With This Ring: August 05, 2016
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WITH THIS RING – FREE www.withthisring.co.nz SEPTEMBER <strong>2016</strong> – ISSUE 19<br />
Design<br />
Your Day<br />
WITH COLOUR<br />
AND FLAIR<br />
VENUES<br />
AND MENUS<br />
TO SUIT<br />
YOUR<br />
STYLE<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2016</strong> | ISSUE 19 | FREE<br />
The four Cs for<br />
A ROMANTIC<br />
WEDDING IN<br />
NORFOLK<br />
ISLAND<br />
AN IDYLLIC<br />
HONEYMOON IN<br />
RAROTONGA<br />
Diamond<br />
Dazzle
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Wedding Checklist<br />
Bridal Gowns & Fashions<br />
Flower Girls<br />
Bridesmaid Classics & Colours<br />
Grooms and Best Men<br />
Beauty<br />
Mother of the Bride<br />
Hens and Bucks<br />
Jewellery<br />
Wedding Organisation<br />
Venues<br />
Themes and Budgets<br />
Big Day Featured Wedding<br />
Speeches and Attendants<br />
Venues Continued<br />
Gifts & Guest Entertainment<br />
Catering, Cakes & Cocktails<br />
Photography<br />
Wedding Transport<br />
Invitations & Words<br />
Flowers<br />
Ceremonies<br />
Honeymoon Destinations<br />
Music & Decorations<br />
Wedding Shows & Expos<br />
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WITH THIS RING – FREE www.withthisring.co.nz SEPTEMBER <strong>2016</strong> – ISSUE 19<br />
Design<br />
Your Day<br />
WITH COLOUR<br />
AND FLAIR<br />
VENUES<br />
AND MENUS<br />
TO SUIT<br />
YOUR<br />
STYLE<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2016</strong> | ISSUE 19 | FREE<br />
A ROMANTIC<br />
WEDDING IN<br />
NORFOLK<br />
ISLAND<br />
AN IDYLLIC<br />
HONEYMOON IN<br />
RAROTONGA<br />
The four Cs for<br />
Diamond<br />
Dazzle<br />
COVER IMAGE:<br />
PHOTO CREDIT:<br />
<strong>This</strong> gorgeous gown image featured<br />
on our cover was supplied by<br />
To Cherish Bridal Boutique.<br />
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Ph: 03 377 6800<br />
Or visit their website:<br />
www.tocherish.co.nz<br />
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ADVERTORIAL<br />
<strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> 3<br />
Award winning Couturiere,<br />
Robyn Cliffe wowed the<br />
crowd at the Great New<br />
Zealand Bridal Show in April<br />
with the release of their<br />
couture range at the <strong>2016</strong><br />
Fashion Show.<br />
<strong>With</strong> the warmer weather you<br />
won’t have to wait long for the<br />
pre-release of their 2017 ranges as<br />
Robyn Cliffe and her talented team<br />
are already putting together their<br />
new spring collection.<br />
<strong>With</strong> New Zealand Fashion week<br />
upon us the creativity has been<br />
flowing after hugely successfully<br />
showings last year. As the South<br />
Islands only Couture designer<br />
Robyn relishes the opportunity<br />
to create some stunning one off<br />
gowns that then set the tone for the<br />
following season.<br />
If you can’t make it to Auckland<br />
you don’t miss out as Robyn and<br />
her team choose to showcase her<br />
award winning range each year at<br />
the Great New Zealand Bridal Show<br />
every April. ‘It’s a great opportunity<br />
for our team to show everyone<br />
locally where bridal fashion is at for<br />
the season and to set imaginations<br />
alight for just what is possible.’<br />
Robyn’s range shows the diversity<br />
and quality of design available in<br />
New Zealand.<br />
Bridal gown<br />
design is going through an<br />
exciting stage, with the increase<br />
in outdoor weddings and a<br />
return to nature, the gowns are<br />
evolving to suit this more fluid<br />
style.<br />
Emphasising drifts of colour<br />
through layers and giving a<br />
natural soft look to the gown<br />
or reflecting the soft pinks and<br />
greys of an evening sky. “Gosh<br />
we can hardly keep up, but the<br />
stimulation is very exciting,<br />
this season is no exception and<br />
I love it. Especially for New<br />
Zealand brides, we photograph<br />
our brides in such dramatic and<br />
natural landscapes, we want our<br />
gowns to reflect this but also to<br />
allow the brides personality to<br />
shine through ”says Robyn.<br />
Well established<br />
in a beautiful studio<br />
in ST Albans, Robyn<br />
welcomes brides to the<br />
ample showroom and<br />
consulting area. <strong>With</strong> the<br />
sunny on-site workroom<br />
upstairs, stunning<br />
creations are emerging<br />
from her team. “We have<br />
also just acquired two<br />
new ranges to keep our<br />
customers on top of these<br />
new styles which are<br />
very exciting to view. You<br />
can get a sneak peak of these<br />
on our facebook page.There is<br />
something here for everyone.’<br />
For budget minded brides<br />
Robyn has also a selected range<br />
of gowns for $500.00. She<br />
believes that “it competes with<br />
internet buying, but the gown<br />
can be tried on and bought<br />
with confidence with our name<br />
behind the purchase, so you can<br />
look lovely on your wedding<br />
day, without breaking the bank!”<br />
Brides are welcomed at<br />
Robyn Cliffe Couturiere<br />
located at 1064 Colombo St<br />
Edgeware Village St Albans<br />
Christchurch.<br />
Phone 03 366 1111 or<br />
visit www.robyncliffe.co.nz<br />
www.robyncliffe.co.nz<br />
03 366 1111
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ADVERTORIAL<br />
If you are a bride-to-be you will know there<br />
is plenty to organise and many decisions to<br />
make. The most exciting of your shopping<br />
experiences may also have arrived - finding<br />
the dream dress!<br />
Wilkins Bridal will ensure your visit provides you<br />
with the quality of service and care you deserve, in a<br />
friendly and relaxed atmosphere.<br />
Finding 'the one' may seem complicated and<br />
daunting, but with the team's professional<br />
service, they are there to guide you through,<br />
offering all the help, honesty and advice you<br />
need. Selecting your dress will be an enjoyable,<br />
stress-free and unpressured experience.<br />
Store Manager April Meredith says, "Our<br />
gowns are designed in a wide range of styles<br />
from traditional to contemporary with<br />
Bridal: 03 377 8595<br />
facebook.com/wilkinsbridal.co.nz<br />
info@wilkinsbridal.co.nz<br />
www.wilkinsbridal.co.nz<br />
exquisite fabrics including luxurious satins, flowing chiffons<br />
and sensational silks, complemented by elegant detail such<br />
as intricate embroidery or sparkling beading using genuine<br />
Swarovski crystals. We have a truly exceptional collection<br />
of gowns on offer that will capture the personality of<br />
every bride whether they are looking for soft classical,<br />
romanticism or traditional bridal drama." They are exclusive<br />
New Zealand stockists of stunning overseas designers such<br />
as Jack Sullivan, Brides Desire and De Lanquez, if you’re<br />
looking for something unique and truly one of a kind you’ll<br />
certainly find it there.<br />
<strong>With</strong> late night Thursdays and open Saturdays, Wilkins<br />
Bridal is more accessible for those with busy schedules.<br />
You can find them online at www.wilkinsbridal.co.nz or<br />
on facebook.com/wilkinsbridal.co.nz, with both<br />
showcasing the wide range of stunning<br />
bridal gowns, Mother of the Bride,<br />
Bridesmaids, Flowergirls dresses,<br />
jewellery and accessories.<br />
However, you really must see<br />
the gowns for yourself with<br />
a relaxing hour and a half<br />
bridal consultation. <strong>This</strong><br />
involves a personalised one<br />
on one service to assist you by<br />
a team of extremely experienced<br />
staff. They will help guide you into the<br />
perfect gown for your big day and complete<br />
your bridal picture with the all-important<br />
job of accessorising. April believes that the moment a bride tries<br />
on 'the dress', she simply knows it's 'the One'. "It's a one-of-a<br />
kind magical feeling that can elicit tears or cheers of joy.<br />
I take personal responsibility for the happiness of my brides<br />
who all want to look gorgeous for the singular moment in<br />
their lives that will live on forever."
BORROWED<br />
There may be a vintage or heirloom gown belonging<br />
to family or friends that you could wear. Borrowed or<br />
inherited, such gowns provide special magic on your<br />
wedding day and are becoming very sought after.<br />
Care must be taken when handling a vintage dress<br />
as the fabric becomes fragile with age and requires<br />
expert cleaning and storage.<br />
FOUND<br />
Expensive and exquisite dresses are often to be<br />
found in the “for sale” columns, or on Trademe.<br />
Many have been purchased or imported from<br />
overseas and you may discover a genuine<br />
designer bridal gown at a fraction of the<br />
original cost. You can always have it<br />
re-fitted or altered with beading or<br />
a trim to your personal taste.<br />
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Every bride wants that “once in a<br />
lifetime” dress! Finding it may take you<br />
on a search of many different options,<br />
whether you buy, hire, make, borrow,<br />
discover, inherit or have it designed.<br />
Sometimes the gown a bride has<br />
always imagined wearing is not the<br />
one she eventually chooses. It’s a<br />
wise bride who goes looking<br />
with an open mind to find<br />
the style and shade that<br />
suits her to perfection.<br />
BOUGHT<br />
Beautiful wedding dresses are available “off the peg” at specialist<br />
bridal shops. As well as New Zealand designs, many are<br />
imported, so be sure to allow adequate time for the dress you<br />
select to be ordered from overseas. <strong>With</strong> a wonderful range of<br />
styles to “try before you buy”, your dream dress might be right<br />
there on the rack! Once chosen, your gown can be expertly<br />
fitted and altered if necessary. Bridal shops have an impressive<br />
selection of accessories and attendants’ dresses to complement<br />
your gown.<br />
DESIGNED<br />
Having a gown designed and made just<br />
for you is the ultimate in individuality,<br />
but naturally it will cost you more than<br />
a ready made dress. Your designer will<br />
want to discuss prospective ideas and<br />
styles with you, as well as what suits<br />
you and your personality. Bringing an<br />
illustration, a piece of lace or item of<br />
jewellery is helpful for inspiration.<br />
The designer will have access to a<br />
range of fabrics and trimmings to<br />
create the dress you have chosen.<br />
While white is the obvious choice<br />
for bridal gowns, ivory, parchment,<br />
magnolia, silver, champagne,<br />
gold or blush can be even more<br />
flattering on some brides.<br />
OTHER<br />
ALTERNATIVES<br />
Your wedding gown need<br />
not be a traditional<br />
bridal style, colour or<br />
price. Look at ball<br />
gowns, cocktail<br />
outfits and maxi<br />
dresses and try<br />
summer sales at<br />
designer boutiques<br />
as well as chain<br />
store racks.<br />
MADE<br />
Choose a pattern and some<br />
stunning bridal fabric and<br />
let a skilled dressmaker create<br />
an exquisite gown for you.<br />
<strong>With</strong> an inspiring selection of<br />
silk, satin, lace, brocade and<br />
voile, there won’t be another<br />
gown exactly like yours,<br />
and it won’t be as costly as a<br />
designer dress either. Be sure<br />
to choose a reputable dress<br />
maker and always ask to see<br />
examples of their work before<br />
you decide.<br />
HIRED<br />
Hiring a wedding gown often lets you have that dream<br />
dress for less than purchasing it or having it made.<br />
Unless you plan to keep your gown as an heirloom,<br />
hiring can be an excellent option for the budget conscious<br />
bride. As well as dedicated wedding hire shops,<br />
theatrical costume hire can sometimes provide you with<br />
a period gown for a themed wedding, or the inspiration<br />
for one!<br />
PERSONALISED<br />
WITH STYLE<br />
<strong>With</strong> style and imagination,<br />
a simple dress can<br />
always be beautifully and<br />
uniquely enhanced with<br />
your own personal style of<br />
decoration; beading, trimming,<br />
appliqué, overlays<br />
of lace or chiffon. Add a<br />
sparkly belt, sheer sleeves,<br />
a sassy jacket or a bolero<br />
and hey presto your dress<br />
is truly “yours.”
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THE ESSENTIAL<br />
PLAN<br />
SET<br />
BOOK<br />
SELECT<br />
DISCUSS<br />
CHOOSE<br />
ARRANGE<br />
ORDER<br />
LOOK<br />
DECIDE<br />
CHOOSE<br />
VISIT<br />
SELECT<br />
BAKE<br />
RESERVE<br />
FIT<br />
ESTABLISH<br />
FINALISE<br />
ORGANISE<br />
MAKE<br />
LIST<br />
SEND<br />
SETTLE<br />
CONFIRM<br />
CHECK<br />
BUY<br />
SELECT<br />
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9-12 Months<br />
BEFORE<br />
Style and budget of the wedding<br />
Date time & place<br />
Venue(s), musicians/disco<br />
Caterer<br />
Wedding flowers with chosen florist<br />
Your photographer<br />
Video photography<br />
Wedding transport<br />
At wedding dress designs<br />
Colour schemes<br />
6-9 Months<br />
BEFORE<br />
Your wedding dress<br />
Minister, Priest or Celebrant<br />
Groom’s and attendants’ clothing<br />
Or Order the wedding cake<br />
Honeymoon travel and accommodation<br />
3-6 Months<br />
BEFORE<br />
Suits for Groom and Groomsmen<br />
Beauty and exercise regime<br />
Wedding invitations<br />
Accommodation for out of town guests<br />
Wedding day hair/make up appointments<br />
Wedding gifts/registry<br />
2 Months<br />
BEFORE<br />
Invitations<br />
On reception menu and beverages<br />
Floristry details<br />
Passports, travel plans documents<br />
Gifts for attendants<br />
Wedding rings<br />
Wedding shoes<br />
APPLY<br />
PURCHASE<br />
ARRANGE<br />
ATTEND<br />
ORGANISE<br />
LIAISE<br />
FIT<br />
CONTINUE<br />
RECONFIRM<br />
WEAR<br />
ENJOY<br />
FINAL FIT<br />
WRAP<br />
PRACTICE<br />
PACK<br />
CHECK<br />
REHEARSE<br />
REST<br />
SLEEP<br />
EAT<br />
PAMPER<br />
LET<br />
THANK<br />
RELAX<br />
ENJOY<br />
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BEFORE<br />
For Marriage Licence<br />
Thank-you gifts for parents<br />
Reception seating plan<br />
Hairdresser with veil/headgear<br />
Wedding rehearsal<br />
<strong>With</strong> florist, photographer, chauffeur, celebrant<br />
Wedding Dress<br />
Beauty and exercise regime<br />
2 Weeks<br />
BEFORE<br />
All bookings, numbers, times and details<br />
Bridal shoes for wedding day comfort<br />
Hen’s night fun or pamper<br />
Your dress and attendants’ outfits<br />
Gifts for attendants<br />
Your wedding vows<br />
1 Week<br />
BEFORE<br />
For your honeymoon<br />
All travel details<br />
The ceremony<br />
As much as possible<br />
On the<br />
DAY<br />
Late<br />
Breakfast<br />
Yourself<br />
Others do their job<br />
Family and friends<br />
Don’t stress over tiny details<br />
YOUR WEDDING DAY!
Stockists of<br />
Martina Liana<br />
Jack Sullivan<br />
Brides Desire<br />
Sophia Tolli<br />
De Lanquez<br />
Essense<br />
Stella York<br />
Mancini<br />
Angeline<br />
Alfred Angelo<br />
Sorella Vita<br />
One Day Only Couture Gown Sale<br />
10am to 3pm Sunday 11th September<br />
By appointment only<br />
Bridal: 03 377 8595, 7 Pilgrim Place, Behind Denny’s Restaurant, Off Moorhouse Ave.<br />
info@wilkinsbridal.co.nz, www.wilkinsbridal.co.nz, facebook.com/wilkinsbridal.co.nz
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Charmed Flowers<br />
Classic Photo Booth<br />
Moriarty Dental<br />
Bell Road Bespoke Bridal<br />
Bramble Grove<br />
Mariessa Waddington<br />
Tastefull Affiars<br />
Hot Shots Photo Booth<br />
Catlins River Ridge Retreat<br />
Commodore Hotel<br />
Louise Anderson Bridal Design Ltd<br />
The Cake Eating Company<br />
The George<br />
Nectar Florist<br />
Paintball Games<br />
Tuscany Downs Estate<br />
Wedding Professionals NZ Planners<br />
Garry Walls Photography & DJ<br />
Airpark Limousines<br />
Links Functions and Events<br />
Hanmer Springs<br />
Braemar Lodge & Spa<br />
Crème de la Rose<br />
Haley Saul Hair Artist<br />
VMC images<br />
Chalk it Up<br />
Peppers Clearwater Resort<br />
Break Free on Cashel<br />
Alyssandra Striking Stationry<br />
Pure Romnace By Andi<br />
Hand Made Photography<br />
Westhave Gardens<br />
Davis Bridal<br />
The First Dance<br />
Canterbury Kombi Chauffeur<br />
Brides of Merivale<br />
Omarino Wine Park<br />
Kennett Crafted Jewels<br />
Something Borrowed Something New<br />
Verve Real Food Catering<br />
Trents Estate Vineyard<br />
Beautiful Make Up<br />
Outback Bathrooms<br />
Mandy Caldwell Photography<br />
The Tannery<br />
The Dear Ones Photobooth Co<br />
Continental<br />
Black Shadow Project<br />
Artistic Blooms<br />
Simpatico Hair Studio<br />
Registered Celebrant<br />
Heritage Queenstown<br />
Moveable Feasts<br />
Cherished<br />
Heritage Hanmer Springs<br />
Hirepool Events<br />
Number 9 Events Centre<br />
Weddings by Collective Concepts<br />
Julie Lassen<br />
Glen James Jewellers<br />
Hello World Rolleston<br />
Hello World Rangiora<br />
CM Photography<br />
Cakes Galore<br />
Phoenix Weddings<br />
Kates Cakery<br />
Westende Jewellers<br />
The Little Hire Company<br />
Angela minson Makeup Artist<br />
Smith & Boston<br />
Flowers by Lynette<br />
Hotel Ashburton<br />
Wigram Base<br />
Kiwi Cuisine<br />
To Cherish Bridal Boutique<br />
Terrace Downs Resort<br />
Tricia Warwick - Naziris<br />
Johannes Van Kan Photographer<br />
Lincoln Motel<br />
ChCh Coach Charters<br />
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www.classicphotobooths.co.nz<br />
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House of Kavina is<br />
celebrating four decades<br />
of helping brides find their<br />
dream gown!<br />
“So come and celebrate the next<br />
decade with us as we continue our<br />
flourishing business in Dunedin,<br />
making sure brides experience that<br />
wow factor” says Hilary Samuelson,<br />
the owner of House of Kavina.<br />
<strong>With</strong> a magnificent collection<br />
of 200-300 wedding gowns as well<br />
as Mother of the Bride or Groom,<br />
flower-girl and bridesmaid dresses,<br />
bridal accessories, school formal<br />
and high end evening fashions,<br />
House of Kavina has become a<br />
mecca for brides from all over the<br />
country.<br />
Among the racks you’ll find<br />
exquisite gowns from Venus, Cizzy,<br />
Stella York, Essense and Martina-<br />
Liana Bridal and Zavana. House of<br />
Kavina specialises in sizes ranging<br />
form 2-28, with a good selection<br />
for our goddess curvy girls to try<br />
on.<br />
Choosing a bridal gown is not<br />
simply finding a dress you like,<br />
“it’s the whole experience of being<br />
a bride, including the touch and<br />
the feel of a gown and connecting<br />
to it in a way that isn’t possible if<br />
you buy online” says Hilary “You<br />
can’t get the wow factor from an<br />
on-line purchase based on a picture<br />
and it often results in a poor fit,<br />
a disappointing gown and a bad<br />
experience. It’s sad but true that<br />
usually you only get what you pay<br />
for.” She believes it is helpful for<br />
a bride to “bring a friend but not<br />
a crowd” to a bridal consultation<br />
because it’s good to have a second<br />
opinion from someone you trust<br />
when you are trying different<br />
styles. It is a quieter more relaxing<br />
experience if there are not too<br />
many opinions!<br />
Unlike many bridal houses,<br />
Hilary’s exceptional stock of<br />
gowns means many of them<br />
can be purchased on the day of<br />
consultation, or ordered within<br />
a maximum time of 16 weeks.<br />
“Brides love being able to take their<br />
chosen gown home then and there,<br />
although I often advise them to<br />
“sleep on it” just to be sure about<br />
their choice” says Hilary.<br />
In addition to the popularity<br />
of ivory, her range of gowns also<br />
includes soft romantic colours like<br />
oyster, blush and cafe which are<br />
exceptionally popular. “<strong>This</strong> season<br />
there are romantic floaty styles,<br />
figure hugging gowns, illusion<br />
necklines and backs, but most of<br />
all there is beautiful lace and soft<br />
floating tulle. <strong>This</strong> new season also<br />
features the revival of clean satin<br />
classic lines.”<br />
You won’t find a better selection<br />
of wedding gowns than House of<br />
Kavina which is open Monday to<br />
Friday 9-5.30pm and Saturdays<br />
10-2pm. Bridal consultations on<br />
Saturdays are by appointment. So<br />
come on in and enjoy the House of<br />
Kavina bridal experience.
Bridal Specialists.co.nz<br />
Stockists of<br />
• Venus<br />
• Stella York<br />
• Essense<br />
• Martina Liana<br />
and more<br />
‘An exquisite<br />
selection of<br />
dream gowns’<br />
335 South Road, Caversham, Dunedin. Ph 03 487 6497<br />
www.bridalspecialists.co.nz
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Wearing a wedding veil is largely<br />
a matter of personal choice.<br />
Traditionally veils were worn to<br />
symbolize the purity and innocence<br />
of the bride but with secular<br />
ceremonies more popular than<br />
church weddings, the veil has<br />
become less symbolic religiously<br />
and more of a fashion statement or<br />
sentiment. But in its place is a serious<br />
selection of intricate headpieces to<br />
complement almost any bridal style.<br />
HEADPIECES can be worn with a veil<br />
or instead of one. Many brides do both<br />
and simply remove the veil after the<br />
ceremony, leaving the decorative<br />
headpiece in place for the<br />
reception. Inspired<br />
by the popularity<br />
of vintage and<br />
Bohemian style,<br />
there is an<br />
exceptional<br />
range of<br />
headpieces<br />
available to<br />
add sparkle to<br />
your wedding<br />
day elegance and<br />
hairstyle of choice.<br />
COMBS, CLIPS, PINS<br />
AND BARETTES with<br />
sparkles, feathers or flowers can be<br />
used to secure your hairstyle or decorate<br />
a braid a bun or long loose waves simply<br />
and stylishly.<br />
BANDS, TIARAS, CIRCLETS AND<br />
GARLANDS are an exquisite substitute<br />
whether they are natural or manmade. Worn<br />
on the crown of the head, across the forehead,<br />
woven around a braid or as a wreath of<br />
delicate jewellery or fresh flowers, they<br />
are ultra-chic this wedding season.<br />
A WATERFALL VEIL is a double<br />
layer and worn to waist length.<br />
Often rolled or lace edged, it<br />
complements a long gown and<br />
elegant upswept hairstyle. One<br />
layer may cover the face during the<br />
ceremony of a traditional wedding.<br />
A BLUSHER VEIL is usually chin<br />
length or shoulder length with a<br />
longer layer at the back and a short<br />
layer worn over the face if desired.<br />
It looks ideal with a short hairstyle<br />
and complements the “tea length”<br />
of popular 50’s style gowns.<br />
A MANTILLA is a Spanish styled<br />
veil of heavy or intricate lace<br />
worn with a concealed comb.<br />
Hair can be long or short, but the<br />
elaborateness of the veil is best<br />
complemented by a simple classic<br />
gown.<br />
A BIRDCAGE VEIL<br />
with toque or<br />
fascinator is retro<br />
40’s and very<br />
popular at<br />
present.<br />
It works well<br />
with a slinky<br />
gown, suit or<br />
sassy cocktail<br />
length dress and<br />
bridges the style<br />
gap between veil and<br />
headpiece.<br />
AN HEIRLOOM VEIL is thought to bestow luck, love and long life<br />
to the new bride. It is often the favourite “ old” item to uphold the<br />
traditional theme of “something old, something new, something<br />
borrowed, something blue.”<br />
A CATHEDRAL<br />
VEIL is long<br />
and trailing. It<br />
may overlay<br />
a train which<br />
is part of the<br />
wedding gown<br />
or be the train<br />
itself, but the<br />
style is usually<br />
worn for formal<br />
and elaborate<br />
weddings with<br />
attendants who<br />
carry the train<br />
for the bride.<br />
ph 021 877 638<br />
Bell Road<br />
Bridal Design<br />
Nelson<br />
www.bellroad.co.nz
Presenting<br />
international brands<br />
and superior styling<br />
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Beautiful Brides<br />
& Bridesmaids<br />
Davis Bridal<br />
237 Brougham St| Ph 343 3652 | Davis Bridal Christchurch
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It won’t matter how expensive, exclusive or<br />
fabulous a gown might be, it won’t flatter you<br />
if the style isn’t right for your height and your<br />
shape. Your wedding dress should highlight<br />
your best features and camouflage your flaws<br />
so choosing a design for your body shape is<br />
the smartest move a bride can make!<br />
FULLER FIGURE<br />
AND TALL<br />
Often described as<br />
statuesque, extra height<br />
allows a fuller figured<br />
silhouette to carry off<br />
well cut designs with<br />
elegance. Draped fabrics<br />
that fall well are most<br />
alluring and a train<br />
can be carried off with<br />
aplomb if you wish.<br />
AVERAGE HEIGHT<br />
AND FULLER FIGURE<br />
Avoid fuss and flounce<br />
and go for simplicity of<br />
style. Choose flowing<br />
fabrics and don’t<br />
be afraid of beads,<br />
embroidery, crystals or<br />
lace. Sleeves downplay<br />
a fuller figure and so<br />
does a beautifully fitted<br />
bodice with an A line<br />
skirt. Steer clear of a bias<br />
cut design that clings to<br />
your curves.<br />
SHORT AND SLENDER<br />
Choose a design of<br />
simplicity that doesn’t<br />
swamp your small frame.<br />
Avoid full skirts and<br />
ruffles in favour of a<br />
straighter skirt in a soft<br />
draping fabric. A straight<br />
sheath is flattering or a<br />
style that flares from the<br />
hips. Alternatively look<br />
for a design that is sleek<br />
at the front with added<br />
fullness in the back of<br />
the skirt. Add height<br />
with high heels and an<br />
“up-do” hairstyle.<br />
AVERAGE HEIGHT<br />
AND WEIGHT<br />
Oh lucky girl, you<br />
can almost any style<br />
that suits your taste<br />
and personality.<br />
You can accentuate<br />
waist, shoulders,<br />
back or décolletage<br />
if you wish, you can<br />
choose a full skirt<br />
or a sheath, empire<br />
line or waistedstyle<br />
and any fabric<br />
from classic to<br />
contemporary.<br />
TALL AND SLENDER<br />
Your body shape is<br />
often angular, so you<br />
will want to create the<br />
illusion of curves. A<br />
full skirt with layers<br />
avoids straight lines that<br />
accentuate the thinner<br />
figure. Feature a boat<br />
neckline or backless<br />
design to draw the<br />
eye away from the<br />
chest and downplay<br />
height with a waisted<br />
gown highlighted with<br />
a belt or sash. Avoid<br />
drop waist styles that<br />
lengthen the body line.
As unique as you<br />
By appointment only, please phone 03 337 0226<br />
info@bridesofmerivale.co.nz | www.bridesofmerivale.co.nz<br />
Find us on<br />
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PHOTOS BY EMMA BOOTH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
When you step into the brand new<br />
premises of To Cherish Bridal, you will<br />
discover a complete bridal destination.<br />
<strong>With</strong> a dazzling international<br />
range of gowns alongside an<br />
elegant selection of Bridesmaids<br />
and flowergirls dresses and<br />
complimented with veils,<br />
jewellery and wedding accessories<br />
including Trousseau Shoes, it’s the<br />
place to be for every new bride.<br />
Exceptional refurbishment<br />
characterises the prime Barrington<br />
Street site and allows all the space<br />
and grace required for brides to<br />
choose their gown without haste.<br />
Utilising two levels with their own<br />
separate entrances, To Cherish<br />
is able to provide dedicated<br />
departments incorporating an<br />
impressive retail area, a designer<br />
bridal suite, well appointed fitting<br />
rooms for brides and bridesmaids<br />
and facilities upstairs for in-house<br />
alterations and final fittings.<br />
Consultation appointments<br />
are FREE but do require an<br />
appointment for selecting a gown<br />
from the exceptional designer<br />
labels from Justin Alexander, Fox<br />
Bridal, International Couture,<br />
Zavana Bridal and Cizzy Bridal<br />
which Alison has sourced for her<br />
magnificent new shop. Perfection<br />
usually comes with a hefty<br />
price tag, but at To Cherish, a<br />
breathtaking designer gown can<br />
be yours from $1800-$3500 –<br />
unbelievable!<br />
Light, bright and resplendent<br />
with mirrors and chandeliers,<br />
To Cherish will make you feel<br />
special throughout your bridal<br />
experience and beyond! See how<br />
your gown looks as you glide<br />
along the elegant catwalk, share<br />
the moment with your beautifully<br />
gowned bridesmaids, choose all<br />
your accessories under one roof<br />
and then have your gown fitted to<br />
perfection by the experienced staff<br />
of To Cherish.<br />
Alison is proud of being a<br />
founding member of the Wedding<br />
Industry Network (WIN), an<br />
organisation of professionals<br />
recognised for pursuing the<br />
highest standards of excellence<br />
and professionalism within the<br />
wedding industry.<br />
Dedicated to sourcing beautiful<br />
bridal fashion for your special<br />
day, Alison welcomes enquiries,<br />
appointments & consultations<br />
at To Cherish Bridal Boutique,<br />
Barrington-Athelstan Corner<br />
Ph (03) 377 6800,<br />
visit their website<br />
www.tocherish.co.nz<br />
or be among the first to<br />
enjoy Christchurch’s newest<br />
bridal destination.
Stunning<br />
New<br />
Location<br />
Corner Athelstan &<br />
Barrington St, Christchurch<br />
Ph (03) 377 6800<br />
www.tocherish.co.nz
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Shoes are on show at your<br />
wedding but finding the right<br />
style to offset the design of<br />
your gown will depend on<br />
the formality of your wedding<br />
and the fit of your foot!<br />
Shoe fashions come and go, but your<br />
choice of footwear can help you<br />
maximise or minimise your height, be<br />
chosen to suit the theme or the season,<br />
be low key or low heeled, provide sassy<br />
elegance or a bold fashion statement.<br />
TREAT YOURSELF TO:<br />
Luxurious shoes in silk, satin, lace, leather<br />
or manmade materials from a wedding<br />
shoe specialist.<br />
OR<br />
Find a simple court shoe and<br />
individualise them with buttons, bow,<br />
buckles and bling.<br />
OR<br />
Have shoes dyed to mix or match with<br />
the colour theme of your wedding.<br />
FIND YOURSELF<br />
The best option to complement your<br />
gown and those of your attendants from<br />
Sandals, jandals, slides, sling-backs, peep<br />
toes and Mary Janes. Go buckled, bowed,<br />
laced, strapped or a Parisien ankle boot<br />
for vintage elegance.<br />
GO HIGH WITH:<br />
Stillettos & Stack heels for height<br />
and elegance. Use gel-inserts for<br />
comfort and choose thicker<br />
stack heels over stilettos<br />
for stability. Platforms &<br />
Wedges and walk tall with<br />
confidence. Choose style<br />
carefully to avoid a clunky look<br />
or draw attention to big feet.<br />
GO LOW WITH:<br />
Kitten heels for comfort, stability and<br />
very tall brides! The are an elegant<br />
compromise when worn with<br />
gowns that are short or long.<br />
Ballet Flats are versatile for<br />
all ages and low key style<br />
includes patents, florals,<br />
buckles and bling.<br />
GO CASUAL WITH:<br />
Jandals and sandals are cool and casual at<br />
an island or beach. Styles are sensational<br />
with sparkles, flowers and pretty summer<br />
colours.<br />
FEEL FOR YOUR FEET<br />
If you are showing off your shoes! Prepare<br />
them for a day on demand; paint them<br />
with polish, pamper them with a foot<br />
bath, sooth them with lotion.<br />
AND<br />
Wear IN those wedding<br />
shoes before you wear them<br />
ON the day.
<strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> 21<br />
Corner or Athelstan and Barrington Street, Christchurch | 03 377 6800 | www.tocherish.co.nz
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ADVERTORIAL<br />
CHOOSING A BRIDAL BOUTIQUE<br />
Where you purchase<br />
your wedding gown<br />
is a huge part of your<br />
planning and overall<br />
experience. But because<br />
of the technical nature<br />
of wedding gowns it isn’t<br />
like dress shopping at<br />
the mall!<br />
The first priority is to choose a<br />
stylist who has had formal training<br />
and experience, so you can be<br />
confident about their advice. Astra<br />
Bridal’s most common piece of<br />
feedback is that the style the bride<br />
falls in love with is not what they<br />
thought of when they first looked<br />
at gowns online. The stylist is an<br />
expert in finding what suits your<br />
body shape. So you can’t go past<br />
trying on gowns before making one<br />
of the biggest purchase decisions in<br />
your life.<br />
Choose a bridal salon that has<br />
a reputation for delivery and has<br />
been established for a reasonable<br />
period of time. Many salons come<br />
and go leaving a wake of devastated<br />
brides when they can’t deliver<br />
on their gown. Look at their<br />
testimonials – are they frequently<br />
updated and new or are they<br />
static comments? There are<br />
some dedicated sites for reviews<br />
for providers so make sure you<br />
look at testimonials given after<br />
the wedding. Some salons are<br />
friendly during the gown selection<br />
and then don’t want to know you<br />
once they have your money! You<br />
want to know they keep up the<br />
good work all the way through.<br />
A key point to be aware of<br />
is that if you buy your designer<br />
gown from what they call “bricks<br />
and mortar” stores then they will<br />
guarantee the authenticity of your<br />
gown. If the store isn’t listed as a<br />
stockist on the designer’s website<br />
then there is a good chance you<br />
won’t receive an authentic gown.<br />
Plus the designer won’t give you<br />
any post purchase support.<br />
A bridal boutique that offers<br />
“head to toe” service gives you the<br />
opportunity to see the finished<br />
look. Trying on your accessories<br />
with your gown gives you peace of<br />
mind that the overall look will be<br />
perfect.<br />
The time you have with them<br />
should be fun and enjoyable.<br />
Therefore the salon you choose<br />
should be friendly, reputable and<br />
know their stuff.<br />
Astra Bridal’s motto is “Taking<br />
the Stress Out of the Dress.” That<br />
is what you should look for in<br />
your bridal boutique - a stress-free<br />
experience.<br />
PHOTOS BY ALPINE IMAGE CO<br />
WWW.ALPINEIMAGES.CO.NZ<br />
Astra Bridal owner, Lori<br />
McPherson wanted South Island<br />
brides to have the opportunity<br />
of an amazing bridal experience.<br />
Accordingly South Island brides<br />
receive a free consultation and<br />
$150 credit towards accessories<br />
on purchase of their dress. <strong>This</strong><br />
generous offer is proving very<br />
popular and many brides enjoy a<br />
special weekend getaway to plan<br />
the wedding.
for<br />
South Island<br />
Brides<br />
Travel to one of our stores, buy your gown, and we will give you<br />
a credit on account, towards those travel costs. We can deliver<br />
your gown to Christchurch so you need only travel once.<br />
FOR MORE DETAILS CALL 0800 844 544 OR VISIT WWW.ASTRABRIDAL.CO.NZ
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RE-STORED<br />
Metallics are restored to glory so let<br />
your bridesmaids sparkle in lame,<br />
brocade or gold gossamer chiffon.<br />
Give them some silver screen glamour<br />
or crystal and sequin shine on bodice,<br />
belt or overlay. Team or tone with<br />
colours from neutrality to vitality.<br />
RE-FINED<br />
Neutrals look refined in any style<br />
from vintage to modern and<br />
any fabric from cotton to lace.<br />
Present shades favour cream,<br />
parchment and ecru through to<br />
latte. But newest for chic chicks<br />
is the arrival of palest dove grey.<br />
Whether you decide to<br />
have just your BFF as your<br />
only bridesmaid or a cluster<br />
of the closest from your<br />
clans, you will want them<br />
fabulously gowned in the<br />
most exciting styles and<br />
flattering shades on show<br />
this wedding season. Dresses<br />
are short, sheath, long, lacy,<br />
patterned, sleek, flared, full,<br />
sophisticated or demure and<br />
inspired by every era from<br />
Victorian to Bohemian.<br />
But.. colour is the revelation!<br />
RICH AND POWERFUL<br />
Dark colours are enriched<br />
against bridal white and floral<br />
arrangements and this season brings<br />
aubergine, navy, ruby, and graphite<br />
into the spotlight. But watch for the<br />
return of chocolate to challenge the<br />
popularity of black.<br />
RETRO-SPECT<br />
Colourful orange, saffron, aqua<br />
and peony are a blast from the<br />
retrospective past. These vivid<br />
shades are at home for a beach<br />
wedding or garden setting and beg<br />
for bold bright flowers to tone up<br />
or creamy blooms to tone down.<br />
ROMANTIC<br />
Romance is never out of style<br />
but this season’s philosophy is<br />
“pale and interesting” with blush<br />
pink, lavender, lemon or floaty<br />
smoky blue. New prints and<br />
florals complement wedding<br />
gowns and summer tans and<br />
offer a myriad of options for<br />
accessories and pretty bouquets.<br />
RE-INVENTED<br />
Green was traditionally shunned<br />
as unlucky for a wedding, but<br />
glorious shades of emerald and<br />
mint are too good to ignore.<br />
Meanwhile and newly chic<br />
pistachio and edgy chartreuse<br />
re-invent the colour adventure.<br />
RAINBOW<br />
Dressing your maids in a<br />
rainbow of different colours or<br />
a spectrum of the same shade<br />
from light to dark is an emerging<br />
trend. The theme works best for<br />
larger wedding parties or suits<br />
an age range of attendants from<br />
flower girl to matron of honour.<br />
RE-BORN<br />
Like fine wines, the newest<br />
shades are red! Re-born as<br />
marsala, burgundy, pinot and<br />
rose, these ripe reds are a<br />
sophisticated foil for gorgeous<br />
flowers and statement jewellery.<br />
Team with cream, gold,<br />
coordinating berry shades or<br />
contrast with hints of barely blue.
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YOURSELF<br />
Depending on the style of the wedding you may need<br />
to buy or hire a suit for yourself and/or your groomsmen.<br />
Whether your preference is formal, traditional,<br />
contemporary, casual, funky or dapper, your “look” is<br />
expected to complement the style the bride has chosen<br />
for herself and her attendants.<br />
An ill fitting suit looks dreadful on the day and completely spoils the<br />
overall look in the photos. So don’t guess your size or that of your<br />
groomsmen and make sure the menswear store or the suit hire company<br />
measure waist, inside leg length, neck size, chest size and arm length.<br />
Make sure you have allowed sufficient time before the wedding for any<br />
alterations to be made.<br />
CLASSIC<br />
For traditionalists, a morning suit is the most formal style for day time<br />
weddings, a dinner suit is right for a formal evening reception although<br />
a lounge suit is usually considered formal enough for most New Zealand<br />
weddings, especially if they include a waistcoat or vest. A suit jacket<br />
should fit smoothly without constricting movement of arms or shoulders<br />
and shirt collars should fasten comfortably at the neck. Waistcoats<br />
should button easily just below the waistband of the trousers and the<br />
hem of the trousers should rest on the instep, allowing 2/3 of the shoe<br />
to show. Make sure socks are the same colour as the suit and shoes are<br />
clean and polished.<br />
CONTEMPORARY<br />
Grooms who prefer contemporary<br />
style will find an appealing selection<br />
of suit styles and designs; single<br />
and double breasted jackets, fitted<br />
and double vented jackets and the<br />
comeback of blazers, tail coats and<br />
satin lapelled dinner jackets. Checks,<br />
(Prince of Wales and Houndstooth),<br />
flecks (Harris, Donegal and Lewis<br />
tweeds and stripes (pinstripe, chalk<br />
strip and Oxford) are “in” again and so<br />
are patterns and prints on shirts, vests<br />
and ties whether a bow or a knot!<br />
SUMMER SAVVY<br />
More casual attire is often accepted for summer weddings and sartorial<br />
savvy can be achieved in several ways. Selecting a suit in a light colour such<br />
as grey, taupe or natural can look casual yet distinguished. Perhaps forget<br />
the jacket and simply wear a waistcoat over a crisp cotton shirt. Sometimes<br />
a light weight fabric is preferred but be careful about linen which tends to<br />
crease and look untidy in photos. Other options include shirts designed to<br />
be worn out rather than tucked in, large collars with no tie or even bold<br />
Hawaiian style shirts for a truly tropical or on-the beach wedding.
ARE<br />
YOU<br />
A<br />
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It’s not enough to hire a suit, buy a ring,<br />
choose a Best Man and leave the rest to<br />
your Bride! Modern Grooms and “Good<br />
Grooms” are expected to be far more<br />
involved in all aspects of the wedding than<br />
many previous generations.<br />
SHARE THE PLANNING<br />
Getting married is one of life’s most momentous events<br />
and should reflect the beliefs, wishes and ideas of both<br />
of you. Planning a wedding requires commitment,<br />
communication and compromise – a pretty good test for<br />
life in general!<br />
CHOOSE THE BEST MAN<br />
CAREFULLY.<br />
He needs to be more than just your best mate when it<br />
comes to wedding duties. As well as being supportive,<br />
respectful and at ease with guests of all ages, ne must be<br />
reliable and punctual, take his responsibilities seriously<br />
and deliver a speech without mumbling or offending<br />
anyone.<br />
SPEAK WELL<br />
You too must make a speech on behalf of yourself and<br />
your new wife, thanking parents and guests for their<br />
attendance, gifts and good wishes. A good speech should<br />
be fluent, appropriate and sincere, so even if giving a<br />
speech makes you nervous, prepare it, practice it and<br />
keep it simple. Avoid pomposity, verbosity and profanity,<br />
don’t tell lies or mention past relationships and if you<br />
can’t tell a joke really well…don’t!<br />
WEDDING RESPONSIBILITIES<br />
Traditionally the groom is responsible for the Marriage<br />
Licence, fees for the Celebrant and organist, the<br />
Bride’s wedding ring, wedding clothing for himself and<br />
his groomsmen, flowers for the Bride, Bridesmaids,<br />
Mothers of Bride and Groom and buttonholes for the<br />
groom’s wedding party. The groom may also take care of<br />
honeymoon arrangements.<br />
BIG DAY AHEAD<br />
It’s going to be a big day and you want it to be special for<br />
all the right reasons! So…don’t party the night before,<br />
have a big blokes breakfast to stave off nerves and hunger<br />
pangs, be sure you look your best in well pressed clothes<br />
and well groomed appearance, practice your speech one<br />
more time and then arrive ON TIME!<br />
The perception that beauty treatments<br />
are only for women is hopefully fading fast<br />
as more men take a pro-active interest<br />
in looking good, feeling good & smelling<br />
good!<br />
Often encouraged by their partners to try<br />
products at home to cleanse, tone and nourish, the<br />
catalyst for getting men to a professional beauty<br />
treatment is frequently THE WEDDING.<br />
Men’s skin is just as susceptible to dryness,<br />
oiliness or a combination as our own. But add the<br />
daily abrasion of shaving and their skin might be<br />
screaming for some extra soothing, hydrating and<br />
moisturising.<br />
First timers can get to grips with the relaxing<br />
atmosphere of beauty therapy with a facial. Simply<br />
put, the skin is cleansed, exfoliated and moisturised.<br />
It’s not scary, doesn’t take forever and<br />
the results are immediately obvious.<br />
In between there will be cool<br />
lotions, hot towels, a neck and<br />
shoulder massage, a hydrating mask,<br />
time to almost-slumber while it works<br />
its magic, then a final smoothing<br />
moisturiser to pamper you for the rest<br />
of the day.<br />
A facial is the very least you should<br />
do for your skin. Of course there are<br />
plenty of other treatments once your<br />
man has got the hang of it. In the<br />
months leading up to the wedding you<br />
can drip-feed the idea of a manicure,<br />
eyebrow shaping, a man-wax and<br />
maybe a tanning treatment.<br />
If he is still not sure, give him a gift<br />
voucher or send him along with the<br />
Best Man to a place that specialises<br />
in beauty treatments for men – some<br />
of them evening have big screen TV’s<br />
and video games while you wait –<br />
painless!
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Your hands will never be more<br />
on show than when you are<br />
a bride!<br />
You may already have strong<br />
healthy well shaped nails, but if yours<br />
are brittle, split and weak, you will<br />
need nail conditioning well before<br />
the big day.<br />
Strong nails need Vitamins A and<br />
B, calcium, zinc, iron and protein. So<br />
ensure your diet contains a regular<br />
intake of eggs, fish, chicken, bananas,<br />
seeds, nuts and broccoli.<br />
Protect your hands from harsh<br />
chemicals by using rubber gloves<br />
for household tasks, use an intensive<br />
hand and nail cream at night and<br />
massage your hands to stimulate nail<br />
growth.<br />
Have a professional manicure to<br />
hydrate and exfoliate the skin and<br />
shape your nails correctly before<br />
the expert application of nail polish<br />
and hardener. Invest in quality nail<br />
products for long term care of your<br />
nails. But if disaster happens before<br />
the wedding, you can always rely on<br />
acrylics!<br />
Hands and rings of are on<br />
show at the wedding<br />
HANDY HINT - have<br />
your rings cleaned<br />
and your hands<br />
manicured<br />
To keep looking your<br />
beautiful best throughout<br />
the wedding, photos and<br />
reception<br />
HANDY HINT – have a<br />
make-up bag at your<br />
disposal to touch up<br />
and freshen up<br />
To avoid disturbing your lippy<br />
before the wedding<br />
HANDY HINT – drink with<br />
a straw<br />
To avoid messing up hair styles and<br />
makeup before the wedding<br />
HANDY HINT – wear a button through<br />
shirt until you are ready to put on<br />
your gown or wedding outfit<br />
Ensure wedding<br />
photos will<br />
look timeless<br />
and classic for<br />
years to come<br />
HANDY HINT<br />
– choose soft<br />
natural make-up<br />
and avoid extreme<br />
trends that<br />
date easily<br />
To make sure your hairstyle<br />
looks right with your headgear<br />
HANDY HINT – take veil,<br />
garland, head piece or hat<br />
to your hairdresser before<br />
deciding<br />
To get an idea of the<br />
whole hair and make-up look<br />
HANDY HINT – arrange hair<br />
and make-up trials at the<br />
same<br />
time & place<br />
To check your make-up<br />
tones for the wedding<br />
HANDY HINT –<br />
wear a neutral top<br />
when you go for a<br />
consultation<br />
For a low<br />
necked gown to<br />
look beautiful<br />
HANDY HINT –<br />
have back,<br />
neck & arms<br />
exfoliated<br />
and then<br />
moisturised<br />
For a strapless or sleeveless<br />
outfit to look its best<br />
HANDY HINT – avoid<br />
tan lines by wearing<br />
strapless swimwear<br />
all summer!<br />
For a consistent tan without sunburn<br />
HANDY HINT – opt for a light<br />
spray tan from a reputable<br />
clinic well before the wedding<br />
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styling available on request.<br />
<strong>With</strong> over 14 years experience<br />
in the wedding industry.<br />
Let's make your day special and<br />
one to remember<br />
Phone: 027 373 6716<br />
Website: www.beautifulmakeup.co.nz<br />
Phone 03 377 8883 or 021 427 433<br />
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SCIENCE OF<br />
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When preparing for your<br />
wedding, the best beauty<br />
therapy of all is to get<br />
more sleep and regulate<br />
your sleep patterns.<br />
Insufficient sleep is one of the<br />
casualties of our modern lifestyle.<br />
Over time, people experience<br />
increasing sleep-deprivation which<br />
in turn contributes to stress,<br />
breakouts and hormone imbalance.<br />
Ideally, adults should get 8<br />
hours rest in a 24 hour period,<br />
but many people short change<br />
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themselves by reducing their sleep<br />
time with extra work, watching<br />
TV or answering mobiles and<br />
social media well into the night.<br />
Sleep is designed to rest<br />
the body and the mind. While<br />
you sleep cells repair, the heart<br />
rate slows, other organs and<br />
systems rest, the brain files away<br />
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information and the muscles relax.<br />
Sleep also regenerates your skin<br />
because the muscles of your face<br />
are able to relax too.<br />
The systems of the body work<br />
best with regularity. Sleep is a<br />
habit that you can acquire by<br />
observing mostly regular routines<br />
in your meal times, exercise and<br />
bedtimes. 7 out of 10 people wake<br />
up more tired than when they<br />
went to bed because generally we<br />
eat too much food late at night,<br />
preventing our digestive system<br />
from working efficiently.<br />
Breakfast at 7 am takes 6 hours<br />
to digest and is the only meal<br />
that is assimilated 100%. After<br />
lunch at 1pm the digestive system<br />
operates at a slower rate having<br />
already been in action for 6 hours.<br />
Digesting the evening meal takes<br />
10-12 hours, so your system<br />
works non stop, never gets to rest<br />
and is still digesting at 7am the<br />
next morning.<br />
So adopt the old adage to<br />
“breakfast like a king, lunch like<br />
a prince and dine like a pauper<br />
at night”! What also counts is the<br />
quality, not the quantity of food<br />
that we ingest. Stay away from<br />
snacks and comfort foods that are<br />
hard to digest, especially in the<br />
evening.<br />
If you find it hard to get to<br />
sleep, try drinking a cleansing<br />
herbal tea of camomile before you<br />
go to bed. Have a relaxing shower<br />
or bath before going to bed or<br />
massage your neck and shoulders<br />
with a calming massage oil. Spray<br />
an aromatherapy mist in your<br />
bedroom or use a herb pillow of<br />
lavender to induce calm restful<br />
sleep.<br />
Listen to music quietly if you<br />
must, but turn off your TV, mobile<br />
and computer – they are the<br />
worst interrupters of sleep EVER!<br />
If anxiety before your wedding<br />
prevents optimum sleep, invest in<br />
rescue remedy spray or tablets,<br />
learn some relaxation techniques<br />
or try yoga classes.
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Fashionistas usually recommend choosing a bag that<br />
matches your shoes, or complementing an outfit<br />
with one in a similar or contrasting colour. But for a<br />
impression is balanced, beautiful and practical.<br />
THE CLUTCH BAG is the overwhelming favourite for weddings<br />
and evening wear. For practicality it should close securely and fit<br />
your cards, keys, phone and lippy at the very least. If the wedding<br />
requires you to balance a wineglass and a plate, buy a “wristlet” clutch<br />
bag or one with a shoulder strap to leave your hands free. Carried<br />
in the hand or under the arm, a clutch bag can be unobtrusively<br />
elegant or supremely sassy with decorative details that command<br />
attention; buttons, buckles, bows and bling. The structure and<br />
material define the formality of the clutch bag; leather, satin, silk,<br />
manmade fibre or metal and its modest size forces you to declutter<br />
so that it does not bulge or spill out your essentials.<br />
THE ENVELOPE CLUTCH is a fold-over design with a triangular flap<br />
that tucks in like an envelope or is secured with a magnetised dome<br />
and is ideal for a daytime wedding.<br />
THE “MINAUDIERE” is a French ornamental jewelled clutch with a<br />
clip fastener that is usually used for evening occasions or weddings.<br />
THE POMPADOUR BAG is a soft material pouch with a drawstring<br />
worn round the wrist. Originating in medieval times to carry money<br />
and a sweet smelling pomander, its popularity re-emerged in Jane<br />
Austen’s regency era and in the 1920’s when they were made of the<br />
same material as the flapper girls dress and were embellished with<br />
jet beads, fringing and embroidery. The Pompadour is a pretty option<br />
for a flower girl or a way of introducing vintage style to bridal party<br />
gowns and wedding outfits.<br />
THE TOTE BAG is pure convenience for a shopping trip and all the<br />
stuff you need to prepare for the wedding; make-up, toiletries, lingerie,<br />
jewellery and shoes. “Tote” means “to carry” and the practical open<br />
topped style won’t crush or catch on your clothes while its large strap<br />
can be shortened or lengthened for hand or shoulder.<br />
It’s your daughter’s special<br />
day, but as the Mother of<br />
the Bride you will want to<br />
look your best too. Make<br />
your mature skin look<br />
radiant with these 10 “must<br />
have” secret weapons in<br />
your beauty kit or caboodle!<br />
DEEP CLEANSER<br />
for daily protection from<br />
harsh elements<br />
TONER<br />
to refine pores and freshen the skin<br />
HYDRATING MOISTURISER<br />
to replenish drier mature skin<br />
ANTI-AGEING NIGHT CREAM<br />
to minimise fine lines and wrinkles<br />
LIFT SERUM<br />
to lift and contour facial muscles<br />
EYE CREAM<br />
to sooth delicate skin around eyes<br />
COLLAGEN TABLETS<br />
for strong skin, hair and nails<br />
FOUNDATION WITH<br />
SPF PROTECTION<br />
for coverage and protection<br />
from UV<br />
TRANSLUCENT<br />
PRESSED POWDER<br />
a light dusting to reflect light<br />
and look flawless<br />
MOISTURISING LIPSTICK<br />
to provide colour, definition<br />
& moisturise lips<br />
Heavy<br />
make-up is<br />
very ageing<br />
so keep it<br />
light and<br />
subtle. Daily<br />
skin care<br />
regimes can<br />
take good<br />
care of minor<br />
flaws so that<br />
you can keep<br />
make-up<br />
more natural.
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Mamma?<br />
OUTFITS BY<br />
SMITH & BOSTON<br />
Mothers of the Bride<br />
and the Groom often<br />
stress about what to<br />
wear to their offspring’s<br />
wedding, because<br />
the spotlight is on<br />
them too. Naturally<br />
they will want to look<br />
their best but the style<br />
should be appropriate<br />
for the time, season<br />
and location of the<br />
wedding AND flatter<br />
their age and taste.<br />
New Zealanders<br />
generally live quite<br />
a relaxed life style,<br />
so special occasion<br />
dressing is relatively<br />
rare. So here are<br />
some solutions to the<br />
dilemma of what to<br />
wear.<br />
PLAY IT SAFE<br />
and choose designs that best suit your shape. If you aren’t sure<br />
about that be guided by a fashion designer or retail managers who<br />
are used to fitting customers of many different ages and silhouettes.<br />
Establish the style and then choose the colour.<br />
NEW TWIST<br />
on a favourite item. If you already have an outfit in your wardrobe<br />
that you like and others admire when you wear it, consider having<br />
a pattern drafted and a new sassy version created for the wedding.<br />
Try a new colour or a different more luxurious fabric and formalise<br />
it with a stunning hat.<br />
BRANCH OUT<br />
with a new look, length or shade. Wow them with a classic<br />
ensemble of elegance and style or surprise them with a<br />
contemporary dress, coat, culotte or gown. Choose a colour range<br />
you haven’t worn before, but be sure it suits your colouring to get<br />
maximum effect.<br />
RAMP UP<br />
your fashion flair with accessories of glitz and glamour - a clutch<br />
bag, designer shoes, a sensational scarf or an item of jewellery that<br />
matches the style or makes a statement. Remember that simplicity<br />
is more alluring than fussiness and elegance as Mother of the Bride<br />
or Groom avoids anything too short, too revealing, too old or too<br />
young.<br />
Style is<br />
forever<br />
Dress to impress;<br />
whatever the occasion<br />
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SMITH & BOSTON<br />
Shop 6, 573 Springs Road | Prebbleton Village | Christchurch<br />
Ph: 03 349 5646 | www.smithandboston.co.nz
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Paisley is back AGAIN!<br />
The perennial design has<br />
returned many times since<br />
first becoming popular with<br />
westerners in the 1800’s.<br />
Although the “Paisley” pattern is<br />
a droplet-shaped motif of Persian<br />
origin, its western name comes<br />
from the textile town of Paisley<br />
in Scotland, where the designs<br />
were produced for the British and<br />
American market.<br />
The pattern is still popular in<br />
Iran and Central Asian countries<br />
where it is known as “boteh.” The<br />
woven design often features silver<br />
silk threads and other luxury<br />
textiles for gifts, weddings and<br />
clothing for special occasions.<br />
Alternatively it is also seen as<br />
a decorative motif on pottery,<br />
curtains, carpets, jewellery and<br />
paintings.<br />
The design appears to have been<br />
introduced to Europe by the East<br />
India Company who brought back<br />
cashmere shawls and silk cloth<br />
which were copied. From 1800<br />
onwards the weavers of Paisley<br />
became premier producers of these<br />
shawls.<br />
New technology allowed them<br />
to develop looms that wove up<br />
to 5 colours when most weavers<br />
only managed to work with 2. The<br />
resulting multi-coloured patterns<br />
became a Paisley hallmark and the<br />
woven versions were later adapted for<br />
printing onto cotton, voile and wool,<br />
making the design universal.<br />
Over two centuries later, Paisley<br />
has undergone many re-inventions<br />
from elegant shawls worn in the Jane<br />
Austen era to the psychedelic fashions<br />
of the 1960’s. There have been pink<br />
paisley guitars, Prince’s Paisley Park<br />
record label and paisley has been<br />
used in interior design, architectural<br />
inspiration and landscaping.<br />
Known throughout the world,<br />
its distinctive pattern is equally<br />
appropriate whether traditional, retro<br />
or contemporary and is therefore<br />
unique. Paisley can be tone on tone in<br />
subtle understated colours or bright<br />
and vibrant. The pattern can be big<br />
and bold or a tiny print, beautifully<br />
embellished with embroidery or bling<br />
or printed onto simple cotton fabric.<br />
As a design Paisley has enjoyed<br />
exceptional longevity but while its<br />
popularity comes and goes, it is<br />
here to stay. Paisley is this summer’s<br />
signature in ladylike bridal lace, a<br />
mother of the bride dress and jacket,<br />
the bridesmaids’ floaty printed<br />
chiffon, silk ties for the groomsmen,<br />
as an inspiration for the icing on<br />
your cake or embossed onto your<br />
invitations.<br />
Individuality<br />
& Flair<br />
Shop 12, Rolleston Square, Rolleston.<br />
Phone 347 1151
For centuries, the art of<br />
millinery has created hats<br />
to enhance the simplest of<br />
outfits but there’s no better<br />
occasion than a wedding<br />
to strut your stuff in a hat!<br />
Whether you are the mother of<br />
the bride or the groom, one of<br />
the wedding guests, or the bride<br />
looking for an alternative to a<br />
traditional veil, a hat can add<br />
colour, allure, style and sass if it<br />
suits you!<br />
Whether your hat is chosen<br />
from a range of ready to wear<br />
designs, or is specially created<br />
to match your outfit by a<br />
professional milliner, the choice<br />
is phenomenal. Alternatively<br />
you can purchase a simple<br />
unadorned hat from department<br />
stores, boutiques and even<br />
some pharmacy outlets, then let<br />
loose and decorate it with the<br />
extraordinary array of finery<br />
from haberdashery counters and<br />
craft shops.<br />
As well as complementing<br />
the colour, length and style of<br />
your outfit, a hat needs to suit<br />
your hairstyle and the shape of<br />
your face. The width, height and<br />
shape of the hat should also be in<br />
proportion to your hemline and<br />
your height. So it’s “try on” time<br />
to see what suits you best.<br />
FASCINATORS AND<br />
COCKTAIL HATS<br />
These small but spectacular<br />
confections of tulle, feathers<br />
and ribbon are often worn on<br />
an angle and jauntily offset<br />
cocktail length dresses for special<br />
occasions.<br />
ASCOT HATS<br />
Named after the famous British<br />
Horse Race meetings dating<br />
from the 18th Century where<br />
the tradition of wearing elaborate<br />
hats developed and has continued<br />
to include special occasions like<br />
weddings.<br />
GAINSBOROUGH<br />
OR PICTURE HAT<br />
A high crowned big<br />
brimmed hat with<br />
elaborate trim<br />
of flowers,<br />
tulle, feathers<br />
and ribbons.<br />
Popular from<br />
the 1890’s<br />
to the First<br />
World War<br />
the style<br />
framed the face<br />
and was likened<br />
to a Gainsborough<br />
painting.<br />
CLOCHE HAT<br />
Popular 1920’s style, the<br />
cloche is bell shaped<br />
and close fitting with<br />
almost no brim<br />
and a deep crown<br />
over the brow.<br />
The cloche was<br />
often decorated<br />
with a corsage,<br />
contrasting trim<br />
or ribbed ribbon<br />
to match an<br />
outfit. Ascot Hat<br />
SLOUCH HAT<br />
OR GARBO<br />
A high crowned hat with a<br />
flexible drooping brim, it shields<br />
the face and was made famous by<br />
film star Greta Garbo who was<br />
somewhat reclusive.<br />
THE BRETON<br />
Often made of straw or felt and<br />
trimmed with a hat band or<br />
ribboned bow, the Breton has a<br />
wide round crown and turned<br />
up brim.<br />
THE PILLBOX<br />
A flat topped brimless hat that<br />
was made famous by Jackie<br />
Kennedy in the 1960’s, the<br />
pillbox was often decorated with<br />
birdcage veiling and worn as a<br />
cocktail hat.<br />
THE SNOOD<br />
An ornamental hair net worn<br />
over a long bobbed hairstyle.<br />
Often dotted with sequins or<br />
diamante, they were very popular<br />
in the 1940’s and are making a<br />
modern comeback for evening<br />
and bridal wear.<br />
Themed weddings also offer a<br />
funky opportunity for creative<br />
hats, recapturing the style of an<br />
era or the traditional elegance<br />
of top hat and tails. But whatever<br />
the style, be careful that your<br />
chosen hat will not hide or shade<br />
your face in the photographs.<br />
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By tradition, a bride<br />
is supposed to wear<br />
“Something Old,<br />
Something New,<br />
Something Borrowed<br />
and Something Blue.”<br />
While an heirloom gown<br />
may be borrowed, it<br />
will also be something<br />
old and something very<br />
special.<br />
Combining romance, love<br />
and sentimentality, wearing<br />
an heirloom gown that was<br />
previously worn by a mother,<br />
grandmother or great<br />
grandmother is both rare and<br />
emotional.<br />
Depending on the age and<br />
fabric of the gown as well as<br />
the method by which it has<br />
been stored, its condition<br />
may be fragile. Unless it is<br />
in pristine condition, it will<br />
probably need cleaning. <strong>This</strong><br />
should always be done by a<br />
professional who may need<br />
to hand clean the dress to<br />
remove oxidation and general<br />
discolouration of the fabric.<br />
Over time the fabric can<br />
deteriorate or the thread<br />
it was sewn with. If it is<br />
the latter, the seams can<br />
sometimes be re-sewn with<br />
modern thread that is more<br />
robust, but if it is the fabric<br />
that is fragile, the seams may<br />
need binding to provide extra<br />
strength.<br />
The fit of an heirloom<br />
gown is likely to be tighter<br />
than modern designs,<br />
particularly in the waist<br />
measurement because a tiny<br />
waist was very fashionable<br />
and often achieved by<br />
corsetry. Plus, in general<br />
people are larger and heavier<br />
today than they were 50-100<br />
years ago.<br />
Engage a skilled seamstress<br />
to see if the gown can be<br />
“eased” by letting out the<br />
side seams. Alternatively it<br />
may be possible to use any<br />
extra fabric from the train or<br />
underskirt to add panels to<br />
the bodice. If the dress fastens<br />
with a back zip or buttons,<br />
extra width can be gained by<br />
replacing original fastenings<br />
with lacing like a corset.<br />
If the dress is beyond<br />
safe repair consider using<br />
some part of it to embellish<br />
a modern gown or have a<br />
replica made so that the<br />
design and family history is<br />
not entirely lost. But if you<br />
can wear it, go right ahead,<br />
even if you compromise and<br />
wear it for the ceremony<br />
before changing into a<br />
contemporary gown for the<br />
reception and dancing.
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CARING<br />
FOR<br />
While silk is a natural<br />
fabric that breathes and is<br />
comfortable to wear in a<br />
variety of climates, it is also<br />
delicate and often hand<br />
woven and should be treated<br />
with special care.<br />
AVOID UV LIGHT - Never expose<br />
silk to harsh UV light and always<br />
hang silk garments away from direct<br />
sunlight. Do not leave your silk<br />
garment inside a car in a plastic bag<br />
which can sweat and stain if it’s a<br />
warm day.<br />
PRESSING - You can press silk<br />
garments with a cool dry iron. Do<br />
not use steam which may leave<br />
watermarks on the fabric.<br />
PREVENT STAINS - Wear alcoholfree<br />
deodorant, spray your perfume<br />
and/or your hairspray before you<br />
dress as both can stain the silk. If<br />
the silk is marked with splashes of<br />
tea, coffee or wine, flush repeatedly<br />
with cold water until the mark has<br />
gone. Do not use detergents, stain<br />
removers or home remedies and do<br />
not rub the stain and damage the silk<br />
fibres.<br />
CLEANING - Dry clean as<br />
soon as possible and ensure the<br />
cleaner knows the garment<br />
is 100% silk. But if there is<br />
a delay before dry cleaning,<br />
sprinkle the stain with talcum<br />
powder to draw the oil from<br />
the fabric.<br />
PROFESSIONAL<br />
EXPERTISE - Silk should be<br />
dry cleaned by a reputable<br />
company experienced in<br />
cleaning delicate fabrics.<br />
your bridal gown<br />
cleaned as soon after the<br />
wedding day as possible<br />
to ensure any stains<br />
do not become “set”<br />
permanently and<br />
then store in a<br />
cool dry place.<br />
Tailors and dressmakers are skilled<br />
professionals who specialise in sewing,<br />
repairing or altering clothing.<br />
There were once numerous tailors and<br />
seamstresses, but the modern mass production in<br />
today’s clothing industry has meant that a good<br />
tailor is increasingly hard to find. When you do,<br />
they are worth their weight in gold!<br />
Clothes are usually altered to create a better<br />
fit, update the fashion or make the garment<br />
more comfortable, hence the expression “tailor<br />
made.” Garments that are able to be repaired<br />
can sometimes be cost effective especially if it is<br />
made of quality materials, is a favourite item or<br />
perhaps a retro or vintage garment.<br />
A good tailor can repair rips and tears<br />
faultlessly, shorten sleeves and hems, re-set<br />
collars, cuffs and sleeves, or re-size a<br />
garment by “taking in “ or “letting<br />
out” side seams. Updating a garment<br />
for current fashion may include changing the<br />
hemline, altering a jacket from double breasted<br />
to single breasted style, narrowing lapels,<br />
adding belt loops, removing or creating turnups,<br />
streamlining pleats on trousers or a skirt,<br />
removing sleeves, re-designing a neckline or<br />
making a skirt from what was previously a dress.<br />
To alter clothing successfully for a better fit, it<br />
is necessary to take accurate measurements of the<br />
wearer. Extra fittings may be required to ensure<br />
a perfect result. Some tailors work on men’s or<br />
women’s clothing, or both, while others choose<br />
to specialise in vintage tailoring or wedding<br />
apparel.<br />
Repairs and alterations should be discussed<br />
with the tailor and a quote given for the<br />
expected cost of materials and time. Once<br />
completed your repaired, altered or re-fitted<br />
garment should be returned to you cleaned and<br />
pressed like new.
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Getting your hair to behave on the<br />
big day will mostly be achieved by<br />
the style you choose. But your tresses<br />
can also be tamed into submission by<br />
some treatments and conditioners in<br />
the weeks leading up to the wedding.<br />
CONDITIONING MASKS replace<br />
moisture lost with the repeated use of<br />
chemical products and in the climatic<br />
elements of sun and wind. Weekly<br />
treatments for 6 weeks before the wedding<br />
will leave your hair shiny and healthy.<br />
REPAIR RINSES remove chemical<br />
impurities and add proteins to the strands<br />
so that they are able to resist splits and<br />
breaks. Have a good haircut to remove any<br />
existing split ends and then start the rinse<br />
treatments regularly in the months prior<br />
to the wedding.<br />
HEAT<br />
TREATMENT<br />
OILS prevent<br />
damage to blow<br />
dried or heatstyled<br />
hair and<br />
should be used<br />
once a month, or<br />
more frequently<br />
if you notice<br />
damage, dryness<br />
or brittleness.<br />
VOLUME BOOSTERS add texture<br />
especially to fine hair. Boosting it into<br />
thicker more manageable volume<br />
also allows you to choose a variety of<br />
styles for your wedding day.<br />
SPRAY-IN SHINE adds gloss and<br />
smoothness to your hair whether<br />
long or short. Applied by convenient<br />
spritzer it can be used any time and<br />
on the day once your bridal hair<br />
style is complete.<br />
HAIR SPRAY provides a useful “on<br />
the day” conditioner, to keep hair in<br />
place and provide anti-frizz control.<br />
HAIR STYLE<br />
Your choice of hairstyle will depend on what suits<br />
your face shape, your hair texture and the formality<br />
of the wedding. But there are plenty of different styles<br />
currently in vogue for brides and bridesmaids;<br />
• The slick wet look for elegant up-do’s<br />
• The shoulder length long bob<br />
• The precision cut short bob<br />
• Intricate braids for long hair or short<br />
• Boho style “messy” braids<br />
• The petite pixie cut<br />
• The versatile ponytail<br />
• Retro crimping, finger waves or loose curls<br />
Whatever your chosen style, nothing looks better than<br />
glossy healthy hair. So plan “a-head” and make your hair<br />
your genuine crowning glory.<br />
Be your own kind of beautiuful<br />
Leticia is the owner/operator of Simpatico hair studio and<br />
has over 25 years in this industry and is very passionate<br />
about providing quality, integrity and excellence.<br />
Simpatico hair studio is a full service hair salon, and it is<br />
recommended to have a consultation before booking in<br />
for your bridal trial, and any other hair services you may<br />
require as Leticia also has a full range of 100% clip in hair<br />
extensions and bridal hair accessories.<br />
Leticia is based in Christchurch and provides a mobile<br />
bridal hair service for you on your wedding day.<br />
Simpatico<br />
Hair Studio<br />
Leticia Radcliffe | Phone: 021 426 111 | simpatico-mobile-hair@hotmail.co.nz<br />
phone: 021 862 061 |<br />
www.haleysaul.co.nz
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For Her<br />
THE CHALLENGE Make up a “challenge<br />
sheet” for your bachelorette to<br />
complete during the evening: Copy<br />
a stranger’s dance moves; dance on a<br />
chair or table; make a veil out of paper<br />
napkins; photo bomb a stranger’s<br />
picture; convince a stranger to<br />
serenade you orbuy you a shot; collect<br />
a coaster form every bar you visit;<br />
share a photo with another bride-tobe;<br />
have a photo taken with a guy who<br />
looks like your fiancé.<br />
NIGHT OUT While a night on the town<br />
for dinner, dancing and clubbing is very<br />
popular, there are plenty of other options<br />
if this doesn’t appeal. If you do go to<br />
town, try something different like a new<br />
restaurant and be sure to arrange safe,<br />
convenient transport for everyone<br />
involved.<br />
NIGHT IN If you or your friends<br />
don’t want to spend a lot of<br />
money, a girls’ night in can include<br />
a cocktail party, pot luck meals,<br />
party plan cosmetics, lingerie or<br />
makeover, karaoke hire or even a<br />
pizza and DVD.<br />
MAKE TIME A scavenger hunt is<br />
easy to organise and there’s always<br />
the fun of a dance class together,<br />
jewellery making, cooking school,<br />
cheese making or some divine<br />
pampering at a day spa.<br />
TAKE A TRIP There are<br />
many wineries in and<br />
around Christchurch, so a<br />
wine tour and tasting can<br />
be a fun day out with lunch<br />
included. Destinations<br />
like Akaroa, Methven,<br />
Kaikoura and Hanmer<br />
Springs all within a two<br />
hour journey. <strong>With</strong> harbour<br />
cruises, hot pools, whale<br />
watching, train trips or<br />
skiing in winter, there’s<br />
plenty of action adventure<br />
too, not to mention golf,<br />
mountain biking and hot air<br />
ballooning.<br />
KITCHEN VINTAGE<br />
The forerunner of<br />
the hen’s night in<br />
New Zealand was<br />
the traditional<br />
“kitchen tea”.<br />
Hosted by a<br />
girlfriend,<br />
neighbour,<br />
family member<br />
or Mother of<br />
the Bride,<br />
this girls’ celebration comprised<br />
games, competitions, afternoon<br />
tea, occasionally some bubbly and<br />
the gift of small useful items for the<br />
bride’s kitchen.<br />
Hens and Bucks nights can be a great time to enjoy<br />
the company of your closest friends and celebrate your<br />
impending marriage. These “single send offs” can range from<br />
a few drinks or a meal to a whole weekend away.<br />
The groom’s celebration is usually devised by the Best Man, while the Chief<br />
Bridesmaid is generally responsible for the bride’s arrangements. Whatever<br />
you decide to do, make sure it’s acceptable to the individuals concerned and<br />
avoids anything that can disintegrate into activities of<br />
embarrassment, humiliation, injury or law breaking.<br />
For Him<br />
THE CHALLENGE<br />
A popular bit of silliness<br />
where by the groom must<br />
complete a challenge or<br />
series of tasks, or risk a<br />
penalty (usually a drink) if he<br />
fails. Examples; serenade a girl,<br />
show off some dance moves,<br />
wear a superman outfit,<br />
converse only in song titles,<br />
win a bet, strike a pose on a<br />
pre-arranged signal, mime<br />
a drink or meal order.<br />
SPORTING CHANCE Enjoy<br />
your favourite sport together;<br />
tennis, touch, cricket or golf. Up<br />
the ante by trying “speed golf ” only<br />
3 clubs plus a stop watch in your<br />
hand and a, sprint between shots<br />
and holes! Plan a mini Olympics<br />
with all-comer activities like<br />
bowling, mini golf, darts, laser<br />
strike, paintball or go-carts.<br />
RACES Devise a local version of<br />
The Amazing Race, a car rally with<br />
a barbeque or pub meal to follow or<br />
organise a bike trail team event with<br />
challenges along the way.<br />
TAKE A TRIP Road trip, boat trip,<br />
fishing trip, camping trip or mystery<br />
weekend, enjoy a nostalgia visit<br />
or head for pastures new. Grab a<br />
seat and head for special event or a<br />
destination to explore. Go to the<br />
horse races.<br />
BACK TO SCHOOL Learn a new<br />
skill or activity for a great bonding<br />
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tour, golf lesson, cooking school,<br />
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THE 4 C’S FOR<br />
While diamonds are dazzlingly beautiful,<br />
valuable and the most sought after jewel<br />
for engagement and wedding rings, they<br />
are also the hardest substance on earth<br />
and will therefore last a lifetime. All over<br />
the world, jewellers and gem experts rate<br />
diamonds according the 4 C’s of Cut,<br />
Carat, Clarity and Colour.<br />
CUT makes the diamond dazzle according to number of<br />
surfaces or facets that reflect the light. Most diamonds are<br />
cut with over 50 facets and geometric angles. These act as<br />
mirrors and reflect the light from one to the other before<br />
dispersing through the top of the stone. If the cut is too<br />
deep or too shallow, light escapes<br />
and the sparkle is reduced.<br />
CLARITY relates to the<br />
brilliance of the stone<br />
and is graded according<br />
to the combinations<br />
of mineral traces,<br />
imperfections or<br />
visible fractures<br />
within it.<br />
Completely<br />
flawless diamonds are<br />
extremely rare and<br />
therefore extremely<br />
valuable as they offer the<br />
most natural brilliance.<br />
YOUR DIAMOND INVESTMENT<br />
For future proofing your investment, buy the best diamond<br />
you can afford. But be sure to choose your diamond and rings<br />
from a reputable jeweller who will provide you with a valuation<br />
certificate for insurance and proof of purchase.<br />
COLOUR is also related<br />
to the diamond’s ability to<br />
reflect light. While we think of<br />
diamonds as white, the colour<br />
varies from white to yellowish.<br />
Jewellers grade a diamond’s<br />
colour on a scale from D<br />
(colourless) to Z which can<br />
contribute or detract from<br />
its overall value.<br />
CARAT refers to<br />
the weight rather<br />
than the size of<br />
the diamond.<br />
Originally<br />
calculated on<br />
scales against<br />
carob seeds that<br />
weighted 0.2 grams<br />
each, modern metric<br />
measurements define a<br />
“carat” as 200mgs.<br />
Each carat is further<br />
divided into 100<br />
points thus allowing<br />
precise categorising of<br />
diamond value.<br />
The unbroken circle of a<br />
wedding ring symbolises<br />
love without end and the<br />
cycle of your life together.<br />
For sentiment and meaning it<br />
can’t be eclipsed, except perhaps by<br />
diamonds! The tradition of wearing<br />
the wedding ring on the fourth<br />
finger of the left hand dates back<br />
to the Roman’s belief that a vein<br />
ran form that finger directly to the<br />
centre of love, the heart.<br />
The variety of wedding rings<br />
today is impressive and ranges<br />
from simple metal bands to those<br />
set with stones or elaborately<br />
engraved. Couples can be as<br />
creative as they wish and often are<br />
when it comes to a wedding band.<br />
Yellow gold, either 9 or 18<br />
carat, has been a long standing<br />
tradition because gold was long<br />
lasting and associated with quality<br />
and purity. But fashionable<br />
variations on yellow gold are<br />
achieved by the addition of other<br />
metals; alloy to make white gold<br />
and copper to make rose gold. In<br />
spite of being more expensive than<br />
gold, platinum has also become<br />
popular for its strength and silvery<br />
look.<br />
In the past the engagement ring<br />
had the stones and traditionally<br />
the wedding ring was plain.<br />
Alternatively a wedding ring inset<br />
with a stone or two might be the<br />
only ring if the budget was tight<br />
or there was a metal shortage as in<br />
wartime. Not so now! <strong>Ring</strong> sets for<br />
the bride can glitter with numerous<br />
diamonds and gems and the sparkle<br />
effect of both rings is dazzling.<br />
In terms of style, shape, colour<br />
and tone of the metal, brides should<br />
always match and fit their wedding<br />
band with their engagement ring.<br />
If the band is plain, the groom’s<br />
ring might be of similar style and<br />
tone, but increasingly the more<br />
masculine look of stainless steel,<br />
silver and black titanium are sought<br />
after. They too can be set with with<br />
stones or engraved.<br />
Engraved wedding bands<br />
are not only beautiful items of<br />
jewellery, they are also personal<br />
and meaningful to the couple.<br />
Intricate designs may have aesthetic<br />
and cultural significance, the date<br />
of the wedding may be inscribed<br />
inside the band or words of love<br />
and inspiration as well.
ADVERTORIAL<br />
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Westende Jewellers has been<br />
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For engagement and wedding<br />
rings the selection is superb with a<br />
variety of different metals, stones<br />
and settings on display. While<br />
the classic diamond solitaire still<br />
out-sells other engagement ring<br />
designs, the current popularity<br />
of white gold, platinum and<br />
palladium settings provide a<br />
“modern twist” to the traditional<br />
favourite.<br />
<strong>With</strong>in Westende’s diamond<br />
section is the remarkable “Astralis”<br />
diamond selection which is also<br />
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on the girdle of every stone.<br />
<strong>With</strong> 89 facets, 32 more than a<br />
traditional cut, the Astralis Round<br />
Brilliant diamond is “beauty<br />
unlocked” and features a visible 8<br />
point star.<br />
Contemporary wedding<br />
rings are often set with stones<br />
too and specifically designed to<br />
complement the engagement ring<br />
as a set. Westende Jewellers has<br />
over 300 styles of New Zealand<br />
made wedding rings on display in<br />
store.<br />
For men, the traditional yellow<br />
gold band is often surpassed<br />
in favour of white metals or<br />
titanium, enhanced with stones,<br />
patterns or engraving. A recent<br />
addition to Westende’s wedding<br />
ring range is Ziro. These amazing<br />
and dramatic gents’ wedding rings<br />
contain a black mineral called<br />
Zircon (ZrSi04). They come in<br />
plain black or can be set in rose<br />
gold, yellow gold or white gold.<br />
Alternatively they can create a<br />
custom-made design according<br />
to the customer’s price range<br />
and preferences, including the<br />
currently popular vintage<br />
look.<br />
Since the earthquakes,<br />
heirloom and antique jewellery<br />
has been particularly treasured<br />
and Westende Jewellers offer an<br />
extensive range of Vintage Antique<br />
jewellery for sale. They can also<br />
restore items or remodel existing<br />
pieces into a new setting to<br />
ensure further longevity.<br />
Westende offer lay-by on<br />
purchases for 3months and<br />
finance is available for up to 36<br />
months. Customers can also<br />
benefit from GST-free sales if they<br />
are departing Christchurch or<br />
Auckland on international flights<br />
and their purchases can be picked<br />
up at the airport.<br />
In addition to engagement<br />
and wedding rings, Westende<br />
Jewellers also has a fine selection<br />
of gifts for the wedding party<br />
such as watches, cufflinks, pearls,<br />
earrings and bracelets, including<br />
Kagi, Karen Walker, Stow Lockets<br />
and Endless designer jewellery.<br />
Tying the Knot...<br />
over 500 wedding<br />
rings instore<br />
Modern<br />
WESTENDE JEWELLERS<br />
421 Colombo Street, Sydenham<br />
www.westendejewellers.co.nz<br />
Telephone: (03) 366-5475<br />
and<br />
Vintage
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Gold, platinum, diamonds and other<br />
gemstones last indefinitely, but if you want<br />
them to stay dazzling for decades, you<br />
need to keep them clean!<br />
You should take them to a jeweller annually for a<br />
professional clean, polish and check to ensure the<br />
stones are still secure in the setting. But in between<br />
you can keep jewellery clean and shiny yourself by<br />
using simple easy methods at home:<br />
3.<br />
4.<br />
SOAP + WATER<br />
Add mild liquid soap to a<br />
bowl of lukewarm water.<br />
Lightly brush each item of<br />
jewellery with a soft toothbrush.<br />
Rinse under warm<br />
tap and pat dry with a soft<br />
microfiber cloth.<br />
No. 1 Bridge Street, Nelson<br />
548 4523 | 0274 845 353<br />
No. 1 Bridge Street, Nelson<br />
548 4523 | 0274 845 353<br />
1.<br />
COLD<br />
SOAK<br />
Soak<br />
jewellery<br />
for 30 minutes in a cold<br />
solution comprising equal<br />
amounts of water and<br />
ammonia. Leave to dry on<br />
a microfiber cloth then rub<br />
over gently for extra shine.<br />
2.<br />
ULTRASONIC<br />
CLEAN<br />
An ultrasonic<br />
machine is filled<br />
with water and detergent<br />
then switched on to high<br />
frequency oscillation to remove<br />
dirt. Set for the required time<br />
as per the instruction manual.<br />
LIQUID DIP<br />
Buy a commercial liquid jewellery cleaner. Dip your<br />
jewellery in the solution for the recommended time/<br />
instructions. Remove, let dry and buff with a soft cloth.<br />
info@glenjames.co.nz<br />
www.glenjames.co.nz<br />
info@glenjames.co.nz<br />
www.glenjames.co.nz<br />
Promise rings indicate<br />
that there is a relationship<br />
and while the couple<br />
may not yet be ready<br />
for a formal engagement<br />
and marriage, they<br />
are committed to one<br />
another.<br />
Some couples see the<br />
promise ring as a step towards a<br />
future engagement. For others<br />
the trend is adopted by couples<br />
who set up home together<br />
without the expectation of<br />
marriage, so the ring becomes<br />
an alternative to an engagement<br />
or wedding ring.<br />
However the trend is not<br />
a new one. Giving a ring as a<br />
promise of affection dates back<br />
centuries to the “posy” ring<br />
which was engraved with a<br />
romantic sentiment; the “pansy”<br />
ring comes from the French<br />
word “penser” meaning “to<br />
think; the “friendship “ring was<br />
given when a girl and boy were<br />
too young for an engagement<br />
and the college “pin” in America<br />
meant the couple were dating<br />
seriously or “going steady.”<br />
Depending on the age of<br />
the couple and the stage<br />
of their relationship,<br />
a promise ring can be<br />
simple and inexpensive<br />
or more elaborate and<br />
valuable. Inexpensive<br />
versions are<br />
often sterling<br />
silver and<br />
can be found<br />
at costume<br />
jewellery outlets,<br />
department stores<br />
and online stores, while those<br />
that are gold and set with<br />
precious stones are designed<br />
and sold at a jewellers.<br />
The design of the ring<br />
may have meaningful motifs<br />
like hearts (as in the Celtic<br />
Claddagh ring), engrave the<br />
names of the couple on the<br />
inside or outside of the ring or<br />
use birthstones in the setting.<br />
But regardless of the cost, a<br />
promise ring is about feelings<br />
and therefore its true value is<br />
intrinsic.<br />
There’s not always a special<br />
proposal with a promise ring<br />
but it is most often given on an<br />
anniversary of the first date, on<br />
Valentine’s Day, on a birthday<br />
or the start of a New Year.<br />
Promise rings can be worn on<br />
any finger and on either hand,<br />
although usually the intent is<br />
the 3rd finger of the left hand.<br />
Sometimes the ring is worn<br />
on a chain round the neck,<br />
especially if the “promise” is a<br />
secret.
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A wedding is an occasion to<br />
sparkle and glitz is definitely “in.”<br />
Whether you like traditional or<br />
modern pieces, jewellery is a<br />
popular wedding day accessory<br />
and should enhance the look of<br />
your gown. However, take care<br />
that too much jewellery doesn’t<br />
spoil the effect.<br />
If the bridal gown is very elaborate<br />
or already features beading or crystals,<br />
keep jewellery minimalist or simple in<br />
design. Strapless and low backed gowns<br />
lend themselves to a necklace and “up do”<br />
hairstyles offset earrings beautifully.<br />
A bride may wish to choose new<br />
jewellery to wear on the day, or there may<br />
be heirloom items of particular significance.<br />
Antique and retro jewellery recapture<br />
the style of a previous era, but can also<br />
complement modern gowns successfully.<br />
Jewellers can also re-work old settings<br />
and reset stones into more modern designs<br />
if you wish and there are numerous<br />
boutiques selling affordable accessories for<br />
you and your wedding party.<br />
Jewellery may be delicate or a dramatic<br />
statement of style! Modern crystal<br />
jewellery provides alluring shimmer<br />
and shine, while pearls are an enduring<br />
favourite, offsetting the current simplicity<br />
of wedding gown designs.<br />
For a new take, try a necklace of large<br />
pearls, a wide choker or a single beautiful<br />
pearl. Perhaps go vintage with a long string<br />
of pearls knotted at the front or draped<br />
dramatically down a low backed gown.<br />
Or you can introduce some glitz<br />
with a sparkly belt, a bracelet that<br />
jingles with charms, some diamond<br />
dazzle earrings, bejewelled shoes<br />
or a vintage look marquisite comb<br />
to secure your hair or veil.<br />
462 Colombo Street. Sydenham. ChrIStChUrCh 8023 P: 03 366 1232 mon-FrI 9.30am-5.00Pm / Sat 10.00am-3.00Pm CraFtedjewelS@kennett.net.nz www.kennett.net.nz
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A locket is a ring or necklace<br />
with a pendant that traditionally<br />
opened and contained an image<br />
or lock of hair of a loved one.<br />
As an item of jewellery, the locket has<br />
been around for centuries. Elizabeth I<br />
wore one containing a picture of her<br />
mother, Anne Boleyn and she also<br />
gave them as gifts to loyal courtiers<br />
with her own image inside.<br />
In Victorian times, lockets<br />
became hugely popular after<br />
Prince Albert gave Queen Victoria<br />
a bracelet with locket charms<br />
containing the pictures of each of<br />
their 8 children. Worn on a chain or<br />
velvet ribbon, the locket could be worn<br />
by almost any age group.<br />
Associated with both romance<br />
or mourning a loved one, lockets reached<br />
the height of sentimental fashion in World War 1. When millions of<br />
soldiers marched to war they left behind their picture in a locket for<br />
their sweetheart to wear until their return.<br />
Early lockets had painted images, but with the invention of<br />
daguerreotype photos in the 1840’s, images could be fused onto glass.<br />
By the late 19th and 20th centuries, black and white photographs<br />
became a more affordable option.<br />
Keepsake lockets were made of many different styles, shapes<br />
and materials ranging from simple inexpensive versions in silver<br />
or 9ct gold to bespoke designs in 18ct gold or rose gold that were<br />
enamelled, embossed, engraved or inset with gemstones.<br />
Some had a clear glass front so that the image or hair inside could<br />
be seen without having to open the locket. The antique “vinaigrette”<br />
lockets were made of filigree with a tiny fabric cushion inside<br />
containing lavender, pot pourri or a sprinkle of perfume.<br />
Mostly the locket has been a symbol of romance, often worn<br />
secretly. The “message” locket contained love notes from an admirer,<br />
while a locket given<br />
on betrothal or marriage<br />
usually carried the<br />
images of the couple<br />
inside.<br />
As well as the<br />
traditional oval,<br />
lockets were<br />
also circles or<br />
heart shaped and<br />
designed to “hold<br />
the deepest secrets<br />
of your heart” for as<br />
long as it was worn.
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Canterbury Jewellers has<br />
earned a reputation for fine<br />
craftsmanship and honesty<br />
in a trade where the client<br />
relies on information that<br />
is true and the quality of<br />
workmanship is high.<br />
Providing these two<br />
key attributes has allowed<br />
Canterbury Jewellers to be<br />
one of Christchurch’s leading<br />
repair, alteration and handcrafted<br />
jewellery manufacturer since the<br />
company was started 35 years ago.<br />
Some people may find their<br />
perfect engagement ring already<br />
made, sitting in a showroom<br />
waiting for them. Others aren’t so<br />
fortunate, having to trawl through<br />
100’s or even 1000’s of designs.<br />
Some will decide to start from<br />
scratch and have their ideal ring<br />
sketched and then handmade.<br />
Finding your ideal ring is a<br />
bit like looking for a home - you<br />
know it’s just right when you<br />
see it. But unlike buying a home,<br />
having exactly what you want in<br />
a ring needn’t require a visit to<br />
the bank manager. “A common<br />
misconception is that hand-crafted<br />
pieces are an unaffordable luxury<br />
for most people. However you<br />
may be pleasantly surprised how<br />
they stack up against the average<br />
mass-produced rings pricewise”<br />
says Jason Baylis of Canterbury<br />
Jewellers.<br />
Responding to an increasing<br />
desire from clients for a more<br />
personalized look, Canterbury<br />
Jewellers are fully equipped<br />
to create something incredibly<br />
unique. It may traditional with<br />
lots of fine detail, or bold and<br />
modern. <strong>With</strong> their experienced<br />
and fully-qualified team of on-site<br />
artisans, clients are invited to<br />
contribute to the creative process<br />
as little or as much as they like<br />
and are encouraged to visit at<br />
various stages of manufacture.<br />
“We see some amazing<br />
engagement rings that need a<br />
wedder. But finding a wedding<br />
ring to fit around these elaborate<br />
rings can be impossible, so<br />
generally a custom wedding ring<br />
is the only solution” notes Jason.<br />
Ideally engagement and<br />
wedding rings should be made<br />
at the same time to ensure a<br />
complementary style and perfect<br />
fit. But for those who already<br />
have an engagement ring that<br />
doesn’t lend itself well to any of<br />
the readymade wedding rings,<br />
Canterbury Jewellers can always<br />
make one to suit.<br />
For sparkle that will last a<br />
lifetime, call Canterbury Jewellers<br />
on 03 366 7737.<br />
Leading the way in design, manufacture<br />
and repair of exquisite jewellery<br />
Unit 8, 73 Peterborough Street,<br />
Central City, Christchurch<br />
P. 366 7737 E: enquiries@canterburyjewellers.co.nz
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The next risk is not being able to<br />
do much about it. It’s difficult to<br />
send the dress back if it isn’t right,<br />
you will incur extra shipping<br />
charges and there may be too little<br />
time to get a replacement even if<br />
the company was agreeable. New<br />
Zealand’s Consumer Guarantees<br />
Act doesn’t apply to overseas<br />
goods and the company you have<br />
bought your gown from is unlikely<br />
to provide much customer service<br />
back-up.<br />
There’s also a security risk<br />
using a credit card and you could<br />
get a computer virus when you<br />
order from an unknown internet<br />
site. You have to wait for your<br />
items to be despatched and sadly,<br />
there’s no guarantee that having<br />
paid for your gown that you will<br />
actually receive it.<br />
A recent overseas scam<br />
involved customers making<br />
their choice from internet<br />
gown illustrations, sending<br />
their money and eventually<br />
receiving a sewing kit<br />
containing a few metres of<br />
cheap material, a dress pattern,<br />
a reel of thread and some stickon<br />
bling!<br />
These are all personal risks<br />
associated with cheap internet<br />
purchase, but there are wider<br />
issues as well that you may never<br />
have considered.<br />
Inadvertently you are<br />
helping to damage the wedding<br />
gown industry in this country.<br />
Cheap copy gowns are actually<br />
theft of a bona fide designer’s<br />
It’s your wedding and you want the<br />
gown of your dreams. You have pored<br />
over wedding magazines, looked at<br />
fabrics and designs, been to bridal<br />
shops and THEN discovered your<br />
perfect wedding gown on the internet<br />
at a fraction of the cost!<br />
Of course you are tempted. It’s so simple;<br />
choose the style, colour, fabric, send your<br />
measurements and your money and within a few<br />
weeks, your gown will arrive. It will be beautiful<br />
and so will your bank balance, so where is the<br />
harm or the risk?<br />
The first risk is the potential for<br />
disappointment. The internet can’t show you the<br />
actual dress, nor its quality, fit or finish. New<br />
Zealand dressmakers and bridal shops frequently<br />
see brides who come to them distraught because<br />
the gown they thought they were getting has<br />
arrived and is badly made, doesn’t fit,<br />
looks cheap and has wasted their money<br />
instead of saving it.<br />
intellectual property and the<br />
images used to sell the copies<br />
may also breach copyright.<br />
Your copy gown may also<br />
allow child labour to flourish<br />
in poor countries overseas.<br />
Factories overseas that make<br />
genuine gowns pay their workers<br />
fairly for their skill and expertise<br />
and do not employ children.<br />
However factories<br />
making fake gowns cut costs by<br />
employing young children<br />
housed in appalling<br />
accommodation and paid a<br />
pittance. When you know that,<br />
can you really feel a beautiful<br />
bride?<br />
The same risks are just as<br />
applicable when you order<br />
suits for your wedding party,<br />
jewellery for your bridesmaids<br />
or wedding rings for yourselves.<br />
What seems a genuine bargain<br />
online, offers no guarantee of<br />
quality or integrity.
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Planning a wedding takes<br />
a lot of organisation and in<br />
many cases arrangements<br />
have to be made many<br />
months in advance in<br />
order to secure the desired<br />
location or venue.<br />
Because marriage is such a<br />
milestone event, of course couples<br />
want the wedding to be perfect.<br />
However it can become allconsuming,<br />
especially for the brideto-be<br />
who wants to do everything<br />
herself. No wonder it can become<br />
a recipe for stress, strained<br />
relationships, budget blow-outs and<br />
loss of enjoyment in something that<br />
should be memorably serene! So<br />
here are some ways of avoiding the<br />
bridal blues.<br />
DON’T try to DIY everything<br />
DO use a wedding planner<br />
for some or all of the<br />
arrangements<br />
DON’T get bogged down<br />
with too much detail<br />
DO keep ideas simple<br />
and achievable<br />
DON’T exclude the groom<br />
from decision making<br />
DO delegate and involve<br />
family and friends in plans<br />
DON’T try to please<br />
everyone else<br />
DO make sure the<br />
wedding pleases you<br />
Are you a<br />
perfectionist?<br />
Have standards that<br />
are impossible to<br />
meet?<br />
Experience frequent<br />
mood swings?<br />
Are you impatient?<br />
Expect everyone to<br />
follow your orders?<br />
Fall out with friends<br />
and family?<br />
Don’t trust the<br />
wedding<br />
coordinator?<br />
Exclude your partner<br />
from wedding<br />
decisions?<br />
Talk about wedding<br />
plans all the time?<br />
Keep changing<br />
your mind?<br />
Or won’t<br />
compromise?<br />
Never think about<br />
anything else?<br />
Become obsessed<br />
YES NO<br />
Want the best of<br />
everything?<br />
Expect lavish gifts<br />
from the guests?<br />
Rarely say<br />
thank you?<br />
Think money is no<br />
object?<br />
Forget how to relax?<br />
Take him for<br />
by granted? tiny details?<br />
Refer to “My Day”<br />
not “Our Day”<br />
DON’T spend money<br />
you can’t afford<br />
DO enjoy preparing for<br />
the wedding<br />
DON’T stress about tiny<br />
details no one else will notice<br />
DO focus on your<br />
guests’ enjoyment<br />
DON’T worry about minor<br />
mishaps on the day<br />
DO let the wedding planner/<br />
coordinator do their job<br />
IF YOU SCORED:<br />
A0-5Unlikely Bridezilla<br />
6-10Possibly Bridezilla<br />
11-15Likely Bridezilla<br />
16-20Definitely Bridezilla<br />
DON’T lose sight of the<br />
big picture<br />
DO relax and concentrate<br />
on what’s important<br />
DON’T forget to be<br />
happy and SMILE!<br />
DO thank everyone who has<br />
helped you
46 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong><br />
When you are ready to<br />
plan your wedding and<br />
all the arrangements it<br />
entails, you can’t do better<br />
than calling in the experts.<br />
Wedding Professionals<br />
NZ Planners provide full<br />
wedding designing,<br />
planning, coordination<br />
and production to create<br />
a seamless, stress-less<br />
wedding day.<br />
“We can provide partial<br />
planning for those who need<br />
the expertise or who have little<br />
time to get that special look or<br />
find that perfect wedding venue,<br />
photographer or delicious cake”<br />
says Manager Suzanne Carson.<br />
A Wedding Professionals<br />
consultant acts as a “PA” to the<br />
wedding couple. Sharing many<br />
years of industry experience,<br />
design flair and numerous<br />
contacts, your special PA will<br />
work with you to achieve the most<br />
memorable day possible for all<br />
who attend.<br />
“Imagine knowing that you<br />
have a team that shares in the<br />
excitement of your day and being<br />
able to relax knowing the endless<br />
“to do’s” are no longer on your<br />
checklist! No more madly calling<br />
around, no more worrying about<br />
asking the right questions or<br />
getting the best quotes, no more<br />
trying to figure out what<br />
colours coordinate well” explains<br />
Suzanne.<br />
All that can be a thing of<br />
the past because Wedding<br />
Professionals aim to give you the<br />
time and attention you deserve,<br />
to give your wedding the skill and<br />
organization it requires and to give<br />
you the day that surpasses your<br />
every expectation.<br />
As experts in wedding styling<br />
with impeccable attention to<br />
detail, your own individual<br />
style and creative vision will<br />
be represented and, “your<br />
personalities will be reflected in<br />
every facet of the event’s design.”<br />
An “On the Day Package”<br />
ensures everything runs smoothly<br />
and on time. Enjoy the wonderful<br />
feeling that someone else is there<br />
overseeing all aspects of your<br />
wedding. Let your Mum enjoy<br />
her role as Mother of the Bride<br />
without having to attend to<br />
anything but family and friends<br />
and be a stress-free bridal couple<br />
yourselves instead of a wedding<br />
organiser.<br />
“Imagine walking down the<br />
aisle and noticing all the beautiful<br />
details that you thoughtfully<br />
planned and arriving at the<br />
reception in awe of the stunning<br />
way everything turned out.<br />
Then realise you made the best<br />
choice of all by leaving it all in the<br />
experienced hands of professional<br />
perfectionists.<br />
Wedding Planner,<br />
Consultant & Designer<br />
Our services include full planning, partial planning, designing and<br />
hiring. It’s your choice on how much or how little help you require<br />
from your very own ‘personal assistant’.<br />
• Guidance on where to get started, time planning to ensure nothing has been<br />
forgotten and clever budgeting.<br />
• Enhancement of your unique personality, style, preferences and ideas or<br />
something created especially for you.<br />
• On the day management for a worry-free smooth day.<br />
• Lycra chair covers, colour bands, organza sashes,<br />
Grecian pillars & decor enhancements.<br />
• Special South Pacific & NZ wide wedding packages.<br />
Ph. 03 377 7800 | M. 021 369 414 | E. Suzanne@weddingprofessionals.co.nz<br />
Facebook: weddingprofessionalsnzplanners | www.weddingprofessionals.co.nz
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Technology can’t be ignored! It is with us every day, so it definitely<br />
has a role in planning a wedding. It can save you time, money, mileage<br />
and aggro, it can be creative, make a statement and involve your techsavvy<br />
guests at the press of a button or scroll of a screen.<br />
But it can also be over-used, gimmicky, intrusive and make<br />
your wedding sound impersonal and impolite. It can also exclude<br />
older or technophobic guests who don’t have the latest model, the<br />
means to access your clever communications or find the process too<br />
complicated to participate. So mixing and matching techno pro and<br />
low is a nice touch and a wise move.<br />
PRO-TECHIES WANT:<br />
Facebook, Tweet, Twitter or<br />
Text to update your mates<br />
A spreadsheet for costs<br />
and budgets<br />
Apps to enter wedding and<br />
reception information for guests<br />
Pinterest for a zillion wedding<br />
ideas<br />
Websites to research wedding<br />
suppliers and services<br />
Email to confirm quotes and<br />
bookings<br />
Internet banking to pay<br />
deposits and bills<br />
Paperless Post to send online<br />
invitations & receive RSVP<br />
Online website for gift<br />
registries<br />
GPS directions to venues<br />
Digital photography on CD’s<br />
and mobile<br />
Instagram your wedding with<br />
your own hashtag<br />
Snapseed to crop, colour,<br />
frame and edit pics<br />
Printstagram pics into posters,<br />
prints, books & calendars<br />
Stickygram your pics into<br />
fridge magnets for gifts & guests<br />
Eventstagram live feed for absent<br />
guests to share the wedding<br />
iPod your music selections<br />
You Tube any wedding bloopers<br />
Visa your wedding/honeymoon<br />
Selfie pics from your honeymoon<br />
Language App for overseas<br />
destinations<br />
Electronic cards to say thank<br />
you<br />
LOW-TECHS LIKE:<br />
WEDDING REGISTRY<br />
Whatever<br />
organisational methods<br />
you choose to plan<br />
and convey your<br />
wedding arrangements<br />
remember to back<br />
up your computerised<br />
records on discs and<br />
drives if you are “PRO<br />
TECH.” Losing any of<br />
it would be a DATA<br />
DISASTER so to be on<br />
the safe side, you can’t<br />
go past LOW TECH for a<br />
paper trail that includes<br />
photocopies of<br />
important documents<br />
and decisions<br />
A diary of important dates Pre-nup agreements<br />
Books and magazines for Insurance Certificates<br />
research<br />
Passports<br />
Calendar or Yearly planner Tickets and travel vouchers<br />
Newspaper wedding announcements Marriage Certificate<br />
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wedding stationery<br />
Guest visitor book<br />
Post or couriers to send invitations Photo Album on display<br />
A guest list for RSVP’s<br />
Files for important quotes and<br />
Mood boards of design ideas documents<br />
Blackboard seating plans Thank You Cards or notes<br />
A Marriage license<br />
Postcards from your honeymoon<br />
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p: 021 122 4082 e: kim@kimchan.co.nz
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ORANA PARK<br />
PHOTO: PAPER AND LACE<br />
BOTANICAL GARDENS AND BOAT SHED<br />
PHOTO: HEATHER AND DOUG<br />
HAGLEY OVAL -<br />
PHOTO: DAVID HIGGINS<br />
OF CANTERBURY VENUES<br />
Post earthquake, many of Canterbury’s<br />
wedding venues have now been<br />
restored, re-invented, re-located or<br />
spectacularly re-built!<br />
Consequently the province continues to<br />
offer plenty of innovative and exciting venues<br />
from A to Z.<br />
Imaginative, original or even quirky<br />
locations are becoming popular for wedding<br />
ceremonies and receptions, whether you<br />
favour traditional church, historic significance,<br />
dramatic backdrop, contemporary style or a<br />
unique place of special appeal.<br />
Consider the size and style you want for<br />
your wedding and whether you will have the<br />
ceremony and reception at two different venues<br />
or in the same place. The latter is often chosen<br />
for appealing continuity, cost and convenience.<br />
There’s no break in the proceedings, the<br />
ambience is not interrupted and your guests<br />
can relax while you have the photos done.<br />
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Ambience of a small wedding at home<br />
Beach at numerous options around the city or peninsula<br />
Cruise your wedding on the water with Black Cat at Akaroa<br />
Dedicated wedding centre at Riccarton Park or Pemberton<br />
Event-managed at a premier city hotel like The George or The Elms<br />
Farm friendly at Alpaca Farm’s Valley of Peace Wedding Centre<br />
Garden setting at Swan Lake, Hampton Lea or the Botanic Gardens<br />
Heritage church like St Michaels or St <strong>August</strong>ines<br />
Ice – cool wedding at the Antarctic Centre<br />
Jump aboard a double decker London bus<br />
Kiwis witness your wedding at Willowbank Wildlife Park<br />
Luxury at exclusive Grasmere or Hanmer’s Select Braemar Lodge<br />
Marquee - anywhere you want it<br />
NEW – at the spectacular Tannery or Christchurch Golf Club<br />
Old historic homes like Tangley on Clyde and Otahuna<br />
Planes to test fly your wedding at Airforce World<br />
Quaint and authentic at Ferrymead Heritage Park<br />
Restaurants and Resorts at Terrace Downs or Peppers Clearwater<br />
Sports clubrooms like Russley, Netball Centre, Cashmere Club<br />
Themed and theatrical at Auroroa Centre or Sumner’s Hollywood Cinema<br />
Uniquely scenic at Church of the Good Shepherd Tekapo or Hermitage Mt Cook<br />
Vineyards for wine and dine amid the vines<br />
Wineries in and around the city – Trents, Langdale or Rossendale<br />
eXtraordinary quarry (Halswell)<br />
Yacht Club at Akaroa for indoor outdoor maritime setting<br />
Zoo- your wedding on safari at Orana Park
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BEACH BACH & BBQ<br />
Treat your guests to a classic Kiwi theme<br />
with a marquee by the beach. Dazzle<br />
them with kiwiana decorations and<br />
a dress code that includes jandals,<br />
boardies and sunnies. Treat them to<br />
a barbequed feast from our surf or<br />
our turf, an iconic pavlova with<br />
fresh fruit on top and a chilly full<br />
of craft beers and fine New Zealand<br />
wines. Play beach games and cricket on<br />
the hard packed sands and dance<br />
to the music of great kiwi bands.<br />
WINTER WONDERLAND<br />
Make winter your theme with a white wonderland.<br />
Create a white sparkly backdrop with snowflake<br />
inspiration and let your wedding party add<br />
sumptuous colour and luxurious style. Add ambience<br />
with candles, lanterns and a crackling fire and<br />
serve warm rustic foods to tempt and relax. Swap<br />
champagne for toddies and ruby mulled wine then<br />
dance old fashioned waltzes with music to match.<br />
ART DECO<br />
DECADENCE<br />
Adopt the style and pizzaz<br />
of the 20’s and 30’s with a<br />
vintage vehicle, glamorous<br />
gown and gorgeous<br />
garden setting. Serve<br />
an elegant dinner with<br />
waiters and maids and sip<br />
champagne and cocktails<br />
like a silent movie star.<br />
Light up a marquee for<br />
dancing, learn the lindy or<br />
the Charleston or a wedding<br />
dance foxtrot.<br />
CARIBBEAN<br />
CALYPSO<br />
Cuba has just become the<br />
“must go” destination, so<br />
why not theme your wedding<br />
reception with Caribbean<br />
customs and cuisine. Arrive in<br />
a Cuban classic 50’s car. Create<br />
a carnival atmosphere, with<br />
flamboyant frills, colour and<br />
glitz. Think rumba and reggae,<br />
salsa and steel bands, calypso<br />
and limbo. Serve up lechon<br />
asado (spit roasted pork), jerky<br />
– spice-rubbed chicken or<br />
beef, grilled fish, Cuban tacos<br />
or a seafood cocktail with<br />
tropical fruit. Chill out with<br />
Jamaican rum punch, a pina<br />
colada or a Cuban mojito and<br />
Havana cigar!<br />
COLOUR CODED BALL<br />
Extend your wedding colour<br />
theme to include your guests.<br />
Ask them to wear something in a<br />
particular colour or divide your<br />
guests into colour coded clans for<br />
seating, dancing and breaking the<br />
ice. Choose colourful foods and<br />
musical moods with a colour theme<br />
– “yellow submarine,”<br />
“I see Red” “Blue Moon” that each<br />
colour coded group must dance to!
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WITHOUT<br />
GUILT<br />
Wedding anticipation and preparation can<br />
be absorbing and stressful, but rest and relaxation<br />
are two of the best beauty benefits.<br />
Regular sleep patterns keep you refreshed, time out lets you rest and<br />
recharge and relaxation techniques like yoga, meditation, spa treatments<br />
or aromatherapy are great to combat fatigue and keep you calm.<br />
SPA TREATMENTS are a delightful way to improve your sense of<br />
well being. Day spa facilities and resorts have pamper packages that<br />
include specialized facials, organic peels and exfoliations, body scrubs<br />
and wraps, massage therapy, manicures and pedicures, waxing, makeup<br />
and tanning. Some also offer a selection of medi-spa treatments including<br />
micro-dermabrasion and IPL for skin rejuvenation and hair reduction.<br />
Thermal pools and hot tubs can simply soak your cares away and are<br />
often part of the spa environment alongside spa treatments.<br />
HATHA YOGA is the foundation of all yoga styles and incorporates<br />
postures, regulated breathing and meditation. It aims for calm, grace<br />
and control as various poses are performed and is a combination of low<br />
impact exercise and stress management techniques. You can attend classes<br />
to learn enough to then practice yoga in the privacy of your home.<br />
AROMATHERAPY is often used in pre-wedding beauty treatment to<br />
calm and relax the bride and wedding party. The brain is influenced<br />
by aromas and aromatherapy is defined as “a form of alternative<br />
medicine that uses essential oils found in plant extracts to enhance<br />
mood, health or well-being.” Infused, inhaled or used as massage or<br />
bath oils, specific aromas or blends are chosen for their particular<br />
qualities.<br />
Chamomile and almond to calm and relax<br />
Lavender to reduce anxiety and stress<br />
Allow yourself<br />
time to relax and<br />
benefit from your chosen<br />
treatment. Detox your<br />
body, free your mind of<br />
stressful thoughts and<br />
revel in an atmosphere<br />
of fragrance, calm<br />
and quiet.<br />
RELAX YOUR OWN WAY<br />
There are many different ways to<br />
relax and the one that suits you is<br />
often dependent on your interests<br />
and lifestyle. Try deep breathing or<br />
a warm fragrant bath to soak away<br />
the tension. You may find a quiet walk,<br />
a swim, listening to your favourite music,<br />
reading a book or cuddling a pet is infinitely<br />
calming and so is having simple time out to do whatever you<br />
please or nothing at all. Just don’t feel guilty about it!<br />
Lemon to enhance your mood<br />
Peppermint to soothe<br />
Chamomile, bergamot, lavender<br />
for insomnia<br />
Bergamot, orange and jasmine to<br />
diffuse irritability<br />
Ginger, rosemary and lime to energize<br />
Geranium, rose, sandalwood and citrus<br />
for peace and happiness
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In the years since Canterbury’s earthquakes,<br />
many of our favourite wedding venues have reopened,<br />
re-located or re-created their amenities<br />
and ambience offering this year’s brides<br />
impressive venues and unlimited choice.<br />
HOTELS, RESORTS AND<br />
EVENT CENTRES<br />
Most hotels resorts and event centres have<br />
the facilities to accommodate weddings with<br />
style and space, inside or out. Many have<br />
dedicated wedding and event coordinators<br />
to arrange the chosen theme, the catering,<br />
entertainment and the ceremony and they<br />
often have a range of competitively priced<br />
wedding packages to suit different budgets.<br />
Hotel accommodation and facilities are<br />
still being rebuilt in Christchurch city, so<br />
those beyond the city are also an option to<br />
consider.<br />
CHURCH HALLS<br />
AND SPORTS<br />
CLUBS<br />
<strong>With</strong> a little imagination,<br />
almost any venue can<br />
become an appealing place<br />
for a wedding supper,<br />
reception or dance. Halls<br />
can be decorated, furniture<br />
hired, caterers booked and<br />
music made.<br />
MARQUEES<br />
Mobile and moveable, you can have your<br />
wedding almost anywhere if you have a<br />
marquee. Always popular in summer, they<br />
can also be adapted all year round to provide<br />
unique shelter in any weather and are<br />
available in a variety of sizes. Erected on a<br />
field, a farm, a beach, a garden, a hilltop or<br />
at your place, marquee hire can include silk<br />
linings, tables, chairs, dance floor, buffet, bar,<br />
lighting, sound, heaters and decorations!<br />
HERITAGE AND HOUSES<br />
Christchurch’s heritage buildings have been badly damaged, so<br />
those that remain are doubly precious and in great demand for<br />
weddings. Check-out their availability for your proposed date.<br />
If it’s not possible but you have always imagined your wedding<br />
in a restored Edwardian home or at a beautiful church, look<br />
beyond the city to country houses, B&B’s, and the churches of<br />
nearby rural towns.<br />
VINEYARDS AND WINERIES<br />
Quiet country settings amid productive vineyards and<br />
charming local wineries provide wonderful locations for a<br />
wedding celebration and photo shoot. Some venues provide a<br />
“one stop” location for the entire wedding from ceremony to<br />
reception, and even guest accommodation too. Alternatively<br />
you can have your ceremony elsewhere and your reception<br />
on the estate. You will probably be expected to purchase the<br />
vineyard’s own wines, but their buying power and food/wine<br />
knowledge make for a memorable dining occasion.<br />
GARDENS GAZEBOS AND DIY<br />
For a low key alternative, especially in summer, a garden and gazebo<br />
wedding can be charming and less expensive. Hire, buy, borrow or<br />
make what you need for an alfresco barbeque, an afternoon picnic or<br />
a “bring a plate” old time wedding.
The George is<br />
Christchurch’s most<br />
luxurious boutique hotel<br />
with a reputation for<br />
style, elegance and<br />
exemplary service.<br />
Each of the 53 spacious<br />
bedrooms and suites are designed<br />
with a stylish eye for detail. But<br />
its central location, beautifully<br />
appointed facilities and tranquil<br />
surroundings also make it a sought<br />
after wedding and honeymoon<br />
venue. Located opposite Hagley<br />
Park and the Avon River, the hotel<br />
offers a single exquisite setting<br />
for the ceremony, photographs,<br />
reception and accommodation.<br />
The George's wedding facilities<br />
comprise of Parkview, which<br />
can be configured and decorated<br />
to accommodate 90 guests for<br />
a sit-down dinner or high end<br />
buffet, or 160 for a cocktail<br />
themed event, and The Residence,<br />
an adjoining heritage property<br />
with beautiful lawns and gardens<br />
for the ceremony and a gracious<br />
intimate dining room for up to 18<br />
guests.<br />
Restored at the end of 2015<br />
to the highest standards, The<br />
Residence offers privacy and<br />
elegance and is an increasingly<br />
popular setting for those looking<br />
for genuine heritage<br />
and tradition. Its<br />
delightful ambience<br />
is ideal for smaller<br />
wedding parties,<br />
remarriages and<br />
renewal of vows<br />
ceremonies. It is<br />
also possible to book<br />
the entire villa and<br />
its accommodation<br />
rooms for your<br />
exclusive use.<br />
Top chefs from<br />
The George provide<br />
PHOTOS BY TANDEM PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
various menu options to suit the<br />
individual tastes and style of the<br />
couple, including fully plated two<br />
or four course dinners, buffets, or<br />
the popular and innovative “trio<br />
set” of plated entrees and desserts<br />
complemented by a buffet or<br />
plated main course.<br />
Having your wedding at The<br />
George means personalised<br />
service from our experienced<br />
team. “We take away all the stress<br />
of organising your special day<br />
while you enjoy every moment<br />
with your guests” says the hotel’s<br />
wedding coordinator.<br />
Couples are encouraged<br />
to meet at the hotel with our<br />
wedding coordinator, Yolanda,<br />
to discuss the many options<br />
available to them. They can view<br />
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the accommodation, the different<br />
venues and examples of various<br />
menus and set-ups, so that we can<br />
get it absolutely right.<br />
Due to its reputation, expertise<br />
and focus on service, The George<br />
has become increasingly busy with<br />
weddings. <strong>With</strong> their renowned<br />
flair, enthusiasm and meticulous<br />
attention to detail, you can be<br />
assured that your wedding at The<br />
George will be chic, stylish and<br />
memorable.<br />
To look, to book or simply<br />
to enquire about The George for<br />
your wedding, contact Yolanda<br />
P: 03 371 0255,<br />
E: weddings@thegeorge.com<br />
W: www.thegeorge.com
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romantic and<br />
THE<br />
charming about an<br />
outdoor wedding.<br />
You may have<br />
always imagined<br />
a ceremony at a<br />
TEST beach, garden,<br />
park, lake, mountain<br />
or forest so take the<br />
Alfresco Test and see<br />
if it’s going to be<br />
Mission Possible<br />
or a logistical<br />
challenge.<br />
• Is your location remote<br />
or accessible?<br />
• Do you need permission<br />
to use the location?<br />
• Is there a private or semiprivate<br />
area for the ceremony?<br />
• Who will set it up?<br />
• How long will set up take?<br />
• Will guests stand or<br />
do you need seating?<br />
• Where will guests park?<br />
• Is it far to walk?<br />
• Will the ground be sandy,<br />
dirty or muddy?<br />
• Will there be sun glare or<br />
shadow at the time of the<br />
ceremony?<br />
• Is there shade from the sun for<br />
you and your guests?<br />
• If it’s by the beach, remember<br />
to check the tide!<br />
• Is it sheltered from the wind?<br />
• Can you have drinks nibbles<br />
and photos nearby?<br />
THE PLUS SIDE<br />
The upside of a wedding<br />
held outdoors is undoubtedly<br />
the beauty of the setting and the<br />
informality of the surroundings. It also<br />
costs less than a church or other hired venue,<br />
and sometimes costs nothing at all. There’s<br />
no limit on the number or guests, you<br />
don’t need to decorate it beforehand<br />
or clean too much up afterwards<br />
and your photos will<br />
be magnificent!<br />
THE MINUS SIDE<br />
You can’t predict the<br />
weather or the temperatures,<br />
outdoors can be noisy, your<br />
guests may not hear the ceremony,<br />
your wedding may be interrupted by<br />
onlookers and the terrain may be difficult<br />
for access or uncomfortable for guests.<br />
You always need to arrange a<br />
back-up plan which involves<br />
extra time and cost and<br />
it’s very stressful<br />
waiting for the<br />
weather<br />
forecast!<br />
Omarino Wine Park<br />
• New venue seating up to 200<br />
• Great for music and dancing<br />
• Ceremony in our beautiful vines<br />
or gardens<br />
• Your choice of caterers<br />
• Award winning wines<br />
• Country venue in the city limit<br />
• Only minutes city side of airport<br />
638 Harewood Road<br />
Phone Eileen 360 0924<br />
www.omarinowinepark.co.nz<br />
info@omarinowinepark.co.nz<br />
YOUR PLAN B<br />
Have a foolproof and<br />
easily invoked alternative if<br />
you need it. Your Plan B may be<br />
as simple as a supply of umbrellas, a<br />
covered verandah or a gazebo, or it may<br />
need to be a church, a hall or wedding venue<br />
after all. You will need to convey any change of<br />
location to all your guests at short notice so<br />
there is no confusion on the day and<br />
you may have to make alternative<br />
arrangements for transport,<br />
food and photos.
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Once you have decided the<br />
date, size and style of the<br />
wedding, it’s time to appraise<br />
reception venues, which can<br />
be booked up to a year or<br />
more in advance. Time of<br />
day, type of meal, number of<br />
guests and your budget will<br />
all come into the equation<br />
and if possible you should<br />
visit several different venues<br />
to be able to compare costs<br />
and services fairly.<br />
Check that the venue is easy to<br />
find and within a convenient distance<br />
of the ceremony, or consider having<br />
both ceremony and reception at the<br />
same venue. Look at the room(s)<br />
available for your reception and<br />
find out what flexibility there is to<br />
decorate it for your theme. Some<br />
venues, particularly heritage ones<br />
have restrictions on use of tape,<br />
staples and candles.<br />
Enquire about catering<br />
arrangements, whether there’s an<br />
in-house caterer or options for self<br />
catering. Check if they have a full<br />
liquor licence or BYO and whether<br />
they charge a bond and corkage<br />
fees. Will the venue be exclusive for<br />
your wedding or are other members<br />
of the public likely to be using its<br />
facilities at the same time?<br />
Is there an in-house wedding<br />
planner who can coordinate the<br />
reception and your suppliers? Will<br />
the sound system be adequate for<br />
your live music or DJ? Is there a<br />
room for the wedding party to<br />
freshen up or change and is there<br />
adequate access and parking for<br />
guests, with or without valet fees?<br />
Ask about deposits, cancellation<br />
policies, noise or time restrictions<br />
and any additional charges for<br />
public holidays, cleaning, breakages<br />
or insurance. Get all quotes and<br />
bookings and payment plans<br />
confirmed in writing. Liaise<br />
regularly with the venue’s manager<br />
or wedding coordinator prior to the<br />
reception and confirm final guest<br />
numbers by the agreed date.<br />
Weddings<br />
at Trent’s Estate<br />
www.trentsvineyard.co.nz
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Christchurch is aptly named the Garden City<br />
and several of its public gardens and parks<br />
can be used for weddings for free or for a<br />
modest fee. Established grounds, well maintained<br />
plantings and seasonal colour provide a wonderful natural<br />
backdrop for an intimate ceremony or photo location.<br />
Some can also be used for a garden ceremony with<br />
permission from the local councils that administer them<br />
and sometimes a modest fee or donation. Beyond the city<br />
there are equally delightful outdoor venues where your<br />
ceremony can be conducted simply and inexpensively.<br />
ASHBURTON DOMAIN<br />
is has been considered the<br />
district’s “jewel in the Crown”<br />
since its establishment in 1874.<br />
The domain provides an area<br />
of natural beauty and botanical<br />
variety and includes specimen<br />
plantings of health and maturity<br />
and a beautiful rose garden that<br />
forms a picturesque backdrop for<br />
wedding vows and photo shoots.<br />
www.ashburtondc.govt.nz<br />
Lacebark Wedding Venue<br />
Enjoy our stunning new<br />
wedding venue and function<br />
centre featuring a newly<br />
renovated, modern and<br />
luxurious barn in a beautiful<br />
garden setting.<br />
All only 15 minutes from<br />
Christchurch Airport.<br />
Visit our website<br />
for more information.<br />
Lacebark FUNcTION ceNTre<br />
WeDDING VeNUe<br />
LUXUrY accOMMODaTION<br />
MONA VALE beautiful established<br />
grounds are still available for<br />
outdoor ceremonies and photographs<br />
on the Mound Lawn, the Mill Stream<br />
Lawn and the formal surrounds of<br />
the Lily Pond. The house has recently<br />
re-opened as a function venue<br />
following its earthquake repair and<br />
refurbishment. It is now back to its<br />
elegant best so you could have your<br />
reception here as well.<br />
www.ccc.govt.co.nz<br />
027 378 2508 | 03 327 5296<br />
info@lacebark.net<br />
www.lacebark.net<br />
connect<br />
with us on<br />
WOODHAM<br />
PARK<br />
is beautifully endowed<br />
with mature trees<br />
including Daimo Oak,<br />
Trembling Poplar,<br />
Chinese Wingnut and<br />
Slippery Elm specimen<br />
varieties. Border<br />
plantings feature<br />
hedges of laurel and<br />
yew and herbaceous<br />
plants interspersed<br />
with hydrangeas,<br />
camellias and an<br />
outstanding selection<br />
of rhododendrons. Add<br />
a romantic gazebo and<br />
you have a charming<br />
Old English style<br />
venue for photos and<br />
ceremonies.<br />
www.ccc.govt.co.nz<br />
OKUTI GARDEN<br />
is the epitome of the<br />
peaceful, relaxed<br />
environment of Banks<br />
Peninsula just<br />
45 minutes from<br />
Christchurch. The<br />
informal garden allows<br />
you to create your own<br />
wedding space using an<br />
on-site marquee, yurts,<br />
tipis and art studio.<br />
www.perfectvenue.co.nz<br />
CHRISTCHURCH BOTANIC<br />
GARDENS’ was established beside<br />
the Avon River in 1863 and an<br />
English oak was planted to celebrate<br />
the marriage of Prince Albert and<br />
Princess Alexandra of Denmark.<br />
Impressive plantings over 21 acres<br />
include 5 specific areas available<br />
for wedding ceremonies and<br />
photographs; Cockayne Memorial<br />
Garden; The Pinetum; The Azalia<br />
and Magnolia Garden; the historic<br />
Bandsmen’s Memorial Garden and<br />
the Daffodil Woodland, while the<br />
conservatory, fernery, rock garden<br />
and water garden are complemented<br />
by the iconic tea kiosk and new<br />
visitor centre and new visitor and<br />
function centre.<br />
www.ccc.govt.co.nz
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SUPPLY your own decorations and<br />
beverages that you can purchase “on<br />
special” and return for refunds if<br />
you have over-catered.<br />
Whatever the size of your<br />
wedding or the constraints<br />
of your reception budget,<br />
there are some clever ways<br />
to get more for less!<br />
AVOID the most popular “marrying<br />
months” between November<br />
& March when there is most<br />
competition for popular venues.<br />
BOOK a different date or season<br />
and enjoy reduced hire rates for the<br />
venue & often the catering too.<br />
PICK a mid week day or a Friday<br />
to get a discount on many wedding<br />
services.<br />
FINISH the reception at 11pm for<br />
extra savings before midnight for<br />
band, staff or cleaning.<br />
CHOOSE a single venue for<br />
ceremony and reception to save<br />
time and costs for transport and<br />
photography bookings.<br />
LIMIT the variety of beverages you<br />
need by providing what’s most<br />
popular – beer, red or white wine,<br />
soft drink.<br />
RESERVE bubbles just for the<br />
toasts rather than costly champagne<br />
throughout the wedding.<br />
REDUCE the time allocated for<br />
pre-dinner drinks and<br />
nibbles.<br />
KEEP guests<br />
entertained<br />
while your<br />
photos<br />
are being taken<br />
so<br />
they drink less.<br />
PROVIDE<br />
soup rather<br />
than expensive<br />
entrees and<br />
serve wedding<br />
cake as a dessert.<br />
You’ve heard the horror<br />
stories of things going<br />
wrong at weddings;<br />
gowns not arriving; rings<br />
being stolen, hotels<br />
being flooded, reception<br />
venues double booked,<br />
photographers becoming<br />
ill not to mention cyclones<br />
interrupting honeymoon<br />
plans… yet many couples<br />
never give a thought to<br />
protecting their biggest<br />
expense other than a car<br />
or a house!<br />
Wedding insurance provides<br />
cover in case a pre-booked<br />
wedding service is faulty or<br />
unable to be supplied before or<br />
on your big day. It may seem<br />
unromantic but it can offer<br />
genuine peace of mind when<br />
thousands of dollars are at stake<br />
for the event.<br />
Before searching for the best<br />
wedding insurance, check first<br />
to see if your car or contents<br />
insurance company has a relevant<br />
policy that is available to you as an<br />
existing customer. You may get a<br />
discount for your loyalty.<br />
Most wedding insurance<br />
policies cover supplier’s products<br />
and services from the date of your<br />
deposit and include your wedding<br />
dress and your venue, both of<br />
which comprise the largest<br />
portion of your wedding costs.<br />
Inclusions may involve<br />
cancelled venue, stolen rings,<br />
non delivery of flowers or<br />
cake, liquidation of suppliers,<br />
photographer’s equipment failure,<br />
breakdown of transport, personal<br />
accidents, death or illness of a<br />
family member causing a wedding<br />
cancellation and possible liability<br />
of damage to a venue.<br />
However you are not usually<br />
covered for a situation you have<br />
control over like changing your<br />
mind or cancelling a service or<br />
product you can’t afford. They can<br />
also refuse cover if you haven’t<br />
“minimised risk” such as rings<br />
being stolen from an unlocked car<br />
or leaving gifts in an unsecured<br />
location.<br />
When trying to budget for all<br />
the components of your big day,<br />
you may view wedding insurance<br />
as an unnecessary cost. But it’s a<br />
small price to pay if something<br />
does go wrong and it’s far cheaper<br />
than trying to replace or re-book<br />
at your own expense. Don’t<br />
forget to insure your honeymoon<br />
plans too!
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Five years after<br />
the Christchurch<br />
earthquakes caused<br />
the closure of many<br />
much admired<br />
venues, it’s time<br />
to celebrate<br />
those that have<br />
been restored<br />
and recently<br />
re-opened.<br />
THE GREAT HALL,<br />
CHRISTCHURCH<br />
Designed in gothic revival<br />
style by architect Benjamin<br />
Mountfort, the Great<br />
Hall was built in 1877<br />
as part of the University<br />
of Canterbury. When the<br />
university moved to a new<br />
site in Ilam in 1975, the<br />
original buildings became<br />
the city’s Arts Centre and<br />
the Great Hall was used<br />
for a variety of public and<br />
private functions. The<br />
complex was closed after<br />
sustaining serious damage<br />
in September 2010 but<br />
following a 16 million<br />
dollar restoration, the<br />
Great Hall is resplendent<br />
once more<br />
thanks to the skill of both<br />
craftsmen and engineers.<br />
MONA VALE,<br />
CHRISTCHURCH<br />
The property was built as<br />
a private home in 1897 for<br />
Frederick Waymouth, but<br />
in 19<strong>05</strong> it was bought by<br />
heiress Annie Townend<br />
who re-named it “Mona<br />
Vale” after the Tasmanian<br />
birthplace of her mother.<br />
For many years the house<br />
was a popular wedding,<br />
restaurant and conference<br />
venue until earthquake<br />
damage forced its closure.<br />
Its intricate restoration<br />
is complete and the<br />
property is due to<br />
re-open mid <strong>2016</strong>.<br />
THE GREAT HALL<br />
GAIETY THEATRE<br />
MONA VALE<br />
THE GAIETY THEATRE, AKAROA<br />
Originally built as an Oddfellows<br />
Lodge in 1879, the building has been<br />
the focus of gatherings in Akaroa for<br />
over a century. Its Italianate design by<br />
Architect A W Simpson would usually<br />
feature stone work, but the Gaiety<br />
is constructed entirely of wood.<br />
Following damage in the Canterbury<br />
earthquakes, the building was closed<br />
in 2011, but its restoration and recent<br />
re-opening makes “the Gaiety” open<br />
for community events and functions<br />
once more.<br />
SIGN OF THE TAKAHE, CHRISTCHURCH<br />
The property has been a much admired Cashmere<br />
Hill landmark and is also due to re-open later in <strong>2016</strong><br />
following earthquake repairs to the building which<br />
has a Category I listing with NZ Historic Places Trust.<br />
Designed by JG Collins and constructed between<br />
1918 and 1948, the Sign of the Takahe was initially<br />
one of Harry Ell’s Port Hills roadhouses before<br />
becoming a popular restaurant and function centre<br />
with spectacular views over the city.<br />
PHOTO BY:<br />
CHRISTCHURCH<br />
CITY COUNCIL<br />
SIGN OF THE TAKAHE
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Your MC may be a trusted family<br />
friend or a hired professional who’s<br />
primary task is to keep the wedding<br />
itinerary “on song and on time.” The<br />
ideal Master of Ceremonies is like<br />
the stage manger of a production<br />
and should observe the following<br />
guidelines:<br />
Be confident with a<br />
microphone<br />
Keep everything as simple as<br />
possible so that nothing gets<br />
misunderstood<br />
Always introduce themselves<br />
even if the majority of guests<br />
know them already<br />
Be familiar with the Bride and<br />
Groom’s proposed schedule<br />
throughout the day<br />
Make announcements of<br />
when each phase of the<br />
wedding is going to happen<br />
Liaise with event staff<br />
including planners, caterers,<br />
waiters, DJ’s or the band<br />
Be aware of any contingency<br />
plans that might need to be<br />
announced<br />
Remember people’s names –<br />
especially those of the couple<br />
and their parents<br />
Introduce each speaker and<br />
their relationship to the bridal<br />
couple<br />
Have a fun way of attracting<br />
the attention of guests during<br />
the reception (a whistle,<br />
animal noise, klaxon, flashing<br />
light, hand signals)<br />
As well as ensuring the smooth<br />
running of the reception, the MC also<br />
acts as a toastmaster, controls the lineup<br />
for the buffet, conveys important<br />
information or “housekeeping” details,<br />
gets the dancing going and brings the<br />
reception to a close.
ADVERTORIAL<br />
<strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> 61<br />
Imagine having your<br />
wedding ceremony amid<br />
four acres of spectacular<br />
gardens and welcoming<br />
your guests at a wedding<br />
resort with all the facilities<br />
and services to make your<br />
day exceptional!<br />
Barely an hour’s drive from<br />
Christchurch, Hotel Ashburton<br />
is the district’s most expert and<br />
versatile venue for weddings,<br />
conferences and accommodation.<br />
Offering a selection of indoor<br />
venues, the hotel can cater for<br />
intimate or large weddings and<br />
events from 50 to 400 guests.<br />
The hotel’s much- admired<br />
gardens are available for<br />
exquisite wedding ceremonies<br />
and breathtaking photo shoot<br />
locations. Outdoor cocktail style<br />
receptions can also be held in the<br />
gardens, but there is a guaranteed<br />
indoor option in inclement<br />
weather to ensure you have<br />
absolute peace of mind.<br />
Your wedding arrangements<br />
will be in the capable hands of a<br />
designated wedding coordinator<br />
while your choice of cocktail,<br />
BBQ, buffet or formal plated<br />
menus will be customised and<br />
served with flair by the talented<br />
award winning team in the<br />
kitchen.<br />
Hotel Ashburton also has<br />
the ability to be an exclusive<br />
resort for all your pre and post<br />
wedding events with comfortable<br />
accommodation for your guests.<br />
Imagine setting the tone of your<br />
wedding weekend with a rehearsal<br />
dinner or “night before” cocktail<br />
party, enjoy a quiet wedding<br />
day brunch with your family,<br />
arrange pre-wedding sightseeing<br />
or exciting adventure activities in<br />
mid Canterbury and then farewell<br />
your guests with a relaxed post<br />
wedding barbeque beside the<br />
hotel’s pool.<br />
Special touches and packages<br />
allow you to plan your big day<br />
according to your individual style<br />
and budget and include venue hire<br />
and set-up, chair and table décor,<br />
bridal suite bed and breakfast,<br />
ceremony set up in the garden,<br />
dance floor and stage, bridal table<br />
service plus cake table and knife.<br />
Hotel Ashburton’s wedding<br />
coordinator is poised to plan the<br />
wedding you have always wanted.<br />
Your day will be special and stress<br />
free and if you confirm your<br />
wedding booking before 31st<br />
March 2017, you will receive a<br />
generous discount of $850.<br />
Visit www.hotelash.co.nz or<br />
phone 03 307 8887 for further<br />
information or make a journey of<br />
discovery to Hotel Ashburton and<br />
secure a venue of delight.<br />
Hotel Ashburton is a complete wedding<br />
resort featuring beautiful gardens, modern<br />
accommodation and award winning cuisine.<br />
Your Wedding,<br />
Your Way<br />
at Hotel Ashburton<br />
Our function rooms allow the flexibility to host<br />
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not only your spouse‐to‐be but with family and<br />
friends with pre‐ and post‐wedding events.<br />
<strong>With</strong> Hotel Ashburton’s designated Wedding<br />
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planning process, and with personalised support<br />
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<strong>With</strong> multiple venues, flexible spaces and the<br />
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0800 330 880 Events@HotelAsh.co.nz fb.com/HotelAshburton HotelAsh.co.nz
62 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Decorate<br />
your venue<br />
with seasonal<br />
splendour!<br />
Whether you<br />
favour a colour<br />
palette that is<br />
subtle or sassy,<br />
be inspired by<br />
SPRING<br />
the time and<br />
place you have<br />
chosen.<br />
WINTER fires up with colours of<br />
warmth, depth and luxury. Glassware<br />
sparkles, candles flicker and tables are<br />
dressed with elegant linens and gold<br />
candelabra. Use traditional carnations,<br />
chrysanthemums and your favourite<br />
roses in vases of classical crystal.<br />
Decorations are formal with pillars<br />
and pedestals and chandeliers<br />
dazzle above a shiny dance floor.<br />
SUBTLE – simply white with<br />
sophisticated black and a<br />
dash of silver<br />
SASSY – glamour-ised with<br />
ruby red, royal purple and<br />
rich gleaming gold<br />
SPRING evokes greenery and<br />
watercolour freshness and lends itself to<br />
rustic style. Fill willow baskets or earthen<br />
ware pots with big white hydrangeas,<br />
calla lilies or large headed daisies.<br />
Make arches and garlands of ivy and<br />
clematis. Set long rustic tables with<br />
hessian runners and pretty napkins on crisp<br />
white cloths. Gather sweet peas and freesias in<br />
vintage glass vases for dainty table settings.<br />
SUBTLE – watercolour shades<br />
in romantic pastels with a<br />
whisper of white<br />
SASSY – white on green<br />
from bottle shades to<br />
bold brilliant lime<br />
WINTER<br />
SUMMER<br />
AUTUMN glows with a woodland<br />
palette of fallen leaves. Decorate with<br />
nature’s timber, wildflowers, pinecones<br />
and evergreen bunting, make lanterns<br />
that glow after sundown and light<br />
braziers to roast chestnuts with<br />
smoky allure. Dress tables with<br />
plains or prints, put fragrant<br />
pot-pourri in terracotta pots and<br />
light aromatic candles to set the<br />
mood of fall.<br />
SUBTLE – cream, gold and<br />
peach with evergreen<br />
foliage<br />
SASSY – harvest<br />
tones of orange,<br />
yellow, cerise,<br />
berry and<br />
chocolate<br />
SUMMER<br />
sizzles and speaks of laid<br />
back beach in boho style.<br />
White chairs facing the<br />
sea, a muslin-draped<br />
arch tied with vibrant<br />
bows and exotic ceramic<br />
urns filled with summer<br />
blooms. Tables beneath<br />
awnings or umbrellas,<br />
eye catching runners with<br />
paua shell centrepieces<br />
and tealight candles<br />
among soft sifty sands.<br />
SUBTLE – natural<br />
shades of seashells,<br />
pebbles and sand<br />
hill grass<br />
SASSY - bright<br />
ocean blues,<br />
shimmering<br />
sand and sunset<br />
tones of orange<br />
and flame<br />
AUTUMN
Romance<br />
A VISTA FOR<br />
AT TERRACE DOWNS RESORT<br />
PHOTOGRAPHS SUPPLIED BY: Emma Brittenden Photography & Andy Currie Photography<br />
Terrace Downs Resort is the perfect setting<br />
for your special day, whether an intimate<br />
wedding or lavish affair, we offer:<br />
• Multiple ceremony sites<br />
• Reception rooms with<br />
spectacular views<br />
• Catering<br />
• Accommodation<br />
• Activities and more.<br />
Our Events Team are here to offer<br />
a personalised service to ensure<br />
your day is seamless.<br />
PHONE (03) 318 6943<br />
wedding@terracedowns.co.nz<br />
www.terracedowns.co.nz
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In New Zealand our commitment to a clean green<br />
environment is well-established, so it isn’t unusual if<br />
couples decide to plan an eco-friendly wedding.<br />
Essentially, “eco-friendly” means using products, materials and<br />
services that are not wasteful or harmful. Armed with a philosophy<br />
of conservation and preservation, an eco wedding is easier than<br />
you think and incorporates many stylish trends we already enjoy.<br />
PLANNING AN<br />
Retro Revival<br />
Embracing retro and vintage<br />
styles is very popular at present.<br />
So sourcing vintage table linen,<br />
glasses or china, wearing a heritage<br />
bridal gown or heirloom wedding<br />
rings are already making an ecostatement.<br />
Eco-Wear<br />
Alternatively choose beautiful<br />
natural fibres for your wedding<br />
gown and wedding party clothing.<br />
Not only are silk, cotton, linen and<br />
merino wool sustainable products,<br />
they are also more comfortable<br />
because they breathe.<br />
Recycling<br />
Reject our “throw away” society<br />
and choose re-cycled paper for<br />
wedding stationery, make your<br />
own from a paper making kit<br />
or design and make your own<br />
decorations.<br />
Natural Setting<br />
Celebrate your wedding with<br />
a ceremony in a garden, park,<br />
vineyard or beach and enjoy a<br />
natural setting that needs no<br />
decoration.<br />
In Season and Local<br />
Reduce your carbon footprint by<br />
choosing items that are in season<br />
and available locally.<br />
Order flowers that reflect the<br />
season you have chosen for the<br />
wedding and source cheaper<br />
locally produced foods.<br />
Go Organic<br />
Look for healthy options for your<br />
reception menu with organically<br />
grown fruit and vegetables, free<br />
range produce and a selection of<br />
bio dynamic wines. Encourage<br />
your guests to throw rice, organic<br />
confetti or rose petals at your<br />
wedding. Decorate your venue<br />
with flowers, foliage and flax.<br />
Conserve<br />
Serve finger<br />
food to save on<br />
dishes and be<br />
careful about<br />
food wastage.<br />
Use hybrid<br />
wedding cars for<br />
energy efficiency,<br />
arrive on foot<br />
or by horse and<br />
carriage and go<br />
for co candlelight<br />
- less electricity<br />
more romance!
ACCOUNTS<br />
• Set up a special high interest savings<br />
account as soon as you have set the date.<br />
• Have regular salary deductions paid into it.<br />
• Pay deposits from the account to secure<br />
your venue well in advance.<br />
• Make payments for other services and<br />
products as you confirm them.<br />
• Avoid credit card purchases wherever possible.<br />
OR<br />
• Pay the bill on time and don’t incur any<br />
late payment penalties.<br />
DEALS AND SPECIALS can stretch the dollars.<br />
Source items at end of season sales or liquidation sales,<br />
use your customer loyalty rewards, look for “buy one get<br />
one free,” half price deals, introductory offers, search<br />
Trademe, garage sales and markets, enter competitions<br />
and giveaways and shop around for everything –<br />
you’ll be amazed at the variation in price.<br />
DISCOUNTS can save you hundreds of dollars if you use some<br />
financial savvy skills to buy in bulk, purchase by “sale or return,” check<br />
on discounts for cash, trade in old for new and avoid lavish arrangements<br />
that will put you in debt by being “Wedding Wise”:<br />
• Enjoy a current wedding style that is<br />
“small, chic and classy”<br />
• Use the same location for ceremony and<br />
reception saves extra transport costs<br />
• Marry any day but Saturday – it’s cheaper<br />
and you’ll get the venue you want<br />
• Have an off season wedding it’s fun & far less expensive<br />
• Reduce the number in the wedding party -<br />
saves on wedding attire expense<br />
• Trim the guest list as much as you can, then trim it again!<br />
• Buy your own wholesale beverages with return option<br />
• Cocktail style and finger food is less costly than<br />
buffet or banquet<br />
• Use a single layer wedding cake as your dessert,<br />
decorate with fresh flowers<br />
• Dispense with expensive and unnecessary<br />
wedding “favours”<br />
• Serve jugs of water not bottles<br />
• Make, borrow or hire anything if it helps<br />
your budget<br />
• Use an ipod playlist for reception music<br />
• Utilise the skills and expertise of family and friends<br />
• Avoid expensive hen/bucks celebrations, keep it simple<br />
• Invite guests to contribute to a money wishing<br />
well rather than gifts<br />
• Honeymoon in NZ or look for all inclusive<br />
packages overseas<br />
• After the wedding on-sell any items you don’t want to keep<br />
Weddings are<br />
expensive, but you can<br />
trim the expense without<br />
forgoing style and use a<br />
bit of<br />
cost-saving savvy so you<br />
don’t overspend and<br />
finish up in debt to start<br />
your married life.<br />
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AMOUNTS<br />
<strong>With</strong> a regular savings plan your<br />
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SEATING<br />
A seating plan is like a jigsaw puzzle and an exercise<br />
in diplomacy if you have ex partners, blended<br />
families, guests of all ages to accommodate and<br />
groups of friends who may or may not know each<br />
other well! How and where guests are seated<br />
depends on the numbers, the style of the wedding<br />
and the size and shape of the venue.<br />
SIGNAGE is all the rage at modern weddings,<br />
whether it is simply directing your guests to venues so<br />
they don’t get lost, creating a mood with clever quotes<br />
or presenting a blackboard menu at the reception.<br />
BRIDAL TABLES may seat just the<br />
bridal party, or traditionally include<br />
the parents of both bride and groom.<br />
Modern weddings often have a<br />
“parents” table for each side of the<br />
family located adjacent to the bridal<br />
“top table.”<br />
CHALKBOARDS are very popular for<br />
garden weddings providing an order of<br />
events or a funky range of clues to lead<br />
your guests to food, drink and photos! You<br />
may know someone who can illustrate<br />
your chalk board, or you may prefer to<br />
use a professional to create unique logos,<br />
decorations and handwritten fonts. The<br />
same design may be a feature of your<br />
invitations and other stationery.<br />
WOODEN SIGNS with arrows and<br />
“mileage” can direct guests to the<br />
ceremony, the reception, the marquee,<br />
the toilets or the smoker’s corner!<br />
Decorate with paint, timber stain or use<br />
stick on decals to make them visible and<br />
visual.<br />
VINTAGE STYLE FLYERS can be attached<br />
to gates or trees, old fashioned easels or<br />
recycled holland blinds can display your<br />
seating plan or recycled holland blinds.<br />
CONTEMPORARY flair might include<br />
glow-in-the-dark paint or your names up<br />
in lights but for a contemporary twist,<br />
guide your guests through the day via<br />
social media incorporating Instagram,<br />
Facebook and Twitter logos with a<br />
personal hashtag!<br />
www.bemyguest.co.nz<br />
MESSAGES<br />
In the past messages of congratulation<br />
were posted by guests unable to attend the<br />
wedding. Later, these were replaced by<br />
telegrams, often from overseas, that sent<br />
messages of love and support which were<br />
read out at the wedding by the Best Man.<br />
Today’s couples encourage inspirational<br />
“messaging” from any or all of their guests.<br />
• In a special “Guest Book”<br />
• On a chalk board that is<br />
photographed as a keepsake<br />
• On post-it notes attached to<br />
a whiteboard<br />
• On cards or notes “posted”<br />
in a special box to be read later<br />
• By email, text or Facebook<br />
• On a scroll that can be<br />
framed or included in the<br />
wedding photo album<br />
LONG TABLES are a good<br />
arrangement for informal weddings<br />
and can seat from 12-20 guests. The<br />
long banquet seating maximises space<br />
and numbers in smaller venues and<br />
suits buffet meals as well as shared<br />
plates and platters set in the middle of<br />
each table.<br />
The disadvantage is that guests<br />
only converse with those beside or<br />
opposite them.<br />
ROUND TABLES are more traditional<br />
and formal and suit both small<br />
weddings and larger ones. <strong>With</strong><br />
seating for 8-10 guests per table,<br />
the atmosphere is more intimate<br />
and guests can converse more easily.<br />
Generally the settings are arranged<br />
alternately make and female with<br />
immediate family seated at the tables<br />
closest to the bridal table.<br />
RECTANGULAR TABLES usually<br />
seat 10-12 guests with extra seats at<br />
each end for single guests, a child’s<br />
high chair or an MC. The arrangement<br />
works well in smaller venues as it<br />
allows space for a dance floor and<br />
meal styles from buffet to sit-down<br />
with waiters to serve.<br />
HANDY HINTS – once ALL RSVP’s<br />
have been received make a mock up<br />
of your seating plan using moveable<br />
post-it notes or a magnetic white<br />
board. They allow you to move<br />
names around until you have the<br />
arrangement correct. Then transfer it<br />
to your master-plan for display at the<br />
wedding. If you are worried someone<br />
will change it or swap places, laminate<br />
the final copy! Alternatively create<br />
a modified seating plan by assigning<br />
guests to a particular table but let<br />
them choose where they sit around it.
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There are lots of details<br />
that help make your<br />
wedding a day to<br />
remember. It’s easy to<br />
get lost in the minutiae<br />
of organisation and<br />
advice that everyone<br />
wants to give you, but<br />
the bottom line is that<br />
it’s all about what you<br />
mean to each other,<br />
what you say to each<br />
other and how you<br />
celebrate the start<br />
of your married life<br />
together.<br />
Once you have made the<br />
plans and paid the plans,<br />
relax and have confidence<br />
it will be memorable.<br />
Minimize stress by engaging<br />
a wedding planner who will<br />
coordinate everything before<br />
the day and on the day. Their<br />
job is to keep everything<br />
running smoothly your job is<br />
to enjoy it.<br />
When you are getting<br />
ready, don’t forget to eat,<br />
even if you feel too excited<br />
to have much appetite.<br />
Organise some finger<br />
food to share with your<br />
wedding party, or have a nice<br />
breakfast to keep you going<br />
throughout the day.<br />
Keep hydrated with water<br />
but use a straw so you don’t<br />
ruin your make up or splash<br />
your gown. Have a touch-up<br />
make-up kit at the wedding<br />
and a more comfortable<br />
pair of shoes for dancing<br />
if you are worried about<br />
being footsore during the<br />
reception!<br />
Your wedding day is<br />
your first celebration as a<br />
married couple – so share<br />
the day together, talk to<br />
guests together and don’t be<br />
a couple who hardly see each<br />
other until the day is over.<br />
Create a manageable<br />
timeline throughout the day<br />
so that no one feels rushed<br />
and stressed. Don’t let tiny<br />
details rob your enjoyment<br />
of the day. Keep the big<br />
picture in mind and if little<br />
mishaps occur, they will<br />
either be soon forgotten or<br />
become a unique part of the<br />
memories.
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When Alana Pottinger and Hayden Harper<br />
married earlier this year they chose Trent’s<br />
Vineyard for their venue “because we liked the<br />
established garden and the historic building<br />
which allowed us to mix modern with old and<br />
rustic features” says Alana.<br />
<strong>With</strong> a wish list that included<br />
“a good photographer, great music<br />
and our own style and design of<br />
decorations,” the couple were<br />
also keen to involve family and<br />
friends in their wedding plans.<br />
“The flowers on the tables were<br />
in pottery vases that I made at my<br />
auntie’s pottery studio in Diamond<br />
Harbour with some friends, my<br />
Mum and my aunties – it was a<br />
great crafty thing for everyone to<br />
get involved in during the winter<br />
months” laughs Alana.<br />
Photographer Cam McDermid<br />
was a friend of Alana’s brother and<br />
he captured the whole day through<br />
and into the evening. Adam Caves,<br />
another friend was a gem setter so<br />
“we were very privileged to have<br />
my wedding band and engagement<br />
ring made by him and go through<br />
the amazing process of designing<br />
my own unique ring.” Not to be<br />
outdone, Hayden, who was a<br />
graphic designer also created the<br />
stationery for the wedding which<br />
Alana agreed “was a great way to<br />
include him in the organising!”<br />
Alana’s exquisite wedding<br />
dress had an art deco look with a<br />
low back, rucching, buttons and<br />
two layers of lace, the top layer<br />
being beautifully beaded. “I loved<br />
everything about it and topped<br />
it off with a long veil that was<br />
so soft and elegant.” The gown<br />
was made by Christine Reeves,<br />
an experienced and renowned<br />
dressmaker in Christchurch. “She<br />
had made my sister-in law’s dress<br />
and had done such a great job that I<br />
wanted her to do mine.”<br />
Alana’s bridesmaids wore<br />
dresses they sourced at Forever<br />
New. The simple style in navy was<br />
a very flattering colour that suited<br />
everyone and was offset by neutral<br />
flowers with “a pop of peach”<br />
created by Aromaunga florists. The<br />
guys’ grey suits from Hallensteins<br />
were worn with crisp white shirts<br />
and black ties, complemented by<br />
peach buttonholes and a peach tie<br />
for Hayden.<br />
Forsaking tradition, Alana and<br />
Hayden chose to have their photos<br />
taken at Mona Vale before the<br />
wedding! “We were less nervous<br />
for the ceremony and had time<br />
together without rushing back to<br />
the guests. The boys arrived first<br />
and set up by the fountain for<br />
the girls to walk in for the “grand<br />
reveal” then the bridal party had a<br />
picnic at Mona Vale before setting<br />
off for Trent’s.”<br />
Using a 1927 vintage car owned<br />
by their groomsman’s grandfather,<br />
Alana arrived at Trent’s for the 3pm<br />
ceremony which was held outdoors<br />
facing “horses in the paddocks and<br />
doves in the trees.” “We wanted<br />
our parents all involved so Hayden’s<br />
Dad gave us the rings, we had our<br />
Mums sign the register for us, but<br />
it was very special to have Dad<br />
walk me down the aisle because he<br />
had been very ill and couldn’t even<br />
walk a year before the wedding.”<br />
<strong>With</strong> their formal photos<br />
already taken, Alana and Hayden<br />
were able to share canapés and<br />
their wedding cake by Sugar Baby<br />
Cakery after the ceremony. Then it<br />
was time to enjoy music, dancing<br />
and a delicious barbeque as well<br />
as a photo booth set up in a boat –<br />
which everyone loved!<br />
“Our wedding venue organiser<br />
Amanda made the day run<br />
seamlessly, the speeches were<br />
brilliant which made us feel very<br />
loved, we wished the dancing could<br />
have gone on longer, but best of<br />
all was having all our friends and<br />
family in one place to enjoy our day<br />
with us.”
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Wedding guests usually<br />
look forward to speeches<br />
that capture an<br />
atmosphere of happiness<br />
sprinkled with sincerity and<br />
some humour. So if you<br />
are the Groom, the Father<br />
of the Bride or you have<br />
been chosen to be the<br />
Best Man, make sure you<br />
have “speak-ability.” A bit<br />
like the 4 C’s that classify<br />
diamonds, your speech<br />
needs to be Competent,<br />
Clear, Confident and a little<br />
bit Creative if you can.<br />
COMPETENT<br />
You can deliver a perfectly<br />
competent speech using a<br />
simple template to cover the<br />
basic requirements of wedding<br />
etiquette: Introducing yourself<br />
and how you know the couple,<br />
describing their most endearing<br />
qualities and why they make<br />
a good couple, mentioning<br />
an amusing story without<br />
embarrassing them or their<br />
families, then make a sincere toast<br />
for their future happiness.<br />
CLEAR<br />
Devise your speech then memorise<br />
it so that you don’t need to read<br />
it or shuffle prompt cards that<br />
can be very distracting. You can<br />
also look at the guests throughout<br />
and enjoy their reactions to your<br />
speech. Practise often so that you<br />
don’t stumble or mumble and avoid<br />
speaking too quickly. Drink in<br />
moderation before your speech so<br />
there is no chance of forgetting it or<br />
slurring your words.<br />
CONFIDENT<br />
Preparing and practising<br />
your speech allows you to<br />
be confident on the day. But<br />
you also need to be confident<br />
that your jokes won’t offend<br />
anyone, your clichés won’t<br />
be boring and your speech<br />
isn’t too long - aim for 5-8<br />
minutes max. If in doubt<br />
follow the unwritten speech<br />
making rule “ stand up, speak<br />
up then shut up!”<br />
CREATIVE<br />
Speech making at modern<br />
weddings has become increasingly<br />
interactive and creative. If it suits<br />
the atmosphere of the event, where<br />
guests are keen to interact you<br />
could incorporate a: Rap or Rhyme;<br />
A Toast from every Table; Power<br />
point “this is your life”; Lip sync<br />
or a debate. You may use props,<br />
stunts, photos or videos to make<br />
a documentary or take a risk and<br />
show a “mock-umentary!”<br />
WHATEVER<br />
THE WAY<br />
And whatever you<br />
say, be sure to make<br />
your speech, audible,<br />
genuine, gracious and<br />
good humoured and in<br />
good taste and avoid<br />
verbosity, pomposity,<br />
crudity, bad jokes<br />
and embarrassing<br />
anecdotes ALWAYS.
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If possible it should be arranged so that every<br />
member of the wedding party can attend the<br />
rehearsal including the bride and groom,<br />
parents, Celebrant, Wedding Planner,<br />
bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, ring<br />
bearers, readers, musicians and sound technicians<br />
and even the photographer if necessary. Set a<br />
suitable date and time together with the exact<br />
address and directions for the venue.<br />
EVERYONE should practice their role so that<br />
they feel confident to perform it in front of all the<br />
guests on the day. Make sure readers have enough<br />
light, know how to adjust the microphone and<br />
will speak audibly, that attendants walk at the<br />
right pace down the aisle, that they know the<br />
order they should enter, exit and line-up,<br />
etc. Be patient with your flower girl and ring<br />
bearer and avoid too many instructions that<br />
they could forget or misunderstand.<br />
THE CELEBRANT should also run through<br />
the order of the service and liaise with the<br />
organist or musicians so that the choice<br />
of music is played, timed and tested for<br />
volume. While it is important to get<br />
everything correct, resist the urge to “over<br />
rehearse” and don’t add anything new to the<br />
ceremony to create extra stress or confusion<br />
at this late stage.<br />
A rehearsal for your wedding ceremony<br />
is usually a good idea to ensure<br />
everyone knows who, what, when,<br />
why and how it is all going to happen<br />
without a hitch on the day!<br />
THE REHEARSAL DINNER is a popular trend in<br />
America and is increasingly being embraced in New<br />
Zealand. It usually follows a rehearsal for your<br />
ceremony and is generally hosted by the groom’s<br />
parents or both sets of parents if they prefer.<br />
Because the couple, their parents and the bridal<br />
party are required for the ceremony rehearsal, it’s<br />
logical for them to be included in the rehearsal<br />
dinner afterwards. It is a nice opportunity to<br />
spend special time with close family and friends,<br />
especially if they have travelled from out of town<br />
or from overseas.<br />
Similarly, a dinner is a lovely gesture of<br />
welcome to arriving guests if your wedding is at<br />
an overseas destination. It’s also the ideal moment<br />
for the bride and groom to give gifts of<br />
appreciation to their respective attendants.<br />
You can make the dinner as formal or<br />
informal as time, budget and preference<br />
allow. The gathering might be as simple as<br />
drinks and canapés, a barbeque or a picnic.<br />
Alternatively you might book a table at a<br />
favourite restaurant or go the “whole nine<br />
yards” with a magnificent intimate dinner that<br />
sets the scene for your big day.<br />
Whatever style is decided, the Rehearsal<br />
Dinner is meant to relieve the stress of the<br />
wedding. If it is going to add to the stress,<br />
don’t plan the rehearsal dinner the night<br />
before the wedding. Instead, have it during the<br />
week beforehand and make sure it ends early<br />
so you can get your beauty sleep!
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The Commodore is one of<br />
Christchurch’s best known hotels<br />
and its facilities are ideal for<br />
business and leisure travellers<br />
as well as conferences and<br />
weddings.<br />
Whether you envisage an<br />
intimate setting for 40 guests or a<br />
gala celebration for up to 140, the<br />
Commodore Airport Hotel has several<br />
different function rooms that can be<br />
configured to suit the style and size<br />
of your event. Decorations and table<br />
settings can be themed to enhance the<br />
wedding atmosphere of elegance and<br />
romance.<br />
The new resort-style terrace is<br />
perfect for an outdoor ceremony<br />
and a popular place for guests to<br />
enjoy aperitifs before the wedding<br />
reception. The hotel’s banquet team<br />
can design the ideal repast for you<br />
and your guests. Using the finest<br />
New Zealand ingredients, their<br />
contemporary dishes reflect the<br />
cultural traditions of Europe, Asia<br />
and the Pacific.<br />
Bridal couples will enjoy a night<br />
in one of the hotel’s exclusive 5<br />
star Business Level rooms and<br />
guests can be accommodated in the<br />
Commodore Hotel’s business, premium<br />
or family friendly rooms.<br />
Located within easy reach of the<br />
city centre, the Commodore is also<br />
conveniently close to the airport and<br />
offers a complimentary shuttle service<br />
for guests arriving or departing the<br />
Christchurch International Airport.<br />
The Commodore Airport Hotel and<br />
Sue Marsh the event manager welcome<br />
enquiries and site visits if you are<br />
considering the venue for your wedding<br />
or event.<br />
For further information phone Sue on<br />
03 358 8129 or visit<br />
www.commodorehotel.nz
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The chief bridesmaid is the bride’s<br />
trusted companion and is often a sister,<br />
a cousin or a long time best friend.<br />
Ideally she is calm, diplomatic, helpful, self<br />
assured and gets along with the other bridesmaids<br />
and the Mother of the Bride.<br />
Before the wedding she may be included in<br />
choosing gowns, fabrics and flowers and she is the<br />
traditional organiser of the bridal shower and/<br />
or hen’s night. She is there to support, encourage<br />
and share the special moments of wedding<br />
preparation.<br />
On the day of the wedding she helps the bride<br />
dress and prepare for the ceremony. She oversees<br />
younger bridesmaids and flower girls and arranges<br />
the bride’s veil and train for entry into the venue.<br />
She takes the bouquet during the exchange of<br />
rings and signs the register as a witness to the<br />
wedding. She will also need to talk graciously to<br />
the guests and look lovely in the wedding photos!<br />
After the ceremony she assists the bride during<br />
the photo session and throughout the reception.<br />
She ensures gifts are collected from the reception<br />
and may be responsible for returning any<br />
garments or accessories that were hired.<br />
The Best Man is the Groom’s right hand<br />
man and is often a brother, cousin, best<br />
mate or even an older son if the wedding<br />
is a remarriage.<br />
It is usually considered an honour and a privilege<br />
to be someone’s best man, but whoever you ask,<br />
ensure that they are reliable, diplomatic, crisis proof<br />
and a good time manager. The Best Man also needs<br />
to deliver a decent speech, stay sober and sensible<br />
and communicate easily with guests of all ages.<br />
The Best Man may be consulted on the choice<br />
of suits and wedding vehicles in preparation for<br />
the wedding and is the traditional organiser of the<br />
bucks’ night. On the day of the wedding he assists<br />
and supports the groom, looks after the bride’s ring<br />
until it is required at the ceremony and signs the<br />
register as a witness to the marriage.<br />
He is also entrusted with paying the church fees<br />
if applicable and helps the ushers to direct guests to<br />
the reception. As well as his speech, the Best Man<br />
traditionally proposes a toast to the bridesmaids and<br />
reads any congratulatory messages that have been<br />
received.<br />
Sometimes the Best Man will also take the role of<br />
MC at a wedding reception and after the wedding he<br />
may be responsible for returning hired suits, helping<br />
at a post-wedding brunch or even driving the couple<br />
to the airport for their honeymoon getaway.
Create an inexpensive lantern<br />
for your garden wedding or<br />
reception table decoration.<br />
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MATERIALS<br />
• Glass Agee jars<br />
(large or small depending<br />
on candle size)<br />
• Design templates or paper doilies<br />
• Adhesive or masking tape<br />
• Coloured or metallic spray<br />
• Copper wire<br />
• Wire cutters<br />
• Candles or tea lights<br />
• Sand<br />
MAGICAL<br />
Light the candle and<br />
watch it shine through<br />
the sparkly design on the<br />
glass. Hang your lantern,<br />
making sure it is level so<br />
the candle won’t tip and<br />
go out. Or place your<br />
lantern on the table as a<br />
pretty centrepiece. For<br />
even MORE sparkle and<br />
shine, stand it on a piece<br />
of mirror glass.<br />
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METHOD<br />
Wash the glass jars in hot soapy water<br />
Dry naturally or steam dry in dishwasher<br />
Cut out shapes to make your design template<br />
OR<br />
Use a paper doily with a ready made cut-out design<br />
Wrap the template/doily around the jar<br />
Secure it with adhesive or masking tape<br />
Spray the template with colour or glitter<br />
Allow to dry<br />
Remove template/doily carefully<br />
Wind copper wire round the mouth of the jar<br />
Twist the ends to secure it tightly<br />
Cut the excess wire with wire cutters<br />
Attach a cord or copper wire hook of desired length<br />
Pour an inch of sand into base of the finished jar<br />
Push the candle or tea light firmly into the sand<br />
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Set in the South Island’s<br />
most famous spa town, the<br />
Heritage Hanmer Springs<br />
offers style and charm in a<br />
unique historic setting for<br />
your special day.<br />
The hotel has a long history<br />
of memorable weddings since<br />
this spectacular building was<br />
competed in 1932. The unique<br />
Spanish style architecture with<br />
large colonnades, dramatic arches<br />
and even a bell tower, offer an<br />
unsurpassed romantic backdrop.<br />
Inside is an elegant ballroom<br />
that boasts lovely views over<br />
gorgeous established grounds<br />
through wall to ceiling windows<br />
and French doors that open on to<br />
sun drenched terraces.<br />
The ballroom is suitable for<br />
events up to 160 guests expertly<br />
presided over by an experienced<br />
wedding coordinator in tandem<br />
with accomplished chef, Dean<br />
Robinson, who will create a<br />
tailored banquet for your needs.<br />
Dean has catered for many<br />
special events in his career both<br />
in New Zealand and abroad in<br />
Chile where he opened 2 new<br />
restaurants and was often chosen<br />
to cater for embassy events for<br />
visiting dignitaries.<br />
Dean’s experience with show<br />
case culinary events is evident in<br />
the care and flare he has weddings<br />
and events.<br />
“It’s great working in such a<br />
special part of the South Island.<br />
The local ingredients and local<br />
wines are outstanding and<br />
Heritage Hanmer Springs is a<br />
very special hotel and venue,’ says<br />
Dean.<br />
In summertime, wedding<br />
ceremonies can take place in the<br />
pretty on-site wedding pergola<br />
or rose garden and larger events<br />
can be held under a marquee by<br />
arrangement. For a cosy winter<br />
event, Isobels restaurant has a<br />
welcoming open fire and lovely<br />
atmosphere for intimate events.<br />
Heritage Hanmer Springs has<br />
a choice of hotel rooms including<br />
a honeymoon suite in the original<br />
lodge building, plus, garden rooms<br />
and three bedroom self-contained<br />
villas; ideal for family groups<br />
travelling together. The hotel is<br />
also available for exclusive hire for<br />
the duration of the event.<br />
On site is a summer swimming<br />
pool, tennis and petanque court.<br />
The hotel is adjacent to the award<br />
winning Hanmer Springs Thermal<br />
Pools and Spa, ideal for soothing<br />
away pre-wedding nerves or a<br />
relaxing wind down after the<br />
formalities are over.<br />
Enjoy this exclusive special<br />
offer for the <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Bridal<br />
Show - Book your wedding within<br />
a month of the show and go into<br />
the draw to win back $1000* from<br />
your wedding.<br />
*Applies to new bookings only,<br />
wedding must be held before 31st<br />
March 2017, minimum spend of<br />
$5,000 excluding accommodation,<br />
further conditions may apply.<br />
For information call<br />
03 3150060 or email<br />
emmad@heritagehotels.co.nz<br />
www.heritagehotels.co.nz/<br />
hotels/heritage-hanmer-springs
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Commanding<br />
breath-taking pristine<br />
views and outstanding<br />
architectural design, this<br />
award winning hotel is<br />
the ideal setting for your<br />
wedding.<br />
Lovingly crafted from local<br />
schist river stone and timeless<br />
in design, Heritage Queenstown<br />
is reminiscent of a European<br />
ski lodge, with an ambiance of<br />
exclusivity and luxury.<br />
Positioned above the alpine<br />
resort town of Queenstown,<br />
Heritage Queenstown has<br />
spectacular Lake Wakatipu views<br />
and an unparalleled sweeping<br />
panorama of the Remarkable<br />
Mountains arcing around to<br />
spectacular Cecil Peak.<br />
The hotel’s Icon Centre<br />
award-winning architectural<br />
design (with capacity for 160<br />
people for a banquet) provides a<br />
flexible range of options to stage<br />
the most memorable day of your<br />
life.<br />
Enjoy superb views from<br />
picture windows that capture the<br />
drama and majesty of your lofty<br />
location. Choose from exclusive<br />
cocktails on the spectacular<br />
rooftop deck, or a banquet in the<br />
Icon Room. The choice is yours.<br />
Your event will be skilfully<br />
managed by an experienced<br />
team, whilst banqueting is a<br />
breeze. Heritage Queenstown’s<br />
experienced food and beverage<br />
services manager, Adrian Lowry,<br />
brings a symphony of locally<br />
sourced ingredients and flavours<br />
to your menu, paired with superb<br />
local wines.<br />
Adrian has been the Heritage<br />
Queenstown chef for some<br />
years and has a unique skill set.<br />
Not only because he is a trained<br />
chef with years of experience in<br />
respected dining establishments,<br />
but also because of his studies in<br />
oenology (wine) studies.<br />
Amanda McKee, the hotel’s<br />
experienced wedding coordinator,<br />
has plenty of creative ideas on<br />
ways to stage your day that suits<br />
you and your guests the best.<br />
Family and friends will love<br />
to gather here to share your day<br />
and overnight in the luxury of<br />
Heritage Queenstown’s recently<br />
refurbished rooms and suites, all<br />
complete with legendary tranquil<br />
beds.<br />
The hotel’s exceptional<br />
guest facilities include Mackenzies<br />
restaurant and bar complete with<br />
an open fire place, a swimming<br />
pool, spa, sauna and health club.<br />
For extra privacy the entire<br />
hotel can be hired exclusively for<br />
your wedding event.<br />
For information on Heritage<br />
Queenstown weddings<br />
please call<br />
03 450 1526 or<br />
email amandam@<br />
heritagehotels.co.nz or visit<br />
www.heritagehotels.co.nz/<br />
weddings
Stunning<br />
destinations,<br />
enduring<br />
HHAN303 07/16<br />
memories.<br />
Heritage Queenstown<br />
Impressive weddings that start<br />
with a remarkable view.<br />
91 Fernhill Road, Queenstown<br />
+64 3 450 1526<br />
weddings_hqtn@heritagehotels.co.nz<br />
Heritage Hanmer Springs<br />
A spectacular alpine retreat for a<br />
true wedding escape.<br />
1 Conical Hill Road, Hanmer Springs<br />
+64 3 315 0065<br />
events@heritagehanmer.co.nz<br />
Create a day to remember with Heritage.<br />
Win back $1,000* from your wedding venue booking when you confirm<br />
a wedding at Heritage Hanmer Springs within a month of the <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong><br />
<strong>Ring</strong> Bridal Show.<br />
* Conditions apply, details will be at the Wth <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Bridal Show.<br />
www.heritagehotels.co.nz/weddings<br />
You’re Somewhere Special TM
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A bridal shower is an<br />
ideal excuse for a<br />
party with your gal<br />
pals.<br />
The idea originated with<br />
the intention of “showering”<br />
the bride with household<br />
gifts in preparation for<br />
married life. Today’s bride’s<br />
often already have their<br />
home set up, so modern<br />
bridal showers frequently<br />
encompass other themes to<br />
pamper the bride.<br />
KITCHEN TEA is a<br />
traditional shower whereby<br />
guests bring small gift items<br />
for the kitchen such as linens,<br />
utensils, cookbooks, new<br />
gadgets, spices, sauces, preserves<br />
and containers.<br />
RECIPE SHOWER is an<br />
inexpensive option but a very<br />
personal one. Each guest brings<br />
a copy of their favourite recipe<br />
along with the dish itself. The<br />
recipe contributes to a DIY<br />
cookbook and the “bring a plate”<br />
dish is shared at the shower.<br />
SPOIL HER SHOWER includes<br />
a little bit of luxury to spoil the<br />
bride whether it is chocolate,<br />
champagne, an expensive soap,<br />
a manicure, a massage or a<br />
favourite book or movie.<br />
COSMETICS SHOWER Fill a<br />
pretty cosmetic bag with all the<br />
make-up items the bride will<br />
need on her wedding day or<br />
honeymoon. Find her favourite<br />
products and necessities and<br />
create a useful travel-sized version<br />
of her bathroom cabinet!<br />
BED AND BATH SHOWER<br />
gives guests plenty of gift choice<br />
from bath and shower toiletries to<br />
towels, linen, accessories, robes,<br />
sleepwear, slippers, rugs, wraps,<br />
throw and cushions.<br />
SHOWER O’CLOCK<br />
quirky idea where every guest is<br />
allocated a set time of day and<br />
brings a gift associated with that<br />
time. For example 8am might<br />
be a shower gel, 10am could be<br />
coffee mugs, 7pm could be wine<br />
coasters, etc.<br />
ALPHABET SHOWER<br />
similar idea but instead of a time<br />
of day guests are allocated a letter<br />
of the alphabet and must find a<br />
gift starting with that letter. For<br />
example; “T” for towels or “G” for<br />
a garlic-crusher, etc.<br />
DEMO SHOWER set up a demo<br />
or party plan evening for makeup,<br />
lingerie, wine tasting, arts,<br />
crafts or cooking school to enjoy<br />
together.<br />
PANTRY OR CELLAR SHOWER<br />
stock the bride’s pantry with<br />
non perishable items – tinned<br />
goods, spices, baking ingredients,<br />
preserves OR start her wine<br />
cellar with a selection of white,<br />
red, rose, sparkling and dessert<br />
wines!<br />
GARDEN SHOWER provide<br />
bride (and groom) with the<br />
basics for creating an appealing<br />
outdoor space or garden – pots,<br />
plants, seeds, garden tools, garden<br />
gloves, watering can, sculptures<br />
and<br />
garden art.<br />
Wedding Reception & Accommodation<br />
at the one stunningCentral Otago Location<br />
GOLDEN GATE LODGE, CROMWELL<br />
goldengate.co.nz weddings@goldengate.co.nz 0800 104451<br />
21 Luxury Motel Units<br />
Book your accommodation now for weddings,<br />
conferences, functions & events.<br />
❖ Honeymoon Suite ❖ Studio ❖ 1 Bedroom Units<br />
❖ 2 Bedroom Units ❖ Spa Bath Units available<br />
4-6 Maurice Street, Lincoln<br />
(just behind Gift Box)<br />
Your Hosts Colleen & Craig Beswick<br />
Enquiries Ph 03 974 1620<br />
For reservations: 0800 001 689<br />
info@lincolnmotel.co.nz/www.lincolnmotel.co.nz
Mona Vale Homestead<br />
(Dining 110 guests, cocktails 200 guests)<br />
A gracious homestead inspired by English elegance, offering a<br />
wedding venue with a sense of occasion.<br />
The perfect wedding venue...<br />
The Iris Lawn at Mona Vale<br />
(Marquee capacity for up to 450 guests)<br />
A picture book setting amongst landscaped gardens and manicured<br />
lawns for a splendid marquee to cater for your wedding day.<br />
Phone: 0800 426 684 or 03 311 8220 Email: enquiries@continental.co.nz Web: www.continental.co.nz Visit: 63 Fendalton Road, Christchurch
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A gift registry allows you to nominate the store<br />
and the style of the wedding gifts you would like<br />
to receive. While this may seem mercenary, it is<br />
the acceptable custom at modern weddings.<br />
A gift registry removes uncertainty for the guests<br />
and allows them to select something that will be<br />
appreciated and also won’t be duplicated.<br />
Once you have decided on the date of the wedding you should<br />
arrange your preferred store(s) for your gift registry. Choose<br />
well known stores with nationwide outlets for the convenience<br />
of your guests. Those with online purchasing are also appreciated<br />
by those who live out of town or overseas.<br />
Most popular items include general home ware, glassware,<br />
china, cutlery, kitchen appliances, table linen, bedding and<br />
towels. Ensure there is a broad price range within your gift<br />
registry so that guests spend what they can afford.<br />
Couples vary in their expectations of gifts. Some are very<br />
specific about brands and models on their gift list, others may<br />
indicate that wedding gifts are optional or even unnecessary,<br />
or they prefer a wishing well for monetary donations at the<br />
wedding.<br />
However as many couples have already set up a home, the<br />
custom for specialist gift registries has begun to encompass big<br />
ticket items such as furniture, house deposits, garden landscaping<br />
and honeymoons.<br />
Some guests are comfortable with the idea while others are<br />
less keen to contribute. But if your wedding is a destination<br />
event and your guests are funding their overseas travel and<br />
accommodation, definitely keep gift ideas affordable or optional!<br />
Your wedding invitations should notify guests about your gift<br />
preference, where your registry is held or whether you will have<br />
a wishing well.<br />
WHEN MAKING SELECTIONS FOR YOUR<br />
GIFT REGISTRY INCLUDE:<br />
• What you need for your home that you don’t already have<br />
• Any items you already have that need replacing or updating<br />
• Renowned brands<br />
• Items of lasting quality<br />
• Special occasion items you will treasure throughout<br />
your marriage<br />
Accents of Tuscan<br />
Total Food Equipment<br />
GIFTWARE HOMEWARE COOKWARE APPLIANCES<br />
218 Moorhouse Ave (by Durham St bridge) • Ph: 03 366 6912 •www.tfe.co.nz
Let’s be honest, we’ve all received gifts that delight us and we<br />
confirm their acceptability by using them at every opportunity.<br />
Equally we have all received gifts that miss the mark in terms<br />
of our personal taste, usefulness or store-ability. Remember it IS<br />
the thought that counts even if you seek discreet disposability<br />
of the item at a later date.<br />
10 WORST WEDDING GIFTS<br />
His and Hers clothing<br />
except bathrobes<br />
1 234<br />
A pet of ANY kind<br />
Hideous home or<br />
garden ornaments<br />
Gift card for an obscure<br />
or obsolete store<br />
5<br />
Embarrassing or<br />
67<br />
suggestive items<br />
Large artwork you have<br />
painted yourself<br />
Souvenir from your<br />
last holiday<br />
89<br />
A cheesy book about marriage<br />
Enrolment for a course<br />
on relationships<br />
Anything that’s being re-gifted<br />
10<br />
TOP<br />
Gifts<br />
10 MOST APPRECIATED GIFTS<br />
1 234567<br />
89<br />
10<br />
Money or Vouchers<br />
Items off the<br />
Gift Register<br />
Luxury bed linen<br />
BBQ equipment<br />
All purpose cook book<br />
Frame or canvas of<br />
your wedding photo<br />
Hamper of gourmet foods<br />
Case of wine<br />
Pots for garden or patio<br />
Set of suitcases<br />
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PERSONALISED GIFTS BY:<br />
www.beautiquegifts.co.nz<br />
Gifts They Will Wear<br />
Wedding shirt and tie<br />
Funky cufflinks<br />
Monogrammed bathrobe<br />
Novelty socks + boxers<br />
Favourite branded clothing<br />
Gifts They Can Keep<br />
Wedding picture or DVD<br />
Engraved mug or hip flask<br />
Wine glasses<br />
Leather Wallet<br />
If you’re scratching<br />
your head for a gift for<br />
your guys, try some<br />
of these for fun and<br />
others for size!<br />
Gifts They Can Use<br />
Chilly bin and picnic rug<br />
Beach umbrella<br />
BBQ set<br />
Handyman tools<br />
Car accessories<br />
Gift vouchers<br />
Boxed wine or whisky<br />
Gifts They Can Try<br />
Sport membership<br />
Event tickets<br />
Gym membership<br />
It’s not always easy to know what gifts<br />
to give to your bridesmaids and flower<br />
girl, so try these for size! and here are 20<br />
suggestions depending on whether your<br />
mates are single, attached, detached,<br />
married or have a family!<br />
Gifts to Enjoy<br />
Spa treatment<br />
Bottle of Wine<br />
Gym membership<br />
Gift Voucher<br />
Cookbook<br />
Gifts to Wear<br />
Gorgeous lingerie<br />
Cosmetics<br />
Special fragrance<br />
Beautiful scarf<br />
Sarong and Sunnies<br />
Gifts to Keep<br />
Framed photo of the wedding<br />
DVD of the wedding<br />
Jewellery box<br />
Elegant mirror<br />
Painting or artwork<br />
Tableware<br />
Gifts for the Wedding<br />
Bridesmaid outfit<br />
Sassy shoes<br />
An item of jewellery<br />
Small , boutique, intimate weddings.<br />
At Memorys we endeavour to keep things<br />
simple and effective, offering you exceptional<br />
hospitality and service for your big day...<br />
• Our main restaurant dining room seats up to 24 people offering courtyard views<br />
• The Boardroom is an intimate elegant dining area which seats up to 8 people.<br />
• Our large Courtyard area, is perfect in Spring, Summer & Autumn for small boutique intimate weddings.<br />
MEMORYS RESTAURANT<br />
227 Leeston Rd, Springston | Ph 03 329 5554 | info@memorys.co.nz | www.memorys.co.nz
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Silk Sashes are elegant<br />
to complement the<br />
wedding theme<br />
Coloured tassels provide<br />
a splash of colour and<br />
are less formal<br />
Lengths of lace add<br />
all-white vintage charm<br />
Even the most modest chairs can<br />
be dressed up to look chic whether<br />
they are rustic, resort or regal.<br />
Most dedicated wedding venues<br />
have chairs that are necessarily<br />
versatile to suit different wedding<br />
themes and colour schemes. <strong>This</strong> is<br />
often achieved with neutral toned<br />
chair covers which can then be<br />
accessorised as you wish:<br />
Attach coloured name<br />
tags to the back of each<br />
chair as your seating<br />
plan<br />
Drape the chair backs<br />
with bunting, garlands<br />
or leis<br />
Decorate with posies of<br />
herbs or flowers<br />
Tie with beads, motifs or<br />
wedding bells<br />
Paint plain chairs white,<br />
bright or metallic<br />
Add coloured cushions<br />
for comfort on chairs,<br />
pews or benches<br />
Dress pews or aisles of<br />
chairs with bows, tulle<br />
or posies
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Links Functions and<br />
Events is within a newly<br />
built Clubhouse at the<br />
Christchurch Golf Club;<br />
one of New Zealand’s most<br />
iconic and premier golf<br />
courses.<br />
Opened in January <strong>2016</strong>,<br />
this elegant and versatile venue<br />
offers a striking backdrop for<br />
your wedding, conference, golf<br />
tournament or any other of life’s<br />
special events.<br />
The modern, state of the art<br />
facilities offer spectacular views<br />
through floor-to-ceiling glass. Or<br />
step outside and enjoy sweeping<br />
golf course views and dramatic<br />
sunsets from the terrace or<br />
covered veranda.<br />
Inside, painted wood panelling<br />
and soft lighting provide ambient<br />
warmth and charm, while<br />
extensive bar and on-site catering<br />
facilities offer a variety of food and<br />
beverage options for up to 230<br />
guests. The Links Café and Bar is<br />
another perfect place to relax and<br />
is also available for private hire for<br />
a more intimate gathering.<br />
<strong>With</strong> delightful indoor<br />
and outdoor spaces for<br />
your wedding ceremony,<br />
reception and dance, Links<br />
Functions and Events has<br />
appealing versatility and<br />
perfect on-site locations<br />
for taking memorable<br />
photographs.<br />
Menus feature fresh<br />
selections for a variety of<br />
different tastes and dietary<br />
requirements. From formal<br />
reception menus to informal<br />
barbeques, Links own executive<br />
chef has assembled unique<br />
gastronomic offerings and is eager<br />
to help with special requests and<br />
repasts.<br />
Light, bright and sparkling<br />
new, this lovely venue has the<br />
latest technology for your event<br />
or function and convenient<br />
complimentary parking for you<br />
and your guests. Located just<br />
10 minutes from the city and<br />
20 minutes from the airport,<br />
Links at the<br />
Christchurch<br />
Golf Club is<br />
a green and<br />
gracious oasis<br />
any time of<br />
the year.<br />
Staff are<br />
devoted<br />
to making<br />
your special<br />
occasion<br />
memorable<br />
every step of the way from<br />
planning to execution.<br />
If you would like to discuss<br />
availability and options for your<br />
wedding or<br />
event, contact Links Manager,<br />
Karyn Yorston call 021 061 3250<br />
or email karyn@linksevents.co.nz
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There may be a dress code indicated on your wedding<br />
invitation, but what does it really MEAN? Modern attire<br />
is generally less formal or defined than in the past, so<br />
here are some guidelines to avoid making a mistake in<br />
guest dress-etiquette.<br />
DRESS CODE - WHITE TIE<br />
<strong>This</strong> is the most formal and least likely in New Zealand<br />
as it is generally reserved for royal occasions, award<br />
ceremonies, celebrity weddings or extra wealthy people!<br />
HE WEARS<br />
Tuxedo with black<br />
jacket and tails, white<br />
vest, white shirt with<br />
wing collar, white bow<br />
tie, black shoes, white<br />
gloves optional.<br />
SHE WEARS<br />
Full length ball gown,<br />
formal hairstyle,<br />
glamorous make up and<br />
formal jewellery.<br />
DRESS CODE - BLACK TIE<br />
The next most formal style is usually worn for a late<br />
wedding and formal evening reception with sit down<br />
dinner.<br />
HE WEARS<br />
Dinner suit tuxedo,<br />
bow tie, cummerbund<br />
and black shoes, waistcoat<br />
optional.<br />
SHE WEARS<br />
Less formal long gown<br />
or a dressy cocktail<br />
outfit.<br />
DRESS CODE - SEMI FORMAL<br />
Many New Zealand weddings adopt this<br />
level of formality for a daytime wedding<br />
and evening reception.<br />
HE WEARS<br />
A lounge suit<br />
in traditional or<br />
modern style with<br />
coordinating shirt<br />
and tie.<br />
SHE WEARS<br />
Smart day wear<br />
whether a dress,<br />
ensemble or dressy<br />
evening pants with<br />
a top or jacket. Hat<br />
optional.<br />
DRESS CODE - SMART CASUAL<br />
Often chosen for an informal wedding,<br />
this dress code confuses guests. Some<br />
will dress at the smart end of the<br />
spectrum while others take “casual” to<br />
mean what they wear at home. So wear<br />
what you would choose for an evening<br />
out in a good restaurant.<br />
HE WEARS<br />
Light or dark<br />
trousers, shirt of<br />
choice,vest, tie and<br />
jacket optional.<br />
SHE WEARS<br />
Cocktail length<br />
dress, skirt and top<br />
or pants and blouse,<br />
jacket optional.<br />
DRESS CODE - CASUAL<br />
<strong>This</strong> really does mean casual and is<br />
often the code for a beach wedding or a<br />
tropical resort.<br />
HE WEARS<br />
Light pants or<br />
board shorts,<br />
occasionally jeans,<br />
a shirt of choice<br />
but no tie, sandals<br />
or loafers, hat and<br />
sunnies optional.<br />
SHE WEARS<br />
A sundress or maxi<br />
dress, hat for the<br />
sun, pretty sandals,<br />
hairstyle and make<br />
up natural, sunnies<br />
optional .<br />
Although they are worn almost anywhere,<br />
jeans are rarely suitable for a wedding<br />
unless the ceremony is at the beach.<br />
Whatever you wear to a wedding and/or<br />
reception, make sure it is clean, pressed<br />
and not past its best. Your hosts will have<br />
puts months of time and a lot of money<br />
into this special occasion, so don’t insult<br />
them by arriving inappropriately attired<br />
for the dress code or the style of wedding<br />
they have indicated.
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MAKE YOUR<br />
Most weddings are<br />
eagerly anticipated<br />
by the guests, but<br />
you can enhance<br />
their enjoyment<br />
and memories of<br />
the day by making<br />
them a priority.<br />
BEFORE THE WEDDING<br />
Announce your wedding date<br />
and send invitations in ample time<br />
for guests to plan their travelling<br />
arrangements especially from<br />
overseas. For out of town guests<br />
provide welcome packs and useful<br />
information about locations,<br />
transport and accommodation.<br />
Include a wide range of items and<br />
prices on your gift register so guests<br />
have plenty of choice.<br />
Put up clear signage directing<br />
guests to the ceremony and the<br />
reception. Reduce the time gap<br />
between the ceremony location and<br />
the reception venue or consider<br />
having a single venue for the<br />
convenience of you and your guests.<br />
DURING THE WEDDING<br />
& RECEPTION<br />
Ensure the room temperature is<br />
comfortable, that there is plenty<br />
of seating for elderly guests and<br />
facilities for guests to freshen up<br />
if they wish. Seat people together<br />
with similar ages and interests and<br />
consider organising an activity for<br />
guests to mix and meet each other.<br />
Engage a good MC, limit<br />
speeches, make sure your music is<br />
not too loud and appeals to guests<br />
of all ages. Keep children amused<br />
with activities and ensure you have<br />
accommodated any special dietary<br />
needs of your guests. Pamper them<br />
with fine food and drinks, provide<br />
entertainment while you are having<br />
your photographs taken.<br />
Be sure to circulate at your<br />
reception and be certain to talk to<br />
all the guests, even if you haven’t<br />
met them before. Always thank your<br />
guests for their gifts and for coming<br />
to your wedding, especially those<br />
who have travelled long<br />
distances to be there.<br />
AFTER THE WEDDING<br />
Make sure your MC or groomsmen check that all<br />
guests have transport to their home or accommodation.<br />
Find time to thank the caterers and reception staff<br />
before you leave the wedding.<br />
Set up a website for guests to view photos and<br />
videos of the day and write to formally thank guests for<br />
their individual gifts or role in your wedding. It’s also<br />
customary to give or send flowers to the mothers of<br />
bride and groom for their love, support and help at your<br />
wedding, or on return from your honeymoon, invite<br />
immediate family to a “newly weds thank you dinner.”
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Vintage style shows no sign of waning, perhaps<br />
because it showcases romance and suits settings<br />
that range from rustic or regal. It’s also an easyto-achieve<br />
theme across many aspects of your<br />
wedding so there’s creativity as well as continuity<br />
of style.<br />
But don’t confuse vintage with retro which is generally<br />
defined as post war 1940’s and 50’s onwards, while vintage<br />
captures the style of the 1920’s and 30’s back to the<br />
Edwardian era of World War.<br />
Vintage Chic<br />
Silk, satin, lace and crepe de chine, shades of ecru, antique<br />
rose, lavender and cream, flounces and frills, drop waists and<br />
pleated tulle, sashes, bows and torsolettes, handkerchief veils<br />
or picture hats, low heeled shoes and parasols.<br />
Vintage Décor<br />
Marquees and gazebos, urns and statues, lights and<br />
lanterns, crisp white linen and sparkling<br />
silver, monogrammed menus and vases<br />
of flowers.<br />
Vintage<br />
Jewellery<br />
Pearls, diamonds,<br />
emeralds and<br />
garnets, rose gold,<br />
marquisite, cushion<br />
cuts, pave settings,<br />
brooches and hat pins.<br />
Vintage Gifts<br />
Crystal bowls and<br />
goblets, fine china<br />
teacups and cake<br />
plates, damask cloths,<br />
engraved cutlery and<br />
a silver tray, cocktail<br />
glasses and a shaker,<br />
embroidered towels and<br />
monogrammed sheets,<br />
printed stationery.<br />
Vintage<br />
Blooms<br />
Roses, peonies,<br />
lilac, lavender,<br />
lily of the<br />
valley, pansies,<br />
hydrangeas,<br />
forget-me-nots,<br />
sweet peas and<br />
baby’s breath.<br />
Make beautiful wedding memories<br />
at Westhaven Gardens Award Winning Wedding Venue.<br />
Exclusive use allows you to celebrate in complete privacy<br />
whilst enjoying the idyllic rural surroundings. Our complete<br />
wedding packages offer you the convenience of having your<br />
entire day in one stunning location.<br />
Torlesse Road, West Melton<br />
Phone Rochelle 03-347-4470 or 027-615-5073<br />
www.westhavengardens.co.nz
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For memories that last a<br />
lifetime, distinguish your<br />
perfect day and set the<br />
stage for the wedding of<br />
your dreams.<br />
Celebrate your wedding in our<br />
picturesque vineyard setting and<br />
elegant, contemporary wedding<br />
venue. <strong>With</strong> experienced hosts to<br />
make your wedding wishes come<br />
true, you and your guests will be<br />
delighted!<br />
Combined with almost 20<br />
years experience of hosting<br />
weddings, The Vineyard @<br />
Rossendale is a versatile venue<br />
for that once in a lifetime event.<br />
Set against the backdrop of our<br />
working Pinot Noir vineyard<br />
and exquisite mature gardens,<br />
the location provides captivating<br />
surroundings for your ceremony,<br />
photographs and reception.<br />
The Vineyard @ Rossendale<br />
is available for weddings<br />
throughout the year, with each<br />
season bringing its own unique<br />
visual beauty. Whether you have<br />
dreamed of a lavish wedding<br />
breakfast, a sophisticated cocktail<br />
party or an elegant lunch, The<br />
Vineyard team will listen to<br />
your ideas and then use their<br />
knowledge and experience to<br />
enhance them and “make it<br />
happen.”<br />
By making the planning simple<br />
and the day itself effortlessly<br />
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enjoyable, couples are able to<br />
focus on what really matters;<br />
“you, your family, your friends and<br />
your commitment to each other”<br />
says Graham Jones Manager and<br />
Wedding Coordinator.<br />
Our superb venue incorporates<br />
the Pinot Noir Room<br />
accommodating up to 200 guests,<br />
a spacious dance floor, relaxing<br />
lounge and a private, luxurious<br />
retreat for the bridal party to<br />
freshen up during the wedding.<br />
A variety of buffet or served<br />
menus offers a selection of<br />
delicious dishes prepared on site<br />
by The Vineyard’s team of chefs<br />
and there is flexibility to select the<br />
dining style that suits you.<br />
The Vineyard’s own wines<br />
or beverages of your choice<br />
complement the superb cuisine.<br />
Served indoors or outdoors, at<br />
sunrise or sunset, your guests will<br />
be treated to a day to remember.<br />
Our staff are dedicated to assist<br />
you in creating an unforgettable<br />
occasion.<br />
The venue is available for<br />
viewing and we invite you to<br />
discuss your dream wedding at<br />
The Vineyard by phoning Graham<br />
or Liz on 03 322 7780. For<br />
further information visit www.<br />
rossendale.co.nz or the facebook<br />
page for a 360 degree virtual tour.
88 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> There’s nothing nicer than a wedding where guests mix and<br />
mingle no matter which side of the family or group of friends they<br />
represent. But sometimes you need a way of breaking the ice<br />
and planning something they can enjoy while the bridal party are<br />
being photographed. So try these games that are fun for all ages.<br />
BIG GAMES<br />
The popularity of giant garden games has made it an<br />
affordable option for wedding entertainment. Chess,<br />
draughts, giant jenga, pick-up sticks, snakes & ladders are<br />
suitable for almost all age groups and therefore encourage<br />
guests to interact with each other.<br />
FIND A PERSON WHO…<br />
Is wearing the same colour as you<br />
Whose name starts with the same letter<br />
Is drinking white wine<br />
Is wearing a hat<br />
Drives a Toyota<br />
Lives in the North Island<br />
Lives in the South Island<br />
Has come to the wedding by plane<br />
Is aged under 21<br />
Has grey hair<br />
Is blonde<br />
Can speak another language<br />
Wears glasses<br />
Has a birthday in the same month<br />
Owns a dog<br />
Is left handed<br />
Is wearing a tie<br />
Owns their own business<br />
Is wearing nail polish<br />
Looks happy<br />
MIX AND<br />
MINGLE QUIZ<br />
Print out a finda<br />
sheet for every<br />
guest and let<br />
them get busy!<br />
You can even quiz<br />
them on how<br />
well they know<br />
each other in the<br />
speeches.<br />
SMALL<br />
GAMES<br />
Croquet, lawn<br />
bowls and mini<br />
golf are easily set up on an<br />
expanse of lawn and don’t<br />
need elaborate equipment.<br />
Most ages can play whether<br />
individually or in a group or<br />
team. Other options include<br />
petanque or quoits.<br />
PHOTO BOOTH<br />
Entertain guests with a photo<br />
booth for some great candid<br />
shots of your favourite folks<br />
throughout the reception.<br />
Provide some props and<br />
costumes and a backdrop and<br />
let them loose.
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Christchurch’s Quality Hotel<br />
Elms has been designed<br />
to maximise its beautiful<br />
surroundings and live up<br />
to the expectations of its<br />
garden city location.<br />
Offering an exceptional<br />
wedding venue and stylish<br />
comfortable accommodation, the<br />
hotel offers a delightful setting for<br />
your ceremony, your reception<br />
and your guests.<br />
The elegant facilities allow you to<br />
have a charming ceremony amid<br />
manicured gardens and a purpose<br />
built reception area for you to<br />
host up to 120 guests. Quality<br />
Hotel Elms has developed three<br />
different packages to make your<br />
wedding day arrangements as<br />
smooth and simple as possible.<br />
In a stress-free three step<br />
process you can choose the<br />
ideal meal, beverage and venue<br />
set-up for your style and budget<br />
requirements.<br />
Each package offers you a range<br />
of inclusions while delivering an<br />
exemplary standard of food, wine,<br />
service and accommodation.<br />
Whether you choose a small<br />
intimate wedding or a large event<br />
with all your family and friends,<br />
Quality Hotel Elms professional<br />
Functions Manager can coordinate<br />
everything to make your special<br />
day extra special.<br />
<strong>With</strong> 96 beautifully appointed<br />
rooms or deluxe rooms, you<br />
and your guests can also be<br />
accommodated in fastidious<br />
comfort. The hotel’s location is<br />
also ideal with convenient access<br />
to Christchurch city and local<br />
attractions including Northlands<br />
Mall shopping, cinema and a<br />
variety of restaurants.<br />
Elegant, refined and ready to<br />
make your wedding wonderful,<br />
Quality Hotel Elms is a venue<br />
worth waiting for. So visit them<br />
to secure your date as soon as<br />
possible.<br />
www.qualityhotelelms.co.nz<br />
WEDDINGS<br />
All inclusive packages<br />
and free venue hire<br />
gives you more choice<br />
for your wedding day.<br />
QUALITY HOTEL ELMS<br />
www.qualityhotelelms.co.nz<br />
P. 0800 10 99 10<br />
E. events@qualityhotelelms.co.nz
Introducing<br />
Whether you are looking for a classic, vintage, intimate or elegant occasion,<br />
Tuscany Downs Estate offers a stunning setting.<br />
Planning a wedding away from<br />
home is attractive to different<br />
couples for different reasons.<br />
But whether you are looking for<br />
a classic, vintage, intimate or<br />
elegant occasion, Tuscany Downs<br />
Estate offers a stunning location<br />
just 25 minutes drive from<br />
Christchurch City Centre. There<br />
is something special about driving<br />
to the countryside for a special<br />
occasion and with a touch of rural<br />
splendour, Tuscany Downs Estate<br />
at Kirwee offers a perfect setting<br />
to stage your dream wedding.<br />
<strong>This</strong> private, picturesque venue is<br />
impressively situated amidst acres<br />
of manicured lawns and beautiful<br />
tree-lined gardens, while its<br />
stunning lake setting provides an<br />
ideal location for romantic spring,<br />
summer or autumn weddings.<br />
Parking is plentiful and<br />
with 5 luxury rooms onsite,<br />
Tuscany Downs Estate<br />
offers opportunities for bridal<br />
party accommodation, or<br />
indeed family travelling to<br />
Christchurch from out of town.<br />
Likewise, it is a wonderful<br />
opportunity for the bridal couple<br />
to stay for the weekend whilst<br />
entertaining guests in style.<br />
Your wedding reception can<br />
be beautifully decorated in<br />
an intimate ambient style or<br />
alternatively in a stunning silk<br />
lined marquee under the stars.<br />
For the wedding nuptials, an<br />
elegant indoor or beautiful<br />
garden setting awaits. <strong>With</strong><br />
superb facilities comprising a<br />
heated indoor swimming pool,<br />
outdoor patio and expansive<br />
lawn, a pre or post wedding<br />
function could also be enjoyed.<br />
What better way to delight your<br />
guests than to have your function<br />
in a beautiful and private country<br />
location, with fabulous food<br />
featuring fresh local produce<br />
and seasonally inspired menus,<br />
innovatively presented with<br />
impeccable service.<br />
Tuscany Downs Estates’<br />
international award-winning<br />
wedding planner is a dedicated,<br />
experienced professional<br />
with a reputation for ‘service<br />
excellence.’ Having spent many<br />
years developing relationships<br />
with wedding industry suppliers,<br />
you can rely on their confidence,<br />
expertise and recommendations to<br />
suit individual styles and budgets<br />
when creating your perfect day.
Whether a small wedding of 20 or a larger affair, Tuscany Downs Estate can<br />
provide the ideal setting with views of country splendour.<br />
Perfect country location<br />
Picturesque outdoor ceremony setting<br />
Stunning garden and lake photo opportunities<br />
5 luxury accommodation rooms<br />
Stylish indoor and outdoor reception facilities<br />
Outdoor entertaining facilities, ideally designed to farewell guests the following day<br />
Spanning lawns for that perfect marquee setting<br />
Tuscany Downs’ Estate international award-winning wedding planner is a dedicated, experienced<br />
professional with a reputation for ‘service excellence’. Suzanne will co-ordinate your day to perfection.<br />
Contact Suzanne and discuss your dreams<br />
E: suzanne@tuscanydowns.com M: 021 369 414 W: www.tuscanydowns.com
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Discover a city of<br />
quintessential Scottish<br />
charm which has given<br />
New Zealand; its first<br />
university, the only castle,<br />
the steepest street, a city of<br />
fine Victorian buildings and<br />
naturally, its own Scotch<br />
whisky!<br />
It is a place to savour and<br />
explore with some unique<br />
attractions both natural and<br />
manmade.<br />
The Octagon is the civic heart<br />
of Dunedin and is dominated by<br />
a statue of Scottish bard, Robbie<br />
Burns who has stared benevolently<br />
over the city for 150 years. You<br />
will also find St Paul’s Cathedral,<br />
Dunedin Public Art Gallery and<br />
the Visitor Centre, plus various<br />
shops, cafes and a thriving<br />
Saturday market.<br />
Trek steeply up Stuart St to<br />
find Moana Pool and the stately<br />
Olveston House, while a stroll<br />
towards Otago Harbour takes you<br />
to the Railway Station. Nowadays,<br />
the building houses the New<br />
Zealand Sports Hall of Fame and<br />
only the Taieri Gorge Railway<br />
departs daily from this grand<br />
Edwardian edifice. Nearby is the<br />
magnificently redeveloped Toitu<br />
Settlers Museum and the Chinese<br />
Garden or you can indulge in<br />
a tour at Cadbury World or<br />
Speight’s Brewery which produces<br />
a fearsome number of pints each<br />
week!<br />
The northern end of the<br />
city is dominated by the classic<br />
architecture of Otago University<br />
founded in 1869. Otago Museum<br />
is right beside it and its various<br />
exhibitions and “Tropical World<br />
Butterfly House” will not<br />
disappoint. The Forsyth Barr<br />
Stadium is the only covered<br />
stadium in the country and a fine<br />
venue for sporting and concert<br />
events too. The long established<br />
Botanic Gardens are beautifully<br />
maintained, while nearby<br />
Baldwin Street rises an impressive<br />
200m and its steep gradient has<br />
challenged the fit and the foolish<br />
for decades.<br />
Dunedin has its share of superb<br />
restaurants and cosy pubs with<br />
live music, the Fortune Theatre<br />
produces fine professional<br />
productions and the Casino is<br />
open late for a supper ‘n’ flutter.<br />
Built during goldrush prosperity<br />
its opulent gaming rooms are a<br />
visual treat whether you win at the<br />
tables or not!<br />
But just a few kilometres<br />
from downtown Dunedin, Otago<br />
Peninsula provides the city with a<br />
unique recreational, historical and<br />
ecological playground. Best known<br />
attractions are the Royal Albatross<br />
colony at Taiaroa Head the Yellow<br />
Eyed Penguin Conservation<br />
Reserve, the New Zealand Marine<br />
Studies Centre at Portobello,<br />
Glenfalloch Gardens and Larnach<br />
Castle built extravagantly in 1871<br />
and wonderfully restored for<br />
today’s visitors to appreciate.<br />
<strong>With</strong> accommodation ranging<br />
from castle to camping, visitors<br />
to Dunedin are well catered for<br />
whether you stay put and get to<br />
know Dunedin in depth or the<br />
city is part of a southern road trip<br />
itinerary.<br />
There are so many romantic, beautiful wedding venues located on the<br />
rail links. At a church, a restaurant, on a beach, in the country, or in<br />
the Taieri River Gorge? You can even get married on a train.<br />
We can accommodate any number of guests. You can hire a complete<br />
train set, or a single carriage, or travel on the first class comfort of the<br />
‘Dunedin Silver Fern’ railcar which seats 94. All trains are fully licensed<br />
and have buffet nibbles. Give our Rail Journey Planner a call today.<br />
P (03) 477-4449 • E reserve@dunedinrailways.co.nz • www.dunedinrailways.co.nz<br />
Discover Larnach castLe<br />
New Zealand’s Castle<br />
“THE<br />
PERFECT<br />
SETTNG<br />
FOR YOUR<br />
WEDDING”<br />
Phone 03 476 1616 Freephone 0800 527 6224 | Email functions@larnachcastle.co.nz | www.larnachcastle.co.nz
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It’s a year round resort that<br />
captivates its visitors from<br />
near and far; a romantic<br />
getaway with scenery to<br />
sigh for, wild adventures<br />
to nearly die for, a winter<br />
wonderland to see and<br />
ski or a summer sojourn of<br />
lakeside leisure. But for a<br />
honeymoon, Queenstown<br />
is a diamond destination!<br />
Rising 800m above Lake<br />
Wakatipu, Bob’s Peak has to<br />
be one of the most romantic<br />
views in the world. Accessed by<br />
gondola, or perhaps a champagne<br />
helicopter ride, enjoy a candlelit<br />
meal high above the lights of<br />
Queenstown at the skyline<br />
restaurant, which has delighted<br />
diners for decades.<br />
The lakefront dazzles at<br />
night and is also home to some<br />
of Queenstown’s most historic<br />
attractions.<br />
Eichardts is the town’s oldest<br />
hotel and has an atmosphere all<br />
its own as well as a long pedigree<br />
of refurbishments from gold<br />
rush to contemporary plush. The<br />
TSS Earnslaw has been cruising<br />
Lake Wakatipu since 1912 and<br />
nostalgia is all part of the “Lady<br />
of the Lake’s” allure. But if a trip<br />
on the historic steam ship is too<br />
genteel, hop aboard the Kawarau<br />
or Shotover Jet boat for a wet and<br />
wilder ride.<br />
Your honeymoon may be<br />
the ideal time to enjoy one of<br />
Queenstown’s wacky adventures<br />
together. Depending on your<br />
bravery rating, you can do<br />
anything from the fun of a luge or<br />
Ziptrek flying fox to iconic bungy<br />
jumping, white water rafting or<br />
the lunacy of a canyon swing.<br />
Then again you may prefer<br />
taste adventure at Central Otago’s<br />
best wineries;<br />
Gibbston Valley,<br />
Chard Farm or<br />
Amisfield where<br />
you can sample<br />
fine wine,<br />
fine food, fine<br />
surroundings and fine company of<br />
course.<br />
The romance of the area’s<br />
gold mining past is worth a trip<br />
to Skippers Canyon where the<br />
Shotover River was once the<br />
world’s largest gold-bearing river.<br />
It squeezes through a narrow<br />
gorge that is now the venue for<br />
a heart stopping 9km Skippers<br />
Jet boat ride. High above the<br />
canyon, Winky’s Museum traces<br />
Skippers gold history from boom<br />
to bust and the original miner’s<br />
cottage is crammed with authentic<br />
memorabilia, implements and<br />
relics including a stack or gold<br />
pans for you to try your luck.<br />
Nearby Arrowtown offers<br />
a heritage adventure among<br />
restored pioneer cottages and<br />
picturesque shops and pubs<br />
dating from the 1860’s when<br />
the town’s population reached<br />
7000 at the peak of the gold<br />
rush. There’s still gold in the<br />
Arrow River and beside it, the<br />
Chinese’s miner’s village is an<br />
authentic reconstruction of life<br />
as they knew it. Surrounded by<br />
self-guided walking tours, bike<br />
trails and three golf courses,<br />
Arrowtown is a treasure in its<br />
own right and its remarkable<br />
history is well documented at the<br />
Lakes Museum.<br />
For a romantic indulgence,<br />
book a spa treatment at one of<br />
Queenstown’s premier hotels<br />
or retreats. Discover fine dining<br />
restaurants, enjoy wicked cocktail<br />
concoctions at The Boileroom<br />
or the quirky chill of the Icebar<br />
which gives you a taste of winter<br />
by the glass!<br />
When it is really winter<br />
Coronet Peak and The<br />
Remarkables will lure you to<br />
the slopes to ski, snowboard,<br />
toboggan or go tubing. If it’s<br />
summer you can still ride the<br />
chairlifts or mountain bike from<br />
top to stop and Queenstown<br />
is a heavenly hub for exploring<br />
Fiordland by road, boat or scenic<br />
flight.<br />
Adventure, heritage,<br />
indulgence or all three,<br />
Queenstown is a resort for all<br />
seasons and all reasons, and<br />
what better reason than your<br />
honeymoon?
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Sherry has just become the “in” tipple of choice<br />
among a generation that would only have seen it<br />
previously in Grandma’s sideboard or before the<br />
turkey dinner at Christmas!<br />
But believe it or not, there are now “Sherry Bars” in the<br />
edgier parts of London, sales have increased there by 33% in<br />
a year and the range of different sherries is as varied as your<br />
favourite wines.<br />
Of course sherry has never been out of style in Spain<br />
where it is produced, but the global popularity of tapas,<br />
paella and jamon has also served to re-introduce sherry as a<br />
sophisticated food and wine match. Ranging from bone dry to<br />
rich and sweet, sherry is also superbly versatile as an aperitif,<br />
a cocktail, a dessert wine and an after dinner drink.<br />
Viniculture was first introduced to Spain by the<br />
Phoenicians in 1100BC, was continued by the Romans in<br />
200BC and refined by the Moors when they invaded in<br />
711AD. Columbus took sherry supplies with him to the New<br />
World, Magellan took sherry when he circumnavigated the<br />
world and when Francis Drake fought Spain and conquered<br />
Cadiz, he commandeered 3000 barrels of sherry and took it<br />
home to England. By the end of 16th century the drink was<br />
considered the world’s finest wine.<br />
Sherry is made from white Palomino grapes grown in the<br />
Cadiz region of Andalusia, where the centre of the industry<br />
is the town of Jerez de la Frontera. Sherry varieties range<br />
from light versions (Manzanilla and Fino) which are similar to<br />
white table wines to darker versions that have been barrelaged<br />
such as Amontillado or Oloroso. Sweet dessert sherries<br />
are made from a blend of Moscatel and Palominio grapes,<br />
while Cream Sherry was first made in 1860 by blending<br />
Oloroso and Pedro Ximinez.<br />
After fermentation the base wine is “fortified” or made<br />
stronger with grape spirit to increase the alcohol content to<br />
15.5%. Similar to French laws regarding the protection of<br />
the origin of Champagne, under Spanish law, all wine labelled<br />
as “Sherry” must come from the “Sherry Triangle” in the<br />
southern province of Cadiz.<br />
Because of its high alcohol content, Sherry is best sipped<br />
and savoured and lends itself to the “platter” style of dining.<br />
But best of all Sherry is remarkably affordable for a quality<br />
beverage with a pedigree that goes back 3000 years.<br />
According to Wine Magazine, Sherry has been the most<br />
under-appreciated wine since its popularity waned in the<br />
1970’s. New devotees are becoming smitten with the taste,<br />
although they sometimes need guidance when choosing a<br />
sherry to enjoy with their cuisine. “Salude”<br />
In many countries, a “sherry” glass is designated for<br />
alcoholic beverages such as sherry, port, aperitifs and liqueurs<br />
and its small size allowed a modest measure of the drink<br />
to be sipped. However, the traditional Spanish sherry glass<br />
or “copita” has a narrow taper to enhance the aroma, but<br />
essentially is a medium sized wine glass with a tulip shape.
ON A STICK<br />
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Canape style receptions are a popular wedding trend with<br />
mouth watering finger food on easy-to-serve trays. But while they<br />
encourage guests to mix and mingle, they can be less than easy<br />
to eat! So in the interests of practicality and good manners, serving<br />
stuff on a stick reduces the chance of dripping, slipping, slopping or<br />
dropping your food down your front, or someone else’s!!<br />
FRESH FRUIT KEBABS<br />
Thread a selection of fresh fruit<br />
pieces onto small sticks for a<br />
colourful healthy dessert. Keep soft<br />
fruits like strawberries, orange<br />
segments and kiwifruit slices<br />
in place by interspersing<br />
firm fruits like grapes,<br />
melon, pineapple<br />
and pear at<br />
either<br />
end<br />
of the<br />
stick.<br />
ROAST MEAT<br />
AND VEGETABLES<br />
Slide a colourful selection of<br />
vegetables and juicy meat cubes<br />
along the skewer, baste with oil<br />
and grill. Try tomatoes, mushrooms,<br />
capsicum, eggplant, pumpkin,<br />
tiny potatoes or parsnips between<br />
your choice of meat or put slices<br />
of apple with pork.<br />
COCKTAIL NIBBLES<br />
Use short skewers or toothpicks for<br />
dainty pre-dinner nibbles; devils on<br />
horseback, cheese and pineapple,<br />
cranberry and brie, smoked salmon,<br />
a seafood selection, teeny bite sized club<br />
sandwiches or sliders.<br />
CAKE POPS<br />
An alternative way to serve your<br />
wedding cake, cake pops are bite sized<br />
fondant covered morsels on a stick.<br />
Displayed on trays and tiers they are<br />
neat, new and novel.<br />
MEAT KEBABS<br />
Minced beef, pork, chicken or lamb<br />
can be seasoned with a variety of herbs and spices,<br />
pressed around the skewer and cooked quickly. Provide<br />
dipping sauces that represent different cuisines and let<br />
your guests enjoy tastes from around the world.<br />
HOT DOGS<br />
Ramp up the original meal on a stick<br />
and make your sausage centres totally<br />
gourmet; honey soy, lamb and mint, pork<br />
and apple or smoky bacon. Battered,<br />
crumbed or herb crusted, tomato dipped<br />
or served with sweet chilli sauce, a hot dog<br />
is still a firm favourite.<br />
GOURMET ICE BLOCKS<br />
Freeze your favourite fruit or yoghurt into<br />
ice blocks, or serve fancy frozen cocktails<br />
on a stick. They are refreshing on a hot day,<br />
are a light cooling dessert at the end of a<br />
reception meal and a no-mess option that<br />
can be prepared well in advance.<br />
STICK N SERVE<br />
Or you can “stick n serve” bite sized<br />
brownies, mini macaroons, petit fours,<br />
tiny cubes of cheesecake, soft centred<br />
chocolates, turkish delight, coconut<br />
coated rum truffles, russian fudge or<br />
chocolate coated strawberries.
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For couples on a<br />
budget, or couples<br />
who want a special drink<br />
for themselves or their<br />
wedding party, serving<br />
your own signature<br />
cocktail can be a<br />
smart move and a<br />
romantic one!<br />
Even the simplest of ingredients can look spectacular<br />
once shaken, stirred, poured over ice<br />
and garnished. To serve it as your own special<br />
cocktail, make it taste FRESH, name it for<br />
FUN and choose the right<br />
glass for it to look FABULOUS.<br />
COCKTAIL RECIPE<br />
- 15mls cointreau<br />
orange liqueur<br />
- 15mls brandy<br />
- 1 cube of sugar<br />
- Dash of bitters<br />
- 120mls<br />
Champagne<br />
MOCKTAIL RECIPE<br />
- 15mls orange juice<br />
- 15mls ginger ale<br />
- 1 cube of sugar<br />
- 1 sugar cube<br />
- Dash of bitters<br />
- 120mls sparkling<br />
Grape juice<br />
METHOD<br />
Place the sugar cube at the bottom of a champagne flute<br />
and soak it in bitters. Add the liqueur and brandy<br />
(or OJ and ginger ale), top up the glass with champagne<br />
(or grape juice) and garnish with a twist of orange.<br />
Exceeding your<br />
expectations!<br />
One bite at a time!<br />
NAME IT<br />
Sweet with orange and sugar,<br />
warmed by the brandy and<br />
tickled by celebration<br />
bubbles this is a<br />
“GOODNIGHT KISS”<br />
in a glass!<br />
P 03 383 1403 ext 3<br />
www.tastefulaffairs.co.nz
ADVERTORIAL<br />
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YEARS<br />
A testament to fine food<br />
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The company is also proud to<br />
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After two decades of catering<br />
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<strong>With</strong> the ability to cater<br />
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Renowned for value and variety,<br />
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The company also operates a<br />
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Whilst primarily a catering<br />
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Catering.
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Want to look your sparkling best<br />
on your wedding day? Believe<br />
it or not you can eat yourself<br />
beautiful with these 10 super<br />
foods in your regular diet.<br />
6.<br />
1. AVOCADO<br />
Packed full of anti oxidants, potassium and healthy fats,<br />
avocados can reduce age spots, heal scars, burns and<br />
soothe inflamed ski. The natural sugar in avocados also<br />
boosts collagen formation and is the vegetable of choice<br />
for fighting skin blemishes.<br />
1.<br />
5.<br />
2. BLUEBERRIES<br />
The ultimate super food, in just100g of blueberries<br />
you’ll find the same amount of age-defying antioxidants<br />
as 5 servings of other fruit and vegetables.<br />
Blueberries also combat the effects of free radicals<br />
which are a pesky cause of wrinkles! So increase your<br />
blueberry intake to keep skin looking younger for<br />
longer.<br />
3. CHOCOLATE<br />
Isn’t it great that it’s actually healthy to eat a bit of<br />
chocolate - so long as it is dark. Dark chocolate is rich<br />
in the anti oxidants that improve blood flow and lower<br />
blood pressure.<br />
4. OATS<br />
Porridge really is good for you! As well as being low in<br />
fat, it’s chock full of calcium, potassium, protein and<br />
B & E vitamins – great for skin, stress and alleviating<br />
tiredness.<br />
9.<br />
4.<br />
5. PUMPKIN<br />
Pumpkin pulp and seeds are loaded with a variety of<br />
nutrients that help maintain the health of your heart,<br />
eyes, bones and skin. So don’t just go for pumpkin on<br />
Halloween, roast them and toast them for everyday use.<br />
8.<br />
6. SPINACH<br />
Filled with anti oxidants and beta carotene, spinach is<br />
an impressive source of iron for energy and keeps hair<br />
and nails strong and healthy. So go green often!<br />
7. STRAWBERRIES<br />
High in iron and a natural digestive cleanser,<br />
strawberries are a terrific super-food. They also contain<br />
high levels of Vitamin C which is crucial to immunity,<br />
healthy eyes and inhibition of wrinkles.<br />
3.<br />
2.<br />
7.<br />
10.<br />
8. TOMATOES<br />
The beta carotene and anti oxidants in tomatoes help to<br />
support our immune system, lower the risk of disease<br />
and protect the skin from sun damage. Retain them as<br />
part of your diet year round.<br />
9. WALNUTS<br />
<strong>With</strong> the highest levels of anti oxidants and essential<br />
fatty acids, walnuts are good for heart health,<br />
mood balance and stress. Just what you<br />
need when<br />
planning a wedding!<br />
10. WATERCRESS<br />
Often perceived as tasteless,<br />
this<br />
garnish works like a natural<br />
antibiotic and heals skin<br />
blemishes from the inside out.<br />
For a zit-free wedding<br />
day, add watercress to all your salads!
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The time honoured tradition<br />
is to celebrate special<br />
moments in life with feasting<br />
– a simple word that indicates<br />
a meal that is well prepared<br />
and abundantly enjoyed.<br />
There are few more important<br />
celebrations than two people declaring<br />
their love and the following rejoicing<br />
includes a form of feasting, no matter<br />
how simple or lavish.<br />
If you’re at the stage of considering<br />
who you might trust with your<br />
wedding catering, contact Continental,<br />
a Canterbury family-owned business<br />
with more than 50 years’ experience of<br />
serving food and beverages at weddings<br />
and other special occasions all over the<br />
South Island.<br />
A passion for exceptional catering<br />
is at the core of Continental: the team<br />
aims to deliver on-trend, tasty, stylish<br />
cuisine served with flair by friendly and<br />
attentive professionals. <strong>This</strong> is the team<br />
you can trust to guide you through the<br />
intricacies of planning your wedding.<br />
Particular dietary requirements are<br />
not a problem (Continental has its own<br />
100% gluten free production kitchen,<br />
for example) and most budgets or guest<br />
numbers can be catered for.<br />
VENUES<br />
Due to its superb reputation, Continental has<br />
exclusive or preferred access to many special<br />
and/or unique function spaces: mountain,<br />
rural or seaside vistas, traditional or modern<br />
decor, charming or sophisticated ambience.<br />
<strong>With</strong>in Christchurch and Canterbury, these<br />
venues include:<br />
• Mona Vale Homestead<br />
• The Iris Lawn at Mona Vale<br />
• Christchurch Gondola<br />
• Christchurch Art Gallry<br />
• The Great Hall<br />
• Tipapa Woolshed<br />
• Waipara Winery<br />
• Valley of Peace<br />
• Harpers Homestead<br />
• International Antarctic Centre<br />
Continental also has an extensive knowledge<br />
base of other professionals you might need:<br />
hire equipment and marquees, lighting and<br />
sound; theming and flowers.<br />
MONA VALE HOMESTEAD<br />
Have a look at the website<br />
or contact the team:<br />
www.continental.co.nz<br />
enquiries@continental.co.nz
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A “cake” of some sort has been a long standing<br />
feature of weddings for centuries. In Ancient Rome,<br />
weddings were finalised by breaking a cake of wheat<br />
or mustaceum, over the bride’s head for good fortune<br />
in the marriage. The couple then ate some of the<br />
crumbs together in a<br />
custom known as<br />
confarreatio – meaning<br />
“together.”<br />
Guests shared the rest as a<br />
gesture of good luck and toasted<br />
the couple by throwing a handful<br />
of fruits and nuts or confetto,<br />
which later evolved into the<br />
tradition of throwing rice, petals<br />
or paper “confetti. When the<br />
Romans invaded England in 55BC,<br />
many of their traditions arrived<br />
with them and develop into the<br />
customs we know today.<br />
By 17th century wedding cakes<br />
were made in pairs; the Bride<br />
Cake was eaten at the wedding<br />
while the Groom’s Cake was a rich<br />
fruit cake cut into small squares<br />
and given to guests to take home.<br />
The tradition of a Groom’s cake<br />
still survives in America, because<br />
the English took the custom with<br />
them when they settled the New<br />
World in the 17th century.<br />
By 18th century Bride Cake<br />
was iced with white powdered sugar<br />
which was thought to symbolise<br />
purity but it also demonstrated<br />
wealth because the whiter the<br />
refined sugar, the more expensive<br />
it was!<br />
Queen Victoria is credited<br />
with making white bridal<br />
gowns fashionable, but she also<br />
introduced the multi-tiered<br />
wedding cake, which she had<br />
decorated with doves, cupids and a<br />
statue of Britannia.<br />
Today there are no rules<br />
to define a wedding cake.<br />
Contemporary styles can be<br />
simple or sumptuous, single or<br />
multi-tiered and of every possible<br />
colour, shape or flavour.
WHAT TO CHOOSE<br />
• A tiered cake of separate<br />
flavours per tier<br />
• Croquem Bouche pyramid<br />
of profiteroles<br />
• Cup cake tower of individual<br />
cakes or macaroons<br />
• Dessert gateau, layer cake,<br />
mud cake or moist torte<br />
• Baked cheesecake with fruit<br />
or iced decoration<br />
• Cheese wheel with fruit, nuts<br />
and crackers to serve<br />
• “Naked” un-iced cake that’s topped<br />
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Wedding cakes have always been part of the proceedings, but with<br />
decorative decoration techniques and technology they have become<br />
confections of visual perfection. The artistry of the decoration can be classic,<br />
modern, fun, funky, sculpted, shaped, piled, painted or piped and reflect<br />
almost any colour and theme the confectioner can deliver!<br />
ON DISPLAY<br />
• Choose a table the same shape as the cake<br />
• Or feature a tea trolley, a barrel, bar<br />
leaner or wine table<br />
• Set it with linen that enhances the<br />
colour of the cake<br />
• Select an elegant knife and cake slice<br />
• Ensure the cake stands out against a<br />
plain background<br />
• For extra light decorate with mirror<br />
glass, fairy lights or candles<br />
ICED THEN SLICED<br />
• Fondant icing is sweet sugar/gelatine dough<br />
rolled like pastry as a smooth surface for<br />
further decoration<br />
• Ganache is a rich soft blend of chocolate<br />
and cream for topping or filling a<br />
dessert cake<br />
• Buttercream blends egg, cream and<br />
butter for piping and individual<br />
decorations<br />
• Marzipan is a paste of sugar and ground<br />
almonds for making decorations or a<br />
smooth layer for royal icing<br />
• Royal Icing is a smooth mix of egg white<br />
and icing sugar for piping and topping<br />
that hardens over time<br />
TOP IT OFF<br />
Toppers are the final decorations that provide the finishing touch<br />
Fresh flowers<br />
Artificial flowers<br />
Figurines<br />
Stars<br />
Flags<br />
Motifs<br />
Monograms<br />
Words & Names<br />
HANDY HINTS<br />
• Ask for a taste test<br />
• Order 3-5months ahead<br />
• Choose a reputable cake maker<br />
• Buttercream and ganache need to be kept cool<br />
• Square cakes serve more guests than round ones<br />
• Fruit cakes “keep” and can be made well in advance<br />
• Make a small tier gluten free if necessary for some guests<br />
• Dessert cakes need to be freshly made just before the wedding<br />
• More cake is needed to serve as dessert as slices are bigger than supper<br />
Make your cake as<br />
unique as you and your<br />
wedding day<br />
WHEN TO SERVE<br />
• Cut for photographs and<br />
serve later<br />
• Cut and serve with champagne<br />
between ceremony and reception<br />
• Serve as the dessert<br />
• Serve as one of the desserts<br />
• Serve at the end of the<br />
wedding meal<br />
• Serve late at supper with<br />
liqueurs, port or coffee<br />
Phone 021 664 815<br />
www.kate@katescakery.com | www.facebook.com/katescakerynz
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Food and drink have been synonymous<br />
with wedding celebrations for centuries, but<br />
putting on a feast can literally swallow up<br />
vast chunks of your budget.<br />
So, you can either start culling<br />
the numbers of guests or you can<br />
look at more frugal fare to feed<br />
your chosen number of guests.<br />
If it is possible to reduce the<br />
numbers then it is a first good<br />
option and a substantial saving as<br />
many menus cost up to $100 per<br />
head or more. Reduce your list<br />
by 10 people and there’s up to<br />
$1000 saved.<br />
But if having fewer guests<br />
is non negotiable, a buffet is a<br />
budget friendly option because<br />
you don’t have to pay for waiters<br />
at every table. A sit down menu<br />
has a set portion per person but<br />
a buffet is bulk prepared and<br />
therefore goes further among<br />
guests. Your budget can be<br />
stretched even further if your<br />
wedding reception avoids a<br />
costly dinner and opts instead<br />
for a late lunch, a high tea or<br />
a chic but short canapé and wine<br />
event.<br />
However, if you prefer a sit<br />
down meal, select a set menu that<br />
limits the number of choices per<br />
course which is both time and cost<br />
effective. Keep dishes simple but<br />
tasty. Omitting an expensive garnish<br />
can save dollars and a bowl of salad<br />
or vegetables shared between guests<br />
is more economical than individual<br />
side dishes.<br />
You may wish you could have<br />
luxury foods like lobster on the<br />
menu. You can, but if cost is the<br />
issue, offer it as a canapé or an<br />
entrée but not as a main course!<br />
Don’t over-cater and offer your<br />
guests a bewildering variety of<br />
nibbles when three or four would<br />
be adequate. Avoid overpriced<br />
items, when a similar cheaper<br />
brand is perfectly acceptable.<br />
Be savvy about seasonal fare<br />
because out of season fruit and<br />
vegetable items are often imported<br />
or hot house produced. Choose<br />
what’s local and what’s freshly<br />
available because it will save your<br />
cash and pass the taste test with<br />
your guests.<br />
Elaborate desserts<br />
absolutely EAT up your<br />
money. Have a wedding<br />
cake that doubles as<br />
a dessert and serve<br />
with a fresh fruit salad.<br />
Alternatively have a<br />
large tray of chocolate<br />
brownie or lemon<br />
slice that can be cut<br />
into fashionably small<br />
portions to have with<br />
the fruit and reserve<br />
your wedding cake for<br />
supper time. Wedding<br />
cakes are expensive so<br />
definitely don’t order a<br />
bigger wedding cake than<br />
you need for the number of<br />
guests.<br />
Reduce the number<br />
of beverages you provide<br />
to your guests and you<br />
will reduce your bar bills<br />
substantially. Individually<br />
prepared cocktails will<br />
seriously dent your<br />
dollars, but a “signature”<br />
cocktail punch can be<br />
served to all guests<br />
without breaking the<br />
bank.<br />
For the table, select<br />
reputable red and white<br />
wines that are moderately<br />
priced or available by the<br />
case on special. Reserve<br />
the champagne just for<br />
the toasts. If genuine<br />
champagne is beyond your<br />
budget, choose a good<br />
sparkling wine instead.<br />
Provide a popular brand of<br />
beer for guests who prefer<br />
ale to wine, have a nonalcoholic<br />
juice available and<br />
always provide plenty of<br />
water.
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& FLAVOURS<br />
Wedding favors<br />
aren't always<br />
necessary but they<br />
are a thoughtful way<br />
to thank your guests<br />
for sharing your<br />
wedding day<br />
with you.<br />
Wedding favours are small gifts<br />
given to wedding guests as a souvenir<br />
of the day, a gesture of appreciation<br />
for attending the wedding or as a token<br />
of good luck.<br />
The tradition is thought to have originated<br />
among European aristocrats who gave their guests<br />
“bonbonnieres” – small decorative trinket boxes made<br />
of crystal, porcelain or precious metals. Designed<br />
to hold “bonbons” or other confectionery, they<br />
were a show of wealth when sugar was an expensive<br />
commodity.<br />
In Europe small bags or boxes of 5 sugared<br />
almonds are still the most traditional confections<br />
for wedding favours and signify the 5 wishes of<br />
Health, Happiness, Longevity, Peace and Love.<br />
<strong>With</strong> different variations and interpretations<br />
the custom of giving wedding favours appears<br />
in many different cultures; candles in<br />
Russia, tiny bells in Ireland, shortbread in<br />
Scotland, a little hand crafted elephant<br />
for luck in India, a glass luck charm<br />
in Greece, Bridal sugar in the<br />
Netherlands and fortune cookies in<br />
China.<br />
In Europe the customary<br />
wedding favours remain small<br />
and chic, in North America<br />
the custom has tended to<br />
become lavish, while in New<br />
Zealand wedding favours are not<br />
obligatory and may be chocolates,<br />
flower seeds, photo cards of the<br />
couple or perhaps a flax flower.<br />
<strong>With</strong>out doubt, wedding favours<br />
will add dollars to your budget, so it’s<br />
your choice whether you give your guests<br />
a gift, or simply provide memorable food<br />
and drink at the reception or you simply send<br />
them a personal note of thanks afterwards.
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Understanding photography terminology<br />
can help the communication between<br />
you and your wedding photographer<br />
both on the day and when you receive<br />
your finished images.<br />
PORTRAITURE is a traditional style of wedding<br />
photography involving formal shots of the bridal<br />
party and group shots of the guests. These are<br />
often taken immediately after the ceremony and<br />
at the locations chosen by the couple and/or the<br />
photographer.<br />
CANDID SHOTS are informal images that<br />
document special moments of the wedding as they<br />
happen. Usually the photographer will aim to be<br />
unobtrusive and may use zoom lenses or vantage<br />
points.<br />
HIGH RESOLUTION refers to the quality of the<br />
image - the higher the “res” the clearer the detail<br />
for producing premium prints and enlargements.<br />
Images can be “cropped” or trimmed to improve<br />
the image and eliminate unnecessary background<br />
details.<br />
POST PRODUCTION refers to the work that<br />
the photographer does to produce high quality<br />
prints or improve the image by making digital<br />
alterations.
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Videography captures<br />
aspects of a wedding that<br />
still photography is unable to<br />
do; voices, music, sounds,<br />
speeches, movements,<br />
fleeting expressions and<br />
candid moments.<br />
The skill of the cameraman<br />
allows you to re-live your wedding<br />
day every time you look at the film.<br />
It’s not only a keepsake for you, but<br />
provides future generations with a<br />
unique record of family members,<br />
friends, fashions, food and the<br />
traditions of one of life’s greatest<br />
milestones.<br />
Digital technology has<br />
revolutionized photography and<br />
produces a memorable record in<br />
sophisticated cinematographic<br />
quality as well as digital animation,<br />
web streaming and video blogging.<br />
But a quality film requires quality<br />
disc, sound, lighting plus camera<br />
and editing equipment, so an<br />
experienced professional is required.<br />
Ask to see an example of the<br />
videographer’s work. Discuss what<br />
you would like filmed at your<br />
wedding, the format you require, the<br />
music you would like to accompany<br />
the film footage and confirm what<br />
the fee includes before making the<br />
booking.<br />
phoenix<br />
weddings<br />
Exclusive wedding<br />
photography by<br />
andy currie<br />
www.phoenixpdp.co.nz<br />
info@phoenixpdp.co.nz<br />
t: 03 343 6258
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Garry Walls is both a wedding<br />
photographer and a DJ! Not only<br />
does he specialise in stunning, high<br />
quality wedding images that capture<br />
the essence of your wonderful day,<br />
but he also provides a professional<br />
DJ service that can include music<br />
for your ceremony, reception and<br />
wedding dance.<br />
As a husband and wife team, Garry and<br />
Karyn work in Canterbury and beyond and pride<br />
themselves on producing uniquely personal<br />
wedding photographs you will treasure for a<br />
lifetime. “Selecting a wedding photographer is a<br />
decision that should not be rushed, so we believe<br />
it is essential to meet the photographer to ensure<br />
it is someone you can work with” say Garry and<br />
Karyn. They recommend you commission your<br />
photographer based on their photographic style,<br />
their personality and their price.<br />
Almost anyone can take a photograph, but to<br />
achieve the standard of photography a wedding<br />
deserves, you need someone who is “organised,<br />
professional and experienced, someone who<br />
listens to what the client wants and goes to great<br />
effort to achieve the photos on their wish list”<br />
says Garry, who has been a full time professional<br />
wedding photographer all his adult life.<br />
In his business he spends many hours creating<br />
special effects to produce images that are simply<br />
stunning. He provides the first images within 24<br />
hours of the wedding and also gives clients high<br />
resolution files so they can print large wall prints<br />
if they wish.<br />
He warns bridal couples against cheap<br />
photography deals from inexperienced people<br />
within New Zealand’s unregulated wedding<br />
photography industry and is often approached<br />
to “fix up” bad photos. “Obviously we can’t, the<br />
photography has to be right first time. It has been<br />
said a thousand times before that the wedding<br />
photos are one of the few things you get to keep<br />
from your special day. They need to be awesome”<br />
says Garry.<br />
In their award winning DJ service, Garry and<br />
Karyn use technology to the max! A miniature<br />
wireless microphone ensures the ceremony can<br />
be heard by all the guests, while their investment<br />
in mobile broadband allows any song request<br />
to be downloaded for the evening dance. Karyn<br />
plays music as guests arrive and professionally<br />
plays your music selection for the ceremony<br />
while Garry takes the photos. Background music<br />
is played during the reception and a microphone<br />
is supplied for speeches. The evening dance<br />
comes complete with lighting of course.<br />
For further information and inspiration phone<br />
03 313 8774 or visit www.garrywalls.co.nz
110 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Photo booths have become a hugely popular<br />
wedding venue accessory! As well as amusing and<br />
involving your guests, instant images spill out of the<br />
memory making machine to provide you with the<br />
ultimate candid camera moments.<br />
You can hire the booths which feature high tech<br />
digital cameras with colour and black and white options.<br />
Your photos are instantly available and also saved on to<br />
a digital device for you to keep, share or print.<br />
The photo booth invites your guests to<br />
be creative, informal and relaxed so<br />
you get spontaneous shots that are<br />
entirely unique and personal.<br />
For even more fun, provide a<br />
box of props such as;<br />
Novelty glasses<br />
Masks<br />
Wigs<br />
Sunnies<br />
Hats<br />
Scarves & boas<br />
Bling<br />
Backdrops<br />
A bicycle<br />
Musical instruments<br />
Sports clothing<br />
Sporting goods<br />
Furnishings<br />
Mirrors<br />
Plants<br />
Posters<br />
Themed clothing<br />
… Enjoy!<br />
the DEAR ONES PHOTOBOOTH CO.<br />
Call Free 0800 746 862<br />
www.classicphotobooths.co.nz<br />
Proud to be Canterbury owned and operated<br />
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make life long memories from the heartwarming<br />
to the hysterical with the dear ones in your life.<br />
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thedearonesphotobooth.com<br />
hello@thedearones.com<br />
Live Instagram Printer<br />
Vintage Photo Booth<br />
Mini Photo Booth<br />
VW Photo Booth
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“It is my belief that<br />
the best wedding<br />
photography is simple<br />
graceful and well seen”<br />
says Johannes Van Kan - wedding<br />
photographer.<br />
“It creates a beautiful emotional<br />
reflection of a moment, person, or<br />
place. <strong>This</strong> is what I want to give my<br />
brides and grooms. My job is to find<br />
stories and beauty in the people,<br />
details and relationships that I<br />
photograph.”<br />
Strong photography is not accidental<br />
and creativity is not something found in<br />
a Photoshop<br />
filter. Creativity starts before the image<br />
exists. For Johannes it starts with the<br />
first meeting.<br />
“My photography is about<br />
simple, strong, imagery that<br />
tells stories. Beautiful classic<br />
imagery is important to<br />
my story telling. <strong>This</strong> is my<br />
strength as a photographer<br />
and as an artist.”<br />
Johannes Van Kan<br />
www.jvk.co.nz<br />
027-229-9291
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Most wedding photographers shoot in colour and<br />
digitally convert some of the images into black and<br />
white using editing software. They can also convert<br />
black and white digital images back into colour,<br />
which black and white film was unable to do.<br />
BLACK & WHITE<br />
<strong>With</strong> the wonderful colour and<br />
digital image technology available,<br />
it’s often a surprise that people still<br />
love black and white photographs.<br />
But they provide exceptional detail,<br />
dramatic contrast between dark and<br />
light as well as subtle shades of grey<br />
and offer an ageless look that looks<br />
great for decades to come. Current<br />
interest in vintage and retro<br />
weddings has made black and white<br />
images even more popular and<br />
once framed, they make a timeless<br />
display that suits any décor.<br />
SEPIA IMAGES<br />
The red-brown tones of sepia<br />
images are usually associated with<br />
old photos but the technique<br />
has been popular for decades.<br />
Its return to popularity has now<br />
been aided by the development<br />
of sepia filters in digital cameras.<br />
The effect was achieved by<br />
photographic “toning” – a<br />
chemical process during<br />
printing, but today sepia images<br />
are effectively produced using<br />
digital filters or post-production<br />
photo-shop software programmes.<br />
SELECTIVE COLOUR<br />
Sometimes referred to as “spot<br />
colour”, this technique is an<br />
image editing technique where<br />
a colour photo is predominantly<br />
converted to black and white,<br />
but leaves an area of the photo<br />
or an item in colour. Selective<br />
colour is in popular usage for<br />
advertising but can produce<br />
eye catching wedding photos<br />
where flowers or a car remain<br />
in colour when everything else<br />
is black and white.<br />
SOFT FOCUS<br />
<strong>This</strong> film and photographic<br />
technique features a deliberate<br />
blurring of definition. It is used<br />
to create a dreamlike quality to<br />
the image and is understandably<br />
popular with bridal couples for<br />
their wedding photographs.<br />
Be guided by your<br />
professional wedding<br />
photographer on the style<br />
of photography they can<br />
produce for you and the costs<br />
associated with a variety of<br />
effects and techniques.<br />
Relaxed, Natural, Beautiful & Fun<br />
Specialising in breathtaking, timeless and authentic wedding photography<br />
“<br />
Wow!! Mandy<br />
really did manage to<br />
capture the real emotions,<br />
the real moments, the real<br />
laughter and all the love<br />
through out our day. That’s<br />
what makes her such an<br />
amazing photographer and<br />
our photos such a joy to<br />
share with our friends<br />
and family.<br />
To book or find out more please get in touch.<br />
Ph: 0225007008 • E: info@mandycaldwell.co.nz • www.mandycaldwell.co.nz<br />
”
SIGNATURE IMAGE<br />
Your favourite wedding<br />
day photo may be the<br />
one you choose as a<br />
single signature image to<br />
feature most prominently<br />
in your home. Wedding<br />
photography packages<br />
usually include a portrait<br />
sized image in gloss or<br />
matt finish that you can<br />
frame in the style of your<br />
choice or you may prefer<br />
to have your photograph<br />
converted to a canvas to<br />
hang on the wall.<br />
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Nothing personalises your home more than the photos<br />
and pictures you have on display, especially the images<br />
of your wedding. Whether you have small spaces or<br />
acres of walls waiting to be adorned, there are smart<br />
and creative ways to display the pictures that have<br />
captured the atmosphere of your special day.<br />
IN SERIES<br />
You could also choose a series of images<br />
to create a feature wall; in a row, up<br />
a stairway or in a cluster as a wall art<br />
feature. Depending on the size and number<br />
of photos you group together, decide<br />
whether the display requires symmetry and<br />
uniformity or will be more eye catching<br />
with an asymmetrical arrangement.<br />
SMALL DISPLAYS<br />
If you haven’t got much suitable<br />
wall space choose some photos<br />
to hang on a magnetic wire,<br />
create a wedding photo table or<br />
a picture shelf or make a collage<br />
of lots of different images to have<br />
printed and framed.<br />
GALLERY WALLS<br />
A gallery wall is a great way to<br />
show off your collection. Like<br />
creating an art folio, centre your<br />
gallery round your favourite photo<br />
or a large picture then fit your<br />
smaller frames around that. Some<br />
displays work best on a white wall,<br />
others need a bolder back drop if<br />
there is a lot of white in the photo.<br />
SELECTING PHOTO FRAMES<br />
Framing should be an integral part<br />
of the picture process because<br />
your choice can make or break<br />
the display. Frames need not<br />
be expensive, but they should<br />
complement the photos in colour,<br />
size and materials. Look for<br />
vintage style frames to enhance<br />
your vintage wedding images or<br />
modern simplicity for a more<br />
contemporary setting.<br />
COFFEE TABLE ALBUM<br />
A professional album may also be<br />
part of your wedding photography<br />
contract and usually contains<br />
a selection of images taken<br />
throughout the day. Alternatively<br />
you can create your own album on<br />
a computer to have inexpensively<br />
processed as a unique book to share<br />
with family and friends.<br />
DIGITAL FRAMES<br />
Digital technology has<br />
revolutionised photography and we<br />
now take hundreds of pictures on<br />
digital cameras, ipads and mobile<br />
phones. Your wedding photos will<br />
probably include hundreds of shots<br />
on a CD, so why not load them<br />
onto a digital picture frame you can<br />
view everyday as it scrolls through<br />
your special day.
114 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Your wedding photos are not<br />
just your personal record of<br />
the day. They also become<br />
an heirloom for generations<br />
to come, so no wonder you<br />
want perfect pics for your<br />
wall, album and archives.<br />
It’s good to know the type of photos you want so that you<br />
can choose a photographer whose style appeals to you. It<br />
is also important to communicate effectively with your<br />
photographer so that your ideas and theirs are compatible<br />
and achievable. You are paying so you are allowed to a<br />
little bit picky, but the photographer is also the expert so<br />
they are also allowed to guide you without “pique”!<br />
POINTS TO BE PICKY ABOUT<br />
• If you have a budget to adhere to,<br />
don’t pick a novice photographer whose<br />
inexperience you might regret. Instead,<br />
choose an experienced professional but<br />
engage them for a shorter period of time.<br />
You’ll get fewer photos but you will get<br />
quality images.<br />
• As well as discussing picturesque generic<br />
locations, suggest the photo locations that<br />
are especially personal to you so that your<br />
images are meaningful to you and your<br />
families.<br />
• Invite your photographer to the<br />
rehearsal if you wish, so that any particular<br />
ceremony images can be confirmed.<br />
• Liaise with your photographer about the<br />
photo schedule with details about who,<br />
when, where and what is required. Then<br />
make sure you are organised and punctual.<br />
• The “signature” image of your wedding<br />
is usually the two of you. So ensure you<br />
have a selection of “couple only” shots to<br />
consider for the image you want to frame<br />
and keep forever.<br />
• Provide a “shot” list for the photographer<br />
to ensure all your guests will be included<br />
in the wedding photos and no one will be<br />
missed out or hidden from view.<br />
• Most photographers appreciate suggested<br />
groupings of friends or relatives and special<br />
guests, but a good photographer will also<br />
be looking out for spontaneous moments<br />
too.<br />
• If you like the idea of special effects like<br />
rice, confetti, rose petals or water from a<br />
fountain or the use of props, discuss them<br />
first. While they may look candid to you,<br />
the shot may need to be set up especially<br />
for light, location or lenses.<br />
• Try not to take charge of the pic<br />
proceedings. By all means ask for a shot if a<br />
spontaneous idea occurs to you, but let the<br />
man/woman behind the shutter do their<br />
job. They see the whole scene and usually<br />
know what works.<br />
• Don’t let guests muscle in on the<br />
photographer’s shots. It’s their gig and<br />
you have paid for their expertise. Having<br />
a guest sidle up and take a similar shot is<br />
very annoying and discourteous.
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Once upon a time brides arrived at the<br />
wedding in a carriage and the happy<br />
couple departed by coach or carriage after<br />
the celebrations.<br />
Today, a carriage is much harder to find, so if a<br />
romantic wedding conjures up horse and carriage<br />
transport, you will need to do your research and find an<br />
experienced horse and handler close to the location of<br />
the wedding.<br />
Like motor vehicles, there were a number of<br />
carriage models that found their way to New Zealand in<br />
the days of early settlement. Our terrain and the need<br />
for practical transport meant carriages, except for the<br />
wealthy, were often multi purpose vehicles for town and<br />
country.<br />
ONE HORSE CARRIAGES<br />
Buggies or Gigs featured two or four<br />
large wheels pulled by one horse.<br />
Able to seat two people the buggy<br />
was the most common vehicle in the<br />
country and popular with women<br />
who only had to manage a single<br />
horse.<br />
OR<br />
The Surrey was a 4 wheeled carriage<br />
beneath a sunshade roof which like<br />
the popular Victorian song has “a<br />
fringe on the top.” Drawn by one<br />
horse, the Surrey can carry two<br />
passengers.<br />
TWO HORSE CARRIAGES<br />
Phaetons and Landaus were elegant 4<br />
wheeled carriages drawn by a pair of<br />
horses. They were low to the ground<br />
and easily stepped into by ladies in long<br />
gowns. Being open-topped and able<br />
to seat four people they were popular<br />
summer vehicles, although the Landau<br />
featured a folding hood to cover the<br />
passengers in bad weather.<br />
OR<br />
Waggons were the horse drawn<br />
equivalent of today’s SUV! Ideal as<br />
a heavy duty unembellished country<br />
vehicle pulled by 2 horses, the bench<br />
seat could accommodate the driver and<br />
a couple of passengers, with a large<br />
back tray for hay, animals, wood, goods<br />
or children!<br />
MORE HORSE CARRIAGES<br />
Stage Coaches were introduced for<br />
regular routes and long distance travel.<br />
The large closed carriage was pulled<br />
by team of 2 to 4 pairs of horses. The<br />
stage coach could accommodate 4 to<br />
6 passengers inside and up to 6 more<br />
seated on the roof, while luggage was<br />
carried on sack covered racks at the<br />
rear of the carriage.<br />
CEDRIC WEBER / SHUTTERSTOCK.COM<br />
For further information visit<br />
the websites of the following<br />
Canterbury businesses:<br />
www.taitapucarriageco.co.nz<br />
www.horseandcarriagehire.co.nz<br />
www.hirethings.co.nz
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The theme, style or<br />
atmosphere of a wedding<br />
is often reflected in<br />
the mode of transport<br />
chosen for the bride’s<br />
arrival and sometimes<br />
the couple’s departure<br />
from the reception. You<br />
might want to make your<br />
entrance or exit in unique<br />
style, but it is wise to check<br />
out both availability and<br />
practicality when making<br />
your choice of wedding<br />
vehicle.<br />
CLASSICALLY VINTAGE<br />
Vintage and classic cars can<br />
sometimes be hired from<br />
dedicated wedding transport<br />
companies. Alternatively you<br />
can contact local car clubs and<br />
enthusiasts who are often asked to<br />
source vehicles and drivers among<br />
their members. You may also know<br />
someone with a restored vehicle<br />
who would drive it for your<br />
wedding transport.<br />
LAST WORD IN LUXURY<br />
Luxury vehicles like a Rolls Royce or “limo” provide<br />
the bridal couple with “once in a lifetime” grandeur. A<br />
bride’s gown, train and veil are less likely to be creased<br />
in a spacious limousine and there are the additional<br />
facilities of bar, privacy screen, sound systems and tinted<br />
windows for your comfort and relaxation on the big day.<br />
RENT-A CAR<br />
Rental car and taxi companies are usually able to<br />
provide matching vehicles as well as the services<br />
of a chauffeur for the occasion if required. They<br />
often have a selection of decorations and ribbons<br />
that suit the colour and theme of the wedding.<br />
Canterbury Kombi Chauffeur<br />
The Coolest Kombi in Canterbury<br />
Looking to arrive in style on your wedding day then Bazil is the perfect wedding car.<br />
www.canterbury-kombi-chauffeur.co.nz Phone 027208<strong>05</strong>75
FRIENDS AND NEIGHBOURS<br />
Your guests may own late model cars that<br />
you could use for the wedding, or you<br />
could hire identical vehicles from a rental<br />
car company and find reliable drivers<br />
among family, friends or neighbours.<br />
ON THE HOOF<br />
There’s something special about arriving<br />
at the wedding by horse and carriage.<br />
Look for local listings and ensure you will<br />
have experienced drivers and horses with<br />
a friendly, unflappable temperament.<br />
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PAYING YOUR WAY<br />
Wedding transport is generally booked for<br />
the estimated time and number of vehicles<br />
required to take the bridesmaids and the<br />
bride and her father to the ceremony, the<br />
bride and groom from the ceremony to the<br />
location for photographs and from there to<br />
the reception venue. Arrangements other<br />
than this can usually be accommodated if they<br />
are discussed with the company concerned<br />
and a written estimate is provided for your<br />
additional requirements. But whatever type<br />
of transport you choose, you will still want<br />
comfort, punctuality and reliability.<br />
TRAINS AND BOATS AND<br />
PLANES Arriving by air or sea is a<br />
spectacular way to make a wedding<br />
entrance. Hot air balloon, chopper,<br />
plane or launch may be possible<br />
options, if you are prepared for<br />
the cost and logistics. But in New<br />
Zealand there are fewer and fewer<br />
train options unless you hold your<br />
wedding in a Heritage Park.<br />
COOL AND CREATIVE<br />
You may plan to be<br />
unconventional and arrive by<br />
truck, motorbike, Kombi,<br />
Hummer, double decker bus,<br />
rickshaw or sedan chair. Perhaps,<br />
in European tradition, you’ll<br />
walk to the wedding so that local<br />
residents can wish you luck!<br />
LUXURY LIMOUSINE HIRE<br />
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vehicles with one phone call<br />
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Available 24-hours (0800-546-684)<br />
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www.airparklimos.co.nz<br />
PH: (03) 355 6159 | www.chchcoachcharters.co.nz<br />
Going the Extra Mile<br />
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both dressed and undressed<br />
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Queenstown and Dunedin Our<br />
drivers who have been trained<br />
in bridal work, take great<br />
pleasure in providing a reliable,<br />
professional and fun service<br />
for the bridal party.<br />
Whether it be calming the<br />
nerves of the bride or assisting<br />
with both planned and<br />
unplanned last minute events<br />
we do it with a smile and<br />
considerable pride.<br />
Our extensive fleet enables us<br />
to supply multiple matching<br />
vehicles so no matter how<br />
many you need we will be able<br />
to help.<br />
Contact gerard@corporatecabs.co.nz<br />
or phone 03 379-6162 for further details.
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Finding readings or blessings to include at your ceremony<br />
often means searching the work of poets, philosophers,<br />
authors and song writers for something appropriate. Because<br />
many weddings are now secular, the bible is frequently<br />
overlooked as a source of meaningful words like this verse<br />
from the Book of Corinthians.<br />
If you are writing your vows or making<br />
a speech, this anonymous poem may<br />
have meaning for you:<br />
Love is patient, love is kind.<br />
It does not envy, it does not<br />
boast, it is not proud.<br />
It does not dishonour others,<br />
it is not self-seeking<br />
It is not easily angered, it<br />
keeps no record of wrongs.<br />
Love does not delight in evil,<br />
but rejoices with the truth.<br />
It always protects, always<br />
trusts, always hopes, always<br />
perseveres.<br />
1 Corinthians 13:4-8<br />
I cannot promise you a lifetime<br />
of only sunshine<br />
I cannot promise you riches,<br />
wealth or gold,<br />
I cannot promise you an easy path<br />
That leads away from change<br />
or growing old,<br />
But I can promise you my devotion<br />
A smile to chase away your sorrow<br />
A love that’s true and ever growing<br />
A hand to hold through each<br />
tomorrow<br />
Song lyrics don’t have to be sung. They can also be<br />
spoken and often carry more meaning because the<br />
words are heard more clearly.<br />
Walk through this world with me<br />
Go where I go<br />
Share all my dreams with me<br />
I need you so<br />
In life we search and<br />
some of us find<br />
I’ve looked for you for a<br />
long long time<br />
And now I’ve found you<br />
New horizons I see<br />
Come take my hand and walk<br />
this world with me<br />
You are my husband<br />
I am your wife,<br />
My legs shall run because of you<br />
My feet shall dance because of you<br />
My heart shall beat because of you<br />
My mind thinks because of you<br />
And I shall love because of you<br />
Or you<br />
may look to<br />
another culture for<br />
words that say how you feel,<br />
like this Inuit Love Song.
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Any wedding celebrates the<br />
establishment of a new couple and<br />
brings their extended families together. If<br />
the wedding is a second or subsequent<br />
marriage for either the bride or the<br />
groom, or both, there may be children<br />
who will become part of a “blended”<br />
family. Celebrate your new unity and<br />
family entity by incorporating a special<br />
custom at your ceremony.<br />
• Light a candle of<br />
unity together<br />
• Plant a tree or<br />
commemorative rose<br />
• Combine coloured sands<br />
into a glass bowl in layers<br />
• Create a new family<br />
motto to live your life by<br />
• Include the children as<br />
your attendants<br />
• Let them choose or perform<br />
a reading, song or music<br />
• Give a special individual<br />
gift to each child<br />
• Blend coloured water into<br />
a new shade such as<br />
red+blue = purple<br />
• Have a fun family photo<br />
shoot together<br />
• Ask an older child to make a<br />
speech on behalf of them all
120 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> Inviting guests to<br />
your wedding usually<br />
generates plenty of<br />
excitement and gives<br />
everyone a first hint of<br />
the style and theme<br />
you have chosen. Many<br />
wedding dates are set<br />
months, even a year to<br />
18months in advance, so<br />
“save the date” stationery<br />
has become a new<br />
pre-invitation phase of<br />
announcing the event.<br />
CONTEMPORARY<br />
The digital age is part of everyday life for most modern couples, so chances<br />
are they, or their stationery designer will be using it to plan their wedding and<br />
invite their tech-savvy friends. There are no etiquette rules for style, words or<br />
format, so the invitation may be as formal or colloquial as you desire. It may<br />
also be creative and interactive.<br />
ELECTRONIC<br />
Some couples will choose to go completely online with website information,<br />
paper-less invitations and RSVP’s by email, saving both time and money on<br />
print and post.<br />
BUT for those older guests who may not be familiar with apps and social<br />
media, create a few conventional invitations to send to them.<br />
OTHER ALTERNATIVES<br />
• For a vintage wedding, order a custom-made stamp for use on your<br />
cards or paper.<br />
• Press flowers for an eco- designed invitation on recycled paper.<br />
• Use the exceptional selection of scrapbooking products to decorate and<br />
personalise your stationery or choose the range of pretty scrapbooking<br />
papers and coordinating cards.<br />
Depending on your<br />
requirements and your<br />
budget, your stationery may<br />
include a range of products:<br />
• Save the Date Cards<br />
• Wedding Invitation & RSVP<br />
• Hens or Bucks Night Notification<br />
• Bridal Shower Invitations<br />
• Order of Service<br />
• Reception Place Cards<br />
• Thank You Cards<br />
There are many options<br />
available for creating memorable<br />
stationery whether they are<br />
traditional or contemporary or<br />
electronic.<br />
These days, anything on paper<br />
is considered traditional, but<br />
while technology has taken over<br />
much of the modern world,<br />
curiously there’s never been<br />
a greater selection of decorative<br />
stationery! Allow several<br />
months to choose your design<br />
and ensure the invitations are<br />
printed and available to send to<br />
your guests 6 weeks before the<br />
big day.<br />
Invitations are available<br />
from specialist designers,<br />
stationers, department stores,<br />
craft outlets, card shops, bridal<br />
boutiques, printers, artists and<br />
on the internet. Depending on<br />
your budget you can have your<br />
wedding stationery completely<br />
custom designed, printed onto<br />
pre-purchased cards or created<br />
from templates online.<br />
There is a stunning variety of<br />
paper products in many shades,<br />
grades and textures plus overlays,<br />
inserts and embellishments<br />
to customise your selection.<br />
Most ready-made invitations<br />
come with matching envelopes,<br />
while custom-designs may<br />
require special envelopes. Your<br />
invitations can be almost any size<br />
and shape, flat, scrolled or an<br />
open card style, but remember<br />
that it may cost more to post<br />
envelopes that are non-standard<br />
in format.<br />
For small numbers of invitations<br />
the most cost-effective<br />
method is digital printing.<br />
Letterpress printing is popular<br />
again, as well as foil-stamping<br />
which provides a metallic finish.<br />
Choose your font size and style<br />
carefully so that it is easily read<br />
and looks attractive.<br />
Invitations are usually sent<br />
by the hosts of the wedding –<br />
traditionally the bride’s parents.<br />
Proof read your stationery<br />
samples before going to print.<br />
Ensure all details are correct<br />
– names, spelling, date, time,<br />
location, dress code and how to<br />
RSVP!<br />
Order a few extra invitations<br />
as spares in case of last minute<br />
changes or mistakes and if you<br />
want additional stationery such<br />
as order of service, place cards,<br />
RSVP’s or thank you cards,<br />
order them all at the same time<br />
to avoid delays or extra costs.
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Flowers are the<br />
ultimate bridal<br />
accessory combining<br />
visual impact with<br />
fragrance and<br />
romance. But even<br />
the simplest bouquet<br />
needs to be chosen<br />
with care and created<br />
with skill so that it<br />
complements your<br />
gown, stands out in<br />
the photos and reflects<br />
your taste whether<br />
traditional, classic, bold<br />
or innovative.<br />
Consider the style of your<br />
gown when you are choosing<br />
the shape of your bouquet.<br />
The popularity of particular flowers<br />
depends on fashions and seasons and the<br />
vast variety of blooms, colours and effects<br />
means every bouquet is individual. However<br />
there are five main shapes that florists use to<br />
develop bouquet arrangements.<br />
THE POSY is traditionally round in shape and<br />
uses flowers of equal size to maintain the shape.<br />
Alternatively modern posies feature flowers<br />
grouped in a structured bunched effect. The original<br />
posies contained sweet smelling flowers and herbs<br />
to ward off germs and diseases! Modern posies can<br />
be made small enough for a little flower girl and<br />
are ideal for shorter stemmed spring flowers and<br />
popular miniature roses.<br />
THE TEARDROP bouquet is a floral classic.<br />
Essentially a posy at the top, the addition of a trail<br />
replicates the teardrop shape. A variety of flowers<br />
and greenery can be used, with blooms being wired<br />
to hold them in place. Teardrops can be large or<br />
small to suit the individual bride and the style of her<br />
gown and a combination of different flowers and<br />
colours can be used effectively.<br />
THE SHEAF or arm spray uses long stemmed<br />
blooms bound together with ribbon or natural<br />
fibres like flax or greenery. Held along the<br />
forearm or hanging downwards from the hand,<br />
roses, lilies, gladioli, gerberas and orchids are<br />
popular flowers for a sheaf arrangement.<br />
THE HAND TIED bouquet with a “just picked”<br />
look is extremely popular for both modern and<br />
vintage weddings. The flowers are not wired<br />
and look natural, the stems are visible and the<br />
gathered flowers are loosely tied with ribbon.<br />
Popular versions include roses, peonies, sweet peas,<br />
freesias and ranunculas.<br />
Lynette Brass<br />
Ph 960 1362 • M 021 206 5446<br />
Bookings by appointment<br />
christchurchweddingflowers.nz<br />
Mobile silk and fresh flower styling<br />
Mobile silk and fresh flower styling<br />
Mobile silk and fresh flower styling<br />
Ph: 374 2566 or 027 320 06<strong>05</strong> Artistic Flowers - Christchurch<br />
Ph: 374 2566 or 027 320 06<strong>05</strong> • www.artisticflowers.nz<br />
Artistic Makeup & Hair Services: 03 347- 2566<br />
Ph: 374 2566 or 027 320 06<strong>05</strong> • www.artisticflowers.nz
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Since opening a retail<br />
store last year, Charmed<br />
Flowers has become<br />
known for its beautiful<br />
flowers that are just a little<br />
bit different.<br />
“Local businesses in the area<br />
have become great fans, they simply<br />
love our style and service” says<br />
owner Ginny Fagan.<br />
As a full service florist providing<br />
flowers for everyday occasions,<br />
funerals and weddings, Charmed<br />
Flowers can also offer exquisite<br />
styling and floral props for your<br />
wedding venue too.<br />
“People sometimes don’t know<br />
what can be done with flowers so I<br />
like to find out what couples<br />
envisage for their day and create<br />
the look and feel of it through the<br />
flowers” says Ginny.<br />
While every wedding is<br />
uniquely different, people often<br />
recognise Ginny’s personal style<br />
of floristry which is quite natural,<br />
rustic and unstructured. “I love big<br />
blooms like peony roses, dahlias<br />
and hydrangeas and enjoy sourcing<br />
items like hop vines to provide a<br />
less conventional background” she<br />
says.<br />
Florists are often called upon<br />
to replicate overseas trends and<br />
currently wedding styles include<br />
long lush table garlands, big, loose<br />
hand tied bouquets, floral crowns<br />
and hanging<br />
floral installations.<br />
We can do almost anything that<br />
bridal couples want, but they often<br />
don’t realise the cost and time<br />
involved for elaborate floral effects.<br />
We often suggest combining fresh<br />
flowers with our hire range of<br />
beautiful silk floral props to make it<br />
more affordable” says Ginny. “A big<br />
trend coming through this wedding<br />
season is foliage and lots of it. The<br />
effect is informal but so pretty,<br />
it’s very natural and lush which is<br />
why I think it appeals to so many<br />
couples.”<br />
The Charmed Flowers team<br />
provides free consultations and<br />
meets<br />
with most couples before the<br />
wedding to discuss their<br />
preferences, colours and<br />
requirements. An itemised quote is<br />
then emailed out and once accepted,<br />
the florist will then “touch base” 6-8<br />
weeks before the wedding and then<br />
again 1-2 weeks before to finalise all<br />
the details.<br />
The experienced staff at<br />
Charmed Flowers can provide a<br />
complete package including the<br />
floral styling of your wedding venue<br />
or they can source wholesale flowers<br />
through their sister company Stems<br />
Wholesale Flowers if couples want<br />
to DIY their floral decorations.
Beautiful Wedding Fowers<br />
& Floral Styling<br />
What can I say, you truly<br />
made my dreams come<br />
true! The flowers were<br />
always going to be a big<br />
part of our wedding day<br />
so we chose our Florist<br />
carefully. I am soooo<br />
glad we chose Charmed<br />
Flowers Ginny, my<br />
bouquet was absolutely<br />
stunning and the venue<br />
looked better than I could<br />
have imagined, you are<br />
so truly talented and<br />
obviously love what you<br />
do, we thank you from the<br />
bottom of our hearts.<br />
Genna & Jas, Jan <strong>2016</strong><br />
Call the experts 03 348 8386<br />
Andy Brown,<br />
Ladybug Photography,<br />
Peanut Productions & Lovelight.<br />
www.charmedflowers.co.nz<br />
7 O’Shanessey Place, Addington<br />
Opposite Tower Junction
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Your ceremony is the heart of the wedding and<br />
the reason for it. What, how and where you say<br />
your vows should be the most meaningful aspect<br />
of the day whether you choose a religious or<br />
secular marriage service.<br />
A RELIGIOUS<br />
CEREMONY<br />
Takes place in a house<br />
of worship according to<br />
the religious beliefs of<br />
the couple. They may<br />
be members of the local<br />
congregation or marrying<br />
in a different location.<br />
The ceremony is usually<br />
structured to include<br />
traditions and customs of<br />
their faith.<br />
AN INTER-<br />
DENOMINATIONAL<br />
WEDDING<br />
May be held in an “all<br />
faiths” chapel with the<br />
minister or celebrant<br />
of your choice and include religious and non<br />
religious traditions and blessings.<br />
A CIVIL CEREMONY<br />
Generally takes place at a registry office, town hall<br />
or embassy. It is non religious, is officiated by a<br />
Registrar of Births Deaths and Marriages, or Judge<br />
or a Justice of the Peace and includes a simple<br />
exchange of vows with a minimum of 2 witnesses.<br />
A SECULAR<br />
WEDDING<br />
Is non religious and<br />
usually conducted by<br />
a registered marriage<br />
celebrant. The venue<br />
may be formal or<br />
informal, indoors or<br />
out, large or small. The<br />
couple are free to adhere<br />
to traditional formalities<br />
or customise their<br />
wedding as informally as<br />
they wish.<br />
SAME SEX<br />
CEREMONY<br />
<strong>This</strong> may range from a<br />
commitment ceremony<br />
or civil union to a<br />
wedding service depending on the law of the<br />
location where it is held. If same sex marriage is<br />
legalised and accepted by the church the couple<br />
may have a religious wedding, or opt for a secular<br />
ceremony.<br />
A MILITARY WEDDING<br />
Contains many formalities and traditions and<br />
includes the wearing of a full dress uniform<br />
for enlisted members of the wedding party.<br />
The couple may be married by an armed forces<br />
chaplain, or participate in a civil ceremony, but<br />
rituals usually include a special salute from guests<br />
who are also enlisted personnel.<br />
ELOPEMENTS<br />
May be a carefully planned getaway wedding, or a spontaneous<br />
ceremony once the couple reaches their destination. The marriage<br />
usually takes place with few guests or none at all. In the past<br />
Gretna Green in Scotland was popular for elopements<br />
because you could marry at 16 there without the<br />
parental permission required in England!<br />
DOUBLE WEDDINGS<br />
Are quite rare because most couples want their own<br />
celebration, but for siblings or close friends who would<br />
be inviting many of the same guests, a double wedding<br />
can be fun and financially sensible. Couples can share<br />
the ceremony or have individual rituals and celebrants<br />
followed by a shared reception.<br />
DESTINATION WEDDINGS<br />
These are exceptionally popular and usually include<br />
all inclusive wedding and honeymoon packages for the<br />
couple and a holiday for their guests. Often held in in<br />
picturesque locations in the same<br />
country or overseas, the number<br />
of guests is usually quite small<br />
due to cost and travel time, but<br />
allows an intimate wedding with<br />
close family and friends.<br />
OVERSEAS WEDDING<br />
Held in an overseas destination,<br />
couples need to comply with<br />
all legal requirements for<br />
marriage in that country. It may<br />
include a period of pre-wedding<br />
residency, a civil and a religious<br />
ceremony, extra paperwork<br />
and the services of a dedicated<br />
planner if there’s a language<br />
barrier.<br />
PROXY WEDDING<br />
A marriage “by proxy” is where one or both of the<br />
individuals being united in marriage are not present at the<br />
ceremony and are represented by another person. While<br />
this is rare, it usually relates to situations of military service,<br />
imprisonment, travel or visa restrictions or when the couple<br />
lives in a jurisdiction in which they cannot legally marry. In<br />
wartime proxy marriages are more common and in New<br />
Zealand, marriage by proxy is only permitted when one<br />
party is on active military service and cannot return to New<br />
Zealand.<br />
A SHIPBOARD<br />
CEREMONY<br />
These occurred more<br />
frequently when long<br />
journeys were by<br />
ship not aeroplane,<br />
but the popularity of<br />
cruise travel has seen<br />
increased interest in<br />
shipboard wedding. The<br />
ceremony is conducted<br />
in port by the ship<br />
chaplain or a celebrant<br />
who comes on board to<br />
officiate. Most couples<br />
continue afterwards on<br />
a honeymoon cruise.
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Finding the right celebrant to conduct<br />
your wedding is not always easy. If you<br />
are not planning a church wedding<br />
where the local minister will preside,<br />
you will need to engage a registered<br />
celebrant.<br />
A marriage celebrant is registered by the Dept<br />
Internal Affairs Births Deaths and Marriages to<br />
legally conduct wedding ceremonies.<br />
To find out about those in your area or the<br />
location where the wedding will take place,<br />
visit www.celebranz.org.nz<br />
Most celebrants like to meet the couple two or<br />
three times before the wedding to go through the<br />
ceremony and the vows they will make. Often<br />
they will be able to suggest appropriate readings,<br />
music or order of service if you are unsure about<br />
some details.<br />
Choose two or three celebrants to contact<br />
and discuss your wedding plans with them. Your<br />
wedding is very personal, but from their responses<br />
you will be able to decide who you feel most at<br />
ease with.<br />
Male or female, ensure their style and demeanour<br />
best “fits” with your plans before confirming<br />
they are available for the date, time<br />
and location you have set. Expect fees of up<br />
to $500 for their services on the day.<br />
Ensuring you have the<br />
Wedding Day you desire<br />
Tricia WarWick-Naziris<br />
Marriage Celebrant<br />
Creating with you<br />
a personal service<br />
to reflect your love<br />
Julie Lassen Marriage Celebrant<br />
Phone 337 8108 or 027 278 2248<br />
julieL79@gmail.com<br />
Facebook -<br />
Julie Lassen Celebrant<br />
www.nzmarriages.co.nz<br />
021 143 9488<br />
triciaandathawn@hotmail.com<br />
WWW.TriciaWarWick-NaziriscelebraNT.co.Nz
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“The Department of Internal<br />
Affairs helps people when<br />
they are making plans for a<br />
very significant event in their<br />
life. Whether they’re getting<br />
married, recognising the<br />
birth of their child, or dealing<br />
with the death of family or<br />
friends, Births Deaths and<br />
Marriages has an important<br />
role to play.”<br />
As New Zealand’s Registrar-<br />
General of Births, Deaths<br />
and Marriages (BDM), Jeff<br />
Montgomery is responsible for<br />
registering all births (including<br />
stillbirths), deaths, marriages,<br />
civil unions and name changes in<br />
New Zealand. His team issue over<br />
350,000 certificates, print outs and<br />
marriage licences each year.<br />
“We’ve now made it easier<br />
for New Zealanders to find BDM<br />
information, and – I hope – make it<br />
easier for you too.” Births, Deaths<br />
and Marriages information has<br />
moved to Govt.nz. Govt.nz brings<br />
together government information<br />
in one place and uses language and<br />
design that is easy for customers to<br />
find and understand.<br />
“The information has been<br />
rewritten in plain English and<br />
presented in a way that makes sense<br />
to our customers – focussing on a<br />
particular product or service.”<br />
Now the material is live, you<br />
will find everything you need to<br />
know on Govt.nz. We encourage<br />
you to let people know if you know<br />
of someone getting married.<br />
We hope you find the new<br />
content easy to use and we’d love<br />
to hear your feedback about how<br />
you find using the information<br />
govt.nz@dia.govt.nz<br />
BY: Jeff Montgomery, New<br />
Zealand’s Registrar-General of<br />
Births, Deaths and Marriages<br />
Independent/Civil Union Celebrant<br />
Tania’s passion, creativity, knowledge and<br />
experience allows her to create, in partnership<br />
with her couple, ‘Authentic Bespoke<br />
Ceremonies’ blending both the Traditional<br />
and Contemporary. Specializing in “Outside<br />
of the Box” Ceremonies!<br />
Encapsulating the ‘true essence’ of that<br />
couple. Creating everlasting memories, with<br />
love, light and laughter, using words with soul.<br />
Tania Johnson-Scott<br />
Independent/Civil Union Celebrant<br />
E: tania@taniajohnsonscott.co.nz | W: www.taniajohnsonscottcelebrant<br />
F: www.facebook.com/TaniaJohnsonScottCelebrant<br />
Chalk It Up<br />
Celebrations, Corporate Events<br />
and Experience Management<br />
Chalk It Up is about creating, facilitating and managing<br />
memorable experiences for your special event<br />
while delivering optimal client satisfaction.<br />
Tess Jolly, experience designer<br />
027 257 5550 |info@chalkitup.co.nz |www.chalkitup.co.nz<br />
Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding,<br />
together we will make it unique<br />
P 03 342 3<strong>05</strong>5 M 0274 948 638 E beth@weddingcelebrantchristchurch.co.nz<br />
Marriage, Civil Unions, Blessings<br />
Cheryl Gianelly<br />
Celebrant<br />
I help to create a<br />
ceremony that reflects your<br />
personalities and life together<br />
P: 021 412 181<br />
E: cheryl@<br />
cherished.net.nz<br />
combines your hopes<br />
and your dreams for<br />
your future together.
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Ceremony<br />
While wedding ceremonies have to<br />
incorporate certain legalities, there are many<br />
ways to make yours uniquely personal and<br />
movingly memorable.<br />
YOUR VOWS<br />
When planning your ceremony, your celebrant can<br />
provide advice and suggestions for the vows you will<br />
make whether you choose traditional wording or more<br />
contemporary expressions. Some religious ceremonies<br />
require you to choose from a selection of relevant<br />
readings approved by the church.<br />
WORDS OF YOUR OWN<br />
If you decide to write your own vows search books,<br />
poems, prayers and song lyrics for inspiration or turn<br />
to the internet for examples of wedding vows. Don’t be<br />
afraid to inject a little humour if it suits your style. One<br />
bride promised “not to expect holidays at any time<br />
during the rugby season.”<br />
PLEDGES OF TRUTH<br />
Reciting an odd number of pledges before the wedding<br />
vows was an ancient tradition before the formalisation<br />
of wedding ceremonies. Today pledges such as truth,<br />
honesty, faithfulness, courage, patience and compassion<br />
are often included in the vows.<br />
A CANDLELIT<br />
CEREMONY<br />
You can marry at any time<br />
of the day, but the romance<br />
of candlelight provides<br />
special ambience. The bridal<br />
party can carry candles or<br />
lanterns, guests can light<br />
candles during the ceremony<br />
and the couple can light a<br />
single candle to signify their<br />
joint life together. If there<br />
is a pool or lake nearby,<br />
floating candles make a<br />
magical effect.<br />
BREAK WITH TRADITION<br />
It has been the custom for a father to<br />
walk his daughter down the aisle, but<br />
many brides break the tradition by<br />
asking both parents to escort her to<br />
the altar. It is also traditional for the<br />
chief bridesmaid and best man to sign<br />
the register as witnesses, but asking<br />
both mothers to be signatories is also<br />
a nice touch.<br />
LOVE AND LUCK<br />
It has been the customs for generations<br />
to celebrate the marriage by showering<br />
the couple with rice, confetti or rose<br />
petals to signify love and good luck.<br />
Modern weddings are often marked<br />
with the release of doves to symbolise<br />
a journey or balloons for good luck.<br />
INSCRIPTIONS<br />
Inscribe your weddings rings<br />
with the date of the wedding<br />
or inspirational words, have<br />
your cake knife inscribed<br />
as a keepsake or share your<br />
first toast together with<br />
commemorative champagne<br />
flutes or goblets.
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Every wedding is unique<br />
and should be followed<br />
by a honeymoon that is<br />
everything you dreamed it<br />
would be.<br />
However, with all the delightful<br />
destinations on offer, “making<br />
your plans with the help of travel<br />
experts should be the first step to<br />
ensuring your honeymoon ticks all<br />
of your boxes” says Liz Ditmer of<br />
Helloworld.<br />
She advises every couple to start<br />
planning their honeymoon as early<br />
as possible. “Couples will often<br />
plan every detail of their wedding a<br />
year or more in advance, but miss<br />
out on opportunities for top deals<br />
and availability of their preferred<br />
honeymoon destination by leaving<br />
their plans too late.”<br />
To help your travel professional<br />
create your perfect trip decide<br />
on the budget and the style of<br />
honeymoon that appeals to you<br />
both. Are you looking for total<br />
relaxation by a pool or on a cruise,<br />
do you prefer an adventure, a<br />
cultural experience or an exotic<br />
destination you have always wanted<br />
to visit? Don’t assume you both<br />
want the same! If you don’t, plan<br />
a “mix and match” holiday that<br />
combines both adventure and lazing<br />
at leisure.<br />
Your honeymoon may be one<br />
of the largest single expenses after<br />
you have financed the wedding.<br />
So don’t let your honeymoon be<br />
a budgeting after- thought. Ideally<br />
set up a special savings account and<br />
make regular contributions to your<br />
honeymoon funds. Have a clear<br />
idea of what you can afford but if<br />
the budget is tight, think about a<br />
bridal registry with your local travel<br />
expert. “The money contributed can<br />
be used towards your honeymoon<br />
travel expenses and is a convenient<br />
and easy gift idea for your wedding<br />
guests” says Liz.<br />
Decide how much time you<br />
want to be away and how far you<br />
are willing to travel to reach the<br />
destination that inspires you. You<br />
won’t want to spend half your<br />
honeymoon on a plane, so choose<br />
a location that is accessible for the<br />
time you have available.<br />
Some couples choose not to<br />
travel right after the wedding,<br />
preferring to delay their honeymoon<br />
trip according to the season, a<br />
special event or their ability to take<br />
extra leave from their employment.<br />
Your travel professional can provide<br />
options and alternatives if you wish.<br />
“Always make sure you have<br />
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130 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong><br />
Wing your way to Vanuatu<br />
and you will discover an<br />
archipelago embroidered<br />
with lush tropical jungle,<br />
extraordinary geographical<br />
features, a natural<br />
adventure playground,<br />
outstanding resorts and<br />
restaurants, unique customs<br />
and ancient cultures and<br />
the quirkiest language you<br />
will ever hear!<br />
Best of all, this honeymoon<br />
destination is barely 3 hours flying<br />
time from home to hideaway!<br />
At Port Vila on the main island<br />
of Efate you will find agreeable<br />
places to stay around the sparkling<br />
Erakor Lagoon. Whether you<br />
choose all inclusive resort amenities<br />
and activities, the independence<br />
of a self catering bungalow or the<br />
luxury of a private paradise like the<br />
Havannah on the northern coast,<br />
relaxation is mandatory amid the<br />
warmth of a tropical climate. But<br />
for perfect bliss indulge in a unique<br />
volcanic spa and massage; a volcanic<br />
ash scrub to exfoliate, a mud wrap<br />
to detox, a deep tissue massage<br />
for your muscles and a hedonistic<br />
bathe in coconut milk to de-stress<br />
completely.<br />
Sightseeing on Efate includes<br />
Port Vila’s colourful history,<br />
markets and shops, as well as an<br />
insight into traditional village<br />
life at the Ekasup Custom Village<br />
or the Botanic Gardens. At the<br />
stunning Cascade Falls, walkers<br />
are rewarded with wonderful<br />
waterfalls and rock pools for a cool<br />
freshwater swim and nature’s own<br />
hydro-slide.<br />
For a delightful day out, take<br />
the tour or ferry to the marine<br />
reserve of Hideaway. As well<br />
as an excellent restaurant and<br />
beach bar, guests and day trippers<br />
can hire snorkelling and diving<br />
equipment to make the most of<br />
the spectacular marine life around<br />
the island. Then again a day aboard<br />
the wooden ketch “Coongoola” will<br />
transport you to some of Efate’s<br />
finest diving and snorkelling sites,<br />
introduce you to a turtle farm and<br />
provide you with a superb barbeque<br />
lunch on the Island of Tranquility.<br />
Among Efate’s newest<br />
adventures is the Jungle Zipline<br />
which comprises a kilometer of six<br />
zip lines and suspension bridges<br />
high in the jungle canopy, plus the<br />
recently opened Big Zip Trek – a<br />
seven zip 1.4km zap over a 300m<br />
canyon if you dare! Or, combine<br />
the two with a heli tour to the<br />
Summit above Mele Bay and then<br />
come down to earth in the<br />
soothingly tropical Summit<br />
Gardens.<br />
Vanuatu offers visitors a<br />
variety of cuisines and you’ll<br />
find everything from an island<br />
style buffet to Michelin quality at<br />
Restaurant Le Jardin des Saveurs.<br />
Vanuatu was under French rule<br />
until 1980 and their legacy is alive<br />
& well in food with flavour to<br />
savour!<br />
Beyond Port Vila, the many<br />
outer islands allow visitors<br />
to appreciate the distinctive<br />
geographic and cultural entities that<br />
make up the 83 islands of Vanuatu.<br />
Among them Esperito Santo, Tanna<br />
and Pentecost are the best known<br />
and are accessible by Vanair services<br />
for day trips or longer. There are<br />
some wild adventures to be had<br />
there too!<br />
On Tanna, Vanuatu’s “Island of<br />
Fire” fascinated visitors peer into<br />
Yasur’s molten heart and feel a deep<br />
rumble shudder from its depths.<br />
At night they stand riveted by its<br />
sound and light show as embers fall<br />
around them like glow-in- the dark<br />
confetti. Nearby, Tanna’s custom<br />
villagers shun modern comforts<br />
to live traditionally in simple palm<br />
woven huts. Pentecost is famous<br />
for its Land Diving ceremonies –<br />
forget elastic, this is the original<br />
bungy using vines and a less than<br />
scientifically calculated tower to<br />
launch from! It’s not for tourists<br />
however, and you only get to watch<br />
this cultural rite of passage into<br />
male adulthood.<br />
Espiritu Santo is a diver’s<br />
mecca featuring clear waters with<br />
stunning reefs and shipwrecks from<br />
WWII when 100,000 American<br />
troops were based here, including<br />
Million Dollar Point and the<br />
SS Coolidge. Hidden in Santo’s<br />
tangled interior the Millenium<br />
Cave is open-mouthed in a 15<br />
metre yawn leading to the Vantar<br />
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Alternatively you could be<br />
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A honeymoon paradise is<br />
yours in less than 5 hours<br />
flying time! Captain Cook<br />
discovered it for us, Gauguin<br />
painted it for us and ever<br />
since the world has had a<br />
love affair with Tahiti.<br />
A legacy of French and Pacific<br />
heritage garnished by dazzling<br />
white sands, turquoise waters and<br />
rich green clad mountain peaks,<br />
makes Tahiti visually and culturally<br />
irresistible.<br />
New Zealanders will find English<br />
widely spoken, particularly in tourist<br />
areas and that exploring Tahiti is a<br />
rewarding and exciting experience.<br />
Tahiti is the largest island of French<br />
Polynesia and its capital, Papeete is<br />
a busy town and bustling port with<br />
major hotels and luxurious resorts<br />
sprinkled along its fluted coastline.<br />
At Papeete’s heart the daily<br />
market is a colourful melange of<br />
produce and crafts with local women<br />
making intricate wreaths of fresh<br />
flowers to wear on Saturday night.<br />
The coffee is good and the patisserie<br />
entirely too tempting to ignore!<br />
Nearby, the dignity of the 170<br />
year old Cathedral is evident in<br />
white plaster walls simply adorned<br />
by a Tahitian frieze of Christ’s life<br />
and death and a vivid stained glass<br />
window set high above the altar.<br />
An atmosphere of tranquility and<br />
contemplation contrasts with the<br />
busy streets outside.<br />
A visit to the fascinating Perles<br />
Musee traces the history of pearls<br />
and Tahiti’s thriving cultured pearl<br />
farm industry. Exquisite informative<br />
displays are easily followed with<br />
the help of multi lingual staff and<br />
brochures. Tahiti’s famous black<br />
pearls are a popular gift or souvenir<br />
and can be bought in Papeete’s<br />
jewellery shops and pearl outlets.<br />
Price varies depending on the quality<br />
of the pearl so be sure to choose<br />
carefully and get a certificate of<br />
verification with your receipt.<br />
For more local colour and Tahiti’s<br />
most affordable dining experience<br />
visit Les Roulottes – caravan-style<br />
restaurants on wheels that have<br />
become an evening institution in<br />
Papeete’s car parks. The food variety<br />
is great and the atmosphere is as laid<br />
back as the tropics. Alternatively you<br />
can find romantic fine dining in the<br />
hotels and restaurants but at much<br />
greater expense.<br />
Displays of vibrant pareus in the<br />
market and local shops remind you<br />
that the beaches beckon, especially<br />
well known islands like Bora Bora or<br />
Moorea which is just seven minutes<br />
away across the bay by regular<br />
ferry. Rugged bush clad mountains<br />
rise abruptly behind the coast road<br />
around the island while cruise liners<br />
bask in Cook’s Bay below the 240m<br />
Le Belvedere lookout.<br />
To get to your accommodation<br />
hop aboard Le Truc – the open-sided<br />
public transport that circumnavigates<br />
the island for just a few francs each.<br />
Galleries and shops line the winding<br />
road at intervals, fresh fish dry on<br />
racks in the sun, colourful screen<br />
printed fabrics flutter in a gentle<br />
breeze and everywhere there’s an<br />
alluring glimpse of pure turquoise<br />
ocean.<br />
Several inviting resorts with<br />
cottages and over water bungalows<br />
command prime sites on the<br />
shores of the lagoon. Stretch your<br />
budget at the local supermarket or<br />
at small village restaurants nearby<br />
with reasonable tariffs. For Kiwis<br />
with a sense of adventure and<br />
independence, Moorea is particularly<br />
easy to explore by car or bicycle.<br />
A range of water sports and<br />
sightseeing options can be easily<br />
organised with local operators to<br />
go swimming with dolphins, aqua<br />
walking, para sailing, 4WD safari,<br />
sailing or shark and stingray diving.<br />
In the evening discover the Tiki<br />
Village Theatre’s traditional buffet,<br />
followed by a spectacular dance show<br />
depicting Tahitian legends.<br />
Bora Bora may only be a short<br />
flight from Papeete but it’s another<br />
world when you get there. A<br />
spectacular honeymoon hideaway<br />
with an exquisite lagoon and coral<br />
reef, enjoy the privacy of a luxury<br />
resort, romantic dinners Polynesian<br />
style, breakfast delivered by canoe,<br />
lazy days on the beach, a sunset<br />
cruise and a couples’ private spa<br />
treatment.<br />
Tahiti is characterised not only by<br />
vivid colour - fish, water, sand and<br />
scenery, but by the “tiare Tahiti” a<br />
variety of gardenia blooming in every<br />
garden and worn by every woman,<br />
with a fragrance the painter Matisse<br />
once said “wipes away memories of<br />
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ISLAND DESTINATION<br />
Charming, undemanding<br />
and unspoiled the Cook<br />
Islands are easy to reach<br />
and hard to leave. They are<br />
tropical, magical, reachable<br />
and reasonable, so what<br />
better place to exchange<br />
your vows or enjoy the<br />
simplicity of an island<br />
honeymoon?<br />
Rarotonga is the largest of the<br />
Cook Islands, but you can easily<br />
discover its beaches and lagoons as<br />
you navigate its 32km circular road<br />
by local bus, hire vehicle or popular<br />
motor scooter. It’s impossible to get<br />
lost and every detour is a scenic,<br />
cultural or historic delight.<br />
Several of Rarotonga’s<br />
popular resorts have wedding<br />
and honeymoon packages that<br />
provide couples with romantic<br />
venues to exchange their vows and<br />
add a variety of special touches<br />
like a tropical bouquet, wedding<br />
photography and a celebratory<br />
dinner.<br />
The Rarotongan Resort Hotel<br />
is the island’s best known property<br />
and its idyllic beach location on<br />
the shores of Aroa is just one of<br />
several that couples can choose for<br />
their ceremony. <strong>With</strong> comfortable<br />
accommodation, superb amenities,<br />
numerous activities and privacy<br />
for guests, it’s also a sought<br />
after location for a relaxing and<br />
memorable honeymoon.<br />
As well as warm clear waters<br />
and a coral reef teeming with<br />
colourful fish, the island’s volcanic<br />
origins have produced a rugged<br />
hinterland of mountain and<br />
rainforest to discover on foot,<br />
horseback or mountain bike. Small<br />
villages dot the coast, so you’ll<br />
find deserted stretches of sand for<br />
a languid swim and excellent little<br />
cafes, restaurants and beach bars.<br />
Order a simple tasty lunch, enjoy a<br />
sunset cocktail, chill-out in the heat<br />
of the day or laze in a sand-frilled<br />
lagoon.<br />
Avarua is the capital of<br />
Rarotonga and a busy service centre<br />
for the 14 islands of the Cook<br />
group. The Cook Islands uses the<br />
New Zealand dollar so shopping<br />
couldn’t be simpler whether you<br />
visit duty free shops or buy local<br />
products include clothing, crafts<br />
and jewellery, especially the island’s<br />
beautiful black pearls.<br />
On Saturdays the thriving<br />
Punanganui Market attracts visitors<br />
and locals to try, buy and enjoy<br />
homegrown coffee, bright sarongs,<br />
wood carvings, basketry, jewellery<br />
or traditional tivaevae quilts or rito<br />
hats.<br />
Treat yourself to a divine<br />
tropical fruit slushy and fresh<br />
baked coconut rolls, amble over<br />
to the legendary Trader Jacks for a<br />
seafood lunch and a lager or retreat<br />
to your villa, bure or resort for an<br />
afternoon swim or siesta.<br />
Dancing, crafts, church, food<br />
and flowers are the cornerstones<br />
of Cook Island life. A visit to Te<br />
Vara Nui, Rarotonga’s purpose built<br />
cultural centre is an interactive<br />
journey into its history, culminating<br />
in a spectacular island night of<br />
entertainment and feasting on local<br />
delicacies. Alternatively you<br />
can choose an authentic cultural<br />
ceremony at Highland Paradise<br />
Village near Aorangi village.<br />
Many couples find Rarotonga’s<br />
gentle pace ideal for their entire<br />
honeymoon, but others may choose<br />
to fly to the island of Aitutaki for<br />
the ultimate honeymoon getaway.<br />
The atoll is just a short flight from<br />
Rarotonga and the luxury Aitutaki<br />
Lagoon Resort and Spa is your<br />
perfect Pacific paradise and recently<br />
ranked in the Top 25 resorts world<br />
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Described as a destination for<br />
incurable romantics, Aitutaki is an<br />
exquisite atoll, fringed by golden<br />
sands and set in the most vivid<br />
luminous turquoise waters you can<br />
imagine. After being welcomed with<br />
a frangipani lei, you will be invited<br />
to leave your cares behind and adopt<br />
laid back island time throughout<br />
your stay.
<strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong> 137<br />
“Houston we have a<br />
problem” is Apollo XIII’s<br />
unforgettable one liner, but<br />
getting to Houston is no<br />
problem for New Zealand<br />
travellers.<br />
<strong>With</strong> Air New Zealand’s direct<br />
route to this Texan city, travellers<br />
have a new geographic wonderland<br />
to explore because Houston opens<br />
the gate to the southern United<br />
States and some seriously exciting<br />
cruise destinations.<br />
Houston is the fourth largest<br />
city in the USA, sprawling from the<br />
coastal Gulf of Mexico towards the<br />
oil rich plains of Texas. Founded in<br />
1836, remnants of Houston’s early<br />
history associated with cotton are<br />
to be found in the charming Market<br />
Square Park and the heritage<br />
precinct along Buffalo Bayou.<br />
But modern Houston has<br />
become home territory for NASA.<br />
The launch pads of the LB Johnson<br />
Space Centre are here and at the<br />
“must visit” Space Centre Houston,<br />
you’ll be immersed in things<br />
astronaut-ical from space shuttle<br />
replicas and Apollo capsules to<br />
artefacts and interactive displays that<br />
will literally space you out!<br />
In a city of glitz and glass there<br />
are fast paced attractions with allure<br />
for adventurers; indoor skydiving<br />
with the thrill of the plummet<br />
without the plane ride; laps on<br />
the Fittipaldi Racetrack, ranch and<br />
rodeo experiences, a ball game at<br />
the famous Astrodome or a retail<br />
adventure at outlet malls the size of<br />
a small New Zealand town!<br />
But there are also softer sojourns<br />
to taste the region’s emerging wine<br />
industry, or a daytrip to Galveston<br />
Island where heritage buildings like<br />
the ante bellum beauty of Ashton<br />
Villa take you back to the<br />
days of the Civil War.<br />
The cotton industry<br />
had established<br />
Galveston as the<br />
leading cotton port<br />
in the world until<br />
the hurricane of<br />
1906. The imposing<br />
architecture of the<br />
Bishop’s Palace<br />
and Grand Opera<br />
House are evidence<br />
of Galveston’s<br />
importance to<br />
Texas.<br />
The warm waters of the<br />
Gulf of Mexico are home<br />
to bottlenose dolphins and<br />
numerous water sports. But<br />
Galveston is also a cruise port<br />
where exotic destinations like<br />
Mexico, Central America and<br />
the Caribbean are within easy<br />
reach.<br />
Cruise itineraries from four<br />
to fourteen days can take you in<br />
love-boat luxury to Acapulco,<br />
Belize, Honduras, Jamaica, the<br />
Bahamas, Grand Cayman, the<br />
British and US Virgin Islands<br />
or Puerto Rico. <strong>With</strong> early<br />
bird discounts and affordable late<br />
availability deals, a cruise is the<br />
perfect mix and match option for a<br />
Texan honeymoon.<br />
If a road trip has appeal, there’s<br />
plenty of Texas to see; Dallas,<br />
Austin, San Antonio or the charm<br />
of Corpus Christi. Austin is the state<br />
capital of Texas and manages to mix<br />
up business acumen with wild-west<br />
ambience. You’ll find pick-up trucks<br />
next to state of the art sports cars,<br />
Stetsons worn with business suits<br />
and cowboy culture in suburban<br />
malls.<br />
San Antonio has created a 15<br />
mile tree lined river walk that<br />
incorporates a 5 mile city boardwalk<br />
through its parks, gardens and<br />
historic precinct. Lined with<br />
barges if you prefer to sightsee on<br />
the water or bike trail if you like<br />
wheels, San Antonio is one of the<br />
most visitor friendly destinations in<br />
Texas. The city’s Alamo was once<br />
an 18 th century mission, now a<br />
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Mexico in 1836.<br />
Alternatively you could head<br />
for Texas’ border with Louisiana<br />
and experience paddle steamer<br />
journeys on the mighty Mississippi,<br />
or discover the jazz and pizzazz<br />
of New Orleans. On the way, let<br />
your taste buds loose on southern<br />
cuisine; Cajun or Creole, gumbo<br />
and jumbalaya, shrimp or crawfish<br />
and cornbread.<br />
If Elvis is more your style, road<br />
trip north to Memphis or Nashville<br />
or turn south for Florida sunshine<br />
and the thrills of Orlando’s theme<br />
park metropolis, the wildlife of the<br />
Everglades or the laid back beach<br />
resorts of Key West.
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140 <strong>With</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Ring</strong><br />
Make your wedding the<br />
complete love story on an<br />
island that is described as<br />
“360 degrees of wonder.”<br />
Norfolk Island is just 2<br />
hours flying time from<br />
New Zealand and is an<br />
enigmatic destination<br />
of heritage and scenic<br />
splendour.<br />
<strong>This</strong> tiny sub tropical island<br />
barely 10km long and 5km wide,<br />
boasts a wedding venue that’s like<br />
no other. A Professional Wedding<br />
Coordinator can oversee all the<br />
arrangements including the legal<br />
paperwork. You can be offered a<br />
ceremony at a variety of unique<br />
locations including an historic<br />
church, world heritage buildings,<br />
a resort, a homestead, on a golf<br />
course, a beach, a cliff top, on<br />
a jetty, a farm or in a botanical<br />
garden.<br />
You can choose any or all of<br />
Norfolk Island’s wedding services;<br />
celebrant, floristry, hairdressing,<br />
beauty therapy, transport and<br />
photography. You can enjoy a<br />
resort for your reception or one of<br />
the island’s renowned restaurants,<br />
book a romantic dinner for just<br />
the two of you or arrange caterers<br />
at a church hall or sports club.<br />
You can even take a champagne<br />
picnic to one of Norfolk Island’s<br />
most scenic settings and sample<br />
the island’s wonderful fresh fish,<br />
organic produce and its own wine,<br />
coffee, beef, liqueurs, chocolate,<br />
cheese and honey.<br />
You can stay in your own<br />
executive cottage set amid sub<br />
tropical gardens. <strong>With</strong> self catering<br />
facilities, private patio and a tariff<br />
that includes a rental vehicle for<br />
the duration of your stay, you can<br />
explore this delightful little island<br />
at your leisure.<br />
Discover the crystal clear<br />
waters of Emily Bay, go<br />
snorkelling along the coral reef,<br />
be mesmerised by the island’s<br />
convict history, go kayaking,<br />
horse trekking or fishing, try<br />
golf or tennis, explore the tracks<br />
and trails of the national park or<br />
indulge in some serious relaxation<br />
with a spa treatment and massage.<br />
<strong>With</strong> no traffic jams, no<br />
queues, no pollution, no crime<br />
and no stress, Norfolk Island is<br />
the perfect place to celebrate your<br />
wedding, renew your vows or<br />
enjoy a honeymoon that provides<br />
total time out for just the two of<br />
you.<br />
Best of all you could WIN<br />
A WEDDING in NORFOLK<br />
ISLAND by simply entering the<br />
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PHOTO: HAYMAN ISLANDS<br />
If your honeymoon plans<br />
encompass summer sun, a<br />
cruise, a resort or a tropical<br />
destination, then classy<br />
beach wear should be<br />
on your mind and in your<br />
suitcase!<br />
The variety is impressive for in the<br />
water or out of it and caters to all<br />
tastes and body shapes.<br />
TWO PIECE SWIM SUITS<br />
are represented by a range of<br />
bikini styles which can be<br />
purchased together or as mix and<br />
match in different sizes and colours.<br />
Bikini tops may be bandeau, halter<br />
or bra cup style, but the blurring of<br />
swim wear and gym wear designs<br />
also sees the crop top in the bikini<br />
range. If you prefer more coverage,<br />
the camisole top is also available.<br />
Bikini bottoms can be low style,<br />
waist high, hipster or boy- leg cut,<br />
while the option of kick shorts,<br />
skort and running shorts provide<br />
additional beach-to-gym interchange<br />
if you wish.<br />
ONE-PIECE SWIMSUITS<br />
are always flattering and incorporate<br />
numerous design details for fashion<br />
and comfort. Styles may be sleek,<br />
rucched, discreet or cut-out.<br />
Necklines include plunge, bandeau,<br />
shoestring camisole or an asymmetric<br />
shoulder strap. Backs can be crossed,<br />
scoop or plunging, the front and<br />
sides of the swimsuit can be laced<br />
and mesh illusion can be a flattering<br />
compromise. For ocean swimming<br />
and active water sports the modified<br />
wetsuit is another useful style with<br />
sleeves, boy leg cut and zip front.<br />
FOR THIS<br />
SEASON’S SWIMWEAR<br />
Cool colours: Navy, white,<br />
turquoise, fuschia, orange and<br />
black of course<br />
“In” prints: Aztec, Hawaiian, paisley,<br />
animal, nautical stripes and polka dots<br />
Special effects: Lace, tie dye,<br />
crotchet, fringing, frills<br />
and mesh inserts<br />
COVER-UPS are an essential<br />
beach accessory to protect you from<br />
the sun and keep the chill away after<br />
a swim or at sundown. For versatility<br />
you can’t beat a sarong – it packs<br />
perfectly, dries in minutes and can<br />
be worn in a dozen different styles!<br />
The revival of boho fashions sees<br />
the return of muslin kaftans and<br />
crocheted tunics. Oversized T shirts<br />
are easy and practical and the split<br />
beach trouser will keep you cool in<br />
cotton or voile. An elegant<br />
cover-up can also take you to<br />
cocktails and dinner, so pack a<br />
maxi dress, some palazzo pants or<br />
a jumpsuit that can be wowed<br />
with some bling and a belt.<br />
SUN HATS need to be part of<br />
your beach babe experience whether<br />
your choice is functional, fashionable<br />
or both.<br />
THE BASEBALL CAP is adjustable,<br />
stays secure in the wind, keeps long<br />
hair in place and shields your eyes<br />
but not your ears or all of your face.<br />
THE STRAW PANAMA OR<br />
FEDORA is small brimmed and<br />
stylish, suits short or long hair,<br />
protects your eyes and ears and<br />
some of your face.<br />
THE WIDE BRIMMED<br />
FLOPPY HAT is best for fierce<br />
sun, it provides good shade, looks<br />
great with all outfits and if its<br />
un-crushable it will go anywhere<br />
too.<br />
THE SUNSHADE is an option<br />
if you don’t love a hat. It<br />
shields your eyes and your<br />
face but not the top of your<br />
head, so beware of the burn.<br />
BEACH BAG bold will standout<br />
at the pool and hold all the stuff<br />
you’ll want away from your room<br />
like book, sunnies, towel, hat, coverup<br />
and your essential SPF. Straw<br />
bags look great but they let in the<br />
sand so a waterproof lining will keep<br />
your items clean and dry, but look a<br />
zip top for security. Otherwise,<br />
back packs are versatile and a<br />
fold-up shopper takes no room<br />
in your luggage.
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If you like the sound of<br />
144 little islands, unspoiled<br />
beaches and bays,<br />
interesting history and<br />
heritage, sub tropical<br />
temperatures, beautiful<br />
resorts and places to stay,<br />
fine food and a host of<br />
activities and adventures,<br />
then the Bay of Islands is<br />
the ideal honey-swoon<br />
destination for you!<br />
Tourists from all over the world<br />
rave about the beauty of the far<br />
north, yet many New Zealanders<br />
have never discovered its unique<br />
charm and glorious coastline. Base<br />
yourself in a beautiful apartment<br />
or resort in the Bay of Islands and<br />
plan day trips as the mood takes<br />
you. Alternatively fly to Auckland<br />
and then embark on a round trip<br />
journey of discovery at your own<br />
pace whatever the place.<br />
Beyond Auckland’s harbour<br />
bridge, travel the Hibiscus Coast<br />
to Orewa Beach, luxuriate in<br />
the Waiwera Hot Pools, sample<br />
beautiful local cheeses at Puhoi,<br />
explore the pretty township of<br />
Warkworth or take a short ferry<br />
ride to Kawau Island where<br />
Governor Grey’s historic Mansion<br />
House (1846) is now a museum.<br />
Between Warkworth and<br />
Whangarei there are seriously<br />
good beaches at Mangawhai and<br />
Waipu Cove, but the jewels in the<br />
crown are the crescents and coves<br />
that frill the turquoise waters of<br />
the Bay of Islands. Each of the<br />
small towns dotting its coastal<br />
landscape has its own special<br />
ambience.<br />
A European<br />
mission was established in Paihia<br />
1823, while nearby Waitangi is<br />
where the historic signing of the<br />
Treaty of Waitangi occurred in<br />
1840 and the Treaty House is<br />
preserved as a memorial and a<br />
museum. Today Paihia is well<br />
endowed with accommodation,<br />
shops, restaurants and tourist<br />
services for exploring the area on<br />
and off the water.<br />
A short ferry ride will take<br />
you across to Russell where<br />
quaint colonial buildings and<br />
French Bishop Pompallier’s House<br />
have survived the town’s torrid<br />
past as the fortified Maori<br />
settlement of Kororareka,<br />
then as a whaling port,<br />
followed by the Northland<br />
Land Wars in 1845.<br />
In Kerikeri you’ll find<br />
New Zealand’s oldest stone<br />
and wooden constructions<br />
(the stone store in 1833<br />
and Kemp House in 1821),<br />
while across the river is<br />
a reconstruction of Chief<br />
Rewa’s Maori Village and a<br />
series of picturesque walks.<br />
Maori grew large kumara<br />
crops in Kerikeri (meaning<br />
“to dig”) and the town continues<br />
to be a centre for produce, wines<br />
and home of many artisans.<br />
Scenic cruises operate from<br />
Paihia including the renowned<br />
“Cream Trip” and Hole in the Rock<br />
tour, Urupukapuka Island, dolphin<br />
viewing and swimming, as well as<br />
deep sea fishing charters, tall ship<br />
sailing, kayaking and scuba diving.<br />
Popular resorts and other water<br />
sports are on offer at Karikari<br />
Peninsula and Mangonui in<br />
Doubtless Bay. The historic town<br />
is also a good base for exploring<br />
the far north attractions of 90 Mile<br />
Beach and Cape Reinga, Kaitaia,<br />
the Hokianga Harbour and the<br />
ancient kauri forests of Waipoua on<br />
the west coast. Along the way you<br />
can try sand-tobogganing, quad<br />
biking, mountain biking, glow<br />
worm caves and the history of the<br />
region’s unique Maori settlements<br />
and kauri gum industry.<br />
From here it’s an easy route<br />
back to Auckland via the Kauri<br />
Coast, Bayly’s Beach, Dargaville,<br />
Kaipara Harbour and the vineyards<br />
of Helensville, or perhaps another<br />
hot water soak at Waiwera to be<br />
sure you are truly relaxed!<br />
PHOTOS BY: BAY OF ISLANDS TRAVEL GUIDE
ADVERTORIAL<br />
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“Music can really<br />
make a wedding” says<br />
Therese Mitchell who<br />
owns and operates DJ<br />
Chick, Christchurch’s elite<br />
professional mobile disco.<br />
<strong>With</strong> her team’s many years<br />
music experience, including being<br />
part of live bands, Therese and her<br />
team aim to play the appropriate<br />
music at the right time and at the<br />
acceptable volume for everyone to<br />
enjoy the event!<br />
“We bring life to your party”<br />
and for weddings, DJ Chick can<br />
provide the ideal music for the<br />
ceremony, background music and<br />
reception dance, or all three! It’s<br />
important for the wedding couple<br />
to discuss the best type of music<br />
for their style of wedding. Some<br />
want lots of input, while others are<br />
unsure of what to select and rely on<br />
Therese’s suggestions which often<br />
include “a little bit of everything”<br />
she says.<br />
Therese tries to get couples to<br />
think of their guests rather than just<br />
their own music tastes, especially<br />
if the ages of guests spans several<br />
decades. Therese believes the staff<br />
of DJ Chick knows about music<br />
and aims to play what people know<br />
so that they will sing along and get<br />
up and dance. “We’re passionate<br />
about making sure everyone has a<br />
good time. If they don’t dance, we<br />
haven’t done our job well enough!”<br />
she says.<br />
DJ Chick can play anything<br />
from the “1920’s to now” but loves<br />
to specialize in retro especially the<br />
great tracks from the 70’s, 80’s<br />
and 90’s that get things rocking.<br />
However they’re also versatile<br />
enough to play current Top 40 and<br />
club style if that’s what is wanted.<br />
While it is unusual to have<br />
women as DJ’s Therese says it<br />
works well and she has bookings<br />
four or five nights each week for<br />
birthdays, parties, karaoke, school<br />
functions, corporate events as<br />
well as many weddings and DJ<br />
Chick can tailor a package to suit<br />
individual requirements.<br />
Usually they are booked to play<br />
for 4 hours “and we play right to<br />
the very end of when the venue is<br />
booked” says Therese. <strong>With</strong> quality<br />
portable equipment, bookings<br />
include lighting, laptop or CD’s &<br />
either Therese herself, or one of her<br />
3 experienced and enthusiastic DJ’s.<br />
Because the company owns all<br />
their own gear, they have control<br />
over its quality, use and condition,<br />
“We also guarantee to set up quietly<br />
and discreetly so as not to disturb<br />
any proceedings, but whenever<br />
possible we set up in advance.”<br />
Provided there’s a power source<br />
Therese says DJ Chick can play<br />
anywhere “and we have – halls,<br />
paddocks, and even the back of a<br />
truck!” <strong>With</strong> competitive “middle<br />
of the road” rates that can be<br />
negotiated, DJ Chick offers mobile<br />
music to achieve the fun, relaxed,<br />
and enjoyable atmosphere that will<br />
make your wedding memorable<br />
because “great receptions don’t<br />
happen by chance.”<br />
2015 and <strong>2016</strong> are already busy<br />
for weddings, so book early with<br />
DJ Chick to secure your preferred<br />
wedding date, perhaps consider a<br />
mid week or winter wedding and<br />
then leave it to the experts!<br />
Ph Therese Mitchell<br />
347 2669 or 021 216 2610,<br />
visit www.djchick.co.nz<br />
or email your enquiry<br />
to djchick@djchick.co.nz<br />
DJ<br />
Chick<br />
Great receptions don’t happen by chance...<br />
Christchurch’s elite professional mobile disco.<br />
Providing high quality, tasteful entertainment for<br />
wedding receptions for over 20 years, with the<br />
experience and the skill to create something<br />
special just for you.<br />
Therese Mitchell<br />
(a.k.a DJ Azure)<br />
Ph: 349 2501<br />
Mob: 021 216 2610<br />
www.djchick.co.nz<br />
djchick@djchick.co.nz
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Almost any venue can be transformed into a<br />
stylish wedding ceremony or reception setting<br />
with some imagination, flair and items you<br />
can make, buy or hire:<br />
INDOORS<br />
Drapes & Netting<br />
Swathes of fabric<br />
Garlands & Topiaries<br />
Vases of flowers<br />
Pots and Plants<br />
Pictures & posters<br />
Paintings or Stage Sets<br />
Balloons & Bows<br />
Fairylights<br />
Lamps & Candles<br />
Bunting<br />
Disco ball<br />
OUTDOORS<br />
Archways<br />
Screens or Trellis<br />
Gates or pickets<br />
A Gazebo or Awning<br />
Garlands & Wreaths<br />
Decking or Platform<br />
Pots & Plants<br />
Urns & Statues<br />
Columns & Pedestals<br />
Lights & Lanterns<br />
Mirrors<br />
Firepits and braziers<br />
TABLE SETTINGS<br />
Multi layered linen<br />
Bowls of beads or<br />
pebbles<br />
Sprinkle crystals & stars<br />
Fresh flowers<br />
Dried Flowers & Flax<br />
Pot Pourri & Oils<br />
Candelabra<br />
Place Cards or Stones<br />
Monogrammed Menus<br />
Chair Covers & Bows<br />
Pot plants<br />
Mirrored centrepieces
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At Something Borrowed<br />
Something New, (SBSN Ltd )<br />
you’ll find everything you<br />
could possibly need to create<br />
a bespoke theme for your<br />
special occasion.<br />
“Wedding decorations and ideas<br />
are naturally an important part<br />
of the business, but we can also<br />
theme private parties including<br />
engagements, hens’ nights, corporate<br />
functions, balls, 21sts, birthdays and<br />
anniversary celebrations” says Lynn.<br />
SBSN Ltd is developing a<br />
comprehensive and affordable photo<br />
catalogue of props for themed<br />
functions, including back drop<br />
displays, furniture, palm trees,<br />
enchanted forest trees, floral displays<br />
and children’s themed displays. We<br />
can also can make and source items to<br />
fit a particular theme” says Lynn.<br />
As Christchurch’s leading store<br />
for all your decoration requirements,<br />
an impressive selection of products<br />
is available to view, to hire or to<br />
purchase. <strong>With</strong> all the latest décor<br />
trends and props, you can set up your<br />
own displays in store and experiment<br />
with your own colours and ideas<br />
from classic to contemporary and<br />
simple to flamboyant.<br />
“We have a vast selection of<br />
event product for sale, including,<br />
rolls of fabric, sashes, table décor<br />
and wedding accessories.” Other<br />
items for hire in this delightful store<br />
reflect the current popularity of the<br />
vintage and rustic look and include:<br />
lighting, hessian items, bunting and<br />
lace runners, blackboards, as well as<br />
fabulous glassware and candelabra,<br />
for table decorations. There are a<br />
number of new backdrops including<br />
floral/ivy walls, 2 metre wooden<br />
freestanding love sign, 3 dimensional<br />
wooden printed back drop just to<br />
mention a few.<br />
<strong>With</strong> free in-store consultations<br />
Lynn and her team can offer advice<br />
based on 15 years experience to<br />
help achieve distinctive individuality<br />
of style for your special occasion.<br />
You may choose to decorate your<br />
own venue or take advantage of the<br />
company’s Venue Setting Service. For<br />
a minimal per person charge, SBSN<br />
will deliver your chosen items and<br />
expertly decorate your venue to the<br />
highest possible standards.<br />
We even have the things you<br />
haven’t thought about yet, so come<br />
in and talk to us about what we can<br />
do for you. Don’t forget to like us on<br />
FACEBOOK and check it regularly<br />
for in store specials too” suggests<br />
Lynn.<br />
Located at 393 Main South<br />
Road Hornby, with free<br />
parking available out front<br />
open 10-5pm and<br />
10-2.30pm Saturdays.<br />
Ph 03 349 4713,<br />
visit www.sbsn.co.nz<br />
and Facebook<br />
Specialising in:<br />
• Wedding/<br />
Event Hire<br />
• Corporate<br />
Functions<br />
• Bespoke Props<br />
• School Ball<br />
Themes<br />
• Birthday Party<br />
Themes<br />
393 Main South Road, Hornby.<br />
Ph: 349 4713. www.sbsn.co.nz<br />
Open 6 days a week.
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Nelson<br />
BRIDAL<br />
SHOW<br />
2nd April 2017 Trafalgar Centre<br />
Wedding shows and expos<br />
have become ideal “one<br />
stop” events to provide<br />
information, advice and<br />
inspiration for couples<br />
planning a wedding.<br />
Offering comprehensive<br />
information on wedding attire,<br />
flowers, jewellery, cars, venues,<br />
caterers, wining and dining,<br />
chapels, celebrants, locations,<br />
photographers, music, honeymoons<br />
and gifts, Wedding Shows and<br />
Expos are an “A to Z” resource<br />
where you can browse at your<br />
leisure, gather useful information<br />
and consult suppliers about their<br />
products and services.<br />
Depending on the size and<br />
location of the wedding show<br />
you will find local and out of<br />
town suppliers and sometimes<br />
international brands represented<br />
as well. You can also discuss your<br />
ideas in person with experienced<br />
wedding planners who can offer a<br />
variety of solutions and options you<br />
may not have considered.<br />
Shows are also an opportunity<br />
to compare the prices of different<br />
suppliers, see the latest styles and<br />
trends and try your luck in many of<br />
the competitions and giveaways that<br />
are often part of each show.<br />
Take advantage of any deals,<br />
discounts or special packages<br />
that may save you additional time<br />
and money. Collect any relevant<br />
business cards or brochures you<br />
may want to refer to or contact<br />
later.<br />
Held in many main centres<br />
and provincial towns throughout<br />
New Zealand, wedding shows are<br />
the ideal way for wedding service<br />
providers and customers to “find<br />
each another.” Look out for the next<br />
wedding show in your area and plan<br />
your perfect wedding but for a fun<br />
day out too, take your BFF with you<br />
and revel in wedding mania to your<br />
heart’s content!<br />
2nd APRIL 2017<br />
Fashion Show<br />
Prizes<br />
and much more....<br />
www.bridetobe.co.nz
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There’s nothing like music to create the desired<br />
atmosphere at any occasion, but a wedding<br />
reception has several phases and needs the right<br />
music at the right time.<br />
As guests arrive at the reception venue, soft background<br />
music allows greetings, introductions and conversation to<br />
flourish. Ideal “mood” makers are a string quartet, a small jazz<br />
band or “café” music on a playlist.<br />
During the meal, background music lets guests enjoy both<br />
the company and the cuisine. Choose instrumental “cocktail”<br />
music that is themed to suit the style of your wedding or lyrics<br />
that are easy on the ears.<br />
The First Dance indicates formalities are almost over and<br />
it is time for the party to begin. You may stay traditional with<br />
a Bridal Waltz or surprise your guests with something fun and<br />
funky instead.<br />
The music that gets your guests onto the dance floor<br />
needs to have a definite beat, be well known with a variety<br />
from all decades to accommodate all ages. A live band creates<br />
excitement and theatre, but may limit the style of music to<br />
their specialism be it jazz, blues, soul, pop, reggae, country,<br />
cultural or rock n roll. Discuss a performance list of what they<br />
will play, how long they will play and ensure the venue can<br />
accommodate their electronic and acoustic requirements.<br />
Alternatively a DJ can cover a lot of musical bases with<br />
a varied choice throughout the evening. Tailor the music to<br />
provide changes of mood and pace from smooth croon to<br />
pumping beats as the party peaks.<br />
You may want to involve other entertainment like karaoke<br />
for your guests, dance demos, jugglers, comedians, soloists and<br />
other musicians or pyrotechnics to music and a laser light show<br />
– so if the music mood takes you, have the time of your life!<br />
Wedding Dance Choreography<br />
Specialising in a variety of<br />
dance styles, the First Dance<br />
will design and choreograph<br />
a dance routine for your<br />
special day.<br />
Selection of packages and<br />
private lessons available.<br />
Contact: 021 22 55 321 | thefirstdance@outlook.co.nz<br />
www.facebook.com/thefirstdancechch
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BRIDE AND GROOM<br />
A gift is the traditional way<br />
to show your appreciation of<br />
how you have made the day<br />
special for each other.<br />
Ideas: a watch for him and a<br />
locket for her.<br />
YOUR PARENTS<br />
Even if you are sharing the costs<br />
of the wedding, your parents<br />
will undoubtedly have helped<br />
and supported you. So say so!<br />
Ideas: flowers for the Mums,<br />
gift voucher for Dads’ favourite<br />
hobby.<br />
YOUR BRIDAL PARTY<br />
They are your inner circle of<br />
friends so say thanks with an<br />
individual gift.<br />
Ideas: Girls:Jewellery, perfume,<br />
wedding photo, homeware item<br />
or pashmina.<br />
Boys: wallet, grooming kit, ipod<br />
case, wine glasses, bottle of wine.<br />
FAMILY<br />
Those who have helped with<br />
planning, sewing, making<br />
decorations, sharing ideas and<br />
keeping you sane deserve your<br />
appreciation.<br />
Ideas: thank you card, wedding<br />
photo.<br />
SPECIAL FRIENDS<br />
Whose advice you consulted<br />
or expertise you used should<br />
be recognised.<br />
Ideas: thank you card and an<br />
invitation to dinner at your<br />
place.<br />
WEDDING SUPPLIERS AND VENDORS<br />
Say thank you to any suppliers that impressed<br />
you with their product and/or their service.<br />
Ideas: email them after the wedding & create<br />
an online blog of recommendation.<br />
GUESTS<br />
Always thank guests for<br />
their gifts and attending the<br />
wedding.<br />
Ideas: say so in your wedding<br />
speeches and send a personal<br />
note of thanks.<br />
CELEBRANT<br />
Your celebrant will appreciate<br />
your thanks for their part in your<br />
big day.<br />
Ideas: thank you card, or one with<br />
your wedding image on it.<br />
WEDDING CO-ORDINATOR<br />
+ MC<br />
They often put a lot of time into<br />
making your wedding day run<br />
smoothly so acknowledge their<br />
effort.<br />
Ideas: say thanks in your speech,<br />
send a card afterwards.<br />
HONEYMOON DESTINATION/<br />
ACCOMMODATION<br />
If it was good, show your appreciation.<br />
Ideas: write an online review.<br />
In the days when your beloved picked<br />
flowers to give you or hand crafted gifts to<br />
delight you, love tokens were often useful<br />
items for the home you would eventually<br />
share and might range from a kitchen utensil<br />
to a piece of furniture.<br />
Rolling pins were traditionally given as a love token by departing mariners and were<br />
hollow inside to contain salt. The rolling pin was hung by the fireside to keep the salt<br />
dry with the expectation that the sailor would return home again before the salt ran out.<br />
Early rolling pins were made of wood and could be fashioned by hand or on a simple<br />
lathe. However the timber had to be a variety that had no sap to leach and affect the<br />
flavour of the pastry! Some rolling pins were ridged to crush oats or rock salt while<br />
others were sanded smooth to prevent the pastry sticking. Porcelain rolling pins<br />
became popular in the days before refrigeration because they could be filled<br />
with cold water to keep the pastry cool and pliable. Glass versions served<br />
the same purpose but embossed designs on the glass could create fancy<br />
patterns in the pastry and often featured love hearts,<br />
stars, leaves and flowers.
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Every bridal couple was<br />
given a canteen of cutlery,<br />
often monogrammed with<br />
their initials?<br />
A canteen was frequently a<br />
leather or wooden velvet-lined box<br />
containing sets of six knives, forks,<br />
bread and butter knives, dessert<br />
forks, dessert spoons, soup spoons<br />
and teaspoons plus two large<br />
serving spoons. Other items might<br />
also be added such as a carving set,<br />
salad servers, a cake slice, a salt<br />
spoon, a gravy ladle and matching<br />
napkin rings.<br />
The cutlery was often silver<br />
or silver-plated and used for<br />
special occasions like Sunday<br />
lunch, birthdays, christenings<br />
and Christmas. To gleam and<br />
sparkle against a traditional white<br />
tablecloth it had to be polished<br />
before use and hand washed<br />
afterwards! But with the advent<br />
of stainless steel cutlery that no<br />
longer required polishing and<br />
could be cleaned in a dishwasher,<br />
the days of the silver canteen were<br />
numbered and today they tend to<br />
be inherited heirlooms.<br />
Combining waiter<br />
service with self service<br />
is a modern wedding<br />
reception idea that<br />
is still elegant but less<br />
orchestrated than a formal<br />
dinner.<br />
Known in Brazil as Rodizio,<br />
a roving “gaucho” waiter serves<br />
barbequed meats to seated guests<br />
who then help themselves to<br />
side dishes of vegetables, salads,<br />
sauces and condiments that are<br />
placed on the table.<br />
Rodizio is ideal for a big<br />
wedding because it saves long<br />
queues at the buffet table. It<br />
also creates a nice atmosphere<br />
at a smaller wedding, where the<br />
guests are seated in small groups<br />
and can mix more sociably.<br />
Orange blossom is a<br />
particularly fragrant flower<br />
that is an important<br />
component in making<br />
perfume, an ingredient in<br />
French and Middle Eastern<br />
cuisine and dried for making<br />
a fragrant herbal tea.<br />
But orange blossom is most sought<br />
after for bridal bouquets and<br />
wreaths.<br />
It is thought that orange blossom<br />
was synonymous with purity and<br />
innocence in Ancient China and the<br />
idea made its way to Europe. But<br />
it was Queen Victoria who wore<br />
a white gown and a grand wreath<br />
of orange blossoms at her Royal<br />
Wedding in 1840 and established<br />
the fashion for both ever since!<br />
In fact orange blossom was so<br />
popular that when the flowers were<br />
in short supply seasonally, wax<br />
replicas were created instead. Today<br />
they are still a fragrant and delicate<br />
feature in many bouquets and bridal<br />
wreaths.
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Select Braemar Lodge<br />
and Spa has always been<br />
renowned for refinement<br />
and exclusivity, so having<br />
your wedding there is sure<br />
to be in a class of its own.<br />
Offering elegant surroundings<br />
and dedicated experienced staff to<br />
take care of the smallest details,<br />
Select Braemar Lodge and Spa can<br />
give you a dream wedding in a<br />
dream location.<br />
Nestled within the hills<br />
overlooking the Hanmer Valley<br />
and facing the majestic peaks of<br />
the Southern Alps, Select Braemar<br />
Lodge and Spa has captured one<br />
of Hanmer’s most remarkable<br />
settings. Amid snow capped winter<br />
splendour or basking in the rich<br />
colours of summer, Select Braemar<br />
Lodge is like nature’s stage set for<br />
your special day.<br />
You will have exclusive use of<br />
the lodge’s public rooms for your<br />
reception and special bed and<br />
breakfast rates can be arranged for<br />
those attending the wedding. But<br />
for the most memorable wedding<br />
of all, you can enjoy the exclusive<br />
use of the entire lodge!<br />
Make your vows on the picture<br />
perfect landscaped terrace or<br />
within the ambience of a logfired<br />
lounge, share champagne<br />
and canapes with your guests,<br />
be photographed in stunning<br />
surroundings and then enjoy an<br />
exquisitely prepared meal, fine<br />
wines and your wedding cake.<br />
A divine selection of menus<br />
and catering styles ensures your<br />
wedding reception is tailored to<br />
your needs and tastes.<br />
There’s no better place to be.<br />
Everything can be arranged by<br />
Braemar’s wedding coordinator;<br />
flowers, photography, celebrant,<br />
ceremony set up, decorations,<br />
venue, menu and luxurious<br />
accommodation too. You can simply<br />
concentrate on spending time with<br />
your in-house guests, pampering<br />
your self with spa treatments to<br />
look your loveliest and celebrating<br />
your marriage with style and<br />
sophistication.<br />
While Hanmer Springs is a<br />
magical destination all year round,<br />
you could have your dream<br />
wedding in a winter wonderland!<br />
Select Braemar Lodge and Spa<br />
offer fantastic all-inclusive winter<br />
weddings between May and<br />
September. Imagine your day<br />
starting with snow sparkling on<br />
the mountains, dazzling you with<br />
clear blue skies and winter sunshine<br />
and ending with the romance of a<br />
sugar pink sunset.<br />
Then when all the<br />
guests have gone,<br />
you can truly<br />
relax in Braemar’s<br />
wonderful Bridal<br />
Suite and enjoy<br />
a honeymoon<br />
destination with as<br />
much or as little<br />
to do as you wish.<br />
Select<br />
Braemar Lodge<br />
and Spa welcomes wedding<br />
enquiries and looks forward to<br />
arranging a preliminary visit<br />
for you to discuss your ideas,<br />
sample the food of the Altitude<br />
Restaurant and Bar and savour<br />
the special surroundings of one<br />
of New Zealand’s most beautiful<br />
international properties.
• 24 Suites for the night of the wedding<br />
• Including the Braemar Honeymoon Suite<br />
• Exclusive use of The Lodge for up to 48 guests<br />
Prices From $10,995<br />
• Celebrant & Cake from Divine Desserts<br />
• Canapés and bubbles after the ceremony<br />
• 3 course set menu
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ROAD TRIP<br />
You don’t have to go far to have a wonderful honeymoon<br />
amid some of New Zealand’s loveliest regions. Tourists are<br />
quick to praise the accessibility and variety of attractions and<br />
activities that we take for granted. So pack your bags and<br />
discover the top of the South Island on a round trip road trip!<br />
Hanmer Springs is just 90 minutes from Christchurch and the<br />
ideal first stop for post-wedding relaxation. Ever since the hot<br />
springs were discovered in 1859, they have been luring us for<br />
a stress-less soak and alpine retreat all year round. <strong>With</strong> hot<br />
pools, sauna, hydro slide and large lido pool, you can enjoy the<br />
water by day or in the evening and pamper yourselves with a<br />
spa treatment or couples massage too.<br />
Surrounded by hills, rivers, forest and mountains, adventure<br />
isn’t far away either; jet boating, fishing, bungy jumping,<br />
mountain biking, horse treks, walks, golf and skiing in winter!<br />
Stay at the iconic art deco Heritage Hotel which has been the<br />
heart of the village for decades. Enjoy its restored facilities or<br />
on-site villas while you browse Hanmer’s shops and restaurants.<br />
Alternatively, treat yourselves to a luxury stay at nearby Select<br />
Braemar Lodge or contemporary accommodation like Village<br />
Lake apartments.<br />
Make your way north to Nelson, where you will<br />
find some of the best beaches and sunshine hours in the<br />
country. Visit its markets, arts precincts and galleries<br />
to discover its deserved reputation for being an arts<br />
and crafts mecca. Be mesmerised by its permanent<br />
display of Wearable Art alongside a remarkable Classic<br />
Car Museum.<br />
<strong>With</strong> abundant seafood and a climate that nurtures<br />
fruit, vegetables and wine production, you have an<br />
organic foodie’s heaven. Take a wine or arts trail to<br />
Mapua or Motueka or visit Abel Tasman National Park<br />
for stunning walks, kayaking and remote hideaway bays<br />
like Awaroa Inlet, New Zealand’s recently purchased<br />
crowd-funded beach.<br />
Stay in Nelson city at the Rutherford Hotel, close<br />
to shopping and entertainment, enjoy a beachfront<br />
apartment at Tahuna or a beautifully appointed cottage<br />
with village ambience at the Monaco Grand Mercure.<br />
Travel east to Marlborough where the magnificent<br />
deep water sounds are as beautiful as the region’s<br />
wines. The home of world class Sauvignon Blancs,<br />
enjoy wonderful trails that conclude with tastings and<br />
a winery lunch or call in at Blenheim to experience<br />
aviation heritage at Omaka.<br />
Take to the water with cruises,<br />
kayaking, sailing trips and charter fishing.<br />
Be transported by boat to waterfront<br />
accommodation at Furneaux Lodge,<br />
Lochmara or Punga Cove for rest,<br />
relaxation and romance or luxury lodge<br />
indulgence at the Bay of Many Coves.<br />
Hug the scenic coast all the way to<br />
Kaikoura, where a marine experience<br />
awaits. Visit seals on the rocks, see pelagic<br />
birds on the wing and whale watch from<br />
the air or on the water. Discover the town’s<br />
historic whaling past, get fabulous views<br />
on a quad bike tour and then savour the<br />
crayfish Kaikoura is famous for at<br />
Nin’s Bin on the shore. For novelty and<br />
luxury stay in a purpose built tree house<br />
at Hapuku Lodge!<br />
Return to Christchurch via the Waipara<br />
Valley where a lunch at Canterbury Wuines<br />
or Pegasus Bay will not disappoint. Or<br />
turn inland at Waiau and treat yourselves<br />
to one more indulgent hot soak and swim<br />
at Hanmer to conclude your honeymoon<br />
where it began.
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Amazing Days, based in<br />
Hanmer Springs is owned<br />
by Debbs Moody who has<br />
9 years experience working<br />
with happy couples in<br />
Hanmer Springs.<br />
Amazing Days has huge<br />
knowledge of all aspects of<br />
preparing for your wedding,<br />
from venues in Hanmer<br />
Springs and the Hurunui<br />
District, to local make-up<br />
artists and hairdressers.<br />
Hanmer Springs is a<br />
popular destination for<br />
couples who are looking to<br />
celebrate their wedding for more<br />
than one day with their family<br />
and friends. <strong>With</strong> a large range<br />
of options from campgrounds,<br />
boutique properties and private<br />
homes to the popular Hurunui<br />
Winery, Marble Point Winery, Hot<br />
Springs Motor Lodge or Heritage<br />
Hotel, there is a venue just perfect<br />
for you and your loved one to<br />
celebrate your special day.<br />
Debbs Moody from Amazing<br />
Days is also a registered Marriage<br />
Celebrant and works with her<br />
couples to create the ceremony<br />
they are looking for. No question<br />
about weddings is too big for<br />
Amazing Days.<br />
Hanmer Springs has such<br />
uniquely stunning wedding venues<br />
and scenery that there is bound<br />
to e something for everyone. And<br />
no visit to the beautiful village<br />
is complete without a visit to<br />
Hanmer Springs Thermal Pools<br />
and Spa or the new Artisan Spa<br />
which specialises in papering and<br />
preparing wedding couples for their<br />
day.<br />
Amazing Days also has a<br />
selection of centrepieces for hire<br />
and by working with Amazing Days,<br />
they will help you find your perfect<br />
wedding venue and help create your<br />
perfect ceremony.<br />
HANMER SPRINGS PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
APARTMENTS<br />
The Village Lake<br />
Apartments offer guests 5<br />
Star Qualmark luxury and<br />
an idyllic lakeside setting in<br />
Hanmer Springs.<br />
The 13 beautifully appointed<br />
premier apartments comprise 9<br />
with 2 bedrooms plus 4 spacious<br />
3 bedroom suites and feature<br />
‘Imagine a place so luxurious and<br />
comfortable you never want to leave’<br />
Nestled in the centre of this gorgeous<br />
Alpine Village we have the ultimate<br />
in luxury 5 Star Accommodation<br />
offering intimate Weddings and special<br />
occasions for up to 60 guests<br />
furnishings of timeless<br />
elegance and quality.<br />
The self contained<br />
accommodation with<br />
full kitchens and<br />
relaxing spa baths in<br />
most units provides a<br />
wonderful opportunity to enjoy<br />
Hanmer Springs at any time of<br />
the year, but the Village Lake<br />
Apartments is also a stylish<br />
venue to celebrate a wedding,<br />
anniversary or honeymoon.<br />
Intimate weddings can be held<br />
in a gazebo or lakeside lawn and<br />
catering can be<br />
arranged for up<br />
to 60 guests for<br />
canapés or an<br />
elegant sit down<br />
dinner for 20.<br />
All your wedding<br />
plans can be<br />
arranged locally<br />
in Hanmer<br />
leaving you free<br />
to enjoy every<br />
minute of your special day.<br />
“We love to spoil our guests<br />
and guarantee you will leave with<br />
wonderful memories”<br />
say your Village Lake hosts Bryan<br />
and Cathy Berryman.<br />
www.villagelake.co.nz
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THE<br />
PHOTO: EMMA BRITTENDEN<br />
More and more kiwis are opting to go<br />
away to get married and it’s easy to see<br />
why. A group of friends and family relaxing<br />
on holiday together and creating lifelong<br />
memories is the perfect setting for a<br />
wedding. The ceremony and reception<br />
are often just the icing on the cake!<br />
<strong>With</strong> a wish list that included “a<br />
good photographer, great music<br />
and our own style and design of<br />
decorations,” the couple were<br />
also keen to involve family and<br />
friends in their wedding plans.<br />
“The flowers on the tables were<br />
in pottery vases that I made at my<br />
auntie’s pottery studio in Diamond<br />
Harbour with some friends, my<br />
Mum and my aunties – it was a<br />
great crafty thing for everyone to<br />
get involved in during the winter<br />
months” laughs Alana.<br />
Photographer Cam McDermid<br />
was a friend of Alana’s brother and<br />
he captured the whole day through<br />
and into the evening. Adam Caves,<br />
another friend was a gem setter so<br />
“we were very privileged to have<br />
my wedding band and engagement<br />
ring made by him and go through<br />
the amazing process of designing<br />
my own unique ring.” Not to be<br />
outdone, Hayden, who was a<br />
graphic designer also created the<br />
stationery for the wedding which<br />
Alana agreed “was a great way to<br />
include him in the organising!”<br />
Alana’s exquisite wedding<br />
dress had an art deco look with a<br />
low back, rucching, buttons and<br />
two layers of lace, the top layer<br />
being beautifully beaded. “I loved<br />
everything about it and topped it off<br />
with a long veil that was so soft and<br />
elegant.” The gown was made by<br />
Christine Reeves, an experienced<br />
and renowned dressmaker in<br />
Christchurch. “She had made my<br />
sister-in law’s dress and had done<br />
such a great job that I wanted her to<br />
do mine.”<br />
Alana’s bridesmaids wore<br />
dresses they sourced at Forever<br />
New. The simple style in navy was<br />
a very flattering colour that suited<br />
everyone and was offset by neutral<br />
flowers with “a pop of peach” created<br />
by Aromaunga florists. The guys’<br />
grey suits from Hallensteins were<br />
worn with crisp white shirts and<br />
black ties, complemented by peach<br />
buttonholes and a peach tie for<br />
Hayden.<br />
Forsaking tradition, Alana and<br />
Hayden chose to have their photos<br />
taken at Mona Vale before the<br />
wedding! “We were less nervous for<br />
the ceremony and had time together<br />
without rushing back to the guests.<br />
The boys arrived first and set up by<br />
the fountain for the girls to walk in<br />
for the “grand reveal” then the bridal<br />
party had a picnic at Mona Vale<br />
before setting off for Trent’s.”<br />
Using a 1927 vintage car owned<br />
by their groomsman’s grandfather,<br />
Alana arrived at Trent’s for the 3pm<br />
ceremony which was held outdoors<br />
facing “horses in the paddocks and<br />
doves in the trees.” “We wanted our<br />
parents all involved so Hayden’s Dad<br />
gave us the rings, we had our Mums<br />
sign the register for us, but it was<br />
very special to have Dad walk me<br />
down the aisle because he had been<br />
very ill and couldn’t even walk a year<br />
before the wedding.”<br />
<strong>With</strong> their formal photos already<br />
taken, Alana and Hayden were able<br />
to share canapés and their wedding<br />
cake by Sugar Baby Cakery after<br />
the ceremony. Then it was time to<br />
enjoy music, dancing and a delicious<br />
barbeque as well as a photo booth set<br />
up in a boat – which everyone loved!<br />
“Our wedding venue organiser<br />
Amanda made the day run<br />
seamlessly, the speeches were<br />
brilliant which made us feel very<br />
loved, we wished the dancing could<br />
have gone on longer, but best of all<br />
was having all our friends and family<br />
in one place to enjoy our day with<br />
us.”
Helping you create your perfect wedding.<br />
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