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etc to the exorcist.<br />
Message to Bhakti Trader<br />
Then I said that he is saving the world. Whom was he<br />
troubling? He is now a giver of happiness. Then I said that now he is<br />
in front of you, atleast now stop doing these useless sadhnas like,<br />
carrying out shraadhs. Then she replied, “No Brother, it is an old<br />
custom. How can I give it up?” In other words, we have become so<br />
much engrossed in our old customs that even on seeing with our own<br />
eyes that we are doing wrong, cannot leave it. It is evident from this<br />
that carrying out shraadhs and worshipping Pitras etc is all useless.<br />
11. It is prohibited to do baseless (sadhna 1 against the<br />
scriptures) sadhna on the birth of a child: - On birth of a child,<br />
do not have to celebrate any chhati (sixth day after birth) etc. Because<br />
of Sutak 2 the daily pooja, bhakti, aarti (prayer), lighting lamp<br />
of rogan (ghee) of buffalo and cow etc. have not to be stopped.<br />
In this context, let me tell you a short story. A person got a child<br />
after ten years of his marriage. In the happiness of having a son he<br />
celebrated a lot. Invited 12 villages on food and there was a lot of<br />
singing and dancing. In other words, spent a lot of money. Then<br />
after a year that son passed away. Then that same family cried like<br />
hell, and blamed their misfortune. Therefore God Kabir tells us<br />
that —<br />
Kabir, beta jaaya khushi hui, bahut bajaaye thaal |<br />
aana jaana lag raha, jyon keedi ka naal ||<br />
Kabir, patjhad aavat dekh kar, ban rovae man maahi |<br />
oonchi daali paat the, ab peele ho ho jaahin ||<br />
Kabir, paat jhadanta yoon kahae, sun bhai taruvar ray |<br />
ab ke bichhude nahin mila, na jaane kahaan gireinge jaay ||<br />
Kabir, taruvar kehta paat se, suno paat ik baat |<br />
yahaan ki yaahe reeti hai, ek aavat ek jaat ||<br />
12. Going to place of pilgrimage of a favoured deity to<br />
get child’s head shaved off – Prohibited: - Do not have to go to<br />
any place of pilgrimage or getting the child’s head shaved off. When<br />
you see that the hair have grown, get them cut and throw them away.<br />
Saw in a temple that reverential devotees came to get their son’s or<br />
1 Worship<br />
2 State of ritual impurity existing in one’s household after the birth of a child.<br />
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