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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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He must be wealthy!<br />

Research tells us that men who are middle road are much less likely to stray primarily because they get<br />

fewer outside offers from women. Women who are married or in committed relationships, are more<br />

likely to cheat with men who are better looking than the average, and men who are better looking on<br />

average have more sexual relationships in their lifetime and also tend to cheat more often. A large part<br />

of this is intended to be background knowledge because it obviously doesn’t deal directly with<br />

nonverbal body language, however, it does play into the subconscious aspects and is important to frame<br />

how I view sexual body language. As always, you are welcome to disagree with my postulates and<br />

those of the scientific community, and in reality, won’t change the hidden meaning of the signals. It is<br />

my contention that knowing the ‘how’ and the ‘why’ of behaviours really give us predictive powers.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se powers, in turn, give us the ability to come into novel situations, with little or no prior<br />

knowledge and deduce likely conclusions.<br />

Chapter 13 - Courtship Signals<br />

How Men Display Interest – An Introduction<br />

And Further Reading<br />

Very little focus has been place on how men use nonverbal communication to signal interest. Perhaps<br />

this is rightly so, perhaps not. Women are without question the most efficient users of body language in<br />

courtship. Women are, more often the not, the choosers and initiators in relationship origination, and<br />

men are often left following. <strong>The</strong> job of women is to signal to men when it’s time to display their

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