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<strong>November</strong> 2017<br />
providing personalised emotional, practical and financial<br />
support and care to people affected by breast cancer<br />
newsletter of breast cancer care wa<br />
“It was totally unexpected,<br />
but very much appreciated,<br />
and is certainly something<br />
which I will treasure, as a<br />
reminder of Louise and the<br />
challenges she has had<br />
to work through since her<br />
breast cancer diagnosis,”<br />
- Di.<br />
Soulful Survivor Sisters<br />
Louise is a 44 year old woman who self-referred to Breast<br />
Cancer Care WA to receive counselling support following her<br />
breast cancer diagnosis. She had been experiencing ‘lumpy’<br />
breasts for the previous 12-24 months, but discovered that<br />
a lump in her left breast was becoming larger, with itchiness<br />
and discolouration around her left nipple. Louise saw her GP<br />
who organised for her to undergo investigations at one of the<br />
metropolitan Breast Assessment Centres, where the results<br />
revealed she did have breast cancer.<br />
At the surgical planning appointment,<br />
Louise was initially advised that she<br />
would be a suitable candidate for breast<br />
conserving surgery, however, her breast<br />
surgeon recommended that she undergo<br />
further testing and have an MRI, to learn<br />
more about the breast cancer. This<br />
changed the course of events for her; it<br />
was discovered that Louise’s cancer was<br />
quite significantly larger than first thought,<br />
so her suggested surgical plan was<br />
changed to removal of the entire breast.<br />
Louise felt that the reason behind<br />
this change in suggested surgery was<br />
explained very clearly to her, however, it<br />
was the rapidity of this change that caused<br />
her significant emotional distress, as she<br />
felt that she had so little time to adjust to<br />
the idea of losing her breast. Louise went<br />
on to have her mastectomy and a course<br />
of chemotherapy, followed by hormone<br />
therapy medication.<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA provided<br />
counselling, Breast Care Nursing support<br />
as well as transport to some of her<br />
appointments, which Louise found very<br />
helpful during this challenging period.<br />
All of Louise’s extended family live in<br />
Queensland, however, her mum and her<br />
sister did come over to Perth to provide<br />
some much needed support during<br />
the initial stages of her diagnosis and<br />
treatment.<br />
Louise completed all of her active<br />
treatment in May 2017 and then decided<br />
to head over to Queensland to spend<br />
some quality time with her family which<br />
then changed into a permanent relocation!<br />
In the few weeks between her last<br />
chemotherapy treatment and travelling over<br />
East, Louise decided to design T-shirts<br />
to gift to the people who had provided<br />
support to her during her treatment.<br />
Our McGrath Breast Care Nurse Di and one<br />
of our lovely volunteers, Anjali, were proud<br />
recipients of these gorgeous t-shirts.<br />
In this issue<br />
Connecting with Nature...................... 2<br />
Ease the stress of the festive season.3<br />
Debbie’s Story.................................. 4<br />
News................................................ 5<br />
Community Champions...................... 6<br />
Upcoming Events.............................. 7<br />
We need your help............................. 8<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA, 80 Railway Street, Cottesloe WA 6011 l (08) 9324 3703<br />
info@breastcancer.org.au l www.breastcancer.org.au
What if doing something very simple,<br />
enjoyable and inexpensive could make<br />
you feel all of the following?<br />
• Physically relaxed and at ease<br />
• Healthily responsive and alert –<br />
sharpened performance<br />
• Psychologically adaptive and flexible<br />
• Emotionally stable<br />
• Relationally connected<br />
• <strong>Spirit</strong>ually balanced<br />
• Resilient<br />
Connecting with Nature<br />
It’s as easy as immersing yourself in<br />
nature! And what better time of year<br />
than Spring when there’s an abundance<br />
of wildflowers. Whether it be sitting in a<br />
garden, strolling along the beach, looking<br />
up at the trees, watching a sunset,<br />
focusing on a rose, walking a bush track<br />
– it’s wildflower season! There is so<br />
much research evidence proving multiple<br />
health benefits.<br />
When you relax and tune in to a natural<br />
environment using any or all of your<br />
5 senses (smell, sound, sight, touch<br />
or taste), you make a choice to give<br />
yourself time and space for your central<br />
nervous system to down-regulate,<br />
resulting in substantial changes in<br />
metabolic rate, slowed heart rate and<br />
breath, muscular relaxation, lowered<br />
blood pressure, hormone balance and<br />
much more.<br />
“Repeated activation of the relaxation<br />
response can reverse sustained problems<br />
in the body and mend the internal wear<br />
and tear brought on by stress.”<br />
- Herbert Benson, MD<br />
In addition, a daily dose of sunlight is<br />
the best source of Vitamin D, which<br />
is essential for immune system<br />
maintenance and improved sleep!<br />
Studies reveal that early morning<br />
exposure to sunlight will help recalibrate<br />
our sleep cycle – in line with natural<br />
circadian rhythms. Our eyes will also be<br />
appreciative of sunlight which has been<br />
shown to help prevent Computer Vision<br />
Syndrome (caused by staring at a screen<br />
for prolonged periods).<br />
“Earthing” is the new term for grounding<br />
yourself with the earth and therefore<br />
connecting with the earth’s electric<br />
energy. If you take your shoes off and<br />
allow your feet to touch the natural<br />
environment for 15mins, you may well<br />
feel anti-inflammatory effects (Davis,<br />
2017). According to James Oschman,<br />
Ph.D, barefoot is best but even wearing<br />
shoes that have soles made of leather or<br />
hide can have beneficial transformative<br />
and energising effects, including<br />
resolution of jet-lag.<br />
A vast collection of psychological<br />
research speaks of the marked decrease<br />
in cortisol (the stress hormone), a<br />
happiness effect through the release<br />
of endorphins (natural pain and stress<br />
fighters) and a boost in serotonin (the<br />
feel good transmitter), that has been<br />
shown to improve mood, empathy,<br />
mental clarity, emotional stability,<br />
altruism and feelings of love.<br />
So, make the best choice for your health<br />
and take your body and mind outside –<br />
enjoy nature’s many restorative effects<br />
- even for 5 mins at a time.<br />
“If the sight of the blue skies fills you<br />
with joy, if a blade of grass springing<br />
up in the fields has power to move<br />
you, if the simple things of nature<br />
have a message that you understand,<br />
rejoice, for your soul is alive.”<br />
- Eleonora Duse<br />
Introducing Sally Dare<br />
We are delighted to welcome our new Support Services Manager,<br />
Sally Dare, to the Breast Cancer Care WA team.<br />
Sally began her career in nursing and midwifery, working in both hospitals and the<br />
community. She spent seven years at the Cancer Council, building her skills as the<br />
Manager of Regional Support Services. Sally has a love of fresh healthy food and has<br />
also spent time managing the café at the popular Perth City Farm.<br />
“Supporting people with cancer has taught me gratitude, the value of life, and how<br />
important it is to keep living the best life I can. Meeting new people in diverse<br />
communities has allowed me to understand the importance of ‘”personalised”<br />
supportive care in the world of cancer. I’m looking forward to working with the team<br />
of breast care nurses and counsellors at Breast Cancer Care WA to further build our<br />
ability to offer support to the 1,500 women and handful of men that are diagnosed<br />
with breast cancer each year in WA.”
Ease the stress of the festive season<br />
Christmas and New Year are usually times of love, joy and happiness. Unfortunately for many people<br />
the Holiday season can be a period of unhappiness and exhaustion, especially for those who may<br />
have undergone a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment. Your health can have a huge impact on<br />
how you perceive this festive time of year. Family misunderstandings, economic difficulties and<br />
loneliness can all contribute to feelings of stress or depression. Physical tiredness as a result of<br />
treatment or ongoing medication, coupled with ideas of your health or appearance can also bring<br />
you down.<br />
Here are some tips to ease the stress:<br />
• Before you find yourself tied up with too many activities<br />
and obligations, decide what activities have a positive effect<br />
on you and offer something meaningful and enjoyable.<br />
Take part in those you enjoy, and stay away from those you<br />
don’t like.<br />
• Review the gatherings you “must” attend and see how you<br />
feel about them. You always have the choice of saying “no”.<br />
• Take the focus off Christmas Day: with family life becoming<br />
more complex, explore ways to come together at other<br />
times such as Christmas Eve or Boxing Day.<br />
• Try to have realistic expectations of what you are capable of<br />
and avoid activities that create feelings of stress. Allow time<br />
for yourself to do things that are important for you.<br />
• Try “living” every day of the holiday season and take<br />
pleasure in the small things.<br />
• Make a conscious effort to list all the positive things you<br />
experienced and were grateful for during the year.<br />
• Avoid excessive costs and only spend what you can afford.<br />
Try a Secret Santa and give one gift per person involved.<br />
• Spend Christmas with people you love, if possible.<br />
• Avoid tension: this is not the time to try and resolve past<br />
hurts.<br />
• Ask for help and accept it – get your family or friends to all<br />
bring a dish, or let someone help you with the cleaning up.<br />
• If you are spending this time of year alone, why not attend<br />
a community event or your local church? Use this as an<br />
opportunity to do something you haven’t done before.<br />
• Take time for yourself and get adequate sleep and rest.<br />
Relax, listen to music, read or just enjoy the beauty of<br />
nature.<br />
If you are concerned about the festive season, contact us to talk with a counsellor on (08) 9324 3703 or<br />
info@breastcancer.org.au.<br />
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Debbie is one woman who has<br />
been through it all – as a full time<br />
working, single mother of three<br />
beautiful children she was told just<br />
before Christmas she had breast<br />
cancer.<br />
Debbie’s Story<br />
In the 10 working days before Christmas, it’s estimated nearly 50 women in Western Australia will<br />
be diagnosed with breast cancer. Next year, thousands more will follow. Every single one will need<br />
dedicated support.<br />
It’s devastating to think how those women and their families<br />
will cope over what should be a ‘festive’ and happy season.<br />
But together we can help them through this difficult time.<br />
Your wonderful donations this year have been so appreciated,<br />
but sadly the demand for our services never ends. By giving<br />
another urgent Christmas gift today, you will continue to help<br />
brighten what might seem like a very dark time for a woman<br />
and her family who may have nowhere else to turn.<br />
For Debbie, your vital donation to Breast Cancer Care WA<br />
meant she wouldn’t lose her house and that her children<br />
could stay where they felt most secure. Because of generous<br />
people like you, they didn’t have to leave their school or their<br />
friends and she had the emotional and physical support she<br />
needed through the toughest of times.<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA is the only organisation in Western<br />
Australia to provide practical emotional and financial<br />
support immediately for a woman alone or a whole<br />
family...and without government funding, support can only<br />
come from people like you.<br />
“We were out to dinner when I got the call. We went<br />
straight home upset and crying. My 17 year old son Jack<br />
said it was the worst night of his life, not knowing what lay<br />
ahead for all of us.”<br />
What followed was the toughest time of all their lives,<br />
but now, with the worst (hopefully) behind them, Debbie<br />
would like to give every woman in WA with breast cancer a<br />
message of hope… hope she found in generous people<br />
like you who give to Breast Cancer Care WA.<br />
“As a single mum of 3 children and the only bread winner,<br />
the panic I felt about how I was going to hold it together<br />
was worse than the diagnosis. I wondered ‘How can we<br />
possibly survive with no income’?<br />
Now Debbie and her kids have so much to look forward to,<br />
including Debbie’s 2018 wedding!<br />
“It was like having a fairy godmother visit when<br />
Breast Care Nurse Denise came to see me. I broke<br />
down and sobbed when she told me the support<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA could provide. It was the<br />
biggest relief I have ever experienced. Knowing they<br />
will continue to be there, no matter what the future<br />
holds means the world to us.”<br />
Though she’s had to monitor her health closely and weather<br />
two health scares in the last few years, she knows that she<br />
can turn to Breast Cancer Care WA any time she needs to<br />
because of donors like you.<br />
“Without the support of generous<br />
people who donate and make the<br />
services Breast Cancer Care WA<br />
available I just don’t know how we<br />
would have survived.”<br />
You can donate securely online today at www.breastcancer.org.au<br />
or phone your donation in on (08) 9324 3703.<br />
Thank you in advance for your generosity.
News<br />
2017 saw 42 incredible individuals take part in the fifth anniversary of Jump for Jane. In groups of five they<br />
took to the skies in a 15,000ft tandem skydive over Rockingham Beach.<br />
Jump for Jane began in 2013 in honour of former Breast<br />
Cancer Care WA board member, Jane Loring. Jane sadly<br />
passed away from breast cancer, with her family choosing<br />
to remember her by organising a skydive. Five years on, the<br />
event is bigger than ever and encourages people from all<br />
over WA to take the ultimate leap of faith to support West<br />
Australians affected by breast cancer.<br />
This year the event raised over $40,000 vital funds that<br />
will provide breast care nurses, counsellors and financial<br />
assistance, free of charge, to those that need help most. A<br />
huge thank you to everyone who helped raise funds for Jump<br />
for Jane and to those who came down to support our jumpers<br />
on the day. Thank you also to Skydive Australia for their<br />
support in helping make this event happen each year.<br />
Fly Fishing<br />
This year 19 ladies made the journey<br />
down to Manjimup to take part in<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA’s annual fly<br />
fishing expedition.<br />
Fly fishing is known to help people suffering<br />
with Lymphoedema, a possible side<br />
effect caused by breast cancer treatment.<br />
Lymphoedema is a collection of fluid in the arms or legs that<br />
causes painful swelling. In breast cancer patients, it can be<br />
a side effect of having lymph nodes removed from cancer<br />
surgery. The arm and shoulder movements associated with fly<br />
fishing can help reduce the swelling caused by Lymphoedema,<br />
as well as promoting good arm health.<br />
There are also emotional benefits to fly fishing. The weekend<br />
away is a great time to relax and escape the everyday<br />
stresses of treatments and medical appointments. Fishing<br />
is also a very relaxing sport, with the ladies able to focus on<br />
the task at hand and share time with people who understand<br />
what they are going through.<br />
“What a fantastic experience - I feel very<br />
priveledged to have met such wonderful people<br />
in such a wonderful place. Thank you for the<br />
opportunity”.<br />
Our fly fishing weekend would not be possible without the<br />
amazing support of Recfishwest. Each year the team help a<br />
new group of people discover the benefits of fly fishing and<br />
a new way of coping.<br />
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Community Champions<br />
If you would like to host your own community event, whether it is a head shave, bake sale, fun run or<br />
something completely different, get in touch with us on 9324 3703 or visit www.breastcancer.org.au<br />
for more details.<br />
Boobalicious Ball<br />
This year’s Boobalicious Ball, proudly presented by adultshop.com,<br />
was the highlight of the social calendar for many. Now in its 14th<br />
year, the annual June event was so much more than guests could<br />
have imagined. The Primitive theme captured the imaginations<br />
of everyone and the night was a spectacular whirlwind including<br />
runway show, auctions and live entertainment, which had guests<br />
dancing the night away until 2am.<br />
This year the Boobalicious Ball raised $95,000 for Breast Cancer<br />
Care WA. We are so incredibly grateful to our Chairman and also<br />
adultshop.com Managing Director Malcolm Day, Peta Evans, Megan<br />
Hart and the entire team for their hard work to make the event<br />
happen, and their passionate support of Breast Cancer Care WA.<br />
Our sincerest thanks also to each and every guest for their support<br />
of the event – through Boobalicious you are directly supporting<br />
West Australians affected by breast cancer right now.<br />
We’re already looking forward to the 2018 Boobalicious Ball!<br />
Sweetwater Rooftop Bar<br />
Long Table Dinner<br />
In September over 120 individuals attended the inaugural Long<br />
Table Dinner held at Sweetwater Rooftop Bar in East Fremantle.<br />
Over $5,000 was raised on the night, during which a spectacular<br />
banquet dinner was shared, while guests heard from MC<br />
Melissa Del Popolo, Breast Cancer Survivor and Volunteer. A<br />
huge thank you to all those who attended, to Mel for her hard<br />
work and keeping us entertained, and to the team at Sweetwater<br />
Rooftop Bar for making the evening so special.<br />
Paddock to Plate<br />
Thank you to Paddock to Plate, an amazing dinner hosted in<br />
Margaret River on Saturday 29 October. The team at Margaret<br />
River Events Co pulled together a beautiful evening, complete<br />
with auctions, raffles and live entertainment. Thanks to all the<br />
guests over $3,500 was raised on the night! We are so grateful<br />
and cannot wait until next year’s event!
Upcoming Events<br />
Purple Breakfast<br />
Come along on Sunday 19 <strong>November</strong> for the sixth annual<br />
Purple Breakfast. Tickets are just $50 and include a full<br />
cooked breakfast, raffles, silent auction and photo booth, as<br />
well as inspiring guest speakers sharing their stories. Funds<br />
raised on the day will be donated to Breast Cancer Care WA.<br />
Grab your ticket now before they run out!<br />
Location: Perth Soccer Club, 3 Lawley Street, West Perth<br />
Date: Saturday 19 <strong>November</strong><br />
Tickets: $50 at www.trybooking.com/RXDN<br />
Awakening – an exhibition of paintings by Valerie Glover<br />
The extraordinary art of Valerie Glover will be on display in the art exhibition Awakening throughout <strong>November</strong> and<br />
December. Come along to Café Café in Subiaco Square road to view her amazing pieces. Best yet, 10% of all<br />
artwork sales will be shared between Breast Cancer Care WA and Lifeline. We hope to see you there!<br />
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Christmas Gift Wrapping –<br />
we need your help!<br />
Do you want to have fun, meet new people and make a difference this December?<br />
Sign up to volunteer as part of our Christmas Gift Wrapping team and help us<br />
support those that need it most this holiday season.<br />
We need volunteers every day from 2 to 24 December at Belmont Forum, Cockburn<br />
Gateway Shopping City, and The Square Mirrabooka.<br />
Email volunteers@breastcancer.org.au or call on (08) 9234 3703 with your<br />
preferred location and availability – we can’t wait to see you there!<br />
Give the gift of support<br />
Looking for a gift idea for that someone<br />
who has everything? Give the gift of support<br />
to a family affected by breast cancer this<br />
Christmas by purchasing a gift in lieu – your<br />
donation will bring light to the lives of those<br />
that you have supported as well as your<br />
special someone that you have made the<br />
gift on behalf of.<br />
Gifts in lieu can be purchased at Belmont<br />
Forum, Cockburn Gateway Shopping<br />
City and The Square Mirrabooka during<br />
December or phone us on 9324 3703.<br />
Closed for<br />
Christmas!<br />
Our office will be closed from Friday<br />
22 December to Monday 8 January.<br />
Our team members will be taking a<br />
well-deserved break to rejuvenate and<br />
come back ready to support West<br />
Australians affected by breast cancer in<br />
the New Year.<br />
For emergency support during this<br />
time, please contact:<br />
Cancer Council Hotline: 13 11 20<br />
Life Line Crisis Line: 13 11 14<br />
Crisis Care: 9223 1111<br />
Breast Cancer Care WA<br />
80 Railway Street, Cottesloe WA 6011<br />
(08) 9324 3703<br />
info@breastcancer.org.au<br />
www.breastcancer.org.au