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overlooked errors that players in the center of the stage made to a greater extent than errors in extreme positions. This gave center position holders more favourable assessments. It therefore follows that if you are not particularly adept at a task you might want to take center stage so as to reap the inherent leadership traits and avoid taking on negative stigma especially if being called upon is strong, and there is a good likelihood of providing the wrong answer. If you want to stand out and be remembered for it, take an outlier position where you will be called upon and stand a better chance of being remembered for it. Chapter 15 – Seating Arrangements Who In The Audience Is The Most Keen? Research by Robert Sommer in the late 1960’s showed how attention and participation was neatly tied to seating positions. This was especially true for very large audiences where it’s possible to have an uneven distribution of connectivity with the speaker. His research examined classroom ecology and revealed that students sitting in the front rows participated much more than those in the back rows and those in the middle, the most. Front and center had the highest rate of participation whereas the rear left and rear right the least. One can picture a reverse arrangement with the largest percentage of participators at the “mouth” of the funnel nearest the speaker and the “end” of the funnel at the back with the fewest participators. As one travels back in the seats, those at the sides progressively get left out. Those at the back edges can more easily ‘escape’ and find refuge from the speaker. Chapter 15 – Seating Arrangements Deciphering Cause And Effect From Seating Position So which is it cause or effect? What happens when you assign seating versus allow people to choose their seating? A study by Douglas Levine of the University of California in 1980 sought out to measure this exact question. The study examined two phases, one where students were allowed to choose their own seating and the second where seating was randomly assigned. They found that students sitting at the front did much better than those sitting at the rear but only if the seats were chosen by the students. When the seating was assigned there was no discernible different in test scores. They did find that student involvement was affected by seating however, as in both cases participation was greater for those sitting in the front seats. Thus, it becomes evident that students who want to learn more choose seats in the front rows because it allows them a better view of the teacher and also allows them to participate more. Those that want to blend in and avoid participation sit at the rear and sides. Other studies show that keener students often choose seats in the front and also those that relate better to the instructor will orient themselves in relation to them. In another study conducted in 2004 arranged seating was found to affect test scores contrary to the study presented above. Here economics professors Mary Benedict and John Hoag at Bowling Green State University found that students who were forced forward produced a net gain in test scores. For example, a student who preferred a back seat but was forced to a center row, reduced the probability of
eceiving a D or F from twenty-three to twelve percent for an overall gain of eleven percent. The study also suggests a lower probability of receiving an A and a higher probability for receiving a D or F for those students forced from the middle aisle seats to the side aisle seats. Therefore, when presenting information organized seating can have a subtle effect, but can be somewhat limited in scope. If you wish to wow someone in particular, position them in the front as you’ll be better able to connect with them. Those parties you wish to mute can be placed at the backsides to reduce their ability to speak out. The data from research seems to suggest that audiences naturally arrange themselves according to how interested they are to learn especially in theater style auditoriums. Thus, this information can be used passively to choose the most qualified or interested parties for important projects. Other strategies come from the walk and talk method taken from lab style learning. Here, the instructor is permitted to travel through rows and isle and connect with more than just the front row of listeners eliminating the side effects of rows and columns. Orienting seating into a horseshoe also eliminates the effects that rows and columns hold and so too does smaller group sizes. It’s much more difficult to be forgotten in a small group and functionally impossible when speaking one on one! Chapter 15 – Seating Arrangements Summary – Chapter 15 Seating arrangements is one of the things we infrequently draw to conscious attention but at some level always understand its importance. In this chapter we looked at what seems on the outset to be a complicated matter, but in reality is fairly straight forward and like all body language, once it is know, common sense. We found that seating positions can indicate our reason for meeting, be it ‘affiliation’ – to build group cohesion, ‘achievement’ – to get things done, or ‘power’ – to emphasis control. We found that the meeting organizer typically dictates how meetings will transpire. We learned that Sommer first began researching seating ecology and that patterns emerged based on the shape of the table and the proximity speakers had to one-another. We found that a casual corner position where speakers meet across the corners of a rectangular or square table preserve closeness between people, but still offers the security of a partial barrier. We found that when seated side-by-side cooperation is fostered, when facing across from one-another but not head-on, independent though is fostered, and when facing directly, competition. We found that leadership studies show us what we intuitively already know, that leaders take up the head position, that those at his or her flank receive trickle down leadership and that when seating is pre-determined, leadership is assigned to the head of the table. We found that square tables includes both competitive and cooperative seating positions, that circular tables had similar affects despite what King Arthur thought, and that strategically we can sway our “object” by taking up competitive and affiliative positions. Next we looking at how to set up an office and found that desk placement and office artifacts are crucial and that chairs can make people uncomfortable or powerful depending on their height and location. We then looked at seating arrangements in larger auditoriums and saw that the center of lecture halls tended to be overlooked, and also how to use this to our advantage, and finally we concluded the chapter by pointing out that seating location affects participation; those in front participating most, but that it did not related to test scores.
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eceiving a D or F from twenty-three to twelve percent for an overall gain of eleven percent. <strong>The</strong> study<br />
also suggests a lower probability of receiving an A and a higher probability for receiving a D or F for<br />
those students forced from the middle aisle seats to the side aisle seats.<br />
<strong>The</strong>refore, when presenting information organized seating can have a subtle effect, but can be<br />
somewhat limited in scope. If you wish to wow someone in particular, position them in the front as<br />
you’ll be better able to connect with them. Those parties you wish to mute can be placed at the backsides<br />
to reduce their ability to speak out. <strong>The</strong> data from research seems to suggest that audiences<br />
naturally arrange themselves according to how interested they are to learn especially in theater style<br />
auditoriums. Thus, this information can be used passively to choose the most qualified or interested<br />
parties for important projects.<br />
Other strategies come from the walk and talk method taken from lab style learning. Here, the instructor<br />
is permitted to travel through rows and isle and connect with more than just the front row of listeners<br />
eliminating the side effects of rows and columns. Orienting seating into a horseshoe also eliminates the<br />
effects that rows and columns hold and so too does smaller group sizes. It’s much more difficult to be<br />
forgotten in a small group and functionally impossible when speaking one on one!<br />
Chapter 15 – Seating Arrangements<br />
Summary – Chapter 15<br />
Seating arrangements is one of the things we infrequently draw to conscious attention but at some level<br />
always understand its importance. In this chapter we looked at what seems on the outset to be a<br />
complicated matter, but in reality is fairly straight forward and like all body language, once it is know,<br />
common sense. We found that seating positions can indicate our reason for meeting, be it ‘affiliation’ –<br />
to build group cohesion, ‘achievement’ – to get things done, or ‘power’ – to emphasis control. We<br />
found that the meeting organizer typically dictates how meetings will transpire.<br />
We learned that Sommer first began researching seating ecology and that patterns emerged based on the<br />
shape of the table and the proximity speakers had to one-another. We found that a casual corner<br />
position where speakers meet across the corners of a rectangular or square table preserve closeness<br />
between people, but still offers the security of a partial barrier. We found that when seated side-by-side<br />
cooperation is fostered, when facing across from one-another but not head-on, independent though is<br />
fostered, and when facing directly, competition. We found that leadership studies show us what we<br />
intuitively already know, that leaders take up the head position, that those at his or her flank receive<br />
trickle down leadership and that when seating is pre-determined, leadership is assigned to the head of<br />
the table. We found that square tables includes both competitive and cooperative seating positions, that<br />
circular tables had similar affects despite what King Arthur thought, and that strategically we can sway<br />
our “object” by taking up competitive and affiliative positions.<br />
Next we looking at how to set up an office and found that desk placement and office artifacts are<br />
crucial and that chairs can make people uncomfortable or powerful depending on their height and<br />
location. We then looked at seating arrangements in larger auditoriums and saw that the center of<br />
lecture halls tended to be overlooked, and also how to use this to our advantage, and finally we<br />
concluded the chapter by pointing out that seating location affects participation; those in front<br />
participating most, but that it did not related to test scores.