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Fundamentalist<br />

<strong>Always</strong><br />

<strong>Abounding</strong><br />

<strong>Fall</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

Timeless Truths of Separation<br />

preaching conference<br />

The theme of our spring Preaching<br />

Conference is A Chosen Generation—<br />

Timeless Truths of Separation. The dates<br />

are April 22-26, 2018. We will hear Bible<br />

teaching and preaching from which<br />

convictions and standards originate. In<br />

this day of apostasy we dare not shrink<br />

from this unpopular subject.<br />

We invite you to attend. We look<br />

forward to hearing from Evangelist Randy<br />

Starr, Dr. Mike Allison, Pastor Bill Gorman,<br />

and Pastor Travis Burke.<br />

college days<br />

This week will coincide with our<br />

College Days. Visiting teens will get a<br />

taste of college life. They will stay in our<br />

dormitories and attend college classes. In<br />

addition to the preaching, they will enjoy<br />

getting to know other Christian young<br />

people at the many planned activities.<br />

alumni<br />

Our annual alumni meeting will be on<br />

Wednesday. This has proven to be a great<br />

reunion, not just for our graduates but<br />

also for the members of Fairhaven Baptist<br />

Church who have given much and continue<br />

to sacrifice for the ministry of Fairhaven<br />

Baptist College.<br />

Plan ahead to join us. More information<br />

may be found on our college website.<br />

“. . . be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” I Corinthians 15:58


L O V E<br />

We love him because he first loved us. I JOHN 4:19<br />

We love him because he first loved us. I JOHN 4:19<br />

S T R I N G H A V E N<br />

F AS ITR HR A VI E N GB AH P TA I SVT CE ON<br />

L L E G E<br />

F A I R H A V E N B A P T I S T C O L L E G E<br />

1 Preaching Conference &<br />

College Days 2018<br />

3 Rules?!<br />

by Evangelist Eric Ramos<br />

6 Never Alone<br />

by Dave Olson<br />

CONTENTS<br />

8 The Power of Words<br />

by Pastor Steve Damron<br />

12 Preparing for Special Meetings<br />

by Dr. Randy Starr<br />

14 The Telltale Timbre<br />

by Missionary Bill Hardecker<br />

©Published by Fairhaven Baptist Church. For correspondence or changes in subscription<br />

information, write: Fairhaven Baptist Church, <strong>Always</strong> <strong>Abounding</strong> - The Fairhaven Fundamentalist,<br />

86 East Oak Hill Road, Chesterton, IN 46304, U.S.A. For more information, call (800) SEE-FHBC.<br />

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Rules?!<br />

Eric Ramos<br />

Rules provide<br />

people the<br />

freedom not<br />

just to live but to live<br />

in peace with one<br />

another. What if<br />

everybody had the choice whether or not<br />

to stop at red lights? What if there was no<br />

such thing as a speed limit? Though many<br />

people gripe at these types of rules, they<br />

actually keep the roads safe.<br />

Simmering in the hearts of disgruntled<br />

teenagers is this idea: “If I could just have<br />

my freedom, then I would be so much<br />

happier.” Many feel like they have been<br />

given a “raw deal” by others or simply life<br />

in general. Is the “grass really greener”<br />

at the place they think it is? Is there<br />

greater “freedom” away from all these<br />

restrictions?<br />

Well, what is freedom? It is not the<br />

right to do as you please but the liberty<br />

to do as you should. There are two<br />

freedoms—the false, where a man is free<br />

to do what he likes; the true, where a man<br />

is free to do as he ought.<br />

Why do gates lower prior to a train<br />

coming? They are there to keep people<br />

safe from crossing into danger. But there<br />

are always those who ignore the gates to<br />

beat the train. Sometimes people run a<br />

red light without causing any problem;<br />

however, every time a law is broken,<br />

whether there is an accident or not,<br />

there is the possibility of injury or death!<br />

Teenager, remember this when you seek to<br />

escape the structure of authority in search<br />

of “freedom.” Every time you break a rule<br />

in your home or church, you run the risk of<br />

injury or even fatality in your spiritual life.<br />

So how can you, a teen in a good church<br />

and home, guard against the desire to get<br />

out from under “all these rules?” When<br />

mom and dad come to you and demand<br />

TEEN CORNER<br />

that you stop hanging around a certain<br />

person, how can you go from bristling up<br />

like a porcupine to thanking them and<br />

responding in a genuinely appreciative<br />

way? The Bible provides many boundaries<br />

and guards to “fence us in” for protection<br />

from spiritual danger. Here are three:<br />

Boundary No. 1 – Have a clear salvation<br />

testimony.<br />

Salvation provides freedom from the<br />

penalty of sin and fear of the future. Only<br />

you know if you are truly saved. Do not<br />

settle for the word of anyone else when<br />

it comes to your salvation. Do you know<br />

Jesus as your personal Savior? Is your trust<br />

in God or in the faith of mom and dad?<br />

You may have wonderful Christian parents,<br />

but the only way to enter heaven is by the<br />

grace of God, not by the goodness of your<br />

parents. The Bible states in John 8:36, “If<br />

the Son therefore shall make you free, ye<br />

shall be free indeed.”<br />

Salvation is a work of God, not of<br />

man. When you settle this, you are free<br />

from the penalty of sin. This will allow you<br />

to live in liberty. When you doubt your<br />

salvation, you have many uncertainties in<br />

the Christian walk. This, I believe, is where<br />

many young people are in their lives. If<br />

they are unsettled about their position in<br />

Christ, when it comes time for them to<br />

“venture out on their own,” the calls from<br />

this world will confound them. However,<br />

when you know the One Who saved you<br />

from hell and a ruined life, you can be<br />

happy and settled in obedience to Him.<br />

What about your salvation? If you<br />

listen to someone else give their testimony<br />

and have to mimic it when sharing yours,<br />

then you do not have a personal salvation.<br />

(cont., pg 4)<br />

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TEEN CORNER<br />

Rules?!<br />

(cont.)<br />

At salvation, the Spirit of God comes to<br />

live within you and according to Scripture,<br />

liberty is given (II Corinthians 3:17). You<br />

are not given the liberty to do as you<br />

please, but to be a servant once again. You<br />

were once the servant of sin, but salvation<br />

allows you freedom from that sin and the<br />

privilege to serve a new master, the Lord<br />

Jesus Christ.<br />

Boundary No. 2 – Realize who really cares<br />

for you.<br />

Godly parents and Scriptural authority<br />

figures are your true friends. Teenagers<br />

understand that parents will not let a young<br />

child play in the middle of a busy highway<br />

because of the danger involved; yet for<br />

some reason they cannot understand<br />

when a parent tries to keep them from the<br />

dangers of this fleshly world. What is the<br />

difference? Absolutely nothing! But there<br />

are young people who look good at church<br />

and maybe even at home, all the while<br />

their heart screams out for their “space”<br />

and “freedom.” At the core of this attitude<br />

lies this problem—the feeling that they are<br />

missing out on something.<br />

What about the prodigal son in the<br />

book of Luke? He had a good life, but he<br />

thought “the far country,” away from his<br />

father’s guidance, was a freer place. He<br />

thought he was missing out; however,<br />

when he sat in the pigpen enjoying the<br />

“swine buffet,” he realized that back<br />

home was not so bad after all. He was<br />

not missing out on anything worthwhile.<br />

God’s greatest gift, without a doubt, is<br />

salvation; but another of His great gifts to<br />

you is authority (parents and pastors) who<br />

care enough to keep you “fenced in” from<br />

the dangers of this wicked world. Cherish<br />

them! Love them! Spend time with them!<br />

Thank God for them!<br />

Don’t be fooled. The lovers of pleasure<br />

will tell you they care for you. But<br />

understand that on the other side of that<br />

very temporary pleasure of sin are waiting<br />

the real gifts of the devil for you—sorrow,<br />

heartache, pain, disappointments, misery,<br />

disease, depression, worry, loneliness, and<br />

suffering. You will find yourself empty,<br />

just wishing you could have real freedom,<br />

which is found in loving reproof and caring<br />

restriction.<br />

Boundary No. 3 - Recognize that YOU will<br />

not be the exception.<br />

YOU will end up the same way as<br />

everyone else who desires his own way<br />

and runs from what God has placed in his<br />

life. Sometimes young people see another<br />

teen living a miserable life; and although<br />

they are heading down the same path and<br />

are warned about it, they are sure that<br />

the end for them will be much different.<br />

People fall into wicked sin that they have<br />

been warned about over and over again.<br />

They may never have said it, but they have<br />

lived thinking, “I know what is right, but<br />

this sin will not affect me like it did the<br />

others.”<br />

God says “the wages of sin is death.”<br />

This is a fact. Sin’s wages have never been<br />

reduced, and God is not a respecter of<br />

persons. You are not better than anyone<br />

else; and if you choose to seek your<br />

freedom, you will end up in a mess, bound<br />

by the chains of sin.<br />

Do you want lasting happiness? Find<br />

it in the path of the Lord. You will be<br />

spiritually strong and free to live out the<br />

perfect will that God has planned for you.<br />

(Eric Ramos is a staff evangelist for Fairhaven Baptist<br />

College.)<br />

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joy in serving jesus<br />

Every Saturday morning, many members gather for ministry meetings. Pastor Parrish<br />

coordinates those involved with the teen outreach and discipleship ministry Teens on Target.<br />

Pastor Damron gives instruction to our bus route workers while Dr. Mitchell encourages<br />

those canvassing in our Harvesters soulwinning ministry. In other rooms, our nursing home<br />

ministry leaders gather with their workers to prepare for services in a number of local<br />

retirement homes.<br />

After these meetings, church men and women, working together with college students and<br />

teens, spread out across the area in the Lord’s work. Each Saturday evening, our church<br />

men, college guys, and teen boys gather back at church to pray for God’s blessing and power<br />

on the Sunday services.<br />

May we never forget the great joy that comes through serving Jesus!<br />

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DEVOTIONAL<br />

Never Alone<br />

Dave Olson<br />

Are you lonely?<br />

You do not have<br />

to be. Loneliness<br />

occurs when we are<br />

without a friend or<br />

companion. For those<br />

who know Christ as<br />

Savior, they have “a friend that sticketh<br />

closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24).<br />

Though other friends may abandon us, the<br />

Lord promised, “I will never leave thee, nor<br />

forsake thee” (Hebrews 13:5). If you are a<br />

Christian, you are never alone!<br />

Unfortunately, there are times that<br />

we feel alone. Why? Perhaps we have<br />

neglected His presence. Since He never<br />

leaves us, we should never be overcome<br />

with loneliness. However, at times we<br />

begin to feel sorry for ourselves and<br />

indulge in pity parties. As strange as it<br />

sounds, we often want to be alone when<br />

we wallow in self-pity. While the pity<br />

party is in full swing, we may want to invite<br />

others to it, but we plan on doing all the<br />

talking. Jesus sees when things are not<br />

well in your life, and it is His desire to draw<br />

near and console you. He promised, “I will<br />

not leave you comfortless: I will come to<br />

you” (John 14:18). If you are lonely, all you<br />

need to do is acknowledge the One Who is<br />

trying to engage your fellowship.<br />

It is true that losing a loved one leaves<br />

a huge void in one’s life. Grief is normal,<br />

but once again it is meant to turn our<br />

attention to the Lord and strengthen our<br />

relationship with Him. Having a broken<br />

heart is understandable, but don’t forget<br />

that the Savior wants to mend it. He said,<br />

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me…he hath<br />

sent me to heal the brokenhearted” (Luke<br />

4:18). Allow Him to do His job of healing!<br />

When we are bereaved of loved ones,<br />

God steps in and extends special care to<br />

us. The psalmist said, “When my father<br />

and my mother forsake me, then the LORD<br />

will take me up” (Psalm 27:10). Regardless<br />

of who we lose, we must focus on what<br />

we gain. Who could comfort and cheer us<br />

better than the Lord? If you are sad and<br />

lonely, turn at once to the waiting Savior<br />

and enjoy the sweetness of His counsel,<br />

the gentle touch of His Spirit, and the<br />

reassurance of His constant love. Open<br />

your Bible and allow Him to settle your<br />

fears and fill your lonely heart with hope.<br />

The psalmist found God’s Word to be a<br />

source of strength and encouragement.<br />

He offered these words of praise, “Thou<br />

art my hiding place and my shield: I hope in<br />

thy word” (Psalm 119:114). Will you allow<br />

God to fill your heart with hope through<br />

His Word?<br />

Since the Christian has God’s abiding<br />

presence, loneliness is a self-inflicted<br />

emotion. When David found himself<br />

feeling lonely, he sought the Lord. He<br />

prayed, “Turn thee unto me, and have<br />

mercy upon me; for I am desolate and<br />

afflicted” (Psalm 25:16). Allow each pang<br />

of loneliness to trigger a prayer similar<br />

to David’s. Soon, you will have the same<br />

comfort he enjoyed.<br />

Jesus faced times when He was alone.<br />

Shortly before His crucifixion He spoke to<br />

the disciples, “ye shall be scattered, every<br />

man to his own, and shall leave me alone:<br />

and yet I am not alone, because the Father<br />

is with me” (John 16:32). Though He was<br />

forsaken by earthly friends, He understood<br />

that as long as He had the Father, He<br />

was not alone. Then, the most horrible<br />

thing happened to Him. When the sins<br />

of the world were placed upon Him, the<br />

Father forsook Him. He was totally alone.<br />

Because of His sacrifice, no Christian will<br />

ever experience the loss of the Father’s<br />

presence like He did. So, when feeling<br />

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lonely, turn to the One Who has “borne<br />

our griefs, and carried our sorrows” (Isaiah<br />

53:4). Since He has known true loneliness,<br />

He can help you.<br />

Too often we are tempted to dwell on<br />

our losses and bereavements. Another<br />

valuable lesson to learn is that of<br />

thankfulness. In the midst of suffering,<br />

Paul learned to rejoice in the Lord<br />

regardless of his circumstances. He said,<br />

“In every thing give thanks: for this is the<br />

will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you”<br />

(I Thessalonians 5:18). We can be thankful<br />

that we have God’s presence, promises,<br />

protection, and provision. Further, we<br />

can be grateful for the time He gave us to<br />

enjoy those people or blessings that we<br />

have lost. Thank Him for the good times<br />

you had and the memories that you can<br />

continue to enjoy. Once you begin to<br />

thank the Lord, you will find yourself in<br />

His presence—“Enter into his gates with<br />

thanksgiving, and into his courts with<br />

praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his<br />

name” (Psalm 100:4). If you are saved, you<br />

are never alone.<br />

(Dave Olson is the Director of Missions at Fairhaven<br />

Baptist College.)<br />

DON’T FORGET THE SPEECH AND MUSIC COMPETITION!<br />

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FROM THE PASTOR<br />

The Power of Words<br />

Pastor Steve Damron<br />

Death and life<br />

are in the power<br />

of the tongue:<br />

and they that<br />

love it shall eat<br />

the fruit thereof<br />

(Proverbs 18:21).<br />

Speech can be misunderstood. Here<br />

are a few examples when translation<br />

became humorous. These are signs<br />

(translated into English) seen in other<br />

countries:<br />

1. In a Denmark airline office: “We take<br />

your bags and send them in all directions.”<br />

2. On the door of a Moscow hotel room:<br />

“If this is your first visit to Russia, you are<br />

welcome to it.”<br />

3. On a Bucharest hotel elevator: “The<br />

lift is being fixed for the next day. During<br />

that time we regret that you will be<br />

unbearable.”<br />

4. On a restaurant menu in Poland: “Salad<br />

a firm’s own make; Limpid red beet soup<br />

with cheesy dumplings in the form of a<br />

finger; Roasted duck let loose; Beef rashers<br />

beaten up in the country people’s fashion.”<br />

As you can see, someone should have<br />

been a little more careful, or should have<br />

consulted someone else who understood<br />

not just grammar but the vocabulary and<br />

nuances of the English language.<br />

So it is in our lives. We should take a<br />

little more care in the choice of words that<br />

we use both with fellow believers and the<br />

world around us. We must understand that<br />

words do matter in our relationships with<br />

fellow believers and with the community<br />

in which we are going to share Christ.<br />

A great deal of good or harm can result<br />

from how we use our tongues. The Word<br />

of God tells us that “Death and life are<br />

in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs<br />

18:21). While a skilled orator can influence<br />

vast numbers of people, sometimes it is to<br />

their disadvantage. On the other hand,<br />

the tongue of a believer, when under<br />

the control of the indwelling Holy Spirit<br />

(I Corinthians 6:19), can be used to bring<br />

blessing and happiness to many people.<br />

What we say and the things we talk about<br />

most frequently and naturally reveal what<br />

is in our minds and what dominates our<br />

thinking—for as a man “thinketh in his<br />

heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7), and “out<br />

of the abundance of the heart the mouth<br />

speaketh” (Matthew 12:34). The Holy<br />

Spirit led and inspired James to write an<br />

intensely practical epistle in which he<br />

makes several references to the ways we<br />

can use our tongues and the consequences<br />

that come from these actions. I have listed<br />

the following references for your personal<br />

study on this topic: James 1:19,26; James<br />

2:12; James 3:1-12; James 4:11; and James<br />

5:12.<br />

In James 3 we are given both warning<br />

and guidance regarding the use of the<br />

tongue. Believers are told that those<br />

who teach others the Word of God must<br />

teach prayerfully, carefully, and honestly as<br />

they are enabled and empowered by the<br />

Holy Spirit. They will come under severe<br />

condemnation when what they say and<br />

teach is not consistent with their manner<br />

of life (James 3:1).<br />

I would like us to consider some<br />

Scripture from the book of Proverbs<br />

concerning how our speech reveals what<br />

is inside our hearts. For a believer this is<br />

important, but for a pastor it is imperative<br />

to comprehend how words have the ability<br />

either to help build or to destroy members.<br />

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The tongue of the just is as choice silver:<br />

the heart of the wicked is little worth<br />

(Proverbs 10:20).<br />

The thoughts of the wicked are an<br />

abomination to the Lord: but the words of<br />

the pure are pleasant words<br />

(Proverbs 15:26).<br />

The heart of the wise teacheth his mouth,<br />

and addeth learning to his lips<br />

(Proverbs 16:23).<br />

We see from the above verses the<br />

relationship of the tongue with the<br />

heart and thoughts. The tongue that is<br />

continually causing strife and contention<br />

is evidence of a heart that dwells on the<br />

same. The tongue that is vulgar and vile<br />

reveals a mind that is dwelling on impure<br />

thoughts. There is a direct correlation<br />

between one’s thought life and his speech.<br />

You may ask then how an unworthy sinner<br />

can tame the tongue. This is why I included<br />

the third verse in this grouping. Proverbs<br />

16 tells us that a good man teaches his<br />

mouth. He decides to ask for God’s help in<br />

guiding what he says and thinks.<br />

A tongue under control is evidence<br />

of spiritual maturity; and if a believer’s<br />

tongue is controlled by the Holy Spirit,<br />

then every other aspect of his life will<br />

be under the Spirit’s control (v. 2). The<br />

tongue is a comparatively small part of<br />

the human body, but it has great power.<br />

James stresses how a horse is controlled<br />

by a small bit placed in its mouth, a large<br />

ship is maneuvered by a small rudder,<br />

and a small fire can kindle a large, fierce,<br />

uncontrolled blaze (vv. 3-5). Men have<br />

tamed and controlled all kinds of animals<br />

(v. 7), but no man can tame the tongue (v.<br />

8). However, the tongue can be controlled<br />

by the Holy Spirit. When a believer is living<br />

close to God in submission and obedience<br />

to His will as revealed in the Word of God,<br />

his tongue will be used to speak gracious<br />

words of blessing, comfort, and edification.<br />

Let’s consider another set of verses to<br />

further help in this area of the tongue.<br />

The mouth of a righteous man is a well of<br />

life: but violence covereth the mouth of<br />

the wicked (Proverbs 10:11).<br />

A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but<br />

perverseness therein is a breach in the<br />

spirit (Proverbs 15:4).<br />

Let’s continue the thought of the work<br />

of the Holy Spirit and the tongue. I believe<br />

that Proverbs 10:11 is referring to the<br />

regenerating work that the Holy Spirit can<br />

do in a person’s heart through the Word of<br />

God. The righteous man who is teaching<br />

his tongue through the instruments of the<br />

Holy Spirit and the Word of God will find<br />

his tongue a well of life. In John 4:14 and<br />

John 7:38, we find references to the “well<br />

of living water.”<br />

But whosoever drinketh of the water that<br />

I shall give him shall never thirst; but<br />

the water that I shall give him shall be<br />

in him a well of water springing up into<br />

everlasting life (John 4:14).<br />

He that believeth on me, as the scripture<br />

hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers<br />

of living water (John 7:38).<br />

In both instances, Christ refers to the<br />

work of salvation done through Himself,<br />

the Living Water. You can see the word<br />

(cont., pg 10)<br />

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FROM THE PASTOR<br />

The Power of Words<br />

(cont.)<br />

picture. Now let’s tie in the verse in<br />

Proverbs 10. The regenerated man feasting<br />

upon the Word of God and invigorated by<br />

the water of life can experience a well of<br />

life that brings nourishment to others<br />

through his conversations with fellow<br />

believers as well as unbelievers. This is the<br />

glorious privilege of the righteous. Thus, a<br />

mouth supplied from heavenly waters is a<br />

well of life.<br />

As we conclude in this specific area<br />

of our tongue, consider the references<br />

to the tongue in Proverbs 15:1-7: “A soft<br />

answer,” “the tongue of the wise,” “a<br />

wholesome tongue,” “the lips of the wise,”<br />

and “the prayer of the upright.” What a<br />

collection of thoughts about our tongues.<br />

These key words touch one of the greatest<br />

spheres of human influence. If we can rule<br />

our speech by surrendering our tongue<br />

and lips to the keeping of God’s Spirit, we<br />

would save ourselves and others a world of<br />

trouble.<br />

Do your words align with the teaching<br />

of Scripture? Consider the following<br />

verses:<br />

There is that speaketh like the piercings<br />

of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is<br />

health (Proverbs 12:18).<br />

Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it<br />

stoop: but a good word maketh it glad<br />

(Proverbs 12:25).<br />

Pleasant words are as an honeycomb,<br />

sweet to the soul, and health to the bones<br />

(Proverbs 16:24).<br />

Do your words encourage others to<br />

move forward for Christ? Do your words<br />

help lift the heavy load that others are<br />

bearing? It amazes me to see the lack of<br />

empathy that the average Christian has for<br />

fellow believers. We live in a self-consumed<br />

world. How do I know this? Take a look<br />

at the average person’s Facebook page.<br />

They are consumed with sharing pictures<br />

of their dog, their artwork, their cars, their<br />

food choices, and their hobbies. We live in<br />

a “selfie” world where most people believe<br />

that everything revolves around them.<br />

“My happiness” is the most important<br />

thing in this world. Yet, we find more<br />

unhappiness and more despondency than<br />

ever. Why is this? Because happiness is not<br />

found in the “self-life”; instead it is found<br />

in a “self-less” life. We should be looking<br />

for folks to encourage and help. This is<br />

what these verses are trying to encourage<br />

us to do with our speech. Is your tongue an<br />

instrument that promotes pleasantness, or<br />

do your words make others stoop?<br />

Finally, let’s consider two more verses<br />

from the book of Proverbs.<br />

A man hath joy by the answer of his<br />

mouth: and a word spoken in due season,<br />

how good is it! (Proverbs 15:23).<br />

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in<br />

pictures of silver (Proverbs 25:11).<br />

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These two verses reveal the<br />

satisfaction that words can bring to both<br />

the speaker and the hearer. In Proverbs<br />

15:23, the speaker has joy by what he says.<br />

He is not getting his satisfaction by tearing<br />

someone else down or speaking abusively.<br />

The second part of this verse indicates that<br />

a godly speaker knows the correct time<br />

to say things or the time to refrain from<br />

saying something. Having this confidence<br />

produces joy in the heart of the speaker.<br />

We then come to Proverbs 25:11. The<br />

word “fitly” is a very curious one in the<br />

Hebrew. It signifies “wheels.” So what<br />

do “wheels” have to do with speaking? It<br />

deals with the hearer, referring to words<br />

which roll smoothly and pleasantly from<br />

the lips of the speaker to the ears of the<br />

hearer. In this time era, wheels were not<br />

used very often, and most things were<br />

carried on horseback. On some occasions,<br />

makeshift wheels would be needed to<br />

ease the burden of travel. Today, we have<br />

wheels that are light and smooth so that<br />

carrying a burden is easy. The application<br />

for a wise man is to learn to “carry” his<br />

words with ease so that they are not<br />

burdensome to the hearer. The wise<br />

man speaks so that his words do not jar<br />

or shock the hearer. The speaker’s words<br />

should not produce hurt by any harshness<br />

or roughness, nor should his words leave a<br />

painful rut behind in the memory.<br />

Let me close with a great example<br />

of words that were fitly spoken by the<br />

Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord always spoke<br />

graciously; in fact, in John 1:14, He was<br />

said to be “full of grace and truth.” People<br />

did not always agree with Him, and there<br />

were times that folks were riled up at His<br />

speech. However, in John 7:46, we learn<br />

that “never man spake like this man.”<br />

There are other references in the Gospels<br />

that reveal this as well. One such verse is<br />

Luke 4:22 where they “wondered at the<br />

gracious words which proceeded out of his<br />

mouth.” Peter says in his first epistle that<br />

there was no “guile found in his mouth…<br />

when he was reviled, [He] reviled not<br />

again; when he suffered, he threatened<br />

not.” The Lord created all things by the<br />

power of His word (Psalm 33:6-9; Hebrews<br />

11:3). He spoke and a storm ceased (Mark<br />

4:39); He spoke to an unclean spirit and it<br />

came out of a man (Mark 5:8,13); He spoke<br />

and a man was raised from death (John<br />

11:43,44). For those of us who minister<br />

to people, the physical tool that we must<br />

use is our words. Let’s be sure that we<br />

understand the Biblical truth of the power<br />

of words. The Bible still says that we will<br />

give an account for every idle word. Christ<br />

understood that words count, and He used<br />

them wisely to fulfill God’s purpose in His<br />

life—to bring people to salvation.<br />

(Steve Damron is the pastor of Fairhaven Baptist<br />

Church and is president of Fairhaven Baptist College.)<br />

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PASTORS CORNER<br />

Preparing for Special<br />

Meetings<br />

Dr. Randy Starr<br />

As an evangelist, my wife and I travel<br />

from church to church to have a<br />

maximum impact in each church<br />

we schedule. I preach revivals, family<br />

conferences, mission conferences, Bible<br />

conferences, special days, etc. We make<br />

planning checklists available to every<br />

pastor to help him think through steps in<br />

preparation for our meeting to give it the<br />

best chance of success. I encourage pastors<br />

not to plan a lot of activities in the week<br />

before, during, or after the meeting so the<br />

revival will be the focus and people will<br />

be ready to come. However, more often<br />

than not, upon arrival, I find the preacher,<br />

his wife, and people fatigued with all the<br />

activities while the only preparation for<br />

the meeting has been an announcement<br />

and flier. Then, the pastor makes apologies<br />

for the low crowds. The truth is, special<br />

meetings are an afterthought, just a<br />

calendar add-in.<br />

Through detailed planning and<br />

repeated emphasis we make the special<br />

meetings the BIG ACTIVITY of the year.<br />

We can do better in preparing for special<br />

meetings.<br />

Here are some practical ideas to<br />

help. When I pastored, we kicked off<br />

most of our special meetings with a big<br />

day (e.g., Friend Day) on Sunday. We had<br />

two checklists for preparation, one for<br />

the special day and one for the meeting.<br />

Preparation began two months or more<br />

ahead of time with a meeting of leaders to<br />

make assignments and explain the special<br />

nights of the revival so that these leaders<br />

could then motivate their departments to<br />

get visitors to the meeting. I would preach<br />

on revival, enlisting fasting and prayer<br />

for the meeting. We planned prayer<br />

meetings prior to the meeting, decided<br />

whether to have a banner or not, planned<br />

special music for the conference, talked<br />

to the nursery director to remind her to<br />

organize workers nightly for the meetings,<br />

and planned to announce revival meeting<br />

dates in the bulletin weekly. Folks were<br />

asked to clear their schedules to be there<br />

every night. I appointed the secretary to<br />

send out revival fliers to area churches and<br />

preachers, planned the expense check and<br />

offerings to care for the evangelist, and<br />

created a colorful post card to put in the<br />

bulletin that our people could distribute to<br />

neighbors.<br />

As a pastor, five weeks before a<br />

meeting I would distribute blank 3x5 cards<br />

to the congregation asking them to write<br />

the names of people they were burdened<br />

about for salvation. I had them invite<br />

them and pray for them. Four weeks<br />

before the meeting, we chose personal<br />

altar workers and had a meeting to review<br />

what to do and how to complete the<br />

decision card. We reviewed the literature<br />

available to give away. We met with the<br />

ushers in anticipation of an overflow<br />

crowd. Someone was assigned to write<br />

news releases for local radio stations,<br />

newspapers, social media, and our website.<br />

Someone else was assigned to put the<br />

announcement on the church’s outdoor<br />

sign. Posters were printed to put up two<br />

weeks before the meeting at laundromats,<br />

restaurants, stores, etc., all over the area.<br />

All of these required pastoral approval.<br />

Three weeks before the meeting, we<br />

had a sign-up list for folks to fast for the<br />

meeting. Two weeks before, as the pastor,<br />

I would email all area pastors a reminder<br />

of the services. One week before, I<br />

announced that the evangelist would have<br />

a book table each night. We had someone<br />

set up the tables before he arrived and<br />

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someone to help carry in his supplies.<br />

There was also a person assigned to care<br />

for him upon arrival whether it involved<br />

taking him to a motel, getting him settled<br />

in our prophet’s chamber, or directing him<br />

to the RV spot. Finally, as pastor, I planned<br />

time to spend with the evangelist early—<br />

maybe a meal with our entire staff before<br />

the meeting began.<br />

Here are suggestions to increase<br />

attendance each night: (1) Have the junior<br />

choir sing one night. Grandparents and<br />

parents can’t resist coming. (2) Have the<br />

church choir sing one night. (3) Have a<br />

free meal 90 minutes before the evening<br />

service to get everyone there (or maybe<br />

the church can provide the meat and drink,<br />

and each family bring a dish or two). (4)<br />

Have special nights such as Youth night,<br />

Coworker & Neighbor night, Relatives<br />

night, Prophecy night, etc., AND (5) pray,<br />

pray, pray.<br />

Churches either prepare for success<br />

or defeat. They are in earnest to touch<br />

as many lives as possible with a revival,<br />

or they just let it happen (Calvinistic in<br />

thought). No, we can’t organize revival,<br />

but we CAN organize the elements to give<br />

us the best chance of success by getting<br />

more people there. If these elements<br />

aren’t there, it won’t do the people any<br />

good.*<br />

Brethren, for the sake of souls and<br />

God’s stirring of His children, let’s get<br />

serious about the preparation for our<br />

special meetings.<br />

*Pastor, if you want more information,<br />

contact me for the password to the<br />

“Pastor’s Planning” section of our website.<br />

(Dr. Randy Starr is a local church evangelist sent out<br />

from Mt. Zion Baptist Church in Brogue, Pennsylvania.)<br />

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MUSIC<br />

The Telltale Timbre<br />

Missionary Bill Hardecker (‘99)<br />

Music is a combination of sounds<br />

composed in such a way as<br />

to produce beauty in melody,<br />

harmony, rhythm, and timbre (character<br />

or quality of sound). Colossians 3:16 says,<br />

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly<br />

in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing<br />

one another in psalms and hymns and<br />

spiritual songs, singing with grace in your<br />

hearts to the Lord.” Godly music packages<br />

Bible doctrines in memorable format.<br />

Psalms (i.e., the Old Testament Psalms) add<br />

depth of expression to both our singing<br />

and prayers. Hymns are songs of praise.<br />

Spiritual songs refer to musical expressions<br />

that are distinct from worldliness.<br />

Contemporary Christian Music<br />

proponents disagree that such a distinction<br />

exists: “We hold these truths to be selfevident,<br />

that all music was created equal,<br />

that no instrument or style of music is in<br />

itself evil–that the diversity of musical<br />

expression which flows forth from man<br />

is but one evidence of the boundless<br />

creativity of our Heavenly Father.” [The<br />

Christian Rocker’s Creed, CCM Magazine,<br />

1988, pg. 12]<br />

Harold Best (Dean Emeritus of Music at<br />

Wheaton College) said, “There is nothing<br />

un-Christian or anti-Christian about any<br />

kind of music.” [Music Through the Eyes<br />

of Faith, 1993, page 52] He adds on page<br />

59, “The Christian is free from the moral<br />

nothingness of music.”<br />

Al Menconi (non-denominational<br />

speaker) said the following: “Which style<br />

[of music] is best: mellow, spicy (upbeat,<br />

contemporary, rock), or somewhere in<br />

between? Again, the answer is that one is<br />

no more correct than another. Each style<br />

of music is simply different. A person’s<br />

choice of music depends on his cultural<br />

background, maturity and age, the music<br />

he grew up listening to, and his personal<br />

tastes.” [Staying in Tune, 1996, page 161]<br />

Charlie Peacock (singer, songwriter,<br />

record producer, Dove Award winner, and<br />

Grammy nominee) said, “We must respect<br />

all forms of musical and lyrical artistry,<br />

recognizing that God delights in and<br />

makes intelligent use of the diversity of His<br />

creation.” [At the Crossroads, 1999, page<br />

202]<br />

Rick Warren (Senior Pastor of<br />

Saddleback Valley Community Church,<br />

Orange County, California) said, “I’m often<br />

asked what I would do differently if I could<br />

start Saddleback over. My answer is this:<br />

From the first day of the new church, I’d put<br />

more energy and money into a first-class<br />

music ministry that matched our target. In<br />

the first years of Saddleback, I made the<br />

mistake of underestimating the power of<br />

music.…(page 279) Churches also need<br />

to admit that no particular style of music<br />

is ‘sacred.’ What makes a song sacred is<br />

its message. Music is nothing more than<br />

an arrangement of notes and rhythms;<br />

it’s the words that make a song spiritual.<br />

There is no such thing as ‘Christian music,’<br />

only Christian lyrics. (page 281) The sacred<br />

message of a song may be communicated<br />

in a wide variety of musical styles. What we<br />

discovered is that 96 percent of our people<br />

said they listen to middle-of-the-road adult<br />

contemporary music…for the first time<br />

in history, there exists a universal music<br />

style that can be heard in every country<br />

of the world. It is called contemporary<br />

pop/rock…. After surveying who we were<br />

reaching, we made the strategic decision to<br />

stop singing hymns in our seeker services.<br />

Within a year of deciding what would be<br />

‘our sound,’ Saddleback exploded with<br />

growth. I will admit that we have lost<br />

hundreds of potential members because of<br />

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the style of music Saddleback uses. On the<br />

other hand, we have attracted thousands<br />

more because of our music.” [The Purpose<br />

Driven Church, Zondervan, 1995, page<br />

285]<br />

The Bible teaches us that there is a<br />

“distinction in the sounds” (I Corinthians<br />

14:7). It mentions a trumpet giving an<br />

“uncertain sound” in verse 8. The music<br />

produced must be intelligible so that<br />

instructions may be given to either charge<br />

or retreat. In Exodus 32:17-18, Joshua<br />

mistook idolatrous worship for a “noise<br />

of war” mainly because of how they were<br />

singing. Isaiah 23:15 reports that Tyre shall<br />

“sing as an harlot.” This is a sensual song.<br />

In Ezekiel 33:32, the Bible identifies “a<br />

very lovely song,” “a pleasant voice,” and<br />

a skillful instrumentalist. Similarly, spoken<br />

language contains “evil communications”<br />

(I Corinthians 15:33), “corrupt<br />

communication” (Ephesians 4:29), and<br />

“filthy communication” (Colossians 3:8).<br />

The Bible assumes that we know this. The<br />

timbre identifies godly music from worldy<br />

music.<br />

Howard Marshall McLuhan (educator,<br />

and literary critic) pithily said: “The<br />

medium is the message.”<br />

The message resides in the music.<br />

Music can add, reinforce, or contradict<br />

the lyrics. It has the capacity to transform<br />

mood, behavior, a church’s historic and<br />

doctrinal positions; and it can even change<br />

the perception of who God is (cf. Romans<br />

1:23).<br />

Rick Warren said, “Traditional churches<br />

think I’m changing the message, but all I’m<br />

doing is changing the method.” [A Look<br />

at Pastor and Author Rev. Rick Warren,<br />

Dateline Alabama, March 25, 2005]<br />

But the truth is when the music is<br />

changed, so is the message.<br />

(Bill (‘99) and Marcia (Starr ‘03) Hardecker are<br />

currently serving as missionaries in the Philippines,<br />

along with their two boys, W. T. and Joseph.)<br />

UPCOMING EVENTS<br />

www.hardecker.com<br />

November 6-9<br />

Empowered Youth<br />

December 12<br />

Glory of Christmas Concert<br />

February 9<br />

Mother/Daughter Banquet<br />

March 9<br />

Men’s BBQ<br />

March 15-16<br />

Academy Basketball and<br />

Volleyball Tournament<br />

April 22-26<br />

Preaching Conference &<br />

College Days<br />

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