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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />

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PUBLISHER<br />

Mauricio Portillo<br />

EDITOR IN CHIEF<br />

Claudia Portillo<br />

"Be<strong>in</strong>g<br />

healthy and<br />

fit is no longer<br />

a fad or a trend<br />

it's a Lifestyle."<br />

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Arnaldo Del Valle<br />

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ASSISTANT COPY EDITOR<br />

Andres Portillo<br />

WEBSITE DIRECTOR<br />

Maria Alejandra Wehdek<strong>in</strong>g<br />

ART AND DESIGN<br />

Carol<strong>in</strong>a Pedraza<br />

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PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Eliana Palacios<br />

SOCIAL MEDIA DIRECTOR<br />

Maria Alejandra Wehdek<strong>in</strong>g<br />

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />

Craig Tanio, MD<br />

Meg Meeker, MD<br />

Laurie Anderson<br />

Sarah May Bates<br />

Jenn Baxter<br />

Cassandra Claude<br />

Alan Freeman<br />

Vanessa Jackson<br />

Rubel Shelly<br />

Eilleen Smith<br />

Claudia Portillo<br />

Julianna Lowe<br />

Sarah Wester<br />

Claudia Portillo<br />

Editor <strong>in</strong> Chief<br />

Here we are aga<strong>in</strong> – at <strong>the</strong> beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g of what I know will be a wonderful year. There are so many<br />

wonderful th<strong>in</strong>gs to look forward to <strong>in</strong> this year. I can practically feel <strong>the</strong> stars align<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

As we look ahead, we here at <strong>Healthy</strong> have our eye on <strong>the</strong> great th<strong>in</strong>gs to come. Excitement is <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> air<br />

here and everywhere. We made it through 2017, hopefully a little wiser, stronger than ever before, and<br />

ready to roar <strong>in</strong> 2018.<br />

Our focus this year is to help you have your best year yet. Out with <strong>the</strong> old and <strong>in</strong> with what really<br />

matters <strong>in</strong> our lives: our health, our families, our friendships. After <strong>the</strong> long, difficult days of w<strong>in</strong>ter, we’re<br />

ready for a fresh start. A sea of change is com<strong>in</strong>g, and we couldn’t be more thrilled. We have so many<br />

th<strong>in</strong>gs to share with you <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> months to come. We want to help you get back to stress-free liv<strong>in</strong>g, grow<br />

closer to your loved ones, take care of your bodies and m<strong>in</strong>ds, and help you f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>the</strong> best recipes to<br />

share with friends and family.<br />

We have a lot planned that we know you’ll enjoy. We’re go<strong>in</strong>g to pay homage to busy moms out <strong>the</strong>re<br />

and make sure we have plenty of tips and tricks to make <strong>the</strong> lives of women everywhere easier and much<br />

more fulfill<strong>in</strong>g. We want to focus on mak<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> most of what you have and rem<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g you of all that<br />

makes you wonderfully unique and <strong>the</strong> epitome of modern day perfection.<br />

Stay tuned for all <strong>the</strong> latest <strong>in</strong>formation, all <strong>the</strong> life-chang<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>novations, delicious and easy-to-make<br />

recipes, and good-for-you advice with a healthy dose of fun to keep you com<strong>in</strong>g back for more.<br />

Let’s get this year started off on <strong>the</strong> right foot and make it <strong>the</strong> most spectacular years of our lives yet!<br />

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ISSUE <strong>56</strong><br />

EDITORIAL CONTENT<br />

FITNESS & BEAUTY<br />

AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO TAKING<br />

CARE OF YOUR SKIN IN YOUR 30S<br />

SILKY SMOOTH, SOFT SKIN IS<br />

ONLY A FEW STEPS AWAY<br />

HEALTHY FOOD<br />

HEALTHY EATING FOR<br />

WOMEN ON THE GO<br />

HOW TO MAKE DELICIOUS<br />

VEGAN SUSHI AT HOME<br />

30<br />

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HEALTHY KIDS<br />

HOW TO RAISE<br />

UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />

LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />

BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />

EASY GO-TO MEALS<br />

FOR NEW MOMS<br />

HEALTHY BODY,<br />

MIND & SOUL<br />

LIFE AMONG THE OUTCASTS<br />

6 STEPS TO BECOMING A<br />

BETTER LISTENER<br />

ADDRESSING YOUR ENERGY<br />

IN THE NEW YEAR<br />

HOW TO GET OVER AND<br />

PREVENT OLD CONFLICTS<br />

FROM HOLDING YOU BACK<br />

THE SOUND OF SILENCE<br />

5 THINGS TO DO WHEN NEGATIVE<br />

EMOTIONS AND SELF-TALK<br />

TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE<br />

THE SECRET TO A<br />

HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

I<br />

read a book over <strong>the</strong> recent holiday break that<br />

I am requir<strong>in</strong>g of students <strong>in</strong> one of my classes.<br />

It says several th<strong>in</strong>gs most of us desperately<br />

need to hear.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> Sanctuary of Outcasts is <strong>the</strong> true story of<br />

a man jailed <strong>in</strong> a m<strong>in</strong>imum-security prison that<br />

shared a property with <strong>the</strong> last leper colony<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> United States. Elderly, disfigured, long<br />

isolated from <strong>the</strong> larger culture, many without<br />

family and most without acceptance – <strong>the</strong><br />

national health service was allow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> patients<br />

to rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>re until <strong>the</strong>y died. Thus a group<br />

of marg<strong>in</strong>alized souls and “outcasts” nurtured<br />

each o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> face of <strong>the</strong> outside world’s<br />

rejection.<br />

The book tells how Neil White – at first scared<br />

of <strong>the</strong> disease and determ<strong>in</strong>ed to avoid its<br />

victims – underwent a time of reflection, soulsearch<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

and spiritual <strong>in</strong>sight. “F<strong>in</strong>ally, <strong>in</strong> a<br />

sanctuary for outcasts, I understood <strong>the</strong> truth,”<br />

he writes. “Surrounded by men and women who<br />

could not hide <strong>the</strong>ir disfigurement, I could see<br />

my own.”<br />

White and an 80-year-old African-American<br />

woman named Ella – a wheelchair-bound double<br />

amputee because of her disease – became<br />

friends. He summarizes <strong>the</strong> lesson he learned<br />

from <strong>the</strong> Roman Catholic priest,<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r Reynolds, who m<strong>in</strong>istered to <strong>the</strong> little<br />

church <strong>in</strong>side <strong>the</strong> compound of patients and<br />

crim<strong>in</strong>als: “Pride, he said, was an excessive belief<br />

<strong>in</strong> our own abilities. Lost <strong>in</strong> our own pride, he<br />

expla<strong>in</strong>ed, we are unable to recognize grace.”<br />

As White prepared to go back to <strong>the</strong> outside<br />

world, <strong>the</strong> thought came to him that he needed<br />

a church <strong>the</strong>re like <strong>the</strong> one prisoners and lepers<br />

had shared. “Not just any church. A place like<br />

<strong>the</strong> church at Carville. Where <strong>the</strong> parishioners<br />

were broken and chipped and cracked. A<br />

place to go when I needed help. A place to ask<br />

forgiveness. A sacred place where people were<br />

not consumed with image or money. I didn’t<br />

know if a church like this existed, but if it did I<br />

would go.”<br />

Now that Mr. White is free, I hope he<br />

remembered <strong>the</strong> lessons he learned <strong>in</strong> jail. And<br />

I hope he found that church he was hop<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

f<strong>in</strong>d – a church that can love and accept, hold<br />

accountable and nurture, give <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit<br />

time to redeem and transform. That By Rubel is <strong>the</strong> Shelly sort<br />

of church everybody needs to f<strong>in</strong>d.<br />

For <strong>the</strong> many who th<strong>in</strong>k <strong>the</strong>ir lives don’t count<br />

and that <strong>the</strong>y are nobodies, Jesus put <strong>the</strong><br />

church <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> world to say, “You matter to <strong>the</strong><br />

God who knows your name – and he sent us<br />

to f<strong>in</strong>d you. Welcome to our sanctuary for <strong>the</strong><br />

outcasts.”<br />

By Rubel Shelly<br />

9 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />

HOW TO RAISE<br />

UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />

Technology. Technology everywhere.<br />

It was supposed to make our lives<br />

easier, make us feel more connected.<br />

But when you’ve always dreamed<br />

of rais<strong>in</strong>g kids <strong>the</strong> way you were—carefree<br />

and <strong>in</strong> a constant state of movement—<br />

technology can make it difficult.<br />

Kids know how to operate tablets and<br />

smartphones before <strong>the</strong>y learn how to walk<br />

<strong>in</strong> most cases. Devices have become <strong>in</strong>stant<br />

babysitters. They’re easy and convenient.<br />

All you have to do is pull your phone out of<br />

your back pocket or purse and hand it off.<br />

Whoosh! Hours of m<strong>in</strong>dless enterta<strong>in</strong>ment<br />

for your wee little one. While that may be<br />

simple and easy for you now, before long that<br />

same child you handed your devices to wants<br />

bigger and better and more m<strong>in</strong>d-numb<strong>in</strong>g<br />

fun. Soon, <strong>in</strong>stead of play<strong>in</strong>g outside,<br />

climb<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> trees or learn<strong>in</strong>g to ride a bike,<br />

<strong>the</strong>y’re beh<strong>in</strong>d closed doors, eyes glued to a<br />

screen and near comatose because of <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

new gadgets.<br />

I experienced<br />

that self<strong>in</strong>duced<br />

phenomenon<br />

<strong>in</strong> my<br />

own house. I craved m<strong>in</strong>imalism. I wanted<br />

a happy, carefree environment that was<br />

unencumbered by <strong>the</strong> pressures of most<br />

modern-day demands. I wanted to bake from<br />

scratch, to sew our cloth<strong>in</strong>g and spend as<br />

much time as possible away from devices.<br />

Then, reality set <strong>in</strong>. The kids went to school<br />

and technology played a major role <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

learn<strong>in</strong>g experience. They were <strong>in</strong> front of<br />

devices <strong>in</strong> school. Yikes!<br />

We were a busy bunch. With work<br />

commitments and extra-curricular activities<br />

tak<strong>in</strong>g up so much of our time, I resorted to<br />

lett<strong>in</strong>g technology keep <strong>the</strong> kids occupied<br />

while I rushed to get everyth<strong>in</strong>g done <strong>in</strong> time<br />

for <strong>the</strong> next activity. It dra<strong>in</strong>ed our energy<br />

and created a disconnect between us. I had<br />

to f<strong>in</strong>d a way to get our priorities straight.<br />

True m<strong>in</strong>imalism was <strong>the</strong> answer. It can help<br />

you get your kids out of <strong>the</strong> technology time<br />

suck and back to real, mean<strong>in</strong>gful life.<br />

1<br />

Th<strong>in</strong>k hard about what your family<br />

values are. What really matters to<br />

you? Once you nail those down, you<br />

can build from <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

By Allie Casazza<br />

Decide how and when you’re<br />

2 go<strong>in</strong>g to elim<strong>in</strong>ate <strong>the</strong> use of<br />

technology. No devices at <strong>the</strong><br />

d<strong>in</strong>ner table? No devices after 7 PM?<br />

You make <strong>the</strong> rules and stick to <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

3<br />

Plan for a screen-free hour,<br />

even<strong>in</strong>g, day, weekend, <strong>the</strong>n week.<br />

Baby steps will get you to where<br />

you want to be.<br />

Follow a rout<strong>in</strong>e. Studies show<br />

that it takes 21 days to form a new<br />

4<br />

habit. Start <strong>the</strong> countdown now<br />

and soon be<strong>in</strong>g device free will be<br />

like second nature.<br />

Set yourself up for success. Have<br />

5<br />

designated spots to keep <strong>the</strong><br />

devices (not <strong>the</strong> bedrooms). Set<br />

ground rules, make contracts, know<br />

your schedules. Obviously, if <strong>the</strong> kids need<br />

devices for homework, <strong>the</strong>y should be<br />

allowed to use <strong>the</strong>m but only dur<strong>in</strong>g that<br />

dedicated time.<br />

6<br />

7<br />

Be present. The rules you give to<br />

<strong>the</strong> kids should be followed by all<br />

<strong>the</strong> adults <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> house.<br />

Get your kids <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

decision mak<strong>in</strong>g. They’ll be more<br />

receptive to change if <strong>the</strong>y’re part<br />

of <strong>the</strong> process.<br />

10 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


<strong>Healthy</strong> Kids<br />

HOW TO RAISE<br />

UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />

LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />

BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />

EASY GO-TO MEALS<br />

FOR NEW MOMS<br />

10<br />

12<br />

14<br />

"Children<br />

close <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

ears to advice<br />

but open<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir eyes to<br />

example."


HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />

CHILDREN DON’T WANT<br />

CHRONICALLY BUSY<br />

PARENTS, THEY WANT<br />

PRESENT PARENTS WHO LIKE<br />

BEING WITH THEM.<br />

LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />

BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />

Mom, dad, I get it. There’s just one more<br />

th<strong>in</strong>g you need to get done. Right after<br />

that one o<strong>the</strong>r th<strong>in</strong>g, which of course,<br />

is right after <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r th<strong>in</strong>g. There’s always just<br />

one… more… th<strong>in</strong>g. Does it ever stop?!?<br />

The truth is, no, IT never stops. Which means its<br />

up to YOU to do <strong>the</strong> stopp<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

Busyness is certa<strong>in</strong>ly noth<strong>in</strong>g new, but we are<br />

liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a day when parents are wear<strong>in</strong>g “busy”<br />

and “exhausted” as badges at an alarm<strong>in</strong>g rate, as<br />

if <strong>the</strong> quality of our parent<strong>in</strong>g equals <strong>the</strong> quantity<br />

of our activity. Let me let you <strong>in</strong> on a little secret…<br />

SPOILER ALERT: it doesn’t!<br />

SPOILER ALERT: <strong>the</strong> quality of your parent<strong>in</strong>g<br />

does not equal <strong>the</strong> quantity of your activity.<br />

For parents, it is true what <strong>the</strong>y say: <strong>the</strong> days are<br />

long, but <strong>the</strong> years are short. The lie that “busy”<br />

tells you is “you’ll have time for it later”. And <strong>the</strong>n<br />

later comes, <strong>the</strong>n comes aga<strong>in</strong>, and aga<strong>in</strong>, and<br />

before you know it, you look up and all <strong>the</strong> “laters”<br />

have come and gone and <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> meantime you<br />

missed out on <strong>the</strong> many everyday moments that<br />

are such a gift <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> life of a parent.<br />

If you f<strong>in</strong>d yourself fight<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> battle of busy<br />

struggl<strong>in</strong>g to be present for <strong>the</strong> everyday<br />

moments <strong>in</strong> your life, here are 4 th<strong>in</strong>gs I want to<br />

challenge you with:<br />

Slow Down! Seriously. Make a<br />

01 commitment to yourself to slow down<br />

<strong>the</strong> pace of your life. In order to do this, you<br />

will need to make some changes- ei<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> activities that your kids are <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong><br />

or <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> activities/work schedule that you<br />

have. F<strong>in</strong>d ONE th<strong>in</strong>g that you can ei<strong>the</strong>r cut<br />

back on or completely remove that will open<br />

up time <strong>in</strong> your life for you to brea<strong>the</strong> a bit.<br />

It will be hard but remember, giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself<br />

<strong>the</strong> gift of time or your child <strong>the</strong> gift of<br />

more time with you will br<strong>in</strong>g you only good.<br />

NOTHING bad comes from spend<strong>in</strong>g more<br />

time with your family and giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself<br />

more unhurried time will dramatically<br />

improve <strong>the</strong> quality of your life. So make<br />

changes, small changes at first, and do not be<br />

afraid!<br />

Take off <strong>the</strong> badge of exhaustion. Most<br />

02 mo<strong>the</strong>rs, whe<strong>the</strong>r work<strong>in</strong>g outside<br />

<strong>the</strong> home or not, believe <strong>the</strong>y are tougher,<br />

stronger and more accomplished if <strong>the</strong>y live<br />

so busy that <strong>the</strong>y are exhausted. If you are<br />

an exhausted mo<strong>the</strong>r, ask yourself “Why do<br />

I thrive on be<strong>in</strong>g exhausted? What mental or<br />

emotional benefit am I gett<strong>in</strong>g from liv<strong>in</strong>g<br />

so frenetically?” Then make a commitment<br />

to yourself to reject <strong>the</strong>se feel<strong>in</strong>gs. They are<br />

not reasonable, <strong>the</strong>y are irrational and very<br />

unhealthy. Children don’t want chronically<br />

busy, exhausted parents, <strong>the</strong>y want present<br />

parents who like be<strong>in</strong>g with <strong>the</strong>m. Likewise,<br />

your boss doesn’t need someone who can’t<br />

function well because you are so tired. They<br />

need someone who can th<strong>in</strong>k on her feet,<br />

take care of her emotional, mental and<br />

physical health and be <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>re for <strong>the</strong> long<br />

haul.<br />

Be Courageous Enough to Live<br />

03 Differently from your peers. One of<br />

<strong>the</strong> best exercises I have done is ask myself<br />

why I do what I do. If I am contemplat<strong>in</strong>g<br />

tak<strong>in</strong>g on ano<strong>the</strong>r project, even if it is small, I<br />

have a heart to heart with myself and ask why<br />

would I take this on? Often I f<strong>in</strong>d that I don’t<br />

really have a reason o<strong>the</strong>r than <strong>the</strong> belief that<br />

I should do it because it would be expected<br />

of me. THIS is NOT a good reason. I have to<br />

tell myself NO to many th<strong>in</strong>gs and it is critical<br />

for all moms and dads to do this. There will<br />

likely be push back from friends and family<br />

who are accustomed to one th<strong>in</strong>g from you,<br />

but if we want peace, we must learn to be<br />

comfortable with liv<strong>in</strong>g very differently. The<br />

truth is, many of those people will actually be<br />

jealous. They may want to do exactly what we<br />

are do<strong>in</strong>g but need someone to follow.<br />

Trust <strong>Your</strong> Inst<strong>in</strong>cts. The truth is, your<br />

04 <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts are <strong>the</strong>re for a reason. They<br />

may stem from your th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>the</strong> way you<br />

were tra<strong>in</strong>ed to th<strong>in</strong>k and believe. But 99%<br />

of <strong>the</strong> time <strong>the</strong>y protect you and you need to<br />

listen to <strong>the</strong>m. One of my biggest frustrations<br />

work<strong>in</strong>g with conscientious parents is <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

fear of listen<strong>in</strong>g to what <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct tells<br />

<strong>the</strong>m to do when it comes to parent<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR<br />

PARENTING, WHAT ARE YOUR<br />

INSTINCTS TELLING YOU<br />

ABOUT HOW YOU SPEND<br />

YOUR TIME?<br />

SO let me ask you a frank question now: when it<br />

comes to your parent<strong>in</strong>g, what are your <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts<br />

tell<strong>in</strong>g you about how you spend your time? Are<br />

<strong>the</strong>y tell<strong>in</strong>g you that you need to pull back a little?<br />

Slow down just a bit or erase someth<strong>in</strong>g that you<br />

are currently do<strong>in</strong>g that is mak<strong>in</strong>g you exhausted? I<br />

want to tell you- listen to those <strong>in</strong>ner voices. They<br />

are aris<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> you because you need someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

that you are resist<strong>in</strong>g giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself. Do you really<br />

want to deprive yourself or your children of <strong>the</strong><br />

common sense that your <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts are tell<strong>in</strong>g you<br />

to do? What keeps you from not listen<strong>in</strong>g to your<br />

gut?<br />

Parents, <strong>the</strong> battle of busy is not an easy one, but<br />

it is one of <strong>the</strong> most important ones and it must<br />

be waged and won!<br />

By Meg Meeker, MD<br />

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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />

EASY<br />

GO-TO<br />

MEALS<br />

FOR NEW<br />

MOMS<br />

Hav<strong>in</strong>g a baby is a huge transition<br />

for you <strong>in</strong>side and out. <strong>Your</strong> body<br />

changes, your hormones change,<br />

you're physically and emotionally dra<strong>in</strong>ed—all<br />

before your little bundle of joy enters <strong>the</strong><br />

world. After <strong>the</strong> baby arrives, it’s all you can<br />

do to get used to your little one and to adjust<br />

to a new, often sleepless schedule. <strong>Your</strong><br />

energy levels take a nose dive if you’re not<br />

careful. While it may be easy to grab a quick<br />

snack here and <strong>the</strong>re, it’s def<strong>in</strong>itely not good<br />

for you or <strong>the</strong> baby. Nurs<strong>in</strong>g moms need<br />

good nutrition to keep <strong>the</strong>ir energy levels up<br />

and to keep <strong>the</strong>mselves and baby as healthy<br />

as possible. So, how do you f<strong>in</strong>d time to make<br />

nutritious meals when you’re on mom duty?<br />

The first rule is to make <strong>the</strong> time. If you’re not<br />

eat<strong>in</strong>g right, you run <strong>the</strong> risk of hav<strong>in</strong>g your<br />

milk deplete, not to mention hav<strong>in</strong>g your<br />

mental capacity fall drastically. Nei<strong>the</strong>r you<br />

nor your baby need to suffer from hunger.<br />

(We know. It feels like your baby is always<br />

hungry. It gets better, we promise.) Boost<strong>in</strong>g<br />

your milk supply will help.<br />

Here’s <strong>the</strong> good news. Nurs<strong>in</strong>g is a real<br />

workout. If you’re do<strong>in</strong>g it all day long—and<br />

who isn’t—you're burn<strong>in</strong>g anywhere from<br />

400 to 600 calories just from breastfeed<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

That’s better than a quick jaunt around <strong>the</strong><br />

block. Now you see why you always feel like<br />

you’re starv<strong>in</strong>g. You practically are if you’re<br />

not eat<strong>in</strong>g right.<br />

By Alan Freeman<br />

Here are some delicious go-to meals that are<br />

good for you, your grow<strong>in</strong>g baby and your<br />

energy levels:<br />

Salmon supports<br />

your baby’s bra<strong>in</strong> and<br />

ret<strong>in</strong>a development via<br />

breastmilk. It also gives<br />

moms a great boost<br />

with its Omega-3 fats.<br />

Yes, FATS. They’re good<br />

for you. For even more,<br />

eat grass-fed beef and bison—all <strong>the</strong> same<br />

goodness with a little more bite.<br />

Avocado. We love<br />

this nutrient-packed<br />

delight, which can<br />

stave off hunger pangs<br />

for up to three hours.<br />

They also regulate<br />

blood sugar levels,<br />

which will help keep your mood steady. Add<br />

this delicious treat as a side dish on your<br />

d<strong>in</strong>ner plate, eat it alone or roll up a no-carb<br />

tortilla with a little chicken and you’re good<br />

to go for hours. Yum!<br />

Cucumbers<br />

and sp<strong>in</strong>ach are<br />

magnesium-rich<br />

gems that calm <strong>the</strong><br />

nervous system<br />

and regulate <strong>the</strong> release of<br />

seroton<strong>in</strong>, <strong>the</strong> happy hormone, <strong>in</strong> your body.<br />

Add <strong>the</strong>m to fresh salads or to your morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />

smoothie. Eat with hummus dip or make a<br />

cucumber sandwich.<br />

Almonds are loaded with z<strong>in</strong>c<br />

that helps fight <strong>in</strong>flammation<br />

and keeps you healthy with<br />

its good-for-you fats. You can<br />

chop <strong>the</strong>m up and eat <strong>the</strong>m over pla<strong>in</strong> Greek<br />

yogurt for a quick snack or add <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

salads or stir-fry.<br />

Chocolate. Yes,<br />

you can eat<br />

chocolate! Choose<br />

dark chocolate<br />

to get <strong>the</strong> most benefit. It will curb crav<strong>in</strong>gs,<br />

improve your mood, and decrease anxiety<br />

and depression. Drizzle chocolate over fresh<br />

fruit or <strong>in</strong> a cup of Greek yogurt or eat alone.<br />

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

6<br />

STEPS TO<br />

BECOMING<br />

A BETTER<br />

LISTENER<br />

We’re all guilty of it. We do it with our<br />

children. We do it with our significant<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r. We even do it with our employers.<br />

We half-listen, nodd<strong>in</strong>g and gr<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g where<br />

appropriate but never really hear<strong>in</strong>g a word.<br />

Our devices have become our lifel<strong>in</strong>es. We’re<br />

always plugged <strong>in</strong> and never <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right<br />

place. The truth is we’re miss<strong>in</strong>g out on so<br />

much around us because we’re never fully<br />

tuned <strong>in</strong> to <strong>the</strong> world.<br />

I’ll be <strong>the</strong> first to admit, I am <strong>the</strong> queen of<br />

people who never listen. Ask my children. It’s<br />

been years s<strong>in</strong>ce I sat down and gave <strong>the</strong>m<br />

my undivided attention and I’m not proud of<br />

it. I’ve missed out on so much. Arguments<br />

could have been avoided and missed<br />

appo<strong>in</strong>tments, late fees, and a host of o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

embarrass<strong>in</strong>g gaffes didn’t have to happen. I<br />

f<strong>in</strong>ally had to admit I had a problem and do<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g about it.<br />

There’s no magic elixir, no time mach<strong>in</strong>e, no<br />

‘reclaim<strong>in</strong>g my time’ because I dropped <strong>the</strong><br />

ball repeatedly. I did what any self-respect<strong>in</strong>g<br />

pseudo-<strong>in</strong>tellectual would do: I researched<br />

<strong>the</strong> problem and looked for a solution. Here’s<br />

what I discovered: I’m not <strong>the</strong> only person <strong>in</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> world who does this. What a relief that<br />

was!<br />

Now, here are a few simple solutions to break<br />

this bad habit and get you plugged <strong>in</strong>to your<br />

life aga<strong>in</strong>:<br />

01.<br />

Put your phone away. No kidd<strong>in</strong>g! You’re not<br />

fully engaged if you’re distracted by your<br />

news feed or constantly check<strong>in</strong>g emails, text<br />

messages, or posts. Despite what you may<br />

have heard, you are not superhuman. Our<br />

bra<strong>in</strong>s can’t handle more than one activity at<br />

a time. Someth<strong>in</strong>g will go wrong.<br />

02.<br />

Feed your curiosity. Take some time without<br />

your devices to explore your neighborhood,<br />

go on an adventure, take a hike, or do<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g that engages both your m<strong>in</strong>d and<br />

your body.<br />

03.<br />

This goes without say<strong>in</strong>g but listen.Truly<br />

listen. Don’t spend your time try<strong>in</strong>g to come<br />

up with a response, just hear people out.<br />

04.<br />

Listen so <strong>in</strong>tently that you can tell someone<br />

everyth<strong>in</strong>g that was said. You never know,<br />

that might be a skill that comes <strong>in</strong> handy one<br />

day.<br />

05.<br />

Look <strong>the</strong> speaker <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> eye. That shows<br />

you're truly engaged. There’s noth<strong>in</strong>g more<br />

annoy<strong>in</strong>g than speak<strong>in</strong>g to someone who is<br />

clearly distracted. Aga<strong>in</strong>, your bra<strong>in</strong> can only<br />

handle one activity at a time.<br />

06.<br />

Don’t speak until you’re sure <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r person<br />

is done talk<strong>in</strong>g. Their words have value. Show<br />

<strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> same respect you would want.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> end, you’ll f<strong>in</strong>d that it’s much easier to<br />

get along with someone if you listen to <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

Be<strong>in</strong>g present tells <strong>the</strong>m you care, you value<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir op<strong>in</strong>ions, and that you are someone<br />

who can be trusted. Whe<strong>the</strong>r it’s your boss,<br />

your kids, your spouse, or a stranger, <strong>the</strong>y all<br />

deserve to be heard. Now, get your listen<strong>in</strong>g<br />

ears on and start a conversation.<br />

By Julianna Lowe<br />

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<strong>Healthy</strong><br />

Lifestyle<br />

LIFE AMONG THE OUTCASTS<br />

6 STEPS TO BECOMING A<br />

BETTER LISTENER<br />

ADDRESSING YOUR ENERGY<br />

IN THE NEW YEAR<br />

HOW TO GET OVER AND<br />

PREVENT OLD CONFLICTS<br />

FROM HOLDING YOU BACK<br />

THE SOUND OF SILENCE<br />

5 THINGS TO DO WHEN NEGATIVE<br />

EMOTIONS AND SELF-TALK<br />

TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE<br />

THE SECRET TO A<br />

HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />

9<br />

16<br />

20<br />

22<br />

24<br />

26<br />

28<br />

"The<br />

groundwork of<br />

all happ<strong>in</strong>ess is<br />

good health."<br />

-Leigh Hunt


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HEALTHY COVER STORY KIDS · OCTOBER JANUARY 2018 2017<br />

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

ADDRESSING<br />

YOUR ENERGY IN<br />

THE NEW YEAR<br />

One of <strong>the</strong> most common, and often challeng<strong>in</strong>g<br />

concerns I see <strong>in</strong> my office is fatigue. When we<br />

are young, most of us have seem<strong>in</strong>gly limitless<br />

energy: we may keep crazy hours, seem to<br />

perform well on little sleep, and bounce back from stressors<br />

with relative ease.<br />

As we age, energy becomes more of an issue, and as an<br />

<strong>in</strong>tegrative and functional physician, I have to cast a broad<br />

net to th<strong>in</strong>k through why someone might not have <strong>the</strong><br />

energy <strong>the</strong>y want.<br />

Here are 7 of <strong>the</strong> top th<strong>in</strong>gs I th<strong>in</strong>k about that can<br />

cause low energy:<br />

Poor nutrition. I am amazed by how unique my<br />

01. patients are <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir micronutrient needs. When<br />

we test for nutrient levels, we see many people even<br />

when tak<strong>in</strong>g supplements, may be significantly deficient<br />

<strong>in</strong> key nutrients. Some of <strong>the</strong> most common ones I see<br />

are magnesium and B vitam<strong>in</strong>s- both critical for energy<br />

production. Under this same head<strong>in</strong>g is <strong>the</strong> notion of poor<br />

sugar balance. Many of us today <strong>in</strong>gest an unreasonable<br />

amount of (mostly ref<strong>in</strong>ed) carbohydrates putt<strong>in</strong>g our<br />

blood sugar, which ideally rema<strong>in</strong>s ra<strong>the</strong>r stable through<br />

meals, through a roller coaster ride. These fluctuations will<br />

often result <strong>in</strong> our feel<strong>in</strong>g tired. We prefer an approach<br />

that emphasizes whole healthy food,<br />

majority of <strong>the</strong>m plants and<br />

address<strong>in</strong>g specific micronutrient<br />

deficiencies only when we can<br />

measure <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

02.<br />

Hormonal deficiencies. In our cl<strong>in</strong>ic, <strong>the</strong><br />

frequency of an underperform<strong>in</strong>g thyroid gland<strong>the</strong><br />

organ that controls metabolic rate, is surpris<strong>in</strong>g and<br />

seems to be <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g. There are many reasons for this,<br />

and <strong>the</strong> root causes for any one patient must be identified,<br />

but rarely is this picked even up <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> labs that are typically<br />

performed <strong>in</strong> conventional medic<strong>in</strong>e. In addition, low<br />

testosterone is also on <strong>the</strong> rise and this can affect women<br />

as well as men.<br />

03.<br />

Low grade <strong>in</strong>fection or <strong>in</strong>flammation. Even <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

absence of gut symptoms, many of my patients<br />

suffer from <strong>in</strong>flammation with<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> digestive tract because<br />

of food sensitivities, small <strong>in</strong>test<strong>in</strong>al bacterial overgrowth,<br />

overgrowth of yeast, <strong>in</strong>sufficient digestive capacity,<br />

medications like acid-blockers, to name a few. This chronic<br />

low-level <strong>in</strong>flammation exhausts <strong>the</strong> system. Improvement<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>se issues can result <strong>in</strong> a significant boost of<br />

energy. Chronic s<strong>in</strong>usitis, a condition<br />

many of my patients live with, has<br />

<strong>the</strong> same deplet<strong>in</strong>g effect.<br />

Sk<strong>in</strong> rashes, bra<strong>in</strong> fog,<br />

or jo<strong>in</strong>t ach<strong>in</strong>ess<br />

can po<strong>in</strong>t<br />

us <strong>in</strong> this<br />

direction.<br />

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05.<br />

Poor sleep: This is a<br />

condition of epidemic<br />

proportions <strong>in</strong> our culture<br />

and most of <strong>the</strong> medications<br />

prescribed to treat only compound<br />

<strong>the</strong> problem. Dur<strong>in</strong>g deep sleep, we<br />

are restor<strong>in</strong>g enzymes, hormones,<br />

neurotransmitters and essentially<br />

restock<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> shelves. When we<br />

are gipped out of restorative sleep,<br />

no amount of coffee truly makes<br />

up for this.<br />

06.<br />

04.<br />

HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

Lack of movement: Exercise begets energy and our sedentary<br />

lifestyles, with long commute times, sitt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> front of <strong>the</strong><br />

computer for most of <strong>the</strong> day, is an absolute drag on our energy. While an<br />

hour work-out is terrific, it does not make up for 8+ hours of sitt<strong>in</strong>g. Build<strong>in</strong>g<br />

up movement throughout <strong>the</strong> day can be a significant energy boost.<br />

Toxic exposures. Alcohol,<br />

mold, mercury, pesticides and<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r chemicals, medications, sugar and<br />

nasty relationships all fall under this category.<br />

Many of us live with <strong>the</strong>se exposures for so long,<br />

we do not th<strong>in</strong>k to associate <strong>the</strong>m with poor<br />

energy. But by directly <strong>in</strong>terfer<strong>in</strong>g with our capacity<br />

to produce energy, <strong>the</strong>y can be a slow<br />

and steady dra<strong>in</strong> on our resources.<br />

<strong>Address<strong>in</strong>g</strong> each of <strong>the</strong>se<br />

issues requires a unique<br />

approach.<br />

07.<br />

Thoughts. Selfdeprecat<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

sham<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

rum<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g, judgmental thoughts<br />

are a true energy sump. By b<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g<br />

and constrict<strong>in</strong>g us, <strong>the</strong>y prevent<br />

free flow of energy through <strong>the</strong><br />

system.<br />

I hope this list<br />

is helpful for you<br />

to th<strong>in</strong>k about<br />

with your own health.<br />

The good news is, with<br />

some thoughtful <strong>in</strong>vestigation,<br />

each of <strong>the</strong>se issues can be<br />

addressed. So, <strong>in</strong> this <strong>New</strong> <strong>Year</strong>,<br />

if feel<strong>in</strong>g vital to do <strong>the</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs<br />

you love has importance to you,<br />

make it a po<strong>in</strong>t to have different<br />

aspects of your life assessed by a<br />

Functional Medic<strong>in</strong>e physician and<br />

know that great energy is possible.<br />

A World-Class<br />

Interdiscipl<strong>in</strong>ary<br />

Cl<strong>in</strong>ical Team<br />

Committed to<br />

Heal<strong>in</strong>g Patients<br />

& Communities<br />

By Karen Koffler, MD, IMFCP<br />

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Next, you must understand<br />

why this pattern exists <strong>in</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> first place. It’s a sort<br />

of mourn<strong>in</strong>g, if you will.<br />

The pa<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> a twisted way<br />

adds value to <strong>the</strong> trigger<strong>in</strong>g<br />

event/s. It signifies <strong>the</strong> loss<br />

of joy or love or wholeness.<br />

Somehow, your m<strong>in</strong>d has<br />

told you that this is <strong>the</strong><br />

way it has to be. We’re here<br />

to tell you, it’s not. You<br />

make <strong>the</strong> choice to let it<br />

go, to change <strong>the</strong> pattern,<br />

to say goodbye to whatever<br />

that th<strong>in</strong>g is. You can’t let<br />

<strong>the</strong> event, <strong>the</strong> person, <strong>the</strong><br />

circumstance rob you of<br />

who you are or who you<br />

want to be.<br />

HOW TO GET OVER<br />

AND PREVENT OLD<br />

CONFLICTS FROM<br />

HOLDING YOU BACK<br />

Old hurts, sad memories, and pa<strong>in</strong> come back to haunt us<br />

when we least expect <strong>the</strong>m. They act like trigger mechanisms<br />

for us. They create a pattern that can stay with us longterm<br />

if we don’t do someth<strong>in</strong>g to “cure” our pa<strong>in</strong> soon.<br />

They become a roadmap for our lives, def<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g who we are,<br />

what we do, and how we’ll respond to even <strong>the</strong> t<strong>in</strong>iest slight. They may lie<br />

dormant for months or years at a time, but underneath <strong>the</strong> surface, right<br />

below <strong>the</strong> façade you put on to get you through your day, <strong>the</strong>y lie <strong>in</strong> wait.<br />

When triggered, a signal is sent to your bra<strong>in</strong> to drag you right down back<br />

<strong>in</strong>to <strong>the</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> and anger or sorrow that’s been fester<strong>in</strong>g for ages. They elicit an<br />

emotional response that’s not always healthy.<br />

These long-held emotions need to be def<strong>in</strong>ed and categorized o<strong>the</strong>rwise<br />

you’ll never f<strong>in</strong>d your way past <strong>the</strong>m. At <strong>the</strong>ir core, <strong>the</strong>y are <strong>the</strong> basis for<br />

everyth<strong>in</strong>g that you say or do. <strong>Your</strong> emotions flutter around, bounc<strong>in</strong>g from<br />

one extreme to <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r, as if <strong>the</strong>y’re search<strong>in</strong>g for someth<strong>in</strong>g to hold onto.<br />

<strong>Your</strong> reaction stems from wherever you are mentally. You make <strong>the</strong> choice to<br />

let it send you spiral<strong>in</strong>g out of control or to ignore <strong>the</strong>m and move forward.<br />

They are your hot spots, your po<strong>in</strong>ts of contention, <strong>the</strong> places you don’t want<br />

to return to <strong>in</strong> your m<strong>in</strong>d. They exist on repeat, sett<strong>in</strong>g up a negative pattern<br />

that we’ll follow until we can’t take anymore.<br />

The next phase is shor<strong>in</strong>g up your strength to combat <strong>the</strong>se<br />

negative emotions. You need <strong>the</strong> right tools.<br />

• The most obvious tool is to redirect yourself. You know<br />

when a negative emotion is cloud<strong>in</strong>g your judgment.<br />

Have a cont<strong>in</strong>gency plan. Pledge to make real change<br />

and f<strong>in</strong>d a support system to get you through <strong>the</strong><br />

darkest moments.<br />

• Learn to forgive yourself and treat yourself and o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

who may be struggl<strong>in</strong>g well. Imag<strong>in</strong>e someone you love<br />

is go<strong>in</strong>g through <strong>the</strong> same pa<strong>in</strong>, how would you treat<br />

<strong>the</strong>m? You’d offer support and send <strong>the</strong>m love and<br />

gently push <strong>the</strong>m <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right direction. Do <strong>the</strong> same for<br />

yourself. Guide yourself, give yourself a pep talk, write<br />

out healthy rem<strong>in</strong>ders to keep mov<strong>in</strong>g forward. Stop<br />

punish<strong>in</strong>g yourself.<br />

• Practice visualization. Imag<strong>in</strong>e yourself physically<br />

dump<strong>in</strong>g all <strong>the</strong> hurt and pa<strong>in</strong> and toss<strong>in</strong>g it away. Try<br />

writ<strong>in</strong>g down your emotions, <strong>the</strong>n, sett<strong>in</strong>g a match to<br />

<strong>the</strong>m to get rid of <strong>the</strong>m forever. Those acts alone may<br />

help take <strong>the</strong> weight off your shoulders. Give yourself<br />

<strong>the</strong> right to say goodbye to negativity.<br />

By Sarah May Bates<br />

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

The o<strong>the</strong>r day while driv<strong>in</strong>g<br />

on <strong>the</strong> highway, I did<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g that I never do.<br />

I turned <strong>the</strong> radio off.<br />

That might not seem like a big deal to most<br />

people. But for me, it was HUGE.<br />

See, I never and I do mean NEVER turn <strong>the</strong> radio<br />

off. It is always on and if I happen to need to hear<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g, I will turn down <strong>the</strong> volume. But I<br />

never turn it off.<br />

I'm not even sure why really. I just always like to<br />

have music on <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> background.<br />

Or so I thought.<br />

But as I sat <strong>the</strong>re <strong>in</strong> my newly-silent car, putt<strong>in</strong>g<br />

along <strong>in</strong> construction traffic on <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>terstate, it<br />

was like I had stepped <strong>in</strong>to a different world.<br />

Suddenly, everyth<strong>in</strong>g seemed to slow down. The<br />

construction vehicles to <strong>the</strong> left of me and <strong>the</strong><br />

cars to <strong>the</strong> right and front of me all seemed to<br />

just fade away. I looked up at <strong>the</strong> trees through<br />

my w<strong>in</strong>dshield and as I watched <strong>the</strong>m sway gently<br />

back and forth <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> breeze (I was only go<strong>in</strong>g like<br />

5 mph, so I could look away), it was almost as if I<br />

could feel <strong>the</strong>m mov<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

It was an amaz<strong>in</strong>g moment and I literally thought<br />

to myself, "So THIS is what life is supposed to be<br />

like!"<br />

Of course, I am only human, so that feel<strong>in</strong>g only<br />

stayed <strong>in</strong> my body for a few m<strong>in</strong>utes. But even as<br />

that <strong>in</strong>credible connectedness subsided, I still felt<br />

<strong>in</strong>credibly calm and at peace.<br />

Which for me... was weird.<br />

Because not only do I never turn <strong>the</strong> radio off<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car, but I pretty much avoid silence like,<br />

always. It just makes me feel very anxious. If<br />

I'm home alone, I'll turn <strong>the</strong> television on <strong>in</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> background or play music on my phone or<br />

computer. I like to sleep with a fan runn<strong>in</strong>g for<br />

white noise and I'll always be <strong>the</strong> one to fill <strong>in</strong><br />

awkward silences dur<strong>in</strong>g a conversation (even if it<br />

does make th<strong>in</strong>gs more awkward!).<br />

So, <strong>the</strong> fact that I was sitt<strong>in</strong>g here <strong>in</strong> silence <strong>in</strong><br />

my car and actually not freak<strong>in</strong>g out, was a pretty<br />

major deal. But it also got me to th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g...<br />

Why was silence such a big deal for me <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> first<br />

place?<br />

Well, it didn't take long for me to get <strong>the</strong> answer.<br />

Almost immediately, God spoke to me <strong>in</strong> that<br />

soft voice <strong>in</strong>side and told me <strong>the</strong> Enemy didn't<br />

want me to be <strong>in</strong> silence because that's when I<br />

could hear so directly from Him and connect so<br />

completely.<br />

It was so surpris<strong>in</strong>g to hear, yet at <strong>the</strong> same time,<br />

k<strong>in</strong>d of a "duh" moment.<br />

I know that Satan likes to keep people busy (Be<strong>in</strong>g<br />

Under Satan's Yoke) to keep <strong>the</strong>m from be<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>in</strong> relationship with God and keep <strong>the</strong>m focused<br />

on th<strong>in</strong>gs that don't really matter. But for some<br />

reason, it had never dawned on me that my<br />

supposed "anxiety" about silence was actually just<br />

ano<strong>the</strong>r tool to keep me at a distance.<br />

Well you can bet your sweet bippy that I drove<br />

around <strong>the</strong> rest of that day (and several days<br />

s<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>the</strong>n) with <strong>the</strong> radio off <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car!<br />

Now, I'm not say<strong>in</strong>g that you will have a huge<br />

epiphany or an <strong>in</strong>timate moment with God every<br />

time you turn down Taylor Swift <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car.<br />

But what I will say is, <strong>the</strong>re is value <strong>in</strong> silence.<br />

24 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

With all of us be<strong>in</strong>g bombarded 24<br />

hours a day with television, radio, social<br />

media, newspapers, magaz<strong>in</strong>es, traffic,<br />

coworkers, children, spouses and <strong>the</strong><br />

o<strong>the</strong>r 100 th<strong>in</strong>gs vy<strong>in</strong>g for our attention,<br />

it is important to take time out to just...<br />

be...quiet.<br />

Even before I had my little highway<br />

epiphany, I knew that I was avoid<strong>in</strong>g<br />

silence for a reason. But I thought it was<br />

mostly because I didn't want to hear <strong>the</strong> "noise"<br />

<strong>in</strong> my head.<br />

You know... all <strong>the</strong> worry<strong>in</strong>g, stress<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

overanalyz<strong>in</strong>g, negative and frankly, just pla<strong>in</strong><br />

exhaust<strong>in</strong>g thoughts that seem to run through<br />

our m<strong>in</strong>ds 24/7. I didn't want to hear all that<br />

mess, so <strong>the</strong> easiest way to ignore it is to cover it<br />

up with someth<strong>in</strong>g louder.<br />

Or aga<strong>in</strong>, so I thought.<br />

Th<strong>in</strong>g is, even if you choose not to<br />

listen to all that chatter <strong>in</strong> your head,<br />

it's still go<strong>in</strong>g to be <strong>the</strong>re. And most<br />

likely, it will choose a more annoy<strong>in</strong>g<br />

time to show up, like when your head<br />

hits <strong>the</strong> pillow at night.<br />

After all, that IS <strong>the</strong> first time you've quieted<br />

down all day, so your bra<strong>in</strong> th<strong>in</strong>ks "Woohoo! It's<br />

time to go! Ok, so let's talk about everyth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

that happened today! First, that breakfast that<br />

we had today, I'm not sure about that..."<br />

And on and on it goes until it's 4 <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />

and you're about to dr<strong>in</strong>k a bottle of Nyquil or<br />

throw your alarm clock out <strong>the</strong> w<strong>in</strong>dow.<br />

That's why it is so important to let yourself be <strong>in</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> silence at some po<strong>in</strong>t everyday.<br />

Whe<strong>the</strong>r it's to have a moment with<br />

God or just to give your bra<strong>in</strong> a break,<br />

everyone can use a little quiet.<br />

And ya know what?<br />

In <strong>the</strong> end, it's actually not that scary. I<br />

don't know what I was so afraid of all this<br />

time.<br />

In fact, dare I say, I'm even start<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

k<strong>in</strong>d of like it a little. Now that doesn't mean I<br />

will be ditch<strong>in</strong>g my bedtime fan anytime soon<br />

yet, but it does mean I am okay with be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a<br />

no-noise environment from time to time.<br />

Because <strong>in</strong> those moments is when I am most<br />

truly me, I am most truly connected to God and<br />

when I am able to see this world <strong>the</strong> most clearly.<br />

Not a bad switch off for Swifty, huh?<br />

By Jenn Baxter<br />

25 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

5<br />

THINGS TO<br />

DO WHEN<br />

NEGATIVE<br />

EMOTIONS AND<br />

SELF-TALK TAKE<br />

OVER YOUR LIFE<br />

We all have bad days. Sometimes those bad<br />

days start or stop with how we feel about<br />

our bodies. Those feel<strong>in</strong>gs aren’t necessarily<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g we battle daily, but when those<br />

negative feel<strong>in</strong>gs creep up, we have to f<strong>in</strong>d a<br />

healthy outlet or risk feel<strong>in</strong>g that way for prolonged periods<br />

of time or sabotag<strong>in</strong>g our o<strong>the</strong>rwise healthy habits.<br />

There’s noth<strong>in</strong>g out of <strong>the</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary about feel<strong>in</strong>g this way. It’s<br />

common for women and men everywhere. For most of us, it’s<br />

a matter of shift<strong>in</strong>g our focus. Learn<strong>in</strong>g to love our bodies will<br />

help us get out of our funk and get back on <strong>the</strong> right track.<br />

Here are some tips to help you get over <strong>the</strong> hump and back<br />

to your wonderful self <strong>in</strong> no time:<br />

Banish all negative thoughts by replac<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>m<br />

01 with positive affirmations. Psychologists have been<br />

tell<strong>in</strong>g us this for years. One of <strong>the</strong> healthiest th<strong>in</strong>gs you<br />

can do for yourself is to stop be<strong>in</strong>g so hard on yourself.<br />

You wouldn’t allow o<strong>the</strong>r people to criticize you, so why<br />

do you accept it com<strong>in</strong>g from yourself? Th<strong>in</strong>k about all<br />

that you’ve accomplished <strong>in</strong> your life. Look how far you’ve<br />

come. Don’t let negativity dull your sh<strong>in</strong>e.<br />

Focus on health. It’s not about what <strong>the</strong> scale says<br />

02 or what some “expert” <strong>in</strong> a fashion magaz<strong>in</strong>e says.<br />

Consider everyth<strong>in</strong>g your body does to keep you go<strong>in</strong>g. It<br />

allows you to move, to th<strong>in</strong>k, to operate and rejuvenates<br />

overnight. That’s a lot of work. Be thankful for what your<br />

body does for you and be glad you get to have ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />

day to try aga<strong>in</strong>.<br />

Do someth<strong>in</strong>g good for yourself. You deserve it! If<br />

03 <strong>the</strong>re’s an exercise you’ve always wanted to try, why<br />

not get out and try it. Or maybe <strong>the</strong>re’s a spa treatment<br />

you’ve been dy<strong>in</strong>g to get. Now would be a good time to do<br />

it. Show your body how much you appreciate it for all it<br />

does for you.<br />

Go out and have some fun or <strong>in</strong>vite your girlfriends<br />

04 over for a night <strong>in</strong>. Laughter among friends will lift<br />

your spirits and get <strong>the</strong> creative juices flow<strong>in</strong>g aga<strong>in</strong> and<br />

will help you erase <strong>the</strong> negative emotions.<br />

Journal. Yes, really. Write out what it is you’re<br />

05 feel<strong>in</strong>g and let it go. Studies say that your<br />

subconscious clears <strong>the</strong> negative vibes when you write<br />

out your feel<strong>in</strong>gs. The emotions spill out of your pen, so<br />

to speak, and allow you to move forward. Give it a shot. All<br />

you need is a sheet of paper and a pen.<br />

The bottom l<strong>in</strong>e is you don’t have to suffer. There<br />

are healthy and safe outlets to help you release <strong>the</strong><br />

negative feel<strong>in</strong>gs we all have from time to time.<br />

They’re not unique to you. Everyone goes through<br />

essentially <strong>the</strong> same bouts of despair or anguish.<br />

That’s a normal part of liv<strong>in</strong>g. So what if you’re not<br />

a size 2. The bigger th<strong>in</strong>g you should ask yourself<br />

is how do you feel? Are you stronger today than<br />

you were yesterday? Are you mov<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right<br />

direction? If <strong>the</strong> answer is yes, hooray! We’re<br />

proud of you!<br />

By Ava Mallory<br />

26 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />

THE<br />

SECRET TO<br />

A HAPPY<br />

MARRIAGE<br />

More often than I like to admit, I<br />

f<strong>in</strong>d myself dream<strong>in</strong>g of <strong>the</strong> perfect<br />

marriage. I say dream<strong>in</strong>g because I’ve<br />

never been very good with relationships.<br />

Two failed marriages and a str<strong>in</strong>g of bad<br />

dates have led me to believe happily<br />

ever after isn’t <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> stars for me. I<br />

often fool myself <strong>in</strong>to believ<strong>in</strong>g that<br />

from time to time…until <strong>the</strong> latest<br />

romantic comedy hits <strong>the</strong> <strong>the</strong>aters,<br />

or <strong>the</strong> gossip columns fill <strong>the</strong>ir pages<br />

with gorgeous fairytale wedd<strong>in</strong>g<br />

photos. Then, I reth<strong>in</strong>k my position and<br />

momentarily wish I could have what<br />

those couples have. That’s <strong>the</strong> story of<br />

my middle-aged life, or so I thought…<br />

A<br />

stroll around my neighborhood began like<br />

any o<strong>the</strong>r. I w<strong>in</strong>dow shopped <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> local<br />

boutiques. I stopped to chat with <strong>the</strong> folks<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> d<strong>in</strong>er. I picked up a few books at<br />

<strong>the</strong> bookstore. It was all so div<strong>in</strong>e, <strong>the</strong>n, I saw <strong>the</strong>m,<br />

sitt<strong>in</strong>g across from each o<strong>the</strong>r, look<strong>in</strong>g at each o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> way only people who’ve known each o<strong>the</strong>r for<br />

a long time would look at each o<strong>the</strong>r. They were fully<br />

engrossed <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir conversation. She was do<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong><br />

talk<strong>in</strong>g. He was listen<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tently, his eyes on hers, his<br />

hands cupp<strong>in</strong>g hers, a gr<strong>in</strong> on his face.<br />

Maybe it was <strong>the</strong> smell of bacon that drew me to<br />

<strong>the</strong> bakery. Bacon gets me every time, but whatever<br />

it was, what I found wasn’t what I expected. Nestled<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> lone booth, normally reserved for<br />

patrons was <strong>the</strong> baker, a miserly old gentleman with<br />

old school charms and refresh<strong>in</strong>g sensibilities. He<br />

sat across from his wife of “fifty-two glorious years”.<br />

They blushed when <strong>the</strong> saw me admir<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

exchange. In front of <strong>the</strong>m, a platter of cheeses and<br />

sliced sausages sat. An open bottle of w<strong>in</strong>e and two<br />

tall stem glasses sat idle.<br />

I apologized for <strong>in</strong>terrupt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir conversation.<br />

The butcher stood up and rushed to help me, but <strong>in</strong><br />

that moment, I forgot all about <strong>the</strong> bacon. I wanted<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g different, a slice of whatever it was kept<br />

<strong>the</strong>m glued to each o<strong>the</strong>r after all <strong>the</strong>se years.<br />

“No, I’m sorry to disturb you. I’ve just never seen<br />

such a sweet moment. What’s your secret?”<br />

They looked at each o<strong>the</strong>r lov<strong>in</strong>gly and proceeded to<br />

tell me <strong>the</strong>ir recipe to everlast<strong>in</strong>g love and a strong<br />

marriage. It was simple enough, yet profoundly<br />

mov<strong>in</strong>g and life-chang<strong>in</strong>g for me because <strong>the</strong>re truly<br />

was no secret, just healthy doses of love, respect,<br />

humor, and humility.<br />

He said, “First, you have to f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>the</strong> one. When<br />

you do, you’ll know it. It will make you want to do<br />

anyth<strong>in</strong>g and everyth<strong>in</strong>g to hold onto that feel<strong>in</strong>g.”<br />

She chimed <strong>in</strong> with her thoughts, “You have to learn<br />

to forgive. That’s important. You can’t hold onto<br />

grievances. They’ll eat you alive and make you forget<br />

how much you loved your partner to beg<strong>in</strong> with.<br />

People change. Circumstances change. But you can’t<br />

allow <strong>the</strong> changes to change your heart.”<br />

He added his f<strong>in</strong>al thought<br />

on <strong>the</strong> manner as he looked<br />

at his wife, tears <strong>in</strong> his eyes,<br />

and said, “You have to make<br />

your partner feel like <strong>the</strong>y’re<br />

<strong>the</strong> only person <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> world<br />

for you…because <strong>the</strong>y are.<br />

If you don’t know that with<br />

every cell <strong>in</strong> your body, <strong>the</strong>n,<br />

you haven’t found <strong>the</strong> one.”<br />

I left that morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />

know<strong>in</strong>g that<br />

although I hadn’t yet<br />

found love, I knew<br />

<strong>the</strong> key to a happy<br />

marriage, should it<br />

ever come my way.<br />

By Vanessa Jackson<br />

28 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


Fitness<br />

& Beauty<br />

AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO TAKING<br />

CARE OF YOUR SKIN IN YOUR 30S<br />

SILKY SMOOTH, SOFT SKIN IS<br />

ONLY A FEW STEPS AWAY<br />

30<br />

32<br />

"The purpose<br />

of tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g is to<br />

tighten up <strong>the</strong><br />

slack, toughen<br />

<strong>the</strong> body and<br />

polish <strong>the</strong> spirit."<br />

-Morihei Ueshiba


FITNESS & BEAUTY · JANUARY 2018<br />

AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO<br />

TAKING CARE OF YOUR<br />

SKIN IN YOUR 30S<br />

By <strong>the</strong> time we’re thirty, we’ve lived<br />

long enough to see changes come<br />

and go. Seasons change, tastes<br />

change, trends change. That’s a<br />

natural part of life. We go with <strong>the</strong><br />

flow and make adjustments where<br />

and when necessary. That’s one<br />

of our superpowers, even when it<br />

might not be what we like.<br />

Our bodies also go through several<br />

metamorphoses. We become a little fuller<br />

here, th<strong>in</strong>ner <strong>the</strong>re, muscular <strong>the</strong>re. You<br />

get <strong>the</strong> picture. We know that for most<br />

of us ag<strong>in</strong>g changes our bodies and our<br />

sk<strong>in</strong>. Some areas wr<strong>in</strong>kle, some sag and<br />

some areas may experience breakouts<br />

or discoloration. Aga<strong>in</strong>, it’s a part of <strong>the</strong><br />

normal transitions our sk<strong>in</strong> goes through.<br />

After a certa<strong>in</strong> age, we start to realize<br />

all <strong>the</strong> damage we’ve done. Fun <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

sun, time spent <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> tann<strong>in</strong>g booth or<br />

bumps and bruises from life’s everyday<br />

activities beg<strong>in</strong> to take a toll on our sk<strong>in</strong>.<br />

The changes could be stark and alarm<strong>in</strong>g<br />

at first but here’s <strong>the</strong> th<strong>in</strong>g, you don’t<br />

have to beat yourself up about someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

you did or failed to do when you were<br />

younger. Don’t waste your time frett<strong>in</strong>g<br />

over someth<strong>in</strong>g you can’t change. Look<br />

ahead and do what you can now. There are<br />

plenty of good for you options out <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

Self-care, no matter <strong>the</strong> form you choose,<br />

is great at any age. All you have to do is<br />

adopt healthy habits and <strong>in</strong>corporate <strong>the</strong>m<br />

<strong>in</strong>to your daily rout<strong>in</strong>e.<br />

Mama always said to dr<strong>in</strong>k<br />

more water and she<br />

wasn’t ly<strong>in</strong>g. One of<br />

<strong>the</strong> best th<strong>in</strong>gs you<br />

can do for your body<br />

(sk<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>cluded) is stay<br />

hydrated. Are you<br />

dr<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g enough water?<br />

The general consensus<br />

is to dr<strong>in</strong>k half your body<br />

weight <strong>in</strong> ounces every<br />

day to keep your body<br />

properly hydrated. Water will<br />

keep your sk<strong>in</strong> soft, supple<br />

and clear and will help to fend<br />

off hunger, sugary crav<strong>in</strong>gs as<br />

well as help you to be more alert.<br />

01.<br />

Eye cream is <strong>the</strong> new black. Everyone<br />

cr<strong>in</strong>ges at <strong>the</strong> sight of crow’s feet. It<br />

happens to <strong>the</strong> best of us. Apply a<br />

nighttime eye cream around <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>side<br />

orbital rim of your eye to help alleviate<br />

dark circles, deep pockets, and f<strong>in</strong>e<br />

l<strong>in</strong>es and wr<strong>in</strong>kles.<br />

02.<br />

Sleep <strong>in</strong> luxury. Invest <strong>in</strong> a sat<strong>in</strong> or silk<br />

pillow to help fend off wr<strong>in</strong>kles and<br />

sk<strong>in</strong> blotches. There are plenty on <strong>the</strong><br />

market to choose from.<br />

03.<br />

Avoid sun exposure. We know, you<br />

want to know what about <strong>the</strong> lazy<br />

days of summer? Use sunscreen, wear<br />

a hat and wear lightweight cloth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to keep your sk<strong>in</strong> protected. Avoid<br />

overexposure and remember to<br />

reapply sunscreen accord<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>the</strong><br />

package directions.<br />

04.<br />

A clean face is an ageless face. Remove<br />

your makeup with gentle cleansers<br />

or wipes. While makeup may be good<br />

when you’re out, you don’t need it<br />

when you sleep.<br />

05.<br />

Exfoliate your sk<strong>in</strong> with alpha hydroxy<br />

acids. It is good for your sk<strong>in</strong> and gets<br />

rid of all <strong>the</strong> muck you don’t need.<br />

06.<br />

Sleep. Sleep. Sleep. For <strong>the</strong> love of all<br />

that is good, make sure you get your<br />

beauty rest. <strong>Your</strong> entire body needs<br />

time to rejuvenate and heal. Never<br />

is that more evident than <strong>in</strong> your<br />

complexion. Get <strong>the</strong> recommended<br />

hours of restful sleep for overall good<br />

health.<br />

30 HEALTHY MAGAZINE


FITNESS & BEAUTY · JANUARY 2018<br />

SILKY SMOOTH,<br />

SOFT SKIN IS ONLY<br />

A FEW STEPS AWAY<br />

We all want soft, supple sk<strong>in</strong><br />

and we know that we need to<br />

stay hydrated to keep our sk<strong>in</strong><br />

nourished and replenished.<br />

We eat right, use <strong>the</strong> requisite<br />

products, exfoliate, scrub, moisturize and remoisturize<br />

to our heart’s content, but let’s face it,<br />

we are way too busy cross<strong>in</strong>g off every item on<br />

our long to-do list to remember to take care of our<br />

sk<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> best way possible. Someth<strong>in</strong>g has to give<br />

and we know it’s certa<strong>in</strong>ly not go<strong>in</strong>g to be our time<br />

because we’re plum out of that.<br />

What you need an easy, effective, good-for-you<br />

solution and I th<strong>in</strong>k I’ve found it. Kaeng Raeng is<br />

<strong>the</strong> answer to my sk<strong>in</strong>-lov<strong>in</strong>g prayers, https://www.<br />

kaengraeng.com. They offer <strong>the</strong> first of a k<strong>in</strong>d allnatural<br />

sk<strong>in</strong> care cleanse. It’s an organic blend that<br />

works like magic to smooth and soften your sk<strong>in</strong><br />

with no chemical dyes or harmful <strong>in</strong>gredients. It’s<br />

100% vegan. It hydrates your sk<strong>in</strong> with luxurious oils<br />

and shea butter that feel good, and it smells good.<br />

The products from Kaeng Raeng are all-natural<br />

goodness and completely chemical free. Their<br />

mixtures are to die for.<br />

Here are a few of <strong>the</strong><br />

sk<strong>in</strong>-soften<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>gredients:<br />

The Himalayan p<strong>in</strong>k salt detoxifies your sk<strong>in</strong>. The<br />

Dead Sea salt is rich <strong>in</strong> natural m<strong>in</strong>erals that your body<br />

needs. The organic irg<strong>in</strong> shea butter locks <strong>in</strong> moisture<br />

and guarantees silky smooth sk<strong>in</strong>. The organic apricot<br />

kernel oil nourishes sk<strong>in</strong> from head to toe. The lavender<br />

essential oil adds a nice, light fragrance. The vanilla essential oil adds<br />

<strong>the</strong> f<strong>in</strong>al sweet touch to make this comb<strong>in</strong>ation perfect.<br />

Kaeng Raeng offers three- to six-day sk<strong>in</strong> detox packages that are<br />

just what you need to help your sk<strong>in</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d its balance. For brides-tobe,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re are specially designed bridal packages that will have you<br />

camera-ready <strong>in</strong> no time flat. Massage <strong>the</strong>se fantastic <strong>in</strong>gredients<br />

onto your sk<strong>in</strong> and you can virtually watch <strong>the</strong> transformation<br />

happen <strong>in</strong> front of your eyes.<br />

I’m tell<strong>in</strong>g you <strong>the</strong>se combos<br />

are <strong>the</strong> answers to your sk<strong>in</strong><br />

care prayers. They not only feel<br />

great, but <strong>the</strong>y look great. Trust<br />

me on this, people will notice <strong>the</strong><br />

change and will want to know what<br />

you’re do<strong>in</strong>g. Add <strong>the</strong>se products to an<br />

exfoliat<strong>in</strong>g combo and you have hands down<br />

THE best comb<strong>in</strong>ation available on <strong>the</strong> market today.<br />

Who wouldn’t want to get rid of dead sk<strong>in</strong> cells and use a moisturizer<br />

that heals while it moisturizes, leav<strong>in</strong>g you with soft, supple, glow<strong>in</strong>g<br />

sk<strong>in</strong>? Get rid of <strong>the</strong> tox<strong>in</strong>s you’ve been exposed to, leave all <strong>the</strong> muck<br />

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custom designed sk<strong>in</strong> care rout<strong>in</strong>e made with all-natural vegan<br />

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let <strong>the</strong> sk<strong>in</strong> heal<strong>in</strong>g beg<strong>in</strong>!<br />

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<strong>Healthy</strong> Food<br />

HEALTHY EATING FOR<br />

WOMEN ON THE GO<br />

HOW TO MAKE DELICIOUS<br />

VEGAN SUSHI AT HOME<br />

34<br />

36<br />

"What<br />

is called<br />

genius is <strong>the</strong><br />

abundance<br />

of life and<br />

health."<br />

— -Henry David<br />

Thoreau


HEALTHY FOOD · JANUARY 2018<br />

HEALTHY EATING FOR<br />

WOMEN ON THE GO<br />

A NEW YEAR HAS JUST BEGUN AND IT’S TIME TO THINK ABOUT OUR DIETS. WE’RE NOT TALKING ABOUT<br />

STRICT FAD DIETS BUT HEALTHY EATING PLANS FOR BUSY WOMEN. SWIMSUIT SEASON WILL BE HERE<br />

BEFORE YOU KNOW IT AND YOU DON’T WANT TO BE CAUGHT BY SURPRISE. GET A JUMP START ON<br />

YOUR GOALS BY ADDING NUTRIENT-RICH FOODS TO YOUR DIET.<br />

So many companies make meal plann<strong>in</strong>g<br />

easier. They save on time, money, and<br />

empty calories. By us<strong>in</strong>g a comb<strong>in</strong>ation<br />

of good, quality <strong>in</strong>gredients and time-sav<strong>in</strong>g<br />

tips, <strong>the</strong>y offer everyth<strong>in</strong>g a busy woman<br />

needs to keep herself nourished and<br />

satisfied. Who has time for big elaborate<br />

meals? While that might work sometimes,<br />

<strong>the</strong>y won’t work for daily meals. You’ve got<br />

places to be, people to see, and a heavy<br />

workload sitt<strong>in</strong>g on your desk. When those<br />

hunger pangs strike, <strong>the</strong>y can’t wait. They<br />

need food now.<br />

Instead of slav<strong>in</strong>g away at <strong>the</strong> stove, we have<br />

a few simple tricks to make your life and<br />

your d<strong>in</strong>ner options easier:<br />

01<br />

Have a plan. You know this. If you go<br />

<strong>in</strong>to any situation bl<strong>in</strong>dly, <strong>the</strong>re’s no<br />

guarantee you’ll get <strong>the</strong> best results. To avoid<br />

that, make plans ahead of time. Look at your<br />

week or your month. Are you too busy to<br />

chop vegetables or fry a couple of burgers<br />

on <strong>the</strong> grill? If so, look at <strong>the</strong> meal delivery<br />

services. They have healthy and delicious<br />

options on <strong>the</strong>ir menus and <strong>the</strong>y deliver<br />

right to your doorstep.<br />

02<br />

Make a conscious choice to only<br />

eat real food. Skip <strong>the</strong> empty<br />

calories. You don’t need <strong>the</strong>m. Real food is<br />

more flavorful, often cheaper to buy, and<br />

fill<strong>in</strong>g. You’ll eat less and feel better.<br />

03<br />

Fats are good for you. Eat healthy<br />

fats. They’ll aid your digestive tract<br />

and provide essential nutrients to give your<br />

body a boost.<br />

04<br />

Bonus tip: Make sure you keep up<br />

with a regular workout rout<strong>in</strong>e.<br />

You can’t swap one for <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r. You need<br />

good food and regular exercise to get <strong>the</strong><br />

best results. Aim to get 30 to 60 m<strong>in</strong>utes of<br />

moderate exercise a day and 3–4 sessions of<br />

strenuous exercise per week. Walk to work.<br />

Take a walk after d<strong>in</strong>ner. Ride your bike or<br />

go for a run dur<strong>in</strong>g your lunch hour. Fit <strong>in</strong><br />

exercise wherever you can.<br />

05<br />

Don’t skip meals, especially<br />

breakfast. It truly is <strong>the</strong> most<br />

important meal of <strong>the</strong> day. Beg<strong>in</strong> your day<br />

with prote<strong>in</strong> and healthy fats. They will tide<br />

you over until your next meal and are a great<br />

start to your day.<br />

06<br />

Dr<strong>in</strong>k <strong>the</strong> recommended amount<br />

of water. You should dr<strong>in</strong>k half<br />

your body weight <strong>in</strong> ounces to meet your<br />

m<strong>in</strong>imum daily requirement to keep you<br />

feel<strong>in</strong>g full and hydrated.<br />

07<br />

Ante up <strong>the</strong> prote<strong>in</strong>. <strong>Your</strong> body<br />

needs it. High prote<strong>in</strong> diets help<br />

promote fat loss. Who doesn’t love that?<br />

Turkey, chicken, and all-natural peanut butter<br />

are great sources of prote<strong>in</strong>. Add <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

your daily diet.<br />

08<br />

Make healthy eat<strong>in</strong>g a lifestyle<br />

change not a short-term solution.<br />

You must be consistent for your health and<br />

well-be<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

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HEALTHY FOOD · JANUARY 2018<br />

HOW TO<br />

MAKE<br />

DELICIOUS<br />

VEGAN<br />

SUSHI AT<br />

HOME<br />

There are times when you desperately<br />

want some sushi, but for whatever<br />

reason you can’t have it. It may be<br />

because you’re pregnant and can’t<br />

eat <strong>the</strong> raw portions just yet or because<br />

of dietary restrictions or allergies, but <strong>the</strong><br />

crav<strong>in</strong>gs just won’t stop. Now, you can have<br />

your sushi, m<strong>in</strong>us <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>gredients you’re<br />

supposed to avoid.<br />

After many, many attempts, we’ve f<strong>in</strong>ally<br />

found some vegan sushi recipes that you’ll<br />

love. The best part? They taste so much<br />

better than <strong>the</strong> traditional sushi rolls.<br />

YAM UNI<br />

It makes four to six pieces.<br />

INGREDIENTS:<br />

ɩɩ<br />

1 yam, peeled<br />

ɩɩ<br />

Sushi rice (recipe below)<br />

ɩɩ<br />

Toasted sesame seeds<br />

ɩɩ<br />

Ponzu sauce:<br />

ɩɩ<br />

1 tablespoon soy sauce<br />

ɩɩ<br />

1 teaspoon lemon juice<br />

ɩɩ<br />

½ teaspoon mir<strong>in</strong><br />

ɩɩ<br />

½ teaspoon of rice v<strong>in</strong>egar<br />

COOKING INSTRUCTIONS:<br />

01 Slice yams <strong>in</strong>to 1/3 <strong>in</strong>ch slices. Stack <strong>the</strong>m<br />

and trim off edges. Cut slices <strong>in</strong>to 1x2 <strong>in</strong>ch<br />

rectangles. Place <strong>in</strong> boil<strong>in</strong>g water for five<br />

m<strong>in</strong>utes or until tender, <strong>the</strong>n place <strong>in</strong> an ice<br />

bath to stop <strong>the</strong> cook<strong>in</strong>g process.<br />

02 While yams cool, prepare ponzu sauce:<br />

mix soy sauce, lemon juice, mir<strong>in</strong> and rice<br />

v<strong>in</strong>egar <strong>in</strong> a small bowl.<br />

03 Moisten hands with water. Take<br />

tablespoon-sized oval of sushi rice and gently<br />

form <strong>in</strong>to a rectangle shape between palms<br />

of hands. Don’t squeeze too tightly or it will<br />

change <strong>the</strong> texture and make it a runny mess.<br />

04Hold a yam slice <strong>in</strong> palm of non-dom<strong>in</strong>ant<br />

hand and rest rectangle of rice on top of it.<br />

Use o<strong>the</strong>r hand’s thumb and <strong>in</strong>dex f<strong>in</strong>ger to<br />

gently squeeze rice and yam <strong>in</strong>to rectangular<br />

shape while press<strong>in</strong>g down on top of rice<br />

with thumb of o<strong>the</strong>r hand. Flip it over <strong>the</strong><br />

so fillet of yam is on top and repeat <strong>the</strong><br />

gentle squeez<strong>in</strong>g process once more. Brush<br />

yams with ponzu sauce and top with toasted<br />

sesame seeds.<br />

SUSHI RICE<br />

INGREDIENTS:<br />

ɩɩ<br />

2 cups short-gra<strong>in</strong> Japanese rice<br />

ɩɩ<br />

2 tablespoons sake<br />

ɩɩ<br />

1/4 cup rice v<strong>in</strong>egar<br />

ɩɩ<br />

1/4 cup sugar<br />

ɩɩ<br />

2 tablespoons salt<br />

INSTRUCTIONS:<br />

01 R<strong>in</strong>se <strong>the</strong> rice 5 times, <strong>the</strong>n dra<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> a<br />

colander and let dry for 15 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />

02 Cook <strong>the</strong> rice <strong>in</strong> a rice cooker accord<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to <strong>the</strong> manufacturer’s <strong>in</strong>structions or you can<br />

cook it <strong>in</strong> a medium saucepan. You’ll need to<br />

comb<strong>in</strong>e <strong>the</strong> rice with 2 cups of cold water<br />

and br<strong>in</strong>g to a boil over high heat. Cover and<br />

cook over moderate heat for 10 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />

(Do not uncover while cook<strong>in</strong>g.) Reduce<br />

<strong>the</strong> heat to low and cook for 10 m<strong>in</strong>utes<br />

longer. Remove from <strong>the</strong> heat and let stand,<br />

covered, for 15 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />

03 In <strong>the</strong> meantime, <strong>in</strong> a small saucepan,<br />

comb<strong>in</strong>e <strong>the</strong> sake-mash v<strong>in</strong>egar, rice v<strong>in</strong>egar,<br />

sugar and salt and warm over moderate heat,<br />

stirr<strong>in</strong>g to dissolve <strong>the</strong> sugar.<br />

04 Transfer <strong>the</strong> rice to a very large bowl.<br />

Spr<strong>in</strong>kle 1/2 cup of <strong>the</strong> seasoned v<strong>in</strong>egar all<br />

over <strong>the</strong> rice, <strong>the</strong>n, drizzle onto a spatula<br />

while wav<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> spatula back and forth to<br />

cover. Us<strong>in</strong>g a slic<strong>in</strong>g motion with <strong>the</strong> spatula,<br />

gently separate <strong>the</strong> rice gra<strong>in</strong>s while mix<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> season<strong>in</strong>g mixture. Fan <strong>the</strong> rice while<br />

mix<strong>in</strong>g it to help to dry it. Wipe down any<br />

stray gra<strong>in</strong>s from <strong>the</strong> side of <strong>the</strong> bowl. Cover<br />

<strong>the</strong> rice with a damp towel to keep warm<br />

until you’re ready to serve or devour if you’d<br />

like.<br />

By Eilleen Smith<br />

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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />

<strong>Healthy</strong> Magaz<strong>in</strong>e presents our new directory, loaded with<br />

local restaurants and grocers who have taken <strong>the</strong> time to<br />

cater to those look<strong>in</strong>g to form healthier dietary habits.<br />

We hope you enjoy <strong>Healthy</strong> Places to Eat. We sure did and<br />

look forward to expand<strong>in</strong>g so we can cont<strong>in</strong>ue to better<br />

connect our readers with healthy lifestyle options <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

communities.<br />

places to eat<br />

TM<br />

healthy menu vegetarian non gmo vegan gluten free<br />

EARTH<br />

LUNCH, DINNER<br />

AND DRINKS<br />

5831 Sunset Drive<br />

Miami, FL 33143<br />

305.397.8678<br />

HEALTHY ROUTE 66<br />

HEALTHY, SANWICHES<br />

& WRAPS<br />

1831 Ponce De Leon Blvd<br />

Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />

786.615-4028<br />

LIGERO EXPRESS<br />

DESSERTS, WRAPS<br />

SANDWICHES<br />

201 Park Blvd<br />

Miami, FL 33126<br />

786.615.9833<br />

GREENG LIFESTYLE<br />

FRESH FRUIT, VEGGIE BOWLS,<br />

SMOOTHIES & JUICE LAB<br />

@GREENGLIFESTYLE<br />

222 NE 25th St #106<br />

Miami, Florida 33137<br />

786.300.6545<br />

THE LAST CARROT<br />

SANDWICHES, SALADS,<br />

SMOOTHIES AND JUICES<br />

3131 Grand Avenue<br />

Coconut Grove, FL 33133<br />

305.445.0805<br />

NORMAN BROTHERS<br />

JUICE BAR, SMOOTHIES<br />

& COFFEE<br />

7621 SW 87th Ave.<br />

Miami, FL 33173<br />

305.274.9363<br />

MIAMI SQUEEZE<br />

PIZZA, SANDWICHES,<br />

SMOOTHIES & JUICES<br />

18315 W Dixie Hwy.<br />

Miami, FL 33160<br />

305.935.9544<br />

SMALL TEA CO<br />

TEA, SALADS,<br />

WRAPS & MORE<br />

205 Aragon Ave,<br />

Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />

786.401.7189<br />

EVOS<br />

BURGERS, WRAPS<br />

& SALADS<br />

9537 S Dixie Hwy.<br />

P<strong>in</strong>ecrest, FL 331<strong>56</strong><br />

305.740.3433<br />

BEEHIVE<br />

JUICE BAR<br />

& SMOOTHIES<br />

6490 Bird Road<br />

Miami, FL 33155<br />

305.663.1300<br />

VEGAN & JUICE<br />

JUICE BAR & SMOOTHIES,<br />

VEGAN & VEGETARIAN<br />

115 SW 107 Ave.<br />

Miami, FL 33174<br />

305.220.3430<br />

THE JUICERY BAR<br />

SIGNATURE JUICES, SPECIALTY<br />

SHOTS, ACAI BOWLS<br />

635 Brickell Key Dr<br />

Miami, FL 33131<br />

305.350.2277<br />

17082 W Dixie Hwy<br />

North Miami Beach, FL 33160<br />

786.<strong>56</strong>5.9684<br />

DELIRIO FRESH CO.<br />

SALAD, PIZZA, JUICE BAR<br />

& SMOOTHIES<br />

2475 NW 95th Ave. Unit 8<br />

Miami, FL 33172<br />

305.499.3304<br />

GREEN LIFE CAFE<br />

VEGAN &<br />

VEGETARIAN CAFE<br />

104 Giralda Ave.<br />

Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />

786.409.5592<br />

SMOOTHIE SPOT<br />

SALAD, VEGAN, JUICE<br />

BAR & SMOOTHIES<br />

15708 SW 72nd St.<br />

Miami, FL 33193<br />

305.387.9888<br />

WWW.HEALTHYPLACESTOEAT.COM<br />

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