easy to please…<br />
Make me your partner<br />
and fly me to the heavens<br />
And I will hold you with my heart<br />
and love you forever…
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You can use the Light Grid…dear me, have I discussed the<br />
Light Grid with you yet? No? Well, the Light Grid, simply<br />
explained, is the vibrationary field around the Earth that<br />
connects all Beings to each other and Beyond. It’s a Light and<br />
Consciousness grid that connects us to Everything.<br />
You can use the Light Grid to increase the power <strong>of</strong> your<br />
energetic messages! Just fill yourself up with gratitude and then<br />
zap it out on the Light Grid, out to the Universe. Your energy<br />
will go out and then return, and it will hit you with a wallop!<br />
When it comes back to you, fill yourself up with it and then<br />
send it back out again!<br />
This will amplify the gratitude and it will move in an upward<br />
spiral. If you’re doing this a couple <strong>of</strong> times a day, you’ll get<br />
used to it and your energy will get bigger and bigger and bigger,<br />
just like the gifts you’ll be receiving.<br />
You know, expressing gratitude is so important that Fairy<br />
Godmother school <strong>of</strong>fers an Advanced Manifestation program<br />
based just on the principles <strong>of</strong> being thankful.<br />
In fact, I’ll tell you a little secret if you won’t tell anyone else…<br />
I’m on the curriculum committee, and we’re designing a whole<br />
bunch <strong>of</strong> new courses for undergrads! The courses are fun, <strong>of</strong><br />
course, and delightful, and yes, I’m grateful to be a part <strong>of</strong> it all!
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A black rock that will be black sand 1,000,000 years from today.
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Chapter 5: Step It Up<br />
Here we are, almost at the end <strong>of</strong> your second book. The<br />
purpose <strong>of</strong> this chapter is to see how much progress you’ve had<br />
since you first began reading. The self-assessment that follows<br />
is the same one as in <strong>Dance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> 1, Chapter 4.<br />
It might be too soon for you to take this self-assessment. My<br />
advice is that you wait about four weeks, so the activities you’re<br />
practicing have a chance to develop and take hold. Since it takes<br />
about three weeks for a habit to develop and form, you should<br />
mark a date on your calendar to return to this chapter and see<br />
how much energy has shifted for you.<br />
In the meantime, I think it would be a very good idea for you<br />
to select and read one <strong>of</strong> the books mentioned in the list <strong>of</strong><br />
resources at the end <strong>of</strong> this book.<br />
This new information will keep you walking along your Path <strong>of</strong><br />
Light, and will continue your aspirations for increasing your<br />
abundance and prosperity. Then, after three weeks have passed,<br />
come back to this chapter and enjoy the results you’ll see!<br />
How many 4s and 5s do you think you’ll score? I believe you’ll<br />
do quite well!
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Thawing berries.
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Post Self-Assessment<br />
Remember the assessment you did in <strong>Dance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> 1?<br />
Let’s see how much you’ve improved! Please rate the following<br />
statements as they reflect your beliefs about abundance in your<br />
life. (1) poor, (2) fair, (3) good, (4) very good, and (5) excellent.<br />
1. My wealth is directly related to my consciousness<br />
about abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
2. I am always improving my ability to attract wealth.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
3. I am willing to practice what I learn in this book.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
4. I am comfortable with my life the way it is.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
5. I deserve to earn more money.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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6. Wealthy people are not greedy or hurtful to others.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
7. My income increases at least 10% per year.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
8. I can handle my responsibilities without feeling<br />
overwhelmed.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
9. As I become more abundant, I help others achieve<br />
the same.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
10. I am creating abundance every day.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
11. I see opportunities for creating abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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Golden leaf.<br />
In transition, like you…<br />
Green to gold, and then to dust;<br />
Once part <strong>of</strong> a star, and soon, again!
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“Be careful<br />
how you are talking to yourself<br />
because you are listening.”<br />
~Lisa M. Hayes~
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12. I am appreciated for the abundance I bring to my<br />
family and friends.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
13. I have plans to open doors to new abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
14. I focus on abundance more than scarcity.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
15. I know I create my reality.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
16. I live an abundant life.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
17. I am developing the ability to consciously manifest<br />
all my desires.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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18. Creating abundance is my divine right.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
19. I can be spiritual and abundant at the same time.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
20. The universe is infinitely abundant.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
21. I do not take away any other person’s abundance<br />
when I manifest abundance for myself.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
22. <strong>Abundance</strong> is created through my beliefs,<br />
intentions and expectations.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
23. The universe is infinitely abundant and<br />
always seeks to serve.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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Floating autumn leaf.<br />
I chose a simple life<br />
Adrift and floating by<br />
Upon a splendid path<br />
Beneath a loving sky.
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24. I am opening my heart to abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
25. I know I AM the Source <strong>of</strong> my <strong>Abundance</strong>.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
That was easy!<br />
Now that you’ve had time to practice the skills in <strong>Dance</strong><br />
<strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> 1 and <strong>Dance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> 2, can you see<br />
how much more awake, aware, alive, and Awesome you’ve<br />
become?<br />
I hope you see a BIG improvement from the first time you<br />
took this assessment!
The gift <strong>of</strong> rain.<br />
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The Crab Nebula, a supernova remnant.
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Reflections<br />
It is my sincere hope this book has a significant and<br />
positive impact on your life and the lives <strong>of</strong> your Loved<br />
Ones.<br />
The intention is that you will become more <strong>of</strong> who you<br />
really are…a Divine form <strong>of</strong> energy in an earthly body on<br />
your walk through a three-dimensional reality.<br />
At this point in your development <strong>of</strong> understanding and<br />
maturity, you probably realize and accept the uniqueness<br />
<strong>of</strong> the Miracle <strong>of</strong> your life and consciousness…an<br />
expression <strong>of</strong> the Divine through your senses and actions,<br />
motivations, feelings, thoughts…<br />
The tea in your cup, the cup, the hand that’s holding your<br />
cup, the air molecules enveloping you as the cup comes<br />
close to your lips, the warmth <strong>of</strong> the cup and its liquid,<br />
the fragrance <strong>of</strong> the tea molecules, the pleasure <strong>of</strong> the<br />
taste <strong>of</strong> the tea…an endless set <strong>of</strong> sensations that all<br />
represent a different aspect <strong>of</strong> the Divine in your<br />
consciousness.<br />
It is this awareness and its companion, Gratitude…the<br />
conscious expression <strong>of</strong> heart-felt loving acceptance and<br />
appreciation…which magnetizes the continual flow <strong>of</strong><br />
endless Miracles in your life.
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Remember:<br />
It is the Conscious Loving Energy <strong>of</strong> grateful acceptance<br />
that replicates and manifests itself as more <strong>of</strong> the same…<br />
filling your Consciousness with more and More and<br />
MORE, fueling the Infinite <strong>Abundance</strong> <strong>of</strong> your material<br />
and Divine desires.<br />
Please remember how much I love to hear how you’re<br />
doing, and how much I enjoy all the beautiful, miraculous<br />
events that constantly expand the Joy in your life. Please<br />
send me a message once in a while because it makes me<br />
Happy and Grateful to know you are now receiving all the<br />
blessings you deserve.<br />
I wish you and your Loved Ones every Joy and every<br />
Happiness, and I’m very glad you are here with<br />
me in this Program.<br />
Remember how much I love you!<br />
Everything is Magical!<br />
‘Bye!<br />
Wenty, Your Fairy Godmother.
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Glossary<br />
<strong>Abundance</strong>: The quality <strong>of</strong> the energy that surrounds us all<br />
the time. Self-imposed filters reduce the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong><br />
Energy into our consciousness.<br />
Affirmations: Repetitive statements that help adjust the<br />
patterning <strong>of</strong> the mind’s thoughts.<br />
Aura: The energy field that surrounds a being.<br />
Being: Any substance that has a vibration.<br />
Chakra: A center <strong>of</strong> energy on a body. The human body has<br />
seven main chakras.<br />
Clearing: The activity <strong>of</strong> releasing negative energy, influences,<br />
filters, etc. to “clear” space for new energy.<br />
Creative Visualization: Seeing what you want in your energy<br />
field.<br />
God-Source Energy: Energy from the Divine.<br />
Gut Check: Feeling right or wrong in your gut.<br />
Inner Planes: The Universe’s zones <strong>of</strong> manifestation,<br />
composed <strong>of</strong> energy waves.
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Light Grid: The vibrationary field around the Earth that<br />
connects all Beings to each other and Beyond. A Light and<br />
Consciousness grid that connects all Beings to Everything.<br />
Limiting Beliefs: Thoughts that limit the capacity for<br />
expansion and restoring the Being to its True Nature.<br />
Money: A form <strong>of</strong> energy.<br />
Mutually Exclusive Beliefs: Beliefs that are direct opposites<br />
to each other, thereby canceling each other out.
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toward situational circumstances, leading to healthier<br />
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You Determine Your Own Results with Your<br />
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Acknowledgments<br />
I wish to personally thank the following friends for their<br />
help with manifesting this book for the benefit <strong>of</strong> All<br />
Living Beings:<br />
Dr. Daniel Levine, my editor; this book would not exist<br />
without your loving care, advice, support and vision.<br />
Thank you for your guidance!<br />
Chris J. Scott for expert technical skills, video and audio<br />
support; your good humor and relentless positive energy<br />
made this project Fun!<br />
Zander Levine for editing, expert technical assistance, and<br />
photographic contributions.<br />
Gratitude and blessings to the many artists for their<br />
beautiful Creative Commons photographs.<br />
All my One With You valued clients! Your support and<br />
kindness have enhanced my life…<br />
And to all my many, many loving friends. You fill my<br />
heart! Thank you for your boundless Love and Joy.<br />
And especially … You!<br />
You know I mean YOU!<br />
Yes…You!<br />
YOU!
Resources<br />
The resources listed here are recommended for your further<br />
exploration. There are many worthy books and materials<br />
available to you…these are a few to get you started!<br />
Buscaglia, Leo. (1972). Love.<br />
Byrne, Rhonda. (2012). The Magic.<br />
Dass, Ram. (1971). Be Here Now.<br />
Emoto, Masuru, Dr. (2005). The Hidden Messages in Water.<br />
Goddard, Neville. (1944). Feeling is the Secret.<br />
Price, John Randolph. (1987). The <strong>Abundance</strong> Book.
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