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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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Turtling is a limbic response to confrontation. <strong>The</strong> head sinks, shoulders shrug, and the body takes on a<br />

smaller form to avoid being seen as a threat.<br />

<strong>The</strong> posture happens as the head seems to sink inside the shoulders, however, what is really happening<br />

is that the shoulders are slowly being raised so the neck disappears taking the head with it. It is as if the<br />

head is being swallowed by the shoulders. We see this posture when people are uncomfortable, have<br />

low confidence about themselves or a topic, have insecurities, feel weak or powerless, ashamed, or are<br />

carrying any other negative emotion. It is usually found when someone is centered out on their poor<br />

performance. <strong>The</strong> origins of the head turtle is to protect it from harm. For example, when people hear a<br />

very loud bang, they will quickly pull their heads inward and down, and tuck their chins. However,<br />

when it is done out of shame, it happens more slowly and deliberately so as to draw even less attention.<br />

It usually happens when people want to appear less significant so they are ignored rather than called on.<br />

In business the head duck will occur when subordinates meet with superiors as they try to stand out less<br />

and look less significant or when employees wish to be overlooked during status reports at a boardroom<br />

meeting. It might also happen in class when the professor is calling on students who don’t have the<br />

answers, or when athletes have to walk back in shame to their dressing rooms after losing an important<br />

match.

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