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you want to leave empowered with FIVE<br />

new and meaningful relationships.<br />

Understand What People<br />

Want (and that’s you too)<br />

We are all human animals and basically<br />

want the same thing. When we enter<br />

a new relationship (networking) we<br />

will ask… What can this person do for<br />

me? Can they entertain me? Can they<br />

help me get done what I want to get<br />

done? Do I feel at home and attracted to<br />

them? Can I get some kind of intimacy?<br />

It’s what they are looking for. It’s what<br />

you are looking for too. Don’t take it<br />

personally if people don’t respond to<br />

your overtures – not everyone likes the<br />

same kind of music, Star Trek quotes,<br />

arthouse movies, strong cheese etc…<br />

Don’t take it too seriously<br />

Smile and make friends. It’s not a<br />

competition. Successful and powerful<br />

networking is just about are chatting,<br />

meeting new friends and having you fun.<br />

If someone is rude, they are probably<br />

insecure, bluffing it, tired and just<br />

generally being human. Let it go.<br />

Finally, remember we are<br />

all in this game together<br />

The industry grows the more we<br />

collaborate and help each other. Offer<br />

help and you will receive it. Be humble<br />

and you will be rewarded with genuine<br />

relationships. Be bold and courageous<br />

and you will find success.<br />

See you at the bar!<br />

Networking is not right or wrong, it’s just<br />

about people connecting. Often we are<br />

a tad insecure and a little tipsy too. If you<br />

don’t find what you are looking for, smile<br />

and move on with effortless grace. There<br />

are plenty more people to meet.<br />

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