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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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the nose can induce our hands in it’s direction to sooth it. As blood flows to the nose, it enlarges,<br />

giving credence to the ‘Pinocchio effect.’<br />

Nose touching might also stem from lying. It can happen as a quick but purposeful touch, the finger<br />

might graze the side of the nose, or it can be a persistent rubbing. Sometimes the touch is quick and<br />

dirty in an up and down motion, other times it is a brief almost unnoticeable touch to the base of the<br />

nose or its side. Face touching can come in two forms, one that serves a real function to alleviate an<br />

itch, and one that is the result of negative feelings such as being uncomfortable and stressed. Face<br />

touching that is due to an emotion is meant as a fix behind the sensation, the emotion, and not due to<br />

any physical need.<br />

In order to appear more honest in front of others, either reduce or eliminate all face touching, make<br />

them appear more natural, or make them consistent in affect across all situations. Itching is usually a<br />

repetitive isolated gesture, which happens regardless of what is said, and happens at times when it<br />

would be impossible to assume a connection to what is being said. For example, saying something of<br />

questionable truthfulness, then brushing the side of the nose with an index finger is likely to raise<br />

suspicion, whereas bumping the nose when not speaking or when describing insignificant details would<br />

go unnoticed. Always try to make gestures appear natural and functional instead and also be<br />

particularly conscious of nose and face touching when you think someone is trying to peg you a liar.<br />

Over time it is your baseline that will give you away, so if you remain consistent across all situations,<br />

you’re less likely to give up tells. Most will find that their minds are more active and busy during lying,<br />

so it’s easier to avoid gestures altogether instead of adding honest gestures. This makes eliminating face<br />

touching one of the easiest ways to appear honest with minimal effort.

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