Essence_USA__February_2018

LOVE & LIFE : SPIRITUALITY
MANIFEST
YOUR GREAT
LOVE STORY
GO WITHIN TO GET READY FOR
ROMANCE WITH TIPS FROM
ESSENCE.COM CONTRIBUTOR ZYA
Somewhere between entering into arranged marriages and
swiping right on Tinder, some of us have lost our way to realizing
an abundance of romantic love. As an energy healer and the
founder of 360magick.com, I’ve discovered common barriers
that stop people from connecting as well as spiritual tools that
help to usher in the divine healthy relationships we all seek.
Explore energy healing with a special
focus on your heart chakra.
The same way we cleanse our bodies, we must also purify our
spirits. The state of your heart chakra, one of your body’s
spiritual centers, is crucial to you being able to receive and give
affection. When it is blocked, it’s harder for us to love ourselves
and trust others. Try Reiki, which is a form of energy healing
that helps clear the chakras.
CUT ENERGY CORDS WITH GRATITUDE.
Ever thought about a friend or family member and then they
called? Well, you most likely have an invisible etheric cord that
connects your chakras and aura to theirs and those of other
people in your life. That’s great when you’re in the enamored
phasebutnotidealafterasplit.ThisiswhenIrecommendthat
clients cut cords with their past lover. Here’s how:
1Set the intention that you wish to no longer be
attached to that person in any way.
2Disengage completely—that means nixing all forms
of communication, especially social media. Be sure
to remove your ex’s number from your phone.
3Give thanks for the relationship. No matter what
happened, you learned something from this association
about yourself, your needs and your boundaries.
LIGHT A FIRE FOR WHAT YOU DESIRE.
Treat yourself to a decorative baby pink candle, which
will be your “love manifesting candle.” Slip your
handwritten must-haves under it and light that wick.
BE SPECIFIC ABOUT YOUR REQUIREMENTS.
Another good practice is to record in your journal what
you want in a lover, including your emotional needs.
Here’s a fill-in-the-blank template to follow:
I am seeking the healthy, whole, divine love that
seeks me.
In my romantic life partner, the following qualities are
important to me (for example: emotionally supportive,
motivated, upbeat, loving):
____________, ____________, ____________.
In return I will bring the following qualities to the
relationship _________, ________,________.
I am clear that we will help each other grow mentally,
emotionally and physically, but I ask that these life
lessons be undertaken with compassion, love, integrity,
mutual respect and harmonious intentions.
Thank you, Universe, for already providing us with our
divine love.
_____________________________________
(It’s vital that you sign your name.)
Consider a session with an empathcentered
psychic.
To facilitate growth, you can focus on revisiting your
past life, removing energy blockages and nullifying any
soul contracts—nonformal pacts that we make with
ourselves regarding life lessons before our birth.
PURCHASE AND CARRY HEALING CRYSTALS.
Wear crystals as pendants or perhaps place them inside your bra or on your bedside table. Try rose quartz, the love
manifesting stone; rhodochrosite, the crystal for healing childhood wounds; or ruby rose for strengthening the heart.
RECITE LOVE MANTRAS.
We are what we think, believe and repeat to
ourselves. Use your inner voice for good and
get in the habit of chanting a daily mantra to
show love both for yourself and the partner
you’re looking for. Start with these three:
I deserve love and I get it in abundance.
Love and forgiveness is the foundation of every relationship.
In all my relationships, with my parents, my life partner
or my friends, I only give love and seek love. º
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