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<strong>Moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong>?<br />
Secrets for Before, During,<br />
and After<br />
By Jennifer Ross, 2018
Abstract<br />
We know. There's not much worse than moving. Well, except moving <strong>to</strong> a new<br />
city—where you'll have <strong>to</strong> live without your old neighborhood, your old<br />
brunch spots, and your old friends <strong>to</strong> help you unpack.<br />
<strong>Moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a new city is frightening. Before you <strong>to</strong>tally freak out, realize how<br />
much you can do <strong>to</strong> prepare yourself before you move <strong>to</strong> a new city.<br />
Introduction<br />
Maybe you got a new job, your spouse got a promotion or maybe you’ re just<br />
looking for fresh scenery. Regardless, you’ re moving <strong>to</strong> a new city! This life<br />
change can be exhilarating but overwhelming. You now have endless<br />
possibilities for new opportunities, but you are leaving behind familiarity and<br />
comfort that you are used <strong>to</strong>. <strong>Moving</strong> can be made easier if you have a clear<br />
plan when you are making the move <strong>to</strong> a new city.<br />
If you could use a little help in the relocation department, check out these<br />
great reads from here.<br />
1.0 Before<br />
1.1 What <strong>to</strong> Do Before <strong>Moving</strong> To A <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong><br />
2.0 During<br />
2.1 Tips for a Painless Move<br />
2.2 Tips for an Organized Move<br />
3.0 After<br />
3.1 How <strong>to</strong> Make a Bunch of Friends in Any <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong>
3.2 <strong>Moving</strong> Checklist—After You Move<br />
3.3 The Stress-Free Guide <strong>to</strong> Settling Down in a <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong><br />
Before<br />
What <strong>to</strong> Do Before <strong>Moving</strong> To A <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong><br />
You don't want <strong>to</strong> jump in<strong>to</strong> a pool until you've stuck in your <strong>to</strong>e <strong>to</strong> test the<br />
water. A huge decision like moving <strong>to</strong> a new city means thinking ahead. Let<br />
this checklist help you out!<br />
Maybe you've always dreamed of moving <strong>to</strong> a new city... OR... Maybe your job<br />
has asked you <strong>to</strong> relocate... OR... Maybe your hubby has been transferred.<br />
Whatever the reason, the prospect of moving <strong>to</strong> another city probably has<br />
you in a tizzy. Here's a checklist of things <strong>to</strong> think about before your make the<br />
big move.
THE NEW CITY/Before making the move:<br />
Check things out first!<br />
If possible, use a few weeks or months of available vacation time <strong>to</strong> check out<br />
the new city and see if this is truly the place you'd like <strong>to</strong> live. Use this<br />
temporary time <strong>to</strong> experience the city as a resident rather than someone<br />
vacationing. Consider these options:<br />
Stay as a guest of a friend or relative who lives in that city.<br />
Find a temporary sublet in the neighborhood you're considering for<br />
your new residence.<br />
Research the cost of living...<br />
It’s important <strong>to</strong> know how far a dollar stretches in your new city, so<br />
research housing, transportation, healthcare, and food prices in order <strong>to</strong><br />
create a realistic budget. For starters, you can use a cost of living calcula<strong>to</strong>r<br />
like the Bankrate calcula<strong>to</strong>r, which lists the average prices of everything from<br />
housing <strong>to</strong> recreational activities and household supplies. But it’s also a good<br />
idea <strong>to</strong> do your own research by looking at online housing listings, gas prices,<br />
and even restaurant menus.<br />
And see how you stack up<br />
If you already have a job lined up, calculate how your new salary will affect<br />
your daily budget and your ability <strong>to</strong> save money. (If you're moving from<br />
Portland, Oregon, <strong>to</strong> <strong>New</strong> York <strong>City</strong> and your salary isn't increasing, for<br />
instance, you may need <strong>to</strong> tighten your purse strings.) If you don’t have a job<br />
yet, it’s crucial that you figure out how long your savings will last you and<br />
how long you can go before you find a job (experts recommend having a<br />
minimum of three months savings).<br />
Financial feasibility
In <strong>to</strong>day's economy, you want <strong>to</strong> make certain you'll be able <strong>to</strong> make ends<br />
meet once you've moved. You don't want <strong>to</strong> find yourself penniless only three<br />
months after moving <strong>to</strong> a new city <strong>to</strong> <strong>Gold</strong> <strong>Coast</strong>.<br />
Make up a spreadsheet of anticipated income and realistic monthly<br />
expenses in your new city, keeping in mind living expenses may be<br />
higher there.<br />
Take in<strong>to</strong> consideration monthly charge card and loan payments that<br />
will come with you.<br />
Have at least 6 months of living expense money saved as a cushion.<br />
Have a back-up plan for part time work <strong>to</strong> pull in extra money while job<br />
hunting.<br />
A new neighborhood<br />
Your new neighborhood might end up being temporary. It's smart not <strong>to</strong><br />
purchase real estate until you're certain where you'll want <strong>to</strong> set up<br />
permanent roots. When looking for your new neighborhood, you want <strong>to</strong><br />
check in<strong>to</strong> the following:<br />
Average price range on apartment rentals<br />
Convenience of location <strong>to</strong> potential job opportunities and social life<br />
Kid/pet friendly apartments<br />
Safety/Crime rate<br />
Sublet opportunities<br />
Roommate opportunities<br />
Quality of nearby kids' schools<br />
Childcare
Doc<strong>to</strong>rs/dentist<br />
Pet sitters<br />
S<strong>to</strong>res<br />
A job in the new city<br />
Ideally, you'll have a job lined up before the move. If not, it will be important<br />
<strong>to</strong> do the following:<br />
Solicit the help of one or two reputable job recruiters in that city.<br />
Have a local address of a friend or relative <strong>to</strong> use on job applications.<br />
Be easily available for phone or in-person job interviews.<br />
Put networking <strong>to</strong> work in helping with your job search.<br />
Or learn more about your future company<br />
If you’re moving for a new job, do a little research on the company. Do they<br />
offer relocation benefits? Some companies will help with moving expenses or<br />
help you find housing. It’s also a good idea <strong>to</strong> learn more about corporate<br />
culture, job expectations, and work/life balance.<br />
Make social and professional connections<br />
Take s<strong>to</strong>ck of friends, acquaintances, and distant family in your new city. Use<br />
your alumni network and past or present work connections <strong>to</strong> find social or<br />
professional connections. Reaching out <strong>to</strong> friends of friends for a coffee or<br />
lunch date is a great way <strong>to</strong> start—and while it may sound cheesy, a simple<br />
Facebook post asking for introductions often gets the ball rolling.<br />
Learn about transportation options<br />
No matter where you live, getting around <strong>to</strong>wn is always an expense <strong>to</strong> be<br />
fac<strong>to</strong>red in.
Decide if it will be more cost effective having a vehicle or using public<br />
transportation in that city.<br />
Look in<strong>to</strong> the monthly cost and convenience of parking a vehicle.<br />
If you’re planning on keeping a car in the city, find out what your parking and<br />
s<strong>to</strong>rage options are. If you’ll be relying on public transportation, get a sense<br />
of the neighborhoods that have the best service. If possible, do a little<br />
research on which bus or train lines are considered the most reliable, and<br />
how frequently each one runs, so you don’t get stuck living somewhere with a<br />
single bus that comes once a day.<br />
Get rid of unnecessary possessions<br />
When we think about moving, we tend <strong>to</strong> focus on the place we’re going <strong>to</strong><br />
more than the one we’re leaving. But there’s a <strong>to</strong>n of work <strong>to</strong> do before you<br />
leave. One way <strong>to</strong> make the move a little easier is <strong>to</strong> get rid of anything you<br />
don’t need. Have a yard sale, donate old clothes <strong>to</strong> charity, or sell things<br />
online. Symbolically, you’ll be getting rid of the old <strong>to</strong> make room for the new.<br />
But, more practically, you’ll have less stuff <strong>to</strong> schlep with you when you<br />
move.<br />
Make a list of goals<br />
Make sure you know exactly why you’re moving and what you’re hoping <strong>to</strong><br />
achieve. It’s easy <strong>to</strong> lose focus in the chaos and excitement of setting up a new<br />
life once you actually move, so it’s a good idea <strong>to</strong> make a list of your personal<br />
and professional goals before you pack up and leave.<br />
Say goodbye<br />
Throw a goodbye party, have a get-<strong>to</strong>gether, or just make sure you say a<br />
proper goodbye <strong>to</strong> the important people in your life. Not only will it help you<br />
leave your old city on good terms, but it might unexpectedly reveal<br />
connections and opportunities in your new one.
During<br />
Tips For a Painless Move<br />
Decorating and arranging a new space is a pretty exciting prospect for any<br />
home decor enthusiast. But the act of physically moving out of one home and<br />
in<strong>to</strong> another generally doesn't <strong>to</strong>p anyone's list of favorite activities. While<br />
there are no real shortcuts <strong>to</strong> changing spaces, there are certainly things you<br />
can do <strong>to</strong> make the process as smooth and painless as possible. Read on for<br />
eight easy tips.<br />
Save your friends for later. Enlisting the help of friends and family<br />
when you move is <strong>to</strong> be expected. But instead of having your loved<br />
ones do the heavy lifting, consider saving their help for when you'll<br />
really need it. Hire movers <strong>to</strong> handle the boxes and furniture on moving<br />
day, then open a bottle of wine, turn on some music, and have your<br />
friends and family help with the daunting (but fun) task of unloading<br />
some of those boxes. As long as you're a little flexible with how your
kitchen drawers are organized, you'll save yourself days of tedious<br />
unpacking.<br />
Move your most prized breakables yourself. The biggest drawback<br />
<strong>to</strong> using movers, aside from the cost, is fear that your possessions will<br />
be damaged in the move. Pack up a box or two with your most<br />
expensive and breakable items (your grandma's china, your Riedel<br />
wine glasses), and move just those boxes yourself.<br />
Label every box with its destination and contents. As you pack and<br />
seal up each box, write its destination room and a fairly detailed list of<br />
its contents on the <strong>to</strong>p and sides. That way, the movers can deposit<br />
your boxes in the right rooms, and you'll know exactly where <strong>to</strong> find<br />
everything.<br />
Pack for a short trip. As you're packing everything you own in<strong>to</strong><br />
boxes or bags, set aside a suitcase and <strong>to</strong>iletry bag, and pack those as if<br />
you were going away for the weekend. Your new home may be a mess<br />
for a while, but at least you'll be able <strong>to</strong> shower and get dressed each<br />
day without <strong>to</strong>o much hassle.<br />
Keep reading for four more tips <strong>to</strong> make moving less painful.<br />
Keep necessities handy. Pack a couple separate bags or boxes with<br />
items you'll need immediately and clearly mark them "Unpack first."<br />
Include cleaning supplies, paper <strong>to</strong>wels, disposable plates and utensils,<br />
bottles of water, and anything else you anticipate needing right away as<br />
you settle in<strong>to</strong> your new home.<br />
Plan your furniture layout ahead of time. Even though it may change<br />
later, try <strong>to</strong> tentatively plan where your furniture will go before moving<br />
day. Then you can direct your movers on where <strong>to</strong> set larger pieces<br />
down, and save yourself the backache of having <strong>to</strong> completely<br />
rearrange your home later on.<br />
Make your bed. Before you do anything else, find your sheets, pillows,<br />
and comforter, and make your bed. Even if the entire house is filled<br />
with boxes, at least you know you'll be able <strong>to</strong> call it a night whenever<br />
you need <strong>to</strong>.
Unpack one room at a time. Tempting as it may be <strong>to</strong> jump from room<br />
<strong>to</strong> room unpacking boxes, try <strong>to</strong> focus on one room at a time. That way,<br />
whenever you need a break from the chaos, you can retire <strong>to</strong> your one<br />
or two unpacked rooms for a breather.<br />
<strong>Moving</strong> On: Tips For An Organized Move<br />
Every year, one in five Aussie families makes a move --- and this year, it'll be<br />
your family on the road.<br />
No doubt about it, moving can present the organizational challenge of a<br />
lifetime.<br />
Every habit, every routine, every tiny piece of the mosaic of your life is <strong>to</strong>ssed<br />
at random in<strong>to</strong> a huge, cluttered van, <strong>to</strong> be shaken out and reassembled at the<br />
other end.<br />
It's a daunting task--but you can get organized and cut stress when the<br />
moving van arrives.<br />
<strong>Moving</strong> on? Try these road-tested tips for an organized move.<br />
Establish Move Central, and Make It Portable
<strong>Moving</strong> has more tentacles than an oc<strong>to</strong>pus. Between wooing The Amazing<br />
Disappearing Handyman at the old house and penetrating the layers of voice<br />
mail protecting The High-Tech Real<strong>to</strong>r at the new, you're making more calls<br />
than an old-time switchboard opera<strong>to</strong>r. It's easy <strong>to</strong> lose your mind along with<br />
your train of thought --- not <strong>to</strong> mention all those little business cards that will<br />
come your way.<br />
Enter Move Central: a notebook dedicated <strong>to</strong> the move.<br />
Even if you never use a planner at home or on the job, a business planner or<br />
moving notebook is more important <strong>to</strong> a move than boxes and tape. Find one<br />
at the local office supply s<strong>to</strong>re. Get one with big pages, one for each day, and<br />
throw in some business card holders, zipper pouches and receipt envelopes.<br />
How will you use it? Let me count the ways. During the crazy pre-move<br />
house-hunting days, you'll track phone calls, make notes on houses you've<br />
<strong>to</strong>ured, and gather phone numbers for the gazillion new close friends you'll<br />
make --- all those real<strong>to</strong>rs and rental agents and mortgage people and<br />
moving-van guys and handymen you'll come <strong>to</strong> know and loathe quite<br />
intimately in the coming weeks. Tuck all business cards in<strong>to</strong> their own little<br />
slots for easy reference. Make notes of the seventeen consecutive days you've<br />
spent trying <strong>to</strong> track down the Tile Man (after he's gotten your money but<br />
before you've seen Tile One go up on the kitchen wall).<br />
Cram snippets of flooring and wallpaper, paint swatches and drapery goods<br />
in<strong>to</strong> a see-through zipper pouch for at-the-s<strong>to</strong>re decorating reference.<br />
Dedicate one receipt envelope for those fix-up-the-old-place receipts.<br />
Another receipt envelope holds receipts generated by house-hunting trips<br />
and travel <strong>to</strong> your new home. Stuff everything in there, and you'll thank<br />
yourself at tax time!<br />
After the move, you'll use Move Central <strong>to</strong> schedule appointments <strong>to</strong> turn on<br />
your lights, water, cable and other essentials of life. If a neighborhood mom<br />
mentions a good pediatrician, note the name and you're ahead of the game!<br />
Tuck a local map in<strong>to</strong> a flap or pocket, and you'll always be able <strong>to</strong> get<br />
yourself where you're going --- even if you don't always get there very<br />
directly.
Treat Move Central as just another body part --- it should be with you always.<br />
Handles and outside pockets let it replace your purse. Yes, you'll develop a<br />
permanent list <strong>to</strong> one side from the weight, but like that caused by a hiphugging<br />
<strong>to</strong>ddler, it's temporary. Having all your information in one place<br />
right at hand is key <strong>to</strong> a smooth and sane move.<br />
Pack the Essentials Last<br />
The concept of the "Survival Box" is one dear <strong>to</strong> the hearts of all moving<br />
advisers and organizational experts. You know what that is, right? It's a box<br />
containing the essentials of life: coffeemaker and children's nighttime loveys,<br />
bed sheets and blankets and pillows, an alarm clock.<br />
Paint it red, plaster it with Little Mermaid stickers, do something <strong>to</strong> it so it<br />
stands out like a sore thumb, and put it in the truck last, so it's first out in the<br />
new house.<br />
Your Survival Box should contain all those items you'll need for the first day<br />
and night in your new home.<br />
With small children, think about including dishes, cereal and the<br />
paraphernalia of a family breakfast.<br />
As a mid-lifer, I've honed essentials of life down <strong>to</strong> a very individual list:<br />
traveling coffeemaker and supplies, portable computer, and Perry, my teddy<br />
bear.<br />
Your Survival Box will reflect your own family's needs.<br />
Don't s<strong>to</strong>p there! Think bigger than a single box. Those same small children<br />
can be entertained quite handily if you pack the boxes containing television,<br />
DVD player and disks at the back end of the truck! Will you need cleaning<br />
<strong>to</strong>ols and a vacuum? A <strong>to</strong>ol box <strong>to</strong> assemble furniture and hang art? Think<br />
about your immediate needs, and hold those essentials back until the bitter<br />
end.
After<br />
How To Make A Bunch Of <strong>New</strong> Friends In Any <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong><br />
Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you <strong>to</strong> quickly build<br />
a new social circle in any new city.<br />
1. Take Pictures<br />
One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it<br />
gives you an excuse <strong>to</strong> get in <strong>to</strong>uch with the person later. Everybody loves<br />
seeing pictures of themselves, and it’s very easy after taking a picture <strong>to</strong> say<br />
Are you on Facebook? or If you’d like I can email it <strong>to</strong> you.<br />
This can be the seed that leads <strong>to</strong> new connections. The next time you hear<br />
about a fun event email your new contacts <strong>to</strong> let them know about it.<br />
2. Eat Alone In Public<br />
If you don’t know anyone in a new city, it can be tempting <strong>to</strong> order take-out<br />
and retreat back <strong>to</strong> your lonely apartment or hotel room. Instead, try eating<br />
by yourself in public as often as possible.<br />
You might feel self-conscious eating by yourself but it has an important<br />
benefit: you are much easier <strong>to</strong> approach when you are alone. People may be<br />
afraid of interrupting you or being rude if you are in a conversation with<br />
someone else.<br />
Bring a book or newspaper <strong>to</strong> read (this will make you feel less self<br />
conscious). Plus, having an interesting book with you will give others an<br />
excuse <strong>to</strong> start a conversation if they’ve read it.<br />
3. Join A Class, Sports Team, Or Club
Yoga, salsa dancing, volleyball, jogging, Toastmasters (a public speaking<br />
club), a class for work, martial arts, etc. Take up a new hobby or continue an<br />
old one!<br />
These are all great places <strong>to</strong> meet new people, primarily because you will be<br />
forced <strong>to</strong> see the same people over and over again in the class. You will<br />
au<strong>to</strong>matically make friends with them if you have a common interest and are<br />
forced <strong>to</strong> see each other again.<br />
Bonus Tips:<br />
In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if<br />
it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.<br />
Email your new friends with fun things <strong>to</strong> do instead of always asking<br />
what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can always still<br />
drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who<br />
is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a<br />
friend).<br />
Don’t let little things in life piss you off or be a negative person. Others<br />
won’t want <strong>to</strong> be around you!<br />
Things You Need <strong>to</strong> Do When You Move <strong>to</strong> Get Settled In<strong>to</strong> a <strong>New</strong> Home
After the last box is moved in<strong>to</strong> your new home, you might think the hardest<br />
part of the move is over. And you're right. But that doesn't mean there aren't<br />
things you need <strong>to</strong> do when you move once you're in the new space. In fact,<br />
there's a lot of stuff that needs <strong>to</strong> get done before you can relax completely.<br />
Check Major Appliances<br />
If you moved major appliances, such as a s<strong>to</strong>ve, dishwasher, washer or dryer,<br />
check <strong>to</strong> make sure all appliances and electronics are working <strong>to</strong> ensure<br />
nothing was damaged during the move.<br />
This is particularly true if the mover prepared your appliances for the move.<br />
Your insurance policy may have a limited time in which <strong>to</strong> make a claim.<br />
Since these are big ticket items, you should make sure they're all working.<br />
Check all Boxes and Furniture<br />
Make sure you check all boxes and furniture <strong>to</strong> make sure nothing was<br />
damaged during the move. You should also make sure everything arrived and<br />
nothing was lost. You can do this by conducting a home inven<strong>to</strong>ry. Again, if<br />
you find your stuff was damaged at all, contact the mover and your insurance<br />
company <strong>to</strong> submit a claim. It's important <strong>to</strong> do this immediately upon<br />
moving in or the insurance company may not reimburse you.<br />
Get Your Utilities Set Up<br />
Before you can check your electronics, make sure all your services are up and<br />
running. There's nothing worse than arriving at your new place, late at night,<br />
and the lights don't work. Get more information on setting up utilities.<br />
Collect Receipts<br />
Make sure you keep all receipts and documentation related <strong>to</strong> your move in<br />
one file and keep the file in a safe, secure place. Make sure you have your Bill<br />
of Lading and payment receipt. You may be able <strong>to</strong> claim your move on your<br />
next tax return and you'll need all the necessary receipts <strong>to</strong> make your claim.
Find a Good School and Register Your Kids<br />
While finding a good school is something that can be done before you move, if<br />
you didn't have the time or you moved <strong>to</strong> a new city far from your old home,<br />
you may need <strong>to</strong> research schools once you arrive in your new home. The<br />
sooner you can register your child, the sooner they can establish a regular<br />
routine making it easier it will be for them <strong>to</strong> settle in.<br />
Register your Vehicle<br />
If you've moved states, provinces or countries, register your car and get a<br />
new driver's license, tags and/or plates for your vehicles. Check your local<br />
DMV for more information.<br />
Register <strong>to</strong> Vote<br />
Again, if you've moved cities, it's important <strong>to</strong> make sure you're on the<br />
voter's registration for your local area. You should also make sure you've<br />
updated all important files and documents with your new address.<br />
Get Connected <strong>to</strong> Your <strong>New</strong> Neighborhood<br />
Buy a subscription <strong>to</strong> the local newspaper or community magazine. This will<br />
quickly get you up <strong>to</strong> speed on what's happening in your neighborhood.<br />
Make Sure You're Getting Your Mail<br />
Check with the post office or your old residence <strong>to</strong> make sure your mail is<br />
being forwarded and that you've registered your new address. Also, check <strong>to</strong><br />
make sure you've let everyone know who needs <strong>to</strong> know about your move.<br />
Find <strong>New</strong> Services and Professionals<br />
If you're moving <strong>to</strong> a new city or state, you'll need <strong>to</strong> find new professionals,<br />
like a new doc<strong>to</strong>r, a dentist, and vet. While this task can be put off for a bit,<br />
you'll be glad you know who <strong>to</strong> call when emergency hits.<br />
Create an Emergency Contact List
Whenever I move <strong>to</strong> a new city or <strong>to</strong>wn, I always take the time <strong>to</strong> create an<br />
emergency contact list of all the local information I'll need should something<br />
happen.<br />
Contact Insurance Companies<br />
You'll need new insurance, including household, au<strong>to</strong>, and health. Find out if<br />
you're currently covered or if you need <strong>to</strong> create new policies with a new<br />
company. This is important <strong>to</strong> check especially if you're moving <strong>to</strong> a new<br />
state or province.<br />
Get a Library Card<br />
Get one for each member of the family. Once you have a library card, you can<br />
consider yourself, home!<br />
The Stress-Free Guide <strong>to</strong> Settling Down in a <strong>New</strong> <strong>City</strong>
Whether you’re moving <strong>to</strong> a new side of <strong>to</strong>wn or moving across the country<br />
(or beyond), getting settled in a new city can always be a little nerve-racking.<br />
Here are some of the best ways <strong>to</strong> get acquainted with your new home and<br />
make new friends.<br />
I recently moved across the country <strong>to</strong> sunny California, and with little<br />
knowledge of the area and few friends outside of the Lifehacker crew, it was<br />
pretty daunting. Here are some of the things I’ve learned that helped me get<br />
me on my feet quickly.<br />
Getting the Lay of the Land<br />
Once you’ve actually moved in and nailed down the obvious—finding the<br />
closest grocery s<strong>to</strong>re, drug s<strong>to</strong>re, Apple s<strong>to</strong>re, or whatever else you need—<br />
the <strong>to</strong>wn can seem pretty overwhelming. If you’re feeling a little lost, here are<br />
a few ways <strong>to</strong> make sure you get <strong>to</strong> know your new home quickly.<br />
The Obvious: Use the Internet<br />
The first thing that probably popped in<strong>to</strong> your head is <strong>to</strong> check out places like<br />
Google Maps, Yelp, or <strong>City</strong>search <strong>to</strong> find some of the best places <strong>to</strong> eat, hang,<br />
see movies, and so on. There’s a reason for that: it works pretty well. If you<br />
want <strong>to</strong> grab a cup of coffee or some lunch, hit up one of those sites and look<br />
at reviews of nearby spots. Of course, there’s no substitution for trying<br />
something out, so don’t be afraid <strong>to</strong> hop around, either. If you find a movie<br />
theater that has the highest rating on Google Maps, that doesn’t necessarily<br />
mean it’s the best one or the best one for you—so plan <strong>to</strong> shop around a bit<br />
before settling in<strong>to</strong> a routine <strong>to</strong>o quickly. That said, the internet should give<br />
you a good start.
An especially neat trick, if you’re looking for stuff that’s near you, is <strong>to</strong> just<br />
bring up Google Maps, center it on your place, then search for *. The wildcard<br />
search works on Maps and will pretty much show you everything that’s<br />
nearby, which is pretty handy when you’re just trying <strong>to</strong> get a sense of what’s<br />
close.<br />
Ask Real People<br />
Of course, there’s no substitute <strong>to</strong> the advice of a real live person that you can<br />
ask questions and interact with. Chances are, you’re bound <strong>to</strong> have at least<br />
one or two people you know that live or lived in the <strong>to</strong>wn <strong>to</strong> which you’ve<br />
moved. Ask them for advice. Call them, go out <strong>to</strong> lunch with them, or just<br />
email back and forth and pick their brain. Ask any and all questions you have,<br />
from where are good spots <strong>to</strong> eat <strong>to</strong> where are the parts of <strong>to</strong>wn you might<br />
want <strong>to</strong> stay away from, or how bad the traffic is at rush hour .<br />
A really great (and geeky) way <strong>to</strong> compile this kind of advice is <strong>to</strong> create a<br />
Google Doc (or Google Map!) and invite the few people you know <strong>to</strong>
collaborate on it. If you can get one person <strong>to</strong> get the ball rolling, you can<br />
probably get a lot of people <strong>to</strong> join in, adding their favorite places <strong>to</strong> eat and<br />
things <strong>to</strong> do in <strong>to</strong>wn (especially if they disagree with one another—people<br />
have a lot of pride in their favorite local hangouts and will gladly offer up<br />
their own advice). It can become self-sustaining pretty quickly. Everyone,<br />
even the new people I meet each week, are more than willing <strong>to</strong> contribute <strong>to</strong><br />
the doc with their favorite spots/hangouts if I invite them as collabora<strong>to</strong>rs.<br />
Getting Out and Making Friends<br />
The other half of the equation is getting out and finding stuff <strong>to</strong> do with other<br />
people, and forming a group (or groups) of friends. It won’t just happen by<br />
sitting on your couch watching Seinfeld reruns, so here are a few things you<br />
can do <strong>to</strong> get the ball rolling.<br />
Keep Up Your Hobbies (or Dig Up Old Ones)<br />
A great way <strong>to</strong> find people with similar interests <strong>to</strong> you is <strong>to</strong> get out and get<br />
active with your favorite hobbies, even if they’re ones you haven’t visited in<br />
awhile. If you like electronic music, there’s bound <strong>to</strong> be a group dedicated <strong>to</strong><br />
that culture. If you are or used <strong>to</strong> be a gamer, find your local gaming shop and<br />
drop in for a Magic: The Gathering Draft. Even if it’s something you haven’t<br />
done for years, it’s a great way <strong>to</strong> get out and meet like-minded people.<br />
Meetup.com is a great way <strong>to</strong> find groups based on similar interests in your<br />
area—just type in where you are and what you’re looking for and you’ll<br />
probably find multiple groups getting <strong>to</strong>gether during the week. And, if you<br />
don’t find one (or don’t find one that suits you), start your own! Rarely are<br />
you the only one with your interests in a given <strong>to</strong>wn, and if you can’t find<br />
anyone, make them come <strong>to</strong> you.<br />
Apart from your own hobbies, I can’t recommend getting involved with<br />
community service and other local organizations enough. That may make you<br />
roll your eyes, but it’s something you don’t need any former experience <strong>to</strong> get<br />
involved in, everyone’s always super friendly, and at the very least, you’ll get<br />
some free DIY skills out of it. Anything that gets you out and social is going <strong>to</strong><br />
make you feel better than sitting at home doing nothing, so you’ve got<br />
nothing <strong>to</strong> lose by getting out there.
Meet Friends of Friends<br />
If you already have a friend or two in <strong>to</strong>wn, you’re pretty lucky. Take<br />
advantage of it! Even if you aren’t best friends with them, accept any<br />
invitation you get <strong>to</strong> hang out—you might find a friend of theirs that you have<br />
a remarkable amount in common with. Don’t give up after one meeting,<br />
either. The more time you spend around people, the more likely you are <strong>to</strong><br />
become friends with them, even if you didn’t originally think you would. After<br />
all, are we really in a position <strong>to</strong> be picky?<br />
Don’t be afraid <strong>to</strong> contribute <strong>to</strong> the group, either. Don’t let everyone else<br />
always make the plans and invite you, or you’ll seem like you aren’t<br />
interested. if you’ve got a place in that Google Doc you want <strong>to</strong> go eat for<br />
dinner, go ahead and invite all of them out. That way you seem like an actual<br />
contribu<strong>to</strong>r and not just a tagalong, and they’ll be more likely <strong>to</strong> think of you<br />
when other plans come around.<br />
Take Initiative<br />
You won’t meet anybody just sitting at home alone, so when you have the<br />
opportunity <strong>to</strong> get out of the house, take it. Instead of getting takeout and<br />
heading home, eat out by yourself. Work in coffee shops. It may feel awkward<br />
at first, but there isn’t anything wrong with grabbing a book (or your favorite<br />
read-it-later service) and enjoying the sunshine a little. You never know<br />
when someone will strike up a conversation about what you’re reading.<br />
Again, don’t turn down any invitations you get. Even if it’s something you<br />
wouldn’t necessarily do, take the opportunity <strong>to</strong> get out of the house (unless,<br />
you know, it’s an invitation <strong>to</strong> go rob a bank—it’s probably okay <strong>to</strong> turn that<br />
down).<br />
Don’t Stress About It<br />
No matter how much you put yourself out there, you’re still likely <strong>to</strong> have<br />
some time <strong>to</strong> yourself at home, and that’s okay. Don’t set your expectations<br />
<strong>to</strong>o high, and enjoy the relaxation time while you can (I hear Portal 2 is<br />
great)! It may take some time, but things will unfold naturally. Don’t worry<br />
<strong>to</strong>o much if you don’t slip in<strong>to</strong> a routine <strong>to</strong>o quickly. These tips are meant <strong>to</strong>
help, but they won’t make a new life magically appear before you. As with<br />
everything, the more positive an attitude you have, the more likely it is that<br />
good things will happen.<br />
Conclusion<br />
Whether you’ve got your heart set on moving <strong>to</strong> the <strong>Gold</strong> <strong>Coast</strong> <strong>City</strong>, the Big<br />
Apple is calling your name, or you’ve been offered your dream job a thousand<br />
miles from home, there are some pretty important things <strong>to</strong> think about<br />
before you relocate <strong>to</strong> a brand new city. Relocating <strong>to</strong> a new place is stressful<br />
and irksome. It doesn’t include just packing and moving but many other<br />
essential tasks such as getting the proper boxes, decide what <strong>to</strong> ask and what<br />
<strong>to</strong> throw, packing the fragile items appropriately, and transporting all the<br />
belongings <strong>to</strong> a new house. Moreover, you need <strong>to</strong> be very careful with the<br />
transport as well.<br />
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