The Ultimate Body Language Book
elationships, with family members or children since touching is a normal part of everyday life. Any form of touch reduction can signal that a person is at odds with another and that they might be hiding something. If touch isn’t normal, however, then measuring touch reduction won’t be possible. In this case, look for distancing behaviours instead like arm withdrawal or leaning away, especially in the torso as these are forms of distancing of which touch forms a subset. Touch is an aspect of closeness that is simply not tolerated well between those who have different ideas. Couples have even been shown to draw away from each other when they are generally unhappy with their relationship, and tend to touch themselves far more frequently than they touch other people. Touch reduction is usually accompanied with stressful questions or when information is presented that creates anxiety. Closeness can also be useful when assessing someone because it will invoke distancing desires. When talking with a spouse or child, sit as close as that which you are accustomed to before taking up serious matters. If someone is hiding something, they will usually push away or even stand up looking for ways to exit or change the subject. Holding the hand of a child can be particularly useful when discussing matters of dishonesty. If they wish to exit the discussion, they will try to tug their hand away. Chapter 16 - Deception and Lie Detection The Truth Bias A review of the literature on lying and truth telling shows us that an average sixty-seven percent accuracy is found when detecting the truth, whereas forty-four percent is found while detecting deception. In other words, people’s accuracy at detecting truths is usually higher than their accuracy at detecting lies! This is what is called the truth bias. Some possible explanations for the truth bias stem from the fact that in everyday encounters we usually deal with honest people. While lying is pervasive, it doesn’t happen nearly as often as does lying. Thus, we expect people to be telling the truth and are therefore better at detecting it. Another possible reason for our inherent truth bias is because it would be detrimental to act suspiciously while speaking with others just in case they were telling the truth. If our default was to label other people as deceptive, we’d be constantly interrupting others to clarify statements, or our suspicion would have our minds busy fact checking at a later time. Our conversations would be littered with statements such as ‘That can’t be true’ or ‘Really, I can’t see that’ or ‘I’ll believe that when I see it’ which sometimes it is, but usually not. This would be time consuming and counterproductive given the nature of real to life situations, that is that people normally tell the truth. Our social rules also do not permit us to act suspiciously and if we did so would alienate others and prevent us from formulating alliances or friendships. In fact, ignoring the faults of others is the primary reason we allow ourselves to associate with anyone at all. Those with a memory for detail find it hard to ‘let things go’ or ‘ignore subtle unimportant flaws’ which can be detrimental for relationships. The truth bias tells us that letting little ‘white lies’ go, is an integral part of human nature, perhaps even necessary.
Chapter 16 - Deception and Lie Detection Are Truth Tellers Less Cooperative? The most influential manual regarding suspect interviewing was written by Fred Inbau, Reid and Buckley in 2001 “Criminal interrogation and confession” and is the handbook used by police officers in training. The “Reid nine steps” claims that after being accused of having committed a crime, those under investigation who are innocent will tend to be more cooperative than deceptive when compared to guilty suspects. The theory says that honest suspects will cooperate and work harder to show their innocence, whereas the guilty will appear less cooperative, and so appear less convincing. Inbau provides a few examples. He says that suspects who are guilty will want to exit the interview as quickly as possible. They will say things like “Well, I figured you wouldn’t believe me. It’s been nice talking to you but I have an attorney to see.” On the other hand, suspects who are innocent will not want to exit the interview room after being falsely accused so they will insist on remaining as long as possible to present the truth to the investigator. In fact, the manual states that innocent suspects, will remain until they have had the opportunity to present enough information to eliminate themselves as a suspect. The argument of cooperation does seem plausible and some studies do support the argument, however others do not. One such study by Aldert Vrij of the University of Portsmouth in the United Kingdom in 2005 showed that there was no relationship between cooperation and guilt. He found that suspects who were shy tended to cooperate less despite their guilt or innocence. Therefore by Inbau’s logic would be falsely labeled as guilty. At issue here are many factors and ones that need to be considered before anyone can be labeled as a liar or otherwise. Deceivers are just as likely to be concerned with the impressions they make as non-deceivers so this is non-issue. However, the context does come across as a big factor. For example, a criminal at a boarder crossing who is moving drugs with a suitcase would obviously be unwilling to cooperate by opening his bag so as to delay being caught, but so too might someone holding particularly private or personal items. Lest we not forget about a human rights activist who’s occupation involves protecting the freedoms of people. The activists will be just as unlikely to cooperate with law enforcement since his goals are best served by drawing attention to the injustices around him. What better way to make a point about global big brother than to become a victim yourself. Liars on the other hand might try harder to appear more honest by cooperating, or show that they have nothing to fear, and even appeal to discrimination and unjustness of the process. In the case of the honest suspect, they aren’t concerned about the impression they make on others, so can also appear less cooperative, even combative. Thus, cooperation, in and of itself, does not lead necessarily indicate deception, but on the surface, has some merit.
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elationships, with family members or children since touching is a normal part of everyday life. Any<br />
form of touch reduction can signal that a person is at odds with another and that they might be hiding<br />
something. If touch isn’t normal, however, then measuring touch reduction won’t be possible. In this<br />
case, look for distancing behaviours instead like arm withdrawal or leaning away, especially in the<br />
torso as these are forms of distancing of which touch forms a subset. Touch is an aspect of closeness<br />
that is simply not tolerated well between those who have different ideas. Couples have even been<br />
shown to draw away from each other when they are generally unhappy with their relationship, and tend<br />
to touch themselves far more frequently than they touch other people.<br />
Touch reduction is usually accompanied with stressful questions or when information is presented that<br />
creates anxiety. Closeness can also be useful when assessing someone because it will invoke distancing<br />
desires. When talking with a spouse or child, sit as close as that which you are accustomed to before<br />
taking up serious matters. If someone is hiding something, they will usually push away or even stand<br />
up looking for ways to exit or change the subject. Holding the hand of a child can be particularly useful<br />
when discussing matters of dishonesty. If they wish to exit the discussion, they will try to tug their hand<br />
away.<br />
Chapter 16 - Deception and Lie Detection<br />
<strong>The</strong> Truth Bias<br />
A review of the literature on lying and truth telling shows us that an average sixty-seven percent<br />
accuracy is found when detecting the truth, whereas forty-four percent is found while detecting<br />
deception. In other words, people’s accuracy at detecting truths is usually higher than their accuracy at<br />
detecting lies! This is what is called the truth bias. Some possible explanations for the truth bias stem<br />
from the fact that in everyday encounters we usually deal with honest people. While lying is pervasive,<br />
it doesn’t happen nearly as often as does lying. Thus, we expect people to be telling the truth and are<br />
therefore better at detecting it.<br />
Another possible reason for our inherent truth bias is because it would be detrimental to act<br />
suspiciously while speaking with others just in case they were telling the truth. If our default was to<br />
label other people as deceptive, we’d be constantly interrupting others to clarify statements, or our<br />
suspicion would have our minds busy fact checking at a later time. Our conversations would be littered<br />
with statements such as ‘That can’t be true’ or ‘Really, I can’t see that’ or ‘I’ll believe that when I see it’<br />
which sometimes it is, but usually not. This would be time consuming and counterproductive given the<br />
nature of real to life situations, that is that people normally tell the truth. Our social rules also do not<br />
permit us to act suspiciously and if we did so would alienate others and prevent us from formulating<br />
alliances or friendships. In fact, ignoring the faults of others is the primary reason we allow ourselves<br />
to associate with anyone at all. Those with a memory for detail find it hard to ‘let things go’ or ‘ignore<br />
subtle unimportant flaws’ which can be detrimental for relationships. <strong>The</strong> truth bias tells us that letting<br />
little ‘white lies’ go, is an integral part of human nature, perhaps even necessary.