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T h e O l d S t a t i o n e r - N o 8 1<br />
1959 was heavily involved in the merger<br />
with Cow & Gate. In 1960 he became<br />
Group Accountant of the newly formed<br />
company, Unigate. Various promotions<br />
followed and culminated in his<br />
appointment as Unigate Company<br />
Secretary in 1975, a position he held until<br />
his retirement in 1983.<br />
During the 60s, 70s and 80s George and<br />
Mollie started to travel abroad for holidays.<br />
They preferred very hot Mediterranean<br />
locations especially the Greek islands, in<br />
particular Antipaxos where they went for<br />
many years. They also travelled to the<br />
United States to stay with tennis club<br />
friends who had moved there. Some of the<br />
antics that they got up to whilst there are<br />
probably best not to be aired, just to say<br />
that George was almost arrested for<br />
consorting with a hooker who in fact<br />
turned out to be his own wife! In 1973<br />
George became a grandfather at the<br />
ridiculously young age of 49 and was<br />
chuffed to bits to welcome his<br />
granddaughter Teresa into the world.<br />
George was a very keen gardener and<br />
loved walking especially with the three<br />
dogs he and Mollie owned over a number<br />
of years. In 1998 it was becoming apparent<br />
that George required a replacement hip<br />
but before this happened he had his third<br />
brush with death when he suffered a<br />
pulmonary embolism in his lung. He was<br />
rushed to Barnet General where prompt<br />
action saved his life. Six months later he<br />
had recovered sufficiently to enable him to<br />
have that replacement hip from which he<br />
unfortunately took a long time to recover.<br />
In 2004 his beloved Mollie suffered a fall<br />
and broke her hip. They were however,<br />
able to celebrate their diamond wedding<br />
anniversary together, albeit round her bed<br />
in Finchley Memorial Hospital. Sadly 6<br />
months after that she died. George decided<br />
that he wished to remain living in the<br />
home he and Mollie had shared and there<br />
he stayed until October 2011. During this<br />
period his great-granddaughters were<br />
born, Evie in 2007 and Molly 2009, yes<br />
another Molly and nothing gave him more<br />
pleasure than to have them visit their<br />
Grampy in Totteridge. By then it had<br />
become apparent to George that he was no<br />
longer able to fully look after himself and<br />
he asked to come and live with Lyn and<br />
Mike in Marlow.<br />
This he duly did for almost 2 years before<br />
sadly he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.<br />
As his illness grew worse it became clear<br />
that he needed more specialist care than<br />
Lyn and Mike could provide, so a place was<br />
found for him at Sir Aubrey Ward House, a<br />
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care home in Marlow and this is where<br />
George spent the final 15 months of his life.<br />
All the family would visit George frequently<br />
and he loved all the drawings and notes that<br />
Evie and Molly would make for him. These<br />
he kept in his room and during their visits<br />
he would always open up his biscuit tin for<br />
them or give them a chocolate or two from<br />
his bottom drawer. It was also lovely that<br />
some of his former friends from Totteridge<br />
would visit him from time to time even<br />
though George’s Alzheimer’s must have<br />
made these visits very difficult for them. As<br />
this terrible debilitating illness progressed<br />
he became more and more insular, rarely<br />
leaving his room except at mealtimes.<br />
However, he remained extremely cheerful<br />
and content in his own little world. This was<br />
a blessing and a great comfort to those who<br />
loved him. The end came suddenly and he<br />
did not suffer for which his family will be<br />
eternally grateful. George was a kind and<br />
generous man a true gentleman especially to<br />
the people he cared for most. He was a<br />
loving husband, father, grandfather and<br />
great-grandfather.<br />
He will be greatly missed.<br />
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