The Star: June 28, 2018
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2 Mental HealtH<br />
Our days are filled with driving here,<br />
driving there. Mobile phones, emails,<br />
texts, work, family, friends, community<br />
events, daily life chores. Every stage<br />
of life, rather 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, 90’s,<br />
100’s, has gotten busier and busier<br />
within our modern society.<br />
At these ages, we as an individual<br />
have many life experiences that have<br />
moulded us into who be are today. We<br />
have skills, and stories, and more time<br />
on our hands in which we can share<br />
our life’s journey with others.<br />
We can make our own choices of what<br />
we want to do and how we want to<br />
spend our time. We can spend time<br />
volunteering or writing a book or<br />
learning a new skill or teaching a skill<br />
we may have developed.<br />
We can determine how we want to<br />
give back and serve others, but most<br />
importantly for many, it’s the first time<br />
in their lives, when they can look in<br />
the mirror and ask the person looking<br />
back, who am I and what do I want?<br />
Growing up, most people have<br />
experienced authoritative personalities,<br />
who generally have our best interest<br />
at heart, but who also tell us how<br />
to think and feel. What to do. Who<br />
we should marry. What profession<br />
we should pursue, what school we<br />
should go to and a myriad of other life<br />
recommendations.<br />
Many of their recommendations,<br />
we follow, feeling obligated or not<br />
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knowing<br />
exactly what<br />
we want to do,<br />
so why not, or<br />
thinking they’re<br />
the adult, they<br />
know better and<br />
discounting our own<br />
inner thoughts.<br />
Only to find ourselves in later years,<br />
feeling unfulfilled, unhappy, stressed<br />
and wishing we had chosen a different<br />
pathway. Those youthful feelings were<br />
suppressed in order to follow our<br />
elders more sagely advice.<br />
Reconnecting with ourselves can<br />
happen at any stage of life, but<br />
generally happens starting in our 50’s<br />
after we have more free time, as our<br />
own parenting responsibilities lessen,<br />
we have time to start asking ourselves<br />
about our life what and we may want.<br />
and finding the personal power to<br />
make choices for ourselves.<br />
As winter is upon us, and the sun sets<br />
earlier, there is more time to befriend<br />
ourselves and ask, ‘what do I want’?<br />
What is my next step? Am I happy<br />
where I’m at today?<br />
PUBLISHER<br />
<strong>Star</strong> Media<br />
<strong>The</strong> Christchurch <strong>Star</strong> Company Ltd<br />
PO Box 1467 Christchurch 8140<br />
CoNNECt<br />
with yourself<br />
If the answer<br />
is yes,<br />
fabulous. But<br />
if you’re feeling<br />
unfulfilled,<br />
connect with<br />
yourself. Befriend<br />
yourself and listen from<br />
within as to what you want. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />
no time limits in making a choice or<br />
taking action. We are never too old to<br />
connect with the real us. To achieve a<br />
silent goal or dreamed about adventure<br />
or activity. Today, be kind to yourself<br />
and become your best friend. Let<br />
the authentic you and your personal<br />
power shine.<br />
As Deepak Chopra said, “Intention is a<br />
directed impulse of consciousness that<br />
contains the seed form of that which<br />
you aim to create. Like real seeds,<br />
intentions can’t grow if you hold onto<br />
them. Only when you release your<br />
intentions into the fertile depths of<br />
your consciousness can they grow and<br />
flourish”.<br />
ADvERtISINg<br />
Frank Greenslade - Ph 03 364 7441<br />
email: frank.greenslade@starmedia.kiwi<br />
EDItoRIAL Jenafor Rollins<br />
DESIgN Denise Crawford