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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />
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PUBLISHER<br />
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Here we are aga<strong>in</strong> – at <strong>the</strong> beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g of what I know will be a wonderful year. There are so many<br />
wonderful th<strong>in</strong>gs to look forward to <strong>in</strong> this year. I can practically feel <strong>the</strong> stars align<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
As we look ahead, we here at <strong>Healthy</strong> have our eye on <strong>the</strong> great th<strong>in</strong>gs to come. Excitement is <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> air<br />
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Our focus this year is to help you have your best year yet. Out with <strong>the</strong> old and <strong>in</strong> with what really<br />
matters <strong>in</strong> our lives: our health, our families, our friendships. After <strong>the</strong> long, difficult days of w<strong>in</strong>ter, we’re<br />
ready for a fresh start. A sea of change is com<strong>in</strong>g, and we couldn’t be more thrilled. We have so many<br />
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HEALTHY KIDS<br />
HOW TO RAISE<br />
UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />
LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />
BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />
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HEALTHY BODY,<br />
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HOW TO GET OVER AND<br />
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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
I<br />
read a book over <strong>the</strong> recent holiday break that<br />
I am requir<strong>in</strong>g of students <strong>in</strong> one of my classes.<br />
It says several th<strong>in</strong>gs most of us desperately<br />
need to hear.<br />
In <strong>the</strong> Sanctuary of Outcasts is <strong>the</strong> true story of<br />
a man jailed <strong>in</strong> a m<strong>in</strong>imum-security prison that<br />
shared a property with <strong>the</strong> last leper colony<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> United States. Elderly, disfigured, long<br />
isolated from <strong>the</strong> larger culture, many without<br />
family and most without acceptance – <strong>the</strong><br />
national health service was allow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> patients<br />
to rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>re until <strong>the</strong>y died. Thus a group<br />
of marg<strong>in</strong>alized souls and “outcasts” nurtured<br />
each o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> face of <strong>the</strong> outside world’s<br />
rejection.<br />
The book tells how Neil White – at first scared<br />
of <strong>the</strong> disease and determ<strong>in</strong>ed to avoid its<br />
victims – underwent a time of reflection, soulsearch<strong>in</strong>g,<br />
and spiritual <strong>in</strong>sight. “F<strong>in</strong>ally, <strong>in</strong> a<br />
sanctuary for outcasts, I understood <strong>the</strong> truth,”<br />
he writes. “Surrounded by men and women who<br />
could not hide <strong>the</strong>ir disfigurement, I could see<br />
my own.”<br />
White and an 80-year-old African-American<br />
woman named Ella – a wheelchair-bound double<br />
amputee because of her disease – became<br />
friends. He summarizes <strong>the</strong> lesson he learned<br />
from <strong>the</strong> Roman Catholic priest,<br />
Fa<strong>the</strong>r Reynolds, who m<strong>in</strong>istered to <strong>the</strong> little<br />
church <strong>in</strong>side <strong>the</strong> compound of patients and<br />
crim<strong>in</strong>als: “Pride, he said, was an excessive belief<br />
<strong>in</strong> our own abilities. Lost <strong>in</strong> our own pride, he<br />
expla<strong>in</strong>ed, we are unable to recognize grace.”<br />
As White prepared to go back to <strong>the</strong> outside<br />
world, <strong>the</strong> thought came to him that he needed<br />
a church <strong>the</strong>re like <strong>the</strong> one prisoners and lepers<br />
had shared. “Not just any church. A place like<br />
<strong>the</strong> church at Carville. Where <strong>the</strong> parishioners<br />
were broken and chipped and cracked. A<br />
place to go when I needed help. A place to ask<br />
forgiveness. A sacred place where people were<br />
not consumed with image or money. I didn’t<br />
know if a church like this existed, but if it did I<br />
would go.”<br />
Now that Mr. White is free, I hope he<br />
remembered <strong>the</strong> lessons he learned <strong>in</strong> jail. And<br />
I hope he found that church he was hop<strong>in</strong>g to<br />
f<strong>in</strong>d – a church that can love and accept, hold<br />
accountable and nurture, give <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit<br />
time to redeem and transform. That By Rubel is <strong>the</strong> Shelly sort<br />
of church everybody needs to f<strong>in</strong>d.<br />
For <strong>the</strong> many who th<strong>in</strong>k <strong>the</strong>ir lives don’t count<br />
and that <strong>the</strong>y are nobodies, Jesus put <strong>the</strong><br />
church <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> world to say, “You matter to <strong>the</strong><br />
God who knows your name – and he sent us<br />
to f<strong>in</strong>d you. Welcome to our sanctuary for <strong>the</strong><br />
outcasts.”<br />
By Rubel Shelly<br />
9 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />
HOW TO RAISE<br />
UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />
Technology. Technology everywhere.<br />
It was supposed to make our lives<br />
easier, make us feel more connected.<br />
But when you’ve always dreamed<br />
of rais<strong>in</strong>g kids <strong>the</strong> way you were—carefree<br />
and <strong>in</strong> a constant state of movement—<br />
technology can make it difficult.<br />
Kids know how to operate tablets and<br />
smartphones before <strong>the</strong>y learn how to walk<br />
<strong>in</strong> most cases. Devices have become <strong>in</strong>stant<br />
babysitters. They’re easy and convenient.<br />
All you have to do is pull your phone out of<br />
your back pocket or purse and hand it off.<br />
Whoosh! Hours of m<strong>in</strong>dless enterta<strong>in</strong>ment<br />
for your wee little one. While that may be<br />
simple and easy for you now, before long that<br />
same child you handed your devices to wants<br />
bigger and better and more m<strong>in</strong>d-numb<strong>in</strong>g<br />
fun. Soon, <strong>in</strong>stead of play<strong>in</strong>g outside,<br />
climb<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> trees or learn<strong>in</strong>g to ride a bike,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y’re beh<strong>in</strong>d closed doors, eyes glued to a<br />
screen and near comatose because of <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
new gadgets.<br />
I experienced<br />
that self<strong>in</strong>duced<br />
phenomenon<br />
<strong>in</strong> my<br />
own house. I craved m<strong>in</strong>imalism. I wanted<br />
a happy, carefree environment that was<br />
unencumbered by <strong>the</strong> pressures of most<br />
modern-day demands. I wanted to bake from<br />
scratch, to sew our cloth<strong>in</strong>g and spend as<br />
much time as possible away from devices.<br />
Then, reality set <strong>in</strong>. The kids went to school<br />
and technology played a major role <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
learn<strong>in</strong>g experience. They were <strong>in</strong> front of<br />
devices <strong>in</strong> school. Yikes!<br />
We were a busy bunch. With work<br />
commitments and extra-curricular activities<br />
tak<strong>in</strong>g up so much of our time, I resorted to<br />
lett<strong>in</strong>g technology keep <strong>the</strong> kids occupied<br />
while I rushed to get everyth<strong>in</strong>g done <strong>in</strong> time<br />
for <strong>the</strong> next activity. It dra<strong>in</strong>ed our energy<br />
and created a disconnect between us. I had<br />
to f<strong>in</strong>d a way to get our priorities straight.<br />
True m<strong>in</strong>imalism was <strong>the</strong> answer. It can help<br />
you get your kids out of <strong>the</strong> technology time<br />
suck and back to real, mean<strong>in</strong>gful life.<br />
1<br />
Th<strong>in</strong>k hard about what your family<br />
values are. What really matters to<br />
you? Once you nail those down, you<br />
can build from <strong>the</strong>re.<br />
By Allie Casazza<br />
Decide how and when you’re<br />
2 go<strong>in</strong>g to elim<strong>in</strong>ate <strong>the</strong> use of<br />
technology. No devices at <strong>the</strong><br />
d<strong>in</strong>ner table? No devices after 7 PM?<br />
You make <strong>the</strong> rules and stick to <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
3<br />
Plan for a screen-free hour,<br />
even<strong>in</strong>g, day, weekend, <strong>the</strong>n week.<br />
Baby steps will get you to where<br />
you want to be.<br />
Follow a rout<strong>in</strong>e. Studies show<br />
that it takes 21 days to form a new<br />
4<br />
habit. Start <strong>the</strong> countdown now<br />
and soon be<strong>in</strong>g device free will be<br />
like second nature.<br />
Set yourself up for success. Have<br />
5<br />
designated spots to keep <strong>the</strong><br />
devices (not <strong>the</strong> bedrooms). Set<br />
ground rules, make contracts, know<br />
your schedules. Obviously, if <strong>the</strong> kids need<br />
devices for homework, <strong>the</strong>y should be<br />
allowed to use <strong>the</strong>m but only dur<strong>in</strong>g that<br />
dedicated time.<br />
6<br />
7<br />
Be present. The rules you give to<br />
<strong>the</strong> kids should be followed by all<br />
<strong>the</strong> adults <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> house.<br />
Get your kids <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
decision mak<strong>in</strong>g. They’ll be more<br />
receptive to change if <strong>the</strong>y’re part<br />
of <strong>the</strong> process.<br />
10 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
<strong>Healthy</strong> Kids<br />
HOW TO RAISE<br />
UNPLUGGED KIDS<br />
LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />
BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />
EASY GO-TO MEALS<br />
FOR NEW MOMS<br />
10<br />
12<br />
14<br />
"Children<br />
close <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
ears to advice<br />
but open<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir eyes to<br />
example."
HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />
CHILDREN DON’T WANT<br />
CHRONICALLY BUSY<br />
PARENTS, THEY WANT<br />
PRESENT PARENTS WHO LIKE<br />
BEING WITH THEM.<br />
LEARNING TO BATTLE<br />
BUSY AND SLOW DOWN<br />
Mom, dad, I get it. There’s just one more<br />
th<strong>in</strong>g you need to get done. Right after<br />
that one o<strong>the</strong>r th<strong>in</strong>g, which of course,<br />
is right after <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r th<strong>in</strong>g. There’s always just<br />
one… more… th<strong>in</strong>g. Does it ever stop?!?<br />
The truth is, no, IT never stops. Which means its<br />
up to YOU to do <strong>the</strong> stopp<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
Busyness is certa<strong>in</strong>ly noth<strong>in</strong>g new, but we are<br />
liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a day when parents are wear<strong>in</strong>g “busy”<br />
and “exhausted” as badges at an alarm<strong>in</strong>g rate, as<br />
if <strong>the</strong> quality of our parent<strong>in</strong>g equals <strong>the</strong> quantity<br />
of our activity. Let me let you <strong>in</strong> on a little secret…<br />
SPOILER ALERT: it doesn’t!<br />
SPOILER ALERT: <strong>the</strong> quality of your parent<strong>in</strong>g<br />
does not equal <strong>the</strong> quantity of your activity.<br />
For parents, it is true what <strong>the</strong>y say: <strong>the</strong> days are<br />
long, but <strong>the</strong> years are short. The lie that “busy”<br />
tells you is “you’ll have time for it later”. And <strong>the</strong>n<br />
later comes, <strong>the</strong>n comes aga<strong>in</strong>, and aga<strong>in</strong>, and<br />
before you know it, you look up and all <strong>the</strong> “laters”<br />
have come and gone and <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> meantime you<br />
missed out on <strong>the</strong> many everyday moments that<br />
are such a gift <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> life of a parent.<br />
If you f<strong>in</strong>d yourself fight<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> battle of busy<br />
struggl<strong>in</strong>g to be present for <strong>the</strong> everyday<br />
moments <strong>in</strong> your life, here are 4 th<strong>in</strong>gs I want to<br />
challenge you with:<br />
Slow Down! Seriously. Make a<br />
01 commitment to yourself to slow down<br />
<strong>the</strong> pace of your life. In order to do this, you<br />
will need to make some changes- ei<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong><br />
<strong>the</strong> activities that your kids are <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong><br />
or <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> activities/work schedule that you<br />
have. F<strong>in</strong>d ONE th<strong>in</strong>g that you can ei<strong>the</strong>r cut<br />
back on or completely remove that will open<br />
up time <strong>in</strong> your life for you to brea<strong>the</strong> a bit.<br />
It will be hard but remember, giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself<br />
<strong>the</strong> gift of time or your child <strong>the</strong> gift of<br />
more time with you will br<strong>in</strong>g you only good.<br />
NOTHING bad comes from spend<strong>in</strong>g more<br />
time with your family and giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself<br />
more unhurried time will dramatically<br />
improve <strong>the</strong> quality of your life. So make<br />
changes, small changes at first, and do not be<br />
afraid!<br />
Take off <strong>the</strong> badge of exhaustion. Most<br />
02 mo<strong>the</strong>rs, whe<strong>the</strong>r work<strong>in</strong>g outside<br />
<strong>the</strong> home or not, believe <strong>the</strong>y are tougher,<br />
stronger and more accomplished if <strong>the</strong>y live<br />
so busy that <strong>the</strong>y are exhausted. If you are<br />
an exhausted mo<strong>the</strong>r, ask yourself “Why do<br />
I thrive on be<strong>in</strong>g exhausted? What mental or<br />
emotional benefit am I gett<strong>in</strong>g from liv<strong>in</strong>g<br />
so frenetically?” Then make a commitment<br />
to yourself to reject <strong>the</strong>se feel<strong>in</strong>gs. They are<br />
not reasonable, <strong>the</strong>y are irrational and very<br />
unhealthy. Children don’t want chronically<br />
busy, exhausted parents, <strong>the</strong>y want present<br />
parents who like be<strong>in</strong>g with <strong>the</strong>m. Likewise,<br />
your boss doesn’t need someone who can’t<br />
function well because you are so tired. They<br />
need someone who can th<strong>in</strong>k on her feet,<br />
take care of her emotional, mental and<br />
physical health and be <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>re for <strong>the</strong> long<br />
haul.<br />
Be Courageous Enough to Live<br />
03 Differently from your peers. One of<br />
<strong>the</strong> best exercises I have done is ask myself<br />
why I do what I do. If I am contemplat<strong>in</strong>g<br />
tak<strong>in</strong>g on ano<strong>the</strong>r project, even if it is small, I<br />
have a heart to heart with myself and ask why<br />
would I take this on? Often I f<strong>in</strong>d that I don’t<br />
really have a reason o<strong>the</strong>r than <strong>the</strong> belief that<br />
I should do it because it would be expected<br />
of me. THIS is NOT a good reason. I have to<br />
tell myself NO to many th<strong>in</strong>gs and it is critical<br />
for all moms and dads to do this. There will<br />
likely be push back from friends and family<br />
who are accustomed to one th<strong>in</strong>g from you,<br />
but if we want peace, we must learn to be<br />
comfortable with liv<strong>in</strong>g very differently. The<br />
truth is, many of those people will actually be<br />
jealous. They may want to do exactly what we<br />
are do<strong>in</strong>g but need someone to follow.<br />
Trust <strong>Your</strong> Inst<strong>in</strong>cts. The truth is, your<br />
04 <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts are <strong>the</strong>re for a reason. They<br />
may stem from your th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>the</strong> way you<br />
were tra<strong>in</strong>ed to th<strong>in</strong>k and believe. But 99%<br />
of <strong>the</strong> time <strong>the</strong>y protect you and you need to<br />
listen to <strong>the</strong>m. One of my biggest frustrations<br />
work<strong>in</strong>g with conscientious parents is <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
fear of listen<strong>in</strong>g to what <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct tells<br />
<strong>the</strong>m to do when it comes to parent<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR<br />
PARENTING, WHAT ARE YOUR<br />
INSTINCTS TELLING YOU<br />
ABOUT HOW YOU SPEND<br />
YOUR TIME?<br />
SO let me ask you a frank question now: when it<br />
comes to your parent<strong>in</strong>g, what are your <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts<br />
tell<strong>in</strong>g you about how you spend your time? Are<br />
<strong>the</strong>y tell<strong>in</strong>g you that you need to pull back a little?<br />
Slow down just a bit or erase someth<strong>in</strong>g that you<br />
are currently do<strong>in</strong>g that is mak<strong>in</strong>g you exhausted? I<br />
want to tell you- listen to those <strong>in</strong>ner voices. They<br />
are aris<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> you because you need someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />
that you are resist<strong>in</strong>g giv<strong>in</strong>g yourself. Do you really<br />
want to deprive yourself or your children of <strong>the</strong><br />
common sense that your <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts are tell<strong>in</strong>g you<br />
to do? What keeps you from not listen<strong>in</strong>g to your<br />
gut?<br />
Parents, <strong>the</strong> battle of busy is not an easy one, but<br />
it is one of <strong>the</strong> most important ones and it must<br />
be waged and won!<br />
By Meg Meeker, MD<br />
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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />
EASY<br />
GO-TO<br />
MEALS<br />
FOR NEW<br />
MOMS<br />
Hav<strong>in</strong>g a baby is a huge transition<br />
for you <strong>in</strong>side and out. <strong>Your</strong> body<br />
changes, your hormones change,<br />
you're physically and emotionally dra<strong>in</strong>ed—all<br />
before your little bundle of joy enters <strong>the</strong><br />
world. After <strong>the</strong> baby arrives, it’s all you can<br />
do to get used to your little one and to adjust<br />
to a new, often sleepless schedule. <strong>Your</strong><br />
energy levels take a nose dive if you’re not<br />
careful. While it may be easy to grab a quick<br />
snack here and <strong>the</strong>re, it’s def<strong>in</strong>itely not good<br />
for you or <strong>the</strong> baby. Nurs<strong>in</strong>g moms need<br />
good nutrition to keep <strong>the</strong>ir energy levels up<br />
and to keep <strong>the</strong>mselves and baby as healthy<br />
as possible. So, how do you f<strong>in</strong>d time to make<br />
nutritious meals when you’re on mom duty?<br />
The first rule is to make <strong>the</strong> time. If you’re not<br />
eat<strong>in</strong>g right, you run <strong>the</strong> risk of hav<strong>in</strong>g your<br />
milk deplete, not to mention hav<strong>in</strong>g your<br />
mental capacity fall drastically. Nei<strong>the</strong>r you<br />
nor your baby need to suffer from hunger.<br />
(We know. It feels like your baby is always<br />
hungry. It gets better, we promise.) Boost<strong>in</strong>g<br />
your milk supply will help.<br />
Here’s <strong>the</strong> good news. Nurs<strong>in</strong>g is a real<br />
workout. If you’re do<strong>in</strong>g it all day long—and<br />
who isn’t—you're burn<strong>in</strong>g anywhere from<br />
400 to 600 calories just from breastfeed<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
That’s better than a quick jaunt around <strong>the</strong><br />
block. Now you see why you always feel like<br />
you’re starv<strong>in</strong>g. You practically are if you’re<br />
not eat<strong>in</strong>g right.<br />
By Alan Freeman<br />
Here are some delicious go-to meals that are<br />
good for you, your grow<strong>in</strong>g baby and your<br />
energy levels:<br />
Salmon supports<br />
your baby’s bra<strong>in</strong> and<br />
ret<strong>in</strong>a development via<br />
breastmilk. It also gives<br />
moms a great boost<br />
with its Omega-3 fats.<br />
Yes, FATS. They’re good<br />
for you. For even more,<br />
eat grass-fed beef and bison—all <strong>the</strong> same<br />
goodness with a little more bite.<br />
Avocado. We love<br />
this nutrient-packed<br />
delight, which can<br />
stave off hunger pangs<br />
for up to three hours.<br />
They also regulate<br />
blood sugar levels,<br />
which will help keep your mood steady. Add<br />
this delicious treat as a side dish on your<br />
d<strong>in</strong>ner plate, eat it alone or roll up a no-carb<br />
tortilla with a little chicken and you’re good<br />
to go for hours. Yum!<br />
Cucumbers<br />
and sp<strong>in</strong>ach are<br />
magnesium-rich<br />
gems that calm <strong>the</strong><br />
nervous system<br />
and regulate <strong>the</strong> release of<br />
seroton<strong>in</strong>, <strong>the</strong> happy hormone, <strong>in</strong> your body.<br />
Add <strong>the</strong>m to fresh salads or to your morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />
smoothie. Eat with hummus dip or make a<br />
cucumber sandwich.<br />
Almonds are loaded with z<strong>in</strong>c<br />
that helps fight <strong>in</strong>flammation<br />
and keeps you healthy with<br />
its good-for-you fats. You can<br />
chop <strong>the</strong>m up and eat <strong>the</strong>m over pla<strong>in</strong> Greek<br />
yogurt for a quick snack or add <strong>the</strong>m to<br />
salads or stir-fry.<br />
Chocolate. Yes,<br />
you can eat<br />
chocolate! Choose<br />
dark chocolate<br />
to get <strong>the</strong> most benefit. It will curb crav<strong>in</strong>gs,<br />
improve your mood, and decrease anxiety<br />
and depression. Drizzle chocolate over fresh<br />
fruit or <strong>in</strong> a cup of Greek yogurt or eat alone.<br />
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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
6<br />
STEPS TO<br />
BECOMING<br />
A BETTER<br />
LISTENER<br />
We’re all guilty of it. We do it with our<br />
children. We do it with our significant<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r. We even do it with our employers.<br />
We half-listen, nodd<strong>in</strong>g and gr<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g where<br />
appropriate but never really hear<strong>in</strong>g a word.<br />
Our devices have become our lifel<strong>in</strong>es. We’re<br />
always plugged <strong>in</strong> and never <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right<br />
place. The truth is we’re miss<strong>in</strong>g out on so<br />
much around us because we’re never fully<br />
tuned <strong>in</strong> to <strong>the</strong> world.<br />
I’ll be <strong>the</strong> first to admit, I am <strong>the</strong> queen of<br />
people who never listen. Ask my children. It’s<br />
been years s<strong>in</strong>ce I sat down and gave <strong>the</strong>m<br />
my undivided attention and I’m not proud of<br />
it. I’ve missed out on so much. Arguments<br />
could have been avoided and missed<br />
appo<strong>in</strong>tments, late fees, and a host of o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
embarrass<strong>in</strong>g gaffes didn’t have to happen. I<br />
f<strong>in</strong>ally had to admit I had a problem and do<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g about it.<br />
There’s no magic elixir, no time mach<strong>in</strong>e, no<br />
‘reclaim<strong>in</strong>g my time’ because I dropped <strong>the</strong><br />
ball repeatedly. I did what any self-respect<strong>in</strong>g<br />
pseudo-<strong>in</strong>tellectual would do: I researched<br />
<strong>the</strong> problem and looked for a solution. Here’s<br />
what I discovered: I’m not <strong>the</strong> only person <strong>in</strong><br />
<strong>the</strong> world who does this. What a relief that<br />
was!<br />
Now, here are a few simple solutions to break<br />
this bad habit and get you plugged <strong>in</strong>to your<br />
life aga<strong>in</strong>:<br />
01.<br />
Put your phone away. No kidd<strong>in</strong>g! You’re not<br />
fully engaged if you’re distracted by your<br />
news feed or constantly check<strong>in</strong>g emails, text<br />
messages, or posts. Despite what you may<br />
have heard, you are not superhuman. Our<br />
bra<strong>in</strong>s can’t handle more than one activity at<br />
a time. Someth<strong>in</strong>g will go wrong.<br />
02.<br />
Feed your curiosity. Take some time without<br />
your devices to explore your neighborhood,<br />
go on an adventure, take a hike, or do<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g that engages both your m<strong>in</strong>d and<br />
your body.<br />
03.<br />
This goes without say<strong>in</strong>g but listen.Truly<br />
listen. Don’t spend your time try<strong>in</strong>g to come<br />
up with a response, just hear people out.<br />
04.<br />
Listen so <strong>in</strong>tently that you can tell someone<br />
everyth<strong>in</strong>g that was said. You never know,<br />
that might be a skill that comes <strong>in</strong> handy one<br />
day.<br />
05.<br />
Look <strong>the</strong> speaker <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> eye. That shows<br />
you're truly engaged. There’s noth<strong>in</strong>g more<br />
annoy<strong>in</strong>g than speak<strong>in</strong>g to someone who is<br />
clearly distracted. Aga<strong>in</strong>, your bra<strong>in</strong> can only<br />
handle one activity at a time.<br />
06.<br />
Don’t speak until you’re sure <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r person<br />
is done talk<strong>in</strong>g. Their words have value. Show<br />
<strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> same respect you would want.<br />
In <strong>the</strong> end, you’ll f<strong>in</strong>d that it’s much easier to<br />
get along with someone if you listen to <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
Be<strong>in</strong>g present tells <strong>the</strong>m you care, you value<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir op<strong>in</strong>ions, and that you are someone<br />
who can be trusted. Whe<strong>the</strong>r it’s your boss,<br />
your kids, your spouse, or a stranger, <strong>the</strong>y all<br />
deserve to be heard. Now, get your listen<strong>in</strong>g<br />
ears on and start a conversation.<br />
By Julianna Lowe<br />
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<strong>Healthy</strong><br />
Lifestyle<br />
LIFE AMONG THE OUTCASTS<br />
6 STEPS TO BECOMING A<br />
BETTER LISTENER<br />
ADDRESSING YOUR ENERGY<br />
IN THE NEW YEAR<br />
HOW TO GET OVER AND<br />
PREVENT OLD CONFLICTS<br />
FROM HOLDING YOU BACK<br />
THE SOUND OF SILENCE<br />
5 THINGS TO DO WHEN NEGATIVE<br />
EMOTIONS AND SELF-TALK<br />
TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE<br />
THE SECRET TO A<br />
HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />
9<br />
16<br />
20<br />
22<br />
24<br />
26<br />
28<br />
"The<br />
groundwork of<br />
all happ<strong>in</strong>ess is<br />
good health."<br />
-Leigh Hunt
HEALTHY COVER STORY KIDS · OCTOBER JANUARY 2018 2017<br />
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HEALTHY COVER STORY KIDS · OCTOBER JANUARY 2018 2017<br />
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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
ADDRESSING<br />
YOUR ENERGY IN<br />
THE NEW YEAR<br />
One of <strong>the</strong> most common, and often challeng<strong>in</strong>g<br />
concerns I see <strong>in</strong> my office is fatigue. When we<br />
are young, most of us have seem<strong>in</strong>gly limitless<br />
energy: we may keep crazy hours, seem to<br />
perform well on little sleep, and bounce back from stressors<br />
with relative ease.<br />
As we age, energy becomes more of an issue, and as an<br />
<strong>in</strong>tegrative and functional physician, I have to cast a broad<br />
net to th<strong>in</strong>k through why someone might not have <strong>the</strong><br />
energy <strong>the</strong>y want.<br />
Here are 7 of <strong>the</strong> top th<strong>in</strong>gs I th<strong>in</strong>k about that can<br />
cause low energy:<br />
Poor nutrition. I am amazed by how unique my<br />
01. patients are <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir micronutrient needs. When<br />
we test for nutrient levels, we see many people even<br />
when tak<strong>in</strong>g supplements, may be significantly deficient<br />
<strong>in</strong> key nutrients. Some of <strong>the</strong> most common ones I see<br />
are magnesium and B vitam<strong>in</strong>s- both critical for energy<br />
production. Under this same head<strong>in</strong>g is <strong>the</strong> notion of poor<br />
sugar balance. Many of us today <strong>in</strong>gest an unreasonable<br />
amount of (mostly ref<strong>in</strong>ed) carbohydrates putt<strong>in</strong>g our<br />
blood sugar, which ideally rema<strong>in</strong>s ra<strong>the</strong>r stable through<br />
meals, through a roller coaster ride. These fluctuations will<br />
often result <strong>in</strong> our feel<strong>in</strong>g tired. We prefer an approach<br />
that emphasizes whole healthy food,<br />
majority of <strong>the</strong>m plants and<br />
address<strong>in</strong>g specific micronutrient<br />
deficiencies only when we can<br />
measure <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
02.<br />
Hormonal deficiencies. In our cl<strong>in</strong>ic, <strong>the</strong><br />
frequency of an underperform<strong>in</strong>g thyroid gland<strong>the</strong><br />
organ that controls metabolic rate, is surpris<strong>in</strong>g and<br />
seems to be <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g. There are many reasons for this,<br />
and <strong>the</strong> root causes for any one patient must be identified,<br />
but rarely is this picked even up <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> labs that are typically<br />
performed <strong>in</strong> conventional medic<strong>in</strong>e. In addition, low<br />
testosterone is also on <strong>the</strong> rise and this can affect women<br />
as well as men.<br />
03.<br />
Low grade <strong>in</strong>fection or <strong>in</strong>flammation. Even <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
absence of gut symptoms, many of my patients<br />
suffer from <strong>in</strong>flammation with<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> digestive tract because<br />
of food sensitivities, small <strong>in</strong>test<strong>in</strong>al bacterial overgrowth,<br />
overgrowth of yeast, <strong>in</strong>sufficient digestive capacity,<br />
medications like acid-blockers, to name a few. This chronic<br />
low-level <strong>in</strong>flammation exhausts <strong>the</strong> system. Improvement<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>se issues can result <strong>in</strong> a significant boost of<br />
energy. Chronic s<strong>in</strong>usitis, a condition<br />
many of my patients live with, has<br />
<strong>the</strong> same deplet<strong>in</strong>g effect.<br />
Sk<strong>in</strong> rashes, bra<strong>in</strong> fog,<br />
or jo<strong>in</strong>t ach<strong>in</strong>ess<br />
can po<strong>in</strong>t<br />
us <strong>in</strong> this<br />
direction.<br />
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05.<br />
Poor sleep: This is a<br />
condition of epidemic<br />
proportions <strong>in</strong> our culture<br />
and most of <strong>the</strong> medications<br />
prescribed to treat only compound<br />
<strong>the</strong> problem. Dur<strong>in</strong>g deep sleep, we<br />
are restor<strong>in</strong>g enzymes, hormones,<br />
neurotransmitters and essentially<br />
restock<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> shelves. When we<br />
are gipped out of restorative sleep,<br />
no amount of coffee truly makes<br />
up for this.<br />
06.<br />
04.<br />
HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
Lack of movement: Exercise begets energy and our sedentary<br />
lifestyles, with long commute times, sitt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> front of <strong>the</strong><br />
computer for most of <strong>the</strong> day, is an absolute drag on our energy. While an<br />
hour work-out is terrific, it does not make up for 8+ hours of sitt<strong>in</strong>g. Build<strong>in</strong>g<br />
up movement throughout <strong>the</strong> day can be a significant energy boost.<br />
Toxic exposures. Alcohol,<br />
mold, mercury, pesticides and<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r chemicals, medications, sugar and<br />
nasty relationships all fall under this category.<br />
Many of us live with <strong>the</strong>se exposures for so long,<br />
we do not th<strong>in</strong>k to associate <strong>the</strong>m with poor<br />
energy. But by directly <strong>in</strong>terfer<strong>in</strong>g with our capacity<br />
to produce energy, <strong>the</strong>y can be a slow<br />
and steady dra<strong>in</strong> on our resources.<br />
<strong>Address<strong>in</strong>g</strong> each of <strong>the</strong>se<br />
issues requires a unique<br />
approach.<br />
07.<br />
Thoughts. Selfdeprecat<strong>in</strong>g,<br />
sham<strong>in</strong>g,<br />
rum<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g, judgmental thoughts<br />
are a true energy sump. By b<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g<br />
and constrict<strong>in</strong>g us, <strong>the</strong>y prevent<br />
free flow of energy through <strong>the</strong><br />
system.<br />
I hope this list<br />
is helpful for you<br />
to th<strong>in</strong>k about<br />
with your own health.<br />
The good news is, with<br />
some thoughtful <strong>in</strong>vestigation,<br />
each of <strong>the</strong>se issues can be<br />
addressed. So, <strong>in</strong> this <strong>New</strong> <strong>Year</strong>,<br />
if feel<strong>in</strong>g vital to do <strong>the</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs<br />
you love has importance to you,<br />
make it a po<strong>in</strong>t to have different<br />
aspects of your life assessed by a<br />
Functional Medic<strong>in</strong>e physician and<br />
know that great energy is possible.<br />
A World-Class<br />
Interdiscipl<strong>in</strong>ary<br />
Cl<strong>in</strong>ical Team<br />
Committed to<br />
Heal<strong>in</strong>g Patients<br />
& Communities<br />
By Karen Koffler, MD, IMFCP<br />
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Next, you must understand<br />
why this pattern exists <strong>in</strong><br />
<strong>the</strong> first place. It’s a sort<br />
of mourn<strong>in</strong>g, if you will.<br />
The pa<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> a twisted way<br />
adds value to <strong>the</strong> trigger<strong>in</strong>g<br />
event/s. It signifies <strong>the</strong> loss<br />
of joy or love or wholeness.<br />
Somehow, your m<strong>in</strong>d has<br />
told you that this is <strong>the</strong><br />
way it has to be. We’re here<br />
to tell you, it’s not. You<br />
make <strong>the</strong> choice to let it<br />
go, to change <strong>the</strong> pattern,<br />
to say goodbye to whatever<br />
that th<strong>in</strong>g is. You can’t let<br />
<strong>the</strong> event, <strong>the</strong> person, <strong>the</strong><br />
circumstance rob you of<br />
who you are or who you<br />
want to be.<br />
HOW TO GET OVER<br />
AND PREVENT OLD<br />
CONFLICTS FROM<br />
HOLDING YOU BACK<br />
Old hurts, sad memories, and pa<strong>in</strong> come back to haunt us<br />
when we least expect <strong>the</strong>m. They act like trigger mechanisms<br />
for us. They create a pattern that can stay with us longterm<br />
if we don’t do someth<strong>in</strong>g to “cure” our pa<strong>in</strong> soon.<br />
They become a roadmap for our lives, def<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g who we are,<br />
what we do, and how we’ll respond to even <strong>the</strong> t<strong>in</strong>iest slight. They may lie<br />
dormant for months or years at a time, but underneath <strong>the</strong> surface, right<br />
below <strong>the</strong> façade you put on to get you through your day, <strong>the</strong>y lie <strong>in</strong> wait.<br />
When triggered, a signal is sent to your bra<strong>in</strong> to drag you right down back<br />
<strong>in</strong>to <strong>the</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> and anger or sorrow that’s been fester<strong>in</strong>g for ages. They elicit an<br />
emotional response that’s not always healthy.<br />
These long-held emotions need to be def<strong>in</strong>ed and categorized o<strong>the</strong>rwise<br />
you’ll never f<strong>in</strong>d your way past <strong>the</strong>m. At <strong>the</strong>ir core, <strong>the</strong>y are <strong>the</strong> basis for<br />
everyth<strong>in</strong>g that you say or do. <strong>Your</strong> emotions flutter around, bounc<strong>in</strong>g from<br />
one extreme to <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r, as if <strong>the</strong>y’re search<strong>in</strong>g for someth<strong>in</strong>g to hold onto.<br />
<strong>Your</strong> reaction stems from wherever you are mentally. You make <strong>the</strong> choice to<br />
let it send you spiral<strong>in</strong>g out of control or to ignore <strong>the</strong>m and move forward.<br />
They are your hot spots, your po<strong>in</strong>ts of contention, <strong>the</strong> places you don’t want<br />
to return to <strong>in</strong> your m<strong>in</strong>d. They exist on repeat, sett<strong>in</strong>g up a negative pattern<br />
that we’ll follow until we can’t take anymore.<br />
The next phase is shor<strong>in</strong>g up your strength to combat <strong>the</strong>se<br />
negative emotions. You need <strong>the</strong> right tools.<br />
• The most obvious tool is to redirect yourself. You know<br />
when a negative emotion is cloud<strong>in</strong>g your judgment.<br />
Have a cont<strong>in</strong>gency plan. Pledge to make real change<br />
and f<strong>in</strong>d a support system to get you through <strong>the</strong><br />
darkest moments.<br />
• Learn to forgive yourself and treat yourself and o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />
who may be struggl<strong>in</strong>g well. Imag<strong>in</strong>e someone you love<br />
is go<strong>in</strong>g through <strong>the</strong> same pa<strong>in</strong>, how would you treat<br />
<strong>the</strong>m? You’d offer support and send <strong>the</strong>m love and<br />
gently push <strong>the</strong>m <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right direction. Do <strong>the</strong> same for<br />
yourself. Guide yourself, give yourself a pep talk, write<br />
out healthy rem<strong>in</strong>ders to keep mov<strong>in</strong>g forward. Stop<br />
punish<strong>in</strong>g yourself.<br />
• Practice visualization. Imag<strong>in</strong>e yourself physically<br />
dump<strong>in</strong>g all <strong>the</strong> hurt and pa<strong>in</strong> and toss<strong>in</strong>g it away. Try<br />
writ<strong>in</strong>g down your emotions, <strong>the</strong>n, sett<strong>in</strong>g a match to<br />
<strong>the</strong>m to get rid of <strong>the</strong>m forever. Those acts alone may<br />
help take <strong>the</strong> weight off your shoulders. Give yourself<br />
<strong>the</strong> right to say goodbye to negativity.<br />
By Sarah May Bates<br />
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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
The o<strong>the</strong>r day while driv<strong>in</strong>g<br />
on <strong>the</strong> highway, I did<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g that I never do.<br />
I turned <strong>the</strong> radio off.<br />
That might not seem like a big deal to most<br />
people. But for me, it was HUGE.<br />
See, I never and I do mean NEVER turn <strong>the</strong> radio<br />
off. It is always on and if I happen to need to hear<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g, I will turn down <strong>the</strong> volume. But I<br />
never turn it off.<br />
I'm not even sure why really. I just always like to<br />
have music on <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> background.<br />
Or so I thought.<br />
But as I sat <strong>the</strong>re <strong>in</strong> my newly-silent car, putt<strong>in</strong>g<br />
along <strong>in</strong> construction traffic on <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>terstate, it<br />
was like I had stepped <strong>in</strong>to a different world.<br />
Suddenly, everyth<strong>in</strong>g seemed to slow down. The<br />
construction vehicles to <strong>the</strong> left of me and <strong>the</strong><br />
cars to <strong>the</strong> right and front of me all seemed to<br />
just fade away. I looked up at <strong>the</strong> trees through<br />
my w<strong>in</strong>dshield and as I watched <strong>the</strong>m sway gently<br />
back and forth <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> breeze (I was only go<strong>in</strong>g like<br />
5 mph, so I could look away), it was almost as if I<br />
could feel <strong>the</strong>m mov<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
It was an amaz<strong>in</strong>g moment and I literally thought<br />
to myself, "So THIS is what life is supposed to be<br />
like!"<br />
Of course, I am only human, so that feel<strong>in</strong>g only<br />
stayed <strong>in</strong> my body for a few m<strong>in</strong>utes. But even as<br />
that <strong>in</strong>credible connectedness subsided, I still felt<br />
<strong>in</strong>credibly calm and at peace.<br />
Which for me... was weird.<br />
Because not only do I never turn <strong>the</strong> radio off<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car, but I pretty much avoid silence like,<br />
always. It just makes me feel very anxious. If<br />
I'm home alone, I'll turn <strong>the</strong> television on <strong>in</strong><br />
<strong>the</strong> background or play music on my phone or<br />
computer. I like to sleep with a fan runn<strong>in</strong>g for<br />
white noise and I'll always be <strong>the</strong> one to fill <strong>in</strong><br />
awkward silences dur<strong>in</strong>g a conversation (even if it<br />
does make th<strong>in</strong>gs more awkward!).<br />
So, <strong>the</strong> fact that I was sitt<strong>in</strong>g here <strong>in</strong> silence <strong>in</strong><br />
my car and actually not freak<strong>in</strong>g out, was a pretty<br />
major deal. But it also got me to th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g...<br />
Why was silence such a big deal for me <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> first<br />
place?<br />
Well, it didn't take long for me to get <strong>the</strong> answer.<br />
Almost immediately, God spoke to me <strong>in</strong> that<br />
soft voice <strong>in</strong>side and told me <strong>the</strong> Enemy didn't<br />
want me to be <strong>in</strong> silence because that's when I<br />
could hear so directly from Him and connect so<br />
completely.<br />
It was so surpris<strong>in</strong>g to hear, yet at <strong>the</strong> same time,<br />
k<strong>in</strong>d of a "duh" moment.<br />
I know that Satan likes to keep people busy (Be<strong>in</strong>g<br />
Under Satan's Yoke) to keep <strong>the</strong>m from be<strong>in</strong>g<br />
<strong>in</strong> relationship with God and keep <strong>the</strong>m focused<br />
on th<strong>in</strong>gs that don't really matter. But for some<br />
reason, it had never dawned on me that my<br />
supposed "anxiety" about silence was actually just<br />
ano<strong>the</strong>r tool to keep me at a distance.<br />
Well you can bet your sweet bippy that I drove<br />
around <strong>the</strong> rest of that day (and several days<br />
s<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>the</strong>n) with <strong>the</strong> radio off <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car!<br />
Now, I'm not say<strong>in</strong>g that you will have a huge<br />
epiphany or an <strong>in</strong>timate moment with God every<br />
time you turn down Taylor Swift <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> car.<br />
But what I will say is, <strong>the</strong>re is value <strong>in</strong> silence.<br />
24 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
With all of us be<strong>in</strong>g bombarded 24<br />
hours a day with television, radio, social<br />
media, newspapers, magaz<strong>in</strong>es, traffic,<br />
coworkers, children, spouses and <strong>the</strong><br />
o<strong>the</strong>r 100 th<strong>in</strong>gs vy<strong>in</strong>g for our attention,<br />
it is important to take time out to just...<br />
be...quiet.<br />
Even before I had my little highway<br />
epiphany, I knew that I was avoid<strong>in</strong>g<br />
silence for a reason. But I thought it was<br />
mostly because I didn't want to hear <strong>the</strong> "noise"<br />
<strong>in</strong> my head.<br />
You know... all <strong>the</strong> worry<strong>in</strong>g, stress<strong>in</strong>g,<br />
overanalyz<strong>in</strong>g, negative and frankly, just pla<strong>in</strong><br />
exhaust<strong>in</strong>g thoughts that seem to run through<br />
our m<strong>in</strong>ds 24/7. I didn't want to hear all that<br />
mess, so <strong>the</strong> easiest way to ignore it is to cover it<br />
up with someth<strong>in</strong>g louder.<br />
Or aga<strong>in</strong>, so I thought.<br />
Th<strong>in</strong>g is, even if you choose not to<br />
listen to all that chatter <strong>in</strong> your head,<br />
it's still go<strong>in</strong>g to be <strong>the</strong>re. And most<br />
likely, it will choose a more annoy<strong>in</strong>g<br />
time to show up, like when your head<br />
hits <strong>the</strong> pillow at night.<br />
After all, that IS <strong>the</strong> first time you've quieted<br />
down all day, so your bra<strong>in</strong> th<strong>in</strong>ks "Woohoo! It's<br />
time to go! Ok, so let's talk about everyth<strong>in</strong>g<br />
that happened today! First, that breakfast that<br />
we had today, I'm not sure about that..."<br />
And on and on it goes until it's 4 <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />
and you're about to dr<strong>in</strong>k a bottle of Nyquil or<br />
throw your alarm clock out <strong>the</strong> w<strong>in</strong>dow.<br />
That's why it is so important to let yourself be <strong>in</strong><br />
<strong>the</strong> silence at some po<strong>in</strong>t everyday.<br />
Whe<strong>the</strong>r it's to have a moment with<br />
God or just to give your bra<strong>in</strong> a break,<br />
everyone can use a little quiet.<br />
And ya know what?<br />
In <strong>the</strong> end, it's actually not that scary. I<br />
don't know what I was so afraid of all this<br />
time.<br />
In fact, dare I say, I'm even start<strong>in</strong>g to<br />
k<strong>in</strong>d of like it a little. Now that doesn't mean I<br />
will be ditch<strong>in</strong>g my bedtime fan anytime soon<br />
yet, but it does mean I am okay with be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a<br />
no-noise environment from time to time.<br />
Because <strong>in</strong> those moments is when I am most<br />
truly me, I am most truly connected to God and<br />
when I am able to see this world <strong>the</strong> most clearly.<br />
Not a bad switch off for Swifty, huh?<br />
By Jenn Baxter<br />
25 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
5<br />
THINGS TO<br />
DO WHEN<br />
NEGATIVE<br />
EMOTIONS AND<br />
SELF-TALK TAKE<br />
OVER YOUR LIFE<br />
We all have bad days. Sometimes those bad<br />
days start or stop with how we feel about<br />
our bodies. Those feel<strong>in</strong>gs aren’t necessarily<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g we battle daily, but when those<br />
negative feel<strong>in</strong>gs creep up, we have to f<strong>in</strong>d a<br />
healthy outlet or risk feel<strong>in</strong>g that way for prolonged periods<br />
of time or sabotag<strong>in</strong>g our o<strong>the</strong>rwise healthy habits.<br />
There’s noth<strong>in</strong>g out of <strong>the</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary about feel<strong>in</strong>g this way. It’s<br />
common for women and men everywhere. For most of us, it’s<br />
a matter of shift<strong>in</strong>g our focus. Learn<strong>in</strong>g to love our bodies will<br />
help us get out of our funk and get back on <strong>the</strong> right track.<br />
Here are some tips to help you get over <strong>the</strong> hump and back<br />
to your wonderful self <strong>in</strong> no time:<br />
Banish all negative thoughts by replac<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>m<br />
01 with positive affirmations. Psychologists have been<br />
tell<strong>in</strong>g us this for years. One of <strong>the</strong> healthiest th<strong>in</strong>gs you<br />
can do for yourself is to stop be<strong>in</strong>g so hard on yourself.<br />
You wouldn’t allow o<strong>the</strong>r people to criticize you, so why<br />
do you accept it com<strong>in</strong>g from yourself? Th<strong>in</strong>k about all<br />
that you’ve accomplished <strong>in</strong> your life. Look how far you’ve<br />
come. Don’t let negativity dull your sh<strong>in</strong>e.<br />
Focus on health. It’s not about what <strong>the</strong> scale says<br />
02 or what some “expert” <strong>in</strong> a fashion magaz<strong>in</strong>e says.<br />
Consider everyth<strong>in</strong>g your body does to keep you go<strong>in</strong>g. It<br />
allows you to move, to th<strong>in</strong>k, to operate and rejuvenates<br />
overnight. That’s a lot of work. Be thankful for what your<br />
body does for you and be glad you get to have ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />
day to try aga<strong>in</strong>.<br />
Do someth<strong>in</strong>g good for yourself. You deserve it! If<br />
03 <strong>the</strong>re’s an exercise you’ve always wanted to try, why<br />
not get out and try it. Or maybe <strong>the</strong>re’s a spa treatment<br />
you’ve been dy<strong>in</strong>g to get. Now would be a good time to do<br />
it. Show your body how much you appreciate it for all it<br />
does for you.<br />
Go out and have some fun or <strong>in</strong>vite your girlfriends<br />
04 over for a night <strong>in</strong>. Laughter among friends will lift<br />
your spirits and get <strong>the</strong> creative juices flow<strong>in</strong>g aga<strong>in</strong> and<br />
will help you erase <strong>the</strong> negative emotions.<br />
Journal. Yes, really. Write out what it is you’re<br />
05 feel<strong>in</strong>g and let it go. Studies say that your<br />
subconscious clears <strong>the</strong> negative vibes when you write<br />
out your feel<strong>in</strong>gs. The emotions spill out of your pen, so<br />
to speak, and allow you to move forward. Give it a shot. All<br />
you need is a sheet of paper and a pen.<br />
The bottom l<strong>in</strong>e is you don’t have to suffer. There<br />
are healthy and safe outlets to help you release <strong>the</strong><br />
negative feel<strong>in</strong>gs we all have from time to time.<br />
They’re not unique to you. Everyone goes through<br />
essentially <strong>the</strong> same bouts of despair or anguish.<br />
That’s a normal part of liv<strong>in</strong>g. So what if you’re not<br />
a size 2. The bigger th<strong>in</strong>g you should ask yourself<br />
is how do you feel? Are you stronger today than<br />
you were yesterday? Are you mov<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> right<br />
direction? If <strong>the</strong> answer is yes, hooray! We’re<br />
proud of you!<br />
By Ava Mallory<br />
26 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
HEALTHY LIFESTYLE · JANUARY 2018<br />
THE<br />
SECRET TO<br />
A HAPPY<br />
MARRIAGE<br />
More often than I like to admit, I<br />
f<strong>in</strong>d myself dream<strong>in</strong>g of <strong>the</strong> perfect<br />
marriage. I say dream<strong>in</strong>g because I’ve<br />
never been very good with relationships.<br />
Two failed marriages and a str<strong>in</strong>g of bad<br />
dates have led me to believe happily<br />
ever after isn’t <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> stars for me. I<br />
often fool myself <strong>in</strong>to believ<strong>in</strong>g that<br />
from time to time…until <strong>the</strong> latest<br />
romantic comedy hits <strong>the</strong> <strong>the</strong>aters,<br />
or <strong>the</strong> gossip columns fill <strong>the</strong>ir pages<br />
with gorgeous fairytale wedd<strong>in</strong>g<br />
photos. Then, I reth<strong>in</strong>k my position and<br />
momentarily wish I could have what<br />
those couples have. That’s <strong>the</strong> story of<br />
my middle-aged life, or so I thought…<br />
A<br />
stroll around my neighborhood began like<br />
any o<strong>the</strong>r. I w<strong>in</strong>dow shopped <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> local<br />
boutiques. I stopped to chat with <strong>the</strong> folks<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> d<strong>in</strong>er. I picked up a few books at<br />
<strong>the</strong> bookstore. It was all so div<strong>in</strong>e, <strong>the</strong>n, I saw <strong>the</strong>m,<br />
sitt<strong>in</strong>g across from each o<strong>the</strong>r, look<strong>in</strong>g at each o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> way only people who’ve known each o<strong>the</strong>r for<br />
a long time would look at each o<strong>the</strong>r. They were fully<br />
engrossed <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir conversation. She was do<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong><br />
talk<strong>in</strong>g. He was listen<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tently, his eyes on hers, his<br />
hands cupp<strong>in</strong>g hers, a gr<strong>in</strong> on his face.<br />
Maybe it was <strong>the</strong> smell of bacon that drew me to<br />
<strong>the</strong> bakery. Bacon gets me every time, but whatever<br />
it was, what I found wasn’t what I expected. Nestled<br />
toge<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> lone booth, normally reserved for<br />
patrons was <strong>the</strong> baker, a miserly old gentleman with<br />
old school charms and refresh<strong>in</strong>g sensibilities. He<br />
sat across from his wife of “fifty-two glorious years”.<br />
They blushed when <strong>the</strong> saw me admir<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
exchange. In front of <strong>the</strong>m, a platter of cheeses and<br />
sliced sausages sat. An open bottle of w<strong>in</strong>e and two<br />
tall stem glasses sat idle.<br />
I apologized for <strong>in</strong>terrupt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir conversation.<br />
The butcher stood up and rushed to help me, but <strong>in</strong><br />
that moment, I forgot all about <strong>the</strong> bacon. I wanted<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g different, a slice of whatever it was kept<br />
<strong>the</strong>m glued to each o<strong>the</strong>r after all <strong>the</strong>se years.<br />
“No, I’m sorry to disturb you. I’ve just never seen<br />
such a sweet moment. What’s your secret?”<br />
They looked at each o<strong>the</strong>r lov<strong>in</strong>gly and proceeded to<br />
tell me <strong>the</strong>ir recipe to everlast<strong>in</strong>g love and a strong<br />
marriage. It was simple enough, yet profoundly<br />
mov<strong>in</strong>g and life-chang<strong>in</strong>g for me because <strong>the</strong>re truly<br />
was no secret, just healthy doses of love, respect,<br />
humor, and humility.<br />
He said, “First, you have to f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>the</strong> one. When<br />
you do, you’ll know it. It will make you want to do<br />
anyth<strong>in</strong>g and everyth<strong>in</strong>g to hold onto that feel<strong>in</strong>g.”<br />
She chimed <strong>in</strong> with her thoughts, “You have to learn<br />
to forgive. That’s important. You can’t hold onto<br />
grievances. They’ll eat you alive and make you forget<br />
how much you loved your partner to beg<strong>in</strong> with.<br />
People change. Circumstances change. But you can’t<br />
allow <strong>the</strong> changes to change your heart.”<br />
He added his f<strong>in</strong>al thought<br />
on <strong>the</strong> manner as he looked<br />
at his wife, tears <strong>in</strong> his eyes,<br />
and said, “You have to make<br />
your partner feel like <strong>the</strong>y’re<br />
<strong>the</strong> only person <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> world<br />
for you…because <strong>the</strong>y are.<br />
If you don’t know that with<br />
every cell <strong>in</strong> your body, <strong>the</strong>n,<br />
you haven’t found <strong>the</strong> one.”<br />
I left that morn<strong>in</strong>g<br />
know<strong>in</strong>g that<br />
although I hadn’t yet<br />
found love, I knew<br />
<strong>the</strong> key to a happy<br />
marriage, should it<br />
ever come my way.<br />
By Vanessa Jackson<br />
28 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
Fitness<br />
& Beauty<br />
AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO TAKING<br />
CARE OF YOUR SKIN IN YOUR 30S<br />
SILKY SMOOTH, SOFT SKIN IS<br />
ONLY A FEW STEPS AWAY<br />
30<br />
32<br />
"The purpose<br />
of tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g is to<br />
tighten up <strong>the</strong><br />
slack, toughen<br />
<strong>the</strong> body and<br />
polish <strong>the</strong> spirit."<br />
-Morihei Ueshiba
FITNESS & BEAUTY · JANUARY 2018<br />
AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO<br />
TAKING CARE OF YOUR<br />
SKIN IN YOUR 30S<br />
By <strong>the</strong> time we’re thirty, we’ve lived<br />
long enough to see changes come<br />
and go. Seasons change, tastes<br />
change, trends change. That’s a<br />
natural part of life. We go with <strong>the</strong><br />
flow and make adjustments where<br />
and when necessary. That’s one<br />
of our superpowers, even when it<br />
might not be what we like.<br />
Our bodies also go through several<br />
metamorphoses. We become a little fuller<br />
here, th<strong>in</strong>ner <strong>the</strong>re, muscular <strong>the</strong>re. You<br />
get <strong>the</strong> picture. We know that for most<br />
of us ag<strong>in</strong>g changes our bodies and our<br />
sk<strong>in</strong>. Some areas wr<strong>in</strong>kle, some sag and<br />
some areas may experience breakouts<br />
or discoloration. Aga<strong>in</strong>, it’s a part of <strong>the</strong><br />
normal transitions our sk<strong>in</strong> goes through.<br />
After a certa<strong>in</strong> age, we start to realize<br />
all <strong>the</strong> damage we’ve done. Fun <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
sun, time spent <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> tann<strong>in</strong>g booth or<br />
bumps and bruises from life’s everyday<br />
activities beg<strong>in</strong> to take a toll on our sk<strong>in</strong>.<br />
The changes could be stark and alarm<strong>in</strong>g<br />
at first but here’s <strong>the</strong> th<strong>in</strong>g, you don’t<br />
have to beat yourself up about someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />
you did or failed to do when you were<br />
younger. Don’t waste your time frett<strong>in</strong>g<br />
over someth<strong>in</strong>g you can’t change. Look<br />
ahead and do what you can now. There are<br />
plenty of good for you options out <strong>the</strong>re.<br />
Self-care, no matter <strong>the</strong> form you choose,<br />
is great at any age. All you have to do is<br />
adopt healthy habits and <strong>in</strong>corporate <strong>the</strong>m<br />
<strong>in</strong>to your daily rout<strong>in</strong>e.<br />
Mama always said to dr<strong>in</strong>k<br />
more water and she<br />
wasn’t ly<strong>in</strong>g. One of<br />
<strong>the</strong> best th<strong>in</strong>gs you<br />
can do for your body<br />
(sk<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>cluded) is stay<br />
hydrated. Are you<br />
dr<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g enough water?<br />
The general consensus<br />
is to dr<strong>in</strong>k half your body<br />
weight <strong>in</strong> ounces every<br />
day to keep your body<br />
properly hydrated. Water will<br />
keep your sk<strong>in</strong> soft, supple<br />
and clear and will help to fend<br />
off hunger, sugary crav<strong>in</strong>gs as<br />
well as help you to be more alert.<br />
01.<br />
Eye cream is <strong>the</strong> new black. Everyone<br />
cr<strong>in</strong>ges at <strong>the</strong> sight of crow’s feet. It<br />
happens to <strong>the</strong> best of us. Apply a<br />
nighttime eye cream around <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>side<br />
orbital rim of your eye to help alleviate<br />
dark circles, deep pockets, and f<strong>in</strong>e<br />
l<strong>in</strong>es and wr<strong>in</strong>kles.<br />
02.<br />
Sleep <strong>in</strong> luxury. Invest <strong>in</strong> a sat<strong>in</strong> or silk<br />
pillow to help fend off wr<strong>in</strong>kles and<br />
sk<strong>in</strong> blotches. There are plenty on <strong>the</strong><br />
market to choose from.<br />
03.<br />
Avoid sun exposure. We know, you<br />
want to know what about <strong>the</strong> lazy<br />
days of summer? Use sunscreen, wear<br />
a hat and wear lightweight cloth<strong>in</strong>g<br />
to keep your sk<strong>in</strong> protected. Avoid<br />
overexposure and remember to<br />
reapply sunscreen accord<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>the</strong><br />
package directions.<br />
04.<br />
A clean face is an ageless face. Remove<br />
your makeup with gentle cleansers<br />
or wipes. While makeup may be good<br />
when you’re out, you don’t need it<br />
when you sleep.<br />
05.<br />
Exfoliate your sk<strong>in</strong> with alpha hydroxy<br />
acids. It is good for your sk<strong>in</strong> and gets<br />
rid of all <strong>the</strong> muck you don’t need.<br />
06.<br />
Sleep. Sleep. Sleep. For <strong>the</strong> love of all<br />
that is good, make sure you get your<br />
beauty rest. <strong>Your</strong> entire body needs<br />
time to rejuvenate and heal. Never<br />
is that more evident than <strong>in</strong> your<br />
complexion. Get <strong>the</strong> recommended<br />
hours of restful sleep for overall good<br />
health.<br />
30 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
FITNESS & BEAUTY · JANUARY 2018<br />
SILKY SMOOTH,<br />
SOFT SKIN IS ONLY<br />
A FEW STEPS AWAY<br />
We all want soft, supple sk<strong>in</strong><br />
and we know that we need to<br />
stay hydrated to keep our sk<strong>in</strong><br />
nourished and replenished.<br />
We eat right, use <strong>the</strong> requisite<br />
products, exfoliate, scrub, moisturize and remoisturize<br />
to our heart’s content, but let’s face it,<br />
we are way too busy cross<strong>in</strong>g off every item on<br />
our long to-do list to remember to take care of our<br />
sk<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> best way possible. Someth<strong>in</strong>g has to give<br />
and we know it’s certa<strong>in</strong>ly not go<strong>in</strong>g to be our time<br />
because we’re plum out of that.<br />
What you need an easy, effective, good-for-you<br />
solution and I th<strong>in</strong>k I’ve found it. Kaeng Raeng is<br />
<strong>the</strong> answer to my sk<strong>in</strong>-lov<strong>in</strong>g prayers, https://www.<br />
kaengraeng.com. They offer <strong>the</strong> first of a k<strong>in</strong>d allnatural<br />
sk<strong>in</strong> care cleanse. It’s an organic blend that<br />
works like magic to smooth and soften your sk<strong>in</strong><br />
with no chemical dyes or harmful <strong>in</strong>gredients. It’s<br />
100% vegan. It hydrates your sk<strong>in</strong> with luxurious oils<br />
and shea butter that feel good, and it smells good.<br />
The products from Kaeng Raeng are all-natural<br />
goodness and completely chemical free. Their<br />
mixtures are to die for.<br />
Here are a few of <strong>the</strong><br />
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The Himalayan p<strong>in</strong>k salt detoxifies your sk<strong>in</strong>. The<br />
Dead Sea salt is rich <strong>in</strong> natural m<strong>in</strong>erals that your body<br />
needs. The organic irg<strong>in</strong> shea butter locks <strong>in</strong> moisture<br />
and guarantees silky smooth sk<strong>in</strong>. The organic apricot<br />
kernel oil nourishes sk<strong>in</strong> from head to toe. The lavender<br />
essential oil adds a nice, light fragrance. The vanilla essential oil adds<br />
<strong>the</strong> f<strong>in</strong>al sweet touch to make this comb<strong>in</strong>ation perfect.<br />
Kaeng Raeng offers three- to six-day sk<strong>in</strong> detox packages that are<br />
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I’m tell<strong>in</strong>g you <strong>the</strong>se combos<br />
are <strong>the</strong> answers to your sk<strong>in</strong><br />
care prayers. They not only feel<br />
great, but <strong>the</strong>y look great. Trust<br />
me on this, people will notice <strong>the</strong><br />
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exfoliat<strong>in</strong>g combo and you have hands down<br />
THE best comb<strong>in</strong>ation available on <strong>the</strong> market today.<br />
Who wouldn’t want to get rid of dead sk<strong>in</strong> cells and use a moisturizer<br />
that heals while it moisturizes, leav<strong>in</strong>g you with soft, supple, glow<strong>in</strong>g<br />
sk<strong>in</strong>? Get rid of <strong>the</strong> tox<strong>in</strong>s you’ve been exposed to, leave all <strong>the</strong> muck<br />
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32 HEALTHY MAGAZINE
<strong>Healthy</strong> Food<br />
HEALTHY EATING FOR<br />
WOMEN ON THE GO<br />
HOW TO MAKE DELICIOUS<br />
VEGAN SUSHI AT HOME<br />
34<br />
36<br />
"What<br />
is called<br />
genius is <strong>the</strong><br />
abundance<br />
of life and<br />
health."<br />
— -Henry David<br />
Thoreau
HEALTHY FOOD · JANUARY 2018<br />
HEALTHY EATING FOR<br />
WOMEN ON THE GO<br />
A NEW YEAR HAS JUST BEGUN AND IT’S TIME TO THINK ABOUT OUR DIETS. WE’RE NOT TALKING ABOUT<br />
STRICT FAD DIETS BUT HEALTHY EATING PLANS FOR BUSY WOMEN. SWIMSUIT SEASON WILL BE HERE<br />
BEFORE YOU KNOW IT AND YOU DON’T WANT TO BE CAUGHT BY SURPRISE. GET A JUMP START ON<br />
YOUR GOALS BY ADDING NUTRIENT-RICH FOODS TO YOUR DIET.<br />
So many companies make meal plann<strong>in</strong>g<br />
easier. They save on time, money, and<br />
empty calories. By us<strong>in</strong>g a comb<strong>in</strong>ation<br />
of good, quality <strong>in</strong>gredients and time-sav<strong>in</strong>g<br />
tips, <strong>the</strong>y offer everyth<strong>in</strong>g a busy woman<br />
needs to keep herself nourished and<br />
satisfied. Who has time for big elaborate<br />
meals? While that might work sometimes,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y won’t work for daily meals. You’ve got<br />
places to be, people to see, and a heavy<br />
workload sitt<strong>in</strong>g on your desk. When those<br />
hunger pangs strike, <strong>the</strong>y can’t wait. They<br />
need food now.<br />
Instead of slav<strong>in</strong>g away at <strong>the</strong> stove, we have<br />
a few simple tricks to make your life and<br />
your d<strong>in</strong>ner options easier:<br />
01<br />
Have a plan. You know this. If you go<br />
<strong>in</strong>to any situation bl<strong>in</strong>dly, <strong>the</strong>re’s no<br />
guarantee you’ll get <strong>the</strong> best results. To avoid<br />
that, make plans ahead of time. Look at your<br />
week or your month. Are you too busy to<br />
chop vegetables or fry a couple of burgers<br />
on <strong>the</strong> grill? If so, look at <strong>the</strong> meal delivery<br />
services. They have healthy and delicious<br />
options on <strong>the</strong>ir menus and <strong>the</strong>y deliver<br />
right to your doorstep.<br />
02<br />
Make a conscious choice to only<br />
eat real food. Skip <strong>the</strong> empty<br />
calories. You don’t need <strong>the</strong>m. Real food is<br />
more flavorful, often cheaper to buy, and<br />
fill<strong>in</strong>g. You’ll eat less and feel better.<br />
03<br />
Fats are good for you. Eat healthy<br />
fats. They’ll aid your digestive tract<br />
and provide essential nutrients to give your<br />
body a boost.<br />
04<br />
Bonus tip: Make sure you keep up<br />
with a regular workout rout<strong>in</strong>e.<br />
You can’t swap one for <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r. You need<br />
good food and regular exercise to get <strong>the</strong><br />
best results. Aim to get 30 to 60 m<strong>in</strong>utes of<br />
moderate exercise a day and 3–4 sessions of<br />
strenuous exercise per week. Walk to work.<br />
Take a walk after d<strong>in</strong>ner. Ride your bike or<br />
go for a run dur<strong>in</strong>g your lunch hour. Fit <strong>in</strong><br />
exercise wherever you can.<br />
05<br />
Don’t skip meals, especially<br />
breakfast. It truly is <strong>the</strong> most<br />
important meal of <strong>the</strong> day. Beg<strong>in</strong> your day<br />
with prote<strong>in</strong> and healthy fats. They will tide<br />
you over until your next meal and are a great<br />
start to your day.<br />
06<br />
Dr<strong>in</strong>k <strong>the</strong> recommended amount<br />
of water. You should dr<strong>in</strong>k half<br />
your body weight <strong>in</strong> ounces to meet your<br />
m<strong>in</strong>imum daily requirement to keep you<br />
feel<strong>in</strong>g full and hydrated.<br />
07<br />
Ante up <strong>the</strong> prote<strong>in</strong>. <strong>Your</strong> body<br />
needs it. High prote<strong>in</strong> diets help<br />
promote fat loss. Who doesn’t love that?<br />
Turkey, chicken, and all-natural peanut butter<br />
are great sources of prote<strong>in</strong>. Add <strong>the</strong>m to<br />
your daily diet.<br />
08<br />
Make healthy eat<strong>in</strong>g a lifestyle<br />
change not a short-term solution.<br />
You must be consistent for your health and<br />
well-be<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
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HEALTHY FOOD · JANUARY 2018<br />
HOW TO<br />
MAKE<br />
DELICIOUS<br />
VEGAN<br />
SUSHI AT<br />
HOME<br />
There are times when you desperately<br />
want some sushi, but for whatever<br />
reason you can’t have it. It may be<br />
because you’re pregnant and can’t<br />
eat <strong>the</strong> raw portions just yet or because<br />
of dietary restrictions or allergies, but <strong>the</strong><br />
crav<strong>in</strong>gs just won’t stop. Now, you can have<br />
your sushi, m<strong>in</strong>us <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>gredients you’re<br />
supposed to avoid.<br />
After many, many attempts, we’ve f<strong>in</strong>ally<br />
found some vegan sushi recipes that you’ll<br />
love. The best part? They taste so much<br />
better than <strong>the</strong> traditional sushi rolls.<br />
YAM UNI<br />
It makes four to six pieces.<br />
INGREDIENTS:<br />
ɩɩ<br />
1 yam, peeled<br />
ɩɩ<br />
Sushi rice (recipe below)<br />
ɩɩ<br />
Toasted sesame seeds<br />
ɩɩ<br />
Ponzu sauce:<br />
ɩɩ<br />
1 tablespoon soy sauce<br />
ɩɩ<br />
1 teaspoon lemon juice<br />
ɩɩ<br />
½ teaspoon mir<strong>in</strong><br />
ɩɩ<br />
½ teaspoon of rice v<strong>in</strong>egar<br />
COOKING INSTRUCTIONS:<br />
01 Slice yams <strong>in</strong>to 1/3 <strong>in</strong>ch slices. Stack <strong>the</strong>m<br />
and trim off edges. Cut slices <strong>in</strong>to 1x2 <strong>in</strong>ch<br />
rectangles. Place <strong>in</strong> boil<strong>in</strong>g water for five<br />
m<strong>in</strong>utes or until tender, <strong>the</strong>n place <strong>in</strong> an ice<br />
bath to stop <strong>the</strong> cook<strong>in</strong>g process.<br />
02 While yams cool, prepare ponzu sauce:<br />
mix soy sauce, lemon juice, mir<strong>in</strong> and rice<br />
v<strong>in</strong>egar <strong>in</strong> a small bowl.<br />
03 Moisten hands with water. Take<br />
tablespoon-sized oval of sushi rice and gently<br />
form <strong>in</strong>to a rectangle shape between palms<br />
of hands. Don’t squeeze too tightly or it will<br />
change <strong>the</strong> texture and make it a runny mess.<br />
04Hold a yam slice <strong>in</strong> palm of non-dom<strong>in</strong>ant<br />
hand and rest rectangle of rice on top of it.<br />
Use o<strong>the</strong>r hand’s thumb and <strong>in</strong>dex f<strong>in</strong>ger to<br />
gently squeeze rice and yam <strong>in</strong>to rectangular<br />
shape while press<strong>in</strong>g down on top of rice<br />
with thumb of o<strong>the</strong>r hand. Flip it over <strong>the</strong><br />
so fillet of yam is on top and repeat <strong>the</strong><br />
gentle squeez<strong>in</strong>g process once more. Brush<br />
yams with ponzu sauce and top with toasted<br />
sesame seeds.<br />
SUSHI RICE<br />
INGREDIENTS:<br />
ɩɩ<br />
2 cups short-gra<strong>in</strong> Japanese rice<br />
ɩɩ<br />
2 tablespoons sake<br />
ɩɩ<br />
1/4 cup rice v<strong>in</strong>egar<br />
ɩɩ<br />
1/4 cup sugar<br />
ɩɩ<br />
2 tablespoons salt<br />
INSTRUCTIONS:<br />
01 R<strong>in</strong>se <strong>the</strong> rice 5 times, <strong>the</strong>n dra<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> a<br />
colander and let dry for 15 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />
02 Cook <strong>the</strong> rice <strong>in</strong> a rice cooker accord<strong>in</strong>g<br />
to <strong>the</strong> manufacturer’s <strong>in</strong>structions or you can<br />
cook it <strong>in</strong> a medium saucepan. You’ll need to<br />
comb<strong>in</strong>e <strong>the</strong> rice with 2 cups of cold water<br />
and br<strong>in</strong>g to a boil over high heat. Cover and<br />
cook over moderate heat for 10 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />
(Do not uncover while cook<strong>in</strong>g.) Reduce<br />
<strong>the</strong> heat to low and cook for 10 m<strong>in</strong>utes<br />
longer. Remove from <strong>the</strong> heat and let stand,<br />
covered, for 15 m<strong>in</strong>utes.<br />
03 In <strong>the</strong> meantime, <strong>in</strong> a small saucepan,<br />
comb<strong>in</strong>e <strong>the</strong> sake-mash v<strong>in</strong>egar, rice v<strong>in</strong>egar,<br />
sugar and salt and warm over moderate heat,<br />
stirr<strong>in</strong>g to dissolve <strong>the</strong> sugar.<br />
04 Transfer <strong>the</strong> rice to a very large bowl.<br />
Spr<strong>in</strong>kle 1/2 cup of <strong>the</strong> seasoned v<strong>in</strong>egar all<br />
over <strong>the</strong> rice, <strong>the</strong>n, drizzle onto a spatula<br />
while wav<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> spatula back and forth to<br />
cover. Us<strong>in</strong>g a slic<strong>in</strong>g motion with <strong>the</strong> spatula,<br />
gently separate <strong>the</strong> rice gra<strong>in</strong>s while mix<strong>in</strong>g<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> season<strong>in</strong>g mixture. Fan <strong>the</strong> rice while<br />
mix<strong>in</strong>g it to help to dry it. Wipe down any<br />
stray gra<strong>in</strong>s from <strong>the</strong> side of <strong>the</strong> bowl. Cover<br />
<strong>the</strong> rice with a damp towel to keep warm<br />
until you’re ready to serve or devour if you’d<br />
like.<br />
By Eilleen Smith<br />
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HEALTHY KIDS · JANUARY 2018<br />
<strong>Healthy</strong> Magaz<strong>in</strong>e presents our new directory, loaded with<br />
local restaurants and grocers who have taken <strong>the</strong> time to<br />
cater to those look<strong>in</strong>g to form healthier dietary habits.<br />
We hope you enjoy <strong>Healthy</strong> Places to Eat. We sure did and<br />
look forward to expand<strong>in</strong>g so we can cont<strong>in</strong>ue to better<br />
connect our readers with healthy lifestyle options <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
communities.<br />
places to eat<br />
TM<br />
healthy menu vegetarian non gmo vegan gluten free<br />
EARTH<br />
LUNCH, DINNER<br />
AND DRINKS<br />
5831 Sunset Drive<br />
Miami, FL 33143<br />
305.397.8678<br />
HEALTHY ROUTE 66<br />
HEALTHY, SANWICHES<br />
& WRAPS<br />
1831 Ponce De Leon Blvd<br />
Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />
786.615-4028<br />
LIGERO EXPRESS<br />
DESSERTS, WRAPS<br />
SANDWICHES<br />
201 Park Blvd<br />
Miami, FL 33126<br />
786.615.9833<br />
GREENG LIFESTYLE<br />
FRESH FRUIT, VEGGIE BOWLS,<br />
SMOOTHIES & JUICE LAB<br />
@GREENGLIFESTYLE<br />
222 NE 25th St #106<br />
Miami, Florida 33137<br />
786.300.6545<br />
THE LAST CARROT<br />
SANDWICHES, SALADS,<br />
SMOOTHIES AND JUICES<br />
3131 Grand Avenue<br />
Coconut Grove, FL 33133<br />
305.445.0805<br />
NORMAN BROTHERS<br />
JUICE BAR, SMOOTHIES<br />
& COFFEE<br />
7621 SW 87th Ave.<br />
Miami, FL 33173<br />
305.274.9363<br />
MIAMI SQUEEZE<br />
PIZZA, SANDWICHES,<br />
SMOOTHIES & JUICES<br />
18315 W Dixie Hwy.<br />
Miami, FL 33160<br />
305.935.9544<br />
SMALL TEA CO<br />
TEA, SALADS,<br />
WRAPS & MORE<br />
205 Aragon Ave,<br />
Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />
786.401.7189<br />
EVOS<br />
BURGERS, WRAPS<br />
& SALADS<br />
9537 S Dixie Hwy.<br />
P<strong>in</strong>ecrest, FL 331<strong>56</strong><br />
305.740.3433<br />
BEEHIVE<br />
JUICE BAR<br />
& SMOOTHIES<br />
6490 Bird Road<br />
Miami, FL 33155<br />
305.663.1300<br />
VEGAN & JUICE<br />
JUICE BAR & SMOOTHIES,<br />
VEGAN & VEGETARIAN<br />
115 SW 107 Ave.<br />
Miami, FL 33174<br />
305.220.3430<br />
THE JUICERY BAR<br />
SIGNATURE JUICES, SPECIALTY<br />
SHOTS, ACAI BOWLS<br />
635 Brickell Key Dr<br />
Miami, FL 33131<br />
305.350.2277<br />
17082 W Dixie Hwy<br />
North Miami Beach, FL 33160<br />
786.<strong>56</strong>5.9684<br />
DELIRIO FRESH CO.<br />
SALAD, PIZZA, JUICE BAR<br />
& SMOOTHIES<br />
2475 NW 95th Ave. Unit 8<br />
Miami, FL 33172<br />
305.499.3304<br />
GREEN LIFE CAFE<br />
VEGAN &<br />
VEGETARIAN CAFE<br />
104 Giralda Ave.<br />
Coral Gables, FL 33134<br />
786.409.5592<br />
SMOOTHIE SPOT<br />
SALAD, VEGAN, JUICE<br />
BAR & SMOOTHIES<br />
15708 SW 72nd St.<br />
Miami, FL 33193<br />
305.387.9888<br />
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