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Chapter 11 - Emotional <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong><br />

Blocking Behaviour<br />

An arm cups a drink and draws in in closer while forming a shield as protection.<br />

Blocking is a term used to describe when a person wishes to distance themselves from a distressing<br />

stimulus. Blocking is a part of the fight or flight response, and takes the form of the flight element<br />

because it creates distance between things we wish to avoid.<br />

“Eye blocking” happens by covering the eyes either wholly or in part. When viewing disturbing images<br />

on the movie screen or even in real life, people will bring both hands up to cover their eyes or will<br />

bring them to the sides of their eyes like the blinders used on horses to keep them from being<br />

distracted. However, in this case the blinders are a nonverbal signal meant to cut something off from<br />

view instead of driving focus on them. What is being said is “Oh my dear, I can’t believe what I’m<br />

seeing.” Eye blocking is not just limited to things seen, it can be the results of hearing undesirable<br />

things as well. Blocking can be abbreviated as when one or both hands come up to rub the eyes, or<br />

seem to pinch the eyes from corner to center with just one hand. Other times, the hand comes up and<br />

covers the eyes in part, with a partly clustered set of fingers so that view isn’t entirely obstructed. This<br />

might appear as though the person is thinking, but no thought is going, just a desire to look away.<br />

Blocking can be done by briefly touching one eye with the index and middle finger in response to<br />

hearing something negative, by closing the eyelids for a longer than normal duration or more<br />

dramatically by closing them tightly in response to hearing some particularly distasteful. Blocking can<br />

also be done with books, articles of clothing or any other object.

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