Fertility Road Issue 44 May/June 2018
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21 FERTILITY 360 Miles Swimming in Search of the Meaning of Motherhood I sometimes feel ashamed of admitting that I went through eleven rounds of IVF. Yes, ELEVEN. By any account, it's the extreme end of the fertility treatment spectrum. It remains a lasting symbol of the depths of desperation and despair that my pursuit of motherhood took me to which I wrote about in my first book The Pursuit of Motherhood that in turn led to me becoming a columnist for Fertility Road magazine, founding Fertility Fest fertilityfest.com and campaigning to improve things for people who struggle to conceive. It's also led to my new book – 21 Miles: Swimming in search of the meaning of motherhood out in May. I was 34 when my partner and I started trying to conceive. I thought it was the perfect age. Like many women, I’d spent my twenties trying not to get pregnant. I’d gone to university, climbed the career ladder, taken my time to find the perfect man. Shortly after my 34th birthday we threw away the contraception and started having sex for the purpose nature intended – to make a baby. That’s when I discovered that getting pregnant isn’t necessarily that easy, especially in your mid thirties. After a year of unprotected sex, ovulation kits, and knicker-watch we made an appointment with a fertility clinic. We were diagnosed with ‘Unexplained Infertility’ - the frustrating answer given to roughly a third of people who struggle to conceive. It’s a terrible diagnosis because it isn’t really a diagnosis at all. What followed was a decade long journey that involved round after round of IVF, multiple 56 | fertilityroad.com | fertilityroadmag | follow us @fertilityroad
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21<br />
FERTILITY 360<br />
Miles<br />
Swimming in<br />
Search of the<br />
Meaning of<br />
Motherhood<br />
I sometimes feel ashamed of admitting that I went<br />
through eleven rounds of IVF. Yes, ELEVEN. By<br />
any account, it's the extreme end of the fertility<br />
treatment spectrum. It remains a lasting symbol<br />
of the depths of desperation and despair that<br />
my pursuit of motherhood took me to which<br />
I wrote about in my first book The Pursuit of<br />
Motherhood that in turn led to me becoming a<br />
columnist for <strong>Fertility</strong> <strong>Road</strong> magazine, founding<br />
<strong>Fertility</strong> Fest fertilityfest.com and campaigning<br />
to improve things for people who struggle<br />
to conceive. It's also led to my new book – 21<br />
Miles: Swimming in search of the meaning of<br />
motherhood out in <strong>May</strong>.<br />
I was 34 when my partner and I started trying to<br />
conceive. I thought it was the perfect age. Like<br />
many women, I’d spent my twenties trying not to<br />
get pregnant. I’d gone to university, climbed the<br />
career ladder, taken my time to find the perfect<br />
man. Shortly after my 34th birthday we threw<br />
away the contraception and started having sex<br />
for the purpose nature intended – to make a baby.<br />
That’s when I discovered that getting pregnant<br />
isn’t necessarily that easy, especially in your mid<br />
thirties. After a year of unprotected sex, ovulation<br />
kits, and knicker-watch we made an appointment<br />
with a fertility clinic. We were diagnosed with<br />
‘Unexplained Infertility’ - the frustrating answer<br />
given to roughly a third of people who struggle to<br />
conceive. It’s a terrible diagnosis because it isn’t<br />
really a diagnosis at all.<br />
What followed was a decade long journey that<br />
involved round after round of IVF, multiple<br />
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