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your crush doesn’t even know you exist, how do you suppose
If
will be your BF or GF, ever? In contrary to our daunted
they
the must-take step is to get close and spam your
self-instinct,
on your crush’s face: “Hey, It’s me.” Whether it’s
presence
on a group project together or attend the same
working
you should let your bae know that the
extracurricular,
between you two is not far away, because proximity,
distance
geographic nearness, is the very most powerful indicator of
or
and relationship. Think about this, if your crush is
friendship
a major heachache and in urgency of asking someone
having
help, would he more likely to run himself towards his math
for
tablemate or someone he’d come across in hallway
class
once per month? The answer: no one would bother to
roughly
a faraway stranger.
trouble
the science and chemistry aside, “opposite attracts” is a
Throw
lie. You might think the girls who will like whatever the
big-fat
lead finds interesting stupid, but similarity actually
male
the people together. Look your besties circles: you and
brings
friends share the same passion, gossip over the same
your
and enjoy the same desserts. All these things you guys
celebs,
in common build up the close relationship. If you
have
to find the same interest as your crush, go for it, don’t
happen
you purchase an expensive but highly risky plastic
Unless
it’s very unlikely your face will change. But you can
surgery,
yourself more attractive by dressing your smart, clean,
make
chic. If makeup makes you look better, do it! Don’t hesitate
and
unnatural”, because the more attractive your impression is
“it’s
other people, they will perceive you as healthier, happier,
on
even more successful. And that’s all due to the Halo Effect,
and
tend to think pretty creatures more positive. So make
people
beautiful, make yourself fashionable, sometimes it’s
yourself
to be a little extra with your style.
okay
want really want your crush to hit on you even faster, go do
If
exercise, because the same logic with physical appeal
some
apply to fitness. But do not mistaken that you have to be
also
Cristiano Ronaldo if you’re a guy or Miranda Kerr if you’re a
like
Get some muscle training to get the curves and lines and
girl.
we like fitter people, and your crush surely does too.
muscles,
secret weapon you are going to learn from here is
Another
through association”. And in human language, it
“liking
means the following scenario: If your crush really like
basically
you’d better show up whenever she eats Godiva. And
Godiva,
these principles are derived from Behaviorist Ivan Pavlov's
all
of conditioning. Because when your crush will have a
theory
mood when she enjoys her favorite dessert, if you’d
happy
up every time, she will naturally associate you with the
show
mood. So find out what your crush like, and prepare to
good
off a lucky coincidence out of it.
pull
you have come as far as good friend, it’s time to let your
If
know your feeling. You may feel like ‘Wow what?! That
crush
just make the whole thing awkward AF and we will just
will
to square one’, but psychology says otherwise. The reward
back
of attraction will do the explaining: we like things that
theory
us feel rewarded, and it’s the same with relationship.
make
you voice out your affection, they are gonna feel good
When
and in turn they are more likely to keep going back to
about,
and treat you better because of that sentimental
you
So when the time is ripe, let it out!
satisfaction.
ways to make that
hot chic turn to you
S T E P 1 : T A K E T H E ‘ N E X T - D O O R ’ S E A T
S T E P 4 : G E T A S W E A T Y W O R K O U T
S T E P 5 : L I K I N G T H R O U G H A S S O C I A T I O N
S T E P 2 : ‘ S A M E H E R E ! ’
make yourself ‘unique and special’ by voting for the different.
S T E P 3 : G O S H O P P I N G
S T E P 6 : S A Y I T O U T L O U D