The Ultimate Body Language Book

As sad as it is, men and women seek to best maximize the attractiveness of their partners, and in most
cases it involves dating someone of similar attractiveness.
Researcher Adam Kendon filmed a kissing couple in 1975 and found that it was the woman’s
behaviour, particularly her facial expressions, that regulated and modulated the behaviour of her
partner. Other research shows that women also modulate stages of intimacy through their nonverbal
body language by allowing or disallowing the breach of stages. Women also tend to control the
initiation of conversations between strangers too. For example, when no eye contact is made by the
women, others don’t approach or start conversations. So in summary, there really is no excuse, it’s the
women’s job to solicit, or reject, as the case may be making it vitally important for both women and
men to recognize the signals of sexual solicitation. Next, we do just this!