Always Abounding - Spring 2018 - Volume 2
A Always Abounding AFundamentalist Summer 2018 COMMENCEMENT “. . . be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” ” I Corinthians 15:58
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- Page 4 and 5: BIBLE TRIVIA - When the unclean spi
- Page 6 and 7: Sustainers’ Club Banquet Preachin
- Page 8 and 9: FROM THE PASTOR The Lost Art of Kin
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- Page 12 and 13: CURRENT EVENTS VICE PRESIDENT MIKE
- Page 14 and 15: BIBLE COLLEGE PREP Pastor Dan Armac
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A<br />
<strong>Always</strong><br />
<strong>Abounding</strong><br />
AFundamentalist<br />
Summer <strong>2018</strong><br />
COMMENCEMENT<br />
“. . . be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” ” I Corinthians 15:58
www.fhbc.me/glory<br />
CONTENTS<br />
1 Commencement<br />
3 Guardrails Are Good<br />
Evangelist Eric Ramos<br />
5 Meet an FBC Student<br />
Kellie Rardin<br />
6 Recent Happenings<br />
8 The Lost Art of Kindness<br />
by Pastor Steve Damron<br />
12 Mike Pence Was Right After All<br />
by Pastor Rick DeMichele<br />
15 Bible College Prep<br />
by Pastor Dan Armacost<br />
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GUARDRAILS ARE GOOD<br />
Evangelist Eric Ramos<br />
I<br />
remember<br />
well<br />
the time I found<br />
myself with about<br />
70 others in our<br />
church hiking the<br />
trail down and back<br />
up the Grand Canyon<br />
in Arizona. What a scenic wonder the<br />
Canyon is, causing you to think of the<br />
magnificent creation of our mighty God!<br />
Just before our group began, we noticed<br />
a sign posted at the trailhead showing the<br />
picture of an elderly man who was missing<br />
from a few days previous. This was not a<br />
great encouragement for me and those<br />
in my group who had never before hiked<br />
this trail! A few times throughout the day,<br />
two or three of the young people felt dizzy,<br />
which is not a good thing because there<br />
are steep places and drop-offs along the<br />
entire trail. It would have been comforting<br />
to have “railings” to protect those who<br />
could fall off and be gone forever.<br />
Guardrails are strategically placed on<br />
roads that wind and curve and often in<br />
dimly-lit areas. They are put in place—<br />
not necessarily to protect from minor<br />
accidents but to prevent a major tragedy<br />
or even fatalities. As I think of the dangers<br />
that young people face in today’s society,<br />
I believe that there should be guardrails<br />
strategically placed to keep them from<br />
fatality. While parents should put up<br />
guardrails to secure the path of their<br />
little children, there comes a time when<br />
teenagers must make personal decisions<br />
and commitments to protect themselves<br />
from spiritual harm. A young person who<br />
is serious about serving the Lord will do<br />
whatever it takes to keep from “living on<br />
the edge.”<br />
TEEN CORNER<br />
Do you really want to live a pure life?<br />
So many “strong men” have been slain by<br />
the strange and foolish woman. No doubt<br />
they felt that they could handle going<br />
down the path of lust at full speed without<br />
fear of danger. This path is dimly lit, winds<br />
down to a life of misery, and ends in ruin;<br />
yet too many young men feel they can “put<br />
the pedal to the metal” and be just fine.<br />
Think of Samson, the man of God who<br />
could whip thousands of Philistine men.<br />
What led to his ruin? It was the passion<br />
of his lust which was out of control. What<br />
can a young person do to keep from this<br />
type of end?<br />
Accountability is a tremendous<br />
guardrail for your life. If you have a<br />
problem with a particular sin, go to<br />
someone (parents, pastor, teacher, godly<br />
friend, youth pastor), tell them about<br />
it, and then ask for their prayers. When<br />
Samson spoke to his parents about his love<br />
life, they were in disagreement with him.<br />
Had he submitted to their wisdom and<br />
their direction, he would have been much<br />
more effective for God (more than 20 years<br />
as a judge). Let these people know the<br />
decisions you have made to work on your<br />
problems and ask them to consistently<br />
check on you.<br />
Teenager, you must understand that<br />
God has placed people in your life who<br />
care about you—not to make your life<br />
miserable and restrictive but to keep<br />
you from tragedy. When you are serious<br />
about your Christian life, you will welcome<br />
accountability. How sad it is to see a cross<br />
or little memorial along a road of someone<br />
killed in an accident. Spiritually, let it not<br />
be yours!<br />
(Eric Ramos is a staff evangelist for Fairhaven Baptist<br />
College.)<br />
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BIBLE TRIVIA - When the unclean spirit left the man and went into the swine instead, how<br />
large was the herd of animals? (The first five people to email the correct answer to trivia@fbcmail.net will win a gift card!)<br />
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Mexico City,<br />
one of the<br />
world’s<br />
largest cities, is<br />
where I was born.<br />
My name is Kellie<br />
Rardin; my parents<br />
are called to be<br />
missionaries to Mexico. They attended<br />
Fairhaven Baptist College in the 1990s.<br />
It is a blessing to have been raised on<br />
the mission field with my three brothers.<br />
We grew up putting chili and lime on<br />
everything, and we still love it! All of us<br />
have helped our parents in any way we<br />
could. When I was 14, I started teaching<br />
a small children’s class. This provided<br />
me with great practice and knowledge in<br />
keeping the attention of the children while<br />
helping them learn the Bible.<br />
My entire family is involved with<br />
everything concerning the church.<br />
Vacation Bible School was always my<br />
favorite ministry. It is rewarding to see new<br />
children come and bring visitors, memorize<br />
verses, and, most importantly, come to<br />
know Jesus as their personal Savior. The<br />
skits, cheering, and even running to<br />
Walmart was great fun. I participated in<br />
the Saturday soulwinning until I came to<br />
college. I was also involved in the Tuesday<br />
soulwinning which focused on the Jews<br />
that lived just blocks from our house and<br />
church. Sometimes a Jewish person would<br />
question us about passing out tracts, but it<br />
was a joy to see them want to hear more<br />
after receiving one.<br />
The summer before going to college,<br />
I attended a teen camp with the church<br />
youth. God spoke to me about taking my<br />
Christian life more seriously. This changed<br />
the focus of my entire life. Attending<br />
Fairhaven Baptist College had always been<br />
my plan. What I was going to study was<br />
a little harder to decide. At first, I just<br />
wanted to take the secretarial program,<br />
since it would only take two years (I<br />
MEET AN FBC STUDENT<br />
wanted to go back home even before I left<br />
for college!). My parents encouraged me<br />
to work toward an elementary education<br />
degree. In time, God showed me that was<br />
His will. My parents have taught me to be<br />
willing to do whatever God wants of me.<br />
Before attending college, my Dad gave me<br />
the opportunity to teach English, music,<br />
and art in the Christian school; and since<br />
that time, I had an interest in teaching.<br />
While attending Fairhaven Baptist<br />
College, I have learned many necessary<br />
lessons and heard a lot of good preaching<br />
and essential teaching. I have had the<br />
opportunity to work in a nursing home,<br />
nursery, soulwinning efforts, and teen<br />
ministries. In each ministry there are so<br />
many opportunities to learn for the future.<br />
I am not sure what God wants after I finish<br />
college, but I know that He will show me in<br />
His time. I just need to be willing to do His<br />
will.<br />
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Sustainers’ Club Banquet<br />
Preaching Conference<br />
Mother’s Day Brunch<br />
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College Turkey Run State Park Activity<br />
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FROM THE PASTOR<br />
The Lost Art of Kindness<br />
Pastor Steve Damron<br />
“For I say, through<br />
the grace given unto<br />
me, to every man that<br />
is among you, not to<br />
think of himself more<br />
highly than he ought<br />
to think; but to think<br />
soberly, according as<br />
God hath dealt to every<br />
man the measure of faith” (Romans 12:3).<br />
“Be kindly affectioned one to another with<br />
brotherly love; in honour preferring one<br />
another” (Romans 12:10).<br />
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you,<br />
live peaceably with all men” (Romans<br />
12:18).<br />
One day a great lion lay asleep in the<br />
sunshine. A little mouse ran across<br />
his paw and awakened him. The<br />
great lion was just going to eat him when<br />
the little mouse cried, “Oh, please, let me<br />
go, sir. Someday I may help you.” The<br />
lion laughed at the thought that the little<br />
mouse could be of any use to him. But he<br />
was a good-natured lion, and he set the<br />
mouse free.<br />
Not long after, the lion was caught in<br />
a net. He tugged and pulled with all his<br />
might, but the ropes were too strong.<br />
Then he roared loudly. The little mouse<br />
heard him and ran to the spot. “Be still,<br />
dear lion, and I will set you free. I will<br />
gnaw the ropes.” With his sharp teeth, the<br />
mouse cut the ropes, and the lion came<br />
out of the net.<br />
“You laughed at me once,” said the<br />
mouse, “You thought I was too little to do<br />
you a good turn. But see, you owe your life<br />
to a poor little mouse.”<br />
I share this story to illustrate that there<br />
is a measure of kindness that even the<br />
mighty, which seemingly need nothing,<br />
should show. We that hold to the mighty<br />
Scriptures need to apply this teaching of<br />
kindness in our ministries.<br />
The Bible has much to say about<br />
kindness, generosity, and caring. The<br />
following passages deal with kindness in a<br />
believer’s life:<br />
• Leviticus 19:34<br />
• Psalm 85:10<br />
• Proverbs 3:3-4<br />
• Proverbs 11:17<br />
• Proverbs 14:21-22<br />
• Matthew 5:7, 42<br />
• Matthew 25:34-36<br />
• Acts 20:35<br />
• Romans 12<br />
• Romans 15:1<br />
• I Corinthians 13<br />
• Galatians 6:10<br />
As you can see, numerous passages<br />
discuss kindness. As Christians, we should<br />
be exemplary in spreading abroad the<br />
love of God to those that have not been<br />
saved, but we should also be especially<br />
kind to our fellow brothers and sisters in<br />
Christ. Galatians 6:10 says that we should<br />
especially show love to those that are of<br />
the “household of faith.”<br />
Let’s consider Romans 12 to gain specific<br />
instruction for developing kindness.<br />
1. Let the Lord Transform Your Mind<br />
(Romans 12:1-2)<br />
Transformation is changing from<br />
the “old way” of doing things. The old<br />
nature is concerned primarily with selfgratification.<br />
It is not shocking when an<br />
unsaved person wants to cheat, push<br />
down, and connive to get ahead of others.<br />
However, once someone gets saved, this<br />
old nature should become a thing of the<br />
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past. The new nature takes charge. The<br />
Spirit of God has liberty in a believer’s life<br />
by residing within.<br />
This process of transformation will only<br />
come as we surrender<br />
ourselves to the Spirit’s<br />
leading. The old man<br />
will not surrender to<br />
the Spirit. Romans 12:1<br />
instructs the believer<br />
to place himself at the<br />
mercy of the Holy Spirit<br />
and let the process of<br />
transformation begin.<br />
2. Realize the Source<br />
of Your Gifts (Romans<br />
12:3-8)<br />
Commentator John Gill provided some<br />
interesting thoughts on this passage.<br />
Consider his statements:<br />
Not to think of himself more highly: that<br />
is, either not to arrogate to himself what<br />
does not belong to him, and detract from<br />
others, who may have equal, if not superior,<br />
abilities to him; or not to glory in what he<br />
has, as if he had not received it, and as if it<br />
was altogether owing to his own sagacity,<br />
penetration, diligence, and industry.<br />
But to think soberly, according as God hath<br />
dealt to every man the measure of faith:<br />
such ought to consider that what gifts,<br />
abilities, light, and knowledge they have,<br />
they have then, not of themselves, but<br />
from God.<br />
When we understand that God has<br />
given us the gifts we have, it is then hard to<br />
take credit for achievements and accolades<br />
bestowed on us. The worldly person lives<br />
for himself; so even his acts of kindness are<br />
an attempt to gain some type of favor or<br />
recognition. Our purpose as Christians is<br />
to bring glory to God. We have been given<br />
gifts to use for God’s glory.<br />
This mentality will also help us to<br />
better appreciate our fellow brethren. By<br />
gaining the right perspective of our Godgiven<br />
gifts, we will<br />
have the right opinion<br />
of ourselves. Not<br />
thinking too highly of<br />
ourselves is indicative<br />
of godly humility which<br />
portrays the spirit<br />
of Christ. Knowing<br />
from whom our gifts<br />
are given helps us<br />
to keep our pride in<br />
check. Remembering<br />
that God is the giver<br />
of the gifts helps us<br />
to love our fellow brethren. How? By<br />
understanding that God in His wisdom has<br />
given to each member of the body of Christ<br />
differing gifts within each local church so<br />
that we can accomplish His will and bring<br />
glory to our Savior.<br />
3. Develop a Genuine Love for Others<br />
(Romans 12:9)<br />
The word unfeigned means “without<br />
hypocrisy” or “having a genuine love.”<br />
Alexander Maclaren says the following<br />
about having genuine love:<br />
It means, hiding what one is; but there is<br />
simulation, or pretending to be what one is<br />
not. There are words of love which are like<br />
the iridescent scum on the surface veiling<br />
the black depths of a pool of hatred. A<br />
Psalmist complains of having to meet men<br />
whose words were “smoother than butter”<br />
and whose true feelings were as “drawn<br />
swords”; but, short of such consciously<br />
lying love, we must all recognize as a real<br />
danger besetting us all, and especially<br />
those of us who are naturally inclined<br />
to kindly relations with our fellows, the<br />
(cont., pg 10)<br />
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FROM THE PASTOR<br />
The Lost Art of Kindness<br />
(cont’d)<br />
tendency to use language just a little in<br />
excess of our feelings. The glove is slightly<br />
stretched, and the hand in it is not quite<br />
large enough to fill it. There is such a<br />
thing, not altogether unknown in Christian<br />
circles, as benevolence, which is largely<br />
cant, and words of conventional love about<br />
individuals which do not represent any<br />
corresponding emotion. Such effusive love<br />
pours itself in words, and is most generally<br />
the token of intense selfishness. Any man<br />
who seeks to make his words a true picture<br />
of his emotions must be aware that few<br />
harder precepts have ever been given than<br />
this brief one of the Apostle’s, “Let love be<br />
without hypocrisy.”<br />
Developing a kind heart is a process for<br />
the believer. It does not come naturally.<br />
Our natural man is self-centered,<br />
egotistical, and vengeful toward others.<br />
We, in our natural state, tend toward<br />
those that have similar<br />
ideas as we do. They<br />
bolster us; however, when<br />
someone opposes our<br />
ideas, we tend to malign<br />
and denigrate “their<br />
ideas.” A Christian works<br />
to transform his mind,<br />
surrenders to the leading<br />
of the Spirit, understands<br />
that God gives differing<br />
gifts, and then works at<br />
developing genuineness.<br />
Genuineness (some may call it<br />
transparency) is a characteristic that has<br />
to be developed all through one’s life.<br />
Many folks are scared to let others see<br />
who they really are because they may<br />
find flaws. This is silly because there are<br />
no “perfect” people. We all have flaws.<br />
Having transparency helps a person to feel<br />
comfortable among others.<br />
Christians should develop proper<br />
decorum. We should not be “a loud<br />
mouth,” rude, uncouth, or vulgar. We<br />
should have a “filter.” But, it is refreshing<br />
when you can sit down with someone that<br />
is not “prickly.” They make you relax, and<br />
you have a true sense that this person is<br />
genuine. A believer will have to work at<br />
this because we, like the Pharisees, want<br />
to have an air of superiority—an air of<br />
righteousness.<br />
4. Learn to Hate Evil and Love Good<br />
(Romans 12:10-16)<br />
I would like us to consider two words<br />
as we look at this idea of hating evil and<br />
loving good. The first is the word abhor;<br />
it is a verb meaning “to have an intense<br />
dislike.” This is the only time it is used in the<br />
New Testament. It is in the present tense<br />
which means that it is an ongoing action.<br />
Abhorring that which is evil must be at the<br />
forefront of daily life. Another word in the<br />
text is cleave. This same idea appears in<br />
I Corinthians 6 where the<br />
Bible says, “But he that<br />
is joined unto the Lord is<br />
one spirit.”<br />
So these two words<br />
(abhor and cleave)<br />
provide instruction as<br />
we pursue kindness. A<br />
Christian must have a<br />
disdain for evil. This<br />
disdain is an intense<br />
dislike. Evil must not be<br />
tolerated in our lives,<br />
and we must seek to rid our lives of its<br />
influence. To help us in the right hatred<br />
of evil, we are to cleave to that which is<br />
good. The word cleaving gives the idea of<br />
“super glue.” We are attached to truth and<br />
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ighteousness with a bond that cannot be<br />
separated. This attachment to that which<br />
is good will make the evil that we are<br />
active in abhorring unable to get hold of<br />
our lives.<br />
5. Avoid the Dangerous Trap of Revenge<br />
(Romans 12:17-21)<br />
One man said it this way, “Revenge is<br />
a cruel word: manhood, some call it; but<br />
it is rather doghood. The manlier any man<br />
is, the milder and more merciful, as Julius<br />
Caesar, who, when he had Pompey’s head<br />
presented to him, wept, and said, ‘I seek<br />
not revenge, but victory.’” (J. Trapp)<br />
Why would so much energy be put<br />
into the ruin of another? It sometimes<br />
might seem absurd to a person to see so<br />
much energy put into the tearing down<br />
of another, but we all seem to enjoy the<br />
toppling of a dynasty or a top-tier athlete,<br />
etc. There is a built-in envy in our natural<br />
man that does not like for another human<br />
being to gain notoriety above what we<br />
are able to achieve. Add to this natural<br />
tendency someone who is maligning and<br />
opposing us, and you have a very strong<br />
motive for revenge.<br />
Revenge and hate are very popular<br />
rhetoric today in America. Everyone is<br />
supposed to have a cause to fight for, and<br />
those that have been slighted somehow<br />
by somebody should gain a following and<br />
march. However, this passage has been<br />
building toward our having a right mindset<br />
toward our fellow brethren in Christ.<br />
What is this mindset? Lay yourself and<br />
your ambitions at the foot of the Savior;<br />
realize that God is the giver of talents and<br />
gifts; work at developing an unfeigned love<br />
for others; strive to hate evil and love right,<br />
and then leave “getting back at someone”<br />
to God. God knows what has happened<br />
to you. Maybe He has a lesson for you<br />
to learn through the disappointment<br />
and hurt. Don’t let the devil use outside<br />
circumstances that someone else is<br />
bringing into your life to gain an entrance<br />
into your heart.<br />
Flattery is not kindness. “He that rebuketh<br />
a man afterwards shall find more favour<br />
than he that flattereth with the tongue”<br />
(Proverbs 28:23).<br />
“A man that flattereth his neighbour<br />
spreadeth a net for his feet” (Proverbs<br />
29:5).<br />
These verses demonstrate that the<br />
use of flattery is not kindness. A flatterer<br />
is self-serving. The only reason that<br />
someone uses flattery is to gain something<br />
for themselves, not to prefer someone<br />
above himself.<br />
“But he said, I am not mad, most noble<br />
Festus; but speak forth the words of truth<br />
and soberness” (Acts 26:25).<br />
“Whereunto I am ordained a preacher, and<br />
an apostle, (I speak the truth in Christ, and<br />
lie not;) a teacher of the Gentiles in faith<br />
and verity” (I Timothy 2:7).<br />
We also see the example of the apostle<br />
Paul. The apostle Paul spoke the truth in<br />
love. He knew that he had to present the<br />
gospel and knew that it might be offensive.<br />
There are times when what you say may be<br />
offensive in its nature because the Word of<br />
God can be convicting. We need to be sure<br />
that our words are not offensive because<br />
of our carnal tendencies. Analyze your<br />
life to see if your life clearly reveals the<br />
kindness that the Bible indicates should be<br />
in a believer’s life. (Ephesians 4:15-16)<br />
Alexander Maclaren said, “Kindness<br />
does not require us to be blind to facts or<br />
to live in fancies, but it does require us to<br />
cherish a habit of goodwill, ready to show<br />
pity if sorrow appears, and slow to turn<br />
away even if hostility appears.”<br />
(Steve Damron is the pastor of Fairhaven Baptist<br />
Church and president of Fairhaven Baptist College.)<br />
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CURRENT EVENTS<br />
VICE PRESIDENT MIKE PENCE<br />
WAS RIGHT AFTER ALL<br />
Pastor Rick DeMichele<br />
Maybe it was during the last<br />
presidential election, or maybe<br />
after Mike Pence became the<br />
Vice President of the United States of<br />
America, that he offended the sensibilities<br />
of liberals and feminists everywhere when<br />
he said, in so many words:<br />
Because I’m a married man, I don’t date<br />
other women.<br />
Okay, he didn’t go that far in his<br />
statements, but the meaning was there. It<br />
was a simple statement of policy that he<br />
does not go out to lunch alone with other<br />
women.<br />
The media, fueled and egged on by<br />
reigning feminist leaders, went ballistic.<br />
“He’s a woman-hater, misogynistic, doesn’t<br />
trust women, blah, blah, blah.” You would<br />
have thought he suggested that women<br />
should no longer have the right to vote or<br />
drive an automobile.<br />
Fast-forward to the present apocalypse<br />
of sexual harassment, with its daily<br />
plethora of accusations, admissions,<br />
resignations, and shaming. Republicans<br />
rejoicing as Democrats fall and Democrats<br />
doing cartwheels as Republicans fall.<br />
Politicians, news anchormen, movie<br />
producers, actors, athletes, and captains<br />
of industry are all dropping like flies.<br />
The response of the media to all of this<br />
reminds me of the apostle Paul’s words:<br />
“If any man teach otherwise, and consent<br />
not to wholesome words, even the words<br />
of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine<br />
which is according to godliness; He is<br />
proud, knowing nothing, but doting about<br />
questions and strifes of words, whereof<br />
cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings,<br />
Perverse disputings of men of corrupt<br />
minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing<br />
that gain is godliness: from such withdraw<br />
thyself” (I Timothy 6:3-5).<br />
Discussion surrounding the current<br />
outbreak of sexual harassment has included,<br />
but has not been confined to:<br />
• The need for more moral and ethical<br />
training in Congress and corporate America.<br />
• Harsher penalties for workplace sexual<br />
harassment.<br />
• The need to further emasculate all boys<br />
in the public school system. Males are just<br />
too “aggressive” by their very nature, and<br />
need to be “sensitized.”<br />
• The suspending of due process of law<br />
by “guilty until proven innocent” of the<br />
accused. One feminist interviewed on Fox<br />
News said it doesn’t matter if innocent men<br />
are ruined by false accusations, so long as<br />
men feel some of the oppression women<br />
have felt for centuries.<br />
• A woman running for political office<br />
back East ran on the platform “Vote for me;<br />
I don’t have a (male organ).”<br />
• And finally, in the aggregate, “women<br />
are good (victims) and men are evil<br />
(predators).”<br />
“But evil men and seducers shall wax worse<br />
and worse, deceiving, and being deceived”<br />
(II Timothy 3:13).<br />
Hypocrisy<br />
The toxic masculinity on display in<br />
so many of these instances of sexual<br />
impropriety is something that has been<br />
promoted for decades by the liberal feminist<br />
left. Progressives defend with a religious zeal<br />
the feminist sacrament of abortion, where<br />
no less than half of the babies murdered<br />
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are female. The objectifying of women by<br />
men is sponsored by progressive feminist<br />
women who pose nude and defend it as<br />
an artistic first amendment right of free<br />
speech. Liberal progressive feminists were<br />
mute when Bill Clinton, decades ago, was a<br />
proven sexual predator. He received a free<br />
pass because he supported their agenda.<br />
Biblical Propriety and Decorum<br />
Back to our Vice President. How<br />
much of the moral carnage our country<br />
is currently experiencing could have been<br />
avoided if we simply got back to oldfashioned<br />
common sense and Biblical<br />
standards of conduct in our society<br />
between men and women?<br />
What Vice President Pence was<br />
advocating is simply some avoidance<br />
of compromising situations between<br />
members of the opposite sex, whether at<br />
the work place or the halls of Congress.<br />
In all the shrill clamoring hysteria, there<br />
has been a deafening silence regarding<br />
our Vice President’s stance. His Biblical<br />
wisdom has surely been vindicated.<br />
Biblical Masculinity<br />
There is no need for society to further<br />
emasculate an already effeminate-leaning<br />
male population. The need is to get back to<br />
Bible standards of conduct between men<br />
and women with both genders accepting<br />
their responsibility in this process. Yes,<br />
ladies, you have a responsibility in this<br />
as well. As one leader of Christian ladies<br />
recently said:<br />
The liberal news media has become a<br />
platform for a lot of rebellious, self-willed<br />
screeching little girls to point fingers at<br />
everyone’s sins but their own. While I am<br />
sure there are male sexual predators who<br />
do prey on naïve young women, there is<br />
also such a thing as willful flirting and<br />
dressing provocatively to advance one’s<br />
career. If a girl is not going to act like a lady,<br />
she is giving a signal to men that she doesn’t<br />
want to be treated like one. In other words, if<br />
it’s not for sale—don’t put up a sign.<br />
Men, especially Christian men, now is<br />
the time to step up and stand up for what<br />
is right and glorify our Savior, the greatest<br />
man among men, by modeling true Biblical<br />
manhood and not giving in to the current<br />
cultural trend of toxic masculinity.<br />
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ<br />
also loved the church, and gave himself for it;<br />
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the<br />
washing of water by the word, That he might<br />
present it to himself a glorious church, not<br />
having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but<br />
that it should be holy and without blemish.<br />
So ought men to love their wives as their own<br />
bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.<br />
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but<br />
nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord<br />
the church” (Ephesians 5:25-29).<br />
Or as Joab said to the military troops of<br />
Israel in the heat of battle:<br />
“Be of good courage, and let us play the men<br />
for our people, and for the cities of our God:<br />
and the LORD do that which seemeth him<br />
good” (II Samuel 10:12).<br />
(Rick DeMichele is the pastor of Treasure Valley Baptist<br />
Church in Meridian, Idaho.)<br />
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BIBLE COLLEGE PREP<br />
Pastor Dan Armacost<br />
Commit Now to<br />
These Principles<br />
and Practices to<br />
Get the Most Out<br />
of Your Bible<br />
College Years<br />
1. Make personal devotions a daily habit.<br />
Open your Bible each morning with the<br />
purpose of saturating your mind with<br />
Scripture. Develop a prayer list and stick<br />
to it. If you have a mobile phone, decide<br />
that you will see the face of God before<br />
you see your screen.<br />
2. Prepare to handle discouragement.<br />
Since it is bound to come, study Bible<br />
passages that deal with it. Practice the<br />
spiritual discipline of “casting your care on<br />
Him.” This is vital when the “homesick”<br />
bug hits.<br />
3. Establish productive study habits.<br />
Learn to have a place and a time to<br />
study, and then “get at it” by eliminating<br />
distractions.<br />
4. Manage your time properly. Time<br />
management is the number-one issue that<br />
college freshmen must learn to master.<br />
Frequently students learn to manage<br />
their time the hard way, but it does not<br />
necessarily need to be so. Ask productive<br />
people you know how they handle their<br />
time.<br />
5. Work for your employer as though his<br />
salvation depends upon it. Christians will<br />
never win fellow workers unless they are<br />
prompt, honest, and transparent. Learn to<br />
“let your light so shine before men.” This<br />
Bible truth may have no greater application<br />
than at the workplace.<br />
6. Discipline your wallet. The second<br />
most common issue students face is<br />
money management. Too frequently<br />
discretionary money “burns a hole” in<br />
the pocket of a student. With no budget,<br />
plan, or accounting in place, poor money<br />
habits will continue as a life-long pattern.<br />
The college years and the spending they<br />
entail can either set a person on a path of<br />
financial stability or future ruin. Beware of<br />
credit cards.<br />
7. Manage friendships the Bible way.<br />
Bible college is a perfect time to develop a<br />
“ministry attitude” toward friendships. You<br />
may need to exercise extreme graciousness<br />
with a roommate, you must avoid cliques<br />
at all costs, and you will have God’s peace<br />
only as you surrender all relationships to<br />
godly authority. Before college begins,<br />
practice these principles.<br />
8. Propriety is a dying art; however, it is<br />
needed now more than ever. Learning<br />
mature conversation, treating others with<br />
the proper respect, speaking in a way that<br />
is not juvenile or inappropriate—all are<br />
part of a life of decorum and propriety.<br />
Successful people all understand and<br />
master proper manners.<br />
9. Gossip, disrespect, and complaints will<br />
ultimately be the undoing of a person.<br />
Instead, be generous with compliments<br />
and look for ways to encourage. A tongue<br />
controlled by the Spirit of God will exhibit<br />
these traits.<br />
10. The war on purity is at an all-time<br />
high. The lust of the flesh, the lust of<br />
the eyes, and the pride of life are all part<br />
and parcel of today’s popular culture.<br />
Maintaining purity will not happen by<br />
accident. Standards and convictions based<br />
on Bible truths are vital for a young person<br />
to enter God’s work pure. Establish these<br />
convictions now.<br />
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11. Work first and play second. This is<br />
not just a principle for children—it is a<br />
necessity of life. In college, students find<br />
themselves in charge of setting their own<br />
priorities. What a great time to learn to<br />
set a goal and reach it. The discipline of<br />
eliminating things that keep you from<br />
reaching goals is a tremendous trait to<br />
pocket. Practice now setting reasonable<br />
goals and reaching them.<br />
12. Procrastination is the enemy of every<br />
college student. There is something to<br />
the attitude of just starting—doing it<br />
now. Procrastination never moves an<br />
assignment closer to completion—it<br />
merely leaves loose ends to clog up the<br />
mind and cause worry. The do it now<br />
attitude, though uncommon, is a precursor<br />
to success.<br />
13. Finish your jobs. Mom always<br />
said, “Finish your food.” “Finish your<br />
homework.” “Finish your chores.” Starting<br />
is good, but finishing is best. There is a<br />
calm satisfaction, an inner peace, that<br />
comes only when a task has been seen<br />
through to final completion. If we allow<br />
the habit of not finishing, our life will be<br />
filled with uncompleted responsibilities.<br />
14. Determine that you will never cheat.<br />
When the pressure is on and it seems<br />
like it would be more beneficial to cheat,<br />
don’t. Take the consequences of doing<br />
your own work. No matter how bad you<br />
do on that test, or how poor the paper is,<br />
you will have the satisfaction that you did<br />
not cut corners or steal someone else’s<br />
answers. Living in truth is God’s handle on<br />
a man. Cheaters never win, and winners<br />
never cheat. Live in honesty, take your<br />
lumps, learn, and do better work the next<br />
time around.<br />
(Dan Armacost is the Dean of Students at<br />
Fairhaven Baptist College.)<br />
UPCOMING EVENTS<br />
August 5<br />
God & Country Sunday<br />
August 27<br />
College Opening Week<br />
September 23<br />
48th Anniversary Service<br />
November 5-8<br />
Empowered Youth<br />
December 18<br />
Glory of Christmas Concert<br />
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