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Chapter 14 - Office <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong><br />

Laissez-faire<br />

<strong>The</strong> final type of boss is the laissez-faire type. <strong>The</strong> words “laissez-faire” is French for “let be”.<br />

Literally, this boss will give an employee free reign, or seemingly so. <strong>The</strong>y have confidence in the<br />

ability of others to do a good job, and check in only occasionally to measure progress. This boss will be<br />

relaxed and not status conscious, they will try to avoid others as much as possible to afford them the<br />

room and space they need to work. <strong>The</strong>y might be friendly, but lack eye contact and expression so as<br />

not to become involved with others and take them off task. To work well with this boss, use confident<br />

and independent body language. Give off signals that you are working efficiently and are coping with<br />

any project given to you. Keep meetings short, update them of your progress every so often, then get<br />

back to work.<br />

Chapter 14 - Office <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong><br />

Job Interview <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong><br />

More than anything else during a job interview is the overall impression you leave with your<br />

prospective employer. Your credentials including your resume and even what you say will all be long<br />

forgotten minutes after you leave the interviewer’s office. <strong>The</strong>y may recall certain things you said, but<br />

they won’t key in on them specifically. Instead the interviewer will key in on how you said them. In<br />

fact, most studies agree that job interviews are a fairly unproductive affair, as how you are rated, and<br />

whether or not you are hired, has more to do with how much you are liked by the interviewer than any<br />

other factor.<br />

<strong>Body</strong> language during an interview is simple. All that is required of you is to convey that you are<br />

competent, qualified and most importantly, that you will fit in with the current company’s structure<br />

without causing problems. This raises a common misconception about job interviews which says that<br />

standing out from the other applicants is the goal, but in reality, fitting in should be your primary<br />

objective. <strong>The</strong> following are some tips to taking a proper interview.<br />

Chapter 14 - Office <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong><br />

Before You Get <strong>The</strong>re<br />

Some advanced preparation can help you match or mirror the language of the office. Choosing dress<br />

that fits into the workplace is common knowledge, so it’s not necessary to cover this at lengths, suffice<br />

it to say that you should try to wear attire that is much like what current employees are already wearing<br />

except if it includes scrubs or overalls. In most cases a cleanly pressed suite for men is appropriate,<br />

whereas women should wear something professional yet asexual.

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