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2 Mental HealtH<br />

Our days are filled with driving here,<br />

driving there. Mobile phones, emails,<br />

texts, work, family, friends, community<br />

events, daily life chores. Every stage<br />

of life, rather 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, 90’s,<br />

100’s, has gotten busier and busier<br />

within our modern society.<br />

At these ages, we as an individual<br />

have many life experiences that have<br />

moulded us into who be are today. We<br />

have skills, and stories, and more time<br />

on our hands in which we can share<br />

our life’s journey with others.<br />

We can make our own choices of what<br />

we want to do and how we want to<br />

spend our time. We can spend time<br />

volunteering or writing a book or<br />

learning a new skill or teaching a skill<br />

we may have developed.<br />

We can determine how we want to<br />

give back and serve others, but most<br />

importantly for many, it’s the first time<br />

in their lives, when they can look in<br />

the mirror and ask the person looking<br />

back, who am I and what do I want?<br />

Growing up, most people have<br />

experienced authoritative personalities,<br />

who generally have our best interest<br />

at heart, but who also tell us how<br />

to think and feel. What to do. Who<br />

we should marry. What profession<br />

we should pursue, what school we<br />

should go to and a myriad of other life<br />

recommendations.<br />

Many of their recommendations,<br />

we follow, feeling obligated or not<br />

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knowing<br />

exactly what<br />

we want to do,<br />

so why not, or<br />

thinking they’re<br />

the adult, they<br />

know better and<br />

discounting our own<br />

inner thoughts.<br />

Only to find ourselves in later years,<br />

feeling unfulfilled, unhappy, stressed<br />

and wishing we had chosen a different<br />

pathway. Those youthful feelings were<br />

suppressed in order to follow our<br />

elders more sagely advice.<br />

Reconnecting with ourselves can<br />

happen at any stage of life, but<br />

generally happens starting in our 50’s<br />

after we have more free time, as our<br />

own parenting responsibilities lessen,<br />

we have time to start asking ourselves<br />

about our life what and we may want.<br />

and finding the personal power to<br />

make choices for ourselves.<br />

As winter is upon us, and the sun sets<br />

earlier, there is more time to befriend<br />

ourselves and ask, ‘what do I want’?<br />

What is my next step? Am I happy<br />

where I’m at today?<br />

PUBLISHER<br />

<strong>Star</strong> Media<br />

<strong>The</strong> Christchurch <strong>Star</strong> Company Ltd<br />

PO Box 1467 Christchurch 8140<br />

CoNNECt<br />

with yourself<br />

If the answer<br />

is yes,<br />

fabulous. But<br />

if you’re feeling<br />

unfulfilled,<br />

connect with<br />

yourself. Befriend<br />

yourself and listen from<br />

within as to what you want. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />

no time limits in making a choice or<br />

taking action. We are never too old to<br />

connect with the real us. To achieve a<br />

silent goal or dreamed about adventure<br />

or activity. Today, be kind to yourself<br />

and become your best friend. Let<br />

the authentic you and your personal<br />

power shine.<br />

As Deepak Chopra said, “Intention is a<br />

directed impulse of consciousness that<br />

contains the seed form of that which<br />

you aim to create. Like real seeds,<br />

intentions can’t grow if you hold onto<br />

them. Only when you release your<br />

intentions into the fertile depths of<br />

your consciousness can they grow and<br />

flourish”.<br />

ADvERtISINg<br />

Frank Greenslade - Ph 03 364 7441<br />

email: frank.greenslade@starmedia.kiwi<br />

EDItoRIAL Jenafor Rollins<br />

DESIgN Denise Crawford

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