Faith It Until You Make It!

FAITH IT
UNTIL YOU
MAKE IT
B Y T I F F A N Y D Y H R

THE MEANING OF
LIFE
IS TO FIND YOUR
GIFT
THE PURPOSE OF
LIFE
IS TO GIVE IT AWAY
PABLO PICASSO
©TiffanyBLU2017

JUST A NOTE
Do you ever find yourself wondering what
is your true purpose and calling in life?
When our storms come we feel as if though
we cannot bust through to our passions
and our real purpose. This e-book will help
you with insights to face the challenges of
everyday life and those massive storms
that seem irreparable you have weathered.
You see several years ago I found myself
lost.... unhappy..... abused....controlled......
divorced.... broke.....I was a mess. I felt
unworthy of life.
I may of always looked like I had it all
together... but I was just waiting to
hopefully make it through the day. I was
hoping I could be salvaged and uncovered.
This was many nights of tears..... and
fears...... and praying to figure this
emptiness out.
When my divine purpose revealed itself to
me, I was able to walk in a light on this
planet like never before. (OF COURSE IN
BLU SHOES) I grew into my real self. The
woman God created me to be.
NOW-------I am FOUND..... HAPPY.....
LOVED..... FREE......STABLE AND
FINANCIALLY SUCCESSFUL. I want you to
know that whatever you're going through
(NO MATTER HOW TOUGH IT IS) or (HOW
LONG IT TAKES) its a pathway to your
ultimate breakthrough. It's time to start
living the incredible life you deserve.
©TiffanyBLU2017

FAITH IT UNTIL
YOU MAKE IT
1
REMEMBER YOU
ARE POWERFUL
2
EMBRACING
YOUR LIFE
3
SHIFT YOUR
ENERGY
4
EMPOWERING
YOURSELF WITH
THE RIGHT
TOOLS
5
CHOOSING FAITH
OVER FEAR
©TiffanyBLU2017

YOU ARE POWERFUL
REMEMBER
of the times, we get lost in our very own world, in this very short life. Sad, isn’t it?
Most
get so caught up in our own web that we forget just how powerful we are and how
We
potential we really poses. We humans have a tendency to underestimate
much
There are very few of us, who are completely in tune with their strengths and
ourselves.
they can achieve through a mere awareness and dedication. One wonders, how
what
this world will be, when all of us discover our hidden energies and talents to
successful
them for good.
utilize
remember at one point in my life I just felt like I was wondering around like a living
I
person. Traveling most of the time, sleeping in hotels, I seemed to have lost the
dead
meaning of life. Earning a livelihood is necessary for survival, but we should devote
true
to ourselves as well. My suitcase was basically where I lived; life was literally just
time
me by. Despite the flyer miles I was racking up, I was lost, unhappy and
passing
I missed the comfort of my beautiful home that I was paying for without ever
unfulfilled.
when your life is on
course with its
purpose, you are
most powerful
really enjoying it.
©TiffanyBLU2017

look back at my many failures…my divorce, the loss of the company I built with my own
I
everything that mattered to me had gone. But what for? It took me most of
sweat;
twenties to realize that I wasn’t living as who I was meant to be. Too much inner pain,
my
and regret forced me to find my true purpose of life. All of that emptiness I felt at
tremor
time made me the person I am today, the person I always thrived to be. I learned the
the
lesson that my circumstances don’t have to be my destiny. So I tapped into the
ultimate
is more difficult than bringing about change in our lives. It’s hard, it’s really hard, so
Nothing
that most times people give up on the idea of it. But it’s not impossible. Imagine that
hard
habit you have been trying to stop for so many years now…is it the habit of
bad
Is it smoking? Lying? Overreacting? Spending more than you earn? It is a
procrastination?
fact that people struggle to change even a single habit. Why? Because of the
well-known
of determination and self-confidence.
lack
I finally took the leap of faith by leaving my not so comfort zone and making the much
So
change in my life. This new person I became or let me say still becoming, is a
needed
come true for me. Here is one thing that you need to know about making a change,
dream
always very scary. Ask every successful person in this world and they will tell you that
it’s
were very terrified while taking the decisive step that brought them to where they are
they
You just never know what’s waiting for you on the other side of the door.
today.
started to heal myself from that world of defeat, with sheer hard work and determination
I
find my purpose. I learned that there is so much more to life than what we can ever
to
My pain and my failures were pushing me to my purpose. At the time I didn't
imagine.
it but through defeat I learned the true meaning of power. It was then I had an
understand
moment. I heard this voice loud and clear telling myself “Let go and give yourself
“aha”
to be who you truly are and give this to the world in everything you do, at all
permission
those difficult steps, I realized that more faith that I had, the more confidence I
Taking
to see in my decisions and actions. This helped me to frame my course of action for
started
rest of my life. It was through those rough and painful times that I saw the power that
the
all poses within. It all starts with inner self belief. Let me ask you how much do you truly
we
power within and I acted!
costs, no exceptions. This is your journey to living an extraordinary life.”
believe in yourself?
©TiffanyBLU2017

is your purpose? This was a question I asked myself a few years ago. Answering it
What
my life instantly. It’s hard to know where you’re going unless you know who you
changed
– your truth. To create your life blu-print, first identify and prioritize your values.
are
so will give clarity of what you need in life as opposed to what you simply want.
Doing
working with and observing some very successful people in life, I noticed a
From
theme that I have adopted for myself. It’s important to realize that no one has
common
fallen while stepping out on faith. Self-doubt is crippling and will cause you to live
ever
your potential. To believe in yourself sometimes is no easy feat however, you
beneath
the power to overcome. The simple answer of how to unlock your inner power is
have
"stop resisting".
simply
may seem strange but honestly the only reason why you aren't living your dream
It
is because "you" (the mind part of you) is resisting allowing yourself to manifest
reality,
Believe it or not most people get so caught up in the rut of life....... they end up
it.
to create a life. The life they have always dreamed of. Are you really where
forgetting
challenge you to evaluate the many verticals of your life and how that's working for
I
now. What is pushing you to your powerful purpose? I believe that your inner power
you
just waiting to be unlocked and explored. If what you are doing now isn't working for
is
don't you think its time you made a change?
you,
you thought you would be in life? Where do you see yourself five years from now?
©TiffanyBLU2017

Reflection
What is the one thing that makes you special
and unique? What drives your passion?
If money was not a constraint, what would you
be doing with your time?
What disbelief do you have about yourself that
might be keeping you trapped?
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this newfound power I found in my life. I had to wake up and start embracing the
With
even if wasn’t what I wanted.... right then... right there, I accepted myself. I had
moment,
learn to make the most of this reboot of my life. Learning myself.... living as a woman
to
full faith and really being my true self. Looking back today I am floored with how my
in
and hardships proved to be beneficial for me. During my travels I was able to
difficulties
many people from all over the world that I am still connected to and help today. I
meet
have never met them if I hadn’t been in those situations and I certainly never
would
that I would be influencing their lives as much as I am doing now.
dreamt
the best of every situation has taught me that everyday can be wonderful...
Embracing
matter what the circumstances are. I didn't say perfect... but you can always find the
no
Embrace the current
season of your life
-Gabrielle blair
EMBRACING YOUR LIFE
good or the great in everything.
©TiffanyBLU2017

do this with all areas of my life and I have found that by coming to the table with a
I
mindset, you will start to rub off on those around you. I work with many
positive
business personnel and I embrace every opportunity to live as a light and as
successful
inspiration.It is something that has just become a way of life for me.
an
you have to be a little selfish. I am always volunteering to go and do and
Sometimes
it can be exhausting at times. Being highly selective with your time will keep all
honestly
the chaos in flow. To greatly serve others and your purpose you have to take time for
of
Being in your best light keeps you authentic and refreshed to do all of the
yourself.
you are called to do. Surround yourself with people that aspire to achieve great
things
in life. This way, you are automatically challenged every day to be better and to
things
can be zero space for your ego. After every shameful setback or rejection, you
There
overcome your pride to stay in the game. By getting rid of your ego, you will be
must
to defeat your fears to become more resilient and emotionally strong.
able
is up to you to sow whatever you want in your life, because you are going to be the
It
to reap it. If you are looking to achieve something bigger in the world, then don't be
one
to go for it.
afraid
up, give it your best and you will surely achieve what you deserve. Hard work really
Get
off, but most importantly following your heart will leave you ultimately fulfilled.
pays
really have nothing to lose by being yourself. If you don't embrace the moment or
You
opportunities that come your way, you are only missing out on your something big.
the
wake up to those around you.... those you meet and make sure that you aren't blind
So
the opportunities that present themselves before you.
to
tell me all the time.... but Tiffany my life is a hot mess. Trust me I have been there
People
I also went through all of that pain of never being able to succeed at life. ..... Things
and
change; all that is required is the right mindset and tools to help you along the way.
will
your life does not mean staying complacent.... It means working through the
Embracing
chase your dreams relentlessly.
tough times to bring your inner self out for the better.
©TiffanyBLU2017

that the life is not perfect..... But you can make the best of it by changing
Remember
way you think and how you treat it and the others around you.
the
never know who you may be able to help or who you will learn from.
You
and appreciate yourself. Enjoy being who you are and never wear the fake
Accept
of what you want to be. If you stay true to yourself, you will be able to achieve
cover
dreams and go beyond them.
your
very clear in what you want and stay focused on it.
Be
look forward to go and get involved in your ideas with all your heart and
Passionately
Be genuinely grateful for everyday, opportunities, and the people that you have
energy.
your life. Ensure that you have the right attitude to enjoy the better things in life. Be
in
sincere, not only towards yourself, but also towards your main purpose and goal in life.
©TiffanyBLU2017

Reflection
What’s your heart telling you to
do?
are you being real with yourself or are you
just getting by?
What steps do you take in your life today as
pursuing your passions?
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are what we think, what we feel, and what we create ourselves to be. We humans
We
always caged by our thinking and our mindset. Everyone has the right to be
are
and happy. Where you put your positive energy is where your path leads. If
successful
are constantly focused on the negative of life you are going to have a tough time
you
your true potential. In order to experience positive thoughts, you must rephrase
unlocking
semantics.
your
you feel tired? You don’t have to say you do. Instead, why not say ‘I should take a
Do
to get some fresh air’. Stop complaining and you will feel a lot better about
walk
Don’t use words such as ‘cannot’, instead, you should say, "When I can…" Also
yourself.
using words such as "hopefully" or "maybe" or "one day," because when you use
avoid
words you are really saying, "I'd like to, but I can't." You are just postponing your
those
success. Who knows what you could have achieved, if you hadn’t been
own
A shift in energy is
always followed by
a change in reality
-Panache Desai
SHIFT YOUR ENERGY
procrastinating about taking a particular step.
©TiffanyBLU2017

of, "I hate it when things are like this", try, "I prefer it when…" This is not as easy
Instead
it seems, and you may forget this from time to time. But if you keep on trying to
as
some words in your speech, you'll surely see progress. This may not seem like
change
but believe me, it pays off. A friend of mine has been telling me for 15 years that
much,
hates his job. Over the time, he has gradually found himself getting more of what he
he
to avoid.
wants
you go to sleep at night, appreciate yourself for a great day. When you wake up,
Before
first words in your head should be something like, ‘today will be fantastic’.
the
something tries to spoil your mood during the day, be calm, breathe, smile
Whenever
get yourself back up with a few positive thoughts about yourself. Tell yourself that
and
feel good, that you are happy, healthy and that you feel amazing. Notice how your
you
level changes. It really does work! You just have to believe its effectiveness.
energy
your circle with others that are seeking something more. Your company is a huge
Fill
in your life and your own world. It’s much easier to pull people down than it is
influence
your energy is easy once you know how to adapt yourself with the constant
Shifting
in life keeping a positive mind set and attitude. Visualize your happy and
changes
life. Even if your aren't where you want to be, you need to see yourself for what
healthy
are becoming. Making a change in your energy shift becomes habit when find out
you
I was going through the tough times in my life, I was at the point of not even
When
to take pictures for memories.. I didn’t like to talk about my issues with
wanting
I was running away from my life. That may seem to be the right option at that
anybody.
but it hurts your life the most. By consulting with your others, you are opening ways
time,
to pull them up... when you find yourself in that situation...just RUN.
the right path to making a change in your attitude towards life.
and possibilities to any possible solutions to your problems.
©TiffanyBLU2017

I love where I stand and all of the wonderful places that I visit. I have become a
Today
and a model representative for my company. I can't tell you how
spokesperson
my first photo session was. Thank goodness my photographer is the best. I'll
awkward
forget the first photo she sent to me. I couldn't believe that I showed such
never
I remember asking her if that was me... and she said yeah that's an
radiance.
woman I see. I totally cried because I was unaware of my own talents. In
empowering
moment I was beginning to see the woman that God was creating me to be, not
that
on the outside, but most importantly on the inside. My attitude towards life
only
changed, it was a clear energy shift and I haven't looked back.
©TiffanyBLU2017

Reflection
What change do you need to make in your
environment to enjoy your life to the fullest?
How much more time are you going to stay in the
same old way of life?
What actions are you going to begin going in the
right direction?
©TiffanyBLU2017

the last year I have had many instances of seeing people light up when they
During
the right tools to achieve a goal. When presented with the right opportunity and
have
they act to achieve things that they always had longed for. It really is
circumstances,
overwhelming feeling to be able to provide and help someone when they need
an
that you have to offer. Knowing that just by sharing your knowledge with
something
and help them succeed at life is a priceless feeling. That surge of emotions you
them,
while being of assistance to someone, cannot be explained in words. During many
get,
as an entrepreneur, working in the corporate world, I have been blessed to
years
have many natural talents, but too often, we underestimate ourselves. We
We
what we can achieve by simply taping into our hidden powers. We think
underestimate
Even the simplest of
tools can empower
people to do great
things
EMPOWERING YOURSELF WITH THE RIGHT TOOLS
experience wins in a variety of industries.
of those resources as irrelevant to us, but they benefit us the most.
©TiffanyBLU2017

course, we constantly need to master new skills, but we already have an innate
Of
set of skills that make us natural leaders. By simply tapping into these skills and
inner
them in a slightly different way, you can empower yourself to do anything and
using
you want. The key is tapping into that energy and ultimately pursuing your
everything
are natural communicators, a skill that is vital for success. Have you ever noticed
Women
a mother just knows how important it is to talk to her children? By using words and
how
that are appropriate for their age and experience level, she leaves strong
phrases
on their way of thinking. This same skill, slightly adjusted, works perfectly in the
imprints
of us have different experiences to make us realize that it is time for us to better
Many
Maybe you want to up your game to qualify for a promotion, or maybe you
ourselves.
to be better for your family. You even may want to be better to save your
want
No matter what the reason is, in order to receive more positive opportunities
relationship.
live in a world where it is very easy to feel isolated. A world that can easily make us
We
that we don't meet its expectations or standards to do certain things. But it is within
feel
power to change that. If you feel nervous or afraid of doing things that you always
our
to do, it’s just your own confidence level and mindset that is holding you back.
wanted
again, it all starts off with yourself and how much you estimate your actual worth
Once
be. If negative thoughts linger in your mind about yourself and your life, then you will
to
receive negative results. But if you change those thoughts within, then you start to
only
the world around you.
change
I started working with the right tools, I started to see my life change in leaps and
Once
I was able to unlock a desirable attraction in my career. Grow my online
bounds.
and I have the confidence to reach for what I want and I am living my life on my
business
Working remotely enables me to have the world at my feet. What do you want for
terms.
dreams!
business world. I have mastered being a chameleon in any situation.
and a better life, you need to think wisely and act accordingly.
your career? What tools do you need to get you where you want to go?
©TiffanyBLU2017

taste of winning makes us hungry, believe me it’s addictive. Achieving success is one
The
the best experiences in life. The taste of victory gives our pride a boost, you suddenly
of
to feel that you have won against everyone else in the world and that you are now
start
best. Once you tap into that natural feeling of wanting to win all the time, there is
the
developed a plan I like to call Tiffany BLU-Printing. It has helped me lay out my goals by
I
a plan and ultimately enabling me to take the actions to make those goals a
developing
I need to get to where I want to go. My BLU-print took my dreams and helped me
reality.
establish a path to reach my goals. I use it in all aspects of my life, from personal
to
to business goals. Your dreams are within your reach…you just need the right tools
goals
get there.
to
no going back, you will always want more and more success.
©TiffanyBLU2017

Reflection
What tools do you think you need to help achieve
your ultimate goals?
How can you get the help/resources you need?
if you had the right tools, are you willing to do
whatever it takes to live the life you have always
wanted?
©TiffanyBLU2017

all want great success, but without knowing your goals, you can be holding yourself
We
Do you know what you really want in life? Every single day we are ‘running’
back.
our dreams. Every day we are moving forward, a step further from where we
towards
yesterday, a step closer to success that we even begin to smell it. But most of the
were
we focus a bit too much on our goals. We don’t pause for a minute to figure out
times,
we crave success so bad? By not knowing the answer to this question, we are
why
detrimental to achieving your dreams. Why do you want to succeed? What’s
undoubtedly
reason? Why do you need to make your dreams a reality? Is it really so important and
the
it is, then WHY? What is your desire and purpose? How do you step out in faith and
if
fear away from yourself?
keep
have all been there and all of us can have fears. One of my biggest fears was
We
out of my comfort zone. If I go somewhere I don't know who would I make
jumping
Faith & fear both
demand you believe in
something you cannot
see. You choose!
— BOB PROCTOR
CHOOSING FAITH OVER FEAR
friends with... starting over in any situation can be scary.
©TiffanyBLU2017

I could see myself taking that leap of faith all of my worries went away. The fear
Once
gone. I had become too comfortable by just working for someone else. This was
was
who I was meant to be. This was not the fearless girl that dreamed big. No this was
not
girl that forgot about those dreams. So I had to get away for a bit and remind
the
I could clearly see my life in front of me with no boundaries, I was able to
Once
things that were holding me back from really living the life I dreamed of living
eliminate
many years. To get what we want, we must not only come up with a road map to
for
it, we must be ready to act. Basically, we must be willing to walk the talk. The
getting
between a dreamer and an achiever couldn’t be more obvious. Don’t let your
difference
remain just dreams forever.
dreams
is it that you really want? Be clear with yourself, decide and pursue your dreams
What
everything you have. Know where you are going; and that you are never going to
with
What is the end game, when will you feel success? What’s the prize?
stop.
do you want it? What is the story behind your hunger? What motivates you? What
Why
you out of your bed every morning? Whatever stimulates you is your secret weapon
gets
success, use it every time you are feeling tired of the journey.
to
to taking personal responsibility for your life and career. Set higher goals; then
Commit
whatever it takes to meet or exceed them. React positively to the setbacks, problems
do
all of the negative events in your life. Keep at it. Don’t let a day result in failure.
and
you come back empty handed in your quest for building a remarkable life and
When
get up the next day with optimism in your heart, focused on what you are
career,
and keep working.
becoming
is absolutely no way you will succeed in life if you don’t have an unflinching focus
There
everything you do. People fail because of their inability to be consistent with their
on
You must be relentless in your pursuit of success. Carry your dreams with you all
actions.
every day. They are your burden, be constantly reminded that you must not fail.
day
that nothing less than success is acceptable to you and that you can’t and
Remember
give up until you get it. Remember that success is when you do what you want, not
won’t
you do what you have to.
when
the first time in a long time I felt free to live the life I wanted..... On my terms. It is
For
a privilege to do what you love and help many people along the way. It's the best
such
only way to live. Step out in faith and I assure you, you will be amazed at all the
and
myself that what I actually wanted. What was my purpose? What was I created to do?
that you can achieve!
things
©TiffanyBLU2017

I could see myself taking that leap of faith all of my worries went away. The fear
Once
gone. I had become too comfortable by just working for someone else. This was
was
who I was meant to be. This was not the fearless girl that dreamed big. No this was
not
girl that forgot about those dreams. So I had to get away for a bit and remind
the
I could clearly see my life in front of me with no boundaries, I was able to
Once
things that were holding me back from really living the life I dreamed of living
eliminate
many years. To get what we want, we must not only come up with a road map to
for
it, we must be ready to act. Basically, we must be willing to walk the talk. The
getting
between a dreamer and an achiever couldn’t be more obvious. Don’t let your
difference
remain just dreams forever.
dreams
is it that you really want? Be clear with yourself, decide and pursue your dreams
What
everything you have. Know where you are going; and that you are never going to
with
What is the end game, when will you feel success? What’s the prize?
stop.
do you want it? What is the story behind your hunger? What motivates you? What
Why
you out of your bed every morning? Whatever stimulates you is your secret weapon
gets
success, use it every time you are feeling tired of the journey.
to
to taking personal responsibility for your life and career. Set higher goals; then
Commit
whatever it takes to meet or exceed them. React positively to the setbacks, problems
do
all of the negative events in your life. Keep at it. Don’t let a day result in failure.
and
you come back empty handed in your quest for building a remarkable life and
When
get up the next day with optimism in your heart, focused on what you are
career,
and keep working.
becoming
is absolutely no way you will succeed in life if you don’t have an unflinching focus
There
everything you do. People fail because of their inability to be consistent with their
on
You must be relentless in your pursuit of success. Carry your dreams with you all
actions.
every day. They are your burden, be constantly reminded that you must not fail.
day
that nothing less than success is acceptable to you and that you can’t and
Remember
give up until you get it. Remember that success is when you do what you want, not
won’t
you do what you have to.
when
the first time in a long time I felt free to live the life I wanted..... On my terms. It is
For
a privilege to do what you love and help many people along the way. It's the best
such
only way to live. Step out in faith and I assure you, you will be amazed at all the
and
myself that what I actually wanted. What was my purpose? What was I created to do?
that you can achieve!
things
©TiffanyBLU2017

Reflection
What choices are empowering you or
disempowering you?
What are the fears, self-sabotaging beliefs,
attitudes, and lies are you facing?
What role does your faith play when you are
facing fear?
©TiffanyBLU2017