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Why you MUST read this book!<br />
When you were young, didn’t you wish for your very own Fairy<br />
Godmother?<br />
A happy magical spirit who could make ALL your dreams come<br />
true? Someone who cared deeply about you, and had your best<br />
interests at heart?<br />
You KNOW you did!<br />
And now you really CAN have your very own Fairy Godmother.<br />
Meet Wenty!<br />
For the last 35 years, people have been asking Wenty, whom<br />
they have come to know as their Fairy Godmother, “When can<br />
I have your book?” The time has finally come for your Fairy<br />
Godmother to share her secrets with You.<br />
The information in this book is about connecting with the<br />
<strong>Abundance</strong> <strong>of</strong> the Universe, and is based on the Teachings <strong>of</strong><br />
many Masters throughout the millennia, brought together for<br />
you in one place.<br />
Written so they are easy to understand, these secrets give you<br />
a new depth <strong>of</strong> insight to the Truth, with activities that move<br />
you toward the joys and fulfillment you desire and so absolutely<br />
deserve.<br />
Now is the time to declare what you want … and find out how to<br />
get it!<br />
“Everything is Magical!”
<strong>Dance</strong><br />
<strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>Abundance</strong><br />
Volume 1<br />
Wenty<br />
Your Fairy Godmother<br />
Secrets <strong>of</strong> a Fairy Godmother<br />
For Passion Publishing Company, LLC<br />
Bellingham, WA
Fairy Godmother Programs<br />
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Author’s Note<br />
The information presented within this book neither endorses<br />
nor disputes any religion. This is not a book about religious<br />
belief or practice. This book is about awakening the essence<br />
<strong>of</strong> the Inner Wisdom that is within all <strong>of</strong> us, and connecting<br />
with the Divine that permeates all Life. Above all, this material<br />
subscribes to kindness and compassion for all Beings.<br />
The use <strong>of</strong> the word God, the Divine, Spirit, Source, and<br />
references to any spiritual master, saint, guru…all are<br />
mentioned with deep respect. Each person references the<br />
Divine in his or her individual way, and the use <strong>of</strong> all these<br />
words are available for interpretation the way the reader most<br />
prefers. My wish is to engage the reader and <strong>of</strong>fer the gift <strong>of</strong><br />
personal fulfillment.<br />
This material may be considered controversial and counter<br />
to the American cultural norm. By purchasing and reading<br />
this book, you have expressed a degree <strong>of</strong> interest, and I am<br />
grateful for your curiosity at the least, and for embracing<br />
the information at the most. The Intelligence within may be<br />
surprising, or it may be somewhat familiar; it is within this<br />
Knowingness that the Fairy Godmother resides because this<br />
is where the Magic is, and I want You to have every bit <strong>of</strong> the<br />
Magic!<br />
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This is Volume 1, and it does not contain all the secrets<br />
about abundance I wish to share…but Volumes 2 and 3 are<br />
forthcoming and before long you will be able to live your life in<br />
the Zone, in the Magic, all the time.<br />
You will notice that certain words have been capitalized, and<br />
this is intentional to emphasize the word’s greater meaning<br />
and value. A word is a word until you capitalize it. Then it’s a<br />
different word.<br />
Also, the word “judgement” is spelled as you see it; this is also<br />
deliberate, to make the reading more agreeable.<br />
Thank you for your imagination, courage, kindness and Love.<br />
You are an Amazing Being, and I am grateful for this Moment,<br />
allowing us to share our Selves with each other. The material<br />
you are about to read is intended to bless and change your Life,<br />
and all that is Great and Good will be revealed and restored<br />
within You!<br />
Now go have some Fun out there! Love you! ‘Bye!<br />
Wenty, Your Fairy Godmother.<br />
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About the Author<br />
Wenty Hill<br />
Wenty is an internationally recognized intuitive coach, with<br />
30+ years experience on TV, radio, and news media.<br />
She has given hundreds <strong>of</strong> workshops on a wide variety <strong>of</strong><br />
subjects: Quantum Physics, The Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction, Healing,<br />
Marketing, Financial Management, Success Positioning, Career<br />
Transitioning – Monetizing People into “Their Mission”/Right<br />
Livelihood, Attracting a Mate, Keeping a Mate, Valuing the<br />
Differences Between Men and Women (Mentally, Emotionally,<br />
Physically and Spiritually), etc.<br />
Wenty’s work has been successful with thousands <strong>of</strong> people <strong>of</strong><br />
many nationalities, races, and ages. Most <strong>of</strong> her new clients are<br />
referred by happy, satisfied clients.<br />
Through her desire to provide very personal service, Wenty<br />
accepts only five new clients per month. In this way, Wenty<br />
<strong>of</strong>fers customized quality service to each client, whom she feels<br />
honored to serve.<br />
Formerly from Sedona, Arizona, Wenty now lives in the Pacific<br />
Northwest, close to the snow-capped Cascade Mountains<br />
overlooking Puget Sound. Wenty is available through her<br />
website,<br />
www.onewithyou.com<br />
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Dedication<br />
To Heather Dalberg, a true friend<br />
and<br />
Barbara Checksfield, my sister;<br />
I’m so-o grateful for all <strong>of</strong> your love and support
Contents<br />
Chapter 1:<br />
Chapter 2:<br />
Chapter 3:<br />
Chapter 4:<br />
Eluding Illusion<br />
God’s Shower Curtain<br />
Six Hiccups<br />
Playful Appraisal<br />
Chapter 5:<br />
Dealing with Feeling<br />
Reflection<br />
Glossary<br />
Resources<br />
Fairy Godmother Treasures
Chapter 1: Eluding Illusion 1<br />
Chapter 1: Eluding Illusion<br />
Hi! I’m Wenty, and I’m your Fairy Godmother. The thing about<br />
Fairy Godmothers is we have the ability to bring forth the magic<br />
that is all around us, and already inside you, and make miracles<br />
happen. Since you’re reading my book, you already know a lot<br />
about magic and miracles.<br />
One <strong>of</strong> my favorite wizards is Albert Einstein. I love this<br />
quotation <strong>of</strong> his: “There are two ways to live your life. One is as<br />
though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything<br />
is a miracle.”<br />
When you stop to think about it, and even more to the point,<br />
when you Start to Feel about it, the lives we lead and the<br />
planet we’ve chosen to live on are full <strong>of</strong> amazing events and<br />
experiences. As humans in the 21st century, we pride ourselves<br />
on our scientific abilities yet correspondingly limit the<br />
influence <strong>of</strong> magic and miracles in our lives.<br />
And, yes, science has a place and has contributed some<br />
outstanding information and technology, but there is much,<br />
much more than science presently accepts.
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However, what this book is about, and what you’re going to<br />
learn, then practice, and then completely achieve, is beyond<br />
science and beyond what our physical minds have created<br />
through logic and experimentation.<br />
Science is the study <strong>of</strong> systems based on facts, and what we’re<br />
going to do is open ourselves to the awareness <strong>of</strong> a more<br />
predominant system, a system <strong>of</strong> understanding and<br />
consciousness that is allied with quantum physics, that is far<br />
more powerful than the most advanced science presently on<br />
Earth, and which is also based on facts…but facts that are<br />
more universal in their availability and application.<br />
Much <strong>of</strong> this book may seem controversial and<br />
countercultural, but this material is based on quantum<br />
physics, has a logical basis and, hey…it just plain works!<br />
Three Truths<br />
Here’s the first Truth I want you to know:<br />
Truth #1: Everything you ever experience comes from either<br />
love or fear. Take a moment to reflect on this, if this is a new<br />
idea for you. You know we live in a dimension with a dual
Pink rose.<br />
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Kulshan.<br />
“I embrace the sky with my heart...”
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nature. There is right/wrong, good/bad, hot/cold, left/right,<br />
tall/short, man/woman, north/south…the list <strong>of</strong> duality is<br />
extensive because this is the nature <strong>of</strong> the dimension we’re<br />
living in at this point in our spiritual development. Love and<br />
fear are another form <strong>of</strong> this Earthly duality.<br />
Name an emotion…and you will see that its source is either love<br />
or fear. Envy, jealousy, anger, sorrow…these are fear-based<br />
emotions. Acceptance, joy, interest, tenderness, kindness,<br />
compassion…these are love-based emotions. There are, <strong>of</strong><br />
course, many more emotions that are not listed here, but if<br />
you explore this concept a little, you will soon see that every<br />
emotion either comes from the duality <strong>of</strong> either love or fear.<br />
This is very important because it’s an initial step in<br />
understanding how and why abundance is or isn’t fully in<br />
your life today, and subsequently, how you and I together can<br />
manifest the abundance you desire.<br />
Truth #2: The reason you’re experiencing limited financial<br />
abundance in your life today is because there are filters between<br />
the Lack you’re experiencing and the Plenty that you deserve.<br />
These filters are blocking the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> into your life.
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My job as your Fairy Godmother is to clear out these pesky<br />
filters! I clear and erase, clear and erase… The majority <strong>of</strong> the<br />
work I do is finding the limiting beliefs that are stuck in your<br />
aura, limiting beliefs you’ve accepted and which are false<br />
truths, and I clear them out and erase them, so you are set<br />
FREE.<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the ways this works for me, as a certified Fairy<br />
Godmother, is that I am tuned-in to assessing what I’m hearing<br />
and seeing, and when I have a yucky feeling in my stomach, I<br />
can then identify the filter that’s blocking the flow <strong>of</strong> abundance<br />
into your life.<br />
Part <strong>of</strong> what I’m aspiring to do with this program <strong>of</strong> abundance<br />
through spiritual development is to have this knowledge<br />
integrated within your Self, so you will eventually be<br />
empowered to do this work yourself.<br />
Truth #3: The third Truth I want to convey is a truth you<br />
probably already know but are afraid to accept, and this is that<br />
you are absolutely amazing! You are amazing beyond your<br />
wildest dreams-amazing! The startling thing is that you don’t<br />
even realize it! I suppose you’ve had hints… I guess you’ve seen<br />
clues… But because <strong>of</strong> those gosh darn filters, you’ve allowed<br />
your Self to get swallowed up by Illusion.
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Listen to the Songs I Sing –<br />
Sing the Joy <strong>of</strong> Breath and Life<br />
and Soul with Me!<br />
Exultant waters.
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I’m here to show you Your Magnificence, and walk you down<br />
the path to Financial <strong>Abundance</strong>. And when I talk about YOUR<br />
Financial <strong>Abundance</strong>, I’m not talking about just a very pleasant<br />
monthly paycheck… I’m talking about your being in the Flow <strong>of</strong><br />
the Unlimited <strong>Abundance</strong> <strong>of</strong> the Universe.<br />
What you really need to know is that you are this amazing<br />
magician who doesn’t remember how to call on the Source<br />
(or Spiritual Presence or, really, call this whatever you wish:<br />
Higher Power, God, Christ, Jesus, Great Spirit, Universe,<br />
Kali, etc.; choose the name you see in this work so it suits you,<br />
whatever your belief is ...) to create the miracles you desire in<br />
your life today. So, Deary, as your Fairy Godmother, I’m here to<br />
remind you!<br />
I’m sure you’ve heard that famous quote by Henry David<br />
Thoreau, “Most men lead lives <strong>of</strong> quiet desperation and go to<br />
the grave with the song still in them.” It’s quite a frightening<br />
idea, isn’t it? Living an entire life without ever giving voice to<br />
your true self? Have you seen people like this before? Do you<br />
know anybody like this?<br />
Is this the way YOU feel, too? Why do you suppose people are<br />
remaining silent when they have a beautiful song within them<br />
that’s aching to be expressed?
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“Nothing binds you except your thoughts; nothing<br />
limits you except your fear; and nothing controls<br />
you except your beliefs.”<br />
~ Marianne Williamson ~
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Sun spheres.<br />
“Reality is merely an illusion,<br />
albeit a very persistent one.”<br />
~ Albert Einstein ~
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I’ll tell you why. There are several reasons, <strong>of</strong> course.<br />
Reason #1: One <strong>of</strong> the reasons is that people have placed their<br />
focus on our culture’s mass programming, which is what I<br />
call the “race mind”. The “race mind” includes the constant<br />
bombardment <strong>of</strong> messages we receive from television, movies,<br />
advertisements, magazines, the Internet, etc. which all feed into<br />
theories <strong>of</strong> insufficiency and lack.<br />
If you’re reading this book, you know exactly what I mean.<br />
Some <strong>of</strong> these dysfunctional false beliefs are: You’re too fat,<br />
you’re too thin, you need a car, you have to buy the pizza, you<br />
have to please your friends, you’re not saving enough money<br />
on your insurance, you need alcohol or drugs, your husband<br />
or wife or child is unhappy and it’s your fault unless you do<br />
whatever the advertiser wants you to do…<br />
All this constant, predominant and aggressive messaging has<br />
loaded you up with filters that are blocking you from knowing<br />
your True Essence. These messages are running through most<br />
people in our culture at this time, and this is why I call it the<br />
“race mind”.
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Reason #2: A second reason why people are going to the grave<br />
with their song unsung is because they’ve “bought the myth”.<br />
You’ve learned incorrect information from your parents, your<br />
relatives, the television and all the other media, and all kinds <strong>of</strong><br />
stimuli-teachers before you became six years old.<br />
There is a lot <strong>of</strong> old programming that’s blocking you from<br />
your own truth. You were probably told “No!” a lot when you<br />
were a child, and you were programmed with limiting beliefs<br />
before you were six years old…and these false beliefs are still<br />
running in your unconscious, blocking the Flow.<br />
The reason this is significant is because in the early years <strong>of</strong><br />
your life, <strong>of</strong> everyone’s life, a child is still in touch with the<br />
consciousness <strong>of</strong> the realm that precedes birth on Earth.<br />
After the age <strong>of</strong> six, the illusion <strong>of</strong> the Reality we appear to live<br />
in slowly takes hold and the prior consciousness starts to fade<br />
away. In most cases, we chose to let go <strong>of</strong> the true knowledge <strong>of</strong><br />
our Self, and allow the Illusion <strong>of</strong> our Earth-consciousness to<br />
impose itself as THE Reality…when it’s really only a Grand<br />
Illusion.
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Over the sea.<br />
living between<br />
sea and sky<br />
on a delicate breath <strong>of</strong> air
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Look in our eye and you will see<br />
massive mountains we slowly<br />
turn to dust and carry to the sea<br />
Frozen waterdrops.
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I’ll explain this more in a moment, but I want you to realize<br />
now that part <strong>of</strong> what we’re going to do is make these<br />
unconscious limiting beliefs more conscious to you, more<br />
visible to you. This way you can recognize them and dispel<br />
them yourself whenever they appear in your life.<br />
I will do the initial clearing and erasing through the energy<br />
<strong>of</strong> this book and through the energy <strong>of</strong> the videos that are<br />
available to you online. Ultimately, though, we are going to<br />
work together to empower YOU to do clearing and erasing by<br />
yourself, through the training and tools you are about to learn.<br />
Reason #3: A third reason you are experiencing financial lack<br />
instead <strong>of</strong> financial prosperity is that your financial freedom<br />
depends upon a belief that you are probably unaware you<br />
have. You have bought into a Grand Illusion about how things<br />
are here on Planet Earth…and you probably don’t realize that<br />
things are not really the way they seem…much <strong>of</strong> what you<br />
accept for Truth is really an Illusion. You’re really in a fun<br />
house with smoke and mirrors!
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Well, wait until you see what comes next!<br />
10 Billion Miles<br />
I’ve just mentioned that we’re living in a Grand Illusion, and I<br />
want to explain this. There are many examples I could give to<br />
illustrate what I mean, but I’m going to use a doozy. Right now,<br />
at this moment, you’re probably sitting in a comfortable chair<br />
in a somewhat quiet room reading this material in peace.<br />
Of course, because you are living within the mass consciousness<br />
<strong>of</strong> limiting beliefs, you have the Illusion <strong>of</strong> stillness around you.<br />
You’re sitting in a stationary chair or on a stationary couch.<br />
But what would you think, how would your understanding<br />
<strong>of</strong> this false Reality change, if I proved that right now, at this<br />
moment, you are actually speeding through space at 333 miles<br />
per second? Yes, you’re holding this book in your hands and<br />
you’re traveling faster than the fastest rocket ship known to<br />
man!<br />
I realize this seems pretty unbelievable, and yet it’s a scientific<br />
fact! So now, when you read the next paragraph, I’m going to<br />
challenge you to change your thinking. This is an example, one
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Earth’s rotation.<br />
“I dance with the Sun, as I have always done…”
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Star cluster in the Milky Way.
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example, <strong>of</strong> how you have accepted a facet <strong>of</strong> the Grand Illusion<br />
you believe, falsely believe, is the reality <strong>of</strong> life on Earth.<br />
Read this and allow it to become a metaphor that will open<br />
your mind, and open your heart, and open your Spirit, to accept<br />
another way <strong>of</strong> perceiving your life and allowing change and<br />
new growth to proceed and develop within you:<br />
“…the Earth, far from being at rest, is whirling through space<br />
in a giddy and highly complicated fashion. In addition to its<br />
daily rotation about its axis at the rate <strong>of</strong> 1,000 miles an hour<br />
(Ed. note: a quarter mile a second…), and its annual revolution<br />
about the sun at the rate <strong>of</strong> 20 miles a second, the Earth is also<br />
involved in a number <strong>of</strong> other less familiar gyrations.<br />
The entire solar system, moreover, is moving within the local<br />
star system at the rate <strong>of</strong> 13 miles a second; the local star<br />
system is moving within the Milky Way at the rate <strong>of</strong> 200 miles<br />
a second; and the whole Milky Way is drifting with respect to<br />
the remote external galaxies at the rate <strong>of</strong> 100 miles a second<br />
– and all in different directions! (“The Universe and Dr.<br />
Einstein”, by Lincoln Barnett. Bantam, 1957, p. 39.)
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“You yourself are the eternal energy which<br />
appears as this universe. You didn’t come<br />
into this world. You came out <strong>of</strong> it, like<br />
a wave from the ocean.”<br />
~Alan Watts~<br />
Andromeda Galaxy with 1,000 billion stars.
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Wow! You believe you’re sitting still, but you’re not sitting still<br />
at all!<br />
In mathematical and scientific fact, you are speeding through<br />
space every second <strong>of</strong> every minute <strong>of</strong> your life. Look at<br />
the following chart… It will make you wish your couch had<br />
seatbelts:<br />
You are now moving at:<br />
Total per second:<br />
Total per minute:<br />
Total per hour:<br />
Total per day:<br />
333.25 miles<br />
19,995 miles<br />
1,199,700 miles<br />
28,792,800 miles<br />
Total per week: 203 million miles ~<br />
Total per month: 812 million miles ~<br />
Total per year: 10 billion miles ~<br />
Let’s see, how old are you now? Multiply every year <strong>of</strong> your life<br />
by 10,000,000,000 miles to find out how far you’ve traveled<br />
through space since you were born.
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Monument Valley, golden glow.<br />
“Do you have eyes to see?”
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Monument Valley, star-trail landscape.<br />
“Starlight clothes me, day and night…”
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And you thought you were just sitting still in your chair!<br />
Do you see what I mean about the Grand Illusion? There are<br />
more <strong>of</strong> these clues that indicate a Reality much larger than the<br />
one most humans live and except as real.<br />
Here is a scientific fact about the Grand Illusion:<br />
My hope and my prayer is that now that you have seen a<br />
different concept <strong>of</strong> Reality than the one you have previously<br />
accepted, you will be open to learning about Your True<br />
Magnificence, a Magnificence that is capable <strong>of</strong> unbelievable<br />
Magic and Miracles.<br />
It is my goal to help you awaken to your own Truth so you can<br />
have the life you want and be the Master <strong>of</strong> your own destiny<br />
and prosperity.
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Benefits<br />
Here are some <strong>of</strong> the gifts you will begin receiving by going<br />
through this course, providing you focus on the material<br />
truthfully, sincerely and open mindedly.<br />
1. You will have Financial Freedom. You will be able to<br />
manifest all the money you desire. Though you will<br />
manifest more income and more money, money is only<br />
a byproduct <strong>of</strong> your personal awakening; money is not<br />
the Cause, but rather money is the Effect or result <strong>of</strong><br />
your personal awakening.<br />
Your Self-realization is your Power, your Source, your<br />
Supply.<br />
2. You will develop the ability to see your own<br />
Magnificence, which itself is absolutely life-changing.<br />
3. You will be able to bless others with your energy shift as<br />
you become more and more accomplished; your energy<br />
shift will assist others with changing their energy for the<br />
better as well.<br />
4. You will more completely see your connection to<br />
everyone and everything.
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Path through the woods.<br />
“There were many paths...and I chose One.”
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Open door.<br />
“The Light… Yes, I Am That…”
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5. As your filters are cleared and erased, your anxieties<br />
and frustrations will also begin to disappear and you’ll<br />
be more capable <strong>of</strong> loving; you have a larger capacity for<br />
loving your Self and others.<br />
6. You will become calmer and your stress level will<br />
diminish, thereby improving your health and general<br />
well-being.<br />
As your Fairy Godmother, I know these benefits are desirable<br />
to you. I am delighted to be able to work with you to help you<br />
achieve these very wonderful and miraculous changes in your<br />
life and the lives <strong>of</strong> all those you love and care about. I can also<br />
tell that you’re ready to begin, so turn the page and let’s get<br />
started!
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Chapter 2: God’s Shower Curtain<br />
All the magnificence <strong>of</strong> our Universe is available through<br />
the Divine Essence, and as you are an element <strong>of</strong> that Divine<br />
Essence, the treasures and the abundance you seek lie within<br />
your Being.<br />
As your Fairy Godmother, it is my responsibility to help you<br />
understand, so try to imagine it this way…<br />
Imagine that you decided to take a nice hot shower. The idea <strong>of</strong><br />
getting into some hot water, soaping up and getting clean is just<br />
what you need at the end <strong>of</strong> your long workday. Since you’re<br />
in a quiet mood, you want to keep the lights <strong>of</strong>f because it’s too<br />
much <strong>of</strong> a glare, and you think it would be nice to have some<br />
candlelight.<br />
As it happens, there is already a candle in your bathroom, so<br />
you light it. Ah! The light is s<strong>of</strong>t and pleasing, and you are all<br />
prepared to enjoy a blissful hot shower. The water is flowing out<br />
<strong>of</strong> the shower head and the spray is gently raining drops onto<br />
the inside <strong>of</strong> your shower curtain.
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In a moment <strong>of</strong> sudden awareness, one <strong>of</strong> those brilliant Aha!<br />
Moments occur to you and you have a startling realization.<br />
You are astounded to notice that the candlelight is reflected<br />
within each <strong>of</strong> the thousands <strong>of</strong> drops on your shower curtain.<br />
The light from this one candle is now manifested thousands <strong>of</strong><br />
times in every single drop <strong>of</strong> water.<br />
In much the same manner, we are the drops <strong>of</strong> water for the<br />
Light <strong>of</strong> the Divine. The Divine is within each <strong>of</strong> us, and so all<br />
the goodness, the beauty, the joy <strong>of</strong> life, and the abundance <strong>of</strong><br />
All that exists is available to us because we are connected to the<br />
One Truth. We live in the illusion <strong>of</strong> appearing to be separate,<br />
and yet we are joined through our universal attachment To The<br />
All That Is.<br />
It’s true that we appear to be different. We have different<br />
colored eyes and hair and skin, we come in different sizes <strong>of</strong> big<br />
and small, tall and short, we have different genders, our faces<br />
are thin, round, oval, we speak different languages, and there<br />
are many more ways we are different, if we stopped to tally<br />
them all up…
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Different by name<br />
our hearts beat the same…<br />
The Light that burns in you<br />
burns bright within me, too…
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But there are many ways in which we are the same and none<br />
is more important to recognize than we are all joined to The<br />
One… just like the drops <strong>of</strong> water all contain the light <strong>of</strong> the<br />
candle.<br />
So as your Fairy Godmother, when I tell you with complete<br />
certainty that all the magnificence <strong>of</strong> the Universe is already<br />
yours, I hope you now have at least an inkling <strong>of</strong> what I mean<br />
and how you are going to be guided to access this endless<br />
abundance.<br />
Yes, I have an agenda! There are six items I want to discuss<br />
with you because it’s my guess that each <strong>of</strong> these is blocking you<br />
from having and enjoying the riches you deserve.<br />
A Drop <strong>of</strong> Water, an Ember <strong>of</strong> Fire<br />
Just to make sure it’s absolutely clear (Hello!) if it is not clear<br />
to you yet, the reason you deserve to have these riches, joys and<br />
all this Unlimited <strong>Abundance</strong> in your life is because you are a<br />
Child <strong>of</strong> God (…remember: just translate the G word to your<br />
own way <strong>of</strong> speaking about your Higher Power).
After a gentle spring rain.<br />
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Petals, like tongues <strong>of</strong> flame.
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Because <strong>of</strong> this Divine designation, you are entitled to have<br />
and enjoy all the wonderful and fulfilling gifts that God has<br />
displayed before us. Remember, you are a drop <strong>of</strong> water on<br />
God’s shower curtain! Because you are a drop <strong>of</strong> water on God’s<br />
shower curtain, you contain the Divine Light within; it is your<br />
Essence.<br />
Oh, I can’t help myself. Most Fairy Godmothers really have a<br />
hard time keeping silent when a great idea passes through…<br />
You just have to accept this one last metaphor. It is my hope<br />
that it has not been too long since you were last at a campfire.<br />
Everybody has to get out into Nature at least once a year and<br />
stand or sit around a nice hot crackling campfire. If you haven’t<br />
done this recently, it’s something you really must do at your<br />
next opportunity.<br />
My point is… When you’re looking at the logs burning in the<br />
center, you’ll notice that the coals have a gray ash on their<br />
surface, and the fire and heat <strong>of</strong> the ember is underneath the<br />
all-covering ash.<br />
In Fairy Godmother school, we were all taught that the ash<br />
covering the Divine Fire <strong>of</strong> our Essence is a brilliant way
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to explain the difference between our human bodies and<br />
the Divine Fire that lives within all <strong>of</strong> us. You’ve heard the<br />
expression “ashes to ashes and dust to dust”, and this is the way<br />
our human bodies are.<br />
But, within each <strong>of</strong> us, is the gift <strong>of</strong> the Divine Fire, held for a<br />
little bit <strong>of</strong> time by the “ashes” or “dust” <strong>of</strong> flesh and muscle and<br />
bone.<br />
This is why the abundance <strong>of</strong> the Universe is available to you.<br />
We are all connected to the Infinite, and we have only to release<br />
the density <strong>of</strong> our feeling and thinking to liberate ourselves,<br />
to allow the Light to shine through and accept our true<br />
inheritance, the inheritance we desire…and the inheritance we<br />
deserve.
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Transition begins<br />
and brings new fulfillment<br />
Leaving traces <strong>of</strong> selves,<br />
now only shells<br />
Like a melody carried<br />
only a moment,<br />
Passing quickly and fading<br />
with every new note
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Chapter 3: Six Hiccups<br />
As your Fairy Godmother, I’m going to take a little time to<br />
explain why you have these hiccups that keep blocking you<br />
from the abundance that is rightfully yours!<br />
You’re entitled to so much (like, gosh, everything!), yet you<br />
have settled for so little! Why is that? You are an Angel on<br />
Earth, and everything you could possibly want, anything you<br />
can imagine, is yours for the asking…but first you have to<br />
release all the obstacles you’ve put in your own way.<br />
As you know, we make choices every second <strong>of</strong> every day, and<br />
the choices you made in the past are limiting the possibilities<br />
<strong>of</strong> your Present. The good news is that I can change this energy<br />
from red to green, so listen to what I have to say and then,<br />
please, do what I recommend! We’ll have you flying again in no<br />
time at all.
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Brick upon brick<br />
And year upon year<br />
The layers grow in size.<br />
Until one day<br />
No longer in sight<br />
Only the sound <strong>of</strong> my sighs.<br />
Man-made brick wall.
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Hiccup #1: Locked in a Cage <strong>of</strong> My Own<br />
Making<br />
We’re talking about the past. This happens <strong>of</strong>ten, when we<br />
get caught up in the story <strong>of</strong> our life. Lots <strong>of</strong> people carry the<br />
baggage <strong>of</strong> how they identify themselves based on experiences<br />
they’ve had. Often, these experiences wear the clothing <strong>of</strong> being<br />
a victim: “They did that to me,” or “Why me?” or “Because <strong>of</strong><br />
that, I can’t…”<br />
Most people have hardships during the course <strong>of</strong> their life.<br />
Some <strong>of</strong> these are quite grievous, and others are just normal<br />
events that happen to most people, like breaking up with your<br />
boyfriend or girlfriend, getting a divorce, or losing your job.<br />
These are not happy experiences, <strong>of</strong> course, but neither are they<br />
fatal. When Life gives you a good knock on the head or in the<br />
heart, your job is to dust yourself <strong>of</strong>f and resolve to do better.<br />
The real difficulty occurs when you hold on to the<br />
negative experience and let it trap you. This is a form <strong>of</strong><br />
personal sabotage.
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Stormy sky.<br />
See the faces <strong>of</strong> me in your Dream today…
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This sabotage occurs when you’ve had a really tough situation<br />
and you’re unable to release it, and you can’t deal with it in<br />
a healthy way. When you allow this Past negative experience<br />
to remain a part <strong>of</strong> your Present consciousness, beyond a<br />
reasonable time, it begins to pollute the other facets <strong>of</strong> your life.<br />
This Self Sabotage is like those big barrels <strong>of</strong> waste that<br />
governments used to dump in the ocean; eventually the barrel’s<br />
metal rusted through, and the waste began to leak out into the<br />
ocean.<br />
In the same way, if you don’t properly dispense with a negative<br />
experience in a healthy way, the poison from that event will<br />
taint your behavior, your relationships, your self-esteem,<br />
and limit your ability to engage in healthy ways with others,<br />
delaying or crippling your ability to build and enjoy a healthy<br />
life.<br />
The Brazilian novelist, Paulo Coelho, advises “It is always<br />
important to know when something has reached its end.<br />
Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn’t<br />
matter what we call it; what matters is to leave in the past those<br />
moments in life that are over.”
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And the Earth said,<br />
“My bounty is here for your pleasure,<br />
Even in the biting cold <strong>of</strong> Winter’s day…<br />
Red berries in the snow.
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It’s important, necessary, and healthy to clear away the debris<br />
so you can have room for new growth and new experiences,<br />
without the pall <strong>of</strong> the past. Shake free <strong>of</strong> the echoes and ring<br />
the bell <strong>of</strong> your new life!<br />
Yes, as your Fairy Godmother, I have some insightful tips,<br />
amazing tricks, and useful tools to blast away your past and<br />
help you establish a clean slate, a healthy foundation, and a new<br />
pathway to the abundance you desire and deserve.<br />
Hiccup #2: The Myth, the Whole Myth, and<br />
Nothing But the Myth.<br />
In most cases, a person’s parents are good people with good<br />
intentions. They want you to be successful, they hope you’ll<br />
have a better life than they had, and they are genuinely pleased<br />
when you do well.<br />
However, they are people like everybody else, and they are<br />
carrying their own set <strong>of</strong> beliefs. A common term for this in our<br />
society is “baggage”. Every generation has its own particular set<br />
<strong>of</strong> baggage. Here is an example.
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In my grandparents’ generation, they endured both the Great<br />
Depression and World War II. To this day, my grandparents<br />
behave in specific ways as an outcome <strong>of</strong> those two experiences.<br />
They watch the news a lot, they have an attitude <strong>of</strong> scarcity<br />
because <strong>of</strong> their childhood experiences with the Depression,<br />
they are very patriotic because their lives and the lives <strong>of</strong> their<br />
loved ones were so deeply affected by the world war, and they<br />
have attitudes about long hair and beards on men, marijuana,<br />
homosexuals and lesbians, and they are really good at saving<br />
for a rainy day.<br />
My generation has a different set <strong>of</strong> biases. Most <strong>of</strong> the folks<br />
from my generation are suspicious <strong>of</strong> the government, favor<br />
organic foods, limit their consumption <strong>of</strong> red meat, and use<br />
drugs and alcohol moderately.<br />
My point is that you were very heavily programmed by your<br />
elders before you were six years old. You bear the imprint <strong>of</strong><br />
their Unconscious internal messages because your parents were<br />
a dominant influence in your early life, and their attitudes and<br />
subconscious messaging imprinted yours.
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Blue jellyfish.<br />
One <strong>of</strong> billions under the sea<br />
We live, and eat, and die<br />
In a world so few <strong>of</strong> you see
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Not to worry… I received an A+ in Myth-Breaking 101 when I<br />
was in Fairy Godmother school! I can take care <strong>of</strong> this pretty<br />
quickly.<br />
Hiccup #3: I’ve Got Filters on My<br />
Consciousness!<br />
Remember “Helter Skelter”, the Beatles’ song written by Paul<br />
McCartney? It ended with the lyric, “I’ve got blisters on my<br />
fingers!” It was a very cool song, with Ringo throwing his<br />
drumsticks across the studio shouting about his worn<br />
fingers.<br />
In your case, you should be shouting, “I’ve got filters on my<br />
consciousness!” The filters blocking you are like bullets being<br />
fired at you constantly from our culture’s unending media blitz.<br />
As you know, we live in a culture that is constantly bombarding<br />
us with various forms <strong>of</strong> pollution, and this pollution has<br />
permeated into your consciousness and drives the way you<br />
think, feel and behave.<br />
When you wake up in the morning and turn on the radio or the<br />
television, which is something you probably should not do, your<br />
receptors start receiving fear messages. These fear messages<br />
are usually, but not always, well-disguised. The advertisers are
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Fog filtering the sunlight.<br />
Through the fog <strong>of</strong> this World<br />
My fingers seek the bright pure Light<br />
Just within my farthest reach…
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Fast, faster, and fastest I run<br />
Yet never seem to get my work done<br />
My path lies ahead and my purpose is clear<br />
But the faster I go, the less I am Here.<br />
Snaggles <strong>of</strong> wires.
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telling you that you need to buy something, and if you don’t,<br />
then you’ll be missing out, or you’re not a good parent, or there<br />
won’t be enough for you and your family if you don’t hurry.<br />
Maybe the fear message says you’re working too hard and you<br />
need to pick-up certain kinds <strong>of</strong> foods for dinner which will<br />
make your life easier. Another fear message is you’re spending<br />
too much money on something when you could save by buying<br />
something else.<br />
There are lots <strong>of</strong> health advertisements that tell you how sick<br />
you are and how to get better, or how much weight you’ve<br />
gained through a poor diet, or how much better another car<br />
would be than the car you have.<br />
My advice is to begin listening to what these ads are boring into<br />
you, and become aware <strong>of</strong> the fear and scarcity they contain.<br />
When we allow ourselves to listen to these messages, and<br />
especially when we listen to them subconsciously, they worm<br />
their way inside and control us to varying degrees. In some<br />
cases, we accept the message completely, and actually do what<br />
the messages tell us to do…we buy the food, or go to the sale.
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In other cases, we ignore the message consciously, but<br />
subconsciously we have been agitated and our anxieties<br />
multiply while our stress level increases. When I hear, for<br />
example, a pizza ad, I have an urge to go out and buy pizza.<br />
(Yes, <strong>of</strong> course Fairy Godmothers like pizza!)<br />
These superimposed filters have gotten inside your mind, and<br />
like hypnosis, your behavior is modified to the degree that you<br />
accept the message. It’s my job as your Fairy Godmother to<br />
dispel these filters.<br />
Hiccup #4: What? Me Change?<br />
Yes, YOU! Again, the wizard Einstein said, “Insanity: doing the<br />
same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”<br />
Einstein meant that if you want different Results in your life,<br />
you’ll have to do things differently than you’re doing now.<br />
With the “same old, same old” patterns, you’ll have no more<br />
success than a hamster on a wheel. Yes, you’ll be well-exercised,<br />
but you won’t be any closer to your abundance than you are<br />
now.
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Dandelion.<br />
Dandelion in the wind.
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Perhaps you believe the myth that change is hard, but I’m here<br />
to tell you it doesn’t have to be. The reason you believe change<br />
is hard is because you believe change is hard!<br />
Think about it. Think about the times when you’ve experienced<br />
change in your life. The change happened rather suddenly,<br />
didn’t it? Oh sure, it may have taken you months <strong>of</strong> thinking<br />
about it or planning for it, but when the change actually<br />
happened, it occurred in less than a second.<br />
Well, I can replicate that moment for you. You can hold on<br />
to the belief that change takes time, or you can create the<br />
belief that change is instant. Of the two, which do you prefer?<br />
Hmmmm?<br />
I thought so!<br />
Change is instantaneous if you wish it. Since you want to let<br />
go <strong>of</strong> the past and embrace a New Now, and you want the<br />
abundance you deserve to flow into your life instantly, this<br />
Fairy Godmother blessing is yours to have later in this book.
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Hiccup #5: Money… Bad, Bad, Bad, Right?<br />
Where did you learn this, and why do you hang onto it? We’ll<br />
explore where you heard this message and why you’ve accepted<br />
it. Our discussion will reveal a key misunderstanding that has<br />
served very well to block your abundance.<br />
This is one <strong>of</strong> those things you’ll wish you never learned or<br />
accepted as truth. It’s one <strong>of</strong> the biggest myths in our culture<br />
and is completely False, yet most people subscribe to it. As your<br />
Fairy Godmother, all I can do is shake my head, and then smile<br />
and wave my wand to eliminate this ridiculous thought from<br />
your mind, and its negative energy from your aura.<br />
Money is not the root <strong>of</strong> all evil. This is usually misquoted from<br />
the Bible; rather, money can be the source <strong>of</strong> great joy and<br />
gifting. Money can do many fabulous things in the right hands<br />
and for the right purpose. I’ll show you how to change your<br />
thinking and your belief about the true nature <strong>of</strong> money so you<br />
can allow this amazing resource into your life.
Earth’s star, spinning gold.<br />
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Hiccup #6: Gratitude? No Way!<br />
OMG! Is it possible you’ve ignored the Secret to the Universe?<br />
Showing Gratitude for what you have is the only way to attract<br />
more <strong>of</strong> what you desire.<br />
I know you’ve heard about the Law <strong>of</strong> Attraction and how like<br />
attracts like. Well, you’re only going to attract what you think<br />
and feel…so if you’re thinking and feeling how little you have,<br />
you’re only going to attract less <strong>of</strong> what you want.<br />
Uh-oh! To change this outcome, we’re going to review how you<br />
can reverse that expectation; by being grateful for what you<br />
have, you’ll start receiving more <strong>of</strong> what you really want!<br />
It is the sworn duty <strong>of</strong> every Fairy Godmother to teach the value<br />
<strong>of</strong> giving gratitude for all the gifts we are constantly receiving.<br />
Gratitude is the oil in the Universe’s engine…without it,<br />
resources deplete and fall away. In Chapter 9 I’ll show you how<br />
gratitude works and give you an excellent tool for generating<br />
massive amounts <strong>of</strong> Gratitude that will restore the Flow <strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>Abundance</strong> in your life.
Silver lining on a frosty morning.<br />
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“Life isn’t about finding yourself.<br />
Life is about creating yourself.”<br />
~ George Bernard Shaw ~
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Summary<br />
In this chapter we’ve identified six main reasons why the<br />
flow <strong>of</strong> abundance is limited in your life today. All <strong>of</strong> these<br />
are easily surmountable and you and I will get the Flow<br />
going very quickly.<br />
When you continue participating with this book’s activities in<br />
the ways that I explain, you can eliminate all your self-limiting<br />
mental patterns and then what you desire will manifest!<br />
Now that the initial explanation is over, I want you to take the<br />
self-administered assessment that appears in the next chapter.<br />
It won’t take you long to complete, but it’s important so you<br />
have a clear understanding <strong>of</strong> the influences in your life today.<br />
Please be serious when you take the assessment because you<br />
will gain additional clarity about your present circumstances,<br />
which will add to the progress we will make together.
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Life<br />
New<br />
<strong>of</strong><br />
Life New <strong>of</strong> Mother the Is Change<br />
the<br />
Is<br />
Change
Blooming daisy.<br />
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Chapter 4: Playful Appraisal<br />
This is a simple way to explore some <strong>of</strong> your current beliefs<br />
about money and about abundance in general. Don’t worry!<br />
The only one who will grade you is you!<br />
Self-Assessment<br />
Please rate the following statements as they reflect your beliefs<br />
about abundance in your life. (1) poor, (2) fair, (3) good, (4)<br />
very good, and (5) excellent.<br />
1. My wealth is directly related to my consciousness<br />
about abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
2. I am always improving my ability to attract wealth.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
3. I am willing to practice what I learn in this book.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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4. I am comfortable with my life the way it is.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
5. I deserve to earn more money.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
6. Wealthy people are not greedy or hurtful to others.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
7. My income increases at least 10% per year.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
8. I can handle my responsibilities without feeling<br />
overwhelmed.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
9. As I become more abundant, I help others achieve<br />
the same.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
Bamboo.<br />
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Banana leaf.
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10. I am creating abundance every day.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
11. I see opportunities for creating abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
12. I am appreciated for the abundance I bring to my<br />
family and friends.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
13. I have plans to open doors to new abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
14. I focus on abundance more than scarcity.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
15. I know I create my reality.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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Pholiota Squarrosa.
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16. I live an abundant life.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
17. I am developing the ability to consciously manifest<br />
all my desires.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
18. Creating abundance is my divine right.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
19. I can be spiritual and abundant at the same time.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
20. The universe is infinitely abundant.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
21. I do not take away any other person’s abundance<br />
when I manifest abundance for myself.<br />
1 2 3 4 5
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22. <strong>Abundance</strong> is created through my beliefs,<br />
intentions and expectations.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
23. The universe is infinitely abundant and<br />
always seeks to serve.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
24. I am opening my heart to abundance.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
25. I know I AM the Source <strong>of</strong> my <strong>Abundance</strong>.<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
That was easy! I’m sure you got to see a preview <strong>of</strong> the<br />
path that lies ahead. You’ll take this little quiz later in the<br />
program, so save your results. Next time, you’ll probably<br />
see a BIG improvement!
Blades <strong>of</strong> grass.<br />
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I am One...
...and the Same.<br />
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“O Great Spirit,<br />
I awake to another sun,<br />
grateful for gifts bestowed,<br />
granted one by one.”<br />
~ Twylah Nitsch, Seneca Medicine Woman ~<br />
Arizona sunrise.
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Chapter 5: Dealing with Feeling<br />
As human beings, we have feelings all the time.<br />
Some <strong>of</strong> us are more tuned into our feelings than others, and<br />
feel these feelings more regularly and deeply, while others only<br />
recognize our feelings and the effect they have on us when an<br />
emotion is particularly intense.<br />
(I’ll discuss the suppression <strong>of</strong> feelings a little later in this<br />
chapter, but now I want to talk about the feeling itself that you<br />
have when your behavior is modified by a limiting belief.<br />
Thoughts are felt by your body as Emotions. When you have a<br />
thought, if you’re conscious <strong>of</strong> it, you’ll <strong>of</strong>ten feel a reaction in<br />
your body. Your body is a great vehicle for carrying emotions.<br />
Being human, we feel our thoughts through our bodies!<br />
As you know, some <strong>of</strong> our thoughts are limiting beliefs that<br />
have been imposed and planted in our consciousness either<br />
through the messages we received from our parents and other<br />
adults before the age <strong>of</strong> six, or through the relentless and<br />
aggressive advertising <strong>of</strong> the media.
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Affirmations<br />
When a negative belief comes up, you’ll have a “yucky” feeling<br />
in your solar plexus, a feeling that something is just NOT Right.<br />
You probably know your gut is one <strong>of</strong> the energy centers in your<br />
body, and it will signal if something’s not Right.<br />
That’s why there are a couple <strong>of</strong> common sayings about it, such<br />
as “gut check”, “go with your gut”, or when you have a “gut<br />
feeling”. Your solar plexus, or your gut, is located just below<br />
your rib cage and above your waist.<br />
You could have a feeling that makes you feel queasy, and if<br />
it’s not what you had for lunch that causes it, it’s a good time<br />
to insert a place-setter to counter the negativity and build a<br />
positive foundation which replaces the negative thought your<br />
body has felt as an emotion.<br />
These place-setters are commonly called affirmations, and th<br />
best use <strong>of</strong> affirmations is to stop a negative thought dead in it<br />
tracks.
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Mountain and fog.<br />
And she said, “I hide my beauty with beauty<br />
So you may admire me twice as much.”
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Lightning.<br />
And he said, “I am passion and fury,<br />
And my fingers <strong>of</strong> fire flood your sky!”
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If, for example, you’re feeling a yucky feeling, it almost doesn’t<br />
even matter what you say. What matters more is what you feel.<br />
To support the feeling, though, it’s important that you begin to<br />
say some affirmations like these:<br />
• I am loved<br />
• I am healthy<br />
• I am sexy<br />
• I am worthy<br />
• I am lovable<br />
• I am trustworthy<br />
• I am trusting myself<br />
Affirmations are a good tool to start the movement away<br />
from the lack-vibration your negative belief has caused.
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“Learn to expect, not to doubt.<br />
In so doing, you bring everything<br />
into the realm <strong>of</strong> possibility.”<br />
~ Dr. Norman Vincent Peale ~
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An affirmation will assist in negating the thought and begin to<br />
turn things around. Once you start to take charge <strong>of</strong> your life<br />
and begin disciplining yourself away from the negative thoughts<br />
you’ve previously accepted as true...<br />
...you’ll notice that your mind will initially struggle with<br />
accepting your new path and will try to revert to the way your<br />
mind has previously been disciplined to think.<br />
It’s essential that the core issue, which is your unconscious<br />
acceptance and continual repetition <strong>of</strong> limitation, is released<br />
and eliminated. Once this occurs, your mind will be more<br />
capable <strong>of</strong> supporting your new direction…your path to<br />
prosperity and abundance in its many forms.<br />
So, your Fairy Godmother insists that we identify and eradicate<br />
all your limiting beliefs. As we’re doing this, it’s important to<br />
replace these negative thinking patterns with affirmations, a<br />
place holders. This way you have, shall we say, a mantra to flag<br />
the negative thought and knock it on the head with a stop sign!<br />
Affirmations will begin to reprogram your consciousness to the<br />
way you desire it. As I’ve mentioned, affirmations by themselves
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The fire <strong>of</strong> a burning star<br />
Weaves its light<br />
On the tapestry<br />
Of gently rippling water<br />
As the Fire <strong>of</strong> the Divine<br />
Braids its Light<br />
Through the Essence<br />
Of our Eternal Being
Golden sunlight on water.<br />
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don’t really work, other than to redirect the mind to begin<br />
changing the way you think about something.<br />
Using affirmations to manifest what you want is a slow<br />
process because you probably have mutually exclusive beliefs<br />
running at the same time. You’ll have the affirmation “I love<br />
myself”, and simultaneously the subconscious limiting belief<br />
“I hate myself”.<br />
These two mutually exclusive beliefs will cancel each other out,<br />
so just using affirmations is basically a band aid, and not part<br />
<strong>of</strong> the cure that will help you reach where you want to go. Even<br />
so, affirmations are a good start because they help begin the<br />
transformation <strong>of</strong> your thinking. They’re a good tool, just not<br />
the best tool for rapid positive change.
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A wave in ecstasy!<br />
I instantly blossom in frothy excitement,<br />
shattered into a billion explosive drops…<br />
Then subside to reform…and burst again!
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Cloud flaring from the sun.<br />
A moment…<br />
Just a Moment…<br />
I thrill to the Joy <strong>of</strong> your Touch!
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Passionate Energy<br />
The real transformation will come by using Neville Goddard’s<br />
quote “Assume the Feeling <strong>of</strong> the Wish Fulfilled."<br />
Reread this phrase a few times. “Assume the Feeling <strong>of</strong> the<br />
Wish Fulfilled.” Read it until you understand its message.<br />
Neville is instructing us that we need to come to a place within<br />
ourselves <strong>of</strong> knowing that what we are intending to create is<br />
already created and exists in this dimension as accomplished.<br />
Beyond this, the key word is “feeling”. What you receive is<br />
triggered by your feeling. Feeling! Yes, though the mind has to<br />
manifest and crystallize the feeling to aid with manifestation,<br />
it’s the feeling itself that lets the Universe know what you’re<br />
desiring.<br />
As an example, if you have a fear feeling, the Universe thinks<br />
you desire fear so the Universe continues generating your<br />
desire. If you have a positive feeling, the Universe thinks you<br />
desire more <strong>of</strong> the same and it will send positive experiences as<br />
long as your positive energy continues. This is why feeling the<br />
feeling is the real key to successful manifestation.
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Up! Up to the light!<br />
My small breath is so dear!<br />
Underwater, looking up.
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Therefore, when you’re saying such things as I am love, I am<br />
infinite, I am loved, I am healthy, I am wealthy, you want to<br />
say them like you really mean them! You want to get some<br />
excitement (powerful positive feelings) going!<br />
In fact, you should get the positive vibrations flowing before<br />
you begin to send your energy into the Universe!<br />
You might want to jump up and down and say, “Yes! Yes! Yes!”<br />
about 20 times with excitement first and then begin expressing<br />
yourself with “I am love, I am infinite”, etc. You also want to<br />
blend the yes-words along with the “I am”, while assuming the<br />
feeling <strong>of</strong> the wish fulfilled like this: “Yes! I am trustworthy.<br />
Yes! I am loved. Yes! I love. Yes! I am sexy. Yes! I am whole and<br />
complete.”<br />
Pump the feeling! The feeling is the key to manifestation, not<br />
the words.<br />
This is where most people go wrong because they think that<br />
just saying the affirmations over and over makes the change<br />
happen.
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But it doesn’t.<br />
That’s not what causes transformation. That’s not where the<br />
juice <strong>of</strong> manifestation lies. Pretty much, the power <strong>of</strong> the<br />
manifestation happens through the FEELING itself, that is tied<br />
to the thought.<br />
If you think about it, you might remember that whenever<br />
something powerful happened in your life, there was a very<br />
strong feeling attached to it. Maybe it was a job interview<br />
you had, and you were so excited and positive about the<br />
opportunity, that the job became yours.<br />
Or perhaps you were energized to make a presentation at work,<br />
and everybody thought your presentation was brilliant. This is<br />
because your energy was strong and powerful and positive and<br />
that energy was based on your feelings and certainty <strong>of</strong> success.
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Alone on the sea.<br />
A single drop <strong>of</strong> water, me…<br />
Part <strong>of</strong> the vast and powerful sea<br />
How odd, that tiny moment free...<br />
Then great delight returned to Thee
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I am between two worlds
Emotions in Water<br />
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The most powerful feelings to use when you’re working with<br />
manifestation were discovered by Dr. Masaru Emoto, the<br />
Japanese author and entrepreneur who studied the effect <strong>of</strong><br />
energy and emotions using water molecules.<br />
You’ve probably heard <strong>of</strong> his work and know that Dr. Emoto<br />
scientifically proved that emotions could be represented<br />
through water which was exposed to either positive or negative<br />
energy, and then illustrated through frozen water crystals<br />
shown under a microscope’s lens.<br />
Dr. Emoto discovered there are two emotional feelings which<br />
are the most powerful, and he demonstrated these with his<br />
studies on water crystals. The most powerful feeling is “I love<br />
you”. When you go to his website or do some online research,<br />
you can see images <strong>of</strong> this crystalline depiction <strong>of</strong> the emotion.<br />
You’ll notice that the “I love you” crystals are gorgeous,<br />
absolutely beautiful.<br />
The reverse is true when you review the crystals <strong>of</strong> polluted<br />
lakes, which have a distorted, dark and ugly, almost shattered,<br />
crystalline form. Dr. Emoto’s work helps us see the frequency<br />
level and the power <strong>of</strong> energetics when expressing emotions.
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The second most powerful phrase, according to Dr. Emoto,<br />
is “Thank you”. I think when you say, “Thank you, thank you,<br />
thank you!” you supercharge any manifestation.<br />
When I met Dr. Emoto in Sedona, Arizona, I was amazed at<br />
how powerfully this man was able to access his emotions! He<br />
lived what I call “The Beginner’s Mind”, the ability to access<br />
the Inner Child in ourselves. (More will be revealed about this<br />
in my upcoming book.) He was indeed an excellent living<br />
representation <strong>of</strong> his own work for demonstrating the power <strong>of</strong><br />
emotions.<br />
Trio <strong>of</strong> Power<br />
It’s also really important to use the words “I am” before any<br />
affirmation statement to supercharge the results. Saying “I a<br />
loved, I am love, I am lovable” are powerful expressions to use<br />
when doing affirmations. Be sure to add the “I am”. (More will<br />
also be explained about this in the future.)<br />
Now you have three important features that can help you when<br />
expressing the level <strong>of</strong> feeling that’s needed to send a powerful
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“As human beings,<br />
our greatness lies<br />
not so much in being able<br />
to remake the world –<br />
as in being able<br />
to remake ourselves.”<br />
~ Mahatma Gandhi ~
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Winter walk.<br />
Come with me, explore<br />
the world bright and fresh...<br />
A miracle <strong>of</strong> molecules,<br />
Winter’s newest cloak
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message to the Universe, so your life attracts to you in the way<br />
you wish.<br />
1. When using affirmations, use the words “I am” at<br />
the beginning <strong>of</strong> the statement.<br />
2. Statements need to be made in the Present Tense, as if<br />
it’s already happened.<br />
3. Say the words “I love you”, or some related variation, to<br />
brand your feelings with high energy.<br />
4. Express gratitude with the words “Thank you”, to also<br />
rev-up the energy you are attaching to your desire.<br />
Here’s how that might look when you pump up the energy:<br />
“Thank you, I am so grateful, thank you, thank you, I am<br />
thanking you, I am so thankful, I’m so grateful to be loving and<br />
loved!”<br />
Just keep pumping the feeling up, making it bigger and<br />
bigger and bigger, and then go into the affirmations. State a<br />
appropriate affirmation starting with “I am”; saying “I am<br />
with a positive statement in a win-win-win way will be a strong<br />
message going out into the Universe!
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Keep the Focus on You<br />
You have to be very careful when using affirmations because<br />
if you’re creating a manifestation that in any way manipulates<br />
somebody else, or tries in any way to change somebody or<br />
change something in somebody else by taking away that<br />
person’s Free Will, this inappropriate behavior will create very<br />
bad energy.<br />
You never want to attempt to manipulate anybody. You can’t<br />
control, fix, or change anyone but yourself.<br />
If you have a love interest with someone named Joe, for<br />
example, and you affirm something like this, “I am in<br />
relationship with Joe” when you aren’t but wish to be, you’ll<br />
only get yourself into deep trouble, unless it’s your intention to<br />
make your life miserable!<br />
Manipulation, or attempting to control someone else to do what<br />
YOU want, is the opposite <strong>of</strong> what we’re talking about here.<br />
YOU certainly don’t need or want the bad karma or grief that’s<br />
created with this kind <strong>of</strong> manipulation.
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Summer at Heart Lake.<br />
The rains <strong>of</strong> a thousand years<br />
Have blessed me with their tears<br />
Of joy, and I am full for you
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Caught by Earth’s far rotation<br />
The winter sculpts my pose;<br />
Daily I dally here for spring’s embrace<br />
To wake me from these snows<br />
Snow covered trees.
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Remember that old quote: “What goes around always comes<br />
around”, and boy, oh boy, that comes flying back to YOU in<br />
very unpleasant ways! It’s actually creating a spell which works<br />
against you.<br />
When you’re creating affirmation for things you desire, you<br />
only want to talk about Yourself … because you’re the only<br />
person you can ultimately change.<br />
If someone is doing something that’s harmful to you, the only<br />
way you’re going to be able to change it is by changing Yourself.<br />
By trying to change somebody else, you’re only making a BIG<br />
problem.<br />
I was the oldest child in my family, and because <strong>of</strong> my role, I<br />
thought it was My responsibility to control family things like<br />
holidays and family gatherings. That didn’t work out well at all,<br />
and I learned through the backlash I received never to do that<br />
again.<br />
Now I understand that if I did not cause a situation, I cannot<br />
cure it, and it is not my job to “fix” it. It IS my responsibility<br />
as a Fairy Godmother, however, to support people who are<br />
working to create their own personal change through their own
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The Earth in me<br />
Is Still…<br />
Not a single blade moving.<br />
Sky’s Passion<br />
Collecting,<br />
Gathering to break…<br />
I am wedded to<br />
The Storm<br />
Coming rapidly toward me,<br />
Rain and Wind<br />
Birthing<br />
New torrents <strong>of</strong> Life<br />
Before the storm.
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self-direction. Helping others in a healthy way is also essential<br />
to honoring the Divinity within them. The best ways to help<br />
others is by recognizing the inner presence <strong>of</strong> the Higher Self<br />
within each person, and encourage them to find the guidance<br />
they need from within.<br />
When you keep the focus on yourself, your life is going to be<br />
a lot easier and healthier because this is something you really<br />
CAN change and cure, and you’ll be successful with turning<br />
things around.<br />
By working on yourself, you also won’t have to be busy asking<br />
yourself or others for forgiveness for all the things you’ll have<br />
done that you shouldn’t have!<br />
Instead, you can spend your time opening up the plugged<br />
blockages in Yourself and put in its place what you Really<br />
desire, which is the flow <strong>of</strong> abundance. By the way, Not<br />
Forgiving yourself may be another cause for some <strong>of</strong> the<br />
blockages; forgiveness is a very large issue and I will talk about<br />
that in another book.<br />
So, affirmations do not really work by themselves, other than<br />
to help you adjust to a new point <strong>of</strong> view, which is a good<br />
habit-pattern to create. Where things really get supercharged
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A gray rose.<br />
I suppress my true colors...<br />
Happiness held within,<br />
Buried deep<br />
In black and white dreams
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is by putting in powerful positive emotions with “Assuming the<br />
Feeling <strong>of</strong> the Wish Fulfilled”, as this will start the process <strong>of</strong><br />
transformation.<br />
The Suppression <strong>of</strong> Feelings<br />
This is a good place to bring up another very important topic<br />
when we discuss the releasing <strong>of</strong> conscious-unconscious<br />
limiting patterns. We want Your Magnificence to flow through<br />
you freely.<br />
Part <strong>of</strong> making this happen is to look at the amount <strong>of</strong> Flow<br />
currently coming through you, and then release all the clogs<br />
in that flow. The clogs, <strong>of</strong> course, are the beliefs you made for<br />
yourself in this life. We want to open the flow, release the clogs<br />
and enhance the Flow.<br />
An essential way to unplug these clogs is by focusing on the<br />
letting-go <strong>of</strong> your unwillingness to feel your Emotions. In our<br />
culture, it is common to push down our feelings. We usually<br />
don’t have permission from ourselves, or our peers, or our<br />
family, or our world to express ourselves completely in an<br />
emotional way.
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“The minute you settle<br />
for less than you deserve,<br />
you get even less<br />
than you settled for.”<br />
~ Maureen Dowd ~
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Toleak Point.<br />
Sentinel now, but once I belonged<br />
To a long solid shoreline…<br />
The sea took my brothers and left me<br />
Here, an ancient loving memory.
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Remember that the tears you do not cry, the anger you won’t<br />
feel, the happiness you bottle up, are some <strong>of</strong> the emotions<br />
you don’t express because acknowledging them is considered<br />
“inappropriate” in our culture.<br />
This puts a wall around your spirit and keeps you and your<br />
flow contained, and this repression and suppression blocks the<br />
Flow. You’re keeping yourself locked in the past because you’re<br />
not expressing the feelings you’ve imprisoned within yourself.<br />
I’d like to illustrate this idea with one <strong>of</strong> my favorite cartoons.<br />
Everyone knows the “Peanuts” comic strip, and this little story<br />
takes place at one <strong>of</strong> their baseball games. Charlie Brown is at<br />
bat, Lucy is pitching, Linus is the catcher and Schroeder is the<br />
umpire. Lucy throws the first pitch and Charlie Brown swings.<br />
“Strike one!” yells Schroeder.<br />
Again, Lucy winds up and throws the pitch to Charlie Brown.<br />
He swings!<br />
“Strike two!” yells Schroeder.
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A single teardrop<br />
From so many eyes…<br />
Together<br />
We flood the Earth<br />
With our compassion<br />
Morning dew.
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For the third time, Lucy sends the ball flying toward Charlie<br />
Brown. He swings!<br />
“Strike three!” yells Schroeder. “You’re out!”<br />
Lucy runs up to Charlie Brown with that concerned look on her<br />
face. “Charlie Brown, Charlie Brown, what happened?”<br />
Charlie Brown looks up and to the left and says,<br />
“I don’t know, but the Past got in my eyes…”<br />
We allow the same thing to happen in our lives when we let the<br />
past interfere. We’ll swing and we’ll miss the ball every time<br />
because the repressed emotions are holding us back, restraining<br />
us from hitting a home run or even getting on first base. When<br />
you hold onto your emotions, there is no room for anything new<br />
and good and wholesome to come into your life.<br />
We want you to be a grand slam batter! I actually know you<br />
already are because I’m your Fairy Godmother and I keep<br />
reminding you that you’re living in an illusion <strong>of</strong> your own<br />
making. You’re really Baby Ruth in disguise! The best way to
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H2O interacting with electromagnetic waves.<br />
Water and light, old friends…<br />
Playing in our solar sandbox<br />
For 4,000 million years...<br />
And again today!
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start batting 1.000 is by feeling your emotions and releasing<br />
them in a healthy way. We are going to talk about this next.<br />
Emotional Discipline<br />
Now we’re going to come to the subject <strong>of</strong> Emotional Discipline.<br />
Suppressed-repressed emotional discipline is the opposite <strong>of</strong><br />
the type <strong>of</strong> emotional discipline I advocate. At one point in my<br />
life, when I was leading a project, someone said to me, “Wenty,<br />
you have a stunted emotional range.”<br />
According to NLP, or neurolinguistic programming, and<br />
according to some people’s perceptions, my suppressionrepression<br />
placed me in a very narrow emotional range. I<br />
immediately recognized this condition as true and realized that<br />
the way I was being wasn’t really my True Self.<br />
Seeing this, I started working on opening up to my emotions,<br />
returning to who I originally was: a happy, joyful being,<br />
allowing myself to cry when I felt like crying over a sad movie,<br />
allowing myself to feel fear, anger, allowing all <strong>of</strong> my emotions<br />
to be free, and not necessarily to sit in an emotional soup.
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I am not an advocate <strong>of</strong> staying in a feeling for a really long<br />
time. Rather, what I DO advocate is allowing whatever<br />
emotions are flowing into and through you…let them FLOW!<br />
Let them flow, let them go, and then let it be, and set them<br />
FREE!<br />
This doesn’t mean being childish, but rather, instead,<br />
child-LIKE, where you become the internal nurturing adult<br />
and guide these emotions to their release.<br />
I think tears are awesome! Whether they are happy tears or sad<br />
tears, or even just tears because it’s too dang cold outside, tears<br />
are a great way to release toxins from the body.<br />
I now know that unexpressed emotions cause unresolved<br />
emotional content and turmoil that is every bit as much an<br />
emotional toxin and a blockage <strong>of</strong> the Flow as negative thoughts<br />
and believed limitations.<br />
The emotional discipline I advocate now is Being In The Flow.<br />
Whatever feeling is happening, let it happen, let the feeling<br />
come up and be expressed. Since one <strong>of</strong> the goals we desire for<br />
you is your having financial prosperity, which is accomplished<br />
by allowing the Flow in your life, you can broaden the Flow
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“Sometimes<br />
I go about<br />
pitying myself,<br />
and all the time<br />
I am being carried<br />
on great winds<br />
across the sky.”<br />
~ Chippewa, translated by Robert Bly ~
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Horseshoe Falls.
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by allowing the emotional flow to exist. There must be a<br />
flow <strong>of</strong> feelings, there must be a flow <strong>of</strong> emotions, allowing<br />
the emotions to come, flow, and go.<br />
Most people are unaware that emotions are energy in motion.<br />
E-motion! Kind <strong>of</strong> cool in our digital age! When we suppress<br />
our emotions, we close the valve <strong>of</strong> receiving, we make the<br />
valve’s opening smaller, and we don’t allow the motion <strong>of</strong> the<br />
energy to release.<br />
Before I became a Fairy Godmother, and since it was<br />
inappropriate for me to have feelings at that time, I would push<br />
them down. For many years I had suppressed and repressed<br />
feelings locked in my body. These emotions have to come out<br />
or they’ll block the Flow. It’s not healthy to keep this energy<br />
locked inside your body.<br />
If those e-motions don’t come out in a healthy way, the person<br />
either blows up with inconsistent behavior, such as frequent<br />
rages, or sinks into a mire <strong>of</strong> depression, or develops ill health<br />
<strong>of</strong> some sort.<br />
In the beginning, my emotional expressions were not pretty.<br />
It wasn’t comfortable for me to allow myself to have an
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emotional range or the freedom <strong>of</strong> release. I had to give myself<br />
permission to allow a basic human function, allowing myself to<br />
have and express my feelings, and this was really challenging<br />
for me since I was coming from the opposite orientation <strong>of</strong><br />
suppression and repression.<br />
Well, I’m happy to say that your Fairy Godmother received<br />
honors in Fairy Godmother School, and I am now well and<br />
healthy and hearty!<br />
If this is your experience too, just know it may not be pretty<br />
for you, either. For example, when some people experience the<br />
death <strong>of</strong> a close family member, many people don’t truly grieve<br />
at that time, and actually deny themselves the grieving process.<br />
Grieving is very important because grieving is the emotional<br />
flow <strong>of</strong> perceived loss at that time <strong>of</strong> loss. So sometimes,<br />
perhaps 10 years later, a person will suddenly begin crying<br />
in the middle <strong>of</strong> a meeting, and while it will seem really<br />
inappropriate when this happens, because they haven’t<br />
spent any time feeling these deep emotions and allowing<br />
the emotions to flow at the time <strong>of</strong> loss, the emotions erupt<br />
unexpectedly.
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“At the center <strong>of</strong> your being<br />
you have the answer;<br />
you know who you are<br />
and you know what you want.”<br />
~ Lao Tzu ~
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Take flight, and upon the wind we will set our stories…
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Rise with us, and sound the Song <strong>of</strong> the Divine…
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I venture into a New World,<br />
A world<br />
I am now<br />
beginning to see…
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Those feelings have got to come out and sometimes they break<br />
through whenever! Truly, it’s much better to process your<br />
emotions when they arise rather than keeping them bottled<br />
up and causing yourself unnecessary conflict or even physical<br />
harm in the future.<br />
If your body is scrunched full <strong>of</strong> all these feelings and emotions<br />
from the past, the energy within the emotions is trapped inside<br />
you and can’t leave! Doesn’t that sound unhealthy?<br />
Our bodies are relatively small, so having these giant emotions<br />
inside us, and holding on to these emotions as the emotions are<br />
seeking a way out, seeking a way to release, an exit strategy, can<br />
cause a lot <strong>of</strong> problems, mentally, physically, emotionally and<br />
spiritually.<br />
These big emotions are trying to leave the small vehicle <strong>of</strong> our<br />
body, wanting to transform into some other form <strong>of</strong> energy. It’s<br />
really important the energy in motion is released…that it comes<br />
in, and then that it can go.<br />
That’s basically what your feelings want to do. The emotion<br />
comes by, and then, if there is no resistance, or judgement, it<br />
just leaves immediately. It doesn’t stay forever, and it doesn’t
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take 20 years <strong>of</strong> therapy to get rid <strong>of</strong> one emotion! One <strong>of</strong><br />
the best things you can do is allow the feeling to come up, be<br />
experienced, release, and be done. It’s important to open the<br />
body to let the feelings out.<br />
Remember Leo Buscaglia? He was a wonderful TV star on<br />
PBS. Leo Buscaglia was really good at talking about feelings.<br />
He would always hug everyone and he was very happy and he<br />
wasn’t afraid to cry.<br />
He was a great example <strong>of</strong> how to be in the world emotionally,<br />
being totally present with whatever feelings are coming<br />
through.<br />
Part <strong>of</strong> our life’s work is going on our journey to feel, and<br />
learning how to resolve these unexpressed emotions, the<br />
unresolved emotional density.<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the lessons you came here to learn is about releasing<br />
your unexpressed emotions so you can be more connected to<br />
your Magnificence, your inner self, your power and clear out<br />
all the gunk so there’s nothing blocking you from living a full<br />
life with a full range <strong>of</strong> emotions. This is the life you so richly<br />
deserve!
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Star rise.
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Sunbeams.<br />
The fog has lifted and I …<br />
I Know my Self once more
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Let’s Do a Clearing<br />
Right now, we’re going to do a clearing. This clearing is about<br />
releasing all the emotions in the past that hold you back, that<br />
keep you from living the life <strong>of</strong> your dreams, that keep you from<br />
having financial abundance. This clearing will work on opening<br />
a lot <strong>of</strong> the emotional blocks which have been part <strong>of</strong> your<br />
experience to date.<br />
As YOU now read these words, I’m going to hold the vision for<br />
your releasing and do the clearing. How this works is I’ll make a<br />
statement and ask a question and at the end, I’d like YOU to<br />
say, out loud, an Intensely Affirmative Committed “YES!<br />
It doesn’t have to be loud, but it has to be intense, committed,<br />
and filled with emotion like you really mean it. After you say<br />
“YES!”, be very quiet and simply allow the Silence, in which the<br />
magic does its work. Let it be for a couple <strong>of</strong> minutes…just<br />
silence.<br />
Now I’m going to ask you the question:<br />
“Are you Willing to Release suppressed repressed emotions<br />
from the past, all levels, times and dimensions, completing that
After the clearing.<br />
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path and the blocks in your life, and Are you Willing to let go <strong>of</strong><br />
that NOW?”<br />
YES!<br />
(Wait and allow the silence…<br />
the magic is now working…)<br />
(Wait…)<br />
(Wait…)<br />
(Wait…)<br />
How do you feel?<br />
Do you feel anything different about your shoulders, or in your<br />
body?<br />
Focus on if you feel lighter, more calm and peaceful, and quiet<br />
inside.
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“Look at your feet.<br />
You are standing in the sky.<br />
When we think <strong>of</strong> the sky,<br />
we tend to look up,<br />
but the sky actually<br />
begins at the earth.”<br />
~ Diane Ackerman ~<br />
Clear on top.
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Light through the trees.<br />
Through the trees<br />
and all that lies between Thou and me…<br />
Your Light reaches my heart.
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As we do this work, you will continually feel less and less<br />
tension, more and more confidence, and you’ll be more and<br />
more in touch with your feelings, more spacious and peaceful<br />
inside, and you’ll see how events move through your life more<br />
and more easily.<br />
By the way, these clearings that we do will be permanent. You<br />
won’t have to ever think about this subject again. When you<br />
spend time thinking about the released negative belief, you<br />
recreate that limiting belief again in the future.<br />
It is Done, Complete, Now – let go and go on with your life to a<br />
new way <strong>of</strong> being around this concept!<br />
And as I always tell my clients, when they sign up for the work:<br />
“It’s going to get Better, and Better. Then it gets Better. Then<br />
when you least expect it, it’ll get Better and then Better!” With<br />
each release and “AHA!”, emotional blocks open and allow<br />
more <strong>Abundance</strong> into your life.<br />
The funny thing is, and this deserves a good belly laugh, we call<br />
this “growth”, but actually what we’re really doing is dumping<br />
the garbage out <strong>of</strong> the way so we can see who you REALLY
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are. As usual, on this planet, we’re once again mislabeling the<br />
emotional density experience, believing the Illusion as our<br />
accepted Reality. The amount <strong>of</strong> Illusion we’ve stored in our<br />
lives determines our lack <strong>of</strong> Energy Flow. It isn’t growth that<br />
we come to, but rather a return to the Essence <strong>of</strong> who we Really<br />
are, an emotionally free being.<br />
All <strong>of</strong> this, the drama, the limiting beliefs, the mishegas<br />
(craziness) and the suppressed-repressed feelings are in the<br />
way <strong>of</strong> not just the Flow, but in the way <strong>of</strong> the real YOU coming<br />
out to play.<br />
As a matter fact, if you could feel it right now, you probably<br />
have more energy. You might notice you have more feelings<br />
now rushing into your body… That’s the Real You. It’s not about<br />
growing, it’s more about “coming home to you”, more about<br />
relieving your Self <strong>of</strong> all the debris you’ve gathered along the<br />
way.<br />
Most people tell me they actually see better after I do a clearing<br />
because the filters that were there are now actually gone, and it<br />
makes the eyes work better. The filter is a metaphorical concept<br />
and when it’s been removed, its absence can actually make a<br />
difference in the quality <strong>of</strong> your eyesight!
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I am declaring that<br />
Allowing and Receiving<br />
is now open and flowing to me.
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A storm <strong>of</strong> feathers<br />
Rise from me and rush…<br />
and then have flown
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I know<br />
and so<br />
I Flow<br />
But you know all this stuff already; I’m just reminding you.<br />
This clearing works mentally, physically, emotionally, and<br />
spiritually, and everybody says they feel lighter and happier<br />
after their old filters have evaporated.<br />
Let’s talk a little bit more about the Flow. It’s time, now, to<br />
make several significant declarations and commitments to<br />
yourself around emotional freedom which leads to and serves<br />
financial freedom.<br />
I’d like you to declare you are willing to receive and be part <strong>of</strong><br />
the increase <strong>of</strong> Flow and Power now coming to your life.
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The First Declaration<br />
Please now say, “I am now declaring an increase <strong>of</strong> Flow and<br />
Power now coming into my life.” Say this out loud. Remember<br />
to say it with enthusiasm and add this at the end: “YES! YES!<br />
YES!”<br />
Great! Excellent. You can say this a few times… Go ahead and<br />
do it. Do this now. You’re making a statement, you’re declaring<br />
your intentions. When said with powerful emotional feelings,<br />
especially after having just had the clearing, this is very<br />
powerful.<br />
The Second Declaration<br />
Next: “I am declaring that financial prosperity is now flowing<br />
to me with Ease and Grace”.<br />
Please say it out loud: “I declare that financial prosperity is now<br />
flowing to me with Ease and Grace.” Say this out loud. Then<br />
add the pop: “YES! YES! YES!”
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Fresh ocean air.<br />
Endless thundering waves<br />
silence me with awe,<br />
Their briny breath my tonic…
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Ordinary cornflowers.<br />
“Holiness comes wrapped in the ordinary.<br />
There are burning bushes all around you.<br />
Every tree is full <strong>of</strong> angels.”<br />
~ Macrina Wiederkehr ~
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“Stop acting so small.<br />
You are the universe<br />
in ecstatic motion.”<br />
~ Rumi ~
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The Third Declaration<br />
Here comes the third declaration. “I am declaring that Allowing<br />
and Receiving is now open and flowing to me.<br />
Please say it out loud: “I am declaring that Allowing and<br />
Receiving is now open and flowing to me.” Say this out loud,<br />
and: “YES! YES! YES!”<br />
Be sure to say these declarations with full-bodied intention and<br />
commitment. Use lots <strong>of</strong> emotion! Say these words like you<br />
REALLY mean them! Your emotional power will enhance your<br />
intention. The whole Universe is Energy, so use your emotional<br />
energy here!<br />
This is a new beginning <strong>of</strong> abundance for you! Energy is<br />
everywhere! And energy is yours to access! You have now set a<br />
full and strong intention to have energy flow more inside you<br />
and outside <strong>of</strong> you and be less static, and this will bring you<br />
many new possibilities, new opportunities.
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Daytime moon.<br />
Though you see but a part,<br />
You know I Am more…<br />
Love and Faith are the wings<br />
To arrive at My door…
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By just Stating your Commitment, and saying it with Powerful<br />
Feeling, you are Allowing and Magnetizing an increase to your<br />
Financial Flow.<br />
Often when someone has fear or worry, behind that initial<br />
emotion lies sadness. If the fear comes up, just notice it. Don’t<br />
judge it, don’t think about it, don’t talk about it. It’s just going<br />
to come up and go out.<br />
Allow that feeling to come up and then release from your<br />
body. Then, behind it, there is usually the secondary emotion<br />
<strong>of</strong> sadness. There are also other feelings behind the feeling <strong>of</strong><br />
sadness; fear and sadness are very dense feelings because they<br />
involve so many different levels.<br />
Once you let the fear go, you may find a number <strong>of</strong> other<br />
feelings coming up as well. For example, you might notice a<br />
string <strong>of</strong> these: I could’ve, I should’ve, I wish I would’ve… Allow<br />
the sadness to come up and release.<br />
Allow all the other succeeding feelings to come up and release.<br />
In other words, do not block the flow <strong>of</strong> exiting feelings. Do<br />
not judge the feelings, just watch them. And watch them leave.<br />
These feelings want to leave, so give them an exit strategy. Help
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“Inside yourself or outside,<br />
you never have to change what you see,<br />
only the way you see it.”<br />
~ Thaddeus Golas ~
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Breathing mountains.
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them leave! You don’t have to do anything but watch them<br />
come in, and then show them the door!<br />
Breathe!<br />
Another brilliant activity that really helps you process the<br />
emotions is:<br />
You need to breathe.<br />
Most people are not breathing. Breathing is life. Breathing-in is<br />
obviously going to help the Flow. When I tell people to breathe,<br />
they usually exhale! It’s very important to Inhale, to breathe<br />
IN. Exhaling is good too, but I’m talking about breathing-IN<br />
life- energy, allowing the Flow, taking big breaths and focusing<br />
on the breathing, notice the flow <strong>of</strong> air molecules going into<br />
your lungs and then coming out <strong>of</strong> your lungs.<br />
You’ll notice that as you breathe-in, parts <strong>of</strong> your body, the<br />
parts with tension, relax. Because these tense body parts don’t<br />
have oxygen coming to them, they tense up. So when you’re
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having a feeling, breathe! Part <strong>of</strong> helping the emotions exit is by<br />
breathing nice deep breaths. It’s very important to take time to<br />
breathe. So breathe!<br />
For years and years I’ve known about breathing, and I wasn’t<br />
doing it either! It wasn’t until I took a seminar that I began<br />
breathing and doing deep breathing, and focusing on breathing.<br />
I noticed that my whole life changed and everything became a<br />
lot easier for me.<br />
Obviously, something can’t be suppressed and repressed if I’m<br />
breathing it in and then letting it go, letting it go out. Breathing<br />
is really, really important.<br />
This lesson is about your past, your emotional drama or your<br />
emotional suppression-repression, this baggage you’ve been<br />
carrying around for however long, and it does NOT equal your<br />
future.<br />
By the way:<br />
Your Past DOES NOT Equal Your Future!
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“One day your life will flash<br />
before your eyes.<br />
Make sure it’s worth watching.”<br />
~ Unknown ~<br />
A forest <strong>of</strong> tulips.
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“We don’t stop playing<br />
because we grow old;<br />
we grow old<br />
because we stop playing.”<br />
~ George Bernard Shaw ~
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You can’t get to the future if you’re looking backward at your<br />
past. That’s like driving your car forward while watching what’s<br />
behind you in your rear view mirror. Kind <strong>of</strong> silly, huh?<br />
The shift you’re making happens only in the Present. An<br />
essential part <strong>of</strong> this process is Breathing and Allowing<br />
whatever feeling you’re having to be there and to leave without<br />
judgement so it can release.<br />
Our path moves toward the future, a future <strong>of</strong> Flow. The future<br />
could be this afternoon, you know. The future doesn’t have to<br />
always be somewhere out there, away from us. You know how<br />
we sometimes think, “Some day I’ll be there. Someday I’ll…”<br />
kind-<strong>of</strong>-thing. Someday could be within the hour. So Know this!<br />
The breathing can shift things very quickly. Working on shifting<br />
energy isn’t about how the shift is going to happen tomorrow<br />
or a week from Sunday. Or “It’s somewhere out there…” This is<br />
about breathing and being in the Present. Ram Dass talks a lot<br />
about “Be Here Now”, being in the Moment.<br />
As you probably know, many sages have stated that Life exists<br />
only in the Present, only in this one slender second <strong>of</strong> time…<br />
which becomes eternal. There is no past or future…just Now.
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So, when the feeling comes, be with it. Breathe it in. Notice it,<br />
Observe it, don’t judge it, just look at it. “Oh! Look at this. This<br />
is here! I’m having a feeling!”<br />
Breathe it in, and then exhale. Allow the feeling to be the energy<br />
in motion (e-motion, remember?) and to release and not be<br />
stuck in your scrunchy body, your body that’s small; don’t make<br />
it hold in all the feelings!<br />
Let the feelings rise and go!<br />
We really only have one duty along this path, and that’s to<br />
feel what you have to feel within you. Be really present with<br />
whatever you’re feeling. You don’t have to know why, you don’t<br />
have to understand it… in fact, that’s the real problem, trying to<br />
understand it!<br />
Don’t worry about understanding it, because the “whys” are not<br />
important and they actually keep you running the old pattern.<br />
The only important thing to do is to just feel the feeling…just<br />
feel it. That’s it! You’re done!
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Silver lining.<br />
I see the world through the mirror<br />
<strong>of</strong> my vibration, and there is so much more<br />
to do and see, to feel and be…
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Feeling This Moment<br />
Children are great examples <strong>of</strong> how to live life to its max, life at<br />
its best. Children are in the moment. They see a toy and they<br />
get all excited and they play with it and then they put it down<br />
and go away. Then they turn around and they pick up the toy<br />
again and play with it and get excited all over again!<br />
It’s called “Beginner’s Mind”, and that’s the power <strong>of</strong> being<br />
in the moment with the Beginner’s Mind. Every moment is<br />
fresh and new, you feel the feeling, feel the excitement, feel the<br />
sadness, feel the anger.<br />
This doesn’t mean that if you’re feeling anger you have to go<br />
around and break things…just allow yourself to feel the anger,<br />
without any action except letting the anger go as it subsides.<br />
Just Notice that you’re having anger; “Oh, that’s interesting,<br />
I’m feeling anger…I’m angry!”<br />
We are now seeing really Good News lately about how some<br />
people are dealing with their emotions in a healthy way; many<br />
young people are involved in nonviolent sit-ins.
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Ever higher.<br />
There is no distance<br />
from my Heart to yours,<br />
my longing is the longing you also feel…
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This way.<br />
The nearer you come<br />
the more there is to <strong>of</strong>fer …<br />
until All my Gifts become yours
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These young people are protesting because they’re angry about<br />
the way things have been happening, they are concerned with<br />
the places that aren’t transparent, outraged by the wrongs that<br />
are being done, and these young people have now moved Out <strong>of</strong><br />
Apathy...<br />
...which is appropriate, into nonviolent action and petitioning,<br />
letting people know they care. What a powerful metaphor this<br />
is! Moving from apathy, which is a form <strong>of</strong> judgement and a<br />
sense <strong>of</strong> hopelessness (“I can’t be angry, I have to keep cool, I<br />
have to be appropriate…”), into opening up and speaking their<br />
truth nonviolently and making powerful statements.<br />
This is like what Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. did with his<br />
nonviolence leadership. It wasn’t Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.<br />
who caused the riots; it was Dr. King speaking the Love and<br />
the Truth <strong>of</strong> the present moment with his passionate feeling <strong>of</strong><br />
Love.<br />
His emotions sparked the dormant repression-suppression<br />
feelings <strong>of</strong> millions. When we move out <strong>of</strong> apathy and being<br />
appropriate, and fully experience a healthy emotional range, we<br />
are far more powerful.
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My intention for you is to have YOU have a more powerful life.<br />
John Bradshaw did a lot <strong>of</strong> work with the “Inner Child”.<br />
It isn’t about acting childishly and having temper tantrums and<br />
always acting out with what your Inner Child demands, because<br />
the Nurturing Parent in you, that would support the Inner<br />
Child, is every bit as important in the equation <strong>of</strong> a human’s<br />
life.<br />
It’s allowing the childlike-ness inside us to be experienced and<br />
be part <strong>of</strong> the Flow <strong>of</strong> our life. The answer to all <strong>of</strong> this is to,<br />
again, go with the Flow, feel your feelings, allow the love <strong>of</strong> your<br />
Self and others out, allow your Self to experience the moment.<br />
When you allow, when you open up and permit your feelings<br />
and your innocence to express itself, you are opening the gates<br />
to the Flow, and the current will wash away all the impurities<br />
that have been blocking your channels, restricting the flow <strong>of</strong><br />
your ordained abundance.<br />
Other People’s Emotions<br />
One more piece to know. This doesn’t just apply to you. It’s<br />
important that you recognize and clearly see that many other<br />
people have suppressed and repressed emotions, too.
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It’s important that we let ourselves and others have Their<br />
emotions, their anger and their sadness, without our judging<br />
their emotions. Judging others is as much a block as our<br />
judging ourselves. It’s still a blocking <strong>of</strong> the Flow.<br />
When other people are experiencing their sadness, when they<br />
are crying, let them have their sadness and let them cry -- hand<br />
them a tissue, let them vent and say emotionally what they feel.<br />
If they have anger, let them speak it.<br />
Nothing defuses anger faster than when someone is an Active<br />
Listener for another and is really listening to what is being said.<br />
The anger will quickly wind down because it’s being allowed<br />
to move. The angry person may even express anger for a few<br />
minutes, or for a while, and even repeat their angry expressions<br />
after a period <strong>of</strong> time has passed.<br />
This is how the anger is being released, flowing through their<br />
body and being released through talking it out, until all <strong>of</strong> the<br />
anger has passed through them…and then the anger is gone.<br />
What a great gift you give others when you listen to them when<br />
they’re having their anger, or having their fear. This is how you
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can assist people vent their emotions so they can return to their<br />
own power. So let them have their feelings, and you can also<br />
have your own feelings. Allow them out, allow yourself to be<br />
with them, don’t judge them, and breathe, and experience<br />
them. Once you release an Emotion, you’ll notice that the next<br />
feeling will show up right behind it, and then the next, and<br />
then the next. Every moment has a new feeling. That’s who we<br />
are, as humans. This is our divine walkabout as humans. We<br />
are human beings with human feelings.<br />
This is what it is to be human. That’s part <strong>of</strong> why we signed<br />
up…to have feelings, to learn how to be our spiritual selves and<br />
to deal with the humanness and the density <strong>of</strong> these feelings.<br />
That’s part <strong>of</strong> our challenge.<br />
A word <strong>of</strong> caution: I feel it’s important to remind you not to<br />
dump your emotions on other people, but instead recognize<br />
that your feelings are for you to notice and for you to release.<br />
Emotions are for your Self and your own growth, and are not<br />
intended to be used as a way <strong>of</strong> hurting other people. The<br />
emotional release is for your benefit and must be used in a way<br />
that brings you relief without adding a burden to others. Clear?<br />
One <strong>of</strong> the great things about working with my clients is they<br />
begin looking younger and younger as I work with them. This is<br />
because more and more <strong>of</strong> their stress falls <strong>of</strong>f and they lose<br />
weight and they lose wrinkles.
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The resistance is what causes aging. You are resisting something<br />
(wearing down your body’s resources), so you’re going to<br />
wrinkle up. As you work through this material, you could also<br />
become younger and younger looking, and before you know it,<br />
you may be born again!<br />
This work will make you feel more confident, and stronger, and<br />
more alive. You will become more focused on the You in your<br />
life, less focused on the angst, worrying about this or that<br />
gigantic mountain, less concerned about what others are doing,<br />
and you will have more space to live and enjoy life. This will<br />
affect your partner, your children, your family, your friends,<br />
your associates...everyone! You will be seen in a new light<br />
because you will be emanating from a new Light.<br />
Really, now you are coming home to you. The who you Really<br />
are.<br />
I live my life vicariously, a lot, through my clients, and I’m just<br />
so happy that everybody gets happier! This is why I love my<br />
work. I am honored, I am humbled, and I’m so happy for you,<br />
You deserve it.<br />
Thank you.<br />
Always remember that You are Special.
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Time for FUN!
Bloop!<br />
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Reflections<br />
This book presented a number <strong>of</strong> significant gems: some might<br />
be familiar, some may be presented in a new way, and some<br />
could be totally new. It is my wish that you found value with<br />
these Universal Truths, and they will serve and improve your<br />
life.<br />
This work is about elevating your vibrational level, which is the<br />
key to abundant and continual manifestation. This is not easy<br />
to do when your natural flow, the flow with which you were<br />
born, has filters imposed upon it which diminish your organic<br />
abilities.<br />
We do not seek to blame; we seek to release our limitations.<br />
The more aware you become, the more your Self will awaken.<br />
As you awaken, you begin to thrive. As you continue to practice<br />
and grow...and practice and grow some more, the miraculous<br />
will continue to flow into your life, and the Flow will expand. It<br />
cannot be otherwise.<br />
I believe the key to our understanding is first realizing that<br />
our everyday reality is not real. Once we can accept that what<br />
appears to exist is only an amazing illusion, we give ourselves<br />
permission to understand on deeper levels.<br />
How much thought have you given, really given, to the idea<br />
that we are on a minor planet that’s flying through space? How
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much have you thought about the gallons <strong>of</strong> blood pumping<br />
through your heart, traveling to every cell in your body? Do you<br />
have an answer for where we go when we sleep?<br />
When we open ourselves to seeing the miracles that are all<br />
around us, when we realize, truly realize, that everything is a<br />
manifestation <strong>of</strong> energy that has been formed for a purpose,<br />
that’s when we begin to adjust our thinking and feeling to<br />
moving the energy into the designs we wish. That’s when we<br />
begin to create our own reality.<br />
The energy is here. Everything you see is energy. The energy<br />
is available to you all the time. Energy is responsive to your<br />
thoughts and your emotional influence. When you align your<br />
Self with the universal principle <strong>of</strong> the Universe and direct<br />
your thoughts and emotions in a disciplined manner, you will<br />
manifest the blessings you desire.<br />
Thank you for visiting with me! I’ve enjoyed spending this time<br />
with you and I want to visit with you some more. Next time<br />
we’ll contemplate other facets <strong>of</strong> prosperity and examine more<br />
tools you can use. With each step we take, you’ll become more<br />
adept with manifesting the <strong>Abundance</strong> that is truly within your<br />
reach.<br />
Consider my second book, <strong>Dance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong> 2,<br />
and the ebooks and video packages on my website,<br />
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Please know that I wish only goodness and harmony for you<br />
and all your Loved Ones. Remember that I love to hear how<br />
well you’re doing, and all the beautiful, miraculous events in<br />
your life. Please send me a message now and then because it<br />
will make me so grateful to know that you are receiving the<br />
blessings you deserve.<br />
Remember how much I love you.<br />
Everything is magical!<br />
‘Bye!<br />
Wenty, Your Fairy Godmother.
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Glossary<br />
<strong>Abundance</strong>: The quality <strong>of</strong> the energy that surrounds us all<br />
the time. Self-imposed filters reduce the Flow <strong>of</strong> <strong>Abundance</strong><br />
Energy into our consciousness.<br />
Affirmations: Repetitive statements that help adjust the<br />
patterning <strong>of</strong> the mind’s thoughts.<br />
Aura: The energy field that surrounds a being.<br />
Being: Any substance that has a vibration.<br />
Chakra: A center <strong>of</strong> energy on a body. The human body has<br />
seven main chakras.<br />
Clearing: The activity <strong>of</strong> releasing negative energy, influences,<br />
filters, etc. to “clear” space for new energy.<br />
God-Source Energy: Energy from the Divine.<br />
Inner Planes: The Universe’s zones <strong>of</strong> manifestation,<br />
composed <strong>of</strong> energy waves.<br />
Light Grid: The vibrationary field around the Earth that<br />
connects all Beings to each other and Beyond. A Light and<br />
Consciousness grid that connects all Beings to Everything.<br />
Limiting Beliefs: Thoughts that limit the capacity for<br />
expansion and restoring the Being to its True Nature.<br />
Money: A form <strong>of</strong> energy.<br />
Mutually Exclusive Beliefs: Beliefs that are direct opposites<br />
to each other, thereby canceling each other out.
Divine Light.<br />
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Worthy, which is essential to the <strong>Abundance</strong> you desire.
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Acknowledgments<br />
I wish to personally thank the following friends for their help<br />
with manifesting this book for the benefit <strong>of</strong> All Living Beings.<br />
Dr. Daniel Levine, my editor; this book would not exist without<br />
your loving care, advice, support and vision. Blessings!<br />
Chris J. Scott for expert technical skills, video and audio<br />
support, and photographic contributions. Your good humor<br />
and relentless positive energy made this project Fun!<br />
Zander Levine for editing, expert technical assistance, and<br />
photographic contributions.<br />
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Gratitude and blessings to the many artists for their beautiful<br />
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All my One With You valued clients! Your support and kindness<br />
have enhanced my life…<br />
And to all my many, many loving friends. You fill my heart!<br />
Thank you for your boundless Love and Joy.<br />
And especially … You!<br />
You know I mean YOU!<br />
Yes…You!<br />
YOU!<br />
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Resources<br />
The resources listed here are recommended for your further<br />
exploration. There are many worthy books and materials<br />
available to you…these are a few to get you started!<br />
Buscaglia, Leo. (1972). Love.<br />
Byrne, Rhonda. (2012). The Magic.<br />
Dass, Ram. (1971). Be Here Now.<br />
Emoto, Masuru, Dr. (2005). The Hidden Messages in Water.<br />
Goddard, Neville. (1944). Feeling is the Secret.<br />
Price, John Randolph. (1987). The <strong>Abundance</strong> Book.
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