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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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under the eyebrows in a “come hither” fashion. It has roots in the full bow done as a greeting gesture<br />

since it exposes the top of the head making it vulnerable to attack. Just like neck and wrist displays, it<br />

indicates that trust is present within courtship. It also comes off as a childlike gesture primarily because<br />

children are shorter than adults and habitually peer up at them. As we age, we recall these gestures and<br />

go back to them when wish to revive juvenile submissive feelings. <strong>The</strong> opposite to the forehead bow<br />

happens by tilting the head back and looking down one’s nose at someone, which is a judgment posture<br />

and is seen negatively.<br />

Smiling frequently can sometimes be sexual, but accompanying signals must be cataloged to create<br />

certainty. Women will smile for a great variety of reasons and will smile regularly to appease men for<br />

no other reason besides habit. Smiling is a natural part of being a woman and while smiling alone is<br />

submissive, it doesn’t necessarily indicate sexual interest. Accompanying signals must adjoin smiling<br />

for it to be a true sexual signal. If smiling is done over a shoulder, with pouting lips and partly closed<br />

eyes, as in the sideways glance, it should be taken as a sexual cue, but absent, should be construed only<br />

as a regular appeasement gesture and nothing more.

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