The Ultimate Body Language Book
ward were met with resistance it was obvious that the patients would resist the ward remodel. In fact, it was common knowledge around the home that every piece of furniture and chair “had its place.” A lot of which had been there, regardless of any logical or functional reason. The conclusions drawn from the study were less than positive likely because the study involved mentally handicapped patients. In fact, it was concluded that modification of furniture arrangements was not enough in and of itself to adequately increasing social interactions. However, drawing on his initial observations from the hallway, where regular visitors rearranged furniture, Dr. Sommer felt he was onto something important. His future studies examined visitors interacting in a hospital cafeteria, students in classrooms, children in public, and a myriad of other social situations. He found that when conversing over a rectangular table, patterns began to emerge as a function of the shape and proximity speakers had to one another. In all arrangements it is the nature of the meeting which dictated the spatial “ecology”, he concluded. He learned that eye contact and distance are the two fundamental concepts governing how we sit, which in turn affects our ability to exchange information, speak effectively, or even draw lines of division. The next few paragraphs covers the ecology of round, and rectangular seating arrangements with respect to reasons for meeting, be it a casual meeting with friends, cooperative sharing of information, independent working or leadership purposes.
Chapter 15 – Seating Arrangements Casual Corner Position The “casual corner” seating arrangement is best in business as it the table provides are partial barrier, yet does not prevent people from interacting together effectively. The casual corner position is most appropriate to preserve closeness between people, but at the same time offers a partial barrier. The barrier in this case, is the corner of the table. If chairs are directly facing the table, it avoids direct eye contact, but if preferred, the chairs can face one another across the corner of the table to make sharing of information easier. This seating position is unique because it neatly allows for independent thought, but the proximity still permits intimacy. When presenting new information to a client or trying to “sell them”, this is the most preferred orientation. It is also a useful way to conduct an interview without coming off as aggressive or competitive. In studies when students were asked to choose a seating arrangement that permitted
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ward were met with resistance it was obvious that the patients would resist the ward remodel. In fact, it<br />
was common knowledge around the home that every piece of furniture and chair “had its place.” A lot<br />
of which had been there, regardless of any logical or functional reason. <strong>The</strong> conclusions drawn from<br />
the study were less than positive likely because the study involved mentally handicapped patients. In<br />
fact, it was concluded that modification of furniture arrangements was not enough in and of itself to<br />
adequately increasing social interactions. However, drawing on his initial observations from the<br />
hallway, where regular visitors rearranged furniture, Dr. Sommer felt he was onto something important.<br />
His future studies examined visitors interacting in a hospital cafeteria, students in classrooms, children<br />
in public, and a myriad of other social situations. He found that when conversing over a rectangular<br />
table, patterns began to emerge as a function of the shape and proximity speakers had to one another. In<br />
all arrangements it is the nature of the meeting which dictated the spatial “ecology”, he concluded. He<br />
learned that eye contact and distance are the two fundamental concepts governing how we sit, which in<br />
turn affects our ability to exchange information, speak effectively, or even draw lines of division. <strong>The</strong><br />
next few paragraphs covers the ecology of round, and rectangular seating arrangements with respect to<br />
reasons for meeting, be it a casual meeting with friends, cooperative sharing of information,<br />
independent working or leadership purposes.