The Ultimate Body Language Book

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Touching or stroking the body helps relieve stress by releasing the hormone oxytocin. Small children, especially boys will sometimes grab at their genitals when stressed. Being unacceptable for adults, it can be replaced with a tight leg cross where the genitals are squeezed. Women have been known to do the same thing, even bouncing a leg up and down and squeeze their upper thighs tightly together which can even result in orgasm. Not every leg bounce with tight leg crossing produces orgasm though, yet this form of soothing still produces comfort, and quite likely a dose of oxytocin to boot! Women may also lightly brush the lower parts of their breasts as they crossing their arms, which

is also in effort to self sooth. With careful observation (be careful here) the breast will seem to slightly lift as the second arm crosses over the first, locking it in place. This is one of the postures that becomes much more obvious after being recognized once. Resting the head on a hand or rubbing the back of the neck, wringing the hands or rubbing the legs are all substitutes to more overt self-stimulation. Men might resort to rubbing their temples and women might employ hair touches and grooming or stroking the sides of their arms. No matter how self touching unveils itself, it can show hidden insecurities, so can provide useful information about someone especially when taken in proper context.

Touching or stroking the body helps relieve stress by releasing the hormone oxytocin.<br />

Small children, especially boys will sometimes grab at their genitals when stressed. Being unacceptable<br />

for adults, it can be replaced with a tight leg cross where the genitals are squeezed. Women have been<br />

known to do the same thing, even bouncing a leg up and down and squeeze their upper thighs tightly<br />

together which can even result in orgasm. Not every leg bounce with tight leg crossing produces<br />

orgasm though, yet this form of soothing still produces comfort, and quite likely a dose of oxytocin to<br />

boot! Women may also lightly brush the lower parts of their breasts as they crossing their arms, which

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