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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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that create relief. Someone that is nervous or excited will find relief in rubbing their legs with their<br />

hands called “leg cleansing”, or they might rub their hands together or stroke an object vigorously. Leg<br />

cleansing is a gesture that usually goes unnoticed because it happens underneath the table, but an astute<br />

observer will see the upper body move serving to give it away. An example of leg cleaning is that of a<br />

baseball player that is on deck and getting ready to bat. His hands might be sweaty from the excitement<br />

so he rubs his hands on his thighs, soon enough this becomes a habit and he does this every time he<br />

comes to bat regardless of whether his hands are sweaty. With repetition he has conditioned himself to<br />

seek comfort by performing this gesture. Self touching also produces relaxing chemicals in his body to<br />

help him deal with the stress and burns up nervous energy. Self touching isn’t always related to energy<br />

displacement although in this case it is. Energy displacement means the same thing as stress motivated<br />

energy burning. It is the burning of energy that provides a trickle release that occupies the mind and<br />

produces soothing neurochemicals.

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