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T h e O l d S t a t i o n e r - N o 7 8<br />

RoBiN JAMES uPHiLL<br />

AuGuST 1944 – SEPTEMBER 2013<br />

Robin died on September 9th from liver<br />

cancer at his home in Colombia.<br />

He left Stationers to join Mac Fisheries<br />

in Wood Green as a trainee manager after<br />

being asked by the careers officer the<br />

standard “Have you considered banking<br />

or insurance?” Having progressed to top<br />

management via situations including<br />

Wilmslow, Oldham, Leeds and Harrogate,<br />

and not wishing to progress to head office,<br />

he joined Courage Breweries and managed<br />

many public houses and restaurants. Some<br />

Old Boys came across him I know in a<br />

few of these in the City. A later enterprise<br />

was a sandwich business. Retiring from<br />

this, Robin moved to Colombia where I<br />

visited him only last year. His partner<br />

William and the inhabitants of Palmaseta,<br />

the village to which they retired, will miss<br />

this colourful character but no more than<br />

his family and old friends in England.<br />

John Ivey<br />

BESSiE SHoPLAND MARTiN<br />

1916-2013<br />

The funeral service of Bessie Shopland<br />

Martin - 6th August 1916 to 21st<br />

September 2013 - took place at Slough<br />

Crematorium on Friday, 18th October,<br />

2013. The service was taken by the<br />

Reverend Sally Lynch, who also gave the<br />

address. The hymns sang were 'The Lord's<br />

My Shepherd, I'll not want; He makes me<br />

down to lie In pastures green; he leadeth<br />

me The quiet waters by', 'Love divine, all<br />

Terry Bailey with Stephen's daughter Thia in 2007<br />

Bessie Shopland Martin<br />

loves excelling, joy of heaven to earth<br />

come down' to the tune Blaenwern and<br />

'Guide me, O thou great Redeemer,<br />

pilgrim through this barren land' to the<br />

tune Cwm Rhondda. The opening music<br />

was 'I'm Forever Blowing Bubbles'<br />

followed by sentences frrom Scripture and<br />

Welcome and Prayer. A Poem 'The Dash'<br />

was read by Dylan Grimes, followed by<br />

the Eulogy by Gill and then a further<br />

poem 'Death is Nothing At All' read by<br />

Pauline Gardiner. After the last hymn,<br />

there was the commendation committal<br />

and final prayer and blessing, with the<br />

closing music, 'In the Mood' by Glen<br />

Miller. Refreshments were served at the<br />

Norfolk House Hotel in Maidenhead.<br />

Eulogy by Gill<br />

My Mother was born in the middle of the<br />

First World War, in a small village called<br />

Hinxworth on the north edge of<br />

Hertfordshire. Her Mother's father had<br />

been the village baker, and supplied many<br />

local hamlets in his pony and trap.<br />

However, he died relatively young and left<br />

a few debts. So his new son-in-law Robert<br />

Kelland became a tenant farmer and lived<br />

there for nearly a decade to clear these<br />

debts. He was the one who insisted on her<br />

name, Bessie Shopland Kelland, which<br />

was pure Devonshire. She was always<br />

known as Bess, being named after her<br />

father's mother, who had died in an<br />

accident when he was only eleven. His<br />

family had lived at Middlecott Farm in<br />

Morchard Bishop, which is on high<br />

ground halfway between Exmoor and<br />

Dartmoor. My grandparents had actually<br />

met at Kintbury Fair.<br />

Her mother, Ettie Eugenie Sale had beeen<br />

a monitor teacher at Hinxworth Village<br />

School, where Bess started school at five.<br />

When she was seven, the family moved to<br />

Bowes Park in North London, where her<br />

father returned to his original trade, and<br />

ran his own butcher's shop; must have<br />

been a bit of a cultural shock! But Bess<br />

thrived in the competitive atmosphere of<br />

the large Tottenhall Primary School, and<br />

this is where she met her friend Doris,<br />

who was later her bridesmaid and my<br />

godmother. Bess, herself, loved sport, a<br />

sprinter, took up gymnastics, played tennis,<br />

table tennis and hockey. Her secondary<br />

school was Minchenden Grammar in<br />

Southgate. English was Mum's forte at<br />

school, and she could churn out poems<br />

with a comic twist. She quickly picked up<br />

Pitman's shorthand when she left<br />

Minchenden at sixteen and wrote all her<br />

diaries in shorthand so a mystery to me<br />

when I was turning out her house a few<br />

years ago.<br />

She had a few different jobs, but when she<br />

married my father, Jack Martin (1910-<br />

2008) in 1937, as a woman, she<br />

automatically had to resign from her post<br />

at the electricity board, which she had<br />

really enjoyed. Jack and my mother had<br />

met at a large multi-family picnic and I<br />

think she had impressed Jack with her<br />

technique of getting over a five barred<br />

gate. Jack was equally energetic and<br />

eccentric so they were probably ideally<br />

suited from the start.<br />

A genuine people person who would help<br />

to cheer up anyone when they were a bit<br />

down. Her sense of humour was legendary<br />

and she loved a good rolling laugh, and I<br />

would add 'a cup of tea'. She was a strong<br />

character, and a positive support to Dad<br />

and me. Those piercing blue eyes were<br />

pretty good at making a sharp assessment<br />

of people and situations.<br />

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