10.07.2017 Views

OSAmag81

You also want an ePaper? Increase the reach of your titles

YUMPU automatically turns print PDFs into web optimized ePapers that Google loves.

T h e O l d S t a t i o n e r - N o 8 1<br />

1959 was heavily involved in the merger<br />

with Cow & Gate. In 1960 he became<br />

Group Accountant of the newly formed<br />

company, Unigate. Various promotions<br />

followed and culminated in his<br />

appointment as Unigate Company<br />

Secretary in 1975, a position he held until<br />

his retirement in 1983.<br />

During the 60s, 70s and 80s George and<br />

Mollie started to travel abroad for holidays.<br />

They preferred very hot Mediterranean<br />

locations especially the Greek islands, in<br />

particular Antipaxos where they went for<br />

many years. They also travelled to the<br />

United States to stay with tennis club<br />

friends who had moved there. Some of the<br />

antics that they got up to whilst there are<br />

probably best not to be aired, just to say<br />

that George was almost arrested for<br />

consorting with a hooker who in fact<br />

turned out to be his own wife! In 1973<br />

George became a grandfather at the<br />

ridiculously young age of 49 and was<br />

chuffed to bits to welcome his<br />

granddaughter Teresa into the world.<br />

George was a very keen gardener and<br />

loved walking especially with the three<br />

dogs he and Mollie owned over a number<br />

of years. In 1998 it was becoming apparent<br />

that George required a replacement hip<br />

but before this happened he had his third<br />

brush with death when he suffered a<br />

pulmonary embolism in his lung. He was<br />

rushed to Barnet General where prompt<br />

action saved his life. Six months later he<br />

had recovered sufficiently to enable him to<br />

have that replacement hip from which he<br />

unfortunately took a long time to recover.<br />

In 2004 his beloved Mollie suffered a fall<br />

and broke her hip. They were however,<br />

able to celebrate their diamond wedding<br />

anniversary together, albeit round her bed<br />

in Finchley Memorial Hospital. Sadly 6<br />

months after that she died. George decided<br />

that he wished to remain living in the<br />

home he and Mollie had shared and there<br />

he stayed until October 2011. During this<br />

period his great-granddaughters were<br />

born, Evie in 2007 and Molly 2009, yes<br />

another Molly and nothing gave him more<br />

pleasure than to have them visit their<br />

Grampy in Totteridge. By then it had<br />

become apparent to George that he was no<br />

longer able to fully look after himself and<br />

he asked to come and live with Lyn and<br />

Mike in Marlow.<br />

This he duly did for almost 2 years before<br />

sadly he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.<br />

As his illness grew worse it became clear<br />

that he needed more specialist care than<br />

Lyn and Mike could provide, so a place was<br />

found for him at Sir Aubrey Ward House, a<br />

Back row: John Hudson; ?Name; Gary Dayton; Bill<br />

Mountford: Robbie Robertson;George Cotterell; Joe<br />

Johnson. Front Row: John Taylor ;Frank Tree; Peter<br />

Bullen; Eric Van Emden; Frank Abbott.<br />

care home in Marlow and this is where<br />

George spent the final 15 months of his life.<br />

All the family would visit George frequently<br />

and he loved all the drawings and notes that<br />

Evie and Molly would make for him. These<br />

he kept in his room and during their visits<br />

he would always open up his biscuit tin for<br />

them or give them a chocolate or two from<br />

his bottom drawer. It was also lovely that<br />

some of his former friends from Totteridge<br />

would visit him from time to time even<br />

though George’s Alzheimer’s must have<br />

made these visits very difficult for them. As<br />

this terrible debilitating illness progressed<br />

he became more and more insular, rarely<br />

leaving his room except at mealtimes.<br />

However, he remained extremely cheerful<br />

and content in his own little world. This was<br />

a blessing and a great comfort to those who<br />

loved him. The end came suddenly and he<br />

did not suffer for which his family will be<br />

eternally grateful. George was a kind and<br />

generous man a true gentleman especially to<br />

the people he cared for most. He was a<br />

loving husband, father, grandfather and<br />

great-grandfather.<br />

He will be greatly missed.<br />

35

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!