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Fundamentalist<br />
<strong>Always</strong><br />
<strong>Abounding</strong><br />
<strong>Fall</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
Timeless Truths of Separation<br />
preaching conference<br />
The theme of our spring Preaching<br />
Conference is A Chosen Generation—<br />
Timeless Truths of Separation. The dates<br />
are April 22-26, 2018. We will hear Bible<br />
teaching and preaching from which<br />
convictions and standards originate. In<br />
this day of apostasy we dare not shrink<br />
from this unpopular subject.<br />
We invite you to attend. We look<br />
forward to hearing from Evangelist Randy<br />
Starr, Dr. Mike Allison, Pastor Bill Gorman,<br />
and Pastor Travis Burke.<br />
college days<br />
This week will coincide with our<br />
College Days. Visiting teens will get a<br />
taste of college life. They will stay in our<br />
dormitories and attend college classes. In<br />
addition to the preaching, they will enjoy<br />
getting to know other Christian young<br />
people at the many planned activities.<br />
alumni<br />
Our annual alumni meeting will be on<br />
Wednesday. This has proven to be a great<br />
reunion, not just for our graduates but<br />
also for the members of Fairhaven Baptist<br />
Church who have given much and continue<br />
to sacrifice for the ministry of Fairhaven<br />
Baptist College.<br />
Plan ahead to join us. More information<br />
may be found on our college website.<br />
“. . . be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” I Corinthians 15:58
L O V E<br />
We love him because he first loved us. I JOHN 4:19<br />
We love him because he first loved us. I JOHN 4:19<br />
S T R I N G H A V E N<br />
F AS ITR HR A VI E N GB AH P TA I SVT CE ON<br />
L L E G E<br />
F A I R H A V E N B A P T I S T C O L L E G E<br />
1 Preaching Conference &<br />
College Days 2018<br />
3 Rules?!<br />
by Evangelist Eric Ramos<br />
6 Never Alone<br />
by Dave Olson<br />
CONTENTS<br />
8 The Power of Words<br />
by Pastor Steve Damron<br />
12 Preparing for Special Meetings<br />
by Dr. Randy Starr<br />
14 The Telltale Timbre<br />
by Missionary Bill Hardecker<br />
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Rules?!<br />
Eric Ramos<br />
Rules provide<br />
people the<br />
freedom not<br />
just to live but to live<br />
in peace with one<br />
another. What if<br />
everybody had the choice whether or not<br />
to stop at red lights? What if there was no<br />
such thing as a speed limit? Though many<br />
people gripe at these types of rules, they<br />
actually keep the roads safe.<br />
Simmering in the hearts of disgruntled<br />
teenagers is this idea: “If I could just have<br />
my freedom, then I would be so much<br />
happier.” Many feel like they have been<br />
given a “raw deal” by others or simply life<br />
in general. Is the “grass really greener”<br />
at the place they think it is? Is there<br />
greater “freedom” away from all these<br />
restrictions?<br />
Well, what is freedom? It is not the<br />
right to do as you please but the liberty<br />
to do as you should. There are two<br />
freedoms—the false, where a man is free<br />
to do what he likes; the true, where a man<br />
is free to do as he ought.<br />
Why do gates lower prior to a train<br />
coming? They are there to keep people<br />
safe from crossing into danger. But there<br />
are always those who ignore the gates to<br />
beat the train. Sometimes people run a<br />
red light without causing any problem;<br />
however, every time a law is broken,<br />
whether there is an accident or not,<br />
there is the possibility of injury or death!<br />
Teenager, remember this when you seek to<br />
escape the structure of authority in search<br />
of “freedom.” Every time you break a rule<br />
in your home or church, you run the risk of<br />
injury or even fatality in your spiritual life.<br />
So how can you, a teen in a good church<br />
and home, guard against the desire to get<br />
out from under “all these rules?” When<br />
mom and dad come to you and demand<br />
TEEN CORNER<br />
that you stop hanging around a certain<br />
person, how can you go from bristling up<br />
like a porcupine to thanking them and<br />
responding in a genuinely appreciative<br />
way? The Bible provides many boundaries<br />
and guards to “fence us in” for protection<br />
from spiritual danger. Here are three:<br />
Boundary No. 1 – Have a clear salvation<br />
testimony.<br />
Salvation provides freedom from the<br />
penalty of sin and fear of the future. Only<br />
you know if you are truly saved. Do not<br />
settle for the word of anyone else when<br />
it comes to your salvation. Do you know<br />
Jesus as your personal Savior? Is your trust<br />
in God or in the faith of mom and dad?<br />
You may have wonderful Christian parents,<br />
but the only way to enter heaven is by the<br />
grace of God, not by the goodness of your<br />
parents. The Bible states in John 8:36, “If<br />
the Son therefore shall make you free, ye<br />
shall be free indeed.”<br />
Salvation is a work of God, not of<br />
man. When you settle this, you are free<br />
from the penalty of sin. This will allow you<br />
to live in liberty. When you doubt your<br />
salvation, you have many uncertainties in<br />
the Christian walk. This, I believe, is where<br />
many young people are in their lives. If<br />
they are unsettled about their position in<br />
Christ, when it comes time for them to<br />
“venture out on their own,” the calls from<br />
this world will confound them. However,<br />
when you know the One Who saved you<br />
from hell and a ruined life, you can be<br />
happy and settled in obedience to Him.<br />
What about your salvation? If you<br />
listen to someone else give their testimony<br />
and have to mimic it when sharing yours,<br />
then you do not have a personal salvation.<br />
(cont., pg 4)<br />
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TEEN CORNER<br />
Rules?!<br />
(cont.)<br />
At salvation, the Spirit of God comes to<br />
live within you and according to Scripture,<br />
liberty is given (II Corinthians 3:17). You<br />
are not given the liberty to do as you<br />
please, but to be a servant once again. You<br />
were once the servant of sin, but salvation<br />
allows you freedom from that sin and the<br />
privilege to serve a new master, the Lord<br />
Jesus Christ.<br />
Boundary No. 2 – Realize who really cares<br />
for you.<br />
Godly parents and Scriptural authority<br />
figures are your true friends. Teenagers<br />
understand that parents will not let a young<br />
child play in the middle of a busy highway<br />
because of the danger involved; yet for<br />
some reason they cannot understand<br />
when a parent tries to keep them from the<br />
dangers of this fleshly world. What is the<br />
difference? Absolutely nothing! But there<br />
are young people who look good at church<br />
and maybe even at home, all the while<br />
their heart screams out for their “space”<br />
and “freedom.” At the core of this attitude<br />
lies this problem—the feeling that they are<br />
missing out on something.<br />
What about the prodigal son in the<br />
book of Luke? He had a good life, but he<br />
thought “the far country,” away from his<br />
father’s guidance, was a freer place. He<br />
thought he was missing out; however,<br />
when he sat in the pigpen enjoying the<br />
“swine buffet,” he realized that back<br />
home was not so bad after all. He was<br />
not missing out on anything worthwhile.<br />
God’s greatest gift, without a doubt, is<br />
salvation; but another of His great gifts to<br />
you is authority (parents and pastors) who<br />
care enough to keep you “fenced in” from<br />
the dangers of this wicked world. Cherish<br />
them! Love them! Spend time with them!<br />
Thank God for them!<br />
Don’t be fooled. The lovers of pleasure<br />
will tell you they care for you. But<br />
understand that on the other side of that<br />
very temporary pleasure of sin are waiting<br />
the real gifts of the devil for you—sorrow,<br />
heartache, pain, disappointments, misery,<br />
disease, depression, worry, loneliness, and<br />
suffering. You will find yourself empty,<br />
just wishing you could have real freedom,<br />
which is found in loving reproof and caring<br />
restriction.<br />
Boundary No. 3 - Recognize that YOU will<br />
not be the exception.<br />
YOU will end up the same way as<br />
everyone else who desires his own way<br />
and runs from what God has placed in his<br />
life. Sometimes young people see another<br />
teen living a miserable life; and although<br />
they are heading down the same path and<br />
are warned about it, they are sure that<br />
the end for them will be much different.<br />
People fall into wicked sin that they have<br />
been warned about over and over again.<br />
They may never have said it, but they have<br />
lived thinking, “I know what is right, but<br />
this sin will not affect me like it did the<br />
others.”<br />
God says “the wages of sin is death.”<br />
This is a fact. Sin’s wages have never been<br />
reduced, and God is not a respecter of<br />
persons. You are not better than anyone<br />
else; and if you choose to seek your<br />
freedom, you will end up in a mess, bound<br />
by the chains of sin.<br />
Do you want lasting happiness? Find<br />
it in the path of the Lord. You will be<br />
spiritually strong and free to live out the<br />
perfect will that God has planned for you.<br />
(Eric Ramos is a staff evangelist for Fairhaven Baptist<br />
College.)<br />
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joy in serving jesus<br />
Every Saturday morning, many members gather for ministry meetings. Pastor Parrish<br />
coordinates those involved with the teen outreach and discipleship ministry Teens on Target.<br />
Pastor Damron gives instruction to our bus route workers while Dr. Mitchell encourages<br />
those canvassing in our Harvesters soulwinning ministry. In other rooms, our nursing home<br />
ministry leaders gather with their workers to prepare for services in a number of local<br />
retirement homes.<br />
After these meetings, church men and women, working together with college students and<br />
teens, spread out across the area in the Lord’s work. Each Saturday evening, our church<br />
men, college guys, and teen boys gather back at church to pray for God’s blessing and power<br />
on the Sunday services.<br />
May we never forget the great joy that comes through serving Jesus!<br />
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DEVOTIONAL<br />
Never Alone<br />
Dave Olson<br />
Are you lonely?<br />
You do not have<br />
to be. Loneliness<br />
occurs when we are<br />
without a friend or<br />
companion. For those<br />
who know Christ as<br />
Savior, they have “a friend that sticketh<br />
closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24).<br />
Though other friends may abandon us, the<br />
Lord promised, “I will never leave thee, nor<br />
forsake thee” (Hebrews 13:5). If you are a<br />
Christian, you are never alone!<br />
Unfortunately, there are times that<br />
we feel alone. Why? Perhaps we have<br />
neglected His presence. Since He never<br />
leaves us, we should never be overcome<br />
with loneliness. However, at times we<br />
begin to feel sorry for ourselves and<br />
indulge in pity parties. As strange as it<br />
sounds, we often want to be alone when<br />
we wallow in self-pity. While the pity<br />
party is in full swing, we may want to invite<br />
others to it, but we plan on doing all the<br />
talking. Jesus sees when things are not<br />
well in your life, and it is His desire to draw<br />
near and console you. He promised, “I will<br />
not leave you comfortless: I will come to<br />
you” (John 14:18). If you are lonely, all you<br />
need to do is acknowledge the One Who is<br />
trying to engage your fellowship.<br />
It is true that losing a loved one leaves<br />
a huge void in one’s life. Grief is normal,<br />
but once again it is meant to turn our<br />
attention to the Lord and strengthen our<br />
relationship with Him. Having a broken<br />
heart is understandable, but don’t forget<br />
that the Savior wants to mend it. He said,<br />
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me…he hath<br />
sent me to heal the brokenhearted” (Luke<br />
4:18). Allow Him to do His job of healing!<br />
When we are bereaved of loved ones,<br />
God steps in and extends special care to<br />
us. The psalmist said, “When my father<br />
and my mother forsake me, then the LORD<br />
will take me up” (Psalm 27:10). Regardless<br />
of who we lose, we must focus on what<br />
we gain. Who could comfort and cheer us<br />
better than the Lord? If you are sad and<br />
lonely, turn at once to the waiting Savior<br />
and enjoy the sweetness of His counsel,<br />
the gentle touch of His Spirit, and the<br />
reassurance of His constant love. Open<br />
your Bible and allow Him to settle your<br />
fears and fill your lonely heart with hope.<br />
The psalmist found God’s Word to be a<br />
source of strength and encouragement.<br />
He offered these words of praise, “Thou<br />
art my hiding place and my shield: I hope in<br />
thy word” (Psalm 119:114). Will you allow<br />
God to fill your heart with hope through<br />
His Word?<br />
Since the Christian has God’s abiding<br />
presence, loneliness is a self-inflicted<br />
emotion. When David found himself<br />
feeling lonely, he sought the Lord. He<br />
prayed, “Turn thee unto me, and have<br />
mercy upon me; for I am desolate and<br />
afflicted” (Psalm 25:16). Allow each pang<br />
of loneliness to trigger a prayer similar<br />
to David’s. Soon, you will have the same<br />
comfort he enjoyed.<br />
Jesus faced times when He was alone.<br />
Shortly before His crucifixion He spoke to<br />
the disciples, “ye shall be scattered, every<br />
man to his own, and shall leave me alone:<br />
and yet I am not alone, because the Father<br />
is with me” (John 16:32). Though He was<br />
forsaken by earthly friends, He understood<br />
that as long as He had the Father, He<br />
was not alone. Then, the most horrible<br />
thing happened to Him. When the sins<br />
of the world were placed upon Him, the<br />
Father forsook Him. He was totally alone.<br />
Because of His sacrifice, no Christian will<br />
ever experience the loss of the Father’s<br />
presence like He did. So, when feeling<br />
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lonely, turn to the One Who has “borne<br />
our griefs, and carried our sorrows” (Isaiah<br />
53:4). Since He has known true loneliness,<br />
He can help you.<br />
Too often we are tempted to dwell on<br />
our losses and bereavements. Another<br />
valuable lesson to learn is that of<br />
thankfulness. In the midst of suffering,<br />
Paul learned to rejoice in the Lord<br />
regardless of his circumstances. He said,<br />
“In every thing give thanks: for this is the<br />
will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you”<br />
(I Thessalonians 5:18). We can be thankful<br />
that we have God’s presence, promises,<br />
protection, and provision. Further, we<br />
can be grateful for the time He gave us to<br />
enjoy those people or blessings that we<br />
have lost. Thank Him for the good times<br />
you had and the memories that you can<br />
continue to enjoy. Once you begin to<br />
thank the Lord, you will find yourself in<br />
His presence—“Enter into his gates with<br />
thanksgiving, and into his courts with<br />
praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his<br />
name” (Psalm 100:4). If you are saved, you<br />
are never alone.<br />
(Dave Olson is the Director of Missions at Fairhaven<br />
Baptist College.)<br />
DON’T FORGET THE SPEECH AND MUSIC COMPETITION!<br />
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FROM THE PASTOR<br />
The Power of Words<br />
Pastor Steve Damron<br />
Death and life<br />
are in the power<br />
of the tongue:<br />
and they that<br />
love it shall eat<br />
the fruit thereof<br />
(Proverbs 18:21).<br />
Speech can be misunderstood. Here<br />
are a few examples when translation<br />
became humorous. These are signs<br />
(translated into English) seen in other<br />
countries:<br />
1. In a Denmark airline office: “We take<br />
your bags and send them in all directions.”<br />
2. On the door of a Moscow hotel room:<br />
“If this is your first visit to Russia, you are<br />
welcome to it.”<br />
3. On a Bucharest hotel elevator: “The<br />
lift is being fixed for the next day. During<br />
that time we regret that you will be<br />
unbearable.”<br />
4. On a restaurant menu in Poland: “Salad<br />
a firm’s own make; Limpid red beet soup<br />
with cheesy dumplings in the form of a<br />
finger; Roasted duck let loose; Beef rashers<br />
beaten up in the country people’s fashion.”<br />
As you can see, someone should have<br />
been a little more careful, or should have<br />
consulted someone else who understood<br />
not just grammar but the vocabulary and<br />
nuances of the English language.<br />
So it is in our lives. We should take a<br />
little more care in the choice of words that<br />
we use both with fellow believers and the<br />
world around us. We must understand that<br />
words do matter in our relationships with<br />
fellow believers and with the community<br />
in which we are going to share Christ.<br />
A great deal of good or harm can result<br />
from how we use our tongues. The Word<br />
of God tells us that “Death and life are<br />
in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs<br />
18:21). While a skilled orator can influence<br />
vast numbers of people, sometimes it is to<br />
their disadvantage. On the other hand,<br />
the tongue of a believer, when under<br />
the control of the indwelling Holy Spirit<br />
(I Corinthians 6:19), can be used to bring<br />
blessing and happiness to many people.<br />
What we say and the things we talk about<br />
most frequently and naturally reveal what<br />
is in our minds and what dominates our<br />
thinking—for as a man “thinketh in his<br />
heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7), and “out<br />
of the abundance of the heart the mouth<br />
speaketh” (Matthew 12:34). The Holy<br />
Spirit led and inspired James to write an<br />
intensely practical epistle in which he<br />
makes several references to the ways we<br />
can use our tongues and the consequences<br />
that come from these actions. I have listed<br />
the following references for your personal<br />
study on this topic: James 1:19,26; James<br />
2:12; James 3:1-12; James 4:11; and James<br />
5:12.<br />
In James 3 we are given both warning<br />
and guidance regarding the use of the<br />
tongue. Believers are told that those<br />
who teach others the Word of God must<br />
teach prayerfully, carefully, and honestly as<br />
they are enabled and empowered by the<br />
Holy Spirit. They will come under severe<br />
condemnation when what they say and<br />
teach is not consistent with their manner<br />
of life (James 3:1).<br />
I would like us to consider some<br />
Scripture from the book of Proverbs<br />
concerning how our speech reveals what<br />
is inside our hearts. For a believer this is<br />
important, but for a pastor it is imperative<br />
to comprehend how words have the ability<br />
either to help build or to destroy members.<br />
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The tongue of the just is as choice silver:<br />
the heart of the wicked is little worth<br />
(Proverbs 10:20).<br />
The thoughts of the wicked are an<br />
abomination to the Lord: but the words of<br />
the pure are pleasant words<br />
(Proverbs 15:26).<br />
The heart of the wise teacheth his mouth,<br />
and addeth learning to his lips<br />
(Proverbs 16:23).<br />
We see from the above verses the<br />
relationship of the tongue with the<br />
heart and thoughts. The tongue that is<br />
continually causing strife and contention<br />
is evidence of a heart that dwells on the<br />
same. The tongue that is vulgar and vile<br />
reveals a mind that is dwelling on impure<br />
thoughts. There is a direct correlation<br />
between one’s thought life and his speech.<br />
You may ask then how an unworthy sinner<br />
can tame the tongue. This is why I included<br />
the third verse in this grouping. Proverbs<br />
16 tells us that a good man teaches his<br />
mouth. He decides to ask for God’s help in<br />
guiding what he says and thinks.<br />
A tongue under control is evidence<br />
of spiritual maturity; and if a believer’s<br />
tongue is controlled by the Holy Spirit,<br />
then every other aspect of his life will<br />
be under the Spirit’s control (v. 2). The<br />
tongue is a comparatively small part of<br />
the human body, but it has great power.<br />
James stresses how a horse is controlled<br />
by a small bit placed in its mouth, a large<br />
ship is maneuvered by a small rudder,<br />
and a small fire can kindle a large, fierce,<br />
uncontrolled blaze (vv. 3-5). Men have<br />
tamed and controlled all kinds of animals<br />
(v. 7), but no man can tame the tongue (v.<br />
8). However, the tongue can be controlled<br />
by the Holy Spirit. When a believer is living<br />
close to God in submission and obedience<br />
to His will as revealed in the Word of God,<br />
his tongue will be used to speak gracious<br />
words of blessing, comfort, and edification.<br />
Let’s consider another set of verses to<br />
further help in this area of the tongue.<br />
The mouth of a righteous man is a well of<br />
life: but violence covereth the mouth of<br />
the wicked (Proverbs 10:11).<br />
A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but<br />
perverseness therein is a breach in the<br />
spirit (Proverbs 15:4).<br />
Let’s continue the thought of the work<br />
of the Holy Spirit and the tongue. I believe<br />
that Proverbs 10:11 is referring to the<br />
regenerating work that the Holy Spirit can<br />
do in a person’s heart through the Word of<br />
God. The righteous man who is teaching<br />
his tongue through the instruments of the<br />
Holy Spirit and the Word of God will find<br />
his tongue a well of life. In John 4:14 and<br />
John 7:38, we find references to the “well<br />
of living water.”<br />
But whosoever drinketh of the water that<br />
I shall give him shall never thirst; but<br />
the water that I shall give him shall be<br />
in him a well of water springing up into<br />
everlasting life (John 4:14).<br />
He that believeth on me, as the scripture<br />
hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers<br />
of living water (John 7:38).<br />
In both instances, Christ refers to the<br />
work of salvation done through Himself,<br />
the Living Water. You can see the word<br />
(cont., pg 10)<br />
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FROM THE PASTOR<br />
The Power of Words<br />
(cont.)<br />
picture. Now let’s tie in the verse in<br />
Proverbs 10. The regenerated man feasting<br />
upon the Word of God and invigorated by<br />
the water of life can experience a well of<br />
life that brings nourishment to others<br />
through his conversations with fellow<br />
believers as well as unbelievers. This is the<br />
glorious privilege of the righteous. Thus, a<br />
mouth supplied from heavenly waters is a<br />
well of life.<br />
As we conclude in this specific area<br />
of our tongue, consider the references<br />
to the tongue in Proverbs 15:1-7: “A soft<br />
answer,” “the tongue of the wise,” “a<br />
wholesome tongue,” “the lips of the wise,”<br />
and “the prayer of the upright.” What a<br />
collection of thoughts about our tongues.<br />
These key words touch one of the greatest<br />
spheres of human influence. If we can rule<br />
our speech by surrendering our tongue<br />
and lips to the keeping of God’s Spirit, we<br />
would save ourselves and others a world of<br />
trouble.<br />
Do your words align with the teaching<br />
of Scripture? Consider the following<br />
verses:<br />
There is that speaketh like the piercings<br />
of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is<br />
health (Proverbs 12:18).<br />
Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it<br />
stoop: but a good word maketh it glad<br />
(Proverbs 12:25).<br />
Pleasant words are as an honeycomb,<br />
sweet to the soul, and health to the bones<br />
(Proverbs 16:24).<br />
Do your words encourage others to<br />
move forward for Christ? Do your words<br />
help lift the heavy load that others are<br />
bearing? It amazes me to see the lack of<br />
empathy that the average Christian has for<br />
fellow believers. We live in a self-consumed<br />
world. How do I know this? Take a look<br />
at the average person’s Facebook page.<br />
They are consumed with sharing pictures<br />
of their dog, their artwork, their cars, their<br />
food choices, and their hobbies. We live in<br />
a “selfie” world where most people believe<br />
that everything revolves around them.<br />
“My happiness” is the most important<br />
thing in this world. Yet, we find more<br />
unhappiness and more despondency than<br />
ever. Why is this? Because happiness is not<br />
found in the “self-life”; instead it is found<br />
in a “self-less” life. We should be looking<br />
for folks to encourage and help. This is<br />
what these verses are trying to encourage<br />
us to do with our speech. Is your tongue an<br />
instrument that promotes pleasantness, or<br />
do your words make others stoop?<br />
Finally, let’s consider two more verses<br />
from the book of Proverbs.<br />
A man hath joy by the answer of his<br />
mouth: and a word spoken in due season,<br />
how good is it! (Proverbs 15:23).<br />
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in<br />
pictures of silver (Proverbs 25:11).<br />
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These two verses reveal the<br />
satisfaction that words can bring to both<br />
the speaker and the hearer. In Proverbs<br />
15:23, the speaker has joy by what he says.<br />
He is not getting his satisfaction by tearing<br />
someone else down or speaking abusively.<br />
The second part of this verse indicates that<br />
a godly speaker knows the correct time<br />
to say things or the time to refrain from<br />
saying something. Having this confidence<br />
produces joy in the heart of the speaker.<br />
We then come to Proverbs 25:11. The<br />
word “fitly” is a very curious one in the<br />
Hebrew. It signifies “wheels.” So what<br />
do “wheels” have to do with speaking? It<br />
deals with the hearer, referring to words<br />
which roll smoothly and pleasantly from<br />
the lips of the speaker to the ears of the<br />
hearer. In this time era, wheels were not<br />
used very often, and most things were<br />
carried on horseback. On some occasions,<br />
makeshift wheels would be needed to<br />
ease the burden of travel. Today, we have<br />
wheels that are light and smooth so that<br />
carrying a burden is easy. The application<br />
for a wise man is to learn to “carry” his<br />
words with ease so that they are not<br />
burdensome to the hearer. The wise<br />
man speaks so that his words do not jar<br />
or shock the hearer. The speaker’s words<br />
should not produce hurt by any harshness<br />
or roughness, nor should his words leave a<br />
painful rut behind in the memory.<br />
Let me close with a great example<br />
of words that were fitly spoken by the<br />
Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord always spoke<br />
graciously; in fact, in John 1:14, He was<br />
said to be “full of grace and truth.” People<br />
did not always agree with Him, and there<br />
were times that folks were riled up at His<br />
speech. However, in John 7:46, we learn<br />
that “never man spake like this man.”<br />
There are other references in the Gospels<br />
that reveal this as well. One such verse is<br />
Luke 4:22 where they “wondered at the<br />
gracious words which proceeded out of his<br />
mouth.” Peter says in his first epistle that<br />
there was no “guile found in his mouth…<br />
when he was reviled, [He] reviled not<br />
again; when he suffered, he threatened<br />
not.” The Lord created all things by the<br />
power of His word (Psalm 33:6-9; Hebrews<br />
11:3). He spoke and a storm ceased (Mark<br />
4:39); He spoke to an unclean spirit and it<br />
came out of a man (Mark 5:8,13); He spoke<br />
and a man was raised from death (John<br />
11:43,44). For those of us who minister<br />
to people, the physical tool that we must<br />
use is our words. Let’s be sure that we<br />
understand the Biblical truth of the power<br />
of words. The Bible still says that we will<br />
give an account for every idle word. Christ<br />
understood that words count, and He used<br />
them wisely to fulfill God’s purpose in His<br />
life—to bring people to salvation.<br />
(Steve Damron is the pastor of Fairhaven Baptist<br />
Church and is president of Fairhaven Baptist College.)<br />
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PASTORS CORNER<br />
Preparing for Special<br />
Meetings<br />
Dr. Randy Starr<br />
As an evangelist, my wife and I travel<br />
from church to church to have a<br />
maximum impact in each church<br />
we schedule. I preach revivals, family<br />
conferences, mission conferences, Bible<br />
conferences, special days, etc. We make<br />
planning checklists available to every<br />
pastor to help him think through steps in<br />
preparation for our meeting to give it the<br />
best chance of success. I encourage pastors<br />
not to plan a lot of activities in the week<br />
before, during, or after the meeting so the<br />
revival will be the focus and people will<br />
be ready to come. However, more often<br />
than not, upon arrival, I find the preacher,<br />
his wife, and people fatigued with all the<br />
activities while the only preparation for<br />
the meeting has been an announcement<br />
and flier. Then, the pastor makes apologies<br />
for the low crowds. The truth is, special<br />
meetings are an afterthought, just a<br />
calendar add-in.<br />
Through detailed planning and<br />
repeated emphasis we make the special<br />
meetings the BIG ACTIVITY of the year.<br />
We can do better in preparing for special<br />
meetings.<br />
Here are some practical ideas to<br />
help. When I pastored, we kicked off<br />
most of our special meetings with a big<br />
day (e.g., Friend Day) on Sunday. We had<br />
two checklists for preparation, one for<br />
the special day and one for the meeting.<br />
Preparation began two months or more<br />
ahead of time with a meeting of leaders to<br />
make assignments and explain the special<br />
nights of the revival so that these leaders<br />
could then motivate their departments to<br />
get visitors to the meeting. I would preach<br />
on revival, enlisting fasting and prayer<br />
for the meeting. We planned prayer<br />
meetings prior to the meeting, decided<br />
whether to have a banner or not, planned<br />
special music for the conference, talked<br />
to the nursery director to remind her to<br />
organize workers nightly for the meetings,<br />
and planned to announce revival meeting<br />
dates in the bulletin weekly. Folks were<br />
asked to clear their schedules to be there<br />
every night. I appointed the secretary to<br />
send out revival fliers to area churches and<br />
preachers, planned the expense check and<br />
offerings to care for the evangelist, and<br />
created a colorful post card to put in the<br />
bulletin that our people could distribute to<br />
neighbors.<br />
As a pastor, five weeks before a<br />
meeting I would distribute blank 3x5 cards<br />
to the congregation asking them to write<br />
the names of people they were burdened<br />
about for salvation. I had them invite<br />
them and pray for them. Four weeks<br />
before the meeting, we chose personal<br />
altar workers and had a meeting to review<br />
what to do and how to complete the<br />
decision card. We reviewed the literature<br />
available to give away. We met with the<br />
ushers in anticipation of an overflow<br />
crowd. Someone was assigned to write<br />
news releases for local radio stations,<br />
newspapers, social media, and our website.<br />
Someone else was assigned to put the<br />
announcement on the church’s outdoor<br />
sign. Posters were printed to put up two<br />
weeks before the meeting at laundromats,<br />
restaurants, stores, etc., all over the area.<br />
All of these required pastoral approval.<br />
Three weeks before the meeting, we<br />
had a sign-up list for folks to fast for the<br />
meeting. Two weeks before, as the pastor,<br />
I would email all area pastors a reminder<br />
of the services. One week before, I<br />
announced that the evangelist would have<br />
a book table each night. We had someone<br />
set up the tables before he arrived and<br />
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someone to help carry in his supplies.<br />
There was also a person assigned to care<br />
for him upon arrival whether it involved<br />
taking him to a motel, getting him settled<br />
in our prophet’s chamber, or directing him<br />
to the RV spot. Finally, as pastor, I planned<br />
time to spend with the evangelist early—<br />
maybe a meal with our entire staff before<br />
the meeting began.<br />
Here are suggestions to increase<br />
attendance each night: (1) Have the junior<br />
choir sing one night. Grandparents and<br />
parents can’t resist coming. (2) Have the<br />
church choir sing one night. (3) Have a<br />
free meal 90 minutes before the evening<br />
service to get everyone there (or maybe<br />
the church can provide the meat and drink,<br />
and each family bring a dish or two). (4)<br />
Have special nights such as Youth night,<br />
Coworker & Neighbor night, Relatives<br />
night, Prophecy night, etc., AND (5) pray,<br />
pray, pray.<br />
Churches either prepare for success<br />
or defeat. They are in earnest to touch<br />
as many lives as possible with a revival,<br />
or they just let it happen (Calvinistic in<br />
thought). No, we can’t organize revival,<br />
but we CAN organize the elements to give<br />
us the best chance of success by getting<br />
more people there. If these elements<br />
aren’t there, it won’t do the people any<br />
good.*<br />
Brethren, for the sake of souls and<br />
God’s stirring of His children, let’s get<br />
serious about the preparation for our<br />
special meetings.<br />
*Pastor, if you want more information,<br />
contact me for the password to the<br />
“Pastor’s Planning” section of our website.<br />
(Dr. Randy Starr is a local church evangelist sent out<br />
from Mt. Zion Baptist Church in Brogue, Pennsylvania.)<br />
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MUSIC<br />
The Telltale Timbre<br />
Missionary Bill Hardecker (‘99)<br />
Music is a combination of sounds<br />
composed in such a way as<br />
to produce beauty in melody,<br />
harmony, rhythm, and timbre (character<br />
or quality of sound). Colossians 3:16 says,<br />
“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly<br />
in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing<br />
one another in psalms and hymns and<br />
spiritual songs, singing with grace in your<br />
hearts to the Lord.” Godly music packages<br />
Bible doctrines in memorable format.<br />
Psalms (i.e., the Old Testament Psalms) add<br />
depth of expression to both our singing<br />
and prayers. Hymns are songs of praise.<br />
Spiritual songs refer to musical expressions<br />
that are distinct from worldliness.<br />
Contemporary Christian Music<br />
proponents disagree that such a distinction<br />
exists: “We hold these truths to be selfevident,<br />
that all music was created equal,<br />
that no instrument or style of music is in<br />
itself evil–that the diversity of musical<br />
expression which flows forth from man<br />
is but one evidence of the boundless<br />
creativity of our Heavenly Father.” [The<br />
Christian Rocker’s Creed, CCM Magazine,<br />
1988, pg. 12]<br />
Harold Best (Dean Emeritus of Music at<br />
Wheaton College) said, “There is nothing<br />
un-Christian or anti-Christian about any<br />
kind of music.” [Music Through the Eyes<br />
of Faith, 1993, page 52] He adds on page<br />
59, “The Christian is free from the moral<br />
nothingness of music.”<br />
Al Menconi (non-denominational<br />
speaker) said the following: “Which style<br />
[of music] is best: mellow, spicy (upbeat,<br />
contemporary, rock), or somewhere in<br />
between? Again, the answer is that one is<br />
no more correct than another. Each style<br />
of music is simply different. A person’s<br />
choice of music depends on his cultural<br />
background, maturity and age, the music<br />
he grew up listening to, and his personal<br />
tastes.” [Staying in Tune, 1996, page 161]<br />
Charlie Peacock (singer, songwriter,<br />
record producer, Dove Award winner, and<br />
Grammy nominee) said, “We must respect<br />
all forms of musical and lyrical artistry,<br />
recognizing that God delights in and<br />
makes intelligent use of the diversity of His<br />
creation.” [At the Crossroads, 1999, page<br />
202]<br />
Rick Warren (Senior Pastor of<br />
Saddleback Valley Community Church,<br />
Orange County, California) said, “I’m often<br />
asked what I would do differently if I could<br />
start Saddleback over. My answer is this:<br />
From the first day of the new church, I’d put<br />
more energy and money into a first-class<br />
music ministry that matched our target. In<br />
the first years of Saddleback, I made the<br />
mistake of underestimating the power of<br />
music.…(page 279) Churches also need<br />
to admit that no particular style of music<br />
is ‘sacred.’ What makes a song sacred is<br />
its message. Music is nothing more than<br />
an arrangement of notes and rhythms;<br />
it’s the words that make a song spiritual.<br />
There is no such thing as ‘Christian music,’<br />
only Christian lyrics. (page 281) The sacred<br />
message of a song may be communicated<br />
in a wide variety of musical styles. What we<br />
discovered is that 96 percent of our people<br />
said they listen to middle-of-the-road adult<br />
contemporary music…for the first time<br />
in history, there exists a universal music<br />
style that can be heard in every country<br />
of the world. It is called contemporary<br />
pop/rock…. After surveying who we were<br />
reaching, we made the strategic decision to<br />
stop singing hymns in our seeker services.<br />
Within a year of deciding what would be<br />
‘our sound,’ Saddleback exploded with<br />
growth. I will admit that we have lost<br />
hundreds of potential members because of<br />
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the style of music Saddleback uses. On the<br />
other hand, we have attracted thousands<br />
more because of our music.” [The Purpose<br />
Driven Church, Zondervan, 1995, page<br />
285]<br />
The Bible teaches us that there is a<br />
“distinction in the sounds” (I Corinthians<br />
14:7). It mentions a trumpet giving an<br />
“uncertain sound” in verse 8. The music<br />
produced must be intelligible so that<br />
instructions may be given to either charge<br />
or retreat. In Exodus 32:17-18, Joshua<br />
mistook idolatrous worship for a “noise<br />
of war” mainly because of how they were<br />
singing. Isaiah 23:15 reports that Tyre shall<br />
“sing as an harlot.” This is a sensual song.<br />
In Ezekiel 33:32, the Bible identifies “a<br />
very lovely song,” “a pleasant voice,” and<br />
a skillful instrumentalist. Similarly, spoken<br />
language contains “evil communications”<br />
(I Corinthians 15:33), “corrupt<br />
communication” (Ephesians 4:29), and<br />
“filthy communication” (Colossians 3:8).<br />
The Bible assumes that we know this. The<br />
timbre identifies godly music from worldy<br />
music.<br />
Howard Marshall McLuhan (educator,<br />
and literary critic) pithily said: “The<br />
medium is the message.”<br />
The message resides in the music.<br />
Music can add, reinforce, or contradict<br />
the lyrics. It has the capacity to transform<br />
mood, behavior, a church’s historic and<br />
doctrinal positions; and it can even change<br />
the perception of who God is (cf. Romans<br />
1:23).<br />
Rick Warren said, “Traditional churches<br />
think I’m changing the message, but all I’m<br />
doing is changing the method.” [A Look<br />
at Pastor and Author Rev. Rick Warren,<br />
Dateline Alabama, March 25, 2005]<br />
But the truth is when the music is<br />
changed, so is the message.<br />
(Bill (‘99) and Marcia (Starr ‘03) Hardecker are<br />
currently serving as missionaries in the Philippines,<br />
along with their two boys, W. T. and Joseph.)<br />
UPCOMING EVENTS<br />
www.hardecker.com<br />
November 6-9<br />
Empowered Youth<br />
December 12<br />
Glory of Christmas Concert<br />
February 9<br />
Mother/Daughter Banquet<br />
March 9<br />
Men’s BBQ<br />
March 15-16<br />
Academy Basketball and<br />
Volleyball Tournament<br />
April 22-26<br />
Preaching Conference &<br />
College Days<br />
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